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A man who was bullied in a viral Facebook video for dating a male-to-female transgender committed suicide. Maurice Willoughby, aka Reese Him Daddie, was only 20 when he took his own life after defending his relationship with Faith, who was born a biological male.

Aazios.com first reported the news.

Willoughby defended his relationship on Facebook last month. He even tattooed Faith's name on his forehead.

"Y'all can say whatever about faith I really don't care if she not passable I don't care if she wasn't born a woman she is a woman to me & I love her flaws that's what makes her faith if you heard her story it's motivating..... I'm happy you should be happy for me".

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But social media users bullied Willoughby, according to a friend, who said Willoughby had a history of mental problems, including depression.

"He was getting picked on and joked on all the time," a close friend told Aazios.com. "Where we are from, if you like trans woman, and you black, the streets will talk about you, fight you, even try to kill you. He was dealing with a lot."

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Amiyah Scott, a MtF transgender who starred on the now cancelled series "Star", tweeted a plea to end the stigma of transgenders dating heterosexual men.

"Loving a transgender woman is not wrong and I really wish we could break that stigma," Scott tweeted on Monday, Aug. 19.

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  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Bye Felica!

  • What???

    BOOM BYE BYE

  • Carrington

    Well, we all know that, in the black community, being the "f ag" nephew is WAY worse than being the drug dealing, incessant baby daddying, drug abusing, woman abusing, murderer who's in jail doing a 35 year bid.

    Why? Well, because when he killed two dudes who "disrespected him" by stepping on his new Nike while he was at the club... he was proving his manhood.

    Raykeese? The gay nephew? Well, he's "disgusting" and can't be trusted around your kids by himself because a man who likes men also likes little boys (although common sense says that a man who likes women DOESN'T like little girls)... ***Insert side eye here***

    *Read with all the sarcasm with which this was typed*

    This is what you get when we try to get folk to understand that, although people HAVE differences - they're still PEOPLE.

    Poor kid. Bless his heart.

  • bemetoo

    Omg how awful... to profess your love to another then go kill yourself because you didn’t love yourself enough... poor baby where the fawk was his parents... never mind they probably Diss own him... poor baby thought he was fawking a real girl but turned out he was fawking a Science project and fell love ??

  • doriday

    Our community does this to one another.

  • doriday

    We want acceptance but we can't accept one of our own for who they are.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    People make me sick .... so much bullying on that platform .... been there and survived thank God by walking away .... people are mean as hell ... demons roam on FB ..... all those apps can kiss my azz .... smh .... and it will get worse

  • gellie

    You are not a heterosexual male if you date trans. They don't want labeled bi or gay....maybe they need to come up with a new term. Add some more letters to the Alphabet Mafia. But you are not straight if you are dating people biologically the same gender as you. Amiyah Scott and these other famous trans females need to stop putting these niggas in trick bag having them believe dating them is the same as dating a woman... IT'S NOT.

  • Chris

    Poor young man. We have to love all of our kids, no matter who they love.

  • KLove

    too soon too soon LOL

  • Coy little wink

    Stay off social media. But these kids can't do it...

  • Chris

    You aren’t lying. They can’t stay away.

  • Ni Ni

    How sad. It is possible to have a life outside of social media, young folks. Get off of it and live your life. The internet is not always a nice place.

  • Carrington

    Staying off social media will change the thought process that caused him to kill himself? That's the fix? Not to address the mentality that caused the bullying - just log off of YOUR computer so you won't see it?

  • bemetoo

    Poor baby ... but damn if you see that trans without wig and makeup ? ??? and hear he/she speak chhhhhhiiiilllleeee he would be better off dating a regular gay boy

  • Angelique Johnson

    I really do feel bad that he felt that he had to take his life. But this generation of young adults do feel the need to put all of the story online.
    Everyone is not going to agree with what you do r how you feel and they really need to understand that.

    Praying for his family and friends.

  • Coy little wink

    If he hadn't been on there sharing and defending his relationship he wouldn't have been bullied...no?

    He's 20 not in school so yes..i blame the platform...

    you don't need anyone's criticism or validation so why subject yourself to that? Just love who you love

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Actually, its THAT simple ?????

  • Karen Brady

    So confused. In many other posts where we have seen men with face tattoos who have murdered their women or whomever, the Roses were quick to talk about him being crazy because anyone with a face tatoo is automatically crazy and not to be trusted. Okay, no argument there. But this man got his transvestite's name stamped into his face and so he's not crazy? He should have been trusted not not take his own life? Make it make sense. Actually, don't cuz I don't care but you can't straddle the fence. I said my piece.

  • Gamer????? Chick
  • MsJC

    It's not wrong, but you are no longer heterosexual if you date a used to be boy!

  • RuRu Raechel
  • Karen Brady

    This part - "you are no longer heterosexual if you date a used to be boy!"

  • Just Me

    Well you have to disconnect from social media if you are mentally unstable. It is healthy to take time away from the internet. He should accepted that everybody isn’t going to accept his trans girlfriend. Move on, clearly he was disappointed in himself as a man to kill himself.????? It’s so peaceful when you don’t login to some social media accounts, it feel like old times before all the mess associated with being connected to everyone all the time.

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    It ain't nobody fault but yours that you don't love yourself to be comfortable in your own decisions. Foh and miss with the "black community" bs. We are not all responsible for the actions of others simply because of our skin color. Isn't that what y'all say when y'all are stereotyped?? Keep that same energy! ?

  • Aurice Pearson

    FR FR: This story isnt about sexual preference, as its about mental health. In or out of a relationship: the deceased was mental unstable.

  • Trentaye

    You black anti-LGBT Nazis are on your jobs as usual.

  • Carrington

    Isn't that as ridiculous as suggesting that if you don't go to the doctor to find out that you have cancer; you won't know it?
    Wouldn't DIAGNOSING the cancer be the better option? Why should a person with access to the internet not use it because there are ignorant assed adults on there? This position, mind you, is coming from people ON the internet as they offer up advice...

  • Aurice Pearson

    @twitch@nylapop:disqus
    Everything you said, and just how you said!

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    Social media is brutal. Social media is not the final say for what to do in life and be happy. I am so sorry for this young man and for his partner having to feel this loss. Moreover, I say this, save the special things in life for you, not everyone needs a front row seat.

  • LoveChild

    RIP. I’m sure that poor guy was fatherless and wasn’t supported by his father many mentally ill and depressed black males are fatherless I’m going to keep bringing this up because it’s important.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Mentally Ill+ Dating a Transgender +Social Media+ Denial= https://media0.giphy.com/media/4GIvR6cmYs8jC/giphy.gif

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop
  • Wish I was on another planet

    Social Media is the devil. Work on yourself with God and keep it off Social Media! RIP??

  • LoveChild

    Then why don’t you go to an online space that supports gay black males?

  • Renee26

    The lover posted that it wasn't related to bullying it was related to depression and pill addiction

  • Karen Brady

    You summed it right on up.

  • Dr. P

    Unfortunately, oversharing on social media played a HUGE part in this. It's sad, love who you want, but in situations like this, I wish he kept his love life private because he wasn't strong enough to deal with the public harassment in the end.

  • Renee26

    Fragile people should stay off social media... It's not healthy with all the illusions. They'll be comparing themselves and their situations to everything they see.

  • TriniHarlem

    Live life outside of social media and that cuts out most of the bs. Trust, life will give you enough bs don't go adding extra.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    The bullying is magnified on there.... and the peer pressure is even more magnified .... breeding Narcs .... and that is a behavioral disorder .... a way more serious one than even a psychologist will admit ....

  • Trentaye

    Because it's my life's mission to expose and destroy black homophobes! I'm rising in the ranks of LGBT clout to annihilate you black Nazis GLOBALLY.

  • Renee26

    It's no secret that he had mental issues

  • Coy little wink

    I actually think social media is contributing to mental illness people are becoming so self absorbed and concerned about acceptance from total strangers they can't distinguish from reality anymore...

    And the bullying as well...it crosses a dangerous line

  • Karen Brady

    *chucking my azz off*

  • Renee26

    Yes, then work on self

  • TriniHarlem

    Society as a whole is super sensitive. Add the fact that most have super thin skin and it's a perfect recipe for disaster

  • LoveChild

    Well this will be my last time speaking to you because I am not a black nazi.

    I am a woke black woman and I don’t mammy anybody.

    Anyway most of you gay black males don’t even date each other you’re always chasing white males. Then you complain about being used as a sexual fetish?????.

    You’re on your own son, without black women riding for you gay black males I don’t know what’s going to become of you.

    Good luck with your platform I won’t be speaking to you anymore.

  • Real Greasy

    The hood new about his transgender and probably saw him evolve into one from pee wee sports thru high school wearing women accessories etc...Reese took the next big step and announced it on social media with thin skin and possibly some type of mental default ... New a dude in my hood who walked the hood holding his azz shaking dude hand and nobody called him out of his name in his face or behind his back cause his pluck game was nothing to play with... therefore he got the respect from the hood whereas reese let dudes step all over his kicks cause he wasn't built like that!!!

  • Dun Dilly

    Tats on face = prison/death before 25

  • Karen Brady

    I just saw your post upstairs and this was my first thought. Thanks.

  • Coy little wink

    Yes! See my comment below...its scary!

  • Meme

    How about those that have both mother and father in their life but still go on to commit suicide or arel depressed? Just curious to hear your pov

  • LoveChild

    When you see black males over sharing like that on social media that means they didn’t get attention from their fathers when they were boys. Black fatherlessness is a big factor and it’s going to be coming out more in the year 2020 it’s black males karma.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I really don't care if she not passable I don't care if she wasn't born a woman she is a woman to me & I love her flaws that's what makes her faith
    ********************************************************************************
    I'm not trying to be funny but did he refer to her p.nis as a flaw? Lol.

    People really need to log off of SM and live their real life. Imagine your actual life being great and you allow mfers online push you over the edge.

  • LoveChild

    I agree with you. I don’t have Instagram and I’m not on Twitter for that very reason.

  • Dun Dilly

    Lastly: the fact that women are ok with trans men calling themselves the NEW WOMEN is interesting. Time to get your Jesus on!

  • TriniHarlem

    I'm always mad at myself for giggling at the most inappropriate times. Damn gif

  • Li-Wright

    I don't get it. I'm from another time. Tats on the face.....why? You are instantly recognized and if you commit a crime, it's identifiable....I just don't get it. It shows some kind of mental disorder.
    Anywho, I do wish the MtF trans would admit that they are gay men who want to have sex with other men, and use the trans to legitimatize their feelings. That's all it is. A man (who dresses as a female) having sex with another man.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Yup. There was a time when people would write their innermost thoughts in private diaries and journals. Now they put all their thoughts, all their business, on the net for everybody to see. And a lot of time they're clearly not prepared for the reaction they're going to get. Sad.

  • Dollface

    Ugh! Shut up. I will not be brainwashed or bullied into acceptance. Sorry not sorry.

  • Li-Wright

    Sick. Sick. Like I've said before....if I was a female actress or model or athlete, no way would I compete with a MtF trans. No way.

  • LoveChild

    I’m focusing on black American people. You will rarely find a black American who has a mother and father involved in their life committing suicide that’s my point of view.

    There’s a big difference between being depressed and suicidal but nice try.

    And you’re another person in denial you can’t even admit we have a black fatherless problem in the first place!

  • Karen Brady

    not sorry.

  • Miss Lady

    I'm still trying to figure out how a "straight man" can date a MTF and still be straight? Is that pre or post OP? ????
    Anyway, keep your business off of the World Wide Web and a lot of your problems could be eliminated.

  • Meme

    Some one with all those face tattoos and random piercings all over is reckless. He was clearly a very troubled young man, may he rest in peace, too young

  • gellie

    Totally agree. And this is a conversation that needs to be had. I think the Alphabet Crew needs to repurpose the word 'Transsexual', and have that be for folks who date/prefer transgendered people.

  • Li-Wright

    Maybe he had guilt about having the relationship and social media is his way of getting his guilt out.

  • Li-Wright

    Bullying is the icing on the cake.

  • Li-Wright

    Bullying is the icing on the cake.

  • LoveChild

    Poor black people with face tattoos are seriously mentally ill

  • LoveChild

    Poor black people with face tattoos are seriously mentally ill

  • LoveChild

    That’s the denial that many fatherless black males have. They are really fucked up and lie about so many issues

  • LoveChild

    That’s the denial that many fatherless black males have. They are really fucked up and lie about so many issues

  • LoveChild

    Trust me black women I know aren’t riding for this male to female transsexuals as the new woman ? quietly we are not supporting them and we pay them dust.

  • LoveChild

    Trust me black women I know aren’t riding for this male to female transsexuals as the new woman ? quietly we are not supporting them and we pay them dust.

  • Renee26

    Yeah

  • Renee26

    Yeah

  • Li-Wright

    Lovechild, what you write makes sense, because I see more and more black men who are trans. Very few white males compared to black men. It's like the Trans blk male is coming out like roaches.

  • Li-Wright

    Lovechild, what you write makes sense, because I see more and more black men who are trans. Very few white males compared to black men. It's like the Trans blk male is coming out like roaches.

  • LoveChild

    A black psychiatrist told me that black males who are gay and called them selves male to female transsexual to do it because they were unprotected as little boys and they want “feminine privilege” to be protected by males also known as the daddy they never had.

  • LoveChild

    A black psychiatrist told me that black males who are gay and called them selves male to female transsexual to do it because they were unprotected as little boys and they want “feminine privilege” to be protected by males also known as the daddy they never had.

  • Vonda K

    Ode To Billy Jo.
    Old heads recall that movie?

  • Vonda K

    Ode To Billy Jo.
    Old heads recall that movie?

  • Yup, I said it

    Anybody with face tattoos has poor decision making skills.

  • Yup, I said it

    Anybody with face tattoos has poor decision making skills.

  • Juliaquan C Spain

    What you believe in is your preference, we have that right, but when you in a situation where you know social media is going to on the attack why post...just live what you believe in and stay off social media.

  • Juliaquan C Spain

    What you believe in is your preference, we have that right, but when you in a situation where you know social media is going to on the attack why post...just live what you believe in and stay off social media.

  • Li-Wright

    Interesting. There were psychological studies done on Transg who had body assignments. They weren't happy before the surgery that's why they got the surgery. Not happy after the surgery.

  • Li-Wright

    Interesting. There were psychological studies done on Transg who had body assignments. They weren't happy before the surgery that's why they got the surgery. Not happy after the surgery.

  • Meme

    YOU SAID:
    "RIP. I’m sure that poor guy was fatherless and wasn’t supported by his father many mentally ill and DEPRESSED black males are fatherless I’m going to keep bringing this up because it’s important."

    Maybe you need to tell YOURSELF that there is a big difference between being depressed and suicidal since you where the one that mentioned it in your previous statement jeez,

  • Meme

    YOU SAID:
    "RIP. I’m sure that poor guy was fatherless and wasn’t supported by his father many mentally ill and DEPRESSED black males are fatherless I’m going to keep bringing this up because it’s important."

    Maybe you need to tell YOURSELF that there is a big difference between being depressed and suicidal since you where the one that mentioned it in your previous statement jeez,

  • Li-Wright

    I wouldn't hire them.

  • Li-Wright

    I wouldn't hire them.

  • LoveChild

    No they are rarely happy. And some of the black male to female trans I know well all of them bleach their skin and wear a blond wig or weave they really work the damsel in distress routine and really want to have straight man caring for and protecting them.

    None of them get the straight man in the end because straight men don’t date male to female trans queer and bisexual males do and most M2F end up alone.

  • LoveChild

    No they are rarely happy. And some of the black male to female trans I know well all of them bleach their skin and wear a blond wig or weave they really work the damsel in distress routine and really want to have straight man caring for and protecting them.

    None of them get the straight man in the end because straight men don’t date male to female trans queer and bisexual males do and most M2F end up alone.

  • Vonda K

    Amen x 100

  • Vonda K

    Amen x 100

  • Renee26

    Right, no matter the color. Beware

  • Renee26

    Right, no matter the color. Beware

  • TriniHarlem

    Bingo!

  • TriniHarlem

    Bingo!

  • Yup, I said it

    This is deeper than the MtoF relationship.The "stigma" really comes from their own insecurity with who they are. People historically resorted to suicide when their choices in love are taboo be it a Jewish person in love with a Muslim or a Black person in live with a White person. Thsts what Romeo and Juliet was all about. The shame comes when you don't accept yourself. Its no one else's cross to accept your choices. Your choices are your cross to bear and nobody elses.

  • Yup, I said it

    This is deeper than the MtoF relationship.The "stigma" really comes from their own insecurity with who they are. People historically resorted to suicide when their choices in love are taboo be it a Jewish person in love with a Muslim or a Black person in live with a White person. Thsts what Romeo and Juliet was all about. The shame comes when you don't accept yourself. Its no one else's cross to accept your choices. Your choices are your cross to bear and nobody elses.

  • Dowoop

    At their age, I'm sure "she" still has her penis.

  • Dowoop

    At their age, I'm sure "she" still has her penis.

  • Dowoop

    Before anybody comes for me, I'm well aware the alphabet gang has every right to be their true selves but nobody other than you needs to accept you. I do not understand the need to come out to strangers. The world is not going to change for you.

  • Dowoop

    Before anybody comes for me, I'm well aware the alphabet gang has every right to be their true selves but nobody other than you needs to accept you. I do not understand the need to come out to strangers. The world is not going to change for you.

