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Carmelo Anthony denied reports that he was on vacation in the south of France with another woman - while his wife La La celebrated her 40th birthday with friends in NYC.

Paparazzi photos show the Oklahoma City Thunder star soaking up some sun with a curvaceous mystery woman on a yacht. The photos hit the blogs on Wednesday morning.

Carmelo, 35, tells TMZ Sports that the woman was actually vacationing with her husband and her family. He claimed he went along on the yacht as a friend while in Europe on a business trip.

As soon as the photos surfaced online, Carmelo caught a flight to New York to explain the photos to his wife in person.

Melo told TMZ the false reports are "affecting my family" - and he's calling for bloggers to save his marriage because, despite how bad it looks, he's innocent.

"All them bloggers that's trying to put that out there, that sh*t is not cool at all," Melo said.

"That's not cool at all. Let that family be they family, they married."

"The only reason I'm addressing this is because this is affecting my family now and you got me out here looking crazy. Usually I won't address this, but I had to address this."

"Can't let this one slide, because this sh*t ain't cool no more. Peace," he said.

The NY paparazzi, who normally greet La La every day with a polite "Good morning," said she was nowhere to be found on Wednesday.

That's not in her character to leave the paparazzi waiting. So a blogger reached out to her publicist to find out where she was.

La La's publicist did not respond to requests for a comment.

Photos by Revolver / BACKGRID, Skyler2018/BACKGRID

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    She doesn't need to respond. He already did.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I just love that no matter how much you forgive a ho3 nig/a, he will always humiliate you MORE. “They family they friend” Shut your big doofus @$s tf up!

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Carmello cheats. He had a baby on Lala. Lala has accepted it....but she won't leave. They are never photographed together anymore because he is never with her...and their marriage is basically over. What's new? Sandra...you gotta report on something that we don't already know.

  • Pamela

    Okay, whatever

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Auntie what you want lala to say? She just got done posting a long i love you ig post to him you want her to backtrack? ?????

  • SpiceGirl

    Well alright! insert eye roll

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Yeh he got busted pretty bad . If her husband there they doing the cuckold stuff

  • Gloria

    Yeah, my serial cheating ex boyfriend would always say the women he cheated on me with were just "friends" or he was mentoring them/doing business with them. FOH lyin azz nigguh.

  • Trace da Ace

    omg....I rolled my eyes so hard....my contact popped out and now I have a headache.....see yall next post...smdh

  • SpiceGirl

    Did you get find your contact??

  • http://realitytea.com Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    Look like she needs to get that butt sanded down for all of those ruffles and ridges.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Bro u got yourself lookin crazyyy..on one pic you are jive laying beside her ON the yacht! Not close, but not far enough for her to be another mans wife AND in his presence...NEGROOO PLEASE!

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Where is her husband? I mean that boat looks super empty. He could have passively addressed this by posting a pic of her, her husband and the other people on the boat.

    And is he really in the states? Because he looked like he was still over there (wherever he is) in the video he posted.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Poor la..he thinks she was born yesterday

  • Ni Ni

    How is it affecting his family if a LaLa already knows it was a family friend and her husband?

  • KarmaBackAround

    Chileeee its lies..he savin face

  • Let them eat cake

    looool

  • KarmaBackAround

    Exactlyyy! She wouldve known before us in the world right?!

  • Kimocha

    Well maybe he needs to start being seen more with her bc she be rocking solo too damn much to be a married woman... And also why be on a yacht with another married couple w/o your wife on her damn B-Day??... Whether it was a business trip or not, he shoulda had his wife there with him while he all laid out soaking up the sun on a yacht in France... What woman don't wanna be in France on they B-Day shopping?... And where is the husband of this mysterious woman at anyway??... All I smell is a bunch a lies, SMDH!!!

  • SpiceGirl

    So this "OTHER" women will be chiming in, in 5,4,3,2,1..........................

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Did you apologize for trying to break up his happy home Sandra?

  • Guest

    QTNA.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Soooo question for the blog. Are you ok with your significant other having friends of the opposite sex? Does the length of the friendship or the context of the friendship matter? Like are work colleagues ok? Can they go to lunch together every day alone? What say ye?!

  • Tiffany Blake

    Address the side baby Melo!!

  • Sha

    Right, why didn't she go with him in to France? I'm sure she rather had been there then BET awards.

  • Gloria

    Exactly!! Lala was in NYC frolicking with KimK. for her Bday. I'm sure she would have preferred getting dicked down by her husband in France instead.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I follow them on ig and the way kim was posting its almost as if lala calked her crying about this nigguh and kim was like lets do something fun for your bday. Lala is extra so i was like how cone this bday is low key af? Especially since yall just supposedly reconciled?

  • Notatall

    They call me a prude because I don't wear swimming suits.....I don't see the difference in a bras n panties vs. swimsuits- her butt is totally out! If she's married, another man should not have those types of visuals of your body.

  • KarmaBackAround

    That wench aint married thats his piece for the evening.. married women dont lay that close to men who arent theres

  • bemetoo

    Yea he ain’t say shit about that ... guess he let that one slide

  • Bonita

    And the mere fact that he caught a flight back home from the other side of the map to explain to explain himself in person, let's you know something is up. If it wasn't anything going on, you'd think a phone call would've been sufficient enough.

