Sean Combs Kim Porter

Sean "Puffy" Combs mourned the loss of his "best friend" Kim Porter by posting a video that showed the 2 of them embracing during a photo shoot.

The 46-year-old, who is mother to three of Diddy's kids, was found dead in her bed of an apparent heart attack at her home in Toluca Lake, California on Thursday, Nov. 15, after reportedly battling the flu and pneumonia.

Combs, 49, apparently posted the video in response to negative comments made after he was spotted out with his longtime girlfriend, Cassie Ventura, 32, whom Kim despised.

Cassie Ventura and Sean Combs

"For the last three days I’ve been trying to wake up out of this nightmare. But I haven't," Combs wrote in the video caption on Sunday.

"I don’t know what I’m going to do without you baby. I miss you so much. Today I'm going to pay tribute to you, I'm going to try and find the words to explain our unexplainable relationship. We were more than best friends, we were more than soulmates. WE WERE SOME OTHER SHIT!! And I miss you so much. Super Black Love."

He followed up the post by sharing photos of the mother-of-4 with his 12.4 million followers on Instagram.

"Words can’t explain ?FOREVER AND EVER AND EVER!!! Infinity and BEYOND!!!!" he captioned one of the pictures.

But others argued that Combs took his time mourning Kim online soon after she died. He was spotted out with Cassie the day after Kim passed. And on that same day, Combs "liked" an Instagram image of a young man -- before he had even paid his respects to his soul mate on Instagram.

Unlike Combs's other women, Cassie was welcomed into Kim's tight inner circle after Kim learned that Combs cheated on her with the one-hit singer over a decade ago.

Music producer Dallas Austin, who dated Kim in high school in Columbus, GA, also paid his respects to his childhood friend on Instagram. See his post below.

 

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Oh well here it goes :our famous prom pic : This is the hardest post I’ve ever had to do...my mom and Kim’s mom was pregnant with us at the same time in Columbus ...I have never known a life without Kim porter from kindergarten through all of our life long experiences in high school, having matching bmws or her being the biggest believer in me making it as a producer and us getting out of Columbus to be somebody ..and we made it!! we were inseparable I feel like a part of my soul has has been taken away ..most people don’t know that Zoe Saldana played the role of Kim in “drumline” as nick cannon played my character ..we saw purple rain 15times in the theater and if you knew her you knew a strong beautiful smiling gangster angel ! I know GOD is perfect but sometimes even perfect can make a mistake ?I send prayers out to the kids and our family and my brother @diddy this is a hard one but we will get though it love you @ladykp ??????????????????????

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Photos by Vasquez-Max Lopes-CPR / BACKGRID, Sandra Rose/Sandrarose.com


  • T865!

    This is the dumbest post ever

  • https://instagram.com/uptown2501 Uptown2501

    Auntie I'm confused you said she (Cassie) was disliked by Kim...but in the article you said she was welcomed?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Not doing this today .... You guys have a good one!!! ...... Puffy do the best you can with those children .... I know you love them ..... Ya'll have a good one .... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/42a9d3335215d25e2e38d2675ee8ea041306d174d04056715b140c58374d1175.gif

  • Geranium

    The messiness begins in the title...?????

  • Carrington

    Well, this is what happens when people "assign" someone to a person. Diddy was not Kim Porter's husband. He was the father of her children. I saw more "condolences" to HIM than I did to her family and her CHILDREN. Every article I read said, "Diddy's ex, Kim Porter Found Dead" as if this woman wasn't someone's mother, daughter, sister and friend.
    In DEATH, she's relegated to "Diddy's"... meanwhile, Diddy has been playing the break-up game with Cassie for 10 years. Y'ALL decided that she was Diddy's and then, when he didn't come outside and hold a press conference crying and acting like a HUSBAND should, y'all mad.
    She had a lot of $hit going on and to live as Diddy's baby mama and die as Diddy's baby mama I'm SURE is not something she wanted her legacy to be. Damn, you live your whole life trying to be somebody and, even in death, you're just a baby mama.
    Diddy is expected to not go out with his girlfriend because his ex passed away? It's possible to be sad about that and still live HIS life. Had Diddy passed, I'm sure she wasn't going to not be with the man she was in a relationship with in order to make other folk feel better.

  • Coy little wink

    Comments have been disgusting...I'm out

  • ClaireHuxtable

    This is starting to make me ill now...
    Errrybody loved Kim so much now that she's dead. Where was all that love when she was alive??
    Al? Diddy? She needed you then, not now.

  • Trace da Ace

    yeah...wait for me sis.....

  • tintin

    Here we go with the mess!!!
    R.I.P to Ms Porter I'm not even gonna entertain the post.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Diddy is one of those co-dependent mama's boys who can't be without the company of a female.
    Weak tea indeed.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    yeah, like, what else is there to say. we'll never know the true nature of Kim and Sean's relationship (and why do we NEED to know). let this woman rest. let that dude mourn and get on with making a life for his children, smh.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree. So many messy comments about this situation the past couple of days. Time to just let her rest in peace now.

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    Some very valid points.

  • Well$$Well$$?

    I followed KP on Instagram. She seemed at peace with Diddy and their relationship because she was doing her own own thing..Why bring up her not liking Cassie or Cassie not liking her?? She's gone and Im sure that's the last thing any of them are thinking about...

  • Lady_Elle

    @Carrington: thank you for bringing clarity to the table!

    I'm out of this post! Ugh!

  • Miss Thang

    God bless the children.