  • LoveChild

    Kindly fuck off. You sound like a triggered powerless fatherles black male or some silly black female mammy.
    I’m not here to debate with idiots so kick rocks I won’t be responding to you anymore.

  • LoveChild

    Kindly fuck off. You sound like a triggered powerless fatherles black male or some silly black female mammy.
    I’m not here to debate with idiots so kick rocks I won’t be responding to you anymore.

  • AveIvy

    If you're going to date a MTF transperson, then you better get some thick skin or keep your business to yourself.

  • AveIvy

    If you're going to date a MTF transperson, then you better get some thick skin or keep your business to yourself.

  • Coffee1st

    Black males karma???
    You know what, I don't even want to know.

  • Coffee1st

    Black males karma???
    You know what, I don't even want to know.

  • Vonda K

    Less about sexual preference and more about depression, substance abuse and dam social media!
    Everything isn’t for everyone to see. People with fragile psychological issues should not be on social media. You already know people are bullies and internet gangster who prey on anyone.

  • Dowoop

    Ye ye nobody cares.

  • Miss Lady

    I agree, but they seem to think they're straight.

  • GAPeach

    I do!

  • Dowoop

    He's batshit crazy

  • Vonda K

    Lol.
    Seriously, most rappers have face tattoos. Case closed

  • Dowoop

    Well you would think you would want to work on yourself before you try to fix other ppl.

  • LoveChild

    ? you know already you see it every day in black communities you see all the fatherless kids and how fucked up they are- that’s black males karma.

    This fatherless bullshit has been going on for too long and it’s getting worse and worse now black males are even making jokes about not paying child support like it’s funny not to raise your own seed sickening wimps.

    Fatherlessness is black males karma, you can’t and won’t rise as a man if you don’t take care of your children. PeriodT. ?????

  • Miss Lady

    I've always said social media is the devil's play ground. I have no accounts outside of the foolishness I partake in on a few blogs. You will not find my life on the World Wide Web.

  • NeverSurprised

    I'm old so I really don't understand --- why don't people simply get off of Facebook or whatever platform they are on if they are being harrassed there? It seems crazy to me that young people seem to think they have only two choices -- stay on SM, or kill themselves. Just LOG OFF, go hang out with your boy/girlfriend, and live your life in relative peace. I regret that there was no one in his life to talk some sense into him.

  • HOPoutWITthaThiccnez

    So True, and he was having sex with her/ him on his instagram page, No shame in his game, Couldn't have been about being bullied for being in a relationship with a trans, I mean he had her name FAITH tatted clear across his face. It was more of Depression or Drugs.

  • Dowoop

    The same way we block the nut jobs on here, they can block the nut jobs on SM. Also why do ppl have so many strangers on their SM?

  • Karen Brady

    All this.

  • butterscotch

    I think you really need to accept yourself as gay before anyone else can. There's no way you can't be ashamed of your sexuality and then put it out there and expect acceptance, everyone isn't going to be nice. You have to fix you first.

  • Karen Brady

    THIS!

  • LoveChild

    Color matters at this topic because it’s a black male who killed him self don’t give me that all lives bullshit

  • Coy little wink

    Chile...

    I don't understand why people need that much attention. Face piercings tatts AND Facebook. Smh...

  • Yup, I said it

    I wouldnt make eye contact with them either. Like those people who split their tongues. I refuse to watch that side show act. Lifes to short to mutilate and deform ourselves unnecessarily. Theres enough diseases out there to do it for you. Enjoy your bodies is the perfection that was intended for as long as you can.

  • LoveChild

    It’s due to fatherlessness. Most gay black boys are fatherless deep down they want to be protected by a man so they try to be as feminine as possible to attract an alpha male

  • Let them eat cake

    you can tell he wasn't right in the mind just going off of this picture.

  • Karen Brady

    Why am I chuckling?

  • Sushi

    I hate to hear this.... This is only why I date men that know who they are, no wife, girlfriend or on the DL and don't have a care of what the world thinks. He knows he is a man regardless of how he serves me the D at night..... I feel sorry for this young man his family and the TS in this situation..... The bottom line is live your life, what someone else F***S don't make you cum....

  • NeverSurprised

    As I said, this isn't my generation so I don't get it at all. Letting COMPLETE STRANGERS, on a computer, push you to the point of suicide????? I'm glad I'm old.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Star", tweeted a plea to end the stigma of transgenders dating heterosexual men....... the problem with that line is that a man is not heterosexual if he is sleeping with a trans that makes him homosexual. And someone’s sexual preference is no one else’s business folks keep announcing and putting stuff out there that ain’t nobody business but yours and the person you sleeping with damn!

  • Minx Mosaic

    I know y'all mean well, but some of you need to stop saying, "Love who you want"... Pedophiles are using that exact statement to fight for the right to love and molest children. Be careful what rights you give to one group because you'll have to end up giving those same rights to all groups. It's sad and sick but true.

  • Yup, I said it

    Smoke and mirrors. If a person is gay, then cool. We understand that. If a man dates another man in a wig with a fileted penis he's still gay. Clothes don't make the man or rather dresses don't make the woman. I wish they would stop trying to confuse the general public.

  • Renee

    Well, Amiyah, ”Dating an MTF is not right either”! Not every natal female and male will accept ”Genitalia Mutilation” & the deceit associated. Ever!?????

  • Carrington

    Why was there a NEED to defend his relationship? BECAUSE he was being bullied... or are we turning this around to blame the victim some more? If he was defending his relationship with an obese WOMAN - this conversation wouldn't be about, "stay off the internet so that you don't have to see the bullies!".

    If your child was being bullied at school, is your first response to remove your child from the school - or address the BULLIES and then work something out? Why, in this situation, is the first response, "Fuc# the bullies... they're not the problem - your desire to use YOUR phone in the same way all these grown assed MFs telling you to get off your phone for a while - is the problem.

    What's funny is that I've never met not ONE of you, but I "know" damn near each and every ONE of you... why? Because y'all got y'all asses on the INTERNET on SANDRAROSE all damn day long... but y'all telling somebody to get off the internet. REALLY?

  • fawkery

    All this "trans woman" talk is nothing more than toxic "femininity." Just cause you throw on a loud wig/weave, throw paint your face, glue mink fur on your eye lashes, get artificial boobs and hips and wear fashion nova's finest does NOT make you a woman, periodt! There will always be a stigma because it is NOT natural unless you have a uterus, ovaries, estrogen and a vag for insertion/popping out kids. Everything else is a caricature of feminity and often meant to emulate black women therefore it is toxic!

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    Lol

  • Meme

    Aye lol, i can see you are somewhat touched and therefore unable to carry out a simple conversation i shall kindly leave you be chale ??

  • Virgoqween

    Wouldn’t have helped in his case actually. There’s video of him being harassed about it in his neighborhood. Even if he wasn’t on SM he was getting dragged somewhere

  • Virgoqween

    He was outed by some random dudes on the street it went viral so he tried to embrace it cuz he was out and caught but he would get thousands of comments on it

  • Virgoqween

    He was outed by some random dudes on the street it went viral so he tried to embrace it cuz he was out and caught but he would get thousands of comments on it

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    LOL

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    LOL

  • Applebum

    I can’t say Rest In Peace because my Bible says suicide is an unforgivable sin. It’s sad he couldn’t handle the pressure. Not everyone is going to agree with your alternative lifestyle. Maybe he wanted praises on social media. I must say this, I noticed that white and nonblack MTF transgenders gets a pass more than a black/dark skinned transgender. I’m willing to bet if the transgender was nonblack, the bullying would have been less and most of his peers would have said things like “I can’t lie, she bad bro” “I’d still hit” smh

  • Applebum

    I can’t say Rest In Peace because my Bible says suicide is an unforgivable sin. It’s sad he couldn’t handle the pressure. Not everyone is going to agree with your alternative lifestyle. Maybe he wanted praises on social media. I must say this, I noticed that white and nonblack MTF transgenders gets a pass more than a black/dark skinned transgender. I’m willing to bet if the transgender was nonblack, the bullying would have been less and most of his peers would have said things like “I can’t lie, she bad bro” “I’d still hit” smh

  • Virgoqween

    He ain’t claim straight

  • Virgoqween

    He ain’t claim straight

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    Wish I would off myself because of an social media. FOH

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    Wish I would off myself because of an social media. FOH

  • Dowoop

    Booty Bandit?

  • Dowoop

    Booty Bandit?

  • Coy little wink

    I didn't say get off the internet. I'm speaking specifically about social media...Facebook. There are even people who work at Facebook who have spoken out it against it as well. It's a real problem and yes...i said it. I've never had a Facebook account.

    This blog is no comparison to me but ironically I seem to have triggered you and it feels like you are bullying me now. If one of the roses or a thorn in here committed suicide because of what someone said my opinion would be the same. If you can't handle heat in here please...protect your self and stay away...

    Now where did I say fukk the bullies sir? Like seriously stay focused don't put words in my font ? I'm talking about teens and kids in their 20s not adults who should know how to dialogue without getting beside themselves

  • Coy little wink

    I didn't say get off the internet. I'm speaking specifically about social media...Facebook. There are even people who work at Facebook who have spoken out it against it as well. It's a real problem and yes...i said it. I've never had a Facebook account.

    This blog is no comparison to me but ironically I seem to have triggered you and it feels like you are bullying me now. If one of the roses or a thorn in here committed suicide because of what someone said my opinion would be the same. If you can't handle heat in here please...protect your self and stay away...

    Now where did I say fukk the bullies sir? Like seriously stay focused don't put words in my font ? I'm talking about teens and kids in their 20s not adults who should know how to dialogue without getting beside themselves

  • MsPam

    Something should be kept to yourself. RIP young man.

  • MsPam

    Something should be kept to yourself. RIP young man.

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    *An Idle Mind*

  • Louisville Is4TheBirds

    *An Idle Mind*

  • chan chan

    It’s none of my business what people do with their private parts

  • chan chan

    It’s none of my business what people do with their private parts

  • stav

    So sick of this topic, if there is "trans" in front , it's not a woman/man!

  • stav

    So sick of this topic, if there is "trans" in front , it's not a woman/man!

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    That's the same person who posts as dontgetdraggedhoe, so the level of crazy is the same... because it's the same person.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    That's the same person who posts as dontgetdraggedhoe, so the level of crazy is the same... because it's the same person.

  • Applebum

    They’re working on erasing the stigma and they will succeed. They’re pulling on people’s heart strings with these ghey bullying stories. They always seems to make the news. People will accept it in the name of love “Let’s love one another. Love has no gender” etc.

  • Coffee1st

    ????
    Well I'll tell you what.
    First of all, by the amount of times you've mentioned "fatherless black boys" on here, one would think you're getting paid for the s**t. ??
    Second of all, let's go ahead and put that unspoken truth that the black community don't like to talk about.
    ?? Black Mothers??
    And their role in poor decision making bringing children into this world with broke, uneducated, sorry, lying manboys. And after realizing their frog aint gonna turn into a Prince Charming just because she fkt him, becomes bitter and takes it out on her children. All the while bringing man after man after man through the house. Leaving her daughters AND sons at the mercy of "some man".
    That responsibility is SHARED much of the time.
    No good ast men? Sure!
    But it's a WHOLE bunch of no good azz women out here too. From Councilwomen to female pimps who push coke. I've seen them across the educational/economic spectrum. And they were WHOLE pieces of SHHIT.
    Furthermore, it is continuing but it's not getting worse. Stop lying.

  • Let them eat cake

    thank you. thats what i keep saying and its a reality ppl do not want to face because it forces them to look at life and its true meaning. where do we draw the line? because pedophiles can say that they have a natural attraction towards children and who can say its wrong? ppl dont like religion anymore so who's to say what's wrong and right? that will be the next argument. this is why they're trying to say that young kids already know what sex they are at 4 yrs old so that pedos can say that a child can fully consent. this will def happen. new york already approved full term abortions and remember when ppl used to think that anything over 3 months of pregnancy was murder...now ppl are approving of full term abortions....who's going to be able to say what is right and what's wrong if we are all human and no one can "tell another person how to live their truth".

  • LoveChild

    Fatherless Fatherless Fatherless??

    ??Another triggered fatherless fool and I’ll keep saying fatherless and if you don’t like it you can fuck off????.

    There’s a whole bunch of no good ass black males who abandon their kids and that’s been happening for the past 50 years now we have an epidemic of black fatherlessness you don’t like it again fuck off.

    In the year 2020 black fatherless is going to be a nation wide discussion and you can’t hide behind the single mother who is at least in the home raising the kids unlike the majority of black males.

    And back to the topic the poor gay male who killed him self you absolutely know his father abandoned him which proves my point

  • I Run New York

    Anyone who tattoos someone's name on their face isn't wrapped too toght.

  • Meme

    Ahhh well that explains it, thanks Mr.LeBrickJames some crazies about ?

  • Dun Dilly

    I AGREE! I view face tats as a form of self mutilation and a clear hint that something is mentally wrong.

  • Bree

    Although, I feel sorry for this guy, this "trans" stuff is ridiculous. What makes a person believe they can change their origin is beyond me. But for this guy to commit suicide tells me he had mental issues before this. I would too if I thought a man could pass as a woman. Impossible!

  • Let them eat cake

    preach. we wont go to heaven if we kill ourselves. folks need to stop lying to themselves.

  • Bree

    Very much so! I wish I could like your comment a thousand times. I'm sick of the stigma. Black women already have it hard out here. Our men make it no better trying to portray us. It is a mockery to say the least!

  • Rere

    You're either male or female no in between!

  • SmartAtheist

    He should have at least kicked the bullies stupid asses first. Give some of their stupid bigoted asses a one way ticket to paradise first, that's the move.

  • http://realitytea.com Lady Chatterly’s Lover

    I imagine even a straight man bold enough to brand himself with someone's name in the middle of his forehead would get ragged too.

  • Bree

    Preach. I spoke those very same words to a group of individuals who stoned me. There are men who would love to get their hands on our sons and daughters. I wonder will they sing that same "love who you want" song.

  • Bree

    Thank you! God knows I'm sick of this stuff. It is a shame before God.

  • Bree

    Social media can be a blessing and a curse. I delete, unfollow, and block accordingly. No time for the foolishness!

  • Bonita

    Anyone who would tattoo their face period is not wrapped too tight.

  • chaisun

    These comments are the very reason why this young man took his life in the first place. You all sound just like white People when they try to justify their pure hatred for Black people. The lbgtq community can sit and speak up for Black issues, rally, support etc and still at the end of the day deal with vitriol from the very same community they’re fighting for. So what you don’t get it. Understanding isn’t for everyone. Most of you follow religions that teach you not to judge which is even more shameful. I send good intentions to the family and friends of this young man.?? To those that are thinking of taking their lives due to being bullied by grown Black people, family or friends I hope you seek solace, peace, balance and a safe space that allows you to be yourself.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Let them eat cake

    thats interesting they feel that way because black women as a whole are not protected by men especially our own. they might as well be transracial.

  • Bree

    I refuse to support that foolishness! My cousin has been a gay male my whole life. I love him wholeheartedly but I will never support him transitioning to be like me. We deal with a lot as women. I hate that our men are okay with making a mockery of who we are and how the Most High created us!

  • Starburst

    As a biologically born woman i can't wrap my head around it. And all these new terms (fluid, cis, etc) it's confusing. I'm trying to be sensitive and learn all of this, but it's tiresome. RIP young man.
    .

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • Bree

    Exactly! The bible says a man that is born of a woman, trouble are many of his days. I refuse to add on more trouble!

  • Starburst

    You are absolutely right and I am guilty of this as I mentioned in my post. I'm trying to learn so as not to make ignorant comments.

  • Bree

    Me too. I have tried to get an understanding but so much of this is mental illness. I refuse to accept any of this. We need our men to be men. It is hard being a black man in these streets but I want our men to be men. We have enough to deal with as black women. Too often, we are losing our men to the streets, jail, and the grave. I refuse to accept the fact thathat we have to lose them to this "trans" foolishness. It is mockery.

  • LoveChild

    What are you talking about gay black people aren’t supporting straight black people!!

    Black women are the biggest advocates for everybody and even black women are done.

    I don’t know why you’re lying pretending like all gay black people are such allies for straight people especially us straight black women that is a big ass lie.

  • Bree

    I'm sorry you feel the way you feel. I strongly believe his death was the result of depression or mental illness. Those comments were just the icing on the cake.

  • ShWa

    I'm not trying to learn all of these names and terms, it's too exhausting but it is sad the way people treated this young man, shouldn't have happened at all mind your business.

  • JALC

    If he was confident in his convictions to date a MtoF person, then how can his tragic death be blamed on social media users? Something else was going on with him. He took to social media for validation because he wasn't truly comfortable with his relationship. When he wasn't lavished with praise, he retreated. I'm tired of people seeking out validation through social media then blaming others when their narcissistic behavior backfires.

  • Bree

    My cousin was a gay Male before he passed. I am a girly girl and at his funeral those guys looked like they wanted me in the casket instead of him. I got looked at and saw eyes rolling across the room. Couldn't focus on the service because of it. A gay male will kill a black female. They hate us because they ain't us!

  • TriniHarlem

    Majority of life is simple......

