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Former model and mom-of-4 Kim Porter, left, was laid to rest in her hometown of Columbus, Georgia on Saturday, Nov. 24. She is pictured with her lifelong friend Eboni Elektra, pictured right with Kim and her newborn son, Cristian Combs, 20 years ago.

Eboni, pictured left with Kim and Nicole Johnson, right, was more than just a sister-friend to Kim; she was the center of Kim's life. If Kim was the earth, Eboni was her sun. The two friends were inseparable.

Eboni once said of Kim: "We may not be blood sisters, but you cant tell us that. You just can't."

It was Eboni's idea to create the elaborate marble resting place for Kim's mom, Sarah L. Porter, who passed away in 2014 in Columbus, Ga. Kim will be buried next to her mom.

In 2014, Eboni texted me a photo of Ms. Sarah's gravesite marked with a lonely headstone. She was quick to tell me that the headstone was only temporary. She went into great detail about the beautiful graveside memorial she had planned for Ms. Sarah -- complete with a bench so visitors could sit and reminisce about Ms. Sarah.

It's only fitting that everyone who attended Kim's star-studded funeral is still buzzing about Eboni's moving eulogy.

People say Sean Combs -- who fathered 3 children with Kim -- should have taken a back seat to her children and the people in Kim's life who truly loved her and had her back when he broke her heart repeatedly.

Combs's narcissism was on full display at Kim's funeral. He is being dragged on social media for good reason. Who wears a tuxedo to a funeral?

Thanks to Michelle Brown of Straightfromthea.com for the videos from the funeral.

Below are photos from a surprise party that Eboni threw for Kim's 34th birthday party at Justin's restaurant in Atlanta on Dec. 21, 2004.
 

Eboni Elektra Gives Eulogy for Kim; Faith Evans Sings

 

 

Photos by Sandra Rose/Sandrarose.com

  • Jackie Byrd

    I am so glad someone is saying that because fluff daddy treated her like crap and in the public eye. But like Auntie says his selfishness was on full display and he can't help himself. So he is getting rightfully dragged back under that rock he climbed from under to say what he did about her love being so powerful he wasn't worthy. Child boo.

  • Phillybruh

    I couldn't imagine burying my best friend. That has too be a different kind of pain.

  • Yardgirl

    RIP Kim. Her death is just reminding me how fragile life is. Let's all remember to take care of ourselves and take health issues seriously!!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I guess Diddy (& fam) gave the ok for people to record. I think it was kinda disrespectful to record a private ceremony. A funeral is not a wedding. If they wanted everyone to see, they would have recorded it.

  • imright

    u got that part about Puffy right !!! ?he got all the way on my nerves regarding Kims death. ?he needed to take several seats but since he has the coin they allowed it ?????

  • Jackie Byrd

    I was just telling my daughter the same thing, we need to take care of ourselves and stop waiting to get the help we need when it comes to our health.

  • Jackie Byrd

    I can't imagine that either glad I don't have a best friend because burying my oldest son was the worse thing ever. The pain never goes away and life doesn't go on. It can't because you need to be whole to do that. But when a child dies that part of you dies too.

  • Yardgirl

    Amen! A lot of people will say "let's watch and see if it get's better" Oh heck no, early detection saves lives and I have many a stories to prove this.

  • Phillybruh

    I can't imagine the pain of losing a child, I get to see it first hand with my sister n law and brother. I agree your never whole again, but I'm so proud of them they have found away to go forward.

  • Yardgirl

    Oh no!! I cannot even begin to imagine that pain. Sorry for your loss *hugs*

  • ohdearme

    This is too much for me and wrong on so many levels, leaves closes door behind me.

  • Love Luv

    Just waiting for piddy’s damage control and say he wore a tux because it was the one who planned to marry Kim in. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/74a4635c6a1ae84d859a35163fb02b6ed7a80ef2ca9699a22acc91545faceb7c.gif

  • WhoKnew

    You're so right. My nephew died almost 20 years ago (unfortunately he was about that street life). However, I saw his death coming and my sister asked me why didn't I tell her. I said how do you tell someone that in 2 weeks your son is going to die? I told her I just could not bring myself to tell her.

    What had happened was my nephew had been stabbed by this rival crew and it was touch and go but he pulled through. When I went to visit him in the hospital, I had a vision as clear as the sun that said he was going to die in 2 weeks. Three weeks after I had that vision, I received a call from my mother. Before I even said hello, I said: is it James, mom?" She said yes, he's gone.

    As my sister and I were headed to make his funeral arrangements she said to me "you didn't see this coming?" I told her I had saw it coming but could not bring myself to tell her. She did everything she could to try to save him from the streets and it still pains her to this day that he's gone.

  • Love Luv

    Piddy-ful needs to be his new name. He couldn’t even post pics without his side chicks child chance. He could barely muster out a eulogy. Yet he kept making it on stage. Even with her son. Like kneegrha go sit down. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/0c3d87de0628cf2f81dbe2e7a76ee4daaa9495e6cfa29dec930e387e3d3cdb8c.gif

  • Keyshia Ray

    I know they acting like Puffy was her husband smh.

  • Love Luv
  • WhoKnew

    Looks like it was a lovely service. They must have kept the girls out of the public's view as far as taking pictures because I have not seen any pictures of them before or during the service.

    I don't have anything to say about "shake his tail feather fluff daddy"

  • Renee26

    Dang so the man can't wear a tux to bury a loved one?? The casket was gold...so why not??

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    God bless your family and my condolences for your loss.

    (But girl.... you got the 'gift'?????????) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b25c55f880104788ab280e26748e8bbe2ddcb658e261a54c8e0848bcab10a924.gif

  • Love Luv
  • WhoKnew

    Yes, I used to have the gift. Back then it was very strong. One of my grandmother's had it and I guess, I got it from her. Now, as I have gotten older it is going away (thank goodness)..

  • Love Luv

    Please. Diddy wanted his emotional turmoil exposed and leaked. He is the make Ariana grande. (Luv your name!)

  • Dr

    He def shoulda taken a back seat and sit all the way down....all i heard from him is what Kim did for him...but boy what did you do for her except break her heart the ENTIRE time you were together..and what about the 11 yr relationship he been parading around to the public??? But yet kim was your soulmate...rubbish...he tried to dim her light...she could have been so much more to the public than just diddys babymama....gotta be careful of the fools you bring into your life! Anyways the TRUTH is always gonna come to light..just a matter of time ? I. Can't. Wait

  • Victorious82

    I bet if Puff sat quietly amongst the mourners, folks would have something to say about that too. He’s damned if he does damned if he doesn’t. Seems like the public is making Kim’s death more about him than her, not the other way around. Picking apart his attire, the way he mourns, their last together. Sheesh. Just let this woman Rest In Peace.

  • Yoni7

    I believe I saw a glimpse of them when the family arrived to the fune. They were standing at the back of a van. IF it was them, they both had on cream/gold type dresses with cape showls over their shoulder. I could be wrong. I watched a lot of videos on IG of it.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    But they may have allowed it so that they wouldn't look so tacky doing it. Smdh...WHAT I S PRIVACY ANYMORE? Shyt puff used to film himself on the dam toilet!!!

