Taraji P Henson, Kelvin Hayden

It took Taraji P. Henson until this year to realize men and women are different. The 48-year-old actress says she now understands why men and women fail to communicate - because women have a more extensive vocabulary.

Taraji, who stars in the upcoming comedy movie What Men Want, is engaged to marry former NFL football player Kelvin Hayden. She reveals their pre-wedding therapy sessions are bringing up some interesting facts about herself and her failed relationships with men.

"I'm learning how to be better in a relationship," the actress tells Playboy. She now knows that men are not emotional creatures; they will shut down if women nag them too much.

"I just found out, in our therapy sessions, that men have fewer words than women. I didn't know that. They run out of words. Because women are emotional, we want to talk through everything.

"Of course we have more words; we're the communicators," said Taraji. "Kelvin, he thinks he's a comedian. Anytime we're in a disagreement or I'm like, 'We need to talk about this', he'll look at me and say, 'Baby, I done ran out of words'."

"He's joking, but I'm starting to accept that it's true," she added.

In her new movie, which hits theaters next month, the 'Empire' star plays a career-minded woman who suddenly develops the ability to hear what men are thinking. She admits that ESP ability would have been a godsend when she first arrived in Hollywood in her 20s as a single mom.

"I didn't go to the clubs, even though they say that's how you’re supposed to network," she tells Playboy magazine. "I have common sense, and nothing about that seemed right to me. What networking happens at a club where people are inebriated? Tell me, what contracts are being signed? That's stupid."

Taraji knows the secret to keeping a man is not being self-centered and stop her nagging ways.

"I knew what I had to offer; I just had to find somebody to hear me."

  • ShelbyMoore

    Yea, they have "few words" cause they're always talking with their dacks in other jawns.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Women nag. Period.

  • Trace da Ace

    ummm...ok?

  • Let them eat cake

    it took her till age 48 to figure this out?? and there is no way in HELL that i am getting counseling with a man that ain't my husband. he'd be dropped smh. he may want kids eventually also...this wont work...

  • Chuck

    This old hag is putting down women who like to party. This guy will leave her bitter ass & may not even wife her.

  • Coy little wink

    This MJ documentary needs a post Auntie...

    https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_5c4b5acde4b0287e5b8a639d

  • Coy little wink

    What exactly is nagging? Asking twice?

  • Kimocha

    I'm so upset by that documentary!... I'm not the biggest MJ fan but I have never believed any of those allegations about him and have always believed in my heart that he was innocent.... And I will continue to enjoy his music no matter what!... May he RIP!

  • Michelle

    This is her first real relationship, sad times we’re living in.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Well mine has no problem using his words - he knows everything and is very 'generous' when it comes to sharing them with me.?
    ???

  • iWasteTime

    Whole bunch of single women are going to come in here and bash her and this.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Daaaayyyyuuuummmm!

  • Look@m3

    He is an idiot....Dont bother. He probably doesnt know how to keep a good one if someone paid him a billion dollars.

  • Topic Influencer

    Some married ones too.

  • iWasteTime

    Mine runs out so I have to hid this post and her article.
    He'll be like "SEE! I'm not the only man" mean while his child knows ALL the words

  • Vegas1989

    Not True...Ask my husband....I only ask one time to get something done...If you don't do it...I will do it....I'm not his mother....And he can tell you for the last 10 years...I don't nag him for NOTHING>.....LOL

  • Trace da Ace

    ....is what men say when they "run out of words"....lol

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    Taraji has always looked like a hard drinker to me. I don't drink so I could be wrong, but I have enough relatives to give me pause. I think it's the eyes.

  • HIS4EVA

    umm i heard taraji is a bit of a mess herself. likes to drink and rub on men that dont belong to her chest. #whobitthefinger?

  • iWasteTime

    Hey!! I thought I lost you last week!

  • HIS4EVA

    100%

  • Topic Influencer

    I never had time to nag. Im asking once. Either you gonna do it or you arent.

