Did you really believe the blog stories that Tamar Braxton and her husband Vincent Herbert were divorcing? The happy couple was seen grocery shopping together at Ralph’s in Calabasas.

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Reality TV stars like Tamar and Vincent need new material to keep viewers tuning in every season. The reality TV concept is based on scripted lies, manipulation, deceit and more scripted lies. Yet the public continues to tune in.

A new study finds that the intelligence level of American youth has declined steadily every year since the 2nd world war. In 2018, the intelligence level of youths is at the lowest in decades.

Researchers blame the lack of interest in books and the increasing use of computers and smartphones among teens and adolescents. Reality TV shows should be seen as a factor as well.

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  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Glad I don’t watch that mess Tamar is a complete narcissist and that husband ain’t nothing but a abusive slop. . Whole damn family put on but but lust after stardom money … I like Toni music but that’s about all I got for any of these folks…

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I can’t call it. Hell, people still hang out with their exes whom they have no intentions of ever getting back into a relationship with. They might hunch every now and again though.

    Also, I kinda believe the abuse rumors. He always came across extremely verbally abusive and passively controlling to me. Tamar is shallow and insecure so I can see her remaining in limbo with a (somewhat) rich abusive man.

  • REAL LOGIC

    NO I DIDN’T, BUT WHAT I DID DO WAS LOOSE A LOT OF RESPECT FOR HER, HIM AND THE REST OF THEIR FAMILY FOR PLOTTING LIES, AND DRAMA FOR TV RATINGS. SAD AND RIDICULOUS!!

  • JV

    LOGICAL

  • SpillyNillie

    Her shoes are cute…”sips coffee”

  • FukkFolks2018

    Did you really believe the blog stories that Tamar Braxton and her husband Vincent Herbert were divorcing?
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    No but I did believe that he was beating her ass. Seek help Tamar if you need it… and dont let Logan witness the fukkery you are subjecting yourself to if there is any.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile I could see her black eyes through the make up… Tamar used to be high af with shades on and black eye SMH…

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Vincent has lost alot of weight, wonder what that belly doing? I watched the show a few times, he talks slow, looks slow, and acts slow. I need a lil pep in my partna.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Tamar looks good with a bald head. That’s all I got…

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!!! Opposites attract he’s slow and looks dimwitted. She’s extra and over the top. That’s probably what keeps them together…

  • hi-liter

    Vince looking slimmed down and decent.

  • mona q

    Meh … I knew it was all a stunt. You could tell. I do think he is/was abusive. I also think she is the type of woman that thinks that equates to how much he loves her. This is all speculation based on what I’ve read and watched on the show…that’s all I have to go on but it’s my perspective. ?????

  • TheyDontHearMeTho

    Dear Sandra:

    Good morning! Please don’t judge me..but I’ve been a loyal reader of your blog for many years! Your straight forward writing and humor keeps me coming back lol..do you think you could do some posts for singles lookin for eligibles…I’m desperate af LMAO real men are so hard to come by…they’re either downlow, low lives, low income, no income, fruity and puny, manly BUT fruity, shallow af, color struck af, brainwashed af, feminine af, just WOMP all around and I’m scared I might die alone or go crazy frm these damaging relationships…I know this ain the place—but I know your readers are open minded and humorous…Just sharing my frustrations..is it over for black on black relationships thats not a Love n Hip Hop storyline?! My faith is running out here…sincerely…Desperate black girl ?

  • DETROITTOATL

    I have ……nothing.

  • sunni_daze

    Me either.

  • Bossy704

    I believe some women like being abused. Don’t complain to me when you got two legs and plenty of places to go.

  • Dowoop

    his mouth is even closed.

  • Kemi

    They still together? With all the abuse and cheating/ side baby reports. Oh well

  • Blaque Mahogany

    P.S. I hate her hair. Liek everything about it. It doesn’t compliment her face to me.

