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Lizzo is wary of men who hit on her now that she's famous and paid. She's already made her preferences clear for Caucasian men who look like Liam Hemsworth. But even those ideal men won't have it easy when it comes to dating her.

The "Truth Hurts" singer/rapper admits she "doesn't trust" men who waited until she was rich and famous before approaching her - insisting she's looking for someone who loves her for her, not for her celebrity status.
 
READ MORE: Singer Lizzo gives up on Black men
 
"No one tried to holler at me before all this s**t, so if you're trying to holler at me now, I don't trust it," the 31-year-old told Entertainment Tonight. "There's gotta be something real about you, or you gotta be fine as hell, either or.

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"I definitely understand more and more why famous people be f**king, because it's such an interesting world. I think it's hard to understand what it's like to have a connection with somebody outside of all of this s**t," she said.

Lizzo said sliding into her DMs is not going to cut it. She wants a man who wants her for her intellect.

"Famous people connect with millions of people at a time and everybody is in love with them and everybody wants you and everybody wanna smash and everybody wanna be your best friend, so it's really hard to kind of cipher [sic] through the bulls**t and find the real people."

  • Seldomseen

    What.....let me read

  • Seldomseen

    Oh I thought hit, as in with hands

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile ..... I am getting old or something cause this shyt here ain't it and yes I read the post https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6f810f9dcac935e19c5cd01c08f3297b7f95d43412be1355598b96703fee26e5.gif

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    #metoo

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile what is going on ..... is this da twilight zone lawd

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Soooo shes okay with him using her for money if hes fine? Okay... https://media1.giphy.com/media/Vnxu5OOeu7RIs/giphy.gif

  • MsSapphire9800

    i was agreeing until I read "you gotta be fine as hell, either or...I know no fine men was really checking prior to her success.

    https://media2.giphy.com/media/3rgXByoNQXLrRoJxEk/giphy.gif

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    Girl ain't nobody tryna be with your ass. You already know IF this is true, then you're right... they tryna smash for a come up

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    She's basically saying if she's gonna get played, she's gonna enjoy herself while it's happening. I don't blame her which is why I don't date ugly mfs anymore either

  • JazzyBossyJen
  • A.P. Millz-CT

    There are plenty of men that love big women. But, she ain’t cute tho! Idc idc idc.

    Wish her the best tho.

  • MsPam

    Lizzo will have plenty of time looking for a man, after her 15 minutes are up. That goes for Lil Nas also.

  • Sha

    That was funny but true, I am still trying to figure her out!

  • MrsSpice1

    Giirrrlllllllllllllllllllllll im sayin though!!!!! Lol thought i was the only one not blind and deaf to this bs!!! ?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • MrsSpice1

    ?...some ppl are famous and still dont get hit on !!!! I doubt she has anything to worry about... And ppl be fkn aroun famous or not finding true love can be hard for anybody so bye?!

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Maybe THOSE TWO should get together?

  • Navybeans95

    Beautiful girl, love the confidence...and ain't nothing wrong with being alone...it's neva good to rush it...famous or not...

  • chan chan

    And she shouldn’t because most men and especially the ones she want wouldn’t really want her.

  • Nathan Hastings

    She's annoying

  • Carrington

    I'm glad she's staying grounded and understands what it is. There ARE plenty men who love a big sister, that's straight up facts... but, the men in the INDUSTRY will only try to pursue that "love" behind closed doors as the Black Celebrity Play Set comes complete with a light skinned, mixed, or white woman who qualifies for marriage so that you can have some "pretty" light skin-ded children with "good hair". They'll never date her in public... they f*ck her in private.

    But wait!!!... for the sisters who've managed to find themselves famous be it in film, television, music or, Instagram - we have a brand new bag of blonde bundles, a wine glass and, a standard issue gay best friend who will keep you abreast on all the gay lingo so that you'll fit in perfectly with your new class of people, "Dahling"... "Yaaaaaaasss-z."
    Bye!

