Ciara Wilson, Future Hendrix

Rapper Future responded to ex-fiancee Ciara Wilson who asked a judge to force him to enter mediation to finalize a travel itinerary for their 4-year-old son, Future Zahir Wilburn.

In court documents obtained by The Blast, the 33-year-old singer says Future frequently misses scheduled visits with his son.

Ciara, who lives all the way in Seattle, claims in court documents that Future, who lives in Atlanta, missed too many scheduled visitations with his son.

She says whenever Zahir accompanies his father to Georgia, the boy spends most of his time with Future's elderly relatives -- all women.

Ciara complained that she can't FaceTime with her kid because the older folks aren't tech savvy and don't know how to FaceTime.

In a video uploaded to Instagram.com on Wednesday night, a frustrated Future said, "You bothering me. Stop bullying me. Stop nagging me. Leave me alone!"

Though he didn't name Ciara specifically, everyone knows who his message was intended for.

Fans criticized the "Level Up" singer for harassing her baby daddy who dotes on his son whenever he does see him.

Sources say Future spends quality time with all of his four of his children -- and one child is not more special or important than the others.

His time is about to become more limited. Future has 2 children on the way by two different women.

In addition to his daddy duties, Future goes on tour to support his growing brood and his extended family members. That leaves very little time for him to comply with Ciara's demands.

Some fans say Ciara is using the courts to exert her control over Future.

Cici is married to straight-laced NFL quarterback Russell Wilson and shares a daughter with him. But sources say she still carries a torch for the bad boy rapper, who practically stranded her at the altar.

 

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  • bella28498 .

    Why is she trying to force him to see this boy isn’t she getting child support ? sound like she just wanna enjoy her new family.

  • MJF

    He's a grown child, what did we expect? Smh, what's disturbing is that Ciara laid with this man...

  • sunni_daze

    "You bothering me. Stop bullying me. Stop nagging me. Leave me alone!"
    ^^^^^ Ciara better remove future name from the bc and rename that baby RW Jr. and leave nothing ass sperminator alone.

  • Dowoop

    And she saw how he was with his other kids, why would she expect different. Now even if those old folk don't know how to facetime Im willing to bet her son does so them not being tech savvy really isn't an issue.

  • Parent

    I got nothing for this but Diddy just posted a video on Twitter with his 3 beauty queens and why is he annoying as all hell. Like leave those prepubescent girls off the net. I don't like it.

  • Ms..N

    Typical response from a male who has not grown up yet!! So the mother tried to work out the terms without the courts to only be ignored ! Now you want to whine on social media about being harassed!! Smfh

  • WutizstillHERE!

    Give me a minute I need to call my benefits department and see how many fuks I have left to give before the years out...
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6ea022ea348c90010dc1bcafc08581048624a12eedcd48d8d551247c3c4634ee.gif

  • LYRICS

    This man is just no good. The joke is, idk how all these women were finessed by him!???

  • Jordan’s Memory

    She would never do that then she wouldn't have an excuse to see Future, we all know that's what the real issue is. She got her back blown out by dude and she miss it, She got a good life now but she is bored to tears because her husband is not the thug dude she craves. She knows her husband is what she needs but it's not what she wants.

  • TMW

    That could be for any of his kids’ mothers. Maybe the one who said he tried to have her killed? Jus sayin...?????

  • Vonn

    Sounds like CiCi would like to raise a well adjusted child that has a good/healthy relationship with his paw. They could work together with a mediator and come to an agreement, or leave it up to a judge to make all of the decisions.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    You know what we call that? A black women going to her white daddy to make the black man behave

  • Yardgirl

    DEAD!!!!!

  • sunni_daze

    I agree with the last sentence, but that is all I agree with. I don't think she wanna see him, I think she wants him to be something he's not a FATHER. And while we can lead a horse to water we can not make them drink.

  • Mom

    I don't think she gives two cares about him spending time with him. She doesn't want her child traveling so much to spend time with him and he isn't even there. Just let him stay home.

  • Holler If Ya Hear Me

    Put your foot in his arse Cici. He is going to have to LevelUp on his parenting skills.

  • Coy little wink

    Altar not alter Auntie

    Future is a clown and I am here for it.

    I'm bored. I'm about to start some shyt myself 2018 I'm going out with a bang

  • Wakando Shamar Taylor

    Sounds bout right! She wants to erase him out of the boys life so Russell and her can raise him themselves! But its future fault i guarentee he calls for his son randomly and prob only because his people want to see him! He too busy drugging and fawking to be in any of his kids lives for an appropriate amount of time

  • Ms..N

    We call it mature adult parenting! Not everyone is ghetto hood rats only use to drama in the streets!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    Is it the pic where they are feeding the homeless? I would rather the parent post pre teens and teens vs them posting THEMSELVES. I dont like it much either but if kids of that age group are posted should have some parental intervention.

  • Phillybruh

    She should just scream out I told you so, when the boy is old enough to tell his old man he don't want go no more over the phone!

  • FukkFolks2018

    *edit. I see it. I think its okay. IDK. I dont post much period let alone my 13 yo

  • Parent

    No he's trying to interact with them and ask them questions about grades. It just seems so forced when you put it out there. Not saying that he's not a good parent but it's corny to me.

    https://mobile.twitter.com/Diddy/status/1073217710681714689

  • Phillybruh

    Me either, my kids aren't allowed on facebook and instagram so I don't post them on either of my accounts.

  • Parent

    Exactly. I have a 13 year old girl and she would die if I posted her at 10-12. Awkward times. She went through a change looking like a full teen now.

  • the guest

    Future is a horrible human being.

    It's sad two more women have procreated with him.

    He misses visitation because he's an irresponsible and unfit father. Point. Blank. Period. He is not always working. He's spending time making new babies, on blogs shopping throughout Europe, frolicking with escorts in Dubai, partying, chasing other men's wives. And his son's visitation time with him is for his son to have time with his birth father, not babysat by aunties so Future can do lunch and club hop.

  • Coy little wink

    Most men with a hammer are very charming

  • Nikki

    I don’t understand. He doesn’t want to be a good father to his kid and he doesn’t want another man to be a good father to his kid. ?????
    I understand that you cannot make a person do what is right, but I do not understand why she is wrong for trying to do what’s best for her son.

    Ciara isn’t not crying in a Phantom or a Nissan, but his son is...man up negro or let Papa Russ do it.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Maybe I'm thinking about this too logically. If the issue is really about protecting her son emotional well-being against Future's inconsistent visits. Wouldn't the solution be to simply not even tell her son that Future is coming? That way he wouldn't be expecting to see him. If he shows up-great! If not, the son isn't disappointed because he didn't know anything about it?

    The judge cannot make Future see their son. Judges can't even make people pay damn child support. Repeatedly taking him to court is clearly not solving the problem.

  • the guest

    I think she and Russell want Future to come to terms with his unfitness as a father and voluntarily relinquish his paternal rights. Which in my opinion, Future should so this kid can have 100% consistency and balance in his life.

    Ironically, most deadbeats don't like to admit they are deadbeats.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I'm bored. I'm about to start some shyt myself 2018 I'm going out with a bang. Several ninjas bout to get dealt with
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Yasssssssss?! I'm bored too. Come back and report in Wut fashion...

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    "...who dotes on his son WHENEVER he does see him." Caught that classic Sandra charm bright n early this merning. ? Today's gonna be a good day.

  • LYRICS

    This I KNOW! I'm no virgin! But, I also know when it's ONLY about the "D" n' "P", hence y i don't understand the full "finessal" of Future??

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    FUTURE is a PAST mistake. So Ci isn't suppose to use the courts??? GTFOH.... SHE IS GOING anout THIS JUST AS SHE SHOULD!!! This article is either facetious or tryna paint this IRRESPONSIBLE CEMEN SPREADING ADULTBOY as a victim. He's touring s as a recreationb and neglecting his responsibilities as "dad"... Trash this looser...

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    "You bothering me. Stop bullying me. Stop nagging me. Leave me alone!"
    _______________________________

    the laughter in the clip makes it obvious that he doesn't take this situation seriously. his "growing brood" has a childish man for a father, smh

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I doubt he's a man. I think "male" is the best he can qualify for.

  • sunni_daze

    I agree with you. And it would be the responsible mature thing to do.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    I call it SELFISH LOOSER BLACK MAN BLAMING THE WORLD FOR HIS RATCHET BEHAVIOUR AND BEING IN THE PERCENTAGE OF BUMS WHO NEGLECT THEIR CHILDREN EMOTIONALLY... FUTA!!! AND SADLY ITS GONNA TAKE HER "WHITE DADDY" TO MAKE HIM DO THE RIGHT THING!!

  • Appplesauce

    Sometimes as a parent who really cares you just have to throw in towel. As long as the kid come safe she needs to stop trying to make this man-child be a father. Her kid is just a number at this point. As long as lil future jr know his people let God handle the rest. A good structured home like the one her and Russell has created will impact this kid way more than a part time parent.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    He's pittifull!!

  • imright

    EXACTLY !!! everything thats been goin on between Future and Ciara has always been the case !! Ciara just salty about the two new babies thats otw

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LMAO!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Who takes pride in their children feeling disconnected or growing up with dysfunctional relationships??
    What kind of heartless creature did Ciara sleep with?

  • Coy little wink

    So you never been dickmatized?

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Shedding want to see no dayum Future!!! That woman had moved on. She tryna be fair to you the sake of their son. Soon she gone be requesting that his parental rights be stripped AND RIGHTFULLY SO!!! Folk acting like FUTURE B done prize... Ci tried and like a lot of women WE choose horrible men and have to live with the regrets. #TEAMCICI

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    you sound like a bitter "baby daddy" Lol!

  • Coy little wink

    Lololol I'm making some cuts from the team ill let you know how it goes...

  • Prettybrowneyes

    Lil man got a whole father in Russell. Stop trying to force these grown azz men into roles they CLEARLY don't want ?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Unfortunately, the little boy is already old enough to know his dad is a jerk. Plus he's got siblings. He'll be wondering why his dad doesn't want to spend time with him.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well as long as she not the blame in any of this I guess everything fine

  • BingBangBoom

    Welcome to the real world! You Found a woman that will not tolerate your BS. Some women go this route and others decide not to. Good for Ciara.... If he doesn't want to care for his son another man will. She don't need the coins.

  • SpillyNillie

    Immaturity at it's FINEST. CiCi, Sis, let this negra alone and allow him to see his son when he can. The rest will fall in place. TRUST ME!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Sound like a black man who see right through these games conniving black women play... and you wonder why EVERY black man with real money get him a Cascasiaun

  • LYRICS

    I call it "dick dumb", yea for the "D" (i.e. forgetting I was going to my granny's house, not answering the phone for 48hrs, skipping dinner/wine dates w/ my girls), BUT I ALWAYS kept in mind that this is NOT the "ONE", I just REALLY REALLY like his "D", and he's prolly giving it her, n' her, n' her too!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    Mine looks like a full teen too. Around last year so right before she turned 13. My niece is in Germany and was gone 4 months and came home to visit and started crying. I was like what is WRONG? "My baby cuz out here looking like a REAL TEENAGER". It literally happened OVERNIGHT.

  • SpillyNillie

    It's cutting season you say...*birdman hands*

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    whatever he is, he's too old to be acting like a 12 y/o who doesn't want to pick-up his socks and put them in the hamper, Lol! Did you hear how he was whining????
    I do wonder if he's an only child or (like my own 'spoiled' nephew) the only 'boy' in the fam, in a sea of girls... that might help to explain why the "elderly" relatives allow him to use them as babysitters... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/9eb2b76e506e38d5072dd1cf3ad262774eb5ffcb7856de93eefa3205f33fbcb1.gif

  • FukkFolks2018

    No more words on Future, Ciara, their kid, or their parenting situation. I will say he was immature like this when she had him, bc the boy is only four. More he talks... the more I side eye HER for her choice. IJS

  • Renee26

    Ok!! I'm pretty sure when that visitation schedule was drafted his tour dates were considered just like hers. Somebody just wants to paint her as bitter and still wanting his dusty azz ?

    She should ask him to sign over his rights and be done with his loser azz.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i'll take 'DL narcissist' for the win, Alex!
    ROFL!!!!!!!!!!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Ciara complained that she can't FaceTime with her kid because the older folks aren't tech savvy and don't know how to FaceTime.
    _________________
    Chile ..... https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c8fe4d0ab9b9a100fd9156dbdae603fbfd7df4dae532537b9cb362fbb0ae7478.jpg

  • Renee26

    Amen

  • Renee26

    I get the impression from the reports that she's abiding by the court order and taking the baby to the airport...then his daddy just drops him off elsewhere.

  • CookieMobster
  • FukkFolks2018

    Now that I think about it Future fits into kinda of what she was dating at the time. Amar'e had to carry HIS ass to court over some paternity mess. And we ALL see how 50 Cent does his son. She been had shaky taste. Oh well. She got Russ now. Go be happy girl.

  • Sushi

    You better say it

  • tintin

    i didn't realize that's how he really sounds without the autotune

    and what does "Cici is married to straight-laced NFL quarterback Russell Wilson" mean?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    but he won't do that, just in case his career tanks. he's tryna keep a glimmer of hope alive. he's prob scheming & thinking he might be able to pretend to want his son later on... then he can make a play to tap into some of that Seahawks money.

  • Blue

    I been told y'all, Future about to get Mediation pregnant and leave her. Mark my words.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    HOLLERING!!!!!!

