Quincy Brown

Kim Porter's oldest son Quincy Brown was all smiles on a set less than a week after burying his mother who died suddenly at age 47 at her Toluca Lake, Calif. home on Nov. 15.

Quincy, 27, was all smiles while going live on social media on Thursday -- 5 days after he buried his mother in Columbus, Georgia on Saturday.

Quincy added the caption: "FIRST DAY BACK @ WORK GOING GREAT!”

Quincy Brown

Quincy is Kim's firstborn son. His father is musician Al B. Sure! who is best known for 1980s hits "Nite and Day" and "Off on Your Own (Girl)".

While many of Quincy's followers sympathized with the young actor, some criticized him for getting over his grief too quickly.

A few social media users said they took Kim's death harder than her children, who are already back on social media.

One commenter on Rhymeswithsnitch.com blog wrote:

"These hollyweirdo folks are some twilight zone people. I know folks process grief differently, but as a young man you just lost your mother unexpectedly, and you all in the gram cheesing, already back at work cheesing. No grief stricken energy, the sacrifice is real out in these dark occult streets."

Another commenter wrote:

"These kids: Quincy and the twins are looking a little too happy in these post KP funeral pics. I see zero remorse, these kids acting like they 3rd grade teacher died, not their mother. I'm sure behind those dark sunglasses at the funeral were a bunch of dry eyes. I don't think she was loved too much by those kids or maybe Quincy’s just pondering on the upcoming rewards of his "sacrifice."

But others defended Quincy, saying everyone grieves differently.

  • Yui

    And life ain’t supposed to go on?
    Just coz you see a smile on someone’s face doesn’t mean grief isn’t present. We all have our quiet moments.

  • Whiplash(lacejagger)

    He can still me in mourning and return to work. What’s he supposed to do, post sad pics all day? He’s most likely doing what his mom would want him to do!

  • Coy little wink

    People need to get a life...

  • LeeSeeCee

    People need to let that boy alone and let him live his life. Not everything is for public consumption, dang...

  • KLo

    Give the kids a break. They process things in their own way. My niece and nephew , 7 and 8 yrs of lost their mother at 47 to brain cancer. They processed it and went outside to play the same day . But they still love and miss their mother daily

  • Rahab

    That is a young man who has younger siblings looking up to him to figure out how they are all going to live without Mom. I admire his work ethic. He will grieve her until his day comes. Until then, never let em see you off your square Q!

  • Rahab

    Good for them! Leave the tears on your pillow at night and keep pressing in this life!

  • JustMyThoughts

    People grieve in their own way & time A smile doesn’t equal happy You never know what’s behind that smile

  • Omandesert

    So they want the young man to stop living life and spiral into dangerous depths of depression? Leave him alone. Every one greaves differently. If he is at peace with his moms transition, the public should be at peace with it also. Mind ya business!

  • Gloria

    Um, life goes on.... no matter what.
    And he has to make a living right?
    Is there a standardized way to grieve a loved one? How long should a person take off work?
    The internet is too much.

  • DREAM KARDASHIANS STROLLER

    I wish that the world would stop trying to tell people how to grieve! Working is probably the only thing keeping him sane and keeping him from having a break down. He probably cries every single time that he’s alone. It’s hard losing a parent idc how young or how old you are. And to have to endure such a painful moment so publicly? My God I wish some folks would find something to do!?

  • Gamer?? Chick

    This is stupid let that man grieve how he sees fit, what do these trolls expect him to do hide out in his home for years and drink his sorrows away. Get a life losers!

  • Prince Zuko

    Damn people are the worst pictures only capture one second of a persons life. He's an actor he has to front for the cameras y'all rather him milk the dead mother card to his fans ? Or make the best outta a bad situation

  • DroneRivers

    For all we know that may have been the only time he smiled all day! A picture is literally just a moment in time. A second of your life that is captured. Let that young man grieve in peace.

  • MsJC

    Some people like to work to avoid thinking about the death of a loved one. Everyone mourns different, and should not be judged because they smile after a loved one passed.

  • n1kk1a

    I feel so bad for all of her children. They could be in shock. Everyone does grieve differently. His going back to work might help him whereas someone else would hole up in a dark room for weeks. But another thing that makes me wonder is if she had nannies for them and how much time they actually spent with her. I would hate to think that she was a stranger to them.....either way I hope they will all be okay.

  • Renee26

    I swear.... I cried in the shower every morning before getting dressed to go to work for over a month after losing a loved one

  • Renee26

    Leave that man alone stupid internet trolls!! Maybe he's smiling cause he knows his momma loved him and would not want him to stop living his life. He can grieve in his own way just like anybody else

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Some of these shallow, empty people need to get a life, instead of judging this man for how he chooses to grieve for his own mother. People can be so ridiculous sometimes.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Exactly. If he had his head down look all sad, people would say he was trying to milk the situation for sympathy. He's smiling and they're saying he's looking too happy so soon after his mom's death. Just shows that you cant please people... so you just have to live your life and not worry too much about outsiders' opinions.

  • OvertheMississippi

    She is gone and not coming back. No length of time will change this tragedy. There is no need for those kids not continue to live their lives as “normal” and soon as possible. I went right back to work after Dad, Mom, and Big Bro. They would not have had it any other way. I am sure Kim approves!!

  • Mona Lisa

    Who are these folks to tell someone how to grieve? I swear black folks expect you to be falling all out and jumping into caskets when a loved one dies. When my mother died, I honestly didn’t shed a tear at the funeral because it didn’t hit me until months later, but my folks were calling me black hearted and cold behind my back. I mean it’s a damn shame that I am expected to put on a performance to prove to the masses my pain. Everyone grieves differently, folks don’t have a clue what this young man is going through behind closed doors.

  • disqus_vTNhfrtBCE

    Leave Quincy and his family alone. This is for those that have so much to say. Are you the grieving police ?????

  • TriniHarlem

    That pic is not even his real genuine smile. You know what I can't enjoy y'all weekend. Goodnight and god bless thank y'all for coming out. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/197b84d8e41fc3f10d321b98206d00af2765f7d6aa4d487908124856e361fbb8.gif

  • Mister Fantastic

    People are using free wifi, habitation is in squander, dead broke, living in MISERY, and have the jackassed mind to comment on someone else's life....

  • Scorpio

    Actually going back to work sometimes helps in the grieving, allowing you to not keep your mind dwelling in the grief. It allows you to start moving forward. He probably needs the distraction.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Just because folks dont see them dont mean they are not there.

    So take a good look at my face
    You know my smile looks out of place
    If you look closer it's easy to trace
    The tracks of my tears

    ~ Young cat out of Detroit named Smokey Robinson.

    Stay up Quincy.

  • Rayne

    I’d throw myself in work too. You don’t know what’s on a persons mind.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    My mom passed in April. I took 3/4 full days off. I had to get up and go to work or I was NEVER going to get out of my bed. Went to work, came home got in the bed and cried myself to sleep every dam day for over a month. Let people grieve/cope the way they NEEED to.

  • FukkFolks2018

    *My dad passed on a Friday. I went back to work on Tuesday. Not bc I needed the money. I needed the activity.

  • Malcom Flex

    I'm with Sandra that's his MOTHER it's like BW aren't given enough honor when they pass it's life as usual and YEH I KNOW PEOPLE GRIEVE DIFFERENTLY

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Mufuggas need to get a life... FOLK DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WERE PREPARED FOR.. THEY MAY HAVE GREIVED for and with her before she passed.. WHAT'S UNDERSTOOD MAY NOT BE OWED AN EXPLANATION...

  • Shira Harding-James

    Doesn’t matter if he is at home or work
    I’m looking in his eyes...he’s still grieving.

    Working could be therapeutic, keeping his minds off of things, giving him peace, can’t criticize that.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Folks just dont know man. It was Feb for us. It was cold as heck Feb 2017. And if I had stayed in this house I would have gone mad. Bf was upset bc I went and finally he just relented. He was like if you dont make it through the day call me and I will come get you. But I went every single day. Used my other days prior and after the service. Even my boss and colleagues tried to send me home.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Leave him the hell alone and Do You!!!

  • gellie

    I wasn't working when my mom passed 5 years ago. I wish I had a job to go to at the time. When I tell you I would go for DAYS without hardly getting out of bed...I had to force myself to eat, wash my ass (just being honest)...you need something to keep you going. For about 6 months, I didn't have much.

  • Chicagowise

    People need to mind their own business and stop projecting their needs on to others.

    Maybe he's putting on a brave face. Maybe they weren't close. Either way, it's none of their business.

  • Mielle Downey

    Man people are Thick. Just because his mother dies it doesn't mean he is dead. He is an entertainer and is going on with his life making his living. People grieve differently. social media is really out to lunch. get out of people business and get a life

  • IAINTMADATCHA

    Social media dictating time periods for grieving now. FOH

  • the guest

    Hollywood is a different mindset and moral.

    His going back to work is not the issue.

    The WAY he is presenting going back to work is a bit odd.

    I personally don't believe Kim Porter's death was untimely or a surprise to her family and close friends. I also don't believe she died from untreated cold, flu, pneumonia.

