Mia Burks and daughter Genesis

It must be a coincidence that Mia Angel Burks, Carmelo Anthony's baby mama, is all over the Internet after 'Melo's wife, La La Anthony, took him back.

La La, 39, and Carmelo, 34, were spotted kissing and cuddling at a private event in New York City on Saturday.

The couple separated last year when Mia Angel gave birth to 'Melo's only daughter, Genesis "GG" Anthony, a year ago.

La La was devastated that the rumors she heard about his playboy ways were true. She kicked him out of her home and embraced life as a single mom.

But all that changed recently when La La took 'Melo back.

"We're good. I mean, we've been together for a really long time so we're figuring out how to make it work for what is best for [our 11-year-old son] Kiyan and what is best for us," La La told PEOPLE at the party on Saturday.

La La sat in Carmelo's lap at the party, and the two kissed while Beyonce's hit song "Love On Top" played in the background.

Kiyan Anthony, Carmelo Anthony, La La Anthony

"We're having fun! I have my husband here, my friends here, it's really exciting time," she told PEOPLE.

But someone doesn't want to see La La happy.

An Instagram blog posted photos of Mia Burks and her adorable daughter, Genesis, who is the spitting image of her NBA superstar daddy.

La La is reportedly upset all over again. Sources say she believes Mia contacted the blog, but that has not been confirmed.

The source also said Carmelo and Mia are over, and he only contacts her to see his daughter.

We hope that's true for La La's sake.
 

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  • Yoni7

    Carmelo got another baby?????!!!! WOW!!!!

    It saddens me that a man would go out and make a whole baby with another chick, only to come back to the one he left in the first place. Why not just stay gone?

  • xenaD

    Did he take a dna test? Wtf USE PROTECTION! ??

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    Im so sad. I didn't know he produced an entire baby. I thought he was different than the others...(im so sad now)

  • I Run New York

    Awww the baby is cute and looks just like him ?

  • I Run New York

    Yeah, he got a stripper pregnant. Then LaLa called it quits.

  • Yoni7

    I JUST said something similar. I never thought he was "different" per se'. It's just fukked up that they do this to the women who possibly really love their uglass.

  • Guest

    Damn! This child is his twin!

  • Ni Ni

    It looked too good to him, then he got mad when the baby came?.

  • pure_igenue?

    Men with money are so stupid...anyways just get a court order to keep the baby off social media...problem solved.

  • Jay

    I swear men never learn.

  • Dollface

    Wow this whole situation is a slap in the face to the wife of this man. Geesh!!!!

  • We Can Do This

    I hate seeing split families. The kids suffer the most.

  • Judge Mental Will

    Well he certainly has a type... But I can't understand why these people don't wear protection. ????? He easily could've caught HIV instead of a baby or BOTH! So disrespectful!

  • pecancandy

    It’s gonna be ok, blog hug!

  • pure_igenue?

    Naww, stay faithful to your wife unless there is some kind of open marriage agreement thing going on..its not hard

  • SunRiseBlossom

    Broke men be just as stupid

  • Yoni7

    Who's to say he still hasn't?

  • pure_igenue?

    They are functionally retarded

  • pecancandy

    Cute little girl, hope she gets what she needs from both parents

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    yeah! i didn't think he was perfect per se' just smarter and more secure in his marriage. There are some in the industry you expect to cheat and then there are a select few that I perceive to be above reproach

  • oshh16

    I was just thinking, they don't realize how much that hurts a woman. That child innocent as they are will always be a reminder of the nigga cheating and or his dealing with another woman.

  • Yoni7

    Men are so stupid.
    _____________
    Fixed that for ya'. LOL Because I've seen broke men do the same thing.

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    I'll take it LOL "Blog Hug" LOVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVV IT!!!

  • oshh16

    *snickers*

  • Yoni7

    I was just thinking, they don't realize how much that hurts a woman
    ___________________
    THEY DON'T CARE!

  • hi-liter

    That's why his Janky azz will never win an NBA Championship. He might as well retire.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Differing tax brackets aside, as a woman, my heart goes out to Lala. Still, if she made the decision to take him back, for whatever reason(s), she MUST find a way to stop allowing the hurt to return whenever this baby appears on social media (because the side chick WANTS to get under her skin and most likely will NOT be taking the high road and respecting her marriage (let's face it, if she had any respect, she wouldn't be popping out a married man's baby in the first place)).

    Lala looks so much happier now that they're back together... hope it works out for her this time, smh.

  • Yoni7

    As they always do.

  • iWasteTime

    GG looks like her brother!

    Who knew Vince Carter still played.
    ALL I GOT!!

  • SunRiseBlossom

    I am pretty sure we will be reading a "Carmelo Anthony's baby momma is demanding $24,000 a month in child support" story real soon!!!

  • Yoni7

    I couldn't hit F5 quick enough to type this very same thing!

  • WhoKnew

    Prolly not a co-inky dink. Cute baby, though.

  • Fire & Ice

    This chick is obviously looking for attention. You got what you wanted, which is an 18 year paycheck. Stop using your child as a pawn in your bullsh*t!

  • pure_igenue?

    Naww, broke men have nothing to lose financially and a lot of women dont even bother to make an effort with collecting from them these days...a rich/wealthy men will get a court ordered DNA test once their side chick hits the 3 month mark and a notice from her attorney for mediation lol

  • sunni_daze

    LaLa could have bagged another baller or Industry Executive. You don't come back from making a side baby. I wonder willl she let baby come visit with them or will she pull a Gabby Union - Fuck NO type move

  • Truth

    That girl look like she would have been so happy if they broke up !We all knew he was married she cannot say she did not know .LaLa did right keep her family !

  • SunRiseBlossom

    LaLa seems to be mature. I do not believe she will mistreat the child because she knows that little girl is innocent.

  • Yoni7

    LaLa could have bagged another baller or Industry Executive.
    _______________
    Then be labeled a pass around by social media and the likes. You know how folks be. Man cheats. Woman moves on. Woman is viciously ridiculed. SMH

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    'cause what they went out and 'sampled' didn't compare overall to what they already had. they usually come draggin' their stankin' azzes back to home base where it's clean, safe, and familiar... cheap thrills wear off sooner than they think, then they get home sick. stupid bastids!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    sad part, i think she simply loves this guy and doesn't really want to be with anyone else, smh

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    cookie cuter side pieces all look the same: The same beige basic, fashion nova, racially ambiguous look, producing the same beige babies...(no shade to the beige people).

  • Yoni7

    Say that!

  • guest

    NO way! Couldn't be my husband! NO excuses, bad enough your hubbie out here sexing women and uprotected at that!! SMDH and father a child with a chick he fell for. GTFOH she should not take him back!!!

  • sunni_daze

    Foolish. Aint no love that strong and no dick that good.

  • Anunnaki, in A twilight Zone

    I do not praise women that does this, i shame them to infinity. All of them, even the ones in my family

  • FukkFolks2018

    The NBA iks back on bay-beeeee.

    The Pelicans spanked the ass of the Rockets last night.

    All I care about if its about Melo.

    And his inability to ever get a ring...with his isolation scoring ass. Another great team. Another chance for him to hurt the team with this bullchit.

    Good day.

  • ohdearme

    LaLa is a fool, this humiliation isn't something you guys can bounce back from, it's not like he cheated, he cheated UNPROTECTED and then came home to you like all was good? Nope it couldn't be me because I could never trust a word out of your mouth and I'm not spying on no man.

  • sunni_daze

    True, but I don't think that would have been said about her, especially after what he did, not to mention the world knows she's only been with him. She'd be okay.

  • ohdearme

    She obviously has very low self esteem because she certainly can't trust him ever again. I don't know love that deep.

  • guest

    Black and or minority women is known for always taking back her no good husband after yrs of infidelity and having a baby by the side chick! SMDH for what purpose?? The sake of the family, kids, his career? He should had thought about that. White women move the phuck on and take his money. More importantly men will neva take a his wife back if the tables was turn..

  • guest

    Cause he know she would take him back. Men know who to play mind games with.

  • bemetoo

    she looks better than lala

  • guest

    Pretty lil girl, I hope he participates in her life.

  • Fire & Ice

    Yup the side chick would have been happy. She's bitter AF that his wife took him back. Now she's stuck practically raising this little girl alone. Child she better stop poking and leave well enough alone. This side chick would lose it, if Lala decides to be a "hands on" stepmom. Family pictures for the gram and all!

