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Ciara's broken engagement to baby daddy Future Hendrix still weighs heavily on her mind. The recent Harvard graduate says she broke off her engagement to the promiscuous rapper after she realized it was best for their son, Future Zahir Wilburn.

The 33-year-old singer and the "Mask Off" rapper ended their engagement in 2014, just three months after welcoming their baby boy.

Ciara, who is now married to NFL quarterback Russell Wilson, told Red Table Talk host Jada Pinkett Smith her decision to end the relationship was influenced by her firstborn child, Future Zahir, 5, pictured with her and Russell, 30, at the 2019 Billboard Music Awards last month.

"When I was thinking about my son, I know what I want to feel. I know the kind of love that I want for us," she said.

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The "Goodies" hitmaker says she refused to stay in an unhealthy situation with Future, who fathered 5 children by as many women.

"The one thing I fear in life is really wasting my life. I really fear that 'cause you realize that time does not stop and it will be the worst scenario to stay in a situation that it’s just not healthy - it's not going to get any better," she told Jada. "I realized that I have to start making different decisions."

Ciara said she looked to her parents' marriage for inspiration: "I had to take a couple of times to figure it out, but my dad's love is what saved me in all my situations, because it would get to a point where I was like, 'My dad wouldn’t do this to my mom. This can't be love'," she shared. "I've always had the same goal of wanting to be loved a certain way, but I was just walking in the wrong direction."

The part-time singer and Seattle homemaker kissed a bunch of frogs before she met husband Russell, whom she married in 2016.

Ciara said no sparks flew the first time she met Russell. "It was different. I never had that feeling in my life. It was just like, it was calm. It's a different level of love."

Photos by Jeff Kravitz/FilmMagic, Robin Alam/Icon Sportswire via Getty Images

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    I like Ciara Wilson.. point blank... I want her and Russ to continue WINNING.

  • sunni_daze

    Here comes a Future dis track in 5...4....3...2...

  • CardiB’sAbs

    It took her getting knocked up and bringing a kid into the world for her to realize Future was toxic? Not the harem of women or boat load of bastards or drugs? Better late than never I guess. She still craves that man and Russell With his trying too hard ass doesn’t mind because he likes being in the spotlight too. At least she found a simp to use and take care of her and lil Future

  • luVn_liFe…

    good for Ciara.. I like them together I want them to make it and i hope Ci/russell have a few more babies!
    I get her situation.. been there. had my son sperm donor just wasnt going to cut it.. when I met my husband I wasnt immediately head over heels.. 12 years later we are still together and I truly adore him

  • luVn_liFe…

    Im sure she does still has a hankering for Future.. it'll pass she'll get over it. bad habits and addictions are a work in progress to break. when your in luv w/the wrong person;one does think the other luvs them as much as they do.. and "we'll make it and have a big happy fam with a white picket fence"
    it happens

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    Thugs, convicted felons and, dope boys are black women first option. Simps like like Russell Wilson are usely the forth option. The only reason why Russell Wilson is the second option in this case is becase he has money and good hair. FOR THE MOST PART

  • Sasha

    It's sad that there is so much negativity in your comment about her relationship. Having kids change you. That I understand. You're not just living for yourself anymore. She made the right decision and picked the best possible "simp" to grow with.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    She did a great job choosing that simp. That’s commendable. The truth is the truth whether negative or positive.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Maybe.

  • tintin

    CIARA CIARA CIARA .... at least 1 to 2 posts on this chick per day.
    STOP ALREADY!!

  • Gloria

    Nobody:.....
    Seriously, nobody: ......,,,,
    Ciara: I broke up with Futcha and I’m happy. See!!!!

    Ok. We get it, girl. Damn. I see what Futcha talking about. ?????

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ????

  • SJ

    LoL...you sound jealous...

  • CardiB’sAbs

    K.

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    When you want to bring a child in the world there are good qualities you are suppose to look for in a mate. Those good quality are not found in the men that have over 60% of black women single parents. The men that African American women are choosing to procreate with are the worst humans in the United States. Thugs, dope boys, convicted felons, and fucbois.

  • Gloria

    Is this from your personal experience or are you just generalizing for all black women?

  • Sasha

    LOL

  • Phillybruh

    I'm not sure a NFL quarterback who makes millions a year qualifies as a simp? And those that call him that are the simps and 4th options in their situations and to think Russell Wilson even sits at the same table as you.

  • Yardgirl

    Right!!! Shiiiid, say it louder for those in the back!!

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    As toxic of human beings dope boys and thugs are, black women still love them. When the few come to there sences, they are 3 kids in.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    What does salary, athleticism and sports acumen have to do with being a simp? Do you know what a simp is?

  • Sasha

    I'm happy for Ciara... PeriodT

  • luVn_liFe…

    me too I want them to make it

  • Phillybruh

    I do know what a simp is and you seem bothered by what I said? 4th option, or still on the bench which one are you?

  • hottlanta

    I just threw a chair at my boss when l saw the title. Enough of the Ciara overload. Cant take it any more.?????

  • Soda

    You should change your name to Ritz, you seem to be a salty cracker.

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    He had a beautiful blonde white girl. But, he decided to go after the pretty black girl that wouldn't have given him the time or day. The pretty black chick that happens to be the the dope boy left over. This nigga is a SIMP Captain Save A Hoe to the fullest. He go realize his mistake when she goes back to where her heart wants to be.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Well, it is a comment section on a public forum. And this comment appears to be a reply to mine so YOU seemed to be bothered by my initial statement. I was looking for insight into your statement but instead of staying on topic you’re trying to insult me. Pathetic.

  • DeJeri

    If you're going to troll, at least get your spelling and grammar together. LOL

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    OT: I’m headed to Boston for a few days, any suggestions?? #nomuseums

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    The only way for her to continue winning is for her to shut up about her past and current relationships including her marriage.
    The more people you allow into your personal life the messier it will be.

  • Phillybruh

    Russell Wilson could get any women he wants, white, black or other. Don't confuse trying to save a hoe with showing interest, dating, then marriage. Some men still do it and some women who are on that road are receptive to it.

  • luVn_liFe…

    I wouldnt call his Ex "pretty" def white and blonde
    she was facially challenged

  • EasyBreezy

    May we move on, Auntie? Please? Loved the continual shade throughout, though....

  • what?why

    or future left her for another woman.

  • jayhawkpride

    You mean the "beautiful blonde white girl" that slept with his teammate?

  • Phillybruh

    I did read your initial comment and I did pull the 4th option from it, I mean your whole comment reeked of jealousy anyway. So I wasn't really surprised you jumped under this, Asking me if I know what a simp is and then getting bothered by my response.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Yeah I have never understood why women especially black women have put themselves into situations where they have to struggle.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    It makes no sense.

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    Who cares about grammar on a blog? I'm not writing a PhD thesis for Cornell University. Me and my Nigerian neighbours in this part upper elite part of Cobb County GA laugh on how dumb African American males have become and you worrying about grammar.

  • ShelbyMoore

    Just by the pics alone you can tell which of these men C-Error was really in love with. She doesn't seem all that into Russell, but he's a good man and she knows that with him, she will look better because she always wanted to KarTrash type of press but wasn't able to get it on her own. Russell is the better option, even if she's not totally in love with him, she may feel that she can learn to love him that way one day.

    All that soft talking and whispering sickens my stomach. Shat sounds and looks so fake...like bish, you're not Janet. She seemed to have changed a lot after moving to Hollywood and becoming Kim's doormat.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I hope you're trolling with that comment. You just cant be serious with that. I hope not.

  • Topic Influencer

    He had a beautiful blonde white girl
    ^^^^^
    That whore is ugly and a borderline STALKER. And she cheated with his teammate. If she were a bad ass mayo I would give her some props but she so is NOT

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Because your comment is non sensical so I really wanted to know if you knew the words you were using. I just call bullsh!t when I see it and it seems to upset a certain type of people. I’m cool with that. ?????

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ?????

  • chan chan

    She need to stop talking about this man. I’m starting to think she’s obsessed with him.

  • SayWhatNow?

    I cant stand a fake soft talking person, I can't take that shit serious.

  • chan chan

    I seen her she was not beautiful she was a 4 at best. He divorced her because she was phucking a team mate. Now I will never understand why he chose a single mother but hey ?????

  • Phillybruh

    4th option just like I suspected. If my comment didn't make sense why not just pass it by.

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    All #FACTS Don't be mad a the light skin corn ball for pointing out the #FACTS. It's a hood fact that black women are the most single parents in the United States. The reason why they end up single parents is beacuse they have an unconditional love for thugs, convicted felons, fucbois and, dope boys.

  • chan chan

    Ouch ?? Damn!!! ?

  • SpillyNillie

    Ciara...girl...you's married now...leave Future in the Past.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Because engaging is fun to me and I like to argue.

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    nah let her shine... it doesnt bother me.. i actually celebrate the black love..

  • Phillybruh

    Me too...lol That's why I'm here...lol

  • Shamari123

    I’m happy for Ciara but I wish she’d just stop talking about Future and move on. She keeps entertaining all these conversations and comments about him. If I was Russell I’d be pissed my girl keeps her ex’s name in her mouth like that.

  • Gloria

    Lol I’m going to use that one

  • chan chan

    I keep telling these ppl the same thing no one cares about spelling on a blog.

  • SayWhatNow?

    Why not? Just curious.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    So if a man is a millionaire he should make sure not to fall in love with a woman who's a single mother?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    "The recent Harvard graduate says she broke off her engagement..."
    .....................
    So taking a certificate course over a 3-day weekend makes you a "Harvard graduate" now? OK.

  • chan chan

    A lot of women don’t get what you’re saying. I wish I would keep bringing up my ex in front of my husband!!! ??? that’s a big ass no no.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Russell doesn’t care he’s just glad to be on the scene.

  • Phillybruh
  • chan chan

    Exactly!!! Don’t pretend like u don’t understand because u do.

  • SpillyNillie

    But for real, what does it make you? Harvard certified?

  • chan chan

    As we can see single mothers are still attached to baby daddies. The opposite of love is indifference not hate. Single mothers are financial liabilities. A man is being a cuckhold raising another living man’s offspring. I can go on and on and on. People without kids should marry and procreate with each other. Less hassle.

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    Absolute NOT!!!! It makes me rejoice and reminds me of the excellent choice I made when chose thw German PAWG I'm been with since Cornell.

  • T865!

    The shade of that last picture ???

  • luVn_liFe…

    OR Has an ex that has ex's and kids

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Bye hexanbeast just bye .... Fraud ???

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I think they are suggesting that Ciara is still in love with Future but she settled for Russell because he's a better male role model for her son and he gives her a stable home life, but Ciara will be seeing Future behind Russ's back sooner or later.

  • Braxton P. Hartnabrig

    Yes!!!! Especially a single mother from a drug dealer who has ruined your community.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I've been making it a point not to argue with small-mindedness on here, so I decided not to even respond to Braxton's comment. But I'm glad you did. Well said.

  • WhoKnew

    Ciara need to stay seated at the red table, stop trying to sound like Michael Jackson when she talks and tell the troof talm bout her deddy would never treat her mother a certain way...Um, guh, did you forget your deddy cheated on your mama and that's why they are no longer together? Or how bout Fu Cha broke up with you? Guh, please. Get your lies straight.

    I do sincerely hope her marriage works out with Russ. He may get tired of the media hoeing and how she's trying to turn him into one.

  • chan chan

    He know what I was talking about he’s trying to gain single mother brownie points.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    It wasn't him .... I keep telling folks it wasn't... what you see is what you get with him ..
    But this hexanbeast got folks fooled but not my azz .....

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I'm starting to suspect more and more that you're a white troll who's just trying to stir the pot around here.

  • XoXo

    It’s an insult to any college graduate.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    But that's the point you can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
    It's obvious that Ciara has a thing for bad boys and Russ set himself up for failure by marrying Ciara.

  • Cocoa Rose

    And yet the divorce rate is 60%....

  • Phillybruh

    I don't know if this qualifies as settling, if she moved on to another mumble rapper then I would agree with you. But Russell Wilson is on a whole different level. I'm not sure she was the one that settled if you want to use that explanation.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    And if you want to keep your relationship in tact there are some things you need to keep to yourself.

