Jesse Williams in Los Angeles with his two kids

Aryn Drake-Lee, the bitter estranged wife of actor Jesse Williams' has accused him of violating their cild custody agreement.

The Grey's Anatomy star split from Drake-Lee in April 2017, after five years of marriage. In August, she filed for sole custody of the couple's children, daughter Sadie and son Maceo.

In court papers she accused Williams of flying into violent rages in front of their kids.

In September the couple agreed not to introduce their children to any significant others for six months.

But now Drake-Lee claims the actor violated the agreement by taking their children to a woman's house.

She also alleges they went on vacation with the woman to Big Bear in California.

Drake-Lee's accusations emerge weeks after Williams filed new documents seeking a modification of the custody agreement following a disagreement over the holidays. He accused Drake-Lee of not letting him see the children.

The actor and Drake Lee also recently reached a temporary child support settlement, with the actor paying $100,000 for spousal and child support, and $60,000 to pay her lawyers' fees. Williams agreed to make the payments in three monthly installments from his Grey's Anatomy salary.

It is unclear if actress Minka Kelly -- whom Williams is rumored to be dating -- is the woman referenced in Drake-Lee's new filing.

Photo by Backgrid USA

  • TheOwley

    She is going to have a lifetime of struggles with Jesse. Rumors has it he's already moved on from the mattress girl. You never allow your children around Hollywood mattress women. Nope.

  • ?Royalty?

    Why can't exes ever just get the hail over it without becoming embittered, murderous or suicidal?

  • Bonsai

    I empathize with her. Hopefully she can move on and find herself a new love.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    WHO IS LYING?
    SOMEONE IS LYING?
    AND JUST BECAUSE SHE IS HURT AND ANGRY (NOT BITTER) DOES NOT MEAN, IT IS HER?

  • WutizstillHERE!

    It is the same old case of a man who had a woman who rode with his ass when he was brokeasfuk, then he got famous and the infux of heaxes increased. More money more options..left his rider for what he "thinks" he deserve now. I am waiting on him to catch a good ole gold digger.. run that cash down to the lint in his pockets...

  • Gloria

    Another broken black family.

    Even if the parents are split up.... there should not be so much drama and discrepancies between the parents.

    Its sad all the way around but I pray that they can find a common ground and can maybe even be "friends" eventually for the sake of their children.

  • Gloria

    TMZ said that the kids are calling Jesse's girlfriend "MOM." Wtf? If this is true, it seems like Jesse is doing stuff purposefully to make her mad. Just wrong.

  • You Could Never

    Just spoke on this. Jesse is dead ass wrong. And its reported he got them kids calling new-new Mama such n such. Nigga die. I don’t eem like Aryn but that lady don’t deserve that. Get your shit together sir.

  • jazmine

    I mean if he serious about the chick the kids should meet her right? Future Jr. been up under Russell since he was damn near an infant whats the difference?

  • BadAss Will

    I hate him and now she starting to get on my nerves...

  • JRock

    That bish need to take several seats at the table. Why do scorned and women have to publicly air their business. You don't get sympathy points for doing that. It only makes you look bitter and immature. Move on like a big grown up girl A.K.A. as "a woman"

  • JRock

    ....meant scorned and hurt women....

  • Solstice

    Auntie!! Can you Please use another d&mn picture??!! Lmao ??? You use this same one every time…I just cain’t take no more (real tears and hollering) ?

  • Ang

    The difference is they have a court order stating that they will not introduce the kids to anyone until they have dated the person for six months. Future wasnt around for Future Jr., Aryn is raising her child. Aryn said he took the kids to his new girlfriend's house and had them call her Mama. There is no reason the kids should be calling another woman mama. Jesse is trying to drive Aryn crazy and using his kids to do it.

  • SweetTEE

    Ummmm...that Minka chick been left him. Something about him being insecure about her married coworker.

  • TheOwley

    More ammo for her. He's jeopardizing his future relationship with the kids who are all still very little.

  • LeeSeeCee

    Jesse is really p*ssing off the ex. It's not hard to keep other women from being around your small children. Why not respect the rules and let stuff calm down so that his ex can get to a better place? I'm not hating on Aryn. She had the man's back for YEARS and he did her like that? Naw Jesse, you are on my crappy dude list. Be the adult. Do the right thing. Show your children that you respect their mother by your ACTIONS.

  • ShelbyMoore

    I just want Aryn to destroy his as$. I can't stand these types of men.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Wife is bitter... COLLECT YOUR MONEY AND LET IT GO HON.....I bet if he asks to reunite the relationship she WOULD!

  • ShelbyMoore

    That's why I'm not for that blended family bullshat....I'd be damned if I go through all that pain to have a child and said child turns around and starts calling another woman "mom", "mommy", "Mamma C". I ain't here for it!

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Now I don't have to comment. Thank you.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Move on?! Not after I gave you all my good years and you took up all my damn time. Fawk that! You are going to suffer for the rest of your life. I hope Aryn has him in Court every single month. I hope every time he brings the kids back late, she takes him to court. If his check is one day late, back to court. Fawk these types of men.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Knowing how contentious the situation is, why not just hold off on the girlfriend meeting the kids. Now its going to be armaggedon in court.

  • Coy little wink

    Rhymeswithsnitch says minka left him

  • jazmine

    I feel like different rules get made up when it’s the man tryna move on but ?????

  • i troll it like i see it

    It hurts to be left, but her best revenge will be happiness. She's got to stop going ape chit every time he makes a move. She's coming off vindictive. Don't use the kids!

  • Shawty

    Dang, that some bitter a$$ ish. Petty bull at that! Five years is all her good years? I think not! Life goes on. Chalk it up to another bad relationship. I'm sure it's not her first. The best way to get a man back is to UPGRADE!

