gay adoption

An interesting thread on The Data Lounge website is attracting attention for its subject matter: gay men who hate their abusive, selfish, narcissistic mothers.

The thread starter, who is openly gay, seems to imply that his homosexuality is a direct result of his angry, dominant, narcissistic mother. He writes: "My mother was always toxic, selfish, narcissistic, alcoholic, rejecting, unable to nurture or comfort me. I spent decades in therapy trying to undo the damage."

Another reader writes: "I hate my mom and she hates me. She would tell me that I ruined her life and that she wished she never had me."

Studies show that boys who are raised by their fathers grow up to be more emotionally balanced and mature than boys who are raised by their mothers when the father is absent or takes no role in raising his son.

Boys look to males to emulate and define their sexual identities. Boys need fathers to show them how to be a man. It's instinctive in human beings.

Even boys who are raised by two men fare better in life than boys who are raised by a dominant, narcissistic mom.

Studies also show that women are quite successful at raising men to be well-adjusted, productive citizens. But the statistics skew dramatically when the mothers are selfish and narcissistic, and reject their children as inferior.
 

READ MORE: Why Single Women Shouldn't Raise Boys Alone
 
Numerous studies show that boys who grew up to be serial killers and rapists were raised by women who were the dominant parent or the only parent in the household.

In the early 1980s the FBI conducted a study of convicted sex-murderers and thrill-killers and found that 47% did not have a father present throughout most or all of their childhood, and of those who did have fathers present, 71% reported that their mother was the dominant parent. [Source]

Were you raised by a dominant, angry, man-hating, or narcissistic mom? Share your experiences in the comment section.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    These black women are raising up nothing but homosexuals and strippers

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    As long as my son is a strong self respecting STRAIGHT man and of good moral character, I care less about what other men put their pipes.......but it does make me uncomfortable to see 2 gay men raising kids. Just my opinion.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I understand a lot of g*y men hate women but then why they imitate us??? A lot of us want to be women... Tr*nsgender but they don't want us or don't like us. All I know is this world is wicked!

  • No Love Lost

    And these white women are raising nothing but Serial killers, pedophiles, school shooters, inbreds, and animal f/ers. But i'm not one to judge ?

  • the guest

    AMEN.

  • Coy little wink
  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    No deflecting.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I agree and 2 women too!!!! Children are created by both male and female so ummm yeah, I believe that if it wasn't for both male N female then there would NOT be human creation so ummm yeah Im just saying

  • Renee26

    That poor guy... Sad that his mom treated him like that but I don't see the connection to the heading

  • LeeSeeCee

    Go tell it on the mountain, over the hills and everywhere.. As my aunt Pete would sing when truth bombs got dropped..

  • Renee26

    What if your son was to come out as gay??

  • Trey

    alot wrong with that picture

  • Kimocha

    And a lot of girls grow up with issues because of their womanizing, philandering, chauvinistic, narcissistic fathers too... This goes both ways!

  • RICHIE_RICH

    What if he was GAY?

  • RICHIE_RICH

    It takes straight people to make Gay people ?????

  • Coco Mcluvin

    You got me at my desk crying, lololol....

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Bloop

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    She already spoke--she's a homophobe.
    But yeah sometimes God gives homophobes gay children to teach them a lesson.

  • hi-liter

    A lot of times the mother hates the child's Father, and they project that hate onto the kids because the father of the kids don't want to act right or be with them.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    S*xuality is taught and learned, what a child see’s or what is done to a child’s body and mind is what sets the tone of what that child would be curious about or into, that’s all I got to say, ok now bye!

  • RICHIE_RICH

    I’m gay and come from a 2 parent household, this article is another Tatic to tear down the black woman I say it’s BS

  • RICHIE_RICH

    That’s subjective, are you gay? If you not your opinion is null and void. Hello, good morning, bloop

  • Maxx

    You forgot to say Presidents you degenerate

  • Phillybruh

    Those two gay men have that issue. Goes back to planning my mothers 65th and retirement vacation.