    Her funeral symbolized how money and power driven that world is. Diddy was the center of her funeral. In that world the most love, respect, honor, care, grief, reverence is given to the one with the money and power. Kim was a devoted mother and caregiver of her children but it is Diddy who is worshiped by the children.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Smh ?????. People, people, people. Do you Quincy!

  • freelancepimp .

    Man if yall didn't talk about what some people on the internet think yall wouldn't have nothing to talk about.

  • Soon2BWife

    She would have wanted them to do what they are doing. We don’t know the tears that they cry into their pillows at night but the Universal God does and I hope they continue to be strengthened. I am happy they are able to function! To be absent from the body.....

  • the guest

    Amen.

  • Tee-Tee RN

    My baby brother died this June he was a policeman. I went back to work 2 days after his funeral. I am still crying here and there. However staying the house questioning, wondering why etc.... Won't bring him back nor will it bring his mother back. Because he's back at work doesn't mean he's not grieving, it may be therapeutic for it, not to say when he gets in his car he doesn't breakdown.

  • Faithz

    Sorry for your lost, may He rest in Peace.

  • mzwhang90210

    When my mother suddenly died unexpectedly, I was in DEEP shock. I took a leave of absence from work for 3 months-- during which time I just sat at the edge of the bed everyday and stared into space. I barely ventured outside, but I had to leave the house to go to therapy twice weekly. When I'd be out --if I so much as saw other people smiling or laughing, I had to fight the very real urge to go up & punch them in the face. I thought "How dare THEY be happy when MY friggin MOTHER IS DEAD??!" I tell ya I almost lost my sanity. *shrug* But everybody grieves differently. Maybe Quincy uses work as a distraction?
    Besides, when you look closely at his face, that's one of the saddest "happy" expressions that I've ever seen. We don't know what Quincy does in private... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/92f268f16973d8db3b4f94e7c32e8bf1895f6589b7ebf08a791fa838a8724c8c.gif

  • MsPam

    I’m sorry about your loss of your baby brother. Praying for you and your family. ??

  • smartchickfl

    So sorry for your loss.

  • MistaO

    Because they know she probably had substance issues.

  • Faithz

    The Love he has for his Mama will endure for Eternity! He can do what pleases him because you can please some of the people some of the time, but can't please others no matter what you do, so Do You Young Man.

  • MsPam

    Prayers to you for the loss of your father.

  • DroneRivers

    I'm sorry for your loss and hope you're doing much better! And you're right; you can look at his face and see the smile is kinda forced.

  • Wyteprivilege

    I’m not the grief police. He’s back at work, being productive, doing what he enjoys, and he’s not hurting anyone. In fact, I admire him for not pulling a Kanye by exploiting his mom’s death and using it as an overused excuse to be destructive.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Im so sorry Whang. I get this too man.

    And I missed you *hugs yo neck tight*

  • FukkFolks2018

    Thanks.

  • Elevated Soul

    Black folks need to mind their own business.First off what make these people feel he is already over his mother's death?

    Also, Perhaps he's working to focus on something else besides her death. Everyone deals with this kind of situation in various ways.

  • luVn_liFe…

    my moms passed away right after thanksgiving on a Saturday I believe. I went back to work Monday.. and was drinking vodka and ojs on my way there and tequilla at night for almost 4 months.
    I was trying to get on with life and numb myself. suffice to say 7 years later every hint of fall I shiver and cry in the shower for the next three months,
    It still hurts like yesterday.. but life HAS to go on.
    as a matter of fact Im sitting outside ALONE having a drank thinkin bout my mother dearest

  • mzwhang90210
  • TMW

    I had the 3 closest people to me in my life die in a 18 month span - my husband, my aunt that was like a mother and my mother. I took 2 weeks off when my husband died, ended up with appendicitis when my aunt died 8 months later and was out for 6 weeks recovering from surgery - my boss forced me. When my mom died 11 months after her sister, my boss forced me out for a month.

    I was ready to go back to work. Having too much time to think is not a good thing sometimes.

  • luVn_liFe…

    WHANG!!! AND DUBB!!! smooches,kisses and farts to ya'll!!!

  • luVn_liFe…

    dubb :kiss:

  • Gail

    I don't see anything wrong with him going back to work. I think it is disrespectful for him to be jubilant about it on social media. ALL CAPS? To me it just shows that even the death of their own mother doesn't mute their narcissistic need for attention.

  • smartchickfl

    What bothers me most is that these fools are involving those twins. They should be totally off limits.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Thanks. He was creamated but we put his ashes at the foot of his mothers grave. My uncle asked us to do it. He wanted them together. Said when he goes put him there too. My sister and my cousin (unc daughter) was like granny dont want to be bothered with those fools in the afterlife. They gonna get on her nerves lol.

  • Harley

    People have the nerve to tell people how to grieve. Most of us who lost a parent don’t want to sit at home alone and sulk and fall into depression. Who cares what other people think. He has a right to work, heal and grieve as he needs to.

  • Harley

    Exactly!

  • Gail

    Still, a little humility and respect is in order. But, they can't help themselves.

  • mzwhang90210

    You had me until ya farted.....nasty strumpet! LMAO...LUVnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/7c4e319ac4d688ef952fd5dab84af8e3cab22d9aedd2f87a4f77862f33197f69.gif

  • Harley

    So true!

  • FukkFolks2018

    Awe man. This is so sad TMW. Im so sorry.

    But yes I didnt need or want that time. Im kinda private in my grief.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Luvie!!!! Hey girl HEY *hugs ya too*

  • Tina Smith

    My father died or any parent and you get 5 days grievance and then I went back to work. You can't sit in the house and grieve, life moves on. I'm sure he has his good and bad days. My dad died 22 years ago and I still think about it from time to time. He seemed very close with his mother and I'm sure he misses her.

  • Prettybrowneyes

    I know I'm coming from a different angle...his family has plenty of money and this scenario doesn't apply here. But many employers including mine give you 3 (three) paid days bereavement. If you have the time you can ask for a LOA but if not you have to clock back in on day 4. Messed up for people that need more time to process what happened. Hope he's just getting back into things as part of his grieving process. Only he knows.

  • FukkFolks2018

    *hugs ya* It never goes away but yes they wouldnt want us here sad. I just refuse to believe that.

  • mzwhang90210
  • PhillyFacts

    “An idle mind is devil's workshop”; some people need to keep busy or else they’d lose their darn mind. I saw it happen to my aunt, and a great-cousin after two of her sons were killed here in West Philly. Social Media is Satan it’s just too much....

  • FukkFolks2018

    So nice to see yall. Happy Holidays!

  • luVn_liFe…

    lolllol it was the SO Excited FART. hahahaha

  • mzwhang90210

    I feel ya. Every year around the time my mom died, I get so so sad. It took me a year just to believe she was gone.

  • Malcom Flex

    AGREED.

  • mzwhang90210

    3 DAYS????? wow.

  • luVn_liFe…

    whaddayagonnaDO.. life aint easy and Favor aint FAIR!

  • T3

    People make me fawking sick! Wtf do they want him to do?!?!?! Everybody is different. Perhaps he needs to stay busy. People need to learn to shut the fawk up!

  • lovelygamour

    look at his face. that is the face of a hurt sad person. he has obviously been crying.

    i think kim wanted to be important. i think she wouldve wanted for quincy to keep his job and to keep acting. he is more then likely honoring her by going to work.

    when my mother died i cried for a week and a half straight. its something that he is able to go to a set after all of this. however, was it sudden. kim looked a little ill to me for years. like a bad diet.

  • mzwhang90210

    Awww Dub...I'm soo sorry. I remember your stories about him were always so funny. RIP Pappa Dub.

  • Gail

    So, let's say your best friend dies, and at the funeral you see her husband cheesin' in another woman's face. You wouldn't react to that? It's not your business....nuff said.

  • Faithz

    Was the twins at their Mama Funeral ?

  • mzwhang90210

    So sorry TMW. I can't even imagine. Hope that you're doing better.

  • Fire & Ice

    If you look at the second pic you can tell he's sad. His mom died two weeks ago, he can't sit around the house forever. We don't know what his contractual obligations are. plus keeping busy helps a lot.

  • mzwhang90210

    Srry about your brother. God bless you!

  • Ebony Starr

    Maybe SECOND DAY BACK @ WORK won't be so GREAT. Let the you man have one GREAT DAY.

  • mzwhang90210
  • DroneRivers

    Sorry for your loss Dub. May he RIP.

  • lovelygamour

    the nanny thought ran through my mind. the kids with puff a great deal of the time.

  • blue skies

    believe me there is pain behind that smile...ik cz I lost my mom in 2017...I'm learning 2 put up a great front....I'm so heartbroken w/o her...yet I smile

  • Indies beauty

    I want to be there for him lol

  • ???TheRider???

    I live in CA & we only get 3 days. 5 if you have to go out of state.

  • Faithz

    Your Family make me think about mind, and to add to that you are one of the Realest people on here, hands down!!!!

  • Renee26

    Get in line behind me! ?

  • ALLMINE?

    People cope with shit differently..

  • missmiami305

    Lovely photo. The kid is glowing. He’s covered and is good. Folks do too much! His mom lives through him and wouldn’t want him laid up somewhere depressed.

  • Cricket404

    Good for him.

