Remy Ma, Beyonce

Someone created an Internet meme comparing pop singer Beyonce and rapper Remy Ma about 2 days after their daughters were born.

Beyonce and Jay-Z rented out the maternity ward at Lenox Hill Hospital in New York for the arrival of Bey's first daughter, Blue Ivy, on January 7, 2012.

Remy, 38, gave birth to her and husband Papoose's first child together on Dec. 14. Remy was released home last week after suffering post-pregnancy complications.

Though both women are pictured at the same time after their daughters were born, the two images couldn't be more different.

Beyonce looks like she's on the set of a photo shoot, while Remy looks exhausted after giving birth. Remy reportedly refused a c-section and opted instead to give birth naturally.

The "Thug Love" rapper whose real name is Reminisce Mackie, posted an unflattering but honest image of her baby bump on Instagram.com.

She also published a photo of her post-baby bump to show her young fans that a quick "snap back" is not only unrealistic, it's unnecessary.

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I’m FINALLY back home and doing much better. The baby has been PERFECTLY fine since being born Dec. 14th and I’m resting & recovering at home. (Pap is VERY happy, on cloud 9,999?) Thank you to all of our family, friends, and loved ones who reached out- Sorry for not responding to texts and/or calls - I physically was not able to and my husband @papoosepapoose was concerned & worried about me all while looking after our “Golden Child”. Also, thank you to all the fans who sent their love and prayers?? We would also like to thank the ENTIRE staff at the hospital (doctors, nurses, aides, even the housekeeping) as well as the AMAZING security team ; not only did you all make sure my family was well taken care of but everyone was very professional and extremely respectful & protective of our privacy; we truly appreciate it - ? with love, The Mackies #RemAndPap #BlackLove #RemyMa #MeetTheMackies #TheGoldenChild #RemyMafia (I luv y’all ?)

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  • PhillyFacts

    Glad she is doing better; I love them!

  • Kanyade

    Off-topic: Happy post-Christmas everyone? I came home with leftovers. plan to try to be productive today—maybe clean my closets, organize and such.

    On-topic: Both babies so precious with heads full of hair.

  • Gloria

    Beyonce know damn well that she did not give birth with a face full of makeup and a thick, hot ass wig lmao. Talk about vanity ??

    So happy for Remy, btw!

  • Coy little wink

    I'm at work ? I'm jealous

  • stav

    Good for Remy for keeping it 100%, life is not a stage and there is no such thing as perfection in this imperfect world. Glad she's and her baby are well! No pretense or airs are always refreshing .

  • Trace da Ace

    Well congrats to Remy and Pap...I know that they wanted this baby for so long and God has blessed them! Ain't no secret about Bey....so I'm just gonna leave it at that....

  • Indies beauty

    Queens

  • Indies beauty

    Love Bey. She can do no wrong

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    So people still believe that "Beyonce didn't really give birth" foolishness? OK.

  • Dem Moore

    I know why she refused that c section thoo...

  • Kanyade

    ? well I hope the rest of your work week is easy. I work in academia so we get longer breaks—not as long as the students, but longer than the norm.

  • MsSapphire9800

    I swear some people have too much time on their hand....why was this comparison necessary....I do not have any extra Raid on hand...so I will end my comment...with Congrats to Remy and her husband

  • Kanyade

    I thought BKC’s pics were publicity pics done well after Blue’s birth...

  • WhoKnew

    I see we're beating a dead horse the day afta Christmas, huh? Most folk know damned well BeeYawnSay was never pregnant with Blue so it's not a fair comparison. She owes no explanation for why her supposedly 5 or 6 month pregnant belly deflated on national TV and she was flat as an ironing board when it did. So we will go back n forth with those who believe she was pregnant despite seeing that David Copperfield optical illusion and those who don't believe she was pregnant.

    Glad to see Remy Ma is on the mend after her post-delivery surgery and that mother and baby are doing well.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Starting early today huh

  • Jay

    Im so happy for Remy and Pap. Really love their relationship.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    Blue was pretty

  • Well$$Well$$?

    I love conspiracy theories but the whole Beyonce never carried Blue never excited me. Yes her stomach did that weird foldy thing but why would her husband, her parents and an entire hospital be in on the conspiracy... Congrats to Remy and Pap and their golden child...

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    It's not a conspiracy to hire a surrogate to carry a child. Hospitals participate in private surrogate births daily.

  • the guest

    In my opinion, Remy Ma and Papoose are far more attractive a couple than the Carters. Remy Ma looks beautifully exhausted and how women really do look after birth. 2 months after birth with both our children I lost baby weight and was thinner than pre pregnancy but I still had a baby pouch. It takes time for the baby belly to go all the way down. I breast fed and walked a lot and let nature take its course. I didn't believe in girdles and I didn't do crunches and sit up. I let my body heal and had a flat tummy by six months after birth. Our bodies are made for birth and know what to do to heal.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Sometimes people just prefer to believe an elaborate lie rather than the simple truth.

  • Coy little wink

    Why?

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Im still not convinced. If a surrogate gave birth to Blue do you really think someone, anyone would'nt have ran to TMZ and sprayed all that tea.

  • MsSapphire9800

    OFF TOPIC...Why do people wear those awful Christmas sweaters to work after Christmas....I am sitting here looking around the office and feel like screaming....please take those ugly azz sweaters off...certain the one with the reindeer.

