A real-life 'Bridezilla' is upset that her Facebook friends refused to pay $3,000 each to attend her wedding in Thailand. The American bride, who lives in the United States, came up with an ingenious way to finance her exorbitant wedding by asking her friends and family pay all the expenses.

According to the Daily Mail UK, the woman was furious that only 9 guests (out of 150) RSVP'd and agreed to pay the excessive $3,000 fee.

"At the risk of sounding entitled, I have to vent today," the anonymous woman wrote on Facebook.com.

"When we invited our friends and family to our destination wedding in Thailand, only nine people RSVPs [sic]. Out of 150!!! Ok, I get it, paying $3k to share my special day is too much for some for you, I'd pay for yours, but whatever," she griped.

The bride even changed the location of her wedding from Thailand to Hawaii to accommodate her guests -- who live in the lower 48 states.

She fully expected them to happily pay $3,000 plus flight snd hotel expenses to attend her wedding in Hawaii.

"When we changed the wedding to be in Hawaii, so it's within everyone's reach, only 7 of your RSVPd???" she wrote.

She added: "It costs less but less of you wanna come? Is that what you think of [D] and me? You can't spare $2k to come share our happiness?"

Then she threatened the few friends she has left.

"This is it guys, you have three days to respond to our evites or we're deleting you off FB and good luck keeping up with our lives then," she warned.

She was unhappy that her friends only bought the cheapest items on her registry.

"And don't get me started on the registry. Only the cheap stuff is gone, I swear I thought I had better friends," she wrote.

Charging guests to attend weddings is the latest trend among the wealthy. Top tier wedding planners say it is necessary to charge guests to thwart aggressive wedding crashers who help themselves to food and drink without an invitation.

Question: Would you be upset if your friends blew off your invitations to your wedding and only bought the cheapest items in your registry?

Photo by Thanarak Worakarndecha / EyeEm / Getty Images

  • IAmLawlessBrooks

    She on some serious sh*t! Pay $3000 to finance you and your husband wth they ain't the ones whose hitting it when the night comes

  • Kim’s Original Face

    Delete me! Ungrateful ass. If your friends and family love you and you love them why charge them to show up? I wonder how many would rsvp if it were free ?

  • Judi Jupiter

    This is the dumbest thing I ever heard... she's a fool.

  • iWasteTime

    bwhahahahaha
    She better go to the Justice of The Peace

  • Anika Kelly

    that b!tch crazy

  • Kimocha

    Don't just delete me on FB.... delete me as a friend... Girl Bye!

  • BingBangBoom

    Stuff like this runs across my social timeline at times... I was invited to a few destination weddings that I couldn't afford or wasn't willing to pay. I just let them vent and then DELETE them... it went from the guest paying for dresses, tuxs and shoes (which can already be costly) to the guest paying for everything.. What happen to just going to the courthouse? Do people get married for love anymore?

  • Soda

    She had the nerve to say she wanted one day to feel like a Kardashian. Reality TV has ruined society.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    That fake real estate guru dude is doing the same thing. He wants you to not only pay for his wedding and honeymoon, but to pay to WATCH his wedding on live stream. The idiots are the ones that actually support these clowns.

  • Kanyade

    the ordasity!

  • Alextra Ballard

    Yew ain got to delete me,l'll delete my own damn self..."Click"

  • Rachel

    She better take her a$$ to the courthouse and call it day. Ain’t nobody got time to go half way round the world for you to say I do. Since when did fb become the focal point of people lives? It take a special kind of stupid to verbally threaten people with deletion as they gaf.

  • Rainbowbelow

    I would reply P? r?wmphe?? t?w xeng, which means "go f*** yourself" in Thai.

  • dru and neil

    I wish Facebook would put out an announcement to FB users that nobody gives a sh*t if you delete them from your friends list. I had a friend from high school make an announcement basically congratulating us for still being on her friends list, because she had to do some “soul searching last night and let some people go.” Who the hell cares?

  • Guest

    This is the second time I am reading something like this. I saw one on the Daily Mail. That whole relationship collapsed and the bride blamed everyone for ruining her relationship because they didn't want to pay to come to her wedding. smh. I thought it was fake, a joke. These people have got to be kidding me.

  • dru and neil

    Her husband needs to really question if this is the kind of person he wants to deal with. She sounds like a real nightmare.

  • Soda

    I received a wedding invitation from a relative that I hardly know. Since the bride & groom already lived together, they asked that instead of gifts they be given money or gift cards. Just tacky.

  • iWasteTime

    They asked?
    I didn't put anything ...

  • Soda

    Right in the invitation.

