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This meme is going viral on social media. The meme features a photo of a young Black girl wearing her hair in an intricate braided hairstyle.

In the text, the author explains that she paid $80 for someone to braid her daughter's hair. When the girl returned from a weekend at her father's home, her hair was in a ponytail.

When the mother inquired why, she was told "Daddy's girlfriend didn't like it so she took it out."

Some social media users say the girlfriend is most likely works in a corporate setting and considers the hairstyle to be too ethnic.

They say women who wear their hair this way are usually not taken seriously in the corporate world.

Question: What would you do if this happened to you?

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  • Treasureme

    Whoop dat trick.

  • OvertheMississippi

    BEAT DADDY’S @SS FIRST THEN....

  • Treasureme
  • Topic Influencer

    This has actually happened to me. Going back round her daddy house and telling him that him or his woman need to run me my money and to stay the entire FUKK outta my baby head going forward. Let this be the first and the last time we have this convo.

  • Ms. EJ

    I would have a serious issue with both the father and girlfriend. They'll have to reimburse me, too. Thankfully, my ex made it very clear that he'll never allow another woman to cross certain boundaries.

  • Phillybruh

    Tell my girlfriend you on your own with this one? She going beat that ass and I'm a watch...lol

  • Zeta Phi Beta 1920

    Lord Jesus!
    I would be upset. I would speak to the father first. CALMLY.

  • SouthsideServesHerWell

    I’m going to sit this one out because I know no good thing could come out if this!!???

  • And then there is that!

    This baby ain't going to no corporate job. What they want the baby to have a 10 piece sew in down her back. Yea Imma have to see the daddy and his girl asapiously

  • Topic Influencer

    Gatdamn it.

    I hate you lmao

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Well the boyfriend should know that would be trouble so tell his girl to chill.

  • Sofia

    She certainly didn’t have a right to do that to the girl after her mother did it. I don’t know whether or not the little girl liked that hairstyle or not, it seems very excessive and uncomfortable though.

    But yeah the dads girlfriend stepped out of bounds.

  • DETROITTOATL

    I would check her and his azz for allowing it PERIOD. And I would be like give me my money back so I can get it done again.

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Now why was my gif detected as spam, when did this change?

  • WinterIsComing

    There’d be some furniture moving...

  • DETROITTOATL

    LMAO.... SHE BEAT YOUR AZZ TO FOR NOT STEPPING IN FIRST..

  • Guest

    What's excessive about it?

  • WinterIsComing

    Take your ass on over to breibert. *blocked*

  • Vegas1989

    The girlfriend is wrong for taking down her hair, Her hair was done for the weekend so no one had to worry about her hair. So with that said....Him and His girlfriend would have woke up Monday morning with 4 flats on all the cars......LOL....It would have cost them....I would have just let the air out of them all...….LOL

  • Ms. EJ

    Right!

  • Sofia

    Just all the braiding and plastic attachments on her head.

  • KLove

    As a father, i would have to check my girl about this, because she is gonna cause beef between me and my BM....and my preference is to keep ish peaceful. The father needs to talk to his girl, and explain to her what is out of bounds and what is not

  • Thingamajig

    A lot of people put things up on social media to start a conversation or to get hits because unfortunately you get more hits for something negative than positive. This is one sided and I don’t believe the trifling mama that the girlfriend unbraided her daughter’s hair. Besides that’s not a normal reaction, y’all know full well that if the girlfriend touched your daughter’s head both the girlfriend and the daddy would’ve gotten a mouthful if not a club upside the head.

  • Guest

    Girl Bye!

  • Phillybruh

    I wasn't home....lol I gave her the 80 bucks for the braids so I was just as mad....lol

  • Clopretty

    My goodness I'd lose it! And the girlfriend would be running me my 80$ And getting spit on and the Dad would be getting beat tf up too! That's the disrespect I don't tolerate! Don't touch my baby hair no matter how its looking! PERIOD

  • Yui

    I’d check her and then withhold visitation coz he should’ve been the one to consultant me. Ijs

  • xenaD

    First of all, me n the girl are coming to blows. Not cause of the money, but just because I ain’t got time to be doing her hair every morning before school ???. Also, I can see if the daughter said it was too tight or sum, but Na cause u didn’t like it! Hold my earrings...

  • SemajBeyPhilly

    Oh u got me f*cked up! I’m acting a whole fool. Send my child back the way she was brought to u.

  • Sofia

    Sorry!

  • MrsSpice1

    Getting my money back from the girlfriend and the daddy for letting it happen. Soo im getting back $160..they paid for her to get it done again and the audacity. ?

  • AphroKween

    This is natural for African-Americans.

  • MJF

    Oh it's like that? We about to scrap!!! Lol, no I'm too bougie to be fighting but a conversation would need to be had. Period.

  • Ms. EJ

    I couldn't agree more.

  • Coy little wink

    Since ratchetTV is asking the answer is obvious

    Act ratchet

  • Topic Influencer

    You are male. Okay. How do you feel about the BM droppin baby girl round your house and be like get her hair braided this weekend while she with yall. BM outta line or nah?

  • Sofia

    It just seems like she might be uncomfortable with all that.

  • sunni_daze

    Beating a bitch up for touching my child and fking with my money.

  • Vegas1989

    She don't know no better, I'm sending her some black history books to her house right now....Plastic Attachments....WOW....It's called a bead.....I use to love wearing braids and beads in my hair.

  • KcoolMuziq

    I'm with Daddy's girlfriend. I HATE braids on girls & women.

  • Phillybruh

    I would document it, she got just a couple times to do that before we go before the judge.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    No, it wouldn’t. Only the first night, and it’s not due to being to tight or excessive or because of the beads.

  • iWasteTime

    No. It is apart of taking care of the child. All because he see's her on the weekends or every other week doesn't negate what she needs. Hair is apart of taking care of her.

  • Guest

    Lol! Right!

  • Curtis

    I believe both women care about the girl's appearance and no need for drama.

  • MJF

    LOL

  • Rere

    She better run me my money AND!!! pay to get my daughter hair done again! Since this is a **open ratchet post** I would kick that biatch in the face

  • Sofia

    I admit I have no knowledge of this type of hairstyle I was just going on how it looks.

  • Chicagowise

    Daddy's girlfriend has dominion over the hair that carries her DNA. PERIOD.

  • Gowns. Beautiful Gowns

    what should the little girl have?

  • Coy little wink

    I need my gif uploading capabilities so I can give this post the sam Jackson death stare...

  • iWasteTime

    1. His girl is running me $200.
    2. We're going back to court, to amend what can and can not happen with my baby with out me being consulted first.

  • Topic Influencer

    So him and gf get a say when its time for them to pay... but any other time hands off? I get it then I dont.

  • iWasteTime

    I can't uploaded media either. I thought the job shut me down!

  • Phillybruh

    GF shouldn't have a say though.

  • Coy little wink

    Sandra replied yesterday they will return soon they are trying to get rid of the porn spam

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Your honesty is nice. But this is definitely a case of “don’t judge a book by its cover”.

    This style is done to save time with heading out on the morning. It’s age appropriate, meticulously done. And to be honest, the lil lady is probably the one who told her mom the style she desired.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Depends on how long her real hair is.

  • AphroKween

    You might agree with daddy's girlfriend, however the lil girl is NOT her child so she should have refrain from taking out the child's hair.

  • Gowns. Beautiful Gowns

    you must not have daughters...who's doing her hair everyday?

  • iWasteTime

    I would say the parent that is taking pays but it can't be something that has to be done on dads weekend only. If she is braided monthly, one month on mom's weekend and mom pays, next month on dad's weekend and he pays ....