  • MelissaMonroe

    These two pics or p cannot be compared for 1, 2 Beyonce was home in this picture and Remy was still in the hospital right after birth. So how are ppl comparing how they looked after. You clearly cannot. I wish ppl would use some damn common sense, or go buy some. Geesh
    And while Beyonce was healing ppl kept assuming she was pregnant again. And in the other pic of Remy, she hasn't snapped back she clearly still has a small belly after birth. What is wrong with ppl.

  • MelissaMonroe

    Her stomach did not fold he dress did...smh

  • MelissaMonroe

    But neither one of these women used a surrogate ??

  • MelissaMonroe

    She clearly showed pics and videos when she was pregnant with Blue, ppk are just flat out ignorant and insensitive.

  • WhoKnew

    Open post: Hope everyone had a great Christmas yesterday. Spent mine with the fam at my brother's house. I love being around my family. Just fun and laughter. Was up at 2 am eating cold yams, ham and stuffing from my to-go plate.

    Sunday night as we were cooking, me and my fam decided everyone would get to open one present early. My son's girlfriend gave me the gift in the picture. I said shewd I'm about to be ghetto as hell and go to the grocery store for more paprika for the tater salad in my robe and slippers.

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/a0572c7fc9d8964aea373cb0d7bb0fdb52b458d15f57b0b89e1208a09e4a4a58.jpg

  • the guest

    I don't know why but I'm proud of her for refusing the c section. It takes a lot of courage and strength to refuse the medical industry's greedy pressure for c sections.

  • MelissaMonroe

    And she didn't, clearly they cannot be compared, Beyonce was home in the is pic and Remy clearly just had the baby. No comparison

  • WhoKnew

    I don't know this for certain, but I think when you're dealing with a surrogate that information can be kept confidential from the surrogate as to who they are carrying the child for. Sort of like how they keep adoption private from the person giving up a baby for adoption and the person adopting the baby.

  • Phillybruh

    I got that 65inch on the wall on Sunday Evening and they surprisingly didn't notice until the next day. Christmas went off without a hitch. Hope everyone had a wonderful holiday.

  • Gloria

    That’s obvious info. Both women’s pictures are public and were taken post delivery.

  • Y me?

    I never questioned beys pregnancy with blue until she was pregnant with the twins and i thought she looked and behaved how a first time pregnant lady would. With the photoshoot and how her nose and lips spread. At the end of the day u don't have to carry a baby in your womb to be a mother so i think its a moot point. But i also found it odd that of all the rumors about her that was the only 1 she decided to publicly address

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Heeey y'all welcome back...what day is it again?

  • FukkFolks2018

    but why would her husband, her parents and an entire hospital be in on the conspiracy...
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Same people who are still hiding behind the fact that Kelly is Mathew's bio kid. That they most likely pushed Bey's real birthdate back by 2-3 years...and the same dude who reportedly erased Cathy White from earth without a trace or a blink. And hospitals always been a biz.

    I dont buy into theories much. I do think critically though and I do think something aint right in the water around there not being a surrogate. It doesnt matter to me. She is a beautiful kid and she is here now, but to think none of them are capable is not plausible to me either.

  • stav

    Looks like Beyoncé is in one of those hospital beds to me, with the mattress raised up in the back!

  • FukkFolks2018

    Only person Bey pic should be compared to is Gabby Union.

    Congrats to Remy and Pappy.

  • bemetoo

    Beyonce got fix up after solange shiited out blu ivy

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Stop being a Grinch?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Chile.... Beyonce did NOT carry Blue Ivy! You can tell by the way she BLEW UP like a balloon while carrying those twins???

  • https://www.facebook.com/app_scoped_user_id/YXNpZADpBWEZAJWUh0SHpCcnM4THZA5QjVOVGZAvb1dwdmFJandlOFdhaUMtQ3FaQVpQZA2h6bnQwd01wbUtyb1h1T0FYUVRKMUREZAmN3UWtQRkhGc2pYUnd0WFExdW9HbEwxX3VLc1NXRGJQ/ Michele Williams

    Apples to oranges. Beyoncé is a multimillionaire Star while Remy is a rapper that doesn’t have the monetary tools Beyoncé has. Keep it moving

  • Ni Ni

    Lmao!

  • Rayscoty

    Is that a real baby Sasha holding?

  • Ni Ni

    At least she gave gratitude to the hospital staff.

  • Coy little wink

    People are really dumb..

  • EBT Doll

    Umm that's because BEYONCE didn't really give birth...ION know nobody who is SLAYED TO THE GAWDS after pushing a WHOLE human out their snatch... but imma mind my business?

  • Ni Ni

    Cayute, but for the house only please ?.

  • brooklyn23

    Lmfao

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Are you going to do a post on Choke No Joke doc about Jessica Reid? The Charlamange accuser. I watched it last night and it was disturbing...

  • Prince Zuko

    LMAO I agree

  • brooklyn23

    Right! Remy can't shut down no maternity ward

  • Ni Ni

    Why?

  • HotInCleveland

    Right! After her stomach folded during that interview ?

  • Parent

    What's the baby girls name?

  • MsSapphire9800

    Looking at that reindeer blinking is making me cross-eyed....

  • Well$$Well$$?

    I don't care either lol. You don't have to share blood with someone to be their family. I just don't understand why go through all of that? There's no shame in surrogacy or adoption. If this was the case it would actually make her more relatable if she was open about it...