  • CaramelDrop

    Get. His. Ass! Show him fat meat greasy! He deserves everything he gets! Aryn is not here to play hence that 100k/mo. If his dumbass is being petty knowing she is out for blood - then drain his ass dry.

  • Ang

    I think people just like to think the woman is always bitter anytime a woman complains even if it's a legitimate complaint. Jesse and Aryn have an agreement that the judge ordered them to follow. It's not optional. Comparing them to Future and Ciara is comparing apples to oranges.

  • Ang

    Something about Jesse doesn't feel right. If the reports about him are true he seems petty, immature and entitled. First he was mad at Aryn because his two and four year only FaceTime him for a few minutes at a time. Toddlers have short attention spans. He complained about not seeing the kids on New Years and blamed Aryn but got busted being in Brazil around New Years. Now, he has his kids calling a new woman mama. That's so disrespectful. It's like he's intentionally messing with Aryn. But, it's messing with the kids too. Why confuse them like that? SMH.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Damn that's some expensive white puss. I hope its worth it.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    I hope they work it out together as parents for the sake of the kids. I understand heartache but time heals. She can do better and karma is a bish too.

  • JustB

    I don't think she is bitter

  • Coco_Butter

    Jesse is showing his lack of maturity and respect for his ex wife. The children are very young and dont need this drama around them.

    Her dragging him to court appears they talk to one another which is sad within itself.

    Jesse probably thinks she should take the $50k he has to pay per month and be happy which he’s upset about

    And Aryn is upset because he left her when his success

    They both need to grow up

  • MythCalledLove

    This type of B.S. just makes me mad.. If you wanna go damn it go. Just don't take my $h!t .She's like "Thats my blender.. my lamps" He says "Well fine I paid for the lampshades". Trying to be spiteful and placing dumb ass demands and conditions on each other only hurt the kids. 6 months?? Really? So can you imagine a calender you marking a X to count down the days..lol Then 6 months you introduce them and then you break up 2 weeks after..lol That is so petty..funny to me but petty as hell. And the installment plans reminds me of a shopping channel. "Use our easy pay plan Just 3 payments of 19.99" I do hv a question could all of this been avoided if they had a prenup?

  • gail fowler

    No, he is no longer with Minka but who really cares. His black card was revoked anyway when he left his wife for another woman in public. He hurt her and she has not healed yet and is not ready to forgive or forget.

  • Li

    OT: While Monique and Wanda Sykes are bitc***ing about not being paid, my girl TIFFANY HADDISH is rolling in the money:

    https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/live-feed/tiffany-haddish-inks-first-look-deal-hbo-1077958

  • teather

    You two, STOP IT! I don't know whose fault it is, but STOP it! It's over, get over it, and be parents to your kids. Move on! Tired of hearing about these lingering issues for all these couples. Cut the cord and split!

  • LeeSeeCee

    If Jesse isn't even respecting the court order, then why does Aryn get dragged for taking him to court? Folks calling her bitter and such just feels wrong. SHE didn't do anything except love and support her husband who then dumped her like she was chit in a paper bag on the doorstep. ALL she got left is to fight an ensure her children will be in a safe space AND that he must pull the wagon financially whilst she is raising their children. If what she is saying is true, this "man" is WILLFULLY violating an agreement they BOTH have to adhere too. I am so, so disappointed in Jesse Williams. Having another woman be called mama to your kids is just WRONG and DISRESPECTFUL to their MOTHER. Trust if Aryn had another man now and those children started calling that person daddy such n' such, Jesse would lose his sh*t and drag her to court. He can't have it both ways and that is what it seems like he is attempting. All he had to do was respect the rules set forth and let his ex find some peace with where her life is. It just astounds me the number of women who are dragging her so dang hard..

  • Ghost

    Divorces are tricky...so much emotion on both parts no matter what the circumstances..My ex cheated on me and when I filed for divorce he came after ALL of our assets and my paycheck.... (which is not celebrity $$$) Mad because I had finally has enough! All I can say is "all is far in Love and War"

    She'll be fine..but I know she's pissed and shame on Jesse for being such an asshole...he knew better..smh

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    But, he is the one saying she is being vindictive. How do we know this is even true?
    I am basing this on personal experience. Jesse could be lying through his teeth OR purposely doing things to cause a response/reaction.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Jesse(whom I worked with in 'Grey's Anatomy) and was brilliant in 'The Butler' is a very focused quiet man in person.

  • i troll it like i see it

    You're right the only people who really know what's going on in a relationship are the two people in it. Perhaps he is provoking her because he should have held off on introducing the kids to his new chick.

  • Connie

    Go get it Tiffany!....shiiid!

  • i troll it like i see it

    We all wouldn't be so disappointed if we hadn't put this man on a pedestal because he gave a moving speech one night. He's still a man at the end of the day. I do feel sorry for his wife but what is there left to do? If he violated the agreement thats unfortunate but if the punishment is less time with the kids that's only punishing the kids! I don't think the kids should be punished by spends less time with their father.

  • Pamela Carey aka Mariah

    That’s why your miserable ass ain’t got no man now

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    this lady is a bitter bytch Ima just say it... Fawk it .... Mean and angry as hell... And by the way before someone go there ... Why on earth would you stoop so low to get back at the man knowing your kids are involved and he wants to be there for the kids... Wants too! Chile this shyt ... And you keeping folks in court when folks trying to provide and you mad.... ??

  • Andrea Williams

    Welp, that is what he gets. He broke up his marriage for his side piece, and now the side piece has moved on. Good old karma!

  • freelancepimp .

