By Sandra Rose  | 

Kelly Rowland in Florence, Italy

Songbird Kelly Rowland took issue with reports saying she advised straight people to ask potential partners if they've had past gay experiences.

In a tersely worded Instagram.com post on Friday, Rowland, 35, complained bitterly that her words to a NY Post reporter were twisted out of context.

Rowland, who is in the midst of a publicity tour to promote her Lifetime movie 'Love By the 10th Date', explained "There's a storyline about bi-sexuality in the film and the writer asked about this particular character and I shared my thoughts on how the fictional character could have handled the situation better in the film."

But in her haste to be viewed as politically correct, Rowland missed the opportunity to start a dialogue on HIV and AIDS affecting black women.

In light of the statistics that shows black women are the 2nd highest risk category for HIV behind gay men, there is nothing wrong with asking a potential partner if he has had same sex experiences with men.

Read Rowland's complete statement below.

(SMDH)
See, this is why HEADLINES can be toxic for readers! I did an interview with the NYPost about my Lifetime movie "Love By The 10th Date" and there have been multiple media outlets taking a specific statement completely out of context. There's a storyline about bi-sexuality in the film and the writer asked about this particular character and I shared my thoughts on how the fictional character could have handled the situation better in the film. I'm only making this statement to my fans as everyone knows that I've always embraced the LGBTQ community and have absolutely nothing but LOVE for my LGBTQ family.

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  • lil goodie

    Happy Friday ... it's the weekend babii???????

  • lil goodie

    Happy Friday ... it's the weekend babii???????

  • SJ

    Wait, what's wrong with asking your partner if they've had intimate experiences with members of the same sex?

  • MsSincerity

    Nothing!

  • SummerBaby

    I personally don't see a problem with this if she did advise them to ask that question. ?????

  • noluvlost

    Nowadays that should be one of the first questions out of your mouth male or female there's a lot of female who have had gay experiences.

  • mzwhang90210

    I'm so sick of folks having to tip toe-back track and pussy foot around the LGBTQ community. Fck it....I'd be like "I said what I SAID!!"
    And in my opinion that's a legit question...wtf????

  • side_i

    Certain questions need to be asked....have you ever been attracted to the same sex, do you have history of mental illness & when was your last std test. It's very simple.

  • hottlanta

    Don't gay people question their partners about how many straight people they have slept with and when was the last time you slept with a straight person. Some gay men don't care if you are on the down low. But if they are serious about you they ain't gonna deal with you going back and forth to them and someone of the opposite sex.

  • Dane

    Nothing wrong with that question.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Women are fortunate these days if their man is only cheating on them with a woman. It's sad to say, but it's the truth. Once upon a time, you knew the "other woman" was indeed a woman. Now, it can be a biological man or "transgender" woman. And the places these men are meeting other men... Look at the Craigslist personals. More men are looking for men while claiming to be heterosexual (some are even married) than there are men seeking women. It's scary.

  • mzwhang90210

    These days you HAVE to ask questions that may not seem PC...
    "Were you born a man/woman?"
    "Have you ever slept with a member of the same sex?"
    "Have you ever had sex with anything that was NOT human?"
    "When was your last STD/AIDS test? Let me see the results"
    Chile...

  • Carolina Blue

    Oh boy....

  • Cheese eggs

    You betta ask......and then ask his friends and his momma

  • Emily post

    Thats a problem???? Ask that question anytime you suspect something. Right up there with how many baby mommas / Kids you have?

  • Lovezoe

    Questions to ask:

    How many kids/baby mamas
    BLM or ALM
    Have you ever voluntarily got your hole dug in
    Caitlin Jenna or Chaz Bono
    Show me your STD test results

  • mzwhang90210

    True! I look at the Craiglists personal ads sometimes (b'cuz I'm nosey), and my jaw drops at the number of married men seeking "discreet" same sex encounters. Ewwww.

  • Carolina Blue

    ??? blm or alm!!

  • mzwhang90210

    Ha! See my list below too. It's scary now days.

  • Lovezoe

    Great minds! We've missed you boo

  • Lovezoe

    Say ALM nothing else to dicuss.