  • WhoKnew

    It's a no for me dawg in my Randy (American Idol) voice. Delete me. Unfollow me. You will not be getting $3,000 stacks from me.

    My son attended a wedding back in July and the bride and groom were asking people to pay for their honeymoon. When he told me that I thought he was joking and he said they were serious. My serious response was they don't need to be taking a damned honeymoon if they can't afford it.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Question: Would you be upset if your friends blew off your invitations to your wedding and only bought the cheapest items in your registry?
    ^^^^^^^^^^^
    I got invited to so many weddings one summer I had to BUDGET THEM. And then after that did not work I had to start turning down invites. I dont have it like that in my own fukking budget to attend every single one. And being of proper etiquette if I cant gift you nicely I will just not go. It SHOULD be a win/win bc that is one less person yall gotta pay for. And this is for the most part LOCAL weddings. Driving distance. Add in the fact that it takes up my whole ASS Sat. And then if I DO have to travel...my whole WEEKEND. Happy for yall and good luck on your marriage is all I can offer some folks.

    Folks need to get their heads out their fukking ASSES okay?

  • Soda

    I mainly lurk on FB now so my friend won't wonder why I didn't respond to her post with an 'Amen' or share some complete b.s. story ( like the one that Tyler Perry was sending people money by FedEx). I use it mainly for storing photos and collecting recipes until I can move them someplace else.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I dont think folks understand that people do NOT have it like that to shell out for YOUR day. If you want me to be a part...can you try to make it affordable for your guests? If I pay that amount of money I want to put it towards my own vacation and not be worried about attending your fukkin wedding while I am gone.

  • Karen Brady

    Bih bye.

  • Karen Brady

    It's a no for me dawg in my Randy (American Idol) voice. Tee heee it's been so long but I heard that clearly in my head.

  • Victorious82

    I’ve never heard of someone with such a profound sense of entitlement. Astounding.

  • Karen Brady

    :-)

  • Faithz

    Gold digger ?

  • Faithz

    That wedding set up is beautiful.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I bet there will be loser mentality bitches paying for this shit too. She’s entitled and she’s acting like a bitch.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Alextra Ballard

    People hate ultimatum,including myself. Tryn to demand folks to do this or else.Fvck Ha!!!

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    Is that tacky tho? I'm in my early 40's with 2 almost grown kids. I'm not about to live the traditional route because I'm already past that. So if I don't want the typical wedding gifts, what am I supposed to ask for? Im NOT into home décor......I figured I would make it easy by taking away all the last minute guessing.

  • Coy little wink

    But isn't the whole point of the wedding to demonstrate how much money you and hubby (or y'alls parents have)?

    Obviously y'all don't have any money hun ?

    And isn't the point of a destination wedding to exclude having to pay for folks to attend? So she learned who really gives a fukk and it was eye opening...

  • Connie

    I get that on the surface the request for money or gift cards could sound tacky, but if they already live together, one more blender or crystal figurine seem like a waste to me. With that said, since it's customary to give wedding gifts, what do you think would be a less tacky request? I'm genuinely asking

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile folks is loosing it ... I swear ..... how you demand someone to come to your wedding ... like she is some honored person .... and get mad ..... and threatened to delete them .... if she hit the block okay..... like being deleted is some kind of painful threat .... chile.... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c22bbb0726b55780d5b8daabf5e7ff036f5e7db69467497fbef25caabddf4b73.gif

  • FukkFolks2018

    You can set up a gift cards only registry at just about everywhere. All of the normal registry spots. And have been able to for years now. And there is verbiage out there that is used for it to basically say that is what you want.

  • Soda

    If you have everything, how about just being glad to have your friends share your joyous celebration? If you want home decor then include a store registry.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Very tacky .... folks give what they want .... never understood that smh

  • FukkFolks2018

    Then is it tacky if you put in the store registry and folks go there and its for only gift cards? I mostly see it for baby registries but have seen it for weddings too. And you can do it for house warming and going away to college parties

  • dru and neil

    I read news reports, recipes, and make the occasional post on a special occasion and I do mean rare. I’ve posted three times in the past five years. One for a death in the family, twice for graduations. Profile picture hasn’t changed in six years.

  • MissyJ

    I just wanna know what the 3K is for.. I mean I'd pay for my travel expenses cause...Thailand. But I'm not paying the Bride/Groom one cent directly.