  • what?why

    So he goes from love of his life, soulmate to best friend - um-m-m Cassie's home.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I'm over it

  • Miss Thang

    I mean, isn't there anything interesting going on in the world of black celebrity?? damn.. Let's get a Rihanna post.- something! anything!

  • what?why

    It's not about the women, it's about him and his narcissism.

  • supastar

    Why the shade about Cassie not liking her??? smh messy just messy

  • Bashi22

    Cassie is such a hypocrite with her big speech on Instagram. You never taken pictures or say happy birthday to her and her girls.

  • TMW

    I read in Kimora’s tribute post that Kim’s Homegoing service was yesterday?

  • dru and neil

    She’s not alone, basking in the BS...it appears people only have value when they die.

  • FukkFolks2018

    It's about the kids.

  • Applebootay

    Me too...I'm done and I'm finished.

  • MJF

    Everyone mourns in their own way. Let the family have some time and space. Are we surprised Cassie is here? No! She's been with the man so obviously she will be there in his time of need. This is obvious.

  • TMW

    THIS!!!! Dayum!

  • Trace da Ace

    you know I was thinking about that too....like why have we not heard about RiRi in a hot minute......

  • Rayne

    Beautiful girl! Rip Ms Porter. ?

  • Trace da Ace

    seems like folks are forgetting that...smdh....my heart goes out to them babies....

  • FukkFolks2018

    Last thing she posted? A tribute to Kim Porter. It's all anyone is doing right now

  • RespectSelf

    I'm just amazed at how well known she was. Like she seemed to be a good friend of everybody. It's amazing to see so many speak highly of her and who she was to them. That's love!

  • HotInCleveland

    All of that! Thank You! ????????

  • IChosetheBrownDollbaby

    Actually, she did wish Kim Happy Birthday. On Kim's IG page.

  • IChosetheBrownDollbaby

    She was here to receive it, so there was no need to post about it.

  • KB

    Let Kim Rest In Peace and her children needs comfort and healing right now. All of these messy story titles and comments in regards to Kim, Diddy, and Cassie are getting out of hand. It really shows what social media has come to which is sad. We definitely show the definition of divide and conquer and being creators of conspiracy theories. Only Kim, Diddy, Cassie, and God know the truth.

  • Tlowe89

    That man is not forced to grieve online. Let him be. You know when someone truly cares about you when someone close to you passes, because they will be by your side. I’m glad Cassie is with him during this troubling time. He needs the support.

  • KB

    Exactly. It is so sad with the mess and foolery with some people. Some people act like they with these people. Only the people involved and God know the truth of everything. Her kids should be the top priority right now.

  • KB

    I agree with you. I didn’t know it was a certain way that someone is suppose to grieve.

  • KB

    Thank you, thank you. You spoke the truth. The people who don’t know them personally have so much to say and have their conspiracy theories.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Both those guys kicked her in the teeth. Diddy was disloyal and Al didn't step up to raise his son.
    Nah...if that's love, you can keep it.

  • Merkaba morris

    Sandra can be shady at times but she nailed this one this **** aint never loved nobody but Puff , he knows how the industry works but the real Puff left this earth a long time ago , I had a friend who actually met him and he said their is no firer in this man his soul is gone . everything is a ritual with these niggars you didn't even speak out there for 3 days , So nothing suprises me about this Vampire .....Rest In Power Goddess another Mother who sacrificed herself for these **** Ass **** , Not Me I am judging all these Rotten ass Imposters ..I am a self preservator everybody gone get it ...

  • Bashi22

    When screen shot it for me please

  • SpillyNillie

    Kim was so beautiful in that pic with Dallas

  • Bashi22

    Like scatter roses after I’m gone. Cassie waits in back to get puffy all for herself. She’s just want to look good in the public eyes. Like she was this caring person towards Kim Porter.

  • KB

    We don’t know if Kim forgave them and they were on good terms or not before she died. Diddy and Al B Sure are not the first men who has done females wrong and they will not be the last. The focus should be on her kids not her past failed relationships. We cannot tell people how to grieve and what they should have done when someone was alive.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Because Rihanna is a busy business woman and ambassador and dating her billionaire boy. I hope they get married soon, it looks like it.

  • MzKeriBabee

    Seriously... Diddy and Kim were NOT together and hadn't been together for YEARS... It has been obvious though thru those years that he indeed LOVES her... and as grown ups, we all know that you can love someone and be there for someone and the relationship not work... and everyone is acting like Cassie and Diddy have been "creepin" behind Kim's back... and that CLEARLY wasn't the truth... Please please please let Kim and her family have some peace... and it shouldn't matter if Diddy and Cassie are seen together or not, they have been "SEEN" together and in a relationship for YEARS... and everyone needs all the love and support they can get in their trying times and I am sure that the love Cassie and Diddy have for each other is real too, and he probably needs her now too... and that doesn't mean he can't mourn Kim and express his love for her too... everyone knew he loved her and was there for her... Stop the madness...

  • MzKeriBabee

    and truthfully, neither of their relationships is any of our business... Appreciate the beauty of Kim and the love people had for her... which has NOTHING to do with Cassie and Diddy...

  • KB

    You are so right. If he didn’t say something some people would have something to say. Most of the people commenting don’t know them personally but they are trying to give biographies of Kim, Diddy, and Cassie lives. It is ridiculous.

  • MJF

    I can see why celebs don't respond to comments, check blogs or entertain regular folk. It's like someone always has something to say; negative at that. Then people wonder why folks commit suicide, are mentally ill; or self-hate etc.

