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Brenda Renteria thought she would be safe from her abusive ex-boyfriend if she exchanged custody of their son at a police station in California. Police say Jacob Munn, 30, killed the 27-year-old in front of her shocked relatives on Sunday.

Renteria and relatives went to the Hawthorne police headquarters to meet Munn to pick up their 17-month-old son.

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Munn, who has a violent history, took the baby inside the station. When Renteria arrived at the police station, the two began to argue. Munn went to his black Chevy pickup truck, retrieved a shotgun and shot Renteria in front of the police station. The baby was still inside the police station and was not injured.

The Los Angeles Daily News reports one of the officers inside the police station heard the gunshot and rushed outside.

Munn then fled the area in his vehicle which was later found abandoned in a Denny's parking lot half a mile south of the police station. Munn was caught three hours later not far from where the truck was found.

KCAL reports Renteria was so afraid of Munn, that she had asked her family to come with her to pick up her son at the police station, where she felt safe making the exchange.

According to the Dailymail.com, Munn has a history of violence that includes a battery charge on a former girlfriend.

  • Vegas1989

    WOW..this is just tragic. He didn't care about her at all...To shoot someone outside the Police Station....

  • RealATLPeach36

    This MF is crazy ass shyt. He looks crazy.

  • luVn_liFe…

    mann

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    You guys have a wonderful evening !!!! https://media3.giphy.com/media/VIPdgcooFJHtC/giphy.gif I can not .... Peace out!!!

  • GAPeach

    What a selfish bastard. Now the child will have no parents. People LOVE to get on SM saying that women are selfish when they won't let a child see the other parent. Not everyone is deserving, and not all situations are safe. Case in point up top.

  • Dahl

    This man clearly did not give af about the law, that’s next level crazy...

  • Vegas1989

    I understand. I'm gone too.

  • KLove

    Whats wrong with MF's these days??

  • Chicagowise

    "Munn has a history of violence that includes a battery charge on a former girlfriend."

    In some horror movies, a vampire can't enter your home, unless you invite it in. Please... do your due diligence, before you let Dracula in your bed.

  • MzJamaica

    Sandra we ask for something lighter and you just blow out the torch. Too much crazi ess in the world. R.I.P. babygirl

  • Li-Wright

    OT: RKelly charged $100 to sing for 28 minutes at a concert in Springfield....Desperate?

  • Li-Wright

    Anyway, these women who have a violent boyfriend or husband, need to leave the city, quit their job, get a new ID. It's not worth it. Just change your ID and get out of town.

  • xenaD

    I heard 28 seconds but damn

  • chan chan

    100 bucks for 28 minutes isn’t bad ??????

  • Li-Wright

    I think it was 28 seconds. But damn!

  • xenaD

    These violent women beaters are straight up homos.. idc wat anybody has to say! Let your sexualities out be freeee! Keep ya filthy hands off the ladies

  • WhoKnew

    Crazy MoFo had this all planned -- police be damned. I want to say she should have insisted that if he had anything to say to her that they speak inside the police station but seeing how batshyt crazy he was it would not have made a difference because he was bound and determined to kill her one way or the other and if not Sunday than the next day as soon as he could get to her. SMDH.

  • chan chan

    ??? I’m trying to keep my mind out the gutter on this one.... so I’m gonna go by your playbook and just say damn ?

  • xenaD

    I was so flaming mad at the man.. it hadn’t dawned on me that she actually lost her life. RIP

  • 9 Mind

    Me too...

  • RealATLPeach36

    Oh, he was going to kill her regardless. The only way she could've prevented this was to know he was trying or will attempt to kill her, then she could've moved differently

  • WhoKnew

    I read that less than 50 people showed up. I'm LMAO at that. That's what his ass gets. He's made his bed now go pee in it.

  • RealATLPeach36
  • WhoKnew

    Right. She should have moved out of town where it was too far for him to travel even to see the baby. Now the baby is without a mother.

  • WhoKnew

    LOL, I can't stand him.

  • RealATLPeach36

    The f-big judges say daddy’s should have rights. I bet it was court ordered. There’s no way my mouth won’t allow me to be with an ass beater.

  • WhoKnew

    Me three.

  • WhoKnew

    Yup. Me either.

  • Parent

    Damn. We've all been here but to kill her.

    Me and my daughter's father went through hell and back. Last week we came together to tour a private high school that she was accepted to and will be attending in September. While there we had breakfast and he was all smiling and laughing and I asked what's so funny. He said I'm in disbelief because here we are with this wonderful young lady we created planning her future. I damn near shed tears. If you are true parents you will get over all of your grievances for your child. Its not about you or him anymore. Sadly some don't see it this way. Now lil man has no parents. Parenting is the most important job in the world.