  • Renee26

    Hugs ? sorry to hear that

  • lovelygamour

    "People need to mind their own business and stop projecting their needs on to others."

    the projecting is strong. so many of these blog post have readers that substitute themselves for the main characters. that is no way to live after the age of 25.

  • Marlika

    I hate when A-Holes try to dictate how someone should feel. I went through that mess with my stupid arse aunties after my mom died.?????? I always tell people who have lost a parent to find their own way to heal. I struggled for years trying to figure out a way to cope. It’s not easy at all! Next year will be 18 years since my mother passed, Yet it feels yesterday at times.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Quincy is under a STRICT contract. In the entertainment industry life goes on or U will be replaced in a heartbeat.

  • Indies beauty

    Lol let me skip...

  • lovelygamour

    puff makes sure he wont be presented as a bum male. i think its important to him that everyone says he is a family man. he controls his familys narrative.

  • Reina1718

    No one knows how he feels when he is alone. Alot of people need distraction to keep moving instead of greiving, crying & feeling depressed.

  • cleopatra04

    Maybe he wants to stay busy. What's he supposed to do, curl up in the fetal position and cry all day and night? Maybe he knows that he mother would want him to get on with his life and continue to make her proud. Let Quincy be Quincy.

  • mzwhang90210

    Replaced and/or forgotten. Besides, he is also providing an example for his followers. To keep on keeping on. (dayum that's an old saying...lol.)

  • lovelygamour

    was cassie at the funeral. i thought i saw a glimpse but i couldnt be sure.

  • mzwhang90210

    Wow, I can't imagine losing ONE son..let alone two. So sad.

  • MrsHBC

    Sometimes getting back into a routine helps get a grieving person through the day. I won’t judge this young man.

  • lovelygamour

    this is why unions are important. people keep bashing unions but in union shops you get 5 days or more. even the entertainment industry tries to respect that.

  • lovelygamour

    some people will prolong your pain. i was a wreck when my mom passed. so many people tried to swoop in. it really hurt my process.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    ??
    Truly doubt Kim wants her kids in eternal mourning over her passing???

  • Dowoop

    We get 5 bereavement days and work then your ass need to be back in the office.

  • Xsjado

    His life. He is allowed to grieve however he wants.

  • the guest

    Beautiful.

  • friendofblog

    And who has determined is the right amount of time that needs to be taken. I should have stayed busy after losing my father because all that time taken to grieve sent me in a downward spiral of self destruction. Live, Quincy!

  • Li-Wright

    What does he do? Everybody grieves differently. He's probably still grieving but has to do something to distract him. I did that.

  • Nikki

    It’s their lives and they can do what is right for them. I don’t understand why people get mad when you do not act how they want you too. They are too invested in people who don’t even know they’re alive.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    People get so worked up over a pic. Let that man live. I'm sure his mom would want for him to continue his life has he was doing. One picture of him smiling carries no weight to how broken he is on the inside. People are so bored.

  • leapyearpisces

    Folks need to mind their business!!!!! Damn!!!! Plus, people so quick to judge that they don't pay attention to detail. Look at that picture, he may be smiling, but those eyes are very much grief stricken. His eyes are very sad. He doesn't even look like himself in that pic. Plus he has younger siblings he must be strong for, and be an example to.

  • Malcom Flex

    He put his biz out there on front street to let everybody in his biz!!

  • Malcom Flex

    Then, black folks need to STOP PUTTING THEIR BIZ ON FRONT STREET FOR THE WORLD TO SEE AND COMMENT ON!

  • Mmm…Okay

    I was just about to type that...process your loss in 5 days and be ready to work on the 6th.

  • leapyearpisces

    He did, so I will modify my statement, and say, why people always gotta be SO NEGATIVE all the time?

  • Malcom Flex

    The same reason why folks run to coddle and ride for rich celebs who wouldn't even spit on them: BECAUSE THEY WANT TO. LOL

  • Jethro

    "The internet" needs to get some business of their own to mind.

  • Miss Thang

    Do people expect this young man to be inconsolable nonstop for weeks?? He’s going to have emotional ups and downs like any normal human. I would be very worried if he couldn’t process his grief in a healthy manner.

  • Nita

    She was 46 when she died. Im tired of ppl trying to tell others how to live their life. Like ppl need to STFU sometimes and mind their business. Its getting ridiculous, ppl always got something to say, like worry about your own fucked up life.

  • Yui

    Thank you! A quiet moment! People just don’t get that at all.
    My family passed away back to back over a 5 year period and it’s not a day when I don’t miss them or cry.

    The internet is so silly at times, this is why anti-social media needs to cease. lol

  • the guest

    he controls his familys narrative.

    Exactly.

  • Yui

    Coz it makes them nervous that’s why. It’s called being weak minded.

  • B.Loveitt

    Some people throw themselves back into work, you have no idea what they go through when they're alone. After the funeral that's when everybody is gone, they're alone and that's not what they want to be. So everybody STFU!

  • PhillyFacts

    Yes Eric and Cordell were teens at the time, I was in high school it was a very sad time.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Life goes on! I'm sure his mother would want him to press on...not wallow in an endless trail of tears.

  • A D N

    Simply: everyone grieves differently.

  • joel adams

    She was on drugs.

  • Faux Gibbler

    This!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    No real mother does. You want your children to soar! Enjoy their lives!

  • Stacey J

    It's been two weeks...he went back to work and posted a picture of himself smiing...dag y'all give the boy a break...he's just trying to show everyone he's okay...

  • KLo

    its a shame you are on here telling lies after a person has died and let behind kids. you have no soul and one lowdown dirty mofo

  • TMW

    Thank you I am. It’s been almost 6 years since my husband, I still have moments, I allow myself 1 day to feel sorry for myself and then I keep it moving.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I never saw them.

  • TMW

    Me too. And it’s just one of those situations that you don’t know how bad it was until you can look BACK and see how bad it was. I was in bad shape for about 3 years - I only realized that about a year ago...

  • Tee-Tee RN

    Thank you

  • Solstice
  • Solstice

    ???? Exactly! And oftentimes it doesn’t hit you until after the funeral is over and all friends and family have left.…?

  • Solstice
  • Rhondalousey

    Condolences.

  • Stan4NoOne

    All people do is judge.

  • MsChocCookie

    Its good he returned to work.....we all grieve differently

  • Bashi22

    Beautiful young man i really want to see his offsprings once he start to procreate. Hope his genetic phenotype of his mother pass down to his generation.

  • Carrington

    People are sick as f@ck! Tell me we ain’t mad because we have a NEED ago see him sad. Tell me that.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    OMG this dude has contractual obligations. Clients will understand, but it's best he push through and not pull out of deals. The show must go on. In our dreary lives in corporate America, you gets 3 days bereavement. Now, if you have sick time, you might be able to squeeze a week. After that, your monkey behind is back o work.

    IDK if people expect different because he's "rich," but people, life truly goes on the second you're told a loved one died. It really does. I was glad to see he went back to work and had a smile on his face. Kim's death was a shock to us. I've said before that I'm not putting on a show for the public. Now, this sexy man might leave set and get to his hotel room and cry his eyes out. Who knows?

  • DontYouHearMeCallingU

    You’re so right. I just want to give him a hug!

  • Joy King

    When my Father passed away, I couldn’t work for months. Was super depressed. I got a puppy which was so healing to my soul. We all deal with grief differently. My puppy helped me and going back to work is probably helping Quincy deal with his sadness. I think in a lot of ways, staying busy is probably much healthier for him mentally, then becoming a prisoner to his pain.

  • therealashland

    Man these folks are insane. Quincy was crazy about his mom. Why people really believe this Illuminati bs. It’s been more than a week. Maybe he actually had a good relationship with his mom, and that’s why he is able to move on . Some of y’all evil ass satan worshippers grieve for ever cause y’all are haunt by the souls of those you mistreated.

  • Solstice

    I am very sorry for your loss. Blessings and comfort for you and yours. ???

  • geri anderson

    May you cant pass judgment on anybody! Everybody is individual and we're all different. We all grieve differently. I lost my mother 6 years ago October 12, 2012, 12 days before my 28th Birthday. However I can vividly remember smilling, talking, eating and dancing at Moms repass just as she will want me to do. Yeah...leave that young man alone. Specially if your talking but your Mother is still above ground. If she is, how Blessed you Are! At least Q is being productive and not drowning his pain with Alcohol or Drugs. Real Shit

  • Solstice

    I cannot imagine your hurt from the loss of your Mom. Blessings and comfort ???

  • Li-Wright

    OT: Did you see the video? https://nypost.com/2018/11/30/kareem-hunt-cut-by-chiefs-after-release-of-brutal-video/
    I'm not taking up for the brother but that was cruel of the Chiefs. There's always two sides to a story. This looks like a (drunk) woman and the NFLer had a Hookup and it went wrong.

  • Soon2BWife

    I can always spot that type at the fune.

  • Solstice

    I remember that. That was around the time I finally stopped lurking. He was ill but hanging on at first, if I remember correctly? I know it was hard for you. ? Luv ya sis! Hugs ???

  • Solstice

    Mannn. You are so very strong!! Blessings love!! ??? Wow!

  • Guest©

    Sorry for your loss.

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    ??

  • Solstice

    I agree!

  • ? ?ee?? the CELEBRITY ?

    Once you put hands on white Becky it’s over with. The extra kick at the end tho ???. Lawd

  • Solstice

    ???