  • Well$$Well$$?

    I'm not going to lie. The whole folding belly thing did make me say hmmmmm. ???

  • Guest

    It's only Wednesday. Le sigh!

  • FukkFolks2018

    Its always been frowned upon. Surrogacy and adoption. Its why so many stories are out there about people being reunited with birth parents/fam. Whole TV shows dedicated to it. People been faking pregnancy...Anna Gordy Gaye. And really its no explanation as to why it still is like that.

  • goat

    Lotta hate in this thread. Just be happy for healthy kids and black love!!

  • TMW

    My stomach folded over like that when I was about 4 - 5 months pregnant, so that doesn’t prove she had a surrogate. I don’t care whether she did or not, her business - maybe she’ll be like Michelle Obama and come clean in her book later down the line.

    People also can’t compare how she carried the twins and how much weight she gained to her first pregnancy. I gained a total of 26 pounds, didn’t wear maternity clothes until I was always 8 months, and you couldn’t tell I was pregnant unless you saw me from the front. The beauty of women is that we are all unique and people can’t say what is “normal” for another person under any circumstance.

  • Parent

    C sections are way more expensive. Sometimes I wish I didn't have a c section but feared passing my 9 lbs daughter.

  • TMW

    OT: So Safaree got engaged to Erica Mena for a LH&H story line, and Terrance Howard got engage to his ex-wife. Do they know that if things don’t work out, fiancés can technically keep the ring because when you get engaged during the holiday, the ring is also considered a gift?

  • EBT Doll

    WHOLE stomach collapsed do you hear me?

  • Bonita

    Yeah, it's just manufactured.

  • EBT Doll

    Because a WHOLE person sitting on your bladder ain't gon fold ???

  • TMW

    They haven’t said. They are saving that for their reality show...

  • EBT Doll

    Said the people who can't see?

  • HotInCleveland

    I’m not the smartest person, but I knew that wasn’t supposed to happen!

  • EBT Doll

    Was that past tense intentional??

  • Parent

    Figures

  • Kanyade

    Indeed Beyoncé was at home...amount of time after birth of babes are different for both women; kinda what I was trying to say in my comments down below...

    Also, Remy’s belly pic says “still baking”...baby still in oven; not a post-party’s tumtum.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    This is a reach and just stupid. Congratulations Remy. The audacity, no shade towards Remy at all, but let’s be honest you can’t compare Remy to Beyonce ????? . Remember auntie as you always say Beyonce is a narcissist right? You”ll never catch her slipping, face always beat. The haters always upset ? Happy Holidays ????

  • TMW

    Exactly.

  • EBT Doll

    Listen my baby, you is smart, you is kind, you is important
    ?

  • HotInCleveland

    Really? What state was this? Traditionally engagement rings are conditional gifts.

  • HotInCleveland

    Lolololol?

  • Kanyade

    I swear I thought those pics were in their home in nyc. Okay I stand corrected on that one.

  • Kanyade

    ??

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    That's how I've always understood it. If the wedding doesnt take place, Safaree gets his ring back. And I think he'll be taking his back by summer of 2019, because I cant see this "relationship" lasting very long.

  • TMW

    https://www.google.com/amp/www.bravotv.com/this-billionaire-is-suing-his-ex-to-get-250000-engagement-ring-back%3famp

    Most of the time, if you believe a marriage will happen, and your partner (now ex) called it off, the ring is rightfully yours because they failed to fulfill a promise.

    If the breakup is mutual, you are also legally entitled to get the ring back.

    If the ring gifter calls off the wedding, they don’t have a right to the ring — it’s considered a gift and it’s yours.

    If the ring is given on a holiday or birthday (before the marriage), it is considered a gift.

    If you get an engagement ring and later divorce, the ring is yours.

  • Marlika

    Congrats.

    But I’ve never like Remy or her music since she hit the scenes. She’s too ghetto for me. ?????

  • HotInCleveland

    I had this same scenario for my legal writing, research and analysis class and for moot court. I’m familiar with the state laws. I thought you were aware of new case law that said if an engagement ring was given during the holidays or birthday they can keep the ring just bc it’s considered a Christmas gift or Birthday gift.

  • TMW

    I read it somewhere because someone was suing to get the ring back, and because it was given during the holidays it was considered a gift and the person didn’t get the ring back? Maybe CA? The article attached said there was case law in Montana.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    And neither can Beyoncé. Don't believe the hype.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Apples to apples. Birth is birth....I don't care WHO you are or how much MONEY you have. You can CLEARLY tell when a woman has just given birth...or when they haven't. People believe anything these days.....

  • HotInCleveland

    Yup! You’re right. Montana is the only state that does it. So they’ll be fine.

  • Logan Roberts

    Blue Ivy almost driving and folks still worried about if Bey really had her or not. Who's taking care of Blu, Beyonce or the public?

  • HotInCleveland

    He’ll be fine. He’s in NY where Montana case law wouldn’t apply in this scenario. I don’t understand the need for him to do publicity stunts-he’s likeable and interesting.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Right, smh ?????

  • WhoKnew

    LOL. Yeah, was too cold to go out wearing only that.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Why must people ALWAYS compare two people to each other, just to prove a point?

