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Single dads everywhere empathized with NBA superstar DeMarcus Cousins whose recent verbal altercation with his baby mama may land him in hot water with the league.

Cousins recently married his longtime girlfriend Morgan Lang. But the joyous occasion was preceded by disappointment when Cousins' ex-girlfriend, Christy West, refused to let his son be his ring bearer.

The 29-year-old Leo also has a young daughter.

In audio obtained by TMZ, the frustrated Laker is heard pleading with West to let his son attend his wedding, but she refused.

There is no doubting what Cousins said next: "I'ma make sure I put a bullet through your f---ing head."

West filed a police report in Alabama on Aug. 23 - one day before Cousins and Lang tied the knot in Atlanta.

The Lakers, who signed the ex-Warriors star to a contract during the 2019 off-season, responded to his threat in a statement on Tuesday.

"We are aware of the allegation involving DeMarcus Cousins and, of course, take this claim seriously. We are in the process of gathering information and will reserve further comment at this time."

 

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  • WhoKnew

    Just why? He has to know that everything is recorded and filmed in this day and era of the in-a-net. Just why?

    He has a handsome son. I have to wonder how many times his son has seen him put hands on his mother.

    Some people truly just kick rocks when it comes to the well being of their children and instead act like children themselves. They're both wrong as two left shoes. They should be raising the children by putting the welfare and wellbeing of the child(ren) first. SMDH.

  • Lilo

    This BM is a bitter bihhhhhh!!! So you are mad he didn't choose you and risk your child not having a father with a well paid job. Dumb!

  • Phillybruh

    He still got married and nothing is really going to come of this except she's not getting weekend or holiday breaks for awhile. I don't understand why the boy couldn't be in the wedding.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Cuz she was mad he wasn’t marrying her! Women like that are disgusting. And he should have not allowed her to push him to that point she recorded the conversation for a reason she knew what she was doing

  • Dowoop

    Now if his ass files for sole custody I will not feel sorry for her when she crying they tryna take her child.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    He should have said ok fine see ya in court and hung up the phone

  • Dowoop

    She surely knew what she was doing. U could hear the laughter in her voice. I never understand why women try to keep men away from their kids.

  • SJ

    This is the babymama HE chose. He should have been more selective.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Yup homegirl is just str8 bitter

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Or when he stops attempting to visit or contact the child then she will call him a deadbeat

  • Phillybruh

    My cousin tried this with her child's father, wasn't going let her be in the wedding. Finally my mother got through to her, he is that women's problem now, let that go..

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Be careful who you have kids with

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I cant stand a bitter BM...I can understand his frustration especially for something so special to him...there's nothing worse than a person who blocks someone elses blessings by using pawns....I see this everyday and had to distance myself from alot of bitter women & men because they try to make it hard as hell for their ex's and their new loves...

  • Phillybruh

    He should have one upped her, told his son you can't be in the wedding because your mom won't let you, then let her pick up those pieces.

  • Sid

    He married him a beautiful black black woman
    Congrats

  • KarmaBackAround

    Whats messed up is no one is talkin about how he pleaded n pleaded askin before he made the re mark..we dont know if this is repetitive behavior from him, being the reason why she wont let the child be n the wedding.. OAN: Sandy why u gotta point out hes a LEO ?? He represents 83% of crazy leos, not us all!

  • T Willis

    That would eliminate almost all...
    never mind

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I heard those Leos are exhausting. ?

  • KarmaBackAround

    Andddd we are ??? God bless my husband

  • T Willis

    Yeah I don’t know why he gotta ask. If it’s his kid then he should be able to go to the judge and enforce his parental rights. Nothing worse than a gutter chickenhead having primary control over your seed.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    They sure are LOL...Leos like to throw rocks and hide their hands...they are shifty and will turn on a person in a second if they feel wronged...

  • Lilo

    Some BM's act like this AFTER the baby. She is bitter its not her.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Hold the hell on now...?. I throw rocks and throw hands..a REAL lion of the jungle here.. but yes we do shut down bs real quick..we dont have time for shady sh*t from no one!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I literally had to deal with this last week...my friend is obsessed with her child's father...they broke up after 5+ years and got back together he proposed she said no because she didn't want to stop seeing other men (stupid)...now he's moved on to a fantastic woman and she uses their daughter as a pawn...her daughter is fresh and knows too much to the point where their daughter and his older children have alienated his poor new girlfriend...oh and these aren't young people they are all in their late 40's, 50's and 60's...Chile...