  • Soon2BWife

    I work in H R and I have staff that returns to work before the funeral at times. They always say they need the normalcy otherwise they will go crazy at home and cry all day. We let people spread out the bereavement days also if they so choose. Grief has no rule book. I think he looks at peace and like he returned to work because his mom would have wanted to. He looks how little boys look when they run around i their super hero pjs and their mom tells them how strong and brave they are! Bless his heart.

  • ? ?ee?? the CELEBRITY ?

    I’m glad my opinions are so powerful and intriguing that Sandra would go to another blog, steal them, and then copy them onto her site. I don’t think you can do that. The commenters from the other site are in an uproar about it. She’ll probably delete this comment. But it’s the truth. ?

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/fcceeb89b5365693946f4605893293a0158606107c358a739d4b7f1e0b1e04f4.jpg

  • ? ?ee?? the CELEBRITY ?

    It’s a gossip site- where we tell lies and truth. Get off your high horse and stop chastising people for doing what they’re here for. Jerk

  • ? ?ee?? the CELEBRITY ?

    Many agree with you. Don’t mind these ignorant comments. They need to mindtheirbizness

  • FukkFolks2018

    Yes. Around this time in 2016, first week of Dec we got the call. He was in Charleston. Rough rough times. We have come far tho! We now have a tradition at Thanksgiving my mom still makes his plate, with all his faves, and it's my oldest nephew (31) to go plate. So we are making it. Hugs ya back?

  • FukkFolks2018

    Thanks.

  • FukkFolks2018

    ? thanks!

  • Solstice

    I’m happy to hear that!! In remembrance of your father! ???

  • KEKE

    He's doing what any mom would have wanted. Pursuing his passion and living his dreams.

  • Li-Wright

    I guess that's right. I still think she was probably drunk - maybe both of them - and this was a hookup gone wrong. Was he charged? Or was it dropped? this reminds me of Avenatti and his "escort service" gone wrong....LOL.

  • TDK

    Going through that now. My mom passed in May. Depression is definitely real

  • TDK

    Only idiots try and tell someone how they should grieve. Allow people to cope with loss the best way that they can. I totally shut down when my mom passed in May. I had to seek help for depression and haven’t been able to work. I pray for her kids, family and friends. ???? Also praying for the simpleminded people for are judging them.

  • Prettybrowneyes

    Unfortunately if you want more time you have to get a doctor to sign off on a Leave of Absence. And it's not paid for, unless you have time saved.

  • Malcom Flex

    She didn't steal she credited the blog now if she just used your words as hers that's stealing.

  • Malcom Flex

    Naw he was a whole dumb a@@. Doesn't matter if she was drunk the Ninja was high AF, too, and forgot about the cameras and treated Becky like her name was B'Aeeckay from Detroit. Black Males in the public eye can't be acting like out of control little girls laying hands on everybody. He was stupid, cocky and paid the correct price. This shows as I say all the time here WM PROTECT THEIR WOMEN.

  • Missy

    Quincy looks like his mom in the 1st pic. I still cant believe she's gone. RIP Ms Porter.

  • Coffee1st

    Boundaries mean nothing to our society anymore. Backing off, common decency and having some decorum is just not an option. Smh.
    This boy just lost the love of his life. It's obvious the bond he and Kim had. But she's gone. And he's decided to press on in what they BOTH worked to accomplish. Kim was his driving force in his endeavors for stardom. This could be a way he feels closer to her - because this was diverging they did TOGETHER. Maybe he's doing it to honor her. He's got to keep his mind occupied or hell probably end up engaging in some kind of self destructive behavior.....but hey, who cares, just as long as he's grieving the way WE think he should. TFOH ?
    It's some miserable azzed folks out here fr fr.

  • Missy

    Yes yess & yesss!

  • Coffee1st

    I never even thought of the fact that he's the oldest. Most definitely....thats a responsibility im sure he takes seriously. He can't be there for the rest if he's not in a good enough space himself....and maybe working is whats working for him.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    ????

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Right? She clearly stated a "commenter on rhymeswithsnitch". I wouldn't even waist anyone to know I wrote that bs.

  • ? ?ee?? the CELEBRITY ?

    They’re my words. It’s mine. They were stolen. PERIODT.

  • brooklyn23

    Agreed

  • Coffee1st

    Damn. Im so sorry....i cant imagine. I hope the days have gotten a little easier for you.
    Quincy? I honestly believe that boy falls apart at least once a day....probably when its quiet and he's by himself and the rest of the world is sleeping.

  • Cynthia Dawson

    No one knows how this youngman is feeling . People grieve in different ways, who here has the audacity to comment on how, and how long Quincy, should grieve?
    The bottom line let this youngman be great and look into your own lives sad people out here.

  • SummerBaby

    Sorry for your loss. :hugs:

  • SummerBaby

    Sorry for you loss too. :hugs:

  • Harley

    Exactly whoever wrote it has personal issues projecting their opinions about someone else grieving. Credit for being a judgemental idiot? But I guess consider the source ?????

  • Malcom Flex

    Oh, does that country-azz PERIODT mean I should be quiet LOL! SR credited the blog and provided a link that's not stealing. I'm been on the net since it was created and have seen many biters but SR isn't one. Too bad you're in your feels instead of being proud. Anyone can click over and see it's you.

  • Malcom Flex

    Some folks just wanna be upset SR credited the blog and provided a link. You want more shine create your own blog.

  • SummerBaby

    Sorry for your loss.

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    Why don’t you worry about yourself and not me hoe

  • ? ?ee?? the CELEBRITY ?

    And you upset cause I said what the hell I said and IDGAF

  • Chicagowise

    George HW Bush is dead at 94.

  • ? ?ee?? the CELEBRITY ?

    It must have not been shit when they quoting my ass across the internet. You jealous of me or something?

  • TMW

    I heard the 911 call - she was clearly intoxicated. Didn’t know his name.

  • pecancandy

    Beautiful assessment

  • Meghan McCain Obama

    so what?...you have an eye of Horus photo on AVI... which is worse news?

  • facingrealit1

    If we could grieve a person back to life I'd understand but we can't. And whether we participate or not life goes on. Kim was VERY PROUD of Quincy's career in both Music and Acting and would expect him to move forward. We should celebrate their ability to overcome her death but instead as usual you have people who feel it is their job to tell someone else how they are suppose to live. Most often they are the ones that don't have a damn thing going on in their life but a welfare check and housing.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    He was old as dirt but no way he was gonna live another year without the love of his life. It's so weird but I always remember this day cause it's the same day Paul Walker died.

  • Li-Wright

    OT: Can somebody give Regina Hall some love for winning TWO best actress awards: http://www.awardsdaily.com/2018/11/29/new-york-film-critics-announcing-winners-2/

  • Li-Wright

    So sad. I expected him to die after his wife.

  • facingrealit1

    It's called LIFE! And no amount of grief will bring her back. I'm proud of him for being able to live up to his obligations in spite of the hand he was dealt.

  • FukkFolks2018

    President Bush Elder done went to see Barb

    RIP

  • DroneRivers

    Not cruel of them at all. They knew of the video for months and were willing to look the other way. But once it surfaced on the internet they were quick to release him. It's just like with the Ray Rice video. Hearing about it was one thing, but SEEING it, that's a wrap! Yet a man is blackballed for kneeling...

  • Lindac

    The Bible says, let the dead bury the dead. Everyone grieves differently, he has come to term with his Mother's death and he is moving on. Doesn't mean he loves her any less, but by working it is getting him past his lost. Anyone got a problem with him, needs to go live THEIR best life.

  • SellieBaby

    I think she had an illness. You can never prepare for your mom’s death, but I was similar to this after my mom passed. I tried to prove that I could hold it all together, it only caused prolonged grief when I finally let it hit me

  • Cara

    Kim's children will never be the same. I'm sure all her kids are still crying daily over her death.They have to find the best possible way to keep living as she would want them to. Her sudden death and her age is just so sad all around.

  • Karmen

    Groupies & stars are a toxic mix! When will men learn to walk away from the easy chicks. It's not worth it.

  • FukkFolks2018

    She credited you. As "A commentor.

    Gave you quotes. Means it's pulled from somewhere.

    And provided the site name it came from. So cited a reference.

    No plagiarism happened here.

    Thanks for playing.

    *Drops my AP Stylebook and leaves...*

  • FukkFolks2018

    Sorry. She did no such thing

  • FukkFolks2018

    Bish. Do you know how much of MY shit from HERE ended up on other blogs?

    Build a bridge.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Bish die

  • FukkFolks2018

    You didn't say shit tho...

  • Vonn

    ???

  • Wyonda White

    When my mother died 4yrs ago I went back to work after 5 days.. I asked everyone to refrain from asking me how was doing, hugging me that kind of craziest. I needed some normalism a routine to quiet the sadness loss hurt and anger in my head you just try to put one foot in front of the other to pull you through .. Im sure that man is devastated .A mothers love is as good as unconditional gets when she is gone you know in your heart that love is gone forever

  • Malcom Flex

    You're a drama queen- nobody is upset but you. Get over it and go make your own blog. Sandra Rose is better than me, I'd have been blocked ya silly butt.

