R. Kelly's estranged daughter, Buku Abi, is "devastated" for the women who accused her "monster" father of sexual abuse in the Lifetime documentary Surviving R. Kelly. Buku, who was born Joann Lee Kelly, is pictured 2nd from right with her mother Andrea (Drea) Kelly, 2nd from left, and siblings Jay Kelly, far right, and Robert Kelly, far left in a photo dated March 3, 2016.

R. Kelly's 21-year-old daughter, who is also a singer, is one of three children from his marriage to ex-wife Andrea. Buku issued a lengthy statement on her Instagram Stories on Thursday night to address the sexual abuse allegations against her father in the Lifetime docu-series.

"I just want you all to understand that devastated is an understatement for all that I feel currently," she wrote. "I do apologize if my silence to all that is happening comes off as careless. That is my last intention. I pray for all the families & woman [sic] who have been affected by my father's actions. Trust, I have been deeply affected by all of this."

She explained that neither she, her two siblings or her mother have seen or spoken to R. Kelly in years because of his "life decisions", but she added that, "My mother, siblings and I would never condone, support or be a part of ANYTHING negative he has done and or continues to do in his life."

Referring to her father as a "monster", Buku said, "Going through all I have gone through in my life, I would never want anyone to feel the pain I have felt. The same monster you all confronting me about is my father. I am well aware of who and what he is. I grew up in that house. My choice to not speak on him and what he does is for my peace of mind."

She concluded by telling her followers "I do care and I love you all."

Buku's mother Andrea appeared in the documentary and alleged that she was abused by the singer during their marriage between 1996 and 2009. After the show aired, she spoke out to offer support to abuse survivors.

Andrea also said she is open to R. Kelly visiting their three children.

Photo by Rick Diamond/Getty Images

  • WhoKnew

    Must be rough as a kid knowing your father is a sexual deviant and a pedophile. That never leaves you and then you grow up with that in your head. It has to mess with a person's emotional grounding. I hope the kids (now adults) have received the emotionally counseling that they most certainly needed.

  • Ain’t Misbehavin

    I can only imagine how traumatic her upbringing must've been with all the drama and whispering going on... I hope the media and we as people cut the children slack, they didn't ask for any of this.

  • jwoo250

    I always wondered how he was as a father with his own girls?? And what's the real reason behind his younger daughters lifestyle preference? I can only imagine what they've seen and have went through. The last thing you want to do is having children with a pedophile. I'm too protective it's shocking that Andrea continue to have children with him especially daughters. It's all too weird to me but I don't play when it comes to my kids.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    "My choice to not speak on him and what he does is for my peace of mind.". But ya speaking on it! Hate to see what SHE'D say or do if she didn't have a peace of mind! And the mother have 3 children and remained in the marriage for 10+ years... GO AHEAD Y'ALL CAN MAKES EXCUSES FOR THIS... Only negroes!

  • Coy little wink

    So is she trans? I'm confused...

  • Appplesauce

    People need to leave this girl and her siblings alone. They were born into this mess. They didn’t ask for this lifestyle or the branded as the child of a pervert. I’m not supporting RK at all but gosh social media is digging up everybody who had contact with him. They clearly missed the part where he segregated people as much as possible to keep them from discovering how much of a sicko he was. For all we know their mom could only shield them from so much.

  • Phillybruh

    I can't with his defenders, its surreal to read some of the comments.

  • sunni_daze

    I wonder if he molested his own kids. They're no different than the other kids and he knocked up his 14 yo cousin (per his brother's interview). His kids weren't safe.

  • jwoo250

    Btw I'm not sure if everyone is aware but he also did a song with his oldest teen daughter about him not being their for her. She was on that record singing with her father. Although he isn't their for her like that or they don't see each other I can tell she's his favorite.

    She also, was the same one taking up for her father as well remember. I guess she done changed her mind and got some since? Especially since she's an artist trying to come up and not just R. Kelly's daughter.

  • jwoo250

    I only watched part 1 &2 of surviving R.Kelly. He got his 14 yr old cousin pregnant.. Say what?? This is piping hot tea for me...lol

  • Parent

    I think Jay Kelly is trans.

  • Parent

    Nice looking kids.

  • Ni Ni

    It ain't your fault baby. I hate people dont have the decency not to badger the children for their father's lifestyle. Sadly, the sins of the father (or family) stains the entire family. R kelly's poor brother seems to be burdened down as well.

    Rkelly is a selfish individual who doesn't care about his kids, other family members, women. He only cares about himself and fulfilling his desires.

  • HotInCleveland

    I wish her nothing but peace, happiness and closure. No need for folks to attack her she shouldn’t be held accountable for what her father did. If she chooses to shut the fawk up for her own peace of mind so be it.

  • jwoo250

    The mother is to blame too. Hell she just as guilty having babies with a serial molester. I agree with you 10+ years of marriage.

  • HotInCleveland

    Exactly! Wtf is wrong with folks. We don’t know the hell she’s been through. Leave the girl alone.