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Facts.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    They make sure to keep posting that pic of her and Whitney tho. Didn't see it when Whitney passed! LHM!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    My mama can 'see' stuff and i always remind the Lord that i DON'T want that. And, one of my sisters had a vision of my dad right before he crashed his car. She said she saw it in a dream and hopped right out of bed and started praying and pleading to God not to take her father, and while she was praying, her phone rang. It was my mom telling her to come get her because my dad had been medic-vac'd with serious injuries from a one-car crash. (He lived.) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9d465041cfaadc9080119da3ebc9e8e678679d3b3b44dc4f5fce24974c1de281.gif

  • Love Luv

    There’s a difference in mourning and doing everything flashy about yourself to bring attention to yourself. Starting with the I, me, she to me, I I I I I em me me me me. I I I while in a tux. So distraught yet boasting about how HE stands next to her casket and HE paid for this and that, How HE gots her, What HE did and what HE will do and how she was the woman HE needed. You should NEVER know who paid for what in a funeral. He could’ve said his bit and threw his house party. Then sat down or gave his kids a chance.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Folks seem to be mad at the fact that they had a special relationship, no one really knows...sometimes you're better off as just friends.

  • Solstice

    Is it me or did Faith do too much with His Eye Is On The Sparrow? ? Maybe I am just in my feelings…

  • Yoni7

    boasting about how HE stands next to her casket and HE paid for this and that
    _________________
    HE TOLD EVERBODY HE PAID FOR THE FUNE???????!!!!!!!!!!

  • Meme

    There was a video of her playing one of these clapping hands games in the sunset with all three girls and she kissed one of the twins I'll tell you what if that doesn't get you nothing will ???my heart broke for those kids man....

  • http://realitytea.com/ Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    RIP, Kim Porter.

    About 15 years ago, one day I was perfectly fine sitting in my office at work. Suddenly I started getting chills and felt feverish. In about an hour’s span I felt so sick and weakened all I could do was put my head on my desk. My manager saw me and immediately sent me home. (I would like to think it was because of concern for me more than I may have something contagious and would infect the office.)

    I went home and collapsed in bed with fever and chills. My temperature was about 103. Every five minutes my mouth filled with a foam-like secretion -- not phlegm that you normally associate with a cold or flu. The secretions were similar to those of people gassed in a war zone that I have seen on TV.

    So, DESPITE the fact that I had CHILLS, FEVERS, FOAM-LIKE LUNG SECRETIONS, limbs feeling like NOODLES and I was sicker than I had ever been in my life; it NEVER occurred to me to do anything except take flu medication and drink fluids.

    But thank God I had a genuine friend that cared and INSISTED that I go to the hospital. I was diagnosed with a viral lung infection. After a few weeks and TWO DIFFERENT ANTIBIOTICS and at least one return visit to the emergency hospital I recovered. The moral of my story is that you can go from healthy to extremely sick in a matter of hours, when that happens SEEK HELP. Even today I am HAUNTED by what may have been the outcome if I just TREATED myself with home remedies on the SICKEST day of my life.

    I am not trying to be overly dramatic but all of this to say we need to take care of ourselves and each other.

  • RespectSelf

    I mean he clearly loved that woman. He has 3 kids with her.... Everybody is too judgmental smh. Who are we to tell someone what they should or should not do when they lose someone. At the end of the day.... He is hit hard by her death. He has kids that need him more than ever now... who cares where he sat and what he wore smh

  • Renee26

    ?

  • Tinytoon

    I thought I was the only one who saw that Puff was wearing a tux. Who wears a tux to a funeral?

  • BeUtFullSoul

    I've had to do it....and to this day almost 12 years later it still hurts so bad!

  • WhoKnew

    Awww. I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah, it's a gift I never wanted. And as I said, it is finally going away.

  • hottlanta

    Wow everyone wants him 2 take a backseat at the funeral. I wanna know how many of yall will take a front seat n write a check 2 take care of the kids n their expenses if puffy decided 2 take a back seat n stop writing them. Folks would scatter like roaches.

  • TMW

    Diddy posted that.

  • Bonita

    I'm surprised Diddy allowed her to speak, because he sure didn't list an Eboni Elektra or mention Three Brown Girls in the write up of her life story, or list of friend's and family in Kim's obituary. I still can't believe he identified himself as "longtime partner and soulmate," follwed by his mama in the list of friends and family, before her kids. I bet he doesn't give instruction to have Kim identified as his soulmate in his own obituary. And seeing what a narcissist he is, I'm sure he already has it written up with his seal of approval, and ready to print in advance. He's such an a$$hole.

  • Coy little wink

    Kim was stunningly gorgeous to me...RIP sweet lady...

    Was her mom native American?

    What happened to 3 Brown girls?

  • hottlanta

    Betta say it. Had he had not paid for the funeral they would b calling him all kinds of dogs but they would not write a personal check 2 pay for it themselves

  • FukkFolks2018

    I'm salty Janice made Kim's obit but Al B. Sure did not. I'm writing my own now after all of this. And leaving it with my niece.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I cant believe people are making a big deal about the fact that he wore a tuxedo. You would think the man showed up wearing a sweatsuit and some Air Jordans. smh

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Bless your heart. so sorry for your loss.

  • TMW

    I have always said that weddings and funerals bring out the worst petty in everybody. Everybody wants to make someone’s death or wedding about themselves. Are they really having a “who loved Kim best contest” right now? Only thinking of themselves and not the kids that are left behind? Eboni may have been her best friend, but Diddy was the father of 3 of her kids, and Quincy claims him as father too. If he can put on a tux for an awards show, why can’t he show up in a tux to bury someone very special in his life? Whatever happened in their relationship, they were still close and he did really love her the best way he knew how, even if it’s not the way people thought he should have loved her. Maybe he is taking it hard because he didn’t have time to make things right. Who knows??? Stop judging that man.

  • hottlanta

    Folks who don't have lives r always up in other folks business n their shyt is raggedy as hell.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Staying out of this toxic shyt ... finishing up washing my sheets ... you guys have a wonderful day ..... keep those kids warm ... all I got .... ? peace out

  • Coy little wink

    I'm writing my own. Its going to be hilarious...

  • stav

    There are numerous pictures of Sean Combs at the funeral site, that are obviously staged to show him in a moment of solitude supposedly grieving, but it's so obviously staged.. who does that! Grieving should come naturally, and why does someone need to be photo'd intentionally showing "grief"? I am no one's judge , just saying some photos look suspect.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    thank God for your friend (and for your agreeing to see a doctor). this could have been a tragedy for your loved ones, smh.

  • Bonita

    That clown wasn't about to print Al B. in there. Heck, in his eulogy, he in so many words spoke about how he plotted on getting Kim when he first saw her in the studio with Al B. Sure, while she was holding their baby (Quincy). That funeral was definitely the Diddy show.