    I hope she keeps this attitude and cuts off these MFs who only want to get with her because she now comes with her own, but would've NEVER given her the time of day had she been a regular sister.

    F*ck them, sis - get your money and wait for someone to love you for you and not what you bring to the table. I loves me a big girl with high a$$ed self esteem.

  • Sushi

    Thought it was just me... No disrespect but can her 15 minutes please be done.... She is a 1 trick pony, no kind of range...….

  • Sushi

    I guess I am also.....

  • Yup, I said it

    Little NasX don't want any of that fish patty.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Lizzo was cool and I liked her until the white media got to her and we all know when "THEY" get a hold of an artist they run it to the ground...she has a different kind of appeal to me and I like her anthem music...I do wish she would lose a few tho...My biggest fear is waking up one day without a waist and hips...just being shaped like an Egg with toothpick legs...

  • Carrington

    Addendum:

    I, for one, don't want you to "go away", lil Sis. Do your thing, make your money and stretch this $hit out as far as it'll go for as LONG as it'll go.

    There are waaaay too many folk out here with moderate talent making millions and millions of dollars and damn it, if white folk ain't wishing and praying them away, I'm praying that you get as much mileage out of your time as they do. GET-IT!

    I can't tell you not a song this sister sings (or is she a rapper).. but I want to see her big a$$ winning.

    Why we always wishing our black entertainers a slow death?

  • Gloria

    "I definitely understand more and more why famous people be f**king, because it's such an interesting world.“

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    I’m probably reaching but what??? Girl us non famous folks fuck a lot too ????? Sex isn’t a luxury to just those who have loads of money. I think she is referring more to the disturbing and common sex parties the super wealthy have.... they do perverted nasty shit at those events because it’s “interesting.”

  • Karen Brady

    Good morning and you're absolutely entitled to your opinion. She's grown on me.. I think she's cute and I'm surprisingly curious to see how long this lasts and how far she goes cuz I really never care about any of these people..lol. Now the way you feel about her is how I feel about Meg. To me all her songs are about her poozay poppin' and money grabbin'. Talk about no range at all.

  • Karen Brady

    Now wait a minute. Nas said he gon ride til he CAIN'T no mo!

  • Ni Ni

    All that darn cussin....?

  • Karen Brady

    I almost choked on my grape. Hilarious.

  • xxxgracious

    Watched it yesterday. Apparently Dream Hampton is upset with him for calling her out. Screw her she probably did ask him to be apart of the R. Kelly doc. But Dave is right I cant talk about someone I dont know.

  • Karen Brady

    Same.

  • chan chan

    ?????? I’m tired of the fat girl music as well

  • Mo Mobetta

    Same way I feel.. you didn’t fux with me then.. Don’t try it now

  • xxxgracious

    I'm going to bible study at noon so I'm gonna be on my best behavior today....

  • Karen Brady

    :-)

  • Dollface

    Girl lose weight then you can be more sure. The fact that you're big is what makes it questionable + all the other stuff you said. #truth

  • https://disqus.com/home/discussion/freakkboxshawty/freakkbox_on_strikingly B A B Y ?

    who

  • MsSapphire9800

    "She's already made her preferences clear for Caucasian men who look like Liam Hemsworth."

  • Ryan

    I know I'm not her target audience but I feel for the other talented ladies out there trying to make it without a gimmick.

  • pure_rachet

    I took it as she understands why famous people only fucc each other, not regular people.

  • xxxgracious

    My question is now that you've made it why dont you have dietitians and eat better. She doesnt have to take the Star Jones route and I dont want her to be a toothpick but now you have the resources to get in shape and then you wont have to worry about who's playing you.

  • MsSapphire9800

    She wears the best spanx body shaper (probably 2)and spanx tights...wait till it all come off.

  • TriniHarlem

    She sings plays the flute and writes her own songs. Talent which is far few and in between so she has my support. Her songs are in all them lame white movies the past two years so they know her well.

