Amar'e Stoudemire, Alexis Welch split

Amar'e Stoudemire is back on the market. The promiscuous ex-NBA star filed for divorce from his wife, Alexis Welch, a year after admitting he fathered a love child with a fan.

According to court documents obtained by The Blast, the former NBA star filed a petition for dissolution of his marriage from Alexis Welch, his wife of nearly six years (pictured right).

Stoudemire, 36, dated Welch since the early 2000s and the two finally tied the knot in 2012. Over the years, Welch endured Stoudemire's infidelities.

He once had an affair with singer Ciara (pictured) before returning to Welch and their kids.

Stoudemire and Welch share four kids together: Ar'e. Amar'e Jr., Assata and their youngest son, Alijah, who was born in 2013.

The split comes about a year after it was revealed Stoudemire fathered a love child with a Florida woman named Quynn Lovett.

Back in April 2017, Lovett sued Stoudemire for paternity and sought child support for a baby girl named Zoe Renee, who was born in 2016. Stoudemire responded to the suit by admitting he paid Lovett's childcare expenses without a court order.

But Lovett wanted more from the former NY Knicks star. She accused him of not being involved with the pregnancy and demanded he be ordered to pay support.

The case dragged on for months but eventually settled in October 2017 once a DNA test confirmed that Stoudemire was indeed the father of the baby girl.

The terms of their settlement were not disclosed to the public.

Stoudemire earned $161 million during his 15-year NBA career. After leaving the NBA, he signed a deal to play for an Israeli pro basketball team in Jerusalem, according to WENN.com.

Photos by Getty Images, Splash News

  • Bashi22

    His wife his a fashionista looks great in everything she wears. Amare @ 36 want something new and different none-black girlfriend soon to be wife. He’s a Jewish too maybe he found a Jewish

  • Coy little wink

    Awww...I liked that he wifed her finally...

  • Fire & Ice

    Damn another bullet Clara has dodged. Russell is looking better and better everyday!

  • Bashi22

    Clara was with showing off while his babymother manned the children. Ciara no saint too.

  • Fire & Ice

    Of course she's no saint and neither is her husband. However I can't see Russell in the mess future and Amarie are in.

  • Kimberly King

    Alexis is beautiful and she can do better ! I would have filed before he did. Having an outside baby and diseases are my two major dealbreakers.

  • http://www.legalizemelanin.com Legalize Melanin

    Sad

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    He once had an affair with singer Ciara (pictured) before returning to Welch and their kids.
    __________
    Not miss innocent ?? oh ummm hmmmm https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b7188a406392d6edea5a954a2b2e02df248a6a623fbef0c902dfe71e729060f4.gif

  • Nina Ross

    Smh

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Yea they were all public with it ??

  • Vonn

    Good luck Alexis. You & your kids deserve better.

  • IamAllnatural

    When will these cheating husbands learn to wear condoms. They’re so disrespectful and nasty.

  • hi-liter

    Wayment...HE filed for divorce and not her? He must really Want to be with the baby mama.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • hi-liter

    He wasn’t married legally then was he? They just had all them chillens....common law.

  • Ang

    Or he knew she was going to file and just beat her to it. Doesn’t matter who files really. He saved her the expense of having to file the paperwork herself.

  • hi-liter

    He really is looking like a shnack. He got some swag when he married CiCi.

  • hi-liter

    It does matter who files IMO.....whomever files is the one who wants the divorce is how I feel. Of course other circumstances can affect who files too.

  • Scromes1212

    4 small kids and she going back into the dating scene smh that's going to be rough. He took all her youth and dipped. It had to be bad at home for him to be the one to file

  • Bashi22

    Ok then I swear for no man a la cart Tigger Woods. Silent river runs deep

  • Bashi22

    He as money an investment that covers it all lol like the blood of the lamb.

  • Ang

    I mean it doesn’t matter in terms of how the divorce plays out. She still gets the same thing whether he files or her. But, I also don’t assume anything with these situations because people filing for divorce are still married and communicating about things the public doesn’t know about. I think Grace may have let Usher file the second divorce petition after they let the first one go to save him more embarrassment. They probably telling these dudes they’ll go quietly if they throw in some extra $

  • Ang

    I think the NBA girlfriend’s and wives (including Ms. Union) know their men cheat but don’t care because they want the lifestyle. Some women (and men) will trade their dignity for the luxurious life. It wouldn’t be me.

