Future and Ciara

Ciara Wilson wants a judge to force her baby daddy, Future Hendrix, to be a more responsible father to their 3-year-old son.

The 32-year-old homemaker and mother of 2 filed new court documents to haul her ex-fiance into court for missing too many visits with his son, Future Zahir Wilburn.

In the new court documents obtained by TMZ, Ciara accuses the 34-year-old rapper of being an absentee father who missed 37 percent of visits with his son.

The documents state that when Future agrees to see his son - it's at the last minute - which conflicts with her schedule. The former singer is a busy homemaker with 2 children and a husband to look after.

Ciara also said when little Zahir goes to Georgia to visit his dad, he spends most of his time with Future's female family members - not his dad.

She also says Zahir has health issues that are aggravated by all the cross-country traveling. Little Zahir is rumored to have asthma.

The doting mother is asking the court to cut down on Zahir's travel schedule for health reasons and because the boy is acting out at school.

Ciara wants to go to mediation with Future to discuss a lighter travel schedule that can all agree on.

It sounds like she hasn't gotten Future out of her system.

Ciara is married to NFL quarterback Russell Wilson. The couple has a daughter, Sienna Princess Wilson

  • Rudy

    maybe not everyone is cut out to be a baby momma.

  • ?Sugar&Spice?

    idk...i think as long as he's safe, she has no business worrying about whether dad is too busy working to miss 37% of the visit or not. he's with his grandma.
    let's just stop coming up with reasons to be featured in the news. it's already annoying. you already knew who you were giving your vagina raw and that he'd left his other babymamas and so their kids hardly see their dad. deal with it!

  • Jethro

    It sounds like she hasn’t gotten Future out of her system.

    What it sounds like is she wants her son to grow up having a healthy relationship with his father.

  • HalleMerry

    NO WOMAN! NO Pu$$,NO BABY,can make a man be a man!!!! And Sorry C,but he was a Nothing a$$ N,when you got with him! You aren't special! The way that ANY man treats his X,wife,mother,heck Waitress- Is the EXACT way that he will treat you!!!!!! Pay attention

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    She thought she could change him and she couldn’t

  • ?Sugar&Spice?

    mhm another one who thinks her vagina is special.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    No she is saying that the scheduled visits for him to pick the child up he missed 37% of when he was the one complaining about not seeing his son and wanting MORE time they came to and agreement and now his monkey ass ain’t showing up! And when he do finally show up he dropping the child off with his mom and grandmother

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Yup at least she got a good husband now

  • ?Sugar&Spice?

    the way it was presented on tmz is that she's flying the kid out, and she's finding out that most of the time, it's the grandma that the kid is with, and she's adding on that the traveling is affecting the baby. they said nothing about future not showing up to do a pickup.

    i wonder which story is correct.

    actually, no i dont wonder. eff ci-error!

  • HalleMerry

    Not sure why anyone thinks that they are special.A DOG LOVES a new bone!!!! Focus on your 'regular' dude that you have now.

  • Scromes1212

    That's what I got from it

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Ciara accuses the 34-year-old rapper of being an absentee father who missed 37 percent of visits with his son. This is the part I’m speaking of.... am I not reading that correctly?

  • Miss Thang

    that's nothing. I live with my brother. He's supposed to have visitation with my niece every other weekend. My niece spent the first night there since last year just this past weekend.

  • Kemi

    This is how we gonna usher in the weekend... ok Sandra

  • Rayne

    Girl you can’t force NO MAN to be with his child. Take that fine husband that you do have and chill with him and the kids. You knew what was up when you got with him. Ion wanna hear it.

  • Rayne

    But you can’t make him wanna see his son tho.

  • HalleMerry

    Magic Pu$$ myth gets em every time...

  • Kemi

    Future is not a responsible man period! He rather be at the strip club making it rain. It’s a shame his not there physically for his son, like he suppose to be. I hope Russell can fill the gap and be a great stepdad to the little boy.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    ?? right

  • Diva_woman

    I honestly thinks she wants nothing but to do with future and is documenting to set it up for Russell to adopt her son. I think she’s sick of the travel and rather just live with her new family

  • Joy King

    I don't care what no one say, Ciara is still stuck on Future. Her bruised ego will not allow her to give that man deuces. I wouldn't try to force Future to do nothing. Her son will be fine. He has a Grandfather and Russell as positive male figures in his life. The problem is Ciara is still angry Future played her like he did his other baby mamas. Girl you won. At least on paper but mentally Ciara still trapped so she losing.

  • HalleMerry

    The sooner she realizes this,the better. But,I'm happy that she is doing what SHE can to fix the situation...even though we all know how this story ends.

  • RaginB

    Girl leave future ass where he at...as long as russel ain’t treatin zahir no differently,then I’d claim HIM as the dad ?????

  • Diva_woman

    I honestly think Ciara is sick of dealing with future and wants Russell to be able to adopt her son. Russell seems like the type that would want to adopt him and if she can set it up in court docs that future is absentee she can make a case for Russell to be not just custodial but legal parent.

  • Rayne

    True!

  • Diva_woman

    I disagree, if you read the docs she’s complaining not just about him missing days but too much travel on her son who has an illness. She’s giving a bunch of different excuses and wants a new custody agreement probably one that doesn’t include the son traveling so much.

  • Jethro

    True, but you don't know if it's affecting her son. In which case she's thinking of his well-being.

  • ?Sugar&Spice?

    oh i didnt read this. lol i'm going off of what i saw on tmz. im too tired to read beyond the headline.

  • n1kk1a

    It’s sad that 37% is still better than the 100% who never show up.

  • Joy King

    As long as the boy could talk and he isn't being physically or mentally abused, Future wouldn't even be able to get me on the phone. He would be speaking to the nanny and making all visitation arrangements with her. Ciara likes to keep this so called drama going on with Future because she still bitter and her ego is bruised, in my opinion.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Bingo!

  • morenYAHdelsur

    37% is an ?obscure äss number LOL.

    What’s not to believe about this story? He has boo koo kids, by boo koo different women. He’s only one man and a celebrity. I don’t doubt it.

  • HalleMerry

    Unfortunately,some of us learn this lesson too late..after the kids and stretch marks...

  • Ebony Starr

    Yes, she wants Future 100% out of her son's life!

  • Anunnaki

    Aint russ doing all the duties of a father, fck future, he from kirkwood what u expect, he pay u child supporrt let him go on, hell if lil future wanna see him, allow it when he can tell u momma i wanna see my dad. I wouldnt give a chyt in your situation, if he there, 8% of the time, he has a beautiful life with 2 loving parents.... C.C, go talk to a real sista, that dont have a 2 parent home, struggling, raising a son on their own, no support from baby daddy(I hate that term) aint sitting up worrying about the n!@@a, u know u shouldn't have pro created with him in the first place, what u thought your pu$$ was gold and u was special huh, the real huh, girl , ill let u slide a lil cause u was still to me a young bunny, , lol DIDNT THE REAL ROSES, TELL U DONT DO IT C.C

  • Neva RuthLess

    As women no matter your race you are taking a big risk when you have a child with a black man. You will most likely end up a single mother. Ciara is a damn fool named the little boy Future. Ciara is an idiot for even making eye contact with Future. Offset about to do Cardi B the same way.

  • i troll it like i see it

    Ummm I don't think she's trying to "force" him into their son's life, this look like a strategic move to try to force him out to be honest, and I don't blame her! It's got to be a hinderance, flying the kid back and forth just so Future can save face. He probably wouldn't even see the kid if his mother wasn't a celeb, he knows folks are paying attention. He will never give up his parental rights, it looks too bad publically.

  • FukkFolks2018

    sounds like she hasn’t gotten Future out of her system.
    ^^^^
    He in her system alright. He under her skin and a pain in her ass.

    She trying to co parent. He being a donkey. I feel her pain and I totally understand. My ex husband only 3 states away and HE the same way.

    #TeamCiara on this one

  • i troll it like i see it

    Thank you! Reading through the comments, a lot of folks think that woman is still hung up on her ex. Please! She is making this public because they probably want Russell to be his legal parent and this is part of the strategy to do so. And really why not? He seems to really love the kid.

  • i troll it like i see it

    They are idiots for giving that kid a stage name, I agree. lf that crap was her idea because she wanted symbolically "prove" her love, he should have shot it down. It's an idiotic name.

  • Vonn

    You beat me to it. Ciara is tired of his bull & his bulll is making the lives of all parties involved more difficult.

  • BloodBlood

    Exactly!!! Totally agree!!!

  • Queen B

    Damn shame lol

  • Michelle

    She could’ve had him back a thousand times by now. She’s the one who moved on remember? He is bouncing from woman to woman STILL. He’s the one talking about getting her back in a song. All his baby mamas allow him to hit and come and go and cheat and she didn’t. She actually left and didn’t come back. He thought she would be apart of his train and he was salty she wasn’t. That’s why he went on the breakfast club talking bout he feel sorry for Russel cause she using him for photo ops when they first started dating and said it wouldn’t last. Look like it lasted to me.

  • Queen B

    Ciara is still in love with Future idc what yall think that Russell shît is just a front. She doesn't authentical blush for Russell the way she did Future.....I'm a therapist I can read through ppl's disingenuous body language

    Hell, my bd live in Atlanta with no damn job and he saw our daughter 1x during spring break which was 3 weeks ago. I'll say Future is doing better than most dads 37% aint that bad. And who came up with that precentage lol and is that based on 1 year?? ?

  • Joy King

    So why entertain him? No court is going to dissolve Future's parental rights. Even felons and career criminals have rights to their children. Stop filing motions and dragging him to court. Like you said, he's never going to give up his parental rights so what's Ciara's point? She wants a reason to battle with Future and is using her son to appear like a concerned mother to the public. Russell probably sitting back like dang, I married her we have a daughter together yet my wife still stuck on that knucklehead.

  • Michelle

    I wouldn’t call them excuses. If he cancels at the last minute then that’s inconsiderate and inconvenience. If she goes to ATL during the times when it’s his turn to get him and he cancels than that’s a waisted trip. Or if he flies him to ATL just to sit with a baby sitter the whole time, he might as well be home. These men always wanna act like the baby mom is keeping the kids from them, but when they have all the op to see them they nowhere to be found but mom is supposed to keep dealing. No. If he wants to keep missing visitation than he can come to LA to see him. This was their problem before, he was always cancelling his visits

  • dontgetblocked

    This is where she's messing up. She's married and had another baby. Leave Future alone as long as he pays child support. The child has a father figure and she went out of her way to replace Future with Russell. Why is she complaining now?

  • Joy King

    Umm Ciara left Future because he wouldn't marry her. She had the baby with no ring. He was still out screwing other women while she was pregnant and after. Why would she stay, especially if Future wasn't willing to give her the dream wedding, to at least make it appear that she was more special than his other fortress of baby mamas.

  • ilvmkds

    Totally agree

  • ilvmkds

    That's what I say

  • BingBangBoom

    Family is family so what if he spends the time with his granny Auntie and sisters. She need to move her a** back to Riverdale, GA if she really cared about the child's needs.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Oh I understand..... but I think she trying to prove a point because he went on twitter around the time he was dropping an album and catching a lot of heat about not being with his son because folks always saw Russell with his son.. he took his flat face self on twitter saying he pays some ridiculous amount for child support and is not allowed to see his son he made a big deal out of it had folks dragging her calling her bitter and bashing her saying she trying to replace Future with Russell in her sons life her argument then was that HE does not show up for visits and then he would pull a last minute stunt and expect her to move mountains for him to see his son when he ain't been showing . So I think she filed this to FURTHER prove that he a dead beat and only show up when he want to take pictures with the little boy. After all that he shouldn’t be missing no visits!

  • i troll it like i see it

    I seriously doubt she is still stuck on Future, he's nothing compared to her husband, but maybe they are trying to exhaust him in court. I personally do not think he would give up parental rights (even if he's not a very hands on parent, has multiple out of wedlock children and baby mamas to appease, and stretched incredibly thin), do to public opinion and of course pride and ego, but it's worth a try.