  • dontgetblocked

    Lord. Leave her children alone! Who could be so cruel? This holiday season and every holiday season for the rest of their lives ...will have some sadness due to her death. Please let them mourn in their own ways.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Wish she would go back to Mto someplace

  • FukkFolks2018

    Awe thanks yall

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  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Folks grieve how they grieve, leave this brokenhearted young man alone. Those kids were her joy.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    It was touching when he was shaking hands with mourners at her visitation. Rip

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Hugs

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Whang??????

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Lol

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Ditto

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    ? hugs

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    We luv? you.

  • TDK

    Thank you

  • Truth be told

    People grieve differently. Kim Porter's children do not owe strangers their remorse. A picture is a second. The very moment that a pic is snapped with them crying, it would be memorialized. I wish them strength during this difficult time.

  • NeverSurprised

    Social media is pure, unadulterated evil.

  • Faithz

    Exactly

  • Faithz

    Thanks

  • Faithz

    Nobody else did either.

  • Desi

    I lost my mom In 2008. I was 24. I was devastated, but I went back to work. The only way out of grief is through. Cry, weep, be devastated, but praise God, wipe your eyes and keep pushing forward. Everyone grieves differently.

  • Society Has Changed

    I really wish folks would mind their business...

  • Desi
  • Shanayeblanco38

    People is so damn weird . How are you gonna tell this man how to grieve and what he should or shouldn’t be doing. His mom gone now so how he gone eat ?

  • Evillene

    Who are these vile people? He buried his mother and he needs to know what some deranged stranger thinks about how he should grieve? He's not supposed to go back to work?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Leave people children alone ..... who is anyone to tell someone how to mourn ...... da fawk ????? Opinions are like azzholes we all have one ...... Cut thee shyt!!!!! ....... I wouldn't bit mo have anything on social damn media .... a haven for demons ..... Foh!!!! Much love to this handsome young man ...... you don't know what folks go through or how they cope..... smh https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4fa75652f50abf04d88d854ba9ff2efc1770b8d76992b50fa579d7023259128e.gif

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  • leapyearpisces

    I ain't stuntin' you Malcom....in my Whoopi Goldberg voice, I got THREE WORDS for you:
    "MEAN AND SURLY". LOL. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/005e127484b006b4df3daddce39aa7b9cea182f1381b1714c61a12405ed99447.png

  • leapyearpisces

    Girl, because you KNOW I STAY QUOTING YOU!!!! LOL, but I give credit....shid!!! You KNOW my favorite line, is.... "consider this stolen". LOLOLOLOL.

  • Marlika

    Yes it does! Once you break away from those people, you can start the healing.

  • KB

    He can grieve however he wants to grieve. Everyone handle things differently. Some people have nothing else better to do than to complain about how someone else is living their life.

  • Rita Batties

    People grieve differently when my sister passed away I was trying to be strong it hit me at a later time I didn't want it to be real I wanted it to be a dream many years later I loss my brother tragically and I can't get over it it's even harder we don't really know what he's feeling

  • Kimocha

    Working is how some people get thru their grief!... Plus Quincy and I share the same birthday so he's a Gemini.... and sometimes we could be laughing and 10-15 mins later crying... So just let the boy live!

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Fück the internet ?

  • Being bad is way more fun

    There is no right or wrong way to grieve and you cant tell people they are wrong if they choose one way or the other. Some people therapy is going back to work being around people and enjoying life but we never know what he does when he is all alone. Just as long as he lets it out at some point and dont hold it in he will be fine. I am more than happy to be their for him in any way shape of form he needs .Call me Quincy !!!!

  • suganspice68

    I think hewas waiting to be called home ,he missed and lovedhis wife so much

  • suganspice68

    I am sorry for your loss

  • Chipswife

    As someone who has lost a parent ( Dad) I will say people process grief differently. U never can say how u will feel until u actually go through the difficult pain of losing a parent or child. It didnt really hit me that my father was gone until about 2 yrs after his death. For the 1st year it didnt feel like he was dead more so it felt like oh he's not actually dead he just sick in the hospital or something. The denial of it all would not let face the fact that he was actually gone and not coming back. I was doing everything I could to keep busy so I wouldn't have to deal with his death. Let's just all pray for these kids instead if criticizing there every move

  • suganspice68

    I hope that its not true but i have been hearing that same thing for years;maybe it eventually took a toll on her heart

  • suganspice68

    Hugs

  • suganspice68

    Reaches out to give you an e hug

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Sorry for your loss

  • suganspice68

    Hugs! I can relate to your loss and pain of losing a mom. You will be okay

  • suganspice68

    My condolences to you! ?

  • Trucie bedford

    Ppl grieve in different ways. I think it's great he's keeping busy. No denying how much he loves his mom so I dont understand how this is a topic. It's a positive thing black ppl so please let the man and his family be. One of my RN coworkers preferred to work vs staying home after her husband of more than 30 years passed away. I saw how much keeping occupied helped her cope.

  • Ms Thang

    She said a lot of dumb sh!t.

  • Ms Thang

    So you really want credit for writing that stupid mess?

  • ALLMINE?

    He looks just like her. He used to be a spitting image of Al.b.

  • LeeSeeCee

    Off Topic:
    The former white female police officer that shot Botham Jean in his apartment was indicted on a murder charge in Dallas. They won't release what was presented to the grand jury other than stating that 300 pieces of evidence and interviews were provided. Question now is will they be able to secure a conviction or will they offer her a plea? Mr. Jean's parents are proving to be a force here and hopefully this will translate to this lady getting at least 20 years BEHIND bars.

  • Coy little wink

    What's the real story...were they involved

  • Mellsvoice

    Not only do people process grief differently bereavement days are not unlimited. Contractually he may be obligated to get back to work. Lastly he can smile if he chooses. I doubt Kim would want him to be sad forever. Grief comes on waves. I hope the joy he has in this moment continues to bring him comfort when the wave of grief comes

  • okiseethisthatdumbshit

    of course he went back to work cuz the illuminati say so

  • okiseethisthatdumbshit

    or life

  • Tlowe89

    Sometimes you need a distraction from your grief and work sometimes can be just that. Something to keep your mind busy

  • Vixen

    That smile looks forced. Any grown adult that has been through this can see right through that boy. Look at those eyes...I was 21 when my mom passed in front of me after wishing her a happy birthday and holding her hand and she turned 47 that day. Those next few days felt like hell as I contemplated killing myself because I felt I could not live without my mother..my best friend. I had to get out the house but let me tell you, I had to put on a face that showed I was ok but internally I was dying. This boy technically has no one. His "fathers" will continue to live their best life and tell him to man up he's an adult. Over grown men and there are a lot of them that do not help or allow their sons to show this type of pain..its considered weak. In all honesty he is on his own. After a week no family member really cares if your ok, they are going on with their lives and tell you, you will get passed it and that's a lie. These kids are told when you are out don't let no one see you hurt.

  • WhoKnew

    People grieve differently and sometimes you need to keep your mind off of your grief (which can be a good thing and a bad thing). Take a lesson from Kanye as far as holding grief in and then going batshit bonkers.

    I heard a story (probably not true) that Kim's kids, including the twins had a very strained relationship with her and that it was due to her over-the-top drug use. One commenter went as far to say that they (the kids) would have rather seen her dead than continue to go through self-destruction, which they ultimately knew would lead to her death. Then another conspiracist said those kids probably all over social media because they're happy they're going to be getting hefty insurance payments and are happy to have their own money coming that doesn't come from the Puffy the dictator. If her death was drug related her insurance might not pay out. I'm just reposting some comments I came across while reading some stories on another site. But if true, that's interesting. I think the girls were at the funeral but I wonder why there were no pics of them at the funeral.

    I still have my mother (bless her spoiled soul). She's so spoiled. So I can't imagine anyone not feeling some form of grief and loss over their mother's passing including these kids.

  • TDK

    Thank you.

  • ?? Kari ?????????

    Let him grieve in his own way.

  • Maxx

    People are really becoming ignorant & super annoying in today's internet thugging world! This shit is crazy. How are you going to judge how someone handles THEIR MOM'S death...GTFOH & go KILL YOURSELF. He looks to me to just be trying to put on a brave front. More than likely for his other siblings since he is the oldest...damn y'all. Why you have to always think the most negative thing? Life must be really freakin boring for you.

  • Jarrad Williams

    Drugs? I don’t think that’s true. Kim unfortunately was nothing but a doormat for Puff. He didn’t really care for her like that. He just used her to have his children and he cheated on her multiple times, had a baby by another woman while he was with her and many other things. I honestly think Kim was a sacrifice. Notice how they always use the whole “she was sick or on drugs story” all the time on these celebrities. Bullshit. I’m not sure if Quincy knew about the sacrifice (most likely not) but Puff sure did. He’s Satan’s child.

  • Jarrad Williams

    Sorry, I meant to send this response to another commenter on here.

  • dontgetblocked

    I agree with what you said except the go kill yourself part. That's worse than the people making comments about Quincy. You need to stop saying that. If someone does kill themselves, you''ll live with that guilt for the rest of your life.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I only want my babies to hurt long enough to teach them The Life Lesson...not one moment longer.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    They may have felt that the girls were too young to handle it.