  • Solstice

    ?? So fitting, Coy ?

  • tia

    Since Ms. Porter's passing, I've been seeing people comment really nonchalantly about pneumonia and the flu. These two are no punk and are not to be played with. Thank God you recovered.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Girl... i can't, smh.

  • TMW

    I’ve been at funerals where there were 2 obits. Like I said below, funerals bring out the messy and petty in everyone. Remember the open letter to his father that Quincy wrote back in 2015? They were estranged for many years, and I think they only recently reconnected when Al B. started getting his life together.

  • TriniHarlem

    You can't instruct grieving on anyone. It's beyond ridiculous and miserable. Let people do them. Not your funeral so stfu and if you don't want this at your funeral plan your chit and again stfu. Good day.

  • hottlanta

    He was a helluva man 2 adopt another man son n raise him as his own. Quincy loves him 2 death. 2 c diddy n al b embrace him at the same time with both hands on his back was powerful n beautiful.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Meanwhile he is providing for those children .... Good damn day ..... bye ..... and that is all that matters ... there are kids hurting right now ..... and he is doing the best he can ..... da wrong shyt is being uplifted and I will not .... when these children lost a parent .... a blame is just that and won't. .... Change the circumstances peace out and miss me with the fugg shyt...... these children need that love and das it ... and he giving it .. .. fugg da rest ?

  • Ebony Starr

    So sad! Rest in Peace and prayers for everyone who loved her.

  • Love Luv

    Yes. They have leaked audio now btw.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I just suspect utter bullshit will happen. It happened with my dad. My own mom tried it, but mind you they had been divorced since I was SIX. But she tried to pull rank over US, our bro from his second marriage, and his second wife. Was mad bc we called the lady and asked if she wanted her maiden name which she goes by listed, or her married name out of respect of her new union. I'm talking frfr pissed at us!

    Nobody writes better than me anyhow, so yeah. I got it lol.

  • TMW

    And let Misa tell it, Kim was plotting to get Diddy at the same time.

  • FukkFolks2018

    And he was messing with Sista Sarah. All same timeframe. Too much

  • TMW

    And you know he paid for the funeral, and probably her Mom’s before that.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i'm kinda fascinated by the whole thing for real though, Lol.
    when did you first recognize that you had it? did it frighten you? is it a something that just pops up like a news ticker, or can you look at a person and 'read' them? sorry for all these questions, but i've always been curious (and scared at the same time). Like, i know you wonder why i don't just ask my mama, but that's just a lil 'too close to home' for me. she's told us about times she's been in distress or needing a miracle, and how angels have made their presence known (that's usually when i ease out of the room....) https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5a16feb7886870b58e876a7ffc6b264e7419e743bb55ec579123b82d4a427799.gif

  • Bonita

    Get out yo feelings. Don't come in people's threads shitt*ng on their comments. If you can't handle gossip commentary, stay the fuqq out of the comment section of gossip sites.

  • Lovely1

    He loved her...The best way he knew how. Obviously egotistical...and probably a ton of other traits that we know nothing about, but that's for them to know. But he loved her! Let them be. May she RIP.

  • FukkFolks2018

    He was listed as Kim's husband in her mom obit. Which Kim as an only child had power over.

  • Coy little wink

    So you were at the funeral and read the printed obituary? Interesting...

    Receipts please...

  • Bonita

    Right. lol What a mess.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    *cackles*

  • Yoni7

    *gasps*

  • Coy little wink

    Girrll I need receipts

  • MEGAN

    Everybody needs to stop saying that he adopted her son..Quincy still has his father's last name which is Brown

  • Yoni7

    You can't instruct grieving on anyone.
    _________________
    THIIIIIIISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Bonita

    Ummm people took pics and video of the funeral and the obituary.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Yep. But I also read Al's open letter saying he had been threatened and harrassed

    "So FYI: If I (Al B. Sure! Aka Al Brown is found DEAD please contact my attorney Author Aaronson and he will have all of the information on everyone including their own closets emptied out and the main culprit “funding it” all. I will share who the key players are with you so as I said if I am found DEAD you will know the who what shortly after. Since they seem to think that it’s a joke or that I am f**king joking we will find out who’s really from Mt. Vernon and not faking it. As I said “Continue to F*** with a hungry, wounded animal in the woods with nothing to lose and you will eventually get eaten… All involved and my favorite Bohdi Bear Rest in Peace…to my Sons, I love you severely! ABS!!!"

  • Love Luv

    Why are the only things being leaked are of Diddy? For The naysayers. Seems quite convenient. For Diddy. Anyway. RIP Ms Porter. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/a4bbc0e27d384316d20ab6f2b79a122c78d9d2866a24d7a725d860a75cc6ab4f.gif

  • Coy little wink

    So you telling me to Google it?

  • WhoKnew

    I'll respond to your question later. I have to go run a few errands and it is dumping rain....so I'm trying to get going.

  • Fire & Ice

    Happy Monday! You have a good day also

  • TMW

    Wow.

  • Love Luv

    It is not just the tuxedo. It’s everything in combination.

    Anyway- How beautiful was Kim and she seemed like a doting mother and all around too good to be true friend in her latter years. I pray the children will be ok on everything.

  • Bonita

    Basically.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    "no one really knows"
    _______________________

    said this last week.... we may never know (and why would we need to know?) Bless those babies, and give him the wisdom to be the father they need him to be. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9c5524b933f3a29872256af8b9d30b4c9ec5914b980fdc0a0817cbbe688aa153.gif

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    got it.... be careful out there.

  • TMW

    Chile. A whole mess. It’s good to see they’ve somehow gotten past it. Al was being included in everything recently. Quincy is almost 30 so yeah...time to dead all that nonsense.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Judge Mental Will

    Diddy and Ariana Grande are going to milk their past deceases death to the end!

  • Coy little wink

    But how do you know he wrote the obit?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Exactly. People kill me, picking this man apart for no reason.
    I'm like, let the man grieve how he wants to grieve.

  • OvertheMississippi

    My 23-year-old daughter came home for Thanksgiving with a cough that over-the-counter meds couldn't stop. We tried two different brands. By Friday, we were headed to the doctor. I took her just like she was 5.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Whomever wrote it had bad taste putting Janice name before her children. Petiod

    "Surviving and feeling a definite loss is her dear grandmother Lila Mae Star; her loving father Jake D. Porter, Jr. and his wife Georgine Porter; longtime partner and soulmate Sean Combs; his mother Janice Combs; beloved children; sons, Quincy Taylor Brown and Christian Casey Combs, twin daughters, Jessie James Combs and D'lila Star Combs; children in love, Justin Dior Combs and Chance Zuri Combs"

    The Pope could be responsible and I would say the same

  • FukkFolks2018

    Al B was scared for his life

  • TMW

    He went by Quincy Combs for a long time though.

