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1. A complimentary word used to describe a MtF (male-to-female trans) individual whose feminine appearance is convincing.

This post is a throwback from 2009. I found this email while searching my archives for another email I received (with receipts) years ago.

The email was from a concerned reader who wanted you to know that a well-known Atlanta rapper who allegedly tested HIV-positive, was allegedly engaging in raw sex with unsuspecting women.

She knows all about him and his HIV status because she was one of his victims (allegedly).

Your auntie chose not to post the email at the time for legal reasons and the HIPAA Act. But I've thought about this rapper over the years, and how many women he may have infected with the virus.

Anyway, while searching my archives for that email, I found an email initially sent in 2009. I declined to post it because, who would have believed the incredibly macho actor Malik Yoba was into male-to-female transgenders?

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I redacted the names of other celebrities who dip their toes into the man pond - even though they are with women now and all three have children.

One is an A-list actor, one is a C-list rapper (who thinks he's A-list), and the third is an A-list comedian.

The last sentence in the email was on point. The HIV rate has soared over the last decade, thanks in part to down-low celebrities who infected unsuspecting Black women.

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Because some of you scan my posts and miss the important points: the following email is NOT about the HIV-positive Atlanta rapper.

The email is published as it was received in 2009.

Hey Sandra,
SO I got some teas on Nadia [name redacted]'s ex jump off haha so apparently she is dating or messing around with actor Malik Yoba (NY Undercover) and I hear his people are extra tight about this getting out so much so they have gone through great lengths to try and cover all this up but get this I hear Nadia is very upfront with all the guys about herself because she is not trying to get killed. So all these guys shes been with know about her peen that means [name redacted], [name redacted], [name redacted] all knew. SMH I'm just not surprised anymore lmao I also attached some new pics of Nadia she is giving these boys FEVAHH and turning that mac counter owottt at the same time I am not mad! lol.

p.s. I never would have guessed people would have such a sick obsession to these trannies maybe this is why the aids/hiv rate is so high.

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Malik Yoba stormed off the set of an interview with The Root after he was questioned about soliciting a teenage transgender street walker.

Yoba, 52, made headlines last month after he admitted he was sexually attracted to males who wear feminine attire.

Insisting he is a heterosexual male who loves "all women," Yoba called on Black men to set aside their personal beliefs and consider having relationships with male-to-female (MtF) transgenders.

In a lengthy post that has since been deleted, Yoba introduced his Caucasian "girlfriend" who was born a male named Brad "BJ" Hendrix.

He called BJ "the most incredible woman I've ever had the pleasure of loving. My truest reflection ever!"

The NY Undercover actor appeared on numerous urban radio and TV talk shows to discuss his transgender obsession. But a recent interview didn't end well.

Via Vlad TV -- "During a recent interview with The Root, Yoba was asked about the allegations and became irate. "It's a set up. I don't like this. We said we were going to talk about policies. I don't appreciate this at all. This is not what we f*cking discussed. We sat for four f*cking hours. We sat for four f**king hours," the actor yelled. "F**k you! This is my f**king life," said Yoba before storming off."

 

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I know some of you are tired of hearing about Malik Yoba's transgender proclivities, but he's still trending and Sandrarose.com covers news and gossip.

Yoba and NBJC Director David Johns (far left) were invited guests on The Breakfast Club on Tuesday. Yoba, 51, brought along his guests, trans activist Carmen Carrera (2nd from left), and healthcare Worker Nala Simone (2nd from right) to discuss transgender issues.

As you know, Yoba is getting backlash for admitting he is attracted to MTF trans, and for urging heterosexual men to consider bedding MtF trans, since, Yoba insists, they are women too.

Johns got the conversation popping by reminding Charlamagne and DJ Envy that they have entertained homophobia and transphobia on The Breakfast Club.

Watch the video below to see how that conversation went.
 

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The fallout continues for Malik Yoba after the New York Undercover actor took to his Instagram page to announce he was attracted to MtF transgenders.

According to a memo obtained by NewsOne, Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc., removed Yoba as spokesman for the Sigma Beta Club program, which provides counseling and guidance for pre-teen boys and teenage males.

In the memo, dated Sept. 5 and sent out to fraternity members on Thursday, the organization decided to remove Yoba after allegations were made against him by Mariah Lopez Ebony, a former transgender prostitute who claims Yoba paid for sexual favors from child sex workers.