  • Scromes1212

    Females stay with broke cheaters too lol

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Nothing like Your Own Sh.t!!!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    She should count herself blessed! Good riddance to old garbage. If she needs any help counting she can call me.
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/2762e02cee3f68a632107319ccc7d17f7d61c41c31a3c36f8be5944bd66f4c6b.gif

  • Ang

    You mean “women”. But that’s not what I’m talking about here.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Ciara Wins Again!!!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    He also dated Serena Williams. Serena Wins Again!!!

  • Vonn

    Or someone else. He likes to bed hop.

  • Youcan’tbanmesucka

    He needs Chris Bosh's attorney. Also depends on the state.

  • Y me?

    She will be compensated well for enduring his nasty ass

  • Joy King

    I always got the feeling he never wanted to marry the Mother of his children in the first place. He only did it because he was advised it would look good for his public image. They have four children, so hopefully financially, he’ll voluntarily do right by their children and her.

  • T Willis

    Yeah I don’t think he did either

  • T Willis

    Naw, ole girl was desperate for him. Not the other way around. I remember reading how they met and how she used to stalk him at games lol. Then he left her, after having two of his kids, for Ciara. And as soon as he returned she popped out more kids BEFORE marriage. He should have cut his losses after the first kid.

  • T Willis

    I don’t think he ever loved his wife. The way their relationship played out - in interviews - the timing of his kids - it always came across like she was desperate to hang onto him. And I think he felt morally pressured to marry her in the first place. This is why dudes need to get snipped or enforce birth control on their women. Because every cute chick that smiles at these athletes is looking for a quick nut that will last them 18 years. You gotta be smarter.

  • Peppermint Patty

    Wasn't there a picture or a rumor about his minuscule package....women put up with the absolute most

  • T Willis

    Ain’t she in her mid-late 30s? With 4 kids? No career to speak of, and her ex is an athlete? Naw, the only guys in her future are them corner boyz or a youngin looking for sloppy seconds.

    Plus, and I hate to say it, she looks like an average black girl. In the world of entertainment she was lucky to be chosen at all. Especially with this exotic fetish that most of our men suffer from

  • RealATLPeach36

    The only thing I can say in Gabby had a little cheddar on her own...

  • Ang

    Yes but it was nothing compared to Dwade’s. That’s a different lifestyle altogether and a different kind of security.

  • Fire & Ice

    I said something up top! Another W for Cici ???

  • Ebony Starr

    She has a 9 year old with Chris Duhon, former Laker.

  • Fire & Ice

    We ain't never swearing for no man. I just can't see outside baby or future shenanigans with him. But hey stranger things have happened ?

  • KcoolMuziq

    Ciara has done her some sampling hasn't she? She left no corner unturned.

  • Fire & Ice

    she does have a great sense of style

  • Fire & Ice

    ikr ?

  • hi-liter

    Who?

  • Bashi22

    I love it ?

  • Bashi22

    Shes a smart lady that knows about manager of vagina

  • Fire & Ice

    Hmmmm that's what it usually implies but who knows. I was STUNNED to find out last week, that this couple who's wedding I was in got divorced. I just knew that she had filed. It turns out he divorced her ?. I didn't see that one coming.

  • justlooking

    Yikes

    Love Child = Equals Risky sex

    Hes a Dummy

  • Bashi22

    These wealthy men shouldn't until they are settle in all area's of their life. Yes they can get children becasue Mary wasn't married to Joseph.

  • Ebony Starr

    Just anther dumb jock.

  • justlooking

    I disagree. Men cheat that mske 20k. "Your" man treats you how you allow him to. My opinion

  • My Thoughts

    ?

  • EyeEmJai

    It must not be her deal breakers lol. Because if they were, then she shouldn't have married him initially. He was all over the place the duration of their relationship.

  • Neva RuthLess

    This will stop when men are punished for disrespecting and humiliating their wives, and tearing their families apart. We have so many broken homes because of careless disrespectful men. Women cheat and are disrespectful as well. We need a harsh penalty for adultery.

  • EyeEmJai

    I agree.

  • Tammie Reed

    Damn shame!

  • Renee26

    Stone them you say??

  • MsPam

    A.J Calloway from 106 Park is being accused of harassment according to the streets. This poor struggling wife had all of those kids, stood behind him and he leaving her. SMH back and forth.

  • MsPam

    Mark 7 :21

  • Parent

    Men will never settle for just 1 woman. It's biology. We need to accept it and live with it. And God willing pray we don't get infected with an std.

  • Parent

    Alexis is beautiful

  • Shamwow

    Wow 161 million.