    What's a Mattress Girl. I googled it only that crazy chick walking around campus carrying a mattress came up.

  • Luv Pitties

    Sorry to hear, I hope he didn't get awarded much

  • TheOwley

    Not her. She did that to protest against rape. A hollywood matters ho is more appropriate like Minka who has slept with everyone. Add the K crew there too.

  • https://www.pinterest.com/gvahstyles/ gvah_styles_you

    .you are so right....they don't rob us of those years.....we give them away freely, OVER and OVER again-then get mad because he "lied" (People Lie-PERIOD/Live your life accordingly) ......we are not their Mothers-doing things she herself refuses to do any longer-because he is a grown man....when you facilitate a persons lively hood (shelter, clothes, food, transportation etc.) ...you can NEVER know if you are a WANT or a NEED.....well you don't know, until they no longer need you-that is. #SomtimesTheyJustNeverLovedYou #GetOVERITgrownWomen #THEYdo P.S. We have to STOP telling the NEW GUY what you took from the OLD GUY....because now he knows what you have taken.....and now has an idea of how much more you will take. #CHILDRENoverOURhurtsANDheartsALWAYS

  • https://www.pinterest.com/gvahstyles/ gvah_styles_you

    #CHURCHsayAMEN

  • TMW

    Unless she’s having him followed, how does she know who he’s with and where he’s going? Is she grilling her kids about what they did with their dad everytime they come home? If she is doing that and basing her complaints on what the kids say - or having him followed - she is bitter...and it’s just sad.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    I always look forward to reading your posts. You have a lot of insight about things.

  • V Dubb

    Clap...clap....clap...clap

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    What type of work do you do if you don't mind me asking?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Sucks how people will leave their day one once they've made it big. The person who was actually with you shooting in the gym should also be the one who enjoys the come up. I really feel for Aryn and pray she finds peace, healing, and guidance. The bitterness will only keep HER bound, not him. I pray she forgives, heals, moves on and let God do the rest. I'm not a believer in Karma, but do believe in reaping and sowing. Jesse will get back what he's done.

  • You Could Never

    She is. But I believe this J. The kids old enough to tell it. I don't even like this lady and I believe her

  • V Dubb

    She needs therapy!!! Well and God.....only things that are going to get her through this, because if he did think he was making a mistake and wanted to come back ..you're being an ass. So, heal that!

  • You Could Never

    I'm not sure why I believe Ayrn this time. I just DO.

  • V Dubb

    I missed the part about not introducing the kids to anyone for 6 months. Wtf?

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Here you go.... ?

  • Branch Davidian
  • davine puddin

    If he lived in atl she wouldn't have custody of those kids.. it's not that atl judges are star struck they are tired of women using their kids as a pawn

  • Lady M

    I don't. She seems petty. I'm getting sick of her complaining about foolishness.

  • Lady M

    What has he done? People are speculating that he is dating someone based on something the wife said.

  • Lady M

    How do you revoke a black person's "card" based on rumors and accusations.

  • freelancepimp .

    Oh like Nancy Reagan. I know, that's before everybody's time.

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    How can your enjoy your children and vice versa when your constantly at odds with the other parent. Kids can see all this.
    This is what happens when selfish people have children. If the parents would learn to compromise everyone would be better off.

  • TheOwley

    Why dig her up? There are more active chicks today that fit that model in Hollywood.

  • Dr.Rue

    Poor Jessie, Black women used to love you ...lol

  • the guest

    There is discernment between marriage and a fling that produced a child.

    There is no comparison at all between Jesse and Aryn and Future and Ciara. None.

    Future was a five time absentee out of wedlock father. Future Jr. was a child in need of a substitute father. Before Russell, Ciara's father was that baby's father figure.

    Jesse and Aryn were married and had and raised children within wedlock and Jesse was unfaithful in the most humiliating way by sneaking around and getting caught by paparrzzi photos.

    With marriage and divorce, there are laws beyond just a child support check. Jesse owes his former wife a sincere apology for his abusive betrayal, complete respect of his former wife as the mother of their children, and timely spousal support as well as child support.

    A legal family home has been broken and the children should not be thrown into their father's revolving door of dating. Those are not the values they were born into. Divorce doesn't mean debauchery and abandoning values.

    Ultimately, it's obvious Jesse used his wife to take care of him when he was down and he acts like it. It's brutal. He was just biding time until he got rich. He thought Aryn would be disposable and she has shown him he mistook her kindness and love for weakness.

    A break up is one thing, being used is another thing to heal from. There is right and there is wrong and Jesse is brutally wrong.

  • the guest

    Exactly.

  • the guest

    Speak!

  • the guest

    He's not doing it just to make her mad, he's doing it because he pretended to love her and used her for stability until he made it. He's insensitive to her because he doesn't care about her. His former wife was a stepping stone. He procreated with her to appear sincere. It was all game to him. That's why he's disrespectful. He couldn't wait get rich, stop fronting, get out, and chase preferred white tail. Fine, do him, but those children have a mother and she is owed respect.

    Agreed. He is so wrong.

  • the guest

    Exactly, another broken black family and his wife is rightfully devastated by it. She didn't have babies within wedlock to a professed conscious brother to be betrayed and dragged into mess. Jesse has horrible character.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    He looks like the type to say hurtful and cut throat things to you. I believe Aryn and he’s foul for it.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    You’re an idiot

  • more

    She was with him for years and ad 2 of his kids and not suddenly he don't know how to act right umm ok

  • Ang

    Because when they first split Jesse (allegedly) was living at Mika's house and taking the kids there and when he got his own place he was having different women come and go around the kids. If he wasn't actually doing that he wouldn't have agreed to that being in their custody agreement.

  • Ang

    It may not have be suddenly. We're just hearing about it.