  • klwbaby

    I don't have kids but if I decide to have kids with someone who already has kids, then I would pay attention to how he treats his baby momma. I know people can change but sometimes u have to look at past behavior and make your decision and I guess hope for the best?

  • MyaCompton

    Then as a therapist your suggesting her self esteem is lower then sewage?? Why on earth would she still be in love with a man who treated her like dog ??? When she has a man that’s very handomae mature strong and treats her like a queen??? I feel she still may hold resentment towards him but I don’t feel she would ever be In love with him again! They’re both Scorpios and usually when Scorpio is done it’s over!!

  • Kayke

    He doesn't pay child support because she doesnt ask for any. She just wants the bot to know his father.

  • Rayne

    But he doesn’t seem concerned with his son. I know what you’re saying tho.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Yup my mom should have done that. My dad had a side kid on his first wife and treated the two by his first wife fine but treated my sister the break baby horrible and still does till this day. Had she I wouldn’t be here which would have been fine bc I have some daddy issues

  • Elevated Soul

    Sounds to me that Ciara want to see Future more than she really cares if he sees their son or not....Ciara went out of her way to use Russell to make Future jealous by exploiting his relationship with Future and Ciara's son.

    Ciara is a very insecure gold-digger but she got played by Future,more than the others she got with...Ciara willingly slept with a dude who had 5 baby mommas, with her included and now she got the nerve to act so self righteous....

    You knew who and what he was.Ciara still want Future because she want that "thug-love". Russell is the type to read bible verses when he is hitting it.Ciara want that "nasty" that future gave her but Future has moved passed old girl. Ciara is in love with another man who is not her husband.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    I think she thought she was in love. But like most of us, it was a lesson!!!

  • ?Sugar&Spice?

    lmfao not his flat face self

  • AG

    (That’s that Iyanla Vanzant type of therapy.)

    I agree with you. You’re right, I think she may harbor resentment, but I doubt she wants him.

    He should get summer and some holidays, and just leave it at that. Unless he wants to be a full time parent.

  • TELL THE TRUTH

    He will treat u better bcus you seem to be responsible & making good choices, as far as child bearing is concern. u will be a gold mine to him-TRUST......My only suggestion 2 u, if i may, is find someone with no children and start life from there. Let him court u & marry u then start a family togeher. U don't want to get caught up in the baby daddy & baby momma drama web. Best 2 u...

  • TELL THE TRUTH

    Another baby momma problem and headache...only person that suffers is the kid.

  • klwbaby

    I'm glad u are here and I'm sure a lot of people feel the same.

  • klwbaby

    I really appreciate that. Thank u for the advice?

  • Diva_woman

    Exactly, if you read she gave like 3 different reasons why the custody agreement needs to be changed: 1. Future hasn't been showing up. 2. The child has a condition that makes flying difficult. 3. The child is with the grandparents and not even with the dad during the visits. All of that says to me she is tired of sending her kid on these visits and rather live her life with the new family she has with Russell. I don't understand how they're reading into this that she is still hung up on that man.

  • ………

    sounds like Russ is going to be adopting him if Future don't get his ish together. She's not stupid......... she's building for sole custody

  • MJ

    Right. If I’m her? I’m all about Russell, her husband, who is a grown man. When you’re a grown woman, this Future guy is super resistible and very not attractive as far as his spirit. Still playing little boy games. I’m trying to understand why folk find it so hard to believe that this could be (and probably is) genuinely about her son. Not understanding why everyone is so sure she is still hung up on Future?Her son is having issues with all the travel and I think she’s trying to build a case to reduce the frequency of visits since a) he’s missing out on nearly 40% of them, and b) the times this dude does have her son he is shipping them off to his mama and grandmama. Not cool. He needs to spend the majority of that time to be with his dad..not his dad Mama.

  • Diva_woman

    I don't see it that way at all. Future fought for custody and now isn't even holding up his end of the bargain. If you read the docs she's giving multiple reasons why the agreement needs to be changed. The ones that stood out to me were the distance the boy has to travel with his condition and the fact that he's with the grandparents half the time anyway. Those two reasons say to me she's frustrated with sending her son to travel so much and he isn't really getting anything out of it. I think she's trying to document that he's absentee to ultimately set it up for Russell to adopt. Nothing about this story reads bitter, I'm not sure how you're getting that from this.

  • Diva_woman

    When I say excuses I'm speaking more to the fact that she's listing reasons to change their custody arrangement. I'm reading between the lines because all those reasons add up to Ciara being tired of sending the baby out there and wanting the court to approve it.

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Yep

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Thanks!!!

  • Diva_woman

    Even if he doesn't give the rights up completely, she will receive more custodial rights if he isn't honoring what they agreed upon. She is showing in the docs the stress he's adding by canceling visits and not being present at the visits he does have. She also states she wants to change the agreement. I think she wants as little to do with him as possible. It's becoming a hassle to keep shipping her son off and he has a great life at home.

  • Queen B

    The same reason why some women experience that. When i was young i had this really nice established guy that was my friend and I knew he wanted me but i just wasn't that interested. He had several homes in the city 2 benzs and bought me whatever I wanted....he was the epitome of a real man. But stayed with the man that wasn't shît why? He was attractive, fvcked me good and his bro is a rapper (wont say his name) so i got to live that life some young women are attracted too. Word on the street in Atlanta is that Russell aint laying the pipe the way Future did/do ? That alone will keep a woman mesmerized. Ciara is a media whore which is why Future left her (lets b clear on that). It had nothing to do with him cheating and Ciara NEVER said that so where tf yall getting that from ? Bc of the media's opinion she will never get bk with Future bc its not a good look but trust she still loves him

  • i troll it like i see it

    I just saw the cutest clip on IG just now, Russell Wilson coaching little Future in little league, he seems to be a truly engaged and loving stepdad, good husband, solid guy so why in the HELL would Ciara still be hung up on a deadbeat POS like Future!
    This whole bad boy thug image is nothing compared to a good solid devoted man! NOTHING.

  • imright

    ??

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Ciara, you have no one to blame but yourself.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Lol you up here spilling tea.

  • KHJ2016

    How much time does the nanny spend with her son? She has to be careful because he can hit back that the boy spends more time with his nanny than mother. I agree with Queen B's assessment. :-) and I'm sure Future was *ucking her right. Thug loving. LOL! Don't be surprised if you hear in a few weeks that he is engaged to his gf (bow-wow's baby mama-do a search of her dancing and you'll see what i am talking about). Also 2 things stuck out: 1) The health problems and him flying back and forth. 2) The problems in school. She's pointing fingers, but has no problems flying him back and forth from LA and Washington. I wonder who watches him when she's in NY and everywhere else.

  • KHJ2016

    I always thought he left her because they didn't see eye to eye on being in the spotlight with the paps and whatnot. I remember she was going to do a reality show and she was hanging with Kim K. I think Russell is a media whore too and that him and Ciara's relationship is more of a business agreement which benefits them both.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I could never be a baby mama seems like a lot of work. Also I am the type to get you for every dime. We as women be going through so much as if we make babies on our own. Why can't Future just act right? Smdh

  • KHJ2016

    She'll never get sole custody and Russell cannot adopt Future without Future's consent. Even if she got sole custody, Russell still would need Future's consent to adopt.

  • KHJ2016

    Russell cannot adopt C's son without Future's consent regardless of who has custody.

  • KHJ2016

    Dang! You are on point!!!

  • KHJ2016

    How much time does Future spend with the nanny? We see pics of Future with Ciara, but he's with his nanny a lot. I wonder the % of that.

  • C Mack

    The child is here though. At this point, it’s pointless to blame Ciara. Future should be held accountable.

  • C Mack

    She could never replace her son’s father. Yeah she could settle for money, but it’s more commendable for her to want Future Zahir to know his dad.

  • KHJ2016

    This all probably stems from Ciara coming to grips that the boy is having issues at school. If he's having problems at school, then he's having problems at home. Looking from the outside in-during a crucial period in HIS life, his mom spent a lot of time with Russell traveling and whatever. Then he had to share his mom with Russell and all of this while his picture is being taken everywhere and Ciara pulling out the camera phone every few seconds to take pics and video.
    There is nothing wrong with dating, but I always felt she should have focused on raising her son and dealing with any custody/child support issues PRIOR to getting into a new relationship.
    Now the flip side to what she is doing: Future could say that the boy is acting out because he doesn't spend enough time with his dad. Future can than use that as a reason to maybe get Future for maybe the summer months, while Ciara has him during the school year.

  • KHJ2016

    He was ordered to pay child support.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Ciara, you laid up with him so you're guilty of bad judgement and airing your issues about your son on social media is a big no-no.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    No, Ciara had unprotected sex with a man who had multiple baby-mamas so she knew with what and whom she was dealing.

  • KHJ2016

    She's complaining because her son is having problems in school. Instead of dealing with her son's behavior problems, she rather blame it on the flying.

  • monique

    I'm sure while she dates Future she didn't see him visiting his other children that much. He's an artist and travels just like her husband travels to play football. If Future isn't involved as much just let it be, Rissell acts a father, so let be what will be.

  • starbright9449

    At least she wants him to be a part of the child's life. How many others keep the poor kids away from their father to be spiteful. Way to go CiCi!!!

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Cilantro is a bona fide fool. She knowingly laid down with a stray dog and now she's complaining about fleas?! Maybe if she kept her mouth shut, the world will forget how stupid she is.

  • king shun

    she bringing up the case so he can have less visitation not more

  • king shun

    get the man for every dime huh make sure the daddy stay broke..and keep the kids away from him..that why so many of these young boys growing up to be punks

  • starbright9449

    He can have more if he travelled to his son instead of travelling away from the boy's primary home. He's been missing visits prob cause of work.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I don't want kids too many women doing the job alone. Nah I'm good.

  • Cap

    This is a very ignorant comment. This isn’t about her this is about her son who’s tired and isn’t being completely tended to by his Dad. She is documenting probably so Russell can just adopt him and they never have to bother with Future and his slack anymore. She didn’t report this, these are a result of leaked court documents. I don’t know how you’ve managed to make this post about your negative feelings towards her. Focus on the topic

  • Fire & Ice

    Child women on here are really blaming Ciara, instead of holding this deadbeat accountable. Now if Ciara stops sending him for his visits, even though the dad is not around, people will say she's keeping him from his dad. This is traumatic for this little boy,that his father hardly shows up for visits. Mind you, this is the schedule that Future agreed to. Yes Ciara made bad judge by procreating with this guy, but at least she came to her senses.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Lmmfbao

  • Cap

    Such a shame. I read her first sentence and shook my head. Ciara is not her mistakes and she is happily married with a new family. This isn’t about her it’s about her kid. I can relate because I have a kid with my first love, who is now my ex and is a deadbeat. Some of the women on here talking that s*** at sleeping with men like Future but because they don’t have children by them, trash the baby mothers. Ciara was his fiancée and though she didn’t make it down the aisle I think she’s the only one of his baby mothers he went that far with. ‘I troll it like I see it’ even gave me advice once a lot of us women can relate with Ciara. Future is not a victim. Their child is

  • MJ

    I hear you? but I do believe she’s genuinely looking for answers to her son’s issues(seriously, what mom wouldn’t be if he’s having these problems) Idk how much time the boy spends with a nanny but I can only hope she’s considering all aspects of how he’s being raised. But I’ve been with the Future type, got burned (badly-spiritual and emotional healing still ongoing) had enough and tbh, this type of man turns my stomach so I can believe that she is SINCERELY over dude

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    What makes you think this? I think she just want Future to be a good dad.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Bloop. All of it!

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    This mess seems like a headache.

  • Cap

    She is probably documenting so 1. Russell can adopt or 2. Visitation can be reduced or maybe all the above. The people making it about her trying to still chase Future because, she’s still in ‘love’ with him need to give it a rest. She is little Futures Mom and she’s looking out for her tired child and I would do the same if I were her. Their son is the victim in all of this, let’s just all bear that in mind

  • Fire & Ice

    Cause in the balck community, folks swear thug d*ck and getting f*ucked good is life. These folks for the love of God, can't grasp a woman moving past that sh*t and wanting more for her life. If Ciara was so mesmerized by the d*ck, she would have never moved on. She would still be here playing Future's, silly ass games, like his other baby Mama's.

