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Hosea Chanchez opened up about being molested by his friend's father when he was 14. Chanchez revealed the abuse in a lengthy Instagram post on Tuesday, Sept. 3.

"Im Hosea chanchez and when I was 14 years old I was molested BY my friends father," he wrote. "This man is a predator, preying on children who’s trust he's falsely built through lies, manipulation, threats and secrets. I hope this truth helps to stop child molesting predators from sexually assaulting more children."

He added:

Pedophiles have no place in our society they hide in the open and rape children who are afraid to speak up because of shame, guilt, fear, denial and the thought that no one will believe them. Im doing this to help parents and young children become aware of some of the signs and better protect themselves from sexual predators.

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Chanchez's revelation came days after actor Malik Yoba revealed he is attracted to male-to-female transgenders.

The true statistics of sexual abuse of children in the Black community will never be known since many parents and caregivers cover up for the pedophile and never report the abuse to authorities.

The abuse can leave long lasting emotional damage on children who sometimes grow up to abuse others or turn to drugs and alcohol to self-medicate.

Many homosexuals recall being molested by family members of family friends when they were young.
 

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  • SaltineCrackers

    I hope this helps other men share their stories and free themselves of the guilt and shame.

  • Facts and Receipts

    So brave.

    Mr. Sanders I done found you on these big wide internets. You need to get your life right. Nevermind. You can really just die for all I care. Sick FUKK.

  • SpiceGirl

    Sorry you had to go thru that Malik

  • Seldomseen

    A cautionary tale on so many levels

  • Phillybruh

    Good for him. Glad he has come to terms with it and is in a position to help others even if its just by admitting it happened to him.

  • Gloria

    Traumatizing as fuck. I hope that more people share their stories. The legislation in our country has changed but obviously society is not matching with the progress. It wasn’t that long ago in our history that child brides were the norm! It’s sick and disturbing to think about but apparently folks still think it’s ok to engage in these acts

  • Starburst

    So many molestors out here preying on young children. So sad

  • davine puddin

    You never recover it's worse when its someone you know.

  • Starburst

    This post is ?. Spot on.

  • Lovely517

    I researched this Isaac guy (who’s now deceased) and it appears he had a nasty reputation of sexual assault and molestation. Six students from the university he worked at filed suits against him for assault. He apparently enjoys sticking his fingers in people’s rears where it doesn’t belong.

  • Dontgetdraggedputa??

    Thats so effin gross. I cant imagine going thru something like that. Im sorry hosea. He needs to look into possibly prosecuting that piece of trash. I bet you theres more victims.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    I'm so glad he named names. Too many times these men go into hiding and abuse someone else. Now that the world has his picture and name, others will see him coming before he can harm someone else. Sorry that happened to you Hosea. Get into therapy, find some way to get peace whether meditation, working out, or something, but don't hold onto it any longer. Please heal.

  • r r

    Sandra the headline should read his friend's father not his father's friend.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    There are more victims. He molested some guys at the college he worked at.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I'm just waiting on the man to be identified. I think I read that he is still working at whatever university he worked at during that time. There are allegedly additional victims. This would not be surprising, but the IG blog saying they "researched" and have the additional victims lies a lot so Idk if more have come forward or not.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Good catch.

  • http://thedevereauxshow.com Ms.Devereaux

    This story made me cry

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    The internet already found him and his picture.

  • Vegas1989

    This is so sad. I'm so shocked reading this. I hope this guy get locked up. Wow!!! And he is still doing it this day...

  • MistaO

    Please amend the posts title. Should read: his friends Father. Not his Father's friend. Just to be accurate and not assign blame to wrong party.

  • Facts and Receipts

    He a whole ass predator according to that case. Read it last night. Made me so mad.

    https://www.nbcphiladelphia.com/news/local/Lawyer-Urges-Sex-Crime-Probe-of-Ex-University-Official-266506221.html

    "The lawsuit said Sanders, who is black, targeted emotionally fragile young black men from broken homes who looked to Sanders as a father figure or mentor. He dangled scholarships and campus jobs, then either pressured students for sex or physically attacked them to commit sexual assaults, said the suit, which also alleged Sanders misappropriated university funds."

  • https://nylapoprush.com/home twitch.tv/NylaPop

    This is so sad, smh. I'm thankful he shared his story, and I'm going to share this with my son.

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    Hosea is one of many who had to suffer in fear and silence because they couldn't tell the people they love the most of the tearful , out of fear of what that would mean for the dynamic of their lives. Please hold your truth Josea. Continue to heal king.

  • Chocolate

    Wow- how sad yet brave and honorable of him. This is true activism

  • Ni Ni

    Already identified. I can't recall his name right now, but I knew his face looked familiar. I gotta holler at my connect and find out what's the tea.

  • MistaO

    Not always, but this happens far less when rapist know there exists a chance that a Father will extract revenge on them. See, most of these rapist know that their intended victims usually have no defense which is typically the Father. Js, I know most people don't want to hear that since raising kids without Fathers has been so encouraged during the past 40 years....smdh

  • Li-Wright

    Who is he? Can you please explain who he is and why he's important?

  • Phillybruh

    It rarely a stranger, Its either a close family friend or Uncle, FATHER, cousin. Even with a father in the house the child will still not say a word.

  • Ni Ni

    OT: American idol contestant, Haley Smith died in a motorcycle crash over the weekend.

  • KcoolMuziq

    Hosea(whom use to be married to Tika Sumpter ) has started the floodgates to open to a taboo subject with black men who will most go to their graves with the secret.

    As I said before this is the year of what's in the dark comes to the light in the entertainment industry.

  • Yup, I said it

    This mess has got to stop. The spirit of perversion is being celebrated by society. All this hypersexualism, desire to be a ""freak" is allowing the pervert to operate with a boldness that hadn't been seen since ancient Greece. Pedophilia was huge in ancient Greece and it was destroyed because they were destroying their next generation with perversion. Call me a prude if you want but our focus should be on raising our kids and not on being a "big ole freak."

  • http://www.pureromance.com LA

    The part I really don't like about pedophilia situations is the manipulation and threats made to the victim.. The embarrassment, threats and manipulation is what stops the victim from telling anyone.. The shame. The brain calls itself protecting so it hides the memory... Its a lot im rambling but I hope you get my point.

  • Li-Wright

    Men from "broken" homes seem to be most vulnerable. That's why all these single women need to have a brother or uncle or grandpa in the home with their son. Not to say they won't abuse the child, but at least give the boy-child a male to guide him. I'm also wondering if anyone has done a study of transg. MtF black men, how many of them were raised by black single women?

