Michelle Williams, Chad Johnson

Michelle Williams fans are encouraging her to leave her ex-fiancé Pastor Chad Johnson before it's too late. The couple recently canceled their engagement after she was discharged from a mental hospital.

The dysfunction in their relationship wasn't revealed until the second episode of their reality TV show, Chad Loves Michelle, which aired on OWN Network on Sunday.

On the show, Chad took a jab at Michelle's mental health issues, which many saw as a low blow.

The conversation began when Michelle brought up the subject of race (Chad is Caucasian).

"I said something to him on the lines of ‘Well, Chad, because you are not Black you would not understand why I communicate the way I do. Maybe because you didn’t grow up around a lot of Black people.’ So that was very, very offensive to Chad," Michelle said in a clip from the show.

Chad retaliated by asking his fiancée, "Did you take your meds today?"

Some fans are concerned that Michelle may be involved in an abusive relationship. They took to Twitter.com to urge her to dump him before it's too late to save her sanity.

Others noted that Chad showed his true colors earlier this year when he professed to being a loyal President Trump supporter.

 

 

 

 

 

  • Kim’s Original Face

    Thank you Auntie I was asking about this in the IVF post

  • Yoni7

    Aww I hate to hear this. I hope she can find TRUE love.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    1. I didn't know he was white until I saw a clip for her show (that I will never watch).

    2. I didn't know he was her Ex-Fiance. I could have sworn I saw her church lady cursing someone out over her "fiance" on IG.

  • Trace da Ace

    blah blah blah.....she threw a jab and he threw one back...tit for tat...for real....moving along--->

  • Marlika

    Chad is not the problem, Michelle is with her reckless mouth. Who knew she had such a slick ass mouth!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    Race is going to come up in interracial dating/coupling Chad. If you dont think it will, you are mistaken. I know it would be nice to be colorblind.

    However, I am in the minority. I think Chad needs to dump her. More important that race, Michelle is VERY mentally unwell. That is just too much. Her issues run real deep. He cant even get over the color issue let alone start to help her and its a lot. FOR HIM.

  • JazzyBossyJen

    Weird he doesn’t even look white white lol

  • Kbellaluvvs

    Do Michelle have any real family? She just seems so lost to me...

  • shelly

    She has low self esteem she probably thinks this will be her only chance at marriage

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Also, him asking her that doesn't suggest he is abusive to me. It does however suggest he is dismissive of cultural differences. Which is the exact reason why I could NEVER date outside of my race. What you want do, is dismiss me or the shyt I'm saying because your privilege prevents you from relating.

  • Kim’s Original Face

    Right I thought he was light skinned never even knew much about him until now

  • Trey

    She always was the weakest link

  • Bashi22

    She wants to be married and have a baby like the rest of the DC ladies.

  • Yoni7

    So is he Shaun King white or Eve's husband white?

  • EMILY POST

    Why is she on reality television with her relationship? Just why....

  • Kiki R.

    Being dismissive can be a form of emotional or psychological abuse.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    This sounds like the white guy my sister is with right now. I so bad want to tell her but I refuse. I am letting everyone find out for themselves so they would not blame me. She is divorced from one white man who treated her bad now she is with one who had two kids by two different white women now all of a sudden he loves black women. He always dismiss what my sister says.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    I can relate to her pressure. It is daily pressure from my family of getting married.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Exactly point blank.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Folks gone learn to stop allowing outside folks to dictate ..... seeking validation from the masses ... tis why she ended up in the hospital in the first place ...... in her sunken place ...... got nothing for this ... she put this shyt out there ... the entire relationship .... and this is the response the end .... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/239f526dbfd7942ffa56197a04ceb4c5c7afda250bbf8c13dffd524f7e123bec.gif you made ya bed Michelle ....

  • Guest

    Exactly!

  • n1kk1a

    ???

  • Kanyade

    Not married yet? Don't. Y'all don't know one another well enough to even know that saying "such and such" might offend, etc.

    Child, bless.

  • Kimocha

    For some reason I thought Chad was mixed with black because he has some black features to me... But nevertheless I will keep Michelle in my prayers because she obviously needs it!

  • Guest

    Yup.

  • Judge Mental Will

    i love her but being in Destiny's Child and being reticule, I'll suffer from depression too..

  • iWasteTime

    wait, they aren't engaged anymore.
    It was the opposite on TBC interview.
    I'm confused and now uninterested.

  • Dowoop

    So u cancel the engagement but you stay together? That's a new one.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    and has mental problems ... contributed by low self esteem .... that's the wrong place to be if ya trying to heal mental illness or even being a spokesperson for it ...... recipe for disaster and will have ya azz back at the asylum

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I'm confused and now uninterested.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Lol

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    it is ..... smh

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • hottlanta

    I saw a clip of his Mississippi Burning looking relatives n l said 2 myself do she really wanna marry into that family n if she does she does have mental issues.

  • RaginB

    Whyyyy would she get a show? It’s not going to help the issues,it’s just going to broadcast it!!...I hope she’s strong enough to handle it.?

  • FukkFolks2018

    Kurt Russell was on daytime television earlier today. He and Goldie Hawn have been engaged twice but still aren't married and are still together 35 years later. Happens occasionally I guess

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    A black woman engaged to white Trump supporter. What could possibly go wrong? :-|

  • Yardgirl

    I watched the first episode on Sat and deleted the second one unwatched. I cannot image why he took offense to what she said. Blacks and whites communicate differently!! Facts. It THAT upset him, she needs to run as fast and as far away as she can!! Run girl you in danger!!

  • my opinion

    For some reason during interviews it looks to me like he controls her, this doesn’t look good for her image

  • Patricia

    i believe she doesnt even want that man. she just wants money and a spotlight. shes been incognito all this time and now featuring an entire reality show revolving around herself and her relationship with some random man. somethings not adding up

  • SpillyNillie

    Did her doctor's approve her participation on this show? Seems like it would go against her support plan.

