Jill Scott

Jill Scott's estranged husband Michael Dobson has filed court documents asking a judge to award him $500,000 for pain and suffering he endured during their divorce battle.

Scott, 45, and Dobson, 49, will spend Feb. 15 -- the day after Valentine’s Day -- in a Tennessee court room, where Dobson is reportedly seeking a $500,000 payout in their drawn out divorce.

According to the NY Daily News, Dobson’s friends say that a non-disclosure agreement prohibits him from discussing the lawsuit publicly, and the payout is a matter of principle.

“He's not going to let Scott disgrace him,” says one source. “Michael still loves Jill. He has always felt like she's his 'ride or die' throughout their relationship.”

Scott and Dobson secretly tied the knot in a hush-hush wedding at her home in Franklin, TN in June 2016.

Jill Scott performs live in concert in Miami on Aug. 30, 2016

According to the R&B Diva's tour DJ, Atlanta's DJ Mars, Dobson -- whom Mars introduced to Scott -- was eager to rush Scott down the aisle in 2015, but she slammed on the brakes.

At the time, a little bird whispered in your auntie's ear that Scott feared that Dobson, a city employee, didn't have sufficient annual salary to cover her household bills of $50,000 a month.

She was concerned that she may have to support him financially.

The tipster also said that Dobson is a father-of-six who is "recently divorced," and he was "anxious" to get married.

In an interview with Rollingout.com, Scott discussed the pitfalls of rushing into a marriage based on infatuation and lust.

"We get caught up in someone's looks, or their money, but not the person. Or, we're into someone for a couple of months and then the novelty fades and we're on to the next," she said.

"Love is bigger than just the emotion for the moment. Love requires patience. It requires communication. It requires and demands mutual respect and understanding. In this quick-paced world, we want immediate gratification. Our idea of love and having that is great, but the immediate gratification of having it all is what most people are after in this microwavable world. That's what makes it such a challenge. We have to change our mentality if we want relationships that will last."

Scott told Essence.com that any man who wants her hand in marriage has to pass her 6 month test.

"If you make it over the six month hump, you have done something. I must really like you," she said.

Photos: WENN.com

  • Yoni7

    With a haircut like that, he brought the pain and suffering upon hisself! Don't pay him a wooden penny, Jill!

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    his eyeborws are too arched for me,,, he looks snakish

  • pure_rachet

    You made me scroll up. WTF is that?

  • NicoleZee

    For the slow people in America, if you choose to marry someone that makes less money than you, YOU will be paying them some kind of settlement or alimony in the divorce whether you are male or female. If you don't want to end up paying, then don't marry someone that makes substantially less money or don't get married at all. None of these low self-esteem desperate women like Jill and Mary deserve sympathy. Jill Scott has a nasty attitude, so call this karma. I hope he milks her for every penny!

  • Gee Rilestein

    when she and lyzell her first boyfriend from her debut album broke up I thought he was really dumb and didn't knew what he had, then she started dating lil john the drummer by the time her second alum came out and the they broke up I still was rooting for...but now with this quickie divorce thing with her third guy maybe im starting to think that maybe Jill needs to look inward...

  • Noirluv45

    If everyone got pain and suffering for being in a bad relationship, we'd all be rich. He needs to sit down somewhere.

  • Noirluv45

    As much as I love Jill, I heard she wasn't a nice person.

  • Smith Jane

    Yeah I can relate to Jilly. Instant gratifications in the dating world is definitely an issue. Trying too hard to create a connection within a small period of time. Some things take time and require patience. I feel for a lot of women who have to go through the dating scene. Most men want punani AND relationship within the first 48 hours. And the time restraint only increases if the chick is wealthy with her own sh*t.

    With Jill, I you would think she would have learned a valuable lesson after her first (couple?) of marriage(s). You gotta take things slow. And when you’re a woman of means, you need to make sure he can match your income or at least has the intelligence/assertiveness to get to your level.

  • Sorry

    Everybody knows Jill Scott has a nasty personality. I believe him when he says she tried to emasculate him. That doesn’t mean he deserves money. I’m sick of sorry men trying to get money from women. It’s disgusting.

  • NicoleZee

    She will pay whatever the judge tells her to pay or they can freeze her assets, Jill is dumb and has low self-esteem. If it were me and I chose to marry a broke man with a bunch of kids, I would pay him a settlement so I could move on with my life and learn from my mistake. Fair is fair. Men have to pay all the time when they divorce broke women so why shouldn't a man get anything??? These men know what they are doing just like women do. I've met plenty of men that are broke, leeching con artists. People do what you allow them to do. At least hookers get paid. Hell, these high priced whores would never pay a man shit because they know how to hustle. I'm not condoning prostitution, but they do have a point!