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    I dont know Who he is either BUT ANY person revealing their story about rape and mental manipulation by a trusted adult SHOULD put it on FULL BLAST!
    It is LONG OVERDUE for wolf in sheep clothing masquerading in our communities RUINING peoples lives to be exposed!

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    HORRIBLE story!

  • Yup, I said it

    You told no lies. A father would recognized thst wolf in sheep's clothing and keep his family from that mess. Women on the other hand would look for "male mentors" for their sons. Single dads dont look for "female mentors" though. That whole mentor mess is a vehicle to help predators find prey.

  • Li-Wright

    I summize that the reason there is so much "gayness" in the black community & Latin community is because of the church (Catholic, Baptist) and the men these boys were entrusted to. the Catholic church had hundreds maybe thousands of abuse cases. What % of them turned out to be confused about their sexuality?

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    He was the actor named Malik on the show "The Game"

  • Li-Wright

    Oh OK I thought he was a baller.

  • Chaseboogie The Prince

    We do.

  • Li-Wright

    Did you know Tika used to be a stripper? (per WW)

  • MsAmour22

    Here's an article on his bitch ass smh
    https://www.poconorecord.com/article/20141031/News/141039866

  • Bree

    If speaking is going to help others, speak! If not, dont so anything for publicity or anything like that. When I share my story, it is always because I feel compelled to or led. There is a time and place for everything.

  • Ni Ni

    All of this is new to me.

  • Facts and Receipts

    His grandfather WAS in the home with him. He got molested anyways. So what was your point again?

    https://www.bet.com/news/lifestyle/2014/fathers-day-tributes-2014/fathers-day-tribute-hosea-chanchez.html

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I'm not surprised at all bcuz a lot of celebs as well as other people have been molested as a child or a young adult and that's just sad!!! I'm just glad he is strong enough to share his darkest secret and his hurt and pain with the world. All I know is he is not the first and will not be the last unless parents stop allowing any and everyone around their kids and also have an open relationship with their children that they can tell them anything no matter what someone else told them to keep secret

  • Facts and Receipts

    A victim of same sex child molestation.

  • Phillybruh

    LOL who do you think is doing the molesting. Some big black stranger..no

  • Yup, I said it

    He plays Malik on "The Game".

  • Yup, I said it

    I want to bash the abuser in the head! I HATE people who are sexual predators.

  • KarmaBackAround

    I love hosea sanchez.. i miss his character Malik on The Game..i can appreciate his story and I pray it allows him to heal and positively move forward

  • Bree

    In the defense of my parents, I was very young whe I was molested by a family friend. We grew up with her and my mom let us spend the night twice at her house. I was so young that I didn't know that the things she made me do were wrong until I started learning about sex. Molesters are usually people close to the family or those who appear to be close. My situation was unfortunate, however, I don't blame my parents for that. I didn't even blame the girl that did it to me. We were young and it is a possiblity that it was done to her too. I will never know.

  • Renee26

    His friends father did it Auntie... Not his daddy's friend

  • Gloria

    WTF. This dude is a monster!

  • Bree

    I always speak on the spirit of perversion. I have seen that spirit and I have also seen the homosexual demon. Both are killers!

  • KarmaBackAround

    Whats sad is, this isnt new news..this been going down since the 70s and 80s as we now learning..sick and sad

  • Gloria

    Facts. This happens commonly with children from 2 parent households as well.

  • Jai

    Exactly it's far more likely to be a family member or someone with close access not strangers. People depend too much on others and leave their kids with anyone. Some of times its parent themselves committing the act and other around them ignore it, dont want shame, try to fix it themselves, keep the business among family etc. I'm sorry but that's a hurt that one never fully recovers from you rape my child ain't no fixing it in the family you're not family you're lower than a scumbag off street. If they're lucky police will get them before I do.

  • Bree

    Sometimes we don't know it's wrong, unless it hurts. And even if it hurts, how do you articulate the words if you don't know what it is. I use to question my nephew about his private area. I told him never to let someone else touch it or bathe him other than his mother. I taught him how to bathe himself since my sister use to let any and everybody watch him growing up.

  • Facts and Receipts

    I wanted to find Mr. Sanders and beat his whole ass over this mess last night.

  • Yup, I said it

    Agreed, I'm gonna take it a step further and add that these kids need an active father in their life. If the father is not a danger to the kids then these single mothers need to facilitate that relationship. Dont find them a coach or mentor until they have a strong bond with their own bio father. Those predators stay away from kids whose fathers are involved.

  • Renee26

    Reaches out to hug Hosea for telling his story and namimg names... This perv is a university employee; more stories will come forward.

    Oh and that wasn't molesting it was rape

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Girl I loved the Game!!!!!

  • Jai

    When my kids were very little and couldn't speak for themselves and even a little older and impressionable everytime I had anyone watch them we'd talk after and I'd look for any bruises, markings, if they had any strain or soreness as move. I'm paranoid because I know kids are afraid to speak up sometimes or just dont know it's wrong.

  • Phillybruh

    You seemed to have had a terrible single mother. This can happen even with a father in the house and 9x out of 10 it does.

  • Bree

    My parents never knew I was sexually abused because I didn't know what happened to me. For years, I didn't like to be around certain women and my mom told me I was always a loner. I can spot a demon with my eyes closed. It was only God's grace tha kept me from retaliating against the woman that abused me. I use to wonder if she too had been abused.

  • Renee26

    I'd slap her on her fione ass

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    So glad you spoke your truth !!!!!! Well done ....this could save someone!!!!!! Much love to him ..... This took strength!!!!! https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/cda4925ca1d357264787be9b5ccd589f4b0940cb9442847e1840c0a193a331e3.gif

  • Facts and Receipts

    Who is he/I dont know this person/why are they famous/I never heard of...irks my whole entire soul here. You managed to type Sandrarose.com into your navigation bar, type in a password....but your GOOGLE IS BROKE?

  • Yup, I said it

    Your right. Its seems like the 1960's sexual revolution opened Pandoras box as far as perversion. Its seems like everyone from the 60's forward has experience some level of predatory behavior.

  • Bree

    My husband and I have talked about this. One of us plan to be home with our children once God decides to bless us with them. My husband travels alot for work and I do here and there. But I'm praying we find the balance we need once our unborn children are conceived.

  • Facts and Receipts

    Girl remma when we used to come running here to talk about it the next day? And that was Bird SHOWWWWWWWW. Good times.