    Both are mothers, regardless of their status and how the babies got here. Just say "Congratulations" and keep it moving. Comparing her to Beyonce is so immature and unnecessary.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    That's what I'm saying. What does Beyonce have to do with Remy having a baby?

  • WhoKnew

    Wendy Williams open post: Just heard on the car radio that Wendy has filed for divorce (finally) from Kevin because the side chick he bought a house for and lives with on the side is currently pregnant. Wendell said that's it I'm out. Might explain that shoulder injury. If it looks and smells like domestic violence it probably is. She should have been cut that nucca to the quick and been like I'm out.

  • Renee26

    VH1 probably bought that ring

  • Renee26

    What did you slip them? ?

  • Tlowe89

    Uh huh... lol she done got her hair/wig curled, and got on that no makeup “makeup” do.... girl who has time for that

  • Thingamajig

    That’s not fair... believe it or not but there’s actually women out there that does not look like they got run over by a car after given birth. When my sister had her baby you could not tell that she’d just given birth. Jeez Louis... BIC is how old now and we still on this?!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Just Can't Buy a Happy Marriage!!! If the Public knows about the side chick, the house He Bought, and him living with her, So Did Wendy.

  • MsVAllDay

    Bey got on a wig and some makeup that's it. She probably had someone from her glam squad in the hospital with her to get her together for pics. Or she's just one of the lucky women that just still look great after giving birth. Nothing to see here.

  • Harley

    My mom had her false eyelashes, wig and makeup on after she had me in the 70s! Just cuz Remy looks like she went thru a battle doesn’t mean Bey has too! How vile is it for people to compare women after having birth anyway? How insensitive and jealous can one be ?

  • Harley

    Exactly people are miserable

  • Harley

    Rumor is she is pregnant or just a rumor for ratings

  • Harley

    My mom did in the 70s......

  • Harley

    But I know many women who put on makeup and slayed their hair after having birth! My momma did with me! Fake eyelashes and wig and all that

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Happy for them. Glad Remy is doing better. I hope everyone enjoyed their families and holiday as I enjoyed mine.

  • Phillybruh

    Movie passes to go see Aquaman by the time they got home everyone went to their corners and not the family room...lol

  • Harley

    But you DO get bigger sooner with second pregnancies and you do get bigger with twins so......

  • Harley

    She still is

  • WhoKnew

    Yep. I agree. But isn't it amazing how some women will go through living hell trying to hold onto a man? I'm trynna to tell you I can be happy by myself if I have to because I am not one to go through the stress of fussing and fighting with a kneegro every friggin' day and I sholl ain't one to be with a kneegro I can't trust.

  • tbab bab

    Remy looks like Laverne Cox in that side pic lmao

  • Harley

    Let’s compare their felonies and prison records ????? Versus album sales and awards

  • tbab bab

    I think everyone knows Bey's first pregnancy was actually a surrogacy lol. And I also believe she will take that fact with her to the grave lol

  • MsPam

    Remy’s real name is what?!!! ?????

  • Sunshine ///

    Let's compare how many times their husband cheated on them. Who cares about material things when you have a husband who desires no one but you.

  • dru and neil

    I did. I looked like I got hit by a Mack truck. I was exhausted and got no rest between the baby and hospital staff coming in every few hours to do their little checks on my vag healing after all that ripping and tearing. I don’t know how people have the energy to get glamorous for birth.

  • dru and neil

    Why do people even WANT to get glamorous for birth. How stuck up do you have to be to want to reapply lipstick and powder, during birth.

  • Sunshine ///

    Probably because giving birth is a hell for most. After being in labor for 23 hours and still had to have a c-section I'd rather see realness not the glamour look. She had on full makeup which is surprising for a chick who loves to claim 'I woke up like this.'?

  • Sunshine ///

    Got me singing Mary's Reminisce on the love we had. Lol! Ain't no telling what inspired her mom to name her that.

  • dru and neil

    OMG my water just broke, somebody get my kit, don’t forget the lash glue, get the demi whispies! Don’t forget my powder so I can bake!

  • Sunshine ///

    I made sure my hair was in braids but wore no makeup. My baby was all that mattered. I didn't want to wear makeup knowing I'd be kissing her face all the time.

  • Sunshine ///

    Insecurities

  • Sweetness

    And she was shading Nick Cannon about having a "side baby". Umph umph umph. Karma stinks don't it? I feel bad for Ms. Williams. I sincerely do ?.

  • RespectSelf

    The joys of bringing life into this world

  • ALLMINE?

    Remy has come a long way..its crazy

  • nick c

    IKR! Is Rema's family fighting her man in elevators and all while she just stands their looking on? lol.

  • Harley

    Yeah and like you said 23 hours of labor... some woman are in labor for 2 hours and others 5 and others a day.. everyone is different and “YOU” would rather see one thing and others another!!! Plus to compare Beyonce a chart topping singer, actress and dancer to Remy a felon who makes music is blah.....

  • Mark mcharm

    Think because Beyonce is an habitual liar and weirdo when it clear she used a surrogate.?

  • Harley

    There’s lots to compare boo.... a hubby who desires me over being a felon who attempted murder on a black woman and had a son waiting for me to come out of jail ?? I would rather be single without the record and jail time hun!

  • MsPam

    Isn’t there a alcoholic call Remy ?! ???