  • hi-liter

    I just said that he might as well retire, he wont be winning no Championships, he time has past. He prolly got that side baby because he azz is depressed he cant seem to get to that next level in the NBA.

  • Karen Brady

    Thiiiiisssssssss

  • FukkFolks2018

    He wasted too many years with Knicks. Was no reason for him to be there past the 2013 season.

  • Soda

    You mean moving on as white Khloe Kardashian is doing?

  • hi-liter

    The Knicks took all Carmelo "good years" away from him. Nobody else wants him...he too set in his ways and attitude too bad.

  • MoniquetheGeek

    The Pelicans spanked the ass of the Rockets last night
    ________________
    The seats were empty and the crowd was dead in the 1st half! (I turned after that). I'm like the Rockets finished 1st in the West last season, no? Where y'all fans?!

  • Phillybruh

    Pull a Gabby Union Wade...lol

  • Karen Brady

    His lover is gorge.

  • RealATLPeach36

    I think I know why she did took him back.

    For one there are many shit men, and there are tons of good men, but when you want to live a particular life, and you take ALL the GOOD Qualities Melo offered, she's alone.

    Alternatively, she (Lala) might've met a wonderful man but he came with his b/s too, so if she's going to deal with the shits, she instead deals with the shits that she is familiar with. For that reason, I can understand why she did.

    She even feels he prep him, and he gets with the typical baby hairs, fake beige butt living hi a high scale high-rise driving a lease G-Wagon broad going to have her man naawwww.

    Now, she could be under-handing the woman on the side, if she proves she is unfit as a mother she could have visitation rights over her daughter which will push the chic out the way. This does not seem right, but she might do this.

    Dear Lala, please do not act like Gabby if he made that baby you accept that baby that baby is yours too... don't say out son say our kids...it will piss the mom off but more important you're showing you're an F-ing lady despite.

    #adulting

  • Karen Brady

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Miss3rdWard

    Lol @ eternity! I agree tho.

  • Yoni7

    Look at how those men did Ciara. She gets ridiculed for even being married now. She only wanted to be loved.

  • Karen Brady

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well Queen Bey and her lemonade has set a precedence for these women in the industry and the women down the block from us. I'll be damned.

  • Decked Out

    lmao
    #zackly

  • Phillybruh

    I hear Shannon Brown Jr Goes to everything thing the other kids do but the mom doesn't want him in family photos.

  • Karen Brady

    I'm beige, no offense taken.

  • hi-liter

    The mom?...…………..the baby mama or Monica?

  • Karen Brady

    !!!!!!!!

  • Yoni7

    so if she's going to deal with the shits, she instead deals with the shits that she is familiar with.
    ________________
    So sad but true.
    I'd much rather be alone.

  • Renee26

    She's a cutie pie! Looks like Kiyan... Carmelo has strong genes..... Well the baby is here and wasn't going to be hidden from the public forever. La La might as well start getting used to the blended family if she hasn't already.

    Me... My heart would drop everytime my husband brought his love child home. I would be miserable

  • iWasteTime

    Yup. Like Hillary Clinton, Vanessa Bryant, Tori Spelling, Regina Lasko, Victoria Beckam, SJP etc etc

  • Phillybruh

    the boys mother

  • Karen Brady

    As are the ones with NONE

  • Renee26

    Interesting.... This tea skipped my radar

  • RealATLPeach36

    It's sad but true. That's why I try not to judge, because if we really sit down and exam the shit is shit. Some shit smell better....

  • Karen Brady

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • Alextra Ballard

    Over here>>>>>>>CDFUUUUU

  • hi-liter

    I must admit, that's a different approach.

  • oshh16

    I never understood the dealing with the devil you know logic. How about not dealing with devils at all.

  • Yoni7

    Obviously the looks didn't keep him. He's back home.

  • Renee26

    Mmmm but she was ok being a slide SMH so when the child looks back at old pics it will feel like it was left out and not treated like it's siblings... For shame

  • hottlanta

    He might b back home but yall money as husband wife going 2 another womans house.n she aint even working. That is enuf 2 piss me off. Money is very emotional as hell.

  • FukkFolks2018

    They have ALWAYS had fickle fans every since Clyde and Hakeem left in the late 90s/early 2000s. Not sure why. They can be having an excellent season. Seats will be empty. Never understood them an a few more teams with that. Might be price driven.

  • ohdearme

    He put her life at risk because I doubt highly that he asked her to take a physical and waited for the results BEFORE jumping in bed unprotected! FOH no man is worth more than me!

  • Karen Brady

    As is often the case

  • Karen Brady

    Say it again!

  • Yoni7

    etc. etc.....and all those YT housewives of (insert city here).

  • Phillybruh

    Seems like Mello is the winner here, divorcing her would cost him a lot of money and chid support to two households after the wife gets her cut.

  • Lady” Youngblood

    Okay granted ni$$as ain’t shi!. But hoe chicks are worst:1, You know he has a family:2 Him being married still didn’t stop you:3, I’m sure he begged her to abort cash in all but to try to mess up his family his career all to be in the spotlight, shows your just a cold hearted thot that has no love or respect for the man you just laid with. Of course he’s going home or is going to try to la la, had him on pause for a whole year. And he was kissing a$$ for a whole year so he has diffently paid for his mistakes. Because he was clearly miserable without his family that’s why he trued so hard to get back. So the thot runs to the blogs with the thought of you won’t forget me so she has pictures of her n the baby all over the blogs. Because you seen pictures of this man and his wife and son( family) so now you mad? At who him or yourself? That’s that woman husband you slept with dummy. And la la please keep posting pic with you and your family to remind these thots what’s understood don’t need to be explained. Bitc$ you will always be number 2

  • Tiffany Miller

    Lala has the right to mend things with her husband. Now the 2nd time, if it happens, then its time to go. He should know better than to be so sloppy.

  • RealATLPeach36

    Totally agree LOL in her Lease G-Wagon he's paying for LOL

  • Yoni7

    How old is he?

    And fukk what SHE don't want. She shoulda not wanted that married d!ck in her either. Done got pregnit by a married man, and now you don't want the baby to be seen. FOH!

  • Phillybruh

    Somewhere between Monicas oldest and her youngest I want say 9 or 10

  • Renee26

    Right... Neither of us would be happy

  • http://www.4flavorsofmecreolemami.com/?m=1 ?4FlavorsOfMe ?????CreoleMami?

    Hopefully the kids can be good and bond because they look like twins dam near... that baby girl would love her big brother and he would adore his baby sister...

  • FukkFolks2018

    So many marriage experts.

    BB next post.

  • Soda

    What else can GG's mom do besides pose?

  • Melanated Goddess??

    Not sorry, I'm petty. If I were Lala my son would never meet nor know that little girl. I don't accept outside children. Her and her mama can kick bricks barefoot. I'd smack the hair off the mama head too, disrespectful bitch. I'd leave Carmelo loser ,losing ass and get with a man that respects me. Lala has her own money. She doesn't have to put up with this shit.

  • Soda

    Experts at what they know they wouldn't do!

  • Yoni7

    Ask Melo, because IDK or care. LOL

  • Bonita

    It was quite apparent to me that LaLa wasn't over him. Everytime you went to a blog over the last year, there she was. It's like she had the paparazzi on speed dial so they could snap pics of her in her fits, all dolled up, trying to let her husband see what he's missing. Ladies, y'all know how we do. Blogs were never checkin for La La like that before. She's just not that interesting. Her boring reality show proved that for me.

  • Renee26

    Fug what they say...without receipts ?

  • Yoni7

    Oh.

  • tia

    No DNA needed--beautiful baby!! For these kids sake, everyone now needs to act accordingly.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Melo needs to dew two thangs...ither respect his vows and stop cheating on his wife or divorce is wife and continue to be a Hoe. MF'ers wanna have their cake and eat it too!

  • Renee26

    True...People are just ignorant... I love their union and their family.

  • Yoni7

    RIGHT!

  • Elevated Soul

    I will give Melo the benefit of the doubt and say that he's done dealing with the baby mama except as it pertain to taking care of his little girl. This sounds like baby mama who was feeling herself when she thought she "took" Melo from his wife but now that he's went back to his wife,she butt hurt.

