Dan Gasby and Alexandra Lerner

Fans of former model, restauranteur and lifestyle Guru B. Smith are enraged that her husband of 25 years, Dan Gasby, is openly flaunting his mistress, East Hampton socialite Alexandra Lerner, in public.

Smith, 69, was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2013. She announced her diagnosis in 2016 so her story would help raise awareness of the disease.

Gasby, 64, is a former executive producer for the Essence Awards and the senior vice president of marketing at Camelot Entertainment Sales, Inc.

Smith and Gasby are pictured above attending the Inaugural Ball hosted by BET Networks at Smithsonian Art Museum in Washington, DC, before she was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2013.

Smith was only the second Black model to grace the cover of Mademoiselle magazine. After she retired from modeling, Smith built her multi-million dollar empire, opening three successful restaurants and publishing several best-selling cookbooks.

Smith launched her own home goods products at Bed, Bath and Beyond, and she hosted a half-hour television show, B. Smith With Style. As she gained fame as a lifestyle specialist and TV personality, Gasby, who is her business partner, referred to Smith as "The Black Martha Stewart.”

In an exclusive PEOPLE interview published in January 2014, Gasby said his wife's diagnosis was "the toughest thing I've ever dealt with."

Gasby described himself as Smith's caregiver, telling told PEOPLE magazine, "Anybody who is an Alzheimer’s caregiver knows exactly what other caregivers are going through. It’s 24/7. The complexity and the intensity of it is very tough."

Gasby angered his Facebook followers after posting an image of his mistress with a caption describing her as his "life partner." Since then, Gasby has posted other photos of Lerner on social media, and he openly flaunts his new relationship at high society events -- even though he still lives with his mentally disabled wife.

In November 2014, Gasby reported Smith missing from their East Hampton home. She was found safe the next day in New York City near one of her former residences.

Many of Smith's fans accused Gasby of neglecting her while spending time with his mistress.

In December 2018, Gasby posted a photo of himself and Lerner on Facebook.com. He captioned the photo:

"To steal the title from 50 Cent & The Game.. 'Hate it or Love it!' You can debate, but for me I'm just feelin' great! Life's to [sic] short to ask for a rebate so I'm gonna surf thru life before it's toooo late!!!"

He posted another photo of himself and Lerner posted on Instagram.com before Christmas. He captioned that image, "Rocky Mountain High! Having a #coors in #beavercreekcolorado".

Gasby's followers have increased their attacks on his character in messages posted on all of his social media accounts. Others are grateful that he updates his pages frequently with photos of Smith, who suffers from seizures.

But one IG user accused his daughter of abusing Smith when the cameras are off. There is no evidence to prove elder abuse.

The concerned IG user writes:

"I was a caregiver to my nana w alzheimers....do not touch her face...dont rub her hair..... she is removing your hands for a reason.... yiu are posting videos to make her look crazy.....but exposing your own filty lowdown behaviour.......i hope Adult protective services gets involved."

 

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B and Dana take a time out!

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Normal day with B and the dogs

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  • Fire & Ice

    I remember the first time seeing B on TV, I thought that she was so beautiful, smart and sophisticated. My prayers are with her ?

  • Blak

    he actually moved that white whore into their house and she makes videos showing off right in front of her, living off of her money. He is disgusting

  • JENNYJONES1

    IF YOU'VE EVER TAKEN CARE OF SOMEONE WITH ALZHEIMERS (I HAVE A FEW TIMES) YOU'D KNOW WE SHOULDN'T JUDGE THIS MAN. THE DISEASE WILL SUCK THE LIFE OUT OF THE LOVE ONES OF THE PERSON WHO HAS THE DISEASE ALONG WITH THE ACTUAL PERSON. NOW IF HE WOULD'VE PUT HER IN A FACILITY OR DIVORCED HER B/C OF HER DIAGNOSIS EVERYONE WOULD'VE SAID HE WAS WRONG. HE'S TRYING TO STAND BY HER, HIS MARRIAGE THAT'S WAS SUCKED AWAY BY ALZHEIMERS AND HAVE SOME HAPPINESS IN HIS LIFE TOO B/C THAT DISEASE KILLS A PERSON WAY BEFORE THEY ARE DEAD.VERY SAD ALL AROUND FOR EVERYONE INVOLVED. BLESSINGS TO THEM ALL. .........JENNY JONES!!!

  • Chicagowise

    B. has a beautiful home. She is a lovely and talented woman. Alzheimer's is a horrible disease. It has afflicted two of my family members. If it ever knocks on my door, I'm going to take a long shower, put on my best suit, and overdose on fentanyl.

    Side note: I want to steal B. Smith's dogs!

  • KLo

    What's B's family saying about this? If he was broke that white woman would be calling the police and clutching her purse . They have 1 thing in common both have more wrinkles in their face then below the waist

  • Hazel

    This is so hard to watch. I remember going to B. Smith's first spot in Midtown for happy hour in 1987. It was the hangout spot for bankers on our way to grand central; one of the few spots that was almost exclusively for black professionals. I can't pass judgement on her husband, but a little discretion wouldn't hurt. Not sure if they have kids together, but given his behavior, probably not.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • http://myanimelist.net/profile/oryo ?????

    this man is a vile creature

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Not a good look on his part. So much for "Till death do us part", huh?

  • FukkFolks2019

    Fukk this man

  • Chicagowise

    Most people aren't built for that rollercoaster ride. They talk a good game, until they hit that first upside down loop.

  • ATL White Guy

    I can understand him needing companionship, but he should do that outside the home and discretely. If the side chick doesn't agree with that. Find one who will. And stay away from big events or go solo.

  • FukkFolks2019

    So this gives him the right to as our fellow poster Blak just posted:

    he actually moved that white whore into their house and she makes videos showing off right in front of her, living off of her money. He is disgusting

    Huh???? I'm tired of yall advocating blantant disrespect against black women.

  • TMW

    I was feeling some kind of way and couldn’t put it into words...so thank you for articulating my feelings for me.

    He’s an ass hat.

  • MsPam

    If he’s quoting 50 cent and The Game, he is a DEVIL! Don’t @ me The Devil comes in 31 favors!

  • Yup, I said it

    That woman has no soul or humanity to do mess like that. When his backside is sick that white woman is gonna move her trainer in and put his black tail in a home and live off his money. karma

  • Fire & Ice

    OMG I didn't know that! Probably got B thinking she's the nurse. Damn that's a special kind of evil.

  • Li-Wright

    He looks happy. He probably got her blessing to go and have an affair. He's still active, he needs to be with someone he likes. Smith doesn't have long for this life. And it's probably a great drain on husband.

  • Li-Wright

    No no no. Do it openly because the gossip is going to happen Anyway whether it's a secret or not. He's very smart to be open.

  • MsVAllDay

    I have mixed emotions. I watched my Aunt battle with this disease for years and I also watched the toll it took on her husband. Everyone needs a companion and she battled for so many years and she didn't know who any of us were from very early on which was hard to watch. It became obvious that he wanted to at least go out with other women and we really couldn't be mad. With that said, he didn't flaunt it in anyone's face and he kept it so discreet we don't even know who she is. If this man loves his wife respect and honor her and not put this all on social media. Most people understand that he has needs and wouldn't even judge, but be respectful of the person you took vows with.

  • TMW

    Being a caregiver for anyone with a terminal disease is HARD, and everyone is not cut out for that particular assignment.

    BUT, you do not further insult the dignity of the person - whether you feel they are aware or not - in any shape, form or fashion.

    He is being selfish, and I hope his ED med enabled penis falls off. And I pray he is never in the position to have to be taken care of - because karma is real.

  • Li-Wright

    No discretion. No explaining. Smith is dying, so why should he be miserable with her. He's found happiness with someone else and Smith has probably given her blessing. The worst would be if he divorced her....if he divorces her, watch the knives come out.

  • HotInCleveland

    Woooo chile! Where are her people?!

  • gellie

    Just a piece of garbage. Give your wife the dignity of least keeping your lice demon mistress in the shadows until she passes. Just awful.

  • 11pink123

    Wealthy people are very strange...?????

  • HotInCleveland

    That part! Do your dirt in the dark!

  • Li-Wright

    The worst indignity would be if he divorced her.

  • Nikki

    My mom was just diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and it is heartbreaking. My prayers go out to her and her family. However; that man....smh.

  • TMW

    She is not cognizant enough to give her blessing.

  • Nikki

    Amen

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Thank you for posting this, Sandra.