  • Renee26

    He put his name in the confession on all caps

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • YES I SAID IT…

    Exactly!!! A lot of women are so hard up for a man that they find love with the wrong one were he fancy your daughter or your son or he is abusive to them. Bottom line is, if the child has a father it is the mother's job to make sure she is not keeping their child from the father out of spite BUT it is also the father's job too, to be active and not absent and do what he needs to do for his children not just move on to another woman or live his best life without checking on his child/children

  • jeniefrumdabloc™
  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Thanks.

  • Facts and Receipts

    You are fast. You fixed it already

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/236ffd248f6d917306fb8afa3e1c0fbaafad1639eeb5cd577c3b63edf5867757.gif Thanks for da photo !!!!!!! Chickens coming home to roost ....... Fawjk this sicko !!!

  • Renee26

    Ha! My brother molested mine and my daddy and other brothers took his side

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs

    That woman is ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS!

  • Bree

    Single women seem to find a man suitable for their beds, instead of a man suitable to enough to help her raise her kids. So many of us make this mistake. He's fine, but he might be an abuser. He has a good job, but he might like little girls. There was a woman speaking about Ashanti's father rapping her as a young girl. Some of these women ain't ish.

  • Phillybruh

    I actually told both my sons about my experience and I'm still not sure if something were to happen to either of them that they would come to either us, until they can grasp it themselves. How each person gets to the point of sharing is their road.

  • LexGirl

    I don't give a damn WHO it is!! I'm f#$king somebody up & the law can have what's left! I will ROCK THE HELL OUT OF THAT ORANGE JUMPSUIT!!!! fym

  • Robert lee Bennett OG

    I been saying it 98% of the females I have talked to tell me about uncles and stepdads screwing them.. I even know a girl who really didn’t know her dad and needed a places to stay and her own nasty ass daddy tried to screw her

  • Renee26

    Funny... I guess you've never been single a day in your life with that blanket statement

  • Facts and Receipts

    Im so sorry Renee. My Goodness.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    So I did find his FB page last night. It's private and I couldn't find anything on there about Alabama so I wasn't sure if it was him.

  • KcoolMuziq

    I wouldn't be surprised. She is DROP DEAD GORGEOUS in person.

  • Renee26

    Sure is... Skin so pretty... I'd let her play. Her and my RiRi are the only ones that get a pass ?

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I know his name; I posted it yesterday. I was talking about a photo/image of the actual person.

  • Facts and Receipts

    Statutory oral rape since he was underaged.

  • Bree

    I share mine when I'm led to. I plan to maintain an open and honest relationship with my kids too. I didn't know what happened to me because she was someone my parents trusted. We lived next door to her, knew her since I was about five years old

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I know his name, I posted it yesterday. Isaac Sanders.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile ...... did they take it off netflix??? ..... loved that show !!!!! Good times chile Good times!!!

  • Renee26

    Chile a woman can't MAKE a man be present... And vice versa, people do what they want

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    He looks like a whole pedo, nasty motherf*cker.

  • Yup, I said it

    Its burns me to the core! You have all these single grown desperate women and men availbe for hook ups on TINDER and GRINDR but yet predators want to steal this child's innocence for their own pleasure? Anything that takes pleasure in taking something pure and defiling it needs to be executed because they cannot be rehabilited. Its sadistic, its evil and I wish we could burn child molesters at the stake?

  • Renee26

    He looks the part!!

  • Facts and Receipts

    Up top. It was attached to the news stories about his numerous cases. He a funny looking bastard.

  • Renee26

    Read his post sis... He gave all the details

  • Facts and Receipts

    I aint eem KNOW it was ON THERE. Man. My fam about to be MAD MAD bc I am goin to binge this weekend.

  • Facts and Receipts

    Had to keep clicking right to get the whole story. He detailed it. Sadly it was oral rape. *throat lump*

  • Renee26

    Thanks, we're fine... But fugg them

  • Dontgetdraggedputa??

    Whew smfh

  • Dontgetdraggedputa??

    Smfh!!!

  • Bree

    What makes you think that? I learn from my own mistakes and the mistakes of others. It is unfortunate that we choose suitable partners for ourselves when we have little ones depending on us to have suitable people in their lives. We all make mistakes, as I have stated. I'm not sure of the misunderstanding.

    Before I met my husband, I was single for over five years. That was by choice. It took alot of healing, prayer, and fasting to get to a better place in life. I didn't choose my husband, he chose me. After giving him a run for his money, things manifested for us. We don't have children yet, but I can't wait to be a mommy.

  • Jai

    If someone can stay at home it helps. If you can stay long enough children will see and understand how they're life should be and even at 3 and 4 years old will be more than likely to speak up if something happens because it'll be so unusual for them. If they're passed around like a hot potato they never get stability, or sense of what is normal and what isnt when an adult who we teach them to trust watch them.

  • YES I SAID IT…

    Exactly that's why I said its up to the man too to be involved and not absent. See u have some women that will keep their kids from their dad out of spite but u also have men that don't give a sh** about their kids who move on to other women and don't look back. So I agree with u, a man has to want to be apart and be there but it's their choice, women can't make them do what they know they need to do

  • MsSapphire9800

    I wish these celebrities would seek professional help instead of using social media for their therapy. We can't help y'all...
    I am not against victims telling their story but it is getting to be to much...every time I read a story like this on social media my head spins.

    https://media3.giphy.com/media/fvZxUMZYLhuI8Y4AQ0/giphy.gif

  • Jai

    The biggest thing I stress is talk to them and look for visual signs. Pay attention to the way they behave, if you pay attention you'll see red flags. Children can withhold information due to fear or not understanding but one thing they cant hold back on is body language. You can learn to read them easily until they're teens.

  • IyanlaVanzantoftheInterWebs
  • http://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    Had to. Or y'all keep mentioning it. ?

  • Facts and Receipts

    We can't help y'all
    ^^^^^^^
    He is trying to help us actually. Tells folks what to look for if they have sons (the type of grooming that happens) and actually says, I hope this helps someone.

  • KarmaBackAround

    I did too!! I catch the re runs on cjw demand sometimes..

  • Bree

    I didn't grow up with my father in the home. But I use to spend the night at my aunts houses growing up. There were times where I was afraid because my cousins had boyfriends and friends at the house all the time. They never touched me, but I use to sense danger and go home. After awhile, I stopped doing over there. My mom knew I wasn't happy but she didn't know why.

    I couldn't understand why my cousins dealt with certain people. I would then hear stories of them being hurt or getting into fights. Very scary situation until my mom moved us away.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    It was only the episodes from CW ..... not when BET took over which I hate .... that was my show!!!!

  • Bree

    I do too. At one point, I though I wanted the same for the girl that molested me, but I strongly believe she may have been molested too. The act we committed is something I would never do to anyone.