  • Renee26

    Then too she has those green eyes so you never know.... Jk

  • Cricket404

    Hmph, Carmelo might need to get custody and bring his daughter to his wife. The mother knew he was married.

  • http://www.4flavorsofmecreolemami.com/?m=1 ?4FlavorsOfMe ?????CreoleMami?

    !!!!!!!!

  • Soda

    If that's the case, I hope they never meet by chance and start dating only to find out later they are siblings.

  • Ihatemoney

    All parties would have to put ego and hatred aside for that to happen.

  • Applebootay

    OR would do! I've been there and done that...only I didn't stick around long enough to see if they changed their ways....ON TO THE NEXT...now this is celebrity so they move different when so much money is involved...ITS CHEAPER TO KEEP HER...

  • FukkFolks2018

    Thing about this is there are some who say they would never...and end up doing. More than 60% of my friends, fam, associates, female co-workers etc over the years are I would never...and end up doing. Far as marriage and certaintly relationships. Im hushing but its always so very entertaining to me.

  • Ihatemoney

    Do you say that because he has some money and status?

  • http://www.4flavorsofmecreolemami.com/?m=1 ?4FlavorsOfMe ?????CreoleMami?

    So true... and usually its always messy and the kids suffer kind of life that Fetty Wap situation all those kids and they may never be close :( I hate to see stuff like that

  • FukkFolks2018

    Jinx. The "I would nevers" of the world are something else.

  • Fire & Ice

    ???

  • OvertheMississippi

    Please do not imply that this is race specific. You are not that dumb.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    That's extreamly unlikely in this case. When their son hits his teen years he'll eventually find out. I personally wouldn't bring it up, but if he choose to go look for himself fine.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Sloppy?!?!?....so he should have cheated on her discreetly ?

  • Soda

    He knew he was married more than she did.

  • Renee26

    Nah being a hoe doesn't mean she deserves to lose her child.

  • Applebootay

    PUHLEASE....She had NOTHING TO LOSE...HE DID....Melo been ON...been in the game long enough to know there are professional trap queens out her...They DGAF about what number they are 2 or 2022...now she never has to work a regular 9-5 because of HIS DUMB AZZ.

  • Renee26

    ? ok... No Luda legal moves should be applied

  • Nikki

    I will never understand why people get married or commit to someone and hurting them so severely. Not to mention putting someone’s heal at risk. Being cheated on changes you...Anyway, my heart goes out to the kid.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    It's not the cheating. It's the damn baby. Cheating is one thing but having an outstanding kid(s) is grounds for a divorce and ass kicking.

  • TriniHarlem

    Another obvious outcome ?? if you don't get a grip. Took him a minute because I called this when she was thirsty from her trl days. Pussy management score for lala is a b-

  • Renee26

    That's the approach she took for all this time... Guess her defenses were broken down. She probably wanted a man in her life but became impatient waiting on a new one to come along...that ? was in need of attention ?

  • Applebootay

    same thing I thought...like OKURRRRRR

  • Tinytoon

    I seen people who stayed when they said they weren't and some leave when they said that they would stay. All I will say is that I that they can overcome his discretion. ?

  • Applebootay

    Because it's cheaper to keep her...if LALA really left him, he'd probably still be messing around with her or serious...but well never know

  • http://www.4flavorsofmecreolemami.com/?m=1 ?4FlavorsOfMe ?????CreoleMami?

    Side chick would be super sick if La La started being step mom of the year lol

  • Renee26

    ?

  • imright

    cute baby ? she looks like Melo

  • Soda

    Cheating is fine as long as there's no living, breathing evidence?

  • Applebootay

    You sound like a WHOLE NEW FOOL...GTFOH...white women do it best because they HAVE MORE TO LOSE....

  • Trace da Ace

    cute kid....dats all I gots on this post....

  • Applebootay

    MELANIA...

  • Applebootay

    I'm not but I'll use your money to hire an private investigator and move the phuck on and take half like Juanita Jordan did....

  • Well$$Well$$?

    It's not the child's fault that Carmelo was slanging his dack like tic tacs and she didn't ask to be born so I really don't understand how this is the baby's fault? I get that this situation isn't ideal but to mistreat a child because her husband has no self control is silly af.

  • Joy King

    It takes a special type of woman to stay with a husband who has a whole baby on her. Because if she can't love that child like it's her own, then she needs to let that man go. A house full of anger and resentment, isn't a happy home.

  • Lady” Youngblood

    True but she loves her husband, that’s her family and yes he had something to lose his family and did whatever it took to get them back.God said he will Delfel you and you will crave for him, so it’s almost Natural for a man to cheat.But not Acceptable to cheat on your wife and this thot mad because he got his family back and she has to see this man she has a baby with take care of his family like a man suppose to while she Waits in the shadow wishing it was her. She can’t hug that money, she can’t tell her daughter go in the room and wake daddy up. When them kids start looking you in the face asking why, sh:t change

  • Judge Mental Will

    I thought it, thanks for saying it tho ?

  • Well$$Well$$?

    I've noticed folks love to say what they would or wouldn't do until they're actually in said situation...Then the whole scenario changes. ?

  • Alextra Ballard

    I'm thinking to myself,would I be able to handle it

  • what?why

    Beautiful child

  • Melanated Goddess??

    I don't accept outside children. If it isn't my kid, I don't have to see it. Who's mistreating the child? She has her mothers family. She doesn't have to be apart of Lala's . Lala didn't birth her. If their son wants to meet his sister fine, but I wouldn't introduce them. I couldn't stomach looking at her or her dirty mother. Shit I wouldn't be able to look at Carmelo dirty ass either. What women in her right mind wants to have the reminder of her husband infidelity around? Him and his baby mama can have each other.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Not 100% sure but I think Shannon came to the relationship/marriage with the son. He had a son when they met I think. In fact pretty sure I read he dropped his son mom... for Monica.

  • what?why

    Hurt all around because he CHOSE to step outside of his marriage.

  • Tiffany Miller

    No. She has her own money. I know BROKE people that stay together for LESS.

  • YellowSauce

    I know I wouldn't ... There isn't enough "love" in de world

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Why did he cheat on Lala with a woman who looks Just Like Lala?

    P.S. That baby looks just like her daddy...except she's cute!

  • Melanated Goddess??

    Stop being obtuse!

    Did I say that? Cheating is unacceptable but something a couple can work through if they choose too. A whole baby isn't. My husband comes home with a whole baby him and his shit are on the street.

  • Well$$Well$$?

    How is that going to work if they're still married though? The child's not going to be allowed to the house because she decided to take back the cheater who had a baby on her? I get where you're coming from but if she CHOSE to stay with him then why penalize the child? Penalize your husband.

  • tintin

    i don't' think i could. I would leave the marriage. cheating is one thing but a whole child and then this child will probably have to visit me on the weekend. No thank you.

    I know Gabby Union and Ludacris wife probably do the best they can but they really must be heartbroken over this.

  • Peppermint Patty

    What you said. Really to both kids neither of them deserve it and both will be confused....

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I don't even know you but I'm thinking...NO l0l!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    We have to do better. My dad always told me if a man isn't fighting for your attention then he isn't worthy of it. They get with these celebs then get all heartbroken when the nicca does what you already know he's gonna do. Once these women becomes wives they forget about themselves, they become weak, insecure delusional and too damn comfortable. They lose that edge that attracted the man in the first place. These celeb wifes are no match for the hungry hoes and man-eaters because the have a completely different energy about themselves. But please remember that alot of these wives started off as side bishes.

  • Fire & Ice

    Ikr. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. This chick is forgetting that this can go both ways. All Lala has to do is have tmz, take pics of her out holding the baby. That sh*t would f this side chick head up.

  • dontgetblocked

    Whoa! He had a baby with someone else? Oh Hell no! Kicked to the curb.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Men have been known to "dip" when they go to pick up their children too. I'm not sure I could trust him to go alone.

  • lovelygamour

    carmello woudve been better off having a kid with a really really dark woman or an former ussr woman. these guys like to be seen with "exotic" women but the kids dont pan out. i hate to talk about kids but goodness. just like the other nba players kids. they be weak or look like cavemen. hate to be mean but some of the black father/white mother girls are spaced out. just whorish and pitiful.

    tldr if you are going to have kids with a woman you dont love at least consider how the kids will look or their mental state. no offense to the baby. i am sure this doesnt apply to her.