  • Topic Influencer

    Im is here.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Lol! Y'all are just fine (and the baby said he got it from 'somebody') ??
    ??

  • Vegas1989

    True...My husband is just like my brother...They have problems taking out the trash....LOL

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Not all. I'm able in many areas.
    ??

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    But they can find words to chase pucci outside. Bye taraji. I wouldnt put all my eggs in a basket that hasnt bothered marrying me at the least but okay “expert”. We’ll be here laughing once he plays you for another and you join the ranks of the other happy sad clowns.

  • Topic Influencer

    Mine got so many words I wish he would stfu talking to me.

  • iWasteTime

    From ME! I have to tell him to be quiet. Argue to the end, tell a friend! And hates to be wrong ... smh Pray for me and his future woman

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Pretty much .... same here bew

  • Topic Influencer

    We put the trash dead on the front porch. He is the first one to leave every day. So if a cat done got to it...NOT MY PROLLLLLLLLLLLEM in my Mr. Chow Hangover voice. Bc guess what? I asked you to take it out.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    lolololol

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    So its the sauce and not the ganja Eh?
    Something about her eyes NEVER being clear made me think she is a heavy pot smoker but alcohol can do the same??? Things that make you go ?

  • Gloria

    Meanwhile my man is always talking ? it varies, I guess

  • Vegas1989

    LOL...Girl you made me bust out laughing...and it's all quiet up in here....My husband have few words and it's okay with me...But once he is pissed off...I be looking for his battery pack.....Me and the pooch be looking at each other like....When is old dude going to shut up....It's been 3 weeks....LOL

  • Wile E. Coli

    Women talk and talk and talk and talk and talk... It doesn't mean they have a more 'extensive vocabulary'. Especially if they're saying the same sht over and over.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Ohhh... They GOTS words Taraji! Dont let that therapist make you stay in the Engaged Zone forever???

  • Kimocha

    I love Taraji... but honestly I think we all knew this already!... This has ALWAYS been a problem between the sexes!... Which is the very reason I'm considering buying the new book by the Mann's (Tamela & David) because they say that their is an art to communicating AND arguing with your mate/spouse... And I wanna learn from people who have long successful relationships... Particularly Black couples who have lasted and endured the test of times!... I'm in need of this type of education myself... So I'm definitely gonna get their book... I'm sure plenty of singles and couples can learn a lot from the Mann's!

  • Coy little wink

    So are you going to watch?

  • Applebum

    the 'Empire' star plays a career-minded woman who suddenly develops the ability to hear what men are thinking.
    —————————————-

    Sounds like that Mel Gibson movie, What Women Want.

    I don’t like men who talk more than me.

  • Gloria

    Same. Unlike R Kelly, who literally had copious amounts of evidence against him. There has never been ANY evidence against MJ. None whatsoever.

  • Guest

    Got damn! Well tell us how you really feel? lol!

  • Gloria

    ? you think she was flirting with Jigga?

  • LYRICS

    Sometimes I have to tell mine to "STFU and let me smoke my blunt! PLEASE!" LMAO! It really depends on the man, some men are great communicators and other, it's like pulling teeth to get a simple answer to a super simple question. It just depends on the ppl, but how many "serious" relationships has she had for it to take so long for her to "understand?"

  • Kimocha

    You're right!...It actually IS from the original movie with Mel...

  • Vegas1989

    See I like it taking out at night because he will walk pass it four five times....LOL....He likes it full to the brim....."I'll take it out...I'm about to put these egg shells in there"....Girl, sometimes I think he is going to pull a Bart Simpson and staple some trash to the trash bag......LOL...It's like pulling teeth asking him to take out the trash...

  • Gloria

    Lmao! Omg! Yes! That's exactly how I am with mine

  • Pitty Patty

    Yawn........

  • Kimocha

    Probably NOT!... It won't do nothing but piss me off cuz I don't believe it!... But I read enough about it to be pissed already!... Both of them already testified in court that MJ didn't molest them... but then turn around and do this isht damn near 10 yrs after his death!... But why??... Money is the root to all evil and the devil is a lie!!!