  • Pebbles

    Good she put him on front street, because if it were reversed he wouldn’t have no problems doing it to her like we’ve seen before

  • Ang

    Thank you! They both have to follow the agreement. You know if she had violated the agreement and brought a man around and had them calling him daddy all these people would be dogging Aryn for disrespecting a black father. Some people will make black women the villan no matter what.

    If these allegations are true, Aryn has a right to be upset. That doesn't make her bitter. What decent parent wouldn't be upset that their toddlers are calling a new gf/bf mama/daddy? At their age, Jesse had to encourage that. Kids don't come up with names like "Mama C."It's crazy that people are calling her bitter for wanting to be respected as a mother. Jesse should be the one criticized for letting this occur.

  • Soda

    I like their kids' names, like they're singers in a juke joint.???

  • Blaque Mahogany

    1) Aryn's natural curls are everything.

    2) I would have a problem if my child's father introduced our child to everyone he was hunching. Moving on is inevitable, but a lot of men are either weak (allow the women they are dating to talk them into introducing them to the kids) or they do not possess discernment. Everyone doesn't have good intentions and I would be concerned about the rando's he decided to have my kids around. I think you would need to have been in the relationship with said person for about 8 months before you were allowed to introduce them to my children. Sorry not sorry.

  • MRiGOThim

    Damn, Jessie is that sexy "DIRTY RED" type dude lol

  • puppylove

    Hate chew. He gotta die ????

  • Kay Gee

    She reminds me of Dwyane Wades ex wife

  • CaramelDrop

    Exactly! Those kids are still small... at least let her get out of the postpartum stage and/or the kids old enough to know what’s happening before bringing other women around. Jessie, Steve Harvey, and Ludacris are on my sh!t list lol?

  • Hmmm~?

    He looks like an angry racist white man. No hint of Africa in this dude aside from his skin tone.

  • Jussjess25

    Hell be married to white women any minute now ? Next!..

  • Jussjess25

    Really?? Wades ex is certifiable .

  • Jussjess25

    Hes definitely black tho, make no mistake .

  • Pamela Carey aka Mariah

    Well he obviously doesn’t respect her as she is trying to make his life hell. Shouldn’t she be showing her kids how not to be spiteful and mean by being reasonable with their father. She can’t win by making his life hell. You demanding bitter black women are the reason why black men would rather be with any other race and gender besides you.

  • Guest

    Toxic people k!ll me when they get mad at folks for cutting them and their toxicity off. Men who take from women are weak. But God don't like ugly and he will never bless a mess.

    I know this woman is hurt. But time heal all wounds.

  • Guest

    Haha God don't like ugly. I bet he want that old thang back now. God don't bless no mess.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    No, she's going through a failed marriage, and watching a man moving on so easily, your kids adoring his new love interest (s) can be overwhelming, especially, if she was blindsided, sacrificed her own aspirations for hubby and kids, ok!

    We can't judge these situation. Unless we know the details, we only have TMZ Headlines!

    But, as a woman, I can imagine how it looks and must feel, and this doesn't make Jesse a villain, but flawed and human, as she is too!

    Hasn't escalated to DWade Divorce-Drama!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Excellent Commentary!

    People forget about the kids, and sometimes protecting your kids will make you look petty, overbearing, bitter, whatever!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Reading is fundamental!

    A 6 months waiting period to introduce your children to your love interest, fuk buddies, extended one-night stands, future wife isn't over demanding!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Still, she's asking for a 6 MONTHS waiting period before EITHER party introduces the kids to people they are dating!

    Not a whole lot to do for your kids!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    She only ask that they keep their agreement of waiting 6 months before bringing their kids around people their dating!

    ATL only get certain kinds of Black women! Usher and Luda had women with a history that worked against them!

    Family court does work more in favor of men in general, not just these celebrity cases. I think it can be very fair, given the individuals involved!

    More women are paying child support, some are voluntarily allowing the dads to be the custodial parent!

  • Shira Harding-James

    I don’t want to hear about these two anymore

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Yes, she's hurt, but what's she's asking for is very small, yet very important for kids of any age!

    People are so quit to take sides!

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    I hope that white woman was worth it lol... Now he have to deal with a scorn black woman for the next 15 yrs.

  • davine puddin

    I see your point. And that's good to wait to see if it's serious

  • Gone Too Far

    Someone on bossip said he used to get women’s panties wet now it’s a wedgie lol

  • Ang

    We can agree to disagree. I don't believe any mother would be okay with their children calling someone else mama. That doesn't happen.

  • Ang

    She isn't asking for that, THEY agreed to that. That's healthy for the kids. Kids shouldn't meet every person that's passing through your life.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    I know it easy said than done, But we must be triple careful Who we marry and have children by. I'm so glad I only have one child. And the men I was meeting were the best ever birth control.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Seems like He is very bitter to me!!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Unfortunately, some people are totally different at home. I know several like that!!!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I don't believe shyt a bitter bird says... Ever....

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    So do you you bew... ? keep your post coming too

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    question of day.... Like seriously ... Revenge plots and all... SMH and it don't ever get them anywhere ... Speaking from experience ... It still leaves them out in the cold ...

  • MistaO

    Blaaaa now yall suddenly don't like his looks?!? The hypocrisy of black females is absolutely laughable at this point!!?

  • MistaO

    Where are the, you go boy, live yo life, comments? Oh, I see it's a case of a Black man dating outside his race, got it.. ?

  • MistaO

    Oh BS most of yall got several kids by several men, and most back to back to back! Talking this mess..

  • Kaze

    I watch Grey's and every time his fake troll looking behind stroll across the screen I turn my head can't stand the sight of him no more

  • Neva RuthLess

    I understand the message of choosing better. But why can't men be held accountable, so women will actually have something to choose from?