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    Welcome to the #hetoo movement

  • HoneyyGoodMoneyy_
  • Ni Ni

    See Leslie, this is what you dont want. Jill is too old to be talking about some she just caught up.

  • V Dubb

    "Ole uggly ass"

  • NicoleZee

    I heard the same. No one wants to deal with anyone that has a nasty attitude. All they're going to do is either leave you or cheat on you with someone better that treats them accordingly. Sad.

  • V Dubb

    Well it depends on the state you are married in but yes.

  • hottlanta

    Sal graduates are getting longer and longer.
    Sherri Shepherd
    Mary J. Blige
    Phaedra Parks
    Patti Labelle
    Whoopi Goldberg
    Halle Barry's baby daddy
    Did I forget anybody. When he said father of 6 she should have left his azz at the curve.

  • V Dubb

    I'm sure there are more.

  • V Dubb

    ?????

  • hottlanta

    It is painful for a broke mofo to even approach me.

  • Jay

    They had a prenup, and less than a year of marriage shouldn't entitle him to a financial windfall.

  • Danny

    You did all that japping but the part about her making him sign a prenup was conveniently left out. He ain’t getting sh*t and they certainly weren’t married long enough for him to be accustomed to a lifestyle.

  • Ghost

    Word is that Jill is not so nice...HOWEVER..he doesn't deserve anything but memories! He signed a pre nup so its a wrap!

    He should have saved some that spending money she gave him to escape since he was so miserable..smh

    AND Jill...let's have a time out on relationships..you need to get YOURSELF together..seriously

  • Vonn

    Kevin federline too. Michael has 6 kids (allegedly) & she has 50k monthly expenses...He can't handle that. She should have kicked that broom far far away from herself instead of jumping over it with him. Eh, you live & ya learn.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Say that!

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Yup. That's why Shawny brought her ass back to CA to divorce Shaq

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    chile... ???

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    I have heard about Jill. Allegedly, she is a piece of work. Especially towards other Black women.
    At lease the man has a job, He is not on her income level but he was working a City Job. The man is not a bum.
    Something about this is not right.
    She did not care in the beginning but then those mental health issues kick in and she started nic-picking the helk out of him.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me....????

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    But, he is not a scrub. F/T job with the City for years. Why is it a problem NOW?
    I have heard too much about Jill.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Oprah says #notme. Haha

  • iWasteTime

    Someone send this link to Leslie and tell her she gone be alright (kendrick voice)

  • Noirluv45

    That's so true.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    Watch out ladies because these are the kinds of GOOD Dyck that will make you a crazy fool for it apparently
    1. Broke dyck
    2. 44 baby mommas dyck
    3. No car having dyck
    4. homeless dyck
    5. unobtainable dreams dyck aka Imma be a rapper someday..this dyck 491/2 years old.. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/68bc52b2a4f54f3dc0d4dea29ec0c12c203c19b65d4d18beb2fbbd13d0be6a55.gif

  • iWasteTime

    Star Jones
    Mo"nique (soon come)

  • justlooking
  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    6 kids and we don't know what that city job pays or how he handled his finances. The write up says he was trying to rush down the aisle and may of had gold digging tendencies. He may have debt to hell and back. 500k for pain and suffering of a failed short marriage? Scrub! Her nasty attitude doesn't make him less of a scrub.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Skipped right past.

  • oshh16

    Right because being pressed will get you got.
    Discernment, wisdom and having standards are your friends.

  • Elevated Soul

    Love me some Jill Scott but girlfriend make some bad choices in men.

    Why on earth are these women with a considerable amount of bank, marrying these broke men? I say the same for men who got bank.

    He was only with her for the money....

  • RespectSelf

    lol why can't folks just leave the situation be like normal people... I just don't respect when dudes do this. I guess I'm old school that way, but I'm like don't you feel less than a man trying to come up on a woman's coin?!?!?

    And then I been seeing folks say women do it too. st be like is this where we at. Men aspire to be like women smh. Just let it go

  • justlooking

    Yeah,I've too heard that she can be a real BISH/DIVA a real handful

  • Junkanoo

    She seems like a control freak and overbearing . You want equality ,pay up and keep it moving

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    She needs to reflect on her Why Did I Get Married 3. Lol

  • justlooking

    "normal" men and women do this.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    She knew that. She has been married before. He is employed & takes care of his children that he is involved with.
    This is all Jill and I usually ride for the woman.

  • Yoni7

    Ok, girl.

  • Yoni7

    A bad barber fresh out of jail cut. #1stcustomer

  • Starsky Willows

    LOL. Caption got me tickled.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Then he should have known she had a nasty attitude and left her alone.

  • bella28498 .

    lmao pain and suffering?? Thats real bad.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Oh, she loves the men. She skins & grins and goes out her way with men. Until her mental health issue kicks in.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Alrighty, you know her so well. Take care and have a great Wednesday ?