  • Floriduhh Evans

    I’ve often wondered that myself especially considering that one of his daughters is gay. Many gay men and women were victims of sexual abuse as children

  • Renee26

    Sad... Why even bring kids into the world knowing you're a sick mf like that? These were 3 innocent babies born into madness that now have to deal with emotional issues related to the actions of their parents. Sounds to me like his family escaped and distanced themselves for their own sanity.... Like many victims of abuse do

  • MsSapphire9800

    Wait...did she say they haven't spoken to him in years....Please do not take this the wrong way...but she was just on his last album and toured with him during the Backyard Party....Ms Andrea Kelly needs to stop putting her children in this mess.

  • Renee26

    I wouldn't put it past him

  • Trace da Ace

    My heart goes out to this young lady, and her siblings....to have to have dealt with this for so long...knowing how much of a monster your father is and what he did to other women along with their mother....its messed up. I pray that they find peace and strength because they did not deserve this....the women whom he preyed on did not deserve it.......this man not only ruin the lives of the women he did this too, but also his children...maybe it was a good thing he distance himself from them.....because he is not father material....what if a man did to his daughters what he has done to others??? How would he feel about that?

  • Coy little wink

    So why the name change?

    And the boy wants to be a girl?

    Still confused

  • Panther Charleston

    She is in a very difficult situation. And what she's been through is akin to emotional incest. He's her father. She acknowledges his monstrous behavior, but he is also HER FATHER. If folks on the dance floor are struggling w this and they ain't done nothing but popped they fingers to the beat and spent a few of their coins, it's hard to even kinda sorta imagine her struggle. She is doing so well with it. Blessings and kudos to her.

  • MsSapphire9800

    The bad part of the marriage is she did not leave...he left her...per her words on Hollywood Ex's...so she would still be with him today if he wanted to stay in the marriage.

  • Ni Ni

    I imagine it's mainly her peers, millenials...they have no filter on social media.

  • Parent

    No Jay (formerly Jaya) was born female who now identifies as male.

  • Panther Charleston

    Are they referring to Sparkle's neice. 'Cause I did not catch that.

  • Luv Pitties

    Did y’all see that recent video at RKelly concert in Ethiopia where he sang to the audience for “Do you want to come with me to America ? Did you get your shots?”

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Goes to show your own family will turn on you if you don’t give them what the want. The Quran even speaks on this

  • Panther Charleston

    This! Yes!

  • Luv Pitties

    I read somewhere that both Aaliyah and her mom had sex with him. This mess is getting way out of hand.

  • sunni_daze

    Naw she full trans-male. She didn't want to be a girl at all.

  • Parent

    Buku Abi, formerly know as Joanne Kelly is the oldest. I guess she changed her name for obvious reasons.

  • Coy little wink

    Gotcha

  • Parent

    Jay is quoted as saying this, "I hated dresses, I liked girls, I didn’t want breasts, I didn’t want a taco area, I didn’t want long hair, I am a boy,”

    "A Taco area" really?

  • sunni_daze

    This isn't in the documentary, this is in an interview that was done by a blogger on YT.

  • supastar

    My heart goes out to the children. this has to be difficult for them.

  • Renee26

    Somebody on this here blog said that... First I'd heard or read but I wouldn't be shocked

  • Parent

    I don't know. I mean maybe her mother did have sex with him but at the same time.. I'm a little skeptical of that..

  • Ni Ni

    He's ignorant!

  • Wyteprivilege

    Good point.

  • E-VannaRootsAllEvil

    I saw that too

  • Marlika

    Their mother screwed them up along with their father. The mother seems to be out for attention. You can tell in the docuseries she’s still protecting him. ?

  • Coy little wink

    ?

    I love being a girl ?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree. He is responsible for his own actions.
    She as his child is not required to make any type of public statement to make outsiders feel better.

  • free

    no one should try to force her to speak on it. i hope they didn't.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Saaaaaay whaaat????

  • free

    that's why i feel like some of this is forced. even gaga. if you did what you did, own it. HE is the predator but folk want to drag kids and other artists down, forcing them to make fake statements. i don't believe andrea, i don't believe gaga, and this is pretty sad that his kid had to do this too. she probably LOVES her dad and doesn't see him the way we do.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Poor children.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I saw the whole series, and I never got that impression at all.

  • Lady_Elle

    The mother is probably between a rock & a hard place...
    1. she has children with this monster
    2. ALL are wondering how she let this go on for so long.
    3. She said that the monster would withhold child support
    4. Embarrassment, depression, hurt, shame

    Yep... I can't imagine being her!

  • Topic Influencer

    Andrea also said she is open to R. Kelly visiting their three children.

    Only one you have a say over is the 17 yo. The others can legally decide to have a relationship with their dad. Sounds like they chose already tho

  • Lady_Elle

    I agree!

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Gross

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Me too

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Poor child's so confused

  • free

    i'm still tripping on him having a whole-ass party during this mess and hoes hollering "take me hostage!"