  • KB

    I agree with you. And, I don’t blame them at all for not reading the blogs and responding. The negativity and conspiracy theories are shocking and outrageous.

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Lots of people are disgusting and uncaring these days. I still remember the days when people still found kind things to say about the dearly departed, whether they knew them well or not, whether they were friends or enemies. But now? Psssshhhhh... Social media has rotted a lot of people's minds, got them thinking there's no value to life anymore, and that it's ok to talk slick about people who are no longer here. Sad times we are living in.

  • KB

    Even if that was the case, it shouldn’t have been in the title. Some things are better left unsaid.

  • MJF

    It's disgusting and foolish. The different analogies, and negative comments. So what if Cassie made a post; if she didn't, people would have sh*t to say as well. I mean, damn...

  • KB

    It sure does which is sad. Some things should be left unsaid. It is disappointing.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Everything YOU just said

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Of course we're concerned about her children and family. I said that several posts ago.
    Yet nothing changes the facts that her babies' fathers could have treated her better than they did.

    Actually, she was quite a lady about it all because she could have been out there blasting them. To my knowledge, she never did.

  • KB

    Right. If Cassie wouldn’t have said anything she would have been dragged for it. You can’t please everyone. The foolery that has been posted is sickening and no one is thinking out her children. I hope someone has told them to stay away from social media. It would break my heart to know after my death that my family and friends would have to see some of these negative comments

  • Chuck

    These bums are killing me with the long overdo posts; should have recognized the queen when she was alive. Poor think died of a broken heart. RIP

  • Dollface

    I wonder if Cassie is really pregnant did it send her over the edge?

  • KB

    If she didn’t blast them so what’s the need for anyone else to blast them. We should be following her example and setting the standard. We don’t know if her relationships with her children’s fathers got better over the years only Kim and them are aware of this. No one is perfect and we all have made mistakes and I’m sure if we look over our lives there are some things we could have done differently or better.

  • MJF

    Man just typing about it is tough and we just know them from being celebrities. What's heartbreaking is the twins, losing a parent at such a young age is something I could never imagine. Sis I really hope you have a good day, I'm just extra grateful this week...

  • KB

    You are so right. We should all be grateful that we have another day of life and another chance to get things right. I am hoping people are keeping her twins in good spirits this is going to be a journey for them. Have a good day and a great week

  • ohdearme

    We will all have our time to grieve unless we pass on before all of our loved ones first. Trying to comment about when this man posted something out of grief or that he was spotted with another female is just demeaning and crass. She died, he didn't. Like it or not, life goes on, even when it's your turn to grieve, that's when it hits you that we all grieve differently and that's okay too. I hope her passing serves as a reminder for all to be extra "Thankful" on Thursday and give thanks for all that you have.

  • KB

    ?????I Agree with everything you said. We should all be grateful.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    we've lost even the facade of decency, smh
    we just out here ...no limits, Lol!

  • MzKeriBabee

    And 1 more thing... I am GLAD that he didn't post anything until 3 days later (or however many days)... EITHER DID HER KIDS...……………. they were probably somewhere MOURNING and not giving 2 F's about INSTAGRAM POSTS.... SERIOUSLY people... this was a sudden an unexpected death... the last thing I would be thinking about is what my Instagram followers THINK or posting a "tribute"... GTFOH!!!!!!!!!

  • Renee26

    Beautiful tribute...doesnt matter about the timing

    I didn't know Drumline was based off a true story.... Interesting

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond
  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    "Everyone mourns in their own way."
    _____________________

    thank you.

  • Coy little wink

    Stop wondering about cassie's uterus go check out Kim's IG page its filled with positivity...

  • Renee26

    I dislike SM for this reason for both celebs and regular folks. People feel like everyone business has to be posted and there's always comments etc from those who don't matter

  • MzKeriBabee

    YES YES YES!!!

  • And then there is that!

    So just because people are now seeing how many people loved Kim, means the love is somehow not genuine or fake. Like really how many of your profess your love and admiration for your friends and family online every day. Just stop it. People are honoring her in death, doesn't mean she wasn't honored and loved in life just because you all didn't know about it before. Sheesh. Such an entitled bunch of people??????????

  • Guest

    Time to move on. New post!

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    as a fan, i get the impression that KP's and Puff's relationship was what it was supposed to be. No one really knows what happens between a man and a woman, with their unrevealed agreements and silent promises to one another. I do agree with what another rose so eloquently commented below, about Kim Porter being reduced to Puff's baby mama, in the narratives about her life. It's funny how people who never thought twice about her will now be obsessed with her. As far as not liking Cassie...I offer the question of what did they have in common? There was an entire life span between their ages.... We can speculate (and i am sure some will) what the dynamics were between Cassie and Kim. Again, speaking as a fan, i suspect kim was apart of the Diddy package. I would suspect plenty women (jlo included) were told "She is not going anywhere"

  • FukkFolks2018

    She blasted Puff and let Quincy blast Al. I'm not sure how folks missed all of that and now she is gone it was it never happened or IDR... in order to paint her as this silent doormat.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Cassie will be alright. I think she will be around because something tells me that Puff will make sure that his kids have stability. They are already familiar with Cassie. Much love and prayers for those kids.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I enjoyed the pics of all 3 of them have of each other kids. Misa daughter and other son were all in the mix. Kim was down for ALL of the kids. All 3 moms are. Sarah posts all the kids. Misa posts the boys mostly but all the kids. It's beautiful

  • Nik

    That first sentence. Honey, I could not have said it better. That resonates so much.