  • Bonita

    It's pretty much common sense that Diddy had a controlling hand in the entire funeral. Nowhere did I say he personally wrote the obituary, but the way it was written, he clearly had say so as to what was written. It's quite evident the way he made everything about himself, that he financed everything and ran the show.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    oh there was a LEGIT threat! wow, smh

  • Applebootay

    Nothing wrong with a tuxedo. In fact, IMHO, it can be viewed as a sign of respect. To not think that this man is not hurting, at the very least, for his children is messed up. No matter what, even if he wore a plain black, people would say he should have worn a tux, if he was quiet, people would say he didn't say enough. The only people that are making it about Diddy is the media. Please move on and let this family grieve in peace. R.I.P. Kim Porter.

  • tia

    In my opinion, I don't think Puffy did too much with the tuxedo. In Diddy "style" he could have been much more over the top. Anyhoot, continued prayers for the kids and the rest of the family.

  • Applebootay

    I feel the same and after reading your comment. I'm going to jump off this post, cause I feel like I'll probably get banned for cussing out people out.

  • TriniHarlem

    I don't get what's so hard to understand. Some are over the top some like myself get real super introvert and grieve quietly unhealthy albeit but no one grieves the same. There isn't a requirement on how to grieve.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Not surprised

  • tia

    He can't win for losing. Damn if he do, damn if he don't. Well said tho!

  • TMW

    What you said! People are trying to say that he had pictures staged, when obviously all the pictures of him off by himself were taken with telephoto lenses. Are you kidding me right now??

  • hottlanta

    Those checks n the love he got all these years say combs. He adopted him

  • FukkFolks2018

    I actually LOVED his tux. Its freaking DIDDY. He always does the most. He looked GOODT. My baby daddy and my ex husband better put on their good everything to come send me away when the Lord comes a'callin. TUH.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I actually LOVED his tux. Its freaking DIDDY. He always does the most. He looked GOODT. My baby daddy and my ex husband better put on their good everything to come send me away when the Lord comes a'callin. TUH.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    But yet you popping blocked ???

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Recognize the mess ... I see it clearly blocking left and right butt hurt bout someone else lost??? ..... someone's miserable at home. .... smh .....

  • KcoolMuziq

    My minister Bishop Noel Jones(the center of my life) spoke of his eulogy to Kim Saturday. When I attended his church yesterday as I do every Sunday. He sent a prayer out to her family and Diddy..

  • TMW

    When my husband died, his sister wanted a whole page in his obituary. She asked me what I was putting on my page, and I told her I didn’t need a page because we had a whole life together, and I had nothing to prove to anybody. Mind you the first thing she said after he died was that she didn’t have any money to contribute to anything, so she was planning an 8 page 8x11 full color obituary on my dime. I tried to be inclusive with the planning but everybody had their own interests; I was the only one thinking about my daughter who had just lost her father and the best way to honor his life for her. It wasn’t even about me. I fell out with people over who got to ride in the family cars! I didn’t even want to be in the family car! Just petty - I mean it was unbelievable. My heart goes out to Diddy because he is the person left behind to deal with those kids’ grief, and has to give them a new normal, because without their mom, things will never be the same. Everybody keeps focusing on how Diddy behaved, instead what is ahead of him. The funeral was one day - he did what he thought was best and what he thought Kim would have wanted. That’s all he could have done.

  • FukkFolks2018

    He has his hands full. Made me feel some kind of way when he said he will continue to raise their fam the way she taught him. He can be sad. He might be a schitty human, but he IS a human. SAME THING with our own MOTHER. About not contributing anything but with all of these grandiose and EXPENSIVE requests. Like LADY. We done just lost our dad. These kids done lost their grandfather. And you are trying to spend money We dont even HAVE YET on foolishness. My dad was creamated per HIS wish and she over here picking out the most costliest urns EVER. He didnt WANT to sit on NOBODY TV or mantle. Like...folks really dont get it unless they have been through it. So sorry for your loss and your daughter loss of husband/dad for you two. Its a HUGE mess.

  • TMW

    All of Diddy’s relationships and kids overlap smh.

  • TMW

    Thank you. I’m sorry for the loss of your dad as well. Nobody wins with death. Especially those left behind.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    But they may have allowed it so that they wouldn't look so tacky doing it.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    You may be right. As long as they were cool with it.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Thank you!

  • Love Luv
  • Renee Bee

    Rest easy, Lady KP.
    "I sinnnnng because I'm freeeeeee!"

    Faith did that!
    Ya heard?

  • Love Luv

    Come on. Why are you being so fiesty today? I was never rude to you. Have a nice day

  • FukkFolks2018

    Faith can still sang her damn FACE OFF. She turned it out last night on Soul Train Awards. If she is a coke whore like everyone keeps saying she is, she is the purdiest coke whore I have ever seen... and she is also the best sounding one since El Debarge. Well he still purdy too but u know what I mean lol.

  • Bashi22

    Black Beautiful Ladies

  • abby500

    I love her color.

  • dru and neil

    He shouldn’t have been in the obituary at all. Since when are ex boyfriends in an obituary?

  • DETROITTOATL

    Quincy stated on Wendy Williams that Diddy adopted him at the age of 3 years old. I pray for her family and children. Anything else is irrelevant at this point.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Not just ex bf.
    Ex bf mama listed TOO.
    Listen.
    But okay if one baby daddy is indeed listed, then list the otha'un AS WELL.

  • R in NYC

    Diddy couldn't let Kim be great at her own funeral. Had to grab the spotlight and make it all about his pain and loss. He is such an insufferable bastard. Cared so much for Kim but never married her and kept flaunting all his hoez in front of her and for all the world to see. Kim's death was truly some karma for his selfish, dirty dog d*ck having azz.
    I could care less about his money and how much he spends on his kids and his harem and his side dudes ....he's still a selfish p.o.s.!

  • Renee Bee

    I was singing right along with her. That song always gets me all teary eyed.

  • TMW

    ?. You are in timeout ???

  • dru and neil

    Yes. If they are straying this far from the norm, maybe Al B. Sure should be listed as the father of her first born son. Like I told someone the other day, when my mom passed, my father was not part of the obituary because they were divorced and they had a 27 year marriage. He wasn’t unwelcome, and they were great friends, but it was just not something that made any sense, he’s not family anymore in the eyes of the law or her church.

  • PhillyFacts

    Multiple people I know have been suffering from this cough including myself. I went to the ER because I’m 7months pregnant and was scared after the third day. The ER resident said “we’ve seen dozens with this cough, I believe its due to the weather changing so drastically, and when you have allergies it triggers.” I’m thinking whatever sir the government is spraying them chemicals again tryna kill us off.

  • BingBangBoom

    I still believe that the broken hearted syndrome had a role in her death.. Shoot Diddy has been giving me tons of mixed emotions these past two weeks about his relationship with her. Please don't put ANY pictures of me and my Ex kissing in my funeral programs! RIP Kim

  • dru and neil

    I hope to have a true blue friend in my life like she and Ebony had, they were very blessed.

  • Eileen

    My goodness I can tell you truly love yo self some diddy! LOL but truly I feel you in so many ways...yes he is unsufferable! LOL

  • Chuck

    I heard Faith sing live in concert and she sounded awful!