  • KHJ2016

    I don't think she ever got closure from the breakup with Future.The only reason I don't think she is getting help is because she's blaming his behavior on the airplane rides.
    If she wanted to modify the custody agreement, she could have done so without coming up with all these reasons why. It was like she was throwing stuff against the wall hoping something would stick. I don't think her and Future communicate at all. I just read though that Future might be back with Brittni as of 2 weeks ago. Maybe this has something to do with all the darts she threw.

  • Allihave2say

    Right. Right! Right!!

  • Cap

    You’re missing the point clearly so let me spell it out for you. Ciara is doing this to document it so it gives her a reason to have their son more and get Future out of the picture even if it means decreasing his visitation time. It’s not about him and their past relationship it’s about her son flying 5 hours every so often to a father who sometimes doesn’t show up. Think about the boy for goodness sake, it’s also a lot for him. If Futures time becomes less or Russell adopts him, they don’t have to deal with Future or his slack anymore, period. And I don’t think Russell looks at it the way you do. He’s a Dad now so he gets it even more than I’m sure he did before.

  • Allihave2say

    1. Where have you been because I haven't seen you?
    2. This is not an appropriate comment for the situation. People get with people and we learn and experience relationships. Quite a few of us dated duds and didn't know they were so until after we dated them. We were lucky enough not have their children.
    3. Future is the father who bragged online about how much he does for Zahir and his other children and we all know he lies. Future is a classic narcissist.

  • Cap

    Ciara left him because of his infidelities. Are you actually ok because you seem to be making a lot of shit up....

  • Allihave2say

    Well Russell is doing an excellent job as Zahir's father for Failure. The child and the grandmothers who are keeping him know that Future is not present and accountable with his son. When he is with his son he has him at steak houses, rolling in a filthy stack of money and other social denigrating behaviors. He needs to sign over his rights and let Russell adopt Zahir, so he can have stability. Future only sees Zahir via SM anyway.

  • Cap

    True, but I’m sure she learnt her lesson which is why she did it the right way next time which was celibacy while dating, engagement, marriage then another baby. So clearly she learnt something. Ciara just made a mistake a lot of young women make which is thinking she’s the one and she could change a man. Cardi B is in the same boat and yet no one is saying anything about her when Offset was out here sharing penis and they’re so happy she’s baby momma number 4 or 5 now and she’s engaged to him too

  • SugarLuxe

    But this is the man that you choose to replicate with??? He had several children with several women prior to her. What made Ciara think he was going to be any different with her child? This makes Ciara look dumb, not him. He showed you who he was and she didn't listen.

  • Fire & Ice

    Bingo! She made a mistake, but at least she pulled herself out of that mess. A lot of women would have stayed and put up with his nonsense, for the sake of their child. She said hell no and bounced. Only black folks swear everything is about being dickmatized. Child please, that married woman ain't worrying about him and his d*ck. She wants him to man up!

  • FukkFolks2018

    All of this too

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    True, he should, however you must be selective with whom you decide to procreate with.

  • FukkFolks2018

    GIRL. Yall giving me life while I watch Cavs get stomped.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Well a lot of folks are dragging Cardi too But its the same thing. We have all had a dud. Yes you DO learn after a really bad situation. She had one. She had a few actually. Its life.

  • CaramelDrop

    Sadly CMack fathers can be replaced. Please don’t think otherwise. If the mother is a good woman, she will/can have a good man. If he is a good man he will step up to the plate and be EVERYTHING the woman and child need.
    Don’t get me wrong, it is a horrible think for a woman to deny a man his child but if he won’t take care of his business - somebody else will.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Im sorry. Dads get replaced often. And is it a replacement if the dad is trying to remove his DAMN SELF? Help me understand this. He is running from responsibility. He is removing himself.

  • MJ

    Truth!

  • Proverbs 3:5

    Is Her music career that over that they posting this stuff?

  • CaramelDrop

    Queen your comment says a lot. It’s like some women fell that because they “deal” with their bs BD being subpar that every other woman in the same situation has to put up with the same ish. Just doesn’t work that way. This is how BS BD should be handled. Niggahz don’t get a pass from their responsibility because of their history or occupation. Make a baby - take care of it, step up to the plate or Deal With The Courts.

  • Joy King

    Thank you but they don't want to see the truth. I guess the excuses they are making for Ciara's behavior is the same foolishness she's telling Russell. He's slow but not dumb. In the back of his head, he don't believe her lies and fairytales. I'll say these last few things then I'm done with this topic.
    1) Any half decent attorney has already told Ciara, Russell will never be able to adopt the little boy. So people please stop staying Ciara is trying to build a case.
    2)You all saying Ciara is trying to have Future's visitation shortened. Seems to me Future is doing that on his own. If she leave him alone, he'll probably completely disappear. If that's what she really wants so bad. The Judge won't care. They have so many cases on the docket in Family Court they ain't thinking about Ciara or Future.

  • FukkFolks2018

    All of this as WELL

  • CaramelDrop

    These comments speak volumes as to how low the bar is set when it comes to fathers responsibilities - it’s really sad these trash males have conditioned women this way.

  • FukkFolks2018

    To THINK and feel that this is OKAY! It doesnt matter what she is or isnt doing. How she feels about him romantically or not. This is NOT okay. None of that matters one iota. Just this child. He deserves the best from both dads REALLY

  • KHJ2016

    Yup.

  • Diva_woman

    Every man isn’t good or a good parent. DNA don’t make a person anymore needed in your life than anyone else. Add that to the fact that the boy has a role model in the home every day, his druggie dad won’t be missed.

  • Scromes1212

    A father can not be replaced smh just like a mother can't be replaced. Someone can take on that role but that doesn't make them a replacement.

  • Diva_woman

    The way the court system works it’s best to have everything documented. Future could miss 100% of his appointments but if Ciara decides not to send him one time he could take her to court or call the cops on her. She is doing things the right way by showing the judge why she shouldn’t have to send her son there as often and why it’s the fathers fault. Future won’t just go away, you saw how he did her in the media, how he dragged her to court to ask for time. Any decent lawyer would tell her to take him to task for what he’s doing.

  • Tlowe89

    Call me crazy but she sounds reasonable. She not asking to cut visitation entirely but reduce it. Why reward crummy parenting. I told a friend of mines to do the same, cut down on visitation, because some of the dead beats use it as power, and when you start restricting that visitation with the child your taking away some of their power so they can value the child and realize they want more time with them and work to get that time back. He just think he can just pop in when he wants just to “say” he “cares” for his child when he really don’t. The boy is probably acting out due to daddy frustrations

  • Tlowe89

    Exactly and I feel like I also need to see how often you see your child or if your child is in your custody full time. If you barely see your child, then no sir, nobody’s getting knocked up by you. I ain’t got time for the single mom struggle with dead beat daddy

  • king shun

    i get molester vibes frm russell what kind of man want to be all up under somebody else male child like that if Russell was white yall would call him a molester for doing that

  • Tlowe89

    You are so right. Crappy baby daddy’s who leach off womenlove responsible childless woman. I had a crappy ex who begged me constantly to get pregnant because I would be a “good” mother. I would always ask why he say that. His response... because you take care of your business and are responsible. It’s a trap, because they want to lock you down so they always have a fall back

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Poor Kid. I wish these fathers would stop with the pop up photo op parenting. Hey, Future got like 50-11 kids so it's impossible to give them the proper quality of life. If the mom/female family live in the home with Future, then that's a tough call. But if lil man is literally at a home Future never sleeps in, not good.

    Kelis pretty much has gone on record to say a lot of the same about hood folk's God, Nas.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Right. Aint a woman alive who aint come with instructions and a plan. If he thinks she calculated 37% outta nowhere, he's mistaken. Future, Ciara has access to NFL money and legal advice now.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Heffa did you say Failure? Uh uh, you're not gone just come in here and change his gov'ment.

  • CaramelDrop

    Yes they can. We are just going to have to agree to disagree here. My eldest two father has been replaced by my husband - period. Not because I said so but because THEY ASKED HIM WOULD HE BE THERE FATHER. They know their dad. My father has always been there for them as well as my brother. We haven’t looked back and their biological is totally fine with another man taking care of his kids the way he SHOULD - because he can’t dip in and out of their life and my bed.
    We don’t have to put up with this shit.
    Act right or get the phuck on because somebody else will.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Suppose that's true. How many women think they can actualy change a man or that he won't do it to them? Ciara will never forget how foolish he made her look when he chose to go do a show while she delivered their son alone. She smiled through it in photos, but I bet she cried many nights.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Nah, if I didn't know my nephew's dad does this 100% of the time, I'd probably side with you. At first, the kids ignore it. I did too until the second summer we went to visit my father and yet again, he (also) took us to his mom's house, dropped us off, and went about his life. Yeah it's family, but I wanted to be with my dad.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Russell's probably telling her, as a man, to not cut him off. Continue to give him options and work with him, but document everything. Like another poster said, she's setting this up to ultimately get full custody and Future gets visitation a few times a year. Papa Russ probably can't wait to adopt lil man. Future's not a dad. He just buys you stuff, rough house with you, drop you off to his mama and will take you to your first titty bar at 10.

    So cheer up Zahir. It's not all bad. You're wheezing now but will be cheezin' at the titty bar at age 10.

  • CaramelDrop

    Yep. Russell stepped up to the plate. Instead of Future taking the “We All Be Great parents attitude” he wants to half ass this baby like the other kids have to put up with. Even if he can’t make it personally to pick up lil Future, he should have enough money to get the child to him and have staff/family to provide care the hours he is working. Being a celeb is not an excuse - he is a parent 1st. Ciara has a whole family unit over there. The Wilsons money is long enough to handle this half beat dad’ with the law, as she should.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I barely know who Cardi is and it's not an either or she and Ciara are adding to the dysfunction of the black community by participating in turbo breeding.

    As for Ciara she could have learned that she could not have changed Future without involving an innocent human being.

    I don't understand what you mean any way. Obviously his having children with his other babies' mamas didn't change him why should having a child with Ciara do it?

    Regardless of my opinion both she and Ciara will have to reap what they have sown.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Do women have to get knocked up to realize their boyfriends are duds?

    I don't understand.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Know one thinks about the child.

    Never

  • Fire & Ice

    Yes, the bar has been set extremely low. When you have a community that seems to be obsessed, with "trapping, thuggin, hustling and street life, this is the end result. Thank goodness Ciara met RW after Future. If she had met him first, I don't think she would have appreciated him.

  • CookieMobster

    If my child's dad did not want to spend time with him and did not show up to his visits ect. I would NOT be pushing to courts to make him see my child. It is a shame that he doesn't want to spend time with that quality baby but you forcing him to spend time will not turn out to be a good experience for baby fruture. He is lible to mistreat him.

  • Mrs. King

    Molester vibes, u can't be serious. I guess all stepdad's who love their stepson's r child molesters. Ur comment is ludicrous.

  • Khaliah

    What gets me with Ciara is she was reported as being so smart and so over the top intellectually. Maybe she got book smarts but no people smarts cuz she should have never chosen Future to procreate with. If he don't see his other 100 kids, why would he see hers? Jr is just another brag--his 101st child. Those two are like Whitney and Bobby:
    mismatched and never the two should've met. Whitney would still be here today if she had passed Bobby up like a green light.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Well she is hollering about that too. That when he IS with him...he ends up cast off to his granny or great granny bc Future is supposedly working. Now that I kinda get that too. My dad made SURE I knew his side of the family. So why she has an issue with that IDK. All the other stuff I readily get and accept and totally agree on her with.

  • Scromes1212

    Agree to disagree. Glad it worked out for you

  • king shun

    i see alot of step dads wanting the step son the F up out the house and plenty more stepdads getting arrested for screwing their step daughters

  • C Mack

    Just like he knows how important he is to his son’s development. Ppl are coming for Ci as if Future has no obligation to his son.