  • CoTToNCaNDie SWeeTAsGolD

    I agree, it's not a good look for her. I aint watched a episode but if he would say something like that to her she needs to run and fast!

  • FukkFolks2018

    Chad is also a pastor. So I'm not sure how that would factor into her overall mental health issues. Because a lot of them black or white are very much into praying away the mental health issue

  • Patricia

    the fact they are discussing race at all is an issue when they are in an interracial relationship. youre either color blind and just going to love the person completely for who they are or youre not. pick a side, BOTH of you.

  • JazzyBossyJen

    Haha ???

  • iWasteTime

    she has mental issues.
    She needs more therapy and maybe a switch in her meds.
    She should have stayed in the facilty longer and I'm sure she didn't do to obligations.
    SHe needs self care

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Good point didn't even think of that ... and that's very true ....

  • FukkFolks2018

    He didnt bring up race. She did. He wants to be colorblind, so he picked his side already

  • Rayne

    Her business and relationship shouldn’t be out there. Get yourself together before you go trying to union up! I tell ya! I kinda knew this was next.

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    She needed to be mentally well before she is in a relationship , he is always going to be in Mr. Fix it Mode if she isn’t healed before going in. Hurt people, hurt people and if she is not healed then she will get hurt easily and hurt him in return. Televising this is not wise ?.

  • Dowoop

    True

  • ohdearme

    I wonder how many times she has gone WITHOUT taking her meds? People with mental health issues are notorious for NOT taking their meds, so I would need to know that answer before deciding what he said was wrong or a hit below the belt. These two were engaged meaning they've dated for more than a month, no? If that's the case why is she bringing up communication differences based on race? What was said that he either didn't understand or missed her point? She reminds me of Candiace from RHOP bringing up his race. That he's a Trump supporter shouldn't bother her given that we marry/love people based on how they treat us and those around them. His support of Trump could be strictly based on investments?

  • FukkFolks2018

    He still love himself some her too. When talking about her he still like???

  • Eileen

    well what about her relatives..thug life???

  • Blaque Mahogany

    So people in interracial relationships HAVE to be colorblind? There are some interracial couples that would probably disagree with you.

  • ohdearme

    Or it could be that she really has forgotten to take her meds as most mentally ill people are known to do?

  • Renee26

    People need to calm down and let her eyes open on her own.

    I'm for dating outside of ones race and think people should expect situations like this to arise... A person of a different race will not be able to fully understand what their mate goes through or their feelings related to race.

    If there's a lack of compassion or no attempt to hear your mate out when they're stressing over any issue then there's a failure to communicate.... Which appears to be the case here and in many relationships.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I know ... I guess people define their relationships how they define em .... long as they love each other

  • Joy King

    Any woman in a serious relationship with a Trump supporter definitely has mental issues. I’m not joking. Trump has zero respect for women, including his own wife. Michelle clearly lacks self esteem and needs to get the help she needs, before dating any man. If not, she’ll continue to be involved in abusive relationships. Please note, abuse can be verbal and or physical.

  • Ni Ni

    I haven't seen the show yet, but it was ill advised for to be on a reality show. Something tells me Michelle is really bad off. When you have certain issues, a relationship might be out of the question. It can be draining to the other person and they can wind up on the other spectrum.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    had no idea he was Trump supporter ... actually never paid these two attentions .... but yeah something .... that elevator don't look like it's going up at all smh ...... this is recipe for disaster

  • Wreckognize Game

    Until the show finishes airing. ?

  • RealATLPeach36

    He made a few points but I think it’s safe to ask did you take your syht..that determines if this is even worth discussing further. Bipolar is a MF and it’s real...it’s hard to deal with people that are bipolar ESPECIALLY when they feel so good that void taking their happy pill.

    Side not it looks like a high yellow brother to me?

  • Wreckognize Game

    I love Goldie Hawn

  • Music

    I think their show is great! Especially, if you’re struggling with mental illness, or in an interracial relationship. They’re bringing light to questions that most in relationships do not discuss before marriage.

    To be honest, I feel like they are each other’s projects. There is something that Michelle can teach Chad and vice versa. They both seem like they’re dealing w/ past issues, and are working towards healing.

  • ShWa

    When he said that about her meds it did not sit well with me AND he's a Trump supporter? No maam get out while u can!

  • FukkFolks2018

    This TOO

  • WhoKnew

    Let me see. Michelle says she is bipolar depressive and rather than deal with her mental health privately, she chooses to air her funky drawers in public on television. Got it. Then she supposedly has called off the engagement. Hmm, sounds like somebody has joined the "do whatever it takes" club to get a storyline and get publicity by lying about a broken engagement. Damned shame what people will lie about for a check going as far to further risk your mental health included. Bye Michelle. Makes me wonder if you're faking the mental illness too because it's funny how you announced you were getting a TV show and then checked into looneyville 2 weeks later. That was highly suspect to me. IJS.

  • Music

    What?!...So, because they’re in an interracial relationship race shouldn’t be discussed?

  • Patricia

    i agree. i wouldnt appreciate some man im dating talking about its a black thing or its a white thing you dont understand etc. it comes accross as condescending. he obviously felt offended to lash out himself. dont date or marry a different race person if their culture/color is a source of contention, arguments, jabs etc.

  • Music

    Her therapist is on the show with them.

  • iWasteTime

    So all of this and they not hunching?!?!
    Chile cheese ...

  • Anunnaki, in A twilight Zone

    She just have her an under cover racist , they all do, it just comes out in subliminal ways. But trust me he feels he's superior over her cause she's black. All these black men , you went and got a cave man, girl,..? one i know for sure you should have kept. But anyway good luck

  • ohdearme

    Even if I were a fan, I need more information on that one.