  • Moon Lee

    Nowadays we teach people to mourn by celebrating their life. I'm sure his mother helped him in his career process. I'm confident his mother would want him to move forward,and not be depressed. Wishing him the best....?

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  • Eileen

    Yes everyone grieves differently but this is way to different...I'm just saying..

  • Eileen

    bonkers and batsh-t got me LOL so true on kehyas part or whateva his name is....

  • Eileen

    The problem with all of this denial of grief and pain is that it has to come out and when it does...watch out i donnot want tobe in the crooshairs of someone's grief lashing out...remember Florida and dayum, dayum ,dayum!!! Yep thats what I'm talking bout!

  • Eileen

    AMEN it certainly is!

  • Eileen

    the entertainment industry dont care they just want their dollars...get back to work and cry later off the clock...smh

  • Ricklaw

    Um what sitting around the house is gonna but give u time to think n get more n more depressed it’s best to stay busy n keep ur mind off of things

  • FukkFolks2018

    This person just sounds deranged man

  • kenyaw

    Chile that young man has a whole Porter family that he’s close to. His grandfather, Kim’s dad literally retired and moved to LA last year to be near his grands. Puff adopted him and that’s his son. Al B is back in his life. Kim and Puff have a whole village that has been there to love on those kids and pour into them since they were born. They have an amazing network of family and extended family. Quincy is in good hands.

  • SmartAtheist

    Still it just looks weird like a lack of RESPECT, that's the problem. He ain't gotta go around all sullen, depressed, and on dugs but still this puts people off because it seems like a lack of respect, that's what it is.

  • Michelle

    Absolutely, he’s giving me narcissist teas.

  • Vixen

    Been there...done that...like I said he is on his own now. Shoot, growing up I had the exact environment. Family close as heck but things change when that one person that held that dynamic together is gone...so is that network of family. He is a show piece and that’s what he is. Al was not there and he’s in his life now as that boy is a young man. Like I said before..the men in his life will not be there for him mentally..which in this case is what he will need more. Men do not show pain which is a side of weakness to them. He will not be able to talk to them about what he’s going through. That’s what I mean about he’s on his own and that’s how he’s going to feel regardless and no one will be there for him like his mother was ( I’m not talking financial or as a kicking it homie).

  • Malai

    So you defending him against the people that’s shitting on the way he’s grieving his mom’s passing by telling THEM to kill themselves..

    that make tons of sense!

  • CookieMobster

    Go DAWGS

  • Phillybruh

    yall acting like yall get more than a week off for a parents death...unless you taking the rest of your personal leave. He got scenes to shoot they have a season too finish.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Pretty sure he was angry at her having sex with someone other than his dad....you women do know boys feel a type of way about that don’t ya....

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    What Bout Florida

  • country57

    My mother was killed by a drunk driver, she had 7 children. ages 21, 19, 17, 15, 14, 13, 12 We had what I call stunned grief, still not believing she was gone. So happy we were kept active and had family to keep us busy. Yes we did the same thing the Combs children are doing, We laughed, smiled and even managed to make a joke now and then. I welcomed it, because when I went to bed at night I would beg and beg God to please bring her back. The hurt I had can not be described. Took me a few weeks to fully accept that she's gone and never coming back. That was 1973, no drunk driving laws. The Combs kids are being what's normal for them. All of my siblings had there own way of grieving. Rest In Peace Mom, I love and miss you dearly.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Shut up clown.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    People are crazy. He’s coping the best way he can over the loss of his mom.

  • Scromes1212

    Same thing I was thinking. I don't think this had anything to do with grieving, think it was more about he had to get back to work before he was replaced with lil Romeo.

  • MJ

    Agree..some people isolate to grieve. Others need to get back to normalcy ASAP to move through the process. Insane to presume to know what someone is feeling or going through.

  • Keekz

    Stop giving attention to fake Twitter Judges.
    He went back to work. As do so many, after they're bereavement period ends. NEXT...

  • C Mack

    How about the lack of respect from all these ppl judging how he grieves? It’s his mom! We don’t know what they had going on.

    How many ppl do y’all know that try to mask their sadness with a smile? He needs compassion not criticism. Ppl are mad about him being all smiley but they’re cool with talking crap about him during what’s sure to be a hard time in his life

  • C Mack

    Florida Evans. Good Times lol

  • C Mack

    Sorry for your loss, but how exactly do you know that they’re going to tell him to “man up” and leave him all alone. You really think after all the times Puffy has emoted about Biggie’s death that he’s gonna just force his son to ignore his pain?

  • C Mack

    Yo I love your comments! I tend to agree with you lol

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    It’s sad that ppl want to see him crying sad depressed and strung out on a pic instead of him smiling. I’m glad he choosing to smile. Hell im proud of him. Maybe all of us can grasp that strength

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    He should have known not to hit her in a hotel cameras everywhere but when u drunk and mad u forget shyt

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    I hope it gets bettter for u

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    I’m sorry for your loss abs pray for healing

  • 70114

    People grieve differently.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    I don’t think we should be so quick to believe that story. Let’s wait for the autopsy report

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Sorry for your loss

  • Vixen

    Yes I do. We are talking about Black men. Puffy masked his pain with music and maybe talking with a female companion, his mom or female friend but not expressing how he feels to another man ( they feel this is a sign of weakness). Granted the only thing he will be able to talk about with them is the good times they had but as far as expressing his grief it will be with a woman ( puffy’s mother or close female friend just to name a few). Even if their exact words aren’t man up that’s what it will boil down too.

  • Vixen

    Thank you!

  • candy

    Lol at the lil Romeo part. ?

  • Diane

    He should stay home and cry all day everyday, that will make him feel better - NOT! work helps people take their mind off of things such as illnesses and death. Let him be.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Bama done gave me 2 heart attacks, a fainting episode, and a case of heartburn and the game still not over. Still. STILL

    Kicks TV https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/8f76dc96ddd6bcca10b2cd15b6e188de90ec02ec4ca37b1baf707e1b2e2ea020.gif

  • FukkFolks2018

    Oh and Roll Tide. Ha!

  • Maxx

    I agree. I was upset. I have edited my comment

  • Maxx

    I agree. I was upset and have edited my comment.

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    Smh u should be ashamed of yourself. Everything u said made sense besides telling people, who most likely doesn’t understand what Quincy is going through to kil themselves. I tell u people on the internet will say anything. All for upvotes.

  • Wayup!

    In my experience people that come back to work too soon after a tragedy always drain the energy out of everybody at the office...
    Number one they always talking about the tragedy with anybody who would listen.. be messing up at work blaming it on the death of their loved one...or really nasty to people at work blaming it on that ....my whole thing is stay home until you're ready to deal with People... And that people are ready to deal with you....

  • SellieBaby

    After my mom passed her brothers said not reach out. No one has called me or my brother or grandmother since the week of her death, but I also am not rich so it may be different

  • Solstice

    So terribly sorry for your loss. How awful!! May peace with you and your family. ???

  • Solstice

    Ironic huh…smh ?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    All of this ....

  • Malai

    That’s ok dear.. I’ll delete my comment

  • Solstice

    Sent you an email ??????

  • Dee Anderson

    People grieve differently leave him ALONE! I keep myself busy during times like this so that I won’t sit at home and cry. His mom would want him to live his life I’m sure. Leave him alone and let him grieve the way he wants. Y’all are so disgusting and disrespectful. Not to mention NEGATIVE! Praying for you Q ?????? May Kim Rest in Heaven.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Didn't get it .... my email still da same but I won't post it on here .... sorry bew for safety reasons

  • jujumanji

    He's an actor maybe he needs this to help him grieve. To be someone else for awhile and let out his emotions that way. Plus he has a contract so he has no choice. Like all of us with a 9-5 job they give u a couple days off then expect u to be back in there at your desk doing your job. It's no real difference with him.

  • Solstice

    Lol chile, I know. I’ll resend. ?

  • Dun Dilly

    "LIFE GOES ON for the living"

  • country57

    Thank you

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I got it .. and replied ... I will be in touch .... got ya ... you will see what I mean in the email

  • Harley

    Lack or respect? Because he’s not showing you his grief? Y’all really weird and have deep seeded issues now days

  • Harley

    How is it different? People go to work after a death! People post on social media after a death. And people CHOOSE to post what they want on social media which is why so many people think these “influencers” are living it up when they are not

  • Ni Ni

    If that boy ain't the spitting image of his daddy...very handsome?.

    Sitting at home idle will only lead to depression and guilt. Work will help him stay focused & keep him moving forward.

    Oan...Sandra, can we get a 50 cent post?

  • Ni Ni

    I'm glad i haven't encountered those types. When i had my latest tragedy, i sent a text to one person in the office that i was somewhat close to (not my boss). I told her what happened and told her to tell the others not to ask me anything about it. I was off about two days and came back to work, although quieter than usual, but work gave my mind a break, in a sense.

  • trisha hunter

    He is one good-looking young man! 4Realz. He can get on Social Media any time he wants too. Lol

  • Coffee1st

    ????

  • understandingoverignorance

    These trolls need to understand that grief is not handled in the same way by everyone. We all have quiet moments and I know its rough as f××k for this young man so these idiots should mine there own business. Be strong that is all we should be saying.

  • Miss Thang

    Playing is the main way kids process their feelings. That why such a thing called “play therapy” exists. Kids don’t have the same communication skills as adults but they are still processing through their shock, fear, and grief through playing.