  • Yoni7

    Kinda art imitating life, huh?

  • Rayne

    If he’s gotten over to kendu’s attorney then jilly has gotten herself a problem ?

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I agree you forgot a few tho:
    6. Sellin cigarettes on the corner dyck
    7. Fake "Woke Hotep" Dyck (got you convertin n shit)
    8. Pretty Nicca Dyck
    9. Any type of Septa bus driver Dyck (Philly ish)
    10. Career Criminal Dyck

    Just say no ladies...

  • Karen Brady

    Auntie thanks for reminding us that Feb 15 is the day after V day :-). Point taken.

  • Renee26

    Fugg him!! She's going through pain and suffering too...Divorce is never easy. She should have listened to her gut...not making enough money to support her lifestyle, 6 kids, recently divorced and rushing to remarry...yeah he was and is looking for a come up. I pray he loses

  • Dowoop

    6 months is all it takes to determine if someone is marriage material?

  • Renee26

    Ok! I hope he hires Gloria instead

  • oshh16

    *snickers*

  • Renee26

    Ok!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    His grown black azz shouldn't get a dime but at the same time come on Jill. Did you really know this fool? And yes ya'll I know it can happen with someone you've know since kindergarten but she may have some issues herself.

  • justlooking

    “Love is bigger than just the emotion for the moment. Love requires patience. It requires communication. It requires and demands mutual respect and understanding. In this quick-paced world, we want immediate gratification. Our idea of love and having that is great, but the immediate gratification of having it all is what most people are after in this microwavable world. That’s what makes it such a challenge. We have to change our mentality if we want relationships that will last.”

    ++++++++++++++++++++
    great epilogue to song. BYE JILL https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/85099841edbaa9aadf9575543167121140c07fec3c38f7ad226f50f7997a5301.gif

  • Desiree Edwards

    Wow, he's messy. He couldn't get anything from me. Why did she marry his old ass.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Man i swear there are more and more bish arse niccas coming out the woodworks on a daily basis. These men are trifflin and now i really see why so many celebs are single. TF he need pain and suffering for. With 6 kids and a city job, Jill showed you chit you would have never been introduced to. Maybe its the pain and suffereing from having to give it all up.

  • Renee26

    Pass on all that dyck and bought me a bullet

  • Anunnaki

    Ur last statement, “ummm yea, haven’t you seen the blogs where men are women and women are men, IN THEIR MINDS THO?

  • Renee26

    LMAO not the bus driver....they do be players though

  • Anunnaki

    Lmaooo

  • Karen Brady

    44 baby mommas dyck *CRINE*.

  • karen b

    This is what happens when you date/marry down.......I know everyone deserves love but you have to date within your means....You cant save these men....If they don't come to the table ready to eat and pay the tab then usher his ass to another table.....Sorry not Sorry......

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    OKKK!!!

  • Karen Brady

    And never forget lyin' ass, cheatin with everybody, shady as all get out, think you're stupid Dyck.

  • Kemi

    Lmao! Funny but real

  • Renee26

    he may have had the job stability but there were other red flags....his income couldn't even cover her household expenses, he had 6 kids (potential child support to start helping him pay), he was recently divorced and EAGER to get her down the isle (instead of taking time to be by himself...and what's the rush) All red flags that had her intuition questioning the union...yet she ignored it and a year later they are heading for divorce.

  • Karen Brady

    LMAOOOOOOOO. Sad but true cuz truth be told I have fallen victim to 4 of these all wrapped up in one GOOD Dyck. I'm so shamed ya'll. SMH.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    Listen I a CCT (Cobb County Transit Bus) Dyck was trying to holla when I use to commute because parking was so high downtown, this bus driver was my driver everyday going home and would flirt his ass off. He was cute..but I couldn't act like I didn't see that ring on his finger..

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    OMG!!! LOLOLOL

  • Karen Brady

    YASSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • hottlanta

    Forgot about Star. I was listening to him and Monique on Tom Joyner and I think he said he was a LAWYER I need to play it back to be sure.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Bye Renee Damnit LOLOLOLOLOL

  • Karen Brady

    Good for you! Respect the marriage even if that fool don't.

  • Anunnaki

    Chile, I tried to help one, never AGAIN, to stressful

  • WutizstillHERE!
  • Ni Ni

    Desperation

  • Karen Brady

    How bout when you at a light and they sitting up in their bus looking down in your car grinning and trying to get your attention? I be like uh-uh. Pedal to the medal.

  • Karen Brady

    I just HOLLERED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Chile it will be our little secret here in the garden. :-(

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    Pain and suffering..... welp, that's what marriage is once you get past the honeymoon stage. Then you have to find ways to make it fun, long lasting, you know... get real about marriage.