  • Black4life

    My Goodness...I'm at a lost for words. All about Puffy...and nobody has the courage to tell him to step back. I don't like when people **** over people, then pretend their hurt. The only thing puffy on Puffy is his booty h***.

  • Eileen

    Yeah! yo gotta point!

  • dru and neil

    Reading the comments for the past week, I think a lot of people are frustrated with this “husband” role he’s taken on in death but not in life so now everything he does bothers folks good or bad.

  • Eileen

    Why of course honey its all about him him him him him him him...get the point! LOL

  • Eileen

    Yuck he was lawfully married to her...maybe that should have been her call IDK chile...its lunch time LOL

  • dru and neil

    He wasn’t lawfully married to her though, they divorced.

  • Eileen

    Good grief is this what an obituary looks like when you have a harem of dumb black women ready to push babies out with no husband...smh

  • Eileen

    Thank you...at the end of the day her legacy is baby mama of 4 kids two different daddies, no husband.

  • Black4life

    People are so petty. My daughter dad died and his obituary list his only child with the nieces and nephews.

  • Renee Bee

    Ha! When Faith strolled out there with that blond wig.

    Hon-nay! I said Faith is back! She looked good. Steebie keeping a smile on her face.

  • Society Has Changed

    Tuxedo = “Look at me!”

  • FukkFolks2018

    She looked AH-MAZE-ZING.

  • smartchickfl

    I'm 38 weeks preg and I am fighting the same thing. It's atrocious. Wishing us both good health for the sake of our little ones...

  • Eileen

    I am so sick of people saying he really loved her! There must be a new damn definition of love going because he was horrible and hoeish but he took care of the children! Please get out of here fast!!! What example did he show his daughters about men...give me a break.. he is a modern day sultan with a harem and dont give a dayum what you or his daughters think...I am so sick of SMH!

  • Society Has Changed

    Exactly! Especially an ex who didn’t have a good track record! If he felt that loving then he should have put a ring on it....

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    I read post last night that read, Kim Porter's passing effected people , like the passing of Aaliyah...i think it may be true. and when i say people, i mean the general public. on Another note: I don't think any one person grieves the same. I was taught grieving the death of a person, is actually our grieving of ourselves. I pray God provide Kim's loved ones with peace that surpasses understanding and they are comforted in knowing her energy is all around them

  • Eileen

    She choose this nut and his nutty ways it aint all his fault...nobody put a gun to her head ...I'm just saying!

  • FukkFolks2018

    My dad was unmarried at the time of his death but we listed both of his wives. He loved them two women to DEATH and he would have been smooth pissed TF off, if we left either one of em off lol. He was married to my mom for almost 20 years and to his second wife for 10 years. Its changing from the norm and tradition, I get that. But I will say from actually having had written an obit a time or 123 when I was with the newspaper, I have never in my life seen a baby daddy MAMA listed on an obit.

  • Eileen

    really did-he really? I beleive he cannot believe she is gone but yes nuthead she is gone..Bless her children...

  • FukkFolks2018

    Another good version of this song? 12 year old Fantasia Barrino. LISTEN TO ME. She tore that song a NEW ONE. at TWELVE.

  • FukkFolks2018

    You nailed it. This is the assessment.

  • Eileen

    yep sounds like black women the mules of our community Did-he wears a tux and kim is a baby mamma in the ground! Really smh...sisitas take care of yourselves like President Trump wants to put America first! You my sistas should put youreselves FIRST!!! The men will be just fine its the kids that suffer...smh

  • Victorious82

    I know folks that would celebrate if they baby mama died. I’m not mad at him. It’s always been apparent they had a deep respect for one another outside of the romantic realm. Somethings are not meant for outsiders to understand. We don’t know what they had going on.

  • Yardgirl

    Yes they were truly blessed. I am lucky to have someone like that ????

  • Yardgirl

    Amen!!

  • Dr

    Tru tru..i hear ya..
    although she left relationship...i would have loved to see her reach her full potential..she seemed so full of talent!

  • KLove

    Combs's narcissism was on full display at Kim's funeral.
    ______________________________________________

    LOL....i guess this is why i can identify with Puff.......me and my girl been arguing the past few weeks, mainly due to my narcissism....i dont realize the stuff i do is narcissistic, until after the fact. i hope she doesnt leave me soon smh

  • Dr

    Well said...no woman around him is allowed to shine greater than him...check the stats

  • Karen Brady

    lol

  • dru and neil

    Celebrate is fine, but I don’t think he’d be facing so much backlash, if he had taken a back seat and humbly financed things, given his condolences and quietly mourned. All this “soul mate, love of my life, best woman ever” sh*t doesn’t seem to correlate with how he treated her. I bet her best friend knows the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth when it comes to them.

  • the guest

    THIS.

  • the guest

    TELL IT.

  • dru and neil

    God bless you, that is my worst fear and every time my son walks out the door I am scared. I couldn’t even imagine the pain.

  • Harley

    Yeah I saw nothing wrong with it

  • Bonita

    Were you and your mama listed in her daddy's obituary?

  • Harley

    Agreed!

  • Faithz

    Preach, and I said Preach the Gospel, and the truth, and nothing but the truth. You dotted all the eyes, and crossed all the T's to nothing but perfection. Kim got the last laugh because she passed away, went on to Glory, and became her Children Angel, and he will still be the POS you described so perfectly.

  • Yoni7

    Huh? What are you talking about? I was "gasping" at what you said HE said. Sorry YOU misunderstood my response. You have a nice day as well, doll.

  • the guest

    Diddy did adopt him. For years Quincy was named and regarded publicly as Quincy Combs. When Quincy was a teen, Al B. Sure apologized to his son for not being there, and Quincy forgave him. I think I recall Diddy supported the reconciliation. Then Quincy started using his father’s last name Brown. But growing up he was Quincy Combs.

  • the guest

    Exactly. He was Quincy Combs growing up.

  • Yoni7

    LOL I think it's more of what @Triniharlem said and I was just co-signing it. LOL

  • the guest

    Did he really say longtime partner and soulmate?

    Something is very very wrong with him.

    She died because he broke her heart and spirit.

    And because he’s Diddy, no one will say the truth.

  • Black4life

    We were not longer together. But the next of kin was his daughter and they listed all the family first. Then came his child listed with nieces and nephews.

  • Bashi22

    I am just wondering who going to raise these beautiful girls. I know for sure Kim was a great loveing mother.

  • PhillyFacts

    Hugs!!!!

  • Bonita

    I personally think she should've been identified right after the grandparents, parents, and spouse, not with the cousins. Do you think it was a slight against you? Maybe some of the relatives who put the obituary together didn't care for you nor want to accept his child, so they did that on purpose? Cause there can be some dirty mickey fickeys in any family.