  • Music

    They’re still engaged. The wedding day has just been postponed.

  • KLo

    I don't see no chemistry between the two of them and Chad looks more biracial than white. I don't see this relationship lasting long. That being said, he supports Trump and that should tell you all you need.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    So I know this older lady (like 45) and she has three kids and she is dating this man (same age as her) that doesn't have any kids. Sooo when they got together she was celibate. Well, they ended up having sex a few times. Then, she started feeling bad and they agreed to be celibate together. They have been together for like 2 yrs or so at this point. He hasn't given any indication that he is going to marry her. He's never been married btw. I understand waiting until marriage. But, how long are you going to wait. Y'all think he sleeping with somebody else?

  • MJF

    LOL, is this a rhetorical question? Uh yes. Men cannot control their penis. Period.

  • stav

    I was just about to say he looks like a fair skin black man to me.

  • GuestSTAR

    I watched the first episode on Youtube and thought he was a decent guy and she was the crazy one, thought he was trying to hang in and be supportive. She's in/out the physc ward and the engagement has been called off a few times because of insecurity issues etc....SMDH.
    Sht, Michelle might be a Trump supporter to, but like MANY she's ashamed, embarrassed to admit it.

  • pecancandy

    Does Chad wear bronzer?

  • iWasteTime

    come on up
    more folk we should know

  • dontgetblocked

    A lot of people support President Trump for economical reasons and national security like myself. It doesn't make a person racist so stop with that ignorant talk. I side with Chad on this one. Not all black women talk like cray cray Michelle. (Yeah. I said it because she looks crazy!) She brought up race to defend her crazy talk. Michelle has a lot of issues stemming from being the invisible member of Destiny's Child. I follow Chad on Instagram and he seems like a nice guy. They've already called off the engagement and soon he'll find another woman...a sane one to date. Yep. I said it. Black women want to have all this attitude and keep scaring good men away.

  • MJF

    “Did you take your meds today?”
    ---------------------------------------------
    LOL, I find this pretty funny as this is something I would say. I think he meant it playfully. I said what I said.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Shiiidt this reality show was a big mistake. The relationship is strained and these two aren't even married. If they do decide to marry they need some pre married counseling.

  • dontgetblocked

    She's probably a quiet supporter like myself. She doesn't want to be attacked and vilified by Democrats who believe everyone has to vote and believe every thing they do.

  • MsJC

    I'm no "Trump Supporter", but the only connection I have with our personally professed Nationalist president is keeping who don't come to America legally away. On the other note, black women at least me don't have attitudes that keep good men away; have found that black men have a characteristic flaw they want a weak woman. I have dated white men and they are more open to an independent woman, and respecting her independence. I have never watched this show, and yes Michelle has mental health issues probably stemming from her Destiny Child days. but to say black women have an attitude and keep good men away, is total and utter BS!

  • Lady_Elle

    She says that her medical info was leaked. She responded after the leak.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Pastors, just by the very nature of their job, do a lot of counseling to married and engaged couples. If he's a pastor and is having such a rough time with her before they even get married, he should know the chances of success for this marriage would probably not be very good.
    I never wish bad on anybody's relationship, but some relationships really don't need to be saved. Sometimes you have to love somebody enough to know that it's best for both you and them if you just part now as friends... because at the end of the day, it's better to cry now than to cry later.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Michelle has a VERY sweet spirit about her. She has to be a good person to put up with what people have been saying about her in Destiny's Child for all those years. They were RUTHLESS toward her!That's enough to make ANYONE want to drive over a cliff...

  • Lady_Elle

    Bipolar disorder was with Michelle much longer than Destiny's Child. Not sure of when she was diagnosed.

  • Ni Ni

    That boy probably wont want to look at another black woman when they done.

  • Lady_Elle

    I am not sure of when she was diagnosed. Bipolar disorder is a lot to deal with.

    The meds fix some and sometimes messes up lots of other things.
    She is likely very fragile.

    I pray for her and them.

  • the guest

    I thought I was the only one, but I didn’t think bronzer, I’ve been wanting to ask if he is white? Or is he Caucasian of mixed race hertiage? That man is not Anglo Saxon.

    And yes, Michelle needs to reevaluate this relationship. For him to condescend and mock her taking medication is mean spirited and completely disrespectful.

    He thinks she is lucky to have him and if she were not a member of Destiny’s Child he would not give her the time of day. He’s a user and will drain her soul and finances.

  • Ni Ni

    Btw, Lebrick i am shocked at your comment from downstairs, smh.

  • the guest

    He’s mixed race who is socially accepted to pass for white like the actor Wentworth Miller.

  • Ni Ni

    I've been wanting to ask if he is white?
    ______________
    +1

  • Desi

    “On the show, Chad took a jab at Michelle’s mental health issues, which many saw as a low blow.”

    Say no more, this is the classic sign of a psychological narcissist.

  • dontgetblocked

    It's sad but true. She was the invisible member. It must have been hard being the underdog.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Michelle don't marry the gay dude.

    Amen.

  • Eileen

    they both have issues of questionable concerns.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Reality shows ARE ALWAYS mistakes

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Yes he's white.

    They visited his family on the show Saturday night.

  • stav

    I disagree! I am in an interracial marriage , and it would be completely ridiculous ( in my case, I don't speak for anyone else)if we didn't discuss race. How can you be around someone , marry someone, without discussing differences of all kinds? There are without a doubt cultural differences , etc. There are many things happening in my culture and race(black) ,that I need to know how my husband feels about. Even if you were to marry within the same race there are differences that will arise that needs to be discussed.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Are you sure Chad is white?

  • Ni Ni

    It looks like he has a tad bit of something dark in him to me.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    lololololol

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    So when is Chad praying away the gay?