  • Rayne

    Girl , being married to Russell I would’ve forgotten all about his daddy. Future would be dragging me to court.

  • free

    both of them full of shyt. my mama is 75 and she facetime the hell out of us. in fact, we can't call or text, we have to FT her. them old folk prolly don't f*ck with ciara like that, like b*tch, i'm cooking my greens, whatchu want?

  • HotInCleveland

    She chose him ??

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I see that this man take care of his kids ..... and in the best way he can .... He provides ... rather that be financially or whatever the case ... he does provide to all of them regardless of him slangging peen .... he supports them bout like Puffy as well .... Cierror azz ... chile that one full of it ... I done spoke on that one and will leave it at that .... and yeah Future a slut .... but hey atleast he ain't hiding it ... what ya see is what ya get for the most ... Cierror knew from the Gate !!!!! Remember when she was playing sister wife ... Flexing .... trying to separate that man from his chile .... and trying to humiliate .... which is failing cause That ninja Future doing a good job of that on his own .... js ..... this shyt here .. Chile https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c1425c997ed3319b16098cad0d4bebaabde80cd22860d557863b4ff2c949aed9.gif

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    I second this. I do not believe in asking a man anything more than twice. After that you dont have to worry about me any more. Nobody is ever able to call me a nag. I dont have the time to raise grown men AND kids at the same time.

  • Rayne

    ???

  • Jordan’s Memory

    LMAO now that's funny!

  • cherrypie

    I know. SMH. She making him sound like a lame for being a good man. I'd take cute azz Russell ANYDAY over Future's fertile and infected azz.

  • Rayne

    My attitude is just the same. I’m not asking more than twice as well. That’s it. I’m done.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Exactly!

  • Coy little wink
  • free

    "i'm trying to check up..." "CHECK UP ON WHAT?"

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    you got one?
    (if so, please know that her submissive, compliant, scheming azz is stashing your money in her mama's account, ROFL!!!)

  • Renee26

    Swear!!

  • bella28498 .

    Let it go Ciara u made yourself the 4th baby momma in a ratchet situation. Keep visitation in place and when the boy grow up just say hey your dad never showed up, thee stinking end!

  • Renee26

    Ok! Ci Ci don't want Future azz

  • FukkFolks2018

    My oldest daughter. Her paternal grandmother got my ass together ONE good time. She was like 2-3. When this baby is with US, dont keep calling your ass HERE! She is FINE. We are doing stuff. EYE AM DOING stuff. I aint got the time to answer the phone 15 times because YOU got sep. anxiety. call again and Im not answering. BYE.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    LMAO!

  • Jersey Girl

    Im rolling!!

  • free

    EXACTLY! and you know she calling behind future, trying to see who the lil boy with and whether future is over there with him and what is going on lol.

  • oshh16

    For Coy and other folks who love the stars, astronomy etc there is a Gemini meteor shower tonight through the dawn., thanks Google. I am going to try to catch it in the early am if it is not cloudy.

  • ohdearme

    In a video uploaded to Instagram.com on Wednesday night, a frustrated Future said, "You bothering me. Stop bullying me. Stop nagging me. Leave me alone!"

    Oh Ciara never look a gift h0rse in the mouth, do exactly as he says, stop bothering him and openly welcome Russell replacing his dead beat a@@! Document every missed opportunity to meet, just in case this sperm donor tries to complain later and move on with life.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LOL! exactly. they be mad offended, like, 'she think this our first time keeping a chile?' ROFL!

    and, I'm so done... 'cause you KNOW this made me think about Miss Cissy worrying about them d@mn greens on the stove! LOL!!!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    "She says whenever Zahir accompanies his father to Georgia, the boy spends most of his time with Future's elderly relatives -- all women"

    THIS IS WHY HE ACTS THE WAY HE DOES. LIKE A BIDDY.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    That this drama is messing up his image, but Russ chose her.

    But this just the beginning of the messiness but she knew what she was dealing with before she had unprotected sex with a bitch made nigga.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Future is so childish...

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Exactly!!!

  • ohdearme

    On another note has anyone been watching Black Ink? I stopped watching the show when they decided the current season would air at 10, they have too much nonsense to watch at that time. However yesterday I caught some reruns and last nights show? WTF just cancel this crap. The acting is so bad.

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Who would critizr Ciara for wanting her son to structure & not go to visit his father & his father is more often than not, NOT THERE.
    Can anyone say Abandonment Issues?
    His behavior, this is how he WAS treated as kid. Look at the outcome.

  • Ni Ni

    Ciara complained that she can't FaceTime with her kid because the older folks aren't tech savvy and don't know how to FaceTime.
    __________________
    I am hollering?. Wait, this is going to be me in a few years. I am soo behind with technology?.

  • Rayne

    I’m just gon change the subject a lil lol Kenya’s daughter is so damn cuuutteeeee!! I’m bout to commit a crime and give my son a sister. I’m so happy for her. That baby is a straight up cutie... lawd lemme find my condoms cause I’m tripping hard ???

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • T3

    Don't do it ????

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Because if she played it correctly she could use it to terminate Future's visitation rights.

  • hottlanta

    N your baby is how old.

  • bemetoo

    Ciara please the Haitian moma don’t got time for your bs.. she don’t want to face time you bih you have baby future all the time let him Enjoy his granny

  • Renee26

    Ummm I wouldn't want my son in a whole nother state with possible randoms either...his momma should want to call and check on his welfare. People are crazy

  • Trace da Ace

    Girl!!!! That is nothing but truth...and for real...it seems like Russell is more of a stable parent in the boys life anyway....seems like Future don't mind...can't keep asking a daddy to be a father...sooo.....

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    there's blame on both sides. he's a philanderer, and she knew this and still had unprotected sex with him. two adults have made unwise choices here. now they both need to commit to doing what's best for their son.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Happy folks certainly ain't trying to battle .... IJS .... Cierror full of shyt https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c1425c997ed3319b16098cad0d4bebaabde80cd22860d557863b4ff2c949aed9.gif but aye ....

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    That's not why she is being criticized.
    And maybe that is what all this paperwork is building up to.

  • free

    who is random? and she's the one that moved out of state; both of them were in atlanta.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    girl, real talk though!
    shoot, when i stayed with my gran, her husband's DIL hated my lil azz! i was never alone with her, but if i had been, i think that lady would have done something sneaky to me, LOL!

  • Rashida Collins

    Why does she need to face time her son when its the FATHERS' TIME...u dont get to monitor or dictate the behavior or how things should go..shes annoying - i agree with Future..still tryna make him the man he was never...????

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    can't keep asking a daddy to be a father...
    _________________

    Next case!

  • Renee26

    If he refuses it will be his petty ego... Ion think he wants a real bond with his son at all. The other kids probably only see him when he's coming to creep into their mommas beds ?

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well unlike the majority of black womem who raised up in survival mode most white women come from more financially stable home... but on another note don’t you understand the court system is set up to give an unbalanced power to black women to basically destroy a black man and over all sow distrust between black men and women and help keep our community in shambles... these hood chicks just look at it like damn what the effect is on the community as long as I am getting mine... government told black women long time ago put that nigga on child support and I will give you your own project apartment and food stamps and a portion of his money all you got to do is put his black ass in the system

  • Renee26

    With Future you never know who's around...dont think it's ONLY the grandma or aunt...and who's to say they're not vengeful considering the scum Future turned out to be

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    i really believe that child is just another notch on his belt, smh

  • free

    she can't control that though; that is why you have to be careful who you procreate with. he already had about 3 mothers in the harem and she supposedly was tight with them. she didn't talk to them? she didn't observe what was going on with their children? it shoulda all been right there to see. they couldn't have all faked it and made it look good for her.

  • Renee26

    I hope that's what the petition is actually for

  • Ladyshopper

    I've been watching that mess and you're right the acting is horrible...smh

  • Elevated Soul

    Poor Fake Ciara....

    I realize Future is the father but why hound that man because when the child is not in his presence,he leave him in the care of his mother or his Aunts.....

    I don't believe Ciara is as happy with Russell Wilson as she want people to believe. It's clear that Future only deal with her through intermediaries but she really want that "Face Time" with Future.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    all plausible... plus you got the other sister wives, some of whom may be resentful towards Cici 'cause "she think she better than us" LOL!!! no telling how they feel about Cici's boy. they may actually consider him to be a "break baby" (and we already know that break babies are NOT popular with girlfriends/wives/baby mamas) LOL!

  • SomeonesMrs

    Are you a parent? If child were away from me of want to see and talk to them. It's not like he's next door

  • Renee26

    Yes bad acting... It's a brand do they even do tattoos?? Sky wants a boutique and Cease was straight hating... I didn't like that. I'm glad shr made up with her other son.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Yes but with her unwise decision she can use the system which is definitely not fair to black men as a crushing tool against him with no repercussions to her unwise decisions

  • TMW

    I believe it’s something along those lines. And has nothing to do with Ciara still having a thing from Future. She is creating a paper trail for a reason. I said yesterday she could even want to terminate Future’s parental rights so Russell can adopt him. Someone said I was being ridiculous or something along those lines. Either way she’s keeping this in the court for something bigger down the line. It would be a whole other thing if she was trying to work this out with him directly. She wants nothing to do with that man. And if she does, she’s a fool.

  • Renee26

    Fugg Gemini's right now ?

  • free

    pretty much...and he knows the child is in good hands.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    "most white women come from more financially stable home"
    __________________________

    these are NOT the ones you kneegrows are marrying though, LOL!

    as far as your last point, i won't argue. so, knowing that going in, isn't it YOUR responsibility to keep YOURSELF out of the system?

  • ohdearme

    Ceaser and Sky were actually grinning through their scenes. However jumping Alex last night has the fans heated, they're going in on Cease and Teddy. This show needs to end, Chicago is much better.

  • Renee26

    I swear!!!

  • TMW

    ????

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Yes maim I call that community d*ck that negro for everybody! Strap up and ride the ride until the real n*gga that is husband material comes along.

  • Trace da Ace

    OMG yes!!! I was sooo happy when her and Genesis made up...that warmed my heart....cause he IS her twin!! I think Sky is the only one on the show that I like...cause she mad funny and speaks her mind.....Caesar is a baaddd actor....like for real.....

  • Renee26

    Ok...treating him mean and leaving him out of activities with the kids... Pinching him on the sly.... Yeah I need to talk to mine every night and I want to SEE that he's in good spirits

  • Renee26

    I agree but the baby here nah ?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    jokes aside, i can see your side of things. Virginia is my home state (also a commonwealth). trust me, they do NOT play re child support. i dated a guy who got locked up for falling behind on payments for a child that wasn't even his!
    but, again, both sides need to be very careful when choosing mates. it's like, the same precautions you take as a Black Man driving/walking/pulling out your cell phone, you gotta be just as vigilant whilst dating, Lol!

  • oshh16

    No ma'am,*waves finger uh uh uh* I'm Gemini :-)

  • Renee26

    I like Melody (sp) too the Asian girl be lying...last season she had them looking for her "missing" momma all over China ?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    this is not an unreasonable request. (that way if you talking to him and you getting 'hostage video' vibes from your baby, you can call SWAT and get him outta there!) LOL!!!

  • Renee26

    I'm sure you've pissed somebody off this week too then ?

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    And one of the best ways to keep your self out if the system is not to deal with these black Women who are quick to put you in the system hence deal with another race if you about any kind of real business

  • oshh16

    lol

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    FACTS ?

  • Renee26

    Hell yeah ?

  • GAPeach

    I can only imagine what these comments would look like if she was the one not dropping their child off for visits. I guarantee you, there would be a whole lot of "a child needs his father". She's over here holding him accountable for the visitation schedule he forced her into, and now, she needs to let it go. There are a whole bunch of hypocrites on this thread.

  • Renee26

    See!!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    sounds good on paper... but i'd suggest you not tell Miss 'Delilah' ALL your secrets, LOL!

  • oshh16

    no, lol at you in a good way though.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    You know this is very true. Money cant buy class and I'm sure his family was raised in the hood (whether they still live there or not) but I am sure they probably a ghetto mess! her kid would probably come home cursing while holding his dyck. smdh

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    girl this! i'm not even a parent, and put myself in harms way to go 'retrieve' my nephew from a big bish who was playing games with his deddy. she was a d@mn amazon, and i'm a statuesque 5'2/3. he was at the house on the phone with her tryna 'coax' her into letting him into the apt to get the baby! i told that nig, hang up the phone and LET'S RIDE! needless to say, we retrieved our baby (and amazon must have taken her meds before we got there, because i didn't have to take one for the team) LOL!

  • BingBangBoom

    Hello! If anything I think having all these crumb snatchers by all these submissive women. Proves he wants to be in control of these women because I am sure all of them depend on him and his coins.

  • FukkFolks2018

    BAY-BEE. I saw them AT the grocery store like a few weekends after. She ran up to me and LEGIT I froze. Grandpa was like Mary got you scared to damn DEATH dont she? Its okay. Hug your baby. Lmaooo.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!
  • Soon2BWife

    I am stunned by people's nonchalant stance on this. A font was like what is the big deal just send him out there for the whole summer doesn't matter if Future is not there the boy will be with kin......my mouth was open. I do not have children but I would never ever be comfortable with that. I would not just let my 4 yo child be anywhere for 2-3 months without me. I guess this explains why so many children are out here rudderless. Ciara messed up bad having a child with him. I know the child his a blessing but that daddy is a curse.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I get Ciara’s point, and Future is very busy, like many men who work hectic, demanding schedules. He doesn’t want his visitation time reduced, and the child is with his family!