  • iWasteTime

    le sigh

  • Coy little wink

    No sparks flew huh...tell me something I don't know ?

  • XoXo

    Rich people’s love is always going to be different...because of the money factor.

  • Beloved Jordan

    She loves the way he loves her but she is not in love with him...Everytime she is around him I can see it..it's so forced on her in..so question is how long can a marriage last when you are truly not in love with the person but respect that he's a good man and father would that be enough

  • GrambosTheHealer

    Serious question (for my own edification)...how can one be with someone they are not totally in love with and go through the motions for years on end? Wouldn't that get tiresome? I serious don't understand people that stay with someone because they are the better option and not totally be into them. Love waxes and wanes but I wouldn't be able to fake it that long...

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Not really. Many women (and men) grow and evolve over time. The type of person you're into when you're 23 might not be the same type of person you're into at 33.

  • Guest

    O.T- So Blac Chyna has a new show now. I don't like that she is on T.V fighting with her mama. I really hate reality t.v.

  • chan chan

    Ok.... people get married for the wrong reasons everyday B. The 60% divorce rate clearly show that. There is always that 40% that most likely married for the right reasons.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Rotfl
    Typical babymama
    Delusional as shit
    Bish stop lying on that child, future left your ass and he gave an interview and told us why. Now that wilson simp behind picked you off the floor you wanna rewrite history. If you cared about your son you wouldnt have had him with a serial bastard maker. Shut your fake ass up cierror

  • Nita Pie

    EXACTLY she love that hoodnut

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ??????????

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    She thinks i forgot how silly she wa acting for future? Wearing them dreadlocks smoking weed staying in the club with his ass. Now shes cosplaying as a victim. Dumb ass

  • Phillybruh

    Future did what Future does with women, because that's what men did with his mother so he continued the cycle of making women dependent upon him by giving them babies. However, this particular situation bothered him because Ciara had her own coin and wasn't dependent upon him in that way. And then she had the audacity to LEVEL ALL THE WAY UP right in front of his face and that messed with his ego to no end. Notice Ciara is the only one of his children's mothers that is married.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    So true. My good friend is a celebrity stylist (a real stylist with quite the clientele) and lives in LA. He told me that he’s learned that the secret to a long marriage in Hollywood is to do whatever you want to make you happy and to just not let your spouse/significant other find out. I almost fell out.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Oh girl byeeeeeeeee
    There is no leveling up when youre the 5th babymama, more like adjusting. She adjusted with soft russell. Get tf witcho excuses! IT WAS CLEAR FROM JUMP WHAT FUTURE WAS SO YOURE NOT ABOUT TO PAINT CIARA AS A NAIVE PRINCESS. Shes a hoodrat period and nothing russell soft ass does will ever change that. Just like nothing yall do will change the fact that yall randomly pop out babies for trashy men! Bye

  • Ni Ni

    so question is how long can a marriage last when you are truly not in love with the person
    ___________________
    People have done this since the beginning of time. Some people get married just because they had kids or get married to a person they didn't love because they didn't think there was another opportunity, financial stability...many other reasons.

  • Seldomseen

    Lol

  • Jazzy

    Wow! Did you have "doberman pincher juice" for breakfast this morning? Whatever happened between her and Future is, well, the past. She met Russell and he has loved her and her son. To me, that's awesome. I celebrate their love.

  • Junkanoo

    The problem is when youre in the spotlight but you don't have any exciting projects to promote you end up dredging up the past. Red Table talks gets personal but why does Russell need to hear Ciara constantly talking about her baby daddy in interviews it's been rehashed so much out of respect for her husband and marriage she should shut up about it already.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    That’s true. Arranged marriages as well.

  • missmiami305

    Her marriage must be in jeopardy because she is doing the most these days. CiCi seems to be bored with the life she so desperately wanted. She’s running her mouth too much.

  • Phillybruh

    Where did I paint her as naïve did he or did Future not ask her too marry him, so at some point he was into the idea of settling down with this one. Because she didn't need him, now he's back out here with hoes that need him and two more babies.

  • missmiami305

    IKR! I mean I think it’s disrespectful to your current spouse to be out here speaking on your ex-fiancé aka babydaddy at this point.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    So basically im right and you cant fake it so youre creating your own narative? Kinda like yall created the narative that somehow future still want cierror even tho he couldnt get away from her fast enough? Bye babymama. Idc what any of you ciara type of heaux have to say, youre trash and thats why you lay and procreate with trash. I said what i said and meant it. On a blog talking about “whatever happened is their business” bish irony thy name is you. Begone.

  • Gloria

    Even if what you are saying is true, their marriage has a high likelihood of withstanding the test of time jus because it is based on something more than just love. An example of this is arranged marriages.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree. If she stayed as single mother the rest of her life people would talk about her. Instead she married a rich, successful and famous man and people still talk about her.
    That's how life is. People will talk regardless, so you might as well just do your thing and live your life.

  • missmiami305

    Yup! I called that from the beginning. She loves the life Russell has afforded her. But, she isn’t in love with him. CiCi is actually bored ????. I think the marriage has about 2yrs left. It must be on its last leg because she is doing the absolute most.

  • http://www.mylifeinlame.com/?m=1 Kimberly

    Now, I can't agree with everything you said but you hit the nail on the head when you said it was clear from jump the kind of dude future was and she still chose to be with him and have a baby by him. I've been there before with that kinda man but got out without getting pregnant. They are smooth talkers and have you thinking they've changed. LOL!!!

  • CardiB’sAbs

    I agree.

  • missmiami305

    CiCi misses that community hood ?

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Future talks about her and her husband too. How come people don't want to criticize him for that... but every time she mentions him, she's wrong?

  • Phillybruh

    This is what personalities do, its in her job description.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    And her fellow trash babymamas behind her like this is a success story. Everything black and soanish women celebrate is dysfunctional af. Dude got hella kids cheated on all his babymamas beat a few and bishes still think he’s good enough to have babies. I resent tf outta that shit

  • NewNew

    Check out the freedom trail, go shopping on Newbury Street, visit Harvard Yard (across the river in Cambridge), stroll through the Boston Gardens/Boston Commons, check out the really old cemeteries, have a beer at Cheers, go to the waterfront and take a water taxi. Have fun!

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Lol but the trail of illegitimate children doesnt lie though! You didnt have s kid with him so as far as im concerned it didnt happen. Thats my issue with cierror like why coupdnt you smash and dash? Why did you try to make a whole life with this trashy mn? Even after people warned you not to and now that you got egg on your face your story is you left him for your son? Okay bad acting.

  • Topic Influencer

    As we can see single mothers are still attached to baby daddies
    ^^^^^
    Is there a study for this? Bc I left both of mine without a look the hell back. First one I was too young to commit to him AND the kid so I chose my baby. Second one is technically not a baby daddy, but an ex husband bc I married him. But I left his ass too, bc HE couldnt get HIS shit together. IJS.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    PREACH!!!
    Thank God we arent all delusional easy to impregnate idiots!

  • missmiami305
  • Topic Influencer

    She was a damn stalker. Had been doing whatever it was HE did since HS. He goes to NC State to play football. She went too. He transferred to Wisc...she did too. Like girl. find your own damn it identity

  • Ghost

    She did a WHOLE photo shoot at Harvard for Essence Magazine..had the Harvard Sweater and everything ??! It was her 3 day dream come true! ???.

  • MsSapphire9800

    DAMN....It's Ciara Hate Week....and it is crazy how people who only read and see these people on television and blogs can determine how much they love their spouse or mate. None of us have every been behind close doors with Ciara and Russell to say their love for each others is not real. Ciara made a decision not to follow his other children mothers and move on and she found a man who love her and accept her child...but still get all the negativity but female love Future who produce 1-2 children per year!!!

  • NewNew

    Beautiful where? That girl looked like a man. You don't have to like Ciara or Russell but a simp he is not. People are out here hating hard. I guess they must be doing something right.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Ummm ci I think some events she got wrong here if my memory serves me correctly they were broken up by the time she went into labor it was heavily rumored they were no longer together when she was still pregnant like right before she had the baby which is why folks claimed he wasn’t there for the birth. In any event her and future both need to stop talking about this the relationship BEEN over. Ain’t no way I would give my ex any satisfaction of knowing that he on mind in a interview you ask me about him I’ll get all M. Carey on ya and be like I don’t know him next question!

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Beckys are taught to do that-Find an athlete with potential to make it big and latch on for dear life. They’ll put up with cheating, abuse and break babies just to secure the bag.

  • Trace da Ace

    well good for her...now can she pleasssee stop talking about Future and their past relationship....please?

  • Phillybruh

    Ahh but she messed it all the way cheating and divorcing while still in his rookie contract

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Apparently, common sense aint so common.

  • http://realitytea.com Lady Chatterley’s Lover

    I am constantly impressed at the wide range of underlying knowledge you have about topics discussed on this blog. I am not adept on the interworking of blogs but wondering if "topic influencer" is a position in social media. Hopefully I do not offend with my clumsy question.

  • Coy little wink

    Its not real. Just say no to trash TV

  • Dr. P

    Judging from these angry ass comments, some of y'all need a hug, some dick, therapy and a life. Miserable AF.

  • NewNew

    Looks like some trolls have infiltrated this post. Get your block button fingers ready.

  • luVn_liFe…

    "topicinfluencer" is NOSY! perioDt :-)

  • NewNew

    For real

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I think a lot of the hateration is rooted in jealousy, plain and simple. There are a lot of people who would love to see her relationship with Russell fall apart... as if somehow it would make them feel better about their own unhappy lives. smh

  • http://www.mylifeinlame.com/?m=1 Kimberly

    Well you know she has to dress it up and make it real for us! LOL At least she got out though, a lot of women, like his other baby mama, would just stick it out with him. Smh

  • SpillyNillie

    Some good d*ck...fixed that for ya...

  • xxxgracious

    Omg Ciara plenty and I mean plenty of women have been humiliated by men. From my grandma to my mother even down to me. And guess what...we cried and then move tf on! Til this day and I never heard my grandmother even TALK about my grandfather. He died when my mom was 5 robbing a liquor store. That's all I know about that man. My mother was married to my dad for over 20 years he cheated and I saw her cry in her closet for a few weeks and then she cut off all her hair like Halle and married my stepdad. Me I was with my sons father since middle school. That man proposed to me played me while I was pregnant and had another girl pregnant who was due two months after me. Didnt tell me til my 3rd trimester. I cried for a while and got my ish together. My child wont hear a peep about his dad from me. I'll let him decide himself. Just STFU ALREADY!

  • Phillybruh

    Its almost like Russell was their break in case of emergency man and Ciara stole him...lol

  • Question Everything

    AMEN! Can all wonmen as a collective quit spawning seeds out of marriage by F-boys?

  • the guest

    Ciara said no sparks flew the first time she met Russell. "It was different. I never had that feeling in my life. It was just like, it was calm. It's a different level of love."

    """

    I've been saying from the beginning and on this blog and now Ciara has admitted it but she doesn't know how to be forthright with it. She married for security, not passion, and she LEARNED to love her husband.

    Classic Lady Chatterly's Lover paradox. She should have checked that book out of the Harvard Library. She's secure yet bored with her nice, unexciting, loving, wealthy husband but she's PASSIONATE about the alpha-male, emotionally unavailable, non-committed, beast in bed gardener.

    All of her interviews read like she's self-convincing she's happy. When she grows up, she'll accept what slick Future knows that she's not with Russell for passion and happiness, she's with Russell for safety and security which Future also knows is a wise grown woman choice.

  • Dr. P

    thank you lol, maybe that's the reason for the anger...bad dick...

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    At all. And you know whay that means right? More illigitimate children. They say why we dont attack future like we do ciara but 1st of all i hate him more than her but second what can we tell men if yall will still give them pucci and babies??? What can we say? I cant stand past but that didnt stop her and the other heaux from having his bastards

  • missmiami305

    Yoooo Russell always has this blank stare. Idk what it is about his eyes. But, something is stirring behind them.

  • MJF

    You a hammer? You hit that nail spot on! Perfectly said.

  • Question Everything

    You better PREACH!

  • chan chan

    Don’t cherry pick, I mentioned other things. That particular statement may not apply to u but I mentioned other important reasons why a single man without kids shouldn’t even consider a single mother and the same for a single woman without kids shouldn’t choose to marry a single father. I don’t need anyone personal history with baby daddies. I said what I said.