  • Karen Brady

    This is beautiful

  • RealATLPeach36

    GN. Be safe

  • Parent

    I can cry because we raised this intelligent young lady. She pretty much received a full scholarship room and board. I won't take all the credit because he is her father. He wasn't always there but he has a good woman behind him that supports him and pushes him. I thank God for her cuz it could've went left.

  • Chicagowise

    Their separation didn't turn him into a monster. He walked in to her life that way. He beat up a prior girlfriend. It sounds like despite the outcome of your union, you picked a good man. She did not.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Aww. This is so sweet. ?

  • Parent

    Some women don't consider the men they let inside their vaginas. This was the result

  • Parent

    Thanks Ms. Sandra.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    AT the police station?! I'm shook!?

  • Gloria

    Wow. I'm really happy that you two were able to find peace and coparent together. Thank you for sharing that. Inspiring.

  • Fire & Ice

    My heart breaks for this woman and her child. She should have never been there for the exchange, given his prior history.

  • bemetoo

    He didn’t hav a fawk to give

  • Coy little wink

    Heartwarming...congrats! I know you are proud!

  • Coy little wink

    Demon! Why not just kill yourself..

    So they need a stand in for the exchanges now?

  • dontgetblocked

    Where were the officers? Where was her family? He had enough time to argue, walk back to his car, get the gun, shoot her, and walk back to his car and drive off? As soon as he walked away I would have gotten my azz in that police station. Did anyone see him walking toward her with a gun?

  • Queen B

    This dude shudve never been granted visitation smh prayers to her and her family the sad part is this child will grow up and still want a relationship with his father. As crazy as it sounds, I understand

  • Sushi

    Wow, this is crazy...

  • CCW47

    You know California does not care and knowing his history I agree he should not have been granted any visitation, he would have had supervised visits with the police there but it is lawless California for you.

  • luVn_liFe…

    that's the unfortunate part.. she knew he had a history of abuse. :(
    Fawkk that.. before I married.. If you did drugs or I felt one had an inkling of abusive behavior i was out of there!

  • NaeNae2015

    Lucky that fool didn't hurt the baby.....

  • Rere

    Damn that is so sad, damn

  • Ms..N

    Womens beaters sorry their is no working on co-parenting!! A mother should not have too fear for her life for simply creating life with the wrong mofo!!! https://media3.giphy.com/media/26ueYUlPAmUkTBAM8/giphy.gif

  • Parent

    Thank you. I am proud!

  • Parent

    Thank you!

  • Shenanigans1

    People like you give me hope for my husband and his daughters mom. She’s four right now and it’s like they take one positive step but then they take 20 negative ones back. I cannot tell you how draining it is to not have a consistent visiting schedule bc one of them is mad at the other for whatever and in turn, she ignores him when it’s his turn to get her. Instead of having a convo to get some understanding she’ll just ignore him trying to see his kid...unless she’s run through her family/friends and she needs him to get her. But get this...if he doesn’t drop whatever he’s doing to assist right then and there, the cycle just repeats. Lord I’m tired and I know for a fact he is too. But I’m going to screen shot this and just hope. Rant over.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I remember falling out with a homegirl over some ish like this. Her and her on again off again crazy baby daddy were off and she wanted me to be the middle man between them regarding the baby. I went off. Mind you i kept my trap shut after the first time she hyped me up to cuss that man out only to get back with him talking about every couple goes thru it. here we are countless sidechicks and a whole baby later and now you want to involve me? btch boo. She accused me of not being a friend i was like ok im not oh well bye. Tell me why the other friend she asked was damn near jumped by some ninjas lingering about this mf house? She called me like emma never again, i was like bih never PERIOD. When i see stories like that it validates me in the fact that i aint crazy i know a dangerous situation when i see one and im not about to die over a bih who would suck that ninja deek again before im in the ground.

    Rip

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Shut your backwood trap up! You red states hick always wanna pop shit about california. We wont legalize incest so get tf over it. Pig

  • Shenanigans1

    I have a good friend with a crazy bd and she got mad at her bf for being concerned about his safety. The bd was threatening him and whenever he’d come to the house he would be all intimidating. like sis just bc you can function in that bs doesn’t mean the rest of us want to.

  • currvalicious

    NYPD would've killed him. PeriodT...

  • Shenanigans1

    Omg!! Just piggy backing off my last comment to you, my husbands daughters mom also has a son. His stepmom and I good friends now bc of this and for the life of us we just can’t understand why she hates us so bad when we have only loved and done for her children. It’s infuriating. Luckily we have each other to get through it.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    See? We often rag on these men and rightfully so but how many of these ninjas were who they were from the jump and ole girl made excuses all the way to the grave? Not talking about this particular woman but we all know at least one. I cantt with ppl like that

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    The truth dont care who tells it!