  • Coffee1st

    F**k off?
    You're exposing yourself hun.
    You try to sound intellectual but when challenged the emotion that's actually fueling your post shines through.
    Lol. I feel like Alex on a old episode of L&O:SVU. Set you up gooood, yes i did!!!??

  • LoveChild

    First I’m sorry about your cousin. Secondly you told nothing but the truth. I’m out here in California swirling and guess who gives me the most hell besides white females? Black male straight or gay give me pure hell act like they hate my guts so I’m not loyal to them. Straight or gay.

    Many gay black males are in competition with black women they are jealous of us hate seeing us protected by men. They prefer us as obese single mothers sitting in a corner praying to God.

  • Rhondalousey

    Or stayed offline, duh.

  • Bonita

    Because social media was designed to make people compulsive, and to get pleasure from validation. There was an interview of several men who helped Zuckerburg design FB that admitted that FB was a psychological experiment that they knew was wrong, but they did it anyway, and that they don't even allow their own children to use FB or IG. These people are sickos. Here's a quote from the Napster creator who was an early investor of FB:
    "It's a social-validation feedback loop … exactly the kind of thing that a hacker like myself would come up with, because you're exploiting a vulnerability in human psychology."

  • JALC

    EXACTLY! Its pure mental illness. No Male in their right mind believes that he is a female. Just admit that you like to dress and look like a woman and be done with it. But for you to insist that I call you a woman when I know that you are a biological man is pure mental illness. I'm not going to lie and not stand in my truth because a man wants to play dress up.

  • Bree

    Thank you. My cousin kept his lifestyle and his business to himself. I respected that. He was my little baby because he use to live with us when he was younger.

    Knowing the truth is a blessing. I stay away from the homosexual demon, especially in males. I have seen its face and it is not pretty at all. This is why a man can kill a woman. That demon has cousins and all it needs is a willing vessel. I pray when I'm around them and when I can get away, I break free.

  • Let them eat cake

    only time someone should be able to choose their sex is if they were born with both organs and/or some other type of deformity. otherwise its a mental illness.

  • Soon2BWife

    Well, if you have or will have kids in the public school system they will learn all about it. ?????

  • Let them eat cake

    sorry but ppl need to be helped for this obvious mental illness

  • Starburst

    True, when I went to school all I learned was male and female stuff in my Hygiene class. Times has changed.

  • Bree

    Amen. People hate the truth. I have gay family members. They know my take on this. I had a cousin whose funeral was filled with gay males. They were not a joy to be around. I am a girly girl and I received so much disrespect that I could not function at the service. I was glad when it ended. I can't stand for a man to dress as a woman. That's a funk to me. Because we deal with so much as a woman. I pray for our men to be men. Being like us makes them weak! I know they are stronger than that!

  • rockstar2142

    I’m gonna be honest I’m not trying to understand. It’s to much and everyday it’s a new term or new letter added. I don’t support or believe in it. Until folks stat seeing this for what it is a mental illness shit will never change. But R.I.P to this young man.

  • LoveChild

    And gay black males try to play dumb when black women give them our reality.

    I laugh when they expect mammying. Everybody wants the black women to mammy them how many of them are riding for us?!

    I don’t go out of my way to mistreat gay black males or male to female transsexual so I basically leave them alone so they can live their life.

    Because I know damn well they don’t give a F about me

  • Nik

    Let me say this and I don't want to sound harsh, but people need to stop acting like social media is the place to go for approval. If you know you are in a lifestyle that society is not ready to approve of, count the costs of putting your business out in the streets. People these days are too caught up trying to get validation from strangers and wind up valuing what other people think over their own lives. Every time I hear stories like this I just want to curl up and cry because who knows what these souls could have become had they had the fortitude to be their own person. My God, help us!

  • Chhzz

    He was handsome. Faith was lucky to have met such a love. My heart goes out to faith with the death of her partner.
    Some folks kill me. Someone dies and you want to know when who what why how come? Tf? How about show some sympathy.
    I might not agree with you. But if you like it I love it. Every body needs love and deserves to be happy under there terms.
    Yes we are born Male or female but we may identify as something else. Allow people to be happy.
    Sad all of you with this Adam and Steve stuff but fail to acknowledge God made and knew everything. If someone can be born straight then they can be born gay or whatever.
    This young man called faith a transwoman meaning he knew faith was not a real female but identified as one. Something about faith story made him fall in love.
    I want to curse you all for being so mean in light of this recent death. To soon.
    How about you get you somebody in healthy relationship. Then you have no time to judge others.

  • The REAL Cheese eggs

    The bible does not say the suicide is a unforgivable sin. Some people use Mark 3:20-35 as a passage that equates suicide with the unforgivable sin of blaspheming the Holy spirit, however, that is a incorrect interpretation. The sin that Jesus has in mind was not suicide but associating the Holy spirit with the work of Satan. Suicide is certainly a sin, because it robs a person of life given to them by God, but the bible is clear, forgiveness of sins past present and future is only achieved through faith in Jesus Christ.

  • Nik

    THIS!

  • Starburst

    i have to agree it's hard for a Black man out in this world.

  • Starburst

    Lawd!

  • LoveChild

    Yes. I said fuck off Hoodbooger ?that’s the only language you guys understand is vulgarity?.

  • Bree

    They don't. I leave them alone as well. I don't mistreat anyone either.

  • JALC

    I have a cousin who is gay. He is a truck driver. He dates other gay guys who LOOK AND CARRY THEMSELVES LIKE MEN! It is the flamboyant ones that are the meanest and most onerous. I stay away from them because they are so messy (i.e. Funky Dineva type).

  • Bree

    Amen.

  • chaisun

    I said they ARE supporting as are Black women yes. There is no reason for me to lie about something trivial. I don’t really see the point in that and lying isn’t my thing in general. Grassroots organizations are typically started by Black women, straight or queer or gay black men. I never said ALL gay this or ALL that.

  • rockstar2142

    Exactly! Don’t put all your stuff out there if your not prepared for what folks have to say good or bad.

  • Yup, I said it

    You are right about that! I love POSE but I'm bothered by the fact that they don't have any women in the main cast. You cant just write real women out of the picture. What about inclusion? Gay men are very aggressive towards women. Those M2F ones love to try to fight women. Then they have use calling each other all kinds of "bitch" and "hoes" like its a term of endearment. My mama didn't name me "Bitch.".

  • Bree

    It's unfortunately true. When that service was over, I ran out of there. Demons lurk and they don't care who they attack.

  • LoveChild

    And you know black male straight or gay hate to be ignored by black women!! That really pisses them off.

    I stay ignoring them. The only time I come in contact with most gay black males is when they are clerks serving me and if they give me an attitude I go right to their manager I don’t take any crap!

  • rockstar2142

    Those folks where born that way and can’t help it these folks can.

  • Bree

    Yes. I know exactly what you mean. I have seen that demon up close. It will kill you. This is why I no longer engage in conversation with them. It is a trick to lure you into their world. I'll be damned if I keep arguing with a man about my real breasts, thighs, and split between my legs. It's not worth it!

  • Starburst

    That's true about those demons though.

  • Yup, I said it

    Thats what science and biology says.

  • JALC

    Agree....except the crying part.

  • Bree

    At my cousin funeral i was speaking to people I knew anand hadn't seen in ages. Those funks treated me like I was beneath them. Honey, they tried it. But that funeral home was the wrong place and time for that mess. They sure did not care!

  • MsSapphire9800

    I am sorry...when will people learn that 90% of your FB..Twitter..and other social media friends are not your,true friends. Hell do you even know them...your,relationship should be private.

  • Nik

    When I hear a young person killed themselves I can't help it.

  • Starburst

    True so true.

  • Bree

    It was scary at one point. But I had to tell that demon that I am REAL woman. You will never have the organs God gave me. The conversation on this is not even worth it. They get so mad and enraged. I don't care. I just keep it moving!

  • Dr. P

    That part. Nowhere in the Bible does it say that.

  • Starburst

    Some of these people got like 3,000 friends and don't even know them personally. It's all for show and validation.

  • Nik

    "...breeding Narcs"

    You said it right. We are entering a phase of collective narcissism and emotional disorder in this country. More to come.

  • Dr. P

    Where exactly does your bible speak on suicide? I’ve never seen it. ?

  • Stationarity

    Agree completely. This makes me want to cry too.

  • Bree

    I want sons someday and so does my husband. I pray for them before they even touch the earth.

  • chaisun

    Also people. I’m not a Christian, no I’m not atheist. You may not agree with my comment. That’s fine. We may have differences but at the end of the day they should be supported as they are part of our community. You don’t agree with the lifestyle and I’m sure there are lots of things you all do that can be up for judgment too. Surly there are things you all think say or do that could be looked at as wrong, mentally insensitive or abusive. I am simply pointing out the judgement and how hypocritical some people are in the Black community. Nonetheless. Good intentions to you all.

  • Nik

    I think the issue is social media exacerbates whatever issue was already present. It's adding fuel to the fire and encourages people who are unstable and/or insecure to value popular opinion. The fix is to get to the root of why the need for external validation is required, and who knows what else he struggled with that went unattended by those who could have helped him. This is sad no matter how we cut it.

  • LoveChild

    Whatever you’re saying the reality is in general black gay people don’t give a shit for straight black women that’s it. Miss Sandra Rose is an exception.

    Don't come up here talking like gay people are advocating for straight black women don’t make me laugh?

  • LoveChild

    Please. I ignore all bullshit including Pause. I’m all about centering biological straight black women if they are not doing that I pay them no attention!

  • Nik

    people are becoming so self absorbed and concerned about acceptance from total strangers they can't distinguish from reality anymore...
    *****************************************************************************
    THIS right here!!!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Ain’t nobody confused but some of them. And that guy may have had other issues going on other than him sleeping with men. I’m sick of them trying to act like black ppl do not support ppl being gay black women have gay male friends you see it all the time but you what you don’t see is white women running around with their gay male friend and gay male hairstylist or gay male fashion stylist

  • MrsHBC

    This truly saddens me. I feel for his family, friends and Faith. I hope she doesn’t follow suit.

  • chaisun

    Your experience and reality is different than mine. But you can keep generalizing then expecting the privilege of individuality while doing so. ??

  • Malai

    SPOT ON ??

  • abby500

    Maybe he should have just gotten off social media. And mental illness was the first thing I thought.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    3,000 ppl to show off to and put on fake heirs for that’s all

  • abby500

    And you are RIGHT!

  • LoveChild

    Your word salad is useless to me. I look at what the majority of any group is doing and the majority of gay black people don’t give a shit for straight black women. Except to use us as sidekicks mules or Mammys

    And I’m speaking to the lurkers don’t buy the bullshit that everybody is advocating for straight biological black women? they are not on the contrary they expect us to mammy them and don’t get caught being a social justice warrior that’s for loser BW.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Exactly and a lot of these ppl have undiagnosed mental health issues and depression no one says oh since a bunch of strangers or hell since my family don’t accept this I’m going to kill my self that shows right there they having some issues in other areas someone with good mental health would live their life and count those out who don’t want to be apart of their life

  • Wreckognize Game

    ?So sad.

  • Nik

    This is another perspective worth considering. Thank you.

  • LoveChild

    Sounds like they had an inferiority complex. Many gay black males do.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Thank you you just articulated exactly what I was trying to don’t up top

  • LoveChild

    Actually what he should’ve done was deactivated his social media accounts and went and found a professional therapist. Everybody’s trying to go viral and be famous online that’s not how it’s working out.

  • Yup, I said it

    We assume it was heterosexuals that were bullying this man but alot of gay people bully trans and bisexual people too for straddling the fence.

  • Nik

    I hear you 10000%. Social media was just the gasoline on an already existing fire. @Chicagowise has a good explanation on this. A lot of people are walking around with undiagnosed mental illness, and I think part of the reason is, at least in the black community, there is shame admitting that one has a mental issue. The assumption is they are crazy and that's not always the case. Sometimes people have issues that go unaddressed for years and they get to a point where their brain can no longer handle tucking it away and pretending it's not there.

  • Nik

    People minding their business is a lost art.

  • Yup, I said it

    Being private and keeping your business to yourself is also a lost art.

  • dontgetblocked

    Suicide is very common. It's only covered by local and national news when it involves a celebrity.

  • Nik

    FACTS!

  • the guest

    Poor poor baby. What a handsome young man with such beautiful character and compassion. Bullying and shaming are wicked and evil weapons. Embarrassment is a hateful weapon. He didn’t kill himself, he was murdered by the maliciousness of others.

    It’s not relevant my views or anyone’s views on trans or homosexuality because whatever the views, you don’t bully, shame, and embarrass people especially not to a spiritbreaking death.

  • the guest

    I don’t understand 2, 3, and 4 thousand friends. Why would anyone want all those people to know what city they live in and all their family business. I never understood that. That’s a lot of eyes on a regular person’s life without the protection celebrities can afford.

  • Wreckognize Game

    I love how you explain a lot of things. ????

  • the guest

    Agreed.

    Trans is a mental illness.

    Still no one deserves bullying and shaming.

  • the guest

    Agreed.

  • Nik

    That's messed up. They better watch it because what goes around comes around.

  • the guest

    Lord have mercy.

  • Starburst

    Yes, yes and yes. There is no longer privacy. On my job you won't believe the questions I get asked such as: where do you live? Do you have any exes? Do you own or rent? Unbelievable! All this oversharing is to the max.

  • My Thoughts

    Good perspective.?

  • the guest

    Gay white people can be so racist to black people. Gay black men and trans black men can be so disrespectful and hurtful to black women. They can be so mean to real black women.

  • the guest

    Speak.

  • Virgoqween

    I could never figure out why they cared so much

  • The REAL Cheese eggs

    It does speak on it somewhat. Judas committed suicide after he betrayed Jesus and there are others in the bible that committed suicide as well. But specifically......not to my knowledge. Some one correct me if I'm wrong.

  • MsChocCookie

    He had other issues...trust it was not all over that...he was a ticking time bomb all along...the incident just enhanced his mental state

  • Bluwolf

    I wouldnt kill myself, fuck them!!!

  • Dasright

    Same thing I said. I've worked in mental health and typically an indicator of a reduced mental state is facial tattoos. People are cruel and he should have stayed off social medi . Worst place for him to be.

  • Cali

    So sorry baby, wish he’d known that bullies aren’t $hit and you can live without these individuals forever.

  • Coffee1st

    You tried it.
    Better luck next post.

  • Eileen

    He had mental challenges plain and simple.
    Keep your business and your boo off of social media.

  • 1KimJones

    Sorry he took his own life over bullying. I really hate bullies. You never know what mental and spiritual state somebody is in when you bully them. Some people don't give a damn what you have to say about them, so they are not fazed at all at the opinions of others. While others take every word to heart, and this can easily happen to them. Why not mind your own business? If you have nothing nice to say, just be quiet and leave people alone.

  • McKay

    Love who you want. Fcuk who you want.

  • Bree

    Probably so.

  • anahi rios

    You wouldn’t say that if it was a cis couple that society approved of

  • LoveChild

    You are right that gay white people tend to be racist period.
    And then the gay and trans blacks turn around and give shit to biological straight black women.

    That’s why BW need to keep our eyes on our own paper!

    Why is it every time a gay black male or a male to female kills them
    selves or get murked everybody expect black women to come to the rescue we’re tired of the bullshit we’re not here to save everybody.

  • disqus_IyEJdAN9NX

    Social media is ridiculous. I also feel that your business is yours alone and you don't have to broadcast it to everyone everywhere.

  • LoveChild

    It wasn’t bullies that made him kill himself because he was a gay black male dating a trans that is very common he was depressed and has psychological problems. People who are depressed can’t take rejection especially not on social media.

  • Tom

    Umm you’re not right?? He didn’t “know he was sleeping with a man” because he wasn’t. Trans women are women and he was dating a trans woman. He said himself that he saw her as a woman so this was not a case of internalized homophobia turned self destructive, this was transphobia turned into violence.

  • LoveChild

    Exactly!

  • LoveChild

    Right!! He wanted to approval from strangers where he needed self esteem and family support

  • rayne215

    damn, didnt know this was in my city. RIP reese. social media is awful for teens/early 20's people

  • Tom

    Good

  • Tom

    Wow a lot of you are truly terrible. I rather be surrounded by “mentally ill” transgender people (which actually has some science behind it if you cared to look into it) and gay people than you ignorant, disrespectful and overall hateful people.

  • Tom

    It sounds like your memory of this event is clouded by some bias and transphobia, I seriously doubt they in any way threatened your wellbeing

  • morenYAHdelsur

    Stop posting your business folks. Peace of mind is better than likes and comments.

  • Zeta Aggie

    Why do people feel the need to declare what they are? I don’t get that.

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    He was definitely mentally ill. How you gonna call your partner a woman, yet still sucking a PENIS??

  • Zeta Aggie

    If it was a woman there would be no need for the “trans”.

  • Jussjess25

    Sad but he didn't have to tell the world what decision he was making with his own life. Yes some people want to declare their love for others to the world but what was the point. I actually, feel more sadness for faith. She will probably have the hardest time with this. Theres nothing harder than losing someone you love. Rip to the young man.