  • missmiami305
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  • xxxgracious

    ??? my son was watching that this morning calling me Mike Witkowski.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    You supposedly went to Cornell University, and yet you have trouble with spelling basic words? Nope. I don't believe you.

  • SpillyNillie

    Exactly

  • missmiami305

    Nah! She actually lucked up with Russell. Yet, she seems dead set on fugging it up.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Agreed! I was a Future music fan (still like his music) but he is a pig! Hell us fans knew be was a pig and a heavy womanizer. Why someone would stand in line to be the 4th? 5th? woman to procreate with him makes no sense.

  • The Art

    Ciara should continue to tell her story and inspire other females to make better choices for themselves and their children. I don't understand why people think she should keep her experience to herself.

  • Marlika

    I’m tired of this chic and her story?

  • MsSapphire9800

    I really do not understand...if she is asked a question during an interview and she respond...there is a problem. Who really knew Future prior to his relationship with Ciara except people from ATL and who listen to mixed tapes. But black women will put Ciara down but uplift Future.

  • Dr. P

    Me too.

  • Dr. P

    Yes he does

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Lawd! How did you make it through that betrayal?

  • xxxgracious

    I'm a black woman. We can make it through anything if were determined.

  • The Art

    Chasing those fleeting moments of "passion" is what led her to procreate with a dead beat who now has 5 baby mothers. Many of successful and happy marriages started off just as hers did. She chose what's important to her.

  • NewNew

    Maybe you should break the cycle and speak on your hurt. A therapist is good for that. I think we black folks think we're supposed to hold all of our feelings inside and that's not healthy. If Ciara wants to talk about her own life experiences then that's her right.

    I'm sorry to hear that the women in your family have experienced so much hurt behind men. None of what I said before was shade, i truly believe in acknowledging ones feelings and speaking ones truth. I wish you and yours nothing but the best.

  • missmiami305

    Ain’t that the truth??

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Maybe Ciara has changed for the better...coming from a household with two parents does make you more determined to have a husband. It also may drive you to have a lil streak with bad boys because its so opposite of what you saw in a loving household growing up...I dont agree with the whole Russell loves her more than she loves him or that Russell is soft because he wasn't on the corner selling dope and lean our people...I do believe at when a woman comes from a certain back round and is raised by a mom and dad then strays to the "bad boy" type it takes alot to go back to normalcy and meet a good man....I applaud her for breaking the bad boy cycle of men and finding one who is handsome and treats her like she's supposed to be treated...

  • MsSapphire9800

    A white women who slept with his team mates...and for the record he was divorce and living single when he met Ciara. Also why is it a problem that he chose a woman with a child...so every single mother should stay single or lower their standard.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Exactly...Passion and lust is an so temporary...whats so wrong with being with a good man??? I dont get why people are so mad on this post...

  • missmiami305

    Lawd too bad a lot of y’all commenters are blocked and I can’t read ya font????? https://media3.giphy.com/media/I4Jmrcjnr8Zfq/giphy-downsized-medium.gif

  • Yui

    That last pic always creeps me out. ?

  • Phillybruh

    Because they still with they Futures and ain't doing nothing about it.

  • LLC

    NewNew, couldn't have said it better myself. Therapy, therapy, therapy...that whole timeline is a generational pattern of male destruction.

  • sandi

    I agree. Move on. You have a career, no doubt a home to "live" for, beautiful children, a husband that is making bank and seems to love you. None of us knows what goes on behind close doors, but at some point, you have to make your own happiness. Wilson or Future with umpteen children. I'm riding with the man with no unnecessary drama and trying to make sure he doesn't get CT with all those hits. Too much to look forward to - to be looking back. Girl, don't turn into a lump of salt!

  • LLC

    *claps

  • missmiami305

    Not this black Woman. Future is trash and so is CiCi. It shows even tho she tries to conceal it. Calling out CiCi doesn’t equate to supporting Future and his dirty ? ass?????

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I applaud your candor...maybe she's just speaking to women and giving them hope that there is another side to the hurt and pain...Men are the ones at fault here not women!!! If you get hurt your pain and speaking out will help the next women recognize the signs...the goal of this is to inspire and tell people there is love on the other side...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Some women are so brainwashed with being mistreated they dont even realize they are their worst enemies...

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Perfectly Stated. That should have been the discussion at the Red Table. Marry for love or Security? Because rarely do you get both. I think she is NOT in love with her husband but she's in love with the way he loves her, the way he protects and care for her and his family, But future is her drug of choice and Russell is her rehab. I get she wants to tell her story but honey you should be telling the world how much you love your husband and quit giving this man who did you wrong light to shine. I bet he brags about how much he had her wide open every time she talks about him. You are married now move on! I can't imagine how her husband feels talking about this man on a public platform and saying she felt nothing for him at first in the same discussion has to be humiliating to some degree.

  • missmiami305

    ???????????????? love the biblical reference. You ain’t never lied. Keep ya eye on the prize.

  • missmiami305

    All facts????????????

  • Phillybruh

    Marriage is both of those things.

  • Topic Influencer

    Aint nobody cherry picking shit. You said what, and you did "mention other things", but you ALSO MADE A WHOLE BUNCH OF GENERALIZATIONS. Not everyone story is the damn it SAME was my POINT. Im with LeBrick. Im starting to think YOUR ass is the Op as well.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    It makes me so upset literally to see so many angry women on this post...I know I talk my shit but damn...being ignored is not normal, leaving you on read for days is not normal, him hitting your or belittling you is not normal, him cheating is not normal...how are we supposed to get better as a race when our men treat us like shit and we just agree with it because its expected....Is there even hope with our future generations when this pattern of sex and baby making wont stop...its sad as hell smh...

  • xxxgracious

    Dont get me wrong everyone I get it. Speaking on it helps but c'mon yall SHE IS BLESSED BEYOND MEASURE! Talk about your new life you already dwelled on future. That's all I'm saying.

  • Topic Influencer

    EXTRA Nosey!!!

  • Parent

    Damn how many times do we have to hear about this failed relationship. We all been there. Get over it.

  • NewNew

    Some people aare going hard in here, like Ciara's relationship is personal to them or something. She was reviled for getting with Future and she's reviled now for knowing better, doing better and moving on. This is why we must live for ourselves, because people will hate regardless.

  • The Art

    That can also be interpreted as anyone can do anything to black women because they're strong and can take it, which is a horrible way to live. Making it through it is definitely a great thing, but who's there to save the black woman and make them feel safe? They deserve that. And I think that recognizing patterns, stopping, preventing, and demanding more is where it's at. Speaking about these things is the only way to educate young daughters how to raise the standard and be respected as a human being with feelings and emotions who should not be expected to just take it and make it through.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I agree NewNew...Its like Ciara got out of that crab in a barrel mentality and people just wont let her speak her truth!! Damn like can she live and just be an example to other women who are in horrible relationships there is love out there for all of us...

  • missmiami305

    Me too

  • NewNew

    I understand that. I think it's tough because she's a public figure and interviewers ask about it. this is why I would rather be rich than famous. You have to be in the public eye to remain relevant but it definitely comes back to bite.

  • Phillybruh

    But some chick with low self esteem who feels she deserves what ever this man is giving her, is hearing this story and decides to make some changes. Her Russell Wilson may not be a baller but she is open to being treated better than what she's been receiving because she heard this word, regardless of who the messenger is.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Future is Mad Dog 20/20 and Russell is Glenlivet Aged 50 Years Single Malt Scotch...there is no competition or settling when the winning hand is bigger...

  • The Art

    Sounds like she knew the baby's gender and made the decision sometime after conception, which is aligned with the timeline. At any rate, if more parents thought about the emotional welfare of their unborn and living children, our streets would be safer and homes would be happier.

  • xxxgracious

    That's true but what I'm implying is she's spoke on it before. You can Google on sandrose archives how many times she spoke on this. Is this how she wants to be remembered as....future hurt baby mama. You were number 4 how about the others. I'm sure they didnt have opportunities like Ciara has. That's my point.

  • xxxgracious

    Exactly its because shes a public figure but it's okay to decline those questions. Theres plenty of women who talk about these issues. Ciara likes to do the woe is me and it's like I know your way better than this. She is talented she can dance her ass off just stop talking about future. We all now know he is trash. Lol

  • xxxgracious

    It is but I'm not one for therapy. Now for those of you out here I did not say dont go but as for me no...therapy isnt for me. I believe in first and foremost God and then I'm into chakras and yoga and meditation. That only applies for me no one else. I agree and have seen therapy do wonders.

  • NewNew

    I agree. We ARE strong but it's a trope that shouldn't be perpetuated the way that it has been. Sure, men don't have to stick around for their families because black women are strong and can handle it all on their own, right? Meanwhile other women are coddled, revered and protected. I am proud of the black men I know who recognize that they must be strong for their strong women.

  • JennyJazzhands

    Is anyone going to post anything she said about her career? Did she say anything about her career? I'm a music fan not a relationship fan.

  • reddfoxxy16

    ????????????????...SAY THAT..

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I just explained it.
    She's 'settling' because she still wants a bad boy, but she's following what society is telling her to do--settle down with a good stable man and have a nice quiet domestic life.
    You could say that Russ settled too because instead of having a nice quiet life he's always going to have to look over his shoulder because Future will always be Ciara's babydaddy.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Well in my almost 50 years I have learned that woman are illogical 99% of the time so we will agree to disagree.

  • hottlanta

    Sick of black women making her the spokeswoman for the new phrase now called black women struggle love. A lot of us dont do struggle love. Either u or here or u r not k keep it moving. Gotta give future his props he is keeping it moving while Russell is paying for all of this overblown ciara exposure to make him look good future look bad. Women break up with men everyday n get a better man what makes her so special. First we hardly saw her n boom she is all over the place. Ciara take a cue from wendy. Marriage or a man is not to be worshipped. You are wife number 2 with Russell just like u was baby mama number 5 with future. You always come behind another woman in your men life you are never the first one there in his life.

  • The Art

    The difference is, once she realized he wasn't going to change she came to her senses and got the fcuk outta dodge. Unlike other perpetual baby mothers who would've been fighting and mad at the other women and still trying to sleep with him and have more of his kids just to spite the thots. That's why people are mad. She's not subscribing to the cultural Love & HipHop relationship that y'all are used to seeing and being in. No shade.

  • Yup, I said it

    Ciara needs to say it louder for the folks in the back. The whole "sparks" thing is over rated. A man that want to dyck you down and have you strung out as another notch on his belt will give you the sparks, the passion and fire. The man that wants your heart and to love and care for you will not give you sparks at first because seduction is not his goal. If you make him giddy like a 12 yr old boy, all he wants to do is love, protect, and provide for you. He will be trying to show you his W2's and financial portfolio, not his peen. A true twin flame relationship is more like a smoldering fire, rather than sparks flying like getting your car batteries jumped. Smoldering fires can smolder for days without anyone's knowing, then burst into a flames.

  • xxxgracious

    It's extremely said and that's why I'm thankful for sites like sandra. Its nice to come on here and read others opinions. It's okay not to agree but to understand where the other person is coming from. Forgive me if I came off as angry I honestly just finished running two miles on the treadmill. And I'm like damn she still harping on future. Honestly she sounds like aiesha to me. You have something great right before your eyes and your always talking about the one who hurt you.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    I don't believe she broke the cycle. Russell just happen to be there to pick her up where Future dropped her off. She had a kid so the game changed for her at that point and I'm sure she probably thought hey its not what I'm use too or what I want but he's here and he's willing to take care of me and make an honest woman out of me when no one else wanted too in the past. Had he not came around she would have either went back to future or been running behind the next fool who didn't want her because that's what she likes unavailable men. idc what nobody say she not sharing her story because she wants to inspire others, she talks about him because she still has feelings and she can't shake it, she is bored to death! She is not the first nor the last woman to do this. But she going lose that good man if she don't shut up about the ex and concentrate on her husband that's who she should be talking about every chance she gets. I can't believe she just told the world she felt nothing for her husband but couldn't get enough of her ex. smdh

  • NewNew

    Off topic: Kevin Hart does look like one of those seagulls, doesn't he PhillyBruh? You made me laugh on that one.