  • Scromes1212

    Did you send Sandra this story? Lol

  • Anika Kelly

    Here we go with these fake arse "studies".

  • bella28498 .

    Most ppl are gay because they were molested by the same sex. In most cases if the first sexual experience is same sex they will be gay. This is most not all cases.

  • Anika Kelly

    yeah, she loves to do that shit.

  • Logan Roberts

    I take it you're speaking from experience? Which one are you sir?

  • Renee26

    Sometimes it's a wake up call... It's wild because a parents love should be unconditional

  • YES I SAID IT…

    We can agree to disagree! I am a mother and all my kids never and I do mean never expressed or showed signs that they were into the same s*x or s*x at all bcuz of their surroundings, it was never a question bcuz I allowed my kids to be childreen and never did things around them or allowed other people around them to rob them of their child hood as for them to grow up so early. My Sister was raised by her grandparents and her Aunt father sister rapped her from 6 years old all the way up until she was 15, she never had a chance bcuz this sick pedo made up her mind for her on what she would be introduced to at such an early age. She told me out her mouth that that's all she knew and it felt normally to her and even though she was with men later on in life, she still prefer women, so ummm yeaah. It is what it is, u have your opinion and I have mine, U have a good day and be U and do U, nothing anyone says should get U in your feelings.... Ok now bye!

  • Rayne

    I just don’t like that pic up top ??

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Bloop , just planned our trip for thanksgiving with mom/dad

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I just said that, and I strongly believe this bcuz my sister, my cousin, and two of my friends told me that their 1st s&xual encounter was with the same s*x

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Should be isn't what often is.
    I have learned that most people don't know what unconditional love is.

  • Kimocha

    Right!... It disturbed me too....

  • Phillybruh

    I just know I'm end up paying for my brother though. But its all good...lol

  • SpiceGirl

    That's why I ALWAYS say...." Love your child MORE than you HATE that man" And stop taking it out on the kids!!

  • RICHIE_RICH

    By no means am I in my feelings at all. Sorry that happen to your sister. All I’m saying is That’s not always true. Now you have a GREAT DAY! Bye, girl

  • bella28498 .

    Its just that simple...

  • SpiceGirl

    I was about to ask the same question.....

  • Phillybruh

    It really isn't, but continue on...lol

  • SpiceGirl

    Should be

  • Phillybruh

    Their love is based on how you make me look.

  • SpiceGirl

    Isnt she gay too?

  • Meme

    Oh yeah good point, leave 10 men on a desert island and come back in 50 years there will still be 10 men now leave 5 men and 5 women on the desert island come back in 50 years you will more than likely have a lil village

  • bella28498 .

    Really dgaf like I said most cases not tryna five deep in the weird minds of homosexuals but u can explain deeper if u like

  • Phillybruh

    nah I'm good, you know what makes you comfortable about gay folks.

  • Meme

    I would be absolutely devastated but my love for my kids would never change never end. However if they wanted to be the opposite gender id have to love them from afar!

  • Naomi

    Yup.

  • ohdearme

    Just wow, it's always the mom's fault. Women just can't catch a break, a Dr friend of mine told me that most people point to the one person that was always around to lash out at when life goes wrong, MOM! If you're twisted enough you can mentally conjure up events that in reality never happened just to fit your agenda. There's some pretty sick folks among us. #facts

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    No I am speaking from my observations, thugs,gays and strippers that alll I see as black culture now that the man was taken out of the home

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    A black women didn’t raise Barry Obama you clueless idiot

  • Meme

    Yeah good in fact very good point!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    the white women are also raising up the people who employ blacks..FYI I am black so stop being racist

  • SpiceGirl

    smh with a smirk

  • Meme

    You are absolutely correct in most cases not all

  • datjerk

    They probably hate their moms because they wanted to be her.

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    LMAO, funniest shit I read all year.......