    He's a POS. His FB page is open to the public. When I first heard about this, I went to his page to do some research. I hate that he is continuing to benefit/profit from B. Smith's fame and celebrity. He takes this white bytch out to dinner with B.Smith and his friends, has her all through B.Smith's house. On his page, he told a story about him bringing the mistress on a couples date night (or whatever) and one of the friend's asking him who the white woman was. This cocksucker said that he told the friend he loved B. Smith but was in love with the white woman. Said she was the love of his life/soulmate.

    He claims B. Smith told him he could have a side piece. Perhaps she did. But, I bet you she didn't expect him to be this f.cking disrespectful about it. How can you sit in front of a woman that you claim to love and say you are in love with someone else. Idc if she doesn't know what is going on.

    I hate that this woman's illness is being exploited by this motherf.cker. And the fact that this yt bitch is being taken care of off of B. Smith's money. Smfh.

  • pecancandy

    What ever happened to tact and being discreet. If they are in that lady’s house, I hope she comes to herself one night and whip the ish out of them.

  • TMW

    How would that be an indignity to her more than an inconvenience for him? He’s living off HER money.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    That's the sad part. She doesn't have any children. He has a daughter, but he is legally her caregiver. I read (in a comment section) that he had a restraining order against some of her family members, but I haven't been able to verify that.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    The issue for me is the tactless way he is going about it. You shouldn't treat anyone the way he is treating her, but B. Smith has a legacy. She is the original Martha Stewart. A very classy beautiful woman. And this cocksucker can't even treat her with the respect and dignity she deserves. Like who would bring their mistress around?

  • Hazel

    He doesn't have to flaunt it on social media.

  • Anunnaki, in A twilight Zone

    I had an aunt who passed from this, she had been married to my uncle to the day she died, he always said that she was his soulmate, he died about 6 months after her, but he was not even ill. We just guess he died from a broken heart. ?

  • FukkFolks2019

    This! Bc my sisters not letting my husband move his white whore in and I don't even know who the President is. You either gonna sign my sister over to us or your brakes gonna stop working when you need them the most sir. Your Pick. Your call

  • Hazel

    That hurts my heart. I don't understand why B's 'friends' wouldn't hold him accountable. In Easthampton, image is everything. Smh.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Oh and all this "documenting" he does I think is to protect him from abuse/neglect claims. There are a couple of posts where he claims she fell out of the bed or whatever. In one post he said he had to physically hold her down to keep her from getting out of the bed or something. My heart breaks for this woman, because I truly believe, at a minimum, she is being taken advantage of.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Why is he still married then? I mean he is in love with this other woman and B. Smith is worth millions of dollars. He complains daily about how taxing this is on him. Why not leave and allow her family to hire trained/skilled caregivers to take care of her. Oh yeah, that's right...if he did that he couldn't continue to write books about how hard it is to be the "sole care-giver" to someone with Alzheimers.

  • Ni Ni

    What kind of old man quotes 50 cent immature behind....that's right, another immature man. He is a man with no shame. It would be too much like right to let her family take care of her...greedy bastid.

    There is a reporter who did a segment on himself because he put his wife in a home ( i don't remember her exact ailments, but believe Alzheimer's was on of them) and he went public with his new relationship. I'm guessing somebody might have blackmailed him, the reason he did the segment. It was maybe 20/20 or one of those type of shows. Men are a mess!

  • Jennifer

    How can he go from waking up to that GORGEOUS lady to that scarecrow? She's literally in her last days and is still BEAUTIFUL! Beyond that, he's bogus as hell for not waiting for her death before he flaunts his new bitch.

  • Dun Dilly

    Dude is 64! He's got to LIVE his best life to the end.

  • HotInCleveland

    Sad. He probably wasn’t sh*t when she was in her right mind and Alzheimers gave him the opportunity he needed to move like this in the open.

  • HotInCleveland

    Okkkkuuuuurrrrrr

  • Ni Ni

    With a rusty nail!

  • 11pink123

    I don’t even know who these ppl are. But this man is Selfish AF... Why promote publically to the world how you don’t honor your wedding vows??? Why not keep that to your self instead of making a mockery out of your self, your mistress and this woman’s legacy. The sad part is, he thinks he’s doing something good.

    Look at the title of his name “ThankYouDan”

    Too much pride, he came straight from hell.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    I’m sorry to hear honey. Be patient and don’t lose yourself and get burnt out. It’s ok to ask for or say you need help!
    ???

  • FukkFolks2019

    God bless yall hun

  • Dreamer

    “He’s very smart to be open.” More like very disrespectful.

  • 11pink123

    Well he need to get this lady a care giver and take him and his mistress and gtfo her house.

  • Nikki

    Thank you.

  • FukkFolks2019

    My sisters, especially the oldest...not playing. We are 11 almost 12 years apart. Her and little sis are 18 years apart. She like our mama. She has zero fux allocated. Stuff like this is WHY. She the one told my ex husband to finally gtfoh. Had been living as roommates for over a year. He wouldn't get ON someplace. Not sure to this DAY wtf she told him. His ass left the next WEEK tho???

  • WhoKnew

    This Frederick Douglas looking piece of shyt is going to get his karma in this lifetime.

    All the best to you Ms. Bea Smith and may the new year renew your mind and spirit to wholeness.

  • FukkFolks2019

    Idc if he was 34. He dirty and it's a special place in hell for him waiting

  • Nikki

    I’m not going to lie it’s hard, especially being an only child. But I have a great therapist and the comments here usually make me laugh. But today was too close to home. ??

  • HotInCleveland

    Good for her! Stuff can go ill with significant others real quick. It pays to have good family around you.

  • brooklyn23

    Lmao say again fam.
    Shit people period are strange

  • Myopinion4u

    Right! He can live his life however he chooses and I don’t think he would be flaunting it if his family didn’t know. His wife has Alzheimer’s and he’s still there for her so he is being a good husband but still living a full too.

  • Solstice

    This isn’t right. I don’t like these little videos they are posting and it doesn’t appear that Mrs. Smith likes it either. I would never record and post someone elderly or with her illness like that especially without her right mind to consent. And her husband is a piece of work. I am saddened for her. I wouldn’t dare attempt to disgrace a loved one like that. Blessings to her.…This disturbed me a bit, Roses? ?????

  • KcoolMuziq

    He was going to get exposed either way.

  • KcoolMuziq

    He's also very brave. He doesn't seem to care what anyone thinks about it either. He's living his BEST life!

  • brooklyn23

    Can the mistress skin complexion be dismissed. I'm wondering for some if that's the bigger factor? Anyway this is sad all the around. Life
    Men ain't shit and most really don't know the concept of better or worse. Legal marriage is overrated and for the ducks.

  • FukkFolks2019

    I want this lady fam to roll up on this fool.

  • more

    . This can't be the first time he showed his a** smh

  • Sunshine ///

    He used her success to elevate his dirty azz. In sickness and health was never his intention. I hope she lives longer than him to get her karma!

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Can u at least wait till I’m dead to do this? Geeze u still married dude

  • more

    She could have given him the ok long ago. There are some woman who don't think cheating his a big deal. The way he went about this, leads me to believe that this is not the first time...

  • FukkFolks2019

    Idgaf if she was purple. Same comment and feeling. He practically moved her in. Not ok. I'm not all for legal marriage and agree overrated. But this not ok if you are already in one. And after 25 years? Not cool

  • ALLMINE?

    U crazy lol

  • FukkFolks2019

    The worst indignity is he is public with a woman who is not his sick wife

  • Solstice

    Blessings to you and your mother! I am so very sorry. It’s very hard. My father suffered 2 massive strokes in one month. They say he has some onset dementia. It’s very difficult to watch. I said a prayer for comfort for you and yours Nikki ?????

  • more

    He been cheating. Her family is probably used to him being a cheating sloppy mess. They probably gave up on saying anything about it.....

  • Desi

    Cryptkeeper looking a** b**** with man hands. He is low down. Pure trash and she has no one to step in and help her

  • Soda

    His mistress shouldn't have even felt comfortable crossing the threshold into Ms. Smith's home, but then again, shame isn't in her DNA.

  • Solstice

    Exactly. Have some decency and discretion about it. ?

  • TMW

    It doesn’t matter. Even if she gave him her blessing, I cannot imagine she was OK with him moving the woman in her house and him spending her money on the woman. Most women who are ok with their men cheating are not Ok with it being done in such a way that they are down right disrespected.

    He is taking advantage of her advanced stage of Alzheimer’s - and he’s being a dog. Doesn’t matter what she gave consent for, he should be more respectful of her period.

  • FukkFolks2019

    Her ancestors took us to harvest spices they still refuse to use. No DNA shame.