  • Nathan Hastings

    He should just say "fuck those kids"and start a new family with with Minka because that's what you bitter black bitches are accustomed to. I'll never understand how women can condone another woman trying to hinder the father from spending time with his children because the relationship didn't work. Go get counseling..

  • Bonsai

    She’s not black, she’s biracial. Stop lumping us all into the same category.

  • Nathan Hastings

    I've met her and she's a nasty woman. Her and Jesse consider themselves black...

  • shun king

    i dont think anybody in america would look at her and be like oh she is biracial she is a black woman being evil as hell

  • shun king

    its fine when the kids see the new love interest eating breakfast at the kitchen table from last night romp but god forbid a man meet somebody and go to the park with the kids

  • Rayne

    Kids should absolutely NOT meet everyone that passes through your life. How can that possibly be healthy? If that’s his fiancé .. ok but another fling, girlfriend, side piece..etc is not cool with me. He should have been able to extend her at least that much. Poor Aryn. I haven’t been through this but I can empathize with her feeling.

  • Boogie79

    YESS!!
    I cringed when Monique brought up her name in her rant as if she was doing Tiffany some favors.

  • Yup, I said it

    Exactly, she's reminding him why he left her. I wish people could rise above the pain of a break up to coparent. Because the kids should be the focus. The best thing she can do is rise above it

  • Bonsai

    It isn't right how people love to equate bad behavior to it being a black woman.

  • Li

    Oh I missed that what did Monique say about Tiffany? You know Tiff is above that sh^TT.

  • Truth

    Bitch I am mix and I am black
    I spent my whole life as black now black peoples like you want to say we not black then if we say we not black peoples like you want to say nah you black
    You cannot tell any of us who we are
    I look black how I sound saying no I’m not black because of self hating people like you confusing things your hate runs deep and it is sad that you let America do such a number on you
    We do not need our own race that is what is wrong with us now letting bullies like you tell us the Latinos not black the simoines are not black and so on it is black people everywhere rather they want to claim it or not .Willie Lynch syndome in full effect in 2018 .You just jealous you probably look like Whoopi Goldberg and just mad at the world anyway .Get a makeover or something so you can feel better about you .You probably work with the public too throwing attitude all day at black people like me .Hater !

  • Bonsai

    Thank you and have a wonderful day full of sunshine.

  • Mystique

    They have a contract with terms and conditions in them. He breached it. If the situation were reversed, would you condone her behavior of bringing her kids around every Tom, dick, and harry?
    You black men come up with the most vile terms towards black women. Why couldn’t she just be a bitter bitch? You need to seek counseling because your hatred towards black women is reprehensible!

  • Nathan Hastings

    Read the some of the comments made by black women on this blog

  • free

    i don't think we're gonna see her spread out on the street corner with a sign saying "feed me" though lol....

  • Junkanoo

    Its tired ,messy and boring ,lve got my own problems could care less about theirs

  • free

    he's been with this white chick for a while; what REALLY is the problem aryn?

  • free

    they're both breaching it. he says she plays games with the visitation so i guess he's now just doing whatever he wants to do. it's really sad.

  • Ang

    He's not worth arguing with if he supports abandoning kids. He's either trolling or a sad person.

  • Dowoop

    Maybe the woman was just a nanny?

  • Dowoop

    Whats wrong with Whoopi Goldberg though?

  • Dowoop

    Seemed like he was dealing with a scorned woman anyways.

  • the guest

    I generally enjoy and agree with your comments. You present yourself as a traditionalist and a gentleman. I have to beg to differ with you here. Under no circumstance should any parent father or mother ever say "f### those kids". The court has ordered boundaries for dating with regard to access to the children. Jesse is not honoring the court order. This is not just a break up or a relationship not working out. This is a divorce of a legal family with children born in wedlock. Their mother is right to assert standards and values for their children which are beneficial to their well being.

  • Look@m3

    .....and a coward (please keep it going)

  • the guest

    They both look like exactly what they are variations of biracial.

  • Ang

    And a jerk lol

  • Dowoop

    I understand where she may be coming from but unless he is harming those kids, there is no reason to keep him away from his kids. The drama between the two of them is more detrimental the the kids mental health than being introduced to a new woman in his life. If she tried to screw him over financially id be like "Meh, you reap what you sow" but what she is doing is going to hurt the kids more than him.

  • RespectSelf

    I really do not think people consider the children too much in these situations. While it may not seem like a big deal for him to have his children around another woman... and the ex wife is just bitter... It is really a big deal to go from seeing your mom and dad together for years and then see them with separate people.

    We do not know the ends and outs of their relationship. But if they have an agreement (bitter or not) they should both uphold it. If he didn't then that's on him... not her.

    Folks want chicks to be cheated on, be hurt, not say anything, and just roll over and let dude do whatever his heart desire so that we don't think they just bitter

  • ShelbyMoore

    You know me, hoe?

  • ShelbyMoore

    Yet my comments remains the same. I said what I said. Fawk you hoe.

  • tt

    You couldnt have explained this better. I'm really not understanding the women here calling this woman bitter when they know exactly the process of being hurt by a man they loved, trusted, and have children with, especially when he has "seemingly" moved on so "easily." She's not bitter She's hurt.

  • Simone

    She unattractive. That's why she was cast as Celie in the Color Purple and Akosua Busia was cast as her beautiful sister Nettie.