  • Tlowe89

    So where are the pictures of this woman with her husband on same yacht at the same time??? Oh yeah that’s right... there are none

  • KarmaBackAround

    He know he paying the ticket n absent..no need to address what obviously the mother has agreed to smh

  • Notatall

    That's really messed up!

  • Coy little wink

    Nope. People be lying nowadays errybody just friends and yet they are fukking...

  • Karen Brady

    yeah, same difference to me if it's a bikini.

  • Gamer?? Chick

    https://media2.giphy.com/media/UjIgLbgQIRgzK/giphy.gif

    What woman dresses like that if she is in the presence of her husband and his “friend”...

  • stav

    So her" husband" doesn't mind her wearing such a skimpy bathing suit in front of another man , that's not with his spouse?

  • GAPeach

    I have a couple male friends that I've had since childhood. Literally like 8-9 years old. Our parents were all friends, and we grew up more like family than anything. I've been married for years, and my husband isn't intimidated because he knows that's all it is Friendship. If you're not capable of just having a friendship with someone of the opposite sex, then that's more on you than anything. And before anybody @me, it's MY experience, and MY truth.

  • Karen Brady

    I work with a chick who refers to herself as our male co-worker's 'work wife' and he's her 'work husband'. They are TOO close and have been for many, many years and have inappropiate convos and I often think to myself that if his wife ever shows up here to punch said co-worker in her face I will gladly show her to her office. I think it's so disrespectful how she refers to herself and him and that couldn't/wouldn't be my man. And she is single might I add. And cute in the face and waist. (I got that from Sheneneh Jenkins)

  • Alextra Ballard

    “You got me out here looking crazy”...who is the “you” he’s referring tew?

  • Karen Brady

    THIS. I see it all the time at work.

  • bemetoo

    Where’s her husband and family melo?? Oh yea they weren’t invited... just like how lal wasn’t invited

  • Gloria

    Right. If wifey knows your on a "business trip", I'm sure yall facetiming and talking on the phone with each other. She should know who he was with already and If Lala knew what was up, why did he even need to address this and fly back home so urgently? My fuck boy senses are tingling......

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Ummm or you were laying there and she had her butt out I’m not convinced this was a friend then why your wife wasn’t with you there on HER birthday isssa Hell Nawl for me both of y’all need to cut da shit

  • Ne Ba

    Exactly !

  • osmenna

    I guess he has a type she favors LALA same complexion same hair.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Something ain't clean here regardless Melo ..... ya wife out here looking like theee local hexanbeast and hanging with one .... and yo azz in another damn country with a half dressed azz woman no other man insight ...... looks to me you got yo self out here looking crazy ...... you gave these bloggers da gasoline ..... and so did Lala with her Hexanbeast looks and associations ....... https://media2.giphy.com/media/pPhyAv5t9V8djyRFJH/giphy-downsized-medium.gif

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Do you think they are sexing? Lol.

    I ask because I actually know of situations like this. There is a couple in my office as well. White couple. A few years ago we all went out for drinks. She got wasted and was sticking her finger down his throat and shyt. They sit in each other's cars after work and talk for hours. I'm sure it started out platonic...

  • KarmaBackAround

    Me and my husband dont even play those types of games..we are finely tuned with each others crazy to know what boundaries not to cross..marriage is knowing ur partner, what makes them happy, mad, uncomfortable

  • Seldomseen

    Ok MelMel sure!

  • rayne215

    Girl, divorce him. the son will be fine

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I hear you. I also have a male friend that I have had since I was in my teens. But, I think context/timing matters. I understand having work colleagues, but I think boundaries need to be established and utilized. I think it's easy for adult relationships to transition from platonic to playing with the puss.

  • Seldomseen

    Lol

  • KarmaBackAround

    Period.. hes not a baby anymore..

  • Navybeans95

    Lmao....that fool said he was on a business trip...smh, that's what they all say...these people gotta know paps are camping out behind trees...just waiting....

  • Gloria

    Love this question because it is so easy for people to start an affair with their coworkers. Usually, you see your coworkers or spend more time with your coworkers than your spouse. Something as simple as being friendly and platonic can quickly turn into something more at the Holiday Christmas Party, post-work bars hangouts, etc.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    and he in da photos .... his wife strutting around looking like da local skeezz back in da states chile ..... these folks think we buy their shyt !!!!!!! https://media0.giphy.com/media/GpyS1lJXJYupG/giphy.gif

  • ShWa

    Produce some family pics since they were there and problem solved.....

  • Alextra Ballard

    This nugga str8 up line

  • KarmaBackAround

    N on her bday!! .. mfs aint shat!

  • Kimocha
  • Miss Thang

    I think the mystery woman is sexy, dimply bottom and all ?

  • Ni Ni

    Huh?

  • Kimberly King

    If she was vacay'n with her husband then why TF are you laid out next to the hoe while soaking up the sun ? Lies and more lies.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Love this question because it is so easy for people to start an affair with their coworkers.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Thanks. So what's your answer then? Lol. Can your s.o have work friends or nah?

    Something as simple as being friendly and platonic can quickly turn into something more at the Holiday Christmas Party, post-work bars hangouts, etc.
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    I said this below.

  • Listen2Me

    LaLa’s text to Melo:
    You lying MFer. You said you were in Europe for business, yet you have time to take your limp d*ck azz on a cruise with that wide azz b**. And on MY BIRTHDAY. Man F you Melo. We’re done. Blocks all calls.