  • hi-liter

    Yeah, I saw that today. Two women with similar stories about him wanting them to touch his dack. One woman he literally took her hand and forced her to touch him where he then came on her hand. Another lady said they were sitting in a car and he kept on asking her to touch his dack, apparently he asked her so many times that she gave in and he came on her hand like he did the other lady.

  • Look@m3

    Wait she wanted someone else's husband to be involved in the pregnancy? I'm done....these grown women and men got to do better at some point. Same story different group of idiots

  • Look@m3

    Right having kids is no joke but to have them just to possibly win over a man or for a Prada bag- EMPHATIC No!

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    Yes she is , anybody notice how she doesnt gaze or look at Russell the same way as she does in that pic with my dawg STAT.

    Body language tells alot. She took it very hard and poured it out in that song when he went back to his ole lady.

  • DroneRivers

    These dirty dudes kill me. A box of condoms costs how much? 18 years of child support costs how much?! I mean really. If you're gonna be a lying, cheating piece of sh!t, the least you could do is wrap that thing up.

  • Chocolate

    Gross

  • Rent em Spoons ?????????

    saw somewhere where she did the thing to Duhon, dragged him in and out of court for higher payments /settlement , he accused her for not wanting to work.

  • Yup, I said it

    I guess she said "those Israeli league check ain't big enough to put up with this bull for another 20 years."

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Because at the end of the day, You must think about You and your baby/babies!!! High Respect for you.

  • Ni Ni

    I'm just shocked to hear this?. He should've stayed away from Hollyweird. If you ain't screwed up when you get there, you will be eventually.

  • FukkFolks2019

    Hate Chris Duhon based on Duke and well I bleed Tarheel lol. Goes to look this up

  • Ni Ni

    Men are scared to live alone until they mature. They want a second mommy to cook and clean for them

  • GrapeCrush

    She said Alexis, not Ciara, lol

  • Ni Ni

    Bingo!

  • the guest

    Wait she wanted someone else's husband to be involved in the pregnancy?

    Exactly!

    And he wasn't even on a break.

  • Marlika

    His poor wife.?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    She should’ve left his a$$ when he was cheating on her with Cierror???

    Back on this R Kelly shiznit?

  • the guest

    I've been notice that. Ciara has never exuded passion for her husband she exuded for Future and in that photo up top. Russell is for Ciara what jews call "she made a good marriage". A good marriage is practical not passionate.

  • hottlanta

    I can't with you. STOPPPPPPPPP

  • the guest

    He wanted to be with Ciara.

  • hottlanta

    No, not an affair with goody two shoes Ciara. That story is about as fake as Madonna depends diaper shaped azz. Grabbing my smelling salts.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    SAD! At least his ex-wife has a chance to meet someone who can and will love her! The rich and famous trash is now out of her life!

  • hottlanta

    Gurl they after my intelligent boyfriend Degrassi Tyson. I had to catch my breath when I read that today. I saw the tape where John Gray was confessing he cheated on his wife and then she admitted it as well but she was proud to be standing next to her husssband. She said I know SOME of them was planning on coming her tonight. Folks in the church was clapping and cheering I was like wow.

  • the guest

    THIS is why she chased him and forgave him.

  • Harley

    He was not married and apparently went public with Ciara. His wife took him back knowing he was with someone else when they were having a “break”

  • Harley

    Nope wasn’t married

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I just can't anymore with the reckless raw sexing with randoms?
    But, I suppose you don't care about the health of your wife/mother of your children if you don't care about your own immediate safety. I'm truly stumped, smh?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Yeah, the Gray story just saddens me (for her).

  • R in NYC

    These married men ain't shiiiid. Only one married are the wives.

  • DeeFromLA

    These male celebs are dumb AF. I hope she gets half of all of his shit.

  • Mz. Nisha

    Exactly, I left my ex husband and told him he needed to pay the money to file since he was the one who asked to be married. I refused to spend my hard earned money to be free, told him I'd just stay on his medical, dental and life insurance until he got tired of paying for me. That was all the motivation he needed to to run and file?. His attorney drew up the paperwork. I took it to my prepaid attorney to review which only cost me $100 and we were done.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Monogamy isn’t natural for women either sooo...

  • Eileen

    sick and nasty....what is wrong with bm...i know other men from different cultures do it but I am referring to our dumb -sh-t men! where is the discipline and faithfullness you should have towards your marriage. These men dont care about themselves

  • Panther Charleston

    I feel so bad for the victims of these egomaniacs. Can you imagine?! Meeting someone who appears to have it all and who wants to share their life w you; then you find out, you just got the life sucked out of you, and all of they lil "stuff" don't feel nearly as good as your peace of mind (and good health).