  • AphroKween

    When dating men with kids it best to learn boundaries to keep DRAMA at bay.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Hell, I’m a 34 yo woman and don’t have time for nothing more that a wrap, wig, or ponytail piece

  • ShelbyMoore

    Let me go find my knife and sharpen it. TF!!

  • Brittiny Nicole

    What am I doing? Before or after the noise making and furniture moving?

  • iWasteTime

    ohhhh Thank You

  • Dollmeshia Dee-Dee Clark

    i'm not a fan of beads especially multi colored and whether i like the style or not....the girlfriend had no right to do this. If there was something that happened that caused the need to have her hair done then a call should've been made to the mother. The style isn't the debate it's the PRINCIPAL

  • Sofia

    Oh ok, interesting. I totally agree that the dads girlfriend was very wrong for removing. Sorry if it sounded like I was being critical of her hairstyle, is don’t mean for people to get upset.

  • justlooking

    So glad we passed this phase. My bonus daughter...her mother had her done once in 11 years. She is now 20 and does hern own hair now.

    I remember once I paid for her to get box braids and the mom said it gave her daugter excema and she took them out. All activities were cancllced. Why you ask? it would shameful for everybody look nice meanwhile this young girl is look crazy about the head. Not on my watch, let your mama take you. Which was her goal...

  • KcoolMuziq

    I agree that the father should have asked the mother first though.

  • Guest

    The end.

  • Ebony Starr

    Well, she's Daddy's girlfriend not his wife so she really shouldn't be making any decisions about his child.

  • Mister Fantastic

    No phones/ email/ messaging/ pigeon to communicate the girlfriend was going to take the braids out and why?

    Looks like this post by RACHETV was made to get people (y'all ladies) upset LOL...

  • Chicagowise

    Paul Mooney on braids:

    "Your cornrows on you. “You little pickaninny.” On Bo Derek, “A 10.”

  • DETROITTOATL

    The wife cant make no damn decisions either unless she has a conversation with me first

  • Gowns. Beautiful Gowns

    so we not gonna talk about August Alsina saying he slept with Jada Pinkett Smith? she a friend of the blog, no slander?

  • Nita Pie

    First off I my money is coming from somebody in that house. The girlfriend is getting cussed out for touching my kids hair, B:"$#H you took my baby hair down and you had to wash it, thats just to much. Dont touch MY kid hair. And we can fight for it

  • Darkandlovely617?

    Simply use today’s lesson as a learning experience.
    Instead of stating what you think on a topic you are unfamiliar with, ask the community to give you a brief synopsis of “how the style works”

  • justlooking

    Porn spam....Thankfully that was blocked on my end.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Hahahaha

  • iWasteTime

    My step momma was scared of my momma.
    My dad had me call my momma for everything!
    None of them wanted my Big Ro to pull up.

  • 88

    Black mothers these days are so fkn lazy this woman actually paid someone $80 to do her child's hair what a bum.

  • Sofia

    Yes you’re right, thank you. It did seem like something more mature but now that you’ve explained it it makes more sense.

  • ShelbyMoore

    You're on the wrong site. Take your as$ on....then y'all go have babies by black men and have them out here looking a fool. STHU and move around.

  • Nita Pie

    BABY Cause I got two girls with HAIR HAIR and they hair is braided and beaded right now, I take it down, we have wash day and breath days but its braided right back up.

  • Janice Collins

    I don’t like it either, but when you have kids with people you not together with. Shit happen. Is it worth your sanity? Do whatever your mentality allows but be ready for all consequences

  • Sofia

    Absolutely, she was totally wrong for her action.

  • Tinytoon

    I will need the $80 I lost plus $100 more for gas & getting her hair done, again.

  • bemetoo

    Man I wanted to say that about 3 hrs ago sandy ain’t touching that subject... I think it’s a publicity stunt

  • Sofia

    Oh sorry! I didn’t mean for it to sound like that, i really do agree that the dads girlfriend is wrong for what she did.

  • justlooking

    Btw this photo resurfaces every other year for last 10 plus years.

  • ShelbyMoore

    You charging interest!!!

  • Topic Influencer

    but it can't be something that has to be done on dads weekend only.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^
    This. Thanks.

  • Topic Influencer

    I dont think its gf job or role period

  • bemetoo

    All that for 80 dollars I know people who pay 125 -200 for that

  • AphroKween

    Really!! Can you braid or do hair??

  • ShelbyMoore

    Right...I thought I was the only one missing reggie gifs!

  • Jazzy

    In my opinion, dad's girlfriend was 100% out of line. That's not her call.

  • Lady_Elle

    To the girlfriend...
    B*tch better have my money to get daughter's hair done again.
    B*tch better recognize her place. You are a "girlfriend!"
    The child's father would get a severe tongue lashing!
    Girlfriend is NOT to touch my child's hair... BOUNDARIES!

  • Topic Influencer

    And you would sit there and eat your food. You as a gf have zero say.

  • justlooking

    No body doing that for 80. Maybe in prison, 80 dollars worth of commissary. Just saying.

  • iWasteTime

    we don't talk to numbers sis

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think it's an isssue with Disqus. They've got their spam filters set on high right now because of some p0rn spamming they've run into the past couple of days.

  • AphroKween

    My daughter step-mom makes sure my daughter check with me first so we do not have any problems.

  • stav

    The daughter is not in the corporate world, and why would her dad's girlfriend take the daughter to work with her, if the narrative posted above is to be believed? The mother and the girlfriend needs to have a face to face , woman to woman talk that includes the reimbursement of 80$.

  • bemetoo

    Commissary and head and ass on the side

  • ShelbyMoore

    Your bm would definitely beat you up. SMH...YOU DON'T TOUCH OTHER WOMAN'S CHILDREN'S HAIR. IDGAF if you're fawking the daddy...it is NOT her place! If she wants to do hair, she can either have her own child or go buy a Baby Alive. TF

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Smart answer. You definitely want to keep things as peaceful and drama-free as possible.

  • justlooking

    Chuckles

  • Panther Charleston

    Was the child tired of the braids? Did they hurt? Did they try to reach mom? Say they did, but couldn't and that baby was hurting. Take the braids down. Reimburse if it causes a fuss, but if dad saw and agreed that she was hurting too, they did right. Thank the people and let it be. Don't teach the child to escalate when in conflict. Investigate, don't escalate.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Fawk what a new bish has to say and I wish a bish would tell me some shat like that so I can stuff both my foots (yup) down her throat!

  • Erin

    I was just about to say slow news day huh? This pic / story circulates once a year OR the one where the GF gives the daughter a perm. Lies and clickbait at its finest.

  • Coy little wink

    Russian bots I think

  • justlooking

    ????

  • ShelbyMoore

    And putting it in a pony tail takes so much work. TF outta here. I wish a bish would.

  • Seldomseen

    This reminds me of Crookland when the momma sends her children down south for the summer, and the little girl comes back with a perm.

  • xenaD

    That’s a good price actually ? cute appropriate style, and weave less. What gives? ?

  • WinterIsComing

    Hot combed. Aunt didn’t like the “beads, shells and things” Troy had.

  • Ms. EJ

    One of my favorite movies along with Inkwell.

  • xenaD

    Before I became a mom I absolutely hated little girls hair in any form of braids! But now I get it

  • Topic Influencer

    I saw that struggle only for a little bit. Mine are 10 years apart. So by the time I started having to do TWO heads daily....the oldest one was old enough to start doing her own. She was around 13. Baby was around 2-3. Bc HONEY IDK how in the hell my good homie does it. FOUR girls. Even with braids its still ALOT.

  • Well$$Well$$?

    I ? Crooklyn.

  • Topic Influencer

    Not everyone can braid. Head still gotta be done. What do you suggest?