  • xxxgracious

    My dad did my mom wrong but that never changed how I felt about him. He is an excellent grandfather to my son and my father learned from his mistake. He wants better for me and encourages me to date better. It's important to have Male figures around.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I stopped at the difference is. There is np difference. Thanks for playing pooh

  • reddfoxxy16

    Um..D*CK IS NEVER THE ANSWER...THERAPY & A LIFE..?????????????????????????????

  • KcoolMuziq

    Ciara said she had longevity....

    Jada was visibly shocked when Ciara revealed their ages. Ciara & Russell look older than their youthful ages.

    #TEAMJADA

  • reddfoxxy16

    You're RIGHT... & IT'S A SHAME..SMH..?

  • Applebootay

    But for how long tho? asking for a friend....

  • doriday

    Future and Ciara have moved on with their lives. It's Clara and Russell from now on and years to come. Kudos to Ci Ci.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I agree to a point...I think she does need to stop speaking about him but how can a lesson be learned by others without being told??? How can a person be successful without a pitfall??? Some of the most courageous black women I know have walked thru the fire and came out clean...their stories of hurt and triumph inspired me to want to do better and teach my students (when I worked at a school) that speaking on your personal life helps others if it applies to the situation...its a story that has to be told...

  • NewNew

    That we can agree on. It is important to have good male figures around. My father isn't one but my husband is, Thank God.

  • doriday

    So glad that she realized early that it was time to move on. She did well.

  • Applebootay

    Misery loves company.

  • The Art

    LOL, for as long as there's someone out there willing or in need of hearing it . I personally think that history and personal experiences play a huge role in life.

  • xxxgracious

    And that's all I'm saying. You have an outstanding Male figure in Russell. Future has two fathers he can look up too
    Let's focus on that and not how future hurt you 5 years ago. I know it still hurts but she is really blessed. God doesnt want us focusing on our past. He wants to see his children prosper and break through trails and tribulations. If that's her story who am I to knock it but I'm entitled to leave a comment on how I feel on the subject. Most wont agree but hey that's me baby lol.

  • Dollface

    She should've just shut up and her publicist should've said "no future questions." The shear headline for this article made me cringe. There is no reason for her to publicly still be talking about or having talking points about a man that's so far gone in her past. She's married with a whole new baby. If I'm not mistaken she's going through some custody stuff with him now. Evermore reason she should shut up already.

  • The Art

    I'm sure you did because ignorance is bliss. I hope you're playing a better hand in real life.

  • NewNew

    Hey like i said, speak YOUR truth. That's what the blog is for. Glad to have a respectful discussion with you on this topic whether we completely agree or not. ?

  • the guest

    Ideally.

    It should be but historically women have had to choose between security and passion. Who knows why Alpha men are typically brilliant sexual partners but not typically faithful and stable.

  • the guest

    But future is her drug of choice and Russell is her rehab.

    ****
    EXACTLY.

  • Dollface

    I just thought about it. She used to also be with 50. She need to quit playing and pretending she in love with Russell. Thinking back on it more, I remember when everybody used to say she was a man. In saying that she ain't never been no prize in the industry anyway. She should consider herself lucky to have Russell.

  • Junkanoo

    I don't understand doing interviews if you aren't promoting a project she's a musican so that's what she primarily should be speaking about not her messy past relationships especially since she married now .I think she thinks she's a role model on how to get over but can't produce a banging album packed with hits.

  • KcoolMuziq

    U can tell that FUTURE(whom said Ciara asked to pray with him after they had HOT sex),Shad Moss,Amar'e Stoudemire, & Fifty Cent blew her back out daily.

    But now like U said she's settled for security.

  • Phillybruh

    lol

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Yall are taking this too far into context... she said it was different and she didn't feel a connection (passion and fireworks) which is what women are programmed to think...She did break the cycle because she is married in a loving relationship with a man who adores her...she's not sitting on the phone with Future begging him to text her back...Just because nothing was popping for her down the pipeline doesn't mean she was "dropped off"...Stop thinking of women as accessories to men we aren't dropped or less than when a fool and serial philanderer doesn't see the good or god in you...we are people too and we are the creators...and honestly for all we know Russell seems like a secure man and secure men encourage their women to speak not tell them to shut up...Yall are programmed wrong...

  • The Art

    She sounds like she's following her mom and dad's example. She said she wanted to experience the type of love that they have. I know that doesn't fit the sensational narrative that a lot of people want to subscribe to 24/7. But, life is not a scripted VH1 reality show series.

  • Yardgirl

    I am very biased with my opinion of Boston because it is the most racist city in New England. According to my white co-workers they love it, me not so much. I feel the underline hatred when I have to visit there for business. Too many instances of subtle and not so subtle things that happened around me. If you are by yourself, just keep your third eye open. Sorry to be a debbie downer but it is coming from a place of "looking out for a sista" Peace and love!

  • B.Loveitt

    Who cares both of 'em were dumb. Even when this man-child of in his corner quite she takes a swing at 'em. She's happily married, in total bliss. He shouldn't even be a topic. Seems like somebody else needs to move on. Like so many other BM's who've moved on...why are you still talking about the last one while being so happy with the new one.

  • NewNew

    Her mother is crazy. Have you seen her 'Lives'? Reality tv scenarios are fake but their toxic dynamic is all too real. I can't watch her show, it'll be too shameful. Plus I don't like reality tv anyway.

  • reddfoxxy16

    Some of these comments...WHOA..LOL!

  • chan chan

    What I said wasn’t a generalization it’s the truth. People are triggered by truth. Besides Russell Wilson most men aren’t marrying single mothers in the black community. These men in 2019 aren’t interested in cuckholding and take on financial stress to raise another man’s kid. Yes they will girlfriend single mothers to death and screw them in more ways than 1 but they aren’t marrying single mothers like that. The average black woman has 3 kids multiple baby daddies. A smart man will not marry that.

  • MsSapphire9800

    How can Jada look shock when she and her mother had surgery..and her daughter was looking and acting older than hers...Ciara and Russell does not look older than their age...33 & 30.

  • Applebootay

    i don't disagree, but at the same time allow me to be sick of hearing it. I can be sick and tired of hearing the same sad azz broken record....WE KNOW ALREADY...now tell us how you secured the bag.....the keys to maintaining a healthy relationship, how to compromise, how to keep the spark alive...she still hasn't revealed that prayer. I guess I'm different...

  • Coy little wink

    She is definitely a character

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I agree and I wish I could be right with you to run that two miles LOL (lord knows I need too)...I understand I know if I had a great man like Russell I would shut my trap too but I think she's coming from a good place and trying to help women who are suffering with no good men get there too...we have to lead our younger black women to the right kind of love even if we will never get there ourselves...

  • MsSapphire9800

    Because Jada is trying to keep those ratings up from with Jordyn...Just because it is Jada don't think it is not messy.

  • B.Loveitt

    Quite as it's kept...true. I look at Russell sideways like really? But it happens. My relative in the NFL did the same, some of his teammates said "No you don't give that kind your last name." He did...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Nah we've talked before and you've said you were hurt by women.... for you to say illogical when We are the most educated and earn a higher income then black men period...when single moms (75%) literally hold down their households without black men....I understand you have been programmed to think you are superior because you have a dyck but in all honestly men should be ashamed of their character and how they think period...your experiences with women have scorned you and I know that but please do not spit that rhetoric when we are literally coming for yall azzes (men) moneywise and education wise...

  • free

    Ciara said no sparks flew the first time she met Russell. "It was different. I never had that feeling in my life. It was just like, it was calm. It's a different level of love."
    ****************************************************
    SR, tsk tsk!!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Huh?
    1) Illogical in believing that bedding a man and having his child will make him love you, marry you or stay with you long term.
    2) Illogical in believing that your puzzy is better than his other five baby mamas' and that he will treat you differently.
    Illogical in 75% of women holding down households by themselves because they thought that 1 and/or 2 didn't apply to them.
    Have a good day.

  • free

    all jada wants to hear about is the sex.

  • MsSapphire9800

    Are you a relationship expert or a marriage counselor...because you are all over this blog....Or should I ask...DO YOU KNOW RUSSELL AND CIARA PERSONALLY????

  • the guest

    It's even deeper than that because Ciara speaking on it is not merely altruistic to help other women. Ciara is gloating in her victory and triumph over Future.

    Ciara and Russell both like to use their marriage, his stepfathering, and his wealth to gloat and rub in Future's face that's he's a loser.

    I don't like Future, he's of low moral fiber. But Ciara and Russell's gloating in her upgrade is somewhat cruel and unfair because Future is of lower education, intellect, and wealth than Russell. It's not an equal playing field or fair fight.

    Russell's life and experience has been privileged and greater moral fiber, so of course Future's no match in the upright living department. No need to gloat.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    I have never met a man who encourage his wife to speak out about an ex lover. She wasn't beaten to a pulp or almost murdered and now she telling her story hoping others would leave their abusive situation too. I could understand if that was the situation yes by all means speak on it and tell ur story. but this is a guy who she knew wasn't shyt and she choose to deal with him anyway because she thought because she was famous that he wouldn't dog her the way he did the others and she was wrong! He did treat her like an accessory just like he does all the woman in his life. She was a fool to even give him the time of day any woman who deals with him who is looking for more than a good time is a fool. If I got played the way she did that fool would be dead to me I would never utter his name idc if I have a kid by him or not. She talks about him because she can't get him off her mind. If Russell hadn't saved her she would have been going back and fourth dealing with his mess just like some of his other baby mommas.

  • Sushi

    I get it now, Ciara does not have her own identity. She identifies with whomever she is with. This is what is off ....

  • ShelbyMoore

    There are women who deal with men (P for an example) who are extremely and I mean extremely unfortunate looking (I mean the type you pray every night that your client doesn't turn out looking like) and just cause they have money, women put aside the fact that the man totally makes her stomach churn every single time he mounts her.

    There are also women who were/are in arranged marriages for years and years and they had to learn to love the man that their family picked (or sold them to) for them to marry.

    Women deal with men every single day for reasons other than love. I can't tell a lie, I couldn't do it either. I wonder how women do it all of the time. Plus, my facial expressions give me away so they would know I was bullshatting. LOL.

  • Jordan’s Memory

    That's been my whole argument. she talking about the wrong person, she need to have her mouth filled with good things to say about her man instead of always speaking on someone who like had two kids since yall broke up. like cmon now.

  • Junkanoo

    Jada is definitely messy that's why I don't watch Red Table Talks some things I think you keep to yourself you don't invite everyone into your business

  • Jordan’s Memory

    Because there is no spark! She compromised by marrying a non thug which is driving her crazy! She is horny and bored!!!!! LMAO Poor cici I will take Russell off ur hands for you ma.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Bro you so hurt...what about illogical for men to sleep with women get them pregnant (4X and counting cause he done had two more since her baby was born) and leave??? Or illogical to not keep a job and sponge off of a woman because you want to hang out with your boys all day...illogical to spend your last bit of money on jordans but your credit is 400...dont put this all on women like men dont lay with them or that babies just magically pop out of coochies without sperm...You are programmed to hate women and dont put any responsibility on men which shows you are bias in your thinking....but dont mind me at all imma just take my clinical degrees in behavioral psychology and go...

  • Renee26

    Allllllll of this!!

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Chile... She doesnt have a music career that I know of ???

  • the guest

    Future was the most exciting thing that ever happened to Ciara so she talks about him. Jada was very shrewd by putting that on blast.

    I imagine Future had Ciara climbing the walls and crying to the heavens in bliss begging for him to give her a baby. Ciara will always talk about him and rub her husband in his face to punish and embarrass him for not changing for her.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ????

  • Trace da Ace

    chile'!!! say that mess again and again!!! Its like let it go already....you are in a great place in life and love....why keep talking about the "past".....hell Future don had 3+ more babies since her.....he ain't sitting around talking her or their "past" relationship....his community peen is looking for the next fertile thot to impregnate!!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Avoidance behavior or just blocking out a person can manifest in other ways...I think thats why you are so harsh in regards to this post...we are all just typing about it while Ciara lives on another level then we do...her voice can reach masses and inspire and for all we know her husband encourages her to speak on it...not all husbands say shut up I dont want to hear about the one that hurt you...some say let me listen so I can make you comfortable and safe so you will realize I wont do what he did...its cathartic and healing...

