Lela Rochon was nearly unrecognizable as she flew out of LAX airport with her three children after attending OWN's 'David Makes Man' premiere this week. The 55-year-old actress was all smiles, makeup-free and wearing her thick natural hair.

Lela seemed unfazed by reports that her husband, director Antoine Fuqua, 53, is having an affair with Eddie Murphy's ex-wife, Nicole Murphy, 51.

Despite the cheating scandal, Lela wants her fans to know she and her husband are still happily married. She rocked a massive ring on her wedding finger and an unbothered look on her face.

Lela stars in OWN's David Makes Man about a boy genius who tries to find a way out of the projects in his impoverished Florida neighborhood.

Photos by LionsShareNews / BACKGRID

  • WutizstillHERE!

    And she still wearing her ring soo.. okay..

  • Blaque Mahogany

    If she can be happy with her man gallivanting around town with another woman...?????

  • BishesDntGtIt

    She better than me that’s all imma say.

  • Lovechild

    She’s completely unhappy and needs to drop the obesity as soon as possible

  • Dr. P

    If she stays, I hope they are at peace, if she leaves, I hope she's at peace. And Nicole...may she continue to live the life she lives...always being a side dish and never the main entrée...

  • ALLMINE?

    She looks exactly the same just heavier

  • ALLMINE?

    Waiting to Exhale soundtrack? Anybody remember that jawn? Lol

  • interestingconcept1

    Sandra while Lela does have beautiful hair, or used to, that's weave. I know who does her hair. And if Lela dont get her butt to the gym, got folks thinking she has Lupus?

  • Guest©

    She looks beautiful to me. That is all.

  • BishesDntGtIt

    Brandy’s Sittin Up in my Room was my shyt

  • Tiffany Miller

    Good for her... don't hide because HE can't keep it tght.

  • ALLMINE?

    Yea. I was a kid but music was and is still my lifeline..??

  • bemetoo

    Girl y’all been married all that time and he had not 1 but 2 outside babies from 2 different women waiting to exhale bih you dead ?

  • luVn_liFe…

    Yes! "why does it hurt sooooo bad"

  • Jen_no_juice

    Hey maybe she lets him cheat. She better than me but this ain't my relationship. So hey girl do what makes you happy. If that's keeping him great! If it's keeping a smile on until you get the papers signed even better. But do you girl!

  • Coy little wink

    She looks goodt for 55. Why must she lose weight...everybody not obsessed with being a certain size ?

  • sandi

    Dr. P just had a conversation with a friend. SHe said she had husband who was whoremonger and one who raised hell. I asked which was worse- she said the hell raiser. She said you want to have peace in your home. Whoremonger is bad, but they trying so hard to keep mess under wrap, they won't rock the boat cause they trying to appear about that family life, but a hell raiser, you don't know when they gone click. It's about peace. Every woman has to make a decision about how much she will put up with, but whatever the decision, you want to live in peace. Everybody will have to give in account of how they treated others.

  • Dr. P

    You spoke a mouthful! Whew! Antoine is most definitely the whoremonger it appears, trying to play the family man while playing the field. But your friend is dead right with that!

  • mzwhang90210

    I saw her once @ a Farmers Market. She was SUPER sweet & engaging with her fans, not stand- offish at all. ???
    Unlike that snooty heffa Nia Long ?

  • T Willis

    Lmao! Wait, so she doesn’t have lupus?! Why oh why am I not surprised smh

  • Ghetto Real Name

    My cousin's wife sang herself down the aisle to the Patti song on there. My Live Sweet Love I think it's named. It's timeless that soundtrack

  • T Willis

    That soundtrack was lit. Babyface did the damn thing

  • Marlika

    Lela is still beautiful

  • T Willis

    Chaka Khan and Chante Moore ??

  • T Willis

    ? I thought she looked smaller

  • luVn_liFe…

    very.. but society is used to the build a bodys and vacummed out stomachs she's not "appealing"

  • mzwhang90210

    Hey Coy??

  • T Willis

    Lela is not embarrassed - and she should be. I’m a leave it there ...