    I don't have a problem with folks asking for money/GC versus a wedding registry cause not everyone wants or needs salad forks and a toaster from crate and barrel. I'd much rather throw y'all $50 to put to your light bill or your weed man bill, whatever your pleasure. As far as the convo going on down yonder.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I'm pretty sure if people wanted to go to Hawaii it wouldn't be to attend your lame wedding.
    Do better, troll.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Try if you the guest .... you shouldn't be paying nothing .... folks and their entitled azzes ..... that's insane .... and inconsiderate as fawk!!!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    This. All of it. I guess to each. Far as cash and gc's... I give folks a Visa Gift Card for at least $75. You paid at least that for me to eat and damn it drink.

  • Soda

    A register is a more subtle way to ask.

  • MsJC

    I would have deleted her on FB if she was my friend asking for that BS! Go to the court house or Vegas and elope if you cant afford a lavish wedding!

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker
  • Trace da Ace

    First off...I would not pay 3,000 to attend ANYBODY wedding.....period point blank. Is it not enough that I'm paying to travel and all that just for the wedding, much less funding it!!!

    This woman has lost her rabid ass mind!! Why would a guest....actually give them money to help pay for shit??? A gift and attendance is more than enough!!! She should be ashamed of herself for even going there....BUH-BYE!!!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    I say affordable for guests far as travel. Hawaii is expensive AS HELL. the travel. The lodging. the food. The activities. Its high. Thailand the travel alone is a grip. You cant have it local? I pure stopped going to out of town weddings. I drive 45 minutes each way a day to WORK. I am not driving 7-8 hours to see you get married unless its fam or close fren. And I am not sending a gift just bc you invited me. Folks are tripping.

  • Trace da Ace

    damn I miss Ren and Stimpy.....

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I thought it was on the bride and groom to pay the expenses for destination weddings.

  • Trace da Ace

    hello!!! shitt....and the food BETTER be good...or else I will roll up with Hibachi....lol...

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    I do too

  • Trace da Ace

    this chic has champagne dreams on a bud light budget....

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Beyond tripping .... smh ..... same with these damn baby showers and reveal parties ...... tacky .... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5406a067d89d1924f4f9967857b7ca15a701e44524df7514659efb170810c224.gif

  • Connie

    This reminds me when Kris Humphries told Kim that she already had a wedding planned from whenever. She just slotted him in. She wanted a wedding, not a marriage.

  • Lady_Elle

    Bride & Groom pay ONLY their expenses.
    Guests pay their expenses... room upgrades etc.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I feel sorry for the guests and the groom smh...the bride is so delusional that she thinks deleting people from her fb will make them feel bad...no honey they will laugh at you for being too cheap to pay for your own wedding...she could have did a small destination wedding and a reception in her home town...I understand how the guests feel Im going to a wedding the end of the month when the bride/groom told us we would have to pay to attend the bridal shower (painting with a damn twist) and stressed on the invite that if anybody wanted a guest to attend that is not a spouse or a known life partner they would have to pay the couple 91.00...Chile

  • FukkFolks2018

    I have had to leave a wedding before hungry bc of food. I have food allergies. You cant have regular ass food? Damn chicken is satay (peanut sauce) and I cant even eat a damn salad bc you got nuts on THAT too? I tried to drink ALL their wine as a trade off and I wanted VERY badly to take my gift back. But did not.

  • Ccity

    I’m good luv enjoy

  • Soda

    Not tacky to me, it kind of let's me know you want to pick your gift, without seeming to dry beg.

  • Vegas1989

    I'm done...Break time. Let me warm up my snack

  • Alextra Ballard

    Lmaooo... Nooo knot Katt!!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    agreed. lmao at dry beg

  • MissyJ

    That happens to husband all the time. I mean I like a good cashew or walnut as much as the next but dayum they will sprinkle them on everything...

  • Solstice
  • MissyJ

    I wonder how she feels now.. The next day she was still feeling like she was wronged and lashing out. I'd be interested to see what she says about the response now... Has she doubled downed on her crazy or nah?

  • ShWa

    Delete me baby! She must be on that stuff!

  • Soda

    Following tradition, isn't the bride's side supposed to pay for the wedding?

  • FukkFolks2018

    BAD

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Fuk her and her wedding

  • Connie
  • Fire & Ice

    When she said she would be deleting folks, and good luck keeping up with their lives, I kept shaking my head. Really!!!! Nobody cares about keeping up with this illusion, you've created on social media. One more monster who's obsessed, with looking like she has a certain life.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Who has it to pay for other folks to essentially go on vacay tho? $3000 x 150? I would pay for my mom (my dad is deceased), his aunt (his parents are deceased) and the rest of the folks on their own if you want to see. I wouldnt even pay ALL for my oldest daughter to go. Your ass a grown up just like me. We got most... but naw.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Listen. Sis. I found me a gay white homeboy and we sat our asses in that corner and did just this. He was like I see you arent eating either. Scoot over and handed me a glass of red.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Its beyond ridiculous

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    “This is it guys, you have three days to respond to our evites or we’re deleting you off FB and good luck keeping up with our lives then,” she warned.
    --------
    She sounds like the kind of person I'd want to delete out of my life anyway. Good riddance.