    And this is what he comes back with.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Friends (female) just calling my hubby ... nawwwww ...... I don't even let (female) friends in my Kitchen when I'm cooking ..... we got da same friends ..... female speak to him she speaking to me periodt .....It's called boundaries ...... I didn't grow up like that .... My parents are thee same way .... Periodt and it worked ...

  • Bossy704

    Exactly. They were laid up all out in the open. To do this to your wife on her birthday there is no respect.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I don't even let (female) friends in my Kitchen when I'm cooking
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    Lol. This made me chuckle.

  • Solstice

    QTNA = Questions That Need Answers ?

  • Bonita

    Them wedding vows are going to be the death of y'all women who don't know your worth. I don't find anything honorable with staying in a marriage despite infidelity, abuse, etc., just so you can brag about how many years you stuck it out in spite of the hell you've been through. I don't find that respectable.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Tawkin bout friends with benefits....Chiiile they str8 fvcken ain’t no damn benefits...folks grown...yew ain gotta lie

  • Minx Mosaic

    Come on now Melly Mel. If a man is out on a yacht with someone's family and its totally innocent then his woman is going to know about it. If he decides not to tell his WIFE that clearly indicates that he didn't want her to know because he's cheating. If Carmelo was 100% innocent, there's no way he would be on TMZ proclaiming his innocence to the world. You wouldn't have to if your woman was already privy to this information. Innocent people don't do all of this, not behind a cheating scandal.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Hell yea...who wouldn’t on their burfday

  • Ghetto Real Name

    Sounds like it was a couples trip to me. That lady is there with her husband, but where is your date at Melo? Just because she isn't pictured does not mean that she's not there. Why are you on a yacht and your wife is having her birthday in New York City? https://media2.giphy.com/media/xT0xeuOy2Fcl9vDGiA/giphy-downsized-medium.gif

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I tell da ladies to sit at da bar while I fIx da dranks .... shid ..... my gals know ...... not coming in my Kitchen

  • iWasteTime

    All this is a hot mess.
    Now the baby momma has said something ...

  • Gloria

    I'm ok with him having work friends as long as boundaries are set. I think I'm lucky that he doesn't work with any females lol but any female friend of his has to be a friend of mine and its vice versa for him. We both have hung out with my ex together. No issues but it really goes back to establishing boundaries with one another and having trust. It works well for our relationship but I can see how it may be crossing the line for others (those who have a history of infidelity, I imagine).

  • Ghetto Real Name
  • Look@m3

    So he on a business retreat with a naked married woman? There was no one else on that boat thru them glasses.... https://media3.giphy.com/media/3osxYk9qClrQVXVfiw/giphy.gif

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    rofl lolololol !!!! Chile

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Minx Mosaic

    He's probably working out the negotiations with her as we speak to find a guy who will come forward to pretend he's her husband but she's probably saying, Hell no! You need to tell LaLa the truth.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    How you posting half of a story? What she say?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    and Lala looking like da local hoe stroll .... chile ...... They better find some fools chile https://media1.giphy.com/media/3ohzdEbpX0Q9hM2lvq/giphy.gif

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Black men don’t cheat! Offset and Melo said they tired of y’all bloggers blowing chit up ??????

  • morenYAHdelsur

    “a naked married woman”

    ????

  • iWasteTime

    My bad,
    She said " Niggas out here explaining how they're laid up on a boat with "another man's wife" BUT can't explain why they can't spend time with their daughter" #explainthat

  • Renee26

    Why was your ass laying on the deck with her then?? Her man wasn't in that shot... And if you were a guest you should've stayed close to the man who invited you and protected yourself from the implications.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    these cats don't represent black men for me ...... Hexanbeast (Bait) but chile ...... naw

  • WhoKnew

    The paps were wondering where Loosie Goosie was. That heifer was hiding under the covers criiine cuz her has-been cheating on her again. And she don't hardly look no where close to 40. Closer to 55. Hell, my 72 year old sister look younger than she does. She just don't have a surgically manufactured patootie.

  • Renee26

    LMAO well what's understood doesn't need to be explained. He's a wimp who's not allowed to take care of his responsibilities cause he was told not to by the wife (perhaps) he could just be a deadbeat

  • Blaque Mahogany

    So people are already "reporting" that the woman is not married. Carmelo, I hope you weren't stupid enough to put that blatant lie out here like that.

  • iWasteTime

    come up stairs !

  • Solstice
  • morenYAHdelsur

    Not by a long shot!

    Real men know what it is to honor and respect their wives.

    Not run to the media because he got caught dirty doggin LOL. A real
    man wouldn’t even be in this situation.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Lyin on the deck and starin at her

  • oshh16

    fwb actually, literally means they ph*ckin though.

  • Renee26

    Agreed

  • Vegas1989

    I'm in the Military and work in a all male field. So my husbands know my male friends/ VETS/co-worker and boss. We meet once a month and I invite my husband to our breakfast/lunch and he knows,...I told him that I don't got time for no jealous bull$h*t....We have been together for 11 years....So I gave up one Vet friend because he was feeling so type of way. I told him that I love you but I don't need you...Long story short we are still together and he know Vets/Co-Workers....

  • Trace da Ace

    girl...that mess was somewhere on this dirty ass carpet at work....luckily I keep a spare in my purse.....

  • Solstice

    Ooop ????!!! LMMFAO!!!!!

  • WhoKnew

    Yerp. Stay in your lane. And why is part of her body turned toward him? That's cuz he lion.