    Ciara just doesn’t want her son to travel so much (understandably), and Future is busy, probably out of town quite often. It’s what moms do!

    Ciara just have to ride it out, teach her son to use a iPhone or iPad, these kids are digital natives, and learn easily! Travel with him once a month, she’s from GA!

  • Anunnaki, in A twilight Zone

    Ci ci

  • FukkFolks2018

    Calling to check is diff. from calling incessantly. Something tells me ciara is the latter

  • Ladyshopper

    Yeah can't stand milk dub head Ceasor and couch potato Ted, they were so wrong jumping Alex like that.

  • Soon2BWife

    Hold her back, while I hold you! Team work!!! LOL

  • SpiceGirl

    Somebody plant this dude...because he needs to grow!

  • Dollface

    She really needs to get on... When he's with his father... he's with his father. He doesn't have to facetime with you... cow! And who does she think she is to say "he's with female relatives" girl get a life. How do you know that? What are you doing questioning him about his every move when he's with his father?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LMAO!
    it's all love though... ROFL!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    This is what EYE dont understand. You cant go with him...and go see your fam too sometimes? Her parents are still in GA arent they? Like I dont get that.

  • ohdearme

    I wonder what the ratings have been like? The degradation of women from Cease and Ted is pretty disgusting, At least I know I didn't miss a thing by not watching all season.

  • A.Nicole

    First off he sounds slow as fck. Cece, you’ve moved on & moved forward. If the man don’t wanna be around, FCK HIM. Your son has a father figure, leave that No good man alone. Son might be better off.

  • Soon2BWife

    I def think this is what she is doing.

  • Trace da Ace

    girl yes!! I remember that...Young Bae....that whole situation seemed fishy AF....like for real....but her baby boy is soo freaking cute!!! And yeah I like Melody too..but can't STAND her baby daddy....he looks like he smell like hot mustard and old socks...

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    (all you'd probably get is a lil weed though...)

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    this is a good solution. i was thinking she should get a lil condo or something, and she could stay in the area while he's there.

  • SpiceGirl

    Pahahahahaha....that was funny....

  • Lady_Elle

    She has jobs etc. So I think it gets complicated.

    Her dad used to travel with the child.

    I think... visiting with your dad does not mean being dropped off with his relatives. This would bother me!

    Let him stay home if his daddy is not going to spend time with him.

  • Lady_Elle

    I say... visitation would ONLY happen when he made advance arrangements.

    If the arrangements don't work for me & my family... they would not happen.

    Then this "mitch" would whine that the kid is being withheld from him!

  • Lady_Elle

    Me too! :-)

  • Soon2BWife

    She is and she will be too happy once she can terminate his parental rights...I just think she is creating a paper trail at the the very least to protect her son from having to go sit with his gma and nem all summer. People think she is trying to force him to be a parent, I believe it is the opposite. She is just trying to expose him for the deadbeat he is. She has to show she made every attempt to make an amicable agreement. Sad part is this all could have been avoided but hey......*kanye shrug*

  • Lady_Elle

    Yep!

  • Lady_Elle

    I hope it isn't cloudy.

  • Whirl

    I feel for her but Maya Angelo said it best- when people tell you who they are believe them. And not just that believe them the FIRST time not after they have time to get their story straight. I do feel for her though and am very proud of how she upgraded herself along.

  • TMW

    Exactly, because if I’m not mistaken that’s what he did before.

  • Soon2BWife

    I am crine!!!! Gosh, I know you were like oh, ok then, bye>>>>

  • Whirl

    Ahh man this right here lol

  • Lady_Elle

    Spending time with the other parent does not mean you can't contact your kid to speak to them!

    My ex can call and speak to our kid any time he wants... and so can I.

    That is how parenting works!

  • Soon2BWife

    My Madea's name was Mary! Something about that name. Child, she ain't play at all!!!

  • Lady_Elle

    Parents should be in contact with their kids as often as they want!

    A parent can pick up on things by seeing their kids face (facetime), speaking to them, or even texts.

    Parents are their children's advocates. :-)

  • Calikush

    It sure is!!!! AND..... may I add how a lot of folks are living in glass houses on this thread! Vilifying CiCi for falling for future and having a baby by him! What was she suppose to do? Little future is here now and all she want is big future to be a better father than what he’s proving to be! I don’t believe CiCi wants future back, she good! Either she really trying to give big future a chance to be a better father or she’s building a case to get full sole custody! ?????

  • TMW

    HE was being petty when he forced the visitation schedule, but now she’s petty and wants him back because she wants to hold him to it? I don’t get it either...

  • TMW

    !!!

  • FukkFolks2018

    YES! I remma Ci fine ass deddy. I was like the twins on ATL-Movie like is your deddy still with your mama? He is old school fine. All big and whatnot. Yes he is.

  • sjames

    while good she probably doesn't want him getting trapped by technology the way these parents nowadays let their kids do. she wants him to still be active, want to play outside, etc etc.

  • Soon2BWife

    He has to take care of his kids financially...his earnings are darn near public....he'd be in jail or constantly in court otherwise...least he does....I see it as he doesn't have a choice. However, Ciara did have a choice and she made a bad call period.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Yep, even if she didn’t stay for the duration of his visit, she could drop him off, stay a day, and come home, every other visit, since she has another child, husband, and life!

  • Lady_Elle

    When I read your comment... I smiled.
    I remember her dad... he was very handsome!

  • LYRICS

    Right!! I have referred to one of my ol'thangs as "community d*ck" and the negro was soooo hurt!! A spade is a SPADE! SIMPLE!

  • sjames

    no mother is dropping her kid off with someone, idc WHO it is, n not talk to them or see them EVERY night they're gone.

  • queen of cups

    Ciara wants Future out of the picture

  • FukkFolks2018

    I dont buy into a child needs their father. They do. But its not end of the world to me personally. Esp. when he has a strong man involved. As he does. I just dont get why the hell keep wasting time on this loser. Who obviously does not get it. I wouldnt want my kid to even be bothered with him. Enough time has been wasted. Yes, He forced her into the sked but until HE called the courts on ME...I wouldnt send him or being fooling with the court and all that red tape. You not gonna keep standing me and my kid up. And causing me all this issue. You want to see your son? Make it happen.On your time and dime.

  • Applebootay

    She's just like me...Fukk what everyone else is saying....I had to force my BD to go to mediation too because my son at the time had severe asthma and allergies and the BD would allow his GFS to smoke around him and everything else that wasn't safe for my son. and my son was at that age where he couldn't really speak for himself so I had to do it. So people telling her to get on are DUMB.. When one parent is doing something that you don't agree with AND you both have legal custody, you have to go to mediation because she just cant get ON like everyone is saying because they have legal custody. His dumbazz probably does shit just to irk her. Especially since he's at the age where he can't really communicate what's REALLY going on. She is doing the ADULT thing by taking it to mediation..because if he doesn't go he can be held in contempt of court and forfeit his rights....She knows exactly what she's doing and I applaud her for that. FOH with the rest.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    point is they (kids) ain't going without .... period ...... and no one has to take care of their kids ..... that's shown all over the place ... But he does ..... so there's that

  • FukkFolks2018

    What was she suppose to do?
    ^^^^^^^^^
    Use her context clues from previous relationships where men wasnt doing for their kids, spending time with them, and see how Future was treating his kids WHEN SHE HAD HIM. He didnt become a deadbeat MAGICALLY with his fourth kid which was by her. He aint start with Future Jr. He had BEEN doing it. And she was OKAY with it. Thought she was different bc she had a ring and she was not. Started from the bottom now we here...4 years later.

  • Applebootay

    I just said the same thing up top...like either people saying that dumb shat must be young and dumb and have never experienced that situation...if you haven't STFU..

  • FukkFolks2018

    *keep. not being.

  • GAPeach

    I totally agree with your position. I speak from experience, when I say that I will walk away and let someone else raise him. With that being said, people are trying to say she wants him, and she being petty, When he made that post about "all I want is Baby Future", and how much he was supposedly paying, people were destroying her, even though he was lying. Now they doing the same thing because she's making him abide by the ish he started. Can't have it both ways.

  • Applebootay

    She has to do it this way because Future has legal rights, and if his dumb azz keep doing dumb shat she has to take him back to court for mediation...It makes totat sense to me.

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Future is so petty and immature. He better tighten up. He's becoming more known for being Johnny Appleseed than his music....

  • FukkFolks2018

    No I dont think she wants that in her life anymore. I think she is over him. I dont buy into that one.

  • Applebootay

    She don't want that nigglet...that's some made up social media shat...that girl has LEVELED UP ...but she can't just stop him from being around because he has legal rights, so the only way to get him to act right is mediation...because if he breaks what they agreed, he'll be held in contempt and possibly forfeit his rights....Which is smart on her part...he'll end up losing custody eventually...mark my words..he's only doing what he's doing to her because she Ciara..all them other BM he could care less about...

  • Applebootay

    Yes, but she grew, found a mature man that helped her realize that that thug life shat is dead...being with a Godly man with a better income is what's up.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I get it from that standpoint. And she said previously the baby INDEED WAS coming back pissy and smelling like weed. Okay that oneI totally agreed with her 100%. Bc yes the kid wasnt being treated right. But THIS is not about that this time. Her basis is on visitation. She trying to make him man the hell up and spend time that he begged for. If a kid is being hurt then by all means ride for your baby. But all of this over visitation still a no for me. We can agree to disagree.

  • GAPeach

    Yup. It's really easy to say what you would, and would not do, when you don't even have kids, and have no clue. She's taking him to court because they have a court order. If she didn't abide by it, and just didn't send him to visit SHE would be in trouble if he took her back to court. She's in a messed up situation.

  • Applebootay

    Nah, I totally disagree! If you are a irresponsible DAD and my child isn't old enough to fend for himself...YES, let me FT my son so I can make sure he's ok. She can't dictate, she just want to see him...WTF is that so bad?

  • GAPeach

    OMG! I just basically responded to you with the same freaking comment!

  • Applebootay

    I did it with my son...because his father was an idiot...FUKK what anyone else says...if you not doing shat then it shouldn't be a problem for me to speak to my son...WTF

  • FukkFolks2018

    SHE grew. Exactly. HE HAS NOT. Future is not there yet. No matter what she does he not gonna be there til its his time. She still not gonna get him to visit on the sked that yes HE asked for. she still not gonna get his parental rights revoked. She MIGHT get sole custody. He will still get what? visitation that he is not gonna adhere to. All of this is for absoluetly nothing in my book.

  • Applebootay

    EXactly, I took mine to mediation just to make him stick to our agreed schedule, because if he doesn't he's in contempt and risk losing rights...I DID the same thing and wouldn't blink an eye. Yes, I'm a little overprotective but that boy is a BABY still and she is being a good mother.

  • GAPeach

    Sometimes we have to go through it, to get to it. If you could go back in time, I'm sure that there are things you would do different. It seems like she grew from this to me. Yup, he was a "aint shyt nucca" from the beginning, but she fell for the slick shyt and ended up with a baby. She ain't the first, and won't be the last

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Fuschia if you
    Had better dck control you wouldnt be in this situation. I get that your babymamas were easy and have low self esteem but none of that gave you the right to hit it raw. Now here you is. I dont feel sorry for you or those lames heaux you call babymamas. Only the poor children are victims here stfu

  • Rashida Collins

    She stated she couldnt FACETIME him which is not a requirement ..she can contact him but no they dont have ti facetime n damn sholl aint gotta pic up 1000's of her call when he with his biological father

  • Applebootay

    Then you don't know how the system works. IF he doesn't even show up to court he can be held in contempt...he risks losing his rights and will probably have SUPERVISED visitation...Girl I know the system front and back...went through the same thing

  • Rashida Collins

    They did all the time b4 cellphones...please have several seats..thats who she procreated with...

  • Calikush

    Nah, don’t agree with that! All that stuff u talking about is old news! Lol...We all know future ain’t chit and now she knows but he still should be accountable for taking care of his son! That’s not her prollem that he has other kids! I’m not gonna fault CiCi for falling for future and getting caught up in his bs! We all done some thing that we knew that had consequences some are long term and some are short term but u learn from that chit! I honestly think she’s building that case for full custody......if true I don’t blame her! ?????

  • Applebootay

    Yes, I didn't have FT but we did have cell phones...and I called EVERY NIGHT...

  • Calikush

    This^^^^?

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    One hell of a life to live so suspicious of your own kind...

  • Lady_Elle

    He was not with the father... he was with older relatives.