  • Ms. EJ

    Some braids can be painfully tight
    ( they should never be that tight). I think the issue is the Mom not being consulted first.

  • TRUTHbeabsolute

    Looks painful.

  • Shenanigans1

    Right! Her aunt killed me talking bout she didn’t know what to do? Ummm nothing ma’am! You leave it alone and put some oil on it every few days.

  • Rayscoty

    I could've did that for free with a frontal....

  • Jayde da Blade

    Leave folks kids alone.
    Period.

  • KLove

    Not at all, if she wants me to take my daughter to get her hair done, then i will do so. Also, if I see a need for her hair to be done, Im gonna take her to get her hair done, and possibly get input from BM just to make sure the style is approved

  • Renee26

    I'd be mad at myself for paying $60 too much. I'd get my money back from her daddy and have a conference call with him and his gf and tell her to never touch my childs head again.

  • Renee26

    Another black woman hater coming to a black womans blog to put down black women..... Troll

  • Seldomseen

    In my younger years when my child was this age, I would have popped off on the dad.
    Few years later I would have told them both what my expectations are for my child and her person when in their care.
    Knowing what I know now, I would have done everything within my power to be and stay married to husband....childs father so these types of things would not be an issue.

  • Sofia

    I can just imagine how her poor mother feels. Like a punch in the stomach. Who is that random lady to mess with her daughters hair? I hate it when a parent splits up and think they can bring some new person around acting like a new parent to the kid.

  • Shawty

    Girlfriend would be reimbursing me my monies. I'd hate to act like a plum fool but I definitely would.

  • Yup, I said it

    Make sure you have it in the custody agreement that the father nor his women can touch your kids hair. That gf trying to recreate her own ideal family. No ma'am.

  • Vonn

    This is a child...even if she were going to a corporate day care center, this hairstyle is appropriate for her.

  • iWasteTime

    I read that in her aunts voice

  • Ebony Starr

    That was my point, by the time that she becomes a wife there would be some conversations. Daddy should not be allowing the girlfriend to make decisions.

  • Topic Influencer

    You are a beautiful soul, I want you to know it.

    Bc aint no way I was staying with my rotten ass human ex husband for the sake of our daughter hair. You and your Box Chevy shaped ass gf need to find yall some biz.

  • brooklyn23

    Love this. Investigate don't escalate. Copywrite that slogan. True I can't give an opinion because some things aren't black and white, I see some grey area in here. Considering how people pay to become bald(them be braiding mad tight) it could very well be that they were too tight and maybe she complained and the girlfriend said take them out and dad agreed. Sensible shit. My daughter had got big braids came home that night and started taking them out. At 1st I got a little upset but said shit 1Ive wasted money on b.s before. 2 her head hurts take them off. I told the African people the next day (because I brought my daughter back to get to French braids,something she had done b4 there with no problems) and I told the lady the issue. This heffer said did she take aspirin or something, she should've took an aspirin . Smh. No one should have to take anything for pain when getting their hair done. Black people stop paying to become bald because that's exactly what's happening. Now next time you go for braids or somehwere,where they do tight weaves ask yourself wtf am I paying to become bald.

  • Nita Pie

    Yes Kids aint going to no work girllll that hair is a mess lol

  • WutizstillHERE!
  • Youcan’tbanmesucka

    This is not WAKANDA!

  • KcoolMuziq

    The blame really goes to the father whom may have aloud this deliberately.

  • Renee26

    About to call my momma to give her props. She NEVER caused any drama after her and my daddy divorced when I was a baby. My daddy gf's all styled my hair and my momma never had an issue with it or saw it as disrespectful. Once their style messed up she'd do my hair in her style. My daddy's girlfriends all spoiled me and I never got excluded from events or told I couldn't visit cause of no other women.

  • brooklyn23

    We don't know mom. Maybe she's co confrontational and if dad called her saying he's taking the braids out she might argue hell no my 80 dollas ain't going down the drain

  • DETROITTOATL

    As she should.

  • DETROITTOATL

    LOL

  • WutizstillHERE!
  • Seldomseen

    What I’m saying is I would have chosen better.....cuz my child’s father was a total scoundrel. Not just for a hairstyle but for a solid family unit.

  • Seldomseen

    ??????. You were surrounded by light and love...excellent parents!

  • Lucky8

    I love it what a travesty?

  • Coy little wink

    But don't you pay for what you don't know how to do or feel like doing? Ever pay to get your car washed? Hair cut? Teeth cleaned? Oil changed? Stop the judgment then...

  • Ms. EJ

    I understand, however I wouldn't consider that confrontational if she didn't agree and voiced her disagreement to him. I, personally don't see anything wrong in that. However, disregarding her will cause an actual confrontation, IMO.

  • DETROITTOATL

    Not baby aliiiiiive in Soulja Boys voice...

  • Lady_Elle

    rofl...

  • Coy little wink

    Can we have another fake news post ?

  • Lady_Elle

    OMG... rofl!

    I completely hear what you are saying!

  • Tisha

    Thank you...my exact thoughts. This is a little girl how is this relevant to corporate america?

  • the guest

    The girlfriend was completely disrespectful and out of line.

    However, if there are set visitation days, styling of hair should be the parental joy and choice of the parent whom has the child in their care.

    Mom likes braids, then braids on mom’s days. Dad likes hair loose and out, then hair loose and out on dad’s days. That’s equitable and fair.

    However, permanant hair changes such as cuts and chemicals should be discussed and agreed on in writing. Liberty to cut hair or chemical or color or extend hair should not be taken with mutual agreement.

    There should be a stipulation in writing or clear cut understanding that significant others are not permitted child’s hair care and styling privileges.

  • HC54

    Is it true that braids cause hair loss especially around the edges?

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    I'm having a conversation with her dad about what he's allowing his girlfriend to do with my child. Then I'm a have her dad cashapp me $100 for the inconvenience. Then a couple days later on the low I'm a send one of my hood fighter friends over to the girlfriend's normal hangout and have her backhand that lil bish. Cant catch a case over a bish you don't know!!

  • justlooking

    Your mama a G. Love her. This on some grown women ish.

  • laidbackgal4real

    Who cares if she don’t like it .. it’s neatly braided... so the next question will be ... is this woman starting trouble ???? Because that’s personal now ... I would say to that woman “ don’t ever put your hands in my child’s hair again “ and I will say to her “ I don’t like you but you are still with my child’s father so what do you suggest I do to you ??? And my child’s father will give me back my money and I will get it re braided in that same style... now what ??

  • YellowSauce

    Ummmm .... 1st of all ....
    Daddy's "grlfriend's" usually know better than this lol
    but in the instance that 1 is crazy enough to even TRY this ... ITS ON lol
    Black women know not to touch another woman's child's head ESPECIALLY if it was paid for ..... UNLESS it stinks ... ONLY exception and I mean it has to be reeking cesspool mildew and sour milk for me to touch it and even then he hairdresser has to handle that lololol

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Ok thanks.

  • Seldomseen

    Yeah I spelled it wrong.

  • Seldomseen

    When that dog was stuck in that sofa . I hollered!

  • MsChocCookie

    The girlfriend considered it to be ghetto...not ethnic. Hence, the reason why she pulled it out to avoid embarrassment. I personally feel it took some talent, and craftsmanship however I’m not a beads person.

  • Maxx

    WTH. This child is not working in the corporate world. She is a child & his Dad's girlfriend had no right & no business changing her hairstyle.