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    wow, folks really coming at this 'child' for her father's sins???????? how twisted, smh.

  • Shamwow

    R. Kelly you’re a true pos your own child. Flesh and blood is a singer and she can’t even get put on?!?! Bless her weird Instagram feed. She’s all alone trying to make it while her daddy is the “king” of R&B. Kids to him seem like nut that made it. Smh

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    his COUSIN?!!!!!!!!!!!

    this just gets worse and worse, smh....

  • Ni Ni

    They did? Then they'd be talking about he forced them in a couple years...all for the bag.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Yup. As much of a perv as he might be, RKelly's probably one of the best songwriters of his generation. He could have written some great songs for her and gotten her career off to a fast start. But as it is, they don't even have any relationship at all. Sad.

  • KcoolMuziq

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/720b1ecd9f39a2060270cec7b8146d44dbe60eb826ac69d4a277ea11f3eb3548.png

    People that live in glass houses should never throw the first stone.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    "he shouldn’t be held accountable for what her father did"
    _________________
    he!!, he's barely been held accountable!

  • KcoolMuziq

    They actually have worked together and did a song together.

  • Lorna

    Probably excessively protective to the point of being mean, and nicer/more present with them before puberty. :(

  • EMILY POST

    I was done with GAGA when she faked being gay for record sales controversy and attention.

  • KcoolMuziq

    EXACTLY!!!

  • EMILY POST

    What won't the people in the record industry do... Not excusing R Kelly but all this fake outrage and last minute apologies. R Kelly if you look at his art was honest about his affliction. Everyone with a brain knew R Kelly like Young ladies. They worked with him AFTER the Tape... So save the apologies the music industry does not having any standards and those artist speaking out now are just attention seeking. Your Number #1 female rapper is telling little girls to be Prostitutes and they still working with her!

  • HIS4EVA

    Andrea also said she is open to R. Kelly visiting their three children.

    FOR WHAT ANDREA!?

  • Dee

    Me either ?

  • NorthDeKalb

    So Gaga isn’t bisexual?

  • Dollface

    I know a celeb that's doing that as we speak. Faking the sh!t out of being gay for stardom.

  • HotInCleveland

    That’s hilarious and sad.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Drop a hint? I'm nosey ?

  • BingBangBoom

    They done found Jayme Close.. God is good.. That girl was kidnapped 88 days ago and now she is headed back home! Father and mother were both murdered.

  • MsSapphire9800

    Yes...she was even in a video with him while he was recording....Andrea has been upset with RK since he didn't accept the daughter lifestyle...Some parents always put children in the mix of their issues.

  • MsSapphire9800

    I do not believe her because her story changed from what she said on Hollywood Ex's...she swore he was the greatest dad...he left her the house and everything. Oh and let's not forget the dance studio he purchased for her.

  • J2PC

    Nice try to divert with this distraction, but people can see right through that. So, back to the topic at hand. R. Kelly's own daughter even calls him monster.

  • MsSapphire9800

    Just because she is gay doesn't mean she was molested...my niece is 18 yrs old and has never dated a boy and has been in a relationship with the same girl since she was 13...

  • Karen Brady

    :-).

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I ignore her because she is all over the place.

    I have seen some of the videos where she defended her ex-husband back in the day

    Now she's riding the bandwagon trashing him because public opinion has turned against him.

  • Tammie Reed

    I never knew she actually had kids with him, wow! Met her and been around her few times, nice lady!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    So the killer not only didn't kill the only remaining witness but let her live for almost three months then released her?

    It must have been a love interest that her parents didn't approve of.

  • Mrs. King

    Nicki or Cardi

  • Sweetness

    I know that I shouldn't chime in on this. But I think the powers that be are trying to distract us from the Government shutdown. Moving forward (and I'm no judge nor the jury), if you really look at Mr. Kelly's...ahem... situation, it was probably BEST that he didn't work with his daughter. And I'll leave it at that. Just sad all around. Let me go and sweep around my own front door. I like your title SHAMWOW?

  • BingBangBoom

    Chile we will know more info at 4. But they said she escaped. I'm just happy for this 13 year old safe return.

  • HotInCleveland

    That’s exactly what I was thinking. Met him on social media, parents didn’t approve so they hatched a plan to kill them and runaway together.

  • 11pink123

    I’m over it! They need to leave his children alone. They ain’t got nothing to do with nothing and I’m sure they are stressed.

    I’m over the whole situation. R Kelly ain’t go out searching for these dumb azz little girls, they came to him knowing who he was. They need to hold the parents accountable.

    The parents waiting on everybody else to do they job. They gave they daughters to him, we’ll go get them back Your self’s. Because clearly it’s more creeps out there than you think, because if it wasn’t, he would’ve been locked up when he married Aaliyah.

    RKelly is terrible, but they already knew that before hand. Maybe not Aaliyah’s parents but the rest of these parents did after Aaliyah. I’m over, those girls and those parents, they were not raised right. And clearly money and fame is more important.