  • luVn_liFe…

    lol,essplain PlZ

  • Guest©

    Thank you. Why is it okay to fat shame this woman??

  • abby500

    Nia long needs to have 10000 seats. No one is checking for her.

  • mzwhang90210

    We must have some size 2 super models in our garten.
    Shes obviously comfortable in her own skin. Folks were taking up for ole rachet Wenndy William's & her fire hydrant shaped legs, but wanna talk slick about sweet Lela. Let that Queen live!!????

  • T Willis

    Lol no. But you can read it on the previous threads ?????

  • mzwhang90210

    ??

  • mzwhang90210

    But yet you were saying that you didn't mind Lizzo's weight tho.
    But ummm... ok

  • MISSMEWITDATBULL
  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    55 years old and looking good. She might not be a banger like she used to be, but that's fine. How many 55 year old women (or men, for that matter) are bangers anyway? She's aging well in my opinioin.

  • mzwhang90210

    "I was your lover & your seck-kah-tarry"
    Lol!!

  • mzwhang90210

    Luvn!! Preach!!?

  • Ni Ni

    Will they just let this woman be? They wasn't studdin her a few months ago. They harassing the wrong one anyway.

  • ………

    Lela maybe a lot of stuff but I don't think she's as dumb as people think she is.
    ....... Just think about it - if she ever decides to leave when her kids are 18 and out of the house. His infidelity is public.. She might be a Juanita Jordan (not as much) but walks away with the last laugh. Best wishes to them.

  • A.P. Millz-CT

    ?yep... hopefully she Losesa few pounds ? not buying the “life is good thang”

  • MrsSpice1

    Fire hydrant legz????? ????????????

  • A.P. Millz-CT

    ??

  • MrsSpice1

    ?...

  • Ni Ni

    ?

  • MrsSpice1

    I love her!! Shes a classic lady and actress! I thought awhile back she mentioned she was takin a pill for a condition she has that made her put on alot of weight?!? Not sure but She was and still is very beautiful she had her knockout mini skirt days...Now she doesnt have to worry about the pressures of fame to look a certain way anymore at her age. Health and happiness come first!

  • Coy little wink

    Hayyy Whannng! ?

  • Anji

    I know Lela. That's her hair in that natural pic. Much shorter and thinner than in her 20s.

  • GrandHustleGirl1

    She smiling like she may have a side ni...... never mind. Hehehe.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Size 0 actually.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Her hair looks fabulous. My mom got fat too once she hit about 45. I refuse to let that happen to me.

  • Anji

    Shoop?

  • KcoolMuziq

    I still am! I attended a sit down SAG conversation with Nia and she is the most down to earth,no nonsense.non filtered black actress I've ever seen.

  • GrandHustleGirl1

    I REFUSE to be embarassed by a mans bad choices. TRUST and believe...a man somewhere will want this. Ladies, carry yourself well at all times..... guys arent that concerned about weight.. they'll still take you down whether you big or little. They stay thirsting for women. We shouldnt be caught up in this idea that they turning they nose up at the big sisters... trust me... somebody is wining and dining them too!

  • primadutch

    She looking real "Loretta Devine-ish" in that black hook-up...ijs

  • KcoolMuziq
  • Dowoop

    Hey it's not cheating if he has permission.

  • starbright9449

    Wendy has a medical condition. This woman is just..... I do agree Wendy needs to take those huge things out of her chest.

  • Coy little wink

    Its not! She is a REAL middle aged woman and looks great...

  • Anji

    I wish the best for Lela. I feel she's happy and truthfully Lela was that mean girl. Not viciously so but definitely had esteem bolstered by denigrating females with less fortunate looks. IJS.

  • imright

    yall gna shame this lady in to the Surgeons office ???

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Her looks are not the issue
    Her lack of self esteem is
    You LOOK fatter older and uglier entertaining a doggish man periodt!

  • dontgetblocked

    She's fat and lacks self-confidence. She's hanging on to a man who was seen in public tonguing down a woman that looks the opposite of her. I don't support women who allow themselves to look like fools.