  • C Mack

    What I meant with my comment was that I don’t think Ciara is intentionally trying to replace Future with Russell. Russell is def a better role model, but the original comment I replied to made it seem like Ciara was trying to erase Future from her son’s life and sub Russell in his spot

  • XoXo

    Unbelievable! They keep going back & forth playing putty pat like two sick love BIRDS (pigeons to be exact). I think they’re still in love with each other, and have not truly let go. Like soulmates. lol

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Women chose who the father of their children are.

  • Smith Jane

    Lmfao

  • GrapeCrush

    You need help

  • Smith Jane

    Cause it’s Ciara’s fault that she’s in this predicament. She knew what future was about, saw the harem of whores, and decided to become a part of it by breeding and baring his seed. I have not one ounce of sympathy for birds like her.

  • Smith Jane

    She became a fiancé after she got knocked up, to save face. So please stop acting like her getting knocked up wasn’t a factor into “why” she became a fiancé. Having a child with a deadbeat man - who showed her what he was about and the type of parent he was to the other 4 kids he had - is a scar that every woman carries for life. She didn’t just screw up her own life - she screwed up her sons life as well. Hence the emotional and mental instability that he’s exhibiting at home and in school. All that dysfunction manifests in adolescence into adulthood. There’s a reason why every negative statistic is related to single motherhood and broken homes. It’s not just a mistake - nor is it a quick fix by throwing another man/family into the mix. Ciara fawked her kid up for life and the blame lies solely on her. Black women do better. Period.

  • Smith Jane

    Yep.

  • Smith Jane

    Y’all can applaud RW for stepping to the plate, but absolve Ciara of regurgitating the cycle of babymamahood? How is it that black women, regardless of socioeconomic standing, can’t seem to escape the babymamahood stat of over 80%? Why do we applaud the next sucker - err - man that picks up the slack? And bash the man that chose to leave? Yet, Ciara (or 80% of black women) is the common denominator in all of this, yet is never held accountable. She’s rewarded lol for finding another a sucker to play daddy. This is why black people will remain at the bottom of the socioeconomic ladder. We can not control our population and continue to breed without thought, logic, or common sense. Immigrants who eat dirt in 3rd world countries have a better grasp on community and family. Smdh

  • Smith Jane

    Ciara is a Scorpio, and if you know anything about scorpios, then you know they are petty, vindicative, and manipulative. Ciara is not over all of the mudslinging Future did. Calling her music career nonexistent lol, saying she wasn’t a good mom, and then the other stuff he posted online. Besides, she has the time - since her “modeling” career has dried up - to calculate the exact percentage lol he hasn’t spent with their son. Whereas Future is too busy making money and being booked for music gigs. And Ciara is somewhere flicking selfies or some shit lol

  • Smith Jane

    Exactly lol

  • Smith Jane

    A lesson that 80% of black women cant seem to learn smdh.

  • Luv Pitties

    I wish I could upvote this 1000 times

  • countrygal

    I get your point too but I think she has to do it this way so she won’t be in contempt of the court order. If she just says f it and doesn’t make arrangements for him to fly out, Future could have her drug back to custody court

  • countrygal

    Hit it on the head with this

  • Rico768

    Sounds wrong to do that to a guy .

  • Smith Jane

    Lol @ turbo breeding

  • Smith Jane

    Yep, because black women are dysfunctional, immature, and simple minded. They would rather shift blame or avoid responsibility for the constant dysfunction in our communities. Bastard breeding is a way of life for most of them.

  • Sid

    By the comments it looks like some futures baby mommas is up in this comment section stirring that pot lol

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Sorry but I don't buy Cierror ... I don't ....

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I wouldn't ... I would bounce .... And have... I wouldn't put my kid through this.. Or myself.. .. I would let karma handle it.... And in my situation it has.... I don't have time for headache court ... It stressful on me and My child... I don't buy Cierra shyt .... But it going to be a trip... When folks find out her mess ... And it's coming... This one is a trip more than future but she portrays the saintly demeanor .. but yet smashed him... The perfect looking family ... These are the ones ya gotta watch... At least future ain't shyt ways out there... It's the ones that play the saints I got my eye on.... Simply because they ain't shyt ...

  • Coco

    Black women are “breeding” those bastards on their own without the help of black men. Right?

  • Coco

    Men also chose the mother of their children.

    He’s just as responsible for the kid, he’s not a victim.

  • Coco

    Then a guy should want to spend time with kid.

  • Overpower Radio

    She didn't want him around at first, now she's counting the visits he doesn't make?

  • C Mack

    And men father children

  • Logan Roberts

    A lot of smart women have fallen for the wrong guy, it happens to the best of us. You can't win em all.

  • Logan Roberts

    Exactly. They make it seem like every mate they've had has turned out to be Prince Charming ?

  • Logan Roberts

    And men chose who the mother of their kids are ?

  • XoXo

    It sounds like she’s talking out of both sides of her mouth. On one side she’s saying he doesn’t see him enough. And on the other side she’s saying she wants to cut down his visitation schedule.

  • Logan Roberts

    Takes one to know one....

  • Logan Roberts

    He might treat her better, there's no guarantee. Men change like the wind.

  • TELL THE TRUTH

    Nobody....what a sad situation.

  • TELL THE TRUTH

    Just like anybody or anything in life...believe it or not, there r still smart black, responsible, family oriented men around. They are traditionalist men that uphold and respect the family unit. I congratulate "Klwbaby" for being a SMART & RESPONSIBLE Black woman. Shes not out here having babies with xyz...kudos to her.

  • TELL THE TRUTH

    Those men are parasites and i congratulate u for not falling into his trap. Kepp being smart and responsible. Best to u...

  • KISSmyENTIREass

    That's an odd percentage number? she could've said %25 hell even 33 percent is commom...... These celebrities always have to be extra... 37 Damn percent ?

  • TELL THE TRUTH

    Not in every case. Not all baby mommas are chosen..there have been instances where the man used con/dom and it breaks during s.e.x and d woman ended up being pregnant. she insist on keeping the bastard baby, knowing dayum well, dat man just wanted ti hit it. Bcus the system is broken & dont hold this type of women accountable, hes forced to pay and deal with her conniving azz for 18years. and shes celebrated and praised as a hero in our community. Sad situation for the child to be involved in.

  • Queen B

    I agree ?

  • Queen B

    Exactly!!! Thank u someone who knows the truth too ?? Everyone keeps running with this idea that Future cheated and shitted on her which was not the situation and Ciara or Future never said that. Ppl have made up their own opinion smh she loved the media he didnt, she wanted to do a reality show he didn't, she wanted to rush the wedding to have it air on the E! Channel he didn't bc he wanted his family there it didnt give his family enough time to prepare but Ciara didn't give a fvck, she wanted him to move to Cali he wanted to stay in Atlanta bc of his other kids, she wanted him to stop smoking weed for her image and that wasn't gonna happen lol those are all the reasons they broke up it was too my complications and differences....NOT CHEATING!!!

  • Alicia.Ashe

    I seriously doubt Cici wants future. She’s tired of his chit, be there for your son and stop pushing him off on mom and grandma.

  • Ms. Cree

    My thoughts exactly. LOL

  • KISSmyENTIREass

    How much exactly %37 or %92.5 ?? We normal gonna say %100

  • Ms. Cree

    LOL. Right.

  • Allihave2say

    Sorry I meant Flunky.

  • Allihave2say

    I don't get that. He's never inappropriately close to the boy. He spends QT with him. My stepfather was my father. He loved and cared for me more than my biological dad.

  • king shun

    remember them pics when that boy was naked and Russel was holding him who in the hell do stuff like that with somebody else son? and you can use google and its thousands of cases of stepdads doing perv stuff to kids male and female

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    The point is that women usually get stuck raising the children.

    That's my point.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Except women have to raise the child regardless and she's the first example for the child.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    LOL.

    My point is that women know they can't depend on a man to be there to help raise the child especially when the man has already done it to other women.

    Women want to be left alone to raise their children when they have unprotected sex with bust downs like Future.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Future didn't hide that he was the WRONG guy.

  • Allihave2say

    There are so many sad stories. That's true. I believe they were doing a photo shoot. A lot of men would have said no. I think Russell tries to please Ciara especially her modeling career.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    All of that, Jenie.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    It's about her choosing the wrong man to be the father for her son.

  • LuLu

    37%?! ? Is that ALL? Girrllll... lemme show you what a REAL absentee father is about. LMBO #screenshotofbabydaddy

  • Ebony Starr

    You're so right. She can't really have it both ways.

  • MRiGOThim

    Well, his cute ass step daddy is there 100% so if he doesn't want to be in Lil Future's life...then HE'S missing out:P

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I think the point you're all missing is Ciara asked for mediation with Future. That's an old trick baby mamas use when the baby daddy don't want anything to do with them.

    I had a friend who was forced into mediation because he avoided seeing the baby mama whenever she dropped their child off. She wanted him alone in a room without his wife - and she got a judge to force him to attend.

    Just because the man is not there when the child is dropped off doesn't mean he isn't seeing the kid. Ciara is making assumptions based on the fact that he's never there when she shows up with their kid.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Yet she is wiling to pay a mediator so she can see Future? Mediation is not necessary when visitations are already set by the court. She wants a face-to-face with Future because he is avoiding her.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I was in the Mercedes dealership recently when one of Future's other baby mamas walked in with their son to pick up her car in service. She was dressed to the nines. Her waist length blonde lacefront wig was sitting. The little boy was well-groomed. I bet they have no problems seeing Future.

    That's why Ciara is mad. Future does not want to see her. The petitioner who requests mediation is the one who pays for it. That tells you she is willing to pay to see Future.

    Russell is too whipped to see through her petty games. It's obvious she is bored with Russell. She plays the part of a Seattle homemaker but she is still a hoodrat chasing after the bad boy.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    SR: She plays the part of a Seattle homemaker but she is still a hoodrat chasing after the bad boy.

    For once we agree.

  • CaramelDrop

    IMO Black women cant escape being babymamas because we believe the facade masquerading as black men. Everybody makes mistakes, unfortunately black women not only have to pay for our mistakes , we have to pay for the niccas mistakes too. As far as Ciara, IMO, all of us don’t have to bend to a niccas will, be stereotypically bitter, or fold. Regardless of what anyone thinks we are still desirable.... some of us so much that a Good man WILL FIND her.
    Sucker? Please. I truly pray you experience being loved flaws and all - it’s a WONDEEFUL THING.

  • Elevated Soul

    LMAO....Exactly!!!!!

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    His track record speaks for itself. Before Cilantro fornicated with No-future's worthless @$$, she knew he had a gaggle of b@$t@rd children. Now, she's mad because her son's been added to the list. My granny always said, "a taught lesson is better than a bought lesson."

  • MissyJ

    Sandra you in here lying. 1) you do not have to pay for meditation 2) most judges are hesitant to change orders or issue the initial order without the parties having tried to go to meditation first. Mediation is so that the process is more amicable.

  • MissyJ

    A spouse can attend mediation.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    She was a fool for bedding down with him and getting pregnant with his child.

    See how that works?

  • Peace

    You are wrong. She said he cancels at last minute. She has to plan her business and schedule around his visits. Future is upset he can't see Ciara

    . Do you remember when He was calling her a bitch online because he had to see his son lol Future through lawyers?

    Then she filed a $15,000,000.00 lawsuit against him? He a bitter baby daddy.

    The judge needs to settle this mess once and for all. Cancel his ass. Let Russell adopt him. Cici has made a excellent home and family life for their family.

    Forget Future. He had time to be smashing thots and Pippen wife.

    Like Shaq Oneal said in his song,
    Russell is his Father cause biological didn't bother.

    Fuck Future. Handle his ass.

  • Peace

    Exactly.

  • Peace

    Amen

  • Karen Brady

    this ain't what you want this aint what you want.

  • C Mack

    Honestly, you’re right. You described Future perfectly. I’m a big Ciara fan so I can’t just let her get attacked by everyone haha.

    I wish she had chosen better, but we all have had lapses in judgment. She was in love and didn’t think with her head.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Aw snap...you low key letting us know you got a Benz?
    What year?
    How many letters AMG, CL, which one?

  • Cap

    Did she know he was going to end up being an idiot? No woman would choose a bad father for their child if they knew this is how it would turn out

  • Joy King

    Sandra, speak the truth and shame the fools.