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    I would still love him.

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    I would still love him forever.

  • datjerk

    No, that's incorrect. Most pol are gay because that's who they are. Kinda like you're straight because that's who you are. Are you straight because you were molested by the opposite sex?

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    let me guess, your GAY right? lol, yep thought so. carry on lmmfao

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    I said that on another platform and the stupid cross dressing gay mf called me homophobic......Im like idgaf what your ass think. I'm just glad MY SON ISNT GAY..........Smiling over here.....

  • NuBeauty

    Well....studies shows....your mother did something right by you. I really hope she enjoy herself!!! Do she know? Or are you planning to surprise her?????? AWWW, either way that is so sweet of you!!!

  • Misslaydj

    I'm still one of the rare people that think you are born gay. My husband thinks I'm crazy. I really feel that no one wants to be ridiculed enough to just wake up and say "today imma b gay and i wanna be ridiculed for it" Who wants to be judged every day for the sake of it. I do think woman usually "swing" to the other side for lack of better word later in life cause its easier to do so. My father who was a minster (god rest his soul) thought like my husband did.

  • EMILY POST

    Wow I see so many gay couples raising black boys... a social experiment..
    I wouldn’t doubt that the males moms play a part in their behaviors.
    Environmental factors such as trauma and molestation plays a huge role in sexuality but it’s not a popular topic to talk about because it does not fit the cute narrative that the press likes to spin.

  • Scromes1212

    What? Lol I'm not gay but I have zero problems with gay people or who a person decides to sleep with smh only religious people care about that foolishness smh

  • Phillybruh

    Yeah she knows and she's been great. It will be a surprise just not sure where too yet.

  • Phillybruh

    The only thing I can say too that is black people don't adopt.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    True their worried about what the neighbors will say.
    It's weird because it took me all of these years to realize how much my mom lived for other people's approval while I am just the opposite.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Blocked!!

  • NuBeauty

    As a mother, that warms my heart!!! She is lucky to have you!!!! Happy Early Bday Queen!!!! Enjoy Luv!!!

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    Shid, your either too silly and or immature to understand all folks don't/wont agree with the Gay agenda. As long as my son isn't participating in it I'm cool. And I will NOT change or apologize for feeling this way. Toodles......

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    GOOD...............HORAY........

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Some people are just toxic.
    Stay away from them....far, far, away!!!

  • Gloria

    Comments on this thread are disgustingly homophobic. SMH.

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    You still here under my comment commenting? Im blocked- GTFOOH Gay Goofball......

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    Still commenting? Get the fuck on........your a real retard.......

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Great ?? ??

  • Mikayla

    That’s dumb. Your sister was probably gonna be gay anyways. Most girls molested by women end up straight. Some girls molested by men run from that to women.

  • Rainbowbelow

    How are u calling someone an idiot and u don't know how to use womanwomen correctly.

  • Mikayla

    Also if one of your kids was gay they wouldn’t tell YOU. They can tell you wouldn’t accept them

  • What???

    Its not just about having a two-parent straight household, its about having a MASCULINE father. A lot of these fathers are feminine because they've bought into female propaganda and the myth that women have any consequential strength. Its all about real masculinity and calling out toxic femininity under the guise of feminists.

  • Notatall

    Why do we lie, steal, write bad checks, go with someone's spouse, gossip, hate, do some ole' underhanded stuff behind closed doors that nobody knows about but u, deceive and the list goes on....babies automatically know how to misbehave, that's why they have parents to teach them right from wrong- my point is , we come here bad but some want to make what's wrong- right....I'm a true believer in Christ and he does not lie...the truth will set u free.

  • EMILY POST

    Interesting concept or you can also look at the circumstances and reasons why so many black children are now in the system. It’s telling about the state of the culture.