  • MsPam

    Alcohol*

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Has remy faked a pregnancy? Has remy sister had to put paws on papoose? Has papoose cheated on remy? Apples and oranges folks. I know yall lightskin bias is real but leave reminisce alone!

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Preach!

  • pecancandy

    I don’t get it. One just looks more posed. They both look happy.

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    I was doing my make up while in labor while the father of my kids was helping by doing my hair. I wanted to look decent for pics. With my first child, I looked worn out and exhausted. The pics were unflattering with my 1st baby, I looked great in the pics of me in labor and afterwards with my 2 youngest. Everyone is different and There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    "Reminisce on that nite we had..."

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I really did! The potential for disaster was there, yet we licked it and came out victorious l0l!!

  • Sunshine ///

    Thank you!

  • Sunshine ///

    ha!

  • Tell the truth

    You sound like an idiot , who worries about looking good for pics after pushing out an whole nother human , these millennial are something else .

  • Sunshine ///

    lol... stop!

  • Sunshine ///

    A whole human. You got that right!

  • Reina1718

    Thats Remy after her blood transfusion

  • Tell the truth

    Yes labor is nothing to play with you can die from childbirth . The Ignorance of some folks

  • leapyearpisces

    After all I went through with the twins, I was just glad we all were alive. Da fugg thinking about some make-up and hair after BAKING and taking a human out the oven???? In my case 2 humans. That's some SHALLOW shat, but different strokes for different folks.
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b16dca70dc72f0bce67ed8492e2c0e71ed4cc8b21037f8f5e77ca842f4c103e5.jpg

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    To each their own, My dear! I didn't know putting on make up before giving birth puts Your child in harm's way! I wasn't drinking alcohol or doing drugs, I wasn't selling my baby to sex traffickers! I was simply trying to look decent for photos! Name calling is cute ;)

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    That's You! Everyone is different and Not everyone is delivering 2 babies at once or having horrible labor and deliveries. Mine were quick and easy, 8 hours at the most with no complications. My pregnancies we're hell... The labor and deliveries for me we're easy and actually very pleasant!

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    Everyone wants to force an opinion upon someone! Nothing wrong with wanting to look good! You got bitches like Cardi B, Pregnant af, Inhaling the smoke from the blunt... Putting her child in harm's way! But wanting to look presentable after child birth is apparently an abomination from God and You're automatically an idiot and a bad person for it! Lol. Some folks are too much and Have an opinion about everything! If a woman wants to look good during labor and delivery, What's the issue with it? Not everyone's L&D are the same. Not everyone has bad L&D!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Second time he got back with an ex-wife.
    Make up your mind! IN or OUT!

  • Brown & Proud

    Social media addicts care. I call em thirst buckets. Cant stand those types.

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    Not true! I did my make up... The photos weren't for social media either. Didn't even post Our family pics on SM. Only posted one photo of my newborn to announce the arrival.

  • Fire & Ice

    Beyonce gets dragged into everything, no matter who it's suppose to be about ????

  • RICHIE_RICH

    My mother did and grandma did. Ebt ?? hence the reason you might not know of any ..... lmao ?

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    I was always told a girdle was necessary after giving birth. They are so damn uncomfortable and left me feeling itchy all over my stomach. I'm Mexican and The women in my family say a girdle is a must to keep the cervix from dropping... Also they say no type of house work (sweeping, mopping, vacuuming) until after the 6 weeks. I used a girdle after my 1st & 3rd baby, I felt it did nothing for me. After my 2nd, I didn't wear a girdle and I dropped the weight faster than I did with my oldest and youngest.

  • EBT Doll

    Oh they was fancy fancy ?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    SayItBabySayIt!

  • Panther Charleston

    No disrespect, but Bey and Remy are not in the same league. With the level of care and attention Bey can easily afford, she BEST BETTER be looking far less stressed and way more glam than anybody else.

  • MissMaryMack410

    I was the EXACT same way with BOTH of my deliveries . I was “beat” to da gods pudd? and everyone that came to visit me, remarked about howthey couldn’t believe I remained looking gorg after the delivery. I really feel it’s up to the individual and no right or wrong answer.Beyoncé is a control freak and really couldn’t see her looking another way. Rem, just RECENTLY became glowed up,so I can see her not being..well you know?????

  • MissMaryMack410

    Even though I disagree with your opinion, this baby’s expression is giving me LIFE! ?

  • the guest

    Isn’t that confidential medical information? How would someone know her medical info to share it on a blog?

  • Yui

    To each it’s own, their choice. If you wanna, be glamorous— cool. If you don’t feel like it, that’s cool too!

  • the guest

    Well stated facts.

  • RICHIE_RICH

    Them ladies a whole damn T

  • Ridingfinest

    You should seek help you have a very sick obsession with Beyonce! Three baby later and you still talking about her and her first born pregnancy...damn let it go Sandra!!!

  • imright

    thats a recent pic of Rem & Pap ?!! had the baby 2 weeks ago & already out & about? congrats tho, i bet she’s cute??

  • Reina1718

    Pappose said it

  • Sunshine ///

    what does their starus have to do with giving birth?

  • country57

    hollering!!!!!!!!!!!! just did a visual on that. :):)

  • xenaD

    They both look nice. So wats the problem

  • Kay Gee

    Why compare something that happened almost 7 years ago to someone that gave birth this weekend.