  • Solstice

    Thank you! I think he’s going about this wrong way. Show a little respect.

  • imright

    SMH wats the hold up on a divorce ? HES CHEATING !! ?homegirl is not a “mistress” thats old asses whole gf !!! ?loser

  • ALLMINE?

    At least he's around trying to help her. Dam. Life ain't fair.. he coulda disappeared completely..

  • ALLMINE?

    At least he's around trying to help her. Dam. Life ain't fair.. he coulda disappeared completely..

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    RIght!! What about until death do us part they running round soeanding that lady money. You see he got the devil mask on he not trying to hide his intentions or his motives he doing it in plain sight

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    RIght!! What about until death do us part they running round soeanding that lady money. You see he got the devil mask on he not trying to hide his intentions or his motives he doing it in plain sight

  • imright
  • imright
  • Baaba Sanders

    Are there no children to stop this nonsense?

  • Baaba Sanders

    Are there no children to stop this nonsense?

  • Solstice

    Surprisingly Jen, this disrupted my soul a tad. Maybe because of my daddy’s 2 strokes in August and he now has some dementia. ? Chile If my momma or anybody else would try that BS, I might hurt someone. We’re in probate so perhaps it’s just too close to home.…?

  • Solstice

    Surprisingly Jen, this disrupted my soul a tad. Maybe because of my daddy’s 2 strokes in August and he now has some dementia. ? Chile If my momma or anybody else would try that BS, I might hurt someone. We’re in probate so perhaps it’s just too close to home.…?

  • TMW

    To me, he’s a coward. He’s running away from his responsibility to be loyal and respectful to his terminally ill wife, and using her disease as his excuse to “live his best life.” Nothing brave about that.

  • TMW

    To me, he’s a coward. He’s running away from his responsibility to be loyal and respectful to his terminally ill wife, and using her disease as his excuse to “live his best life.” Nothing brave about that.

  • Soda

    B Smith used to close her show saying, "Bye, Dan." Now he acts like he's doing her a favor. Basturd.

  • Soda

    B Smith used to close her show saying, "Bye, Dan." Now he acts like he's doing her a favor. Basturd.

  • Anunnaki, in A twilight Zone

    Do she, what u see wrong

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Same question I had! Did she not have any kids? I am noticing a trend in successful black women with empires not having any children tonpass it along to like Oprah who will care for her in her elder years and who will she pass her legacy down to?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I feel ya bew .... smh folks ain't shyt

  • Nikki

    Thank you. I’m sorry about your dad. You and your family are in my prayers as well. We will get through this. ??

    Being an adult sucks!!!!

  • Solstice

    Right?! Siblings, cousins, friends?! Just wrong to me.

  • KcoolMuziq

    If God forbid she passed away and he married this woman right away without anyone knowing he was seeing her all along. He would have been racked over the coals

  • Solstice

    Thank you ?? Yes. We will push through it! ????

  • TMW

    I don’t think so. She’s been sick for a long time. I think people would be ok with him marrying right away more than they are with him the way he’s going about this now. I’d probably be more ok if he had his own money and didn’t have this woman in the house with his wife. That is totally disrespectful.

  • Marlika

    Man this is sad all around...

    First she shouldn’t be videotaped or photographed. It’s no one business. I can see a pic once in a blue with a short update but this is too much.

    Second leave it to a nigga to find the ugliest or nastiest white woman on his arms just to say he has a “white woman”??????

    They both should be ashamed of flaunting this relationship PERIOD!!

    But who knows maybe mister and B Smith had made an agreement to move on if something were to happen to either one of them.???????????????

    Her granddaughter is a A-Hole!! No way in the world would I put my beloved grandma on front street for the world to see her struggles.????

  • Thingamajig

    As long as he’s happy with the new woman and he’s not ill treating Smith than folks need to mind their d@mn business. Go head Gasby... looking good and healthy.

  • Capricornlady

    I swear N*CCA's aint shyt.. not worth the air they breathe... And Ill bet he will inhert the whole kit and caboodle when she passes. And go on to live with the snow bunny. Im so mad???

  • YellowSauce

    It would be a game changer if she does know whats going on and has changed the paper work on him ... all the recordings would also support this as opposed to being used to support him which is exactly what I think he is trying to do by recording her .. I also believe he is not leaving her to make sure he gets the money .... smh ... Its always about the money .. she should be receiving professional health care not being licked by dogs to be revived during a seizure ... she is at the bottom of a shower for heavens sake with a pillow .. but who am I ??? .... its just sad

  • Logan Roberts

    Karma is a motherf*cker. Don't worry Mrs.B , God ain't letting folks get away with too much nowadays. I hope this fake azz Morgan Freeman ends up marrying this shewolf & she takes him for everything he has.

  • HotInCleveland

    Exactly! As soon as she was diagnosed with Alzheimers there should have been paperwork dictating that her needs should be provided for by a professional healthcare professional.

  • hottlanta

    That house is the business. Now l am more worried about her stepping on the dogs tail or thinking they r some super friendly animal n she makes the wrong move n they attack n maul her 2 death. This SOB got me thinking the minute she got a cold he was cheating.

  • stevetheque

    Bash away foot dragons! It's his life his wife.

  • hottlanta

    U saw that as well. Cant take it.

  • YellowSauce

    AND a blanket ..... I also read somewhere that she fell out of bed ... her bed is down stairs ... his is upstairs

  • Soda

    If B didn't have money he would have disappeared completely, and I doubt that young leech would be with him.

  • hottlanta

    He has already disappeared. He cares more about his dyck sexual needs than his wife physical needs.

  • ALLMINE?

    That's life

  • hottlanta

    Please oprah got that taken care of .Gayle of course.

  • hottlanta

    Got u in prayers. Taking care of someone is hard .

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She should have home health nurses around the clock. Doesn't she have an attorney who can make that happen?

  • Hazel

    About these videos...why does this girl have B Smith in a chokehold, and why does he caption the picture 'a time out' like she's a damn child? Disrespectful as hell.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Oprah's empire goes to her dogs.

  • hottlanta

    Good for your sis. Some men think bcas a man aint around 2 ? their azzes they can do what they wanna do n aint nobody gonna say anything 2 them

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    They too comfortable! I get that same vibe they been messing. And I’ll bet as soon as he get her money once she passes away that white woman gone marry him and divorce him and take it all OR when he get old and sick she throw him in a home and get missing

  • Hazel

    I'm sure he has a power of attorney by now. There has to be a financial reason he hasn't liquidated her assets, placed her in a home, and absconded with her money.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    When he can hire round the clock care for her

  • YellowSauce

    Either she really doesn't have one on retainer or they are not aware of whats happening ... Also not sure why no family has stepped up. Its hard to believe she doesn't have any family that cares for her. Because of this he probably has power of attorney. Its evil

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    And to add to this what kind of woman is she to sit up and be paraded around under these circumstances!! They deserve each other cuz neither one of them ain’t shat! Ain’t nothing a man can tell me to get me to go along with this mess!

  • TheWildChild

    Very crazy and disrespectful of him to flaunt her, even if B' approved. On his IG, is this the same woman posing in a pic with them ? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c62961b2a9e292a876e261bfbf02042555febd5922c027c3fbcbd030d32d21ae.png

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    ???? I’m over here cackling!!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Dang he a calculating snake he got the law on his side due to him being the spouse an abusive man will separate you from your loved ones so he can have complete control even in sickness. This man is messy and evil

  • Listen2Me

    And this is the reason why if I should die 1st... My husband gets 10% of my insurance policy and my kids each get 45%. A bish will not live good with my money. (And this works for me...so I don’t need anyone telling me I’m wrong).

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    This is why I feel like we women bare the burden as wives and lovers to men. Some women MOST never move on to another man once their husbands DIE let alone think about dating someone else while caring for their sick husband. Men are very different their loyalty is in their pants. Women we sonloyal that even AFTER we have been abused and treated badly we will still take care of that man. If the shoe was on the other foot well you see here what would possibly happen

  • Renee26

    I hope his ? rots off

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    ????? Does gyle have any kids? She may leave something to them

  • Soda

    I think that is Jillian Michaels, a fitness guru.