In an interview with Ryan Cameron on Majic 107.5 on Thursday, Yoba vigorously denied the allegations and threatened to sue bloggers and media outlets who ran the story.

Last year, Yoba revealed his 3 year relationship with a male to female (MtF) transgender.
 

In a lengthy post that has since been deleted, Yoba introduced his Caucasian "girlfriend" who was born a male named Brad "BJ" Hendrix.

He called BJ "the most incredible woman I've ever had the pleasure of loving. My truest reflection ever!"

He added:

"It took me 48 years to finally find my match and I’m eternally grateful for you BJ Hendrix. The last two years on this journey with you has taught me so much about myself, how to heal my childhood wounds, my capacity for growth and knowledge of self, what grace and unconditional love really looks like."

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Malik Yoba says he is planning to file lawsuits against bloggers and "media outlets" that ran the teen transgender prostitute story.

In an interview with Ryan Cameron on Majic 107.5 on Thursday, Sept. 5, Yoba lashed out at bloggers who ran the trans prostitute's story "without proof".

In a Facebook post titled "Surviving Malik Yoba: We had sex, when I was just a teen," Mariah Lopez Ebony said Yoba paid for sexual favors when Ebony was 13 and 16 years old.

But Yoba, 55, told Ryan he didn't even know who Ebony was.

Still, he said he was "considering" suing bloggers who ran the story - not the person who put the story out there. He claimed the scandal has already cost him money and bookings.

Yoba defended his earlier statement that he was attracted to male to female transgenders. He also dismissed critics who say he is gay or homosexual.

Yoba insisted he is not homosexual. He admitted he was molested when he was a boy. Childhood molestation is a common link among homosexuals.

He said heterosexuals gave birth to transgenders, which is why he wants heterosexuals to participate in a transgender workshop he's hosting at the National Trans Visibility March in Washington, D.C. later this month.

"I love all women," he said, adding that no one has slept with more women than he has.

He said he made the announcement because too many people who look like him are dying in the streets.

He said he realized he was attracted to lady boys when he was a teenager.

He also suggested his baby mama was untruthful when she said he didn't prepare her or their 2 children for his shocking revelation.

He denied her claim that he in a romantic relationship with transgender activist Carmen Carrera.
 

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Malik Yoba is making the rounds doing radio interviews after shocking his fans by coming out as a "heterosexual" man who is attracted to male to female (MtF) transgenders.

In an interview with Atlanta's V-103 Morning culture on Wednesday, Sept. 4, Yoba told host Big Tigger that he is not a homosexual because he is attracted to "all women".

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In a separate radio interview with Claudia Jordan - host of The Morning Rush With Claudia on 105.7 in Dallas - Yoba took it a step further, saying, "I love women with breasts and penises."

During the same interview, Yoba, 55, denied paying a teenage transgender for sex 20 years ago. Both interviews are posted below.
 

 

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One of Malik Yoba's baby mamas lashed out at the actor for not preparing her family for his transgender confession. Yoba, 51, went viral last week after he confessed he was "trans attracted."

Yoba confessed his sexual proclivities in a lengthy post on his Instagram account.

He wrote in part:

"I love ALL women AND count MYSELF among those that find themselves trans attracted and I too have felt the self imposed shame that comes with that truth but it’s time to speak up,” Yoba wrote. “It is NOT about GENITALIA OR SEX but about attraction to the soul and humanity of an individual and often the beauty that is in the courage and conviction to live ones truth! As a self identified cis heterosexual man I too am learning what it means to be trans attracted."

Most of his followers were supportive of him, but Yoba caused mass confusion when he claimed he was heterosexual.

Terry Vega is the mother of Yoba's two youngest children, Dena, now 18, and Josiah, now 17.

Vega, whose IG name is @terry1andonly, was furious at Yoba for not preparing the children for what must have been shocking news.

After acknowledging she was aware of Yoba's current trans relationship, she wrote:

"Why did you NOT have a conversation with our children and wait till last night to text our 1st born with this info. Yet you were preparing your Public months ago on IG! Our children support you and keep so much a secret of what really goes down with our family dynamic. I asked to meet you over a month ago and you have yet to make time. So here I am !! If you know better then do better! Family is first over ALL."

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Yoba posted a throwback photo of the two of them together while she was pregnant.
 