  • Capricornlady

    The Gary Indiana in me says to whoop "girlfriend AND daddy's ass! But the grown professional woman in me says to warn them tha if this happens again...then the Gary Indiana woman is coming out. #tryme

  • Jordan’s Memory

    That bish betta have $80 in my daughters overnight bag. I think the braids are cute and it's not for her to like or not like she is NOT her parents. NOW if she paid for it and didn't like it then by all means take it out and do what you think is cute. But dad should have known better than to let her mess with that child freshly done braids. Somebody will be having a talk too and somebody betta have my $80.

  • Capricornlady

    I Love Crooklyn!!! one of my favorite movies

  • Jordan’s Memory

    LMAO!

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    We both caps boo so my first thought was to grab a hold of that bish and just slang her LOLOL!! She aint worth that charge tho.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    My apologies. Photo uploading was temporarily disabled until Disqus gets rid of the porn spam.

  • MzJamaica

    Family meeting!!!!! Someone giving me my money back and we are setting some ground rules for the daughter I pushed out of my woohaa

  • HC54

    I read an article written by a doctor that said braids cause hair loss especially around the edges.

  • Guest

    Not Baby Alive! lmao!

  • Guest

    Yup. Boundaries

  • chan chan

    Baby momma and daddy drama. Women without children and men without children only date and marry other folks without children. I get so tired of these type of topics. It’s like black people always have this type of drama in their life.

  • Livelifeatl

    Ask for my $80.00 back and then tell her what time she needs to be at my house each morning to do my child’s hair for the next 45 days.

  • Nik

    This or another one. Been on FB for eons.

  • Renee26

    Absolutely...never any issues with coparenting. My daddy never complained about paying child support or gave her any issues (post divorce) either

  • CookieMobster

    1st off, I don't think this is a cute hairstyle. Second off but if I DID do My child's hair like this, my x husband's girlfriend should respect the fact that she was my child, not hers and leave it the way it is. My x husband would be owning me $100. $80 for the style and $20 for my time. Periodt.

  • Renee26

    Thank you

  • Panther Charleston

    Waving my hand in agreement with all this truth.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    You're so mature boo! Luckily I'm married to my kids father cuz I don't know if would be ready for that type of family meeting. Especially if my baby father wasn't married. I ain't meeting with the gf. He better talk to her tho.

  • stacee

    Whoop that ass(girlfriend)!

  • Andrea Williams

    I think that the hairstyle is cute AND as intricate as it is, I am surprised that it was only 80.00. It must be the friends and family discount price. NOW with that being said, was the "overstepping my bounds" girlfriend a Becky? The reason I say that is because I believe a "sista" would KNOW better. She didn't like it so SHE took it down? Are you serious? All I know is, she better have my money.

  • WinterIsComing

    Life lessons

  • justlooking

    Reason 99 I ain't on facebook.

  • dru and neil

    They need to reimburse the money, and yes the hairstyle is too much for my liking as well. It’s chaos.

  • Capricornlady

    Exactly! But if there's a next time...just know it aint gon be pretty.

  • Stacey J

    This would be her ONE time where I would check her only with words and tell her or my child's father that someone owes me $80. The next time...if there was one...I would whoop a b#$%# a$$...and his too for letting it happen.

  • interestingconcept1

    I need to see, “after photo” don’t believe this happened.

  • dblogged

    Not the GF place. That’s what why we have to fight for relationships to work and to be wise with who we have children with. My barber said “it’s easy to have a baby. The hard part is having it with the right person” basic, but true

  • Daffanyrose

    This is ghetto

  • Torae

    This picture comes from a children’s hair group I used to be apart of. The mother was just showing everyone her braiding skills. My daughter was like 2 or 3. She’s 12 about to be 13 so you know it’s old lol...

  • DETROITTOATL

    It depends on the braider. I know some braider who brad very nice and does not pull your hair our. Now them damn Africans will pull every damn strand out cause they braid to damn tight.

  • Malai

    lmaooooo FRFR

  • Dowoop

    What does the corporate world have to do with a kids hairstyle?

  • Topic Influencer

    You the one took that them braids out that baby head aintcha? Tell us about your cuss out.

  • Dowoop

    Not if she go on Saturday and come back on Sunday. Her hair was pbly combed for the week ahead of time because of the visit. Don't take the braids out and send her back in a ponytail for me to have to comb everyday.

  • Dowoop

    Because it doesn't exist!

  • Dowoop

    On a saturday/Sunday at that. Daddy supposed to be spending time with his daughter not sending her to work with his gf

  • Dowoop

    You could have just combed her natural hair and made her look nice...

  • Dowoop

    I think it's just a conversation starter not the person saying this actually happened.

  • Andrea Hunter

    It's a protective style...NOT GHETTO.... Our hair is not for everyone to like, get, or understand...The fact that he let "the girlfriend" take down the daughters hair shows he prolly ain't running shyt. I'da been pissed whether I paid to have done... Or did it myself... You DO NOT TOUCH MY BABIES HAIR.. I think it was a Becky too.

  • justlooking

    She asked for it and her father agreed. Her hair was all over the place and she said she was being picked on at school....she had to be about 13. That was the last time she took it out....its all good. Everything ain't about the mama, but doing right b the kids.

  • Li-Wright

    Sorry, but I don't like the girl's hair. It's wove too tight. I cringe everytime I see young girls with those braids and know that their hair is being damaged. Black women need to abandon the tight braids, just go natural. There's a lot you can do with natural hair.

  • Li-Wright

    It probably shows he agrees with the girlfriend.

  • Mona Lisa

    I wish a bish would touch my child’s hair without my permission. It might be too ethnic for the girlfriend, but this isn’t her battle or fight. This isn’t her child. How dare she? Somebody would have got their ass beat.

  • Li-Wright

    Can Hair stylists in this forum please answer? I am curious to know your opinion of these tight braid styles.

  • Rayne

    I wore this style when I was younger and don’t see anything wrong with it. Kids don’t like their hair combed and brushed everyday. This style works well when going swimming and every day. There is not a damn thing wrong with it. It’s cute!

  • Rayne

    Plus you owe me $80 plus $80 to get it rebraided. Cash ? only. And who gave you authority to touch MY kids hair?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    I see Momma and Daddy never setup boundaries before separating... Cause that is an issue she needs to have with Daddy https://media1.giphy.com/media/3o7qDXDa3rWNrBUuxq/giphy.gif

  • Vonn

    Right? Even if the girlfriend didn't like the hairstyle, it wasn't her place to change it. Braids are a part of our culture. The girlfriend is non-black or whitewashed.

  • Taj

    Only black people do this s***. Why are people trying to purposely cause Discord within our community? Of course people are going to get the answer they are looking for which is Mama going to go over two new girl house and whoop her ass. We got to do better

  • Chocolate

    Ikr? Let kids be kids before they have to conform

  • Patricia

    the girlfriend did it to start mess. typical biotch behavior, a spirit of strife. i would calmly send dad the $80 invoice, take pictures, and inform dad to check his demon possessed girlfriend if he wanted to maintain a healthy and longlasting relationship with our daughter.
    this happened to my friend. her 12 year olds box braids were removed the moment she arrived for her summer vacation stay with her dad. once my friend addressed the dad, the demonic girlfriend called her phone 30 times in one day. it was done to intentionally start mess. the daughter, upon turning 18 outgrowing court appointed visitstion, never goes to visit her father anymore on her own accord. children dont like people that mess with their MAMA, period.

  • hi-liter

    Dayum, you mean to tell me this little girl’s beautiful braided hair style was not good enough?....and the stupid hefer though a ponytail was? ?....

  • time

    Cough...cough.....In my best Rihanna impersonation...."bit## better have my money"

  • Chocolate

    The idea of my small child being around adults I don’t know makes me physically ill.
    One of the main reasons I’m waiting until I’m older and if my husband and I split, he would be past the dumb ? and I could trust his mature judgement.

  • hi-liter

    ?????