  • Rashida Collins

    As SHE states hes with his grandparents..she did not mention he was irresponsible nor that her child was in danger..quite sure SHE would NOT pick up every call if FUTURE was constantly calling demanding facetime...she knew who he was when she spread her legs she doesnt now get to act like hes not good enough

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    ALL kinds

  • Applebootay

    PPL be on sumb stuff...keep in mind this isn't a BIG BOY who can communicate, he's still a baby...when he's older..things will be different..but she's making sure he doesn't grow up damaged because she just sent her baby off...FOH

  • FukkFolks2018

    Someone on here said yesterday she is not legally able to to terminate his rights. Its rapists and murderers out here who still have their paternal rights. Rae Carruth. He had paternal rights until HE decided to sign them over when he was in prison. Its rare for a court to terminate paternal rights; esp for a kid that is being taken care of finance wise. If thats her angle she needs to maybe find another one. IDK.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Them chicks could have easily had abortion future is not all the blame

  • FukkFolks2018

    I highly doubt he is losing all of his paternal rights. We shall see. He risks losing his part of custody if he doesnt show. But his paternal rights Im not sure about. From below:

    Someone on here said yesterday she is not legally able to to terminate his rights. Its rapists and murderers out here who still have their paternal rights. Rae Carruth. He had paternal rights until HE decided to sign them over when he was in prison. Its rare for a court to terminate paternal rights; esp for a kid that is being taken care of finance wise. If thats her angle she needs to maybe find another one. IDK.

  • Applebootay

    THAT"S EXACTLY WHAT SHE IS DOING...Ya'll don't know the system...she is doing the right and legal way...if this nig don't show up, he can be held in contempt and possibly lose rights or be reduced to supervised visits. My lawyers had me go the same route...She's smart.

  • Rayne

    7 months lol and my other baby is 8 months. She’s my neighbors baby and she hasn’t seen her baby since we met. That baby stays at my house. They be bumping walkers racing to me for snacks. It’s so funny ?

  • Rayne

    Imma try lol just pray for me lol

  • Applebootay

    Mediation is so they can agree on how to raise him, it can be as simple as let me FT him or make sure he take his medication on time. She has to set it up this way so when he breaks the agreement......you know the rest...

  • Applebootay

    And it's not just any "paper trail" during mediation you create a court bonded agreement to follow whatever is decided...if you don't....then you risk losing your rights...

  • FukkFolks2018

    He is taking care of him. I havent heard about him in child support trouble. And to the court that is all they really care about. He pays. And while he is not 100% compliant...he IS seeing the lad. Imma watch to see what happens. I dont think anything.

    And I am a single mom after divorce and was one pre-marriage. I am normally on moms side. I just dont see a case here. Maybe I am missing something.

  • KLo

    That ugly BAN should keep his *ick in his pants. How many baby mama's and counting 8+ https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/a45cfc3c589a29ed036bd6afc1cf79c1659bf47063c452740eb9fbdfdabc9bae.jpg

  • Soon2BWife

    He does, those that don’t get paid under the table, don’t work or are in and out of jail or court. If he was not “Future” my money is on the fact that he would be one of the three I mentioned. My opinion only. My point is he is not some moral noble do the right thing person (clearly) so he is paying child support because he has been mandated by the courts to do so, not out of moral obligations.

  • Applebootay

    The NY one is so fake and phony...like its an insult to any intelligence you have...pretending he mad at her setting up a boutique and all the other shat...I was so mad at myself for watching it last time...each time I say this is my last time watching this BS

  • Applebootay

    And that was FAKE...CEASE is the worst actor among them...he's a str8 Bytch to me....all the yelling and throwing stuff makes it look even more FAKE

  • Applebootay

    That's about the only story line that makes sense...all that other stuff is TRASH

  • T Willis

    Lol @ Johnny Appleseed

  • Applebootay

    YEs ...ALL DAT was a lIE...I don't even believe melody broke up with that guy...I think everything except Sky and her sons are total made up BS...and its so OBIVIOUS

  • MsChocCookie

    Ci Ci is Obsessed with Future. Let the shit go, girl, damn you have a husband who fills in the missing puzzle. Ain't nobody tell you to pick Future as your son's father, you knew he was unfit from day one! How the hell can he keep up with your son, when he have a million other kids, and two more buns in the oven......

  • Applebootay

    lol

  • Rashida Collins

    Yes i am..and i had to get to a point where i had to let father time be just that HIS FATHERS TIME..i dont get to monitor that..is the father monitoring or is Future regulating whats going on in Ciara's house

  • Applebootay

    Chicago is better but they starting to fish for story lines too...I'm not buying that whole break up thing...I think Ryan already had plans for a future shop so they developed a story line to make it relevant...they better have some better shat when they come back on.

  • Applebootay

    I ABHOR TEDDY...HIS LIPS in the opening song when they show his face that damn close with his lips pursed....EWWWWWWWWWWWW...how could anyone be attracted to him...

  • Liah

    I don’t know why people are taking crazy about Ci!...IF you have a CHILD you know they need stability in there life...I would’ve done the same thing...
    Future need to grow up !...This is a male child that needs his father consistently in his life...
    Future dead wrong?

  • Liah

    I agree with you !!!??

  • GAPeach

    Alexander Graham Bell created phones in 1867. People been using phones to check on their children ever since. She may not need to facetime, but she should be able to at least speak with him. He's 4. I don't care who my child was with, at 4 years old, I called to check on his ass.

  • T Willis

    I don’t think that’s the same thing. Ciara doesn’t mention a specific medical condition, and how that condition is exasperated by being around relatives who smoke etc. Ciara’s petition sounds very vague. The gist is that she doesn’t want her kid traveling to Georgia if he can’t specifically be around Future. I also think she’s purposely doing this because she’s bitter about how he took her court for more custody - blocking her ability to ultimately replace him as Future’s father. In the end she just needs to let it go lol

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Never said he noble chile .... in fact I think he makes an azz out of himself .... but the facts is da facts .... yeen gotta agree ..... done with Future topic .. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/c1425c997ed3319b16098cad0d4bebaabde80cd22860d557863b4ff2c949aed9.gif .... that's his mess

  • T Willis

    Exactly!! Lol she is crazy and bitter asf. Meanwhile, she’s the one that had Russell playing daddy to her son after dating for less than a year. Yet she has the audacity to question and dictate what relatives that can be around her son? Lol smdh

  • FukkFolks2018

    She HAS mentioned it before. The lad has asthma. But it is NOT in this current filing. So no. It no longer is an issue I suppose. Bc I am SURE she would have included it again.

  • HotInCleveland

    FACTS

  • T Willis

    Finally a mature response lol. Ciara isn’t trying to compromise when it comes to Future because she’s still upset about what he said about her lol. She’s using their son as a proxy to get back at Future. Ciara can hide behind that scheduling bs, but anyone who’s ever had to deal with a scorned baby mother can see thru the nonsense.

  • MrsSpice1

    Theyre both scorpions ? ..very complex individuals...which also means for ciara if she deeply loved him she will always haunt him no matter how happy she is elsewhere...and if he stung her she will never forget it!!! The male Scorpion however has a way in detaching from any sentimental emotions he ever had for someone he may liked not loved!! Male Scorpions are players rarely ever do they settle down. And when they do it will be forever and with someone they are very inlove with!

  • I want to be free

    I agree 1000% Her lawyers have advised her well. Keep that papertrail. Folks from yesterdays post made me mad talking about "When Russell leaves her" and "she want Future back." WTF

  • T Willis

    Lol yep

  • Sha

    Russell is not his father and there is nothing wrong with her wanting their son to be with his biological father, maybe the son is asking questions. Future needs to see his child, face time, call him something, not so much is Ciara bothering him, it must be affected the child.

  • Applebootay

    That was AN EXAMPLE...if you don't think second hand smoke affects an asthmatic child then you don't have a dog in this fight...LOL

  • T Willis

    Lol exactly!! She’s trying to get video proof of where/who her son is with. She ain’t slick, but she’s sneaky as hell looking for petty proof to limit the custody arrangement because she’s bitter.

  • Applebootay

    You have no idea how the system works and last time I checked, we're not reading the actual PETITION we're reading a GOSSIP BLOG interpretation of her Mediation request.

  • Judge Mental Will

    Im team Ciara but girl you can't force a boy to be a man. Move forward and stop complaining.

  • T Willis

    That part ??

  • FukkFolks2018

    I dont disagree. EVERYONE has a few in her past that they wish they did not. My oldest, her dad is wonderful. One of my best friends in the world. My ex husband (youngest kid dad. she is 13) is not ANYTHING to write home about. We had it out bc he relocated back to his home state 2 years ago when his mom fell sick and ended up passing away. But its kinda like THIS. With Ciara. He wants ME to do WAY too much in order for him to see HIS damn kid. Nope. At first I WAS. Driving halfway (ATL. 6 hours away for me) to drop off and then GOING back to pick up. Paying half of plane tickets.

    Then I was like Im not doing all of this. Just so YOU can be a dad. And now she is 13. She kinda doesnt care if she sees him or not. But he sends that check here every month, my guy is a WONDERFUL dad to his own only child (11 yo girl) and now to mine too. Im not taking time off to go and file more paperwork etc. When he wants to see our 13 yo... he will. To each I guess.

  • T Willis

    She specifically wants FaceTime to have PROOF that her son isn’t with his father. That’s why she’s so adamant about FACETIME

  • Whirl

    So let’s think this whole thing through- they go to mediation and talk about his work schedule to which he responds by bringing up her work schedule and who the child is with when she is at work. I do sympathize with her but I just don’t see the end game.

  • Bashi22

    True Russell is not his father but remember Ciara use Russell as PR stunt to upset Future and Russell loved every bit of it.

  • T Willis

    Ciara would lose her mind ? if that happened lol

  • Applebootay

    She can't force him but the courts can. She's doing what's best for her child. If he defaults then you know the rest...

  • Whirl

    What is he doing that is untoward by having the child with relatives while he works? I feel for her but courts don’t play when they start to sniff out a frivolous case. On a personal level as a mother I do feel for her though.

  • Applebootay

    The mediation becomes a COURT ORDERED agreement and if he defaults on it he is held in contempt and it will certainly factor in if her ultimate goal is full custody...I not only thought it through, I lived through it so I know how this whole custody and child support and mediation goes...do you?

  • Whirl

    Gotcha. And contempt in this case is based on...? I’m not sure what is the issue with him leaving the child with relatives while he works.

  • Judge Mental Will

    i know but the boy do see his dad. What will be the consequences of future picking him up and dropping him off to his grandparents house? What can the court do about that? Im sure future is like this with his other kids, once the other 2 are born he's going to miss even more dates. Some thing can be left in God hands.

  • Applebootay

    This is the craziest shat that I've heard...You either don't have any kids, never been in a child custody situation and have no idea how the system works...so I digress

  • Judge Mental Will

    What punishment can the courts give for that? Nothing! At least he's with the grandparents.

  • Applebootay

    WOW!

  • T Willis

    Lol

  • Bashi22

    Ciara still love Future he don’t lol ? she’s mad ? that he’s ignoring and not paying her attention. She needs to absorb all the attention Russell.

  • GAPeach

    I feel you, and my situation is a little different. My son's father was acting a fool, and I would have to call the police to get him, he was going to court blatantly lying trying to get custody. All of this while he had NO custody, nor any visitation. I walked away. I really think she's trying to do the right thing. We can see how you just walk away, but maybe she just wants her baby to know his father. I don't give a fukk. I'm married, and he HAS a daddy as far as we are all concerned in this house.

  • hottlanta

    Awwww they get together n do baby talk like 2 ole women.

  • FukkFolks2018

    I see it no different from when my daughter was with her dad he had to provide child care...so he found a daycare and took her to it. Picked her up. Bc he had to work. Im so confused on all of it at this point.

  • Lady_Elle

    I think contempt would be based on the ruling by the mediator which is then confirmed by a Judge.

  • Whirl

    But contempt based on what? There has to be a bases for contempt I would think.

  • C Mack

    She’s obsessed because she’s not giving up on her son knowing his dad and spending time with him?

    The fact that she “knew he was unfit” doesn’t excuse him from being a dad. Her refusing to settle is a sign of being persistent, not obsessive.

  • Applebootay

    Unless you read a different article BE REMINDED WE ARE NOT READING HER ACTUAL PETITION BUT SANDRA's INTERPRETATION OF SAID PETITION...SO WE DONT KNOW EVERYTHING but she wants to FT a child that isn't old enough to communicate...IT SAID NOTHING ABOUT PREVENTING HIM FROM SEEING HIS RELATIVES..Last time...Mediation creates a legal agreement that they both have have to agree with, if one defaults...then you know the rest...if yall dont know what the courts can do or what mediation is for why comment...

  • Whirl

    Right, me to. Doesn’t mean I don’t sympathize with her it just means I wouldn’t want to see her sanctioned by a court for bringing forth a frivolous case. Did that happen to Halle Berry?

  • C Mack

    How can you prove that?

    So When Russell steps in, it’s a PR stunt. Then when Ci calls on Future to be a father instead of a sperm donor, she’s obsessed.

    Ppl just want to criticize.

  • T Willis

    You are too logical lol. They just hate Future and projecting their own fawk up child custody issues onto this situation lol

  • HotInCleveland

    That part!

  • FukkFolks2018

    I agree with all except bitter.

  • Applebootay

    It sounds like she's only making a point that he isn't spending time with him and that she can't FT him when he's away in a WHOLE nother state...future know damn well he can make that happen and he's being petty because he knows that will make her mad...

  • T Willis

    There is no point. She’s just vindictive and petty, like a lot of the commenters lol

  • Applebootay

    Judges order mediation when divorce cases involve child custody and
    support issues. The mediation order is an attempt by the judge to help
    the couple amicably agree to child custody, visitation, and financial
    support using a neutral mediator. Both parties are expected to attend
    the mediation with their legal representation. But what happens when he
    doesn’t show up for the mediation? Will the judge automatically rule in
    your favor? Will he suffer legal consequences due to his absence?
    Depending on the circumstances, there are a few things that take place
    when one party doesn’t show for court ordered mediation.