  • Desi

    I wonder if he is isolating her away from friends, family and business partners.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    ?????? My child will be left EVERYTHING!! Idc who I marry or how good he was my child will get it all #sorrynotsorry cuz men switch up real fast when there’s new ? around.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Thanks cuz I was gone say they all look alike to me

  • Listen2Me

    ?????? Exactly

  • Renee26

    ? you ain't right... more than likely some charity in Africa

  • YellowSauce

    "her people" are missing in action ... we only see her with "his people" .... every rich person's nightmare is no legacy

  • Renee26

    Throw some hot grease on em and walk away

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Yea right like this white woman gone agree to okay second fiddle to this sickly black woman she wants her presence known so no other woman will slip in!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Now i see why you updated it early folks already starting out taking the bs into 2019

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I dont even see the point of putting this all on social media. She's in decline right now, and Alzheimers is basically a slow death... it kills your mind before it kills your body. She should be able to live out the rest of her days in peace and with privacy.
    I hope if I even suffer a debilitating disease one day at that age, my peoples wont be posting images & videos of me on social media looking totally out of it. I dont know what their intentions were in posting this, but it just seems really disrespectful to me.

  • Renee26

    He probably drove her to the illness with years of mental abuse

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    That white woman should be ashamed to be running all over town with a married man who has a mentally debilitated wife. I cant see how she feels comfortable with this. I not only question his character, I question hers too.

  • NewNew

    Paris Milan did a video on this last week. I was shocked, saddened and appalled.

    https://youtu.be/KYpvhxHoN9s

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Well, he felt the need to post this stuff on social media, so people certainly have to the right to give their opinions on it, good or bad.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    This is what I said!!

  • Renee26

    Bih got her head held HIGH in that pic with the mask... She's evil too

  • Renee26

    Same

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Elderly and sick people should be cared for and treated with dignity posting her on social media like this is not dignified idc what he claims his intentions are. I really would like to know what really went on in their marriage because he is acting like someone that has an ax to grind like now I got the upper hand and look at you! It’s almost like he is trying to embarrass her.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    So... hope you dont mind me asking... you dont believe a man should ever get remarried if his wife dies? Is it disrepectful to his former wife if he gets married again one day?

  • gellie

    In another woman's house at that!!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Yes I think he should if that’s what he wants to do I just have noticed a difference between men and women men often seem to move on and remarry more than women do. And in this case i don’t have a issue with him moving on but do it in a respectful way he could have got a divorce and put one of her family members in charge. Or he could have waited for her to pass and then move on currently he is still her husband he still has a duty to her and this what he doing ain’t it. He staying married legally for the money

  • gellie

    You do have wonder what is this woman telling herself to make this ok?? And to be so BRAZEN about it...how do you settle that in your head and in your spirit??

  • Soleil Indigo

    No need to be sorry and dont you feel a bit of bad if someone has a problem with how you doing it. You aren't wrong because When i got married at 28 (I'm 35 now) I revised my advance directives. My husband has NO idea but I left everything to my 4 children, divided by the oldest to youngest. i have an iron clad living will that I paid a nice penny for so that it can't be contested by anyone and what I said is what TF I said. I love my husband but I don't trust men and I will NOT have him spending ANY of my hard earn life savings on some stanking woman after I'm gone. I have everything for my kids even down to the tile in the home. I have seen what men are capable once their women end up sick and shut in.

  • KcoolMuziq

    I guess your not use to these kind of relationships in entertainment industry. Like Salim Akil & Mara Brock Akil who knew about her husbands side piece .

  • Desi

    I think she looks great. Love her with no hair. She looks a million times better with out those wacky hair hats. But, I don’t like those furry hoove boots.

  • Kimberly King

    Nothing good will ever come to those who abuse/mistreat the elderly, disabled or babies. Point blank period.

  • Nikki

    ?????

  • TMW

    It wasn’t public until she filed a lawsuit. They’d been going for 10 years and no one was the wiser.

    Or all the crap Jada and Will the “life partners” get up to - to me that essentially translates that they have an open marriage. BUT they are not out here publically flaunting their relationships with other people.

    Not saying Mr. B. Smith shouldn’t have someone. But what he shouldn’t be doing is treating B. like she’s a sister wife, when everybody knows that if she was whole and in her right mind, she would not be going for this. He’s a jack ass.

  • TMW

    And he’s 66, not very far off when the shoe will be on the other foot, and his “soulmate” moves her “soulmate” in on top of them - scratch that, she won’t even stick around. Karma.

  • Soleil Indigo

    Things like this God watches very closely. The ultimate test I've noticed for marriages and just humans is the "for richer or poorer and sickness and health" part of vows. Those really measure the person's integrity to life. He will die alone. My father in law was horrible to his wife as she was wasting away...mean bastard had a stroke and died alone but not before decubitus ulcers and seizures toremented him.

  • Jamal Warner

    If you have moved on, then why remain married.

  • Soleil Indigo

    So that part of "in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer" is just a riddle? Damn y'all men are just sick and sad. And God forbid you are a woman with this mindset.

  • dontgetblocked

    I'm really speechless. He stays married to her for her money. Sitting up next to a snow bunny, calling her his soulmate. How could he sit and pose with that woman? Spend B's money on that woman? Why would they post videos of her looking ...well crazy! It's cruel and disgusting!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Ok, np. I was just curious, because a few times I've seen/heard women say they want to leave their husband very little or no money when they're gone because they dont want his next wife to have any benefit from it.
    That always seemed a little petty to me, to be honest. People's choices are their choices, so it's not for me to tell them how to think.. but I never quite understood that.

  • Soleil Indigo

    Tuh It's what they do. Black wife dying of AD and she just feeling herself.

  • KcoolMuziq

    I admit he's going about it in a BOLD way because people don't understand. But I also feel like it wasn't uncommon in their relationship. Most people in the industry live a "different" kind of life then the average folk.

    Will & Jada I WILL NOT speak on. I have too much respect for both of them.

  • dontgetblocked

    Money!

  • Darkandlovely617?

    We're here for you, you are not alone
    ??????

  • 11pink123

    Have you ever heard wedding vows and do you know the definition of adultry?

    He should hire her nurses and get a divorce. If this lady was functioning, she would not agree to this.

    He is staying married so he can have control over her assets when she passes not to help her.

  • Rere

    I wish she was sane enough to divorce him!!!

  • dontgetblocked

    He has moved his whore into their lives and maybe home. White women know how to take advantage of every situation. So many black men are stupid!

  • 11pink123

    girl haven’t you ever heard of what’s mines is mines and what’s yours is mines. Your kids should have a 100% and you have 100% of his policy. Take that 10% away and give it to you mama. Niggaz ain’t shyt. He a man, let him work for every penny...

  • Soleil Indigo

    LoL that's why I told my daughter marriage and kids aren't nothing but indentured servitude. LoL really though, can't be mad at the Mya's and Ashanti's of the world. They are the happiest, healthiest looking women while poor cardi been married 6 months with a new baby and can't catch a break, fighting, crying and begging for d*ck on social media

  • TMW

    You don’t have to Kool. The Smiths are spilling their guts at the Red Table
    ?

    I thought of you when I saw that Ava Duverney will produce a documentary on Prince for Netflix.

  • TMW

    He’s not trying to embarrass her. I believe that in his head, his actions are fully justified. Just by his response the the criticism he’s received, he doesn’t feel like he’s doing anything wrong. His hashtag is #whylie ?

  • TMW

    Wow. Just wow. Thanks for sharing this. Paris dissected this brilliantly.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    They may have come to an agreement when she was in the beginnings of the disease..

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Isn't adultery grounds for a divorce? She needs a lawyer or legal guardian to look after her and her estate.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    This is heartbreaking.
    Why not just leave Dan?

  • 11pink123

    I ain’t leaving my husband shyt and he already know that. He don’t even expect that. Everything he has is mine and everything I have is our kids. Tf what you talking about.

    Men work for there money, period... that’s what they put here to do. Provide and protect.

    I Don’t know what kind of husband this woman married. My husband got mad at me when I did try to trick on him one day. Kept giving me lectures about insecure woman who take care of men.

  • Bashi22

    A white woman coming to take fortune lol White girls mean business lol ?

  • more

    Idk im just saying that perhaps she knew exactly how he gets down. Hopefully positive things come out of this

  • ClaireHuxtable

    You'll d1e in June and by August he's dating. By February he's engaged.

  • Myopinion4u

    Have you ever heard of mind your own business? You don’t know these people or what his wife would or wouldn’t want. Keep your judgments for your life and let others live how they want to. Every marriage or situation is not the same or what you think it should be.

  • KcoolMuziq

    "I thought of you when I saw that Ava Duverney will produce a documentary on Prince for Netflix."

    Yes! I'm looking forward to it! I know she will do a good job after attending her private screening of 13th. I feel she is the best choice.

    It's nice to be thought of.