  • SJ

    All I'm saying is, if this was a woman having a hard time co-parenting with the father of her child being difficult, people in here would be condemning her for dealing with him in the first place and make not ONE mention of the trash baby daddy.

  • Virgoqween

    I doubt he’d get it after threatening to put a bullet in her head

  • B.Loveitt

    Women use children as pawns all the time and never held accountable. Women never do anything wrong, right??

  • Bonita

    lol

  • KarmaBackAround

    Listennnn...i dated another leo when i was 14 n it was my first taste of domestic abuse. NOOOO THANK u..whats worse than 2 hot heads is 1 that cant control his anger towards the other hot head.. we good people but definitely cant date our own sign

  • Bonita

    I don't need repetition when it comes to threatening my life. Once is good enough for me.

  • T Willis

    Right

  • tia

    It's just a telling sign of the time we live in now. So many people randomly hooking up, having sex with folks that they dont even know and now we have babies. Once the lust has been fulfilled, orgasms reached and nuts busted that person realizes, " I really dont like your ass." Now, we have two people that have to deal for 18 years. Or that chick may never see that dude again; he can simply walk away. Sad.

  • Bonita

    I don't see him getting sole custody since she has him threatening her life on audio. The courts don't take kindly to that.

  • KarmaBackAround

    And how many times does someone have to ask u to see their child? Or do u practice being mutual? Thats the difference between being civil n having drama wear threats ensue. He not about to threaten me more than once either but i feel like she PICKED this battle

  • dblogged

    Happening to me right now.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Chiiiii thats always the after thought, once the baby is already baking.. sad

  • Dontgetdraggedputa??

    Single dads everywhere need to empathize with wrapping it up or keeping their stank deek in their pants. Aint nobody feeling sorry for a bunch of loose with the sauce @$$ ninjas. Fck demarcus and his ilk! Tired of you mfer acting like you tripped and fell into fertile pucci. Better her than me cause he woulda had to prove me that he can draw faster than me. Tuhhhhhh! Yall need to stop giving @$$ and babies to these freaks.

  • TheWildChild

    Open post: why is Kandi Burris soliciting ? cashApp coins for her daughter, Riley, birthday ??? Not only on her social media page but on Rileys as well. The posts have been removed, but the audacity ? When you previously publicly gifted her a Porsche on her last birthday. Yeah, we get every kid loves ? but get a part time job. Also, I just saw on IG this top model thanking peeps for the donations of 1K to buy her disabled sister a motorized wheelchair ?I'm like really, this seems like exploitation.....

    https://www.instagram.com/tv/B1o0wfSjg1z/?igshid=19fmer4mv6hr6

  • oshh16

    Only thing I will add is that is a life long connection not just 18 yrs after child support ends, they are still connected through the child.

  • Bonita

    I get it. But the courts could care less how many times you ask to see your child. His threat on her life trumps all of that as far as the courts are concerned. That's where he messed up.

  • Dontgetdraggedputa??

    Hmmmmmm
    I thought kandi was a Quatrillionaire with how rhoa fans be talking. Cashapp ya say...

  • KarmaBackAround

    The girl said my mom is rich, not me.. lol girl bye..

  • Phillybruh

    The court won't look at the same as we are. They will see she took him down that road. And the kids old enough for them to ask where he wants to be.

  • Phillybruh

    Oh they care, ol girl lost her twins playing this game.

  • And then there is that!

    Regardless bitter baby moms shouldn't withhold rights from the fathers. That is wack. Women need to take as much responsibility. That man moved on with his life. The kid shouldn't suffer cause best believe she is going to ensure he is paying at the ass for their son.

  • Coco

    Lmao, right! Funny how all the women on this blog are skipping that part of the convo.

  • Phillybruh

    I mean the same goes for females, I mean she could demand he wear one or not have sex with him. But she's not going to pass on the chance of that CS check. Females have birth control options that they don't exercise either.

  • tia

    You're right!

  • tia

    Well, I hope everything works out for you.