  • ViolettaBliss

    Cheating is one thing. Slanging $ick without protection is another!
    Lala is lucky that all he got out there was a baby. A man who's out there doing dirt without protection ( risking his life and his wife's) is not a man you fix things with. These no self esteem woman always cling to the working it out for the children excuse!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Because people like the idea of marriage not the reality of it. People have been so trained by the media to think that monogamy doesn't exist so everybody is out here on some hurt them before they hurt me type stuff. Sad sad world we living in.

  • lovelygamour

    yeah, i was about to complain that "you shouldnt have to fight for love" but you right. these ladies started off as groupies who fought. so they have to stay fighting. I have decided I dont want to live that way. If I get sick I want to know that he wont leave. If he gets sick I dont want to feel cheated. You right there is a whole nother energy that most (me) dont have.

  • Rayne

    The hard part of the curb. Now up my child support check. Ion want NATHAN T.I. divwith you and your new family.

  • Applebootay

    She's not mad at all...that's Sandra reflipping and reframing...those are pics from her IG that are very inconsistent...if you're a real rose you know how sandra does...she's only in the blogs because the blogs put her in the blogs...That women is and Master degreed educated thot...she is beautiful and I highly doubt with her education and his money and her looks, that she's sitting around waiting for shat...she's young and will remarry and go on with her life...HAPPY and rich...yall love to think the other woman is somewhere miserable...

  • Soda
  • Applebootay

    With time I would....like when the child is 30 years old...

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    And she will be starring on the the next episode of NBA wifes.

  • MsPam

    People make a mockery out of marriage these days.

  • SpiceGirl

    ALL of that!!!!

  • lovelygamour

    yeah, cause its a fine line between revenge pics and endangerment. is she going to keep it on the gram or is she going to start treating the kid differently if he dont comeback. they have to discuss this. cause she knew he was married so dont get upset that his wife didnt leave. why would she expect lala to leave. I dont even think lala loves him like that. lol.

  • Applebootay

    Disagree...she does not look just like lala IMHO....

  • Rayne

    Lala is not my cup of tea but I feel for her. This kinda mess hurts in a whole new way. I know me and I would leave. Like I always explain to my husband simple as this...DO IT IF YOU WANT TOO! That’s not a threat but a good ole american promise that I’ll leave. You can have our house and whatever else you want. This is what rainy day funds, mattress money, shoe box money and a 401k comes in handy. Me and my son in a whole nother state on yo ass. And I’m draining OUR account. You are now free to roam about the county but fawk you!

  • T Willis

    Beautiful little girl... she looks like Chris Brown’s daughter, Royalty. “GG” looks so much like her mum that I hardly see Melo ... it Lala has forgeiven him, then ?????Lol

  • Melanated Goddess??

    I wouldn't stay with Carmelo. I'd leave him. She chose to stay with her husband. They way my attitude is set up I'd leave his ass and not look back. How is that penalizing the child? Lala isn't her mother. Why should she hava to deal with her? Why should Lala have to see or spend time with her husband outside kid? She isn't obligated too. Lala doesn't owe that child anything, she isn't her parent. The only people that are owe that child anything are Carmelo and her mama that's it.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Your own children would grow to resent you for keeping them away from their siblings. Punish the man, but not the kids.

  • I want to be free

    Ohhh girl. I can never forget "Clyde the Glide" Drexler. I had such a huge crush on him back then. I miss those basketball days!!!!

  • Melanated Goddess??

    You're still being obtuse. I know what I said. Cheating is one thing bringing a whole baby into it is another. Not my fault you lack basic comprehension skills.

  • Applebootay

    You know what....Its never ok...but what I don't know wont hurt...

  • KLo

    beach, sit you ho ass down. how many d*icks you sucked to get to the end of the $

  • T Willis

    The features of their future spawns is the LEAST thing on their minds lol. They don’t even want these kids spawned by groupies, let alone plan on spawning based on features lol

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Exactly love! When you fight to get a man you have to fight even harder to keep him. I couldn't live like that and I don't think anyone should.

  • Li-Wright

    Well, she's revving up to get a baller and not Carmelo. Next....watch and see her sitting courtside like Khloe did.

  • Phillybruh

    Yeah she was hurt for a minute that Monica got him to the alter in less than a year. After she put in all that work.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Unfortunately, it happens more than you know. We found a whole branch of our family we knew nothing about...at a funeral.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    Why would they resent me for not introducing them to their fathers outside child? Why do y'all think it's ok for a man to bring a bunch of random babies home? He can introduce himself to the kid when he's ready. I just won't be the one to do it. A lot of y'all sound and act like outside children.

  • ViolettaBliss

    So easy to blame the other woman but in all actuality the person who stood in front of god and made vows to Lala was Melo not the side chick...How do you know she's heartless and a thot? Funny how men get a pass for all there bad behavior and the women they are involved with are always taken to task and demonized.It's not that he is a no good dirty $ ick cheater , it's that she didn't respect his marriage ! No he was the one that did not respect his marriage. How do you know that he didn't lead her on and lie to her ? Married men don't go around saying ' I'm married can you sleep with me anyway ?' They lie say they are separated things are not good on the marriage etc...Out of curiosity I looked on this young woman's IG and she is a college graduate with a masters degree and is constantly posting pics of her cute daughter ( Like any proud mom would) Now she is supposed to disappear because Lala's dumb $ss decided to work things out with her husband? Yup after he had his fun for a year living the single life and banging his side chicks he wants to work things out. Yeah it's def cheaper to keep her.....

  • ClaireHuxtable

    You don't know what you'll do til it happens.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    I know it happens. I said it's unlikely in this case since you know ummmm his parents are famous. I never said it couldn't happen.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    I honestly wouldn't be able to do it. The only reason is because I know that I would have ill feelings towards that baby and the baby doesn't deserve it.

  • Dowoop

    I find she looks like a younger Lala

  • Soda

    Still the same, try as you might.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    True. Lots of women stay after a man has cheated.

    MY question iz~ How many MEN would stay if their wife cheated and got pregnant by another man??

  • lovelygamour

    there is a picture of arnold in a red wig. him and the boy look like twins. I wonder how many other kids he got out there.

  • Lady_Elle

    The baby is a cutie.
    Baby mama is very attractive and well educated...
    Hmmm.... hooking up with a married man. No Bueno! :-(

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Kinda when you squint. But I'm interested to see her without the filters.

  • Coy little wink

    IG bust downs and their captions ?

    Who didn't see this happening....anyone?
    Anyone?

  • samuel severino

    Lala is mainly concerned about the public image. As long as she gets to continue to bang her girls privately and keep that from coming out she will be content because being with Melo gets her all of the exposure, the magazine covers and the acting roles.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    They really do. I heard this girl say that her and her husband got married because all her friends were getting married. SMH really bish

  • samuel severino

    I agree. Nothing in those photos looks like “the spitting image” of Melo.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    No it isn't. But I'm gonna let you cook.

  • samuel severino

    You won’t leave when the relationship is for public consumption and you are getting everything you need out of it.

  • T Willis

    Like Chris Rock says, a man is only as faithful as his options. Regardless if the guy is celebrity - or RayRay on the block - if a guy is halfway decent looking, with a decent job then he got options lol! And heaven help the woman who snags an educated, good looking black man, who dresses straight out of the pages of GQ, with a six figure (or greater), with NO kids... chile! I don’t even think Melo level groupies could compete... that type of groupie energy exists in everyday dudes..

  • Toni Madison

    The world knows Carmelo Anthony is married, so this baby mama played at her own risk, as well as he did. However in the end him & LaLa decided to repair their union. The sad part about the side chick is, he probably wouldn't have been with her even if him and LaLa didn't work their marriage out.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I've been saying this for years.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I've been saying this for years.

  • samuel severino

    These are some of the things along with “I will never let a man treat me bad” that are in my daughter’s affirmations and we say them often.

  • samuel severino

    These are some of the things along with “I will never let a man treat me bad” that are in my daughter’s affirmations and we say them often.

  • Guest

    A baby is life long reminder so it's harder for the couple to get over. It requires a whole different set of coping skills.

  • Guest

    A baby is life long reminder so it's harder for the couple to get over. It requires a whole different set of coping skills.

  • Soda

    Now who's being obtuse? Lol!!!