  • Fire & Ice

    I never knew that she was a mean girl.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Mine too
    And now she clowns me for staying in the gym like we some fridge shaped females in the fam like if i dont work out for two weeks my waist spreads like rumors. Aint nobody trynna look square af

  • T Willis

    Me neither.

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    Same

  • Anji

    Lela is friendly and down to earth. How you doin Whang?

  • Ghetto Real Name
  • CardiB’sAbs

    I feel you my stomach plumps up when I take time off too. My mom was the MILF of the neighborhood and at my high school. Fitness is a lifestyle and you have to be willing to sacrifice your time and some money for it.

  • Anji

    How long have u known her?

  • MsSapphire9800

    Do tell because I always heard good things about...and for the past 15+ years she has been off the scene...Are these rumor or internet stories?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    ????

  • Anji

    I've known her decades. Many positive attributes however she is superficial to a degree.

  • MsSapphire9800

    I have been reading she is on medication for Lupus...and I do not believe because she gained weight due to illness she has low self-esteem...maybe she is dealing with life in her own way. I am on Predisone and other steriod medication for my Lupus..I went from a size 7 to a size 12..now I have have been holding down that size 10...but it goes up and down depending on my flare-ups.

  • Dontgetdraggedhoe??

    Fr fr!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    I been meaning to ask you your secret on how you create these banners to post ?

  • xxxgracious

    Ayeeeee ??? great minds think alike.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    I was just thinking I haven’t seen no pics of her until now but then again I said to myself she does have a new project so ?????

  • Blak

    Y'all need to stop buying the "she got fat from lupus" excuse because even doctors have dispelled it and there are plenty of celebrities with lupus who are fit and taking medications. She became fat because she became lazy and she had no choice to stay in a forced open marriage because she is insecure and has low self esteem

  • xxxgracious

    Me too and I gotta son. Nobody believes he's mine. Always gotta shop in petites at Ann Taylor.

  • Society has changed

    Lela’s thick head of hair is HAIR GOALS... No futher comment about anything else ?

  • Li-Wright

    I dunno. What I do know is that she needs her husband's insurance to keep being treated for lupus, and maybe that's why they are not divorcing.

  • KcoolMuziq
  • Li-Wright

    Maybe she's hanging on because she needs health insurance.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Little booties matter!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux
  • Lame Ass LA

    I delivered 3 postmate orders to Lela and Antoine....theyre cheap bitches! They live in the same gated community in Belair as Neyo and his cheap bitch wife who also doesnt tip!! Lela always orders a lot of food but i never see other cars in the driveway. Antoine rolled up behind me one time and i gave him tbe order but as i drove away, i noticed he didnt have a gate clicker to get in...he had to press the call button...how do u not have the clicker OR code to get into ur own house?? I think its a marriage of convenience...like will and jada

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Listen I watch my 600 pound life faithfully and all them big women KEEP a man that man be in there cooking that food and hosing em down on the front/back porch or giving them a bed bath I know for a fact it’s somebody out here for everybody

  • Marlika

    I notice that. This fat Dominican bish at my job, whom may I add has no room to talk keeps telling me that my ass is spreading.? I tell her she should looking in the mirror before she makes a damn comment like that with her botch DR plastic surgery. ??? She’s one of those so called small waist and big ass chicks. I hate that look, it looks dumb!! I asked why is she always looking because I don’t like cootie cat and my bae doesn’t have a problem with it. ? Like a mofo can’t gain weight with out someone making a comment.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Hmmm so we thinking maybe she ain’t got funds of her own to afford her own health insurance? Plus she would get child support maybe some alimony or spousal support if she left

  • TheWildChild

    Luv to see her fresh faced ? Lela can own the big screen still ?

  • taurus_32

    My mom picked up weight in her 30s and damn if it didn’t happen to me ?????. I stay in the gym and I can’t eat too much sugar, rice, pasta and bread. The struggle is real over here ?

  • dontgetblocked

    Toni Braxton has Lupus and she's nice and thin.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    Girl! Carbs will bloat you up so quick But they taste so good!