  • PlayerP

    My God....stories like this make it hard to want to read or watch the news...so sad. Now this baby has lost both parents on the same day. Wow...prayers up.

  • Shenanigans1

    Right or the stuff that he’s doing is not a big deal to her and everybody is just overreacting. I was sad but so glad when her dude moved on from her bc she just refused to see that this dude was crazy. I’m sorry but if some burley azz dude kept harassing me or making his presence known all the time I’m not gonna be sitting around like everything is cool. I’m naturally gonna be on guard all the time

  • WinterIsComing

    When you see the crazy you have to take it seriously. I’m not dating a crazy mofo let alone getting knocked up by one. You, your baby, your friends, your mama, your daddy, your brother, your sister and your dog will all end up dead because of a lunatic. Ladies run at the nearest hint of crazy!

  • samuel severino

    Trust me, I am so grateful for the relationship that I have with the mother of my daughter and I make sure to tell her that often.

  • Alextra Ballard

    This woman didn't stand a chance. He wanted her dead at any cost. He probably would've kilt anybidy who stood in his way

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Stupidly selfish. He didn't care about her, the baby, his own future, their families...
    Ruled by emotions.

  • Strappyheels

    HELLO

  • Strappyheels

    How do get pregnant by someone you’re so scared of??

  • Strappyheels

    I’m not surprised

  • Strappyheels

    No we haven’t

  • suganspice68

    Lol

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Exactly. What bothers me the most is that she had no issues getting in My face but she’s mute and blind when it comesto the sh*t he does, like you ready to fight me because i said i dont like the way he speaks to you but you wont fight the ninja ANDDDDDD you expect me to still care and be ready to roll at your command? He musta knocked the common sense out your head tuhhhhh

  • CCW47

    LOL LOL LOL I live in California I don't know why are you so angry about it did you shoot the girl you taking it so personal I don't care about your comments I miss nothing to me because I speak the truth about California

  • Malai

    ?U betta leave the damn dog alone! ?

  • Malai

    OKAY?! I’m happy u got away from the foolishness

  • kre

    At first she probably felt protected

  • Malai

    “A battery charge on a former girlfriend”... and I can guarantee that she thought it would never be her cuz “things are different with them”.. it’s always like that smh

  • Liah

    So sad

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    My home girl said a lot of crime been taking place in Cali.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Yep! That's usually the case.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Lol, the dog is probably the only one that has enough sense to run as far away from that fool as possible.

  • Curtis

    She has asked her relatives to accompany her for exchange....Why put your family in danger? I swear some people don't watch news or read newspapers. So many cases of these crazy bfs or baby daddies killing the entire families. If you fall in love with crazy deal with it alone. Women by nature think they can change crazy but some people will never change, there are evil people out there.

  • WinterIsComing

    Lolololol

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    And Goodbye!!! I jumped in between an ex friend when her baby daddy was wooping her entire 9 months pregnant àss. This trout mouf h0e, had the audacity to b33f with me years later. Some chicks don't realize that they are doing you a favor by being mad at You. Thanks dummy!!

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Yep! That's those boys for ya. No matter how bàt shït crazy their daddy's are, they still want a relationship with them.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Not 1

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    These women always talking about "he know who to try that mess on" as if they're belittling the ex girlfriend he abused. They don't take it serious until he snaps on them too. Most abusers can cover up their behavior for only so long.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    ????? chile this was knee slâpping funny.?????

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    And always keep a g?n cøcked and ready, just in case he slips through a window. IJS!

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Awwwwewwwweeeeee look at this cuteness right here. Just spoiled rotten. Pillow, blanket and a cuddle buddy. Just spoiled ..lol

  • Coffee1st

    Sandra this was too much for one day. What are you trying to do to us?

  • Coffee1st

    Sandra this was too much for one day. What are you trying to do to us?

  • MNjumpoffacliff

    Police station can't even save you of the nut really is set in their mind. My heart aches for the family

  • MNjumpoffacliff

    Police station can't even save you of the nut really is set in their mind. My heart aches for the family

  • Dowoop

    I'm wondering why she left the baby inside and went outside. Hope she wasn't following him to argue.

  • Dowoop

    I'm wondering why she left the baby inside and went outside. Hope she wasn't following him to argue.