  • Carrington

    I have a friend like this... every single year wants everyone to get together for HIS birthday in the Dominican Republic, Puerto Rico, Dubai, etc...
    Maaaan, F*CK you! Why would I use my vacation days for YOUR birthday and then not have shit when MINE comes around? If the whole crew decided, "I'm want everyone to go to Brazil for my birthday!" and the next one (whose birthday is three weeks later) says, "I want everyone to go to Dubai for my birthday!" and the next one (two months later) says, "Let's all go to Anguila for my birthday!" do you know how expensive that shit gets and how much time you have to take off of work?!
    People are so damned insensitive!!

  • Fire & Ice

    Exactly!!! Furthermore, who wants travel half way around the world for this. Using up hella vacation or PTO time for this sh*t ?

  • Crazy tee

    Bye ?? ??

  • Fire & Ice

    ???

  • Trace da Ace

    Girl I dont blame you...trust me when I say that I have had to leave receptions to go get food or have my husband bring me food all because I cannot eat what they have.....but trust when I say, a bitch will pull up with some take out in a minute....lol

  • Trace da Ace

    aint it!!! hell if I'm going to Hawaii or Philippines or whatever....its gonna be to lay up with hubby...not to attend some fuck shit ass wedding that I have to shell out 3 bones for...no maam....

  • Soda

    Then she changed to it Hawaii where they've had their share of natural disasters this year. Even less "friends" replied!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I feel bad for the groom in particular. This woman doesn't sound like "happily-ever-after" material. Sorry, I don't wish bad on anybody's marriage, but it wouldnt shock me if this union is over in just a few short years. Dude might want to run while he still has the chance.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    The husband could be just as bad. Just like the couple that stole the money from the homeless man. A matrimony made in scamming heaven.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Auntie, is setting this delusional woman up to get dragged through the comments. But to answer your ?, Hell NAH! This bish hustling backwards...

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Sounds about hwite!

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    The gag is, I doubt she is poor! Sounds like a cheap bish, marrying into money.

  • Faithz

    I simply love your screen name ?

  • Quitedeliteful

    Good Riddance is right! So you can only be her friend if you shell out thousands plus the cost of a round trip flight???

  • Lady_Elle

    EVERYTHING... @Carrington SAID! :-)
    I totally agree!

  • RaginB

    that's ok girl i'll remove myself ??

  • Quitedeliteful

    I feel sorry for her husband because she has a really selfish personality. I bet it doesn't last five years...

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    Ever heard of Trump??

  • Lady_Elle

    A true narcissist!
    I'm surprised she has 150 friends...

  • Well$$Well$$?

    She definitely sounds entitled. Can I just say, I loathe when people tell YOU how you should spend YOUR money.

  • Lady_Elle

    I know of a couple that opened a Go-Fund-Me for their destination wedding. After almost a year... they may have had $50.

    If you can't afford a destination wedding... DON'T HAVE ONE.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    This is what I don't understand, folks living beyond their means to impress ppl that are only going to talk chit about them anyways...

  • Quitedeliteful

    Only the cheap stuff is gone, I swear I thought I had better friends
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    So friendship is measured by the cost of the gift?

  • Judge Mental Will

    Delete me please, its like the trash taking itself out.

  • Quitedeliteful

    She's lucky to have 7 people at her wedding. Four are the parents and the other three are siblings. Why would I want to foot the bill for her wedding???

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Periodt.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Only $50.??? LMBAOFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Sandra what's up with the site going out .... This is roasting season ..... we need the garden working properly https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/16a1c2c32a1fc9952180d829113ffff2f9fc26759c2c604ce4adad6cf69f5c0c.gif

  • Nikkiknows

    Girl, you could totally delete me, and you would not be missed.

  • Quitedeliteful

    This is roasting season!!!! LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!! Very true. I'm having problems with the site also...

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    I always feel sorry for the groom/husband in these situations. Remember the ugly asian woman that had all the plastic work done and the husband divorced her for tricking him, bc they're kids came out ugly??