  • Karen Brady

    :-)

  • hottlanta

    The best way to leave a mofo is to leave quietly n let them wonder how u r doing. I had one guy l dated over 20 years ago who l broke up with. Hadnt seen or talked 2 him since we broke up n he wanted to see me before he died. Still said no. Kept it moving.

  • Karen Brady

    *Weak*

  • Phillybruh

    It's not like she' s talking about how big is thing is or how good his sex was, she's talking about how she removed herself from a situation that wasn't right for her and her child. Sometimes that's not learned until baby number 4 and you can't work that good job you had when you just had baby number 1. She learned it and now she's sharing it.

  • Yup, I said it

    I do think she should refuse to speak about Future publicly in any capacity but she is a scorpio and they are spiteful. So I guess she goutta get it out of her system.

  • hottlanta

    I freaked out when l heard russell bought her music masters. I was like wow she getting them finally out of the storage unit.

  • BicoastBlackGirlGeek

    I get what she isn’t saying, about a different feeling from all the others, and not having a big dopamine moment. However when I met my husband who makes me feel like the only woman in the world sincerely, I never spoke an ex’s name again...because I forgot all about them. They became non factors, not important for reflection or anything.

  • WhoKnew

    They are the pettiest Bettys let me tell you from experience.

  • xxxgracious

    Love this

  • CardiB’sAbs

    We can definitely be spiteful as hell. But this is the wrong way to do it. I think she still loves him.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    ?????

  • xxxgracious

    Couldnt agree with you more. And thank you for having a intelligent conversation with me as women and not arguing or calling each other out our names. I truly enjoy this. I swear this platform helps me communicate better. Thank you!!

  • Cricket404

    Great choice, her love went to the baby boy and that cleared her mind to make a smart choice for her life. Good girl.

  • Floriduhh Evans

    How many people on this blog been saying she married Russell for spite but was called all types of haters ??? I'm a day one fan of Cici but she is trying to one up Future every chance she gets....they need to just get back together instead of always trying to one up each other, Scorpios never forget

  • Jordan’s Memory

    I hear what you are saying. But I think that type of conversations should take place when you are dating and getting to know each other, not when we have gotten married and had a kid and built a life together. It's almost like making Russell pay for Future's mistakes. He shouldn't have to work that hard at making her happy, he shouldn't have to constantly hear conversations or stories about his wife's ex. I just hope she finds her way before she ends up by herself. A man can only take so much. I guess I am a advocate for Russell in this situation, I hate to see a woman have a good man and not appreciate it. I hate that she still talks about it. If she was still hurt or bothered she should have never gotten married because she clearly still has emotional baggage and that's not fair to him.

  • xxxgracious

    Same here. I appreciate having conversations with you all. I learn so much from each of you and I enjoy this. You all make me proud to be a black woman and not these stereotypes that the media tries to portray. I hope you have a great Tuesday!!

  • JennyJazzhands

    I do wonder how she would feel if Russell spoke about his ex-wife this much.

  • Bashi22

    Here we go again didn’t I mention Ciara should stop ? call Future’s name or anything associated with him only his sonshine with him.

  • Bashi22

    I know right

  • Panama

    Yes!!! This is exactly what happened when I met my husband. No sparks---just a sense of calmness and peace. I never had to guess how he felt or where I stood with him. I never was left wondering what he wanted from me. No head games, no drama, just a sense of familiarity and closeness. Tranquility. I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.

  • Fred G sanford

    She’s obviously still in love with future and it’s a damm shame cause Russell Wilson is a good dude

  • Bashi22

    Why wasn’t she going so hard for 50 like she’s doing Future

  • JennyJazzhands

    I guess I just have too much pride. The way she's been going about this in the media has made me cringe for years.

  • The Art

    Everyone has the option not to listen, change the channel, or skip her interviews. I just think that she shouldn't be silenced because others are tired of hearing the story. She has an opportunity to reach someone who may really need or want to hear it and she should be allowed to do that.

  • free

    damn, you coulda gave that man a smile or something. maybe would have given him another week or so on this earth.

  • Rayscoty

    Sandra do Ciara/Russell have you on payroll. These random post about her

  • ilvmkds

    She didn't mention his name in the interview, it is hard not to talk about someone you have a child with. No matter who she is with she will be apart of big Futures life due to their son. I am sure Russell understands this and is not bothered by it.

  • MsSapphire9800

    THANK YOU....

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Where did I say anything about men being illogical?

    You're the one who keeps twisting my posts.
    Bye because unlike you I don't deal with foolishness.

  • MsSapphire9800

    Future is her child's father...so regardless of how she has moved on people will continue to bring up his name in interviews. Also speaking on him does not take anything away from her marriage...two different types of love and relationship.

  • Yup, I said it

    Alot of women have watched too many movies and fairytales about love. Sparks don't mean shit. Intense passion will leave you with a gang of baby's and single mother status. A man with a whole lot of passion needs to share it amongst alot of women. If you want to share the community dingaling go after passion. If you think about it when those same passionate doggy type men fall in love, they fall in love with the woman that they can't give sparks too. The one who they couldnt impress at first sight and she be looking at all the thirsty women like' "you losing you mind over him?"

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Hey, I appreciate your honesty!

  • Yup, I said it

    I don't think she still loves Future. I think she's angry with him for wasting her and their sons time. That's that spiteful scorpio in her. Ciara probably wants him to sign over custody and he wont do it and she takes every opportunity to shame him for it, but I don't get love. I get spite, neurotic obsession, tit for tat, not love.

  • Yup, I said it

    I don't think she still loves Future. I think she's angry with him for wasting her and their sons time. That's that spiteful scorpio in her. Ciara probably wants him to sign over custody and he wont do it and she takes every opportunity to shame him for it, but I don't get love. I get spite, neurotic obsession, tit for tat, not love.

  • Cheese eggs

    You can love someone and not like them

  • Cheese eggs

    You can love someone and not like them

  • Mrs. King

    I wholeheartedly agree

  • Mrs. King

    I wholeheartedly agree

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    What I am saying is you say women are illogical but dont hold that same regard for men...you cant throw out a statement and totally absolve the other party...your hurt I can tell...dont pull me into your rabbit hole cause women dont look at you twice...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    What I am saying is you say women are illogical but dont hold that same regard for men...you cant throw out a statement and totally absolve the other party...your hurt I can tell...dont pull me into your rabbit hole cause women dont look at you twice...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Of course you helped me as well!!! We are all a work in progress and on the same boat...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Of course you helped me as well!!! We are all a work in progress and on the same boat...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I agree so much with you Jordan...I dont know alot of great black men but the ones I know that have horrible wives make me cringe but thats their choice...Remember Russell was married before to his college sweetheart who was in the media making all types of remarks about him "leaving her" and going to Ciara...they both were at a place of healing...

  • Cheese eggs

    What exactly is wrong with "settling for security" ? She wasn't getting any younger and she had a young son to support. Grown women make grown women type of decisions. Stay with a serial pro creator, or move on to a man with no children and a fat check book? Seems easy to me. Now she's comfortable and secure. Good job Cici.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    AMEN!!! There are "Russell Wilson" types out there...they just dont have a multi-million dollar contract...

  • justlooking

    This is news, How Sway?

    She has moved on and probably working on another baby.

    Folks will dig up the most Nonsensical mess

    Lets talk about how Orange Turd, can't stay at the palace and how Kushner is a big azz liar.

  • luVn_liFe…

    she just did an interview "Red Table Talk?" with jada pinkett smith

  • justlooking
  • r r

    That's a word sister! I agree wholeheartedly. We have to change our mindset. She may not be going about it like the next person would but there is no need to belittle her as a woman, at the end of the day she wasn't the one doing wrong in the relationship.

  • Applebootay

    Bro...it's whatever....I'm not drinking the koolaid

  • luVn_liFe…

    lol

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    SHE OVER this used up ding ding! Folk got it twisted.. as fast as we women fall in love we can fall out of love with the same speed. ESPECIALLY when someone better comes along. A lot of us have hooked up with cads and later looked back and SHOOK OUR MF HEADS! She doing what she suppose to do.. shes making her case BY SHOWING her several attempts by all means to let it be known he has opportunities to bond with their son but he makes half ass attempts to be a doted responsible father. SHE can afford to be as messy as she wants. She really dont need him.. he can call her what he wants but he cant say she tried to keep their son from him! Future sit you past azz down!

  • Mrs. S. O.

    I don't get obsession at all. I feel that everybody keeps asking her about Future and their situation and she has kept answering. If anybody is spiteful it's Future. He *HATES* seeing her so happy. I saw an old clip where he was gloating about breaking her heart and leaving her but nowadays, his tune has changed to bitterness.

  • bb1812

    Spot tf on.

  • Mrs. S. O.

    How Sway? She didn't even say his name. He's become "that old situation".

  • Mrs. S. O.

    Is Russell's ex-wife a billboard artist and do they have a child together?....I didn't think so. No one asks Russell about his ex because his ex isn't famous and he didn't have a kid with her.

  • Applebootay

    But we "Haters" and "Jealous" because we sick and tired of her broken record story....everybody a hater if you aint a STAN...FOH....

  • Dowoop

    For nothing for this post.

  • Mrs. S. O.

    Is your ex a famous billboard charting artist? lol Why would you need to speak on him? Are you asked about him on interviews for your job or something? lol

  • JennyJazzhands

    Well, which one is happily married to someone else? Future hasn't had a relationship since Ciara. I would think Ciara would have moved on, no?

  • Applebootay

    Annnnd....I, ME, MYSELF....is changing the channel, just like I do on the radio, when they keep playing the same damn songs over and over...and I like her...like her hubs....like her talent....just tired of hearing the same damn song....she should just write a book already...but if you like hearing the same ole same ole and DO YOU

  • CCW47

    I am ready the comments, people are project their own personal feelings, we do not know this woman personally. This women is not in-love with with her son father at all and she married Russell by choice and I am sure she had options. Sometimes we mistake chemistry for sexual tension and look were it leads you being a single mother at times dating multiple men. And she made a mature realistic choice to marry a MAN that loves her and most importantly accepts her son as his own and does not treat him differently.

  • XoXo

    Pretty much!

  • bb1812

    Ciara said in an Essence Mag interview that BF was a planned pregnancy. And her fans call him a sperm donor. My azz. I bet Joie asked him for a baby too.

  • bb1812

    Her album flopped so not even she talks about that now. If the conversation is not about Future or Russell, no one's talking about Ciara. It's really kinda sad, and pathetic for her.

  • Applebootay

    I'm a scorpio too...Trust me, she wants to nail this ninja to the cross and burn him!

  • Applebootay

    NEVAH!

  • Well$$Well$$?

    If you have lived and loved you've probably played the fool for some sorry arse person before... Why she's judge so harshley idk...I also don't see an issue with her speaking on Fuchsia especially when he trashes her whenever her has a new project out...?????

  • Yup, I said it

    The best revenge is to live well and she is doing just that. With Russell's,NFL pension Ciara and her kids will be finacially set for life. She gave her son a hound dog for a daddy but she found a respectable leaders of a husband to make up for that.

  • taneka simmons

    Girl! Im loving "fucshia" ???

  • dru and neil

    Can she tell the public why she named that sweet boy Future, just because it’s his dads stage name? It’s a show name of a celebrity.

  • Yup, I said it

    Hahaha. Thats where the "neurotic obsession" comes in at. Especially about protecting her son from being hurt by the Trap Hugh Hefner.

  • Notatall

    I don't want none of that koolaid either

  • Rayne

    Keep on talking Ciara. Russell loves us and WE know it ??

  • 9 Mind
  • teather

    Lemme help you, Ladies. Anytime a "man" cocks his head to the side, he's a BUSTA, period. This guy has serious self value issues. He gets celebrated when he should be cancelled.

  • Prince Zuko

    She is still on future sack smh

  • hottlanta

    I am a stone cold leo to the bone. When l am gone l am gone

  • hottlanta

    I am a stone cold leo to the bone. When l am gone l am gone

  • 2gr8ful

    Those blowup images from the protesters over there are hilarious..

  • bb1812

    Early stages of CTE. He was concussed & taken away on a stretcher during one of his college games. He's prob already compromised. His eyes are always weird looking to me.