  • KarmaBackAround

    They definitely care..especially if he is recorded askin her n she has no REAL excuse or emergency as into why the child cant attend.. That plays a big deal n court because the first thing they will say is u were uncooperative n non negotiable.. what they WILL do because of his threat is make him have a pysch eval.. trust, been there done alllllllat lmao but foreal! Ask joseline, she jus went thru it with stevie n lost bonnie bella!

  • Banka

    She is definitely bitter about something, but to not let their son attend his father's wedding, is straight BS. I'm different because she would had found out after the fact !!!

  • Kimocha

    First of all... Why couldn't the BM just let they son go to the wedding?... She sounds bitter, but maybe it's deeper than that... Maybe DeMarcus is abusive or something bc for him to threaten to put a bullet in her head like that sounds really violent and over the top!

  • EMILY POST

    Girls are so heartbroken when they have kids by these guys and the men dump them and go off and marry someone else... hurt feelings and bitterness is not going to make him like her more or do anything helpful or productive for the child she has with him.
    A lot of women choose the wrong guys to have kids by that do not know how to have a family or be in a family unit. Then they are mad.
    Is it insensitive maybe? She has to try to be the bigger person for their son..

  • Virgoqween

    Let a black man make an attempt to take his kid to Chuck E. Cheese and black women gonna defend him and his fatherhood with every fiber of their being

  • Banka

    This is what I preached to my son, but he didn't listen now all I do is listen to his baby mama drama........

  • Dontgetdraggedputa??

    Regardless if you dont raw dog a bitter heaux you wont have to worry about it. Yall want to talk about everything but the real reason why this sht keep happening. Both sides want sympathy but ya didnt consult us before mixing juices! Ya know when is the last time my baby daddy threatened me? Never because i am not a c!m dumpster nor im i the type to randomly get pregnant. Can the excuses and do fcking better. I reitere FCK DESHAWN and his ilk! No sympathy!

  • SpillyNillie

    Unless she has a VALID reason for not allowing the child to attend his fathers wedding, she's wrong and bitter as hell. He's also wrong for threatening her. Both are dead ass...

  • Bonita

    You say you've been there. Your life was threatened by your kid's dad for not letting him see them? ?

  • Coco

    He should have planned the wedding on his day just so he wouldn’t give her the chance to play games.

    But that threat is scary, knowing how many women die in hands to exes/current partners. I hope for her sake that this is not how he normally is.

  • Nhere

    Lol, folks get upset when you don't want to play to phony game with them. No fake dialogues, no fake smiling especially those times when 'I said what I said'. Yep, I hear the deep breaths when they walk away! ?

  • Phillybruh

    But then she sold it to TMZ so she was simply out to hurt him.

  • Sushi

    Tha sad part about this, is the son having to deal with it, As far,as the two grown people, I have no comment. I was not there, nor do I know the full story. ..

  • KarmaBackAround

    No my oldest son, is not mines biologically ive had him since he was 11 months, his dad and i married when he was 2.. his mother would call n threaten US to see him YET we would record each time it was her weekend to get him n she would call n cancel due to some non sense.. she tried to say we were uncooperative when really it was always her last minute changes that caused the issues n her wantin to argue n fight.. needless to say we proved our efforts n the courts wont tryin to hear shit she had to say ..lil different scenario but the same mess!

  • MsSapphire9800

    Share custody= Crazy...Foolishness...One sided Power and Jail.

  • Virgoqween

    She took it to court before TMZ got it. For all you know they could’ve gotten it from someone working the case. The article says she filed paper work with this threat asking for protection from him.

  • Knocked Kneed and Pigeon Toed

    This is just another example of when you hate your ex more than you love your kids. She's being petty and childish not allowing him to see his son and because of that there is now audio of that little boy's father saying he gonna put a bullet thru his mother's head. SMH the emotional turmoil and confusion this little boy is gonna grow up with saddens me. We gotta do better.

  • Coco

    Did she? Because the police and his job are taking this seriously and investigating it.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Okayyy!

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Those narcissists are the devil's tools.

  • Phillybruh

    Either the police sold it tmz or she did. They will investigate and he'll get court ordered counseling and that will be that.

  • Phillybruh

    After she led him to the threat. It was frustration on his part and will be seen as such.

  • tintin

    She's bitter and this of course brought out the anger which caused him to make such a stupid statement.

    What is wrong in a father wanting his son? And if he ignored the kid it would be another story. This bitter exes will never be satisfied.