    Reschedule the Mediation

    When a judge orders mediation it is up to both parties to choose a
    date and time for the meeting. If a hardship arose that made it
    physically impossible for one party to attend the mediation, then the
    attorneys can contact each other to reschedule. If you know that he
    refuses to attend any type of mediation, attempting one reschedule will
    show a good faith effort to mediate disputes and issues.

    Waiver of Mediation

    In some instances he may not show up because he filed a waiver of
    mediation through his attorney and is waiting to see if it gets
    approved. A waiver of mediation will only go through if he proves that a
    hardship, such as living out of state or being physically unable to
    attend, prevents him from completing the mediation. Even then a judge
    may dismiss the request for a waiver. In some cases, one party may file a
    waiver if there is a fear of violence occurring at the mediation,
    although this is more commonly filed by women. The judge may request he
    attend a court hearing to waive the mediation and will rule on the
    waiver at that time.

    Contempt of Court

    Ignoring a court order, even in a divorce case, can result in being
    held in contempt of court. If he refuses to attend any mediations, and
    hasn’t been successful at having the mediation waived, then the judge
    can hold him in contempt. His attorney will need to present the reasons
    he disobeyed the court order, and if the judge finds that he willfully
    disobeyed the court order he could face jail time or a fine. In most
    cases, his attorney will advise him to attend the mediation to avoid
    contempt charges.

    Continuation of Hearing

    If he refuses to attend mediation, your attorney will file the
    paperwork to continue the divorce hearing. When one party willfully
    violates a court order of mediation it does not look good for him. The
    judge will be angered, and your former spouse will have proven that the
    issues were not deemed important enough to make an effort at mediation.
    This will affect how the judge rules on custody, child support, and
    visitation. Since family law tends to favor the mother when making
    decisions regarding children, his refusal to attend mediation will work
    in your favor.

    The purpose of mediation is to reach an agreement outside of court,
    but depending on the current state of the divorce proceedings it isn’t
    always possible. When one party refuses to deal with mediation
    procedures, legal recourse becomes problematic. Working closely with a
    divorce attorney will help ensure that everything gets handled timely
    and professionally.

  • GAPeach

    Too bad your mama didn't exercise that same option. Ignorant ass.

  • Shamwow

    Ok so Future if you want to be left alone then sign off on your rights and go. Baby boy has a step pappy a grand daddy and more than enough support to not be raised by some hood rat baby fawtha. Yes you want to go out, play and leave your kids at home with your elderly mother like all the other boys in the streets. Then do yourself and Ci Ci a favor and go. I guarantee if you do it now while he is young the boy will transition like you never exsisted.

  • T Willis

    Lol well it is a choice. Just like birth control but (black) women don’t want to hear that (truth) they’d rather argue and shift blame than to take accountability for their fawk up choices and decision making skills

  • Applebootay

    I don't hate anyone and I was VERY SUCCESSFUL in my child custody case. Everyone is making an uneducated opinion based on ignorance...but carry on...

  • Whirl

    Okay, let me take step back and start from step one- is there a prejudice that he won’t show up? Has he stated an intent to be uncooperative? I am by no means a fan of his extracurricular activities. I just think she will do well to find a happy place in the mist of chaos for her own sake. 18 years is a long time. I’m sorry to hear she’s faced with these issues. As a mom I sympathize.

  • Applebootay

    Based on my post up above...all you have to do is google.

  • C Mack

    So you’d just drop your child off and not inquire who they’re around? That’s exactly how so many kids end up dead. Look at all the cases of babysitters and family members who have neglected/killed/abused kids bc the parents were SORRY

  • Lady_Elle

    I am speaking on any change to a custody/visitation agreement.

  • Applebootay

    Oh so you don't read throughly...being held in contempt is only the first step if you don't show up, ALSO IF YOU DONT FOLLOW the agreement you can be held in contempt...its like ya'll are committed to ignorance.

  • HotInCleveland

    Maaaaan. I have a cousin with three kids by three different men. I ask her why she keeps having kids. She said bc she doesn’t believe in abortion. There are 20 other ways to prevent pregnancy before abortion has to even be considered.

  • Applebootay

    SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE DOWNSTAIRS

  • T Willis

    What are you babbling about lmao? Your EXAMPLE was on the extreme end of a spectrum. It wasn’t even remotely comparable to Ciara’s situation (as far as I can tell lol). Example or not, Ciara’s complaints are vague and petty. I don’t need to understand the court system to know she’s petty and vindictive lol. Nor does she have a prayer in Hell to have Future removed as her sons father - which is ultimately her goal.

  • Judge Mental Will

    ok now lol you right im going on Sandra summary. I wish the would've handled this through the courts in the beginning. But I must say I have 17 nephews and nieces, Maybe 2 of the fathers actually abides my the pick up and drop off time and date. Hell one just told my sister he wasn't going to pick his son up on Christmas eve because he's going to cancun smh he argued for that day. Like my grandmother say, you picked him!?????

  • T Willis

    Makes you wonder why that’s not the #1 complaint in all her filings.

  • Whirl

    So where I’m going with this is thus- there is generally statues or rulings in place that specifically outlines the parameters im guessing. I have no legal background. At issue here is what specific ruling/statute of the proceedings did he violate?

  • Scromes1212

    She can't control who the child is around during futures visitation time. I think that's what she's mad about. The judge is going to laugh at her if she coming in there talking about FaceTime lol

  • Lady_Elle

    Most on this board don't like Ciara.
    No matter what she does professionally... or in her private life she gets NEGATIVE feedback on this board.

    They strongly dislike black females on this site.

  • hottlanta

    I am glad that ciara found her a new man n all but l am sick of the russell is so perfect syndrome as if he does n cant do no wrong n future has issues n ciara doesnt n never had any. We might get up one day n russell shyt will b all over the news. Then folks will b saying l thought he was perfect. Be careful who u put on a pedestal they always topple over n it is dangerous.

  • T Willis

    But she knows who he’s around - the grandparents. That’s what makes the filing so ridiculous and petty lol

  • Applebootay

    I thought it was to be able to FT him when he's with his relative...not that he shouldn't be seeing them...daycare is totally different than being with relatives...but I didn't think that was the point...Your BD was working and had to pay for daycare...Daycares aint watching your child while you run the streets at night...and he's in a whole nother state...You could've drove the the daycare anytime to see your child...she can't do that...that's why she wants to FT>

  • Renee26

    Seems like the break up was real cause he's a jerk... But her pulling a Brittany Spears was very fake

  • Scromes1212

    None lol she is trying to argue that he missed visitation cause the boy wasn't not with him but that's not a missed visitation. The boy was with his family. This is her argument

  • Dahl

    Correct me if I’m wrong: weren’t they living together in Atlanta when she conceived and delivered the child? Did she then choose to marry another man and move their child from the state? So wouldn’t it be her responsibility to make sure she brings the child to him in Atlanta, since he still resides in the same area they once shared? Why should he have to meet her anywhere, she chose to move, not him...

  • Applebootay

    Wait whet? Mediation sets forth a agreement, if he violates he's in trouble...I just can't break it down any further...

  • FukkFolks2018

    Yeah that is different. And that sounds horrible like it would piss me off HIGHLY. Going to court LYING. You need a HOBBY sir. Im so sorry for anyone who has that in their life--while trying to raise a KID. I was calling and doing all of this I guess best word is EFFORT and was getting hardly any response. And same thing like Ciara; he was telling me one thing about seeing her and the dates kept changing. Or day would roll around and no plans had been made. It was maddening. My guy was like WHY are you chasing that man down to be a dad? What does she need that she is NOT getting in our home and household? Does she need shoes, her hair done, lunch money, a ride to go see her homies? Leave it ALONE. So I did.

  • Whirl

    If I’m not mistaken didn’t Halle Berry get reprimanded by the court? I really Ciara like and hope she don’t fall for the okie doke.

  • Lady_Elle

    This was addressed in the earlier court proceeding.
    I believe he is not living up to that agreement.

  • Applebootay

    I thought I read it was to FT him...and that he's with relatives mostly.....WHICH DOES MATTER IN COUTT...mediation is for...nevermind...y'all don't want to be educated...

  • Renee26

    Damn shame he wasn't willing to work that out without the courts

  • Renee26

    Alllll of this!!

  • C Mack

    Exactly.

  • Scromes1212

    She needs to stop this game smh if future was a little more stable this would be a Matt Barns, Halle Barry situation just waiting to happen.

  • Whirl

    Maybe it’s my ignorance given I don’t have the on hand experience that you have. Forgive me and I appreciate your patience. I guess all that I am asking, in simple laymen’s terms is- what agreed upon terms did he specifically violate?

  • Renee26

    On Everything!

  • C Mack

    That’s not who the custody agreement is with though

  • Applebootay

    YES< YES you CAN CONTROL WHOS AROUND CHILD IF YOU BELIEVE THE CHILD IS IN AN UNSAFE SITUATION...NOT SAYING THIS IS THE CASE HERE...BUT YES, YOU SHOULD AND CAN CONTROL THROUGH LEGAL MEDIATION..

  • ClaireHuxtable

    That and I'll bet his gifts are pretty good too!

  • FukkFolks2018

    I actually rode for Ciara the other day on her singing at Russ game at halftime. Its hit or miss with me about her. Most times I like her tho.She never really is bothering anyone and seems to be a sweet soul. But a little dingy. Just my observation of her.

  • Scromes1212

    It matters case by case. I'm POSITIVE future informed the court his son will spend time with relatives occasionally. His lawyer is very good.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Nancy....you just won $25,000 dollars!!

  • Bashi22

    No one criticizing Ciara she spread her bed ? so she lay in it. Go to TMZ/WendyWilliams/Thebreakfastclub. They had all Russell and Ciara little future parading. She want to see Future face he’s ignoring her. Ciara enjoyed that Sperm in her because she’s wanted marriage. She was on Bridal magazine cover tho. She’s big mad ? that Future treat her celebrity ass just like his none celebrity children mother. Same for Larissa Pippen. Ciara just made a poor choice that she now as to live with big Future. She gave her son name Future too lol. She still love Future without a doubt.

  • FukkFolks2018

    Awe Be nice about babbling. We trying to have open convo. Im riding with most of what you are saying tho. Im looking at it from all angles.All POVs.

  • Whirl

    You get it

  • Scromes1212

    I have plenty experience lol she won't win this one like she didn't win the last one lol he will just turn the tables on her and say" who is my son with when you and Russell are all over the world?" Or " you can leave him with the nanny but I can't ?" She can't win and the court doesn't like when females do this at all lol

  • abby500

    I don’t know WHY but I like Future. He is who he is. Even though I’m a whole 53 years old, ain’t seen a menstral cycle in years and he’d probably get me pregnant with twins...Future Il and Futchela (a boy and a girl), but I still like him. He looks like he smells like great cologne and weed.

  • Applebootay

    She's taking him to mediation to create a NEW agreement...EX:...some shat goes down you don't like, be it petty or serious..you can request a mediation to create new boundaries.....the judge will determine if its reasonable...and it gets approved...if he defaults...then everything is in her favor...if he is very egregious in his defaulting he could wind up back in court and the judge will take that into consideration and determine what his rights should be from there.

  • HotInCleveland

    ?????? I wish I could upvote this a million times

  • Scromes1212

    And her argument is not he is unsafe, her argument is they can't FaceTime lol ok good luck with that smh

  • GAPeach

    She lived in LA, and gave birth in LA

  • abby500

    But then Ciara won’t have anything to complain abt and won’t have a tie to him anymore. ?

  • Whirl

    Okay thx for breaking it down? So she’s trying to amend her custody agreement?

  • Applebootay

    Well mediation is used when you asked one parent to let's say stop smoking around your child but the child comes home smelling like cigarette smoke...you request a mediation...tell the judge your case...the judge agrees or deny and he can be in trouble if he defaults on said agreement should you get the mediation approved...

  • Ms..N

    Exactly just because the child is away with the other parent doesn't stop a mother from being a mother! Especially if the dad is a serial sperm donor with multiple partners and drug user!

  • abby500

    I clearly have a problem and need to go sit down... but I can’t ???????

  • FukkFolks2018

    Ex husband aint been here in almost 3 years. It was daycare that ran summer camp. 2 states over. I actually ASKED did she HAVE to go. I prefered she be with his fam vs at a child care spot where she knew NOBODY. IJS.

  • HotInCleveland

    You’re good!

  • Applebootay

    I mean...what made me mad was that they were faking like their break up actually played out on camera for the first time when you can tell that they already either broke up or they had already reconciled.

  • SweetTEE

    And good dick huh? He smells like good dick apparently. It's addictive.

  • Luv Pitties

    She might have a nervous breakdown if he does that lol

  • Applebootay

    Its scorpio dack too...just stay away...I'm too old to be dickmatize at this point in my l ife.

  • Harley

    I would suggest reading what Ciara is actually requesting and NOT Sandra’s interpretation of the situation.

    Plus Future behavior is wreckless so her wanting to FaceTime or speak to her child when away is not un reasonable

  • MsChocCookie

    If it don't fit, don't force it! Her son has an excellent father figure, and the little boy knows Future is his dad. However, being a biological father doesn't mean that it's in the best interest of the child. What kind of example, is Future setting for his children, none!