    Now to clear this up for people who "aren't" fans of Beyoncé - she stated when "SHE GAVE BIRTH" to Blue that she had her mother there to roll and style her hair. You may ask, why did she do that, well the answer is - because she could!!! People need to realize that not everyone is going to experience things the same way, as the saying goes "different strokes, for different folks"

    The end of my defense...thanks for reading.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Beautiful stated!!! And just think of the Deadly diseases You put Yourself in with an Unfaithful man. I Chose Life!!!

  • Drea982

    Who cares? Remy looked like any normal human who gives birth. The only difference is Remy didn't have her hair done and wasn't wearing make-up. NEXT!

  • Dr. P

    Now to clear this up for *correction* Sandra, who isn't a fan of Beyoncé...there ya go. I agree with ER'THANG you wrote.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Rem's sister owns one of the most lucrative black salons in this city. If she wanted her hair done after giving birth...she could have. Sure her sis could have done it or arranged to. Shouts out to RaeMonique. It was a choice. Neither are wrong. To style or not to style. Not a Bey hater. Ride for her here often. But sorry. Still Don't think she had the same set of circumstances. And nobody but Sandra has this as a comparison.

  • kre

    Well we know Beyonce didn't birth any of her children. That's the difference.

  • dontgetblocked

    No matter what.. you get yourself together before a picture. If you can't get yourself together...the picture does not get taken. A picture lasts forever and she looks a damn wreck! Brush your weave and put on some lipstick. If Kate Middleton can have a full makeover and walk out of the hospital, pose for pictures with the baby hours after giving birth...Remy can sit there and pose for a few minutes ...looking put together with her newborn. Black women always want to keep it real. Phuck keeping it real. Keep it together!

  • Harley

    What are you trying to say here ?

  • Harley

    Well stated!! Thank you

  • Harley

    That’s YOUR opinion. Women in this post have stated their pregnant bellies folded the same way! Remy is a felon so what’s your point

  • dontgetblocked

    Mine did too. She even put rollers in hair to make sure she looked good when guest came. I'm the same way.

  • dontgetblocked

    You pull it together girl. Fake it until you make it.

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  • Mark mcharm

    Well I'm a guy and what does her being a ex-convict have to do with having children that is like saying Tim Allen was a drug dealer so he should not have children.? Beyonce knows she used a surrogate, she is overrated, she said she wanted to be "latina" and then she became pro-black. And the next person that compares her to the great Michael Jackson should get slapped with his sequenced glove.!

  • Jethro

    "Why compare something that happened almost 7 years ago to someone that gave birth this weekend."

    Anything to avoid addressing her failure of a president's current shenanigans.

  • Munchosgirl

    Beyonce's photo was taken a month after not 2 days...q

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I beg to disagree. One of them did.

  • Sunshine ///

    Lol! Beyoncé didn't give birth. That's why she looks good.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Her camp keeps a very tight lid on all teapots and kettles. Ask me how I know.

  • Harley

    That’s your opinion. I believe she did give birth and I know many other women who gave birth and looked good including my mom who put on her makeup, wig and false eyelashes in the 70s

  • Harley

    Sounds like you have hate in your heart for a successful and talented black woman... I’m calling a spade a spade. You want to speak on Beyonce yet let’s call a felon a felon its all

  • Harley

    Haha me too

  • Sunshine ///

    Her pregnancy with the twins was believable. Weight gain don't change with one or two babies and a pregnant stomach surely doesn't fold over when sitting down. A fat stomach don't even fold when sitting down. You're right, it's my opinion.

  • tintin

    Remy looks so nice all natural

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Real Talk! Legs spread WIDE open with your doctors arm up in you checking for leftover placenta is NOT sexy???

  • Fodderwing

    those comparisons aren’t even fair...Remy actually is legit in her pic bc it’s pretty much how any woman looks after she gives birth! Beyoncé looks like her surrogate just gave birth.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Oh, please, Muncho. That is a newborn in that photo.

  • MissMaryMack410

    ???????

  • Harley

    Yeah fat tummy’s do fold ??
    And weight gain changes with each pregnancy. I gained 40 with my first and about 25 with my second

  • Harley

    There are plenty of women who look amazing after giving birth .... it’s genetics and taking care of yourself before and during pregnancy

  • Rhondalousey

    I forgot about that song, thank you!!!

  • Sinny

    Yeeeooooooo!! Chilllllll!!! ??????

  • Fodderwing

    That’s exactly my sentiment! Loves it when the curtain is pulled back on these frauds

  • Fodderwing

    True...Lol!!!!!

  • Fodderwing

    THIS! Truth!

  • Allihave2say

    Go to bed early. You've posted enuf mess for the day!

  • Allihave2say

    Yeah those reborn dolls are always newborns when you take them out of the box. Every time you put them up and take them out again, they are reborn.

  • Allihave2say

    Warning!!!!!!! DO NOT CLICK SEE MORE. DO NOT DO IT! YOU'VE BEEN WARNED. THIS PIC IS THE ISH! DON'T DO IT UNLESS YOU ARE ALONE AND CAN LAUGH OUT LOUD FOR REAL!!!

  • Allihave2say

    All the huffing and breathing; the sweating, the smears, the forehead wiping, the tears streaming; etc while birthing a baby makeup seems selfish and vain. It's one thing if you have on face and labor begins but to apply during and in preparation for delivering seems like low self esteem to me and a need to be complimented. Most doctors want you makeup free and nails uncolored to monitor for vital signs. Has that changed?