  • Eileen

    its all about discipline and common sense.

  • Chapter29Chick

    Ok, so basically he cheated on her, got an outside baby (dgaf about his wife's health), left her with 4 kids (mangled stomache) and his long nosed funny looking ass divorced her????? Has he never heard of dingalang swinggers like magic johnson? Honestly im starting 2 understand that men arent wired 4 monogomy. Why get in a relationship??? Alot of men need 2 take a class or something because this is going 2 cause many unintended entanglements that will confuse and villify the future generation of children.

  • Chapter29Chick

    Ok, so basically he cheated on her, got an outside baby (dgaf about his wife's health), left her with 4 kids (mangled stomache) and his long nosed funny looking ass divorced her????? Has he never heard of dingalang swinggers like magic johnson? Honestly im starting 2 understand that men arent wired 4 monogomy. Why get in a relationship??? Alot of men need 2 take a class or something because this is going 2 cause many unintended entanglements that will confuse and villify the future generation of children.

  • Chapter29Chick

    Damn right!! Take his long nosed ass 2 the bank mamacita.

  • Chapter29Chick

    Damn right!! Take his long nosed ass 2 the bank mamacita.

  • more

    I wished woman would put their food down

  • more

    Whaaat!! Bish is you crazy????i refuse to believe you are a woman.

  • more

    As long as woman continue to take men back for cheating or outside babies, you can expect men to treat us like crap.

  • more

    It don't have anything to do with money and everything to do NEEDING a man. I have men in my family with less who are able to cheat without consequences. To me money is not the main factor.....

  • more

    Thank you

  • more

    Bingo!

  • Junkanoo

    These groupies have mental issues and the men are weak running up raw in these skank ass hoes and then going home sexing they're wives raw nastiness.

  • Ang

    With these men in particular money is the motivating factor. Some of these women go hunting for ballers and don’t want to let go because they are attracted to the money and status that comes with being a baller’s wife.

  • Ang

    I’m not mad at that. That was smart if you.

  • Libra80sBaby

    This irritates TF outta me. This just proves that no matter how LOYAL and/or
    "Ride Or Die" a woman is....MOST (not all)
    will choose their d*ck and a nut over any and everything.

  • Libra80sBaby

    Auntie Sandra... U checking comments now???? Sheeeesh!! @SandraRose

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Why get into a relationship? Cuz most men like control and most men want to have other woman and you but don’t want to see anyone else with you UNTIL they have decided they are done with you. Which is why a lot of them can’t take it when a woman leaves them or do the same thing as them.

  • hi-liter

    ????

  • Yup, I said it

    Idk why people don't realized this. Women are quicker to abandon a relationship than men if she finds another man who meets her emotional and sexual needs.

  • oshh16

    I was just thinking after a comment was made in hair salon about "everybody wanting love and people that are single being deeply frustrated".
    Women who hold on to bad relationships seems to be 1000 times more frustrated than being single with your dignity, self respect and peace of mind intact. Yes folk desire love, but the right and real variety, the kind that puts the others well being first, the kind that is faithful, kind and true.

  • oshh16

    I was just thinking after a comment was made in hair salon about "everybody wanting love and people that are single being deeply frustrated".
    Women who hold on to bad relationships seems to be 1000 times more frustrated than being single with your dignity, self respect and peace of mind intact. Yes folk desire love, but the right and real variety, the kind that puts the others well being first, the kind that is faithful, kind and true.

  • oshh16

    Selfish, self serving, self centered....

  • oshh16

    Yes. Just spoke on peace of mind up top.

  • Bashi22

    Correct these wealthy men do have chefs at home. Most of these wealthy men women cannot cook. They trophy to bring in their pretty babies

  • Pamela

    Well he is the one that filed for divorce. He wanted out.

  • CookieMobster
  • CookieMobster

    My husband will not cheat, because he is a good man and has self discipline and control, and respect. Also, because he does NOT put himself in a situation to be tempted. I am very thankful for him and the example he sets for our son.

  • Parent

    You can refuse to believe what you want.

  • Parent

    There are still some good men out there. You're blessed with one.

  • Parent

    The way I see it men can impregnate as many women at once. Women can only get pregnant let's say once a year.

  • Parent

    Lol right. So I had to watch the YouTube interview with his brother Carey. It was tough to watch but he described in graphic detail how his sister had her way
    With him when he was just 6 years old. There whole family is and was a mess.