  • Carolina Blue

    Ok i thought i was the only one who does this....

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao i heard that. My lady doesnt even say alm...

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    These guys want to watch porn together and masturbate together or share a fleshlight. The wanting to run trains on women thing seems really gay to me, too. Why would you want to lick or poke holes that another man was just in?!. That isn't about pleasing the woman but fulfilling some sick fantasy for the men.

  • mzwhang90210

    LOLOL..chile...I look at all kinds of stuff, I'm curious about weird things. It used to alarm my husband, but now he just shakes his head and walks away. Meanwhile I sit there looking like "What? What I do?" https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/428ee3a18cdf481ad7654b38adfd970aa38ae7454630050d73cdc2523bb5919e.jpg

  • mzwhang90210

    *shudder*
    Then you have some women that knowingly date/marry bisexual men. I could NOT. Whewwww...

  • Carolina Blue

    Ahhhhhhhh???....wow i do the same shit...im so tickled.

  • mzwhang90210

    Missed yall moreeeeeeeeeeeeee

  • Oliver Brady

    I ask all my partners if they've had gay experiences? Then I tell them to bend over and let me verify? ? Type of hole means no ? Type of hole means yes?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Of course they don't know when the guys are dishonest. Certain things you don't omit from discussions. Not telling someone you have an STD, like the same sex, etc. is lying/deceitful. People shouldn't have to ask such questions. They should be voluntary.

    People "hide" everything today - kids, criminal histories... You name it. That's why I chuckle when the married folk talk shit about the single folk. The married folk better get tested, too, because a lot of these "monogamous" relationships are only monogamous to one party in the marriage, not both.

  • Bobby Brown of The Blog

    Whang!!!!

  • Oliver Brady

    Lol @ BLM or ALM? True dat?

  • Carolina Blue

    ???

  • Oliver Brady

    Hey Ms no panties?

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Asking questions is no substitute for commonsense. Nevermind the words, be careful what you DO.

  • Carolina Blue

    ?? well you asked

  • missmiami305

    A damn shame the times we live in. But u gotta be safe out here.

  • Lovezoe

    ???????

  • mzwhang90210

    Yup.
    A college mate of mine broke up with a dude, and he told her "Well, as long as you're breaking up with me, I may as well tell you...I have herpes."
    So dude had been sleeping with her for months, and hadn't told her. See that type of info should be stated UPFRONT..as soon as you see the relationship headed in an intimate direction. Non-disclosure has gotten many a person killed.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I almost spit out my coffee yet again at "have you had sex with anything that was NOT human?" So, you've seen the K-9 posts on CL, too?!.

  • mzwhang90210

    Umm...hey

  • mzwhang90210

    Bwaaaaaaaaaaaa......nah. But every now and again I'll spot a random story online about some man screwing a horse, or getting caught taking his ding-a-ling out of a goat. I'm like damnnnnnn.

  • Missy

    Happy to see mzwhang90210 is back??

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    A former friend of mine, Antonia, put me up on game EARLY. She said she inspects her (male) partners' genitalia by putting them under a light. No joke. If she saw bumps, lesions, etc., they were not allowed to enter her. When I tell you this is the best advice I've ever been told...

    Someone was trying to gain entry with me and he had a bump on his penis. I refused, not that he was going to get anything anyway, but I refused. Long story short, someone else confirmed he has herpes and has been laying it low and spreading it wide. Brotha been raw dogging a whole lot of women, which is also a no no. The thing about condoms is they don't necessarily prevent the spread of herpes, esp if someone is having an outbreak. If something looks amiss, just say no. Please!

  • Empress

    It's good advice. Why not ask a partner about their sexual history? These are good things to know. I have a no back door policy and when I was dating I made sure to ask and let anyone I might get serious about know. In general I would have an overall sexual conversation. Nothing wrong with that.

  • mzwhang90210

    Thanks!! But ion recognize these new names no mo...
    *Miss Sophia rock*

  • Futuredocdonte

    But if he actually bends over that should be all the verification you need ?

  • nucynu25

    DITTO... You gotta finger test these mens ..

  • Missy

    ...but this gay sh it again???