  • Allihave2say

    If we must compare (I'm taking the bait because this is stupid) - then we can compare that Remy's attention is on the baby and Beyonce's is on the camera.
    There I said it damn it. Who gone check me boo?

  • Applebum

    Hahaha. Can’t compare real to fakes. Beyonce can’t have kids and it’s not because of that fake “miscarriage” mess they put out there years ago.

    The truth will blow your mind. ?

  • A D N

    Well, do tell.

  • A D N

    By this standard, it is not a legitimate comparison. After the birth of my son, I took a picture the next day and it is still one of the prettiest pictures I've been photographed to have. I did not look like I've given birth or the incredible life threatening ordeal I suffered to get my son here because his health was declining, all while fighting for my life.

  • A D N

    I will not pose for a picture until I look right lol. However, I do like the surprise shots in some circumstances.

  • A D N

    Good to hear.

  • A D N

    What does colorism have to do with this?

  • A D N

    It's after birth...for pictures.

  • A D N

    Wait! Wait! and Wait! Who compared Beyoncé to Michael Jackson?! There is noooooo comparison.

  • leapyearpisces

    LOLOLOLOLOL!

  • Tell the truth

    Yes girl ?? they don't know !

  • Savoy7

    Really??

  • Fodderwing

    Happy Hellidays FF18!! Sending love and light to you and yours...thanks for your HIGHlarity, quick wit and cynicism. I never take your perspective for granted...and am elated you provide it.

  • Fodderwing

    Props ?

  • Fodderwing

    Werd! But I’m not wrong...?

    Wait! We said the same thing! Lol! So if I gotta go to bed early will u tuck me in??

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    If you don’t know, You dont have to find out. stay ignorant.

  • Fodderwing

    Hey...is it anything close to what the “Truth Show” put out about Cathy White?

  • Fodderwing

    Cathy. White. The Truth Show. You Tube if u dare.

  • A D N

    Be nice. No need to be combative .I am very aware colorism exist but the connection in SR post or the responders comments doesn't imply.

  • A D N

    Be nice. No need to be combative .I am very aware colorism exist but the connection in SR post or the responders comments doesn't imply.

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  • Munchosgirl
  • Munchosgirl

    The left is newborn, the right is 6 weeks

  • Munchosgirl

    Not to mention Remy is in the hospital in her photo.... Beyonce was at home.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Can’t compare the two because surrogate or not Beyoncé would have been dolled up!

    Remy looks better without makeup or very little, as she’s wearing a bit of makeup, IMO! I hope she gets the machine treatment with a top stylist and glam team! She should take this baby and cash in on the mommy market, go mainstream.

    I’ve been binge-watching MAZELEE on YouTube with this adorable Asian and Black family! They’re incredible and monetized their life on the realest levels!

    We could use a Hip Hop married couple and family (Remy) who could share beneficial parenting tips and represent legitimate couple goals!

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  • Carla B

    Hundreds of women die during child birth in this country each year. SMH Sandra you must be having a slow news day. ??

  • Kaze

    That baby looking at Beyonce like who you? Somebody please call the nurse I wanna go back to my mamma, I don't do photo ops with randoms

  • missmiami305

    My bff loves that family. Isn’t the wife pregnant again?

  • missmiami305

    Lawd I wish women who take advantage of resting and healing inside of the home after giving birth. Give your insides time to heal. It ain’t a damn race to see who snaps back the fastest. Ya twat and boobs are still leaking. Sit down somewhere. Give it atleast 4 weeks. Dayum!

  • BeUtFullSoul

    REMY actually Gave Birth to her bundle of Joy, RIGHT?., because she DEFINITELY LOOKS like a woman who actually went THROUGH childbirth..... oh OKAY...Anywho, carry on...

  • Precious Henry

    I watch them too. Yes she is pregnant again.

  • Ang

    Beyoncé and Jay compare her to MJ. The two of them and their delusional stans are the only people who don’t know there is no comparison.

  • Ang

    Beyoncé and Jay compare her to MJ. The two of them and their delusional stans are the only people who don’t know there is no comparison.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Miserable as hèll. I just don't get it.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    ??????

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Ooowwww chile, The shade of it all ??????

  • Renee26

    Alright now! High 5

  • EMILY POST

    Well gabby used a surrogate and she came through looking like she just went through labor in her photos more than both of them... so pictures don’t mean nothing

  • Dowoop

    ????

  • Dowoop

    I had already clicked.. You need to put this disclaimer above!

  • Chuck

    These two get on my nerves with this black love mess.. Rema is ugly and Pap is lame.

  • EyeEmJai

    Exactly. Although I felt differently, I looked similar to Beyonce within two days and after giving vaginal birth to my boys. I dilated from 1cm to 9cm, had gone into labor, and delivered in four and three hours respectively. In like manner, a "snap back" is realistic to some women. I snapped back within weeks, especially after I allowed my breast milk to dry, which had taken about a week.

  • Sassie

    Beyonce can never be REAL....that's why it's so hard for me to like her. She's not genuine. Damn, u gotta get glammed up right in the hospital? Oh but I forgot...she didn't actually BIRTH Blu.

  • Guess Who

    LOL...damn!

  • EyeEmJai

    This!!!!!!!!

  • Guess Who

    IKR!?!