    They not getting paid so they want him locked up is the bottom line.

  • J2PC

    Renaming herself Buku Abi is her attempt for a new & separate start in life apart from him. She doesn't want her career tied to his negative image.

    Why would she mess that up by accepting being 'put on' in the industry by him? That is giving the control back to someone she is has gotten away from to heal from.

  • BingBangBoom

    Chile... we've been having this same table talk discussion since 2000. We can get some good news on a missing child.. I wish u well and Happy Friday sweetie..

  • Luv Pitties

    YouTube has the full video

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    OK I didn't know she was that young.

    It was probably some predator who got obsessed with her and didn't know the family personally.

    Either way he probably committed suicide if he allowed her to escape.

  • J2PC

    Her career would have been short lived once ish hit the fan where anything tied to him will go down in flames too. There are plenty of females who are & have been at the top of the charts without R. Kelly. Simply find the ideal producer.

    She would be better off in college at the Berklee or The Juilliard's where she can find the connection to have a solid career in a positive light instead of being tied to a dark, negative one.

  • NewNew

    The suspect was arrested 10 minutes later. This story is gonna be full of twists and turns. Hope we get a comprehensive report on the whole thing soon. God is so good and that girl is blessed and lucky to be alive.

  • Shamwow

    I’m surprised to hear this but I definitely remember RKelly and Ron Isley collaboration. The Sparkle and Rkelly collaboration, JayZ and Rkelly collaboration and the AAliyah and Rkelly collaboration but her and her daddy collaboration. ??

  • NewNew

    Apparently this happens more frequently than we would think. Remember the guy who killed a 16 year old girl's father and stole her? He had been a really good friend of the family for years but had started obsessing over the daughter.

    I swear i need an Island to myself. Predators lurking around every darn Corner.

  • free

    wayyyy back when the tape came out and she said "i didn't watch it" i knew she was a MF lie. now she is is wife and she is entitled to take up for him or believe in her or cap for him or whatever but don't speak on it on live tv and lie. most wives would not make a statement other than filing for divorce. next comes hollywood exes where the chick made the joke about her getting shit on or something and she has a breakdown. i did feel for her and the kids at that point but all i remember her saying was that she was broke (cause remember she tried to say will's ex had "will smith money"?). i knew he had used all his money for bribes and lawyer fees. now we have this video of her jamming and capping for him which directly contradicts her other appearances. i mean BE ACCOUNTABLE!

  • BingBangBoom

    Look I wondered the same thing.. But I was just happy she was found safe and alive. We will find out more info. She is only 13. Yall giving more benefit of a doubt to a 16 year old murder these days. Smh

  • J2PC

    This time things are different. It is finally passed the stage of talk discussion. It has become a court case in 2 different states with State Attorney Generals involved & willing to hear the victims to bring forth charges in order to prosecute the alleged perpetrator.

  • KcoolMuziq

    It was kept kinda quiet. Its a good collab though.

  • Shamwow

    Thank you ??. There is definitely an agenda going on. I also heard It was discovered and people correct me if I’m wrong that Trump has removed Russian sanctions that actually improve their business, and also Michael Cohen is ready to talk. Funny business going on and this docuseries was messy messy messy. I was surprised it made it through production.

  • free

    #shade but prolly true. i heard she bombed at the globes but she did get an award for her song.

  • CoTToNCaNDie SWeeTAsGolD

    Both

  • free

    yes, lipton please!

  • BingBangBoom

    Thank you! 88 days and two parents murdered.. Chile she had God on her side and her parents..

  • Shamwow

    True but business is business and that’s what separates the sensitive from the successful. I’m so glad I’m not in her shoes but I would rather have my father help me. Especially in this crazy world. Beyoncé and Michael Jackson became successful because of their fathers. They weren’t always clean and kosher but they handled business.

  • BingBangBoom

    He in custody now. 21 years old.. She turned 13 while she was missing

  • free

    it's an investigation. i saw one either DA or detective (a woman) say they are not about rumors and innuendo. if those chicks are not willing to get on the stand and be cross-examined, he ain't going nowhere.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I swear i need an Island to myself. Predators lurking around every darn Corner.

    You ain't never lied.

    That's why I live alone and I shut out the world when I lock the door of my apartment every night

  • Sweetness

    Had to put my broom down to reply back to you. Think about it. Alllllllll this time Mr. Kelly has been in the public eye. Was let go on the fisrt charge (like Michael), it was a media circus right?

    Lifetime makes a 4 PART DOCUSERIES while we are about to go into an economy collapse.

    They stretched out this so called DOCUSERIES to keep the people distracted. This is alllllllll the world is taking about. And he was an easy target. So it wasn't hard for the powers that be to distract us. And yes... I'm sure that "Big Bear" is free from sanctions smoking a stogie with the finest congac or VODKA kicked back.

  • TMW

    She isn’t mentally wrapped tight at all. Question is, is it pre- or post-R.Kelly?