  • HotInCleveland

    “She’s big mad that Future treats her celebrity a** just like his none celebrity children’s mothers...” ?FACTS

  • SweetTEE

    I'll tell you what.. regardless of the hurt she has endured because of Future, she chose to lay with his dog a** and have his baby. He wasn't ish then, now and never will be. Obviously, he wants nothing to do with this child..since he is apparently the ancestor of a breeder. His purpose is strictly to reproduce and not nurture. Since SHE had a father, she never got to experience being rejected by a father like someone like myself. IT IS A MILLION TIMES WORST

  • Anonymouse

    How is he the ancestor of a breeder? Are his children breeding?

  • Lady_Elle

    I respect other opinions even if I don't agree.
    The hate that she receives here is CRAZY.
    I agree with you on her being a little dingy.

    I think that most times she is kind of on her own to figure out things coming fast!

    BTW... I am one of your fans. Been one for years. :-)

  • bella28498 .

    She can’t control parenting on the other parent’s end. If she doesn’t like his set up oh well too bad I’m sure she seen what type of dad he was before she decided to join his collection of baby mommas. If she doesn’t quit Russell gonna leave her azz

  • Luv Pitties

    Help me out here, my co-worker has a 6yr old son lives with him and his wife full time. The mother has never signed anything providing him full custody and she won’t. It’s a case of her wanting to party and live her life .

    However he’s had private investigators follow her, spent thousands in court and legal fees to get that full custody and he doesn’t have to pay her any child support.

    The mother lives with some drug dealer ; there’s firearms in the home and the boyfriend isn’t very nice to the child and it was ordered for the child not to be near that guy but she brings him anyway. The investigator even had a gps on her car to show her locations and the judge threw it out saying you can’t prove she’s with the drug dealer by gps. What else can he do?

  • Lady_Elle

    No you aren't!!! rofl
    Run... Run.. Run...
    Esp if you say its scorpio dack! lol

  • Anonymouse

    I know that marriage isn't for everyone but neither is this. Life is too short to be in court all the time. Ladies need to vet who they decide to have children with. How you make your bed is exactly how you're going to lie in it!

  • bella28498 .

    All I have to say is stand in line Ciara. Ciara has to realize her child isn’t any more important than the rest of the illegitimates. Collect your check and move on.

  • Scromes1212

    This is sad smh she gonna be FaceTiming her son like a jealous ex girlfriend lol asking him to pan around the room, turn the volume up, sit the phone on the table when he try and ask to call her back cause he got to the use the bathroom smh sad

  • bella28498 .

    Wow she ask him to pan the room ??????? U are joking right????

  • HotInCleveland

    ??????????

  • Scromes1212

    Either your friend is lying or not telling you the whole truth. It he has evidence of everything you just said he would get full custody easy.

  • SweetTEE

    Breeders on the slave plantation. Men they chose to breed with all the viable slave women so that there would be an unlimited supply of little strong slave niglets. Go google it.

    Naw his children aint breeding yet, they're too young obviously. Hopefully they will avoid what looks like a generational curse. I can guarantee Future's daddy was the same way.

  • Whirl

    Again, I don’t have the on hand experience that you have so I appreciate your patience. This isn’t adding up for me on a commonsensical level. I think if there are more details provided at some point it will become clearer. Either way I recognize it is a difficult situation and sympathize with her as a mom.

  • Yetunde

    She’s making every effort to make sure the boy sees his father. If she didn’t, then I’m sure she would be accused of keeping the child away from him. When her new husband was pushing him in a pushchair, there was uproar. She can’t win. She’s damned if she does and damned if she doesn’t.

  • Scromes1212

    I'm serious. She will ask him the same question every time she call. This how it will go.
    "Hey mom me and grandma at the store"
    " Where your daddy?"

    "Hey mom I'm outside playing "
    " Where your daddy?"

    " Hey mom I'm about to take a bath"
    " Where your daddy?"

  • XoXo

    I can truly understand her frustration. Especially in light of the fact that they both travel regularly. It puts her in a predicament every time he does a no show, or sudden change of plans. And since they can’t sit together like 2 civilized human beings, to get on one accord for the sake of the child, then requesting mediation is the best route to take. But like you stated, Shamwow, I totally I agree with you. He needs to sign the paperwork and keep it moving. He’s a bum. His main problem with Ciara is that he can’t control her like he does the other ones.

  • Soon2BWife

    Right, he is four for God's sakes!

  • HotInCleveland

    ????? I CAN NOT

  • Trace da Ace

    exactly!!!! you can tell he is fake...acting like he the KANG and shyt....I can't with him 99.9% of the time....I only watch for Sky and her antics...she keeps me LMAO!

  • Trace da Ace

    and had the nerve to living in that TINY AZZ mobile home...hell cant even call it that....it was a such a hot azz mess....like I said... I ONLY watch for Sky....all that other mess is trash...hawt trash...

  • HotInCleveland

    Little Future will be okay. He has a step dad to teach him how to play catch, read and be a gentleman. He has a biological dad to teach him how to fight and cook crack. He’ll have street smarts and book smarts. It’s a win win. ?????

  • FukkFolks2018

    Awe shucks. I try to be as respectful as possible. And I do agree. Not many like her.

  • Scromes1212

    He will be a little renaissance man :)

  • Trace da Ace

    eww!! I know!!!! like ...how is he getting booty?? He seems like such a sissy boy...for real...he does NOTHING...hell even Puma did something....advertising or whateva..but he did something!!! Teddy is just there holding up the wall...or holding down the couch is more like it....

  • FukkFolks2018

    I think it did happen to Halle now that you mentioned it

  • Lady_Elle

    Great points. rofl

  • bella28498 .

    ??? @ fight and cook crack.... he’s gonna be well balanced

  • Mrs. S. O.

    The issue is, why keep having lil Future fly back and forth across the U.S. only for this man to not be there. She might as well let him stay right there in Seattle. But if Ciara were to not comply with sending lil Future over there then there would be all sorts of issues from Future's lawyers. Just an all around mess.

  • Fodderwing

    I wasn’t gonna reply to posts today but THIS!!!

    Dying!

    Rolling!

  • Mrs. S. O.

    She's not forcing anything. The COURT system is though....

  • Lady_Elle

    You have a voice that many on this board respect... that includes me!

    As a leader... You have the power to open eyes. Even if some don't want their eyes opened!

    :-D

  • HotInCleveland

    Those are the best kind of men. A man you can take around your crazy cousins in the hood and he’ll feel comfortable and you can take him to the firm’s corporate suite at a sports event and he won’t embarrass you in front of your boss.

  • Applebootay

    I'm a scorpio and one of my first loves was a scorpio...I would've robbed a back butt naked if he asked me to...haven't been with one since.

  • JennyJazzhands

    I feel like it's a toss up when you become baby mama #5. There aren't enough hours in the day for him to spread his time that thin. His fault. Oh well. And he's never going to sign over parental rights because it seems that he's doing what he can.
    Also, when else is the grandmother supposed to see the kids, if not during future's visit? Would Ciara have the time or even care to bring little future to see his paternal grandparents?

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Beautifully stated!!! Facts.

  • gellie

    The problem is that twice a month, Ciara has to be ready to get on a plane with her son and fly him out to Atlanta from Seattle. We know at least 30-40% of the time, he's cancelling, often at the last minute. This is very disruptive, but she has to do it because there's a court order that says she has to do it. I think Ciara would be more than happy to stop bugging and bothering Future...if he would agree to tear up the visitation order.

  • Applebootay

    Even though that scene was scripted...I HOLLEREDT when she slapped the fukk outta him...it appeared he cracked a smile too...she's the only one on there that can really act...like she's believable.

  • Lady_Elle

    We have a similar experience!
    I say put on your seat belt!
    It was a fun ride!

    I too would've done almost anything as well!
    I close my eyes and smile... memories.
    Haven't been with one since!

  • Applebootay

    His voice is so ANNOYINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG....he's yelling 99% of the time fake firing everybody...I actually have to get high to watch it now...

  • And then there is that!

    I don't see why wanting him to keep his court appointed schedule is wrong. Her knowing who she laid with doesn't negate that he is baby Future father. Now if she say okay cool I don't need you Future and just allowed Russell to step in and be the only father he knows then it will be a problem. He can't have it both ways. Kide deserve consistency and at some point Ciara will have to make the decision to do what is best for her child!

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    It's very clear that she still has feelings for him. She is bothering him at this point. You can't force a man to do ANYTHING that he doesn't want to do...including being a father. Move on with your life Ciara.....you and your child. She is nagging......uggghhhh.She is the one that chose this type of man to have kids with in the first place. Bish fall in line with the other baby mamas, shut up....and LEVEL up...

  • Applebootay

    If its in the agreement or ordered that she can't be around that guy, he can take her back to court or since he has a tracker on her car...I would call the po-po after my child is there, pop out the car with the legal agreement on hand, the po-po will give him the child , make a police report...take her back to court and she loses ALL rights or at least down to supervised visits...so sorry

  • Applebootay

    That makes sense...but we don't know what future relatives are like...they might be a hot azz mess...

  • Sandra

    This is the same man that was complaining that Ciara had Russell around their son before they married. If your child lives in another state versus your other children that lives in the same city as you then you need to make time. If she kept the child away from him then he would be complaining him and his Amen corner.

  • therealkym

    I'm so happy she's not with Future anymore. THANK GOODNESS!!!

  • Applebootay

    You got it! Although, mediation doesn't mean you violated a agreement already in place...in this case it sounds like it means...You doing some more dumb stuff now I have to add/amend or create a NEW agreement...the more dumb shat you do the more meditations I do....lol

  • Y me?

    Future is so trifling. He shud sign his rights away and let Russell adopt the boy.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Well, Ciara got him to Respond!!! I Know it's Not easy raising children. So she basically raising Little Future and her daughter alone, not counting nannies, etc. when Russell is away Over half the year with football. And she probably feeling it in wanting to be a hands on mom. She is still young and trying to have a career, which can't be easy with two children on schedule.

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY
  • Applebootay

    And this is her "argument" based on what is fed to us through this blog....this girl isn't dumb and her lawyer wouldn't even suggest she ask for mediation solely based on FT...however, if your relatives are shady and ratchet and you won't let me FT my son....LEts's mediate....

  • Eileen

    cieara had better count her Blessings before she finds herself leveled down by a husband who is wondering why she so all in her feelings about future and his mess. You are married to a top knotch guy and you still hounding future ...girl Pluezze!! if you are smart you had better let Russell be the father because future aint got no time whatsoever! yes she is carrying a torch for him.. it couldn't have been that good..her momma need to talk to her! and yes she is harassing him!

  • Eileen

    thank you...

  • T Willis

    I said the same thing

  • CaliGONECRAZY

    Lmao

  • T Willis

    Lmao ikr sh*t makes zero sense

  • Whirl

    Okay that makes sense. Thx.

  • Eileen

    She is not thinking with her head...if he doesn't want to make the time why force him? She got a man who is being a father to him she is carrying a torch for future and there is no future with him plain and simple! get in line with the other baby mommas Ciera you are not special and neither is your child in his eyes! why would you want your son raised up with a crowd of kids by different women anyway? Pretty soon she will start harrassing the baby mommas about their kids not inviting him to their birthday parties. why is she harrassing him? was it that good ciera...umh evidently! but in the meantime you have a wonderful man that adores you

  • Eileen

    She is not behaving like a women that has leveled up. She is like a high end baby momma looking back eventhough with Russell she is so far ahead...smh her daddy should talk to her!

  • morenYAHdelsur

    “You bothering me. Stop bullying me. Stop nagging me. Leave me alone!"

    STOP ?? ? raw dogging! Then you wouldn’t have these problems.

  • Eileen

    Excellent statement..

  • Myopinion

    For some black men, not all, this is exactly what is needed bring the white man in. If it was left up to those deadbeats fathers to just commonly take care of his child like he's suppose to, that child will struggle. He don't just get to do what he wants because he's the father. Yes there are some women who will lay with men without a thought about his integrity, and yes both parties are to blame but after the baby is born you can't still look at the situation like that. It ain't like she can stuff the baby back up in her and "say nah don't worry about nothing now, I pushed it back". If Future don't want a woman bothering him he need to strap up or back up.

  • Eileen

    smh...sad

  • T Willis

    Does the agreement say her son can’t spend time with anyone other than his father? I seriously doubt any judge would grant that type of mandate.

  • JennyJazzhands

    That's not very fair. You're comparing a boyfriend of a few months, at the time, to the child's grandmother.

  • Rayne

    Lol sure do. I can’t wait to get off work and go play with them. Feels like I’m living my life over again as a child. I see everything differently.

  • Evillene

    He wasn't trying to be bothered with the son or the son's mother but had the nerve to complain when another man entered the picture. It was all kinds of wrong.

  • Renee Bee
  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    *commences to ordering red bottoms and errthang gucci*

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    right. custom walkers and canes all around, Lol!

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Neveraury's bitazzness knows no bounds. Lil Cici will continue to be alright with the step who stepped in.

  • T Willis

    “...than the rest of the illegitimates” omg ??

  • Elevated Soul

    I agree. She is not thinking with her head.Future loves fugging and do does Ciara.

    Russell Wilson strike me as the "gentlemen in the bedroom type" but Ciara want a thug in the bedroom, who tears down the bed frame while calling her all kinds of bishes.. She want a man to "tear it up" and Russell just does not strike me as that type. I think he may be a good man but Ciara is a gutter rat, who pretends to be classy. Clearly Russell is impressed with her moves in the bedroom but she want that "Future" kind of love. Russell and Ciara are not equally yoked. He's a God fearing man and she is not.