  • Phillybruh

    Grief doesn't really begin until that moment they are lowered into the grown. My god its like something you never felt before all at one time.

  • MJF

    Exactly! Thanks so much, I appreciate it.

  • TheOwley

    Worst part about dying is leaving your babies in the hands of people you disliked or did not trust. I hope this man and the people he surrounds himself with treat his daughters better than he treats women in general so time will tell.

  • Coy little wink

    Yes I haven't been to Misa's IG but Kim's and Sarah's give great vibes and pics of their blended family

  • the guest

    Been saying this and got trolled for it. He is reconnecting with Cassie because his girls will need a stepmother. Men are instinctively pragmatic creatures. It is nature to provide for his children. He will naturally make sure they have a mother figure.

  • Phillybruh

    The girls may like Cassie, maybe even love her. But It will be years before they allow her to step into that role. This will be in the hands of his mother to bring those girls up. And her mother ( if she Is still alive) or the other daughters mother who may be able to step up.

  • Rere

    What's wrong with Cassie being by his side? Absolutely nothing, that was h/is girl for years, why is this even a issue? Idk. Diddy and Kim had their own special type of relationship. How do we know he didn't honor her in life? Oooh b/c he didn't post pic's of her everyday. People have to realize that celebrities are people that live their life in the public, THEY DON'T HAVE TO SHARE EVERYTHING WITH US??

  • Wreckognize Game

    Say what you believe and ignore the trolls. I can't stand then trying to change your opinion. They can just post what they feel outside of other's fonts. Always acting like Trump vs Obama trying to undo what was said and done. GTFOMF

  • ClaireHuxtable

    True. No such thing as a perfect relationship because there are no perfect people. Yet the ability to gain Wisdom is so we don't make the same mistakes over & over. We can learn that it's not ok for a guy to impregnate you and lie & cheat as long as they are paying your bills. As I said earlier, if the definition or standard for love is constantly lying to me...I don't want it.

  • Dr. P
  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    "keepin' it real" has its consequences, lol

  • ohdearme

    We all grieve differently, what you found to be your point of when grieving starts, some may feel it's as the casket is wrapped and sealed then "RAISED" to be placed in their crypt in a mausoleum. Or handed ashes? Or informed of the death, it's all different.

  • BingBangBoom

    She was really pretty in that prom pic..

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    He treats women how they ALLOW themselves to be treated.

  • FukkFolks2018
  • Applebum

    She was gorgeous. She had all these men writing songs about her, making movies about her and she got stuck with monster Diddy. If Cassie and Diddy ends up married next year or so then we’ll know that Kim was standing in the way. And she had to go.

  • rayne215

    was she ever married?

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    And cassie wrote a long thing abour kim on ig and i gotta tell you it was off putting af. People dont see how foul theyre living but death will shed a whole light.

  • the guest

    Exactly.

    I thought either Cassie as a stepmom or Sara raising the three girls together because they are so close. The boys are all of adult age and on their own.

    The lord works in mysterious ways. Kim’s girls in her passing will have what she wanted them to have in her life. A two parent home but with Puffy and Cassie. I imagine this kind of situation hurts. It’s similar to how after Princess Diana’s death, Charles married Camilla and the boys did grow up in a two parent home.

    Puffy is 50 now and for whatever reason he likes Cassie the most to build a life with. I don’t care one bit for how he treated Kim. But I will undetand him marrying Cassie and their raising Kim’s twins together and give them that stability. It will be hard for many to accept but it’s the right thing to do.

    P.S. I think Cassie looks like a combination of qualities from Misa, Kim, and Sara.

  • tia

    They were indeed a beautiful couple. But, Kim and Puffy haven't been a couple in years. Me personally don't see this siting of Cassie and Diddy as disrespectful. They just doing what they've been doing before Km became deceased. As far as being seen with Cassie is concerned, isn't she his friend, etc? Whatever you call them. Cassie has been in the picture for years and is just not some random off the street. Whatever the case, Kim seemed like a really nice lady and has tons of outpouring from everywhere. She was gorgeous as well; a real "Black Barbie." At the end of the day there's no doubt that Puffy loved and was crazy about Ms. Porter. However, Puffy is just one of those dudes that wants his cake and eat it too and doesn't want to be accountable to ANYONE (sounds like alot of average every day guys to me). Complete puppet master and narcissistic butt hole is what he is. But hey, this tragedy may bring about a change. You never know? Anyway, continuing to pray and keep Kim's babies lifted up in prayer. They will definitely need it and the holiday season doesn't make it any better. At this point, the kids are the most important.

  • Ghost

    It was a homegoing PARTY at Diddy's house....

  • rayne215

    i feel you. i buried my mom. the second i walked in that funeral home, with the open casket....that when it started for me.....

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Puffy controlled Kim because obviously that's what she wanted and that's what she allowed. This woman wouldn't even move on with her life. She died alone because she wanted to. She knew that Sean would NEVER commit to her....so she just took from him what she could. He honored her...as she saw fit. This lady could have really branched out and did some things....sadly all she chose was to ever run behind Puffy and be a "baby mama" amongst others. Black love huh? That's the problem with the black community. No marriages, no foundations...just baby mamas, baby daddies, and a lot of misguided children in the process.