  • Yup, I said it

    I cant stand how all women are portrayed as hopeless romantics. Men are so used to the "sprung out" chic that they test every women once they think she has caught feelings. Im that woman that will race them to the door to get out of a bad relationship. I will ghost them so fast they swear its straight hocus pocus. Ciara was at an age where she wanted a baby and a husband. Future was available, so she thought. Once she realized he was playing games she moved on. All women don't fall silly in love and lose their minds over a man.

  • classycns

    Especially when they have a child together. When children are involved you don't get to luxury of never speaking the person's even if they are deceased.

  • classycns

    You don't have that luxury of not speaking about the person when a child is involved. You notice no one ever asks her about Bow Wow or 50cent, LOL.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Women are the ones who have the most lose in relationships.

  • xxxgracious

    ??? THIS

  • Bree

    I was a fan of Ciara's music but her personal life is crazy! Russell saved her. She thought she was God's gift when it came down to Future. He was never going to marry her. There isn't a man walking that wants to marry his mama! Ciara thought she could tell Future what to do and thought he would go along with it because she is a "princess". There is a way to gain a man's attention and that's not it. Russell bows down to Ciara and that's why she said the love was different. She could never marry a Future because she doesn't have what it takes to tame that beast on the inside of him. She thought she could hook him with a baby and that backfired. Look at the rest of his baby mamas. Not only did she hurt herself, she hurt her son, who now has multiple siblings by multiple women. She knew what she was getting herself into. It just so happens that Future jumped ship before she could seduce him any further. You can never win when you are dirty.

  • Bree

    She should be angry with herself. She did what she wanted to do when it came down to Future because she thought she could control him. Listen to the way Future talks about Ciara. He isn't lying. Although I am not a fan of his escapades, he does speak truth concerning her ways. She wants that Kardashian lifestyle so bad that she'll do anything for it. As a former fan of her work, she would have definitely been better off with Curtis Jackson.

  • Bree

    I would never disrespect my husband by continuing to speak about an ex. She needs to make it clear that she has no words for her son's father and keep it moving. Future needs to do the same.

  • Star

    Can you all please stop calling this uneducated heffa a Harvard grad she took a certificate program 3 days for a cost of about $50k she doesn’t have a degree from Harvard. Anyone can go if you have the money Dewayne Wade, Tyra Banks these people haven’t taken the SAT GMAT LSAT or any other entrance exam. Stop diminishing peeps that have worked hard to get a degree. It’s like me calling myself a professional sing bc I get likes on Instagram

  • hottlanta

    Why am l gonna waste my tears on a man l have no insurance on.

  • Bree

    I doubt that Ciara was in love with Future. I believe she is more in love with the thought of being in love, married with children just like her friends. The path she has taken, is the path she has wanted for a long time. She hasn't put in the work to be a wife. She still seeks attention from the masses, not the love from her husband and children. Real women build behind closed doors and we only share what we want you to see. Some things are sacred and alot of these women know nothing about it. I'm sure Future had love for Ciara, but that doesn't mean he was going to marry her. I believe he proposed out of guilt and/or obligation. She was doing things for him, thinking she was an upgrade. She proved herself wrong by being just like the rest. A bird...birds of a feather flock together!

  • hottlanta

    Yep took a class friday morning at 8am n class ended monday evening the next week at 245pm.

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Curtis? Ha!!! Curtis was getting with anyone that be could. Ciara was just something to do. That was obvious. He was in and out literally.....

  • Bree

    I don't think people are judging Ciara, they are judging her fruit. Trees produce after their own kind. What is planted. Ciara needs a Curtis Jackson, he likes attention just as much as she does. She's had several boyfriends in the entertainment industry, she was fully aware of how this was going to go. We all play the fool sometimes, but it wasn't rocket science to see what would happen with Future. He doesn't seem like the type to go with the flow or be controlled. You get what you pay for. When you think you are fooling someone, you usually end up getting played. Ciara needs to level up and stop being a little girl that runs to daddy during difficult times! That's the only way to grow.

  • B.Loveitt

    Thank you!!! Some of us are intelligent enough to know a man w/multiply kids by multiply women regardless of who he is?? is he hurt, doesn't love himself nor his money and if we have no children a Future type is THE LAST MF IN THE WORLD WE'RE GOING TO LET FATHER OUR 1ST CHILD. If the dack that good ride it till you can't no more but don't spawn with it. Ci-Ci was the only one feeling a spark and Future was doing what he does. I still believe her and Russ had slept together a few times and Ciara said I'm not trying to have this type of set up. He showed his peen 1st too. Then Russ said let's take it off the table.

  • Bree

    Not sure how their relationship went. In my opinion, you are what you attract. She's a media whore, so is he. They deserve each other. I think they would actually have fun together and be able to build a nice life. After all, they both have their own. No disrespect to Russell, he's paying for what happened between Future and Ciara. She needed to take time, self reflect, and heal before dating again. The right guy is there for her, it's just not Future, neither is it Russell. Ciara is an example as to why you don't jump in a relationship where you don't know someone that well, get pregnant, and expect him to bow down to you. Every man on the planet is not Russell Wilson.

  • Gamer?? Chick

    Because they like to pick and choose, Bey can forgive Jay and make songs about the shit but Ciara can’t mature...

  • Look@m3

    Runs out this room....hating arse Beeshes in here....#Peace https://media2.giphy.com/media/1j9NiLfvtLAVAeYygv/giphy-downsized-medium.gif

  • Star

    Right! She walking around with a Harvard T-shirt like she actually went there. Child please

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Why do you think that?

  • TheOwley

    "The recent Harvard graduate says". Sandra, you need to stop it. You're a college grad right? As an alumni of your school, would you be OK with someone equating her 3 day certificate to your college degree. Come on now.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Thank You!!! Say it louder for the fans in the back!!!

  • Yup, I said it

    The only thing that could take Future is a good strong STD.

  • Bree

    I disagree, and I don't wish bad on Future. Someday, I hope he comes to the realization that even he deserves love, honor, and respect. I'm not a fan of his escapades, but women still deal with him so I can't fault him for being who he is. Hopefully, he meets the right one, if that's what he's looking for. My husband is a man of power and women flock to him all the time. Before, we met, he was searching for someone to build a life with, not a whore house. He always say I'm the first and only woman that has ever challenged him. Ciara was no match for any of the other women Future has either dated or impregnated. Her son is a product of that. I love Ciara, but she needs to do better.

  • B.Loveitt

    Ciara could have always said what wasn't open for discussion. Ciara likes the mess.

  • Connie

    Ciara is hexanbeast too? Lawd, and I like huh :-(

  • B.Loveitt

    She's not over it. Sadly so many women think just because she got married soon after and spit a baby out before the ink dried on the catering bill for that wedding weekend festivities. She's won...she's made it and found her true love.

  • B.Loveitt

    She can't because she didn't do no calling on God. Russ said I'll take you and she said okay.

  • Yup, I said it

    Let me add that a man/woman who has kids strewn all over the place ain't about jack shit.

  • Yup, I said it

    Umm she did do better. She married. The Russell Wilson. One of the most eligbl bachelors in sports. Now unless your husband is Tom Brady or Obama your really cant compare to landing such a man.

  • missmiami305

    Cuz she was sprung on the ? and couldn’t think straight?

  • missmiami305

    Yup!!!!!! Just like the Kartrashians.

  • IChosetheBrownDollbaby

    But you are. Just like she doesn't have to comment on Future, you don't have to come to a post about her, read it and comment. You go out of your way to do just that. ESPECIALLY if you all are so tired of her. So, yes, hater and jealous have weight here.

  • B.Loveitt

    It's very sad that SO MANY women think SO MANY women would, will or have pulled this, and it's everybody else's fault but their own. Have many women had their feelings hurt? Why YES! But most were not hurt due to blind stupidity while thinking my stuff really is platinum coated. It's me he wants. When all you did was do exactly what the heffas before you did. I refuse to believe the vast majority ESPECIALLY MY SISTER'S are set up this way. I REFUSE!!!

  • IChosetheBrownDollbaby

    You know you do have the option of scrolling right on past the headline right? Some of you girls here are too toxic for your own good. smh

  • hottlanta

    We all know what happens to all of those so called perfect couples. They shyt get exposed sooner or later.

  • IChosetheBrownDollbaby

    It's apparent that many of you girls on here are triggered and are currently in a Ciara/Future situation that you can't/won't leave. I've never seen so many people bitter at someone's glow up. She's happy and sharing how she got out of a bad situation. Why is this a problem?

  • Bree

    The devil is a lie. A woman should never go after a man, even if he is the man she wants. He should be doing the pursuing. My husband nor I deserve brownie points for our marriage, that glory goes to God and God alone. Trust me, I wasn't checking for my husband, and he will tell you that. He knows I don't need him. Ciara needed a Russell to save her, when she should have been focusing on being a new mom. You don't pursue a man, the sperm seeks the egg and that's how we reproduce. I'm glad that Ciara has moved on from Future, however she deserves true love and happiness! A picture is worth a thousand words.

  • hottlanta

    Russell money photographer and media exposure wasted. I am mad bcas they think we are all fools.

  • Fred G sanford

    TRU

  • Yup, I said it

    "She spends more time on social media trying to prove she's happy, then actually being happy"

    You do the same thing. You tell the board about your awesome amazing wonderful husband and exceptionally well balanced relationship and how you were an amazing catch of a woman and he is a prominent much desired man. You say it in every post. I think your projecting your issues on Cici. "Shrugs shoulders"

  • Nakia Brown

    Preach!

  • missmiami305

    IKR!!!! Ain’t nobody hating on CiCi trash ass. Some of us see past the smoke and mirrors. Folks really be in they feelings because not everyone is drinking the CiCi and Russell koolaid. Not believing the fan-fiction doesn’t mean folks are in favor of Future and it doesn’t take away from Russell being a stand up guy. He actually deserves better than CiCi if you ask me. Anyway, they reaching and doing the most.

  • Bree

    Shots fired! All lies and garbage! But thanks for stalking my font. Nice to know you're checking for me. I've been married three years and everybody knows we're together but nobody knows our business! Make sure you takes notes since you're following my font and reading everything I post. I'm not coming for CiCi, neither am I coming for you. I'm speaking truth and I'm that friend that will tell you the truth. She played herself, just like any other woman that goes after the man that they want. If I had issues, I'd see a psychiatrist, I'm a woman who has learned alot and don't mind sharing wisdom. I will not apologize for that, however, I will apologize that you don't have an understanding of what I'm saying towards CiCi situation. I don't showboat my marriage. I speak on my happiness and the experience that my husband and I have had since meeting each other. Ignorance is dangerous but it is also bliss! Have a blessed day!

  • missmiami305

    IKR! I was thinking “or lack of career”.

  • missmiami305

    ????????

  • missmiami305

    Wow really? Thanks for enlightening me. I was unaware. Folks acting like they can’t see him staring into space often. Chile please! No shade in that.

  • missmiami305

    They don’t wanna hear that part tho ??

  • missmiami305

    Russell isn’t a simp by far. Who said such a thing? I just don’t think Cici is deserving nor appreciates him. Not believing the bs she tries to spin.

  • Star

    I so agree. They think we are stupid and media does a good job of promoting this garbage.

  • Yup, I said it

    Its certainly alot of green (with envy) on this board. The knowledge she is giving is what white women write in books and sell for $29.99. Those books be on the NY Times bestsellers list too. If I personally knew Ciara I would ask her does Russell have any single MENS he could introduce me too ?.

  • Tiffany Blake

    Future was always after Ciara. He said so himself several times! Future is obviously STILL in his feelings about her. I think they had real love for each other, but it was toxic. When you grow up and love yourself, there is no reason to "tame that beast" in a grown man. She found a good man to put her first without the games and the Wendy chart of baby mama's!!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Yep

  • B.Loveitt

    Especially ATL folks or anybody related to ATL. You ever notice people who have issues damn near disappear? You find out when they decide and/or it's getting ready to break but they weather the storm and last. These always gotta talk about my marriage in some shape form or fashion are LOSING.

  • B.Loveitt

    Oh my...

  • missmiami305

    She’s so fake and that’s why I don’t fuck with her. Nothing authentic about her. Nada!