  • Alextra Ballard

    I done read some shit tidday,but this bitch and her threats takes the cake. She actually thinks FB is the Alpha and the Omega.. The beginning and the end.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I have a homegirl who really wanted me to come to her birthday gathering...in Key West in 2016. Her birthday is the end of Nov. She didnt start ASKING folks until like around this time. Mid Sept. And it dont damn it matter. End of Nov eating into my time off for Thanksgiving AND my Holiday time bish. All my trips is damn it TOOK by that time and done been accounted for in my PTO. And we still have minor kids at home. Last minute trip robbing the kids and our nieces and nephews of Christmas presents. She was mad AF when about 3-4 other ladies responded the SAME. What is wrong with people truly?

  • Rayne

    This is it guys, you have three days to respond to our evites or we’re deleting you off FB and good luck keeping up with our lives then,” she warned.

    Uhhhh bye bitch! ??

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b17eea2a824f5c43e11df8acc2af451dd1bc8991fb8670448652a9476f756ba3.gif chile I been trying to chime in ... and keeps going offline .... shyt getting too juicy in these streets to be having glitches .....

  • Yup, I said it

    Please don't give hood rats another idea to try at baby showers. These rats will start charging folks per plate to attend a damn baby shower. Baby showers are already extravagant like wedding with the mother to be and the baby daddy cutting the cake together, like its a wedding.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Let's see...3000 x 150 = $450,000. Now why would any sane group of people put together damn near half a million dollars to pay for her wedding, air fair, down payment on a house with all brand new furniture and a nice little nest egg left over? She wants three thousand and you still have to pay for your airfare and hotel??? I predict she will have zero friends on FB in 1..2..3..

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Precisely why I left 4 years ago .... insane chile ...... and it's immature as hell to be having tantrums bout a damn wedding ..... and probably be divorce next month

  • Rayne

    That’s what I said her friends are gone.

  • Quitedeliteful

    And some family members too...

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Rayne

    I am not paying $30 cause I buy nice ass gifts.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Whuuut??????? Ima have to look this up!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    This chick set herself up with that ridiculous demand. I wonder who she thought she was fooling...

  • dontgetblocked

    When you have a destination wedding, it should be small. If I'm going to pay a bunch of money to go to Hawaii, it will be for a vacation not some damn wedding. Girl...puhlease!

  • Fire & Ice

    I don't blame them. This chick is selfish!

  • Fire & Ice

    Bingo! If I'm traveling that damn far, it will be on a private vacation with the "Mr"

  • Alicia.Ashe

    What a spoiled entitled brat. My cousin is getting married she has two options, donate to her honeymoon or get them this pan set.

  • Nik

    I wish he was her friend so that he could roast the hell out of her!

  • Rayne

    In real life as soon as she would’ve mentioned money I would’ve dropped her ass quick!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I wish Cardi or Nicki would go ahead and drop their alleged respective diss tracks. I'm bored...

  • Renee26

    Destination weddings are supposed to be small intimate affairs... Maybe she should get friends who can afford to go on expensive vacations if she has such a problem with so many not attending.

  • pecancandy

    Bye Bish

  • Blue

    I'm here for these comments. I know y'all dun' dragged this lady from here to her 20th wedding anniversary.

  • Nik

    THIS!

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    And when she looks around in that church on her wedding day and only see her mother and pastor, she will call those same friends back. It's lonely at the top, but it is also humiliating to be alone at your wedding.

  • Nik
  • Ebony Starr

    I would unfriend her before she had a chance to delete me.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    There is a lot of traffic hitting the server. It will quiet down after the new people leave.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Carrington

    Exactly. Selfish. My friend is getting married. Initially it was in August. It was out of state, which means all of the guest would have to travel, pay for lodging, and eat. Mind you NEITHER of them is from the place where the wedding is scheduled. They cancel and then reschedule for the second week in January, “to make it more easy on everyone.” HOW!?!?

    People are coming off of Thanksgiving AND Christmas payment arrangements. PLUS, you either used Christmas, Thanksgiving or, both leave during that time period. Especially if you have bad assed kids who were out of school for the holidays and daycare was closed - and you had to be at work.

    Not to mention you probably bought gifts, etc. - what if I traveled to see my mama for Christmas and took the kids? Two weeks after CHRISTMAS you want me to travel again AND pay for a hotel and food?

    People just don’t consider other people when they plan stuff like that. I understand that your wedding is about you, but wouldn’t it be nice to consider what you’re asking of other people during the planning process?

  • Applebootay

    Charging guests to attend weddings is the latest trend among the wealthy.

    Obviously her nor her friends are wealthy, otherwise she would've paid for them to come....that's REAL wealth. GTFOH...Fool azz girl

  • Renee26

    That was hilarious... He won too

  • Renee26

    ? ? ?