  • Nina Ross

    Sometimes you have to leave these looney toons & let them have their lil crazy babies too... RIP

  • Nina Ross

    Sometimes you have to leave these looney toons & let them have their lil crazy babies too... RIP

  • Nina Ross

    Sometimes they change once you get pregnant

  • Nina Ross

    Sometimes they change once you get pregnant

  • justlooking

    Sometimes you gotta move across the country, change your name............

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I'm just reporting the news, hun.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I'm stunned.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    I'm stuck on him walking in with the baby and no one stopped him to inquire wtf he was doing, smh

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    Yeah, with the really undercover crazies, you don't know he's a timed-bomb. By the time you notice it's ticking, it might be too late. ?

  • 100milesperhour

    Surprised he didn't kill himself. Look yall, yt man able to retrieve gun, fire it in front of police station, hit his target, & pull off w/o incident. And he wasn't shot on site when caught. So police can practice restraint when they want to.

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    That's true too.

  • Parent

    It will get better. Once that child starts
    breaking down from not having her dad around her mom will see the importance of his existence in her life. The goal is to have a happy healthy child. Praying for you all!

  • Parent

    She needs healing.

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    LMAO!!!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Fin he was that violent then I don’t think he should have even have visitation if you that afraid that you gotta meet at the police station I wouldn’t even be dropping my child off!! New new identity new state to live in. This is sad!! If you not safe at the police station where the hell are you safe at?

  • https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1lo6u-UIbo Nancy Drew-Natural & Luv’n It!

    ?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    THank the argument alone didn’t alarm the po po ? Where the hell was their antennas?

  • Jussjess25

    Wow smh

  • Jussjess25

    Wow smh

  • Jussjess25

    ???

  • Jussjess25

    ???

  • Allihave2say

    Why are these types of people bad assed enough to kill one weaker than them but not bold enough to stand for arrest for their crime?

  • Allihave2say

    Why are these types of people bad assed enough to kill one weaker than them but not bold enough to stand for arrest for their crime?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Since he had a history of violence, I don't know why the court didn't give her full custody. You would think domestic violence would be automatically a reason to lose custody.

  • Allihave2say

    Sounds like that's what she did.

  • Eileen

    they started arguing not good...

  • Ni Ni

    Somebody need to lose their job. He didn't deserve visitation.

  • Eileen

    because it is a liberall state with looney elected ofifcials.

  • Ni Ni

    I wouldn't have even let this nut know the baby was his.

  • Eileen

    You heard the term crazy in love compliments of beyonce!

  • Lynette Collins

    This right here.....this right here is why I really don't want to impose child support on my ex. They sent me paperwork stating i have a court date with family law and I'm trying to figure out how the he'll imma get out of the court alive. Worried he might find us before the court date and end us soon. I only had to file child support because I need medicare for my daughter. Anybody got any advice? In any case, I'm looking to buy a gun, watching my six at all times, and praying for a miracle.

  • Lynette Collins

    Exactly! Like did he not realize they would be looking for him? Did he think he was Casper?

  • scarlet_n_gray

    The best answer right here. In fact I would state surrogacy because you could be killed for cheating on him to get pregnant.

  • And then there is that!

    Your livelihood and saftey is worth more than child support. If you don't feel comfortable don't go. Allow the state to go after him and you stay out of site. Do a po box so he doesn't even have a clue where you're at. One in a different city far away from you. Stay safe!! Praying that God puts a hedge of protection around you and your baby??

  • Coffee1st

    ????
    But you know we are sensitive souls here.

  • BogartKing

    So not even the police were willing to protect her you know damn well the city of Hawthorne is getting sued by that family. Not only that this is a clear reason why most people don't report shit to the police she was better off having the dude go to her house.

  • Jesus Rodriguez

    He's garbage big bad good for nothing cholo. Basura

  • Daffanyrose

    Go back in time and stop opening your legs for thugs

  • Luv R

    Communicate your fears to your case worker. Nine times outta ten if your income is low enough for you (or anyone in your household) to qualify for any type of gov't assistance then they will appoint a legal representative to stand in your behalf. I need went to court for child support, the State always repped me. Also, and most importantly, pray incessantly (1 Thessalonians 5:17)

  • Luv R

    Your comment is useless and degrading. Grow up.

  • Chocolate

    Drop the case. It’s not worth it. Get a job that offers good healthcare benefits, until then pay out of pocket with arrangements- huge discounts are offered when u do that.
    No, it’s not fair but u just have to suck it up since that’s who u chose to have a child with. Make peace with that so u can have peace and safety for you and your child.
    I hope u guys remain safe.

  • Chocolate

    Damn- this is awful.
    And this is why the moment I notice any type of unreasonable, violent or obsessive behavior during the “getting to know u” stage, I cut it off.
    The problem is a lot of women think that type of behavior is cute.
    My rationale is this: if he is already acting a damn schizo fool and we haven’t even had sex (I also don’t hop into bed w men quickly- another huge mistake women make) then how will he react once we do?