    Happy New Year

  • TMW

    Happy New Year! ?

  • elroy

    ...Umm, the majority of black men who pay child support/alimony were with black women

  • elroy

    I'm glad women are so honest on these websites, hopefully more men will begin to listen. Any man getting married or producing kids in 2019 is an idiot

  • ClaireHuxtable

    When she was relatively well he probably convinced her that she really didn't need any help.
    Caretakers oftentimes don't want anybody in their bizness. My uncle was like that.

  • elroy

    It's funny how women are able to notice a leech when the roles are reversed, men are literally dealing with this on a daily basis

  • 11pink123

    August girl..... the day you die that nigga will already be checking for whatever bytch he was checking for the day before you died. Dating??? She will be helping plan the funeral, by August your kids will have a new sibling on the way and by February he will be on to the next bytch. ????? Trust no nigga!!!!!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    She should be scared he'll do the same thing to her!

  • hottlanta

    Her saying thank you dan after every episode could bite her in the butt. He could say it was his money n show n she was just the host .Even the instagram thank you dan is tacky as hell n a bit much. As if he is some kind of King. It is okay 2 luv your man but this is more like hero worship. Just like that lady praising that SOB for staying up with her at 4am while she does a business plan n his sorry azz murdered her the following week. I will never forget that.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    True. Stedman gets $250mil and so do they.

  • hottlanta

    Funeral held june 31st he will be married july 5th only bcas july 4th is a holiday n everything is closed.

  • hottlanta

    White women wait on the money while a black woman wait on his spirit. White woman aint got time to wait on his spirit 2 play catch up with his wallet.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    I adore B. Smith. I wish things were different ??

  • 11pink123

    Yeah but the difference is most woman are loyal to there husband even during sickness and past death. Most usually don’t even remarry or move on this quickly.

    But I ain’t taken care of no perfectly healthy man. This woman married a bum.

  • Listen2Me

    The 10% is actually for him to bury me with. He won’t have much after the funeral arrangements.

  • dontgetblocked

    "Many" black men leave their black women for a snow bunny once they make it. Or in this case, when the black woman is mentally incapacitated. This man is a dirty, ruthless nygga who just doesn't give a damn.

  • stevetheque

    That's true but the way he's posting he obviously doesn't give a damn the opinions of others

  • 11pink123

    Well I guess there is just different types of men. If I get my husband something he always try’s to out do me. When I offer to pay for something major, he gets frustrated and leaves. He don’t like me trying to take care of him financially. He okay with me booking vacation stuff like Disneyland or stuff he too lazy to do. But major stuff is a no go... We got in an argument over buying the oldest a car. I seen something cheap and went for it $900, she 14 with no license. Just so he can out do me, he went back and got her a brand new car, that’s better than mines... and this type of stuff creates an argument so I don’t even waste my time with it.

  • the guest

    He was always like this. Ask anyone whose ever worked at one of her restaurants or one of her companies. He's a pompous shallow user. But she really loved him. His behavior is inappropriate. The mistress is inappropriate. Shame he can't comprehend how vile he is. I think it's unkind to have videos of her struggles on social media.

  • hottlanta

    Why didn't he take her to the doctor or call 911 if she was having a seizure. Talking bout some nasty dog tongue brought her back to life.We suppose to say AWWWWWW. Not today negro. Not today.

  • Bashi22

    They better keep B Smith away from him and that white lady they might kill her. I need the ancestors spirit guides.

  • Rmicu

    B's husband can do better, this is sad.

    I know a family in Long Island, wealthy.
    The husband had all of his faculties but the wife had Alzheimer's.
    This family had 2 fulltime RNs for the wife's care, plus 2 on standby
    when the 2 fulltime RNs took days off. She lived at home with her
    husband until she died. Her husband wanted to make sure she stayed in familiar surroundings and he didn't mind spending the money. He had the home converted with low beds, a walk-in open shower with bars, handles near the toilet .....It was laid out-- none of it looked medical either. Everything blended in with the decor of the home. He got it from a company in Germany. This man loved his wife, nothing made him happier than to make sure she was taken care of and happy in her own little world. Every ow and then she would recognize him; she didn't recognize her daughters at all.

    I understand B's husband wants to live his life, but what about a little
    discretion and decency? He can have a woman, white or black, but why does he, as an older man, feel the need to flaunt this woman on the gram???? really ? How about being an older gentleman with some dignity and date quietly? Is he showing off for someone else , like he got a prize? Did someone try to extort him or threaten to expose him so he exposed himself?

    It does not make sense that a person of his age would floss for the gram. Something else must be going on.

    He can hire professional caretaker--not a relative
    who may or may not be trained.

    He can retrofit the house to accommodate her condition and maintain her safety. Glass shower with that metal edge at the bottom is dangerous, especially if she has seizures..

    After seeing this, I understand why my sister said she is leaving her money to her children, not her husband of 25years. I always told her she is wrong, but now I get my sister's point.
    Hell, I have to change a few things myself, my husband and I don't have any children but I have a niece and a nephew.

    Sorry for the rant

  • Elevated Soul

    I'd never heard of this lady (B.Smith) but I did my research and I will say "she do not deserve the disrespect of this ridiculous azzzzzzzzzzzzzz man who is supposedly her hubby....

    This sneaky evil White woman will treat him him like dirt once she has a chance. She cheated with him while smiling in his wife's face but Karma will get both of these devils.

  • hottlanta

    I have seen enuf ID Channels to know and warn her don't eat the food. Trying to take her for a walk. I know all about those nature friendly walk in the woods and on the beach. Only one person will come back alive.

  • 11pink123

    Lol.. I tried to get full custody of my first before she was even born and the attorney I called was like , umm no judge is going to go for this. I’m thinking well how did Michael Jackson do it???

    I can’t trust niggaz and my husband is the one who teaches me these things. He ain’t even did nothing I’m aware of for me to be acting this way. But if he say not to trust niggaz than I’m gone listen.

  • Listen2Me

    Well I kinda said this and it’s true I don’t want the next women living off my policy when my kids can benefit from the money. I own my petty though.

  • 11pink123

    Anyways good night. Happy New Years. No Cardi B In 2019. ?

  • hottlanta

    The day he goes to the hospital appointment and the doctor tell you I have some bad news and give you your diagnosis he will be looking for someone else. He might put on a fake cry and say I need to step outside for a moment this is a lot for me to take. He is getting started then.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Bruh... That's one thing I noticed on some of these blogs. There's some selfish-minded women out there, that's for sure. Makes me feel sorry for the dudes married to some of these women. And makes me appreciate my own wife that much more.

  • Listen2Me

    Same to you!

  • hottlanta

    Especially if she has one of those elaborate Imitation of Life funerals. All of that money will be gone. After you pay for the horses, carriages, flowers and blocking the streets it is a wrap.

  • Listen2Me

    Lol!! You and I think alike! I see how trifling my dad is so...yeah..I get it. My youngest turned 18 two weeks ago. So I’m good on custody. Again....Happy New Years !!

  • Listen2Me

    ?

  • Ms..N

    Ain't that the true who the hell want to be on their last leg with a damn camera in your face!!

  • TRUTHbeabsolute

    For better or worse, in sickness and health don't mean shit.

  • Panther Charleston

    How disappointing. He was probably so jealous of her when she was well. That is why he is relishing and publicizing her illness. Why release these videos of her? She was more than likely a dignified, refined woman who appreciated decorum and privacy. He's the ass in all this. Because it appears she afforded him an opulent life. Those dogs and that house ain't nary cheap. I belive they are King Corso dogs. He ought to be thankful. Pearls before swine.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    It’s like 5 or 6 of those dogs in that house they are huge they scare me.