  • FukkFolks2018

    All of this AGAIN. My niece got married New Years Eve. The groom and his immediate family are from DETROIT with some living in Chicago. How are you asking these folks to travel in the dead of winter like that? And again, around a holiday. Someone said below they feel sorry for the grooms. This! Bc do you think he stood up to tell her his grandparents who are in their late 80s have no biz traveling in the snow/weather? Many got stuck here too. Bc return flights were indeed canceled due to weather. All bc she was stuck on a NYE wedding. Selfish!

  • Guess Who

    WTF? Clearly this bitch was trolling for the lulz.
    How crass, delusional and tacky can one person be? My goodness...

  • Tee Bullock

    I will forever love this MJ meme:)

  • disqus_DxKO3ThTGI

    I'm not into home décor that's why I said I would prefer cash/gift cards. This is a celebration of our union (which is hard to come by these days) and this celebration does cost money....like- food, liquor, cake, music etc......the things the guest get to enjoy for taking time out to celebrate with us. I just don't think it's tacky but to each its own.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Folks in the comments going in harder than Katt went in on Wanda!!! LOL!!!!!!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    My LOL finger would have been going buck wild because that is the only response she could possible get from me! LOLLOLLOL!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    They gotta wait for their respective crews to finish writing the lyrics...

  • Quitedeliteful

    I love it!!! pots and pans can cost as much as a vacation!!!

  • Phillybruh

    lol...Nicki should really call Safari or go through his old rap books he left at the house.

  • Nik

    I remember seeing the Thriller video premiere when I was a kid. That moment was everything!

  • leapyearpisces

    If this bish don't take her azz to the JUSTICE of the PEACE...and have a reception at Golden Corral and honeymoon at Myrtle of Virginia Beach...LOLOLOLOL.... I mean really...I hate ENTITLED mofos. I bet she a MILLENIAL too..we KNOW how ENTITLED those mofos are....SMH.

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!! Ya gotta respect Safaree's hustle!!

  • WhoKnew

    Thought it was just my computer acting up.

  • WhoKnew

    Juicy in the streets? LOL.

  • Nita

    She's crazy af

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    lololololol

  • Wreckognize Game

    Girl bye! Go get married and then jump in the ocean behind you.

  • Nikkiknows

    THAT PART! WORD!

  • TMW

    Stop counting other folks money - people have
    That bad, I swear! The days of parents paying for weddings are gone. With that said, plan a wedding you and your soon to be spouse can afford. Your friends aren’t bad friends because they don’t want to pay for your wedding. You are a bad friend for assuming they will.

  • Wreckognize Game

    She probably the same kind of bride threatening to put bridemaids out her wedding.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    True

  • AndSo

    Honestly, outside of a few cultures where giving straight-up money to the newlyweds is a long-standing tradition, asking people for money to attend your party, your birthday, your whatever is tacky as hell. $3,000 AND time off work to spend precious vacation time focusing on some entitled bridezilla is lunacy.

    Otherwise, if you want a party, then THROW IT YOURSELF, FUND IT YOURSELF and allow your GUESTS the option of picking out a present for you. If you want a destination wedding, then don't EXPECT everyone that you invite to be able to make it. Geesh.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Lol. The shade... ???

  • Lady_Elle

    I went back and checked.... the total is $125.
    They got married... on a TIGHT BUDGET.
    It was a nice wedding... it was what they could afford. :-)

  • Kayke

    This right here is why I don’t have friends. If it was really about spending her special day among friends and family, she wouldn’t be having a pretentious, for likes, destination wedding. It’s obvious she doesn’t run in the “3k to spend on someone’s wedding” circle. Enjoy your day with the 9 people who can be there for you and shut up.

  • Karen Brady

    Beginning to end. All of what you said.

  • http://www.4flavorsofmecreolemami.com/?m=1 ?4FlavorsOfMe ?????CreoleMami?

    I wish one of my friends would... smdh

  • Karen Brady

    Stop counting other folks money - Been telling folks all my adult life to stay the fuk out my pockets and worry about what's in theirs.

  • Karen Brady

    Giggles

  • AndSo

    Then PAY for the celebration yourself and invite people that YOU can afford to feed. When I throw myself a birthday party I PAY FOR THE ENTIRE THING. I am grateful that my friends and family want to come and celebrate with me and am grateful for whatever present or bottle of wine that they gift to me.

    Asking for $$$$$ to celebrate myself is absurd and selfish and, yes, tacky.