  • Li-Wright

    I like what Warren Beatty and George Clooney did. They whored around for 40 years and waited until they were 50 years old to get married and have children.
    Maybe black men should follow that lead. By that time, the man is wealthy or should be. Has some assets, an education, and some sense.

  • Li-Wright

    You know....if he was ignoring his son, West would be up his arse. These (rich) brothers gotta get their brains in order when it comes to these women. These women will be the early death of them.

  • Sushi

    I always say watch who you have babies with and by.....

  • JayBird

    You're kidding me. Riley is an entitled brat if she pulled a stunt like that. Ugh.

  • Facts and Receipts

    He was wrong but she is bitter. If there are no court records or filings over him physically mistreating y'all son, heffa why can't he go? You could have had a free weekend away to Atlanta with your homegirl (Mobile to ATL only like 4 hours)...but no.

  • Carrington

    But, is he worth marrying at 50? Do you want to wait for the man who isn't ready to be with somebody until he needs someone to drive his old a$$ to his doctor's appointments?

  • Yup, I said it

    Demarcus took it too far by making threats but that baby momma was trifling and spitful as all get out. That is the child's family. This woman is the kids step mother. The kids should be a part of these moments because they affect him and his family dynamic. The baby momma needs to stay in her lane.

  • TheWildChild
  • Facts and Receipts

    Ummm George Clooney on his 2nd marriage and Warren in his 3rd or 4th. It's not like they waited to marry

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Most women who these ballers date or sleep around, pass around (this is their career, getting knocked up) are pleased if they the guy doesn’t wrap it up. 18 years of expenses for one lay, easy money!

    The one with the most to lose is the one to practice birth control!

  • Facts and Receipts

    Take that back. Annette his only wife. But lady with George his 2nd wife

  • Li-Wright

    Beatty married 1 time to Annette Benning. Clooney is on his 2nd married, but the first one doesn't count because it was annulled I believe.
    Google it.

  • Facts and Receipts

    Yep. Spoke on this the other day here. A MESS

  • Li-Wright

    Yes Yes Yes. First, he should be "settled" and not whoring around. Second, he should have plenty of assets, pension, etc. If he's good to go, he's in good health. You would be surprised how many 50 yr old men are in great physical shape....think of all the "retired" athletes. More people are exercising than before.
    you can always live together first before marrying. In fact, maybe that's what these (stupid) rappers should do. Just live with the woman first, then have the baby.

  • Facts and Receipts

    They divorced. But you wanna say annulled and it didnt count. So his white ass could get a do over in your book bc he was a hoe all his life? Like...ok

    ?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Exactly!!!

  • 1KimJones

    She should have allowed their son to be a part of his father's wedding day. It's a special day that he should have participated in. Now, he'll feel left out when he looks at the wedding photos of all his other family members who were present. Stop being bitter women, things didn't work out, it happens. Let go and be free to find real love, stop holding on to past hurts and anger. Now, his career is in jeapordy, not wise on the father or the child's mother's part. Smh

  • Bushbabe

    I heard the phone call and the baby mamma was bitter as hell. This ninja paid his cock tax and she just mad.Not excusing his behavior but if you looking for fire you will get that smoke.

  • Cara

    So sad when a mother let the child suffer from spending time with their father especially when a father is pleading.

  • 1KimJones

    Lol

  • Rhyme and Reason

    I don’t know the backstory, if there is one, besides a scorned woman, avenging her her feelings, using their child?

    Was the woman, someone she knows, or he just moved on? It is wrong to alienate kids from either parent, regardless, they’re innocent!

    Kids before marriage when engaged, but never wedded, broken promises, one-night stands or hook-ups, hardly ever workout for the woman! Gold diggers just want the check!

  • 1KimJones

    Not really, my uncle has nothing to do with his ex wife. Their son is 23. After their child turned 17 he received a license and a car. They only seen each other at high school and college graduations. He cut her off and wants nothing to do with her. No phone calls, joint birthday parties etc. He says he enjoys his peace with her completely out of his life. No need to be connected after age 18, unless you want to be.

  • Joy King

    That was a classic setup and Demarcus fell for it. His BM should be ashamed of herself but she’s too pissed he married another chick to even care how this affects their son. Moving forward he has to learn to keep his emotions in check and utilize self control. His Ex would rather see him in jail than being happy with his new wife. Sad but true.