  • Eileen

    Everyone sings her praises especially the black men but no one married her. Yes she appears to have been a really lovely women I have "NEVER" heard anything negative about this women. May she rest in peace. God Bless her children...

  • TheOwley

    It's a two way street for sure but one day his daughters may be in a position to choose mistreatment and he will not not be happy with it. It's like Jayz calling women hoes until his daughter was born and he said he wouldn't stand for someone calling her that. That was my point.

  • Applebum

    And on that same day, Combs “liked” an Instagram image of a young man — before he had even paid his respects to his soul mate on Instagram.
    ——————————————-

    He can’t help himself. He loves boys & underaged boys. They were investigating him few years ago and that ish was ? under the rug.

  • Eileen

    BINGO!!!

  • the guest

    Isn’t it heartbreaking.

    It’s truly heartbreaking.

    Let’s be fair though,

    Puffy did sabotage her attempts at dating.

  • Mr. Poopybutthole

    how?

  • Kimocha

    Yea OK Diddy Dog!... We'll be waiting to hear the remix to "I'll Be Missing You" Pt 2... And the tour shortly there after!... I'm sorry but I don't really have any sympathy for D. Dog!... But I do have sympathy for Kim's children and family and friends...May God comfort them in their time of sorrow.

  • the guest

    A sweet observation. Kim and Sara are the girly girls and Misa although very beautiful and ultra feminine was the one the boys could talk to. It just seems like that and it’s beautuful.

  • HotInCleveland

    That part!

  • the guest

    Read about it. Men were threatened and confronted. This was one of those situations that do happen. A man has that one woman he won’t commit to but won’t let move on and won’t let another man get close. Add money and power to the mix, he controlled her whether she wanted to or not.

    I think at some point Kim gave up the fight to be free. She adapted to having her own space, a luxury lifestyle, and having him as a lover because they definitely remained intimate and definitely with Cassie’s knowledge.

    Misa fought for freedom and right to move on and it was not easy rejecting Puffy as she spoke on it in an interview.

  • Eileen

    BINGO!!! and yes men are more pragmatic, that is why you dont have single fathers...

  • Phillybruh

    That's a reach, there is nothing that indicates Cassie's role in these girls lives will be extended. Grandma's moving to LA until the girls finish school and Cassie will continue to be what she has always been.

  • Phillybruh

    I'm not disagreeing with you everyone is different. However the finality of the burial is what usually does it.

  • the guest

    Exactly! Men don’t play. They FIND a stepmom to help keep that house and raise those kids.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Hopefully the Game will go sit down and get right for Tiffany. You have all this love and honor for her but can't do right by her. Got a charge and sued trying to be a bachelor and running from what might be best.

  • ohdearme

    Umm what? Re-read what you wrote because you ARE disagreeing with me on something that you can"t say or know, UNLESS you know every person that has dealt with grief? lol

  • Phillybruh

    Look I didn't mean anything by it. Your right

  • the chosen one

    Diddy's azz just feels guilty, due to all the whoring he did.

  • Reina1718

    Cassie posted condolences as well

  • Reina1718

    U so rite

  • Reina1718

    Not to mention cassie is pregnant

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    I definitely see your point. His girls are going to have hell. A lot of things that you do in your lifetime can come back on your children. People forget that.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    If she would have just moved on her life...there wouldn't have been anything for him to sabotage. Kim just accepted her role...and played it. She could have done so much more in life. Its heartbreaking that she didn't do anything else but run behind her "baby daddy."

  • Joy King

    It amazes me how some people in the comments have created an entire narrative of Kim and Puff's relationship. No one person is ever at fault in any breakup. Trust me, Kim was no victim and I'm positive she wouldn't want to be remembered as such. Her death however is tragic and I do believe it's wonderful her life is being portrayed in such a positive and uplifting light. It's imperative her kids are left with that memory and I believe Puff, her family and friends will make sure that happens.

  • Nik

    When keeping it real goes wrong ala Chappelle's Show.??? Love that skit!

  • Toni Toni Toni

    AGREED!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Yes!

  • WhoKnew

    This is big time karma coming back full circle on him.

  • MsPam

    Diddy needs to sit down, why was he in a hurry to have her funeral service yesterday. IKim was his soulmate how come he didn’t marry her?!
    https://www.dailymail.co.uk/ushome/index.html

  • Browneyes

    PERHAPS.

  • MsPam

    Nope but she was Diddys “Soulmate” as I roll my eyes! ?

  • Black4life

    Kim loved Diddy more than she loved herself. Self love first. Her mental state was probably so burdened with, distrust, lies, betrayal, and all of Diddy's dirty deeds. He's more upset that he is no longer in control of her life. As*****.

  • Bonita

    That had to be an error. After finding out Cassie was smiling in her face and sleeping with Diddy while they were together, you never saw anymore pics with her and Cassie again, nor was Cassie allowed to go with them all on family vacays when Kim was going for a reason. Whatever inner circle Kim allowed her in was a wash after that.

  • Judi Jupiter

    Boy Bobby and Whitney looking rufffff in that pic...

  • MzKeriBabee

    I see so many people saying she died single cause of Puffy... Does anybody think that maybe, just MAYBE Kim didn't want to be anyone else... and it had nothing to do with Puff?????????????? and was Single because she CHOSE to be... How are we to know...

  • TMW

    I was thinking this right when you posted it. I HATE HATE HATE that just because someone doesn’t mourn the way you mourn or act the way you THINK they should act in the face of tragedy means they aren’t hurting, or sad or grieving.