  • MsSapphire9800

    She can sing (beautiful voice) better than she rap.

  • WhoKnew

    "everybody wanna smash"
    ______________________

    Guh, if anyone wants to smash that big azz they going to need a tow truck, a can opener (not the manual but the electric can opener) and a can of WD-40 penetrating oil.

  • TriniHarlem

    She writes, sings and plays the flute. I mean damn is talent so far gone that we can't respect it when we see it?!! Miserable asses

  • Ni Ni

    From what I've seen, they all have some kind of gimmick and i kind of feel bad for them. Even if they sing, dance, do acrobats, it's still not enough to keep these kids attention.

  • BlackNicheRims

    "Back then they didn't want me. Now I'm hot, they all on me." Mike Jones. https://media1.giphy.com/media/JUwNAsqQbNnLj2QzQ7/giphy-downsized-medium.gif

  • WhoKnew

    Prayers up for good behavior today! I need to go too. LOL.

  • Pamela

    She sounds smart. She seems to be aware of the BS that comes with being famous. Good luck to her.

  • Pamela

    Be nice.

  • WhoKnew

    She need to lose a ton of weight. But I guess the weight is a part of her gimmick. Gimmick's only last so long and all that weight ain't healthy.

  • MistaO

    So sick of females, both famous and not famous, and their constant droning on and on about their problems finding men..???

    Real easy. Don't be a hoe then expect good men to want you past a f uck...I swear most females would be fine if they had Fathers who told them about the consequences of hoeing cause we know mothers don't instruct them in these realities....?

  • tia

    Good girl!! Nothing but the truth. Hell, you have to be leary of the average negro. Folks really be trying to come up. Women are not the only one's that are gold diggers. I like her thinking.

  • xxxgracious

    Thanks. I gotta work on myself because I'm only nice on Wednesdays smh LOL.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Its SEVERAL reasons why she needs to make sure her next man is about her n not her money..SEVERAL!

  • tia

    This young lady is talented. Not sure why some of you are hollering about 15 minutes of fame? Is it because she's not plastic or small enough? No cement filled titties or diaper ass? Some of you negroes will never be satisfied.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Girl you aint know??? Big girls get all the penis where Im from...LOL...

  • Reenaface

    She reminds me of Ursula from the Little Mermaid in this pic. Everytime I see her in this pic I hear "poor unfortunate souls"..???

  • WutizstillHERE!

    Its funny how the world thinks that full figured women don't have men problems..Has no one seen My 600lb life??!! Those are extreme cases but trust me you, there are more men than a little who love them some fluff with their stuff.. Periodt. so yeah Lizzo be careful choose who you want to and be wise with your bread girl you winning!

  • T Willis

    Dang she would be really good in that role.

  • T Willis

    More cushion for the pushing? ?????

  • T Willis

    Some ppl just have star power that draws you to them... I think Lizzo is one of those ppl. Her energy is infectious.

  • The Chosen 1.

    she surely does remind me of her too.

  • The Chosen 1.

    i agree with you. she is a beautiful full figured woman. that's funny what you said about the diaper azz. i just hope she continues to be true to herself and proud of who she is.

  • Reenaface

    I heard her songs in that " Something Else" Netflix movie with annoying ass Gina Torres using her songs as a dance backdrop in one of the movie scenes.

  • Kanyade

    Hmmm, let me go see what Dream is upset about. Haven't watched the flick yet, just snippets on Twitter.

  • B.Loveitt

    Don't blame her. Same chick just famous now and money coming in. If she knew them and they paid her no mind until now...phuck 'em.

  • B.Loveitt

    Vocals always on point, something new and not scared. Get 'em girl.

  • tia

    Likewise...they're tripping. I watched her VMA performance and she can sing too. If she loose weight cool..if not, even better. At the end of the day, she is in charge of her life. Skinny doesn't equate to healthy. Especially celebrities, the skinny ones getting fat transferred or adding poison to their body on the regular to conform. Stay getting nipped and tucked. Eventually all that trash they're putting into their bodies and the multiple surgeries will catch up one day. So tell me who really is the healthiest? Damn if you do, damn if you don't.