  • Solstice

    Girl!!! Chile I went through the same thing when my fave uncle passed suddenly last year. He was only 13 years older than me and both our birthday’s are in November. My mom til this day is mad about the petty. Now look, she didn’t want to go inside the home when the police finally allowed us access to the property. Mind you his body had been there for weeks so the stench of death, the flies, the final excretion, the electricity was off, the rotten food in the fridge. You get my point? She didn’t want no parts of cleaning that up and making a decent before my 25 y/o cousin (his only child) flew in. She didn’t want to be inside his room where they cut out the carpet because that’s where his body was found. But she was hella mad that I was the one who cleaned up his room. My uncle was single and very private. I said there are some things that his momma his sisters and his daughter, don’t need to see. And I was the one to pick out his final resting wear. (Closed casket) I was able to keep a few of his belongings that were special to me. Chile, to this day she is pissed off. ?

  • Yoni7

    Exactly. My nieces and I (Almighty bless) will ROFL at the most inappropriate times, during times when others FEEL LIKE THEY THINK you should be falling off over in the casket somewhere. I mean we be gut busting laughing (I guess remembering the good times). Shoot, one time we had a DOUBLE funeral, on my birthday............and threw a party WITH a male stripper later that night. So yeah, folks grieve SO differently and it's not for anyone else to tell you how!

  • Bonita

    Yep. I couldn't believe what I had read.

  • the guest

    That’s what I’m saying.

    The proper etiquette is listing the minor and unmarried children and in parenthesis their father listed. If the children are adults and married then in parenthesis their spouse is listed.

    Ex-boyfriends and baby daddy’s are not listed on their own. Only ex spouses are listed. But Diddy paid for the funeral and obviously everything in their world revolved around Diddy.

    If she was my friend, and tears just came to my eyes writing this, Diddy would have heard the truth from me. He would have married my friend even if they got divorced, he would have held up to decency and married my friend.

    Men do what women let them get away with. But men also do what a women’s family and friends let them get away with.

  • RAE23

    I'm sure that he loved her. Many of us have dealt with men who act doggish with much less money. It truly doesn't mean they don't have love. They are who they are for whatever reason, but I don't think I would say that Diddy didn't love Kim. I absolutely do not like him but I think he truly loved her in his way especially if she had the kind spirit that most seem to speak of and knowing her true spirit may be affecting Diddy more because he knows that he didn't treat her like she deserved.

  • the guest

    Yes, this right here.

  • Solstice

    Off to YouTube!! I must listen ??????????

  • Solstice

    Me too!! I cry every time. Every time! It’s such a beautiful song!! ??

  • guest

    Lawddd, Whitney and bobby was high as a kite at her party. Eboni look like she wanted to LOL!! Whitney looked a hottt messs! SMDH #ripkp

  • the guest

    Sean Comb’s mother should not be listed at all. Her son never married Kim. Truth is, he shouldn’t be listed either. They don’t get defacfo spouse and in law rights because they paid for the furneral.

    Kim Porter is survived by her living grandparent, living parent, and her children. That is who she is survived by.

  • Black4life

    She was the next of and was the only that could sign to release his body. He was not in her life and they sent her to the mortuary. They sent her there to try to get her pay the bill. I told her don't sign any and if she sign to release the body that's it. The Jones family in Hayward , Ca...have always been petty christians.

  • the guest

    No need to say it so hateful, racist, and mean but that is an obituary worded to rationalize a non committal man.

  • Tahj

    thats what hurt me so much. My little girl cant make a move without her mom. She will ditch me in a heartbeat! I cant imagine her not being here for her. SMH. Thank God Puff has his mom... But no one can replace a mother.

  • Lovely1

    Exactly. I feel like her sweet spirit and calm (as everyone reports) attracted Diddy to her in the first place. For her, well, the fact that he was extremely "gaudy" and bold may have been attractive to her; especially in early 20s/30s. I'm guilty of having accidentally overlooked men who were more quiet/reserved for the loud and flashy ones before. At the time, I mistakenly regarded a loud man for being more confident/right...and had to grow into realizing that obnoxious men and their egos need to be left alone. lol Young love can do that, but yeah...After seeing all the pics and posts, you can cleeearly see how much of a man/child Diddy is, contrary to Al B, who is looking a lot more modest (which he may be). But I agree. Diddy is putting a full-on display to the world of how he loved and is struggling to be humble in front of the world, but he's doing it. I hope he's learned something in all this. I believe his kids will grow from this the most; especially Christian.

  • Victorious82

    I thought it was improper to tell people how to grieve. I just can’t find it in me to beat this man up. He seems so inconsequential in this woman’s passing. Yes he’s famous but damn can we just overlook him for a moment.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Is that not the oddest mess ever? Okay so I am not the lone ranger on this. It just raised a huge flag. Why does Janice get to be on this lady obit? And why is she listed before Kim's babies? Make it make sense.

  • SpiceGirl

    Rest easy Kim....Prayers to her children

  • Queen B

    Why the negativity ? Diddy eulogy was beautiful and authentic. He deserved the right to speak at her funeral considering their history and they have children together. Let's not act like they didn't love each other. Oan before anyone say some slick shît....it takes wwaaayyy more than love to be married. Love is only part of it.

  • Dahl

    Why was Whitney’s wig always wet looking...

  • dru and neil

    He *should* have been inconsequential in this woman’s passing.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    People do what you allow them to.

  • RespectSelf

    I think that folks are realistic about love now. Folks understands that people are not perfect. I love my mother... does that mean I will not or have not hurt her by my actions... nah it doesn't. Same with dude.. He didn't do right by her, but he knows that. Everybody knows that. He clearly still loved her.... Everybody knows that too.

  • dru and neil

    Just thinking of the times a good friend of mine have seen me through heartbreak at the hands of a greedy thoughtless man, I wouldn’t be shocked if her girl secretly despised him...

  • Lady_Elle

    Diddy & Kim were a couple on and off for years.
    They likely had a unhealthy relationship although I believe they loved each other.
    So... now instead of showing respect social media is dragging Diddy for being over-dressed?
    Ugh!

    Seems like the right people took time to successfully plan/execute Kim Porter's homegoing service.

    Praying for her friends, family, loved ones as they start the next chapter of their lives without Kim. Her birthday is coming up... along with the Holidays.

    RIP Kim Porter.

  • Lady_Elle

    The "broken hearted" syndrome crossed my mind too.

  • Lady_Elle

    Diddy's relationship with Cassie will be tested.
    Diddy will go thru the grieving process... so will all of their children.

  • BingBangBoom

    And then maybe she wouldn't have died alone at home....

  • Jennifer

    Cocaine raises your heart rate which causes profuse sweating. That wig is wet because its full of sweat.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Im so sorry! Lord that is hard. That is a hard one. And if you were the one picking up the pieces then folks need to HUSH. Im so sorry. This made me sad. *hugs you*

  • FukkFolks2018

    She gonna snatch your soul. Its beautiful.

  • what?why

    Al B sure was their for his son Quincy - he seems like a sophisticated gentleman.

  • jwoo250

    Especially the one of him sitting at her moms gravesite where Kim will be laid to rest. Him sitting there looked like it was a grieving scene being filmed for a movie.