  • Soda

    Now who's being obtuse? Lol!!!

  • T Willis

    Because we’re raised to believe marriage is a permanent institution, and when men get married, the chicks usually switch up. I don’t think Melo envisioned Lala’s “career” taking off like it is. When you’re dating, she probably made it all about Melo. Taking care of his needs, and putting his wants/needs ahead of her own. I guarantee the dynamic was probably similar. Most dudes don’t give that type of commitment in Melo’s Situation - early 20s, new contract etc - unless Lala was doing some serious catering. The wandering usually happens when the chick checks out of the relationship to tend to other things - career/child rearing etc

  • lovelygamour

    they come with lies to cover their brokeness. one got me. he lied about things i didnt even ask him. I guess that was the first clue. he was already separated; so thats better. I believe his whole purpose of moving into his own apartment was to scare his wife. if you know you going back why date other people.

    just to tie it back. in the end he was separated for two years and mainly went back to care for the kids. he didnt go back until she promised she changed which last 3 months. we still fb friends.

  • T Willis

    Yeah I don’t think Lala would take him back if she hadn’t accepted the outside daughter.

  • Soda

    For many, it starts with the wearing of the traditional white wedding dress.

  • Tinytoon

    Less than 1%, the rest will leave and won't look back.

  • Guest

    That's because it's not what is in the child's best interest. Most of the time it never is. She could not break up his marriage. He did not leave his wife for her so to bear seeing her child in that family setting that alluded her is too much. Selfish.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    You still talking?

  • rayne215

    she looks like the mom. but a kid is a deal breaker. just tacky

  • Soda

    According to a commenter, the other woman is the whole package, beauty & brains, and will soon "remarry."

  • Quitedeliteful

    he probably wouldn't have been with her even if him and LaLa didn't work their marriage out.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    So true. Seems like he just wanted to hit it and quit it but she wanted to insure that she would get at least 21 years of financial support.

  • guest

    Whateva...u r a fool for calling me a fool. Its my opinion!

  • rayne215

    tired of these nba players just slanging it all around. why even get married?

  • ramosyo

    It is alot I can tolerate...a child outside my marriage is not one of them. MIA IS FINE THO! LOL

  • guest

    Not dumb at all.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    When he has his second baby on her...Lala will probably leave then. Carmello made it very clear on their reality show...that he wasn't that into her. He didn't even want anymore kids with her. Lala is single wether or not she accepts it.

  • lovelygamour

    i had to look this up. he was married to a chiropractor for a few years so maybe she kept him up. I wouldve bet all my belongs that he retired ages ago. good for him as long as he enjoys it.

  • Yoni7

    The wedding is for the people. The marriage is for God.

  • Renee26

    Very selfish

  • lovelygamour

    i think he kinda mellowed out. he was trying to be the man but i think he been knocked down a few pegs. maybe if he gets a private coach he can shake loose. aint no one gassing him up anymore.

  • Renee26

    Aww ok... I was wondering how I missed the tea on him having a side baby. I can understand not wanting your child in the spotlight but not excluding them from family pics... Those pics could just not be shared on the internet or publicly yet include all of the kids.

  • xenaD

    All those relationships be wide open! The deal is keep it low key && don’t bring no babies home... goddamn they can’t follow simple rules ??

  • Applebootay

    Can you just base your opinion on an educated fact next time...?

  • Alextra Ballard

    Rather she likes it or not...lala is that babies step mom. Her married husband outside child from an affair. That's just straight messy

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Yes, you sure have been.

  • xenaD

    I so agree...

  • Alextra Ballard

    A man that cheats on his woman. ...is a husband that will cheat on his wife

  • xenaD

    Please lala does not care... she “left” for business purposes (her image) y’all need to peep game ??
    All he did was f up the routine by getting the girl pregnant

  • hottlanta

    Being a ride or die chick only benefits thé man. What if she had gotten pregnant while with him n told him thé child was not his. We would be looking at their story on the id channel. He would not be giving u a 1 baby option or l will leave u thé way women give men.

    With him there will b no option bcas 3 is a crowd. When u tell a man get another child on me l am leaving is only giving him permission 2 sex other women but be more careful the next time.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i hear ya....

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Cute baby.

    Trash bag cum dumpster mother and an uncommitted father.

    Dummies! All for a ? ??

  • morenYAHdelsur

    He’s a cold piece of work for that chit.

  • Sassie

    I HATE when women take cheating men back...ESPECIALLY when they had whole BABIES on them, meaning they went in randoms RAW, jeopardizing actual lives. Just no, LaLa. This makes me SO mad. Move on, ladies!

  • Sassie

    Thank you. A kid is a FUCKING DEAL BREAKER.

  • Toni Madison

    Exactly, I'm pretty sure it was more her choice then his.

  • Pamela

    This isn't about you.

  • T Willis

    Your stance makes sense IF you’re not taking the guy back - which, you’re not - so, I mean, it makes sense to me lol.

    This dynamic is a little bit more complicated because Lala & Melo are working things out, which *requires* Lala to accept the little girl and her groupie mother.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    it's a lose/lose proposition, smh

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
    _______________________

    Say this!

  • T Willis

    I agree with you, but, your response (in my opinion lol) is only applicable to women who *choose* to take the cheater back. If you move on and decide to not continue the relationship, then any introductions to the “outside kid” should be done by the father. After all, you left, you’re uninvolved unless it deals with *your* child.

    I know for me, when my dad cheated on my mom and spawned like 2-3 kids lol, it wasn’t my mom who introduced me to my half siblings, it was my dad. If my siblings came over to my house - or wanted to visit me - my mom never blocked it or treated them badly.

    ?????

  • Toni Madison

    The same way she had that package to get someone else's man, why stop now? Having Carmelo's baby definitely changes the game for her, being that the diaper bag is secured.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    BLOOP!!!!!!!!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I swear i was wondering where these stats can be validated, smh

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    easier said (for some), smh

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    if we're 'blending' then his lil self gonna be blended right in the pic with the rest of the chirrens! TUH!

  • T Willis

    What if your child wants to see his sister? Would you allow them to have sleepovers at your house? If not, then that’s the penalty that most folks are referencing - it’s also why your child would probably grow up to resent you - especially if they become close (through their father)

  • bemetoo

    true Lala probably can cook and Mia cant

  • RaginB

    He gon cheat again...I mean the consequences weren’t THAT bad the first time..so why wouldn’t he?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    TRUE!
    Lol!

  • sunni_daze

    Those men are ignorant and 9/10 play no part in their owns kids lives. A deadbeat dad can't judge shit but himself.

  • sunni_daze

    Ignoring and not inviting are not harm though. Its a personal choice.

  • Yoni7

    Something as simple as that.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Yup...

  • Quitedeliteful

    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    Hopefully, Lala won't let the baby mama get under her skin even though that's very hard to do. Once the IG chick realized they were back together of course she's gonna be low key shady and petty...

  • Quitedeliteful

    So true!!!

  • L. Thompson

    Lies. What show were you watching? Carmelo def was the one who wanted more kids and Lala did not.

  • Malcom Flex

    Man whoring gone wrong.

  • SG

    Baby girl is cute. That’s all I’ve got though. That’s her husband, their marriage, their business.

  • LYRICS

    LaLa= Emily B Level DUMB! Not only did he hit raw, she had his 1ST and ONLY girl looking just like him AND her brother, whom she (G) doesn't share the same mother with!!! LaLa, let that sink in dumb DUMB!!!???

  • MythCalledLove

    She looks like Meghan a little in one of those pics. She could be like you hv the baby but I still hv the man. She will probably write another book "Hit By The Side B!tch" As long as she has the ring & called wife. She just doesn't want the other chic to take her place. Plus if she likes honey pots then it's really out of spite.

  • LYRICS

    She looks Melo and Pepper (Kiyan) with Melo's signature big ass ugly ears and sheepish fat face! She's a baby baby, so it works well for her!

  • the guest

    Cruel.

  • the guest

    Exactly.

  • the guest

    Amen.

  • the guest

    In some cultures wives live with the reality of “side families” and “outside kids”.

  • Quitedeliteful

    In a way I'm not mad at Lala for going back. She's probably looking at it as a business arrangement. Melo has waaay more money than her -- not that she doesn't have her own coins but his status is now her status as his wife plus she can always have a girlfriend on the side with no worries because she's 'married.' Also, maybe going back to him is a dig at the IG thot. It sends a message like you got the baby but I got the man...