  • RespectSelf

    Nah he shouldn't do that lol. Unfortunately what happens when most dudes cheat... they don't even carry it like they care that they hurt someone. They carry it like "oh I wasn't happy, so I'm with her now, build the bridge to get over it, and now can you work with me so I can see my kids when I want"

    I honestly feel like if dudes handle situation better that there would be a lot better outcomes. Yes, you would still have a few "real" bitter folks. But I think dudes would not have to deal with "bitter ex" so much if they just treated people how they want to be treated.

  • colejk

    Exactly! It's natural to ask toddlers how their day was, what they did during the day & what they liked most. That's a daily post-preschool conversation in my house & kids often naturally overshare. So I really hope she's not grilling them & it came up innocently, but her hatred of Jesse makes me wonder. If she is interrogating them, she's doing her kids emotional harm & going to make them unnecessarily anxious.

  • Calikush

    Bloop!

  • Hmmm~?

    Who’s yall? I never thought he was attractive.

  • Calikush

    For real tho! The women on this thread that’s co-signing the ex’s bitterness is crazy! Bunch of Bitter Betty’s! Lol

  • Shawty

    Right back at your BITTER a$$! Fuc u 2 bish!

  • Shawty

    Not on you best day slore!

  • Rayne

    ???? who knows.

  • Miss Thang

    He hasn’t been with Minka Kelly for months. He was with a bunch of black models over the holidays.

  • Miss Thang

    He and Minka are no longer dating.

  • free

    oh ok. that would make more sense.

  • Miss Thang

    He’s not anymore though...

  • free

    but what does his cheating have to do with his ability to parent his children?

  • RespectSelf

    cheating has consequences... a known one would be the relationship with the other parent of your children. So he made an executive decision for himself that would result in breaking up his family (children included). I think that level of selfishness says a lot about someone overall (including their ability to parent their kids)

    I also think it says a lot about a person in how they act after making the "mistake" of going outside their marriage.

  • iWasteTime

    If it is Minka, he good, they've been together longer than 6 months

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I have 0 kids. You tried it.

    You seem triggered...

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    So he decides now to sow his wild oats?
    It's going to cost him. And cost him a lot.

  • hottlanta

    She is trying to control his relationships. As a mother I know is it important to feel safe no matter who he is with because common sense will tell you he had someone else before he met you and he will have someone else when he leaves you.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Nah bish, your mammy the damn w hore...You ugly man looking bish.

  • ShelbyMoore

    I know your daddy didn't expect you to look like that when he busted that nut. Fawk you, your hoe as$ mammy and your no good daddy.

  • Vegas1989

    I agree. See if it was me and I rolled up on him with my kids with the chick that he has left me for....I would have the po po in tow and tell the po po that I'm about to slap the CRAP out of him and take my kids.....LOL....I had my friend who was a cop and I told him to come to the dealership because I'm about to act a plum fool in Service...He showed up...And I told the manager no need to call the PO Po he is here now give me my damn car, used oil, oil filter right now...Because Ain't nobody is going nowhere until I do....LOL...I had everybody in the waiting scared...

  • Shira Harding-James

    I went through this and my feelings were completely undermined disrespected on so many levels. I was heart broken devesrsred even....but at some point you have to arrive at a place where it should only be about the children... period. Cheating makes him selfish Having the children around different women makes him careless, not a horrible parent who is incapable of raising their children properly.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Thanks???

  • Trace da Ace

    Well he is not attractive.....green eyes or not....

  • Miss Thang

    He cheated so he broke up his family. His family includes his children. You don’t think children are affected by a parent cheating and breaking up their family? Their parents are their world.

  • Cannelle

    I co-sign this. When his eyes start darting around, he reminds me of a crazed cat. I've seen some of his earlier photos too and with his face shape, he did well to cut off the hair.

  • more

    She left years after the fact and now he is crazy

  • Dowoop

    lol...I just like playing devils advocate.

  • Cannelle

    LOL, Bonsai. I had the same response when I called bi-racial people with a black parent "bi-racial" rather than just black. It was bizarre. Nearly everywhere in the world except the USA (it seems), bi-racial people with one black parent are considered black and not bi-racial. Racist America, treating blackness like it is radioactivity.

  • Cannelle

    I donno, she looks like she could be bi-racial to me. Bi-racial people with one black parent tend to look a variety of ways. It is largely believed that Frederick Douglass's father was the white slave master and we all know how Douglass looked.

  • Cannelle

    Also: while some people never change and were asses from the beginning, sometimes people DO change. It's hard to know what type of person someone can become 5, 10 or 20 years from when you've met them. We expect younger people to change (for the better?) as they get older with experience; it is also possible for some people to get worse with age.

  • Karen Brady

    Thank you

  • free

    again, what does that have to do with his ability to PARENT his children?

  • free

    the consequences are the breakup and dissolution of the marriage. so are you saying he can't be a parent because he doesn't want to be married to this lady? because he lives in a different household? because he had sex with a different woman? what makes him unable to be daddy to them, not to her? what makes him unable to love his children? what makes him unable to provide for his children? what makes him unable to oversee their growth and development? what makes in unable to interact with them? if he was a poor father, she wouldn't be acting a fool now that he's gone.

  • shun king

    around a group of white people she is considered black around a group of black people she is considered black

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    ???

  • free

    i have to say that some are confusing ARYN's relationship with him with the CHILDREN's relationship with him, which is, and should be, two different things. i had a guy friend who had no choice but to give up on his child because he tried so hard to be with her but he married someone else. he and his wife tried and tried but his BM was fighting it because of her hurt feelings. he had to wait until his daughter became an adult to reconnect. it was really sad when it was going on but it turned out to have a happy ending.