    People dog Future but any woman who chooses to get involved with him clearly share some of his "no good traits"...

  • Whirl

    If I was her I’d invite the grandmas out for lunch and begin working on a strong bond with them. I would much rather my pooper-snooper spend time with grandmas instead of spending time with him given he likes to smoke and she mentioned the baby comes back smelling like weed. You know grandmas ain’t gonna let nothing happen to their snuffin-muffin. That is a good starting point for finding her happy place in the mist of chaos. Be careful what you wish for you might just get it. That’s how the saying goes. Does she really want her child around him more often in his current state of mind? Build up a stronger relationship with the grandmas and backdoor more control over the situation that way. Just a thought.

  • HotInCleveland

    “ciara is a gutter rat who pretends to be classy” AGREED!

  • gail jones

    I know someone like that

  • Fat

    True story...

  • gail jones

    ???????.

  • gail jones

    Right

  • Elevated Soul

    The control go both ways. Ciara think that because she has more money than the other baby mama's that she can make demands. Future control his other baby mama's who have no money. Ciara and Future are more alike than not.

    Ciara was baby mama #4 or #5 so she knew what it was. Only a bummy woman would get with a dude who already had 4 or 5 baby mamas. Ciara brought all of these issues onto herself and her 1st born.

  • Bashi22

    Let the church choir sing ?

  • Bashi22

    Ciara wants bedroom bully she missed that roughness.

  • Bashi22

    Lol we are critical thinkers so we do form a different opinion than these “ women power” in every situation.

  • Panther Charleston

    Preach!

  • Panther Charleston

    Heavenly Angels, may Future not be the future. I rebuke his nonsense, irresponsible, entitled nature. Get ye behind, sleuthfoot!

  • Prettybrowneyes

    Visits would have halted the minute my child came back smelling like anything other than Johnson &Johnson! You spoke nothing but the truth on building the bond with the stable family members who want the relationship.

  • Prettybrowneyes

    No lies told ?

  • C Mack

    You sound like you really HATE her though. Like why are ppl not holding him accountable and instead blaming her for wanting him to be better?

    It’s not about him treating her like a non-celeb bm. It’s about what’s right. She made a poor choice but when we make poor choices we can at least try to rectify them.

    It’s like whatever she does is wrong.

  • C Mack

    So Future has no blame for no showing visits with his son and passing him off to relatives?

  • C Mack

    Boy I tell you, y’all must have perfect baby daddies and baby mamas the way y’all attacking Ciara for procreating with Future?

    Half of y’all probably dealing with someone now who is worse off than Future! Out here entertaining sorry men/women for free but judging others.

  • Chicagowise

    She put her cart before the horse... with a horse that has MANY abandoned carts! Did she really expect a happy ending?

    I'm starting to think she was using the football player to make no-future jealous. That didn't work, now she using his visitation to get even. She needs to get a life and get over it!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Well the women do have a choice to have an abortion right... and from what I see these guys paying child support and the mom raising the son and they still end up in prison for killing and robbing or the girls turning to stripping whores at a vastly disproportionate rate than other races....

  • Simone

    Russell Wilson seems like a good man and a gentleman. But Cici likes thugs. Ciara is still in love with Future. It's the sex and good d*ck. It has to be cause his character is gutter. That's why she ties him up in court regularly. It's a chance to reunite.

  • Lady_Elle

    A HUGE number of posters hate black women on this site!
    They will hold Cardi B up like a hero... but hate on black women.
    I don't understand! smh

  • exlurker

    Very good idea. I didn't even think of it like that but you have made a valid point. I'd much rather the hold is with their grandma than NO Future!

  • HotInCleveland

    Agreed. I’m not about to support nonsense just because you’re the same gender or race as me.

  • TheOwley

    Maybe she is angling for full custody. If her son goes on outings with a man he barely knows as his father, it can't be good for the kid, specially now that he's getting older and probably recognizes Russell as his everyday dad. He wakes up and goes to bed and lives his life with his mother and Russell as his steady center. Future is bio dad, that's it. She is telling him to be a dad or give it up to another man to do the job.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I’m sure it’s not easy right now because he’s young, but their communication is important, so she will have to or wait until she sees him.

    In a few years, this won’t be such an issue, might be worst when he can really travel and hang out with his!

    Ciara’s fortunate her husband is a good role model, and he’ll learn about other real talk aspects of life from Future!

  • abby500

    She should have made the agreement to have HIM pick up the boy, then he’d probably never come.

  • abby500

    It wouldn’t even have taken Russell to get me there. Seriously, I would not be running behind him. I love the ol’ shutdown. Me and baby boy would be living our life like it’s GOLDEN and Ain’t going back and forth with that nicca.

  • Myopinion

    First of all, why the woman got to make a choice to go get her insides sucked out and butchered because a man doesn't want to take care of his responsibility? He need to strap up or back up like I said. Your response is so juvenile. Child support ain't all it take for a child to be raised either. If you lay raw you accept all the consequences that come after, it's his responsibility too. What if he had gotten an STD instead of a baby...he better hope the latter happens.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    A condo would be ideal! And, eventually Future might cut his son’s visit short, at his own will, knowing he still made the visit. Ciara should abide by whatever the courts says, and fall back!

    I know it’s not easy because Future is super busy, not neglectful, as he is busy with work (that biz, you have to stay relevant, in demand), and their child is not seeing his father as much as he’s fulfilling a court ordered visitation rights!

    But, this what happens when parents aren’t together or on friendly terms, sadly!

  • Rayne

    I swear ?

  • gellie

    Gurrrllll...I'm just gonna go over here and sit down on that one.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Betta lighten up on that Gucci...after taxes you're only gonna have about $15,000.
    Then there's my 15% mgmt. fee.
    Next, I'll have to invest about $5k in your 401k.
    See where you're going with this? From Gucci to Macy's.

  • Rhondalousey

    Maybe so. Yall keep naming future and ciara like they're the only ones involved. What about little Future dying to see his daddy. He dont know anything about this mess and misses his biological dad. What if he's calling out his real daddy's name now that russell isnt around? That boy is 4 years old and he's not dumb.

  • Brooklyn23

    I know I've made some bad choices I regret

  • Rhondalousey

    Make room for the dead beat daddy express, smh. Yall sound like fools. Get ya kids and quit biitchiin!

  • Dollface

    Yea with his father. I’m dropping him off and let his father be a father. I can’t dictate everything. It’s ridiculous. He’s not a baby baby.

  • Willette Capers

    That's exactly what she is doing. She is going to show the court that she has been doing all she can for them to have a relationship and when he doesn't show up, she will get full custody.

  • Bashi22

    Exactly

  • Jethro
  • Bashi22

    Oh please with your feminist stance be a critical thinker whether Ciara and Future does better towards the parenting of their offspring. Don’t impact my life or where I live lol.

  • Yup, I said it

    If all women did this all these serial baby daddy's with a gang of kids would stop that wreckless breeding. Future apparently just throws money at those other baby mamas and they stay in their lane and hush up. Ciare doesnt need his and she's gonna make him do right by his son.

  • Yup, I said it

    I cant blame Cici not one bit. That lil boy is in a stable home with involved parents and Future gets him and takes him to the trap with all these siblings and sister wives and old aunties that he don't know that. Its painful for the mother and child when one of your kids has a wonderful father and the other kid has a deadbeat. I hope she nag his azzzz so much that he gets a vasectomy.

  • Jethro

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  • Prettybrowneyes

    All of this ???

  • WhooCares

    ?????

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    And she probably looking at these women falling at Future's feet coming up pregnant like he's Michael Jackson!!! Future Is The Simp, iiiiihaaaa.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Married or not, he thinks this woman will ever forget him choosing to perform a show across town vs being with her as she gave birth? Nope, she will punish him for the rest of his molly percocet life.

    The image of her smiling through the embarrassment as her dad stood with her in that hospital room is unforgettable. She lived it, so I know it's worse. And her husband has deep pockets too? Yeah Future, she's gonna stay on your ass bro. Your fault.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I notice these black chicks get preg by these in the street thugs who will never go to work will get an abortion quickly,but when it’s a working man they sure do get all republican pro-life

  • JennyJazzhands

    I'm speaking on future and Ciara because that's who's involved in the petition. The petition states that Ciara wants to facetime future when he's away and that he spends more time with future's parents than she would like. That's what I'm commenting on. When a petition comes out stating that future is crying for his dad, I'll give my comments at that time.

  • JennyJazzhands

    I don't know about "not trying to be bothered" the courts recognized that he attends 60 percent of visits. That's not the best but its not abandonment either. I'm just saying, at the time, Ciara had only been dating Russell for a few months and I would have been equally concerned.
    I'd bet money that if future was spotted out with little future being held by his flavor of the month it would be an issue, as it should. So, why the double standard? Future hasn't said anything about Russell being involved since they've been together a minute.

  • Gresildablanco Preston

    So she wants to dictate what’s happening when he’s with Future

  • Eileen

    My goodness you said it so eloquently. They truly are not equally yoked. Yes she is showing her gutter creds.

  • Eileen

    That's a baby mama's dream...little beshon, Keshone or whatever they naming these damn fatherless kids...he crying out fo his daddy ..No he isn't he don't know future he knows the man he sees everyday...Russell!

  • isis Osiris

    Why are women painted as carrying a torch for a man when they are just asking him to do right by their son

  • Yup, I said it

    That lil boy is probably tell Ciara what goes on while in Atlanta. He may be telling her he doesnt want to go. Kids don't like being dumped off on other people. I think her love for her kid is her motivation.

  • Wayup!

    I would hope to God she aint thinking bout him beyond the bag at this point....he left her preggo...I would be bitter for the rest of my life toward him...I would never want to see him personally. my nannies and my lawyers and my famous football husband wold deal with him...
    you know he be mad when Russell walk in the room like.." uhmmmm Ciara said the baby ready ta go"!!!lololo

  • EBT Doll

    He is like a total recycled douche bag... yuck ?

  • EBT Doll

    Nailed it?

  • EBT Doll

    First of all it's a shame that she's gotta do this ... but for your baby, you'll risk it all...Fucha is a total douche bag with his demon peen?? - yup that's what I said... and another damn thing that little boy is SUPER adorable, how could you NOT wanna be in his cute little life LIKE WTF... and y'all bet not buy Fuchas album or go his concerts, or we're not friends anymore?

  • EBT Doll

    Make sure to say it a lil louder for the people in the back?

  • EBT Doll

    Touch ya neighbor?

  • EBT Doll

    Oh wow... jess hilarious voice?

  • EBT Doll

    Only REAL moms would understand... ?

  • C Mack

    “Let his father be a father” = dropping the kid off with a grandparent? Lol

  • C Mack

    Lol true. Still interesting to talk about

  • the guest

    It is unethical for their son to be babysat by others, specifically female relatives, when court ordered visitation for fathers is for the purpose of the child having quality time and paternal role modeling with the father. Ciara is asking him ti be an ethical and present father during visitation which the young child undertakes travel to spend time with his birth father.

  • the guest

    He'll never get a vasectomy.

    Future will be procreating well into his elderly years. He only values himself as a sexual being and not as whole human being or a father. For men like Future, children are just a by product of his over-sexualization. Basically, kids happen, as he see it. That's why he is inept at parenting beyond the act of conception.

    He's only capable of being an occasional older half sibling than a present and responsible father. Also, teens dads leave their kids with aunties and grandmas while they hang out, NOT 40 year old men during visitation.

    For every visitation with Future, who is of means, why isn't that child registered in extra curricular activities? His son should at least be on the sports teams in his dad's town and his father should be present for every practice and game.

  • the guest

    He sees himself as a victim because he's an irresponsible father? Unreal. He should be ashamed of himself.

  • the guest

    Beautifully stated.

  • the guest

    The other baby mamas are dependent and under Future's heel therefore tolerant to be being victimized by his irresponsibility as a father. They have no choice but to accept Future's abuse.

    Also, none of his other baby mamas have ever married and established two parent homes because Future controls them.

    Only Ciara and her child are independent and liberated of Future, and Future is embarrassed and resentful.

  • the guest

    When Future Jr. gets a little older, he will say "I came here to spend time with you dad". When he gets a little older, hanging with nana and auntie won't be as fun to him.

  • the guest

    Beautifully stated.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    He really should! Idk he’s comfortable with any of this. Got two babies on the way! That’s a clear sign that the man doesn’t truly love himself.

  • JENNYJONES1

    ALL THAT IS TRUE BUT HE NEVER HID HIS OTHER KIDS, BABY MAMAS OR TREATMENT OF ANY OF THEM FROM HER OFF THE RIP SO SORRY BUT THIS IS HER FAULT FOR THINKING SHE WAS SOMETHING SPECIAL B/C SHE WAS CIARA AND HE'D TREAT HER DIFFERENT. SHE WASN'T EVEN SMART ENOUGH TO WAIT AND GET PREGNANT AFTER HE MARRIED HER. HE WAS A DOG WHEN SHE MET HIM, STAYED A DOG WHILE SHE WAS W/ HIM AND STILL A DOG. SHE WAS TOOOOO THIRSTY TO BE WITH A BIG CELEB AKA A WANNA BE FAKE BEY/JAY AND RUSHED INTO A RELATIONSHIP AND BABY WITH SORRY ASS FUTURE.I FEEL BAD FOR THEIR SON FOR HAVING SUCH A DUMB MOTHER THAT HAS PUT HIM IN THIS MESSED UP CIRCUS. FUTURE IS CAUGHT UP IN THE FAME, WOMEN & MONEY SO HE DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT CIARA'S CONCERNS OR ANY OF THE REST OF HIS BM AND KIDS ESP WHEN HE'S HIGH ON THEM DIRTY SPRITES. LOL!!! SORRY CIARA YOU NEED TO JUST CONCENTRATE ON BEING THE BEST MOTHER YOU CAN BE AND KEEP GOING FOR FULL CUSTODY.........JENNY JONES!!!