  • Queen B

    What type of woman wud wear a thong swimsuit around other men if she's with her husband. If there's other men around most women ain't walking around like that unless the niqqa she messing with is with her. Hell most husbands aint going for that mess. He go tell her to put some damn clothes on. But I need to see pics of the family and I need to know who the husband is

  • Alextra Ballard

    Whateva the case may be....Lala ain going nowhere.

  • Renee26

    Damn it Jenie why she gotta be a hoe cause she wore a club outfit and was hoe adjacent that night?? The dress wasn't hoeish lookin to me IJS

  • Renee26

    She didn't agree... She askin why he's not spending time with the child

  • Queen B

    Exactly!! I just posted that too

  • DroneRivers

    He said it's affecting his family. That means LaLa saw the pics and went in on his wide hipped ass.
    He got himself out here looking crazy laying up next to that woman in broad daylight with no family in sight. Where are her husband and kids? Why yall laid up so close to each other?

  • oshh16

    I understand folk you have known since childhood but like you said even with that there are boundaries.
    My first boyfriend as a teen, meaning first sexual experience and I are still cool at a distance. He is married and I don't even want the optics of disrespecting his wife. I know he still has love for me. I don't impose or infringe on his union all we do is check in with each other and text occasionally bout life.

  • Vegas1989

    Now I brought a one piece swimsuit and it was cute but it didn't fit me up top. So my husband picked out a 2 piece swim suit for me to wear around him. So I was like cool....But we aren't going to be around none of his male friends. We are just going to be chilling with strangers and I already know if someone look at me sideways he is going to Check them Boo.....LOL

  • Queen B

    Lol right ?

  • Look@m3

    Waiting for someone to answer because Im trying to understand sis...

  • WhoKnew

    If you're sexy and you know it and you ain't afraid to show it clap your hands...better yet clap those two gluteus maximus watermelons.

  • Applebootay

    And let's not act like married people don't cheat..?????

  • oshh16

    Don't invite trouble is what I say to that. Being cool at distances and cordial is about all i do with married men.

  • Alextra Ballard

    lol @ wide hipped asz

  • Renee26

    Kim is hanging with alll the troubled wives..Larsa, Cardi, Wendy, now LaLa.... They better get hip

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Exactly and set healthy boundaries ...... these folks ain't got no damn boundaries .... his wife hanging with biggest slut known to man .... he in a country laid ret next to w woman who's booty is jiggling .... chile ..... these folks don't af bout boundaries and ain't respecting em ........ a true union is nothing like this shyt here !!!

  • Look@m3

    Wide hips....lol

  • Bonita

    Something tells me that she's more concerned with the affect his cheating has on her image than the act itself. I think she's probably fine with his infidelity as long as he's discreet about it, and keeps it out the public eye.

  • Look@m3

    ...and no laptop in sight. What he learning??

  • DroneRivers

    Maaaan Oprah's hair. The luxurious, opulent bounce of it all!

  • Applebootay

    at this point it doesn't matter if she married or not...married people cheat too...

  • Look@m3

    Let me fix that..."ya wife out here looking like theee local hexanbeast *ON HER BIRTHDAY *and hanging with one....

    There carry on...lol

  • KarmaBackAround

    I jus saw that and sad because this the first she has spoke out..now its gettin GOODT

  • DroneRivers

    Maybe a wider camera shot would reveal the husband and kids off to the side on the yacht. Or maybe they were down on the lower deck eating. Right? Yall buy that? Lol

  • YellowSauce

    That is what happens folks .... once you cheat you don't get that innocent trusting love back .... everything you do is now under scrutiny if it looks shady even if it wasn't .............

  • Applebootay

    issa hashtag too?????

  • Alextra Ballard

    They can be the worst

  • Queen B

    My man has a zero tolerance for ANY male interaction or conversation. He's ok with my 1 male friend bc we've been friends since middle school and we don't hang out or talk on the phone unless the whole clique is together (my other 3 homegirls). We actually just fell out yesterday bc I had someone to inspect my roof yesterday to see if I had damaged. The company was working on my neighbor's roof and the owner and I spoke for less than 3 minutes as I was about to pull up to my house. I was in the house and the guy was on the ROOF. There was no interaction or long convo but my man got upset bc I didn't consult with him first ? Told me to lose his number and everything lol

  • Mo Laughz

    Can you plz tell me the definition of Hexanbeast? I wanna be in the loop..I don tried using my context clues on several occasions to no avail..

  • Solstice

    ? I’m going to wait with ya for this answer ? Knowing Sandra, she will tell us that the alleged affair was from a trusted source and she merely was informing her readers/Roses ???

  • Candie P

    Its so refreshing to see a real AZZ that looks sorta like mine. We've been too desensitized with those Bison built asses for too long.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Lol...Nope

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Aye don't market yaself as such wouldn't be called one shid .... or better yet stroll around town with da biggest hoe and look just like the hexanbeast .... Lala azz like women chile ..... I trully don't give AF either way just my opinion ..... https://media1.giphy.com/media/1iTnzFRFQwDpv3C8/giphy.gif

  • DroneRivers

    Are they reporting who the hell she is? Cuz she looked sorta familiar in that first post but it's not a completely clear shot of her face. But yeah, he's dumb if he told that lie as if it couldn't be verified. But we all already knew he was dumb cuz he rawdogged the side piece!

  • Applebootay

    ??????