  • Quitedeliteful

    LaLa= Emily B Level DUMB!
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    LOLLOLLOL!!!!!!!!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    IG bust downs and their captions
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Snicker...

  • soldierwoman89

    AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • MythCalledLove

    How you get em is how you loose them. She knew he was married.And she got exactly what she wanted. La has a son too.

  • Queen B

    She looks like Laura Govan and that baby looks just like him

  • the guest

    The marital union comes first.

    If the husband and wife reconcile, the marriage comes first.

    Side pieces don’t get that side passion no matter how intense does not come before marriage unless the husband or wife they are cheating with actually DIVORCES their spouse.

    Not thinking about filing, planning to file, filed but on hold, separated, living separately, legal separation, none of that, actually DIVORCED. How pitiful side piece look living and planning their life on hope of a marriage and married family failing.

    The passion of cheating depends on deceiving a spouse. Once the cover is blown and the spouse forgives the cheating spouse the thrill of side piece is over.

    Carmelo and Lala need to keep smiling, keep posting family photos, keep going on family vacations, keep living their best family life and not give any more power to the now PAST indiscretion.

    The side baby mama is devious, desperate, and not wife material using her baby as a weapon to wound on social media. She’s acting like exactly what she was, a FLING.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Your mom is a saint....

  • Toni Madison

    Absolutely!

  • Guest

    Yup. And if I was LaLa I would embrace the baby too, she would definitely be included in my family. It is what it is?????

  • Quitedeliteful

    I'm with you... I'd have no interest in meeting the child or his mother. If the daddy wanted the children to get together he'd have to do it on his own. I would not baby-sit or organize outings. None of that. Maybe in time I could come around but initially, even if me and the low-life cheating husband stayed together, I would not want to deal with his child.

  • Ang

    Not quite Emily B dumb unless you think Carmelo is beating LaLa.

  • MythCalledLove

    Money Money Muuuna Money. (OJAYS)
    A woman will sell her precious body for a small piece of paper.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Lala probably won't publicly embrace the baby because it's not a 'good look. The IG thot doesn't seem mature so I can't see this working between her and Lala.

  • MrsSpiceOne

    Smh!! And women like you and LALA wonder why men will always play you in the end making you look dumb. Stuck. Insecure. And WEAK!!! Im sure that stripper dont care lol she aint married to a low life cheater!! She had him raw and God only knows how many ways and she secured her bag!! She doesnt have to worry about him cheating on her or him bringin her back any stds lol so in actuality she won! And lala is still holdin a married L!!

  • LYRICS

    Not at all, but both violations are just as bad. Both woman are just as dumb for trying to "justify" (be it verbally or not) "standing by" their men.

  • Guest

    I don’t think miss i had a baby by a man that was already in a committed union would have a choice in the matter. It’s melo’s child too

  • MrsSpiceOne

    You keep calling her a thot for what??? If anybody is a damn THOT its carmello! She wasnt married or belong to nobody !! Yall always goin after the woman instead of the married man!! Ugh! Lala can continue to look stupid like the rest of these broads standing by a low life man because he got money ? as if yall cant get out here and make ya OWN money and MORE!!! I would rather be single happy broke and alone then married rich depressed and miserable!!

  • iWasteTime

    You and me both. I walked in last night and Mr. Time was watching the Knicks and the announcer said Vince Carter. I said Jr?!?! Hubby said nope, the same one! I nearly died

  • MrsSpiceOne

    Ty mam!! Issa no for me dawg ?

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    ALL OF THIS!!!!!!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Love This!!!

  • MythCalledLove

    And the sad part that always seems to happen. The baby outside the marriage is a package deal hate the baby mama & hate the baby. It takes a strong female to look past the cheating and stronger to embrace the child.

  • MrsSpiceOne

    U go girl!!!!

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    She bad. But, it is not enough.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    OMG Yes!!!

  • Quitedeliteful

    There is not certain type of woman who gets 'played.' You could be mother Theresa and still get 'played' by a man. shrugs... And for all of the talk about being dumb or weak -- plenty of women go back to cheating men. This is nothing new. Lala ain't crying (anymore). She knew what Melo was about before she married him. I'm sure she has her reasons - aka a plan. She wants an intact home for her son and a beard for herself. Lala don't give two shyts about that stripper. She doesn't care about the baby. And she probably doesn't give two shyts about Melo. I betcha he's a means to an end. She cares about having an in-home daddy for her own baby and she cares about the opportunities that will come her way with being his wife. I say go back if you want to and do you. Women going back to cheating men has been happening since the beginning of time.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Nah, she is in love & caught up & ego.

  • the guest

    “IG Bust Downs”

    Perfect description of what’s become a career aspiration for many of this generations young women.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    No. She is not Emily B level dumb. Not even. No.

  • the guest

    SPEAK!

  • Nikki

    Everyone changes...men, women, cats, and dogs. If he was unhappy he should have left or told her “hey I’m unhappy with you” if that was the case. What you don’t do is smash some random chick raw. Nah...once she left, he would have moved on and not looked back.

  • Ang

    Nah, nothing is as bad as getting beat up on a regular and having your teeth knocked out. I don’t care if you’re faithful, you can’t put your hands on me. The baby is still a dealbreaker of course...we’ll, cheating is a deal breaker for me.

    I feel you though. I agree both women are making dumb choices. I don’t think LaLa is dumb though. I think LaLa knew the game when she got with him and didn’t care. He was barely into her when they were planning the wedding on their reality show. She knew what she was doing when she pursued the young guy who just went to he NBA. I think Emily doesn’t have any dignity and was raised wrong. Her dad testified on Fab’s behalf. I think LaLa is actually being strategic because she wants the money.

  • Ang

    Beautiful baby. It’s unfortunate her parents didn’t give more consideration to the circumstances of her birth.

  • the guest

    Deep and I think accurate observation.

  • Ang

    Emily is on a whole other level. Watching her on Love and Hip Hop was cringeworthy. I feel sorry for her.

  • the guest

    Cause Melo is not cute. But his son and outside daughter are cute.

  • LYRICS

    I've had both happen to me by the same man, the only reason I'm not "Emily B level dumb", is I got his ass arrested and when I found out about "that ain't his baby" baby, set him on the curb 4 GOOD and the garbage man did not refuse!

  • hottlanta

    I be dayum if l gotta compete for my husband attention with another woman. He might b home with u but each time he sex u he got the other woman puzzy prints around his d putting them all up in you.

  • hottlanta

    U dont b playing

  • Ang

    I’m sorry to hear that. I’m glad you got out.

  • MsPam

    Please some folks don’t do anything for God these days.

  • BOSS

    PRECIOUS BABY!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Hahaa...he sure is not!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    *turns head sideways*

  • LYRICS

    Thx hun, but honestly it was easier done, than said! NOBODY deserves any type of abuse, so although clinging on to "hope" is good, my FAITH in GOD is greater! ??? I just hope others can find the same peace?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    My parents were Married when I was conceived and born. I just happen to have Compassion for others and Wisdom about how a bad situation can be handled.

    "Why do y'all think it's ok for a man to bring a bunch of random babies home? "
    Gurl, you know no sober Black man brings random children home.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    her momma did...$$$$$$$$

  • ClaireHuxtable

    First he took Foreva to marry her. Then they had this ole wedding. Then he cheats. Now he's back home...with a baby in the mix.
    I don't think these people really take the time to really talk and understand what marriage really is. They have some distorted version where infidelity is part of the equation.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    Thank you! Some of the people in here feel the mother should suck it up and embrace the outside baby. Why! That child belongs to her dog ass husband, not her. If she chose to stay with him cool, but she doesn't have to acknowledge his outside kid. Their son sure , but not the her.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Aint no coinkidunk, Shes reminding lala that she and lalas husbands baby aint going nowhere either.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    I have compassion. It's very presumptuous of you to assume I don't. Due to me not embracing children conceived outside of a marriage by a cheating spouse. I will never be here for kids that are the result of a cheating spouse. Outside babies belong outside, not inside my damn house. They belong with their parent custodial parent. The dog ass husband can go see the child there.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    There's nothing like Peace & Joy in your household.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Put that on a billboard, Hunny!

  • Melanated Goddess??