  • No Love Lost

    Please don't project what your mother did, and how it made you feel on to others.

  • Dainese

    Again.. if the narrative doesnt work for you.. read a different damn book. Jesus Christ. He cant crawl into a hole and die. He grieved. He was off social media for 2 weeks. Let this boy live.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well my mom and dad was married years before I am born but I am speaking in what my friends from single parent home felt when different men running up in they moms

  • No Love Lost

    Lol Sure, whatever you say. Nonetheless, i'm sorry your mom put you through that.

  • Ci Sam

    The nerve of the internet trolls to tell someone how to grieve!!! I cant stand ppl sometimes

  • leapyearpisces

    If you think about it, it's sad, because it means they have nothing else of VALUE going on in their life to obsess on something so miniscule.

  • the guest

    It is TRUE. Every single word of it.

    Kim self medicated to endure life loving, depending on, and being used by a man that did not love her back the way she desired and should have been loved.

    In domestic abuse and domestic violence families, the children often side with the parent in power because they don't want to associate with being a victim.

    Kim was in an emotionally and economically abusive relationship. She stayed for the security, but she stayed because she actually loved Diddy and he used her as long as she let him. Her children grew up watching their mother pining and their father in long term relationships with other women and still dropping in. Kim's moods were certainly dictated by the presence and absence of Diddy's affections. Drugs filled up his absences and his wealth was a band aid.

    Kim's children were raised in her predicament dependent on a lifestyle prioritized above her health, happiness, and well being.

    ****

    @disqus_k0D0zgzQck:disqus wrote:

    I heard a story (probably not true) that Kim's kids, including the twins had a very strained relationship with her and that it was due to her over-the-top drug use. One commenter went as far to say that they (the kids) would have rather seen her dead than continue to go through self-destruction, which they ultimately knew would lead to her death. Then another conspiracist said those kids probably all over social media because they're happy they're going to be getting hefty insurance payments and are happy to have their own money coming that doesn't come from the Puffy the dictator. If her death was drug related her insurance might not pay out. I'm just reposting some comments I came across while reading some stories on another site. But if true, that's interesting. I think the girls were at the funeral but I wonder why there were no pics of them at the funeral.

  • Yetunde

    I don’t know why people are so invested in telling others how to feel their own feelings. Do people want him to be sad for the rest of his life? Is he not allowed to get on with the rest of his life? On the other hand, if he didn’t cheer up quickly enough, people would be telling him to get over it.

  • Lady_Elle

    He is likely going back too soon... he will none the less go thru The five stages, denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance of grief.

    I pray that the children receive grief counseling if needed.

    He needs to continue his life... that is likely what his mother would've wanted!

  • Lady_Elle

    I agree!

  • Faithz

    Exactly!!!!

  • MistaO

    Says the person with...Twitter, ig, fb, snapchat, black people meet, tinder and even Myspace ?

  • CookieMobster

    Maybe that is his way of dealing, going back to work to get his mind off of everything. People kill me. That boy lost his momma. Let him live and do him.

  • NeverSurprised

    I am not on a single social media platform. NOT ONE. That leaves plenty of room on them for empty headed dolts like you who speak without an ounce of knowledge to support your claims.

  • TMW

    Some truth here. I haven’t spoken to my brother since my mom passed in 2015. Take that back - spoken to him twice. And I had a great grief counselor - I hope he finds one.

  • the guest

    Beautifully said.

  • the guest

    He does look just like his mother with his father’s complexion. All of his features and his slim fit build are his mother.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    But if you don't want people to judge you keep your feelings and opinions off social media and with your loved ones.

  • Roxie Moxie

    Right. I have coworkers who've had people pass in their family and they are back to work as soon as their bereavement is over. So, we are alllll different in that respect.

  • CaramelDream

    OMG the day after my grandmother died I went to school and it was on a saturday (snow makeup day). I didn't want to be in the house with a bunch of people crying all day.

  • Crazy tee

    For me losing love ones have me (moving, moving,moving) until I go to bed at night...Staying still tears my heart in half...So I understand why the kids are continuing on....everyone grieves differently

  • Harley

    I doubt he cares if people judge. He didn’t respond nor make this post. He’s posting his life and memories and not “clapping back” as some of these lame “so called celebs do”.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    We are cruel people. Dude took the pic down off his IG. Wow the comments must have been pretty bad. Folks must not have a life cuz things don't stop all cuz your mother or other family member passed away.

    I was in a job interview the day after my youngest sister passed. It was business that was already in motion. Sure, the company would understand, but is it worth it? No. Before the interview, I was grieving. After I walked out of the interview, I started back to grieving. While sitting in the interview, I grieved. For the rest of Q's life, he will grieve his mom's death.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Wow, it's really amazing how people perceive things! Grieving varies, and for this kind lost, a parent, a mom, insensitive remarks are so unwarranted for her children! Some people don't want PITY!

    Sometimes a person has to be strong for their siblings, and must grieve at a later date, Ok! Work can be a great distraction from grief and tragedy!

    The enormity of a sudden death can hit a person much later, and we don't know how this man is really feeling about his lost! I don't think MONEY is an issue with Quincy, he does work!

    God will give you a peace that surpasses ALL understanding! And, often that loved one's Spirit will be with you, fill you, comfort you, and you feel it so strongly!

    Then some people are inconsolable, lose weight, can't sleep, function, self-medicate, sabotage, grieve for years, become bitter, and their heartbreak is written all over their face!

  • softness1

    The fans need to shut tf up.. He has to do what he has to do to stay sane. Sometimes throwing yourself into work is a good thing. I know it's the only thing that kept me from going crazy when both of my parents died. I wanted to die.. The weekends were sooo long.. I had nothing but my thoughts and sorrow, The shit hurt some much it was like real physical pain..If people don't think he's not hurting they're buggin

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    I think it's so unfair how some people are! Just because it takes you a long while to grieve doesn't mean the next person is the same way! People aren't the same! We all have different views and opinions, We all have different truths and different morals! Variety is the spice of life! You don't have to accept the way her kids choose to grieve but you can respect it!

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    I guess they don't have bereavement days in Hollywood. My mom had 5 bereavement days and took a couple vacation days when my grandma died. Then again, my mom is salaried. Kim's death won't pay his salary...

  • Nita Keepdoinme Flanigan

    He still gotta work. I know it may be insensitive but he has contracts and deadlines and his mother's death I'm sure was not apart of those contracts.

  • Chocolate

    People grieve differently, especially some men. I’ve noticed they put more effort into moving forward when it’s a situation they have no control over. My teenage cousins just lost their mom, and when I asked how one was doing, he said just focusing on keeping my grades up and moving on.
    I initially thought that was cold but, I know he loved his mom so I can’t project my feminine emotions on a male, I can only respect how he grieves and be there if he needs me.

  • Prettybrowneyes

    Amen?

  • KenHay

    ??????

  • Sheila

    Thank you

  • http://www.sydnijoneswellington.com Sydni

    Exactly!

  • Mik mik

    This is probably a way for him to not think about it so much. With that being said, I would LOVE to be a cougar shoulder, for him to cry on ?

  • Jussjess25

    How is it to soon? That was his mother and his greive. How can someone tell others how to grieve?? Like thats disgusting.. people really think he didnt love his own mother. Wow

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly,! My older male cousin lost his mom a year ago and I havent seen him grieve yet. I asked his wife how he was doing and she said he seems down somtimes. People have their own process.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Hullo Somebody!

  • ?TheConversation?

    Everyone grieves differently. Maybe working constantly is how he avoids getting depressed.

    What I find funny is that these same people Call all celeberitries occult’s are the same ones who say that there’s only one god. Yet, by them categorizing all celebrities as “weirdos and occultists” it’s almost a form of worship. They follow celebs. They comment on celebs. Etc. that’s some stalker/worship ish.

  • Wakando Shamar Taylor

    Just because he back at work doesnt mean he not still grieving my sister died at 40 years old in August of this year I still think about her and have moments every day! But I still laugh and smile and live my life! Nothing wrong with what he doin

  • Wakando Shamar Taylor

    Just because u havent seen him grieve doesn't mean he hasnt done it privately

  • chelle

    People really need to stay in their lanes...my 24 year old son died in his sleep and let me tell you if I didn't have a job to go back to something to put my mind on besides the loss of my son I would not have made it. Don't speak on how someone else should act after loosing someone...her son and the twins were on a boat dancing and smiling and everyone was like it's so good to see them handling this, but they want to drag this boy for doing what he needed to do.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Sorry for your loss

  • http://batman-news.com MzTee

    Folks can really be silly AF. Everyone grieves differently. When my mother died, I didn't take off work at all. I used work as a diversion. Otherwise, I would have been a ball of depression because I would have been consumed with nothing but thoughts of her.

    However, folks choose to handle their grief is their business. No one has the right to tell another person how to grieve.

  • Chuck

    You people are sick & heartless AF! Allow these people to grieve the way they want to grieve & just stfu!