  • davine puddin

    Shot Jennifer holiday and Anita baker paying and paying OUT their ads to their exes..didn't she take notice of star jones and Britney spears?

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    LOL! Good one!!!

  • Karen Brady

    Right... all these women business is out there. You'd think others like Jill would take heed. Most of us don't have that kind of advantage. Oh well. NEXT.

  • WutizstillHERE!
  • Karen Brady

    Me too. Hard and exhausting, fruitless lesson learned. No mo.

  • karen b

    Well Bless your heart for trying.......I'm sure you learned a valuable lesson from that going forward.....You live and you learn......But first, the rose colored glasses must come off so we can see the unforeseen.......

  • hottlanta

    You forget about the "break glass in case of an emergency dyck". If your man don't break the glass, he will. Get one of those you don't worry about a mofo calling you or coming by because you have been taken care of. He be talking and asking like why you haven't call, I haven't heard anything from you thinking he is the only one serving you up. Your face be like ole well on the other side of the telephone.

  • Anunnaki

    Never again, so u know how draining it is...I’ll be single. B4 I allow that chyt to happen again

  • Vonn

    Don't know how I forgot about Janet Jackson & rene somebody.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    New post..bout some dude in Sandra Maewood Tulips neck of the woods on the cover of Elle..

  • Quitedeliteful

    She should have been really suspicious of someone who was 'recently divorced' and supporting six kids on a city employee salary. Not a smart move at all but hey, we all make mistakes -- except this mistake may cost her half-a-million dollars...

  • You Could Never

    Its okay to get good dick. You dont have to marry it. That is what it sounds like happened here. She even had doubts sounds like? And yet she married him anyway. Lord. Why cant you just smash and move along? Or hell smash and cop a squat and chill for awhile.Whatever. Peace and blessings to them

  • hottlanta

    Janet paid him off and Jennifer Lopez paid off her boy toy as well.

  • You Could Never

    skkndsfkndsfknsk

  • hottlanta

    Went to the store and she has some nice azz greeting cards. Like her hustle.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Hell for that amount, Jill must bit his ear off like Mike Tyson!!!

  • justlooking

    folks confused with smash and grab

  • iWasteTime

    lord I pray he isn't. That video of her praising him for keeping her sane and listing what he does for her, screams evidence.

  • Kemi

    Marriage in celebrity land is a joke! Obviously this dude was looking for a pay day n his 15mins. Hope he gets none!

  • Anunnaki

    Was she talking about breakfast, ham and eggs, maybe some grits.?

  • Karen Brady

    Exactly... I said if that's the alternative to single life then so be it. Single I am.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    And she knew. This was not her first marriage. And why would she ever think he would be able to pay 50,000 a month in bills?
    I use to like Jill but she has said & done too much in public.
    I will stand for another woman. But, she is highly suspect.
    Plus, I am not a man hater. I got over that in my 20's.
    Jill reminds me of a woman beater. Very charming in the beginning and then BAM! The mental health switch clicks on.

  • Rachel

    Sorry but at 45 Jill Scott should have known better. At 45 you are supposed to know d$$$ is free and will always be free. This man had an army of kids that alone should have made her run.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Actually, I will.
    Thank you so very much for your kind words.

  • RespectSelf

    I work at a law firm where there is a family law practice. I've never seen a case where a man was trying to get money from the wife (not saying it doesn't happen).

  • RespectSelf

    lol yea... I know smh. But I'm talking about these men who say they men, but want the women to do everything they do or they want to be able to do everything a woman gets to do. lol

  • Vonn

    I think Jenny paid at least two of them off. Ohani & Chris. Did she pay Casper off too?

  • hottlanta

    My neighbor was telling me he heard her neighbors arguing and he has no job. I was ROTFLMAO when she said she heard her say to him take your azz to the living room and go sleep instead of out the door.

  • hottlanta

    ROTFLMAO. Hump, wipe and leave in that order.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Well, Jill had a pre-nup but of course her husband is contesting it.

  • datjerk

    half a mil is cheap considering. she should have seen his hustle coming a mile away. i hope her prenup is iron clad

  • TMW

    Don’t know why she didn’t make him sign a prenup. I just think once you get older, marriage should be less about romantic love and more about partnership. If the person you are considering marriage with cannot be an equal partner emotionally and financially, there is no upside to that marriage. At 45, Jill should have known better because she had the most to lose.

  • ~~eb

    Mine has a USB charger, bump batteries! Nobody got time for dead batteries at that crucial moment.

  • datjerk

    im not convinced kevin and Shar didnt set that whole thing up.

  • hottlanta

    Women need to stop telling other women that we need to overlook a man's past because it is not important. His past is important it is a blueprint for your future with him. Trying to be all spiritual and say I am looking at the soul. I am looking at the budge in his pants as well as his wallet.

  • hottlanta

    Anita is paying. Stop lying.