  • Luv Pitties

    Now if he decides to get Usher’s lawyer and file for full custody women in here are going to be 38 hot saying how could he tear a child away from his mother. West is tearing a child away from his father because she doesn’t know how to properly co-parent. The fact this was recorded I am sure this is her doing and I am sure she does dumb shit like this all the time; using their child as a bargaining chip. File for full custody DeMarcus.

  • chris

    She been recording his calls and provoking him for a while. Finally got something she can work with.

  • And then there is that!

    You do know it's possible be in real relationship/marriage and have kids and that ish still don't work out. At the end of the day all of the adult parties involved is responsible. This woman is just mad because he moved on and got married and the woman at the end of the alter wasn't her. I bet up until he decided to get married she had no issue of letting him see his son. So miss me with this holier than thou my ish don't stink attitude

  • Bushbabe

    Bitter Bish Syndrome aka hustling backwards.

  • Bree

    This is pitiful, I don't understand why West wouldn't allow their son to be in the wedding. I guess bitter baby mamas are at an all time high. I do feel bad that he made threats against her and he deserves the proper punishment for it.

  • Bonita

    Yeah, that sounds real messy. smh

  • Bree

    This is why I never wanted to marry a man with kids. I prayed for a single man with no attachments/baggage. My mom was a step mother and was painted as evil, but she gave her heart to my step siblings as if they were her own.

  • Bree

    The kid suffers, that's true.

  • Bree

    True.

  • Bushbabe

    If you use the emotions of your child as a weapon you need to lose custody. Hopefully this will happens and she can be used as an example for other women who have "Bitter Bish Syndrome".

  • Bree

    That's because they plan to have babies by these guys to trap them. You can't win when you are dirty! Coming from the projects, I have seen this happen all too often.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    When the judge hears you on tape saying to the mom: "I'ma make sure I put a bullet through your head" that's not going to make him or her feel like you'll be providing a wholesome environment for a child. Doesn't mean he's not a good father, but that kind of threat is going to work against him in court.

  • Bree

    I saw that on IG. I thought it was a hoax until somebody said otherwise. I'm disappointed in Kandi. Riley is of age and she should have been on somebody's job for the summer. Not saying she needs the money, but to give her an opportunity to earn her own. She is in her senior year of high school. My husband and I are very fortunate but I'll be damned if we raise spoiled and privileged children.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Wheeew chile it was Gods grace that kept me outta jail dealin with that wench!

  • Shira Harding-James

    Why do some women do this?
    Men are not obligated to us just because we have offspring together. This sounds like a woman bitter because she didn’t secure the ring, someone else did....I can’t!

    Side note: Marcus shouldn’t of threatened her

  • Look@m3

    Notice how it surfaced right after he got married...

  • Mr.LeBrickJames
  • Rhyme and Reason

    And, sometimes there is little or no relationship after the 18 years, if one parent hates the other, or both, and won’t bond with their kid (s).

  • Look@m3

    I tried to explain this to my husband. He said he 7 feet. I was like this negro couldnt find a 6 feeter. Even Shaunie top of her head reaches shaq shoulder.....Ill never understand but then I guess she wanted to guarantee height and he wanted to balance out his with their kids.....happy he married his sweet heart tho....

    Now can we see the baby momma? Whats her name?

  • Renee26

    He's a bitxh azz niggga period.

    Threats like that aren't cute and he said it over something so minor. I bet he's physically abusive.

    People die every day at the hands of current and past lovers. Never ignore red flags.

  • Renee26

    Even still her son doesn't have to be in his wedding either

  • Renee26

    Sure will as it should. He has anger issues

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Her son? That's his son too, so if if he's paying his child support and has legal visitation rights, she doesn't have the right to keep his son from him on his special day just because she's salty. Looks to me like he's just being petty.

  • chris

    Her son? It wasn't her son when she was asking for child support

  • Undecided

    Baby mom is bitter won't allow his son to visit but quick to cash those child support checks and say he's a deadbeat what a bum

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    now... was he in Cali or NY when the tape was made? if so and he didn't know if he was being recorded.. thennnn uh oh on her.... .. the question I want to know is....... was this a LEGAL recording???

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    if this was illegally recorded.. it wont be admissible

  • Shira Harding-James

    He is a basket ball player ?????