    I’ve known super cool, chill, masculine men and I’ve encountered straight stalker, unstable cry babies. Women need to stop confusing the two.

    RIP

  • LYRICS

    Be careful who u procreate with!! Don't ignore obvious early warning signs!! He WILL NOT change, he'll only get worse! Poor baby is now motherless and the father will be in prison....sad

  • Kayke

    I read somewhere that people can hide their true colors in a relationship for about 2 yrs.... sadly, people meet, make babies, and breakup.... all within that time without truly knowing who they’re dealing with. People just need to slow down and stop making major life changes with strangers.

  • Anji

    I dropped my case and it ameliorated the vehemence. Safety at all costs. I found a way to provide solo.

  • Anji

    In Cali it is not and if the mother's concerns interfere they'll call it parental alienation .As if children don't intuit Dad is a bad guy.

  • Anji

    Crime, especially violent crimes have been decreasing. In LA, the past 2 weeks showed an uptick and then returned to showing the decrease from 2010 and on. Please let your gf know.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Psalm:23

  • Kayke

    I had this very same scenario. Took days off work and kept her kid while she was in the hospital from his beating. I sat at the court house to get restraining orders after he busted her eye socket. Got him arrested.... only to find out she was still talking to him, when he got out he moved back with her and they had another baby. He disappeared on her when she was pregnant, said the baby wasn’t his, beat her, stole her money.... long story short, they have two children still going through it (last I checked) and she has no friend in me. It made me sad, but I cant with the constant drama.... especially sfter he accused her and I of a sexual relationship ????? .... I said Phook this, he’s seeing me as competition and not a friend and I started to feel his hostility toward me. It’s been yrs since I’ve spoken to her and I think about her often.

  • Yup, I said it

    Police couldn't do anything until a crime has happened. Arguing is not a crime. People need to be more cautious of who they fux with. If the person is violent and angry with others they will eventually get that way with you. A lot of women thinks those scary dudes are cute, but people forget that the cops a restraining order, cousin DaDa and dem can't stop a crazy azzz person with nothing to lose. Avoid them at all cost and damn sure don't have kids with them that tends to,make them even more controlling and crazier.

  • Yup, I said it

    With some cultures of men you will NOT take their kids from them. They will kidnap the kids or kill the mother mother before they left that happen. Women know if they are from a culture that thinks that way. Don't try to act like the Black and white American women and think you will use the courts and police to break cultural norms cause that won't do shit. Latino men are notorious for taking their kids. Pretty much every Amber alert I see is for a Latino kids abducted by their father.

  • SpiceGirl

    Now see....NONE of my brothersdadcousins would have let this man sip some air after the FIRST time he laid paws on me! May she rest easy...prayers to her child.

  • WinterIsComing

    Right! The kid is here now, So we need solutions for right now! Regret isn’t helpful.

  • tintin

    drop it hun. if you're scared then you know he aint' all there.
    i dropped mine. it ain't worth your life or your childs. God will get your through.

  • tintin

    cause in the beginning they're an angel. usually around year 2 you see the devil

  • onelove

    what kind of family she had!!! my family don't PLAY!! THEY CRAZY!!

  • EasyBreezy

    Auntie, would you kindly research and report the Marietta IHop issue when the black husband/wife were basically yelled at by staff, police called, police yell at husband, husband tells officer not to yell, and suddenly there are more officers, black man is man-handled, punch in the face, tazed, etc. Unreal. Witnesses yelling for police to stop. All recorded..... Thanks.

  • ShWa

    What a monster.

  • deidre martin

    there was not a corner of this earth she could have went to escape this man if he is sick enough to do this at a police station. Her only option was to have killed him before he could do it to her! #REALTALK #WHENURNOTPROTECTED

  • deidre martin

    sweetheart be careful. i don't have the answer but i do have a prayer- Lord u are mighty, be there for this lady in her time of need. Bless her and her children. We love and are grateful for all that u have done and plan to do in our lives. Hear our prayers.Amen

  • deidre martin

    right. shoulda' had him taken out!

  • PetiteButterScotch

    You can send a letter to child support requesting for them to cancel the arrears. however when dealing with social services or any type of gov assistance they MAKE you file for support. It’s all a trap. But you can still try to send the letter.

  • Autumn Franklin

    The story says "he" took the baby inside the police station.