  • 100milesperhour

    I guess there's a difference between meeting someone already fat (Lizzo) & seeing someone expand from sleek to swole, lol.

  • GrandHustleGirl1

    Who you telling! I done seen it all on that show. They don't be that dang embarassed to be filmed w them big chicks so hey.

  • Guest©

    Exactly, this is real middle age. I hope I can finally enjoy snacking once I reach her age. Food is constantly on my mind now because I am always depriving myself, lol but I'm going to enjoy some peach cobbler one day.

  • T Willis

    Say it again for the folks in the back ??

  • T Willis

    I said I admire her confidence...
    Lela was thin, beautiful, and married a millionaire. The weight gain is unacceptable (to me - in my opinion) because she has the money, the access, and the time to look like her former costar, Angela Bassett. Lizzo, I don’t know her story, and as far as I know, she’s always been a big girl and doesn’t have Lela’s time/money/access to do better... Lela is just being lazy, which is unacceptable *to me*.

  • T Willis

    Yep

  • T Willis

    I like Nia... talented and isn’t involved in media drama.

  • WhoKnew

    Looks like Lela is wearing her wedding ring again. Guh, don't do it. That man fathered an outside child, cheated on you numerous times. Don't take him back!

  • Fire & Ice

    Meaning I've never heard about her being mean until this scandal. I heard this on YouTube last week and was surprised

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    I never hear this woman all up in other people's business (single or married), so I just wish her healing and happiness. Hopefully, her husband will stop taking her for granted.

  • Anunnaki, in A twilight Zone

    So she hasn't really been in alot of movie's lately, so a scandal broke out, about her hubby, now everybody want to see her new movie, was this staged, you know some folks are gullible

  • Anunnaki, in A twilight Zone

    Toni done got thick, but its cite on her. She not thin no mo?

  • Renee26

    Awwwww did she previously have a stroke?

  • Hazel

    Spill it!

  • MoneyMillz

    What do you look like? Using a model's avi

  • Renee26

    I saw the previews last night and didn't even see her ?

  • Anji

    I've never heard it at all but I know this. We go back outside of the industry. I'm in the industry but our origins were not from this. Still don't think she has low self esteem. She has her reasons and it's her life. She's a beauty still.

  • MoneyMillz

    Hold your head Lela. F these clowns

  • Renee26

    ???

  • Alextra Ballard

    ????she did???

  • Fire & Ice

    Yes, a beauty she still is

  • Nina Ross

    He must can do whatever he wants as long as the money keeps coming in????

  • Alextra Ballard

    Them carbs will fvck yew up quicker than sugar/sweets

  • Alextra Ballard

    Sump’n told me not tew scroll down????

  • Renee26

    I'm wondering because her face is tilted a bit

  • Lovechild

    PREACH???????? I agree with everything you say and I am sick of the damn excuse making. You are so right she could leave at any time. She lives down the road from me, well...a different city but this is California! The community property state. She’s been married longer than 10 years and I doubt they had a prenup she needs to pack her bags take her bag and go live her comeback.

  • Lovechild

    ????

  • Lovechild

    Agreed!!

  • Lovechild

    Say it louder for the slow children!!

  • Lovechild

    Having a discussion about a celebrity isn’t shaming. This ain’t the snowflake garden

  • Joy King

    Is that what unbothered looks like...if you say so Sandra. I’m glad Lela is still working. Staying busy always helps someone get through the BS.

  • Connie

    I did and God damn!!! These people act like they know this woman personally! Let them tell it, they're her doctor, lawyer, pastor, therapist, momma, poppa.... the whole damn nine yards!

  • Renee

    ?

  • Judi Jupiter

    Lmmfao

  • country57

    This explains a lot!!

  • T. Lee

    Probably. The world already knows how he gets down. Lela probably sent the paparazzi. She already knew how it would turn out.

  • interestingconcept1

    She has never said that, folks saw her swole and said she must have lupus as if we cant eat our way to a swollen body.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Me either I was shocked to read it like dang did they even mention her

  • Melanated Goddess??