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Yeah, if I was that tall my height requirement for a wife would have to be at least 6 feet. I couldn't be with some 5ft- looking woman. Not only would we look weird as a couple, but I think the sex would just feel super-weird and awkward as well.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    She lives in Alabama, which is a 1-party state when it comes to recordings like this, so she didn't need his consent.

  • TheWildChild

    You don't see Todd's college bound daughter flossing for cash. I was wondering if she had a summer job.

  • Dahl

    That threat was not cool at all. That bm is bitter. I will never understand why women do that, like the man doesn’t want you, he wants his child. So she takes this opportunity away from the kid to celebrate his dad’s happiness, but I bet if her miserable arse ever snags someone to marry her, he’d have a custom tux matching his new Dad...

  • Renee26

    We don't know the story behind their relationship. His threat over something minor throws up hella red flags to me.
    Maybe the fiance mistreats the son or something. Idk her reasoning only that she isn't obligated to let him participate.

    Maybe they should have planned it for his visitation weeked and that way he'd have the child on that day.

    It's he and his wifes special day.... They still got married and have smiles across their faces regardless

  • abby500

    BBM bitter baby mother

  • BEANTOWN BULLI

    This is crazy!! You know how many of these conversations happen and we dont hear about it!! Its only cause he a ball player. I get the threat was wrong but his BM was being petty!!! How many times youll argue and say some ish you didnt mean?? We haven't heard all conversations just one!!

  • Seldomseen

    Men get custody or visitation rights, even if it is just in the off season. He could have married on his weekend and avoided bitter Betty all together.

  • CookieMobster

    This is so sad. My brothers x wife acted the same way about letting their son go to his wedding. I was like BISH YOU LEFT HIM??? Why so salty? I don't understand that mess. As long as all parties have the best interest of the child at heart then there should never be a problem. Now If the BM of BD is high all the time or not being safe with the child that's another story. This was real wrong of her. He lost his cool with what he said. That was wrong of him. I'm sure at the time we was mad enough to drop her but he didn't do it. The NBA shouldn't fire him over it. If I threaten to kill my hubby my boss ain't firing me.

  • Look@m3

    Yeah that's my point its kind of creepy that someone that tall would be intimate with someone that small. Like Chris Bosh and his wife. They just look so strange together..smh

  • The REAL Cheese eggs

    He has baby mama issues.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    I agree. If the situation were reversed and he was keeping her son away from her wedding, I'm thinking the mom might say some violent and angry stuff to him too. Not to excuse what he said, but under the circumstances, I'm not sure I view this as a "threat" with real intent to do harm. I look at it as just an angry outburst.
    Yes it's still wrong, but part of me understands it. I have buddies who've gone through similar things and I've seen how hurt and helpless they feel when the mother is using their child as a weapon against them.

  • EMILY POST

    Hell that may or may not of been the case. Sometimes people think they mean more to some people then they really do?????. Two super young people having kids all you can always bet on is a lot immaturity.... When she had that kid was he in any league? Probably not. Everybody doesn’t view or value family in the same way.

  • Bree

    Sure don't. Todd seems pretty laid back.

  • Bree

    My comment has nothing to do with him being in the league. Women trap men all the time by getting pregnant thinking it will grant them some kind of security. You can't win when you are playing dirty. And when you play with fire you might get burned. Unfortunately, this happens often, and no one educates these women. Lay down with dogs, come up with fleas.

  • EMILY POST

    Can you really trap someone in the 2000s this is not the 70s ? It takes two people not using protection to have a baby.

  • EMILY POST

    Ohh yeah I see what you saying.. Your saying they are trying to trap them more like, as a way to keep them in a relationship with them being involved with them...

  • GAPeach

    I'm sorry, angry or not, you don't just get to threaten someone's life. Ever heard of a terroristic threat charge? This right here is it. We can say all day that she's bitter, but there isn't one person on this blog that knows what has gone on between them.

  • Bree

    Yes, you can. Before I met my husband, there were women running after him offering him. He was not pleased. As a very attractive man, he is always approached by women, and one of his "friends" seduced him. He was fighting the situation because he thought they were cool. She opened her legs to him on several occasions, he didn't know how to handle it because they were so close at one point. Come to find out, she wanted to trap him with a baby and was willing to kill if she had to. I walked into his life before it was too late. Very dangerous situation.