  • Panther Charleston

    No lie, I prefer small dogs. Those big beasts would have me scared too. But it may be the Lord's work. They may stop him from getting too bold w her.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    I went to the ig cuz I wanted to just see if maybe wengettong part of the story that white lady is in that house!! She was on walks with B mite there was one of her in the home gym doing leg lifts while B was lifting some small weights. It was a video of her cleaning the kitchen or something while Be was sitting at the counter I just don’t know how to comprehend how they think this is ok! I’m sure if she told him to get someone else she meant leave her in the care of someone who loves her and move on not have your woman living or in my house chilling off the fruits of my labor the audacity of it all!!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    I was thinking that as well maybe they will protect her cuz baaaaaby my lil Yorkie don’t play bout me if my male friend who has been around since my dog was 10 wks old he walks and feed him sometimes but if my male friend gets to playing too much like touching me too much or anything and my dog sense I’m agitated he goes the hell OFF! His lil butt be in here snapping and barking he gets all up in that man face ??? so I hope they protect her.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    ?????Oh father god so he a delusional narcissist

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    And without make up she look ride hard and put away wet like she just going through it! She stay with dark circle under her eyes ain’t sleeping or drinking no water. Meanwhile Ashanti and mya traveling and looking younger than her. ????? I get it!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    It does seem petty but often times we women keep men on the straight and narrow some men can’t function without the assistance of a woman which means the new wife would take on that . If I were to marry and leave most my stuff to my husband he may not look out for my child meaning if my child grown and need something even though her father is there HE may not use what I left to benift my child he could get with a younger woman have his own kids or help raise hers and leave my child assed out and spend and leave everything to this new woman or she have control over it that’s why I say that men aren’t very bright and reliable when it comes to those situations they move on quickly and forget the past.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Yep!!! Then the new woman my try and take over and not allow him to use anything to help the kids people get like that when money and property is involved.

  • dontgetblocked

    It's a lot of big azz dogs!

  • dontgetblocked

    Honestly, he can't have another woman. He took vows...till death do us part. If he can't be faithful. He needs to divorce her and move on. They can still be friends but to bring your mistress into our home? This is unforgivable and a sin.

  • Bashi22

    Exactly

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Hell naw!!! I'm Single and Never, Ever been in shape, Disrespected like this from a crazy boyfriend. This man was something All the time to do a sick person like this, let alone a Wife, Damn!!! Life has a way of giving one Exactly what he put out and More!!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And I would Not put Myself in that fu.ked up position!!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And it Won't be long as they think.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    She Really Needs to Love Herself, Really!!! This Is Not Love. It Is Abuse.

  • http://www.legalizemelanin.com Legalize Melanin

    Lmaoo my boy is a big dog and hes not even an adult yet and is the same way

  • elroy

    I'm not sure if you're responding to what I stated, but that's really great. Sounds like you and your husband are happy

  • elroy

    Do you have any stats that I could fact check, or is this merely your opinion?

  • hottlanta

    I know that Gayle has a daughter name Kirby. She has a son but I don't know his name.

  • hottlanta

    I called my girlfriend so see how her and her husbands vacation went. She never talked about him but she was pissed when she said that he had to the nerve to tell her he saw wrinkles on her face and she has gained weight while on vacation. Never mind he always looked like he was 5 months pregnant since I have been knowing them and she married his Elmer Fudd looking azz anyway. They been married for 20 years and I guess he feels his azz is getting old and want some new trim and trying to bring himself up by trying to bring her down.

  • nomika brown

    Exactly not a damn thing

  • nomika brown

    Exactly why not divorce her and move the hell on it seems like you have anyways

  • Allihave2say

    I have one of her lamps on my desk and I love it. It ages well with my change of styles.
    Judith Light starred in a movie that tells a similar story called a "Strange Affair". It's hard being a caregiver to a person with a mental illness whether it's your spouse, parent or a child.

    We can disagree because he's still married but how furious would we be if he divorced her or locked her in a nursing home during this time? He needs companionship and friendship for his own mental and emotional wellbeing too. IJS.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I hope they don’t bite that women dogs will do that when they sense a change

  • Bee jaay Cee

    Caregiving ain't easy and he does need respite, but he should not start another relationship while she is alive. If I gotta be single them dammit he can be single too.

  • SmartAtheist

    On the other hand she's ill and can't take care of his needs anymore. He still has needs intellectual, emotional, and physical and she can't satisfy those anymore for him. It looks like he still loves her and takes care of her, which is a lot of work in itself. He could have easily just cut and run divorced her and left her ass in a nursing home, which is what a lot of people would have done. He's taking care of her, which is commendable, and still trying to have a life for himself.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And LORD when they make the mistake of going to the other side. They usually find out the grass is Not Greener!!! As a matter of fact, there usually is No Grass. And the woman they left, Don't want them back. I know I wouldn't.

  • Alana Sims

    Those dogs are pretty but kinda disgusts me to have so many in the house. But maybe just two..they have like 5. Wow! And those were t small dogs. Whyyyy???? Anywho, B is gorgeous...I’d love to hang out with her as she is. I was a caregiver when I was younger. I’d just adore B, I’m sure

  • Love Luv

    Firstly- GET THE POSTING OF YOUR WIFE OFF THE SOCIAL MEDIA !!

    Sickness and in health. Til death do us part.

    Not in sickness that I’m willing to tolerate unless it’s something like cancer or Alzheimer etc.

    Sickness and in health. To death do us part. Forsaking all others.

    I know how it is to take care of the ill and the toll but that doesn’t mean to feed your fleshy needs. Tell that modern lie if you want. Don’t say those particular vows if you disagree or have stipulation.

    Why say or commit vows under covenants with conditions? I just don’t understand. Say something else. Ppl just walk all over Christ as foretold. There are plenty of other religions that marry. That are more “open” so why not marry under those. “If” that’s what she was ok with. She may be ok with grits in her lucky charms before a boiled puppy knee. Doesn’t mean to feed it to her. Not in her condition. People if you are in any right mind, have a will and a power of attorney and/or advisor with some pull. You don’t even have to have extreme issues. You can live in chronic pain and lose your mind. Trust. Seems he is ridiculing her or at least the open mistress part.

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/73e0dbaa5764b1d52cbef8e39dbadfbb58f7e0e9201bc06c7e6733a523859412.gif

  • Love Luv

    Often times patients in extreme physical distress want their loved ones to not feel burdened. Such as saying you can go on and leave (but really want them to stay) or I’m not hungry (to not make their child feel bad). Sometimes one can feel like they are hopeless and feel the only strength they have is to let go first. It’s true!! They say something like move on and enjoy your life when they may not even know that that hurts them. Basically ripping the bandaids off fast while convincing themselves that they don’t want to be selfish. Puhlease!!!! I don’t care what anyone says. This man is disgusting for posting all this mess.

    We will see what will happen to him after his own body deteriorates in the ground and his soul continues to rejuvenate in the afterlife. Maybe before hers. You never know.

  • dru and neil

    Lord please keep this woman safe while these demons live off her earnings and flaunt their disrespect for the world to see. Amen.

  • dru and neil

    One of my neighbors has one of those dogs, damn thing is scary as hell.

  • dru and neil

    That’s all well and good and I ageee with you about his needs, but why flaunt it? Where’s the respect? From the looks of it, it’s her lap of luxury he and his daughter are living in, from her hard work and dedication. Just show some respect, the woman is still living....Then he basically told everyone who had concerns for his wife to piss off. That man is no good.

  • dru and neil

    This was very disappointing and sad to see, I agree. I’m bet she never thought he’d deliberately disrespect her this way.

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  • R Smith

    I saw that movie! It's true, but everything doesn't need to to be on social media! As I look at those photos/videos, I certainly wouldn't want my husband to post them. Yes, take pictures to remember me, but don't post that ish!

  • Midwestern Dad

    What they’re actually angry about, is that he has used his wife’s money to replace her with a white woman. If the new woman had been black, there might be an article, and five or so comments, but the fact that she is white changes the game. And that’s ok. Because they have a right to feel how they feel, but on top of that, the most disrespected person is still the black woman, and this is just more disrespect.

    B.Smith, in the end, has become a mere stepping stone, one he stepped on to raise himself to that white woman.
    I guess being white I’ll never get it; how even ugly white women can get so much black male attention. Always have wondered.

  • Midwestern Dad

    He likely suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which is more common in black men than all other groups, except Jewish men.

    It does him no good to have a secret affair. The sex is likely an irrelevant distraction. He wants praise from liberal whites (Narcissistic Supply).

  • Midwestern Dad

    Forgive me, but don’t you think that your man is another Dan Gasby in the making, it might be better to kick him out while you’re alive?
    I’m not trying to tell you what to do or anything, I just wouldn’t not stay married to a woman I had to have a “failsafe” plan for.

  • Midwestern Dad

    Oh ok. I reread your comment. I originally read it wrong. My comment doesn’t really apply. Sorry. Be blessed.

  • R Smith

    Maybe, but why post on social media? If you knew her, she was a very elegant lady! Too bad she doesn't have any daughters!

  • Midwestern Dad

    Please forgive my naivety here, and also the wet dog smell( I am white lol), but you don’t want him to date after your dead? You’re already dead. It can’t affect you any. It’s normal to get remarried for men, also.
    Please keep in mind, I’m not challenging your comment. Your feelings are your own.