    IMO, her credibility is non-existent.

  • NewNew

    The suspect is 21 years old. I'm inclined to believe your theory.

  • BingBangBoom

    Chile... u must be a baby.. Cause we went thru all this 20 years ago. We protested, we burned CDs (Compact disks). The singers vowed not to work with him anymore. The DJs muted him for years. I hope these kids get the closure they need. I hope the mom is giving counsel as it may have sounded like they might be a product of rape.

  • http://www.id820534.sexylfx.website Readytochokemothernatureout

    My heart goes out to the kids as they didn't ask to come from that craziness.

  • TMW

    “Bless her weird Instagram feed.”

    THIS!!! I was so confused.

    But she can’t sing though.

  • NewNew

    Shoot, they be finding their way in!! Urban or rural, north or south, they're out there lurking.

  • BingBangBoom

    Me too girl... me too

  • BingBangBoom

    They friends, colleagues, family members ect..... It's crazy.. People say I'm overprotective of mines. Hey it is what it is.. The Internet is a whole new form for these sickos to get to their targets.

  • Eileen

    Open to visiting the children? No mam stay away from my kids monster!!

  • Renee26

    Lordt ... There's so many R kelly related videos on there now

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Wow. I did not know this. I was aware of him not excepting jaya as jay

  • brooklyn23

    That's facts too

  • KcoolMuziq
  • Coffee1st

    Poor baby. Smh.
    This man had everything necessary to live a phenomenal life. I teeter between disgust and slight compassion for this man. Only because he was violated in the nastiest way, at such a young age by someone who was supposed to protect him. It doesn't excuse what he did. It's just that he was such damaged goods coming into an industry where perviness is a huge part of the culture.
    Anyway. May God bless and have mercy on all involved. Cuz this is a whole, entire mess.

  • Shamwow

    ??Exactly ?? Messy Media Television definitely has an agenda. Trump is messy as hail and the world is aware of it. Breaking the “law” in plain sight. He’s the perfect example of politics, white men and white money at work in action in America. They are appalled that he’s not hiding it! What’s the point ?!?? it is what it is. Smh Things are definitely messier than whose f’ing RKelly .

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    This is a family-oriented blog, sir.

  • Sweetness

    SHAMWOW, you and I are reading from the same book, and on the same page paragraph 1.

    My eyeswideopen! But the sheep mad sleep.

    Trump might have tiny hands (as it were). But big basketball's. And now his counterparts are stuck scratching their heads.

    The US Really is one big reality show!

  • 9 Mind

    That's his transgender daughter. This one is his second daughter.

  • Parent

    Me too but why we gotta have a taco area? lol

  • Tlowe89

    Why did she change her name... I feel horrible for the children and all the innocent family related to him that have to endure everything he’s created

  • justlooking

    Why wouldnt she. Who wants to be attached to a MONSTER.

  • THE Queen

    not to be mean but, if all the girls had to do was walk out and never come back, I think a lot of this is BS. All the crying and snot blowing. But Jerhonda was laughing and giggling about using a strap on RK. Im not defending him piping underage girls, but these hot ass girls was putting themselves in the situation. They knew how to lie to their parents to get out of the house and to be having sex with other girls etc. Andrea wasn't a prisoner, she stayed because she wanted to, she stayed because she wanted to say R kelly was her husband. All of this being mad a RK, is crazy. White people been doing this and they just let them walk. Black folk wanna act crazy when its one of our own. Im NOT saying 10000% what RK did was right but these little fast tail gals was in there humping sucking plucking and getting high BECAUSE THEY WANTED TO. He never made any of them stay. they could have left at any time. sorry, NOT SORRY

  • Tlowe89

    I agree... that was my 1st theory but I didn’t want to jump to any conclusions... like perhaps she changed it for religious practices... only because they type of name she chose

  • Tlowe89

    Totally agree... when I saw chance the rapper apologize I rolled my eyes so hard... I read the someone from Kelly’s team worked for chance... and then Gaga apologized after the media pressured her too... I’m sorry if I was famous I would’ve said kiss my black a$$ I’m not apologizing for nothing.... the label made me work with him or just like y’all chose to still look the other way and not think were as bad as they were and still enjoy his music so did I . It is what is... now I won’t continue to work with him knowing all that I now know

  • EMILY POST

    The Entertainment is full of people with no conscience they will do or say whatever they think is popular to do at the time. Thats why you cant really take them serious.

  • the guest

    Amen.

  • Phillybruh

    I see a lot of grandbabies by old ass men in some of these posters future. Its your fasts ass 15yr olds fault and not your 40 yr old boyfriends.

  • Cannelle

    It's hard enough being the child of a famous person, but then the parent has to be a dirt bag on top of it. I hope that she finds peace.

  • Michelle

    Her mom kept the name

  • ClaireHuxtable

    S3xual predators need an island to themselves Never to be released back into the public. The s3x registries are miles long!