    How you hating on fat people. When your legs look like Wendy Williams? You're no where near being thin. You're a house! You always in here criticizing black women that look light years better than you. Hateful dog faced bloated legs having fat slore.

  • Melanated Goddess??

    She's obese. She's admitted to being humongous herself. She also has the same issues with her legs that Wendy Williams has. So that should tell you why her ugly behind always in here bashing black women. She's an obese jealous cow.

  • Kimberly Jones
  • Melanated Goddess??

    I found your LSA handle. The font post the same corny banners. I scrolled down and knew it was you immediately. Smh. ?

  • Kimberly Jones

    Lela looks good!

  • Mrs Mary

    I said the same thing. Her face is very fat and it's as if she's on some type of meds. Maybe anti depressants they make u gain weight. This bra is not fitting AT ALL!!! SHE CAN DO BETTER!!!

  • Stacey J

    I'm not sure if it's just rumor or not but they say she has lupus...which if she does she might be managing with steroid shots which would make her have that shape. She kinda reminds me of Tamia now after she started her lupus treatment.

  • Jen_no_juice

    Touche

  • Bass

    ????DRAGGGGGG HER!

  • Bass

    ???

  • MoneyMillz

    About what

  • Vonda K

    Lupus does effect the body differently. Some gain a lot of weight in face and stomach and legs due to meds and swelling. We don’t what Lelahs situation is and the reason for her weight gain. I personally know women who are battling lupus and I see first hand the havoc it does to the body.

  • Vonda K

    Reading the comments about Lela are sad, shallow and judgmental. Then we wonder why women run to Dr. Miami for A Build a body?

    I suspect the body shamers are young and all I can say is ‘keep on living’.

    And yes I do believe In daily physical excercise.

  • Coffee1st

    ????..... hosing them down...????

  • Maxima

    Read up on health insurance for the uninsured before you comment.

  • Panther Charleston

    Unfazed...nope. She looks quite fazed. And understandably so.

  • Allihave2say

    Some women are happy that their husband is humping anyone but them.
    Lela has too much money to wear bras that aren't the right size.

  • Vonn

    You aint lying!! I love that show & them gals keep a man.

  • Lady_Elle

    I agree!!!

  • Lady_Elle

    OMG... rofl

  • JENNYJONES1

    HE ALREADY HAS 2 OTHER KIDS BY 2 OTHER WOMEN WHILE MARRIED TO HER SO WHAT'S A LITTLE KISSING OF A BRICK HOUSE LIKE NECOLE MURPHY AFTER STAYING WHEN HE'S DONE SOMETHING LIKE THAT? THAT'S NOTHING. SAD BUT TRUE.......JENNY JONES!!!

  • datjerk

    ????

  • datjerk

    ??

  • speakinmymind

    Dev, I hope ur gone to bed now! ?????

  • Y’all Jealous Cuz I’m Prudy

    And usually the people who are commenting are fat themselves, had some sort of surgery to change their shape or is skinny and still built badly. Basically, mf who shouldn't be talking about ANYBODY.

  • Joy King

    I can't stand mofos that don't tip. That's the tackiest mess ever. Tipping well, is a must.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Women who are in abusive relationships never get use to it, or become ok with it, they coexist within that landscape that many of us don’t understand, until they don’t or cease to be!

    I wish Lela all the best because she’s worthy!

  • Lame Ass LA

    Especially when u live in a multimillion $$ house in belair...but truth be told, most of these black entertainers dont tip or tip poorly....best tippers ive had are Lavar Burton and Ice Cube

  • ?? Kari ?????????

    I think she looks great!

  • SeannaPaula

    Such wise words, just "keep on living"

  • Junkanoo

    Many of you should take notes she's handling this matter privately in a dignified manner not reaching out to blogs to tell her side of the story instead minding her business.

  • LeeLee

    Well sip muthufreakin' SIPPPPPPP then!!!! ??

  • LeeLee

    Ok, u on time out now.....no u DIDN'T expose dah HOSE ????!

  • LeeLee

    READ HUH STANK AHHHH - ERRRRTIME!