  • hottlanta

    You too. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! I am nosey what did you do?

  • Scromes1212

    Wipe and leave!? Dam, you a freak for real smh

  • Liah

    I agree 100%!!!!!

  • You Could Never

    Go full on Mo'nique. Know your worth sir. Go and give that judge your whole resume. Tell them you have won XYZ awards as an employee of the city during your years there. And you are an XYZ winner and you deserve more than some 500k. KNOW YOUR WORTH. Tell them hell NAW you aint auditioning. You feel you should be paid more. And if they start asking questions be like MAKE THIS MAKE SENSE!

  • Liah

    She did...He is fighting it

  • Scromes1212

    I guess letting him cheat ends the same way if you don't let him cheat smh lol

  • Yup, I said it

    Why is always the most unattractive guys that have the nerves to be shameless gold diggers. That right there would make me get violent with him. You got the nerves to look like a critter and use people?

  • Scromes1212

    It was Gods Plan

  • Scromes1212

    Domestic violence ain't cool smh

  • justlooking

    I don't work for a law firm, but I've been divorced and my time spent in court and mediation I've seen been do some crazy things.

    Since we friends now. How can a mom continue to get child support when she refuses to work. The child is 16. The court system is still that screwed up.

    What does the parent do?

    Asking for a friend.

  • BadAss Will

    Throw in an extra $10,000 for plastic surgery, that dude ugly ass hell.. Do better Jill, they cant be broke and ugly. Pick a struggle.

  • karen b

    Well Damm......

  • Coy little wink

    Ray Charles could have seen that fukkery so why didn't she...

    Nvm.....he probably had her dickmatized with his hammer poor Jill ? ? ?

  • TMW

    Ahh. It wasn’t sucker proof then.

  • davine puddin

    I was posting my comments with my phone but Anita is paying Walter. Datjerk that's a new twist. It can see it happening but it on star backed fired...also when she lost the weight she should have kept the hair...oh I'm team David otunga...I proud of what Jennifer has accomplished I am just team David on raising his son...

  • Yup, I said it

    Nope it sure isnt neither is being financially abusive. That is the type of,mental abuse meant to destroy your life and mental peace. Especially if you have kids to take care of. As a mother you will stress about providing for kids kids long term when you have a grown man eating off you. So 2 wrongs dont make but people shouldnt test you.

  • Scromes1212

    Dam lol you so mad you leaving words out? In all seriousness abuse is abuse. I just hate when females talk that tough talk and a n*gga knock yo ass out then you want somebody to feel sorry for you smh just leave if you unhappy. No need for the tough talk. You can always get money, you can never get your life back. Stop playing with these crazy dudes out here. JS

  • justlooking

    This really made me chuckle.

  • Yoni7

    You feel me, sis! SHEESH! LMAO

  • pecancandy

    Fell victim to two types on list. Both of them made me trimble. Like they take advanced classes in stroking

  • Ghost

    Oh..he has a JOB!? Well then he needs to get the hell on...he was smart enough NOT to quit his day job..so he knew the marriage may not last..

    Take all your gifts, new clothes, new electronic devices, upgraded men's products and get! This should be REAL easy...

  • pecancandy

    Jilly should have followed her gut. It never fails us.

  • Liah

    I agree...

  • Shaylove1975

    Jill was smart

  • Yup, I said it

    You need to watched snapped and educated you sexist self. All women are not shrinking violets, only a troglodyte would think such and men react the same way when a woman cleans them out in alimony. .

  • Scromes1212

    I don't need to watch nothing lol with all due respect you ain't finna whup nobody lol cut it out. Ain't nothing wrong with being a lady. Like I said, just move on if you in a bad situation. No need for tough talk. And I have no idea what a troglodyte is lol excuse my ignorance

  • JRock

    I think this Dobson fellow is right about the pain and suffering. Jill looks like she could throw a punch and knock a nucca out. So I say Jill whoop that MoFo's ass and give him some pain. Then I say cut off his lights, gas, cable and EBT card so that he can have some suffering too. Broke ass joke.

  • Yup, I said it

    Amen have him out there like Sherry Shepard got Lamar on SNAP and TANF.

  • LordeAmbler

    Jill is bitchy. But you cant take a bitch money im sorry. Send his broke ass on.

  • Fire & Ice

    Sucker proof ???

  • Trace da Ace

    Maannn....she should have known that something in the milk aint clean when he so eager to marry her....damn shame....Jill was no fool when she made him sign a prenup....good job!! Folks always wanna try to take your hard earned coin and claim it is for "pain and suffering"....FOH!!! He just dont want to go back to working for the city.....

  • Fire & Ice

    Six kids ?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    At his next job, lets hope he remembers that the eggs and bread should always go on top of the other groceries in the bag.

  • HelloToni

    I wonder if he actually quit his city job?????