    That being said, I commend her for doing what works for HER. I’m surprised that she has committed to the style given the relentless negative comments she receives online.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Of course she likes it… Pays well… Folks like that need their abuser for stability … Codependency … SMH… And they hardly ever leave.. Means they would have to get a backbone and support themselves … Toxic people live these kind dynamics … That way they feel they have some control (stability security sometimes wealth) smh

  • HoneyyGoodMoneyy_
  • Blaque Mahogany

    No shade–

    How is her posts going to help with any of the aforementioned? She can’t make a down low man straight or a bum gainfully employed. I mean she posts Morning Ferns every now and again. Girl, Issa Rae told you to get an Asian. lol

    P.S. I recently had a conversation with a home girl about color struck men.

  • Carrington

    Vince is pretty bad built.

  • justlooking

    Cant figure out, why she didn’t want him to remove that skin. Does she push his stomach to the side. Or does it make it harder for him to chase him with that extra fat. QTNA.

  • GAPeach

    And this “new” body, is much better than the old one .

  • Ni Ni

    ?KONA ma’am!

  • Kemi

    With the money, Vince should take care of that tummy

  • justlooking

    I stay in the KONA Shrug lol

  • Logan Roberts

    Vince mouth is closed ?

  • Ni Ni

    Lmao!!!

  • Owww76

    He wanted to get that operation but it is risky. That is what they were discussing on the last season of their show.

  • Kemi

    Oh I see, I give him props for losing the extra weight…

  • dontgetblocked

    I’d be jealous that Toni got all the looks.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Dang girl! Post your picture…we can start there???

  • Blaque Mahogany

    DEADDDDD!!!

    Corner….

    ….Find it

    That was funny but, I’m sure she’s a pretty girl.

  • SumthinSweeter

    and Trina

  • SumthinSweeter

    Girl you can’t be serious right?

  • Bashi22

    I would love to see these two making love

  • SumthinSweeter

    So Ms. Evelyn lied about her being there in person when he “allegedly” attacked Tamar in their mansion? Also do you remember the finger biting incident? However I don’t think Tamar is blameless though either.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    I ain’t never cared and I don’t see today changing….

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    I’m sure she is ? I was just having some fun!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Everything you said Sandra ?!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Y’all know Tamar dated Birdman some years ago! When she was out there dragging her couch tryna catch her an industry trick!

  • mona q

    Yes! I do remember…I wonder if she lied. Tamar certainly knows how to push people’s buttons…NO excuse for abusing her but I could see that she gives it as good as she gets it…I mean, her mouth is a lethal weapon…I cannot imagine the things she says to him…he always struck me as a passive aggressive type but that behind closed doors, he probably isn’t as soft spoken as he tries to act. I also think they have a very dysfunctional relationship because she is SO possessive of him. I mean, it’s one thing to be jealous…but to take it to the levels that she does is so juvenile…unless he has a history of cheating…then I could see why she acts that way. The way I’m set up…if I can’t trust you, I won’t be with you…I’m not spending my days worrying about the next woman catching your eye…disrespecting other women just because I think YOU might have a wondering eye…I just won’t. Life is too short.

  • BadAss Will

    She is so damn extra! Bad enough we don’t want you alone but you gone give us unwanted extra? Plus she hates and treat her sisters nasty. I’m happy she was kicked off the tour after getting Tracey kicked off ?? Bald head muppet.

  • BadAss Will

    who says shit like this? ??

  • KLo

    omg! are you serious

  • KLo

    she’s putting on weight

  • Trace da Ace

    I dont really like Tamar because she ALWAYS do the most….ALL THE TIME… and it is very annoying….I watched maybe 2 episodes of one of them seasons….and could not….I mean could not…..she has a nasty attitude and the only good thing I have for her is that at least her bald fade looks better than her husbands….dats all I got….

  • Trace da Ace

    lmao!!!!! IKR!!!!

  • BadAss Will

    The thought Never came to mind with these 2 yuk ?But since he brought it up? I wouldn’t mind being the fly on the wall ? they don’t make love they have sex, big difference ?

  • BadAss Will

    You don’t think Tamar jealous already? She asks it. She wanna be the only star.

  • Renee26

    So Toni got sloppy seconds huh

  • Legacy

    Literally ALL of the looks LOL! Plus, she is the eldest and has Lupus and she is still the best looking. She should help her other sisters find better makeup artists! Tired of them looking like trannies all of the time.