  • B.Loveitt

    Don't trigger The Baby Mama Brigade" who is trying to live vicariously through this chick.

  • CCW47

    Right......!!!!!!!!!!

  • B.Loveitt

    I don't think it was because of age, it was because she actually thought she had longevity in the game because she just keeps popping up for nothing.

  • missmiami305

    Me neither. Me neither sis??. But, we aren’t seeing with our eyes. Folks don’t get it.

  • Yup, I said it

    They better learn how get onboard with the life you want instead of accepting the life somebody hands you.

  • B.Loveitt

    Don't really care about the age stuff. We all know Jada had surgery and was absolutely looking great before it. She did something dumb. Her shock was about something else.

  • missmiami305

    Cici has the mental capacity of a 12yr old girl. She sounds silly as hell.

  • B.Loveitt

    So on point and many women do this and many men know it...both the Future's and the Russell's of the world. They know whomever is wanting them more than anything in the world but she's going to be with the safe guy and that's okay. There's many women out here for the taking.

  • Mrs. S. O.

    Let these folks tell it, Ciara is "obsessed". They don't realize that due to the child, she will always be linked to him. She has to communicate with him even when she doesn't want to.

  • Elecktra

    Did she actually say that about not having sparks or is that SR improvisation because that part isn’t quoted? Anyway, I am confused as to why people act as if Russell Wilson would be hard to love-he’s handsome, athletic, chivalrous, god fearing and wealthy. It’s not like he’s Lavell Crawford or somebody like that. I really don’t buy into this notion that Ciara is into bad boys, I think dating in her same industry is what got her caught up with a Future type. Plus women in general are attracted to alpha male personalities, but “good” guys can be alpha males too.

  • XoXo

    Pretty much!

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    You know I can see it ..... and it will surface and it has started .... many mask will be pulled no matter how pretty ... how rich they portray .... and folks will be disgusted ... but hey this will be a lesson ...... don't ever trust a book by it cover ... ever ..... trust the spirit .... and that spirit is phony ... houston something ain't clean chile ......unfortunately with me being clairvoyant ... I unfortunately see before others which I used to hate ....but now I embrace it because it saved me bew.... saved me .....

  • Mrs. S. O.

    You sound so bitter and mad. Brittni, is this you? Calm down and stay off of gossip sites girl. ??

  • Mrs. S. O.

    You sound like Future's baby mama that couldn't get away. Brittni, I see you for your works ??

  • Mrs. S. O.

    I think them having a child together is a very plausible reason as to why he's still mentioned often.

  • Mrs. S. O.

    Who cares if Future didn't change for her? She literally leveled up and found much better.

  • XoXo

    Now let’s all hold hands and sing “kumbaya.” Jk. ?

  • B.Loveitt

    Nothing is wrong with it, many women do it. We have sisters, cousins, aunties, mothers, grandmothers, best friends etc who've done just that. Some even tell us I love him but not in love with him but he's the best choice. Okay fine. But as a famous individual who's NOW MORE FAMOUS for whom she lays and has kids with WTF do you keep trying to convince the public you're really in love, this is your king. What man who is holding it down would be okay with you forever talking about your ex at every family event? Better yet if he's really holding it down why do you keep taking him back to court...what REAL MAN IS GOING TO BE COOL WITH THAT INSTEAD OF HIM TELLING YO ASS PHUCK HIM...WE'VE MADE A PAPER TRAIL, HE'S GOING TO HAVE TO BRING US TO COURT. That's the one thing Future has right, trust he's dealt with it before. Tell Ciara to pipe TF down but you won't...why when I got you like no other man ever has??? That's why many are like Ciara we get it...you're still caught up in Future who's your past and disrespectful to your present. STOP TALKING ABOUT FUTURE!!!

  • B.Loveitt

    Thank you for being intelligent. People think he's a simp because he did what? Chose one of Future's babies mama's. I'm sick of people thinking money suddenly makes you better, smarter, inhuman etc. That was my issue on another post. Money means nothing in the grand scheme of things when it comes to the end of all.

  • B.Loveitt

    Thank you for being intelligent. People think he's a simp because he did what? Chose one of Future's babies mama's. I'm sick of people thinking money suddenly makes you better, smarter, inhuman etc. That was my issue on another post. Money means nothing in the grand scheme of things when it comes to the end of all.

  • B.Loveitt

    Hate to say it I agree as a woman. All these women on here thinking she's winning because Russell utters God and $140mill. shows just how off center we can be. They sound like pleasant gold diggers on the sly. Russell is her security not whom she's in love with.

  • B.Loveitt

    Hate to say it I agree as a woman. All these women on here thinking she's winning because Russell utters God and $140mill. shows just how off center we can be. They sound like pleasant gold diggers on the sly. Russell is her security not whom she's in love with.

  • B.Loveitt

    ??????

  • B.Loveitt

    ??????

  • B.Loveitt

    Stop the discussion she doesn't believe in women being responsible for their reproductive system. In 2019 while snatching our rights many women are saying "Men getting women pregnant" as if they weren't willing participants and knew more than likely shouldn't have spawn with him. The more she sees she's losing the debate the more her comments will lose focus on the point from jump and she'll start attacking other shyt that has nothing to do with Ciara ain't over Future and Russell's dumb ass join her circus. Send in the clowns...

  • B.Loveitt

    Stop the discussion she doesn't believe in women being responsible for their reproductive system. In 2019 while snatching our rights many women are saying "Men getting women pregnant" as if they weren't willing participants and knew more than likely shouldn't have spawn with him. The more she sees she's losing the debate the more her comments will lose focus on the point from jump and she'll start attacking other shyt that has nothing to do with Ciara ain't over Future and Russell's dumb ass join her circus. Send in the clowns...

  • bb1812

    Russell Wilson suffers grade 3 concussion--YouTube. Grade 3 is considered severe. And I should have said possible CTE. But yeah he was out for a few minutes--looked bad. My babies will not participate in football, soccer, rugby or boxing.

  • bb1812

    Russell Wilson suffers grade 3 concussion--YouTube. Grade 3 is considered severe. And I should have said possible CTE. But yeah he was out for a few minutes--looked bad. My babies will not participate in football, soccer, rugby or boxing.

  • B.Loveitt

    #Youscareme but yet I agree and that scares me more. ?

  • B.Loveitt

    #Youscareme but yet I agree and that scares me more. ?

  • B.Loveitt

    Beautiful?

  • B.Loveitt

    Exactly! All else maybe true or not but that MF was ugly AF. But it's proof he didn't have a lot of black girl attention, he's fascinated with Ciara and she's going to make it wear off sooner than later with this Future shyt.

  • B.Loveitt

    Sounds great Ciara but your kid is still attached to multiples of sibs, women, their men and families because Future was your choice to father your 1st child. Now you're trying desperately to remove him from that when once you said...well before Russell "That you wanted him to be with all his sibs and their family. They're family too." It just doesn't go away because the relationship ends. Oh and money won't make a difference.

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Not all women can own their mistakes and admit to having difficulty moving forward healthy. I'm happy for her. Been there and done that. I feel bad for the salty bitches that stay with the losers who treat them less than deserved.

  • B.Loveitt

    Or the life you chose to latch on to that many other women wouldn't have chose! How does somebody give you some shyt you shouldn't have wanted to begin with but chose to be a willing participant when all their BS was on front street.

  • B.Loveitt

    Well apparently Russell was too! He said he told some folks he would probably end up with her...yeap he said it. She needs to stop with men who see her as a fantasy because they don't like her in the end or she doesn't like them when it's all said and done.

  • Junkanoo

    I find it sad and pathetic as well I wouldnt use my personal life to stay relevant especially since she's moved on . Some of these celebs are delusional they think the public live to hear every detail of their lives

  • B.Loveitt

    You do know they only think famous people are rich with huge platforms? They are starting by people worth millions in Walmart that's running shyt in this country. If they aren't in some Hollywood shyt they think they aren't valid. That's why they are stanning so hard for Ciara's bullshyt...they haven't a clue about "The Others." IJS

  • hottlanta

    Please l could care less about those sexually depressed cant read heifers.

  • B.Loveitt

    Stop making excuses for poor piss ass behavior by women determined to be with someone who's whole vibe screams "I'm not for you, I'm for everybody." It sounds more like you relate and want the excuse too. You chose the bullshyt nobody forced you.

  • B.Loveitt

    Posted up top but just saw your comment.

    Stop making excuses for poor piss ass behavior by women determined to be with someone who's whole vibe screams "I'm not for you, I'm for everybody." It sounds more like you relate and want the excuse too. You chose the bullshyt nobody forced you. All women aren't stupid and therefore we will look at those who are stupid and saying one thing without realizing it says another.

  • JennyJazzhands

    People not asking is unfortunate. I would like to know if he's learned something about his choices the way Ciara is talking about hers.

  • Dahl

    I don’t feel that she, a married woman, should still be talking about her ex-boyfriend. No matter the reason, that’s really not respectful to her husband. At this point, who cares about him, move on...

  • Bree

    I see how easy it is for people to misunderstand. I use to be a fan or Ciara's work. She is an amazing performer, however, her love life has been the topic of conversation. I don't know if Future pursued her or if it was the other way around. I just see things in a different light when it comes to Ciara. People are very defensive over her.

  • B.Loveitt

    And those same white women you speak of bought Steve Harvey's full of shyt book looking for a excuse o. Why they were dumb AF. They knew the shyt they were doing wasn't cool when it came to men but did it anyway. Ain't nobody excusing their dumb asses either. If your really happy act so and STOP talking about the phucker that phucked you over especially when he's in his corner quite. Up lift your husband by not bringing up THE EX AT ALL! Now he's out here writing his next mumble rap about how you can't get over on how he put it on you but your husband never did or will. Future is her PAST LEAVE HIM THERE WHEN IT COMES TO INTERVIEWS.

  • Bree

    I doubt they had "real love" for each other. Cause re love isn't going anywhere. They broke up quicker than one can blink an eye, now tell me what was their relationship based on? Love or lust? She found someone who she can control, how many men want their children constantly exploited on the internet? How many men want their marriage exploited for money, unless they are getting something out of it? It's simply not worth it! The Wendy's chart of baby mamas would not have my name on it. Some of us move differently, and I'm not saying we don't make mistakes. None of us are perfect. But I'm not about to become apart of any man's harem of women. She thought she is special because she is Ciara "Princess". And yes there is a beast in a man, it's called a lion. And the lion is the King of the jungle, takes a real woman to tame that beast! Every King needs a Queen, just ask Barak Obama!

  • Bree

    I think Ciara has looked for the fantasy since all of her friends were getting married and having children. Trends are not cute. I don't see why people don't understand that. She got hurt being a little girl in a man's world.

  • Bree

    Exactly. I feel your entire comment!

  • Bree

    It's about knowing your worth too. I tell women that all the time. If he wants you, he will change his ways for and towards you.

  • ??Dotty??

    We have 2 women within a span of weeks basically talking about how they feel. Ayesha Curry wanting more random male attention and Ciara talking about her past engagement with Future. I get where she is coming from, sometimes women have to make hard decisions and walk away from people that you really like, but she is married now. When your married there are certain things that you just gotta keep to yourself out of respect to your mate.

  • Marlika

    Just like you had the option to scroll right past my post with your bitter ass?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    It was a joke. ?

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    She's trending in the headlines, hun.

  • Missy

    She spends more time on social media trying to prove she's happy, then actually being happy.

    This.

  • TheOwley

    woosh, right over my head then.

  • Queen B

    Why talk about something if you're still gonna lie smh tell the truth sis....Future ended the engagement bc u were too damn Hollywood and wanted the cameras in yall life 24/7. Tried to force this man to push the wedding date up just so channel E! Could film in California. He wanted the wedding in Atlanta, something small and intimate with family and close friends.....but nnnnooo her Hollywood azz wanted all the cameras and random ass ppl at the wedding

  • Janice Collins

    If you don’t stop calling her a Harvard Grad. ?

  • Michelle1953

    If ya'll don't stop acting like you've never entertained a trifling man before. Why do women judge each other so harshly? Ya'll mad and bitter as hell about a relationship you weren't even in! https://media2.giphy.com/media/y1WDIwAZRSmru/giphy.gif

  • hottlanta

    They think they r slick. Ciara getting all of this media attention. She coming out with a clothing line call level up or beauty marks. Betcha a dollar.