  • Applebootay

    BRAVO!

  • Bree

    Carmelo is responding because his wife forgave him for cheating and making a baby on her. So she made a deal with him that states if I hear anything about you cheating on me again, I'm leaving you this time. Carmelo doesn't want to pay child and spousal support. It's cheaper to keep her. He's taking his cue from Kobe. Too bad D Wade messed up his life and the lives of his children listening to other people. He is stuck with GU.

  • DroneRivers

    Lol I don't either but I was just gonna try to help him out lol

  • Solstice

    IKR!!! Her hair is always bouncing and behaving! ?

  • Sha

    Ok, and I am Santa what would you like for Christmas this year?

  • Gloria

    Married people are the main ones who cheat.

  • Applebootay

    That's what I said...ni@@er where the receipts??

  • Gloria

    lmao

  • Renee26

    ? guilty by association... Well I hope she finds happiness somewhere (male or female)

  • DroneRivers

    Hoe adjacent! Lol

  • Renee26

    Ion respect NO parent who doesn't take care of their kids.... Karma will rear it's ugly head

  • Renee26

    ?

  • Look@m3

    Dang.....you just made me realize how hypocritical I am.......

    Issa no for him and a yes for me...

    Now Im going to go an pray about this to change my hypocritical ways! https://media1.giphy.com/media/J6ctgPvnDpDi0/giphy.gif

  • Blaque Mahogany

    One of the blogs claims to know who she is. She charges for gossip though and Idc enough about any of these celebs to pay a single penny for gossip.

  • Bree

    Yes!!! Oprah's hair always gives me life!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Birds of a feather do flock together

  • Applebootay

    The ? devil, girl the devil..his own domonic spirit .that's who got him out here looking crazy..???

  • Karen Brady

    !!!!

  • Karen Brady

    Right! Now that's an azz I can relate to. I like it!

  • Queen B

    Right lol its a difference if you're around complete strangers vs your husband's friends

  • DroneRivers

    Only a matter of time before she speaks up or someone outs her identity

  • OvertheMississippi

    ??????????
    “Let me catch your @ss one more time...!”

  • Christopher Gibson

    LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • DroneRivers

    LOL

  • Karen Brady

    lol. Nothing wrong here.

  • Karen Brady

    lol.. right.

  • Ni Ni

    Different Perspective: I'm single, but had several guy friends ( just friends) back in the day. Some of those guys liked me, but i didn't feel the same and they knew. On two different occassions, i had to find out these friends were married ( years later) because they didn't tell me. One had started coming on to me via text. I woke up one morning about 2 am to his wife texting that she seen he had been trying to come on to me. She knew i didnt want him, but she wanted to let me know he was married.

    I have another friend who got married. There was some chemistry there, we never acted on it and we hung out once or twice when he'd come home for dri,ll. But, i didnt feel comfortable hanging out with a married man even if we weren't doing anything sexual. I miss my friends, but that's over they're married now and i wouldn't like my dude hanging out with a female friend. We were in our 20s. I got an email from him last week, but i haven't responded.

  • OvertheMississippi

    SAY THAT! Been on both sides.

  • Karen Brady

    See, that's the mess I'm talking about.. sitting in the car and whatnot. When I first started working here I sure did think so. I at least thought they were in the past before I came on board. They always behind closed doors whispering, lunches, she shows him her nearly naked vac pics. It's too much. I know they are not sexing but theyr are too close for comfort and I've met his wife. She's not the one honey. Not the one to play with so I'm just laying back in the cut.....

  • Ni Ni

    Chile, you know I'm slow?

  • morenYAHdelsur

    I have that same reaction every time I hear Charlamagne say that ??

  • Look@m3

    Uhm I need that paparazzi camera. Do you realize that who ever took this shot had to have been zooming in from miles? Like they thought they were slick by going out into the middle of the ocean ....and maybe they didnt catcht he submarine as it rose from the ocean to catch that shot but they were not expecting this shot for sure. #Ineedthatcamera

  • Vonda K

    Side eyeing any man who would feel comfortable with his wife in thong swimming suit laying next to man on boat with his wife?

  • DroneRivers

    I don't mind friends as long as boundaries are set like Gloria and jenie said. There needs to be trust and respect on all sides or there's gonnabe a problem

  • Bree

    Honey, there would be no one more time! I don't play that mess over here. My husband is fully aware that I am not wrapped too tight. I don't play with him and I don't play with groupies! If my husband wants to step out, the door is open for him to do what he pleases, just like the courts are open for me to do as I please. I'll be ready to sign those papers!!

  • DroneRivers

    Yes! They stay catching Jay and Bey on vacation on a yacht out in the middle of who knows where! Man, I get me one of them cameras...one good shot would pay off all my student loan debt.

  • Gloria

    Similar to me. Seems like the majority of my male friends had a crush on me. Even co workers who I genuinely enjoy working with have expressed interests. Its sucks, especially when the friendship is something you really enjoy having with that person. Now you kinda have to walk on egg shells around them to make sure you are not unintentionally leading them on or sending mixed signals. I have about two to three male friends that I still talk to every now and then. Just to checkin, wish eachother a happy birthday, or whatever. Don't hang out with them like I use to and its not because I'm in a relationship but more so that I get tired of forming a bond with somebody, just to distance myself because they get caught up in their feelings. Not even trying to sound pretentious at all but its just annoying.

  • Look@m3
  • Bree

    Ha! Harpo, who dis woman!?