  • Jai

    That's the thing some people dont have instinct and sense enough to remember someone else is around that depends on them for safety and security. They still live like they're home alone even when babysitting and to me it should change.

  • Facts and Receipts

    Basically he done been accused of doin this sick shit for YEARS to students at these colleges he works at Tuskegee, Stillman (in Bama too), Alabama State, and a college in PA. Every school he has allegations at. Last big case...all charges were dropped. And a now minister in Bama said he molested him too when he was a boy.

  • Vonda K

    I applaud him for speaking out a subject that is often swept under the rug and buried deep within.
    The subject of men being molested and raped is still taboo. However, the evidence is all around us. Just look at these rappers, serial sperm donors, domestic violence and men in our community suffering with depression and low self esteem. Very damaged souls.

    Few years back a well known football player spoke out about his sexual abuse. His happened at the hands of his step dad. He kept quiet because he didn’t want to ruin his mother’s relationship and family dynamics. The abuser was good a financial provider.

    By speaking out he pulled back the curtain and continue to work towards healing and give others courage.

    Lastly, years ago TD Jakes had an alter call for men/boys who had been raped or molested and the thousands came forward to the alter crying out.

  • Facts and Receipts

    I aint proof you today Sandra. Or in awhile. Im more a stickler for content overall lol.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chile that's my uncle Alumini ..... In da Hall of fame there .... chile he is done ........ what a sicko!!!! Jeez yuck

  • Vonda K

    He’s using his platform to reach and encourage others unlike some who use their platform for ignorant shat!

  • Bree

    Yes. Thank you for this advice. I will make note of it. My husband and I are both eager to be parents. We've always taken care of other people's children so to have our own will just bless our lives! I'm going to be seeking more wisdom. I have already changed our eating habits and found ways to incorporate certain things into our diets. My husband loves it which is surprising because southern style cooking is all we've ever known.

  • MsSapphire9800

    Honestly..how can he help others when he has not recieved help him self...writing a thesis on IG is not therapy. Many of us know what to look for and to be aware of everyone man or woman. Sexual assualt will weigh you down mentally.

  • Phillybruh

    There is a good chance that if he is putting this out for the world to read then he did receive the help he needed. You can't share what your not comfortable with.

  • Yup, I said it

    That's why they kept people green sexually. Its already been proving time and time again from Sodom and Gomorrah to Ancient Rome and Greece. Once lust is acceptable it cant be controlled. Mothers start laying with their sons, men start screwing sheep. How can you convince a pervert that his lustful desires are wrong, when society celebrates lustful behaviors? Its a proven fact that people sexual appetite is like a drug and they need more to reach the same highs. Psychologist have diagnosed porn addiction as real and also that the type of porn people are exposed to shapes their sexual appetite. So the violent, degrading porn, death porn, bestiality, etc all have impacted modern societies appetite for perversion.

  • Facts and Receipts

    Umm he named a name? How do we know he hasn't gotten any help? Moreover, how do we know him talkin about it isnt part of his therapy. Bc some therapists sure do encourage you to share your story if you are there yet. Like.... https://media3.giphy.com/media/l0HlzsaupDQvv0lgY/giphy.gif

  • Facts and Receipts

    JINX

  • Bree

    I strongly agree. My mom has always been protective. She's crazy at times and there were certain things my siblings and I didn't tell her because she would kil somebody. She isn't afraid of prison. There have been some battles I have shielded her from because she would set it off! It's crazy thinking about it because my mom and my husband both crazy. Can't believe I ended up with people like this around me. Just a funny thought. God has a sense of humor.

  • Vonda K

    With all due respect are you for real?
    This man has carried this around while his rapist goes about his life!
    By coming forth he has exposed this predator And hopefully other victims will gain courage to come forth and be vindicated and start their healing process. Time to put these twisted perverts on blast. Maybe even the perp can heal too.

  • MsSapphire9800

    How many times are you going to respond to my post...It is my opinion....I have been there and you can't help others until you help yourself..if I feel a certain way and you don't agree....then make your post and speak your mind. And yes I am for real.

  • Yup, I said it

    Molestation is certainly a demon that is passed from person to person. That's why I believe that adults who prey on kids needs to be executed. Stop that demon in its tracks.

  • Jai

    That's a really good point. My oldest recently admitted to me he went to a party that his friend older brother threw and kids were drinking and he was uncomfortable but didnt want to call me because he knew I'd flip and shut it down. So I try to ACT! a little bit more calm now. I'm no academy award winner though, when he first told me I almost jumped down his throat for going to party with 18+ year olds. Idk if you seen the movie ATL but when the twins mom showed up to party...that's pretty much me. "GETCHO ASS IN THE TRUNK!"

  • Vonda K

    He needs to keep telling his truth. Takes courage to be this transparent. This man probably has been suffering in silence.

    This is what is wrong in our community we don’t want to talk about the real nitty, gritty stuff that’s weighing us down.

    Sweep it under the rug and keep it pushing. Keep posting about jewelry, cars, sipping lean and hot girl summer nonsense.

  • RaginBee

    If I’m tellin MY story,I’m tellin the names and all...how is your “truth” helping “stop other child molesting predators” If you ain’t sayin his name?!

  • Sherry Dauphine

    Isaac Sanders
    Former students at East Stroudsburg, a state-run university in the Pocono Mountains, claim Sanders used his high-powered job to offer them gifts, scholarships and campus jobs, then sexually harassed or assaulted them -- including forced oral sex. Their lawyer portrayed him as a predator who targeted emotionally fragile black men from broken homes because he believed they'd be less likely to report the abuse. The state's investigation into Sanders, which led to his 2008 ouster, found he "exercised exceedingly poor judgment toward" students and mishandled donor funds, according to his termination letter.

    Sanders, faced a similar accusation of sexual misconduct when he worked at Stillman College in Alabama in the 1990s. Sanders came to ESU from Stillman College in Tuscaloosa, Ala. Previously, he was at Alabama State University and Tuskegee University.

  • Wreckognize Game

    He said the person’s name on his very last slide on his IG post. The man was from Alabama. Some of Hosea’s followers said the man had been a professor at a Pennsylvania university.

  • Renee26

    There should be no statutes of limitations on sex crimes... They cause a lifetime of pain for victims. Why are the predators protected?? Oh I know, cause a lot of the lawmakers are predators themselves ?

  • Renee26

    This exposed a predator ... That's a wonderful thing

  • Alextra Ballard

    Lawwd his story just gives me heartache....pedophiles/child molesters are the lowest creatures on this earth....they prey on the most vulnerable...Even though the man that violated him is dead?..... I hope he suffered before he left this earth.