  • Yup, I said it

    I've noticed when a whorish woman raises a son alone those boys tend to have a lot of social problems. But that goes for girls too it just is in conflict for the boys because their nature is to protect and they cant because momma likes to turn up.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    The thread starter is white. The Data Lounge is predominantly white. This post is not about Black women, it's about narcissistic mothers.

  • No Love Lost

    Nice try you dolt, but you have already been outed as a little pink dk white male troglodyte months ago. Now go back to Breitbart you clown.

  • sunni_daze

    I know 2 women who have both raised young men as single mothers. One's son is very well rounded, never been in any trouble and in college. The other's son has behavioral and speech problems, the other kids consider him strange and don't want to play with him and he shows signs of being possibly homosexual (not that it matters). So there may be some truth to this article, but all boys raised by a single mother don't turn out the same.

  • Phillybruh

    When I fostered they said they would love to place black children with black families they just don't do it and the ones that do are only in it for the check.

  • Yen Pettaway

    Well, well! LOL, I have 2 sons, 33 & 31 years old and they are very beautiful beings, brilliant and heterosexual. And I have to say that I raised them alone and in the midst of urban chaos. It starts first with "You"...

  • Phillybruh

    What are the signs.. because the first one you described is probably the gay one.

  • Renee26

    I respect that...we never know how we would truly react until we're faced with it

  • EMILY POST

    Not only the black ones

  • YES I SAID IT…

    U g*ys always wanna talk about if someone kid turns g*y. SMH sayin nope my kids ain't scared to tell me nothing for I am not a bully nor do I hate g*y people I just don't live the lifestyle just like y'all don't want nobody jumping on ya'll bcuz of who u are, why do ya'll always think everybody that don't agree with ya'll children gone be g*y??? U so petty

  • YES I SAID IT…
  • sunni_daze

    The first one is a whole man, nothing gay about him. The second one's mother I feel has emascualted him, by her trying to be a man when she should just be mommy. And she has a lot of the characteristics in this article.

  • Mikayla

    "U g*ys"? "Y'all"? You are petty AND crazy. Ranted a whole thing off your fear and hate. I spoke on your kids cause YOU said you never saw gay in them. Dummy. They're probably ALL gay.

  • Mikayla

    You don't have to care. You're obviously ign'ant.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    U mad or nah!??????????? :-)

  • YES I SAID IT…

    U mad or nah???? Yo psssy probably ruined that U can't even make babies! See U made this post about g*ys, I didn't! It was about how some g*y men grow up hating women and u took what I said and went left with it. Gurl or Boy BYE just bcuz I don't agree with what one does doesn't mean I hate nobody, my best friend and my sister are g*y so I don't know why I am even entertaining U.... BYE!

  • http://www.blackartshoppe.com Nyla x BlackArtShoppe.com

    I'm not fooling with you today, Sandra. Nope nope nope.

  • Dem Moore

    @Bella28498 are you gay how could you know that? I was taught in a behavioral science course in college the opposite, that people grow up resenting the molester, and in cases of same sex "violations" more then not grow up to be extremely homophobic and far from gay. I think its offensive to tell a person since you were molested by the same sex as a child your more then likely gay, not all the time but most likely. Really. Its offensive to tell a person that since your child is gay they were more then likely molested. I think you left out the part were you state in my opinion.

  • dontgetblocked

    At one point, an adult has to take responsiblity for his or her own actions. Get therapy and pray. Then move on and create a good life for yourself. When you point your finger at your mother...there are three fingers pointing back at you.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I aint gay and i aint a man but i got me an egg donor just like what you described and fuh her

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    So that’s what you got out of that ?

  • Applebootay

    But the statistics skew dramatically when the mothers are selfish and narcissistic, and reject their children as inferior.

    This post is full of shat...so what about female daughters of narcisstic mothers....they gay too? .my mom was the same way...and I'm strictly dackly...just a bunch of gays whining and complaining...

  • Mikayla

    Nah. Just smh.

  • Mikayla

    Why would I be mad? You seem mad. As in angry and as in insane.