    I didn’t cry at the hospital when my husband passed, but no one knows that I literally cried myself to sleep every night for 3 months, and that I still cry for him, and he’s been gone almost 6 years, and that I still see the grief counselor from time to time. And I only ever made one post on social media - a whole year later.

    Let people be - DAYUM!

  • Patricia

    never.

  • Patricia

    i wish people that dogged, disrespected, hurt, stepped on, used, and abused people just shut the hell up when they pass away. everybody in the world knows he didnt give a damn about that woman. i cannot stand liars. seems at this point, hes only trying to put a spotlight on himself and make this about himself.

  • Jethro

    People need to get a life.

  • supastar

    LOL... I wasn't ready... focus mannnn focus LOLOL

  • Parent

    Did you see Drink Champs with Nore when Fabolous & Diddy was on? Boy did he make Fab uncomfortable. Diddy talking bout why Fab don't ever party with him? Fab looking like boy if you don't stop tryna sex me...

  • supastar

    Her sons Christmas movie on NetFlix is pretty good.

  • supastar

    I had to scroll back up and take a second look.. #mebeingpetty

  • TMW

    I thought it was cute. I liked it

  • TMW

    When you google her, it says she was married to Al B. Sure for a year from 1989-1990.

  • ShWa

    Yes RIP Kim.

  • Wreckognize Game

    He is a good actor. The girl who plays Alex on Star favors Kim. I've always thought that.

  • Wreckognize Game

    He is a good actor. The girl who plays Alex on Star favors Kim. I've always thought that.

  • Wreckognize Game

    He is a good actor. The girl who plays Alex on Star favors Kim. I've always thought that.

  • taneka simmons

    With all due respect, marriage is not the end all be all. Nor does it define the value of a woman. With or without marriage, ive only seen positive memories from all that knew her. She blessed the earth with 4 beautiful humans and made an impact on so many ppl. Marriage doesn not change, lessen, nor improve any of these things. My goodness! Rest in peace beautiful QUEEN @ladykp. May God bless your loved ones during this difficult time.

  • MzApple

    they say she was once married to quincy's daddy

  • TMW

    On his IG, Al B. Sure posted a pic of himself with Kim, and Quincy and Ryan Destiny (Alex from Star), and he captioned it “Art imitating life.” He and Quincy are twins for sure, and you are correct that Ryan favors Kim.

  • Wreckognize Game

    It's truly interesting that in a movie about Uptown records or Diddy's life, Christian and Quincy can play their dads. Ryan would make a good Kim for sure. She is a pretty lady.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Diddy(whom I partied with) & Kim made a BEAUTIFUL couple. Then produced some GOOD LOOKING CHOCOLATE OFFSPRING'S.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • TMW

    I got judged every which way from Sunday because they didn’t see me fall apart. Chile...people are a trip. ?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    wow, so callous and insensitive, smh
    grief doesn't hit us all the same way at the same time.

    and, i'll say this, i know for a fact that SOMETIMES the ones crying the loudest and trying to drag their 'loved one' out of the box have been the main ones who gave them the most hell on earth. that guilty conscious weighs heavily on them and crack.

    on the other hand, sometimes when you've done the best you can and you have no guilt or regrets, you can have peace in that most painful moment.

  • FukkFolks2018

    That notion is irking. Like the immediate speculation that Dallas Austin was lying about Drumline was about her. Found proof where he had said that YEARS ago.

    Sorry. KP was the biggest hip hop muse EVER.

  • dontgetblocked

    I'll be honest. I've always seen Kim as a materialistic woman who birthed three kids of Diddy's kids for a paycheck. It wasn't until Auntie broke down the way that Diddy treated her that I realized she was an emotionally, verbally, and perhaps physically abused woman. He sucked the life out of her and then moved on to Cassie and other thots. The man is pushing 50 and has six kids. Instead of settling down, he's out knocking up more chicks. I believe that Kim died of a broken heart. Her youth was gone and she still was under the foot of the dirtiest, vile, disgusting man walking the earth: Sean...Puffy...P Diddy...Diddy Combs. I used to be a fan, but now I realize he's evil.

  • dontgetblocked

    Did you ever party with Diddy and J-Lo?

  • KcoolMuziq

    I didn't party with both. But I have worked with J-Lo before.

  • dontgetblocked

    She needs to learn when to just stay quiet.

  • TMW

    You are exactly right, because it was those ninjas falling out and clowning, those who had no idea he was as ill as he was because they weren’t on speaking terms. We knew everyday was a gift and that’s how we lived it - nothing left unsaid and grateful for the time we had.

    Grief passes, mourning does not.

  • lovelygamour

    I still see her as being materialitic. She wanted to step into the role of first lady. She was misa friend when she got with puff.

    Its obvious he didnt think she was good enough. If she was more ambitious he wouldve married her. He was ready to marry jlo. Kim seemed to be waiting on him.

  • dontgetblocked

    Dangerous move. Children are often mistreated by a step parent especially one that knew and disliked their mother. Believe me...I know.

  • dontgetblocked

    Would you want your children raised by the sidechick? Let me tell you, it's very dangerous. Have you ever heard of the term step monster. They are real!

  • Reina1718

    Maybe they actually did get along after a while ????? She’s been on vacation with them b4

  • friendofblog

    I agree--Marriage is not everything. Hell, marriage ain't all it's believed or cracked up to be.

    Sign,
    A divorcer who wasn't with the SH!TS

  • friendofblog

    Nope.