  • Karen Brady

    Yesterday I was thinking about the lies I told and the pure sneakiness I carried on at 16 just to get out the house and go be with a dude. I was out my damn mind.

  • Evillene

    He is a revolting, damaged sexual predator. What he did is disgusting. I still struggle with understanding how and why women voluntarily and knowingly put themselves within his reach. If you purposefully step in front of a speeding train, is the conductor solely at fault for running you over?

  • MsSapphire9800

    That is her stage name...she is an aspiring singer.....well actually she sing pretty good...she was on his Backyard party cd.

  • red

    You should look up Keith Raniere.

  • Karen Brady

    I absolutely believe he is a sicko but I feel like the young ladies are there becaue they choose to be?? I know they must be suffering from low-self esteem and other issues. I hear what you're saying and agree. It's a mess all around and everyone ESPECIALLY HIM has some fault.

  • Bonita

    Sounds like Andrea requested a life jacket from all the bad press she's receiving from those 2018 videos resurfacing of her defending her "baby daddy," which totally contradicts her stance in that docuseries. #whenthechecksstopcomingin

  • MsVAllDay

    I can't even imagine my mom and dad coming to where I'm being held captive and throwing rocks at a window. Man my crew would have been busting down that door and busting through those windows. We do not go quietly! This is the trouble I'm having with these parents. NOTHING and I mean NOTHING would keep my from getting my baby up out that monsters house.

  • hi-liter

    That’s big of her to make that statement. But she doesn’t have to shoulder her father’s BS. She was just a mere child, she couldn’t do anything even if she wanted too. People are so evil, it’s only a matter of time before some azzhole left a comment on her page asking why she hadn’t had anything to say about this, so its good she said some.

  • Parent

    I get what you're saying and I agree with you to a certain extent. I remember being 16 and dating 20 some odd year old gus. Why? Because I was young and naive and attracted to their lifestyle. Cars, clothes, money, etc. But R Kelly was on some other ish. His sexual appetite was beyond the norm. He exposed these impressionable young girls to the dark side of sex. Pissing, anal, holding them captive etc, those things are not for everybody especially, young women.

  • LYRICS

    That would explain why her mother is denying any and everything said about her (Aaliyah) *smh

  • THE Queen

    I totally agree with what your saying, but in the end ANYONE can expose someone else to anything, but it was these girls choices to stay in there and keep going back. I did a lot of stupid ish like this when I was young cause my mom was out of town on work and my dad was on crack and they weren't together so when I stayed with my father he was never around unless he was stealing and getting high. truth is I was being courted by 24 year olds when I was 12 and when I was 14 30 year olds were trying to get at me then. this is not a new story, many of us women in this world go through this but these girls were also GOING BACK TIME AND TIME AGAIN. He didn't threaten them not to leave, they came and went as they saw fit making up elaborate lies and stories etc. sneaky little fast tail girls, just like I was, only thing is RK had much more to lose if it got out. when he stopped paying the families then here we go with the expose. i have been through a lot but the truth is, at the end of the day he didn't stop them from leaving or stop them from coming back, they little butts, was all for it. Now Jerhonda out here trying to get a check, andrea out here trying to live off of his accomplishments. I know this story I see it in a lot of weak females and these weak ones wanted him and he wanted them, young or not.

  • 11pink123

    I know. If I could not get in, I would’ve set that shyt on fire and made them come out. And set up a go fund me for my bail money and attorney fees

  • NewNew

    The internet has made it easy to shop for a victim in the privacy of your own home. That's (partially) why I'm not on Social Media anymore. I don't need randoms clocking my every move and digging through my photos

  • Tlowe89

    Ok thanks for enlightening me

  • hottlanta

    In the words of kevin hart l am over r kelly. Dont wanna talk about it anymore

  • BingBangBoom

    Look! Me too I don't get caught up in the hype so easily.

  • Lainy Damone

    Please read about Stockholm syndrome. it will help you understand why those videos from her were posted

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Whew Chile?!! Blaming the child because of an adults actions, is the norm in some households.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    A lot of folks pretend to be gay for success. Heck, I was even accused of being gay because I chose to be single for a long period of time. I could have taken that accusation and ran with it but I didn't. I'm not mad at her though. She played tgat industry, got her coins and kept it moving.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    BUT how can you excuse the actions of a GROWN A$$ man against the actions of a “fast a$$” child? That little dyck got control of a WHOLE A$$ “MAN”? GTFOH???

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Sandra,
    Post about the white North Carolina cop who was “mentoring” a 12 yearold girl and her brother because they wanted to be cops. The dude was arrested for fathering a child with the now 15 yr old and the nasty PHUCK only got 12 years ???

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Yet another woman came out and said she was rapedby R Kelly when she was 15 or 16 and given $1k in an envelope after then put in a cab. She said she stayed in a relationship with him until he grew out of her by the time she was 22.