  • R Smith

    Yassssss!!! "I own my Petty"...that's me! :o)

  • R Smith

    Unfortunately, she doesn't have any kids. She has that evil step daughter :o(

  • Midwestern Dad

    She’s already “dead” for practical purposes. She will never be of sound mind again. She also won’t understand his new situation, or much else. Technically, she’s a walking vegetable. She soon will not be walking.

    What pisses me off is that he replaced her with an ugly, vain white woman. A black woman builds up a large fortune, and yet it goes to a white woman, whose entire mission is now likely to erase B.Smith’s legacy. A black woman was used to get rich off of, discarded, and now a white woman reaps the harvest. Disgusting to me, as a WM married to a BW.

  • R Smith

    Totally disrespectful! Too bad she doesn't have any children. My daughter would phuck that nucca up!

  • Midwestern Dad

    She probably justifies it by supposedly contributing to B.Smith’s care. They “fell in love” while giving B.Smith the best care, most likely.

    She is likely planning to ruin him also.

  • dontgetblocked

    I have never seen such disrespect in my life. Ever! She is a multi-millionaire. They have caregivers, nurses, and housekeepers. Look how spotless that place is with all those dogs. She has afforded him a luxury lifestyle for 25 years. All he has to do is put on a public front and be discreet. We know it's too much to ask for him to be faithful.

  • stav

    He is a disgusting adulterer, she deserves so much better from a husband. Praying for her in such a difficult time, this man will more than likely take all the money she's made and trick it off with his whorre, this is abhorrent behavior, and indicative of her marrying a selfish, gold digging boy. He's certainly not displaying the characteristics of a man that truly loves his wife, and takes his vow seriously.

  • Listen2Me

    I don’t think he’s another Dan Gasby. He’s a wonderful husband, he’s a provider and an awesome dad. Despite how my words may sound, I actually love him.
    So to put it nicely —- he and I have been together since I was 16 years old. Therefore we have been through a lot. I’ve seen all that he’s capable of and during our younger years we were both cheaters. So I’ve been hurt by him before. But throughout it all we did manage to get married. And I saw how my dad did my mom; so I always have my guard up and a plan.
    To sum it up... you don’t ever know what people are capable of. To be honest I don’t think he would even care about the money...he knows how my crazy works.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Hell yeah every body need they azz whooped

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    He will get his karma! I wouldn’t even want to deal with a man with a sick wife

  • suganspice68

    This is truly sad all around;her husband and his lover are probably counting down the days to when his wife passes away so thst they can get their hands on her fortune! I have a feeling that he was seeing other women since the entire time he and B Smith were married.

  • TMW

    Riiiight....

  • suganspice68

    I believe it! He looks like an selfish a*hole

  • R Smith

    "A wealthy parking-lot magnate has been accused of giving his model girlfriend herpes after promising her he was clean of all s-xually transmitted diseases, it emerged today."

    "The unnamed Soho model is suing William Lerner, 57, who owns Imperial Parking Systems, for $5million."

    "Papers filed yesterday in Manhattan Supreme Court say that Lerner met the 43-year-old model at an art gallery in 2012 and wooed her for several months. They went on 'expensive' dates and he even took her to Aruba on a romantic trip."

  • Sweetness

    B dancing to the song in the background gives me COMFORT in knowing that IF she is mishandled...the universe will handle dat. Love B. She looks good. No comment on hubby. Happy "NEW NEW" EVERYBODY??????.

  • dblogged

    Wanted a white man instead. Pandora box party I see

  • Larry Thomas

    You confirmation bias people are judging this man without facts only gossip, displaying your total ignorance, racism, and myopic mindsets.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Lets just call it what it is. A lot of women are petty and spiteful when it comes to this topic. They hate the fact that their husband will move on and be happy with another woman when they're gone (especially since they imagine the new wife might well be younger and prettier than them). And a lot of them are particularly wary/suspicious that he probably wont wait too long after they're dead before he starts dating again.

  • okiseethisthatdumbshit

    you sound like one of the demons that are comfortable with living off the wealth of others while completely disrespecting your vows

  • Listen2Me

    No problem! Blessings to you as well.

  • Reenaface

    Uncle Ben is wrong as two left feet and he, his daughter and that mistress is waiting to get a piece of B's wealth when the final resting day comes. I feel bad for B that she has no other family to come around to keep an eye on her. He is exploiting her illness, was the seizure pic really necessary? Where was medical aid to come and assist her? Having a mentally ill condition care be a challenge to deal with but Uncle Ben is just appealing to the public by posting these videos to show he's the caring caretaker to offset the public scorn of happily flaunting his mistress around. I hope they aren't poisoning B.

  • Listen2Me

    She’s plotting too!! ??. Just kidding.

  • Reenaface

    Too bad she couldn't revise her will and leave her wealth to the dogs since they proved more loyal to her than Uncle Ben.

  • Reenaface

    Nothing that a bottle of lotion and access to xvideos couldn't solve.

  • TransMichelle

    I wonder if B Smith was taking statins. Statins the drugs they use for lowering cholesterol is known for affecting the brain. Most of the brain is made of cholesterol and statins decrease the brains functioning. Also, in that last pic is she laying in a shower?

  • Reenaface

    Nope, not with a pay day on the horizon, whole family be like "we on the way up".

  • Larry Thomas

    You’re a confused individual with poor reading comprehension I suppose because I never indicated if condone this type behavior or not, like you I have no facts to judge this man or his relationship objectively from the outside.

  • Joy King

    What a disgusting man. I wish I never even read this post as we welcome in the New Year. This beautiful woman is not even in the right frame of mind to consent to having personal videos of herself, posted on social media. This man is way too grown to be so disrespectful. No good is going to come to him, or anyone else in his circle, that's cosigning on this travesty.

  • Reenaface

    I need for ID Discovery to stop the b.s. and renew their contract with Xfinity. I have no access to their lineup anymore been substituting them with the Oxygen crime network but I miss ID.

  • Queen B

    I don't like to judge cant be mad if he has moved on but idk if I'll be posting it

  • SummerBaby

    ?

  • Parent

    Omg seeing pictures of this Queen is breaking my heart. God why do we get sick And suffer?

    I wish people wouldn't post every damn thing and be so insensitive.

  • Parent

    I have Aunts that post pics on social media every time my granny (their mother) is hospitalized for something. I really dislike how they put her on display for sympathy of others.

  • Parent

    Damn

  • R Smith

    I think a lot of people are more disgusted that he's posting and has that women in her home, not because he's moved on!?

  • okiseethisthatdumbshit

    sure... whateva you say Satan

  • R Smith

    That's exactly what I said when I read the article!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    The job of a caregiver can be overwhelming! Yet this snail is showing no decency and sense of compassion for his CURRENT wife...the woman he vowed to honor in sickness. If he needed some attention, the least he could have done was be discreet about it.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    You owe No apologies or explanation for the color of your skin.
    True, there is no set period for grieving to take place. Yet moving on so soon calls into question whether the bond between the living and the deceased was actually genuine. You can dishonor a person's memory by acting like they never existed or were simply an accessory to your life...instead of core ingredient!
    I may be d3ad, but I'd like to think that you gave some time to appreciate and reconcile our former relationship...especially if we have children together and a long establish co-bonding of family members.

    Dang, MD, just what was I to U...the maid??

  • ALLSEDUCTRESS

    WHAT A SAD SITUATION .THIS LADY HAS BUILT AN EMPEROR ONLY TO B STRICKEN W/ SICKNESS - WHILE HER 1/2 PUNK X HUSBAND DANCES HIS SUGARY X IN THE ARMS OF A PALE WHORE. AS SHE CAN'T WAIT TO SPEND THIS QUEENS MONEY. WITH HIS FAT X DAUGHTER AGITATING HER CONSTANTLY . N PLACING ALL THAT SLOPPY WEIGHT ON HER WHILE PPL RECORD IT

  • Lolly Asher

    I saw something in that too. B did say that woman is "gonna get it." Ditto the no comment on him.

  • Lolly Asher

    Too many b*tches in the house. And dogs too.

  • Sweetness

    Gotta be careful what I put out there. Trying to keep it cute Chile...lol. Love me some B Smith honey. She gone be awwwright. All her senses ain't completely gone. Somewhere inside of that beautiful shell, she is still intact.

  • Hazel

    I hope your friend read him for filth. If my husband EVER said some shyte like that, I'd truly hurt his damn feelings.

  • PlayerP

    Still beautiful!
    That's their biz...they always seemed solid, I'm sure they talked about it at length. That lady he's with now has long paper too - who wants to be alone?
    What would have been chitty is if he just stuck her in a facility and got on.
    They made choices for their lives.
    One size does not fit all.