  • Cap

    It’s stressful but until you’re in that position you wouldn’t understand. I understand because minus the cheating I went through the same thing as her where I ended up having a child with my first love and now hes my ex and deadbeat as hell. Sometimes I feel like even the courts are not enough to get him to be responsible since his Mom has coddled him and told him he doesn’t have to be. When it comes to your child you will do whatever to make sure they’re okay at all times. If there’s anything about her it may come to light but end of the day the concern is the child. Forget about the the parents because I said it on another comment, but they’re not the victims. Their toddler is

  • C Mack

    They’re reading as haters. Ciara can never do anything right for alot of ppl lol. Idk why

  • tintin

    If Future dont wanna see his son she shouldn't force it. The little boy has a positive role model in his life now with Russell

    Ciara shouldn't even bother. Future looks like the type to pick up his kids and drop them off to his mama house and then go home.

  • Cap

    Oh shut up, do you live in her home to know all of this? Are you from Futures camp? Stop it. Plenty of women get pregnant, and the man decides to wed them without it having to be about ‘saving face’. He didn’t engage with any of his other baby mommas, we only know of her and it could be because she was already famous before him and in the spotlight but regardless he put a ring on it the same way Offset put a ring on Cardi although it happened the other way around for them but it’s the same thing with him. Ciara didn’t screw anything up she was still in her mid twenties when she made those mistakes and she STILL ended up marrying well a year after the engagement to Future ended and did it the right way because the pain taught her. I’m not going to bother going on with you because you just seem all around negative anyway and you just want to judge and bash and yet we don’t know about the mistakes YOUVE made ma’am. Your judgment doesn’t matter. And she is doing the best she can to help her son so he doesn’t have to deal with this anymore, period. Have a good one

  • Cap

    What dysfunction? Have you forgotten who the Dad is? He is a contributing factor to this ‘damage’ and he didn’t learn his lesson the first or the second or even the third time and I’m sure baby number 5 will arrive this year or the next. She had ONE kid and one was enough for her to realize next time she wants to make sure she’s in a stable environment for her and her son and she ended up marrying a God fearing, highly successful NFL player who loves her son like his own from the looks of it and treats her and their daughter like queens. All the negative Nancy’s are talking about Ciara’s mistakes but never mind the man who impregnated her and cheated causing the engagement to end in the first place. Stop with the selective memory

  • Cap

    Bingo!

  • Cap

    If she became a baby momma to another ain’t shyt rapper or athlete then we could say sis... but she didn’t. She got married and then had another one and this just looks like a situation where she’s trying to create stability while dealing with her ex’s bs that is affecting their child. Ciara and future will always be linked because of the fact they share a child so this narrative of her obsession with him just seems obscure to me. If she wasn’t allowing future to see his dad which is what some women do too they would still complain. Plus 37% is just a particular number she could’ve said 50% or 75, 25. That 37% was calculated precisely

  • Cap

    Exactly! His bs is affecting their child and I’m sure with the new found love and family she has now she doesn’t need to put up with it anymore! It’s funny because I bet if she was keeping little future from his Dad people would complain that she ain’t s*** and they would call her all types of bitter. No matter what this woman does people will come at her for it and it’s sad because we don’t know her. I’m just strongly opinionated on this because I get it, that’s the only thing. She doesn’t need defense from any of us but those of us who get it do, and we have common sense to understand it’s just about the child. 5 hours is a lot to fly even adults can’t handle doing that often let alone a kid who’s only 5

  • Cap

    I don’t think she is getting the courts to push him to be there. Documenting what she has been, showing Future is starting to become absent can turn a case in her favor whereby she gets to have little Future more and visitation time is decreased. I would say sole custody but the courts would never take his rights away unless he became a physical danger to the child. But she has a plan and shes being advised on how to go about it

  • Cap

    So then why are you here simpleton? To discuss black women and how dysfunctional they are and bastard breeding? Get a life seriously. We get 24 hours in a day and this is how you choose to spend it? Go to Bossip, this isn’t the place for black women bashing and blaming them for oow children. Mexicans and whites do it too. Those white girls on teen mom what about them?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    2009. The same car I've had all these years. ?

  • Cap

    The Nas revelation is shocking. Everyone thought they were the it couple back in those days

  • Cap

    ??

  • Cap

    You need help. That is a father’s love. The fact you’ve managed to sexualize it is concerning maybe you’re the one who was molested when you were younger and you’re projecting it. Would you rather Russell treats him like how Gab Union treats Dywanes’s break baby where it’s like he just doesn’t exist? Russell loves that boy like it’s his own son and he accepts him

  • Cap

    Of course

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I believe Ciara could STILL be adjusting to being loved by a decent guy with average amount of flaws, after years of 'bad boys' like many women, it's a process!

    But, I don't think she's after more time with future! Since now she has another child with her dad in the home, and Future Jr. will naturally see the contrasts, it could e affecting their child or the disappointment of not seeing his dad as much during visits, just maybe(?)!

    Traveling can be troublesome for kids with asthma, and if she violates court visitation orders, she can lose custodial custody of her son. Since she says, he often spends time with his relatives, why put the child through the mandatory visitations!

  • Scromes1212

    Saying I can't let my son stay with my mother for the weekend is like me telling you the same thing smh it's not your business if I allow my mom to spend time with her grandson. That's ridiculous.

  • Kemi

    Yay to the Griffin brothers draft pick!!!! *tears of joy* congratulations y’all ?????? #BlackExcellence..,

  • Logan Roberts

    She suppose to cry in private. And once again everybody has played the fool before. There's even a song about.

  • Allihave2say

    Granny may be right. Erika Badhu said, "pick your friends like you pick ya fruit, my granny taught me that when I was only a youth", yet many of us have thought we picked right and got home and found spoilage. She made a mistake. She learned. She's adjusting now for the child's sake.
    Now, where have you been?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    What dysfunction?

    Having children without the benefit of marriage.

    Having children with a man who has children by multiple women.

    That's the dysfunction.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    She has to be fed tf up coming up with figures like 37% LOL! That’s a done bish right there!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    She had unprotected sex with a man who had multiple baby mamas.

    Just stop making excuses.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    That's not a lapse in judgement.

    It was intentional and willful ignorance.

    Remember what Maya Angelou said-when someone shows you who they are believe them.

  • the guest

    Grandparents don’t have visitation rights, the father does. The child’s father is not honoring the visitation order.

  • the guest

    Agreed. I wouldn’t tell the baby that is was dad visitation day and have another activity scheduled in case dad didn’t show. If he did show, then the baby can be surprised.

  • Scromes1212

    I'm not talking about visitation rights for grand parents lol I can do what I want with my son during my visitation. If I want my son to spend that time with his grandmother than that's my right.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Of course, grandparents have rights, like Chris Brown's mom helps him take of his daughter, and there will be family visits (parents, siblings, cousins), shared family holidays, grandma baking cookies, etc.,but there may be a legitable concern with the traveling...asthma, ADHD, emotional concerns, we don't know!

    I don't condone women keeping kids away from dads, especially boys, too damaging!

  • TELL THE TRUTH

    Exactly, getting involved with a wrong guy could be categorized as mistake. Bringing a whole INNOCENT HUMAN BEING into the mix is NOT a mistake. It's called irresponsibility.....I wish they can STOP with that nonsense & dangerous message to get impressionable young girls & naivete to join their baby momma club, bandwagon abd crusade

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Alright now 1 more year Sandy ?

  • Malcom Flex

    MOST black males don't want to parent their kids how do I know? Black boys have the highest high school drop out rates in America IF their dads were in their lives that wouldn't be happening.

  • Malcom Flex

    I ride for you most of the time but you're wrong here.

  • Malcom Flex

    ITA!!!

  • Malcom Flex

    Nope

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I'm sorry you can't see it. Wat she's doing is as obvious as the nose on your face.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I have been in every position and do understand ...

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Man.... I have been there with the child support mess... Been there ... I'm not buying her shyt .... At all !

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I know, right. It's about to be an antique car. ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Because she would never lie to get more face time with him? ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    "For once we agree."

    I noticed you're not as disagreeable as you used to be. ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I'm trying! ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Not if the judge says she can't.

  • Cap

    Rightfully so because he was her fiancée at the time and she was naive at the time thinking she could change but she finally learned. Future is to blame too. You’re bitter. Go pay your child support

  • Cap

    Ok but answer me. You’re coming at her for laying with a man with multiple children by multiple women. Why haven’t you also critiqued him for creating these broken homes because she married, he hasn’t and won’t and is going to more babies to the ones he already has. Black men fathering children that they’re not there for, while they go having more that they abandon. Men like Fetty wap let’s talk about that

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Usually the first sign is the kid acting out in school.

  • Rico768

    Capitalised MOST intentionally for us waiting to find the technicality?
    ???

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    The judge should order Ciara to stop sharing photos and videos of little Future online. It's ridiculous how she exploits her children for attention online. Social media is full of narcissistic parents.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She is constantly dragging Future into court because he pays her no mind. Since when do parents need mediation for visitation order that is already set by the court?

  • GuestSTAR

    LMAO!!!

  • Peace

    You make no sense. This Woman is married. She has everything she could ever want or dream of in life.

    Repeat: Ciara filed a $15,000,000.00 lawsuit against Future for calling her a bitch on social media because he was pissed he had to see his Son through Lawyers.
    He wanted FaceTime with her.
    She was protecting herself and her child.
    She also said he would come home smelling like weed a d piss.
    This thug glorifies drugs and street life in his mumble music.

    Your article here is pure trash.
    Cancel his ass Ciara. You been more than patient and willing.
    You ain't gotta hand your child off to some UNFIT DEADBEAT DOPE ADDICT DIRTY SPRITE DRINKING Promiscuous Pimp daddy.

    You are funny Sandra??why you think she be posting pics of Russell teaching him how to play sports? The whole family together? He spends quality time with his step Son and he a NFL quarterback, Spokesman for various companies and his own Good Man Brand. He host sports camps for kids around the world. He married this Woman and supports her son take care of him like his own.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I've already explained my position.

    I'm a feminist. I believe that women should have complete control over their bodies which includes not having to notify the father if she wants to have an abortion, but with power comes responsibility.

    Women know due to biology and society that they bear the brunt of raising children so they have total control of the situation.

    Ciara saw Future's past and knew that he wasn't a good father and wasn't going to marry her and establish a household.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Did you just give me a compliment?

  • SG

    It’s comical to me that people think Ciara still wants dirty di@k Future. ??? It’s being handled via the courts to force him to do one of two things 1) sign over his parental rights so that Russell can adopt him or 2) be a father and adhere to the visitation schedule.

  • Malcom Flex

    Naw. But I'm grown and respect the lady of the house-you-and agree to disagree.

  • SG

    Nah. I know someone who knows his family and he is routinely with his grandmother and Future’s sister. They were at a family dinner st Fig and Olive the other week and Future came late. The child was already there with his family.

  • SG

    Right. Being “in love” and under someone’s spell will have you doing some dumb ish. She got caught up and had a kid and now you have to deal with this fool for the next 18.

  • SG

    She’s doing it so it’s on record that he is not abiding by the established visitation. Push him into relinquishing his parental rights or doi whatnhe is supposed to do.

  • SG

    Dammit Nas!

  • SG

    He lies like he breathes. He never wanted custody or time with this boy. He wanted to control her like he does his established harem. She ain’t fall in line because she doesn’t need him financially and he can’t stand it.

  • Peace

    As simple as that.

  • Fall

    As an attorney and stepmother whose husband went through something similar, what you're saying isn't necessarily true. Not sure what they do in Georgia or Washington (not sure which state made the order) but not all states require arbitration be done in person. It's often done via phone in instances where the petitioner and respondent live in separate states. Moreover, in some cases, the petitioner and respondent don't speak directly to each other, they speak to their attorneys, who then communicate to the other party's attorney. If this was about Ciara wanting to see him, she would've probably just taken him back to court where he would've been required to appear at some point. Also, it's not petty whatsoever for the parent who has to constantly rearrange schedules last minute, cheer up the kid when dad disappoints again or reprimand the kid when he's acting at because he's exhausted from too much travel to want a change. Future doesnt have to deal with the consequences of his actions whereas Ciara does. She's doing what she and any other parent should do, would do and has the absolute right to do when it comes to the well-being of their child. She's not trying to remove his father from his life, just trying to negotiate a more realistic schedule before a judge steps in and possibly gives them something neither of them want. It's a smart move on her part.