  • Applebootay

    Meanwhile Kellz was up in the club last night here in Chicago..singing...looking unbothered..celebrating his BDay....I mean..if i was one of those parents..i would run up on him...he aint hiding..he out kicking it

  • Applebootay

    In her case i believe it was more of being young and dumb and star stuck and broke for the reasons she stayed...I'm not giving her the stockholm pass..ill reserved that for those younger girls...

  • THE Queen

    I have no more words for the issues of these people, seriously. its a never ending blame game. he was wrong, but they kept taking their little arses over there. I was 16 an hot in the drawers too, so people can play it up however they like, but my daughter be under foot and we do things together and I teach her how to be a lady and enjoy her gifts in life. I know how the young mind thinks and I was there too. I just don't feel sorry for these girls, he didn't MAKE THEM STAY. they kept going back. The parents weren't keeping up with their kids at all.

  • Applebootay

    Aint no teenage girl "fast" enough to catch a grown man that ain't attracted to children. GTFOH **says the mother of a 15 yr.old girl.!

  • Applebootay
  • Applebootay

    .you're no different than all the people who victim blame a damn child.

  • THE Queen

    the very nature of these men that will screw anything is that they will SCREW ANYTHING. If these young girls keep their legs closed they wouldn't be on here crying about this decades later. if this guy was a bum and had no money they wouldn't have been in there getting pissed on and doing all of this, they were star struck and WANTED TO BE THERE. THESE girls lied to their parents to be in his place where they chose to do their own thang. all he sang was sex songs, so what does that say. he was wrong 100000% but like I ALREADY SAID. I used to be one of these fast tail girls, on the low and i lied all the time to be somewhere laid up. so I can look back and see my mistakes. but they must also accept their portion in it. I AM NOT ADVOCATING for him, but these girls KEPT COMING BACK. He aint drug them, he aint poison them, he didn't threaten them, he was doing with them they things they wanted to do as well. which is phucking and getting high.

  • more

    That's why i rolled my eyes at this story. ANDREA is trying to do damage control

  • the guest

    What an Evil pos. He should have gotten life with parole after 51 years.

  • the guest

    I think Andrea Kelly was in a domestic violence marriage but she was also a witness to his abuse of other women. They whole situation is deranged and just shows how money controls moral standards for too many people.

  • Applebootay

    Who kept coming back? One of the biggest allegations is the fact 2 of the girls haven't seen their family in over 2 years. That Azriah girl disappeared as soon as she turned 18. I guess ..nevermind..tired of going back and forth about this dirt bag..

  • the guest

    Pardon?

  • justlooking

    And we see how crazy she is. Bashing him then signing his song and praises days following the documentary.

  • the guest

    But even if a minor chased, begged and pursued R Kelly to be with her, his being with a minor is ILLEGAL.

  • the guest

    He gained some money and power and decided to wield his money and power to utilize minors and adults to fulfill his perverse desires.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Chile... That mofo is 52 yrs old ?

  • the guest

    He was stalking the child and casing the house. It was all premeditated. The said he broken in, killed the parents, and kidnapped the girl all in FOUR minutes. Police said it was so fast he left no evidence. The evil pos planned it out that well.

    There really are predators watching kids and parents don't even know it. No such thing as overprotective parents.

  • THE Queen

    Oh I AGREE!!! no doubt. But EVERYONE has played their part, to include the girls. I have a daughter and I understand, because like I said I used to be one of these girls, lying to my parents and I can face my own faults and say this with all honesty. These girls made their choices too.

  • the guest

    Even if that's the case, he still 21 and preyed upon a child and her family.

  • the guest

    Good lord.

  • the guest

    Because she has a victim mind and still weak for him.

  • the guest

    She's definitely an odd person.

  • the guest

    R Kelly is a power mongering deviant. He uses his money and fame for perversions not to help others. He's demented.

  • Applebootay

    Not true...I just schooled my daughter that sexual predators come from all back grounds and are MOSTLY IN YOUR FAMILY AND COMMUNITY. The bus driver, the school teacher, the coach, the pastor, the mail man, the babysitter, a family friend, your dad , your brother, your uncle...

    You either don't have kids and/or haven't been nor know anyone who was ever taken advantage of. Yes, I was in a "Rkellish" situation a few times....and I didn't go with these men because I was "fast" Hell, I wasn't interested in sex, I was looking for love....for a father.... I was charmed, he had a shiny red new sports car and I was poor...so I was attracted to that and he was fine as hell...and he told me I was beautiful (which I am) and blah blah blah...I was...(Predated on) because I was YOUNG AND DUMB gulliable and damaged...mainly because I come from a broken home and a traumatized childhood....when I look back on it...I didn't really ENJOY the sex, I enjoyed the attention he showed me... I was looking for love from a man ..... He poisoned their minds and he was abusive emotionally, mentally and physically...no worries because you will be judged by the same measure you are judging others...

  • Anonymouse

    Where were her parents?

  • ALLMINE?