  • tia

    Exactly!

  • Dontgetdraggedputa??

    SHE shouldnt
    I havent dated since i got my body right. Oh now you want my coke bottle @$$ but when i was spongebobbing it i couldnt get a second look bye felicia. I think when most women (read smart) reach their maximum potential they dont want men coming in fcking up their vibes. She better take her own advice and put the sin in single.

  • Yup, I said it

    Ugly men are the most arrogant once they get an attractive woman. They mistreat the poor humble woman who gave a pitiful chap a chance.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    The truth always presents itself. There's skinty bishes dealing with the same thing tho. Men can be users. I know niccas using women for shelter, food, clothes, EBT cards, a lil gas money, etc. Money aint all these niccas want. Broke bishes dealing with this too. Anyways Lizzo went TF off on the VMA's. She definitely puts on a show.

  • rory

    Tears laughing on a rainy day... hahaha!

  • rory

    "pitiful chap"... hahahahaha! Woo!

  • TriniHarlem

    I didn't see that movie but they stay putting her songs in those kind of movies

  • Carrington

    Just because she's hot for Liam Hemsworth doesn't mean she's cancelled out brothers. There are women who find Jason Momoa the ish... but they ain't turning down Idris Elba, The Rock, T.I. or, Serge Ibaka.

  • Reenaface

    A live version of " The Little Mermaid" is in the making. I read that it's a toss up between Queen Latifah and Melissa Mccarthy for the role of Ursula.

  • hottlanta

    Please those men r on 600lb life as fake caregivers getting money from the state so they wont have to look for a job. I will love u to if all l gotta do is buy u some food n u sit in the middle of the bed of the bed n l can do what l wanna do knowing u aint going nowhere.

  • xxxgracious

    I never watched it.

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    Girl right?

  • Li-Wright

    She's 31 years old???? That's kind of old to be hitting it big in the business isn't it? No wonder she's trying to make up for lost time by pushing her fame all over everywhere.

  • Li-Wright

    Hmmmm....I'll give her more time....365 days of fame, and that's all.

  • MistaO

    Oh please, yall stay crazy. IF she was lucky enough to have a dude prior to "making it", she would think she's too good for someone who was there when she ain't had nothing. Same thing when broads loose weight then run off on they man who was there with they fat a ss...???

    If more females had just general integrity and morals today, fat, skinny, rich or poor doesn't matter to most men. We couldn't care less about most the stuff yall think we should.

    Don't be a hoe, keep your lower hygiene right, act like you have some sense, be cheerful and pleasant to be around and most men will find you appealing!

    For some idiotic reason most females today think being a raging bitc h is somehow attractive??!!??

  • MistaO

    That is true..?

  • Scorpio
  • Coco

    Thank you! Even if some may not like her music but why are people hoping for the demise of a black woman? So many mediocre non black women get to strive in the business for years, let the people who like her music enjoy her.

  • Bree

    I kind of agree with her, however, I wouldn't want to miss out on my King because of this. She sounds like Mike Jones: back then they didn't want me, now I'm hot they all on me.

    I'm rooting for Lizzo!

  • The Chosen 1.

    well, let some people tell it, skinny is where it's at. I just hope she continues to make a positive name for herself.

  • Facts and Receipts

    Lizzo been out for a minute. It's perplexing to me bc she keeps falling into newcomer categories and she is on her THIRD studio album. Sorry y'all ain't know her til now. But her 15 minutes done BEEN heavily extended for a minute now. The song "Truth Hurts"...been out since 2017.

  • Facts and Receipts

    Chile. This

  • Facts and Receipts

    It pisses me OFF

  • chris

    Firreal

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    Honestly, I thought she was a drag queen in the pic up top.

  • chris

    Why this big chick can't be like adele or something. All the cussing and tacky outfits is a major turn off. Its annoying how black women are depicted.