  • Ihatemoney

    I’m off topic... but has anyone watched Ready to Love after this show? I think it’s a great social experiment in men and women relationships.

    1. I like how the characters were chosen to stay. It plays out similarly of how women compete for a small group of men

    2. The criteria for what men find attractive

    3. The common pitfalls women make when dating

    4. They chose not to keep everyone intoxicated which allows honest insight into men and women behavior

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    i listened to their interview on the BC. I think or at least i'd like to think they are geared up for the haters and nay Sayers who are going to become overnight experts on their relationship. One of the things revealed in the interview; it's not Chad that keeps (plural) calling off their wedding...it's Michelle. I believe it was a courageous move, for the two of them to decide to publicize their pre-marital counseling...which they are doing for the purpose of helping others, who don't even consider pre-counseling or any counseling. I know it's hard to separate the White/Black from a lot of things. There is guy that has been pursuing me for awhile. On paper he is great...but he is white...and unfortunately i can't seem to get past that, to elevate our relationship beyond anything more than friendship, no matter how hard i try. I wish i was more evolved in this area. ...i hope for the sake of happiness Michelle and Chad are successful.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    You laugh, but I'm just saying.

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    my aunt was telling me about this show...when and where does it air?

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    Duh...never mind

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Yeah he does. Maybe they have black ancestors but no in family knows it.

  • dontgetblocked

    We know how to scare a good man away.

  • starryeyed

    Why is asking a mentally ill person if they took their meds an issue or off limits???

  • dontgetblocked

    Really? Not every black woman but a majority do have attitudes and make life unpleasant for their men. On the other hand...more than likely he deserves it. Chad seems to love her but she's too bitter and mentally ill to love him back.

  • starryeyed

    It's on OWN I think...it's really good

  • Jersey Girl

    Yes his confederate flag wearing mom and dad confirmed that..so did he on the breakfast club

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    it's as if saying "EVERY" emotional moment is an episode, implying she is not of sound mind......and who wants to told their basic response to things is a mental breakdown..that would FLUCK anyone up

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    WAtched for the first time the other day I was pleasantly surprised I thought it was going Ron Ben just like any other dating reality show but it was different oh and I’m side eyeing that pastor FYI! ?

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    were they really in confederate flag adorned gear? LOL or are you being messy Jersey?

  • PLEASEDontTellMe
  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    sheesh ...... lawd I may need to see this ...... that ain't gone work at all smh

  • dontgetblocked

    This is not true. It depends on your environment. You can't generalize.

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    Keke Wyatt like a lot to handle...high maintenance on all levels.......probably the only thing that keeps her calm is penis...which is probably why she stays pregnant.

  • Lainy Damone

    People my free advice for the day DO not expect to find a mate if you are not fully in tune with who you are. if not you will only attract the demon that posses you which you will mistake for love. Fix you 1st!!

  • smartchickfl

    I agree. If I regarded someone as a sister, I would not leave them lying on the floor. I like Destiny's child, but that was a little callous.

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    So i have a very real question...through all the mayhem you've witnessed in this administration...you would still call yourself a Supporter? do you say semi-supporter? Does your support have a Will Support/Don't Support list?

  • Yui

    Question, have you ever preformed before? The show must go on. I’ve fallen onstage during plays before while those around me kept going, and you know what? I had to continue my performance as well. It’s not about ignoring, it’s about the show.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Bloop

  • YellowSauce

    because its usually asked in mean spirit and used as an insult .. a person who has empathy and compassion for a persons struggle wouldn't do this especially if said person was becoming your life partner .... he admits he should not have said it to her and what he basically did was tell her she wasn't in her right mind because she thinks black and white people communicate differently ... for someone in her delicate state this is toxic and isolating ... you expect this from people online not your fiance .....

  • Notatall

    "The looneyville"...Lol

  • Notatall

    "The looneyville"...Lol

  • MsJC

    Clearly this picture is not you. Black women are not difficult, but we are very independent. Men in general have a problem with strong women, no matter their race. It looks like you got the short end of the stick being a nksck woman, with the view you have of yourself. Si no, black women dont. Have attitudes, they are called standards and morals.

  • MsJC

    Clearly this picture is not you. Black women are not difficult, but we are very independent. Men in general have a problem with strong women, no matter their race. It looks like you got the short end of the stick being a nksck woman, with the view you have of yourself. Si no, black women dont. Have attitudes, they are called standards and morals.

  • gellie

    I would say people need to leave Michelle alone, but I can't really say that when she's putting everything out there to be judged.

  • gellie

    No lies told.

  • gellie

    Everybody's an attention slore these days.

  • Toni Toni Toni

    RUN BIHHHHH RUNNNNN!!!
    he is NOT the one.
    When they show you their TRUE COLORS, BELIEVE THEM!

    GTFO DODGE sis! U can do BETTA!

  • Toni Toni Toni

    RUN BIHHHHH RUNNNNN!!!
    he is NOT the one.
    When they show you their TRUE COLORS, BELIEVE THEM!

    GTFO DODGE sis! U can do BETTA!

  • Keyshia Ray

    These people and these reality shows. Dont couples get it?

  • Keyshia Ray

    These people and these reality shows. Dont couples get it?

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    SAY THAT!!!!!!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    SAY THAT!!!!!!

  • Ms. Jackson

    I actually had no intention on watching this show.. But, by reading those tweets, I think ima slide on over to WETV and be nosey.

  • Mona Lisa

    Wow I thought this was a light skinned black man?? He is the same color is my hubby, and he gets mistaken for a white man all the time but he's all black.

  • KcoolMuziq

    U can also turn around and pull someone back up and continue to perform. It's NOT hard to do if the routine is well rehearsed. Knowing Beyonce IT WAS!
    It was only the three of them.