  • Malcom Flex

    He is dead wrong doing that, TF!!!!

  • Malcom Flex

    LOL

  • Malcom Flex

    Tell it!!!

  • dontgetblocked

    Go to his Instagram page. The pictures are there along with his declaration of love for the Becky. He also has a stank attitude and says he does whatever the hell he wants. What a monster!

  • Larry Thomas

    Understand. that is still only one side of the story regardless.

  • Kimberly King

    Exactly! I know a lady who mistreated her mother. Her mother was 98 and she got to a point where she couldn't feed herself, needed help using the bathroom, etc. She would let her mom wet herself and never fed her. Tell me why not even one week after her mother died, she had a stroke!? Now she's in the same boat as her deceased mother. She has two adult children, and they chose to leave her in a home to rot. Karma is so gah damn swift! You MUST be careful how you treat people. Not only because karma will rip you a new one, but it's just the right thing to do! I truly believe God has something special for those who hurt or abuse humans who are unable to defend themselves. I say off of that to say this: This woman's husband will see his soon.

  • Eileen

    It sounds like you would do the same d$mn thing to your wife. Some men are so freaking worthless

  • Eileen

    Why of course! He didn't just start creeping yesterday.he has been at it for awhile. Karma will get him

  • Eileen

    There is a word called "discreet " it means what you do on the dark should stay there . He is flaunting this immoral woman like some overheated hormonal teenage BOY that just got him some poo tang! Smh

  • Eileen

    He is showing his true character and his daughter is pulling up the rear...smh

  • Eileen

    He should keep it off social media!

  • Eileen

    No grass....smh and lol

  • Eileen

    The courts should intervene....smh

  • leapyearpisces

    This is so horrid, and sad. They are treating her like the family pet. This SHALL NOT and WILL NOT be forgiven. I have more respect for a cockroach than I will ever have for this lowdown dirty muthafuggin dog. The words have not even been created that would even begin to describe my level of DISGUST!!!!
    I hate, I mean hate, deplore, loathe, abhor Erica Mena, but that trick said one thing that is the truth.
    She said: "You cant trust NOBODY, not even the ninja you lay beside every night."

  • Traci404

    Sometines its better not to put ALL YOUR BUSINESS ON SOCIAL MEDIA SIR

  • EasyBreezy

    Discretion would be most respectful in this situation. No one says the man must be alone, but the APPEARANCE of the issue to those not in the know is the real issue. Be respectful to your wife. He is dead-azz wrong.

  • ShWa

    I hope karma hits him dead in the a** very despicable behavior! Jerk!

  • Queen B

    I know thats why i said I WOULDNT POST IT

  • Coffy

    My son use to say”you don't trust anybody” now who says that?Now he understands.

  • Just Observing

    Thank you for your comment. This black woman has moved on and would not tolerate this type of treatment. I don't claim these guys as "my men".

  • BeUtFullSoul

    Sad.

  • Allihave2say

    He really should it isn't a good look because B is well known and highly respected. Quite naturally people will be up in arms because it is infidelity and adultery. However, a man gets lonely when his wife is in this condition. It's easy to fall into depression taking care of a person with Alzheimers.

  • the guest

    Anyone whose ever worked at one of her restaurants or businesses knows he was always jealous of his wife and resentful that she was the star. He used her for status. But she LOVED him and wouid sing his praises.

    He’s posting those hurtful photo on social media to humiliate her. The only photos posted should be of her in all her greatness, past mag covers, interviews, products, and lovingly staged photos of her with her products.

  • the guest

    In sickness and health.

    May I say lovingly, your uncle was not a victim. He made vows to stand with your aunt in sickness and health. Your aunt would have stood by him too. You have a beautiful caring family, the family B. Smith needs. It’s shocking what her husband is doing.

  • Allihave2say

    I refuse to look at the videos. I get his point, he wants to demonstrate the struggle of dealing with someone with mental illness. Been there, got it. Public consumption is the way. Let her keep the respect of society that she EARNED through the POWER OF WORK, GRACE & CLASS. We care about B. Smith's healthy and well being, but we don't want to see her in this fragile state of her life.

  • Jennifer

    Abso-freaking-lutely!

  • Allihave2say

    We can agree he should be single because he's married.
    However his wife is mentally ill. He hasn't abandoned her to a home. He should put her in appropriate care.
    He needs love too

  • PlayerP

    To be fair, I've seen this several times where people want their loved one to go on and live life. I don't necessarily agree with his actions but it's not my life. Most men do not like to be alone. My gf moved on way too fast after my gma passed...to thine own self be true.

  • MistaO

    Who knows, they probably had an understanding. To be honest, most are in their feelings because he's Black and she's White...js

  • Bee jaay Cee

    He can wait. Whatever happened to r e s p e c t?

  • parisjok

    we can not judge. he is still her husband but his wife is 100 percent unavailable to him. it really breaks my heart because they were such a hot rich together married couple for so many years.

    he still only has one life and he is damn if he do and damn if he don't. if he divorced her he would get hate and if he carries on with his life while having a dating life in public he is hated also. she is being very very well taken care of so he is doing his best to just keep it moving.

    he has been dealing with her illness for a very long time and he is keeping his marriage intact until death do them part.

  • parisjok

    yes, but even in this condition she still manages to look pretty and elegant I think. not like before the illness but ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

  • parisjok

    yeah like he is still in his twenties or early thirties!!! time is running out for him just like all of us. we only have the present and he simply does not want to be alone. he is to old to be waiting to be happy and fulfilled until she passes

  • parisjok

    don't think so. she could be any race and folks would still be mad at him

  • Allihave2say

    Some women just exude class and grace. My step grandmother is such an elegant lady that I was totally drawn to follow her presence and still feel I can grow some more. I will not see Mrs. Smith in any other way, I barely looked at her pictures on this article.

  • Allihave2say

    R-E-S-P-E-C-T! Why must he suffer in her ailment? He hasn't left her but he sought companionship in another woman, who's not her or black but…he needs love. Blame LL Cool J for this.
    https://youtu.be/NEUX-HYRtUA

  • TheWildChild
  • Bee jaay Cee

    No, that would have been more humane to place her in a memory care facility. I used to teach classes at several. One had a Koi pond and was beautifully furnished. They even have happy hour and other activities, and the staff at all of them were great. They don't smell like pee, and the food was so good and plentiful that if I lived close, I would actually go there for lunch. He probably don't want to do that because for someone rich like her, the cost could be 6-7k or more per month. A lot of families will keep their loved ones home to save that money.

  • Bee jaay Cee

    If it's suspected Elder abuse someone needs to call APS Adult Protective Services. What city are they in?

  • TheWildChild

    Right ?? I think they are in Long island, if not somewhere in Connecticut

  • Yashara Bat Orion

    Are they female dogs? ????

  • Yashara Bat Orion

    My sister works with elderly but she live in CA. Does B. Scott have early onset alzheimers?
    Sandy?

  • Josie

    This outcome is so sad. There had to be a better way for her beloved viewers to see this turn around in her life. I pray every woman and man will pray to have someone who will love, cover, protect and faithfully walk with them in the hard times of this life. Who knows what is going on? I pray God send her real HELP!!!

  • sdb68

    i was just reading an article about this situation in the washington post. in the article, it states that when b. smith was lucid she objected to her husband flirting with other women. this suggests that if she was compos mentis she would never consent to his mistress staying in her house, receiving care from her, or be happy about him putting pictures up on social media with his mistress. i don't object to his need for love and comfort, but in the interests of his wife's dignity he should be discreet and no way should his mistress be anywhere near his wife. what he is doing is shameful. hopefully karma will ensure that b.smith outlives her husband and his bit on the side.

  • sdb68

    read the article about this in the washington post. they definitely did not have "an understanding".

  • sdb68

    well, he doesn't "need" romantic love, but no doubt, having love enhances life. no way though should he be uploading pictures of him and his mistress, and the mistress should not have access to the marital home. he should show dignity to his wife by being discreet.

  • Allihave2say

    So very true.

  • Anonymous

    This is why Serena got with who she is married to. You can't trust a blk man. Yea this lady has coins but why not more coins? You can never be too rich. This woman is better off in a facility. On another note where is her side of the family? Whizz split everything down the middle and move on. When she was in her right mind, she should have divorced him. She saw him leaning towards other women. He wants all of her money, that is why he stays. He is straight trash. The photos only confirm it more. She needs to be in a medical facility. It cost more for someone to come in the home and the husband is clearly busy with his hoa.

  • Li-Wright