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    WHO?!

  • Joy King

    These sound like the same issues non famous people deal with that have anything going for them. People should always be careful who they let into their bed and inner circle. Most aren’t worthy. Famous or not.

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    I'm here in Houston and baybeeeee... Fluffy women get A LOT of play.

  • BlackNicheRims

    MIke Jones!!!

  • ZRoJoTheLezBeyond

    281-330-8004!!

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    Lizzo baby... .you got to lose weight to be able to obtain the type of men that you want. You're in Hollywood.

    Get in the gym baby girl and change your eating habits. Work on you first....

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    It's worse if you're famous.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    I get depressed watching those shows and wonder how can those people find someone and I can't.
    I'm like damn, damn,damn.
    Ha,ha,ha!!!

  • Facts and Receipts

    Adele? She notoriously cusses like a sailor. NOTORIOUSLY. Y'all kill me with this stuff bc y'all make it up and then repeat it like it's truth.

    https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/3914740/potty-mouthed-adele-breaks-her-swearing-record-during-wembley-gig-as-she-unleashes-44-fs-one-ae-one-ps-one-dk-seven-ss-one-tt-and-one-bd/

  • Bossy704

    They do not care about your fame. That is actually a hindrance. They just want your money. It doesn't matter what you look like. Get a man who spends and it will weed out the riff raff. Probably an older foreigner ala' Janet Jackson.

  • Bossy704

    I can't imagine she hasn't lost weight with her tour and dance sets. She seems to have gotten bigger.

  • chris

    I'm referring to her music not her personal life.

  • Zedian Queen

    White people LOVE her...thats all she need. she dont need yall hating black A*** lol!

  • Zedian Queen

    Right...these black blogs always kill me when they hating on their own. Black Americans such a broken race, cant support one another!!

  • Facts and Receipts

    Your radio doesn't bleep it out for You? We offended by one bitch inserted into a song? If you don't like her ok. But music is a choice.

  • TriniHarlem

    Hard to give where credit is due for most folks. One thing I pride myself in is I don't have to like you but I won't sht on your accomplishments.

  • Facts and Receipts

    *offended

  • hottlanta

    White folks loved themselves some oj simpson as well n u can see what happened to him.

  • chris

    Nah she say way more than that. Her music her choice obviously but my opinion still stands

  • YouWontSayItButIWill

    She has gotten bigger......

  • Karen Brady

    "Your radio doesn't bleep it out for You?" Teee heee..

  • Hazel

    Welp. That tells you what she REALLY thinks about herself. Apparently she doesn't feel worthy without the fame. Next...

  • Facts and Receipts

    All music is a choice. You never have to listen to anything. This is like the lady who said other day she was FORCED to listen to R. Kelly up at the Applebees. Nah. You weren't forced. Your opinion indeed. To each.

  • MsSapphire9800

    You had me until I read T.I....but I get it..

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Probably 85% of your suitors will waste your time if you let them.

  • MsPam

    Lil Nas claims he’s ghey . These two will break that pony’s back trying to ride on out. ??

  • Republican Dude

    As she shouldn't trust men. Looking like a big azz webble wobble care bear!

  • ClaireHuxtable

    If you were willing to accept just anybody...you would have somebody. Fleshmongers aren't hard to find.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Doesn't she play an instrument too...the flute?

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Big wyte women can have their pick.

  • Logan Roberts

    Glad she realizes the truth and now we can move on ?. And men will use anybody.

  • dontgetblocked

    I like her music but she talks too much. And her costumes...

  • dontgetblocked

    Those fat women are demanding. You also have to bathe them and change their diapers. They earn that state money. Can you imagine what's in those diapers?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Ha,ha,ha!!!
    I have a type that's not easy to find.

    Unfortunately my type would lead me to married men who seem to be the only ones attracted to me.
    *sad*

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Get yo life together, Rod! I'm not trying to read the following post:
    Hello Everyone! This is Roderick's mother. He won't be posting for a while. You see...he was sh0t in the butt by a jealous woman and won't be able to sit still for quite some time.