  • HelloToni

    5 children...geez that's a lot of child support.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy??

    For some , yeah.

    Let's look at the big picture here. Jill married a broke divorced city employee with 6 kids.

    She didn't need 6 months more or less 6 minutes to figure out he ain't shit. He has no money and one kid to many. She didn't lower her standards to marry Kendu lite, she threw them completely away.

  • Jahnée Gill Mr.Eddie Murphy??

    Jill need to love herself. She's an attractive talented woman, there's was no need for her to marry that ugly old man.

    She doesn't look her age , and could easily date a guy that's younger. I heard she has a nasty attitude and babies loser men. That would explain he relationships with men. If that is the case she needs to get her self-esteem in check and stop uplifting losers.

  • MILLION DOLLARS

    Jill is a handful, and I'm sure he needs at least a million for pain and suffering with her. She is a ARIES and they are harded and stupid.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Well, he is upset now because she is doing a Jennifer Hudson. Saying he does not work & he is a bum. When both women are lying. So, he is suing
    ( I believe) out of spite.

  • Yup, I said it

    Your kind because I would advise him that he better get out there and walk that stroll because bag boy ain't gonna feed 5 kids.

  • ViolettaBliss

    Yeah he loves her so much that he needs a 500K pay out ? SMH

  • Crazy tee

    I’m sorry but the six kids would have been a red enough flag for me...there’s nothing else to discuss from that point

  • SG

    Ive heard something similar. Matter of fact I know a guy who was an up and coming artist that spent some time in the studio with her. He said she was a piece of work that was trying to get at him. Mind you the guy is talented and attractive but he bounces from couch to couch and dogs chicks.

  • SG

    ???

  • SG

    Lol

  • Quitedeliteful

    It is pretty cheap. I'm surprised that's all he's asking for...

  • Omandesert

    These sisters are gonna learn one day. SMH

  • NicoleZee

    And you wrote all of that nonsense not realizing that any kind of legal document can be challenged in court. I just learned from a lawyer that you can in fact challenge a prenup. He may not win, but he can try. More than likely Jill will end up paying him some amount of money. He may not get all of what he is asking for, but he will probably get something.

  • Mister Fantastic

    Before they married, I bet he went to the convenience store and loaded up on those "Red Rhino Energy" pills and said I am going to give it my best shot!

    OAN, she is a super a-hole. He should be paid, dealing with that beast. #facts

  • NicoleZee

    Not even. I know attractive bums that do the same thing. And if they are really good looking and much younger, then more than likely they are escorts and they screw women and men.

  • Mister Fantastic

    This is true. This is not like Mary J. Blige. Jill is Heat Meiser in real life...

  • Karen Brady

    I. JUST. FELL. OUUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT.

  • Karen Brady

    Guurllll!!!! Sounds like my fool. Didn't miss a beat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Damn shame.. all he was good for in the end.

  • tintin

    He is wasting money hiring a lawyer to contest a prenup he signed 2 years ago. That was just the other day . He gonna be in debt when he cant pay them and these lawyers are pricks for making him think he has a case

    They get use to the high life and dont know how to go back. He better learn again

  • ?Royalty?

    I keep hearing that she's a nasty piece of work!
    I wish somebody would pour that tea so her fans could find out the real deal.

  • Dee
  • NicoleZee

    Child support is for the child and is required by law once a petition is made to get it. Since most men are deadbeat fathers, they should pay up. If a mother is taking care of her child and the child has everything they need, then her employment situation is no one's concern unless it is negatively impacting the child in some way such as homelessness, lack of food and other resources, etc. Spend a day in child support court and you will see that most men are POS deadbeats. While the judge is ordering child support, he needs to order these sickos to get vasectomies!

  • Purple Errthang

    They are not learning soon enough,sadly..

  • justlooking

    The child lives with father 80 percent of time. All childs needs are take care of. Mother is a deadbeat. Sounds like dad needs a good atttorney. Cause the the incubator is a liar and con.

  • NicoleZee

    Most dick isn't even good or mediocre dick. Most of these bums can't even last 10 minutes when they're trying to give you the dick! But regardless of a man's situation, he can always find a woman with low self-esteem that would take him in. Broke and homeless men stay winning. Most women have low self-esteem, so once they let a guy manipulate them, then she'll give him a place to stay, food, clothes, money, and she'll get free diseased limp dick on the regular. Sad.

  • NicoleZee

    She has a nasty attitude, so this is probably her karma. And if it's true that she mistreated him and put him down, she's even more dumb because she knew what she was getting into so why cry wolf now??!! A lot of obese people have nasty attitudes, but if they want to lose weight, why not do that instead of taking out their anger on others??? I'm guessing she settled for him because no one else wants her. When you have a nasty attitude, eventually you will end up by yourself or alone in the old folks home where no one comes to visit you. Sad.