  • Ni Ni

    True, they do have chefs and want the mixed babies. But, they need a docile woman in the house to just be there so they won't be alone when they get done doing their dirt with randoms.

  • Baaba Sanders

    How they are not protecting themselves almost seems like a curse.

  • Baaba Sanders

    How about just divorce and move on to the next one. Or just be single and play all you want?

  • Parent

    Most men don't have it

  • Ni Ni

    They dont care about their own kids even. They are willing to bring AIDS to their wife, possibly leaving their kids parentless. Men just do not care, as long as they get a nut, smh

    Some of these wives have chased their husbands down, threatening the side chicks, etc. They know what type of man his is already, so i don't really feel sorry for them. I feel bad for the kids.

  • Parent

    I agree but men with money and power want it all even if it means endangering their wives health.

  • Parent

    Lol

  • Ni Ni

    We need to accept it and live with it. And God willing pray we don't get infected with an std.
    ______________
    What a way to live, smh.

  • Parent

    This is the world we live in. Now I'm not saying all men.

  • Ni Ni

    Wow, there's a tape? And she said "some of them" meaning more than one? See this man probably couldnt pull women before, now that he's famous he can't resist them. This man gone be another Jamal Bryant.

  • Ni Ni

    I know, it's a shame.

  • justlooking

    I am hollering

    My John Grey right would be dead. PeriodT

  • justlooking

    Get out of here. He is is one unattractive human

  • Dowoop

    ?

  • Dowoop

    Sexual needs doesn't even need to be met for a woman to jump ship sometimes.

  • Dowoop

    Like stoning in the middle east?

  • Dowoop

    Or enforce birth control on themselves.

  • R Smith

    "She accused him of not being involved with the pregnancy"...WTF?

  • MsChocolate

    Why even bother??? I don’t like falling in love. Makes me feel vulnerable. I prefer men to fall in love with me. Easier to stay in control and easier to leave. I’m the prize.

  • T Willis

    No, force their women to stay on birth control. Women don’t go on birth control ever lol because every egg is an opportunity - these dudes need to take on a whole other mentality when dealing with ANY woman.

  • T Willis

    People seem to be missing that fact lol. I wish people could grasp the concept that maybe he never wanted the “wife” to begin with. So sick of clicking on these posts and reading emotional diatribes about men hurting these “poor suffering wives”. Can we step into reality for a moment? Lol.

  • T Willis

    I’m wondering if maybe she was the one he wanted. I can’t see a woman making these claims if they didn’t have merit. Just like I can’t see why his wife didn’t file when the initial allegations surfaced - or why she wasn’t the one to initiate a divorce. The questions surrounding this only lead to a few possible conclusions, which is that Amar’e never wanted his wife, and this side chick is who he had feelings for.

  • T Willis

    I think that applies to Amar’e marriage to Alexis too. He never seemed like he cared about her, it was a marriage of convenience meant to covet sponsorships and endorsement deals. I honestly don’t think Amar’e ever wanted Alexis. She just happened to catch two nuts and cashed out.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    He didn't want to be married in the 1st place.

  • T Willis

    Women outnumber men too greatly and over 50% of women go after a small percentage of men - which happen to be men of means or in certain professions. So, if you happen to catch a man in that top tier then infidelity comes with the price tag. If you don’t like it then move on to a man who travels less and isn’t on a global platform. I don’t understand why women get so dayum emotional over this. All women want financial security, charisma, and sex appeal in their men. So of course if *you* find it, there’s going to be at least a half dozen women trying to compete with *you* for your mans attention. That sort of prowess is not easy to avoid. Again, another logical fact that I wish women would grasp.

    And lastly, Alexis is an average basic looking black woman. I said this previously but I think my comment was deleted lol. Again, she was hella fortunate to be chosen *once* but I don’t think lightning is going to strike twice. Especially since she’s over 30 with 4 kids and subpar looks.

  • Parent

    Great write up!

  • T Willis

    They are delusional. They think logic and common sense are male only traits

  • T Willis

    Yup

  • T Willis

    No they don’t lmao they hang on for dear life and try their best to “shame” men into monogamy and fidelity. When that doesn’t work they overinflate their contribution to the union and leave. Only to see that man rebound quick as hell for a younger version of herself ????? Tis life

  • T Willis

    Yup. Doesn’t surprise me, she admitted to stalking Amar’e before they hooked up. Like I said, this marriage was conjured up to elicit sponsorship and endorsement deals.