  • Pitty Patty

    I hate here a nygga before I see him...That's such a turn off. Old talkative I want attention ass nygga

  • Bossy704

    Men talk me to death. I had to stop eating at bars and lounges because men view them as pic up spots or even just want a woman to stroke their ego by listening to listening to their crap. I did not come here for you sir. I came to eat. I'm hungry and don't want you spitting on the food I've paid for.

  • Kimocha

    Exactly!... Unlike R. Kelly!... Plus both these dudes testified in a court of law that MJ never molested him... but now wanna come out with this BS!

  • Pitty Patty

    Beyonce gonna have to eventually stop being nice and slap bytch one time. These whores be smiling in her face but secretly be wanting to fluck her husband...

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    This right here! LMAO!????
    Go sit yo 'Helpful' azz down somewhere sir!

  • Pitty Patty

    her eyes ALWAYS be red and cloud af...

  • Gloria

    Feel so bad for his family, his children especially. Like wow, they are still trying to ruin this man even AFTER his death. His family made a statement about it and called it a "Public lynching."
    So sad.

  • Gloria

    Beyonce is the only woman who wants her husband

  • Pitty Patty

    What if I said I think Taraji is overrated as an actress. She comes off one dimensional to me. She can be entertaining but its the same ole same ole IMO.

  • Vegas1989

    I understand...I remember visiting my baby Sis in Dallas...It was four of us and this African guy came over and started talking and I ignored him...And then my sister was baby...she's deaf and read lips so she can't hear you...Our cousin and friend spit out their drinks and busted out laughing......And he got going real quick...the story is funny......So when we go out I'm the deaf one.....And we don't get bother....

  • Gloria

    That's how I feel about Michael B Jordan. They are redundant actors to me, same ole roles with little variation in character

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    She gotta step her game up?

  • Pitty Patty

    I dont know about that sis. Bytches love ugly nyggas with money and power

  • Topic Influencer

    Jigga supposedly has the dick of a (large) horse. Its women who want that river monster.

  • SunRiseBlossom

    Less words the better. Stick to the subject(s) at hand... I CANNOT stand a man that talks to durn much!!! Lol...

  • Pitty Patty

    Hmph Cause I can overlook looks if a nygga got a big dyck, money, power...sheeit

  • Gloria

    You right!

  • Kimocha

    Public lynching is EXACTLY what it is!... I hope they don't get not one damn dime that they are trying to sue his estate for!

  • Pitty Patty

    I agree. People overhype him too. And he aint all that cute to me. He alright. Nothing to write home about

  • Gloria

    ? let me find out he got that Safarree eggplant

  • HIS4EVA

    lmao! nah he is successful

  • HIS4EVA

    i heard she was in his face drinking and she was a little wild that event and was fawning and touching his chest- then yonce walked over there told her a thing or 2 with her finger in her face and taraji bit it! i can see that happening

  • Topic Influencer

    He dont eem be tryna be helpful! Just damn worrisome.

  • Pitty Patty

    Taraji or Sanaa....Word on the street it was Sanaa

  • Junkanoo

    Not sure this would apply to all men some guys are articulate and some women talk too much.

  • Pitty Patty

    Speaking of Safaree his dyck comes out next month just in time for Valentines Day. LAMO

  • stav

    That movie was awful, and I don't understand how Hollywood thinks if they switch the subject of the movie from male to female somehow this will make it a hit....IT WON'T!

  • Kimocha

    Oh... So THAT's what it's about?... I thought he might be average size... But I would have to get pass that face first... LOL!

  • Trace da Ace

    girl!!! my hubby is a talkative person....I be cutting him off and all...cause sometimes I don't want to be hearing what he is saying....a bit of a rambler....I just cut that shyt off and walk out the room like I hear the baby crying...knowing I'm lying..lol..