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Malik Yoba's three children are being harassed after his shocking confession that he is attracted to male-to-female (MtF) transgenders.

Malik, 51, confessed he is a "trans attracted" man in a lengthy post on his Instagram account last week.

Malik returned to Instagram on Labor Day to thank his followers for their positive messages and words of encouragement.

"I want to say thank you all. All the good folks who've reached out in the last 24 hours," he said in a video. "Seeing my name, talking about 'trans attraction: Malik Yoba.' So, here's the thing. We're human beings, and we're all part of the guide body, and so, unfortunately, part of our mechanism is that we need to judge and characterize and ostracize and vilify and demonize the things we don't understand."

While the majority of his followers have been positive, the actor said his three children are receiving "foul messages" on social media ever since his revelation.

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Malik is pictured in 2011 with his children (L-R) Dena, now 18, Josiah, now 17, and Pria, now 21.

"Just because you don't understand something does not make it wrong," the actor told the trolls who are harassing his kids.

Malik encouraged his followers to join him for the transgender march on Washington in three weeks.

"September 27, 28, Washington DC, the trans visibility march in DC, I will be there doing my 'Love and Trauma workshop: The Trans Experience'," he added. "I invite you all to join."
 

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A Facebook post is casting new light on Malik Yoba's confession that he struggles with his attraction to male-to-female (MtF) transgenders.

Malik, 51, shocked his female fans by confessing he is "trans attracted." The New York Undercover and Cool Runnings star admitted his sexual preference in a lengthy post on his Instagram account last week.

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Malik called on all Black men to erase the stigma that surrounds attraction to same-sex males and MtF transgenders.

"TRANS PEOPLE DESERVE LOVE AND RESPECT AS DO THOSE OF US THAT LOVE THEM!!" Malik wrote. He added he is a heterosexual male who loves ALL women, including men who identify as women, but he struggles with his attraction to MtF transgenders.

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As the news went viral on Friday, a MtF transgender prostitute shed new light on Malik's sexual proclivities.

In a Facebook post titled, "Surviving Malik Yoba: We had sex, when I was just a teen," Mariah Lopez Ebony said s/he serviced the actor as a teenage hooker over 20 years ago.

Mariah claimed s/he was a runaway when Malik paid for sex on more than one occasion.

"For all who applaud and solute [sic] Malik Yoba for revealing he is so called ‘Trans Attracted’, understand that either because of deeper issues he has or, because of ‘society’ pushing him and others to deep, dark places, his admission to being sexually attracted to Trans women, is bound to open a Pandora’s box for him; not because the women are Trans, But because many of the Trans women he engaged in sexual exploration and exploitation with on 14th Street, Times Square and elsewhere, were minors. Including myself...

What Malik paid me to do, as a 13 and 16 year old, wasn't love. His ignoring that I was clearly a child prostitute, wasn't love.

Paying for cheap thrills and secret orgasms; begging for unsafe, unprotected sex from a runaway Trans teen, while enjoying stardom as a successful artist and business man ...isn't love."

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In the early 2000s Malik was married to actress Cat Wilson. Malik says he was stunned when, after three years of marriage, Wilson called him to say "We should be separated."

Wilson is best known for her work on R. Kelly's "Trapped in the Closet" music video "chapters" released from 2005 to 2012. She also dated Kelly.

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Malik Yoba shocked his female fans by confessing he struggles with his attraction to male-to-female transgenders. A MtF trans is a female-identified male who wears feminine attire. The New York Undercover and Cool Runnings star admitted his sexual preference in a lengthy post on his Instagram account over the holiday weekend.

The 51-year-old actor wrote an emotional open post to "Black and all men" in response to the tragic suicide of a Philadelphia man who was bullied for confessing his attraction to a MtF.

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20-year-old Maurice "Reese Him Daddie" Willoughby took his own life after he was dumped by his MtF transgender lover who accused him of domestic abuse.

Malik called on all Black men to erase the stigma that surrounds attraction to same-sex males and MtF transgenders.

"TRANS PEOPLE DESERVE LOVE AND RESPECT AS DO THOSE OF US THAT LOVE THEM!!" Malik wrote. He added he is a heterosexual male who loves women, but he struggles with his attraction to MtF transgenders.

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He added: "Many of us famous and otherwise that have struggled with accepting our attraction so we do NOTHING. This must change."

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