  • Ms.EJ

    There are Contempt motions that can and are filed by men who are seeking to enforce visitation. States do not play when it comes to denial of visitation, therefore no one can keep a person away from his or her child. Now, I can see if the person committed custodial kidnapping and moved across the country (this has happened) and it was extremely difficult to get the child back. I've noticed (not saying you) that many women of male friends tend to believe solely the man's word without hearing or seeing both sides of the story.

  • Ms.EJ

    It is extremely unfortunate how many women are attacking his ex and/or automatically assume that woman wants her ex due to her bringing legit issues to court. I swear it seems as if women are more misogynistic than men, especially in custody cases. Men can be just as petty, manipulative and problematic in custody/visitation matters. It is not solely women.

  • Trace da Ace

    lmao @ eyes start darting around.....you a mess for that!!!

  • Ang

    No one said he's crazy. He's just not acting in the best interests of his children and their mother. People do change their behavior over time sometimes. That's nothing new.

  • sceutie

    It's in the soul. The moral of this story is don't have kids with a racially confused man.

  • sceutie

    Revolving door kids and women make for an unhealthy society.

  • Bonsai

    Yes, her response was pityful, filled with anger and hate. She completely went left field. Bi-racial people do flip flop back and forth and when they act inappropriate people just love to say it’s because they black. When they act half way descent that’s when they say they mixed or br-racial.

  • Shawty

    You still talking....girl plz. Got so much mouth meet me so I can dog walk you like the dog you are! I shall NOT waste anymore of my precious time on a nothing a$$ chick like you. Go eat sh1t!

  • tt

    a fool ..lolol

  • tt

    You have good points
    Yes he can be a parent because he doesn't want to be married to her anymore. Because he lives in a different house he can not be a full time parent. Yes he is still their father even though he is having sex with another woman. He can still love them, He can still provide for them. He can partially oversee their growth and development because he lives in a different house and has to cultivate his new relationship. He can interact with them part time because he lives in a different house and is 'actively' cultivating his new relationship. "poor" fathers or fathers with not as much money often have the same results. This is about "love" and the end of a marriage she obviously took serious

  • Gone Too Far

    Aryn is simply scorned. She just needs time that’s all, right now it’s still fresh to her so she wants to hurt him in any way she can until some time has passed and she grows and heals from it. But there’s kids involved so both of them need to be careful about how they deal with each other for the sake of their children together. Seems like the marriage just faded out and Jesse moved onto a new situation very quickly which is very disrespectful and hurtful for her to comprehend and see being that she is still his wife and they spent some years together, have kids together etc. I don’t know what issues they had but it’s been portrayed like he basically dumped her for Becky which is horrible if it’s true because she most likely feels like she was there for him and she helped him and he just walked off into the sunset with a new bitch whose white after all that mygnoir of Black women talk he does on CNN and BET. She needs plenty of time that’s all. And some therapy. It’s still fresh and she’s still grieving the death of the marriage and everything else attached to it

  • sceutie

    Nope. It's hard enough getting one of yuse to take us out to a nice dinner!!

  • Gone Too Far

    That’s terrible. Aryn is just scorned honestly that’s all it is, and this is how she has chosen to deal with it. You can’t tell someone how to deal with their pain, upset and anger you just give them time and in that time they’ll heal and stop being irrational because of emotion and motive to avenge. This Minka needs to tread carefully and give respect to the Mom when it comes to her kids. Minka will probably dump Jesse in a year or two and marry a white man

  • Gone Too Far

    Men are crazy. I wonder what got into him for him to start acting so damn disrespectful cos she’s still the mother of his kids. That nigga has lost his mind and changed for the worst instead of for better. I always flip situations and ask so how would the person feel if the person they’re doing that to, did the same thing? If Aryn had a new nigga in the house and the kids were calling him Pappy? Bye

  • Gone Too Far

    How is she trying to make his life hell? From the way the story was brought out, dude cheated on her. Is still cheating technically because he’s not even divorced yet legally. He didn’t wait, he rushed straight into it with Becky which insinuates she’s been involved with him for some time now. And then he’s bringing her around the kids and now apparently letting them call her Mom? You see several lines have been crossed here? Cant he just get a finalized divorce first before all this other shit starts coming in. He’s moving too fast and it’s disrespectful to his current wife. She probably hadn’t even accepted or got her head around the fact the marriage is a done deal. Which is why she’s also being petty back to hurt him too. They both need to be adults and respect the rules the court lays out. If they say no introduction until 6 months, so be it! Personally I’d say until they’re married but Minka will probably go on to marry a rich white man and walk away from the ruins of the family she helped to break completely unattached. Aryn needs therapy, and time. Jesse needs to get it the fuck together for the sake of his kids and be a bit more sensitive with his actions and deal with his anger so he can effectively be a dad to his kids. End of the day they are the only victims in this situation

  • V Dubb

    Indeed!!!

  • ShelbyMoore

    Right after you eat shat first you broke down bish. I'm in Miami hoe...I'll even tell you exactly where I'm at. Never been a poosey. Matter of fact, you will be the one dog walked hoe. You have the right mothafawka. Svck a dyck...the same one your daddy svcking at night you dirty poosey hoe.