  • Bobby Brown of The Blog
  • Bobby Brown of The Blog

    It's Dub

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Not a horse?!. It makes me think about the people who would post about the donkey shows in Mexico.

    I'm about to put $20 on that wall in a minute. ????

    Worst story I ever heard was of a guy in the military who was at some bar or club in Asia. One of the girls was stripping. She took his beer bottle and stuck it up her hoo ha. He drank out of it like it was nothing.

    When he awoke, his mouth was in shambles. Let's not act like AIDS isn't rampant in Asia in part because of tourism and people going there to patronize prostitutes. I feel for these military wives. I pray he wasn't married.

  • mzwhang90210
  • http://www.missjhaneuniverse.com Monday

    2017 is about pushing Gay agenda down our throats and Trump..

    Can't wait for 2018

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Yes!!! re: "exit only." This isn't a bus. Ain't na'an nxgga going to be yelling "back door!" at me.

  • Missy

    Im kinda new here...but not really tho...im not, my font is.

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Last night, I went window shopping downtown. I was surprised by the number of men checking me out. One guy was with a younger male who appeared to be his son, but that didn't stop him from eyeballing my crotch. Another was a security guard who was so busy watching me walk by, he almost knocked down one of his customers. This is going to be an interesting summer!

  • mzwhang90210

    Chile. SMH. I remember one time when innate curiosity was NOT my friend. There was a video going around online a few years back...a yt chick having sex with a horse. When I tell you that watching that video still haunts me to this day. And when the horse had an orgasm, he let out a long "neighhhhhhhhh."
    I'm STILL shell shocked.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Hell to the naw! I hope his dxck falls off and rolls into a drainage ditch so he can't ever get it back.

  • mzwhang90210

    Okay!!! Well thank you again!!!!

  • Empress

    I have a friend who runs full background checks. She found one tax evasion conviction and a warrant on another guy. She does a lot on internet date sites. She also checks their net worth, previous address, and even ran background on her current boyfriend's ex-wife! I always wonder what he would think if the boyfriend knew? I told her it was a bit extreme but she has zero flucks to give.

  • Darkandlovely617?

    ??
    Love the hair ??

  • Capricornicy

    Ok wut.

  • mzwhang90210

    I don't blame her not one bit. The world is getting scarier every day. Sad to say, but some people troll the web looking for victims. Your friends actions may seem extreme, but I think they are very wise!!

  • Bobby Brown of The Blog

    @BullSweet talked you up this week. Was like anyone heard from Whang. Chimed in no but I miss her

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Why is this funny?!. ???? The long "neigh"...

    There was some nasty ass woman who is now deceased, but she used to engage in bestiality on film. There were porn loops of her having sex with horses and I think a boar (?). The wages of sin are death. She disobeyed (the Word) and she paid for it with her life.

    I couldn't watch no isht like that. Nope.

  • mzwhang90210

    Haaaaaaaaaaaa!! That's my big headed bew!
    I missed you guys. I've popped in and read a few stories, but didn't have time to "visit."
    Good to see ya font..and what's up with this new name..uza mess!!! lolololol

  • missmiami305

    U see Kodak dumb ass??? Has a pending case and u live streaming a train. What an idiot!!!

  • Empress

    Church! One Senegalese guy I was really interested in I had to decline to date. He was beautifully black, built, and over 6 foot. Chile, when he said that back door was a requirement I was like nope, never. He had the nerve to tell me that made him more interested and that he would do it "gracefully" so I shouldn't worry. KMT

  • nucynu25

    BLOOP

  • Sucker Free

    My gay male friend told me yesterday that all the guys he has met recently have girlfriends...they claim to be straight but want to hook up and be bottoms tho ?

  • nucynu25

    SAD.

  • Bobby Brown of The Blog
  • missmiami305

    Wow! Can't say I am surprised but you are absolutely correct. Do what you must cuz have these dudes dont even have annual physicals let alone get tested for std's.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I remember reading an article in GQ or Details magazine YEARS ago. (I think it was Details.) It was about the male G-spot aka the prostate and "prostate massages." It wasn't re: analingus but suggesting women anally penetrate a man using a digit or 2. Nope. Fast-forward, they were ahead of the game, unless there was a lot of that going on and it was just more discreet.