  • Karen Brady

    Exactly why I'm going to the courthouse, then to Houston's with as many ppl that can fit at a table with my husband and me. I'm going to enjoy my prime rib, loaded potato, glass of champagne and my brownie, go home, finish packing and the two of us will go on a vacay the next day. Plain and simple, that's all I want. Been planning it for years. Now if God will just send me my loving husband:-)

  • Kayke

    Baby showers irk the hell outta me. I’m down for the first one, but if you on child number 2, 3, 4 don’t expect me to fund the additions to your family. Renting banquet halls and whatnot .... take that money you spending on a party and fund the child’s life.... and please don’t invite me to your “gender reveal party” because I don’t understand those either.

  • Blue

    Hahahahahaha

  • the chosen one

    Is that heifer crazy? That's like asking people to pay to attend their loved ones funeral. Bish Bye!

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    I would be upset
    "IF I HAD SPENT BIG MONEY ON MY FRIENDS & I KNEW MY FRIENDS HAD MONEY"
    but chose not to bless me in return.

    In saying that, she is doing way too much.

  • WhoYouTalkingAbout

    girl bye.

  • Quitedeliteful

    That's what's important. Stay within your budget. Wedding are beautiful and don't have to cost thousands of dollars either...

  • Quitedeliteful

    Snicker.... #TeamPetty

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    LOL! Is all i can do!

  • TheOwley

    My question is, why is the fool marrying this pretentious narcissistic woman. Bridezilla at its worse. The friends should get together and buy her this in different colors. This doesn't even merit a discussion.

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  • Soda

    Hmmm... I thought your reply at first said you are into home decor, that's why I mentioned a registry. So by asking for cash/gift cards, you're really expecting your guests to finance your celebration, right? What they don't know won't hurt them, I guess.

  • Tee Bullock

    me too!!!

  • Lainy Damone

    Lets talk about the fact that maybe no one wants to spend the money because they dont think the marriage will last. Maybe she is a train wreck

  • ImWoke

    I’m only willing to pay a $50 entrance fee max. You came up with your bridal registry so why complain when people buy you what you asked for.? You should have put more expensive items on your registry you ungrateful, selfish bride. $3000 to attend any wedding . Not...........that money goes toward my own bills.

  • RespectSelf

    While I think this is silly, I can see why she is upset. lol she has to be something else of a person to even think to do this. With that said... She has friends that know how she is and was like "Im good luv, enjoy". She's hurt to realize folks don't really bang with her like she thought.

  • SweetTEE

    I had a friend that plans a huge bday extravaganza every damn year and expects you to attend EVERY event and pay. This was our last year being friends. Foh.

  • Sassie

    This is a joke, right? This bitch don't NEED friends with an attitude like that. Nobody just has money to burn just to attend your stupid ass wedding. Be gone!!

  • Sassie

    They probably DO "bang" with her, but they probably don't have that kind of money to spend. It's a difference. And it's tacky to even ask your friends to do that.

  • Sassie

    I got married in Vegas...I knew all my homies wasn't gonna fly to Vegas with me cuz everybody don't have money like that...but the ones who mattered came and that was all that really mattered.

  • Applebum

    Wait, she actually wanted people to pay to attend the wedding? As in pay like you’re entering a club? Wow, lolll. I can honestly say if I had a registry and my friends purchased only the cheap gifts, I’d be upset. Maybe because I’m very giving. If I’m not cheap with you, don’t be cheap with me unless you’re having financial issues then I’ll understand. Good thing I’ve had friends who were just as giving and considerate as me.

  • WhoKnew

    I know. You can literally replay that voice in your head.

  • datjerk

    A lie! Bihh please dont invite me.

  • Jussjess25

    Im confused? There has to be more to this story.. somebody cant be so selfish

  • nekkkyj

    Maybe she has rich friends or she wouldn't be asking them but they don't want to waste their money on her wedding

  • Malcom Flex

    Credit due to selfish Becky at least she wants to marry instead of just breeding out of wedlock, by the sounds of it she comes from money and used to people doing ish for her.

  • Logan Roberts

    She wouldn't had to delete me first, as soon as she asked me to spend $3000, she would've been deleted & blocked on Facebook & in real life ?

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    I wish the fuck I would? I'm paying for a gift that I buy and that's it! And the wedding better be dam near local!

  • Dahl

    This is too stupid to even deserve a post...

  • the guest

    This bride is an idiot and she has no wedding planning class or game.

    If you want financial help with a destination wedding, the proper way to solicit funds via gift giving is by hosting a Jack and Jill engagement shower (instead of a bridal shower) and registering with a fund (like honeyfund) for cash gifts in lieu of engagement shower presents.