  • T Willis

    Yup

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    She ENDURED his infidelity for YEARS, DNA test confirmed that Stoudemire was indeed the father of the baby girl, but HE filed for divorce. What the what? That clown would been trying to climb out the Grand Canyon somewhere. In the words of Lil Mo, "Nawh son".

  • brooklyn23

    Well said sis, 'FACTS

  • brooklyn23

    I'm weak lol you're the second person to call him "long nose" . I couldn't think of how to word what I thought of when i looked at his nose . Thanks

  • Fire & Ice

    The side chick. Apparently this chick is a well known groupie.

  • Neva RuthLess

    Do not marry or have children with black men. They will respect us black women when we demand respect. Black men are statistically 5x more likely to have an affair,have side babies, and stds. As a woman being with a black man is simply not worth it. They run around wrecking homes and think it’s cute.

  • tintin

    Why dont these men just get a vasectomy. It would save a lot of problems for their cheating a$$

  • Shamwow

    That’s probably why he filed because he got tired of proving himself and he wanted to make a power move. But I don’t think they will divorce. She just hid the Xbox and he want it back.

  • tia

    I love this statement! Well said...

  • jason rite

    I'm a good man and I adore and worship my BLACK QIEEN,however,
    i'm woke also ,and understand the black woman has THE MOST HIGH YAH inside her, so why would I disrespect a lower GOD blk QUEEN under Yah who's woke also is a death sentence!!

  • jason rite

    Women find yourself a WOKE MAN and i'm not talking about the Hebrews or muslims that disrespect blk women either.

  • FukkFolks2019

    My granny and great aunt told us this. Find you a man that loves you, more than YOU love them.

  • FukkFolks2019

    Black men are statistically 5x more likely to have an affair,have side babies
    ^^^^
    Where this study at? Stds maybe bc of the recent HIV spike in quite a few places. But side babies and affairs, would like to see this study. For myself.

  • FukkFolks2019

    My bet is she the one who he gonna end up with.

  • Bashi22

    No the world need replishment

  • FukkFolks2019

    Not me. I will dump you and not think twice. I have my next one lined up most times already... if I'm REALLY ready to be rid of you; or at least a game plan. I missed my ex-husband for about a week, and then classes started the week after. That I had paid for 6 MONTHS prior, bc I knew I was putting his ass out and was gonna need a distraction. He had no clue. See? A game plan

  • FukkFolks2019

    Amen

  • Bashi22

    Don’t worry what half she took his and her children will inherit it.

  • Renee26

    I umm have a friend in this situation now and she's on the fence about accepting his proposal cause she feels she will cheat on him ? cause he's not a looker, sexy, or packing anything

  • Parent

    Men of all shades cheat. Don't single out black men..

  • Parent

    It's biology...

  • A D N

    I appreciate you. Thank you for your support. We need one another.

  • J2PC

    Let's not pretend that you care about the world at large. For many years China had a 1 child only policy. Yet, they are still one of the most overpopulated nation in the world. Go figure.

    The world is becoming overpopulated with an astounding number of impoverished starving people already not to mention far too many kids who will grow up dysfunctional from being in a broken fatherless home.

    Two or 3 kids is more enough by a cheater is more than enough.

    Snip-snip is birth control to avoid unwanted kids that need to be fed; clothed, housed, educated, loved, nurtured & raised properly instead of neglected, abandoned & left emotionally broken dysfunctional souls from reckless, irresponsible adults behaving selfishly only to mess up the perception, emotions & behavior of their children who will reflect all of their wrongdoing.

  • J2PC

    She chose to endure his infidelity & stay for YEARS. That is a choice! When he realize that she wasn't going to set him free, he chose to divorce her.

    Only silly women waste years of their lives trying to hold it down for a cheating, disrespectful loser who is not giving her the same in return.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Have one (fell in love with me first) but it wasn't until I loved myself is when I actually found out .... had no idea my king was in love with me since we were teenagers ... and didn't find out until I loved myself literally .... so in lieu .... fall in love with self ..... and your king gravitates to you ... Same shyt with my mom and father ....

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Your friend is a block for him .... she worried bout the wrong shyt... he needs to find someone else stat

  • jason rite

    Thanks Queen.There aren't many of us as most black men are trapped under white supremacy.Black men love the power that white supremacy has given him over the black woman!!!