  • Jennifer

    Puffy has always been a slick dresser, why would he drop the ball at KIM PORTER'S funeral? He's supposed to wear a tux out of respect for their relationship and children! He is very much a narcissist, but this critique isn't warranted.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Why is everyone dragging Diddy? I mean...what exactly did he do to Kim that she didn't allow? What's wrong with the Tuxedo that he wore to her funeral? It seems appropriate for the occasion. Why would he not speak at her funeral considering their history? I just don't get why everyone is angry at Diddy for being....Diddy. The public is more angry at Diddy than Kim was...lol. Kim had a choice...she obviously wanted to be back and forth with him...she obviously accepted the way he treated her....because she NEVER WOULD LEAVE. I am sure she liked the lifestyle...like most people do. Give Diddy a break.

  • JENNYJONES1

    MY WHOLE THING WITH DIDDY IS WHY IS HE GETTING THE GRIEVING HUSBAND TREATMENT WHEN HE NEVER MARRIED HER, CHEATED ON HER AND HAD A GF FOR THE PAST 10 YRS. THIS WHOLE SITUATION HAS BEEN AS MUCH ABOUT HIS HURT FEELINGS AS IT HAS BEEN ABOUT HER DEATH AND HER KID'S FEELINGS FROM LOSING THEIR MOTHER. IF SHE WAS HIS 'SOULMATE' HE WOULD'VE LOVED HER RIGHT, MARRIED HER AND WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN OUT & LAID UP WITH CASSIE THE DAY AFTER SHE DIED. I KNOW HE'S SUPER HURT BUT HE DOESN'T DESERVE GRIEVING HUSBAND STATUS JUST B/C THEY HAVE KIDS TOGETHER OR HE'S FOOTING THE BILL SO GIVE HIM SPECIAL TREATMENT. R.I.P. KIM!!!!...........JENNY JONES!!!

  • Brenda Purcell

    Exactly! He’s saying how much he loves her and how hurt he is but when she was living his actions were totally disrespectful to her and their children by flaunting all of these women in her face. And you’re absolutely right about his karma because he thought he was depressed earlier but he hasn’t seen nothing yet!!

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    I am not trying to be funny...but this party was 14 years ago....that would have made her 32 right? Why does she look so much older than what she is?

  • Rere

    .....Soooo if Diddy said or did nothing, would he still will get dragged?! Can't win or lose w/people.

  • Peace

    Diddy is really hurting .This man bought that woman a 5 million dollar home. Paid all her bills, made sure her and her kids had the best of everything in life, Diddy lead the charge of her Homegoing services.

    He has created a Brand and generational wealth for her kids to benefit. Guided them into careers Diddy is to be commended for all he has done.

    Did Ebony pay for the sold out hotels and flights for Kims family and friends to attend her very beautiful final services? Did she pay for any final resting plots or tombs? No. What close friend would slander her friends Father of he kids?

    Eboni was prolly jealous of Kim life to the very end .How dare she or anyone criticize Sean Combs. He loved that woman and they were friends.

    I don't know any of these peole personally so Im not believing the trash and heresay being put out by so-called friends .If Ebony was so close to Kim why didnt she make sure she was at a hospital sick as she was?

    I think he Diddy did an excellent job all around. He is still the Man .Eboni needs to have a seat and find someone else to leech off.

    It was so sad to see him sitting alone grieving at her grave .He is going to miss her dearly. So is his kids.
    Rest in Peace Kim .

    God bless and be with Sean "Diddy" Combs and the children .

  • Solstice

    Thank you lady! It was almost a surreal time in our lives. Death can bring the worst out of people. ? Hugs you back. ????

  • Peace

    True .Diddy pit it all together. Diddy looked great! I am surprised he held up as vood as he did .He loved her as the mother of his kids who he provided the very best for .Spent time with. Diddy is ans was an awesome Father and Friend to Kim.

  • Peace

    Single men raise girls all the time. Diddy was already co-parenting these kids. He will do an awesome job!

    Loved seeing his girls walk the runway to his BadBoy beats!

  • Dahl

    Makes sense, thank you. Poor Whitney....

  • LeGard JoJo

    He might be hurting real bad right about now. I really don't think materialistic things matter especially when a person dies. It's not about who did what, he had the means to do so and he did it out the kindness of his heart and love for this woman unconditionally, after all she was the mother of his children. As far as her best friend Ebony, she didn't say anything negative that's the person reporting so I don't understand how you can say that she was jealous when she's been Kim's friend since childhood, unless you know something we don't. Hey my cousin was a good friend of Kim's too and she had a vendetta with Diddy for years and no she was not ever Jealous of Diddy she just knew what type of man he is. No shade but he did have Kim, Cassie, Sara, all at the same time...soooooooo

  • Peace

    Here you go with yo simp self. Generational wealth is not materialistic. I obviously hit a nerve. You can sit and say whatever. You were not Kim and Diddy did what he as a man had to do. Anyone can gossip and assume. What did you or your friends do to help Kim? Diddy is one of the wealthiest men on the planet. Kim was lucky to have made his aquaintance in life .

    Diddy has always been about vision, making things happen .

    I truly hope God blesses him with a real Queen after this .He is a very Powerful and Respected Business Man.

    My youngest brother lost his wife at the age of 47 a few years ago. They had been together since thet were like 13 . They had a grown son and an 11 year old son. She had a heart attack .It was devastating for the whole family .

    But he has found a new Queen and I congratulate them both .Life goes on .

    Godspeed Diddy. Let your haters be your tailgaters

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    When I saw that picture of him sitting up there by himself -- taking the attention away from Kim's grieving children -- I was done. People kept sending that pic to me. I was too through! ?

  • starryeyed

    I guess I'm missing something because I haven't seen where Eboni was criticizing Puff...

    Although to be honest, if she did I would understand why. Poeple love to treat you bad when you are alive and sing your praises when you are dead.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thank you for sharing your story. You indeed have a very good friend who insisted that you go to the emergency room. That would have been me asking if you need me to come by and carry you to the ER.

  • starryeyed

    Combs's narcissism was on full display at Kim's funeral. He is being dragged on social media for good reason. Who wears a tuxedo to a funeral?

    I actually liked the tuxedo. To me it showed that he was showing up in his best, for her. He never gave her what she ultimately wanted which was marriage. I also noticed he wore a wedding band on his ring finger at the funeral which I am not sure has any symbolism but appears to be connected at least to me.

  • LeGard JoJo

    Exactly

  • LeGard JoJo

    Sweetheart god bless you, since you know them so well. No nerves hit right here but I definitely see I hit some with you. Diddy is not that wealthy boo only on paper. I'm going to give him his props but yeah he has a few queens boo. He still has Sara Chapman & Cassie since you know so much and you're right Godspeed Diddy and you too Peace...I hope you get a lot of it.

  • Queen B

    I know that definitely is a different kind of pain ? Part of me is afraid of having another kid bc I cant bare the thought of losing them (i have an 11 y/o). Im so sorry for your lost.

  • Bonita

    If you're not currently on Diddy's payroll, you definitely should be. You goin hard for that control freak. He'd be lucky to have you on his team.