  • hi-liter

    Ghetto is the GF going thru the time to take that beautiful braid style down just to throw a damn lazy ass ponytail up.

  • Queen B

    Its not for u to like tho....which is y ur black ass nor the gf ain't paying for it. Btw, how ignorant to assume that all braids are tight smh that's not the case

  • hi-liter

    I would have had to get in someone’s azz over this if she was my daughter. She went thru all that to take that baby beautiful hair style down just to thru a lazy ghetto azz ponytail on her head.....?????....and she ain’t em his wife makes it worse.

  • Queen B

    Hey boo lol

  • Queen B

    Me too lol I think ppl be trolling

  • Queen B

    I don't believe it....i need to see the ponytail

  • dblogged

    Heyyy luv ?? Lol hit me back

  • Dahl

    I agree. People just post things to start conversation...

  • anonymouse

    Don't put your hands on other people's children. That's all.

    Glad that this isn't my reality, ugh......

  • Ccinkissimmee

    That's fine but I'm going to need her to refund me what it cost. Her and my baby daddy can figure out who's pocket it's coming out of but I'll need all 80 of it back PLUS I'm going to need sis to keep "our" child's hair done for the entire month that I wouldn't have had to do her hair. That's all.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Um I need a refund and then we gone need to have a "TALK"!

  • Truth7981

    As a step mom..Nope! Her hair looks horrible. When the child is in my home she is a representation of me.

  • Renee Bee
  • Truth7981

    AS A STEPMOM- listen up. She was not wrong for taking that hot ghetto mess out her hair, hell I have on my stepdaughter! Backstory..my family was having a family reunion. Since I am the primary caretaker when my stepkids are visiting their dad, I HAD TO TAKE THEM, which I didn't want to. Of course, I had no choice because stepmothers are usually baby sitters when the kids come to visit! I specifically told my husband to let her mom know not to get her hair done because I was going to take care of it. She has sent her daughter looking exactly like that picture before and I didn't take her anywhere for that weekend. But this weekend was different. Her mom knows that when we have her for long periods of time I take her to get her hair done. My stepdaughter has beautiful natural hair and I prefer it down and natural or straightened. That's my preference. Well, here she comes looking a damn mess beads and all. Oh, I was hot pissed. I straight told my husband I was taking that mess down or he could take off that day and watch her. Guess what? He helped me take the mess out! Certainly, he wasn't going to take care of his child on his weekend! Mom called going off. Could care less. My home, my rules!

  • Li-Wright

    The girls hair and scalp is being damaged.

  • Truth7981

    Gladly, when your daughter visits i would never do her hair

  • Truth7981

    That can't style is GHETTO

  • Zeta Aggie

    As a mom/ you were wrong. And so is your husband. That’s not your child to make that decision. He’s your husband but that is not your daughter.

  • Zeta Aggie

    Refund and pay for the follow up visit smdh. Ridiculous!

  • Truth7981

    Exactly! When my stepdaughters visit I am the one shouldering the most responsibilty. That's not on the step mom.

  • Truth7981

    You sound ridiculous.

  • Zeta Aggie

    ?Black women have worn braids since before Jesus came. Next!

  • Truth7981

    Daddy said it was a go, so i took that mess down. Dad should have been home with his kid.

  • Tlowe89

    I would tell the daddy to run me my damn money

  • Truth7981

    So was i not suppose to attend my family reunion?

  • Miss Thang

    I dated a man with kids for 2 years and everything the kids asked me for, I told them to call their mom and ask her ??I don’t need drama in my life.

  • Zeta Aggie

    Oh wow I just read your entire commentary. You totally suck as a step mom. And you don’t sound too pleasing as a wife either.

  • Zeta Aggie

    You’re a troll. The sad part is you’re probably trash in real life too.

  • Truth7981

    Not at all

  • Malificent

    Cuss her daddy out so bad he couldn’t sleep and make him give me back my $80 and take her to get her hair redone and only allow him to see her at my house since his woman is a stupid bih!

  • Malificent

    Smh no respect. She’s not your child. Love her unconditionally braids and all. It’s a hairstyle.

  • Truth7981

    Indeed it's a hairstyle. So i took the mess out.

  • Malificent

    Next time at least call the mother to ask her permission. She’s there to spend time with her father not be judged by her hairstyle. If you don’t like it leave her home alone with him so they can have daddy & daughter time.

  • Li-Wright

    It damages the hair.

  • Malificent

    Yes he definitely should have. Some of our men need encouragement on how to be there for their children and spend time with them. I always try to take myself out of the situation. That way he won’t resent you when his child gets older and he doesn’t have a deeper relationship with her. He could only blame himself.

  • BingBangBoom

    She would be BANNED from all contact with my daughter. Those I consider as executive decisions and only the legal guardians have that authority.

  • Malificent

    She has absolutely nothing to do with you. She’s not your blood she’s his blood. Leave her to him.

  • Malificent

    Exactly!

  • andrice

    Yes, you were 100% out of order. It sounds as if you desire to yield control in the relationship. While your husband may allow it for yours and his relationship, in the relationship with his children and their mother you dont. I suspect the child will remember your mean and controlling ways and resent you.
    Don't break her spirit and damage her self image with your negative projection.

  • Luv R

    The Father's gf did that out of pure spite... plain and simple! She don't really care about how the girls hair look because all she did was put the hair in a ponytail. I can see if they went to the beach and she got sand all in her hair or something like that but bcz she didn't like it she took it out. What if she eventually doesn't like the little girl, is she gonna take her "out" as well? You can't remove everything unpleasant from your life. It was only for a weekend and it wasn't like the braids were matted. The gf is a hater.. that's all

  • Malificent

    This!!! The husband will resent his wife when his daughter grows up not giving a damn about him and not having a deeper relationship with him because she inserted herself in it.

  • hi-liter

    I highly doubt you are black if you think that hairstyle is ghetto for a young black girl with kinky hair. What type of hairstyles did you wear as a kid? You are either white or you have been wearing hair weaves since you were born.

  • Precious Henry

    The only thing wrong with her hair is the color of the beads. I prefer all clear beads or all the same color beads. The hairstyle is very cute on a little girl especially if you're a mother of three (two of them girls) and you can't do hair everyday.Hair braiding is apart of our culture and people who consider these styles to ethnic need to know their history. All I can do is SMH at our own people considering our own hairstyles ghetto.

  • Rhondalousey

    You dont need to have your kids or anybody else's . You are horrible and i would make your life a living hell if i was your dumb husband's child's mother.

  • Rhondalousey

    Shut up.

  • Dowoop

    Your husband sounds like a bum. He has his kid and he pawns her off on you after you said you don't want her. He shouldn't leave his kid anywhere near you. If you are proud of this I shudder to think of what else you do.

  • andrice

    You're right!

  • Malificent

    She one of them one in a million.

  • Malificent

    Same here.

  • Dowoop

    I thought you said he helped you take it down now he was at work?

  • Dowoop

    You just said you told her mom you would do it now you don't want to touch it? Mom pbly did her hair so you wouldn't touch it.

  • anonymouse

    Don't have any and don't want any. On the off chance that it did happen, I would hope to pick a man who wouldn't be crass enough to spend the limited time that he has with his child with his latest as well.

  • Dowoop

    If you want a representation of yourself then you have your own kids... In your case I wouldn't recommend it.

  • hi-liter

    The GF sounds pretty Basic. She couldn’t even give the girl a style she felt was better, just threw anything up on the child’s head. That braid style is a whole lot better than a ponytail, and it’s Protective and Lasts. A ponytail just has the hair all over the child’s head when she wakes up.

  • Dowoop

    She doesn't sound like she knows how to love a child so she certainly wouldn't be any help to her husband in thay dept.