  • Gone Too Far

    That’s what I’m saying. I think whoever made the 6 month rule should’ve said at least until some time into the engagement should it be appropriate to introduce the kids to their new step mom. We don’t know how long these two will last it’s probbaly just excitement and Minka will date the white guys she loves after another year or two has passed. Especially since kids aren’t dumb and are more than aware mom and dad aren’t together anymore. They need to heal too

  • Gone Too Far

    I roll my eyes every time. She’s just hurt. It’s still fresh and she hasn’t processed everything completely. This is just how she’s dealing with it for now until time passes, she accepts it and starts to heal

  • Gone Too Far

    What can a man who cheats teach his son? We are not defined by our mistakes but he does not seem to have a care in the world for what he has done. Because he’s doing shit to make it worse and upset his wife because of whatever issues he has with her. Doesn’t mean he’s a bad father but what example can he honestly set for his son and daughter with the decisions he’s making? When he talks to them about love, relationships and commitment, what can he honestly say? They probbaly won’t respect his opinion because they’ll grow up and eventually understand what really went on. She won’t even need to tell them, kids grow and start to see for themselves. For now all they know is mommy and daddy aren’t together right now. What advice can he honestly give about manhood? He likes to talk the talk but doesn’t like to walk the walk

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Because, self-empowerment is needed Before we can complete someone else. Then, women Don't have to complain about what the men are doing. Do You!!! I did and was able to stand whether the man was there or not. That way You won't be damned whether he's there or not. Same for the man. He can only complete himself, Before he can help you.

  • Rayne

    I agree.

  • BlahBlahBlah

    Children are affected, they are also affected by couples staying together just for the sake of having kids, and may not want to marry later based on their parents relationship. Folks look at the act and not what led up to act, meaning, wife is unwilling to satisfy wants and needs of her man or vice versa.

  • http://www.nicolaloves.com/ NicolaLoves

    They were shooting in Brazil, they all posted on their respective Instagram accounts, so I doubt he was sleeping with them.

  • BlahBlahBlah

    Baby playing with them $1 bills is nasty. Jesse you can step up there.

  • Shira Harding-James

    ?????

  • Shira Harding-James

    Until he made it?! He’s been on that show for ten years now...he’s been made it. We can disagree and have opinions, doesn’t mean I’m self respecting

  • Gone Too Far

    Sooo news has it that Jesse and Minka broke up

  • nick c

    Its not legit if you cant mediate with kids involved your creating a ticking time bomb down the road.

  • nick c

    I cant believe how bad this has deteriorated another victim of family court another broken family.

  • Cannelle

    Fine.

  • Cannelle

    I read that article about the Grumpy Cat yesterday, and realized that when Jesse is mad, he looks like Grumpy Cat.

  • Cannelle

    I think it comes from negativity associated with blackness. Racist America meant for blackness to be seen as bad, so anyone with at least one parent, grandparent or one drop was considered black to keep whiteness "pure" and treat blackness as a disease. Unfortunately, black American people hold on to the one drop rule (and white people do too, but that type of racism is expected of them). I can understand why black people do because I am American and it creates a sort of solidarity among people. But things are changing and people are recognizing white supremacy taught us these lies and there 1) is nothing wrong or right with being black and 2) there is nothing wrong or right with being bi-racial. It just is.

    It is an interesting topic for me. I don't know much about my family, but as far as I know, both of my parents are black. So I figure I am black. However, I have the same skin tone and eye color as Jesse Williams. As I live outside of the USA, I've been referred to as mixed race and not black more often than not. I don't argue with them, I accept that they don't see the world the way Americans do. And this is when I began to have an even better understanding of racism and colorism.

  • Cannelle

    I also noticed a nod to colorism in that comment, by bringing up Whoopi Goldberg. Lol. smh.

  • alexandra nevermind

    Define "racially confused" if you will

  • Ms.EJ

    I don't follow what you're trying to convey. Do you mind clarifying so, I can better understand your reply.

  • sceutie

    Ok, here goes. I've mentioned before that I grew up in another era before people started using the definition biracial (which is a word that I believe chips away at individuals humanity). The idea that it is TWO races and one is deemed lesser for people using the term stands out to me. I grew up in the south, too. Not the nightmare people in other parts of the country seem to conjure -- but if you were black you knew it (it was simple). Second in this Jesse persons case he left his family to scamper around with a white woman. His choice, but not a good look. I think that when black men have children with white women and aren't present to raise them they are creating a Pandora's Box situation. You need a black parent of strong mind to steer you through what you're going to have to deal with in this world. It's not always awful -- but it's better to be aware. A white woman is just not up to this task. Also, changing what they call our group is a tool to sow more seeds of confusion. We've gone from colored to negro to black and now it's African American. I believe the last moniker is a tool to lump us in with immigrant blacks for census purposes and so the Democratic Party will seem to have more power than they really do.

    Screed over -- hope this clarifies things.

  • alexandra nevermind

    Hmm. Interesting.

  • parisjok

    they did not make beautiful babies. why did she choose to even have babies when the marriage was already on very very shaky ground and now there are two funny looking kids instead of one

  • parisjok

    millions and millions of families still stay together even AFTER one or the other cheats when children are involved!!! might as well stay together because the chances of the next partner cheating on u is going to be 98.9% anyway.

  • parisjok

    she had no right to break up the home just because she decided at this time to ask him to leave because she found out he was cheating only once again.

    as a wife she is suppose to be blind, deaf, dumb, and act like she knows nothing like all the rest of the wives with small children that want to keep the family together.

    she had two big head babies pretty much back to back by this man and she just should have kept it moving and ignored his foolishness. it is no longer about you when you decide to bring babies into this world who deserve BOTH parents in the home.

    Beloved President Kennedy screwed every female he desired and the first lady knew and had babies by him and never divorced him. well he was murdered but she still was not going to divorce him for his horrible cheating ways

  • parisjok

    you talk as if these babies are much older than what they are.

  • Arrissasso

    He does look like he has a temper, that's probably normal for him lol. And Minka Kelly as pretty as she is probably has the herp since she was with Derek Jeter forever.

  • RespectSelf

    no, I'm talking like i know from experience. And I didn't think kids as young ages would be bother too much by a change.. but they are and can be.

  • Applebootay

    I think the point is not so much him cheating but irresponsibly bringing the kids to his ho house. Not cool.