By Sandra Rose  | 

Anthony, the party planner who referred to reality TV personality Sheree Whitfield as a "trashy bitch" during an episode of RHOA, wrote in to clear the air. Anthony wants you to know he is not gay. And, in addition to being a proud husband and father, he is a consummate professional like fellow party planner Jamahl King.

Hi Sandra,

I am reaching out trying to get the facts straight. First, I am not GAY! Married with children, and love PUSSY.

Second, I was never hired by Sheree or Bravo to do a party. This event was for the Atlanta Music Festival, and the producer's ask me to modify the event to be included in an episode of the Real Housewives of Atlanta, entitled Sheree's Divorce Party.

I also consider myself to be a professional with a long standing resume. But, unless you have work with Sheree or had any dealings with her you wouldn't understand, where I am coming from.

Thank you,


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  • Daisy

    Well DAMN HE DID THAT! :rofl:

  • LovelyLady

    Told Yall, he went in on her azz *yo mamas a bitch* still lol....her ass deserved that.

    And he aint gay? Ok, yea, we believe you. *rolls eyes*

  • pinky2083

    Well that letter was professional.. he told us didn't he?!

  • LovelyLady

    Aww Daisy let me see if i can do that to :rofl:

  • LovelyLady

    It actually worked he he

  • Timika7

    Not sure why a "straight" man would get all in a woman's face screaming and cursing?!?!

  • Daisy

    I didn't watch either clip but if she went in on him gay or straight he must have decided to go back in on her

    I don't know any straight male party planners though :shrug:

  • mizzdallas

    that ninja is soooo "how u dowaaang" I will be watching that mess of a show smh

  • Anna

    Gay or straight his wife is going to beat his butt for not saying "I love my wife's puss y".

  • Peachizz

    LOL.... I jsut watch the video..LOL.. This season is gonan be hilarious.. I can't wait...

  • The Divine Ms. K

    Umm, that was the most unprofessional e-mail I've ever read. He could have just said he was married w/ children - left out the classless p***y reference.

    And as a "professional" - you call a woman out her name? No matter how the wanna-be-diva/fashion designer was acting - calling her mother a b**ch was ridiculous.

    A real professional would have just walked away. One of my good friends is a party planner and this would have NEVER gone down in her business.

  • Krysi J

    For some reason DimeWars videos will not play on this imac........Anybody know what I need to do?

    Anyway, the video sounds funny at least. Sandra, you are really giving Bravo their money's worth, before today you barely posted anything about RHOA, and all of a sudden you got vids, pics, OPINIONs.... you have definitely jumped off the bridge with the rest of us, incase you didn't notice ...KurSPLAT!

    Guess what yall, Im on a mini vacation from my 9-5..... Im so relieved!

  • spongebobfan

    is the lady in pink the alleged wife?

  • spongebobfan

    yeah sandra Bravo needs to cut you a check cause if it wasnt for what i read these 2 days i would not check for it i will check it out tonight

  • Charles


    Is taco bell giving u paid leave off, I didn't know they offered that benefit to employees!

    On topic : I thought for sure he was gay ahhhh he's on the down low cuz only down low men would proclaim their love for PUSSlY

    Definatley on the down low!

  • mizzdallas

    lmao! @ charles

    Im hollering and rolling on the dang gon floor! lawd! help me!

  • spongebobfan

    dang why it gotta be all that charles!?!?!

  • 2bme

    of course he loves puzzy..most gay men think they have one!

  • Shauny

    Damn Charles your semi cyber stalking. Is anyone going to tell me what I missed? Why does Krysi have your drawers in a bunch? It seems personal now

    waiting while :popcorn:

  • Daisy

    @Shauny- I knew you were going to ask your question again lol My name is bennet and I aint in it :coffee:

  • Charles


    Yes sis I saw ur message I meant to respond, I wanted her twitter so I could obliterate her on twitter but of course she got scared =)

  • Mika

    "First, I am not GAY! Married with children, and love PUSSY..."

    and that's around the time i stopped reading!
    boy stop.