  • HIS4EVA

    taraji, i heard sanaii took the blame cus noone was supposed to be talking about it-- but tiff big mouth. u know
    sanaii neither confirmed or denied

  • Rayscoty

    These people saying anything to promote a movie.. Taraji go away..

    I wonder can you read my mind and hear these awful thoughts about your acting..

  • Yardgirl

    Thank you!! Mine will not stop talking!! Like SHUT UP, stop telling me about this that and the other shyte that I don't care about. I would trade his non-stop talking, know it all self for a non-talker any day (I cannot tell a lie!!) My son on the other hand, won't say a damn thing, it's like pulling teeth. Le sigh.

  • SunRiseBlossom

    LMBO!!!!!!!!!!!

  • SunRiseBlossom

    LMBO!!!!!!!!!!!! That was the first thing I thought of too... This is to promote her upcoming movie

  • Floriduhh Evans

    I disagree...men tend to talk my ear off and always want to dominate the conversation...especially if there's more than one man in the circle ????? just my experience

  • Renee26

    Good for her knowing how to avoid the Hollywood dark side.

    Her and her fiance are cute together... I wish them the best!!

  • WhoKnew
  • Chyna

    I agree. My husband always thinks he is right and knows everything and yes, men tend to show out in front of other men.

  • Kimocha

    I'm thinking that maybe since they switched it from male to female and added a lil spice by using a black female actress... Maybe it will be better this time around!... MAYBE!... LOL!

  • Renee26

    Ion think there was a real lack of understanding here... Just an interesting twist on her interview to get people going

  • xenaD

    Mine talks and talks and talkkkkss even when nobodyis listening! Lol. Whew Chile &let some drinks be involved.. I have to constantly hit him with the *oop I need to use the bathroom and runs off quickly** my baby is a talker ?? LoL I love him tho but boo if you are reading this.. STFU ??

  • Renee26

    I liked the original

  • Chyna

    Yep, this is the female version. Same thing...............

  • KcoolMuziq

    Taraji(whom I worked with in “The Division” when she was dating Hil Harper ) new movie “What Men Want” is a VERY entertaining movie. Her best since “Hidden Figures” which she should have been Oscar nominated for instead of Octavia Spencer.

  • Renee26

    Ummmm that was Sanaa Lathan

  • Chyna

    LOL LOL! I so agree with you. Something is always off as if she drinks 24 hours a day!! Her eyebrows bother me as well.

  • Gloria

    What really got under my skin was when they said the film received a “standing ovation” I swear his estate should sue the hell out of them for defamation of character!

  • Renee26

    Chile they may have been partying together in a private room for all we know. Bey excused the behavior so she had some inkling of the woman's ways and was probably ok with it considering she didn't break her arm

  • stav

    Too cheesy for me!

  • Kimocha

    Yes!... I agree Taraji should've won that Oscar instead of Octavia!... I heard Octavia is NOT a nice person in real life!

  • Rayne

    I’ve learned how to hear what I want and come back in the conversation with yep. My husband is the same way lol

  • KcoolMuziq

    Octavia(whom I met at the NAACP Image Awards & is actually very nice and approachable) won an Oscar for “The Help”. She was nominated for “Hidden Figures”.

  • What???

    The men that talk a lot are the ones raised by single mothers who thought they could actually raise a man. Women talk a lot but say absolutely nothing while a real man should be of few words but carry a big stick.

  • Gloria

    This is misogynistic af but go off ?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Battery pack
    LMAO!

  • What???

    Are you sure it’s within the definition of misogynistic?

  • WhoKnew

    You sho would be telling the troof.

  • Guest

    Lmao! I see what you did there. He got any chirren?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    THIS!
    (I'm lazy & spoiled - not disabled)?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    More than once.

  • WhoKnew

    It will still suck but I guess she gotta keep trynna get a check wherever she can.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    You talking about males raised by there moms or don’t have a lot of confidence

  • WhoKnew

    Taraji is known in the industry for liking to rub up against the chest of women. Don't let the fiance fool ya.