    It is uncouth to ask 150 guests to attend a $3000 per person destination wedding. 20 to 50 family and close friends maybe but its not fair to expect of extended/distant family and other than close friendships.

  • Li-Wright

    I live in Chicago. I had a friend who decided to get married in Aruba and she invited people to go down there. We had to pay our way, pay the hotel, etc. I didn't go, I couldn't afford it. Too rich for me.

  • the guest

    I had a big wedding, depending on what is considered a big wedding to different people. I consider 125 people to be a big wedding. I will tell you this, from my heart, most if not all couples who have big weddings say the same thing. We all secretly wish we did exactly what you are planning. It's a truth marrieds don't really admit to everyone. :-)

  • wonderwoman

    She also wanted her bridesmaids, groomsmen, and maid of honor to pay $5000.00 each. It’s just her being selfish. The groom realized what he was getting into he broke off the engagement.

  • Anji

    A Nigerian bride got married 5x and did charge her guests and tried to justify it as "her dream come true". Her dream-come-true just occurred in different locations and even cut guests out the wedding pics that didn't adhere to the color scheme. How much is 70,000 lbs. Sandra?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    About $92,000 US dollars.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    I would have sent her a picture of me and my family vacationing in Hawaii, a week before her wedding, told her we will be unable to make it to her wedding and deleted that trick. 3k and my PTO will not be spent on a selfish MF like that.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Good Riddance Boo!!!

  • Torae

    I thought people pay for their own room, food and boarding at a destination wedding. I just came back from a wedding in the Bahamas and had to pay for everything outside the wedding. ?????

  • Lady_Elle

    Nope... only 9 out of 150 showed interest.
    When she changed the venue to Hawaii... even less agreed to go!
    So... you felt like she "comes from money"
    Sounds like a bridezilla to me.

  • Tailor Koko Milk

    I had to pay to attend wedding in Jamaica including flight hotel food everything ! So I don't understand why her so called friends are complaining ohhh wait maybe cause of her terrible attitude !

  • T Willis

    Ikr wtf was she thinking give space to this bullshit

  • the guest

    These days couples are taking advantage by making their wedding guests literally pay for the destination wedding.

    There are destination wedding packages that include the lodging, food, and drinks of the wedding guests. Resorts offer discounts when the bride and groom rent at least half or all rooms at the resort.

    Even with the generous discount given as incentive for couples to pay for wedding guests lodging, food and drink, the couples still CHOOSE the cheaper option of only blocking rooms, cash menu, and cash car, essentially making wedding guests pay for their wedding.

    In my opinion, couples should NOT expect to do a destination wedding to be cheap and pass off all the costs to their guests.

    Destination wedding guests should ONLY pay for their airfare, transportation, tourist activities, wedding present and cash gift.

    Destination wedding guests should NEVER pay for their lodging, food, or drinks. If a couple cannot afford a destination wedding, they should not be passing the expense off onto their guests.

  • Misslaydj

    I don't think she wants you to PAY to attend thats just the cost to go period and stay at the resort with flights etc. I feel if you want me to share in your special day have in it in your hometown!!!! WHY am i paying crazy money to fly overseas and spend vaca days and money i dont wanna spend. GO have ur destination wedding and don't invite me cause I'm not coming. Have it here and go away for your honeymoon. Cheap folks have destination weddings cause they dont wanna pay for all of their friends and fam to enjoy the festivities here but yet want me to spend a grip to go over there... NAH!!!

  • TawnyDelux

    I just came back from a destination wedding. It was $1200 in Jamaica in a all inclusive resort. It was very very nice. People aren’t going to her wedding because of these posts.
    My moms and my BFF told me have a destination wedding if you don’t want certain people to attend. She should be glad those 9 people wanted to go.

    The registry...how u having a destination wedding and mad people buying u cheap gifts?

    Shorty is trash.

  • Kimme Cakes

    This lady is crazy! She wants her guests to pay $3000.00 for her wedding plus hotel and airfare and she wants an expense gift. She would not need to threaten to unfriend me, I would unfriend her!

  • Shenita Byrd Smith

    This idiot is trying to get a reality show. Stop hyping this heifa up by posting here nonsense.

  • Shenita Byrd Smith

    Her, I mean.

  • monique

    If they didn't buy her gifts from her registry and haven't RSVP'd, I doubt they care if she deletes them from FB.

  • flowerinthemoonlight

    BITCH fuck you and your horrible financial decisions. If she were my friend I would block and delete her without a care.

  • jujumanji

    This!??

  • Quiet

    150 people X $3000.00 = $450,000 expensive wedding venue to pay for or what ?