  • Dreamer

    I think it comes on OWN.

  • Ni Ni

    Hollering?

  • Dreamer

    You generalized that most black people have an attitude in this very post, tho.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    If she really felt that way then get with a black man WTF. What does race have to do with the way you communicate. She took it there and he took it there. Smh

  • Connie

    Lol!

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    How is It in spirit if a person is tripping . Not obsolving Any blame from him or anyone that would do the same but maybe he was serious, maybe she did skip off on her meds.

    Seriously what does being black have to do with how we communicate ? If she truly feels that way then she needs to close up shop and get someone that is black .

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    So where does the “ I’m black and this how I communicate come into play . That’s straight up BS and a scapegoat .

  • Yui

    That would’ve interrupted the performance.

  • KcoolMuziq

    No it wouldn’t have. The choreography wasn’t even that hard or difficult. It wasn’t like it was a whole Janet Jackson break down. They were just moving from side to side.

  • Solstice

    Hey. Missed your font ? Where ya been? ????

  • Jersey Girl

    Actually its very true..its one with them standing he is in the pic and the other on the couch ... props to tariq for exposing when he first came on the scene

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Ok. He looks a little swarthy around the edges.

  • imright

    why do ppl keep saying he looks black ??? ?no tf he dont !!! he looks just like what he is a WHITE GUY !!

  • Chuck

    They both should be taking meds: her for mental and him for gayness. Come out already!

  • Navybeans95

    First of all Chad ain't all Caucasian...
    Second, he should know better than to say that to a black woman...

  • MistaO

    Just because someone supports President Trump doesn't automatically negate them. I'm Black and wholeheartedly support the president! Black people stay on the wrong side of history, as a whole.

    Fools still think the Clintons gave half a damn about black people. Stay stoopid...?

  • Quitedeliteful

    Chad is White?!?

  • MistaO

    This being True it's no surprise so many females ain't got no man...js

  • Li-Wright

    Wait a minute....Chad is white? No way.

  • Quitedeliteful

    If this is truly an 'interracial' couple then he better get used to discussions concerning race because it's going to come up again for whatever reason...

  • Sade_fan

    Exactly! He looks WHITE to me!

  • Ihatemoney

    It’s on OWN Saturday at 8pm on the Firestick. It’s not like the other dating shows.

  • Ihatemoney

    I really enjoy watching it. It’s like watching a controlled experiment.

  • Prettybrowneyes

    Right... Looking like Fat Joe lil cousin ?

  • Judi Jupiter

    Yes.. in that fancy car...smh..

  • dru and neil

    At this point in time in America there’s really no excuse for his level of ignorance when it comes to race relations. Acknowledging that black people and white people have totally different experiences in this country day to day, doesn’t mean you are fueling any flames or perpetuating racism. She shouldn’t have had to break this down to him. What’s his problem?

  • dru and neil

    He’s looking down on her, he says he’s supportive but you don’t make a comment like that if you are actually supportive and understanding. He basically insinuated that she was crazy and he knows it.

  • dru and neil

    He meant it in a condescending way, not out of concern.

  • CocoBabe88

    ?God the liberal mindset I swear. Everything is about race for them when clearly they’re of the same culture. Chad talks the same slang ebonics she does from time to time and has the same urban culture. You raise your voice at someone has nothing to do with race wtf lol. They’re both American so race really doesn’t play much of a factor in this scenario. And the same people urging her to leave her husband because he made a joke about meds are the same one’s who throw Kanye’s mental issues back in his face. Hypocrites the whole lot of them. Michelle you better not leave your husband. You won’t find much better these days. Get over that race sh*t.

  • Damian Jordan

    WOW - I thought I was the only one who thought he was suspect...

  • Alicia.Ashe

    White troll hush

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Shut up clown

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Hey dear!!! Missed you too? I've been super busy with school and work. Don't have a lot of free time anymore. Hru??

  • Desi

    Classic gaslighting. Trying to make her question herself everytime she has an issue with him. Someone who care for you, would never use an issue or use something you told them in confidence to take a dig at you.

  • MrsSpice1

    I never liked Michelle...she just seem annoying dry and boring..ugh “just cant get right”! Run CHAD RUN!! Wtf is talking or acting black!!!??? That’s bigotry! Im human! Im me and I IDENTIFY with how i choose to communicate as an individual!! Her communication with her partner shouldnt have anything to do with race!! U communicate with whom you love from ur heart not your skintone or your race! She sounds so stupid and folly! Bish just stay single or get a with a man that is BLACK that u can communicate with?! i cant stand when ppl act like you have to speak a certain tone or way to identify your race!!! First of all she doesnt sound or act black to me ???...she needs a therapist not a husband! How about let him speak as A MAN first and you speak as WOMAN! Simple! No color needed to understand!

  • Malcom Flex

    What's up with sisters with all these down low males????????????????????????????????

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    I don't know if you're black
    ..but we as a people can speak with specific type of passionate tone or in an animated way... and it can be mistaken for some type of aggressiveness ....
    it's nothing overanalyze ..
    ome people don't get it ....most of us understood where she was coming from

  • hottlanta

    I was laughing when thé preacher who is 50 or 60 years old saying he waiting until he get married 2 have sex as if he has the luxury of a sex filled 30 year sex shelf life. Ole gyrl told him upfront she was not the one.

  • Dainese

    They were just on TBC talking about getting married.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Him saying "Did you take your meds today" is belittling her mental battle. Some people say things without thinking first. I get it. But this sounds like he knows she doesn't have a strong support system, like one of the girls in her singing group (Beyonce) so she might be an easy target for his verbal abuse. He knows people will always blame her.

  • millz
  • No Love Lost

    I see it. That man is gay.