  • Lady_Elle

    Jilly will be paying some $$$ it is all about how much!
    She needs to change her rules... they are STUPID!
    6 Months? Anybody can kiss azz for 6 months...
    You don't know the person because that is not enough time!

  • Li

    Did she get a pre-nup, a really TIGHT pre-nup? One of those Donald Trump pre-nups?
    I don't know about some of these black singers and their labor class husbands. Ladies, do like the Williams sisters -- FIND A RICH WHITE MAN.

  • Li

    Ok, glad you mentioned that he signed a pre-nup.

  • Yup, I said it

    He's looking at Jill like she's his mama and supposed to pay his punk a$$.

  • K to the E to the A

    same here. What is the tea? All I hear is 'she has a nasty attitude'. Well what happened to make her have a nasty attitude?

  • NicoleZee

    Wow! Then the father should have full custody it seems. That is odd and rare, most men do not want custody of their kids, too much responsibility. Well, in that particular case, the father shouldn't have to pay child support if he gets or has custody. The mother might be required to pay. They have programs through the court that help the non-custodial parent find a job or a better job so that they can keep up with their child support.

  • Malcom Flex

    TYPICAL low self esteem obese single mother who GOT PLAYED BY A SCRUB. CHOOSE BETTER, sisters.

  • TheOwley

    He will demand Jill pay for attorneys fees. Unfortunately when it comes to prenup, both parties need to bring their own attorney to the table. If not, this will happen. Jill and Mary J are giving everyone a clinic in how not to get married.

  • TheOwley

    Ever heard of MGTOW. It's time for WGTOW. If I were significantly wealthy, I would never ever get married.
    "Any man who wants her hand in marriage has to pass her 6 month test." That's her problem right there. Try 24 months Jill.

  • nick c

    Never happen unless they are very old most women enjoy companionship and get many suitors throughout they whole life than people playing video games all day.

  • TheOwley

    I said stay single, not sexless or without companionship. Many people have formulated longterm relationships that way. Marriage for whatever reason ruins things. BTW, staying single and playing video games all day or reading gossip sites, or volunteering somewhere or whatever makes you accountable to you and only you.

  • http://ebonynsweet.com Ebony N’ Sweet

    Mary J Blige and J. Scott hit the jackpot with these fellas lol... They need to stop dating weak feminine men

  • IONO1

    man.... me and that dude worked at MCI worldcom together....he use to be an A&R for ichiban and Sony .......and then it all went down hill...Jill was just a come up.

  • Not true

    “A lot of obese people have nasty attitudes.” That made me laugh so hard but that’s not true!

  • Disgustd

    I can one up that..how bout the Oprah 20+ year test. She still got Stedman hanging on, waiting to see if she folds. lol..

  • Disgustd

    If she does have a nasty attitude, I'm sure it's not related to her weight. She could easily hire a trainer & personal chef and get that weight off if she really wanted to. I believe she is comfortable in her skin and I've heard plenty of brothas salivating over her--even as obese as you claim she is--different strokes for different strokes. But I do want to know why people keep saying she's nasty b/c I'm a fan. I'm also reminded of what Oprah said years ago: Fame doesn't change you, it magnifies who you really are. So if Jilly is a b***** now, then she probably was always one.

  • Disgustd

    Can you elaborate? Is she a perfectionist with people she works with? Like artistic people can be like that or is she just nasty to everybody around her b/c she thinks she's better? Y'all spillin some tea but not the whole deal.

  • Disgustd

    Yup, all you have to do is listen to her music and tell if you put it on her good enough, she'll write a song about you. She even admitted a few years back in an interview I saw of her that she's either singing about sex or food. lol..

  • suganspice68

    He needed her money to support his 100 kids, Jill should had never married that bum.

  • suganspice68

    Amen

  • suganspice68

    Lol

  • Bossy704

    I don't like Jill Scott she seems uber annoying and basic. I believe this man suffered and did not enter into this with short-term intentions. Was she a come up? Yeah but he got way more than anticipated and she and her female relatives are crazy and mean. Give him his money. She got it.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    "A lot of obese people have nasty attitudes, but if they want to lose weight, why not do that instead of taking out their anger on others???"

    REALLY?! What does her size have to do with anything? I larger than I should be and don't have a bad attitude and yes, I workout 3-5 days/week.

    But IF she has a bad attitude, what is it she has done? I hear people say that that I can only assume haven't worked with her anymore than I have. Just curious where that is coming from. I'm sure she is a handful to deal with admittedly though

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    ...and to it RECENTLY DIVORCED.

    /end of conversation

    lol

  • justlooking

    they share and because he makes more then her. he is penalize him.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    yeupp. I have a friend who is dating(supporting) a dude in another city. Twice told her he was coming down and she sent him money to do so.. aint seen him since they first hooked up..smh

  • Renee26

    I HOLLERED!!