  • TheFlow

    its easy to see what was going on here. He was brought in to give that dude's wife some celebrity ex NBA player d!ck. That simple

  • Look@m3

    Thats all Im saying...this has truly inspired me to do more research on this because Im amazed and impressed. By the time they spotted this camerman far off they decided to jump up and go inside the boat. They probably in the Caddy now saying "what we gone do?"

  • Tee Tee

    The ?Main? One's

  • Bree

    Lala, just like the rest of the baller's wives and girlfriends sign up for stuff like this. It's almost like you have to settle in an industry where cookies and cream are easily available to a man and you have no say in what your spouse does. These men know the territory they are in. Why get married when you are going to live like a savage on the road? Is it worth the money you lose when your spouse leaves you? Is it worth your kids growing up in separate homes? And is it worth the possibility of hooking up with some low class groupie (ie. Virginia) who will stalk you and the girl you claim to love!? Women chase ballers all the time, some end up pregnant with an eighteen year meal plan. Nobody counts the cost anymore.

  • Psychic Lulu

    Oh, she turned 40? Oh baby, the wheels about to turn. ??

  • LeeSeeCee
  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Hexanbeast is my new slang for THOT!!!!!!! Use their lust for a come up !!!!!!!! Better known as da Jezabel etc!!!!!! Btyches dat give hexes with their whole ain't shyt being !!!! That's a hexanbeast!!! I got it from one of my favorite shows da Grimmmm lololol https://media0.giphy.com/media/ipMres2rT0DVpjixH7/giphy.gif

  • Renee26

    Sometimes... My bf is a huge hoe and silly too (still fuggin dude cause they cute)...but I'm more selective and date differently. Men call me prudish (little do they know lol)

    Despite who and what she does in the bedroom she's a good friend so I wouldn't dare not hang with her just cause we view sex and relationships differently.

  • Psychic Lulu

    Lol @wide hipped

  • Eileen

    He still used poor judgement he lacks so much critical thinking. I would feel some kinda way with a women lying next to my husband with her ass hanging out in front of him. it looks just nasty and this women knows it and so does her husband and where is her husband and chilluns she walk around with her butt hanging out like that in front of her kids? Shameful no other man should be seeing a married womens ass like that!
    Does carmelo with a small "c" have a d-mn brain? smh

  • Eileen

    True you forgive but rebuilding that Trust is a monster!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    right lol

  • Psychic Lulu

    ???

  • Eileen

    you mean...wide hips stop it lol

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Give it time .... I don't ever hang with hoes or refer to my friends as such !!!! Be careful

  • Eileen

    Like I said he lacks critical thinking!

  • Bree

    Amen to the truth.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Chiii ..my oldest is not mines but his mother disowned him the day I came n the picture he was 2..hes now 10.. i aint got no kick it or chill on a dead beat!

  • Eileen

    this clip is not cute with her mouth open like a red-lip horse! not cute at all.

  • Bree

    Your GIF though!!!

  • Wreckognize Game

    JLo would do this with ARod but Mark Anthony would NEVER. It depends on what kind of man you have in your corner.

  • Coffee1st

    That's how they roll in Hollywood and the upper echelons... for the most part.

  • Ni Ni

    Yep, you get it!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    D Wade doesn't have a prenup with Gabby???

  • Ni Ni

    ?

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Sandra said that when the pics were offered up today there were no other people seen in the camera roll... on a wide angled camera lens at that...Chile...

  • Neicey

    Sandra said from the pics she saw when choosing to buy one were pics of the whole boat and not a person in sight

  • KLove

    i asked my girl this...i actually asked whats the purpose of swimsuit coverups...she said she didnt wanna have her ass hanging out around a bunch of strange dudes when she got a man...its not appropriate

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Noosey paparazzi asses done messed up this mistress's week...shes probably on a frontier airlines flight right now crying all the way home...

  • Notatall

    Or maybe they all took a swim in the ocean.....Lol

  • GAPeach

    I totally agree with you. I ain't calling nobody mu work husband. I'm busy dealing with the one I got.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • MrsSpice1

    Sooooo idiot u rather be on a yacht with another mans family and wife with her whole cottage cheese buttock out vs being by yo OWN wife side on her birthday?!?? ?? u making yo self look stupif and bad and if u really wanted to save yo marriage them photos wouldnt exist bcuz u wouldve been photod with ya woman!!! Fool!!

  • Dowoop

    Yeah I see tons of celebs on group vacations with they asses hanging out.

  • Bashi22

    Wow he speaks like a teenager I I'm applauded by his speaking. Please don't @ me he's rich I would love to hear him in his business meeting speaking to investors in that same manner.

  • Bree

    I don't know, but GU isn't a good fit. She was never a good fit, not just "image" wise, but family wise. He did better working it out with his first wife. He let his peers get in his ear.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I agree totally with you...To this day I give her and him side-eye...

  • Dowoop

    C'mon now, he does follow it up with black boys cheat.

  • DroneRivers

    Welp there goes the benefit of the doubt lol

  • Lady_Elle

    So true!

  • Dowoop

    *kisses teeth* the whole world know why he not spending time with the daughter.

  • morenYAHdelsur

    LOL touché.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Melo and this chick has hooked up before. They both look to comfy basking in the sun. She’s laid byke with no worries,and he’s joining her. I only see two covers one for him and one for her. Where is the rest of the “family”

  • Gloria

    So I notice a lot of people were shading the woman for wearing a bikkini suit. I'm curious to know what do you guys where out on a yact w/ friends or to the beach? I always thought a swimsuit was an acceptable thing to wear.