  • No Love Lost

    Lol My words exactly.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I was pretty sure I read a couple of days ago too, where they were talking about their upcoming marriage.
    The thing is, these reality shows usually come on TV at least a month or two after the scene is shot (sometimes longer). So by the time people watch the episodes, a lot could have changed, and the episodes are essentially "old news", showing outdated stuff.

  • dru and neil

    Exactly, and I have people in my life who have done the same thing, and it’s sad because it makes you feel like you can’t tell even someone you trust anything personal.

  • Sdot33

    Michele read Yah's word. We should not mix nations. Dont do it.

  • No Love Lost

    Exactly. My gaydar went off when I saw him.

  • Pebbles

    You talking about Melinda!

    I hope she re watch the show & her behavior with Aaron she to seasoned to allow a buck with nothing to offer but a crooked smile & half decent body

    It irking that the women can’t see that he not series about non of them

  • Pebbles

    Yes!

    Most of the women are fawning over Aaron & he not series about no one

    I don’t want to give to much away, but I do hope the options improve next season

  • Brandy Lexine

    He Looks Black!!!! I do not believe he is just Caucasian. Somebody been dipping or passing

  • KcoolMuziq

    ?

    It’s not like they were doing a Janet Jackson dance break. They were just swaying from side to side.

  • hottlanta

    But how is he gonna complain about lil kim being all showy wearing her makeup when he is running around lifting up his shirt showing his weak abs. Paco came looking for a 3rd wife 2 cheat on. Glad they got rid of that azz n wasnt so forgiving of his past

  • Tre

    Let her find out the inevitable

  • Jussjess25

    Facts

  • Blak

    Michelle has mental health issues and is incredibly unstable and uses it as a crutch. I think that before she commits to any man she reaffirms her commitment to god and work on her self esteem and mental health issues. He's a good guy and it's just jealous single haters trying to tear things apart

  • Jethro
  • Malcom Flex

    Right, he's flaming and has no respect for her.

  • Malcom Flex

    Bingo. He's a pure user I hope her support system whoever they are shuts this mess down.

  • Malcom Flex

    Passing.

  • Malcom Flex

    Good guys aren't putting mentally ill women down he's not a good guy he's a user.

  • Malcom Flex

    Go tell Kanye, Kobe, Lil Wayne and P Diddly Yah's word.

  • Malcom Flex

    Yo, she's mentally ill you're going on as though she's in her right mind, she's not. He is and he's taking pure advantage of her diminished mental state.

  • Malcom Flex

    LOL I just read this after I posted uptop he's DL/gay.

  • Malcom Flex

    Naw we have eyes we see a gay/DL male trying to use a sista.

  • Malcom Flex

    Nope looks like a mixed gay dude. Maybe latino.

  • Malcom Flex

    He's passing.

  • Malcom Flex

    He was messing with her that's not being supporting that's a diss.

  • Yui

    The show regardless must go on.

  • Chocolate

    I hate the thought of a mentally vulnerable person being treated poorly :(

  • Sdot33

    THAT'S WHY I POSTED THIS! HOWEVER THEY ALREADY CURSED AND JUDGEMENT AWAITS

  • more

    The sad part is that the reality stars get upset when the SCENES AIRS on TV all over again....

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    They need the check. That Destiny Child Reunion ain't happening for a while.

  • Coco

    Right! In other videos, he looks pink.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Real Spill, you actually get it. There is a big difference between black culture versus communcation.

    Culture has to do more with : swag, dancing, lingo, preferences, how we talk, food, family etc. A persons upbringing is no excuse for anyone to be absolved of not communicating properly. Thats a maturity issue not an issue with skin color, she tripping.

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Mybad didnt watch the show. Dont plan on watching, but to my understanding she was saying that how she communicates is a black thing. That on the surfact is absurd. Her slang and lingo is one thing, but your tone is your tone, it has nothing to do with being black. Yes alot of black women may have the same tone, but that in it of itself is also a sterotype. As long as she wasnt yelling then i dont see a problem.

  • Coco

    Lol

  • Pamela

    Blocked

  • T Willis

    You will only attract the demon that possess you? ??

  • Logan Roberts

    Sometimes we women never learn & the red flags are always there in front of us ?

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Michelle bypassed other guys for this one. This scenario is so typical of many of us, women. Like you said, the red flags are always there in front of us!

    Michelle is too old to be in denial of what is so blatant.

    But, that whole fame thing, often retards their personal growth. Women often get stuff in adolescence. She hasn't found her self-worth to be even entertaining this guy!

    This is just a portion of what goes on!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    The saying by Maya Angelou, "when people show you who they are, believe them."

    When I was in my 20s, I didn't, but learned, people basically mean what they say, and what they show you, this is what you're going to get more of!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I very disheartened to see this video. It's not about this guy, but Michelle.

    I have always rooted for her! When I saw her do one of those Black Plays on BET, I discovered how her talent had been masked. I didn't know she had the range and acting chops. Went to YouTube and found other performances that impressed and wowed me!

    I knew she did the Broadway roles, but under ole' Matty Matt, there would or could only be room for one star, water under the bridge now!

    While Black Live Matters, Me Too Movement, Trump Rallies, or Anti-Trump marches ensue, what's happening to women deeply concerns me!

    Be it our Black Female Superstars, ourselves, sisters or daughters, women are not treated right, often violated, tormented, tortured, even silenced to the grave!

    We are complicit because of what we look for (we want to be handled) and mistake it for the real thing!

    Blessings, Strength, Clarity to my sister, Michelle!

  • hottlanta

    His light skin house party days r over. Why hasnt he married someone from his church. He is trying 2 b like megan goode husband. He is looking for a Christian woman with a slutty sexy edge about her.

  • Yardgirl

    Thank you!! I saw this late last night and was not going to even bother replying because of the very thing you just said. My opinion is my own based on my own experience, disagree with me but don't tell me it's not true. It's my truth.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Evidently it did by them leaving there bandmate helpless.