  • Moon Lee

    People we aren't in the personal lives of the folks. Maybe the have some sort of arrangements going on. It's Not My Business. LET ME STAY FOCUS ON MY OWN DAMN MARRIAGE! ??

  • DeeFromLA

    Word

  • MythCalledLove

    She looking at that camera like try me. Say something!

  • GrandHustleGirl1

    Is it the rice....omg....I just cant let rice gooooo. ? you can have the sugar and bread. I won't mention pasta...that's my side boo. I cheat on rice w pasta. ?

  • GrandHustleGirl1

    They do taste good...

  • GrandHustleGirl1

    You're right. We just moved and I'm looking around the neighborhood like...yeah I can definitely walk this lil trail and work it out. Havent done it yet but I will.

  • CardiB’sAbs

    That’s awesome!

  • ShWa

    Wishing Lela the best!

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Just like Nicole was looking at the camera when she called the paps to take pic of her and Antoine...Chile...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Wait how the hell did I miss this??? LOLOLOLOL....

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Chile...aint no size 2's commenting on Lela's weight...its the size 20+ women who are deflecting their own fatness onto Lela's picture...

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    I see alot of pot's calling kettle's black when it comes to Lela's weight...we need to have a see your real avi day in the Rose Garden so I can count the neck rolls on some of you hating heffas....

  • pika12

    She looks a thousand times better without the makeup and fake hair! I'm looking forward to the OWN premiere next week.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Chile one guy was giving a lady a bed bath with dish soap and bleach ? I can’t make this up if I tried

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    When it get late or be too early and I ain’t had my coffee anything is likely to come out ?

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    And I just be sitting there like the aroma up in there gotta be stomach turning and them mens be in there just loving it

  • garrisonville

    I think she's so pretty. Wishing you the best mama!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    I don’t have to read up anything! In fact I’m self insured NOT through the health care market cuz I supposedly make too much and I have found a way to afford insurance for me and my child she is currently NOT uninsured she on his insurance and hell we don’t really know that to be a fact so like I said are we saying she can’t afford health insurance if she leaves her husband taking into account she will most likely get child support and alimony or spousal support and he will be ordered to cover the children’s health insurance at the least!! The plan I chose has a high premium it I don’t have a deductible to meet nor do I have to have a referral to see a specialist and can go to any provider of my choosing now I know for a fact I ain’t got her kinda money so again are we suggesting she can’t afford health insurance if she divorced her husband

  • Connie

    !!!!!!!!!

  • WhoKnew

    LOL! Stop. LOL.

  • WhoKnew

    Leave Wendell's elephant trunks alone. Sike. Not.

  • Karen Brady

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Girl please.

  • Karen Brady

    Juicy!! Thanks :-)

  • Karen Brady

    That's what I said!!! :-)

  • Vonda K

    Your welcome!

  • Jorjapeach

    I think she looks age appropriate & beautiful as ever. I wish her and her family the best of luck!

  • Karen Brady

    Lol

  • Karen Brady

    LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • Karen Brady

    "they'll still take you down whether you big or little. They stay thirsting for women" LOL

  • Karen Brady

    Hosing them down..... ROTFLMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • GrandHustleGirl1

    For real....if they looking well fed, SOMEBODY feeding them. I know "I" ain't missing no meals. ?????

  • Karen Brady

    Say it again!!!! You're absolutely right about all of this!!!!

  • Karen Brady

    Many. Especially black women.

  • Vonn

    OMG!! All those rolls collecting moisture & funk & some of them lay/sit on "wee pads" because they can't get up without assistance. Bless them menz, bless them.

  • DaughterOfaQueen

    Lol

  • davine puddin

    I miss her post shabadoo divorce days

  • Lovechild

    Not all black women are fat. I’m one of them. Never fat. This is a triggering topic because so many black women are fat.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Im confused...I didn't say all black women are fat in my statement...I said pot vs kettle....Thanks for coming to my TEDTALK...

  • Lovechild

    Stop it you’re not confused just obtuse or triggered?

    Most black women in America are fat and this is a gossip board so they are gossiping about a fat black woman welcome to MY fucking TedTalk.