    Yaa Asantewaa Ashanti QUEEN fought the Neanderthal WHITE DEVIL British!
    THE BLACK MEN WOULDN'T FIGHT
    Yaa Asantewaa adressing her council of black people:

    Now I have seen that some of you fear to go forward to fight for our king. If it were the brave days of Osei Tutu, Okomfo Anokye and Opuku Ware I, chiefs would not sit down to see their king taken without firing a shot. No white man could have dared to speak to the Chief of Asante in the way the governor spoke to you chiefs this morning. Is it true that the bravery of Asante is no more? I cannot believe it. It cannot be! I must say this: if you, the men of Asante, will not go forward, then we will. I shall call upon my fellow women. We will fight the white men. We will fight till the last of us falls on the battlefield

    Be blessed Queen!

  • T3

    Or be faithful. Or wear condoms. Stupid!

  • Cannelle

    Nah. We are already near 8 billion people on the planet, with natural resources being stretched.

    Besides, what good does it do for ANYONE if the children being born are not wanted or provided for?

  • Cannelle

    Wonderful post.

    As a side note, I recently heard that China's population is going DOWN for the first time. Great news!

  • Yup, I said it

    Oh sugar those are the desperate women probably fat, ugly, borderline personality, crazy type with daddy issues. A woman with better options will dip and leave the house car, kids, and dog. You know like. Keisha Ka'ior did (allegedly.)

  • reddfoxxy16

    MINE SAID THE SAME THING..

  • T Willis

    I have two words for you: Halle Berry.

    Beautiful, successful, black women hang onto no good nuccas all day, everyday. Don’t believe the hype, it’s not the “ugly, fat, borderline personality, daddy issues” only chicks. Women of all walks of life do it because it’s an ideology that’s woven into every civilization on the planet: a woman without a man is somehow less than. And that having a man, especially a powerful and successful man (Amar’e), determines your value as a woman living in this society. It’s not surprising to me at all and I’ve pretty much come to accept it ?????

  • reddfoxxy16

    I FINALLY AGREE WITH U, LOL...

  • Parent

    lol it's all love!

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    You get what you get and you don't throw a fit. You demand better and you get better. There is nothing wrong with being single and dating around. He should just be single and do what he does, so he is not leading a woman on who wants more in a relationship. I hate seeing kids being thrown in to this type of situation. Done right, they can still co-parent and move on with their lives.

  • noluvlost

    Yea she needs to let him go. She's not any good for him.

  • hottlanta

    Got my video of John Gray talking bout when he got caught cheating his wife set it off like a GOOD WIFE should. Scroll down to 6:29 when she talks about it. I kept trying to figure it out when she was talking about someone being 16 years old.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXYL5nYmZGE

  • anonymouse

    he's not good for her, either.

  • Sunshine ///

    He was dating Ciara at one time (before Future) and as soon as she started answering questions about him in interviews he dropped her like a hot potato. Went back to the baby momma and wifed her. Not surprised at all. His peen is like a metal detector for p&$$y. As soon as it comes close to it, it starts beeping.

  • anonymouse

    she shouldn't. things won't work if she's not attracted to the man at all and she's not a bad person for wanting that.

  • the guest

    There needs to be a shift in paradigm.

    There will not be less people so people are going to have to learn to be more communal with resources and more sustainable and minimalist with personal resources. Not poor, more sustainable and minimalist.

    There was a time when people took in unwanted children, unwanted children were raised by family friends, neighbors, now children are thrown away and abused by systems.

    As far as the topic at hand, men have to learn to be more responsible and more honest. All of these babies are not "accidents".

    The problem is that these men are making bonds and promises with women, planning and intentionally procreating, then abandoning. But society lets them. There's no shame. And there are too many women who see no problem laying and procreating with family abandoners.

  • Business909

    Lay down with dogs, you will wake up with fleas!

  • A D N

    So the black man reluctance to fight back or fight for his Queens extends beyond the experience here in the states? Why have they weakened under any ruler?

  • the guest

    The 10 most wanted child support evaders on the FBI's most wanted are all white men. Rich white men that plummet their families into poverty.

    The truth is white, black, native american men are most prone for addiction, out of wedlock babies, and child abandonment. Latinos and hispanics are a distant second to those groups.

    The most responsible men are asians, indians, orthodox jews because it is multigenerationally and culturally ingrained in them and there is still real cultural and social shame in those communities on a man who doesn't marry or leaves families. Those cultures are also insular with men least likely to marry outside their race/faith/culture.

    The point I'm making is that white men are not morally superior to black men in the marriage and faithfulness department.

  • Allihave2say

    or babies….