  • Phillybruh

    Where do you live?

  • Yup, I said it

    I don't thinks so. Somebody sued the molester and that's how this came out. I believe Malik is testifying against him.

  • Alextra Ballard

    Aww mannn

  • Yup, I said it

    And Hollywood agents.

  • Well$$Well$$?

    He did say his name. The internets have already found the arsehole..

  • RaginBee

    Thanks my man.

  • Being bad is way more fun

    I truly feel that a 14 year old is fully aware of what is going on but I do not like the fact that he did the coming on and got what he wanted. I also am curious if he went back and had it done again or was this a one time thing.. I know plenty of fast 14 year olds that would have went after him and did way more .. This is nothing new but it affects people differently. I dont like children or adults being put in a situation where they are emotionally harmed it can last a life time..

  • Wreckognize Game

    I’m a lady(in my Sheneneh voice)?

  • RaginBee

    ? I truly apologize ma’am

  • Wreckognize Game

    ????? Are you saying he might have liked it but some other kids are victims?

  • Yup, I said it

    And millions more can't. Those are the ones that are the problem. Watch Mind Hunter or some of the interviews with series killer almost everyone of the talks about how important porn was in driving their predatory behavior.

  • PhillyFacts

    May he ROT IN HE!!

  • A J

    4P's. parasitic, pathetic, pedo, predators.

  • Carrington

    Looks at this picture... looks back at all the broads who wanted to gowit Malik 10 years ago... looks back at picture... looks back at the sustas who said, "Me and Malik godagether" in their head... walks off feeling not so bad about my voluptuousness.

  • Wreckognize Game

    ?

  • Yup, I said it

    And don't forget the HR at those schools who hired him after his dismissal from Stillmann.

  • Seldomseen

    ??????????????, bravo mom

  • Carrington

    And another thing... THIS is the problem I have with black folk training their kids that they cannot suggest that an adult is not being truthful. I remember, VIVIDLY, my mom and grandma training us that we weren't allowed to dispute an adults version of truth or WE got into trouble.

    One time, my aunt went back and told my mom and other aunts that she walked into her neighbors house and I was sitting on the couch, hugged up with bald head Rena. Truth is we were ALL at the neighbor's house playing (about 6 of us) and she knocked on the door and like THREE of us came to open it and she asked where everybody was and we told her gone... she went back and spread the rumor that I was hugged up on the couch with the girl when she never came in AND I came to the door WITH her and one of my other cousins. How TF could we be hugged up on the couch when WE came to the door and let you in?

    When my mom told me about me being at Lois' house hugged up on the couch with her doorter and I said, "Nu uhhh. No I didn't!" her response was to shoot me the glare of dare and then say, "Oh, she lyin', huh? She lyin'? Say she lyin'!" and, of course, I knew I wasn't allowed to say she was lying because she was an adult and it was "disrespectful" to say that an adult was not being truthful so, I said nothing.

    When we, black folk, train our kids that they aren't allowed to dispute an adult's version of a story or WE get into trouble - that's what molesters use as a tool to keep you quiet. The mere THOUGHT that you're going to say he did it and he's going to say he didn't and YOU get in trouble for calling an adult a "liar" is what makes kids BELIEVE these MFs when they say if you tell, you're going to get into trouble!

  • Being bad is way more fun

    Thats why I want to know if it happened just the one time or did he go back for more. This also could have been the only time this guy ever did that also so I am not sure if its fair to drag his name thru the mud ..

  • Ms.Jones

    Victims telling their stories is getting to be too much for you? What kind of people do we having among us in 2019?

  • Seldomseen

    If I could add one thing, I talked extensively with who my child would be left with, if it was not my mother or sister. I let them know I am aware. I never allowed him on any church or Boy Scouts sleep over. I remember him wanting to camp with Boy Scouts.....I almost froze my buns off cuz I went with him.

  • Facts and Receipts

    As long as allegations that he himself turned into a sick pedophile don come out with his truth, I dont care. But if he out here screwing kids supposedly/allegedly like Malik, then fukk him too.

  • Mr.LeBrickJames

    "The true statistics of sexual abuse of children in the Black community will never be known since many parents and caregivers cover up for the pedophile and never report the abuse to authorities."
    ---
    It's not just parents. Sometimes it's victims who keep quiet too, because they're scared of what might happen. I had a girlfriend once who told me her brother molested her when she was young, but she never told her parents because she was afraid her father would kill him if he found out.
    I'm convinced that chilld molestation in our community is a much more widespread problem than we even realize, because there are so many folks just carrying secrets to their grave instead of exposing the perpetrators.

  • SpillyNillie

    My son is about to be 13. I talk to him consistently about being touched inappropriately by anyone (male, female, friend, family, foe) and that he BETTER tell me if it happens! I hate that his happens to children and Lord help the predator if it ever happens to mine because I'm catching a C H A R G E!

  • Facts and Receipts

    Amen.

  • Wreckognize Game

    I used to love the tv show Boomtown and was floored by an episode about a pedophile that had abused some neighborhood kids. It was a true story that happened to Mykelti Williamson and he directed that one. ?

  • Seldomseen

    I’m glad you included females. So many boys take rape and molestation by a woman as a good thing. It was a double standard

  • Renee26

    I think he's still alive

  • Wreckognize Game

    ?????I’m tapping out of this convo. ?

  • Dowoop

    Just because he's aware doesn't mean he wasnt a victim ASSHOLE. He was a scared kid that was taken advantage of.

  • Yup, I said it

    The most recent episode Mind Hunters with serial killer Edmund Kemper had me sick to my stomach. He decapitated his mothers head and used the severed head to have oral sex. This pervert was a porn addict. Irrumatio was something he learned from porn.

  • SpillyNillie

    You make such a valid point...I witnessed so many things as a kid, something just as simple as my uncle taking money from my grandmother's pocketbook but never told because I was "kid" that needed to stay in a child's place and not interfere with grown folks business. Oh, aight. That's why she never had money to buy cigarettes....

  • SpillyNillie

    It is absolutely NOT a good thing. Women can be just as sick.

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    training us that we weren't allowed to dispute an adults version of truth or WE got into trouble.
    ____________________________________^^^^^^^^
    Carrington carrington carrington , I hold so much resentment inside for these unspoken black rules...this one angers me so much!!! Along with, the alleged Christians in the family were actually CHRISTIANS. These muther fluckers would start a sentence with "God Told Me" and "God Showed Me" ....and ruin your damn life. Because the a$$holes who didn't attend church once a week with these fakes, actually believed that GOD TOLD THESE LIARS anything. So you couldn't dispute the none Christians or the heathens in my family. I swear. I'm so triggered right now

  • SpillyNillie

    How do you know that it felt good to the victim?