  • JENNYJONES1

    CARDI AIN'T A HERO BUT SHE WAS SMART ENOUGH TO WAIT AND BE MARRIED WHEN SHE GOT PREGNANT BY HER DOG. J/S AND HOW DOES CARD'S NAME GET THROWN INTO EVERY POST ABOUT A BLACK WOMAN? I GUESS SHE'S THE NEW KARDASHIAN SCAPEGOAT.........JENNY JONES!!!

  • Lady_Elle

    Cardi was preggers before she got married.
    Is that what makes the difference?

    My point was that Cardi can do no wrong on this site.
    The true question is why so much hate for black women on this site?

  • JENNYJONES1

    WELL UNTIL SHE GETS FULL CUSTODY SHE MIGHT WANT TO SEND BABY FUTURE WITH A CELL PHONE WITH ONLY HER NUMBER PROGRAMMED IN IT AND TEACH HIM HOW TO FACETIME HER SO SHE KNOWS HE'S GOOD AND HE CAN TALK TO HER, HIS SISTER AND RUSSELL.......JENNY JONES!!!

  • JENNYJONES1

    ACTUALLY I JUST THOUGHT ABOUT THINGS. I'M SURE THOSE GRANDMAS KNOW EXACTLY HOW TO FACETIME B/C GRANDMAS ARE PRETTY CELL PHONE SAVVY THESE DAYS BUT FUTURE IS PROBABLY PAYING ALL OF THEIR BILLS SO THEY ARE DOING WHAT HE SAYS BY NOT DEALING WITH CIARA AND LETTING BABY FUTURE TALK TO HER WHEN HE'S WITH THEM AKA EVIDENCE OF HIM NOT SPENDING TIME WITH HIS SON..........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • JENNYJONES1

    HOW IS SHE HOUNDING FUTURE? THESE ARE COURT ORDERED VISITS AND HE'S MISSES MOST OF THEM. I'D BE PISSED IF I KEPT INTERRUPTING ME AND MY FAMILY'S SCHEDULE, MAKING ARRANGEMENT, WASTING MONEY, PACKING CLOTHES AND HYPING MY BABY UP TO GO VISIT HIS DAD THEN THIS NUCCA CANCELS AT THE LAST MINUTE OR JUST DOESN'T SHOW UP THEN WHEN MY KID DOES GO WITH HIM HE DROPS HIM OFF AT GRANDMA'S HOUSE. RUSSELL AIN'T TRIPPING B/C HE'S LIVING WITH A DISAPPOINTED BABY FUTURE AND THE BS TOO. BIG FUTURE IS USE TO CONTROLLING THE SITUATIONS AND NOT ANSWERING TO ANYONE, HIS OTHER BMs AND FAMILY MEMBERS B/C HE HAS THE MONEY. NOW IF SHE WAS THE ONE DOING THIS TO HIM HE'D BE PISSED AND BE CALLING HER OUT IN PUBLIC AND WITH THE COURTS..........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • dblogged

    That Adam’s apple

  • Harley

    A parent can control parenting on the other end ??

  • Keekz

    preach??. She doesn’t want his triflin’ Azz.

  • Keekz

    No, she wants him to adhere to the court order.

  • Dollface

    It's sad that this how you view the father and child relationship. This is such a generalization and most likely a reflection of your own experience.

    This is no different than him trying to dictate how much time his kid spends with Russell. Future is a star/celeb in his own right. She knew that when she decided to get pregnant by him. Now she wants to dictate his schedule and his parenting. Like I said she needs to get her ass a life. Russel should be embarrassed.

  • Keekz

    I agree. However, as a woman who married and procreated w/an imbecile ?????, this is her cross to bear.
    Which is why as woman you must choose your mate wisely.

  • EBT Doll

    Valid point...

  • C Mack

    Russell shouldn’t be embarrassed at all. His wife is trying to co-parent with the father of her first child. The fact that you can attack her while making excuses for Future is most likely a reflection of YOUR own experience with sorry men...most likely your dad, your ex-husband, your baby daddy who you don’t hold accountable (only getting personal bc you did?????)

    You should also look up the word “generalization” because I’m speaking speciffically about Ci and Future. She does not want to dictate his schedule. She wants him to uphold his court-ordered agreement.

    You must want Future to join Future’s harem lol

  • C Mack

    Humble yourself. I don’t like being talked down to.

  • Eileen

    Women pluezze you sound like a typical baby momma you can't legislate morality and you certainly can't legislate a stud with multiple baby mommas. Ciara thinks she is special but she isn't in his eyes because his eyes are looking for the next piece of booty to impregnate .

  • L. Thompson

    Oh Stfu. Like Ciara the first woman in history to have a fucked up ex. Y'all holier than thou internet bums are so stupid.

  • L. Thompson

    Russell is home everynight, except away games and Ciara and the kids usually travel to the away games as well. Russ is hardly absent half the year. That was a ridiculous statement.

  • L. Thompson

    You sound stupid. Ciara is doing right by her son and she is handling his father the right way. If he can abide by the court order, then he will lose the little visitation he does have. That will mean even less interaction and disruption of her child's life, which is what she is going for. Only birds in the hood let their kids father run in and out of their lives.

  • JennyJazzhands

    I think if that were the case the petition would read quite differently. I'll wait for more information from the hearings.

  • T3

    Issa plan ???

  • PlayerP

    That part

  • Dollface

    You're not getting personal with me. My dad and I have always been great and continue to be. I don't have a husband, ex-husband, or baby daddy. No offense taken hun.

  • Keekz

    Clearly you can read, however, your comprehension skills are inept. Per my remark, Ciara could not be the ONLY woman w/a f'd up ex; because I referenced my ? ex-husband. Thus, I like Ciara, did not choose wisely. Secondly, I am not" holier than thou". I'm passing on wisdom, as a woman on the other side of that BS is supposed to. Beat it!

  • missmiami305
  • missmiami305

    how did I NOT know this. Dayum!

  • LibgraScales

    How Ciara got tied up with his azz in the first place is beyond me. She must have been out of her mind. And now he has two more baby mama's? Boy bye! Ci Ci, you live and you learn.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Educate Yourself about the nfl football season and practice, facts!!! Google it. And You know He Is Home Every Night, How!!!

  • T Willis

    Is that purpose in writing? Or are you just spouting sh*t like Ciara’s crazy @$$?

  • LibgraScales

    Amen to everything you said. Russell is the example of a GROWN Man. Future is a BOY. Mentally, he's still a teenager . . .

  • Eileen

    Future is not interested in his son so leave him alone ciera and enjoy your good life. ....what does Russell say about all of this bs...you performed halftime for his team he took your (torch carrying for future) behind to the White house but you still looking back at future....your business is all in the streets...this women act so freaking classless.

  • Eileen

    But he doesn't want to be daddy to any of his kids so why is she pushing this issue...he is not the first man to bail out...as you can see the courts can not make you visit your child....

  • Eileen

    No she should have ghosted future the way he ghosted her and live her best life with Russell

  • Eileen

    Yes...I believe she is using Russell but why future had no future why is her thinking so gutter ghetto

  • Eileen

    There is too much going on with her messy business now we getting all these other women involved? That's the problem too many black women raising sorry a$$ black men. Future is not the man I would want my son around. ...ciera should have thought better than to have a baby from the community dack!

  • Black4life

    This nasty d*** latent homosexual, mumbling fool is to stupid to realize she's setting him up. She's going to request only phone calls for him, which is really what she wants. Then Russell will eventually be able to adopt Zaire.

  • TheOwley

    That would be a great thing but future still has custodial rights and apparently waltzing in and out of the kid's life with no structure. If he is being the occasional dad, she should document everything and make his exit legal.

  • Black4life

    YUP...nag his latent homosexual ass into a vasectomy. He should also get an Aids test, HIV, Herpes, and Chlamydia...nasty ass.

  • Black4life

    She's setting Past up for Russell to adopt the children. He's just....SMDH.

  • Black4life

    Full custody...then Russell to adopt.

  • ca

    I agreed with L thompson.. we all made some type of mistakes in our lives geesh. he wants like most men not all have him around when he ready to..you cant pick and chose...read it again he has missed days and seh works but make it her busy to ensure he spends with him not his elder all the time..girl I been there done that sometimes these men are just ......fillin the blank

  • ca

    No she wants him to stick to the court since they cannot communicate with each other effectively.... it takes two to be civil, sadly someone is immature...my guess it's him.....

  • ca

    Why is she at fault and he is off the hook...He is creating children with multiple women...HE IS A PART TIME FATHER WHAT MAN LIKE THIS IDEA FOR REAL!!!!!! this is why so many grow up with issues,,sure she should have chosen wiser but sometimes men play all types of game to get you...does not matter if you with them 6 months or 10 years...just stating the facts.

  • ca

    THANK YOU THE GUEST WELL SAID!!! I AM OFF WITH A SMILE. HE will Regret his actions most irresponsible parent do especially when they are at their death bed.......

  • ca

    Whirl would you pay for your ex boyfriend relatives to go on a vacation ...It's his responsibility to spend time with his son that is why the visits are important..if he cant he needs to be tell the truth and back off...drop the court hearings and get him when he can..geesh when you have a child under the age of 10 yrs..you know consistency and supervision are important with your biological parent not relatives.. this is how children sometimes get rape or molested by uncles, aunties , neighbors....as a caseworker and single parent i do not like passing your child off to others on a regular......

  • ca

    His lifestyle is damaging... many on my caseload attest to being or spending time with relatives who did not supervised them properly ..sorry we have to be more careful ..rape,molestation, sexually abuse occurrs among our relatives, neighbors, friend ext.. he needs to be present and if cant let him stay away until you are ready....no excuses she works who to say these elders have his best interest...I recalled family members being the worst kind to leave your child with when you split...relatives are always talking craps.

  • Ling

    I like how you handled that! Maturity!

  • Queen B

    Lol facts ??

  • Queen B

    Ciara is bored with her fancy Russell so now she's trying to light things up with Future. She still gotta thing for this bad boy and its hard for her to shake even tho she knows he's not the right one for her....obviously

  • Chicagowise

    Women can be garbage collectors too.

  • Kimocha

    Well I sure hope Ciara don't still have a thing for Future!... If she does then she must like.. abusive... arrogant... narcissistic... dogs who only care about themselves and have commitment phobia issues!

  • the guest

    Future has court ordered visitation not his aunties and grandmas. If he's not honoring his visitation order then the order should be terminated.

  • the guest

    Russell has to adopt that beautiful boy. Future is harming that child emotionally.

  • the guest

    Future already has regrets but it's easier to numb his feelings and party on. This situation is tragic really. Four kids, two on the way, who will grown up and make Future a grandfather and Future just dismissed his future generations. Sad.

  • the guest

    Amen.

    If Future can devote uninterrupted weekends in Dubai. He can allocate uninterrupted visitation time with his son. Really simple as that.

  • Storm’s Rage!

    She doesnt want no d8mn Future. She is giving Future the same disrespect that he gives her. He is more pressed by her, since she doesnt need him for ish other than to "parent" their child together. Even, his stepfather does a way better job.

  • the guest

    Didn't even consider the dangers of Future being a leave his kid with relatives during visitation type father. I thought it was bad enough he was an absentee father. But you are right. He's risking his son's safety.

  • the guest

    If happily married Ciara ever decided she wanted bad boy D on the side, trust, it would not be Future.

  • the guest

    Out here entertaining sorry men/women for free but judging others.

    LOL

  • the guest

    who tears down the bed frame while calling her all kinds of bishes.. She want a man to "tear it up"

    OMG

  • the guest

    He has a biological dad to teach him how to fight and cook crack.

    Ok, There is NOTHING else to read on this matter. I haven't laughed so hard at a comment in a while!

  • the guest

    He has a biological dad to teach him how to fight and cook crack.

    Ok, There is NOTHING else to read on this matter. I haven't laughed so hard at a comment in a while!

  • the guest

    I can't today!

  • the guest

    I can't today!

  • the guest

    She should be petitioning to terminate the visitation order and Russell should be petitioning to adopt the child.

  • Eileen

    So very true...

  • Queen B

    Yea only bc her pride wont let her b mindful Future left her she didn't leave him

  • Traci404

    He has how many more kids on the way??

    This man is triflin. PERIOD

  • Marie

    Those are NOT HER DEMANDS. It’s court ordered, freakin idiot! Six kids and can’t even make the court appointed visit for one. Waste of skin. Judges need to hand out vasectomies!!

  • Marie

    He got a million kids, nobody should want him! She looks happily married.

  • Queen B

    Thats my point he has a million kids and hoes still popping them out for him. He's gonna have 10 kids and females will still date him. He's Future for God sake....rich, popping and handsome