  • TheOwley

    Mommies fault, agan.

  • Meme

    Yes but of course

  • Malcom Flex

    Nature is a heartless beast kids aren't supposed to be raised without their fathers no matter how many upset black females and pissed off white feminists may lie and say it's possible the state of our black communities prove otherwise.

    The females who raised their sons alone say many things but notice what they DON'T say: My son is a happily married man and a loving father to his kids.

  • Malcom Flex

    I notice when a whorish male abandons his sons for the women to raise alone the boys tend to have a lot of problems.

  • Malcom Flex

    I agree with you. When I started to internationally travel I noticed gay men doing the same 'fey' things all over the world.. What, did they email each other?

  • Malcom Flex

    The issue is MOM is the one is the house especially in black families. Mom is the caregiver and breadwinner when she F's up everybody knows it.

  • Malcom Flex

    There is SOME truth in that although I believe the majority of gays were born that what.

  • laidbackgal4real

    People can play the blame game or get help and move on ...

  • Waya Hedia

    Enough drama girls. Get on with your life. The first thing you need to learn is that you're on your own. No one really gives a shit.

  • Rainbowbelow

    That's what I wrote, so yeah that's what I got out your comment.

  • Eileen

    My heart goes out to the little black boy being raised by homosexuals. God Bless him. This is what happens to black women who lay down with crappy men they have to give up their babies for adoption and this is what happens. Black community "GET WOKE"!!!

  • Eileen

    PRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRReach!!!!

  • Eileen

    I agree!!!!!

  • Eileen

    its the luck of the draw a risky dice that I would not ever want to partake of....

  • Eileen

    Yes that is the nature of a man to protect but feminism has taken that away that is why you saw an extreme uptik in white men once Trump came into office! They want to assert what is natural and they have been denied that under obamagayism. When they saw Trump for all that he maybe they saw a full blown heterosexual take no sh-t attitude and no apologies given ALPHA MALE!!! nuff said...

  • Eileen

    is it our fault that black boys are now being raised by gay white men? HELL YES!!! we are reaping the consequences of following the foolishnes of liberalism, lgbt???, feminism, and not marrying!

  • Eileen

    When I grew up old school there was a great number of black folks adopting well into the early 1980's and then it tapered off. In my family there was interfamily adoption. What in the h-ll does a 15 year old need with a baby? No we did not discuss it and go into therapy we just took the babies and gave it to an auntie and uncle that didnt have a child but now adays...hell go figure...smh

  • sunni_daze

    Me either.

  • Eileen

    the only telling of the state is black folks following behind white folks with bad manners!!! that is why our communities are so darn sh-tty look at our elected officials question their liberal a$$es

  • Floriduhh Evans

    This!!! I would say 95% of all gay men I’ve known in life have serious mommy issues...it all begins and ends with your childhood...

  • Eileen

    I never believed in black mothers dispensing punishment on the sons...it was always so brutal...I know some of you can relate when mother would tell the son to get on his knees so she could hit him on the back with a broom handle or stick! of course these were the homes that had no husband or daddy wasnt home! I had a few black girlfriends and relatives who husbands forbade them to hit their sons. My son got one spanking from me when he was 2 or 3 juts a pop pop on those thighs then daddy took over no spankings just a "come here son, lets talk"! God Almighty we need good strong black heterosexual Christian men in the homes we so damn near sh-tty it breaks my heart. God help us!!!

  • Eileen

    and people wonder why i never did sleep overs...smh

  • Eileen

    I say bw need to make better choices about who they have babies with. Marry level not oh he nice...you have a masters degree and he works in sales at home depot ...anyway

  • Malcom Flex

    Let's keep it buck MOST black single mothers beat the kids too much yeh I said MOST. They beat girls and boys the same. You sound like you and your man have it together. The reason why so many sons hate their mothers is the mother was SELFISH and didn't get proper male role models she tried to do it on her own- that doesn't work neither does whooping on your kids!