  • Applebootay

    I thought the same thing...her and her "husband" are swingers then homeboy...

  • Applebootay

    Yeah, but the only thing missing in these photos is the "group" where they at? ?

  • Applebootay

    Not me, IDC about the bathing suit as much as there is NO ONE else around but them. Inna group setting ok, but laying alone with somebody's husband... not ok.

  • 2gr8ful

    Ok “ plausible” her family was elsewhere on the yacht. The biggest thing is why were you not celebrating with your wife??

  • Dowoop

    U gonna have to ask Melo that one. I was only referring to the butt cheeks outside part.

  • dontgetblocked

    Hmmm! 40 years old is a landmark birthday. She's considered a mature woman now. Not a spring chicken. And you are on a yacht with a fine, young, big booty woman. Okay, then! Let me see the pictures of her man and children.

  • Yup, I said it

    Carmelo is getting "old man torso." Oh yes that exist. That's when it spreads out and the waistline disappears. Its not fat its just all barrels out and the torso becomes a straight line. Its not just women's bodies that change with age.

  • Myopinion

    A blogger reached out to her publist...lol okay SR

  • Mo Laughz

    Aww thanks you're so thoughtful..you gave me a definition and a visual example! Ok I got it!

  • 2gr8ful

    She equates to a random chick that goes to a cookout and thinks its ok to be the only women outside with the men while the woman are inside preparing or talking...sorry not happening at my house smh

  • Meme

    Never disrespectful!?

  • J2PC

    Their are different types of swimsuits for women. Appropriate for somebody with children, around family, especially if they are older with serious scars from what look like a mixture of stretchmarks, fat & booty enhancing surgical scars would not be bootythongs.

    They make sarongs to go with women's bathing suits for reason. Cover or wrap up your bottom to become more appropriate at any given time.

    What have standards and respect for self and others look like: no married woman should be alone with another man having her full blown butt cheeks on full display. At the same time, a married man should also know what's appropriate and think about how his actions will be perceived to avoid causing issues, drama or disrespecting the other person in a relationship.

  • An Observation

    Carmelo is dim, insensitve and unaware. There is no way any considerate man who has cheated on his wife and remorseful about it would put himself in a situation that even came close to looking like cheating again. And I dont know who her husband is but having your ass out in front of another dude isnt a good look for them either.

  • AHardAct2Follow

    This is a subtle WORD.

  • J2PC

    I agree. Now, he has a need to backpaddle and explain himself (when a grown man & woman already know what is and is not appropriate). One of them could have easily walked away or moved elsewhere to avoid creating perception of wrongdoing.

    Now, eyebrows are raised and people are talking. Hard to undo that image. Good luck with his PR trying to unring that bell. ijs

  • J2PC

    Did you mean appalled...?

  • Solstice

    It’s ok love ?? Me too at times ?

  • Strappyheels

    This whole write up!!
    But the END!!
    KARPLUNK!!!

  • B.Loveitt

    Both of them look bad as in not good. He can't get a better looking side piece than that? She needs to get in touch with LaLa's surgeon ASAP.

  • Renee26

    Agreed

  • dru and neil

    This woman is laid up on this yacht with him with all her cakes out, but she’s just a “family friend.” Yeah right. If he respected his family he would not be laid up like that with a woman wearing a g string, since when is a g-string family friendly melo?!

  • Renee26

    Sad... It's extremely triflin on the females part. A woman who doesn't mother her children isn't to be trusted Periodt

  • Renee26

    Lol we've been friends since we were preteens... I'm not worried about reputation; actions prove themselves... She wears her hot pants with pride ?

  • dru and neil

    Thank you. Why is she laid out there with her entire ass on full display and they are trying to say this is a family affair. Please.

  • dru and neil

    He appears to be a colossal idiot, yes. Even if this is actually innocent, (and I don’t think it is) it’s the dumbest move he could have made.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I just turned 40 and you're on a yacht with some other woman/family?
    It's over Dude.

  • Well$$Well$$?

    Where's the husband though ??

  • Solstice
  • Rhyme and Reason

    Carmelo is like how Kobe was with his wife, until he finally decided he wanted to be married to Vanessa!

    If there were other people (not photographed, which tells a more scandalous story), or who might have left before the photo (s) were taken, Carmelo should have left her company!

    The woman is dressed for a private yacht, just not to be photographed with a famous NBA player with past marital infidelities!

    Carmelo could have been there for business, and was invited to the yacht, which is common in their circle!

    This woman may have called the paps, now she’s the “mystery woman!” Carmelo was dumb AF!

  • Mz_Opinionated

    ???

  • Solstice

    ????!!!

  • Prettybrowneyes

    Exactly. I'm celebrating my 40th this year up north and Mr. better be at home or at work while I'm gone if he's not with me. Tuh!

  • Mz_Opinionated

    This story is getting a lot of smoke...I don't even like Carmelo Anthony...never have. He seems arrogant.

  • Mark mcharm

    I saw other pictures of her she is thick

  • J2PC

    He already said it's because y'all got him look real crazy in front of his family (Lala) and that woman's with all these pics and comments. lol

  • Solstice

    No pen paper pencils phones iPads ???