    I wouldn't want to be around the kid. He can see his sister. She just can't come to my house. Not my child, not my responsibility. The child belongs to the dog ass husband not the wife. The kid is his responsibility not hers. Why should the wife have to see he husbands outside child in her home? I'd leave my husband for something like that. I wouldn't want to deal with a situation like that at all. That kid wouldn't get a dime from me, nothing, nada, zip zilch. I'm not taking care of my husband mistakes.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Keep the house and send hiz belongings[toothbrush too] to another state.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    Lala better than me. Carmelo, the baby and her mama would all get tossed out into the street. They can deal with each other and leave my ass out of it. Women are always told to accept their husbands bullshit, but let Lala pop up with an outside kid. Carmelo's ass wouldn't be so forgiving nor would his dog ass still be around.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Tons of people should have stayed single. They had No intention of keeping their vows.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    If Lala were the one that popped up pregnant for another man, while married to Carmelo. Would y'all still feel the same way? I highly doubt it. Carmelo would leave her with quickness.

  • KB

    Exactly. The child deserves so much. The child’s father is a married man so the child was born in chaos that she didn’t have a choice to be in. Get your own man and keep him.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    "A lot of y'all sound and act like outside children."
    You made a statement about me and other posters possibly being illegitimate children.
    Sorry, but I missed your compassion.

  • KB

    ???

  • KB

    I have heard this so many times

  • Quitedeliteful

    Yeah... That's what makes these situations so sticky. It's Melo's child but it takes a helluva wife to accept the situation and willingly participate in it. I know one family where the father actually got custody of the kid and the wife was okay with it because she didn't want the baby mama getting one nickel. The daddy is part of a successful ole skool band and the baby mama really didn't want to be a mother, just wanted the check but the wife agreeing to raise the child put a stop to that.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    I have compassion, I'm just not a fool. Now children born out of wedlock and children born outside of an already established marriage are two different things. So when I made reference to outside children, I was referring children born outside of an already established marriage. Try to keep up.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Both Carmelo and the IG 'model' are thots, for sure. I do believe that Lala isn't 'standing by her man.' I feel she's with him because 1. he's her beard and 2. her son gets to be in the house with his dadd,y not just on a visitation schedule. Lala knows Melo 'ain't shyt' but she's using the situation to her advantage whatever that may be...

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Agreed...maybe 1%. What's good for the goose is Not good for the gander in this situation. He would never forgive her. He's outta there.

  • KB

    Kudos to your mom. I do feel like the outside kids should have a a relationship with their half siblings and also their fathers. Terrell Owens was an outside child and he had to deal with his father being there for the kids that lived in his household but didn’t show TO any attention, that hurts a child to their core.

  • Quitedeliteful

    True...

  • Patricia

    what people dont realize is just as the bible states, marriage is more than physical, or legal, or financial union. its a spiritual union. theres a connection there, ties there not easily broken. thats why you can see married couples go through hell and back and still be together like nothing happened.

    thats also why i dont speak against married folks spouses and business bc they do end up back together and then they are mad at you for whatever you said or did against them. i dont take nothing married folks say seriously until i see the ink dried on the divorce decree. women and men would save themselves a world of trouble to not deal with these "separated" folks until they see the same.

  • Quitedeliteful

    Emotionally and mentally I couldn't do it. I would be so angry at the situation that I just couldn't do it. It's not fair to ask a woman to do what a man would NEVER do. I would like to see the day that a woman comes home pregnant with another man's child and the husband embraces both her and the kid that's not his.

  • KB

    When I found out that my ex possibly had someone pregnant while we were together. I broke up with him that day, I didn’t stick around to wait for the DNA test or anything. Him and five other men were DNA tested for the child and my ex is the child’s father. I’m glad I wasn’t sexually active with him. I told him he was being reckless and could have put my life in danger with his poor choices.

  • KB

    that is so hard for a man to do. Some men are so crushed to know that their woman was on a date with another man so trust me they couldn’t handle a baby.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    You were being insulting then...just like you are now.
    I see compassion in your talk...but not in your walk.
    Have a nice evening.

  • Ang

    ??

  • Ang

    Sad ? ?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I used to go a gym with this handsome Black[and married w/kids] engineer. He could barely get any exercise in. The women were all over him.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    I agree. Oh we all know men are expected to be cheaters and sleep around in our society. So naturally women are expected to be doormats and accept anything their husbands do. A woman could never pop up pregnant for another man and expect her husband to deal with it. She would be called all types of whores and shameless. Theres a double standard here and most of the people in the comments are feeding into it.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    I don't give a damn. If Lala was the one with the outside kid you and and everyone else here would be singing a different tune. Feel how ever you want I'm not moving from my position.

  • KB

    The movie, Fences, with Denzel Washington was a hard pill for me to swallow when I watched it.

  • free

    He da pappy.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I've never understood why a woman invests in a separated man. All it means is that he's reserving the option to go back home.

  • KB

    Thank you. My mother told me growing up if the divorce papers are not signed he is off limits even if he is separated. He is still married regardless of what he says.

  • free

    The happiest I ever saw him was when she left him. It’s weird that he wants to go back.

  • KB

    It would be breaking news headline: “Carmelo has left Lala for being pregnant from another man” or “Oh Hell No, I’m not raising another man’s baby...Shouts Carmelo.”

  • ClaireHuxtable

    It really is. The cheaters gives no thought to how their family & children will feel. They have to carry the weight every day. Some cope ok while others don't.

  • KB

    The THOT thirsting is real and some of them didn’t care if he was married.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Most people just use it as a cooling off period until they can strategize a new plan.

  • Quitedeliteful

    I hope she's not caught up because this would be tragic...

  • Quitedeliteful

    I never watched it but I will this weekend...

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I noticed he talked to them...gave them attention...advise. They were h00ked. Drawn in like a magnet.
    It was actually kinda sad to watch. I kept waiting for his wife and kids to walk in at any second and see him holding court...

  • Quitedeliteful

    So true.

  • KB

    Okay. Please watch it.

  • KB

    Hopefully, they are taking STD tests. My mom told my brothers if a woman is not asking where is your condom before you pull the condom out, run because she is up to something, has a STD, or doesn’t care and you are not the first man she has slept with without a condom.

  • KB

    Exactly. Most of the time the men divorce their wives and get a new woman and the mistress/side chick is not an option for marriage. A man looks at if you cheated with me while I was married what makes me think you will not cheat on me while we are married.

  • speakinmymind

    That stripper would marry him in a heartbeat if he asked her. She wasn't just fuckin him for fun...she wanted a relationship. Let's not pretend she doesn't want the same thing as Lala...the man, the ring and the family.

  • KB

    I am not surprised. The wedding ring is a magnet to some women and they don’t care about it. A woman on a radio show said that she only dated married men because she knew where he was going when he left her house home to his wife.

  • speakinmymind

    Spoken like a true thot who thinks fuckin someone's husband is cute. A nigga will fuck anything with a hole in it, and women who believe their pussy can "take" a man from his wife are just playing themselves in the long run. If this chick had it so together and didn't want Carmelo as her own man, she could a went to the sperm bank and got pregnant.

  • KB

    Oh yeah she had a motive.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    W0w...people will sell their souls for just a little attention.

  • speakinmymind

    And there it is...

    These chicks don't realize it's a cheap and easy thrill for men...an escape and dopamine high off the sneaking/lying. Once the cover us blown, the "thrill" is gone too.

  • Dahl

    I wouldn’t have one thing to do with the kid if I was Carmelo and really wanted to work with my wife. I’d pay the side thing a lump sum of support and be done with her. He’d be giving the woman what she obviously wanted which was a few minutes of his time, a baby and money, and possibly getting peace for himself and family in the longrun.

  • bemetoo

    yes

  • Guest

    Wow! But that child is his family too.

  • Jussjess25

    She look more like lala to me ?????? but yall go head and take this one

  • Jussjess25

    ????

  • Dahl

    I hate these situations. All that about it not being the child’s fault is true: you can’t help who your parents are. She doesn’t “deserve” to be born into that situation, anymore than LaLa’s son “deserves” to split his dad’s time (and money) with a bastard sibling, or someone “deserves” to be born into a family with a history of heart disease or mental illness, but it happens. So if she’s left by her father and well paid for, I guess she should take that up with her whore-ass parents when she gets of age...