  • Facts and Receipts

    I read your comments in Pray Tell's voice. Comes to find out I always damn did but I ain know it til I started watching Pose.

  • Facts and Receipts

    There was a dead Issac Sanders I found but I think this one sadly is still breathing

  • Facts and Receipts

    I hate you for this. I just yelped out loud

  • MsSapphire9800

    And why does how I feel about celebrities...bothers you. Have a nice day.

  • Renee26

    Me too ?

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    don't confuse automated biological response with consent or wanting. For a child that line is damn near impossible to navigate. Hell it's damn near impossible to navigate as an adult

  • Wreckognize Game

    I feel your pain I will never forget Ms. Parnell who never spoke to anybody or came outside. But she called my auntie saying I was playing with this guy’s penis on the neighbor’s porch right across the street from her house. Truth is, the guy passed by me and raised up his shirt to show me a pellet gun he had tucked in his waistband. He walked back to me and pulled the gun out and let me hold it. I was a very ticked off 10 year old that the adults did not believe me until my older boy cousin went and got the boy and he came and said the same thing I said. I rolled my eyes at her screen door every time I passed after that and when she died. I was still salty and said ????? SO.

  • Carrington

    Yep. I was molested and never told a SOUL until I blurted it out to my mother when I found out that another member of the family had been molested and when I asked what the person's parents were planning to do about it and she said, "Nothing... they don't want people in their business...". I saw red. I will NEVER forget that. I was about 34 years old, sitting back in the tub on the phone with my mom and I screamed, "What about HIM? Nobody cares about how HE feels?!? Nobody's going to do $HIT about it just like y'all didn't do $hit when it was happening to ME!!!"

    It was in that moment that I knew I'd shitted and stepped in it because, of course, there was no way for my mom to know that anything had ever happened to me, but in that moment, I realized that I had been holding RESENTMENT for her for something that she had no idea about.

    I was shocked that I'd actually said it. I remember her yelling was, "when WHAT happened to you?!?" and, unable to speak - I simply hung the phone up and refused to answer either of the next fifty back to back calls from her. I lay in that water weeping over something that I thought I had gotten over 30 years before. The water turned cold and I continued to sit there, perfectly still, mourning an innocence that I had just realized, in that 30 second fit of rage, had been stolen from me.

    I think I finally came back to my senses when I answered a call from an unknown number and it was my mom's sister asking me what was going on because my mom had tracked her down at a card game and told her that she was on the way and she was planning to kill anybody in that house who knew that something was happening to her baby.

    I wept more during that call. I remember those tears being heavy and cold as they hit my chest while I lay in that freezing cold water. I weep as I type this.

    I'm out.

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    Malik Yoba revealed he is attracted to male-to-female transgender
    ____________________________________________________________
    where is this written?

  • Facts and Receipts

    Shakes my head and pats ya on the back while you exit

    God bless you

  • Facts and Receipts

    On his very own IG in his very own words

  • Wreckognize Game

    ?

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    Carrington...my admiration to you for surviving. My heart to your innocence and the invisibility that secret cloaked you in. Thank you for being a stand-up human despite it and not projecting your pain onto other's innocence. My God...the pain that could be healed if we weren't (as you stated) trained into silence.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Hosea’s followers said he used to work at East Stroudsburg University in PA. I don’t know if they were right or not.

  • Phillybruh

    To a child it does not feel good. You just want it to be over. How can something you don't even know what it is feel good, you don't know how its supposed to feel and now some grown man climbing on top of you has ruined that experience for you.

  • Phillybruh

    See that's a slippery slope because someone did it to the brother.

  • WhoKnew

    Open post: Some of us prickly thorns in the garden put on our Sherlock Holmes hats and expected more conspiratorial shyt to come out about Kev's car accident. Welp a witness has come forward and said that he saw Kevin's security people pull him out of the driver's side window but when police got there the other guy was in the driver seat. So the conspiracy begins because they were like well how did the other guy get in the driver's seat? Even if Kevin wasn't driving how did the security pull Kevin out the driver side window over top of the body of the other person? Sounds like Kev was driving and the reason for the alleged cover up could be drugs and alcohol. SMH.

  • Kimberly King

    This hurt me. It made me think about my young nephew. I would die if this happened to him. It's not only the young girls who are getting molested; it's the young boys as well. I am glad he had the courage to come out with his story. Trust me, he is not alone. I read his entire post and I could feel his pain. Praying that this will encourage more men to not be ashamed and come forward. We have to get all of the pain and betrayal out of our systems! Salute to Hosea. Loved him as Malik in The Game.

  • Facts and Receipts

    He did. I dont know if he is dead tho. ESU is where the trial happened that is variously posted around this post

  • Kimberly King

    Yea I don't have any kids and my fiancé and I don't plan on having any. But if we do, please believe I will be a stay at home mom until my child enters kindergarten. I am not mentally stabled enough to handle something like this happening to my child. Especially at an age where they can't express themselves / talk. I'll literally kill the perp AND the people who brought his/her animalistic ass into this world. The law doesn't punish child molesters and rapists hard enough. It should be automatic death.

  • SaltineCrackers

    ?? Wow I wonder if Hosea knows about this.

  • SaltineCrackers

    Very few places actually do real background checks.

  • MsSapphire9800

    Try reading what I said...."every time I read a story like this on social media my head spins." and why does it bother you...how I feel.

  • Meme

    This actually made me cry it's like who can you trust? God bless you and your son, I hope the molester and anyone who was complicit rot in hell

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    i'm not coming at you...i'm informing you: i didn't indicate your compared anything. You posted your comment as a question.

    then you further state: "The guilt occurs when the victim is seduced and enjoys the act of betrayal." to which i still state no victim or ally of a victim should be confused by their body's biological response...as abuse feeling good.

    Rkellly sang it to the children: My mind is telling me no...but my body is telling yes.

  • Latifah_theHealer

    Wow, I'm speechless. Thanks for sharing because I know that took alot of courage to get to the point where you could share without shame. Thank you brother.
    Dropped my card for those that may need a non judgemental listener and who is the Philadelphia area.

    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/977f28936c83a4d69177ea30ad31f090fe7c5028c7e5ae91c589b20bdfa02e41.jpg .

  • SingleGalCrazyWorld

    Kev is a drunk and everybody in Philly who runs in his circle knows it...I wouldn't be surprised if they did pull his lil azz out and someone moved over...he's a liar, cheater and plain ole Sambo...