  • Mona Lisa

    He might be. She needs to do a DNA, this dude looks like he has some black in him.

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    I agree, I wonder how many others think he looks black. There is definately black in his roots. An episode with a DNA test would be a good one for the ratings. I think he is in denail, or someone in his immediate family sure is.

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    For real I said the same thing. I was saying a DNA test episode is needed. Most people looking at him see black. His beard looks like black hair texture.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Did U see somebody flying the Trump baby balloon over in Paris l0l?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Every relationship has "stuff". The ability to work through it is what counts.

  • Ihatemoney

    Plus it was easy for him to wait... ain’t no body trying to sleep with that old man lol

  • ClaireHuxtable

    In our current environment the conversation may be weekly and last for days.
    Yet if the love & respect is there, they can work through it.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    $$$ clouds their view of real reality.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    errybody's got some. some more than most.

  • Toni Toni Toni

    ME TOO! LOL!

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    I'm in an interracial relationship and that happens until your at a certain point in your relationship where you know your partner doesn't mean any harm, they just don't know. It takes a while to get to that point in your relationship that your not judging what your partner says and feel, your correcting them and opening there eyes to what you see and vice versa

  • Decked Out

    WHAT the HELL is going on here? He is WHITE? Why is she with him? Again, he is a TRUMP supporter, why is she with him? Where is her people, family or better yet Destiny Children? Please RUN to the nearest Exit Door.

  • ShWa

    That's what I said and he must have missed the memo and somebody lying in his family been skippin and dippin

  • ShWa

    Yes in denial somebody in his family is black I thought he was black too.

  • ShWa

    Yes passing.

  • ShWa

    Yes he should not have said that to her using her mental illness aginst her if he is doing this now he will get worse after they are married I don't feel good about her marrying him at all.

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    Just found out he Pastors a very large predominatley Black Church. He also counsels many Black Professional Atheletes and now a Black Famous Fiance.

    I wonder why and how he ended up involved in and surrounded by so much Blackness. His entire lively hood, how he makes his money and spends his time is tied to the Black community.

    Interesting and opens up a bunch of questions.

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    Just found out he Pastors a very large predominatley Black Church. He also counsels Many Black Professional atheletes and now a Black Famous Fiance.

    I wonder why and how he ended up involved in and surrounded by so much Blackness. His entire lively hood, how he makes his money and spends his time, to his signifigant other is tied to the Black community.

    Interesting and opens up a bunch of questions....

  • Pebbles

    I like the pastor he had a great personality, hilarious, conversation was good , he was practicing celibacy ( which I think turned of some of the women ) the shy guy was ok they booted him off too.

    Which left Alex , mike, time waster Aaron

    Is Kim the doctor that wore the hair , make etc? I thought it was mike & Alex that that talked about her makeup

  • Miss Thang

    I knew he was too good to be true!!! Give Michelle free, please!!!!!!!!!

  • AListDiva29

    He is obviously mixed and not 100% white. She was recently in People magazine they are still engaged!

  • the guest

    Why are they calling this obviously mixed man Caucasian?

    The singer Halsey life looks way more white than Chad and she calls herself MIXED.

  • the guest

    It’s funny because he looks more black than Tamera Housely son, more black than Kendra Wilkerson son, more black than Paula Patton son, more black than Halle’s kids, and ALL their parents call their babies MIXED. There is absolutely no way Chad’s Caucasian. Interesting he keeps his head shaved. I bet he has a head of multiracial curly coils!

  • the guest

    It doesn’t even look distant. One of his parents is at least Quadaroon.

  • the guest

    Because he is clearly of mixed parentage.

  • the guest

    I think he looks mixed. But I LOVE that you are not having his phony tail at the cookout. He so blatantly appropriating and profiting off blackness.

  • gail fowler

    That is what I am saying Chad looks mixed to me also and does not look like he is completely 100 percent white; he is in it for the fame. Run Michelle run.

  • YellowSauce

    I am aware that there are people with no compassion. They are usually mean and miserable people who may benefit from getting their own prescriptions but thats another topic and I'll save that for another post but If you are callous enough to ask a person this you should only deal with people who don't have diagnosed issues ... he is not mature enough to deal with her or her issues without throwing it up in her face which he did ... the man that would love her the way she needs to be loved would not speak to her this way and again he even thought it was foul enough to apologize for it ... so even he knew it was wrong ... some people think they are mature enough for tough love but most people abuse that term and are mean because they like being mean but to tell the truth without compassion is cruelty ...she is in a delicate state and doesn't need cruelty but understanding empathy and compassion ...also the proper way to ask a person if they took their meds should only be done if you are trying to diffuse anxiety not to throw gasoline on it ..... not sure what a person gets out of treating a person they supposedly love this way but it definitely means they have their own issues that they may need to address before trying to check someone else'

  • Applebootay

    Why do they have a show?...she wouldn't or shouldn't need to bring up the black/white issue if they were on the same level of maturity when it comes to dating outside your race. Especially . The mere fact that she uses it as an defense mechanism indicates that there is a problem.

  • imright

    u clearly havent seen the family photo? ttm after ya do?

  • SS M

    Tariq Nasheed told us a year ago, and had receipts

  • Maxx

    I second this emotion! No one can judge if this man and his intentions are real. He has also been with her throughout & she has comebacks that are hurtful also, but as long as they recognize & work on it, go for it. Love is a gamble.

  • Maxx

    Your speaking in truths. I am not republican or democratic & let me just say...I cannot stand the current president on a personal level, but he is getting some things right presidential wise. He's just so freakin obnoxious about it, that you can't help but hate him. I wouldn't say just because Chad is a Trump supporter that he doesn't deserve love from a black woman. That's ridiculous and immature as F

  • Maxx

    I love the show also. It gives a great representation of misconceptions on how women and men are judged initially. Especially when they are looking for something real.