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    And you are illiterate or just traumatized....I clearly said pot vs kettle and you just generalized and said you were fat and black...I dont know if you are but if you want to be judged by me or the garden put your pic in the avi...Honey I see your type everyday your so "triggered" by my statement thats what led you into commenting originally...I know a self-hater when I see it and I dont even have to use my Clinical Psych MA to know....oh and using curse words for reading someone shows the level of maturity you have...again Im confused are you fat or never fat??? Thank you for coming to My TED TALK we have self help pamphlets in the back with sugar free cookies the next time you want to put your foot in your mouth...

  • Mz_Opinionated

    ? I was done after the TED Talk comment. Lord have mercy.

  • Lovechild

    I didn’t read your novel.
    Like the king of Soul James Brown said “You’re like a dull knife just ain’t cutting. You’re talking loud and saying nothing.”

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    LEAVE THIS WOMAN ALONE! SHE AIN'T out HERE WHOREING FOR ROLES AND BOTHERING NOBODY! Leave her TF ALONE! DAYUM!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    Exactly!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    All of what your said... These multi baby daddy, broke azz bucket heads click clackn on the the net AZZES... YEAH B I'M TALKING HELLA ISHI CAUSE I CAN AND TELLING IT AND AGREEING THE REAL.FOLK THAT MAKES SENSE... COUNT MY TYPOS CAUSE I backtracking to GAF ABOUT THE CRIYICS. I'M GLAD THIS MESS WASNT POPPING IN THE 90'S.. MY ERA WAS REALER THAN REAL AND AIN'T WITH N THE BULL DOOKIE! AND THE CAPS ARE ON BECAUSE I DIDN'T TURN THEM OFF.. READ IT HOW TF YOU WANT! BYE!

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    Yep you right ?

  • KLo

    she looks sloppy. use some of that $ for some boxtox/fillers and a weight loss program. one haute a$$ mess . i see why her lowlife husband been creeping , his body is on point.

  • Logan Roberts

    Lela is old enough to know what she wants by now and to also know you can't stop a man from doing nothing.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    That's very natural looking weave. I'm happy for her.

  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    That's very natural looking weave. I'm happy for her.

  • Maxima

    Well you are lucky. Prescription costs alone will kill you and don't be diabetic! Don't need the care of a specialist. Don't have a chronic condition. Medical is important and it is the reason why many get a legal separation instead of a divorce.

  • GinJen
  • parisjok

    hehehehehehehehehe

  • parisjok

    u blind

  • parisjok

    yeah because she knows she is married to the community penis

  • Not a Housewife & Neither RU

    Every Tom, Dick and CLOWN got something to say about this woman's looks. As if having a pretty face and a little waist EVER stopped a man from cheating.
    you probably aint got one anyway so you wouldn't know

  • Not a Housewife & Neither RU

    Talk about it sis!!!!

  • Not a Housewife & Neither RU

    bwahhahahahahahahaha!!!!!! These comments here!! I really wonder what mental health issues these ppl are dealing with everyday
    come on everyone let's stand and clap for Lovechild who is not fat. Never fat. Let's throw her a ticker tape parade. Think that will satisfy the thirst for attention? cuz clearly YOUR comment has directly affected her on a muscular level...muscular, since she not fat like all the rest of the black women out here

  • Not a Housewife & Neither RU

    that part

  • HelloToni

    Thank you Jay Z cheated on Beyonce....

  • HelloToni

    What's on Own?

  • HelloToni

    BS!!! Lupus medications doi make you fat,. Everyone's Lupus is different., people take more predisone for longer periods of time others. I have been a size 2/4 my entire life ...two years diagnosed I was a 10. Exercise does not get this weight off. It goes mostly to your face, back of the neck an abdomen.

  • HelloToni

    Not all the time....look closely at her face ....Sometimes its rounder than others....Plus it effects everyone differently.

  • pika12

    Lela stars in "David Makes Man" which premieres Wednesday night on OWN.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Yew dammmn skippy....let Lela live her best life.....she has nutn tew hide or be ashamed of. She wasn’t the one that was cawt cheating.