  • Eileen

    what the heck is a cis? Male and female thats it folks
    Now what you decide to do with it is your personal matter not mines and certainly not the innocent 4 and 5 year olds that are being confused with this mental derangemnt in the school system.
    Yes I said it!!!
    this mess about a homo cis twix mix whatever came through "44" and black folks aint been right since. Yall think 45 is the boogeyman? Naw honey the boogey man look just like you and he gave us no Hope so get woke walk straight and stop playing with God he is not amused.
    God Bless You

  • leapyearpisces

    I doubt the issue here is him dating a trans. The issue here, is once again, the untreated mental illness that plagues our community. Anybody can look into this young man''s eyes, and see he was not "well", and some may disagree with me, but sane people do not MUTILATE their face with tattoos, and YES!!! I have body art / tattoo. I am sure the bullying exacerbated his already fragile mental condition, but let's be clear, his trouble started waaaaaaaaaayyyy before he started dating Faith. Hopefully his spirit and heart is at rest now.

  • anahi rios

    Do your research and stop being ignorant before you comment back and don’t speak on behalf of god you’ve never met the man and can’t say he disapproves. Also speak English please because whatever you just said I’m sure the majority of us can’t understand. These children aren’t being confused they’re becoming more aware and educated human beings, that’s all these stories are showed to them for. They are becoming aware of what’s going on in the world today and that not everything is black and white. Whether they come out as gay or not, let it be know that it is not due to the influence of these stories. Being gay is not a contagious disease so there is nothing to be confused about. If it was everyone would be apart of the lgbtq+ society but instead straight people are just out here making themselves look ignorant like you for example.

  • den

    Please ....get off social media

  • Bree

    Disrespectful? Hateful? Where? I don't bother transgender people. Some of those people have demonic influences and I refuse to be in the midst of the hate they display towards women. There is no way in SCIENCE where a man can become a woman. It is unnatural. That's not hate, nor is it disrespect.

  • Bree

    You weren't there sweetheart. Those demons weren't checking for my cousin and paying their respects. They were ready to pop off. I am a girly girl and the hate was real. Unfortunately, my cousin's funeral is not the first encounter I have had with those demons. But it was definitely the last. The disrespect for my cousin was ridiculous. They had no chill.

  • Allihave2say

    according to a friend, who said Willoughby had a history of mental problems, including depression.. I'm sorry this young took his life. He was looking at the present and not seeing the future.

    "A friend of mine used to say everything ain't for everybody". Now her reason for saying that was messed up but a good point. I'm looking at the expression on this young man's face in the photo with the shapeshifter, he doesn't look happy or well. Meanwhile the M2F is glaring at the camera relishing his deceit and not caring about the other person. (a picture is a 1,000 words, I see what I see). Somethings shouldn't be shared on social media especially if you can't handle comments from onlookers. People are ruthless and dangerous. Social media has given narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths access to every one, included the weak and damaged.

    I judge a book by it's cover. Face tattoos always send up a red signal to me. This can not be the choice of a person seeking a conventional lifestyle. So many face tatters have serious mental health issues. In the cruelness of the world people see the pictures and read the promos and jump into the character of the type of demonic being they are.

    Social media has been the down fall of so many people. I love blogging but there are times I have to walk away from a comment war with other people. It can go too far and people get hurt or killed.

    I don't know the solution but I see the problem. People are killing by keyboarding. Think about it. https://media2.giphy.com/media/101Q2ZzCyuFHFe/giphy.gif

  • Coffee1st

    Your assessment of their picture together is eerily spot on.
    Good eye/discernment!

  • Pamela

    Mental illness is real. RIP to this young man .

  • LoveChild

    Yeah they use that cis crap because they don’t want to call biological women women anymore.

  • Tee Tee

    Keep your relationship private if you can't handle other people's opinions etc.
    I know this social media world is the devil but you have to be strong if you're gonna participate in it?RIP young man?

  • ALLMINE?

    He looks trans himself.

  • Allihave2say

    We're assuming he had love for the lost one. We don't know that for sure. Transgender lifestyle was consider a mental disorder along the lines of delusions and body dysmorphic disorder. These people were clinically deemed mentally unstable. IJS

    A caring person who loves the person in the photo with them would have noticed that the other person looks sad while they're glaring at the camera. "Faith" is accustomed to living an alternative truth, the boyfriend was trying to be accepting and loving while living an alternative lifestyle.

    For all we know Willoughby told his lover how he was feeling. Notice that Willoughby branded himself as the property of Faith, wheres Fakes commitment and announcement of Willoughby. https://media2.giphy.com/media/duLufyPXU5j74jzi8i/giphy.gif
    The life of a shapeshifter.

  • Allihave2say

    https://media0.giphy.com/media/l49K1Nh2DbGH4QMoM/giphy.gif

    No matter the gender suck waste machines is just gross!

  • Allihave2say

    We are a social people who've been taught to confirm to social norms, to assimilate, to be validated and accepted by others is the key to happiness in life.

  • Allihave2say

    I have to wonder…when he firs met "her" was she forth coming about "her" him truth. Gifted at lying and deception did she let him get his feelings involved before the reveal and he tried to adapt to it. He probably struggled with accepting it himself and that's why the social bullying hurt him the way it did. He didn't want to seem unaccepting. I'm sure this man fed him a guilt trip about how people leave him when the find out he's a man in drag. IJS. MHO

  • hottlanta

    Forget the tattoos anybody with all of those facial piercings aint sane. You can miss a plane going thru tsa with all of that face metal he has.

  • LoveChild

    Trans women are not women. They are male to female transsexual.

  • hottlanta

    Er u left out magic johnson. What is ej problem. Where was magic johnson maleness in order n leadership for his son. Black women get blamed for everything wrong with black men. I noticed not one white woman wanted 2 b included in your négative assessment of black woman n said white women needed to be included as well.

  • Let them eat cake

    You ever heard of the Bible? Read it! God def does not approve .

  • Blue

    say it again.

  • Let them eat cake

    Should pedophiles be allowed to be happy?

  • anahi rios

    Where does it say that god loves all people EXCEPT the lgbtq+?

  • Let them eat cake

    Suicide is murder. Wake up

  • Let them eat cake

    Suicide is murder. Stop playing dumb

  • MistaO

    EJ seems like a well balanced individual, who clearly knows who he is. That alone is a testament to the great job Cookie and Magic did raising him!

    Again, instead of taking ownership of the very sizable portion of responsibility, the average black female deflects and even tries to drag white women into the mix!??

    Sad, and indicative of why things will not change for black people for quite some time...

  • Let them eat cake

    It will happen trust. Full term abortion was unheard of and now it’s legal in New York. Just wait, pedophelia will be accepted soon. That’s why they’re saying that kids can consent to knowing their gender at an early age. This is the Pre req to future argument for kids consent of pedos. Just wait

  • PhillyFacts

    This whole story is a lie he overdosed periodT. I work at the morgue here in Philly and he had a history of drug use pills, herion, weed and meth, he accidentally overdosed several times before. He was also HIV positive which his family said was part of his depression, and him being gay is why he stayed away from them because they were Muslim and he was raised Muslim. The world has to stop believing everything they read on social media. If y’all read the transgender community comments from here in Philly they’re all saying he was too young to be on all them drugs he was a drug addict and people around him condoned it and knew it.

  • Nik

    Wow! Two totally different narratives.

  • Kimberly King

    Thank you for this. You know I can lack tact sometimes. Lol but this is basically what I was thinking. I highly doubt he off'd himself because of what people said to him on social media. I think it was much deeper than that. Lots of down low / homo thugs / fake heterosexual men want the bussy (with a 'b') without feeling gay so they opt for trannies. I've seen it time and time again. More men need to be real with themselves. If that's what you want, have at it! But don't compromise other people's health over your selfish ways. Smh

  • PhillyFacts
  • PhillyFacts

    Yup I don’t lie here are some of the transgender community post.

  • PrettyMeka08

    Couldn’t he have turned the comments off. Is there a button for that?

  • Nik

    This is troubling. This guy needed help for a long time apparently.

  • Bonita

    "Some of the men who are attracted to trannies are in denial. They can only accept their homosexuality if their male partner is disguised as a woman."
    That makes so much sense!

  • Chhzz

    How does pedophiles fit in here? You trying to be funny? But ultimately disrespectful as you are attempting to relate the guy and Faith's story to pedophilia.
    Smh

  • PhillyFacts

    Apparently if you go to one of his many fb pages (Reese him Daddie) you’ll see he bragged heavy about “loving pharmaceuticals, and having a perc penis” etc just a week ago.... it’s sad. Have a good night!

  • hottlanta

    So we suppose 2 laugh at the fashion nova models when they look ridiculous in certain clothes but not laugh at ej when he looks ridiculous in certain clothes bcas he is gay. If we laugh at ej we get accused of being homophobic. Cant have it both ways he doesnt get a pass. I stand by what l said if we say black girls rock white women say white girls rock and other races say we rock too. If we say black women hiv rates r high. white woman or other races doesnt complain about being purposely left out. Cant have it both ways. If u wanna be included in the good u gotta b included in the bad things as well.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    No such thing as cyber bullying all you have to do is turn your phone off !!!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Magic Johnson is a homosexual

  • imright

    he wanted attention, he got it. RIP Young Man

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    They don’t want to hear what you seeing and go pointing at a very rare case like EJ instead if the multitude that’s right in their family and neighborhood

  • imright

    ?

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    That tranny screwed him so much that he Killed hisself smh

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I’m pretty sure that light skin boy was the bottom and felt and could live with hisself anymore

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    He laid up with a demon and got the reward

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Oh wow thanks for this and how come Amaya Scott didn’t know this since he is part of that community? I’ve noticed that one always in something trying to stir up lies to create drama and trouble.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    #BOOM

  • Quanijia

    He’s dead and You still wanna put shame on the way he looks !? I just want to know if describing someone that is gone off earth in away they won’t want to be described as makes you feel good?! like stating your opinion about a dead man makes u feel Beautiful?It’s not hard to just say “r.i.p” what if his family member was to see your response on how he looks? With all due respect I hope when your dead someone describes you in a matter that lead to your death, sweetheart.

  • Quanijia

    Oh wow.. “a demon” i hope u root in hell sweetheart. I’m guessing your a child because if you had and mind of a more educated human being you would know that no one chooses who they love no one chooses there family & no one chooses where they go when their time on earth is over?

  • Quanijia

    What’s in your pants is just what Society separates us by ?? And no one has to be ill to fall in love with the same gender & I’m pretty sure his sex life was his business.... Your mom should’ve left u in dat condom that was in her mouth ??

  • Quanijia

    Omg I love dis quote ???? Finally some says something positive and accurate ?

  • Love Luv

    So sad. He was looking for a way out and found a way in. To eternity.

    Way too many people are being deceived and having their life snuffed out. The evil that lurks is crafty and patient so you must be aware. I just pray people will find healthier ways and outlets instead of a quick sand vice to heal their mental health and trauma. People must understand this stuff is no joke and once this chapter is over... The true never ending story of you begins.

  • Quanijia

    He shouldn’t have to keep his business off social media... the word should know that know matter what gender you like you still have emotions & thoughts ??

  • Blak

    A mentally disturbed man messing with another mentally disturbed man will always equal suicide, murder or both

  • Tom

    That’s the stupidest arguement because by that logic the phrase “tall women” means that tall women aren’t women because if they were I wouldn’t need the “tall.” Newsflash there can be more that one kind of woman. Transgender women are just another kind of woman, just like tall women are just another kind of woman. Women can be tall, short, black, white, trans, cis, big, small etc. Doesn’t mean they’re not women

  • PhillyFacts

    No offense but certain types of folk always play victim, say anything to fit their agenda.

  • Tom

    It’s 2019 nobody says transsexual please try to update your vocabulary. Besides that’s, even if you don’t see them as women just affording them basic human decency costs you nothing yet can save their lives

  • Tom

    I respectfully disagree

  • MsPam

    What about Birdman, does this apply for him?! ?

  • Tom

    Are you really trying to tell me calling people like this “demons” is not hateful or at the very least disrespectful? You seem to be looking for evil where there is none. You’re turning the victims of this hate into the perpetrators of it. I’m sorry if you really encountered negative gay men at your cousin’s funeral as you claim you did but generalizing an entire group of people makes you the bad person, not the people you’re generalizing as “demons.”

  • MsPam

    I hate that I have to agree with you. I don’t know what a feminist is?! I believe the break down of black families is the cause of so many problems in our community.

  • Tom

    Can every single person commenting do me a favor and just google gender dyphoria? It is essentially what makes transgender people transgender. So when you say they “need help” or have “a condition” you’re not completely wrong. Transitioning is the only way proven effective in treating gender dyphoria. So then living as the gender they identify is the treatment all you “experts” out there so desperately think they need. And part of transitioning is having the people in their lives acknowledge their identity and respect it

  • ALLMINE?

    I didn't get past ur first sentence sis. Lol

  • Travel Learn Love

    You are what is wrong with this world. Shame on you. I hope Karma comes around and teaches you some humility.

  • Travel Learn Love

    He wanted attention? He spoke about his girlfriend on social media. Just as everyone else does. This is not seeking attention.

  • Travel Learn Love

    Educate yourself. Do you know how many teens are bullied online and the slurs are then carried by bullies into real life?

  • Travel Learn Love

    So you are perpetually single and unsuccessful? You can't blame your inadequacies on anyone, but yourself. Go to school. Get a degree. Educate yourself. Maybe you will learn to seek a partner and not a servant.

  • Tom

    You’re right the issue isn’t him dating a trans woman it’s the fact that everyone treated him like shit for it. The problem is a lack of respect in our world for people who are different.

  • Zeta Aggie

    Oh good Lord in heaven. Seriously. If you require chemical or physical augmentation to achieve a desired look, you are not that thing but an imitation of such.

    This whole idea of acceptance should start with loving who you are to begin with.

  • Zeta Aggie

    Dude, I’m a woman. Yeah there is only one kind. I was created to bring forth life. Not molded in an extremely disrespectful over the top grandiose idea of a “woman”.

  • leapyearpisces

    I agree, and I think it was very cruel. You and I are old enough to know that human beings can be the MOST INHUMANE creatures walking this earth. People just need to let others live as long as they aren't hurting you, with that said, I am sure his mental struggles didn't help the situation.The trans was very lucky to have someone who was willing to ride for her no matter what, and who claimed her publicly. Hell, you got chicks in heterosexual relationships that can't even get a shout out on the gram from the ninja they lay beside every night.

  • LoveChild

    STFU. Tired ole grammar Nazi? I’m grown I say what I want you don’t like it? F off???

  • Sushi

    Don't waste your time , you are casting pearls to swine. ..

  • Sushi

    With this one also, don't waste your time.

  • Sushi
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    Thank youuuuuuu!

  • Tom

    Outdated word usage and grammar aren’t the same thing but thanks for the mature, well-reasoned response ?

  • Tom

    A couple things you seem to have forgotten. Not all biological women are capable of bringing forth life and even some that are capable choose not to. So that seems like a poor determinant for gender. Another thing, people change themselves all the time to become the person they want to be; trans people are no different. On a similar note, I’m glad if you are happy with everything about yourself but telling someone that they just just be “happy with themselves” is at the least naive, and at the most simply stupid. If it were that simple every cosmetic company in the world would go out of business along with other entire industries if people just started being happy with what they had “to begin with.” Obviously it’s not quite so simple as just loving yourself

  • Sushi

    That......

  • Meagan Good’s Eyebrows

    I was thinking the same thing like are there any women at the balls or nah ? ?

  • Quanijia

    Why?

  • Raquelle Dellaghetto

    ???

  • Virgoqween

    Is there? I’m not familiar with Facebook but is there a button for being harassed when you leave your house to go to the store?

  • Secilia Lopez

    No one should be judged or bullied for who they love, and everyone has the right to tell the world about that person that they love, it’s a shame that people aren’t more accepting of another person’s life. God made us all different and that’s what’s so beautiful about us the fact that we are different. My sympathies to his girlfriend and family who have to find a way to continue without him.

  • TheWildChild

    Seems like he already had an underlying mental health issue and this relationship thingy I think was not the root of his problems.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Please stop tatting you face.. In no place in life if this sexy or a good idea !!!

  • Dreamer

    Sadly this young man didn’t understand that tho. He was mentally ill and didn’t understand that not everything needs to be shared and your personal life doesn’t need anyone’s approval or validation. We need to instill love into our children to show them a better way like Michael Jackson and Whitney Houston once sang about.

  • Dreamer

    “I can’t say RIP because my Bible says suicide is an unforgivable sin.” Whether you agree or disagree that, you can still have love and kindness towards what he went through. Let God be the judge. Sometimes love is what’s missed the most in Christianity. That was just a mean and judgmental thing to say.

  • Meme

    My man Chicagowise, you really are a wise man and you're not rude about it if someone has a different prospective to yours ?

  • leapyearpisces

    :-)

  • gntory

    This man already had established mental health issues way before he started dating Faith! I’m beyond sick of the gay community using their “choices in life” as excuses! Tbh most gay ppl have some to of mental health issues because they are fighting demons because of their lifestyles! If they aren’t suffering w/it now, then they have in the past!

  • leapyearpisces

    Dear heart, I agree with you; HOWEVER, I don't know your age, so you MAY NOT understand this reference, but it's like Bobby Womack said in the duet with Patti Labelle, , "Love Has Finally Come At Last". There is a line in the song where he says: "Once you find something good, you wanna let the whole world know." I, like you, believe that the things, and people you hold near and dear, should NOT be up for PUBLIC consumption, - its called beimg discreet, but that is an era that has long past, and this generation heavily operates off of impulse usually to their detriment. Once again, I wish the young man, peace.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    It is sad how fragile our youth are, and then being digital natives they feel compelled to share every aspect of their lives on social media!