  • friendofblog

    Incorrect. Never married.

  • Blak

    He loves her so much that he couldn't commit to her! She got paid and never worked past being an intern and that's all that counts

  • Blak

    I seen it, that movie was straight garbage and hard to watch

  • Malcom Flex

    Watch Puffy marry a mixed or white female.

    Dallas is proper that is respectful right there.

  • currvalicious

    He's not the legal next of kin, how did he get to make those executive decisions.

  • RealATLPeach36

    BOBBBBBYYYY

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I pray that each new day you are strengthened and encouraged. Bless you.

  • Allihave2say

    I spy with my little eye a d!ckhead, drunkhead, crackhead and a cokehead.
    Diddy was going to milk the sympathy role while laying up with Cassie. When narcissists go silent it's the prep time for how they can maximize the demise to benefit them - See EJ Johnson for reference.
    Diddy saw that so many male and female but especially the men of her life who shared romantic love for Kim were doling out their hearts in tears of loss, and tried to find pics and words to out do them. I'm not saying that Diddy doesn't care but he puts himself first in all thinks.

    One of the identical twins looks more like Diddy than the other.

    RIP Kim.

  • Allihave2say

    Kim Porter was biracial that's why her light skinned son took after the light skin of the father; and the dark skinned children took after the father. Kim's genetics are 50/50 the greater in each child won.

  • Allihave2say

    So "Alex" is a real genetically defined female and not a M2F Trans?

  • Malcom Flex

    WHY do yall fonts think you're schooling me? Go make your own comment thread. KIM PRESENTED AS BLACK.

  • Malcom Flex

    Yes, he sure was ready to marry JLo but her people told her hell no,!! funny, the same way Ben Afflecks people told HIM hell no he couldn't marry her, a hispanic.

  • Queen B

    I think they had some type of arrangement and I dont think Kim wanted to marry him which is y he has never married Cassie; I think he was waiting for Kim to come back around. Either way that video was beautiful and genuine...RIP Kim ??

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    I paid attention to no comments from the family or Misha, Ebonie Elektra, etc until AFTER Puffy made a comment. Quincy, Justin, etc didn't post anything until after puff. Is Cory Gamble (Kriss Jenner's boyfriend) Kim's brother or was he security for them only? He hasn't posted anything at all.

  • Allihave2say

    If you don't want people to comment to you or in response to you, YOU CAN STOP POSTING, GET YOUR OWN SITE AND WRITE AS YOU WISH, IGNORE COMMENTS, BLOCK COMMENTERS, SIT IN YOUR BASEMENT BY YOURSELF AND BE HAPPY.

  • FukkFolks2018

    ???

  • Ms..N

    Men who look at women as property will never commit to one woman!! They consider women to not be their equal!

  • luVn_liFe…

    it wasn't a funeral it was a memorial

  • Bonita

    The fact that he constantly wears shades speaks volumes to me. I don't trust people that wear shades indoors. O'l shifty eyed selves. And take them off outdoors if you want me to engage in conversation with you. If you have nothing to hide, let me see them eyes so I can feel the vibration of what's going on behind them windows.

  • Isaidit

    Unfortunately there are many stories about how Kim tried to move on, and Diddy would shut it down each time. He used his wealth to control them.

  • Bonita

    "I still remember the days when people still found kind things to say about the dearly departed, whether they knew them well or not, whether they were friends or enemies."

    I don't share that experience. I remember the days when people would call each other and gossip on the phone about the departed, good or bad. THEN, they'd go to the funeral, and after it was over, go home and make some more calls to gossip, but this time about the funeral, people at the funeral, and how the deceased looked in the coffin, good or bad.

  • Isaidit

    I read a while back that her mom is black. Just extremely light skin.

  • 11pink123

    She’s gorgeous both ways. But has anyone notices her skin color from her youth until now is a huge difference from caramel to chocolate? I wonder if something has been wrong. She was clearly caramel light as a child. How did she get chocolate?

  • abby500

    My kinda chick.... ?

  • Olga Summer

    I honestly think Sean Combs is just disrespectful! There are so many ways you can put your words that are tasteful that wouldn’t be disrespectful to your current relationship. BUT.. I guess he’s never really gave af about Cassie’s feelings because he knows she’ll always be there. ?????

  • abby500

    Exactly! I always noticed how she thought she was too good for puffs mess (she was) and Ben Affleck was too good for hers. Put her right on in her place.

  • abby500

    Yep...I see that

  • Isaidit

    I was wondering the same thing. A lot of people get darker as they get older. Probably years from being out in the sun.

  • Malcom Flex

    I found that whole chain of fools funny AF Puffy moping after a hispanic who rejected him and the hispanic chick moping over the white male who dissed her. Her people didn't want her having black/mixed kids. Ben's people didn't want him having hispanic mixed kids.

  • Rhondalousey

    Is this Janice?

  • Harley

    This post is so messy! He has been with Cassie for over 9 years! Of course he is gonna be consoled by close friends and family including his ex!!

  • Rhondalousey

    Thats what kimora said. They both got married & divorced.

  • Harley

    Kim didn’t want to be with him after he cheated on her the third and forth time. She mentions she left him in an interview and just wanted to coparent and be friends

  • Rhondalousey

    Shut up, you know he dogged her and cassie was not his girlfriend for years.

  • Harley

    Al b Sure did the same thing to her with her first son! So it was a cycle for her. She attracted these men for some reason

  • Harley

    ??????