  • Kimocha

    Ohhh...OK....She was ONLY nominated!... Taraji definitely should've been at least nominated!... Oh well!

  • GAPeach

    His hairline is jacked up. That's all I have to offer, because this story is of no real interest to me.

  • Kimocha

    This might be true!... I was a single mother to my son and he talks waaayyyy too damn much!!... Smdh

  • xenaD

    Me too

  • Topic Influencer

    He aint got no words but Taraji may have too many words.

    Taraji P. Henson, Erykah Badu say comments on R. Kelly misrepresented

    https://chicago.suntimes.com/entertainment/taraji-p-henson-eryka-badu-on-r-kelly-misrepresented/

  • MJF

    LOL

  • Nik

    Haha! I luvs ya!?

  • Ricklaw

    Um it took her half a century to realize that ?

  • WhoKnew

    Off topic really quickly. Geoffrey Owens at the SAG awards last night. I love it. God bless him.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=byA5_nKO3Zc&feature=youtu.be

  • Yardgirl

    I saw that!! It was great :-)

  • WhoKnew

    Really touched me. I loved it!

  • hottlanta

    Speaking of women ? toooo much. Is it me or is Tamar really crazy. I never cared for her but Lilhots showed me a clip of her on big brother n she is all over the place wearing sun visors as ? in the house n mouth going on n on like the energizer bunny. At least Vince can now get some sleep with her out of the house.

  • What???

    Thanks for your honesty.

  • brooks hill

    some women be talking loud but saying nothing.... quote from JB. the godfather of soul.

  • Truth Or Die

    Just because a man is of few words does not mean he lacks the necessary vocabulary to properly express himself.

  • Yardgirl

    Me too!!

  • WhoKnew

    She took nut job 101 classes at the local university. I know some people who have worked with her and I think it's 80-20. She's acting 20 percent and the other 80 percent she is an effing nut job in real life. No one had anything nice to say about her and she perceives herself as being more talented than she really is. And this supposed fight with LoLo was probably staged because these so-called reality shows are scripted but were it a real-life meet you after school at 3 o'clock kind of fight, I'd take LoLo because anybody named LoLo can fight - even the LoLo I went to school with in the 7th grade. I used to cross the street when I saw that bish coming.

  • Soda

    I'm glad that Erykah explained herself because last week I was going to put her into the timeout that I just pulled Chrisette Michele out of after 2 years.

  • WhooCares

    ???

  • WhoKnew

    Well that's because James Brown probably would knock the shyt out of them for saying anything at all, including good morning. I saw a documentary about him about 2 weeks ago and oooooh he was nothing nice. Beat his women all the time and was very controlling like R. Kelly.

  • WhoKnew

    Not that I know of but him supposedly bi too.

  • hottlanta

    How many times have u been woman of lesser words wanted 2 b all nice n sweet n quiet act like a lady. Then he thinks u r some lil punk chick he can run all over u. Then when u get loud n be a woman of a lotta words he respects u. Taraji please dont fall into the relationship trap just bcas u got a ring n a penis u r now a relationship expert. Call Juanita Bynum n she will tell u dont do it. Just live your life n keep it moving.

  • Topic Influencer

    Cassette is still on time out with me. Because she is still talking about it. I saw something where she was still talking about this not even a week ago

  • Topic Influencer
  • Blue

    I'm here for these comments. Not even reading the write up.

  • Renee26

    Lol I like all type of movies

  • Topic Influencer

    Call Juanita Bynum
    ^^^^
    She will tell her to eat some puss

  • hottlanta

    He had a funny way of communicating with her when that lady left that baby on the doorstep. Oops he forget that part b4 he married her. Tired of relationship books by old played out men reformed whores. Gonna keep my money in my pocket.

  • hottlanta

    Or bob n weave like joe Frazier.

  • Hunni24

    Sounds like my son. I complimented him on getting something right last week and he told me he knows everything. Mind you he's only 6!

  • hottlanta

    Did u see the unsung with Tammy terrell. Will break your heart.