  • Shauny

    Daisy - I'm like Soledad up in this I wanted did I miss an argument or something. I'm not in it either but I'm still nosey :lol:

    Charles answered why he wanted her Twitter. My naive butt thought he was asking folks for Twitters because he wanted to conversate with them beyond SR.

  • Shauny

    soneone post the Kumbaya lyrics again. Stop it yall.

  • dblaq

    Well I can feel his pain, when he said unless you "work" for Sheree you wouldn't know.

    Anyway somebody need to ask her what her credentials are as a fashion designer or simply as a professional. Bella Azul didn't do jack sh!t but go out of business. She dogs Bob but he is the one that financed ALL her sh!t, she ain't brought a damn thing to whatever. Plus you have to stay away from people that keep saying they are professional!!!!!!

  • JustSayin

    Married..Children..Pussy?..Dude..Cut it out..Aint no straight man wearing a pinky ring..Poppin that neck..Shreaking..and comming for a woman like that..Now a gay man?..Would behave exactly like that.. (not all of course)


  • talkingwithtami

    Im speechless wow!

  • Krysi J

    Yes sis I saw ur message I meant to respond, I wanted her twitter so I could obliterate her on twitter but of course she got scared =)

    such a delusional lame......what da fukk would I be afraid of a keyboard response? Luckily for you I don't have a twitter for you to stalk me on. LMAO.............I appreciate the love babe, please keep it coming. The closest you'll ever get to being apart of me is SR, so laugh now honey.....cry later.


  • Daisy

    @shauny I am nosey as well and I love me some Soledad lol
    I talk to a few ppl on twitter from SR

  • candycane

    I CANNOT STAND!!!!!!!!! bullshyt azz ignorant people. I was going to try and watch this show tonight - but after seeing that clip, I am soooooooooo cool

  • luvly1957


  • iscream

    Opps sorry bro I guess you read me saying you were queening out... well this letter sure as heck sounds queenie.

    How you doing???

    When will people learn that sending emails to Sandra only makes the matter worst. You are better off letting the damn topic sink to the bottom. We are at work passing the time and by the time the next topic pops up. Your topic pops out. Damn topic probably didn't even get past 30 hits and if it did it wasn't about you. Get over your self.

  • Anna

    iscream Says:

    When will people learn that sending emails to Sandra only makes the matter worst. You are better off letting the damn topic sink to the bottom. We are at work passing the time and by the time the next topic pops up. Your topic pops out. Damn topic probably didn’t even get past 30 hits and if it did it wasn’t about you. Get over your self.

    So true. Ppl trying to defend things that we long ago forgot. Anyone sending Sandra a email never gets sympathy. When will they learn? Of course keep sending the emails, it sure makes my work day go by so much faster. Tomorrow is already Friday.

  • iscream

    Okay, got it now.

    See I never watched the clip. And Sandra never mentioned his name so I thought the clip was about Jamhal (however its spelled). I checked the comments... out of 23 comments maybe 3 was about him THREE!!!! We talked about Wendy more than we talked about the clip. So I'll take this email as a way of him promoting his sexuality I mean business.

    Aw ww w w alright!

  • Avanti

    Ok, he says he's a professional yet he emails a public blogger and uses the "P" word in that email. He's not too clear on maintaining a certain image for public/business purposes! NICE! I guess I could be an event planner, too if I just called myself one! I don't care how hard it is to work w/ a client... you don't do that! If push comes to shove, you excuse yourself permanently!

  • brenden

    @ #28...Don't let ol girl get u rilled up...that ol sis this sis that lingo is gay talk,,,,plus ol girl is a brandy fan...come on now...u know what it is...uterus envy. but yeah i don't like it when women say oh a man gettin up in a womans face, a man doing this a man doing that. come on now. she cuzz me out, im cussin her out. plus ol girl in the video is strong faced then a mug,,,we sure she aint a dude? quit playin.