    This world is mean, but our kids have to learn how to not be “followers” to their detriment!

    Transgender will become normal when robots takeover, and all biological women are killed and replaced with “Transgender” women, when the human race cease to be, and God folds and calls it a day!

  • LoveChild

    Gaslighting off-topic. Boring Nazi. FO.

  • rockstar2142

    Sorry but they spoke nothing but the truth.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile a strong person wouldn't use that shyt periodt sharing personal info because they would know outsiders have no say so ...

  • Cassie Brighter

    Neither rhyme nor reason here. Trans women are not trying to "replace" anyone, we're just trying to live our lives like anyone else. Pro tip: When you don't understand a subject, a good approach is to STFU about it.
    Also: This young man wasn't particularly "fragile." He endured relentless bullying by a mob of cowards. The answer is to teach folks acceptance, and compassion, and decency.

  • Cassie Brighter

    You're really going to bully a dead man, after he killed himself over bullying? Do you have an ounce of humanity in you??

  • Cassie Brighter

    Nope. They spoke nothing but bigotry. Which you share, obviously. Still wrong, tho.

  • Cassie Brighter

    He wasn't "looking for a way out." He was looking to be happy with the woman he loved. A gang of bullies made his life impossible to live. Why are we sitting in judgment of the victim, instead of the victimizers??

  • Being bad is way more fun

    He cant read this so the message was for others !!!

  • Cassie Brighter

    The trans woman gave him love and happiness. He killed himself because of the bigotry and hatred he received from people like you. People like you killed him.

  • che’lint

    his soul wasn't happy. period.

  • Cassie Brighter

    He wanted what? He just wanted to love the woman he loved, and be left alone. A gang of bullies made him Internet-famous against his will, with attention he never asked for. They tortured him with insults until he couldn't take it anymore. And you're here blaming the victim? What lack of decency.

  • Cassie Brighter

    Have you seen the video? These people accosted him on the street. How do you turn off a gang of assholes yelling insults at you as you try to go to the store?
    Your comment is heartless.

  • https://disqus.com/home/discussion/freakkboxshawty/freakkbox_on_strikingly B A B Y ?

    dude had a tranny tattooed on his forehead

  • Cassie Brighter

    So, MistaO, the gang of bullies who ruthlessly insulted him and humiliated him and posted the viral video inviting others to insult him and humiliate him - they had nothing to do with this? It's just the kid's bad upbringing? Are you blind?

  • Cassie Brighter

    Bullying is real.

  • Cassie Brighter

    You. You. You are killing by keyboarding. You with your fanciful stories about this young man and his girlfriend. You and your talk of a "shapeshifter." You are your talk of "glaring" and "deceit." You are doing the killing. You are the demonic being.

  • just saying

    I agree with u. Bullying just didn't start 10 years ago. When i hear about social media bullying, how about stay off social media. I know it's a different time. Everyone isn't going to accept everyone. Guess what?, they don't have to. Keep your hands to yourself. The bullying i received when young was not cool. Get a little tougher skin. Hang around people who do accept u. The world doesn't get any nicer the older u get.

  • Allergic2dumbstuff

    My condolences to this young man's family.
    Every time I see a person with face tats or so many tattoos there's difficulty seeing what they are, I think mental illness.
    *Medical Minute: Face tattoos? It might be a sign of mental illness.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    You know that stuff not right a man dressing up in a wig and penetrating another man that stuff is sadistic

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Most definitely... I have said time and time again those face tattoo going to hunt us all when they get older and run out of options guess who they going to rob and kill for $$$$ us working people

  • Luka Keating

    Watch my documentary on youtube, The Gender Code. It will answer alot of questions on all of this, straight men and trans girls
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zph7H-O0d5w

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    That unusual relationship exacerbated the problem... I’m pretty sure

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    That transgender was abusing that mentally ill young boy

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    So if the world don’t accept that style that means kill your self??? You probably out here assaulting some young man also causing him to have a psychological breakdown

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Wow it was a guy saying the same thing on IG and people said he was lying and homophobic

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Wtf a perc penis !

  • Tee Tee

    I'm about to watch it now?

  • 2gr8ful

    Bullying is wrong on all levels, so sad he killed himself. Social media just adds fuel to fire. Opening your relationship to the world via posting is not a good idea. If you are really close to me you know who I am dating. Too many evil, negative, malicious people with no connection to you lurking...RIP.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I don’t think you can just be advertising on another persons blog like that.

  • hottlanta

    Same thing l dont discriminate.

  • Jabroni Beatin

    if you date trans you arent straight at all

  • PhillyFacts

    When males take a Percocets it prolongs their ejaculation.

  • PhillyFacts

    Cause folks hate the truth...

  • WutizstillHERE!

    Social media is not for the fragile. This world is full of people whose life's mission is to make yours as miserable as theirs are. So It doesn't matter if he was dating a man, trans, himself.. someone on social media will have a negative note to place under your shared space. Someone who is looking for acceptance should never seek that validation on here period.

  • currvalicious

    There are so many levels to this story.I don't know where to begin. Firstly I don't believe in MTF trans or vice versa. You're either a man or a woman. It's mental illness to the umpth degree. There's no normalizing that. They are very scary to me, b/c it's unnatural. Then you have this young man who clearly has his own set of issues becoming involved w/this new gender that's been created. It was a recipe for disaster. He was gay, & unnaccepting of his status as a gay male. So he tried hiding behind that by getting w/a dude who's a drag queen who passes himself off as a woman.

  • currvalicious

    No you're not trying to live your life like "everyone else", you're " trying" to be accepted as women.

  • EasyBreezy

    "Social media is not for the fragile." https://media3.giphy.com/media/1k4soqteINd1SAUUfy/giphy.gif

  • Look@m3
  • Trentaye

    Or maybe it was all you black anti-LGBT Nazis?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Report back!

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Mental illness is REAL! Hope you have a therapist ???

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Exactly

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    2 Eyes
    2 Ears
    1 Mouth

  • Trentaye

    Nah, I care and America cares. I encourage America to make more crime bills and prisons for you and black people like you. I'm part of a lobby for it.

  • Shawty

    Or don't put your personal business out there for others to judge. We only know what you tell us / post. (In no way shape or form I'm I condoning anything I'm just saying be more personal with your life)

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • Sinny

    If that’s what they see fit as their life; then yes - it’s their own. Live and let live! Stop judging!

  • Trentaye

    Sorry, I've never dated a white man. And YOU ARE an anti-gay Nazi by the things you say and stereotypical rhetoric you spew. I've been on my own... YOU ARE NOT MY PEOPLE OR MY COMMUNITY!! I hope white people continue to shoot you. #Bye!

  • Trentaye

    Do you really think you are a match to the LGBT lobby? TRY US!

  • deidre martin
  • MsSapphire9800

    Really...I know this is your opinion...but you want a whole group of White people to oppress Black people because a handful of Black and White people are against the LGBT community. It is too early for foolishness!!! Your hate is just as bad as the people who hate your community.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    ...or intense anger & rebellion. The person usually isn't thinking long-term.

  • chaisun

    It’s pure hatred and ignorance of the lbgtq community. It’s disgusting.

  • Kevin Werleman

    ????

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    PERIOD!!!!!!!

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    But why WILLINGLY share with people you dont know?? How does a person command respect from strangers?? Just doesnt make sense

  • yvette46

    I'm with?..

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Lgbtqrz are a Bullying gang themselves! Their agenda is HUGE! So why dont “you all” just do YOU and leave the Naysayers Be??

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • rockstar2142

    How is that bigotry? They both clearly have mental issues & are both biologically men. Come on get out your feelings.

  • Nina Ross

    European culture

  • Guest

    R.I.P young man. That is all.

  • currvalicious

    Finally, someone speaking g truth & facts. As if we're being forced into accepting this as normal. It is not normal. PeriodT....idc what anybody thinks or says. It's blasphemy.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    I disagree with that. Most gay people have mental health issues? And which gay people are we referring to? Like the one mentioned above or just average people who choose to date the same sex?

  • TransMichelle

    Odumba started this sh*t by taking it main stream. B*stard. Now emotionally and mentally weak people are starting to participate in this travesty but subconsciously they know it's not right...! BUT...they're going to blame society of course because all perversity is supposed to be accepted as "normal." Now watch, they are going to pressure straight men even more to date these "things" and women lose out again. This is why women shouldn't be leaders...they have no sense of consequence or reasoning. The woman's zeal to be a socialist libtard "everyone should be accepted as if they're everyone's mother" is f&cking things up...!!
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/5078dd785b3271a910914d5d26959a3f63ad29bd9177987bd1be17be5224a952.gif

  • TransMichelle

    Thank You....!

  • Russiancreme

    "I'm happy you should be happy for me". And that's where he went wrong. The best meme I ever saw basically said 'how you expect people to like you when they dont even like themselves'.

    RIP Maurice.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Chile...I know these comments are continuing to build. BUT...He already looked as though he was "weird" why are you on social media putting ALL your business out there? And then to kill yourself because people had an opinion on your life and relationship? It's sad...but will continue in this world we live in with an over saturation of social media and bullying.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • currvalicious

    No. You mean happy w/the man he loved. I'd he wanted a natural woman (born as a woman), then he could've chosen one to date. He chose a man, which maybe he was fooled into thinking was a biologically born woman. I mean all these smokes & mirrors. Anyone would be bamboozled, initially. I mean look at Janet Mock for crying out loud.

  • Phillybruh

    Black folks, I am not surprised at all, this young man was bullied to the point of suicide. This is why if you aren't in the same tax bracket as me and hubby we don't even deal with you. The ignorance is bliss with the poor folks its all they have.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • Skin Deep Beauty

    I wish the Alphabet Gang wood just purchase their own Island and hold a big welcoming EXTRAVAGANZA INVITING ALL TO COME LIVE THEIR. HAVE AT IT! I'm so sick of this special attention and all this pointing fingers and blaming heterosexuals who don't accept their agenda..FOH... Life is Life and no gender is better than the other... Do you and GTF ON ! HALT WITH THE VIOLINS. it's all good when they walking around sashaying, picking fights, intruding and making demands then become violent and threatening when they don't get their way and use "DISCRIMINATION" as a defense.. .FOH...BYE!

  • currvalicious

    I'm done w/this foolishness. On to the next story.

  • Phillybruh

    But then who would black people have to feel better than? I mean your low man on the totem pole as it is. Besides Gays, Black, whites and other out earn you all.

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    PERIOD! WHATEVER HAPPENED TO PRIVACY? Flaunting their PRIVATE MATTERS and looking for public Access then when DENIED GO KILL THEMSELVES AND BLAME THE PUBLIC... HIS CHOICE HIS DILEMA!

  • Phillybruh

    All he did was what people do everyday, post pics of him and his love and talk about how happy he was in that relationship. But of course bitter, angry people couldn't just like the pic and move on.

  • Phillybruh

    Memo: Gay people only stop posting your happiness blacks aren't capable of dealing with it. That's what I get out of all these comments.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    That baby aint love himself...look at all those tattoos and piercings on his face...anytime I see someone who does all that I think they are trying to mask something hurtful to the outside world...This man was hurting on the inside in a terrible way...

  • Eileen

    You better Preach!

  • Almond Eyes

    Bully??? How is that bullying? Because she has an opinion?

  • hottlanta

    As a real woman l am sick n tired of trans women think that being a woman is putting on a wig dress n makeup n just walk around to look sexy 2 attract men all day for sex. You could never replace me.

  • Mark mcharm

    Why do people put everything on social media and the internet in general In 2019 he would still be alive if he just stayed off the internet even if he had mental issues.

  • Nophace
  • Elevated Soul

    This is what happens when you live in a fantasy world. The bottom line is that he was gay and was dating a man,not a woman and he could not accept that fact.

    I'm tired of men like this dude who calls himself Aminah Scott thinking he's special because he's a dude in a dress and a wig. No one has to accept you or your lifestyle. Gays know that goes against nature & God.

    Wrong always want a lot of company.

  • Mark mcharm

    Gay /straight people need to get off social media go get some ice cream, enjoy the summer breeze and love who you want because all this PDA is annoying.

  • Almond Eyes

    The term bullying is used WAY too loosely these days. If someone has a different opinion and they express it then they are bullying. If someone doesn't agree with something an LGBTQRXYZ does then they are homophobic and bullying. It's ridiculous!!!

  • REGINAGEORGE

    The LBGTQWER mafia along with the media will always try to spin these stories to make them the victim.

  • Phillybruh

    But why is he not allowed to post the same things that everyone else posts or do the same thing's that people his age are doing.

  • hottlanta

    Just like those 2 happy white lesbians who murdered them brown babies by driving off a cliff. They were real happy saying yippee all the way down to their death.

  • Phillybruh

    Or the black step daddy that murdered his step daughter a few months ago?

  • Mark mcharm

    he should love who he wants but I have seen straight people get bullied also with too many "im in love post" social media is destroying black people.

  • Eileen

    You my dear male female Trans confused or what ever you want to be today read the Bible from the Old to the New Testament God NEVER approved for a man to lie with a man read Roman's 1 if that don't make you think then you are a reprobate. The democrats are having a field day watching and applauding the so called black kangs prancing switching and sashaying this is their plan that is why they used Obama to further their ungodly agenda they Never could force a white President to do what Obama has done no wonder our community is so dysfunctional and a hot mess
    God Bless You and no response needed

  • Phillybruh

    What gives people the right to be upset to the point of bullying someone relentless because they post about their happy relationship. How miserable are you.

  • SpillyNillie

    So much going on here...so I'll say...this young man was gay. I think he tried to rationalize it by convincing himself that Faith was/is a woman (Faith is NOT a woman) instead of accepting his homosexuality. He outed himself on social media thinking that many others would see the situation as he did. However, he couldn't take the impending backlash. People should learn to keep their inner most secrets and personal/private matters TO THEMSELVES! This poor man clearly had preexisting mental health issues; sharing this with a world that does not understand was the wrong move. RIP

  • SpillyNillie

    He has every right. But he was obviously not mentally stable enough to handle the backlash that comes along with posting your life on social media. We all know that everyone will have SOMETHING to say...good, bad, or indifferent.

  • Phillybruh

    No the people bullying him were not mentally stable.

  • SpillyNillie

    And neither was he.

  • Phillybruh

    So he dealt with depression most people do. At some point it just gets to you, being bullied relentlessly.

  • gntory

    #ALLUM

  • hottlanta

    Or the 2 lesbian couples who killed their sons n cut off their penises. Does the hate of men manifest into your own son where u dont want him in the same house with u n your lesbian lover. Straight male kids arent safe around mom b her lesbian lover.

  • Mark mcharm

    We are on the same team lol I agree but people don't go outside anymore they sit on the internet and vent all day and troll people , to each his own but I mean gay people don't know how to act either on the internet. Look on this site a gay guy just said black men should get shot by white cops.

  • Phillybruh

    I mean we could go back and forth all day but the number of straight people who kill their children will out pace the few examples you google search to prove your point what ever it was you were trying to prove.

  • SpillyNillie

    Reason why he shouldn't have made himself vulnerable to online bullying. Social media is a BEAST and not for the weak at heart. It's okay NOT to share your life with everyone. Especially with a bunch of STRANGERS who won't understand and judge you for it.

  • KarmaBackAround

    He had deep rooted issues well before his love for faith..that was jus the icing on the cake.. when you are truly "happy" in life, suicide is the furthest thing from your mind.. he wasnt happy with her or himself obviously as his demons won the war.. and idc anybody with all them tattos on they face have mental issues, periodt! But r.i.p...its sad you thought ur life wasnt good enough

  • Phillybruh

    He posted his girl and his happy life how is that his fault.

  • SpillyNillie

    I never said it was his fault. I said, he should've have known that posting such a lifestyle would provoke backlash. Backlash that he clearly couldn't handle. PERIOD

  • Ollie Shaman

    Your comment minimizes the hardship that trans people and their loved ones face on a daily basis. He was bullied and a video of him being bullied went viral. He subsequently committed suicide. We should be fighting for the equal rights and safety of trans people, rather than ignoring the situation at hand.

  • Phillybruh

    You did in so many words.

  • SpillyNillie

    No I didn't. That's how you want to make it seem. That's how YOU perceived it. Good day, bruh.

  • Solstice

    Angela Landsbury?!?! (My memory is foggy and I am not googling) ??? I love this gif!!!! ???

  • Ollie Shaman

    It does not matter whether he was straight, gay, bi, queer, or anything else. He did not deserve to be treated this way and his life was not worth less than anyone else’s. Regardless of anyone’s religious beliefs, all people deserve to be safe and to be able to live out their lives. I am saddened for Reese and Faith.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    That's not true...smh

  • SpillyNillie

    THANK YOU! Like I said up top, it's OKAY not to share every piece of your life with a bunch of strangers!

  • Phillybruh

    Anything to justify his treatment will be thrown out onto these blogs.

  • Ollie Shaman

    For cisgendered (people who identify as their birth genders) couples in a straight relationship, professing your love on fb is seen as romantic, and is essentially the equivalent of holding hands in public. He was a black cisgender man in a relationship with a trans gender woman, and he was bullied for it. Why aren’t we calling out the people bullying him and demanding equality and an end to the bullying of trans people?