  • Jussjess25

    And would not even consider to take her back! She would never see his ass again

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Damn Lala sure looks a lot different now. That's all?

  • Logan Roberts

    Men make me so fuckin sick sometimes. It's like they were put on this earth to hurt women. Ugh.

  • lovelygamour

    so what. bitch i will write what i want. you dont know how disqus works. this isnt the chans idiot.

  • tintin

    ????

  • tintin

    Lala just gonna be cheating for the hell of it. The trust is gone..they gonna just cheat on each other hoping not to get caught

  • Eileen

    I hope they can work it out...

  • Eileen

    momma is right..as always!!! LOL

  • VoiceOfReasonAndLogic

    Nah...He's got to have worked out a financial agreement including an NDA or there would've been several more stories published about this. It went away pretty quietly suddenly...

  • Quitedeliteful

    ???

  • GuestSTAR

    So true. Given his betrayal and the constant reminder of it in their lives; Lala probably wouldn't give a sht if he caught her cheating. In the end many couples try, but the relationship is never the same and it ends.

  • Yoni7

    "Everyday people, they lie to God too. So what makes YOU think that they won't lie to you?" ~Lauryn Hill

  • Mssugamoma

    Ole heffa!! knew he was married and so did he. God bless you LaLa cause you gone need it!

  • Lady” Youngblood

    A woman opening her legs to a married man has to be a lil miserable, a low self-esteem and a down rite con-artist looking for a come up because she has to feel she can’t get it herself. So something is wrong with her for sure. And it’s Absolutely his fault as well but it’s his wife that’s going to make him pay for that.

  • Lady” Youngblood

    And if she has all this brain and beauty the 1st thing she should have did was get her own man. Her brain should of told her that and her beauty should have been able to get her her, own man but it didn’t this air head had a baby by someone,s husband and now she looks very ugly. You see how that works

  • Lady” Youngblood

    Lmfao men do what you allow them to do. If your thatDumb and vulnerable to believe this man is not married then google it. And with all her brains she still felled for the Okey-doke and had a baby by a married man. I don’t give a f what you tell me about your marriage and how much he may have Pursued her if she’s that smart she would have let him know you need to get a divorce before we can take this any further. And you talk about respect, she didn’t have respect for herself that’s number one. Now she can tell her daughter I meant your dad in the club he was married but we still decided to have a baby. Where is the respect in that. And yes he is a cheating dog but that’s for his wife to deal with anyway she chooses. Because men pick women Choose

  • jayhawkpride

    She looks like Chris Brown's daughter Royalty.

  • http://bitchbecomesher.com Tasha Nicole

    He couldn't have used a condom? Sheesh!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Lady” Youngblood

    Now you know a man only does what you allow him to do. Now how smart can you be to have a baby with a married man. All her degrees in the world didn’t stop her from falling for the Okey-doke. Men pick women choose.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    The little girl is a cutie pie but that still doesn't change the fact that her mother is a wh*re for sleeping with a married man and her daddy is a fool for cheating on his wife and raw doggin another bish and getting her knocked up! Ok now bye!!!!

  • Goodii2Shoes

    A lot of y'all sound and act like outside children
    ________________
    ?,

  • MsPam

    So true, do you know what song this is from?!

  • Goodii2Shoes

    Lol, I'm not a marriage minded woman but my Bachelorette brain has me thinking I would be playing mommy to the side baby.*protecting my bag* + I know sombody has to help the child grow up w/dignity...

  • Goodii2Shoes

    It happens. ..

  • Goodii2Shoes

    Plot twist: the couple now have a 3rd party for the menagerie trois??

  • Goodii2Shoes

    I'd be making special popcorn & posting family fun nite IG pics. (If the bag straight enough lol ,) I'm jot evn on ig, but if the bag straight---&the side thot on ig, lol, I'd be a beautiful kind of wife-petty lol,
    Like, OUR /my husband new baby SPOILED ?,

  • Goodii2Shoes

    ?,racially ambiguous look, producing the same beige babies...(no shade to the beige people)
    ---------
    It seems to be an era of cookie cutter clone types. Like there was a thot -conference where the leader mandated all thots paint, edit, & style themselves to look like one.

  • Goodii2Shoes

    Met a couple who got pregnant &,married on a high school dare. 3 kids, 10+yrs later they divorced citing "maturity helped them see why it wasn't meant to work"... -_-

  • I Run New York

    Facts. Kevin Hart got caught too. Smh his wife was pregnant and he was banging radoms.

  • Quitedeliteful

    You are very kind... I would probably be ranting and raving like a lunatic. I love babies but I don't think I could do it...

  • Kimocha

    Oh my goodness!... What an adorable little girl!... She does look just like her daddy!... La La good luck girl!

  • Goodii2Shoes

    I understand. Aside from not wanting to see a child my husband created be mistreated because he was married to me when he made her , I have seen so much infidelity & romantic foolishness that I have decided to enter into relationships knowing the risks & proceeding in "love" like "can I handle anything that may come?" ... side babies & lovers can be dealbreakers but once ur finances are entwined through marriage /cohabitation , you have to keep a level head to protect yourself. The side baby& lover (s) are really secondary... and depending on the situation ,when it's cash & wealth & property involved, what better way to check a side chick than love her side baby like it's yours? God mat bless you for helping that child grow up to have enough class/respect/self respect & dignity to not intervene in someone's marriage

  • parisjok

    that baby is not cute

  • Yoni7

    Forgive Them Father

  • Quitedeliteful

    when it's cash & wealth & property involved, what better way to check a side chick than love her side baby like it's yours?
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    Now this is so true! I know someone that had a baby with a married musician and when his wife found out they took over primary care of the baby so that side chick got no child support or anything...

  • Goodii2Shoes

    Exactly. That's how things have to go. The side chick has already shown she unfit to parent just by having a baby for a married man. Most judges aren't going to fight the couple on custody, especially if they are wealthier (&how many wealthy women giving birth to a less wealthy / broke married man's side baby??)
    & I think the side chix learn lessons the hardway. However, I don't know if primary custody, early on, is healthy for anyone... it sounds realllly sad so I am just going to enjoy having an opinion but not have to actually live it. For my money, I'll take custody of a side chick baby ...but I'm glad I'm not caught up in real life... it sounds painful

  • Quitedeliteful

    I am just going to enjoy having an opinion but not have to actually live it
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    This!!! I hope to never be caught up in such a situation....

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    Wow!! Just wow!!!

  • Goodii2Shoes

    U&me both! I had a bf, that was like childhood sweetheart level etc etc. We managed to date/cohabitate as adults, I moved out to go to college, he became insecure my sophomore year, so we split, he makes a break baby, we link back up while she's heavily pregnant (from my counting)& he hides the baby until it was too late to respect it. That's as close as I got to it &lol, I think he was more hurt whn after he revealed he was a father I told him he should have told me early on so we could have gone shopping for baby clothes etc!!? (We had definitely been apart whn the baby was conceived )?but since he lied I couldn't hangout. He tried to get me to be stepmommy for years. I couldn't swing it tho,
    Smh

  • Quitedeliteful

    He should have been upfront from the beginning. Whelp... hope he's happy...

  • Goodii2Shoes

    True. I don't think he's happy... or maybe he still likes to lie to me :) ?lol, I don't know but I wished him well& found myself with far more important things to deal with. The lesson learned, for me at least, was don't have a baby for a guy unless YOU want that baby & don't marry too easily because I easily could have been wrapped up in a child custody battle with my husband & his mistress . The ex has custody of his child so I figure either the mistress wasn't a good parent or he wasn't feeling paying her child support lol but I regularly thank God I'm not on child support with them.!

  • MsPam

    I’m late but thank you!?

  • CaramelDrop

    Lies. My kids give no phucked about those other kids. Not a one.

  • CaramelDrop

    ???

  • Yoni7

    You're welcome.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    We don't know what's in their minds. They may be afraid to bring up the issue with you now. Time will tell. I hope you'll be open minded if they do come to you down the road.

  • Renee26

    ? hilarious ... I wouldn't make him choose because the baby is his and he needs to take care of it regardless of how it was produced... He can just go ?

  • CaramelDrop

    The “M” in Monique is for petty and selfish... I recognize my faults so I’m a work in progress lol?????

  • Renee26

    ? we all are

  • Cat

    Poor choices made on all parties here.