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    From Texas! When I filed for Child support from my ex husbsnd, Somewhere on the application it says if the Non Custodial parent has ever threatened or cause any bodily harm to you... I put yes and Explained how he would threaten to take my Son to Mexico and Leave him there if I didn't do as he said. When I had to go into the office for the appointment, He wasn't there! They thought it would be best if we didn't go in at the same time and Went in at separate times. They took all my personal info off the paperwork & He got supervised visitation with My son. Call the Attorney Generals Office Child support division and Try to talk to someone from the office or Just go into the office and explain the situation to them.

    Good luck, I hope and pray everything works out in your favor & You and Your Baby/ies are safe and sound.

  • Dowoop

    And she had met him in there with her family that's why they were still in there.. Try reading the actual story instead of just blog info.

  • Dowoop

    I'm sorry but I don't argue with crazy ppl. She knew he was crazy cuz she was meeting at a police station. Guess that made her feel a little safe.

  • lovelygamour

    she shouldve stayed in the police station. that man snapped to have done it at a police station with her on the steps. see these custody battles and divorce battles are draining. you never know how someone will take it. when dealing with crazy; state your point but dont argue.

    look at his picture. that man looks like he is on steroids or the very least testosterone. she shouldve cut contact and maybe even forego child support if she knew he was a killer. how many women die because of child support and custody. anyone in a similar spot pay someone to stay at the station with the baby until you get there. you dont even need to see him.

  • BeUtFullSoul

    Oh my Goodness! Can you let the courts KNOW that he is dangerous and you are afraid for your safety?... I am praying for you.

  • lovelygamour

    they ignore signs and then drag their family into it. this is such a sad story for all involved.

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    The father of my kids is very crazy and possessive. It's hard to leave a relationship like that. At times I felt if I left him, I would lose who I was. I didn't realize I was losing myself loving the wrong person. The last straw was him selling meth and getting high off of his own supply! I packed up mine andaMy kids belongings and left, I'm not about to lose my children because an idiot doesn't want to make an honest living for his family. He became obsessed and possessive, Fight any guy who would comment on my FB pictures, Show up to my job acting insane, Would still beat on me, Stalked me constantly, Sprayed me with pepper spray, Put a recording device in my apartment, Put a GPS device in my car, Kicked down my door and beat up a guy friend.

    He's doing 12 years in TDCJ for Stalking me, Choking me and burglary of a habitation. He got 10 for stalking, 10 for the choking and The 12 for the burglary of a habitation... All ran concurrent! I suffer from CPTSD, hearing loss in my right ear from all the beatings, My anxiety has worsen, I've become more paranoid. I hope and pray for anyone in this situation, I hope you open your eyes and Realize you deserve better! Love doesn't beat you, degrade you, cheat on you or kill you! Love makes you grow and glow!

  • BeUtFullSoul

    EXACTLY!...I saw "crazy" and got the hell on.. it only took the very FIRST conversation we had and I was like NOPE!

  • lovelygamour

    she shouldve stayed in the precinct. most have metal detectors and everyone couldve seen his weapon. she wouldve had time to run.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Yep. Aggressive on steroids. That's why I was scared for Janet Jackson.

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    Lmao

  • ShadesofEMPRESS

    That’s strange she said it’s increasing.

  • Frank Blunt

    ?All?of?this

    "unreasonable, violent or obsessive behavior during the “getting to know u” stage, I cut it off."

  • lovelygamour

    i just read about it -if you are writing about the bacon incident. the manager shouldve rolled back the tapes to see if they got their bacon or just gave them a courtesy bacon. the fact that it escalated to cops called shows the manager needs to be fired.

  • lovelygamour

    thats what it looks like and he snapped. he already looks steroid up. she shouldve let him drive away.

  • Frank Blunt

    The family possibly warned her at some point too. Hell thats truly why I'm against socha media and all this connectionless connection meeting. Folks dont even hold all day/night conversations and conduct background checks while "getting to know you".

  • lovelygamour

    cali been awful. a lot of criminals from other states go to cali for a fresh start. but its too expensive.

  • Frank Blunt

    Do it like Eva. Let people talk about your shituation without the details. She had to get leases in aliases so Kevin wouldnt find her. Sometimes you have to go ghost on your own people's for safety. I truly hope economic werent a determination in her not ghosting?

  • lovelygamour

    it was a custody drop off. happens all the time.

    so he walked in with baby, they argue, he goes outstide and she follows, he goes to his truck, gets shotgun, goes back to front of station and shoots her. i guess she didnt have time to see the gun. thats so sad.

    it seems like he snapped once outside. she shouldve stayed in the station.

  • lovelygamour

    i had almost the same thing happen. its like she was using me to get him to change. i kept being her friend because i knew he wanted me gone. once she moved i backed away because she wasnt a friend to me.

  • Frank Blunt

    This is....wow...