  • MistaO

    Yall cold...???

  • Miss Thang

    She has a really beautiful face?

  • Miss Thang

    So you’re ageist now?

  • Tammie Reed

    Interesting

  • Tammie Reed

    .....that always surprises me too! All that hopping around on stage, busy as hell with schedule etc and sometimes people get bigger. I see background dancers that are thick too and I'm like how? You're literally doing cardio all damn day long! Mind boggling lol.

  • Jacqueline Byrd

    I am so glad you posted this because I have never had a problem getting a man because of my weight. And all women no matter what their size is have the same problem. And men have the same problem with women. I don't know why people think that just because a man advertise a certain type of woman who looks a certain that that is what he likes. But they must have never heard about a beard. Men in hollywood do it, regular men do it and that just be a front. I love Lizzo, Megan the Stallion etc.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    I just saw an article over at DM:
    The bride asked her size 10 bridesmaid to lose 30 lbs. so they could all be "symmetric".
    I think I'd tell her..."I'll sit this one out. Catch you on your next wedding". https://media0.giphy.com/media/YyFTthi1H5p0Q/giphy.gif

  • KcoolMuziq
  • hottlanta

    I have a harriett tubman slave moment when they wake up cant go to the bathroom n gotta pee in a bucket. Did u see the one where she was toooo big to fit in the shower n she got to be hosed down like a horse outside. Freaked me out.

  • Dahl

    That’ll be tough. She’s a celebrity, so likely people will be attracted to that first, unfortunately...

  • Xin11

    Do your thing Lizzo talking bout she can’t get a good fine ass man because of her weight. Pierce Brosnan’s wife is not a slim woman but she is beautiful and Pierce loves every inch of her!!!!

  • Guess Who

    LMAO ...I wouldn't exactly say she's "famous". She's a fat woman, who is the sterotypical fat woman. Loud, jolly and over the top. For all we know she's a one trick pony....and the novelty will wear off soon.

  • FJ

    True

  • Ricklaw

    She's delusional what famous category does she fit in n she says the man have to be fine but she's obese but she have high standards on a man and she is planning on being single forever if that's her way of thinking

  • yvette46

    She sound ignorant..

  • Alextra Ballard

    She looks a tad bit like Jilly from Philly in that red outfit

  • Dreamer

    Now Sandra “Charlamagne” Rose you know good and well Lizzo never said she prefers Cacausian men, she just said that Liam is fine ??? You so stupid lmao

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I simply repeated what she said. No fake news here. ?

  • Dun Dilly

    She correct...UNLESS dude is a CHUBBY CHASER.

  • Zeta1920

    She was thin at first. She has a thyroid condition. She just lost over 120 pounds.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    LOL girl Im over here starving myself and they up there cussing their men out abusing and they still stay.. LOL.. I almost want to grab a pan of mac n cheese and say eff it!

  • WutizstillHERE!

    Not all... some married their women prior to them being that heavy. They just never left... I have seen a ton (no pun) of women who are 300 plus with men who adore them so please stop throwing YOUR perception of what people like/love on to others assuming the don't deserve or can be loved..that is the most ridiculous part of self righteous people.. Anybody can be and deserves love ok. Trust me there are people in this world that will look at you and say "No Thanks"...

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    LOL im for real tho ?

  • Guess Who

    When? I saw baby, kid and teen pics of her and she was heavy in every one of those pics.

  • Dreamer

    You a whole fool Sandy and I’m weak asf ?

  • Myopinion

    I'm glad to see she has standards. People act like just because you're over weight or you may not look like a star, that you're suppose to accept anything. Well I'm glad she see herself more worthy. Keep your head up Lizzo

  • hottlanta

    Even though l am beautiful that l am not everyone type. Those who want someone 300lbs more power to u. I know l dont want one because l am very active. I like to exercise l love to travel by plane overseas n l love sex. So someone obese wouldnt foot my bill. Please dont say he is a nice guy. If he was such a nice guy he wouldnt sit up n let himself get that big.