  • SunRiseBlossom

    WOW... that was an interesting read!!!

  • WhoKnew

    No, I didn't but I'm going to see if I can find a rerun. I really like "Unsung".

  • Soda

    I saw it too but I was labeling some old CDs and found one of hers and ended up singing it the rest of the night. According to her, she's still struggling. ?

  • Guest©

    Not to mention it's been alleged that Michael was chemically castrated by his father which I believe. Ppl always wondered why Michael had such a high pitched voice but his brothers did not. Michael can't even defend himself, smh.

  • Logan Roberts

    So new dyck makes you have all the answers huh girl ?

  • Let them eat cake

    lmao oh my gosh!! so true tho.

  • interestingconcept1

    CM is still banned in my house, she and Steve Harvey were 86 at the same time ...now EB and Taraji still playing the same character for 30 years, she appears slow, and I don't see this wedding happening.

  • NewNew

    Ooo, I love me an unsung. Gonna look it up. Thanks for the lead

  • Dahl

    Sounds like promo for her new movie...

  • Rayscoty

    Sandra .. Wow you didn't blog about Taraji star in front of the Bodega.. Mary J Blige said she just left and still crying.

    I have no idea what made her cry..

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    A women can find 150 ways to say the same thing meanwhile a man only has one way to say something. This ain't new. NEXT

  • bemetoo

    She dickmatize

  • ALLMINE?

    I cannnnnnttt. Black folks crazy????

  • ALLMINE?

    I cannnnnnttt. Black folks crazy????

  • Li-Wright

    I'm glad she's in pre-marriage therapy. Good move.

  • Li-Wright

    I'm glad she's in pre-marriage therapy. Good move.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Roger Stone, 66, and his wife Nydia were regulars at private sex club Capitol Couples in Washington D.C. in the mid-1990s. The Stones were also linked to personal ads to meet other couples and single men. One read: 'Hot, insatiable lady and her handsome body builder husband, experienced swingers, seek similar couples or exceptional muscular well-hung single men'.
    Why are women so eager to SHARE their men?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Roger Stone, 66, and his wife Nydia were regulars at private sex club Capitol Couples in Washington D.C. in the mid-1990s. The Stones were also linked to personal ads to meet other couples and single men. One read: 'Hot, insatiable lady and her handsome body builder husband, experienced swingers, seek similar couples or exceptional muscular well-hung single men'.
    Why are women so eager to SHARE their men?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    She may find out that she really doesn't want to be married. They may be better partners as friends.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Sometimes he may realize that the more he talks, the more trouble he's getting into.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    L0l! Sounds like yall got it down.

  • Gloria

    Because realistically, humans were not made to be monogamous. We are naturally polygamous creatures so "swinging" is more innate for us actually than exclusive, monogamous relationships. Generally speaking.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    What's wrong with ONE partner at a time??
    Why keep him if he's not getting the job done?

  • Dun Dilly

    Some hopelessly single women just never had the chance to REALLY gt to know men.

  • thighcandy

    The man never looks happy, in love or smitten in any of their pictures. Body language is all off. I hope Taraji wise up sooner rather than later.

  • Renee26

    Sounds like she wanted some well hung meat in her life unless the men were for Roger ?

  • hottlanta

    He just saw this n u aint getting nuthin for Valentine's day. Proflowers r closed.

  • hottlanta

    They said dole fired him bcas he was asking black men 2 bone his wife

  • 100milesperhour

    She went thru a whole lot in her short time on this earth.

  • WhoKnew

    Probably were for him. He does look downlow like a mug.

  • WhoKnew

    That's because Taraji full of shyt.

  • pure_rachet

    I wish she would stop making that face in every picture! Its not sexy!

  • Peppermint Patty

    Bwahahaaaa will never look at her pics the same

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Not Juanita Bynum, Lol!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    You can tone yourself down, say less, listen more, express your appreciation and value for your spouse...

    but having that one man WHO HAS DECIDED to love you, when you’re the one, or the one he’s really just that into is what works!