  • Malificent

    Basic and INSECURE trying to start something. The father who allows this is not a man and doesn’t deserve to be a father. He a father in name only.

  • Lady” Youngblood

    I know you joking? You are so jealous of that mans daughter, He should never leave his child with you. And I can bet my house and car y’all won’t last. You’re not the full package, you’re intimidated by his child and probably her mother two. It’s a turn off for most real men

  • Dowoop

    Just because hair is braided doesn't mean it's tight....

  • Mrs. King

    No she shouldn’t have called, she should’ve WHOOPED UR AZZ! Cause honey I’d beat that azz!

  • Dowoop

    I'm curious you think braids damage hair more than manipulating it everyday.

  • Dowoop

    It's a conversation starter... Nowhere in the post does it say this happened to them. It says YOU did this and that happened, what would YOU do, not I did this and that happened.

  • Mrs. King

    Exactly! I couldn’t have said it any better

  • Dowoop

    Clearly you didn't read the comments because plenty of people in here have stepkids.

  • Mrs. King

    She’s a troll trust me

  • Dowoop

    As long as the kids hair is neat and clean I could care less. My 9 yr old wanted locs and I explained to him that he can have it as long as it's kept neat and clean, I have never had a pblm with it in almost 2 yrs. It's just hair.

  • Truth7981

    Wow..yall coming down on me about a hairstyle? Cool, let's go a bit further. Let's talk about education. My stepdaughter soared when she stayed with us. Why? Because I mothered her as my own. I was at all the conferences and was the first one on the contact list. This girl went from F's to AB honor roll! My stepdaughter is 11 yrs old and weighs 280lbs, hmmm wonder why? Because her mother cares more about a hairstyle probably! I also have her involved with several young black entrepreneurs workshops too! Guess who takes her..me! When we have her during the summertime she attends camps at our local HBCU as my children do. When you sit back and wonder why we (black women) are thought of as jokes, read over y'all comments! Damn shame

  • Truth7981

    I told my husband to let her know, not to get her hair done for that weekend. I gave her respect. That was enough

  • Truth7981

    Not a problem. Then I would have filed a restraining order. And just like what happened to my friend when she got into a fight with her ex-husband wife she lost custody of her son. No joke. Ex husband filed for sole custody and won! Ha. Trash.

  • NaeNae2015

    Unfortunately the others on this thread don't understand you meant to be whimsical and funny with your post. I alone understand that you are not being serious?????

  • Logan Roberts

    I would've had a firm heart to heart with daddy & his skeeza, got my money refunded from one of them, let my daughter know to call me if some shyt like this ever goes down again and let skeeza know next time there will be some hostile repercussions next time. The end.

  • Zeta Aggie

    It’s a protective style. It can snatch edges if done too tight.

    I used to wear braids like that as a child I loved them. We need not be ashamed of how we have always adorned and worn our hair.

  • chan chan

    Clearly u need to definitely re read my comment ?????

  • CT

    I would tell her that as a stepmother she doesnt have any say so on how my child hair should be styled and she need to refund me back my money. Furthermore I would get my childs hair styled the exact same way as before she took it down..send her back over to her father's house and DARE her to touch her hair. As a step mom her job is to make sure that the child is fed..safe and well taken care of..not dictate what style of hair the child should be wearing. Step mama need to stay in her lane and the daddy need to make sure that she doesnt go outside her lane.

  • Mona Lisa

    And bish so do you!

  • Faux Gibbler

    First of all, the Dad has no business letting that GF touch that baby’a Hair.
    Secondly, that GF needs to stay in her goddamn lane. That baby isn’t her child. I would ask if the GF is white but sadly, I have seen black women do this shit too.
    Thirdly,
    That GF needs to give the Mom her $80 back or an azz whooping is in order for both Baby Daddy and Hussie GF

  • chan chan

    ? this story is funny. I have a question. U married a man with kids did u have kids from a previous relationship as well? I ask because I will never understand why people without kids will subject themselves to baby momma and daddy drama.

  • Faux Gibbler

    The thing is, even a white person knows that hair style took TIME and money. You don’t just don’t go and take out them braids out.
    This has me mad AF

  • Faux Gibbler

    Mom needs to let baby girl know that no one is to touch her hair. But I am sure that baby protested it. I just know it. I hope this is a hoax. Please let it be. This has me fired up.

  • Faux Gibbler

    Not all nother’s who style their kids hair or get styles like this are lazy. We get our kids hair done like this cuz it holds for days and makes our mornings go faster. And the styles are cute and we are contributing to black hair dressers. WTF does this have to do with weight?

  • chan chan

    I agree the comments are shameful. Why would her own mother kill her with food??? ???. I went into Walmart with a friend for the very first time last year, it was my first and last time. Anyways there were nothing but overweight women in there buying tons of junk food and frozen food for their kids. I almost threw up. These single mothers are killing their kids self esteem. Not all but most.

  • chan chan

    U would actually have time to do that?

  • Faux Gibbler

    WTF does braids have to do with HER step child weighing 280 lbs? That poor baby probably stress eats cuz of this fool.

  • Faux Gibbler

    And if your step daughter really looked up to you, she wouldn’t be eating all that unhealthy shit while she is allegedly with her mom. Smh she is probably stress eating cause of you.

  • chan chan

    She said the child was 280 pounds u doubt if she’s jealous it sound like she’s ashamed. I would be ashamed.

  • chan chan

    Explain how does one be a pleasing wife? https://media1.giphy.com/media/wMNK4IfeH86uQ/giphy.gif

  • chan chan

    She said she take her to go get her hair straightened because she has beautiful natural hair. Her not wanting to touch her hair doesn’t mean she will not do what it takes for her to look presentable.

  • chan chan

    Sound like he doesn’t enjoy spending time with his daughter.

  • chan chan

    Not really. He will be glad when she’s 18 so he can live his life in peace with his wife. You women be hoping for the worst but it never come into fruition.

  • Faux Gibbler

    Exactly. A mother knows her boundaries. Her kids is going to have a ratchet step momma like this if she has kids with that man.

  • Faux Gibbler

    Straightened isn’t natural but ok

  • Faux Gibbler

    One of these days you are going to deal with a ratchet like yourself when you have kids with this man. That man ain’t gonna last.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Politely ask him for my baby's $80 hairdo plus $80 for my time.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    That's Mz. Skeeza to you!

  • Truth7981

    Thanks for the heads up

  • Truth7981

    Ha..smh

  • Truth7981

    Oh that's why you're so upset

  • chan chan

    I don’t think she’s ratchet because she did say the girl get straight F’s when she with the mom and she makes the honor roll with her. She said the mom is killing her with food she’s 280 pounds and she’s 11 so she seem concerned about her health. She says the girl had beautiful natural hair and she like to go get the girl hair straightened to accentuate the beauty of her natural hair. It seem like the mom and the dad doesn’t take an interest in the child’s schooling and health and prefer to put an overweight child hair in braids so they don’t have to do anything to it for weeks. Actually the biological mom and dad is ratchet.

  • Truth7981

    Thank you Nae!

  • Truth7981

    Why would i be jealous of a child?

  • Truth7981

    Just talking to say something

  • Truth7981

    I am not back tracking not one statement

  • Truth7981

    Good question. Yes, I have children from a previous marriage and we share one child together. When I send my kids to my ex-husband's house his wife has the most contact with our kids. I usually send them in play clothes. If she is taking them out right after pick up she request me to send them in going out clothes. Not a problem! I bring up my situation to say this. My ex-husband also drops our kids with his wife too. Which I don't agree with neither. So when she reaches out I respect her because what she is asking is within reason.