  • abby500

    I’m watching their story now!

  • abby500

    I feel that way too. I think she is bored and the fresh-scrubbed, pacific living homemaker role IS probably getting to her. Russell seems kinda “meh” and boring. But I agree with some of what the previous person said as well. But I bet she was itching for a reason to contact Future.

  • hottlanta

    So what is the criminal issues with these white boys playing wild, wild west every other day. Jeffrey Dahmar had mom and dad at home what was his excuse for his crime spree.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Yes, we all make mistakes, and we are doomed to repeat them if we refuse to see our roles in our misfortunes. Ciara seems to think she's an innocent victim, but she was a willing participant in making a baby with a man who has a history of abandoning his children. The only victim is her son.

    I took a break from social media. I needed to go old school for a while: spending face to face time with friends and loved ones.

  • hottlanta

    Ladies stop saying Russell is prefect. There is a lot behind closed doors we don't even know. It will all come outta the wash sooner or later. Russell might take cute pictures but could be a bytch when the camera is off. They gotta try to stay cute to the public because that is the image they put out there. When people try toooooooo hard to be perfect they hiding something. I don't want them to be cute I just want them to be human. All of this Instagram coupling 24/7 is a bit much.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Jeffrey Dahmer's mother was a strict domineering woman who emasculated her milquetoast husband in front of Jeffrey. She also belittled Jeffrey and made him feel inadequate. He started killing small animals as a boy, then he progressed to killing humans.

    The mother is the parent most likely to raise a serial killer in a 2-parent home. Having both parents is no guarantee that the child will grow up to be normal if the mother is domineering and the father is submissive.

    Nearly every serial killer interviewed by psychiatrists say they hated their domineering mothers.

  • JennyJazzhands

    Whenever there's no drama, she goes back to court. It might take time for the schedule to work itself out or future might be slowly trying to dip. Either way, I hope she knows what she's doing and this doesn't blow up in her face like the lawsuit.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    100% right because it is like finding a Good Black man is about as effective as finding a needle in a haystack, Not a high percentage!!!

  • JennyJazzhands

    I want to agree with Ciara so bad but she was less than truthful with that last suit and then ended up looking stupid. Newlywed and pregnant trying to sue her baby daddy.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I'm pretty sure he'll never sign over his parental rights. His pride would never allow him to do that.

  • missmiami305

    Something about Russell doesn’t sit right with me. Future ain’t ish so lemme out that out there. However, there is something about Russell’s eyes. It doesn’t mean he isn’t a good father/mate. He’s just not perfect. I pick up alcoholism or something when I see him. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8a2c057c7a5ed0ef7ce531cee9c93871391004532e21668a47ca62af7d5bb291.gif

  • SG

    Right. SMH

  • missmiami305

    I was waiting for the shade while reading. Auntie made me wait until the very end, with “It sounds like she hasn’t gotten Future out of her system”????.

  • missmiami305
  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    A lot of this negativity and speculation about Russell is kinda strange to me. People are always trying to drag a good brotha down. Of course the man is not perfect, and has never claimed to be. But I keep seeing people on blogs etc. making it seems like he's "too good to be true" or "must be hiding something" or has some kind of a dark side to him.

    You know, there are some good dudes out there. Maybe Russ is just a good dude, period. And maybe people should just allow for the fact that he's a good man, and stop trying to look for stuff to find fault with.

  • DeJeri

    I agree 100% Future sucks as a parent yet somehow Russel and Ciara are at fault. A married couple doing what they're supposed to do in life and somehow they're being demonized. It says alot about the state of our community when we're uplifting a deadbeat and putting down a happily married couple. SMH

  • hottlanta

    Yep he said he came to LEAD her as if she didn't know anything and was as dumb as a rock. He is controlling. First of all he can't fyck. Women don't cheat on wealthy men with all of that money for nothing. I know some men who are po as well, they laying down that pipe right and the women ain't going nowhere.

  • Kemi

    I get scared of ppl, who put out a perfect outward appearance. I steer clear actually. We are human with flaws no one is perfect.

    I’m not saying Russell is not a decent man he publicize, we all have our little skeletons.

  • hottlanta

    Please, if a mofo is really good to you, ain't no adjustment period. You act like you deserve all of that goodness chile from the get go and keep it moving. If that is the case she married Russell to fake couple love to the public and to show Future you didn't marry me so someone else did. She still wants Future like a goldfish needs water.

  • missmiami305

    No one said he isn’t a good man. For me, Ciara is the extra one in the couple. She tried so hard in the beginning of their relationship to be someone else. She did the same with Future. Ciara seems to lose her identity when involved with someone. She becomes who they want her to be or at least who SHE thinks they want her to be. Her track record proves it.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree. Ciara didn't grow up hood, she grew up more middle class. Then she later went hood when she started dating rappers like Bow Wow, 50 Cent, and Future.
    I think she outgrew that hood stuff (like many women do when they hit their 30's), and by getting with Russell she ended up with a man that lines up more with her middle class upbringing & values.

  • hottlanta

    You saying the military don't have any ghetto people. I have seen those basic housing they provide for them. Worst that public housing.Traveling on the military dime is not the same as a family vacation. I know a lot of kids who parents are not in the military and travel all over the world. My grandson is 5 and has his passport and there are websites that show black kids traveling all over the world without the welfare military stipend. So to say that our kids don't get a chance to travel all over the world unless they are in the military is ghetto and if you had a world of experience in the military like you say you would know better to make such a statement. All military personnel ain't living large like Colin Powell. They passed legislation to help the military get a better rate on those high interest pay day loans because a lot of military families are poor and struggling. I know personally in our communities BLACK KIDS DO TRAVEL without any welfare help from the military. So to say they don't travel is a flat out lie. Expand your circle of friends beyond the welfare military and you would not make such a statement.

  • Malcom Flex

    PITIFUL-conquered kneegrow bringing up white boys when the topic is BLACK FATHERLESSNESS! We blacks have 2/3 black boys with no dad in the house you fool, gang banging killing each other, terrorizing hoods. Focus on US not them, damn, get that white dick outta ya mouth!

  • missmiami305

    Say it again for the folk in the back lol. The part about him not being able to fyck????

  • Malcom Flex

    Black people crazy AF! Russ handling biz helping to raise a simps son and his own blood daughter.

  • Malcom Flex

    I think she was trolling. She ain't thinking about Future except how he's messing with their son.

  • Peace

    Ciara does not want that community dick. Nor the diseases he slanging around from these thots he hitting raw.

    This is crazy. You crazy for even posting such horrible shit like that.

    A woman can petition the court concerning her child as the law allows. She is a very good Mom and needs to let the courts know how difficult it is when the non-custodial parent is non-compliant with what the court has ruled in the case.

    All that seeing some baby mama at a car lot is totally ignorant and petty. Did camp future pay you to say that?
    Its just crazy to think a Happily Married Successful Woman would even think about community weed laced penis.

    Thus the real world. Blogs are pure gossip and lies. Get some help. You lying and misleading your readers.

  • Peace

    Its a blessing the child can spend time with all his relatives on both sides.

    But its Ciara call if she don't want all them characters around her child. They post pics too at weddings events and baby future looks content around future family. But he looks happy with Russ and Cici.

    Its a messed up situation. She is married. I would go after him for full custody and her husband to adopt. If they prove future unfit they need no consent. He in the news for running from thot to thot no intention of marrying anyone. He prolly running drugs along with Ralo on planes always flashing stacks of money on the gram. IJS. All that jewelry posting. Who does that other than thugs and runners.

  • Ebony Starr

    Ciara's father traveled with her and took care of little Future before Russell came along. Little Future has male role models but he also needs his dad in his life now that he knows him or knows of him.

  • hottlanta

    Let's see our President has 5 kids by 3 different baby mamas. He was about to pull the arm off the French President across the White House lawn but couldn't even share the umbrella with his own son to keep him from getting wet. White boys terrorizing schools, movie theaters and being naked in Waffle House.

  • hottlanta

    So you saying mom has the balls and dad don't is the problem. What about personal responsibility?

  • Malcom Flex

    You straight trolling today. I said get that white dick outt ya troll mouth

    More Data on the Extent of Fatherlessness
    An estimated 24.7 million children (33%) live absent their biological father.
    Source: U.S. Census Bureau, Current Population Survey, “Living Arrangements of Children under 18 Years
    57.6% of black children, 31.2% of Hispanic children, and 20.7% of white children are living absent their biological fathers.

    Source: Family Structure and Children’s Living Arrangements 2012. Current Population Report. U.S. Census Bureau July 1, 2012.
    According to 72.2 % of the U.S. population, fatherlessness is the most significant family or social problem facing America.
    Source: National Center for Fathering, Fathering in America Poll, January, 1999.
    Little Boy

    Trended Data

    With the increasing number of premarital births and a continuing high divorce rate, the proportion of children living with just one parent rose from 9.1% in 1960 to 20.7% in 2012.

    Currently, 55.1% of all black children, 31.1% of all Hispanic children, and 20.7% of all white children are living in single-parent homes.
    Source: U.S. Census Bureau. “Living Arrangements of Children Under 18 Years Old: 1960 to Present”. U.S. Census Bureau July 1, 2012. http://www.census.gov/population/socdemo/hh-fam/ch5.xls

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I don't have any children here.

  • hottlanta

    We women get drugged thru the mud if our men cheat on us. Remember the phrase we all heard and we had to burst our azzes to keep a man. It was what you won't do for him another woman will so I guess his 1st wife found someone else who did it for her when she cheated on him. I would never forget that married woman astronaut going across several states running all kinds of red lights wearing a Depends Diaper to not stop at a restroom to shyt to kill her boyfriend girlfriend. She left the kids at home and everything going after that "D". I personally remember a married woman on the job started a fight with a single woman over a guy she was dating and the list is endless. So these women going around here talking bout they waiting until they get married to sample the goods better try it before you buy it. These women who haven't had several life dyck experiences because they are afraid of being called a whore go nuts when one man hit that spot. All of that blood rush to the head and they go crazy. Google my favorite episode Beyond the Picket Fence and see how ole girl forget about her 4 kids and husband over some "D". I was like DAYUMM!!!!! Yet folks believe that lie that sex in a marriage is not important.

  • hottlanta

    Just got that white dyck outta my mouth while taking the green to the bank. Please I ain't reading no fake statistics done by white folks to make them look good. Explain to me the Columbine boys in the suburbs who had mom/dad at home and the Menendez brothers who shot both parents. Look at the ID Channel of Killer Kids over the weekend, take down the number of white kids who are on there and get back with me. Those are the facts not fake numbers. Another fact is the Unabomber graduated from Stanford not public school or city college.

  • Malcom Flex

    Again, GET THE WHITE DICK OUTTA YA MOUTH
    you can't say two words without mentioning white males! You must be drunk AF. While black america is in ruins, crumbling, dumb boys with even dumber parents who talk like you. WHITE PEOPLE my black azz. You're pitiful and unworthy of further convo from me.

  • hottlanta

    Go to Cobb and Gwinnett counties and turn left and see all of those white folks trailer parks. Dumb black boys really. Well 3 of my friends sons got full scholarships to go to college and the black community I see is doing well regardless of who is in office as President. Since you like goggling, I need you to goggle did the citizens pay for "bowl boy" Whopper after the cops took him to Burger King after killing 9 people. Someone had to file an expense report on that because he got the meal doing working hours. Also check for me did Columbine get any more federal funding after the shooting and was it named as a dangerous school to stop it from getting federal funding. Check Sandy Hook as well while you are at it.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You expect a child to have personal responsibility? The adult you become is a direct result of your childhood development. Some adults have arrested development because of the lack of love and affection from their strict domineering mothers.

    Many serial killers say they just wanted affection from their mothers when they were young.