  • Renee26

    Not really... It's complicated. She loves him for the man he is and treats him just as good as he does her. There's just no sexual attraction, but everything else is great. Soooo there's a point when one has to weigh their options. Do you be with a mate who accepts and loves you fully and sacrifice your sexuality or do you hold out for a full package deal.... That's where she is right now.

  • Renee26

    She treats him fine

  • Renee26

    Only time will tell

  • currvalicious

    She endured so much disrespect to finally get to marriage, just for him to turn around & file for divorce. Smh...

  • currvalicious

    Exactly. My Mother said the same..

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    they just some sorry, nasty millionaires at the end of the day, smh.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Cici dodged that bullet ran into another one but found gold in the end.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Cici dodged that bullet ran into another one but found gold in the end.

  • Dowoop

    You do realize that a baby is not the worst thing they can end up with...

  • Karen Brady

    This DOG. Next.

  • Oh Tommie

    Damn...I forgot about those two!!

  • L. Thompson

    Amare was NOT married when he briefly dated Ciara. He was completely separated from his then ex girlfriend months before he dated Ciara. Your words are coming very close to libel Sandra. I hope Ciara sues your broke ass.

  • Readytochokemothernatureout

    Yes the girl couldn't win for losing.

  • okiseethisthatdumbshit

    auntie to forgot to finish the story where he went to is ray el and father sum mo kids

  • Tailor Koko Milk

    How is the news ? All black men cheat and have multiple bastard kids I’m done !

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    18 years of child support. smh
    These dudes never learn.

  • jason rite

    Sounds like they were either worn out or scared.

  • Goodii2Shoes

    logical fact that I wish women would grasp.
    _________
    lol,

  • Goodii2Shoes

    leave the house car, kids, and dog
    _____________
    lol, yes. Women with better options will leave all that. Lol, especially when the kids were trick-babies /whatever. .

  • Goodii2Shoes

    So. Jesus was a bastard? I'm not a Christian but remember someone alluding to Mary being a prostitute and I don't recall a wedding in the bible lol. ..

  • Chuck

    Sad that this low self esteem woman allowed this cheater to divorce her, instead of her filing the petition. Weak af!

  • ann

    Tell her to haul it? I not too long ago did the same, and I felt such a sense of relief like I dodged a bullet. Saved me the trouble of having to poison him too. (?)

  • Sha

    Thank you, and I appreciate you.

  • Sha

    Thank you, and I appreciate you.

  • Ateya

    I'm not surprised. They had problems before even getting married in the press so I hate he did not change

  • Sha

    I like that. Happy New Year

  • Decked Out

    This is a very SAD Cycle that occurs in our Community for $$$$ ONLY because if he is MARRIED and you DECIDE to bear a CHILD you should be RE$PON$IBLE also. If the JUDGE said what is your $HARE than bytches would stop being OPEN Sperm deposits. No, He ain't innocent either BUT daym Women where is your DIGNITY. A HOE is a HOE is a HOE. My Opinion.

  • ShWa

    Wow-that's horrible these men need to keep the D in their pants....

  • Renee26

    It's complicated. They've been friends for over 20 years and he is fully aware of her hesitation to fully commit... but he's being patient because he knows they'd make a great team. Currently they're long distance so I advised her to spend face to face QT to see if there's a possiblity for physical attraction again (he lost a ton of weight since she was with him).

  • ann

    That is a bit different, as they are LD. They definitely need face to face to see if a spark may develop.

  • Yoni7

    too many kids who will grow up dysfunctional from being in a broken fatherless home.
    ______________
    Not to take from your post but.....I've seen them have BOTH parents in the home and are STILL fugged up something TERRIBLE!

  • Yoni7

    They never do.

  • Yoni7

    I hear that, but never really got the concept. How do you stop loving someone that you love. HE shows you he loves you MORE, how? Asking for a single person who doesn't think she has ever loved a guy. LOL

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    You caught that! Like he left her with no tricks in the sleeve. Sis shot out!

  • Ain’t Misbehavin
  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    lmaooooo y'all ignant!

  • AListDiva29

    Don't any famous men use condoms? I mean if they wanna nail broads every week, at least use a condom with all these nasty diseases out there! These women have to be embarrassed after this happens, but value their life style over pride. If you have kids and were married he will still have to support u, so better to break it off and keep your pride in my opinion!

  • Satin Panther

    Did that nugga tuck his dyckk wtf..

  • Satin Panther

    Well that cures having illegitimate bastids but what about avoiding having crunch bar dyckk?

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    I'm not sure! But this shoot was a turn OFF

  • RealATLPeach36

    Yelp shit get a cheater that has something