  • Jeloi

    You had no right to take down her hair, you should have taken her back home to her mother, since you had such an issue with what her hair looked like. Who are you to tell mom, don't have her hair done. You overstepped, I don't care that you're married to her ex, and you keep the kids on the weekend. Why are you the babysitter? Why isn't he spending time with his kids? If they are coming over, shouldn't he spend time with his child/children?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I'm not crazy about the hairstyle at all, but I would never take it down. It's neat and age appropriate.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    ...and Be On Time!

  • Zeta Aggie

    By submitting to your husband and treating him with reverence. And also by not calling him at work and demanding he watch his kids and leave work if you don’t get to change a child’s hairstyle.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    Are you a bum every time you pay a guy to rub one off? Move around clown.

  • Truth7981

    Ha..i can't. Yeah you right it's probably me. I am sure at the end of the summer time when she's dropped weight because we have A membership TOGETHER its all my fault. Mind you she has stayed with us twice because teachers at the school reported her mother for neglect..my fault too! You sound rediculous

  • MNjumpoffacliff

    Tell him to run me my money get it done OVER and tell his honey she's just that NOT my child's Mother.

  • Wyonda White

    I thought all black women knew you do not mess with another womans little princess hair. End of story... I may neat up a pony tail or something but out right change a hairstyle. I dont want that kinda smoke. Its a child, its not that serious that I HAVE to change her hair. Even if its not my cup of tea its neat she looks cared for. I wouldn't make a fuss with the GF or wife. I would have to speak with the father about visitation and boundaries and kindly ask him to respect mine and I'd love to hear whats off limits for him because we clearly need some understanding going on...

  • Truth7981

    Chan- hate to say this about my husband but I agree with you. I treat her as my own. Like I tell my husband he is just as much to blame for this as his ex. She lied on my boys and on me to her mother numerous times. I told my husband moving forward unless he was here she couldn't stay extended amounts of time. Yeah, that was a big problem. But like I told him you need to be here taking care of her. She probably whining so much with me because she just plain old misses time with her dad. Hell, i am a stepmom and a mother I am on both sides. Y'all say what you want about me...can care less. I am a great stepmom. Arguing about hair regarding my stepdaughter is not even on my radar.

  • Wyonda White

    I hope your your intentions are good otherwise ma'am you should stop spending time with the child and ask the father to make arrangements that don't include you babysitting. If the mother was upset you did that you should apologize and don't do that again. An apology cost you nothing you never want to add to misunderstanding. I generally think the best policy is making sure everyone is comfortable and respected with blended family issues.

  • Phil Mccrackenzme

    Dad should pay the money back since he is the one that should've already had set guidelines in place for his girlfriend. He should also have her apologize to mom

  • chan chan

    Her husband helped her take the braids down once he realized he would have to call off and spend time with his own daughter. I am sure she has a job as well. Not speaking I’ll of her husband but let’s be honest he doesn’t have an interest in that child. I’m sure he sit and daydream about what life would be like if he didn’t make a mistake and procreated with a woman he had no intentions in marrying.

  • chan chan

    Generally when 2 people have moved on and remarried there is no beef and ppl can behave like adults. It’s the women who never moved on that act like fools.

  • LYRICS

    It wouldn't happen.....my crazy proceeds me? The mere thought of my actions strikes fear within ? they wouldn't test me b/c they'd KNOW.....

  • chan chan

    But of course u are the problem ? here it is u are encouraging a better relationship between daughter and father but u are the bad guy. Girl before my husband was my husband he wanted to date me. I told him i don’t date men who have a child. Well he convinced me it wouldn’t be a problem and about 3 months in his fat ugly baby momma was tripping. I said listen did u get a paternity test on the kid? He said no why? I said he doesn’t look like the mom and he look nothing like u. Long story short I basically confirmed his suspicion and he got the child paternity tested. Guess what??? The kid wasn’t his. We dropped that boy off to his mom and told her good bye. We were married 8 weeks after that great news. He said he prayed for a woman like me. ? These women know how to get beside themselves.

  • dblogged

    Word?

  • chan chan

    once again your comment is undefeated ?

  • chan chan

    I would’ve shot u. Who still fight?

  • Wyonda White

    Was leaving those braids in unreasonable? Clearly you knew that cost money and time leaving them in doesnt seem like an unreasonable deed.

  • Truth7981

    Ha Chan that's a trip! My husband and I broke up for 2yrs. During those two years my step kids still attended holidays at my parents house. Our kids were bonded. But yet i am a bad person. That's it! When we got back together HER MOM wanted her to come stay with us again. I said nope. I refused. My husband would put her all on me again. I have a special needs child of my own. I told him the only way i would agree to her staying with us as if the mom signed her rights over to me. Why? Her mom refused to give me her medical cards. I wanted to enroll her into counseling. Neither her mother nor father wanted me to. But these folks mad because i took her braids out. That's it!

  • Truth7981

    Yes i do! I don't ask much of her mom. Matter a fact when she was thrown out of her last apartment, i am the one who convinced my husband to put a deposit down on her new place. He wasn't worried about it. So damn the hair.

  • Truth7981

    Nope, my kids have a wonderful stepmother. I appreciate all she does for my boys. Again get your house straight

  • Truth7981

    Girl thanks for understanding. I appreciate it.

  • Truth7981

    Mrs. King, I don't fight. Not a good look, especially over a hairstyle. I would just call the laws. You would deal with an assault charge.

  • Truth7981

    Chan..everybody knows i hold in my car and back pocke. No worries

  • Jussjess25

    Really sandy? Girl there is bigger tea to be talking about

  • Truth7981

    Nope she overstepped allowing her 11yr old, 250lb daughter come out the house looking like that wondering why she is being tortured at school.

  • Truth7981

    So after all i said about her education, you still talking about her hair? My God..

  • Truth7981

    Boy, you used big words, complete waste. Would have been better sending an emoji

  • Truth7981

    Please come have drinks with me, Chan? We are kindred spirits!

  • Truth7981

    I can't...

  • 6ue$$imh8n

    Exactly!! Omg I don't even want to think about how I would react I scare myself lol

  • Calikush

    What would I do? It’s real simple.........imma beat the breaks off that bish, Cali style! The dumbass$$ daddy gon get it too! ?????

  • 6ue$$imh8n

    $80 for my time and another $80 not to whip your chicks ass lol

  • Ihatemoney

    I think the child’s scalp was hurting ?

  • chan chan

    Girl any day!!!!

  • chan chan

    They be trying triple team good people up in here. Gotta even out the playing field.

  • chan chan

    U did right. When I was a child my mom remarried and had to ban my step brother from ever coming over. He was a trouble maker and just refused to fit in. My stepfather did not argue with my mom ? he didn’t want to be bothered anyways. Oh yea come to find out years later my stepfather wasn’t his real father anyways!!!!!!!! Paternity fraud is another topic out here in these streets.

  • Kimberly King

    Chile. God ain’t done working on me.... or my hands. I wouldn’t want no chick touching my child’s hair. Periodt.

  • Eileen

    The father is a punk! That girlfriend of the moment had no business touching that girls hair. I would be very angry. The little girls hair was pretty .

  • Eileen

    The daddy was a punk...

  • Eileen

    I blame the punk a-- daddy

  • Eileen

    Like I said the daddy is a bonifide PUNK a--

  • Eileen

    I almost called you a b-tch who are you to determine your step childs hair style and once agian a punk a-- daddy is stepping back while your a-- takes the lead. You sound ghetto you want her hair downand straigtened thats not your descision honey!

  • Wyonda White

    Oh so I get it now the hair thing is just a passive aggressive way for you to show your disapproval of the mothers choices and behavior. I think your deeds are righteous but it doesn't seem like your heart is. Some women are smarter and better equipped to be mothers. Do you think its possible for you extend knowledge and resources to this woman rather than judge and ridicule. It takes a village, but its harder when the villagers are a$$holes to each other.
    .