  • hottlanta

    Dayum right a child needs to have PERSONAL responsibility not adult responsibilities like paying bills working and stuff there is a difference. Knowing how to take care of your body and yourself are personal responsibilities. Knowing right from wrong is personal responsibility. Lil Hots they knew as kids don't let no one in the house when I am not home, have your homework done and house clean before I get home. That was their personal responsibility. We teach our kids to bath/brush their teeth/wipe their azzes so they can have the personal responsibility to do it themselves. Even you had personal responsibilities as a child, we all did.You gonna tell me Lil Hots gonna go out and kill someone and not be held responsible. I told them do some shyt like that if you want to and blame me all you want to but I will be the one out free while you are in jail. Don't call me either because I be dayum if I be filing bankruptcy over some high azz prison calls while you made the personal responsibility to do wrong.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Being a hoodrat is about a having certain mentality. It has nothing to do with growing up in the 'hood.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I don't know why you're comparing your child to a child who is raised without love and affection. If a child is raised with love and affection (like yours was), they grow up to be productive citizens with good judgment and sound mind.

    Unfortunately, some children (like Jeffrey Dahmer) were not raised with love and affection. Those children grow up to be monsters in one form or another. I'm not saying they all turn into serial killers or rapists, but they tend to have very rough lives or end up in dysfunctional, abusive relationships.

    It's difficult to tell right from wrong when you have psychological problems stemming from your childhood.

  • hottlanta

    I know I brought my Lil Hots with lots of love but I will never be parental ignorant and say what they won't do. I might get up one day and a cop knocks on my door and say they have been arrested for a horrible crime and they actually did it. Then I will be shocked and say they were not raised like that.These female criminals are worst than men. Anyone who knows me will tell you that I don't talk like that. I am glad they have good careers and live good lives but all of that can change in a second to change everything. Big Hots was not and still is not a loving/affectionate parent but she did the best she could with what she had. Then as adults we have to realize how parents had lives before they became parents. It is up to us to change what we didn't like as a child as we get older. You might do stuff to rebel against your childhood as an adult but you are going to an adult jail not juvenile. Then all while you sitting in that jail you can't blame no one but yourself. There are some kids you can give them all the love in the world and they still go out in the world and do horrible crimes. All bad kids didn't come from bad homes. They made a conscious decision to do those crimes.

  • SG

    You have a point. She already has full custody. The problem is not being around his family. Her problem is that they spend more time with him than his bio dad.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And some are Big skeletons

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    He couldn't even take Russell strolling the child

  • Kemi

    Exactly. That’s why I’m careful with ppl who always pose a cheerful exterior all the time. Nobody is happy all the time.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Very inspirational. And I love when Shaquem Griffin said, no matter what anybody says, You are the only one who can stop you!!!

  • Kemi

    I know, he didn’t let his disability or naysayers stop him from accomplishing his dreams. I’m rooting for both men to succeed in all of their endeavors!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    I Don't believe in keeping children from the dad, But it can be just as damaging for a child around a sorry ass dad or mom!!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    No my 1996 Rava 4 is an antique car. But I am rolling on.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    You mean "the King of rhythm and blues" iiiiihaaaa

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    More than likely, he is doing the child a favor by being absent

  • Kemi

    Inspired by their hardwork and dedication!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Most of us Don't!! And that's when we have to protect and secure our child from these issues, Before it affects him. It is Not easy, But can be done. I did it!!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Iiiiihaaaaaaaa

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And so do biological dads

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And believe me, before it is over, Future Will cry Many Nights for treating a child like that!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Including Future!!

  • KHJ2016

    Wow, we agree on something!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Yes, she has to own up to her part and may have to push forward in raising a mentally, healthy young man, in spite of, by Any means necessary. Again, Not easy, But can be done.

  • KHJ2016

    I think he bats for the other team and this is a PR win-win business situation between C&R. I figured part of the agreement included her having a child. I believe it was Rus that made the decision about when and what pics to post of the baby. That's Rus' baby, not Rus and C.

  • KHJ2016

    That's your gaydar kicking in.

  • KHJ2016

    I don't think she cheated. I think Russell swings for the other team and told her that she can ride and keep up the facade or leave. She had to sign a confidentiality agreement, which is why you have heard nothing from her. What didn't he want her speaking on that he silenced her???

  • KHJ2016

    That's not how the courts work.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    We have to accept the Fact that more than likely, when we meet them that is who They are. And instead of Wasting our life line trying to Change them, find someone you Don't have to change. Because he is already that person.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Sho Not easy!! But we do what we have to do. Remember, I said, "It Is Not Easy!!"

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    But Future hadn't changed. He wasn't accountable when she met him. Having a baby Doesn't change that. Fact!!! Either it is in you or Not. We Got to do better in our choosing, Got to.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    I don't think some of us Want to be left alone. We just have to do what we GOT to do to raise a healthy child. I know I did.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    He chose with or without a condom, when He Engaged in sex.

  • Bashi22

    Let me ask one ?? good question before you vulture chew me up. Mrs Ciara Wilson when you was dating your ex Future apparently you was love blind because future has few children by different women Right ? Or I’m wrong ?. In that time of courtship with your ex did he spend quality time with all his children?. While he was with you how did he divides the time with you, his children and work?. What makes you think your are special than the mothers of his other children , that your son with him should get more time?.How come you never pointed out to him that he needs to spend time with his children while you was courting him??.

  • Bashi22

    To be honest yes she does. I wonder if that’s how she was with 50cents

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I know its not my sister is one I take my hat off for yall. I had a heated argument with my aunt about how alot of men ways come from being coddled etc. She tried to diminish my opinion but it's the truth. For example so many people has made Future believe its okay to keep getting women pregnant but a woman in that position will be called names.

  • Bashi22

    Ciara need to take that court money go invest in some product or clothing she as a great figure. She as too much time in her hand. Yes she does really still love Future he’s a alpha male so Ciara cannot conquer him. It hurt her soul so much

  • king shun

    not projecting at all i work with victims of abuse and i see a trend of stepfathers and move in boyfriends molesting and harming children that are not theirs

  • Bashi22

    Kelis is bitter because she lost in court she’s just like the white Man government bring down the black man. She wants Nas investment money. Her husband need to get a job

  • Bashi22

    She’s no saint for real she been had in the industry

  • Bashi22

    Great point I want to if all these athletes and entertainers who travel a lot baby mother take them to court of the percentage of missing out on see their children

  • Peace

    He was cancelling last minute visits the last court hearing. When he called a bitch. She got a family and career to manage.

    By full custody I mean Future to have court ordered visitation as she fear her son safety. Future is wild and got enemies. Anything could happen to her son

    The Wilsons are raising that boy. They got a cute video of him first little league game up now.

    The Wilson's is Parents give him a stable fullfiing life.
    The courts did not give Future family visitation nor him the right to drop off baby future with the family till daddy decide he wanna show up. Act like you want to be with your son.
    The Wilson's have made ready and accomodated his ass to have proper time with their son.

    Fuck Future. Change that child name. Draw up the adoption papers. Put an end to this mess. Let his family baby sit all the other kids he got.

    The Wilsons Got this.

  • Peace

    You are dellusional on this one.
    The Wilson's will win this for the safety and sake of THEIR SON.
    ? PEACE

  • Solstice

    Hey CW!! Glad you are back!! Missed you ???

  • Lady_Elle

    She was a single woman w/o kids... She did not think about his kids because she didn't have to.
    Plenty of men & women feel the same when they don't have kids.

  • Solstice

    ????!!!

  • Solstice

    Nonsense! Failure works just fine ? ?

  • Cap

    Why would you even get that from Russell? There is absolutely nothing that he does that shows he's molesting that child. Just knock it off right now

  • Cap

    Everyone handles it differently. How you handle it, isn't how she would and there's nothing wrong with that. She's a grown woman, she got money, it's her child, she can go about this however she wants because this is what is best to her

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Thank you! Nice to see you, too!

  • Cap

    No one asked you

  • Jussjess25

    Sandy, how do you know the child is acting out in school?? Seriously asking..

  • Jussjess25

    Not sure if that is an excuse

  • Cap

    Okay so it's her body, her life why do you give a damn so much. You can't say women can do what they want with their bodies while you bash her, and not the one who has a pattern of having OOW children. It's not your job, or anyone else's to judge. We only know and see what is put out

  • Cap

    You sound bitter.

  • Lady_Elle

    It is not an excuse... just a fact of life.

  • Mrs. King

    So u Sandra r insinuating that Russell is a molesting baby Future? If u r ur sick.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    This shyt ain't a debate take care

  • Cap

    Girl...... Its a difference of opinion, aint nobody debating with you. Two adults can agree to disagree without it having to be a 'debate'. I simply said everyone handles it differently. You take care

  • exlurker

    Russell and Ciara are a beautiful couple who publicly show love and affection to each other. It's a rare sight to see in these days were you read about Black men bashing Black women and praising non- black women. This guy did the opposite but yet people are trying to tarnish his image calling him simp or gay. They both have a past but it's nice to know that they can learn from their mistakes, would be even better if people stop bashing them.

  • missmiami305

    Remember 50 didn’t even claim her.

  • king shun

    so him holding aHOLDING A NAKED MALE CHILD THAT IS NOT HIS STRADDLING HIM DONT SEEM WEIRD????

  • Bashi22

    What is you’re point to want to make?. However I see no excuse because she took picture with them when she and her ex in good times. She knew he don’t spend time with them because she Ciara was all up under him on the road. So Ciara is two face rat.

  • Bashi22

    Oh I see 50 is the boss lol

  • Bashi22

    It’s blog not your personal home ?.

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    Rid has her her whole heart.... They are just building a case so the child can have stability....

  • TELL THE TRUTH

    Bitter how? this is a reality not fiction goings on in out communities. I've seen and dealt with cases like this in my line of work. D children dat are brought into situation or circustnaces like this, r the ones left to suffer the consequences of poor LIFE decision making from their mom or dad, depending on the situation. Our black men & women should be willing to do better to promote stability in our communities.

  • TELL THE TRUTH

    yep, when ur young stupid & having fun, & doing what nature permits, u never put sh*t like dat into perspective. Until, its too late & u got no choice but to deal with someone u dont want to deal with for the rest of ur life. They want to claim, they part of ur family. when only the child or children is part of ur family.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Not shocking to me. His baby mama Carmen said he was beating her ass in her book almost 2 decades ago

  • ?Royalty?

    Why complain tho? ?The less he sees his son, the less influence he has on his sons personality and behavior. Her husband is a better role model.

    Let him show up less and less until he disappears altogether. *shrug* I'd see this as a blessing. #ImJustSayin'

  • ?Royalty?

    Fascinating?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Children aren't science experiments.

    I grew up as an unwanted child because my parents thought sex was a game and my mom used me as a pawn to get back at my father. It was not fun.

    I don't want another human being to go through that.

    I care about more than myself so sue me.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    CiCi move on with your life! If he wanted to be there he would be. I think it's wasted energy trying to get the court to enforce visitation.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Try to get daddies that are already daddy material.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Really could be a blessing, if what they say is true about The Future.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Ciara posted that information about his school behavior.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Not all ladies say that about Russell.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    She is with Russell simply because Future dropped her azz....bottom line. Russell is the best thing that ever happened to her. She needs to chill.

  • kekeb

    I don't think Ciara is over him either.

  • Allihave2say

    Thank you.

  • joel adams

    She let him hit raw....
    She needa deal with the consequences

  • Dowoop

    So he doesn't see the kid enough but you are going to court to lessen the time. I'm not a Future fan but this doesn't make sense. Im sure she knew how often he saw his other kids when they were together. We all think our kids deserve the best but a tiger can't change its stripes.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think some people are just unhappy with their own lives, and cant stand to just see two people happy without trying to find something negative to pick at.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I'm guessing that's because she wants to line up all her facts together so she can make a case to the court to give her full custody.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Yup. And some of his cousins and siblings too.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    No contradiction at all. Her point is that she's making accommodations for him to see his child and he's not doing it, at least not like he'd agreed to do.
    If he has a visitation schedule and he's not showing up when he's supposed to, then it's throwing off her own schedule and also disrupting her own life So it makes sense to ask the court to reduce his visitation since he's unreliable and not visiting his child as much as he's supposed to anyway.