  • Renee26

    She doesn’t want him to get it cut off…cause of his heart. BUT his heart is the least of her worries when she’s cursing him out and causing stress…. She doesn’t want skinny Vince looking right out here

  • Renee26

    Cause she wants him to look nasty to the other women out here

  • Reina1718

    They sure always 2gether…… for the kid ?

  • Reina1718

    Eww

  • Reina1718

    Lol

  • JENNYJONES1

    LOOKS LIKE VINCENT GOT THAT SKIN SURGERY OR A GOOD SPANX WIFE BEATER. LOL!!!………JENNY JONES!!!!!

  • justlooking

    His face is great detrerant.

  • Kemi

    Lol

  • Tlowe89

    Especially tawanda

  • Ms. Jackson

    Yes, Trina is a beauty

  • BOSS

    Tamar is looking a bit too much like EJ Johnson, DRAG QUEENISH!

  • Karen Brady

    Childish and strange, strange and childish. Good, as long as they are married to each other they can’t inflict their bullshat on anyone else.

  • Karen Brady

    lol

  • Karen Brady

    WHAT???

  • Karen Brady

    :-). Ditto

  • Karen Brady

    Laughed out loud. Seriously though, stop.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    I knew I wasn’t alone ???

  • Marlika

    Vince up here looking all slim ?

    Sorry Tamar does not look good with a bald head. Not everyone can rock this look and she definitely not one of them. I wish mofos would stop lying to her.

  • TheyDontHearMeTho

    Lol no i was just bored and felt like ranting ????? Not that desperate…

  • TheyDontHearMeTho

    Why? for a bunch of strangers to criticize and find something negative to say like yal usually do? But dnt worry. I’m far from struggling in the looks department.

  • TheyDontHearMeTho

    What I look like has nothing to do with it…just shallow ppl like…urself

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Me and Tamar got the same shaped head…. when I shaved mine off back in 2005 I wanted to look like Nia Long but ended up looking more like Esther Rolle… I wonder if Vince be smacking the back of her head when he be hitting it???

  • Blue

    Hahahahahaa

  • Blue

    Bashi lemme hold your log in for a couple days. Just until you chill. LOL.

  • Shira Harding-James

    ?????

  • Reenaface

    Where’s Tamar’s supposed Steve Harvey backed talk show at?

  • Applebootay

    Not necessarily, my exes would take me anywhere I needed to go, do what I ask, etc…and there was NATHAN going on.

  • Applebootay

    and how we go all the way from Tamar and Vincent to the intelligence IQ of today’s youth in one post?

  • abby500

    Behind that preposition. “AT” not needed AT the end. ?

  • abby500

    Yeah she’s trash.

  • abby500

    Yeah they all look basic

  • Capricornlady

    I can NOT!!! lmfao

  • Kayke

    I don’t watch their show to know if it’s true or not, but people with kids should be able to hang together and be amicable even have a friendship after a failed relationship.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    au contraire mon fre`re??
    Dang I was just playing

  • Reenaface

    Aww, you corrected me with a Huggie emoji. Right back at you?. Thanks!

  • Logan Roberts

    Didn’t Tamar sleep with Toni’s (ex)husband also?

  • Logan Roberts

    See I might reconsider if you have a cute/handsome face, but Vince? Hell no.

  • SumthinSweeter

    ???

  • SumthinSweeter

    ????

  • justlooking

    ??

  • justlooking

    ?????????

  • Bashi22

    lol ? yes you can have it lol

  • Bashi22

    That’s why I want to see because her personality is so intense and over the top. Look who she marry a rich guy with some extra weight on

  • Doink_Ahanahue

    “I wanted to look like Nia Long but ended up looking more like Esther Rolle… I wonder if Vince be smacking the back of her head when he be hitting it???”

    ROFL!!!!

    https://media.tenor.com/images/969255851b8de281db09606b1167075c/tenor.gif

  • TheyDontHearMeTho

    ? lol

  • Blue

    Hahaha