  • HoneyHitchcock

    Daddy’s girlfriend has no business touching the child’s hair because she didn’t like it. She needs to learn her place and stay there. Just incase she doesn’t know or has forgotten, you my dear are the girlfriend. You touch nothing and nobody.

  • Faux Gibbler

    You’ll be in another relationship soon. This one won’t last.

  • Faux Gibbler

    My home is very straight b I tch. My kids don’t have step parents c u n t.

  • Faux Gibbler

    Nah. That poor child is over eating cause of this step mother.

  • Faux Gibbler

    Nope.
    Believe me when I say this: the HELL you inflict on this poor child will come back to you. Mark. My. Words.

  • Pebbles

    Who really believes that this is about hair? Stop overlooking the obvious, these women dislike one another.

    I got ? that once you peel the layers you’ll find that there are other issues going one. And that the baby daddy is all in the mix of this

    If there was “mutual respect” the conversation wouldn’t be needed and the little girl hair would’ve remained intact.

  • Truth7981

    You have your life

  • JustB

    If this were a true story...mom needs to get her money back with interest from dad...and then have the bigger conversation about his girlfriends place

  • Dowoop

    And you shouldn't! Let people see you for the lying, manipulative person you are.

  • Dowoop

    Chan Chan....i won't even waste my time with you.

  • chan chan

    Don’t

  • chan chan

    She said she lost weight when with her. And the school called child protective services on the biological mother. I believe u are wrong.

  • Tiff J

    Was the GF mad that she was left to babysit the kid while the dad went out somewhere for the night? Cause I can't imagine that the father was around and sat back while the GF took the time to take ALL those braids out and smooth all that hair into a ponytail. Seeing as how you only have the kid for a limited amount of time, that time would be better spent doing things/activities with the child instead of taking her hair out.

  • BEANTOWN BULLI

    Ass whooping point blank!!!

  • BeUtFullSoul

    Exactly! They knoweth NOT to Toucheth!

  • Karen Brady

    That looks not cute and quite painful. And this poor kid had to sit through that. No comment about the girlfriend.. not my business.

  • Trace da Ace

    the father should not have let that happen....girlfriend stepped out of her lane....damn I hate outta pocket chics......not your child..not your problem.

  • Mrs. King

    Obviously not ur punk azz

  • Mrs. King

    I sure can especially for mine. Cause she’ll keep doing it.

  • chan chan

    U can catch a hot one as well. Y’all jack ass black women gone learn.

  • nomika brown

    It was not the girlfriend place point blank period to take the little girl hair down if she likes it or does not like it no matter what she was out of line and the child's father should of stepped in he is sorry

  • fRAktal Reality

    Beautiful geometric AfRAkan-inspired hairstyle...fit for royalty.

    I perused a book featuring African gravity-defying MA'AThematical hairstyles and designs worn by indigenous females of different ethnic groups from regions throughout the Mother Continent. It was exhilarating to see Black women looking regal and feminine (a reminder of the ORIGINAL XX's of this Universe) in their authenticity and not in the image of derivative Caucasian women (a constant reminder of being conquered by white hegemony).

    Those who distance and shun any appearance of Black ethnicity due to their westernized thinking will not find this particular hairstyle appealing.

  • disqus_FW7pCIigCY

    I feel bad for the little girl..the girlfriend should have been more mature and thought about how the little girl scalp would feel after all of the combing braiding and tugging...your hair and scalp is very tender and sore after braiding so to take that kid hair down and brush and comb it again the next day was awful......the Girlfriend should be slapped..she doesn't care about that kid...she TOOK THOSE BRAIDS DOWN TO ANNOY THE MOTHER !!!

  • Passion

    My head hurt just looking at these tight braids, her scalp is too tender for all of that!

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  • ClaireHuxtable

    L0l!

  • Sushi

    I would be HOT....with him and her...Him and I would have words, I don't let anyone play in my hair, so to do it to my child would have a major issue with this....

  • Taj

    Do better

  • Taj

    Do better

  • Candance

    I would be mad at first. But run me back my 80 and I can get over it.

  • Star

    First off that cost $80? it appears she overpaid. Second, just ask the baby daddy to reimburse you and explain to his girlfriend that she doesn’t have the right to change your daughters hair without your permission boundaries have to be set. She is not wifey.

  • Parent

    First of all, my daughters father wife would not dare to cross this boundary. How dare she? We would have some words. Her father wouldn’t go for that anyway so.

  • Parent

    Yes that poor baby

  • Malificent

    It does come to fruition. I’ve seen it too many times. We all reap what we sow.

  • JENNYJONES1

    I'D CALL HER FATHER AND LET HIM KNOW WHAT A BlTCH ASS NUCCA HE WAS AND LET HIM KNOW THIS BETTER NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN OR HE AND HIS GF WOULD BE FEELING MY FOOT UP THEIR ASSES AND ON THEIR NECKS THEN TELL HIM TO CASH APP ME $210 TO REIMBURSE ME MY 1ST $80, $80 TO GET IT REDONE AND THE $50 FOR MY GAS & TIME. THAT GF IS TOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL B/C HE LET HER.........JENNY JONES!!!!

  • Dana Cristy

    Daddy's girlfriend would know better...I wish she would. Im not raising workers Im raising bosses who can be as "ethnic" as they wish. If she doesn't like it she should get HER hair done this way.

  • LYRICS

    RIGHT! My poor baby would end up an orphan, living with her granmomma! ??

  • LYRICS

    AMEN! Read from the "blk hair scripture" - Hair is strength ch. 2 vs 15: "If thou doeth thy son or daughter's hair, not of born blood, thou shall face stoning......" ???????????????

  • fRAktal Reality

    Braiding and twisting anti-gravity AfRAkan coils causes hair growth.

    You must think forces to truly understand the physiology and regenerative non-recessive genetics of autochthonous Blacks.

    Amalgamation introduced recessive genes that weakened the tight frequency-receptive AfRAkan coil causing it to weaken and collapse to gravity. Thus, increasing risk of thinning and shedding.

    AfRAkan coily/kinky/helix strands are magnetic and most superior hair texture on this planet and throughout this perpetual spiral- universe. The coil amplifies wave energy communications.

    Coil/wave/spiral = LIFE
    Limp/Linear/Flat = DEATH
    (Nature does not lie!)

    Many Blacks have amnesia and have forgotten how sun rays massage AfRAkan coils--which contain the secrets of space and time.

  • BeUtFullSoul

    LOL!!!!!

  • Sassie

    If some dumb ass chick was DUMB enough to take out my baby's hair that I paid for, she will 1) run me my $80 so I can get it redone and 2) get cursed all the way out.....I'd probably lay hands on her too...my attitude sucks.

  • Sassie

    And even if she WAS wifey, it's still not her place to dictate how MY child wears her hair!

  • Sassie

    For WHAT?

  • Mama Dee’s Wig Maker

    I would get the father all the way together for not telling his girlfriend to leave it alone. I'd mush the gf ass for gp. Also they both owe me $80 each...

  • Faux Gibbler

    Was a punk? You mean IS A PUNK?

  • Faux Gibbler

    How many times you gonna change your name? Truth to sucks? LOL

  • B.Loveitt

    Daddy get this piece of a woman together before TF I do. Oh you owe me a $100.

    Thanks Management...

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    Leave her hair alone, Stay in your lane!

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  • Ling

    ......they better pay my money back! She clearly does not know which lane she belongs. Man, the way I'd be fuming, and I'm a super nice person.

  • Ling

    The nerve of this bitch!!!!

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