  • Cap

    This situation is not the same. And you have to remember we do not know these people we only know what is put out

  • Cap

    Wait what? When did she say that? When she spoke out was it big news?

  • Cap

    No. Because plenty of fathers have the same photo shoots with their sons especially when they’re newborn. It’s you. You need help. Go get it

  • Cap

    And still no one asked you

  • Bashi22

    Salty much

  • Tiffany

    Yep, I agree with you. I guess some of you don't know any better,so I will break it down. Ciara has to waste her time to be at a certain location at a certain time and date. If her baby daddy as scheduled. That means she has wasted her time and her sons time. Ciara is trying to work out for the both of them since everything is Court ordered. I guess some of you are kinda of backwards.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Hmmmmm.

  • Malcom Flex

    HE wanted to hit raw.
    Punk needs to man up and father his son properly.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    She had a little more info than the norm because she saw how he interacted with the children he already had. You just Can't make a man who he is Not.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Sometimes, we don't realize to what extent, until this level. And it is sad!!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And if you find yourself in this situation, you can still raise a mentally healthy child. But You have to be mentally stable and prayed up to do it. There are some healthy children raised by single parent, though it is Not easy. Just like all stable children are Not raised in two-parent homes.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    lol. You think NAS got $40M for real? I aint mad at him. All you need is one good pay day to set you up for life. I think her husband sells real estate???

  • Jussjess25

    Ooook..

  • Jussjess25

    Oh ok, seems like he may be a little spoiled perhaps.

  • Bashi22

    Maybe her new husband sell house but Nas is heavyweight in the Silicon Valley investment. He’s moneyed just like that one chamillionaire. She divorced Nas was getting $50k a month now that runs out.

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    WHY is Gamora?

  • datjerk

    He's the one that demanded more time

  • DETROITTOATL

    First of alllllll... I ain't going thru all that to make a nucca see or not see his kid. What is the point?? Baby Future will get old enough and see all the Fawkery that is and has gone on.

  • DETROITTOATL

    I did not even know they dated. SMH these chick be messing with all the industry.

  • Phillybruh

    I think she's pointing out that he doesn't spend the time he's already agreed to previously so no point in asking for more time.

  • Mrs. Joyce

    I know someone like her in real life. Its not that Future isn't visiting his son, its because Future finally stopped paying attention to her and now she needs the drama. Life with Russel maybe beautiful but its boring. So time to ramp up some headlines....

  • Phillybruh

    But her court filing is in response to him asking for more time.

  • Mrs. Joyce

    Okay but if he is not visiting anyway why would more time matter or less time. It is sad that he is not visiting but he is not. Its not that serious is what I am saying, she just wants his attention. This is not for the kid if he is not visiting anyway.

  • Phillybruh

    No I think its actually opposite. If he's not spending the court approved time why on god green earth is he asking for more time too not spend, she simply responding to his foolishness, legally she has to respond to his request.

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    " Life with Russel maybe beautiful but its boring"

    That is the problem IMO. So many women would rather get dogged out by a dude because there is somehow "fire" in the relationship. But when they find a man that genuinely loves them, settles down and focuses on the right things, they want to leave because he's boring. How about appreciating that you have someone for YOU. If you're bored, work together to spice things up.. smh

  • Greatgrape37

    Stop it

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Cici, but he was only a 37% boyfriend tho sis. What did you expect?

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    I also have a friend exactly like this.

  • Fat

    Things that make you go hmmm...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Im starting to think this too about Ci-Ci but only because now all of a sudden this is an issue when its been going on for a while now... She got a second chance that most women want....Shit I'd prefer a "boring" handsome man who adores me over a Polyamorous rapper who's only fine when he keeps his glasses on...

  • IChosetheBrownDollbaby

    LMAO!

  • http://playrnb.com PL?Y R&B

    Ciara has no choice but to take him to court, why? Because the "future army" will claim that she's keeping the child away from the father. So she's doing the right thing and getting ahead of this situation now.

  • IChosetheBrownDollbaby

    That's exactly it.

  • Applebootay

    Nah...what she trying to do is stop traveling altogether...if you can prove he aint really with him no way....she smart.

  • BingBangBoom

    Yeah but you got to know your dad's family. In which isn't always the case because many children end up with the mother and create barriers and the dad's side ends up becoming distant relatives. As long as they are supportive and sensitive to the situation and the child's needs. Then the boy and his father will be able to hash the difference out at a later date. I'm sure you got to the point in which you started understanding what type of dad you had. Little man only has one sibling in his home now. Why not get the opportunity to go see all his GA siblings and family. Equal shot for not just the dad to stand up but the family.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    mmmm not really. See, the way it works is dad's family has about as much interest in the kid as his father. There's always the exception to the norm. I'm guessing 8/10 women will tell you for the dad that has no relationship or a little relationship with the kid, his side of the family has the same level of involvement.

    I think it was only different for me, somewhat, cuz my mom and dad (families) knew each other, went to school together, etc. Still, dad was the way he was and afraid my uncles (mom) were gonna beat his ass.

  • BingBangBoom

    She lives in Seattle, he is in GA. Anytime is sometime that's all I'm saying sir.

  • Dowoop

    And the article isn't about that....

  • Bashi22

    They all recycle ?? them in the industry

  • IChosetheBrownDollbaby

    You do realize that many of the women with whom you converse, daily, on this very blog are in the same boat. Is this judgement directed towards them as well? You're going super hard and you don't even know Ciara personally. Was your father absent? Do you blame your mother?

  • Kita Williams

    she was there when he was with his kids. I think she did play a part in him seeing them bc her and the other baby mommas would be posted up. she went to their bday parties and all. stuff just happens. looks like he changed a little bit for her but not enough and now she's seeing that he couldn't sustain fidelity and visitiation *shrugs* but I would contest that he have less time as well if he's requesting MORE time with their son but already can't show up on those court appointed dates. seems like he wants more dates to off-set the days that he skips

  • Kita Williams

    it's all the talk passed down from bitter moms, aunties, and grandmas who made bad decision after bad decision on men and blamed them all for everything wrong in their own lives instead of taking ownership of their own circumstances. not saying men didn't play a part but it's a cycle where they pass it down over and over until every woman in the family only see men as no good "ain't shit" men. generational jaded women

  • Kita Williams

    who about to be online posting they imperfections though? no one does. nobody sits up here posting the ugly pics of themselves, they ugly babies, making statuses about how they man or woman cheated on them, how poor they are. they post what they want us to see the same way we post what we want others to see. that's what social media is for

  • Kemi

    I’m speaking of ppl in person. I’ve encountered ppl like this in person and I steer clear. But you have a point and that’s why I have limited social media interactions.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    That's true. Even from some of the comments people make on these blogs sometimes, you can tell certain people must have gotten hurt real bad, with all the man-bashing stuff you're see them frequently spewing out.
    I usually just feel bad for them though, because clearly a lot of them are hurt & bitter but don't even realize it.

  • L. Thompson

    Many of ya are so miserable and ya lack comprehension skills. Right now the COURT REQUIRES that she sends her son to GA 1 weekend a month to spend with his father. Visits which she prepares her son for and then Nayvadius cancels at the last minute. On the times he don't cancel, her son flies 5 hours to atl to spend 2 days with his grandmother and then flies 5 hours back home. Ciara's point in going to court is to say, look he misses visits and my son is flying cross country and he still doesn't see his father, so what is the point of the COURT REQUIRING him to travel that distance. She wants these cross country visits cut out and the only way to do that is thru the COURT. This has nothing to do with wanting that fool back, and everything to do with the well being of her child. Some of ya are so use to dysfunction and the bare minimum, ya can't understand Ciara handling her business in a mature manner.

  • Kita Williams

    just because a man has kids by different mothers doesn't automatically make him "wrong" to someone else. he is still right for somebody out there. i'm not defending him but let's not say she knew he wasn't shit. she saw something and experienced a part of him we know nothing about and that is what she had faith in and that is who she was set to marry

  • Kita Williams

    actually just took a course on this and most male pedophiles are uncles and grandfathers and other men who do not spend enough time with a child to develop a significant enough bond to know not to hurt a child. the women whose boyfriends kill their children never developed bonds with the children bc they weren't around enough to give a care about the child's well-being. Russell is a father to Future and, statistically speaking, is not at a high risk for inappropriate behaviors. In fact, biological mothers harm their own children more than any other demographic. if you're gonna use google, use google scholar to look up actual sources

  • Kita Williams

    "played the fool beforrrreeeee I believed in yoooouuu yes I did yes I did" Sunshine Anderson lol

  • Kita Williams

    Ciara had unprotected sex with her fiancé. in the end, the child is here and Nayveydius is not adhering to the dates HE set for visitation.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    How old are you ten?
    So you're saying that Ciara is selfish because she had a child with a known a multiple baby daddy.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Ok have it your way.
    I see why the struggle is real.

  • Kita Williams

    no woman wants to be with a man who still treats his baby momma's good LOL she will automatically question why he so nice to them and that's the problem. women only want the man to treat them like queens and treat the exes like crap until they're on the shit end of the ex list. it's all about how he cares for and treat his children. not all men leave baby momma's bc they were trash. sometimes the momma is trash

  • Kita Williams

    noooo no one can replace the quality time needed to spend with your own parent. screw knowing the rest of his family when the rest of the family sees him more than you do. kids get jealous and start to resent real fast. there's only so many "next time baby girl" or "next time lil man" before the parent tarnishes the relationship for good. these be the same parents tryna come up off yo accolades when you get older acting like they got amnesia telling everybody how they were there for you. there is no hash out differences later in a lot of situations

  • Kita Williams

    Struggle ain’t real for me I’m married to a woman ?

  • Kita Williams

    Ummm is your reading comprehension that of a 10yr old?? All I said is a man with multiple baby mommas don’t automatically make him bad since CLEARLY Ciara saw SOMETHING good in him, like the rest did, good enough to bring life into this world

  • Kita Williams

    Oh yea in person is different lol I had a dance teacher who was happy everyday even telling you how horrible you were doing lol we all thought she was psycho

  • Trace da Ace

    yasss!!!!! Everything you said is the truth!!! She does not want Future...especially when she has fine ass Russel who treats her like a queen...why would she want Future aka Community Dick back who treated her like shit?? This is about the baby period, point blank....she is wayyyyy over Future's ass....

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    But you still have a hoodrat mentality.
    Have a good afternoon!!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Who would want something like Future interested in them?
    Some hoodrat with no self-esteem maybe. I never thought that would describe Ciara but obviously she wasn't all together emotionally to fall for Future's charm or whatever you want to call it.

  • Kita Williams

    ???? you are an angry person. I have a hood rat mentality by stating there is somebody for everybody?? That’s just human decency and recognizing that we all make mistakes and have skeletons. People with high self-esteem still get played esp if you don’t know the game but good day to you LMAO

  • Kemi

    Lol that’s funny....I had a similar teacher. He taught geography and he was so superficial

  • Bashi22

    I hear you darling but these celebrities love to parade their loves and lies in magazines for money and press once it over you he’s a deadbeat dad or he use to abuse I never go to cops because of who he was. Not saying these things cannot happen....but why so often with people money and fame they all saying the same redundant theme.

  • XoXo

    I get your point. Thanks

  • BingBangBoom

    I hear you.. I'm not suggesting the family take on the role of being the father. No one can take that parents place in the child's life. I'm just suggesting that family time is major. And what if his father wasn't here in body, does that mean his family is limited to see him? I have a few friends and family that were raised by another parent in there family grandparent, Auntie ect. Blossomed into a much stronger bond then they had with the parent. There are snakes and good in every family. In due time he would be able to sort them out. Don't take it out on Nanna and Papa. I'm sure he sees way more of Clara's and Russell's Familia.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    So True!

  • Shawty

    You can't force a man to be a father. He had a billion kids before hers and if he didn't see them regularly what makes her think he'd do hers any different. We as women need to make better choices on who fathers our children. It takes a village to raise them as it is but it definitely starts with the parents.