  • Peace

    I stated I didnt know these people personally. My point was taken I see.

    Do you know the odds of a black man like Diddy acheiving all that he has? Coming from Harlem? Not ecen with an Ivy league education.
    He is a Brilliant Business Man and he is really setting an an example for black men to bridge the gap of wealth among the races by building and funding SCHOOLS in the inner cities.
    He has conquered every arena business, investment, entertainment, his own clothing and Vodka labels and brands, Revolt his own network, creating shows to uplift, jumpstart careers etc. Only Bob johnson and Oprah have channeled those waters aa Billionaires to date. Maybe a lot more im sure there is.

    He wants a major league sports franchise but that will come lots of stars are co owners of teams Nelly, Jordan, Usher, Magic. etc.

    Diddy is an American Icon ??????
    Drops mic

  • Bashi22

    Him and Cassandra

  • Bonita

    Stress.

  • Bashi22

    Exactly P Diddy a single father

  • Meme

    What happened there? That went south pretty quick or where u mistaken for someone else?

  • hi-liter

    You got to be a very petty individual if you are worried about a) Diddy wearing a tux to KP funeral and b) how he treated KP when she was alive. They have been broken up since 2009 and apparently she forgave him for all the drama because they remained Friends. If she could forgive him and did so Years before she past then people that don’t em know them shouldn’t be worried about it. Periodttt.

  • Bonita

    Ewww. I know that scalp was stankin.

  • Bonita

    It was sooo staged! Everything he does is so methodical that it's nauseating. I ripped him a new one in the comments of an Instagram post he put up of Kim playing the piano and he deleted it. lol

  • starryeyed

    She had access to the best docs so I'm not sure why she wouldn't have gotten that taken care of (fillers etc)

  • Bonita

    Very gorgeous! I saw her in a pic of all the bridesmaids at Kimora Lee Simmons' wedding, which included other models, and her beauty outshined them all . . . including the bride.

  • Bonita

    Wow! That's a shame.

  • Applebootay

    I also want them to divvy up the ex-husbands back child support pay too!

  • Ijoyoyo

    Er.... what are you on about? Where did Eboni criticize Diddy?

  • LeGard JoJo

    You just had to get that off...again blessings... we agreed on just about everything but you still had to prove your point huh? Blessings and Peace...btw get a profile pic, people will take you serious...and stop riding Diddy's nevermind.

  • Peace

    Didnt say she did. This article giving Eboni credit for grave plot plans, knowing all things Kim dissing Diddy. They were ina Man /Woman co-parenting relationship. Good friends. Hopefully Eboni didnt give her some crack pot African potion to remedy her illness. Everybody blamimg Diddy and all those crazy sacrifice nonsense. Are blacks the only people have issues with wealthy entertainment figures tgat like Diddy started from the bottom and worked his butt off to get where he is today.
    Peace Out.

  • Peace

    I'd be Honored.

  • Enoughsaid2020

    Diddy, and members of her family was able to give the eulogy. May she rest in peace.

  • Ajavee

    I am a firm believer in SHOWING people you love them while they are living.

    This part ^5 .People love to treat you bad when you are alive and sing your praises when you are dead.

  • Ajavee

    Exactly I never heard of ex-beaus listed before children and other living parents.

  • Ajavee

    Exactly I never heard of ex-beaus listed before children and other living parents.

  • ZZZ

    There is nothing wrong with what Sean Combs wore to the furneral....The people who are criticizing are just plain stupid.

  • Tawaii

    Eboni didn’t break Kim’s nose either, nor did she humiliate her!

  • Peace

    Eat me

  • Wreckognize Game

    In Kimora's tribute to Kim about things they've been thru together she mentioned something about we were married. Wouldn't shock me if Diddy and Kim were married a long time ago but he didn't want it to be known.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Kim was married to Al B. Sure for one year.

  • interestingconcept1

    After seeing some of her latest pics, Im starting to believe she was on drugs, she aged badly, but drugs will do that.

  • interestingconcept1

    ? my goodness.

  • Maicai

    Please don't come for my Big sis Whitney. Im most positive nothing on her smells she had the best. May she Rest in peace. Godbless her!

  • Maicai

    Whitney looked beautiful as always. Everbody has something endure. But please know Whitney was one of the baddest do it!

  • Maicai

    Yea i just wish she had met her soul mate. I can't believe he couldn't see what he had. Lord help. Us

  • Yoni7

    IDK! I don't know HOW someone got a "feisty with me all day" vibe from a 'gasp' reaction. LMAOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • datATLboi

    WHOA!!!!! I wasn't ready for the whitney and bobby photos LMAO....cracked out

  • friendofblog

    I'm missing Eboni's criticism too because it's nowhere to be found. Eboni simply spoke of the strong & true bond they shared. My heart goes out to her because that has to hurt losing a best friend under those circumstances....

  • friendofblog

    I'm no fan of his but I have to give him credit. He's always been a snazzy dresser so I don't see anything wrong with wearing a tux. I've seen it done before. Yeah, I'm not feeling this critique. At all.

  • friendofblog

    I agree! People are quick to call drama, struggle, heartbreak, cheating, getting beaten & controlled as LOVE. IT is NOT.

  • missmiami305

    Lovely write up auntie. My heart aches for her. We all have that sister that ain’t blood. ??

  • FukkFolks2018

    here are some new sneakers for you to walk all over NYC after some cheesecake, and some tissue for your humiliation. You are going to need it.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I truly hope God blesses him with a real Queen after this
    ^^^^^^^^^
    Im sure God will send him a very beautiful (Drag) Queen

  • FukkFolks2018

    Coming from Harlem?
    ^^^^^^^^^
    he is actually from Mt. Vernon and does not a damn thing for that city. Too busy doing for Harlem. Since its more high profile and everything.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Girl get Diddy to do it. You already riding his dick. Why not?

  • Parent

    Right! lol Hot ass mess but I will love Bobby and Whitney forever!

  • Pooh

    i wish i could hear this. The echo is so bad i cant understand what they're saying :(

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    She was on something...and ain't that much stress in the world. She hasn't looked youthful in over 20 years...and I don't believe that she died of pneumonia.....

  • LeGard JoJo

    He's been going off on everyone especially me since I told him he was riding Diddy....LOL I hit a nerve because he told me to Eat him...LMAO...I wouldn't take anyone serious without a profile picture.

  • LeGard JoJo

    Get a profile picture first.

  • Diane

    And by saying "he is being dragged by social media," you mean your dragging him because there is nothing wrong with what he wore and no one should care.

  • Jennifer

    I didn't even mean to call her out like that bc I LOVE HER and hate when people reduce her to a junkie, but it's really the truth re: the wet wig.

  • Dahl

    I understand, she’s one of my all time favorites too. I just really didn’t know why her hair always looked that way, you cleared it up for me ?

  • Peace

    Picture ur face in a rhinosayrus butt.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Thanks Sandra. I never knew that.

  • stav

    Yes that one, and another one shot at a distance of him alone.