  • WutizstillHERE!

    You are attractive according to you(as you should feel not judging that)... not everyone would agree just like not everyone will agree that someone of a heavier size isn't. I'm not a heavy woman at all, but I won't assume a level of overall attractiveness to the world based on that.. Size doesn't denote nice or nasty its character. BTW some people can have external flaws like weight but inside are the kindest people.. then there are judgmental folk who assume they are better because of their personal standards..those are internal flaws... now the funny thing about the two is the heavy person can lose the weight and still be a beautiful person..but if your ugly on the inside..that problem can never be fixed with working out...

  • hottlanta

    It is unattrative 2 b with someone n u cant live your best life with. Stop with the played out good on the inside. Like we all love morris chestnut for his spirit. I cant b true to myself if l wanna go for a walk run or game of basketball n my mate huffing n puffing. Do l stop flying bcas my mate is too fat for the plane seat n we need to drive 14 hours versus take a 2 hour flight each time we travel. Do l deprieve myself sexually like one of my friends bcas her husband is obese n they got only one position all the time n when he is on top his chest n stomach is all over her.. But she aint supposed to complain at least she got a man. That is not shallow that is a fact. A lot of those fat women u talking bout got a man l bet they wasnt his first choice when he walked into the room. Fat people dont purposely seek other fat people as mates because they know the struggle of being with one.

  • onelove

    she is telling the truth to!!

  • WutizstillHERE!

    Best life according to who..you? Who are YOU to assess what someones "Best life" should be? You can absolutely be true to yourself but don't get your truth mixed up with someone else's.. Morris isn't my be all finest truthfully. He is handsome but he isn't the end all be all. You went on a tangent about sex and flying...AGAIN you are putting yourself in someone else's shoes who didn't ask you to be there... why does what other peoples likes and dislikes both you? You can love who you want and be your happiest you..let them do the same is all and for your last pointer...which made me laugh..uhhh you don't think choice is a two way street? If a heavier person choose a thinner person...don't they have to choose them as well? BTW you have been seeing the trend lately havent you LOL.. alot of big girls are being chosen... I have a friend who is every bit 250 at 5'4". Her husband met her that way..her husband is about 6'2" slim and takes care of her and their 4 boys...loves her.. so again.. love who you love and stop judging folks for not loving the same thing...

  • hottlanta

    Please stop acting like if someone chose a big girl it is some new phénoménal thing. They have always been chosen. My girlfriend over 60 has had 3 husbands. So a man validation is proof they r loved. My friend who has been heavy all her life is now fighting for her life because her body can no later carry her weight. She has lost 100lbs n has a way 2 go. Her kids wanted 2 take her on a cruise but couldnt go bcas her body couldnt take the long drive n flying was out of the question. She missed out on life opportunities bcas of her weight n it pains me to hear her say that but u keep trying to pretty being overweight up as some kind of joke as if we should ignore the reality. Have u talked to those women who married those obese men n have to tie his shoes n bath him everyday n they say when l got married l wasnt expecting this n their face speaks volumes. Do u think it is okay for a mom to sit in the bed n eat all day n the kids gotta take care of her robbing them of their childhood n they r babies in elementary school. That is what l meant when l said it is unattractive to b with someone u cant enjoy life with. I stand by that. U go on n keep being with someone bcas of their spirit only n forget about the reality of the situation u gonna find yourself all messed up. Ask my friend how she feels about missing out on a cruise bcas of her weight n get back with me.

  • Chapter29Chick

    If I were in her shoes I would definitely be single and find something to do in life other than trying to connect with any of these crazy self centered confusing men. There is more meaning to life than a relationship. I’m learning this right b4 30 & will be telling my daughters the same thing.

  • parisjok

    she was slim when he married her but she did have two babies by him

  • WutizstillHERE!

    I see youre not understanding what I am saying so lets agree to disagree ok. take care.