    Andrea is not pretty to me.. god forgive me

  • Leigh Burton

    I still think R. Kelly's daughter, Jay Kelly is pretending to be a man to avoid getting molested by R. Kelly.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Right there ALLOWING him to mentor them?. She woild allow the cop to pick the kids up and take them out.
    The mother said she didnt think anything was wrong until the man came to her house at midnight to bring the little girl snacks?. Thats when she asked the girl about the “mentoring” and the then 15 year old said she thinks she needs to take a pregnancy test?

  • T3

    Snacks at midnight? She wouldn't have gotten those snacks! The three of us would have had a fawking conversation that night. IKYFWM!! I just don't understand the attraction children. There are grown azz women giving ?away. Guess it's that whole twisted mental and some control ish.

  • T3

    Wow

  • Bonita

    I'm familiar with Stockholm syndrome. In her case, I'm not buying it. It was all good as long as Kellz was still cutting them checks.

  • Luv Pitties

    We always knew he had a problem when it first came out years ago about him and Aliyah. But since this docu-series it’s like more and more possible layers of sickness comes out. I couldn’t get through the series I couldn’t take it.

  • Oh Tommie

    Nah...he likes boys too...which is why he turned the one girl into a "stud" and made her his boy toy. I wouldn't be surprised if he molested his own children.

  • Oh Tommie

    Nah...he likes boys too...which is why he turned the one girl into a "stud" and made her his boy toy. I wouldn't be surprised if he molested his own children.

  • Logan Roberts

    Andrea needs to get family therapy & therapy for herself asap.

  • dontgetblocked

    In the end, that's her father. She should just stay quiet and get therapy.

  • EyeEmJai

    At all.

  • EyeEmJai

    Have you considered they "disappeared" because they don't want to be bothered by family who are telling them to not love their lives? There is no crime in terminating communication with family when they chastise you constantly about your lifestyles. In my opinion, I believe Azriel and Joycelyn stopped talking to their families for this reason, and not because R. Kelly MADE them. After all, Joycelyn has no issues speaking to TMZ OR BuzzFeed occasionally lbvs. She isn't missing; she doesn't want to be found (bothered) by them and, unfortunately, she has that right.

  • Kayke

    Matthew Knowles nor Joe Jackson had stardom that preceded their children, not the same situation.

  • EyeEmJai

    All of this. The end. #EnoughSaid

  • EyeEmJai

    Gotta be a baby if he/she is confusing court cases with PENDING investigations lol. There was a court case 10 years ago and he was found not guilty. R. Kelly hasn't been charged with anything to have a court case in EITHER state.

  • EyeEmJai

    So did I and I agree with the individual. Andrea was very careful with her words about certain things. She is always calculated when she speaks. That's why I was not surprised when I saw those videos of her praising her "baby daddy" and stating he "always took care" of them.

  • ALLMINE?

    At alllllllllllll

  • NewNew

    He looks off as all he!l. Somebody out there knew he was a perv. I wonder if the girl knew him somehow, perhaps from chatting online, or if he randomly chose to obsess over her.

  • Jim

    Typical black culture.

  • Patricia

    give me that # for the group home for my kids. im going to post it on the fridge...just in case they want to cut the fool.

  • scarlet_n_gray

    Yep...and why she saw fit to date, marry and have children with him after the marriage certificate came out in Vibe Magazine........is suspect.

    There were other artists she could dance and go on tour with.

  • J2PC

    True.

  • J2PC

    RKelly is a performer not a manager. Unlike the dyslexic & illiterate Kelly, Bey & MJ fathers could read & write with an entrepreneurial management talent. -two different types of people.

    One type of talent has the ability to guide & lead where the other character only have the talent to make good songs for other people.

    Even Bey & MJ divorced their careers from their father when they had the chance as adults. -family issues & emotional matters don't mix when your career is mostly about having a successful business. Business is Business.

  • Keunnea booshay

    Tf does that mean, LET ME KNOW WHEN THE PLAYBOY BUNNIES, come out and reveal secrets about the Playboy Mansion. Until then keep black Culture out of this

  • PrettyNetty28

    The “baby hair “ between Drea n her daughter Buku...kills me.

  • Lindac

    Where is Drea's parents? She doesn't refer to them at all ever.

  • Jussjess25

    Who cares!! ?? next

  • Jussjess25

    Actually this is typical white culture.. white men make up 90 percent of histories predators. This actually a fact that can be poven. The profile of a serial killer child molester is a white man ?????

  • Jussjess25

    Exactly

  • Jim

    Projecting guilty LIAR!

  • Floriduhh Evans

    Key word is 'many'.... I never said all gays
    were molested as children. Be blessed.

  • ?? Kari ?????????

    Where is her money coming from now?

  • Sassie

    Although I DO believe Andrea was PHYSICALLY abused by RK, I don't believe she was affected by it long-term.

  • Jussjess25

    But you know this can be statically proven. Not sayin black do t commit crime but white men is actually the profile of a killer

  • Jim

    dis be sthatisthticly pooven

  • parisjok

    the ex wife was very very irresponsible for having baby after baby by this monster that she calls a dad.