  • Gamer????? Chick
  • Bree

    If this is true. He should be arrested. He could have killed them all.

  • Dowoop

    You may not be able to help but you never know who can help them and whose life their story may change.

  • Dowoop

    Based on the stories we read here all the time ALOT of people clearly don't know what to look for.

  • Ghost

    I had a feeling he was the one driving the car! Had his cleaners come to get rid of everything...it’s was all about him and his reputation..they didn’t even think about the folks that were left in the vehicle! The supposed driver is still MIA somewhere ...I’m sure Kevin’s team is trying to convince him to take the fall...smdh

  • Bree

    Yes! That is how crazy my mom is. I think I have inherited that trait a little because I hate for anything to happen with my nephews/nieces. Glad we have that in common. I thought my mom was semi crazy!

  • Bree

    Exactly! I don't want my kids around anyone. That's why I've wanted to homeschool but my husband wants them to attend regular school. I'm going to be in constant prayer!

  • PLEASEDontTellMe

    many don't. If you believe a song can help someone through a rough spot or a movie can shed some light, why couldn't this man's story help another, who may be suffering in silence?

  • Yup, I said it

    Oprah has said that in regards to her own abuse. She said that as a kids you feel guilty about it because the abuse felt good. These sneaky molesters know that if they make it feel good that they are more likely to be able to keep abusing the kid. Same with James Dean. The pervert at the church kept molesting him and even once Dean was an adult in Hollywood he continued to have sex with his abuser.

  • Ms.Jones

    Sick individuals we have among us.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    I'm so sorry this happened to you. My step father raped my sister at nine and continued a relationship with her up until her teens from what I'm aware of. My mother said God told her not to leave her husband. We couldn't tell anyone because it was said what happens in the house stays in the house. Even now my mother likes to sweep it under the rug. I'm so sorry for your pain. Please be encouraged. (Hugs you tight).

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Since Kevin eventually went to the hospital and had surgery they drew Kevin's blood at some point but depending on the drugs they may have left his system by the time they were tested.
    I guess now that it's been a few days if anything comes back positive Kevin's lawyers can say that the blood samples were tainted by age or weren't refrigerated properly.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    But the car was upside down and the roof was crushed so how in the hell anyone was able to move any where is hard to believe unless his people flipped the car upright then they switched places.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    In Auntie's vivid imagination.

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    This is heartbeaking I am so sorry! I am sending you many hugs!

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    Very Brave, Respectable young man!!! That's what it took to tell this story, GOD Bless!!!!

  • Soon2BWife

    Well if they hold on to the notion he wasn't driving even if he was drunk there is no crime here. I believe he was driving but if the two others in the car are corroborating that he was a passenger nothing they can charge him with unless they have him on video driving right at the time of the crash and he did have a blood alcohol level above the legal limit.

  • NYTimes#1Bestseller

    Laveranues Cole's. I remember that episode on Oprah. Yes! Let the healing commence in Jesus name

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    It's funny you should mention that because Oprah ran the interview/dinner from her book club to discuss the book 'The Bluest Eye' and Oprah said that one of the biggest problems she had with being molested is that she had been rejected by so many people that when her molester abused her it made her feel wanted and that confused the hell out of her.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    If Kevin were driving he's going to have come out of pocket big time to keep his passengers quiet especially if the trainer was injured.

  • Oretta Grace Smith

    I told my child about her body parts And where no one should Touch at age 3. She knew how to say vagina at that age, yes. I Knew people were shady.

  • RuRu Raechel

    Dont group homosexuality and pedophilia together. One does not equal the other. Just because you've been molested as a child does not mean you'll be gay and just because you're gay doesn't mean you'll molest children.

  • Soon2BWife

    Done. Kev can't sustain another scandal.

  • MSGREENMINUSTHEENVY

    Oh no! I CANNOTTTTT!!1 I am so sorry! Your parents had no idea and you deserve your justice! I say if you can confirm she is still alive, tell you truth in front of all of her peers and then beat her ass. I don't know you but i'll support you and pay bail if you God forbid get arrested.
    She may have been abused but we all choose our paths, she could have chosen better and if she wasn't abused, she still knew better.

  • Ghost

    Idk...I’m just REALLY suspect of how this all went down! Who in the hell is on a major car accident and calls your security team INSTEAD of 911?

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    That makes sense. The effect of whatever drugs he had taken earlier had probably worn off and he was finally feeling the pain from his injuries and that's why they called the ambulance.

  • Applebum

    I’m glad he’s finally exposed that sicko. If this comes off ignorant, I’m sorry but isn’t 14 a bit old to sit back and allow yourself to be molested? 14 is 4 years away from 18. At 14 you know better, you know right from wrong and know to say “WTF, GTFOH” etc...

  • Applebum

    I’m in tears. I’m so sorry.

  • LoveChild

    See? That’s what happens when you have an epidemic of fatherlessness the pedos are bold AF they get up around anybody’s kids. They love the fact that most black males don’t live in the house with their kids all these father’s “in their children’s lives” but not in the home let the pedos know they're unprotected.

    And don’t step on me talking about white people when black people have an almost 75% out of wedlock rate and 80% of black homes are female lead what does that tell you!?

  • TheRealTW

    Hosea,

    I do not know if you will ever see this. I am so sorry you experienced the horrors of molestation. Please know you are in my prayers and all others who have been or are being victimized are in my prayers as well. May God reward you for your bravery. May God use you to help others come forward.

    May you always receive God's blessings.

  • Bree

    I agree. I don't know where she is. I forgave her a long time ago. I didn't heal in silence, I told my story when it was necessary. Abuse of any kind is tough and when you are wounded, it can takes months, even years to heal. I have a great support system and my husband and I are always talking so it helps. He is very overprotective but I have learned to understand why.

  • Shira Harding-James

    Ok so I guess that goes for older women being raped to them right?

  • MsPam

    Kevin, because he’s rich.

  • Ghost

    Nope! Not buying because he’s rich because there have been rich people that wait for first responders! If you got to be moved so damn quickly ..why not go straight to the hospital?! Instead of waiting damn near 2 hours to call 911 (according to TMZs timeline) something is up....?

  • R Smith

    #IDIOT

  • The REAL Cheese eggs

    This is why children don't tell....

  • Being bad is way more fun

    I have no interest in children hell I have little interest in adults !!!

  • Seldomseen

    Thank you all who have shared your stories of trauma and triumph. I hope that you all find the council and healing that is necessary. These conversations are URGENT. Please know that in the Garden we roast at will, we argue and disagree; however, in a very small way we can be here for each other!