  • Eileen

    You are right but women are too freaking emotional to compartmentalize their emotions and rationality when it comes to this particular situation. Everytime I see a bw with a black boy with no daddy I literally cringe, because I know the deal...smh

  • Malcom Flex

    It's also possible the boy got SEXUALLY MOLESTED even though black people try to deny this FACT sex abuse is COMMON in single mother households. Mama's boyfriend, fake uncles, crazy babysitters. Most black boys who have been sexually abused act out in crazy ways, mess up in school, etc. Most never tell their mama what happened, either.

  • Eileen

    that is not how God works...if he considers it an abomination why in the world would he shove it in your face...Christians are to love everyone ..

  • Eileen

    sad and the the liberals dont care it is part of their agenda we need some new black folks that is why they fight so hard for the illegals to come here the liberals ad george soros are tired of black folks!

  • bella28498 .

    I am a heterosexual married woman.... in my field of work and through casual conversations when homosexuals are honest they will tell u they were molested and if that molestation was their first same sex encounter then that pretty much is what did it.

  • bella28498 .

    No I was taught to be a heterosexual female , tea parties ,baby dolls, dresses, socks with ruffles, and geared in the direction liking boys.
    My parents didn’t play that it’s ok for her to play with a hot wheel set.

  • fRAktal Reality

    That is an infuriating and insulting image...just like the pics of Charize Theron and her Disney-manufactured trans son.

  • Dahl

    I want to know why this is the fault of the mother who stayed with them and raised them, regardless of how disfunctionally and NOT the absentee father? Why not blame the person that abandoned you and hurt your mom? I’m almost sure they’d hate their mom’s regardless, even if she left them and they were raised by dear ol’ dad...

  • datjerk

    So playing with certain toys determines your sexuality? ??

  • fRAktal Reality

    Have you forgotten where the initial programming started in disbanding Black families? Wasn't there a time when children were separated from their parents and relocated to different locations across states against their will? Wasn't it unlawful for Black men and women to wed each other? They did so in secret risking the consequences. Wasn't it not too long ago that it was a criminal act for a Black person to read and write? Didn't social welfare programs require a fatherless household before dispensing food and monetary benefits?

    From whom and where did thinking derive that Black Americans are bereft of family values? In every indigenous Black ethnic group, reproducing generations was highly valued and a priority. Despite traumas and tragedies inflicted on Blacks, we've managed to take measures to unify our families and reconnect with our loved ones. Wasn't that the purpose of family reunions?

    Many of the dysfunctions that have manifested over generations within Black communities are a result of social engineering. Yes, social scientists planned, directed and facilitated outcomes (via systems) they knew would transition to autopilot mode in the thinking, behavior and actions of Blacks causing us to become willing participants and complicit in our own demise.

    The propaganda machine fingered Blacks as a constant foreboding threat by making us the face of poverty and crime where we unwittingly become the punching bag and scapegoat for every problem in this country.

    Not all of us are deaf, dumb, blind and stupid. We are for whom we have been waiting to change the trajectory of our lives.

  • Lovey

    Blame, blame, blame! The mother stayed with your sorry ass, reared you, while your dad was screwing every other chick in town and you are mad at her? Forgive if she has/had issues and move the hell on!

  • Li-Wright

    This is interesting, because with gay men...it's usually the woman who accepts their arse, and the dad who abandons them after they find out they're gay.

  • bella28498 .

    Lol ? u wanna go deep.... I can go more in depth but not for this site

  • Malcom Flex

    No this is what happens when black males ditch their kids all black kids have two parents so why can't the males step up and take custody?!!

  • Malcom Flex

    So all that to say black males are weak simps who can't raise their kids cuz da white man keeping dem outta de house.

  • fRAktal Reality

    MALCOM FLEX - Stop hiding behind your intelligence.

    A competent thinker analyzes cause and effect to apply a solution.

    Talking about problems without understanding its cause is a sign of incompetence and lazy thinking.