  • Ollie Shaman

    Trans women are not “things” and it is degrading and dehumanizing to refer to them as anything less than human.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    I think because he wasnt truly happy and he was posting for acceptance.

  • Ollie Shaman

    Being transgender is not the same as being a drag queen. Someone who is transgender has experienced persistent gender dysphoria.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Let me tell you something...I am black before I am anything else...As a country we cant even agree on civil liberties at this point. I come from an era Post Harvey Milk where homosexuals actually did more then just wag their finger at someone mis-pronouncing their gender.. real activism not this watered down pseudo activism that's done on the black mirror you look into everyday....hardship is being black in a country you cant be black in even tho your ancestors tears are still stained on the White House...someone exposing their sexual escapades online is a free choice...there is not flashing light that says gay or straight on a persons head...but color/race is all day everyday...As I was saying...I see men like this everyday in my city with tatts on their faces hating themselves...trying to hide from someone or something...the mutilation is a form of self hate...so please miss me with the hardship shit not today or any other day...FOH...

  • Phillybruh

    All these comments and not one condemning the bullying he endured, just looking for a reason any reason to blame him. He shouldn't have posted the pic, he shouldn't look happy with her everything blaming him, but not holding those who did the bullying accountable. Typical though.

  • Ollie Shaman

    There is no evidence that face tattoos are indicative of mental illness. Face tattoos are stigmatized in certain social groups, but has significant meaning in others. It’s important to look beyond what you see, and empathize with the human underneath.

  • Ollie Shaman

    Her name is Faith, and she is transgender. Thank you.

  • Elevated Soul

    Yeah but that is not and never will be a woman though.One of the reasons that gays have many issues is because they have a false foundation. They've been brainwashed to believe their lifestyle is normal,and clearly it's not and they know that.

    No one is judging the dead dude. People are just giving their views. The problem with gay sympathizers,is that you feel everyone must support the gay agenda.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • Elevated Soul

    Yeah but that is not and never will be a woman though.One of the reasons that gays have many issues is because they have a false foundation. They've been brainwashed to believe their lifestyle is normal,and clearly it's not and they know that.

    No one is judging the dead dude. People are just giving their views. The problem with gay sympathizers,is that you feel everyone must support the gay agenda.

  • Ollie Shaman

    Transgender women are not trying to replace cisgender women. Treating transgender people like the enemy feeds into a system of oppression where they are being constantly dehumanized and mistreated for being who they are.

  • Ollie Shaman

    Preach.

  • anahi rios

    Lmao educate yourself not everything is gay and straight, black and white. There is so many different sexualities. Faith IS a woman, whether she was born that way or not and has the right to be so.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Thank You!! I heard that too yesterday but I aint wanna put it out there...

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Working overtime spewing Dumbsh!t?

  • https://disqus.com/home/discussion/freakkboxshawty/freakkbox_on_strikingly B A B Y ?

    ok and He still had a tranny tattooed on his forehead

  • lovelygamour

    what was the point of him being on social media. was it his friends making fun of him or strangers. was he trying to be a social media star. he was gay. it seems the majority of black men are gay. so why didn't he just get together with the other gay guys and interracial couples. I don't believe this story. literally every black man on social media is gay or in an interracial relationship. so im not buying he felt no way out.

    I will like to add that the all black communities need to stop harassing people. just because you like rap and this other person likes raggae doesn't mean you have to say something eveytime you see them. one person can ruin the whole party. everytime someone comes in they have to point out whats different. stop.

  • Floriduhh Evans

    Exactly you can post/ say/do whatever you want to but you also have to be ready for the consequences of your actions...no one will agree with everything that you do. RIP young man ??

  • Trentaye

    Sorry Boo... just giving you anti-gay Nazis what you've been giving black LGBT for DECADES. WE DON'T LOVE OR WANT YOU EITHER! THE POLICE SHOOTING YOU IS YOUR PROBLEM NOT OURS! Until the police start targeting black LGBT, WE SHALL REMAIN (LIKE YOU) UN-BOTHERED.

  • lovelygamour

    all he had to do is use trans hashtags. sounds like he was looking for a reason to leave. I also think this story maybe a lie.

  • Ollie Shaman

    Just because tattooing your face is stigmatized in your community does not mean that it holds the same meaning in other people’s communities. Societies are diverse, and the ways that people express themselves are diverse. A person should not have to conform to your idea of ‘normal’, ‘acceptable’, or ‘decent’ to be worthy of empathy.

  • Banka

    That may be Faith's Truth but that don't mean that it's the rest of the worlds Truth... I wish yall stop trying to make us accept this crap.!!

  • Floriduhh Evans

    If it's something that is a sensitive issue for you, why put it out there to be judged? Every one (especially his age group) knows how cruel SM is...

  • Elevated Soul

    No you educate yourself in what is TRUTH and what is LIE. Bottom line is you are either straight or gay. Even someone claiming bisexuality is gay because it is not normal to sleep with the same sex.

    You can believe what you want but this so called man "FAITH" is a man and will never be female....End of Discussion.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Philly, you know there are people who troll for fun because they have no personal connection to the person. Sometimes the troll is the persons “friend”.. I think the young guy was gay and in denial and was looking for validation and acceptance in the wrong places and from the wrong people.

  • Cricket404

    Sexuality is a spectrum.

  • lovelygamour

    now this makes sense. if he was ashamed of his lover then he never would've made such a blatant post.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Your so quick to talk about bullying but you dont have shit to say about him being "sick" and dying of an overdose not suicide...Stop jumping on bandwagons and listening to social media all the damn time...your ear isn't to the street in this city...your sitting on your perch watching from above and saying proverbial dribble...

  • anahi rios

    Man y’all old closed minded people or whatever you are are really messed up in the head. It sucks to have to look to a book or a person who may not even exist to make your decisions and base your judgement off of. I don’t care if you are religious or not and this goes for everyone... To think separating everyone into different groups and putting certain races and sexualities at the top of the pyramid thinking they are better or more worthy of life and being treated with respect is so messed up. There is only one race, the human race and we all deserve to be treated equally. You need more than Jesus haha.

  • Ollie Shaman

    Transgender people have existed throughout history. It might be ‘unusual’ to you because they are part of a marginalized community. That means that they are often underrepresented and overlooked, and social stigmas against the transgender community do not help. They are people.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    Chile....

  • hottlanta

    Yeah goggle seach buck breaking if it hasnt been taken off the internet. It is the practice of white slave owners raping black men to tame them n the lgrbqstyuozyx+ community celebrate pride month as if their hands are clean of oppressing other people but they have been oppressed. While pride month was going on a white gay guy was oppressing a black woman as if she didnt belong in the apartment complex n she had to take out a restraining order on his azz. We all saw the gay puerto rican guy harassing the black uber driver n his friends in the back seat saying we are gay. Got all day. Bring it.

  • lovelygamour

    plus with this lgbt new found arrogance you have them mistreating black people. trying to steal our resources and opportunities.

  • anahi rios

    I never said it had to be your truth haha. Stop putting words into people’s mouths. The lgbtq+ community respects straight people’s lives even though they are different and straight people and society should to the same. We don’t all have to agree we just need to have mutual respect for one another as human beings.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • McKay

    Too much negativity out there. Who cares what others do behind closed doors??

  • Phillybruh

    Your talking to black people though, they will never understand or care about what you just typed.

  • anahi rios

    Man go back to the Stone Age. I feel sorry for you and the way you were brought up. Hopefully the generations after you have more compassion for other human beings and see them for more than they’re sexuality.

  • Phillybruh

    But it wasn't sensitive issue for him, he looked very happy until miserable people did what miserable people do.

  • anahi rios

    Never say never lol. I know plenty who do. Speak for yourself and no one else.

  • https://plus.google.com/112554936495871947070 Don’t touch my laptop!

    I am a gay woman about to be happily married. I don't agree fully with transitioning into another sex but I would never disrespect, bully or degrade another human. Their journey in life has nothing to do with me so I will never judge, just as I don't want to be judged or have people all up in my business. I kept my relationship private from some of my family because they are negative. Soon as I got engaged and the word spread I got nothing but hate from a few sad individuals. But I literally told them to "eat my ass" and kept it moving. Sadly everyone isn't built to deal with "bullies". R.I.P to this young brother. I wish kids would get off of social media and grow a back bone. That's all!

  • Elevated Soul

    I don't believe I wrote anything that even remotely hint at him being bullied was right....

    One of the biggest issues Black democrats have is always seeing something that is not written.I do believe, I make myself very clear because I'm very blunt.

  • lovelygamour

    they also try to turn the son into their version of a man. so lets say the woman cant play basketball, she wont let the son play. I have seen this.

  • Phillybruh

    What are you even talking about? I don't know what's going on in West Philadelphia, I had a nephew murdered in those streets, my family still lives in those streets. So I can't call out bullying when i see it, I can point out the excuses being made for the people doing the bullying. Now its an OD to absolve the folks who bullied.

  • Elevated Soul

    Man go back to facts and reality. I don't make too much time for delusional people...

  • Ollie Shaman

    It is not mutilation. There is gender reassignment surgery, and there are other surgeries such as breast implants that’s help to treat gender dysphoria. It’s not ‘playing into their delusions’. Gender identity is internal, and gender dysphoria is not cured by treatment other than helping the person to become a reflection of who they are on the inside. Just like some cis gender women feel like putting on a dress and makeup to show their femininity, so do some trans women. They are already women on the inside, but society disregards their existence. Then, when they are hurt or even killed, many people blame the victim and say it was their fault for being transgender. This is why it’s important to have these discussions- people are being hurt or killed for being who they are and people treating them as though they are lying or mentally ill. If you really want to help, learn about transgender issues and gender dysphoria and encourage people to treat them as human beings deserving of respect.

  • lovelygamour

    that's what Africans and some Asians use to call homosexual things. and African americans use to call suicide a white peoples thing.

  • anahi rios

    First of all I’m not a black. Never assume my skin color if youve never seen or met me in my life. Second off it’s not what you said it’s how you said it. What you said is simply your opinion and just because you think that way does not mean you and your opinion are superior over others. You were basically trying to validate why he was being bullied so whether you said it was okay or not, it was implied.

  • Ollie Shaman

    She is transgender and she is a woman. Janet Mock is a wonderful and intelligent woman who is helping to advocate for her community’s and bring awareness to trans issues.

  • Phillybruh

    Your right, I'll delete my comment..lol

  • lovelygamour

    if the -girlfriend-- cared they would've told him to get off social media.

  • Ollie Shaman

    She is a transgender woman and it would be respectful for you to refer to her correctly as a woman. And quite frankly, it is rude for you to discuss someone else’s sex life. Just because someone identifies as queer, gay, or trans, that does not mean you are entitled to either discuss or ask about their sex life.

  • Beloved Jordan

    If she gets prostrate cancer she is a HIM u can pretend all you want but the reality/medically is he/she is a man and will medically be treated as a man. If tranny's wants to dress up put make up on that's.. fine but be real that you are man putting on a dress and makeup and be accepting of THAT

  • Mz_Opinionated

    I agree...people should not bully. All I was pointing out is that if you make any information public knowledge you are going to receive public opinion and that is what he got. I'm sorry he took his own life behind it. But honey...there will always be bullying. Folks need to be mindful not everything deserves to shine. It just opens you up to unnecessary pain. At 20 years old he was still extremely young and obviously in lots of pain.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    my Theory is that a man being pummeled in his butt can lead to a psychological breakdown

  • Ollie Shaman

    I agree that family units are very important for the upbringing of children and teaching them what’s right and wrong. We should also teach them to be kind and tolerant. The problem wasn’t with Reese’s upbringing or family, but the young men bullying him in the video. Sadly, homophobia and transphobia are pervasive in some communities, and it requires everyone to help educate and prevent the mistreatment of trans people and their partners. I am filled with so much hope when I see black fathers accepting their kids and teaching them to be confident in themselves and providing emotional support and a strong family unit.

  • Let them eat cake

    Nevermind. I really want you to use your critical thinking skills girl. We'll agree to disagree.

  • Let them eat cake

    No im Not trying to be funny you just dont get it.

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Who? And What are you referring to ? I missed it.

  • Jayde da Blade

    In a hate filled world you shouldn't expect positive support or look for acceptance from miserable strangers..
    Stay off the web with your life..

  • PrettyMeka08

    Yes, there are 3 buttons on your cellphone that can alert the “Boys in Blue” if you feel threatened by someone harassing you.

    There’s a button on the pepper spray that can help you if you’re being harassed.

    There’s a button on handle of a blade if you’re being harassed.

    And there’s a button on the car keychain clicker that will help you gain entry to your vehicle to escape the situation.

    I was being serious when I asked if there’s a way or a button to turn off comments on FB post like how some U tube videos don’t allow comments.

  • Phillybruh

    It was to me, deleted my comments though. I sometimes forget where I am at...lol

  • morenYAHdelsur

    I definitely think he was struggling with self-acceptance. When you love yourself no one can change your mind about that. He was impressionable and apparently allowed the wrong MFs to influence him.

  • lovelygamour

    yeah, im tired of clickbait videos. that video looks suspicious. you think you clicking on a video explaining this but you really clicking on some woman reading a pamphlet.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    President Obama didnt start anything .. People were gay in the Bible and its nothing new they just have more rights. There were gay bi and trans women before President Obama and will be long after he is gone !!!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    This story is to point blame. Dude said he was happy being with Trans sand did GAF what nobody thought. He chose to expose his personal life. Same attitude he had about being with a trans is the same one he should have kept. This 'I'ma kill myself because they making fun of me' excuse is BEING USED TO OFTEN. Way WAAAY TO MANY SUPPORT GROUPS AVAILABLE NOW DAYS!!! These children who are killing THEMSELVES : WHERE TF ARE THE PARENTS, school counselors and what role are they playing or not playing when these kids only way out is to kill themselves? WAY TO MANY EXCUSES AND NOT ENOUGH ACCOUNTABILITY!

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Uh...Ohh kay...

  • Being bad is way more fun

    What community is it "normal" in .. This limits you chance for employment and while it may be a great idea in the moment its not good for your future in any community. This guy was already very beautiful he didnt need any enhancement but I know he had some mental issues and personal problems. I just wish he had got some help or had somebody he could turn to to help him deal with it rather than killing himself !!!

  • TransMichelle

    Odumba brought this sh*t mainstream...STOP IT....he lit up the white house with the homosexual rainbow flag, he pushed for men to use the little girl's bathroom even though he has two daughters, he went to Africa to push the homosexual agenda and they told him don"t bring that sh&t over here. Odumba the phag pushed the agenda into the mainstream to create laws (like same-sex marriage) to the detriment of society. I'm not going back and forth with you on this issue....There's no debating it....BYE...!
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/229f15f844b08caf6e43c4c5e7cb70867568c10a28119940e3483d6dd3f3e0d1.gif

  • Trentaye

    AND YOU WONDER WHY YOU'RE PEGGED AS THE MOST HOMOPHOBIC RACE? This thread has nearly 600 ANTI-LGBT comments. White people CLEARLY aren't the ONLY evil race EARTH. Black heteros, YOUR HANDS AREN'T CLEAN EITHER!!!!!!

  • Anji

    People. Let others live. Others. Keep your personal biz off social media. Seek help when needed.

  • https://plus.google.com/112554936495871947070 Don’t touch my laptop!

    Makes me think that these children's parents, school counselors, pastors and whoever elses eyes are glued to social media too. Everybody is stuck on Facebook to the point where they dont notice that their kids have mental issues, suicidal thoughts, withdrawn, school shooter tendencies and so on ? I know that was a bit of a stretch but clearly these parents aren't around to show love, talk, and teach these weak kids.

  • Guess Who

    They should have let him be...but he should know he would need a THICK SKIN if he was dating a man in drag. He was dating a man. Doesn't matter if this person wears weave, makeup, got his dyck lopped off, breast implants, etc. MAN...and that is his business...but I think others took it too far in...reminding him of that fact.

  • PhillyFacts

    Won’t they do it ?????

  • Guess Who

    True, it is but gender IS NOT. You are either MALE OR FEMALE..there is no "Trans" ing shit. You can't trans your race...or your species...or be a trans inanimate object...just like you cannot trans your gender.

  • Guess Who

    Who gives a shit who is pegged as what? Blacks were also pegged as subhuman animals, which is FAR from the truth.

    And whites...BY FAR SURPASS ANY OTHER GROUP ON EARTH when it comes to crimes and atrocities against humanity and are truly EVIL. DON"T FRONT...just because folks are NOT DELUDED into believing OR ACCEPTING a man with a face full of M.A.C. as a female does not make them evil. Cut it out.

  • currvalicious

    Oh please. A sin is a sin. Walking around pretending to be a WHOLE different sex than what you were born as is sick. I'm calling it what it is. I'm calling a thing a thing. FOH w/that black heteros this/that.

  • dblogged

    Parents, stay in y’all children’s lives and guide them properly. Sad all around

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Smdh. To me it's no better then dating a morbidly obese woman or an amputee. The ones that was teasing him was the ones that wanted what he had but was too weak to stand in their own truth

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Clarify? You're saying a man dating another "man" transgender is equal to dating someone heavy set or missing a limb? What are you talking about? Maybe something is being misunderstood or lost in translation on my end.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Did you know that both of them had aids good chance that trans gave it to him

  • Guess Who

    Exactly. WTF....why are folks evil when they will NOT accept there is no way to "trans" your gender....just like you cannot trans your species, race, being organic, etc. If you went around saying you was a butterfly and you've always felt like one your entire life you and consider yourself trans species, you would be placed in a 72 hour hold for a mental evaluation.