  • Ghost

    ? ???...

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Or a marriage license?

  • Look@m3

    Chile not a one in sight...

  • Well$$Well$$?

    I agree. I mean if she was vacationing with her husband and their family why didn't the paps get a picture of her husband or her family????

  • dru and neil

    Well most husbands don’t work in any big booty hoes on their wife’s 40th birthday, I don’t know what’s wrong with this man.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    He’s always been chubby.

  • speakinmymind

    Ouch! ?? got the nerve to take someone to task over their speech (or lack thereof) and didn't know how to spell appalled. ???

  • speakinmymind

    Not Frontier!! ???

  • speakinmymind

    Not at all...and if this bird ass chick doesn't know that then I feel sorry for her children. They'll normalize this behavior and think it's acceptable. Children model what parents do not what they say.

  • ??Dotty??

    Its not the swimsuit . Its the fact, that all the pics circulating are of her and him. AND NOWHERE in sight is her "husband" so whats the real truth. IF your not with Lala just say it and both of ya move on. And usually, (atleast some of the old heads may agree) when your out on a beach with your husband at your side, then wear what you want, but when your around someone else that aint your man, wear a regular bottom. Your ass doesn't need to be on display. So unless the paps don't pop out with all the photos, we can only assume that Carmelo was out dong him while on business, and Lala, was out doing her celebrating her milestone birthday. People just gotta learn how to be fucking real. As old as these two are it seems they haven't learned that yet.

  • ??Dotty??

    Its not the swimsuit . Its the fact, that all the pics circulating are of her and him. AND NOWHERE in sight is her "husband" so whats the real truth. IF your not with Lala just say it and both of ya move on. And usually, (atleast some of the old heads may agree) when your out on a beach with your husband at your side, then wear what you want, but when your around someone else that aint your man, wear a regular bottom. Your ass doesn't need to be on display. So unless the paps don't pop out with all the photos, we can only assume that Carmelo was out dong him while on business, and Lala, was out doing her celebrating her milestone birthday. People just gotta learn how to be fucking real. As old as these two are it seems they haven't learned that yet.

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    Maaaaaaan u a millionaire. Eff whoever you want, Lala be aight.

  • Bashi22

    You get the drift APPALLED

  • B.Loveitt

    Might be thick but her thick ain't all that cute.

  • B.Loveitt

    Right...Right-Right!

  • Chapter29Chick

    if i was the lady on the yacht with family, i would have the decency to have a cover up peice "my mans ? only"

  • Bree

    Yes! GU isn't even nurturing, if D Wade was going to remarry, it should have been someone else. I liked Siovaughn for him. Her family did right by him. That's why his legacy is tarnished with that break baby. You can't win when you're dirty. GU was there for the PR. Of all the women, she was picked. I guess favor really isn't fair.

  • missmiami305

    A hit dog will always holler. The pics are self explanatory. You should have been with ya wife on her bday from the jump.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Can someone from Stephenson HIgh School in Stone Mountain post some yearbook pics of Lala Vasquez? I'm tryna see something.

  • Elevated Soul

    I'm guessing that them being apart on her birthday would indicate they are at the very least separated... Carmelo is one flabby dude with no body tone at all.The unknown woman is built like an ox.Too many damn dents.Lose some weight because that's ugleeeeeeeeeeee.

  • IAmLawlessBrooks

    Lmfao

  • SpiceGirl

    Lol...that's what's up. #BackUpPlan

  • SpiceGirl

    Your probably right too.....These Paparazzi's is crazy tho.....How you catching photos of folks on Yachts????

  • free

    she grew up in the ATL? i thought she was from new york.

  • free

    dead giveaway; especially since they are just getting back together.

  • Shawty

    Lucy...you got splaing to do!

  • Chocolate

    He really likes his women with long arms and a high butt/short waist, huh?

    This build just needs to stay slim, no surgery and play up being leggy ?
    ..anything else just looks silly..

    And I think this is another case of the wife being bi-sexual, 3somes, blurred boundaries, weird cheating rules.
    It’s on them ?????

  • Soon2BWife

    His wife should have been with him.

  • ALLMINE?

    Where she going?????

  • J2PC

    He was really trying to protect that woman. She's married...y'all putting her out there like that. It ain't cool. She is private and has a family. I have a family.

    Um, let's see how this thing continue to play out. Whatever the case, it didn't look right.

  • Shauna Matlock

    She went to Redan not Stephenson

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Gloria Allred

  • ALLMINE?

    Yooooooooo ?????

  • millz

    She was on trl for years with her old face and body...and she was on 107.9... we can’t post pictures on here anymore

  • Allihave2say

    There's a right way to do sin. -Sir Psycho William McCray.
    Now this woman should've been in a better swimsuit making the news. She has a short torso with a high, long and wide but. The thong does nothing from her from the back or the side. Very poorly fitting. Shows she doesn't have money and he ain't spent nun.

  • EyeEmJai

    I said that, too, once I heard him say he was on a business trip on Europe.

  • EyeEmJai

    Apparently,the papa were selective in photography lol.

  • EyeEmJai

    I am guessing because his business trip, or how he stated it business retreat, was scheduled on her bday. Granted, the yacht was not apart of the business trip. However, he had other scheduled work that happened to fall in her bday. To me, my question is why LaLa desired to be in NYC instead of Europe on her bday?

  • thighcandy

    Melo has himself out here looking crazy and unfortunately Lala too.