  • Harley

    Why? She knew Kim and her kids. Why wouldn’t she ?????

  • Harley

    These women knew what and who they were getting into and with .... money changes things

  • Harley

    Agreed people are putting so much emphasis on marriage when there are people who coparent better than married couples

  • Harley

    Thank you!

  • Harley

    Thank you!!

  • Harley

    BOOM!! ???

  • Rhondalousey

    Man please, phuck diddy. We know he will "live his life" he's being doing that for a while now while everybody else falls, his demonic azz still stands

  • Harley

    Let’s not forget Kim was a side chick with Misa

  • Rere

    ?

  • Wreckognize Game

    I haven't seen that movie yet. I like him as an actor and I hope he continues on this path instead of just music.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Cassie already knows these kids and I'm sure she knows how to treat them. Diddy would've been dropped her if she treated his kids wrong.

  • gail jones

    Yes yes yes. Cocaina will do it to you, as well as bad kidneys

  • gail jones

    She is not

  • A D N

    Reminds me of "mister" in the Color Purple.

  • gail jones

    Fab that N?ggàh

  • gail jones

    Lol

  • gail jones

    This sins of the father rains on the children's heads

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Maybe living in that California sun?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    I caught that too I noticed nobody posted until AFTER he did including Cassie. Also he posted pictures of the pictures are her memorial and it was picture of her but also pictures of him and her I was like damn why is pictures of him and her up like they were married and like it’s his memorial she’s the one that died puff always came off as wanting to be the center of attention and self absorb ppl like that do stuff and don’t even know how selfish they being the memorial wasn’t about him or their relationship it was about HER and her life ?????

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    I Said the same thing about puffy and today I noticed Al B sure posted AGAIN about Kim I chuckled cuz in my mind him and puffy were trying to put post each other ??

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Soon as I saw the pic I said Bobby look high as a kite!!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux
  • the chosen one

    You are right. She knew herself how he was but continued to let him misuse her.

  • Munchosgirl

    She was married to someone, Kimora mentioned that they both had been through divorces....

  • Munchosgirl

    I am pretty sure Kimora would have know.

  • Munchosgirl

    Amen!!!!!

  • sunni_daze

    Cassie dumped him. And Cassie clearly knew her place he created 3 kids with 2 women, while they were together.

  • sunni_daze

    I heard Corey was her brother too

  • supastar

    I have never watched an episode of Stars. My co-workers say its really good.

  • supastar

    It really was.

  • mona q

    And that first pic is clearly photoshopped. ?????

  • HeyGirlHey

    He loved Kim. He just wasn't ready to settle down. And he's not disrespectful to Cassie because she's comfortable playing her position. No one made her stay with him for that long she chose that position. All she had to do was leave if it wasn't enough for her..... And a man can't do know more to you than you allow him to.

  • parisjok

    saw a picture of her mom holding her and the mom does look almost white or was white hard to tell really. and she was very beautiful. maybe her dad was very dark skin

  • parisjok

    try to make up all the excuses u want but that thing of having baby after baby by a so called boy friend is not the best for moms. a man marrying u DOES mean something here in the USA so don't try to act like it does not

  • parisjok

    true that

  • Anita Webster-Harris

    Facts! We have all ALREADY seen this picture and in the orignal he is NOT all up on her like that!!!... SMH... Sandra Rose... TRY AGAIN!!!!! #SHAMEFUL. RIP Kimmy P

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose
  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Really? No, you try again! The ORIGINAL picture was taken by me at a Three Brown Girls party. Why wouldn't he be all up on his girlfriend at the time?

  • Allihave2say

    Well everyone, especially every man Kim was in a relationship with was posting a tribute online to her and all we heard from Diddy was how he was pleasantly surprised to hear from Casket. He could have easily redirected the reporters comment to state that he only wants to focus on Kim. When he saw everyone else online he had to show out. I can't wait for this Cinderella Funeral Procession. It's unnecessary but Diddy is the same dude who was in all his artists' videos. Naturally he'll be over the top so that he can take all the attention and credit.

  • Allihave2say
  • gail jones

    And an eye exam is yours. At MOST that woman is of Tina Knowles variety. Furthermore, I was aware of Ms. Sandra Porter's appearance when I made my comment.

  • Allihave2say

    Good for you. Would you like a sticker? It seems it's your opinion as to her race vs what others in the know have said. Carry on!

  • Anita Webster-Harris

    I really don't waste my time Internet fighting, so useless ! but I received an email where you made an attempt to come for me being smart about an obvious misunderstanding... First of all... I'm REFERRING to THE VERY PHOTOSHOPPED picture of Puffy and Cassie if you need me to be more specific! The photo of PUFF AND CASSIE!!! No one is talking about the pic with him and Kim... So fall back! Anyone with sense can see that it is altered because the original pic and video was already trending with them getting in the car.... Again??, #SHAMEFUL... RIP Kim P. Happy ? holidays...

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    You must be new here? Everyone on this blog knew that pic of Sean and Cassie was Photoshopped. The original pics are in the gallery.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I was responding to the OP who wrote: "And that first pic is clearly photoshopped."

    The first pic is of Kim and Sean. So you're all indignant over the wrong pic.

  • Anita Webster-Harris

    ??? Uh Huh...??? Right??????Next!!! ???

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com/ Ms.Devereaux

    Yessss!!! Omg! You are so right! And him dancing and all in the artists videos is the same thing that came to mind when he got to carrying on I said he bout to make this all about him

  • Isaidit

    I think so too