  • EMILY POST

    The shade ? but good points!

  • Maxx

    I hate blanketed statements like this because it sounds good, but life is not black and white. It takes many of us years and years to be 'fully in tune with who you are'. For me, it really depends on the 2 people involved & the level of commitment they have for one another. They may be able to grow together & understand themselves even better through another person's eyes. IMHO

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I say it's not over & they're going to get married.

  • Mirella

    To be fair, the man sounds way more stupid than her. He's not a real man. He is all about his feelings and he doesn't protect his fiancee at all.

  • Mirella

    Ikr the man must be gay.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Bless her

  • Pebbles

    Most of us do ( like mike) with Alex not far behind

    That’s the thing some of the women are “seasoned women” and still can’t see through Aaron mess .. but I will say if he looked that dark chocolate morning wood then I can understand

    But not Aaron !!!

  • Pebbles

    Yes! That’s Michael

    As for Aaron! I don’t see what they see him. Unless they know his pockets are fat among other things .

    I still don’t see the appeal in him

  • EMILY POST

    Lol ohhh the ? ? too funny

  • Ihatemoney

    I can tell he likes the woman who looks like Chile from TLC lol ?

    However, he is so so so fine. I’m still trying to figure out what is wrong with him?? Can you tell?

    And he wants kids is admirable but you notice he doesn’t have that conversation with everyone ?

  • Pebbles

    Yeah ! shay..

    If it’s is something wrong with him it must be minor & workable (,meaning you can work through it) and I think he told shay he wanted children but I don’t think she wants any more children I forgot

    As for the other women they’re just to pass the time but I think he clicked with someone else but I have to go back and look

  • Dale Collins

    Correct !!!!!Time he get checked out like a F.B.I. probe.He look Black .Girl u crazy for real .This Trumperteer Racists. Don't expect him to want to understand your Herritage.He ant intrstead.You in for a miserable man.He don't want to sleep with you not because Of God, he don't want to sleep with as he c Blk.people as Niggers".Is u really thatBlind, or da.n desperate.He tiredumaking everything about race and remember, he s White or is passing himself off as white.Check into his family D. N. A.You might get the shock of ur life.He will not sleep with without ing access to ur money.Stop the show u putting money in his pocket.Let him put some in yours.Did he even pay for the right g or did helpout.What he worth.He gonna end up giving u serious break down and have committed!!!!.Girl, love is blind get a microscope and really find out his real true Agenda.He gonna leave u and get alimony for the life style u get him accustomed to.You weak cause u choose to be Get a Reality chck.Man ready tu snatch Ludwig off.He does not respect you.Youlooking Real crazy out here.Hes an Opprtunizts and after he marries you if he does he gonna drafty and get u committed to the crazy house.This guy on emission . Have him thrrouhly Investigated.Dont make ur life more difficult.Be strong ,face ur fears don't be afraid of the thruth.Save urself.If he such a good man why he ant already taken.Appears to be mean spirited Clan selfish a d highly aggetated.Looks explosive.Iam an older woman I c right thru this Scam".Cuthr lists and run for ur Life" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Dale Collins

    Scam artists.Whie church did not want him.Probaly desperate hungry for money.Done slept with most good looking sisters then dropped them when he found a million air.A saint he ant".!!!!!!!!!

  • Dale Collins

    Jealous of What! We very concerned about her.Some Blk up scale people voted for Trump.This guy is racists period .A scam artist.In one photo he look like he ready to snatch her wig or weave right off, and then call her a mknkey.He is not inlove!!!!!!!

  • INDUSTRY GURU

    Really, wow...Ive never heard this....are you a former church member

  • Ms. Jackson

    Thank you! Cause I showl did try and find it on WE ?

  • Ihatemoney

    Best believe I’m going have ?? with you after the next episode.

  • Ihatemoney

    Hello Pebbles ?

    Did you see the episode on Saturday?... It truly had me scratching my head because

    1. If Alex likes Tiffany then why not respond to a message in a timely manner?

    2. Why does Aaron feel so deeply for Stormy?

    3. Let’s get real... Shae is 44 years old I don’t blame her for not wanting to get pregnant ( but real talk can she?)

    Also, If she really doesn’t want kids she shouldn’t because she could regret it or constantly look at Michael as he owes her.

  • Pebbles

    Hey!!!!!!

    Nope! I’ve been busy! If I’m unable to watch the shows , I always find time ( even a few min) to read the comments and respond ?

    I’m will check it out today and brb

  • Pebbles

    Heyyyyyy!

    I watched today!

    Honestly, Tiffany played herself with the text messages. She should’ve kept it kute with the first the first text.

    Then she sent disrespectful texts back to back like he her man or something .

    The reason he didn’t respond because he was out on a date with Ashley and truthfully I liked
    those two together .

    It could be stormy not sweating him like the other women are

    Shae had a bad experience with her son father BUT mike is not her ex , so she should see where the relationship goes and she is open but she wants a real commitment like marriage

    Age is no longer a factor when it comes to having children and if she needs assistance there is ivf etc

    Next episode looks good

  • Pebbles

    I though maybe Hispanic at first

  • Ihatemoney

    I agree Tiffany is acting possessive but Alex came out the gate saying some really deep stuff to her so I can understand her being so much...

    I like Ashley a lot but I feel he doesn't see her the way she wants him too. :(

    And I get women can get pregnant but going through IVF and trying to get pregnant can be so stressful on a relationship.

    But I can't wait to see what happens nexts

  • Pebbles

    I noticed living in the hood when a caucassion person grow up or be around black folks thier color change or thier demenor is not the same

    So it could be that he been around us so long that he began to favor us just a bit