    WTF is the difference with that and claiming to trans your gender and WHY is it WRONG to know that type of thinking is DELUSIONAL, irrational and insane?

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Sure. Some people think that dating a fat person or amputee is just as bad, maybe even worse then dating the same sex. It all depends on your taste and your truth. Everyone doesn't have to agree with what you think isn't morally right

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Twisted...but did it work for him? Does he own anything except diamond teeth & 2 gold chains?

  • Mz_Opinionated

    WTF?????????????? Sheesh! HIV positive at 20 years old and not to be born with it at birth???!!!! You are sh*tting me!!!

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    Folks need to worry about themselves and Stop judging/harassing others just because they are honest about who they are and What they are about! Folks too caught up on everyone else lives to focus on their own. This world is ugly af

  • KLo

    so sad.

  • Strappyheels

    This poor guy!!

  • Karen Brady

    LOLLLL.I'm scared of YOU!

  • Mimi_131

    I am not attempting to victim blame because bullying is wrong but people need to log off sometimes for their own well being.

  • currvalicious

    It's like some distorted brainwashing of the masses. How are we supposed to keep the human race evolving w/this mess going on. Hetero women won't have mates to procreate with eventually. I remember a couple yes back, there was this push to grant trans women the right to utilize female facilities, such as locker rooms, public restroom's, fitting rooms & such. That of course was under Obama's watch...pandering to that community. Surely knowing he wouldn't want his daughter's subjected to having to share a restroom w/a full grown man parading as a woman. That was inviting unfortunate circumstances upon women. I'm glad it didn't go far.

  • Curtis

    Nobody took his life, he did himself. That tatoo on his face shows his mental status, he was not well. Bullying has been here since time immemorial, half of people i know were bullied in school, they adjusted. He was sick.

  • Lady_Elle

    I say RIP to this young man!
    I don't understand this generation... I have 1 child who is a part of this 20 and under generation.
    Why not log off?
    Ugh... he probably was not being treated (therapy) for depression. This breaks my heart. :-(

  • Raquel

    The males who were laughing at him probably taking D on the low anyway.

    We know how that goes.

  • ClaireHuxtable

    Ok...I see I've been playing life too safe. *runs out to get a tat of "INSANE" on my forehead*

  • Raquel

    Right. IT only comes out the woodwork when it has anything to do with gay people and always talks shit about how we're this and that. Welp! Take his a** somewhere where he'll be loved. Like Tinder or some shit.

    FOH

  • Raquel

    Until black people are treated equally I don't have time to fight for anyone else's cause.

    Period.

  • Cassie Brighter

    Reese and Faith loved each other and were happy together. Then this gang of bullies kept attacking him until he killed himself. How can you claim to be a good person if all you do is judge two people who were loving and kind to one another, and say nothing about the monsters that led him to his death?

  • Guess Who

    THANK YOU..and that goes for MESSYCANS, A-RABS and others who are feeling maybe 1/10th of what blacks have felt their entire history in this country.

  • Cassie Brighter

    Just like you have little choice over being gay, a trans person has little choice over the way we're born. All we can do is try to live life as happily and with as much dignity as possible.
    Trans people - such as Faith, such as me - were born with a disconnect between the biological build of the body and the gender that's in our brains and our hearts. Living in the wrong gender is a nightmare. Transitioning (being free to live as ourselves) is often the only thing that allows us to stay alive.
    It's hard for trans folk to find someone who loves us as we are. When we do, and then we face so much hate, it is truly heart-breaking.

  • Cassie Brighter

    You call yourself an elevated soul. And yet here you are supporting the bigotry and hate that led to this needless death of a bright 20-year old Black man. And putting down people just because of the way they were born. Nothing 'elevated' about your bigotry.

  • Dontgetdraggedputa??

    PEOPLE Bully others for breathing, if you’re not strong enough to realize that nobody but you Nd yours matter then you might as well take your own life. What a shame, he was gorgeous and to my knowledge he didnt kill anybody just loved a trans woman. Sad

  • Cassie Brighter

    If she gets prostate cancer, she is a HER with prostate cancer.
    You're displaying ignorance. Transgender is an actual condition that happens to about 1% of humans. There is a gender misalignment between the body and the mind. It can be very hard to live with something like this. And people like you, with all the judgment and bullying, don't help.
    BTW if a dude wanted to put on a dress and makeup what the hell harm would that be to you anyway. But a trans woman is not "a dude" and she never was, even when her body doesn't match her.

  • Raquel

    Whole truth right here!! We are black FIRST before people start deciding they want to play mix and match. lol

  • Cassie Brighter

    LOL so... you're talking against every single sexologist out there, against all science, against medical doctors... against everything our culture understands about sexuality or gender. But sure, "end of discussion." Give me your opinions about astronomy or quantum mechanics next, since you love to talk about subjects you don't understand.

  • Cassie Brighter

    Except you know nothing about facts or reality when it comes to the medical condition called transgender. You're just talking out of your ass.

  • Cassie Brighter

    What's wrong with all of us accepting each other? Is bullying and hate so much better?

  • Cassie Brighter

    All you've done on these threads has been to continue to bully the dead young man and the woman who loved him. You're so full of hate and bigotry. People like you are the problem.

  • Guess Who

    Humans judge each other all the time.
    Humans get online with disgusting, piggish, troll-like behavior all the time.
    Humans get bullied all the time. Some unmercifully and it's fucked up but...

    ...just because he was gay dating a dude doesn't make it more tragic than someone else getting bullied and committing suicide. I think that is what most of you "sympathizers" don't get.

    Yall act like folks are suppose to be especially outraged by this and have a higher level of sympathy because of his choice to date a man.

    Some of us are not especially outraged by this or have a higher level of sympathy. It's not that some of us don't have sympathy...but it's not heightened because he was gay.

    That's all. I don't care who he dates, more power to him. If he considers his dude a girl...that's on him but when you put that online...folks who do NOT agree will speak up...or they simply want to troll.. ...come on, you know how this works. It's not about right, wrong, having a moral compass...the internet is all about opinions and judging others who blast their business online..whether that be in a post, pic or vid. This ain't new.

  • Cassie Brighter

    Stop blaming the victim.

  • Cassie Brighter

    All you're doing is vilifying a dead man. Shame on you and your petty petty bullshit.

  • Shonie

    I'm just reading all these comments and opinions of this man from everyone and its really sad.No one is speaking the obvious. Suicide is a personal choice based on a state of mind and rather we want to speak on it or not he made his decisions. For every action there is a reaction . if he didn't want the worlds opinions he wouldn't of posted his life choices. So I cant assume his death is about negative feedback from a post no matter any ones state of mind common sense is knowing his actions come with positive and negative feed back. and in doing so I believe he knew this as well. If what everyone is stating is true his mental well being wasn't right and he made a rash decision based off that period. Why are we basing his life choices i.e to tattoo himself and assuming that means he was unhappy.
    No one knows rather or not those tattoos may have been that one thing to bring him happiness! The problem with this world is judgment and opinions and the fact that everyone is freely entitled to one.. Truth is that doesn't make you right. No one knows what anyone is dealing with internally and it doesn't matter. The issue we should be concerned about the most is Depression.
    Nothing else should matter this is a life lost. No matter how he's looked at that could have and should have been avoided with proper care...and that is the bigger picture here...People really need to wake up and look beyond what your eyes are seeing..
    Its crazy to assume you know what 1 individual is going through based off appearance...The Happiest of people have suffered and died from Depression! This isn't about Gender or Sexuality neither is it about Black or White,and its sad to see the lack of education on truth...
    Condolences to this young man and his family.
    Praying for a better world because from the looks of this post and everyone's pointless opinions were fucked!

  • Cassie Brighter

    Uhm... that's just not true.
    You can't trans your race or your species or your whatever, and no one is talking about that. But about 1% of people are born with a misalignment between their biological sex and their gender. This is acknowledged by medical science. And this has existed since the beginning.
    MOST people are born male or female. Some people are born with both male and female parts (Intersex). Some people are born with mixed chromosomes. And some people are born with a misalignment between their biological sex and their gender - all the 'instructions' in the brain giving us instructions for a different gender than the shape of our bodies. And all one can do in that situation is just try to live as best we can.
    And it's not up to you to judge these things. It's a subject you don't understand, and here you are spouting ignorance and hate. Just STFU.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Transgender individuals may not be trying to replace anyone, but the powers that be sure are in my opinion! While we as black people, still have to have the right to vote amended, while the first black president and First Lady were called porch monkeys, while there’re enormous gaps, prejudices, disparities for minorities [Blacks, Latinos, Women, etc.] that people have been fighting against for decades, centuries in this country alone!

    My point is it takes time to chance norms, and the overall attempt to make our society genderless or transgender women the same as biological is wrong! Men who identify as female is a trend for some and very real for others! Having a complete sex change is being transgender for some like myself, and should be fully recognized, IMO! I agree to disagree on what or how people choose to identify!

    There is a place for trans individuals, and every human right should be afforded that doesn’t take away the rights of another group, i.e. bathrooms, install unisex individual bathrooms!

    Why isn’t there a wide discussion on females to males, or putting trans men on the cover of men’s magazine or celebrating them as “man of the year?”

    When will People Magazine put a trans man on its cover as “The Sexiest Man Alive?”

  • Cassie Brighter

    Both of those things are true. I'm going about living my life, harming no one, just like other people. AND I'm trying to be accepted as a woman. Because everything in my brain is female - and I have no control or choice about that. About 1% of people are born with this condition.
    Some people are born with spina bifida. Or a heart murmur. Or whatever. I was born with THIS. And all I can do is endure it.
    And then there's people like you, who just talk shit about others instead of living their own lives.

  • Guess Who

    Blah blah blah.

    You can site any psychological theory or "study" til your heart's content but whenever you get through...
    .....you are born what you are. I am not talking about intersexed folks...so stop the bullshit. You know VERY WELL what I am speaking on..and you need to STFU.

    That tactic doesn't work on me, sorry.

    You and others like you have a sick need to justify these fucking lies and delusions and it is disgusting, smfh.

    Folks, this is why you NEVER TRULY see a TRULY happy cross dresser because living their truth..is a fucking LIE. They know damn well they are not female or male if they were born of the opposite sex. No amount of duck tape, surgery or lacefronts will change that.

  • Cassie Brighter

    You came from a time when people were debating gay or straight. This is not about that. Faith is a woman. She is transgender. She is a straight woman, who is trans. Reese was a man. A straight man, in love with a woman. Society does not understand the transgender condition and it's really important people catch the fuck up.
    Also, "exposing their sexual escapades" is a really nasty, ugly way of saying it. He wasn't posting porn online. He was just proud of who he loved. Most people are allowed to kiss their loved ones, or have wedding pictures up, or hold hands in public. Why were they not allowed the same freedom? Because people are haters.
    And all you're doing is blaming the victim, instead of looking at the nasty haters, the bullies who caused the situation. And that's awful.

  • RespectSelf

    This is sad and it really shows how mentally ill a lot of folks are. And we are being forced to feed into this. I'm sorry, but calling a man a woman is like acting like a 3 year old is invisible when hiding in plain sight. smh. I don't think this generation is mentally able to handle social media.

  • Trace da Ace

    wow....just wow.....i canna on this...see yall upstairs....RIP

  • Guess Who

    You are a man.

  • Guess Who

    "Faith" was a man. A musty ass nigga donning a lacefront. That' s it. Accept it.

    You sound like a fucking weirdo who screams at the sidewalk. Crazy asf.

  • Cassie Brighter

    This young man threatened no one. Became violent with no one. Picked no fights. He and the woman he loved were just happy together.
    Then these assholes came along and humiliated him. called him names, bullied the shit out of him, posted it online to humiliate him some more.
    And you come in here and blame LGBTQ people for starting something? You blame HIM?
    You put discrimination in quotes, like it doesn't exist? Do you realize how fucking awful you're being?

  • Guess Who

    THANK YOU.

    Folks who do NOT think a man wearing a wig with mental issues calling himself "girl" as a woman are bad?

    FOH.

  • Cassie Brighter

    The demons we fight are not imaginary - they're demons like those assholes insulting him and bullying him on the street, or demons like you and your comments.
    Here you are blaming the victim, instead of looking at the hate those people laid on him. Shame on you.

  • https://plus.google.com/112554936495871947070 Don’t touch my laptop!

    Between our president acting like buffoon on Twitter, to stink breath cardi farting on live, and that black family fighting in Disney land social media seems to be like the worst thing to ever happen to this generation. A bunch of retards with a keyboard.

  • Beloved Jordan

    Cassie Brighter Prostate cancer is cancer that occurs in the prostate — a small walnut-shaped gland in men. IN MEN...that means she is a HE no matter want you want to believe he/she would be diagnois as a men and medically treated as a male with prostrate cancer. I dont care if you put on wig make up and say you a woman thats on you but it doesnt take away the fact that is created male-organs vital signs chromosones are male. I never said i had a problem with it but it is a mental illness if you can not discern between the two. I am a woman-if i wanted to tell myself i feel comfortable as a man and started acting as such I can but i would still acknowledge i was born female and biologically created as such.

  • Cassie Brighter

    "Researching" LOLOL
    You mean reading transphobic crap online, then spouting transphobic crap online.

  • Guess Who

    Real spill!

  • Cassie Brighter

    First of all, she had no wig. Secondly, he wasn't "dressing" as anything, she was a woman. Transgender is a condition where the brain says one gender, the body grows a different one. It's not very common - about 1 in every 100 - but it's normal and it happens.
    Thirdly, penetrating is not sadistic if it happens during loving sex, between a couple who love each other. (Do you know sex at all?)
    Fourth, you have NO idea that she penetrated anyone. That's not how it works with most trans women.

  • Cassie Brighter

    That is just a nasty lie.

  • Cassie Brighter

    Someone getting bullied by assholes for months can lead to a breakdown.
    You don't know he was doing anything with his butt. And if he did, that would be his business. I'm sure you do some stuff with your body too.
    His business. Your business.

  • Cassie Brighter

    So you're saying it's ok to have these assholes follow him around calling him names, calling his girlfriend names, posting the video online, inviting others to call him names? You're cool w that?

  • imright

    if he wanted to be left alone he wouldnt have made the initial post.

  • Cassie Brighter

    You see what you want to see. Bigotry works that way.

  • Cassie Brighter

    He didn't tho. THEY (the bullies) filmed him, after insulting him and bullying him, and posted the video to get others to hate on him.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Yes it’s called what happens on social media.. and Updates he killed hisself cause that tranny gave him The Aids !

  • Cassie Brighter

    It is very, very obvious it was the bullying that led to his suicide. And he was probably depressed because of the haters.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    It’s true his family confirmed it go to his Facebook

  • imright

    ummm no. he made a public post & tatted his name on his FOREHEAD. homeboy wanted attn!!! sad still.

  • Bree

    Any man that thinks he is a woman has a demonic influence. That is unnatural. Women have breasts, menstrual periods, wombs to carry and give birth. A man has a penis which is to be used to help reproduce. For one to think otherwise is sick. I will call a spade, a spade. I don't hate anyone that's not my style. And if slaying a demon is a crime, then lock me up!

  • Sid

    There is a lot more to this story. He was suffering with depression with other things and the bullying from dating a man just put the icing on top. This story is just sad all the way around.
    RIP young prince

  • Rhyme and Reason

    No, I don’t see transgender as the enemy, but as a pawn by the powers that be, which creates a divide because this push seems quite disingenuous, IMO!

    Growing up from age 11, one of my best friends was gay, so I watched him never come out in the hood, but be himself, VERY GAY! He introduced me to some of the most creative and talented individuals. Drag Queens (as they were call), Gay Men, A-Sexual Gay Men, Trans M to F (w/o genitalia reassignment) are not foreign to me from various walks of life!

    I also know the pain many gay men and women or teens go through with family, peers, and community! I’ve heard some horror stories!

    So, for me, something is not right, germane or just divisive and self-serving in our patriarchal system engineering this transgender prevalence! Society at large, won’t see it for years to come, like the end of prolific black music and true talented artists with hip hop as the impetus. Not to compare, but the best analogy, I can come up with.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    “Hang around people who do accept u. The world doesn't get any nicer the older u get.”

    Powerful because this is more IMPORTANT than ever because of social media, a place where people love to hurt others! We ALL have to find our own tribe!

  • BTweekin

    I Don't Think He Committed Suicide. He's Been A Pill Head & I Believe He Overdosed & I Read This Tranny Saying That It Was The Pills & More To It Than Suicide On Facebook. I Think People Just Was Quick To Assume.

  • Banka

    We should have a choice in what we accept especially when this stuff is affecting our children and the choices that they make..!!!

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I live in Atlanta my chick used to get her hair done by a tranny and it’s common knowledge that trannys are the one doing the fcukin

  • MJF

    Why can''t people love who they want to love?

  • https://plus.google.com/112554936495871947070 Don’t touch my laptop!

    I still dont fully understand and I may never but as long as you're happy with the choices in your life, then that's all that matters. Respect sis!

  • Cassie Brighter

    LOLOL those are all words I guess.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    You mean prolongs a hard on?