  • Seldomseen

    Glad your cousin advocated for you, you kept it petty hah sis?

  • Seldomseen

    I sure hope so....

  • Seldomseen

    Yaaassssssss! Wish I could upvote this a thousand times.

  • Wreckognize Game

    Petty AF. ?

  • GrandHustleGirl1

    #Basically! He figured his money was on the line so he like...I gotta get outta here b4 this hits the news.

  • GrandHustleGirl1

    Bless you.....and bless your Mama too.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    What have been his other scandals?

    We already know he isn't funny.

  • GiGi

    I Despises child predators!!! The damage they cause can last a lifetime. They should be tortured long and slowly. I'm happy he got up enough courage to expose the creep and I pray for his continuous healing

  • MRiGOThim

    Makes no sense due to his best friend's father was the one raping him...he was a father in his own son's life but still a PEDO O_o

  • GiGi

    ??

  • LoveChild

    Makes tons of sense BECAUSE most black boys in the US are CURRENTLY raised in a fatherless home!!!

    But nobody supposed to be talking about all the black male pedos feasting on our fatherless community!

  • LoveChild

    You’re wrong. Most 14 year old kids are virgins with immature minds!!!

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Predators are more prevalent than people realize because it was never an open topic! Hosea seems like a nice guy, and I feel his pain, and wish him healing and recovery!

    I hope he’s not joining Malik’s crusade!

    Instead, I hope they lead a crusade to increase child predator awareness, encourage black fathers to be active in their kids lives. And, to encourage those victimized by pedos to not repeat the cycle!

    Let’s stop hurt people from hurting! Encourage professional help for victims of abuse, increase laws for predators!

    Best wishes to Hosea on his road to healing and deliverance, not an easy one!

    But, being an openly fake “heterosexual” man, openly dating men in dresses, those without a sex change isn’t the answer! If this is where this announcement is going!

    But, being an openly gay man, dating transgender women is a decisive, clear choice, and to each his own!

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    Someone who is drunk or high on drugs or both.

  • Ms. Jackson

    The side affair he had.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    That's not a scandal these days especially not in Hollywood.

  • Yup, I said it

    Amen! The black community is like heaven to a damn pervert. That man had plenty of acces to fatherless boys because of his sons friendships. Probably 99.8% of his sons friends had no father and the mothers were encouraging their son to spend time with the man as a male mentor. You see were the breakdown comes in at? Every boy that Sandusky molested was fatherless. There is a pattern whether we want to acknowledge it or not. Men like Malik are a real threat to our sons because they are in complete denial about their sexuality. Young boys have more femine characteristics than a grown man. So those in denial about their homosexuality will lust after boys and still claim hetero. The dancing boys of Afghanistan, the boy lovers of Greece and the Ladyboys of the Phillipnes are all roles created by pedophiles who refuse to acknowledge they are attracted to men. This is different from an openly gay man. They are attracted to grown adult men they have nothing to hide or be ashamed of. Its only the ones,in denial that scare me.

  • http://batman-news.com Roderick2011

    He's is just making up for lost time and any woman who wants to marry him knows the score.

    You know girls/women trashed him growing up and clowned him while he was in school.

  • BogartKing

    Every homo looking mtf blames it on someone else

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    FOR REAL REAL! They make all this dayum money flaunt and enjoy the comrade! Then when roles dry up they DROP the "I was molested dime" GTFOH! Didnt here mention of NAN OF THIS before NOW now suddenlt here comes the parade! BYE!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    When folks money and role offers dry up and no more money coming in LETS Tell role out the 30 years ago "stuff". Handle it!

  • Skin Deep Beauty

    WHY NOW THO?

  • BogartKing

    Was going to say the same shit the game got cancelled this niggas broke he needs money let me play victim maybe my career might jump off again. Weak ass faggetty mtf

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    This is the reason why I don't allow my Children to attend sleepovers or slumber parties. I'd rather be safe than sorry. I was sexually abused by a family member and friends of that sick family member, I am wayyy over protective of my Children. I don't trust a soul when it comes to My Kids! I am so sorry to anyone who has experienced sexual abuse. I hope justice is served in every way possible and Remember, What happened to you doesn't define you. You are stronger than you think!

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    Some people will throw that memory to the very back and or find ways to block that memory or those incidents.
    Repressed memories are memories that have been unconsciously blocked due to the memory being associated with a high level of stress or trauma. Also, It's hard to be open honest about something like sexual abuse. I was sexually abused at 3 and I didn't speak up til I was 27 years old. The memories came back like puzzle pieces & I didn't have the strength to put the puzzle together til someone close to me helped me be open about it.

  • LoveChild

    Thank you!!! And then the black male pedos always jump up and say “what about the white man” But there are a few damn white men in black communities!! Or they try to say women do it too when they know damn well males out number females in that situation.

    I absolutely see where the breakdown comes from and I talk about it a lot here and it pisses people off so I just go ahead and block them.

    It’s not the single mother homes it’s the fatherless situation. It’s black males not being involved in their children’s lives and the predators know this that’s why lots of single mothers always have a man when the child free women don’t have one.

    Our community has a lot of healing to do but you can’t heal until you admit what the problem is.

    And again I don’t give a damn what white people are doing in their community I know that black fatherless communities have a very high sexual molestation rate and it’s our next major cultural talking point.

    We don’t need to be talking about trans drag queens cross dressers etc. we need to be talking about black pedophiles. Because pedophiles freak with boys AND girls.

  • Thee Jaguar Doll

    Family Affair by Chico Colvard is a haunting documentary of a family secret that came out when He accidentally shot his sister. His sister thought she was dying and Told their mom about their father sexually abusing them. It's insane to hear his sister's speak about having their first orgasm with their Dad and How good it felt. That documentary scarred me for reals, I never thought a sexual abuse victim would think it would be enjoyable and or pleasurable, But then again everyones situation/experience is completely different. It's one hell of a doc!

  • Jethro

    2019 U.S. Open Live Updates: Serena Williams Returns to the Final

    Williams will seek her record-tying 24th Grand Slam singles title after easily defeating Elina Svitolina in a semifinal.

  • Jethro

    2019 U.S. Open Live Updates: Serena Williams Returns to the Final

    Williams will seek her record-tying 24th Grand Slam singles title after easily defeating Elina Svitolina in a semifinal.

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  • DerbyCity??

    God bless u ?? Praying 4 u 2 heal and have peace. I still deal with abuse that happened 2 me when I was 4. I am also very over protective with my kids. If it ain't my sister's house then hell no u can't go.