    Individuals with creative minds understand their purpose is to create, produce and solve problems. Individuals who are uncreative are vulnerable to corruption and develop criminal minds.

    This ain't no laughing matter.

  • Malcom Flex

    Shut up trying to control grown folks I stand behind my words and don't need some stranger to TRY to control me as though I'm a child.

  • Malcom Flex

    It IS about having a two parent household because we as black americans are so far behind other races. Even IF the father is feminine, just him being in the HOME matters, alas, most aren't in the home, so there's that.

  • Malcom Flex

    All those black boys have FATHERS who could, and fail to demand custody. I'm a different breed, I place the blame on the FATHERS and you're right, not marrying the mothers of their children.

  • fRAktal Reality

    I've no desire to control you. If you had the intellectual maturity of an adult, you wouldn't have misconstrued my message and taken a personal jab at me. This isn't personal. I don't know you.

  • MRiGOThim

    cute kid...

  • Malcom Flex

    Yawn...you sound like a boring HOTEP trying to either pontificate or bait, again YAWN & again, you write as a TWEEKER go reread some of your mess.

  • Alextra Ballard

    I don't like the above photograph. It's not because its a depiction of a Gay couple. It's because their cuddling a black baby. Find a white baby. Ion truss these blue -eyed devils

  • YellowSauce

    ..... because daddy left them not because mommy raised them

  • fRAktal Reality

    Malcom Flex - I write candidly and non-deceptively. You may not like my delivery, but it was not meant to be offensive or personal to you. Your silly labels are moot. Grow up.

  • TransMichelle

    They looking at that little boy like he's their next meal

  • SpiceGirl

    Wait...so whites folks don't go threw the same shit??

  • sunni_daze

    I didn't want to say it but, yes, he was touched by one of his mother's boyfriends. Sadly she never got him help or bodied the clown that touched him and this was about 7-10 yrs ago and he's been different ever since.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Me either, my parents and play that!!!!

  • Yen Pettaway

    ?

  • Eileen

    of course they do but they always come out on top because they always have an ace in the hole it is called a plan "B"

  • SpiceGirl

    Oh....ok..didn't know it was a black or white thing.....How about the HUMAN race can suck sometimes?!

  • Fodderwing

    Quick *possible* disclaimer...the child and couple in the photo may simply be models in a staged setting. Not sure, but u never know.

    Now. Onto the task at hand. The crux of the article, based on my inference, is similar to the paradox of “what came first, the chicken or the egg”...did one cause the other and which one caused the other to arise...or did they arise independently of the other. The fundamental query posed by Ms. Rose is, (*my disclaimer: my opinion is based solely off of the inference of the article), suggesting that homosexuality can be both a product of nature (genetic predisposition) and nurture (the idea that ones upbringing can influence an individuals’ choices that they may not have made if they were nutured in a different environment). So. Ultimately...this is just like the chicken and the egg. There is no correct answer...just room for supposition.

    That being said...and I’m not sure how I feel about this topic...the *one* interesting snippet that blows all my theories out of the water is the case of Aaron Hernandez...not sure if he was raised by a narcissist, bc I want this insight to remain germane to the stated topic, but hear me out on this as it relates to homosexuality being a factor of nature or nurture.

    From what I have gleaned from all the articles I have read, Aaron was involved in both hetero and homosexual relationships. I feel like he mostly defined himself as a heterosexual and if he had a choice would be with a woman. However, he was sexually molested by a man during his formative years...and the fact that he was was turned on by a man, created a space in himself that was not what he wanted but what his body reacted to. And that left room for him to call into question who he was. And he hated the person for it. And he hated the men who he found he had a weakness for. I feel that if he wasn’t manipulated he never would have gone that way. And he hated himself for it. And he destroyed every aspect of that part of his life as a result.

    But who knows? Maybe he still would have been bisexual had the violation never occurred.

  • Fodderwing

    Omg please read my post.