  • Mz_Opinionated

    Okay...I see right now this might go left. So...I'll leave you to it.

  • Cassie Brighter

    Thank you. Back at ya.

  • Cassie Brighter

    He wasn't gay.

  • Cassie Brighter

    The only demons are on the video doing the bullying.

  • Cassie Brighter

    He wasn't gay. And I don't think you're in a position to freaking DIAGNOSE the man. You knew nothing about him.
    All he did was love someone. And then people tore him apart for that, and now he's dead. And you blame him? How about blaming the haters.

  • currvalicious

    I'm not harming you or anyone else either. I just feel strongly about my convictions. I'm not out here physically ssaulting people & what not over who they are, what they are, & how they choose to live their lives. I wish you the best. However, we will agree to disagree.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    m not blaming anyone about anything...You do not live in Philly...I do...I heard yesterday that he died of an overdose but you Trans activists want to make everyone a damn martyr...This man was always high on pills all the time to the point where he would brag about having "perc dyck" to screw men and women...what you need to do is stay on your side of the aisle cause I said what I said...stop putting Gay Issues ahead of African American Issues...Thats the problem with your community yall always want to push others down the ladder in order to be seen and heard...I thought you were a Medium??? should you be able to predict what I say??? Chile Boo go read the tarot...

  • Cassie Brighter

    She had no wig. Enough with your fascination for wigs. Go buy a wig if you're so entranced by wigs.

  • teather

    I think they can, but the gen'l public is not ready to hear about it. I think ppl are too trusting when they post personal info on social media. The backlash comes not matter what you post. If you're not balanced and healthy, it can affect your life in horrible ways. There's no protection out there once you post it publicly. I say, keep your business to yourself and avoid judgment from ppl who care nothing for you and who set out to actually hurt you.
    Sorry for his family. RIP

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Not at all. We all have options and that is just mine. Respect my opinion and I'll respect yours. We are adults, we can disagree without an argument

  • Cassie Brighter

    Prostate cancer is a cancer that happens in prostates. Trans women have prostates.
    You want to say it is a mental illness... I mean sure, the whole medical field disagrees with you but whatever. Free country.

  • LoveChild

    The gay community definitely doesn’t respect straight people are you kidding?!

  • LoveChild

    Actually it’s you the bully. You’re trying to bulldoze with your delusional thinking. A young gay man killed himself. He was dating another young gay male. He was not dating a woman. He was dating a man in a dress.

  • Gamer????? Chick
  • LoveChild

    Wow you are crazy!!!

    It was a homosexual relationship.

    According to your fuzzy logic any man who puts on a dress is a woman??? again, you are insane.

  • Gamer????? Chick

    Tell that THING like it is!

  • LoveChild

    Yes it’s black women they’re mistreating the most and trying to replace. Then they get dudes like Laverne Cox and as a stand-in for heterosexual biological black women!! And we black women are supposed to rollover and play dead while this happens.

    That’s why I don’t ride for the transsexual movement.

    You are correct they are absolutely trying to steal resources. But considering they’re men in dresses that’s what men do - Bogart.

    They also diss straight men who refuse to date male to female transsexuals try to call them transphobic.

  • LoveChild

    Will you stop with the bullshit he was gay as a Easter bonnet!!

    You another sound like total lunatic.

    The people that get bullied the most by black people are black women. Biological heterosexual black women.

  • Cassie Brighter

    They were chasing him down the street, cornering him and calling him ugly names. How you supposed to log off that? Well he did. He logged off life.

  • Cassie Brighter

    This was about Black men harassing a Black man for loving a Black woman. This is a Black problem. This is a Black cause.

  • Mimi_131

    The article I just read didn’t provide me with all that info but there is no way to properly avoid that type of harassment. I’m sure law enforcement didn’t care.

  • EasyBreezy
  • SpillyNillie

    And neither do you. Have your opinion and I'll have mine. Good day.

  • Diomedes

    Blame the victim. He didn't know his fellow Blacks was so backwards, that's his only fault.

  • Diomedes

    Translation: I will continue being a vicious homophobe and you're not going to make me feel bad about it.

  • Diomedes

    You're disgusting. A bunch of straight Blacks bully a man relentlessly for something that was none of their business and you say it's gay men who are filled with rage? You're a dumb ass monkey bitch.

  • Bonita

    That would explain why some of them act like they hate naturally born women. Great insight.

  • hottlanta

    So are you a gay transphobic person when u said u dont agree fully with someone transitioning into another sex but u lash out at straight people who have the same feelings about your gay relationship.

  • Chhzz

    I can comprehend anything logical or well explained. I just don't see how pedophilia goes with morning his death and accepting LGBTQ bros and sis.

  • PhillyFacts

    Yup that’s what I meant...sorry delays ejaculation...

  • https://plus.google.com/112554936495871947070 Don’t touch my laptop!

    #1- it was miss worded... I should of said that I dont understand, not that I dont agree.
    #2- there is a huge difference between saying you respectfully dont agree, and someone harassing you and wishing death upon you.
    #3- lashing out at someone who lashes out at you first is a natural human reaction.

    I hate when people play stupid. Have a good day!

  • LoveChild

    Nope he probably was depressed because he got molested as a little boy because his single mother was abandoned by his father. Yeah I went there. And obviously he never got treated for his mental illness look at all the bullshit he put on his face.

    Black males are coddled AF!! Black males are the protected princesses of the black community.

    He was a mentally ill gay attention whore that’s what happens with this reality show generation they put all their business on front Street and because they’re fatherless & fucked up they can’t handle it like this young male.

    Most gay black males were sexually molested when they were boys raised in fatherless households the predators know who to attack.

  • LoveChild

    You sound like an idiot. Black males are coddled AF. That young male was a junkie and HIV positive you need to get your facts straight.

  • Renee

    Because some people are mentally disordered.

  • TheCBLife

    Even still, it should be YOUR choice who you want to love. No one else should have any power on how you live your life especially if they don't know you and/or it doesn't effect you directly. If the person makes them happy then who cares! I don't have to see it or deal with it. Why bother bullying them about it?

  • Allihave2say

    I can hear "prove that you love me", "if you're not ashamed of me, of this relationship then tell the world about us", "he was depressed before I met him", "I didn't his name on my body because I'm trying to be a girl or I don't believe in tattoos".

    There are some, not all but some, as with heteroSxuals who are all about themselves. They will push the weak to do their bidding. They don't care about the sufferings of another. A man who was comfortable in his choice wouldn't take his own life. I do think that this fake woman was self serving.

  • Allihave2say

    Well God said this is an abomination so perhaps he too is to blame. That said, I interpreted the picture. You can't and won't bully me into thinking my assessment or opinion is incorrect. His "girlfriend" is a man in women's clothing. Period. Today, Tomorrow, during the Apocalypse and so on the DNA will forever said, "you are a man". Deal with it.

  • Allihave2say

    Friend I don't know if it was a reward, but I know what you mean. The devil is a deceiver & a liar. The meek, mild and weak will always be amongst us and they will always be targets.

  • Logan Roberts

    If you're weak, stay off of social media. Next.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    He should’ve just logged off.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Yes that thing targeted that boy did you know the tranny also gave him the AIDS?

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    This like folks mad cause I date a white chick im going to kill myself

  • Allihave2say

    OH MY GOD!!! OH MY GOD! SAY WHAT NOW? WHERE IS THIS WRITTEN? If this is true then they tried to spin in and make it about his depression but he/she Faith was a catalyst in his depression and if he gave Willoughby HIV he should be arrested, charged and convicted of murder. Please provide a link to the HIV story.

  • Renee

    I do not understand “Bullying”! I do understand why people are very outspoken concerning closeted transgenders.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Go to his face book page he died of an overdose and his family says he was depressed be cause of the aids look below phillyfacts have the link and the messages

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    It’s not wrong to date a trans woman, it’s just means your gay?????

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    He should’ve sought therapy for his self hatred for being gay. Because since sex changes aren’t real- he was gay and he should’ve accepted that?

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    No one cares hon?????

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    Being gay is fine. He was the one with self hatred issues.

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    Lol you sound hurt. You must be trans and white?

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    That’s a whit dude

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    It’s not.

  • Dora LaBelle

    Exactly! I see he had some mental health challenges, which may explain why he would continually go back to where pain is inflicted. Sad story.

  • Cassie Brighter

    First off I've never worn a wig. What's this fascination with wigs on this board?? Secondly, I'm not trying to replace you. I'm just trying to coexist with you. There is plenty of room for both of us in this big world.
    And I'm not spending my day looking to attract men for sex. This notion of hyper-sexual trans women comes from porn - and the reason some trans women do porn and sex work is because nobody will hire them for other work.
    In reality, trans women just get up and go about their day - we work retail, nursing, office jobs just like everyone else. We want love, we want family. The gal in this story was not "looking to attract men all day for sex" - she had found ONE boyfriend and was in it for love.
    It's sad how you folks think the worst and then try to make it fit the story - instead of looking at the story for what it is.

  • TransMichelle

    You're absolutely correct...case closed....!

  • Tahj

    I know yall are going to hate me for this but here goes-------This is unfair. We have to do better. I dont care if a person is gay, trans, white, or black. I care that as humans we are making it IMPOSSIBLE to be a person. Mental health is no joke. It's not about being weak. ESPECIALLY IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY - HAVEN'T WE SUFFERED ENOUGH??? Some people are pushed to "their" limits. We all have a lot to say about it...until it hits home. This young man could have been my son. my brother. my nephew. Hes someones. I respect his courage, loving who "he" loves in the open. Instead of behind closed doors like many men. When you look at this kid. Think about his pain... then think about him belonging to you. No one deserves this. He could have went and shot up a school or a business. Killing innocent people. He took his own life because "we" are so judgmental. I pray that we all SHOW COMPASSION TO EACH OTHER. and our children. Teach them. ITS NOT WRONG TO LOVE. Matthew 7: NIV. "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? Rest In Peace Kid. You didnt deserve this.

  • Tahj

    I know yall are going to hate me for this but here goes-------This is unfair. We have to do better. I dont care if a person is gay, trans, white, or black. I care that as humans we are making it IMPOSSIBLE to be a person. Mental health is no joke. It's not about being weak. ESPECIALLY IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY - HAVEN'T WE SUFFERED ENOUGH??? Some people are pushed to "their" limits. We all have a lot to say about it...until it hits home. This young man could have been my son. my brother. my nephew. Hes someones. I respect his courage, loving who "he" loves in the open. Instead of behind closed doors like many men. When you look at this kid. Think about his pain... then think about him belonging to you. No one deserves this. He could have went and shot up a school or a business. Killing innocent people. He took his own life because "we" are so judgmental. I pray that we all SHOW COMPASSION TO EACH OTHER. and our children. Teach them. ITS NOT WRONG TO LOVE. Matthew 7: NIV. "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. "Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? Rest In Peace Kid. You didnt deserve this.

  • Tahj

    I saw that too, in front of a store.

  • Tahj

    I saw that too, in front of a store.

  • sunni_daze

    Disabling his comments could have saved him. You have to stand 10 toes down in what you believe or how you live. RIP to this young man.

  • sunni_daze

    Disabling his comments could have saved him. You have to stand 10 toes down in what you believe or how you live. RIP to this young man.

  • KarmaBackAround

    U need to look again ..

  • KarmaBackAround

    U need to look again ..

  • Guess Who

    STOP LYING, SIR.

    This is about two men - one donning a wig, the other face tattoos - having a homosexual relationship.

  • Trentaye

    I'm certain you don't . Please go get shot by a white cop. WE DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU EITHER.

  • Trentaye

    Trust, you should be. OUR LOBBY WILL CRUSH YOU!

  • Trentaye

    Save your White Jesus think. Black Trans people are people, too. Black heteros are the new Nazis.

  • Trentaye

    Thanks for being what you are a: ANTI-LGBT BLACK NAZI! As usual, discrimination is A-OKAY so long as it's not racism. Go get shot by a white cop!

  • Guess Who

    Nigga, fuck you and everything your delusion, duck taping black ass stands for.

  • Guess Who

    STFU, troll ass bitch.

    Call blacks wtf ever you want but the bottom line is...you are born what you are. MALE OR FEMALE.

    YOU...were also born a ranting, bitch ass idiot.

    There you have it.

  • Trentaye

    Die, Super Predator.

  • Trentaye

    Please go to prison, or better yet... go get shot by a white cop!

  • Guess Who

    You'll get shot by a white cop way quicker than anyone, LaVerne Cocks.

    PISSED OFF because folks with COMMON SENSE, logic and reason will NOT SUBSCRIBE to your cross dressing delusions. Hey, instead of YOU getting shot by a white cop, why don't you steal his gun, shove it up your overused bussy and blow your brains out.

  • Guess Who

    You repeat the same boring over and over, you one-note having simp.

    Eat a plate of dog shit and think of something clever to say.

    May take a couple of weeks but you can do it. Hell, fitting those 3 feet dildos in your ass ain't clever, nigga so don't come with that.

  • Guess Who

    SMH.....that's the best you could come up with? TRAGIC, much like your confused, tormented life.

    Your mother pierced your cranium hard when she attempted that DIY abortion, didn't she?

  • Trentaye

    Understand I abhor anti-gay black people. I TRULY wish for you what I said. #DIE #TODAY

  • currvalicious

    Say what you please. I'm not walking back my comment. It stands.

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    The tranny gave him aids he became despondent and overdosed

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    Slaves got bullied and they didn’t kill themselves

  • Sid

    I think you’re on the wrong website. This isn’t YouTube

  • Evillene

    It is no one's business. All those people wasting their time shaming someone else got 101 problems of their own.

  • hottlanta

    If u want to be with a man n u r a man u dont need heels purse dress or makeup to do it. As a woman l stay in my lane when it comes 2 a man. I could never b one. So as a transwoman u need to stay in your lane when it comes to natural born women bcas u could never b a real woman no matter how hard u try to convince yourself. I dont have the power to hire u or keep you from enjoying life but l do have the power to keep a trans person out of my bed. When l pull the cover back l dont want no surprises.

  • Renee

    As a matter of fact, it is big business! As for ”All those people”, & their 101 problems ?????!

  • Renee

    People do not desire hard facts. Looks like the people around him are more guilty than the people online.

  • Renee

    Once again, ”It is ”Big Business”! As for ”All those people wasting their time..”, and got 101 problems. ?????

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Dude looks like he was g*y anyway BUT bullying should not happen just bcuz he chose to love a man who wants to be a woman and suicide should not have been the reason to kill yourself bcuz others don't understand u or accept your way of living. And note to all, if U can't take people saying criticizing or hurting your feelings then stay off social media bcuz the world/internet is cruel!!!

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    Lol there’s a very low chance of that happening compared to you getting murdered but keep wishing tranny?????

  • Trentaye

    Um... I have a seat @ the table of power as a GAY black man. What do you have other than bad false eye lashes, hair bonnets and White Jesus? Again WE hate you , too. #DIE

  • Trentaye

    Please go to prison, or go get shot by a white cop!

  • currvalicious

    Be careful of the negativity you allow to flow from your mouth. The same ills you speak & wish upon me (&/or others) will/& can be unleashed upon you & yours. Clearly, you can't debate w/o resorting to ignorant speak. May the Lord bless you w/sensibility & brains. Don't respond b/c you are effectively blocked as of this post.

  • Raquel

    This isn't the kind of "cause" I am speaking about. I have no vigor to fight a fight that isn't mine. Let the ABCDEFG groups come out to support this specific kind of mess. Hell, we're still trying to fight for EQUAL rights for simple shit.

  • Jussjess25

    Yea.. that may have been it. But it also seems like he was seeking validation. Killed himself because of what others thought about his lifestyle. Sad af

  • Jussjess25

    Are you suggesting that the deceased didn't actually love the trans man? That would be odd considering he killed himself over it.

  • Allihave2say

    I'm saying th M2F didn't really love him. The M2F doesn't have his name branded on his face. The M2F is playing a game of acceptance and doesn't care who gets hurt as long as the M2F is "accepted as a woman".

  • Cassie Brighter

    He wasn't gay.

  • Cassie Brighter

    Oh, so your bigotry is not just toward Black queer folk. You extend your bigotry toward other races and ethnics too. Nice going, trash.

  • Cassie Brighter

    I see how it is. Black as long as the Black is Hetero. But the moment any Black is also Queer, you just don't care.

  • Guess Who

    Rather that than a delusional, CRAZY, piece of shit actually pissed off that folks will not share in your repugnant fantasy. MAN.

  • HOPoutWITthaThiccnez

    Yes, he sure was. Most of his pictures and video's are taken off his page now @Reesehimdaddie

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    He was with a man? so yea he’s gay or bi at the very least ?????

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    I don’t wear lashes thankfully I have my own long lashes, don’t wear a bonnet cause my hair is natural and i don’t know if I’m even religious lol so fuck off little boy. No one cares about your tantrums?

  • Trentaye

    Sure, but what power base or lobby do you have? I have an ENTIRE mobilized LGBT movement to defend and protect me. What do you have Ms Hotep?

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    No one cares hun.

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    So your anti gay if you don’t believe in sex changes? one has nothing to do with the other dumb dumb.

  • http://suzar.com/BOTW/BOTW-ch1d-pages7-8.html Staci Elle

    Lol you don’t think black gays are at risk for police brutality? Lol your super dumb