  • pointhimout

    that's a crass letter. also, he didn't clear up nothing. more drama for the show. married with kids and i love pussy. oooook.

  • Anna

    pointhimout Says:

    that’s a crass letter. also, he didn’t clear up nothing. more drama for the show. married with kids and i love pussy. oooook.
    We have to remember that some ppl will sell their souls to the "devil" for their 15 minutes of fame.
    So laughing at the " I don't want to be the angry vagina".

  • attorneymom

    I just watched the first episode of Housewives Atlanta style and conclude the following:

    * NeNe, I love her. No complaints.
    * Lisa & Hubby are cute.
    * Sheree is more human this season.
    * Kim, dreadful. Why is she even on the show? The token white girl ain't working. I want DeShawn back.
    * Kandi - well the jury is still out deliberating her case. So I will give her some UNDERSTANDING at this time.
    * Dwight, love his crazy horny azz. He actually saved the show because it was quite boring.

    Sidebar: Mr. Anthony, your tantrum was not a good look for you or your company. Your response to your "client" was unprofessional. A "man" jumping in the face of a female client is really punkazzish. You can’t blame Bravo for your punkazz response.

  • 2bme

    just wathed it YEP he's gay and very unprofessional..he shouls have just walked away..he started yelling first..he wanted the exposure and it just bit him in the azz..i would never have him plan for me

  • attorneymom

    His azz could not even plan my funeral.


    I love P***y is a GAY statement anyway! He cleared up the fact that he IS GAY!

  • Krysi J

    The Jury is still out on this whole situation....because even though dude was way outta pocket .......What the hell was Sheree complaining about again.....she wanted to be the "Boss Bytch" of what, a free party?? I don't even know what made her go in on him in the first place? His ideas weren't that ridiculous, and for her to walk up in that man shyt DEMANDING for money to be spent the way she wanted it to be spent, when the party was being planned and provided FOR FREE..... *scratches head*......?? huh??


    Chile I ain sweating that, Charles is a figment of all our imaginations, BRANDY's too. Where have you been boo, its been a while hasn't it?

  • attorneymom

    @ Charles, Why is Ann Coulter breathing?? What a waste of humanity. Did you see her and Rev. Al go at it on Larry King last night? Rev. Al doesn't look too good. Is he okay?

  • whyohwhy

    He's in denial and that was straight Ghetto for a professional anything..

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  • iscream

    I finally saw what all the hoopla was about. (Never watched clip. Wanted to see it on tv) Uhm Anthony if you're not gay neither is Dwight. Who may I add is also a married man... to a woman... & most gay men do love P*ssy... because the want one so bad... just ask Charles.

    On Show Topic.

    I don't know why NeNe got away with not having to speak on that news clip of her and her husband swindling people (Wendy didn't even mention it. She is punking down for tv.) Her fronting in that new house, with her BMW was fun-ny.

    I thought everybody was fake (inculding Sheree's friend who stopped by fully made up) except for Kandi. When she had that talk with her daughter and she sat there and named ALL those kids who would become her "friends" I was DEAD!!!!

  • Peachizz

    I was watching last nite and dude obviously had reconceived notions of Shree and was ready for her, at all cost... Like he said "your name is burnt in the industry"... I must admit she got with him, but there was alot of editing as well... Shree seems to be the type to know what buttons to push.....

  • Peachizz

    @Ice..LOL Jst ask Charles.. LOL
    Yeah dude got too many kids I dit care hiw big the Ring aint gonna work.. if he got 6 kids he must have at least 2-3 baby mama's and
    bee-lee-dis ,"at least one of um is drama"...

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  • Shauny

    Dear Mr. Anthony,

    The episode of RHOA that aired last night doesn't support that above letter. We all know how Sheree can be BUT you as a professional seemed like you were waiting on the argument and may have even initiated it yourself.

    P.S, If you love pussy, I couldn't tell last night because you were FLAMING!

    Best Regards,