    I agree, men use less words, give less advice, won’t always express their feelings, can articulate but cautious, others can talk your ears off, argue with the best of them!

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    It's all about talking less. Masculine men hate words. Your "actions" work with those kind of men.

  • Eileen

    Get a pretty nup

  • Eileen

    Nasty..

  • Eileen

    Uh no it is called discipline and commitment

  • more

    Lmaooooo omg yes. The woman whom lean on the passive aggressive and sweet side get taken advantage of A LOT. I hate to say it but I think men who see these qualities take advantage! Not alll but some.

    Ps Taraji is setting herself up. That man looks like he has tricks up his sleave. She needs to remain quiet about third relatioship

  • more

    Lmaooooo true actually

  • Malcom Flex

    She needs to chill on the botox and that goofy pose she does.

  • Junkanoo

    Getting bored with her now......

  • Gloria

    Saying that you have to force yourself to be monogamous is exactly my point. It’s noy natural for us.

  • Gloria

    Nothing is wrong with one partner at a time but people like what they like and people eventually would like variability in lovers. Whether they act on those natural desires is up to them.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    He's lyin soo bad l0l!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Now Thhat's a possibility I hadn't considered l0l!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Lol! I swear I've shared here before that I just walk out sometimes! ROFL!

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Mine is full of 'suggestions' and 'observations'??

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Gloria...Imma tell ya mama you up here talkin like this.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I'm hollering!
    I thought that bathroom move was just me!!!!!!????

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    That last part, lol ?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    ???

  • Tamara Artis-Dawkins

    She sounds super dum!!! All men and women are not the same some women are quite and some men talk alot. Shut Up already and be happy with your man!!!!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/536bb0b632b9f86b7198e68a665f0b8c32d7c24b8f152db2c29708b9e74590f4.jpg

  • HIS4EVA

    i just bust out laughin! these mens is crazy!

  • HIS4EVA

    yea thas my girl but since splitting w vince the iyanla intervention and now crying on her 1st day at big brother- she is givin me batshit crazy brittany vibes!

  • Overpower Radio

    So in her extensive vocabulary she thinks men can't understand her as if she speaks a foreign language? smh. Cookie, relax.

  • Floriduhh Evans

    I would disagree- men are naturally dominate and want to be the alpha so they usually control the conversation. In MY experience the ones raised by their mothers are shy, unsure of themselves and more introverted.

  • supastar

    I wonder if her braids are a lace front... they look nice

  • jwoo250

    I don't mean to go off topic. But I am I noticed that he has children from his Instagram btw I'm nosey ya'll. Anywho I was snooping around and notice that way back when he use to have plenty of pics with him and his kids. But once he started dating Taraji he stopped posting pics with his kids.

    I hope he ain't one of those men that forget about his kids over a woman or I hope she ain't one of those type of women either.

    I'm just observing.

    I actually forgot she had a kid of her own..lol Where he at? Looks like she care about that French Bulldog that look just like her from the eyes. More than any children..lol

    She just looks like an evil step mother to me by the face.

  • Renee26

    LMAO... Let me go look. My gaydar is pretty spot on

  • Renee26
  • ?jessica?

    Well i guess thats one way of looking at it *shrug*

  • Eileen

    For us ...who? Black folks or white folk

  • TheOwley

    Seriously? Thanks captain.

  • xenaD

    Sometimes he will wait and continue on with the durn conversation. ??

  • xenaD

    Sometimes he will wait and continue on with the durn conversation. ??

  • xenaD

    Tuh! My gift bets to be purchased already lol

  • Maxx

    Its called protecting your children and not having them all out here in the media to seek attention.

  • jwoo250

    Naw I doubt it. He had plenty of pics with his kids way before they dated. If he really wanted to protect them he wouldn't have taken any pics and posted them. Also, he still has the pics up.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Yes!?

  • Chuck

    :-)

  • Chuck

    :-))

  • jayhawkpride

    Is she slow? lol