  • Yup, I said it

    Amen! I bet she didn't waste anytime filing for child support. These men should be equally as eager to file for their visitation and custody rights.

  • Yup, I said it

    That's how they do. They teach the kid to hate their own daddy but also teach the kid to love their new boyfriends. Then the can't understand why their son grows up and has no respect for women

  • thatonechick_

    We don't know the back story nor if the bm and wife get along! My child wouldn't be attending no wedding either if the "wife" has issues with me! Period, no ma'am!

  • Yup, I said it

    His bball career is over. He's not,a franchise player and he's too old for the NBA to seriously go to bat for. Baby momma will be applying for jobs at Popeyes soon.

  • Seldomseen

    Exactly

  • Republican Dude

    So asking for your son to be your ring bearer is minor? You sound like a pigeon!!

  • currvalicious

    Idk why those extremely tall humongous men like tiny petite women. It looks freakish to me. I went to her IG page. She's attractive & has her own business. Like a clothing designer or something.

  • Republican Dude

    Squaaaaawwwkkkkkk!!

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    Where was he?

  • Phillybruh

    It's not about you though. Its about that man and his kid.

  • EMILY POST

    I see what you saying.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Thank you!!! He could be a Bitter Dad. She probably Knows More about his character than outsiders. Maybe why she didn't let the child attend the wedding.

  • xxxgracious

    Yeah my kids dad showed up to his 2nd birthday with some yt German girl. Told us at the party it was his wife. Of course guest were side eyeing him. I couldnt do crap about it so as a woman I extended my hand to her and introduced myself and my son. Turns out she was nice as hell. Although they divorced 8 months later she and I are very close and communicate regularly. She checks on my son more than his own father. But I often wonder if I would have taken the wrong approach and made it about me. Now I agree with "thatonechick" above if she would have acted silly that would have been her last time seeing us but I do realize he has to spend time with his father and I cant control who's around when I'm not there.

  • Bree

    Yes! My husband and several men that I know have experienced this.

  • CoTToNCaNDie SWeeTAsGolD

    1. HE WAS WRONG!!! What he said was extreme. But I want to know why she was recording their conversation and why she was so happy to tell him no his son wasn't coming? It seemed to me that she knew once she told him no, he would react the way he did. If that was her motive she's wrong also. In the end that's his son. Why do women always think its ok to keep children away from fathers who want to be in their child's life. IF its on record that he's abusive toward Lil Man then ok but if not why couldn't he attend his Dad's wedding. She seems bitter and he's stupid for even going back and forth with her. I would have hung up on her azz and called my lawyer!!

  • Fire & Ice

    I said this all day yesterday. Demarcus could have avoided all of this by planning his wedding around his visitation schedule. Furthermore, he didn't need her permission for this. He could have had his lawyer file a motion asking for this time. 9 out of 10 a judge would have granted it. AND if she violated the court order, her ass would have spent the weekend in jail. He has toooo much money for this sh*t. All communication with her needs to be through his lawyer or spokesperson. He better talk to Tom Brady and Dwayne Wade about dealing with baby mamas.

  • Yup, I said it

    Bitter people cannot accept thst when you have separate households you will not be able to dictate who the other parent dates. Women ill say they want to meet every body their kids around. Umm thst sounds ridiculous especially if your kid is school age or in daycare. Your kid spends more time with strangers thst with the parents.

  • Fire & Ice

    I read that he has choked her before.

  • Fire & Ice

    Yes! They look weird together. The baby mama is extremely tiny too.

  • Fire & Ice

    I agree that we don't know the back story. People are so quick to call women bitter. For all we know, he and his new wife could be mad disrespectful to the mother. Anyway, im willing to bet he'll be in the news one of these days, for domestic violence with his wife.

  • EMILY POST

    I have seen the desperation of women willing to do anything to keep a person in their lives. Even if the relationship is no good having a baby to do it is unrealistic but they do it.

  • Carla B

    I record the calls between my kids dad and I because he is very abusive. We have a court order and I was told the only way to protect myself and my kids was to provide proof of his true nature. Judges could careless about verbal claims they want physical proof.

  • Carla B

    We don't know their history yet all these females are bashing the mother. I believe she recorded their calls cuz it was common for him to threaten her.