  • TeamCowboys

    Sheesh her and Future don’t even look like they like each other in that picture up top lol

  • Allihave2say

    Her body language is away from him.

  • Allihave2say

    I can't get with Jada and this red table stuff.
    I really can't relate to having her minor daughter present while discussing porn then the daughter stating she was watching porn at age 11. This makes me truly believe the picture of a thousand words spoke underaged sex for the Willamina and the white boy.

  • Allihave2say

    Who tf cares about this "truth"? Future needs to stop making babies with random women. Nobody cares who tf broke off the engagement. Future is a failure not a prize. Get on somewhere with this stunt and stanning ish.

  • TeamCowboys

    Yu peeped that too rite? ?

  • B.Loveitt

    Thank you! All these dumb ass excuses they are giving her because they are the same type as dumb. Mrs. Curry dumb!

  • lovelygamour

    Did she ask future if she could lie on him!!!!!! He left her after she did a bridal cover without even given him a hint. She was trying to use him. You would think it would be the other way around. My opinion is Ciara should keep doing music AND go to university for business. She needs to do something.

  • B.Loveitt

    ??????...they are triggered by everything. I joined ones circus on a TI post. Triggered because I didn't lie, I had receipts about where I lived. It turned into attacking my English structure to I need to show my deed because it may be my folks. They get bitter about anything and turn a comment into some bullshyt beliefs of theirs. Sit yo triggered ass down...you look like a plum fool...deal.

  • lovelygamour

    Ciara should drop it.

  • missmiami305

    I remember when Cici was running behind the Kartrashians??? at that time. She was trying real hard to be seen.

  • missmiami305
  • missmiami305

    ??

  • missmiami305

    He really is and deserves better.

  • Malificent

    You sure you went to Harvard? ?

  • Malificent

    Alright! How do you tame those type of beasts?

  • Malificent

    Really? Like if his head is cocked to the side in a picture then that means he’s a busta/fucboi ??? Is this evidence-based research? And I’m being serious!!! https://media0.giphy.com/media/HtYsYjPsw1nVu/giphy.gif

  • Malificent

    Don’t forget bitter

  • Malificent

    Ain’t nobody safe with Curtis Jackson. He is for nobody! Get mad too quick like a woman and too damn petty! https://media2.giphy.com/media/spfi6nabVuq5y/giphy.gif

  • Malificent

    They’d be competing with each other and it would never work. Remember they did try.

  • TheOwley

    I wish.

  • T3

    That last pic of her and Russell ?????. You play too much AuntTea ?

  • Bree

    She needs to stop discussing her child's father. She also needs to stop people from asking her questions about him or bringing him up to her. She "appears" to be happily married, that's disrespectful to her husband. Future jumped ship fast once he found out what she was doing. I've said it before about her, you can't win when you play dirty.

  • Bree

    I'm still surprised that Will Smith is okay with this. Either Hollywood got to Jada or she was already this possessed.

  • Bree

    Random women need to stop making babies with Future. He is a famous rapper and his reputation is well known. He will always be Future, a man that doesn't use protection. That says alot about the women that would carry on a sexual relationship with him in any way. Multiple babies by multiple women says a lot about a person's character. Who's the dummy, Future or the women?

  • Bree

    Whew! I can give you a plethora of things, however, I will tell you how I got my husband. I prayed first before we met and I let God guide me. My husband is a beast and sometimes I want to knock his lights out. I do put them paws on him, but in a loving way. I'm not afraid to tell that negro where to go. And he knows I have a zero tolerance for mess. My husband had an ego, but I didn't stroke that. I let his a$$ know what time it is and make sure he is aware that I am with him because I want to be, not that I need to be. This is only a handful of things. Most men are beast, they have an ego, especially those men who can have any woman they want. My husband has always wanted a good woman, but he found a good wife.

  • Bree

    Please don't disrespect me. I can barely spell Brittni. The only Brittany or Brittineys I know are women that I am related too. Neither of them have a baby, nor are they familiar with the rapper Future or his harem of women and children. I appreciate your comment. Next time, please be respectful and pay close attention to my font: Bree. Bree and Brittni are different. I would never call a Brittni, Bree. That's like calling a Future, Past.

  • Bree

    Please respect your elders. I can't tell you anything about Brittni. Didn't know Future had a baby mama named Brittni anyway. Learn something new everyday. You might be Ciara, but I would be foolish to make an assumption like that, seeing that your name is Mrs. S. O. And telling someone to stay off of a gossip site while you yourself is commenting on one is pretty hypocritical don't you think? For the record, I'm not Brittni, nor am I interested in being her. Sounding bitter and mad? I think not. If Ciara and I were friends, I'd tell her the same thing to her face.

  • Bree

    He's a media whore. So is Ciara. Perfect match.

  • Bree

    Them competing with each other would be perfect for social media, since they are both media whores. Birds of a feather! I'm not mad at Curtis for being Curtis, at least you know what you're getting into with him. He's just not my cup of tea.

  • Bree

    Amen.

  • Logan Roberts

    Every woman has dated a "bad" boy. It's up to you to leave that foolishness behind. I wish Ciara go live her life....quietly.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    If you dont stop acring like every woman is out there popping bastards for trashy men. Wtf is wrong with you old bitches and this assinibe train of thoughts? Sit down somewhere clown

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Facts

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    YES

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    They are stupid theyre stupid as fuck! How else do you think that the futures of the world keep getting babies and puccis? These women are dumb as shit

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    PERIOD

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I love you!

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Facts

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    THIS!!!

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Dont trip on ciaras fake certicate on your way out.....

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Are you me? Is me you? Chile you aint missed a beat or told a lie yet!!!!!

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Update... hubby is here doing some consulting work, so I’ve been exploring this morning on my own. Everybody seems pretty cool thus far. Why is everything so damn old looking??

  • Tiffany Blake

    Again, no one that loves themselves cares about taming the "beast in a man". Ciara realized her mistake and moved on and is doing much better. Her HUSBAND is richer, more successful, a better father, and all you can say that is that she found someone to control. So what! That seems to bother you for some reason.

  • Bree

    You're obviously obsessed with Ciara. As a former fan of hers, the exploitation of her relationship and children are more important than her career. Just because she found a man with great qualities doesn't mean that man is for her. But to each their own. I'm not judging Ciara's life. She posts enough for the world to comment on it. I call it like I see it. And if I was her friend, I'd tell her personally. I love every bit of myself and yes I tame the beast in my husband. He speaks on that often. I will not apologize for what I've written, however, I will apologize that you do not have an understanding. I hope Ciara is paying you well to stan for her. Russell may be a great, rich guy, that doesn't mean Ciara should have married him. They don't mash well together. Again, as her friend, I'd tell her myself. I really hope you get an understanding and have a nice day!

  • Myopinion

    What I got from this interview was a woman describing her growth. Giving inspiration to other women who may be caught up in the "BAD BOY" relationship syndrome to seek for self love and self preservation first. Her son inspired her to do that. I don't get why people mad that she talks about her journey to growth and happiness. It feels good to me every time I see a so Called African American woman win.

  • Bree

    I don't see why people don't see or understand that.

  • Queen B

    You're absolutely right except for 1 thing....Future left her and their relationship ending had nothing to do with him cheating. That's why I don't care for her now bc she's letting the world believe that she left him for cheating when in fact he left her for being too damn Hollywood smh

  • isis Osiris

    Yall hate to see a sista winning.

  • Look@m3

    Now why the hell would I trip about another womans degree when I have a couple of my own....bish get a life because clearly you do not have one worried about more than one random person you do not know personally is not classy....at all!

    Now gather your face as you proceed to the next random person to hate on...bitter bish!

  • Tiffany Blake

    You are the one obsessed. You probably have the most comments on this post. Even if Russell is not the one for her, so what!!! He IS the one, right now! You seem jealous! Imagine someone you don't know speaking on why you chose to marry YOUR husband! Whether it works out in the end or not, Ciara still wins!! She married right and her children's futures are set!!!

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    You have a couple of certificates and you cant come up with better adhectives than bitter? Did you buy yours too ???? the simple fact that you think ciara is an example disqualify your opinion from the start ??? you think someone is gonna come marry you after you popped bastards outta your toxic hole? Dream on unwanted

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    GaThA Yo FaCe
    Look whose gay coworkers took her to the club last week??? yas gurl two snaps

  • Look@m3

    The simple fact you think I'm worried about another womens certificate, associates degree or diploma is where your bitter, lonely sad excuse of a women got me fd up. What are you doing right now? Do you have a job? Or is this your job? How much time you spend investing in me and Ciara so far? Your pitiful...absolutely pitiful and disgusting that your dragging this out like this.

  • Look@m3

    Smh...

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I thought you read and left boo? I thought you declared victory lmao. Bishhhhh fawk you and ciara. Both of you hoodboogers can kiss my grits, i said what i sai. Now keep running punk!

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    I hope your neck hurts ?

  • Look@m3

    No my nerves....but let me get in this gym and workout and maintain my classiness...you dont deserve anymore of my precious time...good day BB

  • Tiffany Blake

    The things you have said on this post makes it evident that you believe that the man is the prize! The woman is and will always be the prize!! Get some self esteem hun! A man who finds a wife finds a good thing, not the other way around!

  • Michelle1953

    Bitch did I say every woman! No the first thing hoe is that you don't know how to talk to people with your disrespectful ass. So why you somewhere thinking you so much better cause you havent had a trashy man bitch you obviously the trashy person in a relationship! Stupid hoe! Now go sit your perfect Bozo ass down somewhere!

  • Yardgirl

    Yep old New England neighborhoods!! ? I am glad you checked in and so happy that you are out exploring without incident. I always warn people of the “potential” so that they are not caught off guard. I see where you said no museum and that is what I love to do, visit museums? The weather is nice though, perfect for exploring!!

  • Let them eat cake

    they've been practicing their whole lives. lol

  • B.Loveitt

    Please don't get me started. I'm tired of these hoes and their tired ass excuses for being phuckin stupid and then want to blame the man. Naw MF it's YOU...YOU chose to be stupid! He been stupid so why TF DO YOU WANT TO PARTICIPATE? All these women making excuses for Ciara's bullshyt and any other woman who pulls such shyt are what? Phuckin stupid!

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    TELL IT!!!!

  • IAmLawlessBrooks

    I hate seeing Future without a shades on

  • speakinmymind

    ????

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Same here I love museums, my daughter volunteers at the MHFA in Houston x2 a month...that’s why I said #nomuseums. Museumed out?

  • Mrs. King

    I’m a Scorpio as well and I don’t think she’s a media whore.

  • Jussjess25

    Sandy really?? This relationship is old af who caaaresss!!

  • Yardgirl

    Just seeing this!! OK got it lol I was a docent for the museum quality painting that we had at our office (valued at $20m) We had to donate them to a local museum but I still have that desire in me and I am a member at several museums. Because of our docent status we we’re able to visit areas of museums that are usually off limits to the general public. We got to see the basement vaults at the Met in NYC
    And it’s mind boggling the billions of dollars worth of art not shown. Hope you enjoyed your trip!!??

  • Applebootay

    Nah...disagree, I'm not a rich, super celebrity married to an Uber rich athlete and I'm at least 10+ years her senior....she definitely is a media slore...but she'll prolly fall back by the time she hit 40.

  • Ci Sam

    "It was calm" ... "I was bored but he got money so I stuck around"

  • the guest

    Like I said.

  • Allihave2say

    No lies told here. Not one. They're all stupid if you ask me.

  • Eileen

    You Betta PREACH!!!

  • Eileen

    I am so tired of this women looking back at her past she knew he was not up to snuff when she became intimate with him as if he is going to forget all those other baby mamas because she thinks her v-gina is better than theirs. Gurl bye live your best life with that millionare that can give you what dumbo could not! Please don't get lost in the d-ck. so Russell may not throw you against the wall slap yo a-- or want a threesome but you would be a fool to keep looking back on some bad used up d-ck when you have what every women dreams of...a man that will love respect and take care of you. bake those cookies for yo chilluns love that man and count yo blessings and stop trying to imagine being with dumbo baby maker

  • Eileen

    The magic word"QUIETLY"