  • Frank Blunt

    End up very fashionably dressed on Skid Row or sleeping in cars off Hollywoood Boulevard #Facts

  • EasyBreezy

    Yes, I agree. But the brother getting tazed; are you serious right now? Unbelievable! And the white lady filming and shouting, "police brutality...," "don't kill him." Folks we gotta pray FOR EACH OTHER a lot more.

  • Frank Blunt

    ?All truth,No lie...EVERYONE you sleep with you have a potential to procreate with.Although actions are not words, you have to ask those hard hitting questions like "if we get pregnant what are our next steps" ....a real one will see it as "birth control" the WRONG one will think your planning to trap.

    But still want sexual access...

  • Dr. P

    Facts

  • Victor Nathan

    RIP......but why did she go outside the police station to argue with him?..to show that he was powerless because of family and police presence????.

  • Logan Roberts

    No matter what she should've did, he probably been wanting to take her out anyway. Everybody is not of afraid of the police. Poor lady.

  • EasyBreezy

    Perhaps - a caught the video during the escalation; the black women, who was at the register by this time, was telling the staffer not to yell at her.....

  • free

    no, why did she have a baby with him in the first place?

  • Frank Blunt

    Same scenario! Jumped bad at me when he was whooping her ass, HE WOULD NEVER TOUCH ME in his rage cause he knew mine were just a whistle away.... until I left her stranded on the 215 in Las Vegas for starting an argument on how I made things WORSE for speaking and defending her...its been yeearrs.

    Her mom died so im sure she is getting 12 realms of hell NOW!

  • free

    eva is just broke like her bridesmaid said.

  • Jazzy

    Now the baby has no parents because of his selfish, violent father.

  • Frank Blunt

    ?

  • free

    my aunt did that. everything (gifts, correspondence, etc.) had to go through my grandma for YEARS as he and nobody in his family could know where my aunt was. my uncle cleaned himself up and that mofo is doing better financially than all of us now, prolly cause he didn't have to pay sh*t before. he started doing better (got off drugs and got two jobs) just in time for my cousin to go to college so he picked up the tab on errthang and kept it moving.

  • Guess Who

    ...wow

  • Frank Blunt

    "People just need to slow down and stop making major life changes with strangers."

  • Frank Blunt

    Socio paths and narcissist have that one recurring story of that one off abusive situation to which they were really victim...but everyone else ran with it?

  • Tiffany Blake

    Ladies! There are some situations where it makes sense to keep a child away from the father. If he is abusive, disappear off the face of the earth and explain it to the child later. I've personally seen stories like this before! It's not worth your life!

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    RIP!
    If I had a baby with a dude that I KNEW owned weapons, has beat my a$$ before AND I felt the NEED to meet at the police station for custody exchange, that ninja wouldnt EVER see that baby??? https://media0.giphy.com/media/3osBLp9i0kmXIjlVq8/giphy.gif

  • Capricornlady

    I was gonna say that but I didnt want to seem judgmental. But I know there had to be signs of his crazy before she got pregnant.

  • Capricornlady

    okay? My brothers and cousins would have been like really? where dat nicca at?

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    Smh, I no longer try to understand how these chicks will beef with a woman who had their back over a man who is whooping their àss.

  • justlooking

    This is one good ending. Happy for your cousin.

  • Beloved Jordan

    why in the hell does he have visitation rights with a violent history...

  • Karen Brady

    My first thought when I read this

  • Karen Brady

    lol

  • Karen Brady

    Like that Jlo movie

  • 6ue$$imh8n

    You know it Smfh. Same nosey ass family probably the cause of the problems he felt to protect his manhood by pulling the trigger

  • 6ue$$imh8n

    Thats what im saying you cant communicate but you can manage to screw?

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    i had no idea.
    still, it seems that he had already made up his mind to kill her that day.
    may she rest is peace and God bless her baby and family, smh.

  • Kayke

    That’s what made me sad, because I know abuser want to alienate their victims, I felt like I was letting him win.... but I couldn’t keep getting sucked into that black hole.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Im so glad you left his ass.

  • Trace da Ace

    WOW.....RIP to that lady....damn shame....

  • YellowSauce

    messed up ALL THE WAY ...
    she couldn't even be safe in front of the police station WITH her family ... SMH
    You have to be careful who you speak to these days much less procreate with .....
    RIP

  • Mister Fantastic

    Listen, you KNOW who you are dealing with when you get with these PSYCHOS (male or female) within a very short time withing the relationship. But nooooo, you are looking for a bad boy or a ride or die bytch. Then when they start clowning, you want to involve the WHOLE FAMILY.... Nope, that's all on YOU BABY!

