Chris Brown’s goons run up on Twitter gangster, Frank Ocean

In case you don’t know, Frank Ocean is a singer/songwriter out of California who is also a member of the eccentric Odd Future Collective. He’s worked with such big names as Beyonce and Kanye West in the studio. But Frank’s biggest claim to fame is going toe-to-toe with troubled singer Chris Brown on Twitter.com.

Well, Brown’s cousins caught up with Frank yesterday and they asked him to “take the fade.” I’m assuming “take the fade” means to get out of his expensive ride in the middle of the street and take a beat down.

Not surprisingly, Frank, 23, declined their invitation to scrap — presumably because he didn’t have his keyboard or monitor with him for protection.

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When Twitter Goes Horribly Wrong: Rihanna Goes Awf

Just one day after a video hit the web showing her boyfriend stepping out on her, singer Rihanna posted a nasty tweet to one of her followers on Twitter.com.

Don’t you hate it when celebrities ignore the fans who live and breathe for them, only to entertain morons like this dude?

fanMAIL – Re: Narcissism

Yesterday’s post on Narcissism touched quite a few of my readers who responded with their own emotional stories about dealing with the narcissist in their lives.

It pleases me that my posts has helped others to grow and heal in their relationships with these sociopaths.

Some of the emails below were edited for clarity and all names have been withheld.

Good Afternoon Sandra,

I have been following your site for over 5 years. Anyhow, I was very moved by your recent posting regarding Narcissism and the young lady who spoke out. I myself would like to remain anonymous due to my friends frequenting your site also.

I’ve been married for 12 years to a man I have always felt to be a Narcissist. Before writing this letter I didn’t want to jump on the bandwagon so I did the research on symptoms and signs. HE HAD THEM ALL.

He especially had the Narcissist rage. I have asked for a divorce because of the feeling of low importance and value in this marriage. He has affected my value, self-esteem and pulled me out of my character on numerous occasions for his amusement. The question is how can you trust if a Narcissist has changed or is being sincere when you threaten to leave?

We also share kids together. I feel I no longer love him due to the pain I’ve endured but if I stay does a person like this ever get it together? I know you have a lot of strong women who read your site and I am deeply concerned and stressed out behind this love/hate relationship. His Narcissist behavior has me looking at him likes he a ticking time bomb of venomous words waiting to happen. If possible, I need some insight from your readers not to decide for me but to give me any knowledge on if people like this ever change. I know you may have to edit this to a shorter message if you do decide to post this but any advice you have would be greatly appreciated.

A Loyal Reader

This reader asked for your input, but here’s mine: my advice for her is to get out of this marriage and sever all ties with him for the sake of the children.

When I was involved with a narcissist, I bought all the self-help books I could find on dealing with narcissists. Every book that I read said the same thing: GET OUT!

Narcissists can not be cured. They will not change no matter how many times they promise to do better. Most psychiatrists and therapists refuse to treat them.

They are sociopaths who lack the ability to feel. So they can’t empathize or relate to the pain they inflict on you. They just see you as weak when they break you down. Your suffering only gives them life. They have no heart and they have no feelings.

Get out.

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BOMBSHELL: Michelle Obama says her job is ‘hell, I can’t Stand it’

Michelle Obama thinks her job as First Lady is “hell,” according to an explosive new book written in collaboration with Carla Bruni, the wife of French president Nicolas Sarkozy.

The conversation took place during an official visit to the White House by Sarkozy last March. Miss Bruni reveals that when she asked Mrs. Obama how she liked her position as First Lady, she responded “Don’t ask! It’s hell. I can’t stand it!”

Maybe Michelle thought Miss Bruni asked her how she liked being married to the First Narcissist, Barack Obama?

BREAKING: Obama Considers Mortgage Bailout for Homeowners

In a desperate bid to ward off Democratic bloodshed during the November midterm elections, U.S. president Barack Obama is considering a mortgage relief plan that will waive billions in outstanding mortgage debt for homeowners.

This comes as great news for long suffering homeowners who owe more than their homes are currently worth.

Obama’s plan to bailout homeowners comes more than a year after he pledged billions to bailout the banking and auto industries. A homeowner bailout is what Americans had hoped for when they voted Obama into office in 2008.

The fact that this bailout comes now, when Obama’s approval numbers are at the lowest point ever, shows where Obama’s priorities lie.

…the Obama administration is about to order government-controlled lenders Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac to forgive a portion of the mortgage debt of millions of Americans who owe more than what their homes are worth.

the president’s approval ratings are continuing to erode, as are Democratic election polls. Democrats are in real danger of losing the House and almost losing the Senate. The mortgage Hail Mary would be a last-gasp effort to prevent this from happening and to save the Obama agenda. Read More…

Do You Own a Pleasure Boat? You Can Earn Up To $5K a Day From BP

A program created by oil giant BP for hiring fishermen to help clean up the oil spill in the Gulf has come under fire.

Louisiana coast fisherman complain that BP has hired more wealthy pleasure boat owners than unemployed fishermen who need the work. Many complain that BP’s program is a windfall to the rich luxury craft owners who earn up to $5,000 a day from BP to help in the clean up effort.

Vessels of Opportunity is a program designed to hire charter and fishing boats to cleanup the massive crude oil spill that is moving toward the Florida panhandle and delicate marshland.

But a Daily Beast investigation reveals the program is more like a PR stunt than a financial savior to those who find themselves out of work. A large portion of the 1,900 contracts handed out by BP so far have gone to the “owners of pleasure boats: doctors, lawyers, and the like, who use their vessels for Saturday fishing trips or family outings.”

“They have activated freaking ski boats, while my husband, who has been in the charter business for two decades, sits idle,” one woman told an ABC news reporter.

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PICS: The Dream, Rick Ross, JD, B.Cox At The Gold Room

Singer/songwriter/producer The Dream hosted the popular Monday night Key Club party at The Gold Room. Dream recently caught flack from Atlanta industry insiders who objected to his Diva ways at his private album listening party. The Dream has since apologized and placed the blame for the tight security on his record label.

L to R: Singer/songwriter The Dream, Jermaine Dupri, guest, and producer B. Cox

Raper Rick Ross and The Dream sportin’ black ice and the black wife beater over the tee look

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