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Or maybe Puffy told them to get over it.
    I was told to get over my sister dying.
    I have had clients told to get over it.
    Ya know Puff is "allegedly" abusive. So, that "may" mean that they have never had the luxury of grieving.
    Put all the pieces together before speaking.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    Men will bury their grief and problems in their work. Periodt. Plus he has a job...US regla folks get anywhere from 3 days to a week of FMLA for funralz..unless you have some leave time yo azz besta show up at that clock on day 8! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/82023c74948c03c6f53089107b6124ad6eeea409d037399122db3bd0c5008403.gif

  • AListDiva29

    He's an actor, a whole entire million dollar production isn't going to stop for him! Time is money, and those people sound ridiculous! He's probably hurting and crying on the outside, but putting a smile on the outside to set an example for his younger siblings! It's disgusting to say those poor girls aren't hurting either, they have to move on with their lives too. Just because they aren't crying in public, doesn't mean they aren't in private!

  • Yardgirl

    He's an actor, a whole entire million dollar production isn't going to stop for him!
    ***************************************

    THIS!!!! ^^^^ 100%

  • MzKeriBabee

    Quincy is FINE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tis all....

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    Lord...some of these ppl need to chill

  • Boonella

    I mean......people need to mind their business.....

  • Jazzy

    Getting out of the house and going to work is therapy. Judge not.

  • blue skies

    thanks

  • blue skies

    ty

  • SpiceGirl

    First off...find you some business.....SECOND....folks tend to grieve differently then others......THIRD......What would they have him do....stay in the house and cry his eyes out until he couldn't cry anymore???

  • blue skies

    thanks

  • blue skies

    thanks?

  • blue skies

    ty

  • Sherie Gregg

    Sometimes it is best to keep busy. i know it was for me. If I didn't I would have been locked up in a mental ward for sure! I went back to work but before I did I asked my boss to tell everyone not to bring it up and no one did. It allowed me to think of other things which is needed.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    First off (HUGSSS) Whangdangdoodle...
    I know this pain also. Its hard to lose a mother. I lost both and the feeling of being alone is world shattering..but I am glad to know you soldiered on! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/3cd01ee9ba08e5052c98809dd182e243ba8b1b874f09052af3738f0cd154d17d.gif

  • LibgraScales

    Some folks just really need to shut the phuck up. Let Quincy be. Damn . .

  • Yoni7

    I just want to know from the fans that feel it is "too soon", WHEN do THEY suggest he goes back to work. SPECIFIC date and time, please. I'll wait.

  • Slim Goodie

    People are so dumb. You can not tell someone how to cope with grief. Having loss my mom at the age of 27, I literally tried to return to my normal life as soon as possible to avoid depression. The media can be a literal joke sometimes.

  • Candance

    That is so unfair!!!!!!! This young man has to live with this pain for the rest of his life and people are mad that he is having a good day! WTF???? He didn't die! He needs to learn how to continue life and if he is able to smile 5 days later let him live! Believe me he will shed many more tears for years to come when these stupid commenters will forget all about Kim he will still be grieving. A sons love for his mother never fades!!!!! My daddy still cried at the thought of his mommy at 78 years old. These comments are really disheartening!

  • Candance

    Its all the people that haven't lost their mom that have no idea how he could be feeling. I hate with people try to give advice about losing a parent. Ive lost both... let that boy live his best life!

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    People have no idea what it is to go back to life after losing your mom.
    Knock that sh*t off, all this judgement for nothing. Just cause they don't agree doesn't mean they need to lash out with their negativity.
    He is forever his mother's child and he may need to work to get through it. Quincy probably cries when no one is looking or talking to his mom in his mind each minute through his day.
    Let that baby alone.
    People are cruel as f^&k.

  • disqus_TrCUDzOzuG

    When my mom passed, I needed the distraction. Work kept my mind off of losing my mom a year after I lost my dad. Even now, 18 yrs later, I try not to think about it because it's too sad. People are so judgmental.

  • free

    if they look good and smiling, that means their support system is doing a helluva job in keeping them afloat. also, i think it's too soon to really hit. there will come a time where they will probably break down a little bit but it's not for our eyes to see.

  • TheWildChild

    He'll be fine. ? They all just came off vacation. Saw em on Ebonies IG stories. The whole crew was having a great time. It was good to see the girls smiling .

  • JENNYJONES1

    BY GOD'S GRACE FORTUNATELY YOU HAVEN'T LOST YOUR MOM SO YOU DON'T KNOW HOW YOU WOULD BE REACTING ESP IF YOU HAVE YOUNGER SIBLINGS THAT ARE LOOKING UP TO YOU TO BE THE EXAMPLE. HOW COULD YOU TELL THEM THAT MOMMY IS THEIR ANGEL AND WANTS THEM TO BE HAPPY IF YOU'RE ALL BROKE DOWN AND NOT LIVING. YOU HAVE NOOOOO IDEA HOW KIM RAISED THEM AND WHAT SHE TAUGHT THEM ABOUT DEATH. HE MAY NEED WORK TO KEEP FROM DYING HIMSELF. I LOST MY MAMA AND IT WAS HELL!!!! I HAD TO GET OUT OF THE HOUSE B/C BEING AT HM WAS JUST HORRIBLE AND ALL I DID WAS THINKING OF HER SO I TRIED TO RESUME BY NORMAL SCHEDULE WHICH WORKED FOR MONTHS EVEN A COUPLE OF YEARS THEN I JUST LOST IT AND HAD THE WORSE DEPRESSION.SO EVERYONE GRIEVES DIFFERENTLY AND YOU HAVE ZERO RIGHTS TO JUDGE THIS MAN...........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • Passion

    Maybe it’s better for him to keep busy, everyone grieves differently and it’s best to support them in that process.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Thats a fake ass smile his eyes are sad af and also what is he supposed to do? Would his staying-in his room crying bring her back? People are dense af

  • therealkym

    I just lost my dad and I went back to work after 1 week. It really helped me not to focus on things. I enjoyed being around people to help lift my spirits. That's really important when you are grieving. Besides, my father would want me to continue on with my life and work. He admired my work ethic. So, I applaud Quincy, much love to him.

  • ThottyPippen

    I lost my Dad the same weekend of our family reunion. I briefly attended but when I took pics I smiled. I didn't have to be in full blown tears for the cameras in order for my heart to be completely broken behind that obligatory smile. Then there were actual moments where I smiled and laughed for real. Grief comes in waves and thankfully you haven't experienced that type yet.

  • TheOwley

    He just lost his mom. For some getting back into their daily routine is a salvation. Kudos to him he's not even relying on his father's money like most of them do. People need to mind their own business.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    So sorry that happened for you that way. His smile is a sad one. On some blog I wrote asking 'who would take a sad face pic?' He smiled cuz it's a pic, not because he's happy. Sexy self.

  • Jussjess25

    Of course! Thats my point. People have their process and its personal to them.

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  • mzwhang90210

    Wutty Buttyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!! thank you!!! And I'm sorry for your loss as well.

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5c18633d7354f5532af25dbc323f07c8202a7ff791918349a6ab586c411a1a7b.gif

  • mzwhang90210

    Thank you!! And I agree.

  • mzwhang90210

    Thank you.

  • mzwhang90210

    It's been a few years, and the pain is dulled but it's still there. Thank you so much.

  • parisjok

    u can bet he is still getting a monthly amount for his living expenses from Diddy. he is not making the kind of cash to live in the style he is use to for sure. even long term black actors simply do not get paid that much

  • parisjok

    yes yes yes. I had to go back to work within a week also after my mom passed but I cried almost all day while working for some days and no one bothered me or expected me to act any differently.

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    I am so sorry about your mom (HUGS).
    People look at you because you're still standing that you're functioning, we barely are.
    I too had to go back to work two days after burying my brother and it hurt like hell. I wanted to say f it and be home with my emotions and let bills and stuff pile up, I didn't care about much after that.
    Loss is traumatic and not everyone is afforded the change to get therapy for it, so it becomes PTSD.
    The fact that quincy is well known and open to criticism people are using this to throw the sharpest stones at him. Leave him be.
    I still cry thinking about loss, sh*t,, your post about your mom got me crying. The mourning never stops, it just comes in spurts and strong folks never get to be weak, we get ignored and people hope we continue to be strong. :(

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    I am so sorry my love. Bless you.
    You're on my prayer list. <3

  • parisjok

    outstanding awesome come back from u. thanks for the hugs. yeah, nobody tells u about a lot of stuff in life and u only find out about it when it happens to u especially like your mom passing.

    I am truly surprised there is not a lot more of people just screaming and hollering and being mental in the streets from the pain that all of us eventually go thru.

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    Yes! I am surprised about that too! Loss breaks your heart literally. Some people even die from broken heart syndrome. It's hard to cope but we do. But it ain't easy.
    I think soon so much loss to come in this world, there will be people screaming and hollering in the streets.

  • TheOwley

    Yes, most likely but he's making an effort and that is what counts.

  • more

    Wonderfull said

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    I miss yew

  • Traci404

    Sometimes you have to STAY BUSY
    or the grief will consume you.

  • SummerBaby

    Hey!!

  • ladykushkilla

    The general public MAKES ME SICK. How can "society" determine what is or isn't too long to grieve your mother?? It's NO ONE'S place on social media to tell anyone how to grieve for their mother...a bunch of stew heads.

  • consioussista

    I went back to work when my mom, dad and brother died if you have not been there you have no idea keeping busy eases the pain