  • Jordan’s Memory

    All men don't appear to be crazy until you leave them. Sounds like you blaming her for her own death. Nobody knows the history of these two but I know I wouldn't have been arguing with him or even letting him see his son if I was that afraid of him. And I CERTAINLY wouldn't have walked off out of the view of the cop and waited for him to go to the back of his car to get a gun. I mean she made a lot of poor decisions for sure but not enough to get killed for it. sometimes they do know what they dealing with up front and sometimes you find out how crazy a man is only after you leave him or when that Dopamine wears off. But either way he looks crazy as hell. I feel sorry for that poor child.

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  • Jordan’s Memory

    Very true. I was watching 911 the episode when they was showing the abusive history of that guys sister the 911 operator who was hiding from her husband, and I will never forget the truth that cop spilled when he was dispatched to her house, he said Don't be afraid to leave, u should be a afraid of what he will do if you stay.

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    THIS!!!!!!

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  • Frank Blunt

    Well daaamn- Gucci Mane??

  • Frank Blunt

    Enough?...invited that mofo inside whooped his ass then ?

  • BlockingTrollsAllYearLong

    Woowww.

  • Mister Fantastic

    That is an excuse. Male or female, the nut job will ALWAYS do 3 things no matter if YOU choose to see it or not: 1. LIE about their past. 2. Be VERY Possessive and jealous. 3. Will attempt to separate you from your family and friends. Including creating fake sabotage to bring you in closer, and away from them. The signs are ALWAYS there...

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    No need to research. Both of them were out of pocket. They had plenty of chances to calm down and leave the establishment.

  • Libby

    Exactly.. Lately there has been a rise in domestic violence fatalities to include innocent children Violators often show those behaviors early on in the relationship but some woman/men find it cute.. NEGATIVE it bad situation that you must get out of immediately. Love don’t hurt

  • IamAllnatural

    What a sad story. He definitely looks like a convict. I wish she would’ve gotten a restraining order, got his visitation rights revoked, and got a gun.

    Women don’t let these men think you’re afraid of them. If they act crazy, you act crazier.

  • IamAllnatural

    Same question I asked. It probably was her momma and grandma there.

  • IamAllnatural

    And they think because he’s jealous that means he really likes them.

  • Maxx

    That's crazy. You can tell her nose has been busted up several times. I hope they fry his tail!

  • Mia

    How about pay attention to these fools and stop wanting a man so dam bad.. I'm sure crazy was alive and present in that relationship.. get to know them they always pick the right ones you won't catch me slipping.

  • Mia

    ALWAYS.. they pick the right Vic's all the time

  • Mia

    I'm sure the Judge gave him visition rights..that's the only way I can see her doing that.. WHAT THAT JUDGE THINK NOW THAT SHE IS DEAD

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    you get what you pick

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  • Society has changed

    Due diligence that consist of being nosey as hell before you commt to a relationship is vitally important! As well as, getting the hell out of dodge when you see the ???. I’d rather be alone than be beat up or in a casket!! ....? or doing a bid because you raise a hand at me, your tail is mine by all means necessary!

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  • MissFLondon

    And the sad thing about this is that a lot of women interpret this as love or adoration.

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  • the guest

    Batterers sweet talk cops and courts and always go under the radar with their violence potential. He didn't just get crazy. The whole town, cops, courts all knew he was a lunatic. But gave him chance after chance. A man who needs to be met at a police station needed to be behind bars. Poor woman living in that kind of fear. And batterers use their kids for access to their victim. Had everyone convinced he just wanted to see his kid, lies. He just wanted access to terrorize his child's mother.

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  • Lynette Collins

    Thank you so much! I need all I can get.

  • Lynette Collins

    It is! I cried when I spoke to the lady scheduling the appointment.

  • Lynette Collins

    Mine is from Salvador. Many Hispanics told me they do threaten to take the child to another country ALL the time.thanks

  • Lynette Collins

    I did. I'll call then Monday to find out if we are scheduled separately. Thanks. I'm so thinking about Leaving this state and getting our names changed.

  • Lynette Collins

    Thanks

  • Lynette Collins

    Thank you,will do

  • Lynette Collins

    He wasn't a thug when I met him. Absolutely, sweet, kind, open doors gentleman. It was like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. If you don't have nothing nice to say or helpful just keep your nasty opinions to yourself.

  • Daffanyrose

    Yes he was but you liked his drug money

  • Lynette Collins

    He was a carpenter, didn't do drugs, barely even drank alcohol. He may be suffering from a undiagnosed mental illness. You are a troll and a waste of space. Get a life loser!

  • Daffanyrose

    I guess you told me lol

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