  • Renee26

    LMAO...she reminds you of a woman beater

    I haven't heard much about her personality...I know she's hood though cause she said she was ready to take her shoes off and get some Vaseline to fight over a man.

    I'm not here for any man that goes after a woman for some money...to me that is not a manly trait. I also think women shouldn't date down....because an insecure man is the worst to be with. I've learned that a man instinctively wants to be the provider/ head of household so if a woman makes more than him, he often holds some sort of animosity about it subconsciously or openly. It's a pride thing

  • Renee26

    On everything!! LMAO

  • Renee26

    LOL

  • Ajavee

    LOL

  • V Dubb

    ???

  • Yea Yea

    This should apply to females as well.
    We are so quick to down a man for doing this but don't even bat an eye when a female does it. If it's wrong for a male to ask for money after a divorce then females shouldn't be given a pass either. Or is this just another one of those female hypocrisies that we excuse. Also at this point it's not the men, Jill it's you! Same goes for Halle Berry as well. People need to stop rushing down the aisle just to prove points or satisfy family expectations. It never ends well.

  • Ro

    These men are trifling and pathetic LOL!

  • datATLboi

    You idiot...you can't stick up JILL

  • ??LordHell2TheNaw??

    That's what she gets for being desperate....

  • TheOwley

    As long as Oprah has not held back on his career, marriage desires, wanting children, and it works for both, it's how some wealthy folks can avoid the drama.

  • NicoleZee

    Please tell me you're lying??? WTF??? Why would your friend send money to someone she barely sees and who obviously used her for sex??? Why give a man money in the first place??? Your friend will learn the hard way because I did. She needs to close her legs and wallet to bums and work on her self-esteem. Very sad. I hope she learns before she ends up broke and destitute because she was taking care of some bum. These men today are horrific, they find vulnerable women and just use them up and the women allow it. God help us all please!

  • TL

    he's a user!! always name dropping and fronting......Bobby Brown this and Craig Mack that. Jill was his lottery ticket.

  • Dora LaBelle

    Tina Turner is another one. She waited until her sexiness was done and she was an old woman. She like...marry me now, if you really love me.

  • NicoleZee

    No diss to anyone, but I have met several obese, disabled, and handicapped people, for example, with bad attitudes and I was NOT being rude or nasty to them. I see it all the time. I mentioned her weight because I was wondering if her attitude was due to her being larger and maybe being unable to lose weight. Even with exercise, every person is not able to be a size 3. You have to factor in genetics, metabolism, and other factors. From what I hear from others, Jill has always had a nasty attitude so maybe she was born that way or something bad happened to her to make her that way. I don't know, but I do feel as though certain circumstances can impact somene's attitude.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Bet these women start getting prenups because he didn't contribute to none of her hits from the 90s til now.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    She has esteem issues. She is very heavy (over 300) and feels this is her best option the fact that any man is giving her attention. I told here this is a new day and curvy girls are winning and she is beautiful. This dude will call her for a couple days face time(sextime with her) and then ask for money for something she send it smh

  • Daryl Campbell

    Sad. Our female R&B singers are taking some major L’s in divorce courts.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    I hear you... I've always wondered about her attitude because I hear about it so much. I love her music and never miss her concert. As for the genetics, I deal with that challenge and it is a STRUGGLE!!!

  • NicoleZee

    Wow, I hope she finds a way to care about her health and lose weight before it kills her or she ends up in the hospital. I've heard a lot of men say that they only date big women to use them because they surely wouldn't be proud of being seen with an obese lady. I just find it sad all around how men use women but these women need to wake up and realize that. Most of these bums find vulnerable women to take advantage of, like obese women, single moms, disabled or handicap women, women on public assistance, etc. Anyone can be used though, especially if they have low self-esteem and are easy to manipulate. Sad.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    You are so correct and its sad.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Jill Scott(Whom I met at an award show) was cordial to me. So I will not speak negative of her private life.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Jill Scott(Whom I met at an award show) was cordial to me. So I will not speak negative of her private life.

  • kekeb

    Idk the whole story, but he looks like a mortician.

  • kekeb

    Everytime I see you, I just can't believe you are a grandmother!!! You legit look like you're in your 20s!!!

  • kekeb

    Dang both of y'all know him? Small world

  • kekeb

    No!! Tina still bad (for her age)

  • kekeb

    Damn!!! Y r u so harsh?

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Aww you're too kind, thank you ,?

  • Dora LaBelle

    Nope! Tina is 78 years old. She is married to a younger man and was one of THE baddest for decades. Hubby obviously loves her because he could have gone younger before marrying her.

  • Luci Lu

    This is what happens when you marry useless, underemployed dick with six kids. Bwaaahaha!