  • itsjismemelly

    people really have nothing to do with there lives so what if bey didn't have her baby which I truly believe she did. WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES IT MAKE!!!

  • EyeEmJai

    Exactly!

    I am still mesmerized by my photos he had taken of me after giving birth to our sons! I felt like ISH both times lol but I looked nothing like what I had been through.

  • EyeEmJai

    Not me. I won't check you. This is a realistic comparison...or contrast lol.

  • EyeEmJai

    Yeah, Kate Middleton was together TOGETHER lol. And, like you said, that was within a few hours. The post noted after two days of giving birth. Even I didn't look like Remy after two days and I didn't put on any makeup.

  • EyeEmJai

    Right!

  • EyeEmJai

    Exactly!

  • EyeEmJai

    Well...Beyonce and Kate Middleton did apparently. And they aren't Millennials ?????.

  • EyeEmJai

    Right lol.

  • gina jones

    This is not rocket science Remy looks the way a woman looks that went through labor and had a baby Beyonce looks the way a woman looks when she had a surrogate.

  • EyeEmJai

    Everyone has different experiences. As someone stated before, there is no right or wrong answer. For me, I didn't experience what Leapy did. I didn't put on makeup BUT I didn't go "through" a lot having my two children. Within hours and after taking a nap lbvs, I was fine and felt well...well enough to flat iron my hair, shower, etc. I don't think people who didn't have the energy should shade another, and likewise for people like me who did have the energy, and the will, to do more and feel BEAUTIFUL.

  • gina jones

    Because Gabby so shallow and always acting she made herself look that way for the effect

  • gina jones

    Of course a snapback is possible,yes you can be glamorous after having a baby but please don't forget about Beyonce folding collapse stomach. I believe Beyonce is always trying to portray herself as the perfect woman and she didn't want to admit she couldn't or wouldn't carry her own baby

  • EyeEmJai

    Exactly! Shoot, from dilation to delivery it was a total of four hours the first and three hours the last time. I wish someone would tell me to BEHAVE and LOOK like Gabrielle Union just because they believe it is 'shallow' to have the will, energy, and desire to do something differently than them. This doesn't diminish the fact that I am happy to hear that all commenting had healthy babies and had gotten better after deliveries. Those are ALWAYS blessings, whether you experienced painful labor and deliveries or not.

  • EyeEmJai

    Right. Social media didn't exist when my mother had us lbvs. Clearly, both photos were taken AFTER birth...two or so days. I don't know why people keep saying DURING birth.

  • EyeEmJai

    I am a perfectionist, too. And? Some people are. So? LOL. Everyone is different for a reason, thank goodness.

  • EMILY POST

    ?

  • EMILY POST

    Lol all they know baby probably allergic to the makeup ????? Smh people now a days do the most

  • free

    i just noticed that too lol

  • jadapooh2

    Did y’all actually SEE her belly collapse?

  • jadapooh2

    Oh ok so she didn’t have those twins? Oh ok ??

  • jadapooh2

    We do? I didn’t know that? How YOU know? Did she tell you? Do tell ?

  • jadapooh2

    Yes this is true. I saw the rollers in her hair on the video clip she showed at one of her concerts

  • jadapooh2

    Because Sandra is either a hater or has feelings for Beyonce ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I prefer my women to be intelligent. They must arouse my intellect as well as my loins.

  • Fire & Ice

    She definitely keeps her foot on Beyonce's neck ???

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Yes, she is, super mom, unpretentious, animated, not loud or too extra as some see her, also very business savvy couple!

  • Allihave2say

    Giggles

  • Allihave2say

    Yep. Roll over cause I'm a tosser left to right all night lol.

  • Fodderwing

    Fiiinnne. But listen, if this is going to work we are gonna have to get a big ole California king mattress but for tonight it will work. I’ll be up in a few. Turn the lights off.

  • BEANTOWN BULLI

    i LOOOOOVVVVEEEE THESE TWO!!! Beyonce and J are not the image of black love to me. Pap and Rem are. We never heard any females come forward claiming to have messed with pap. He held her down!!!

  • justsayin

    Preach.....

  • BxGirl

    Yes - MANY times as much as that video was shown!

  • Allihave2say

    Oh father. My hubby is going to divorce me for blog flirts

  • Fodderwing

    Noooo!! Lol! I am sorry if I came off any way other than just being silly af! For real. Im a married woman with two kids myself. I def love a good banter. If I was too much in any way...I sincerely apologize. My filter sucks.

  • Dainese

    I'm late. But I watched that show. And YES. Her stomach collapsed. She bent over further than any woman I've ever seen that was supposedly that pregnant. And the "oops" look on her face said a lot. It happened in real time.

  • Allihave2say

    All in good fun. Better than arguing.

  • Fodderwing

    Bet!!! Yes!!! U got me. ?

  • dru and neil

    Wasn’t even thinking of the Beyoncé photo, I know it’s not during birth, but there are people posting photos while in labor, full make up, and it’s ridiculous. The first time I actually saw a woman “done up” while giving birth, wasn’t even during the social media age. It was many, many years ago on the Montel Williams show, and he had “candid family footage” of his wife (at the time) pushing in labor and this woman had on make up. I thought it was strange then well over 20 years ago, and I still think it’s strange as hell now.

  • TBeezy

    I agree Beantown Bulli, I love them as a couple. Such honest and real folks. I wish them nothing but the best!