  • Kimberly King

    Baby you can tell he's a crazy man. I wonder why she wouldn't let their son attend the wedding? Just hating ! Now if he didn't beg to have their son there, she probably would have went on IG and said how terrible of a father he was for not wanting him there. Don't hold children away from their fathers unless it's some SICK shit going on. Ridiculous

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    He was in Georgia for the wedding which was being held in Atlanta. GA is a one-party state also.

  • Bonita

    How old is y'alls son now?

  • thatonechick_

    My child will not mess with ANYONE who has a problem with me the person who birthed said child! This is MY opinion and MY right! Coming from a situation where my father married a woman who didn't like my mother for the simple fact that my dad still says to this day if he can go back or if my mother would have him he'd marry her. She treated me and my siblings like shit! And faked it in front of my mother! She abused us and from that experience me and my child's father has that understanding! I'm not bitter i want my child's father to move tf on! But will my child be apart of anything where the next woman wanna beef with me... HELL NO! To each its own but IM. NOT. HAVING. IT :)

  • SJ

    Now you know if the roles were reversed and it was HER that threatened to put a bullet in his head, you would not be sympathetic to her like you are to him.

    You would be calling for her to be arrested, charged, tried, and convicted for being an angry BM.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    Even if the new wife was disrespectful to the baby mama (and that's just total speculation anyway), that should have nothing to do with this. This is the FATHER asking for the child to be at his wedding. She doesn't have the right to keep the child from his father just because she doesn't get along with the new wife (which, again, we don't even know to be the case).
    Besides, he's married to her now anyway, and his son is going to spend time at his house with that same wife of his, whether the baby-mama likes it or not. So keeping the boy from the wedding would serve no purpose ... but to be petty.

  • Renee26

    Agreed, was too comfortable with that threat. His wife is a tiny lil thang too, I hope she's safe.

    I'm not for keeping a child from visiting their non custodial parents but that's not the issue here; this was for the wedding. 1 day and she had her reasons for not wanting her child to participate.

  • Renee26

    Damn.. That's bad

    Fugg him and their wedding

  • Renee26

    Nothing to threaten murder about but anyway ya momma is the bird bitch and she raised one that thinks death threats are ok... Bye Troll!!

  • Republican Dude

    Ok big bird! Squaccckkk.. ? you can do better than that! You needs killing quail!

  • Republican Dude

    Ok foot dragon speak your piece!!

  • Fire & Ice

    Like you said it's all speculation. None of us know the real backstory. With that said, why are mothers expected to tolerate disrespect from the wife or girlfriend of the dad??? On the other hand, men never tolerate disrespect from the husband or boyfriend, of their child's mother. They'll be up in arms and will have the full support of other men.

  • Republican Dude

    It's also his son mud duck!

  • Fire & Ice

    I don't believe children should be kept from their parents unless there's real danger involved. It's clear they don't get along and he failed to plan properly to avoid this.

  • Renee26

    Right, had the wedding been scheduled during his visitation there'd be nothing she could say.

  • Fire & Ice

    Basically! This could have been avoided. To be honest he doesn't have to even speak to her. All communication can be done through his attorney.

  • Alicia.Ashe

    He has to much money not to have handled this better than what he did. Now the idiot is on tape.

  • KarmaBackAround

    Hes 10, going to 5th grade ???

  • http://www.NeCola.Mayvenn.com Chile_Pleeze

    welp... sucks for him...

  • Bonita

    Okay. He's a big boy now. Hopefully all the drama filled years are in the past.

  • KarmaBackAround

    OH girl yes! She doesnt even want to see him because we get child support which is sad, saw him for the first time about a month ago, first time in 2 years n she barely could hold a convo with him.. mind u the court order says she is to get him every weekend ..so im the mother he knows!

  • Bonita

    That is sooo sad! She takes bitter to a whole new level! Yes, you are definitely mama. I have a 22 year old, and I give her a constant reminder to "choose wisely who you lay down with."

  • Let them eat cake

    another bitter baby momma smh

  • Let them eat cake

    lol

  • thatonechick_

    Bitch you sound dumb! I don't play about my respect and if a bitch disrespecting me wtf do they need to be around a child for?! Ain't no bitter in the blood of a woman like me so please choke on that.

  • Let them eat cake

    thanks for proving my point LOL. Pathetic.

  • thatonechick_

    Your mother not sallowing you is whats pathetic https://media1.giphy.com/media/4GrG8An8nfPmE/giphy.gif