    These nxggas wanna be women so damn bad, it hurts.

  • Oliver Brady

    How big is your dick??

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    You have a vagina. Why would he want your anus when you have a vagina?!.

    I hope he find the man he actually wants because he sure doesn't want a woman.

  • missmiami305

    She aint wrong. Chile i ran a full check on my husband before we started dating. Still run them mofos occasionally cuz u never know. Shidddddd

  • Bobby Brown of The Blog

    I had got banned tambout Trump

  • nucynu25

    A caller on the breakfast club called talking bout he was kinda gay ..these niccas like dik more than women

  • mzwhang90210

    Alot of people in the LGBTQ community also say that disclosing trans status should be voluntary not mandatory. I say BS. You get someone thinking you were born a woman, and don't tell them otherwise? And engage them in a relationship and still don't tell them?? That's deceit. That's how they (trans) end up getting assaulted or worse. Give the person a choice...other wise you're deliberately misleading them and you're playing a dangerous game.

  • missmiami305
  • Empress

    Off topic: Hey Sandra, are you going to do a post on Trump meeting with the British PM? I have family in UK and I watch BBC and Love your blog so I know and appreciate the brutal sense of humor of Brits, they are going to murder him in their press. LOL

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Someone said that was his friend, Jackboy. IDK who tf any of these little nxggas are. I just read...

    That mess is some mess. I didn't see the live stream. I saw one still photo of a woman with the worst looking butt and the longest crack on her knees, getting ready to service Jackboy. And she looked old. She ought to be ashamed of herself, her azz and the fact that she should've been wearing bloomers while working her jawbone.

  • mzwhang90210

    fanga test? *dead*

  • nucynu25

    This the type of shit that makes me mad with the rainbow ppl .. ppl hve a right to know the sex of their partner . Complete fukkery

  • mzwhang90210

    bwahaaaaaaa...you said once every 3 months huh? *tears*

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    They'll talk about having razor bumps on the tip or in the middle of their penis. I pass on dxck because it's the best thing to do in most cases. If he is too willing to volunteer it, it probably isn't any good anyway.

  • nucynu25

    Slide that finger back that there ...if he let you go to far he like dik . If he jump or batt the piss out you .. you got a keeper

  • Oliver Brady

    I fricken yelped @ trying to gain entry?

  • Capricornicy

    Lmao.

  • mzwhang90210

    LMAO....you said if he goes "Ooooh"..and toots his butt up higher...beware?? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/edc5a558a544036c3592cd4eee5eafbaf60f36adfb389698ef45ce4f79e8ba2b.gif

  • Capricornicy

    Doesn't that sound like shyt she would say? Lol.

  • missmiami305

    Yes indeed????

  • puppylove

    If I was a man, I would beat hisher ass

  • missmiami305

    Wtf is kinda gay

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Light skin. Dark skin. My Asian persuasion. I got them all, that's why these girls out here hatin'. I'm sexy. That's "wut." ?

  • puppylove

    Sould like he probably kinda got a wife and kids.

  • Capricornicy

    Sure.......

  • mzwhang90210

    Me too nuc. Then they have the nerve to get indignant and say it's nobody's business. SMH...I don't agree that they should be hurt as a result of non-disclosure, but I can see how it happens.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Bumpy needed to take his ass on with that. He is in jail now, which is a great thing. Not only was he knocking bxtches up across the country, he was scamming hos from state-to-state. He never got a penny from moi, but he was sticking hos for thousands of dollars each, dxcking them up and down, knocking some of 'em up, then leaving them with negative bank balances. "I love him." Bih... That's what thirsty gets you.

    He is and was always shifty. I'm not going to lie. I like a douche bag every now and again, but those are the ones who are there solely for a good time. Drink with 'em. Dine with 'em. Party with 'em. But keep your pum pum in ya panties.

    I check a nxgga's nails before I let him touch me. I check his lips and the inside of his mouth for sores and lesions. I don't play. Some dude tried to kiss me once and he had sores inside his mouth. If he got that kiss, it wasn't from me.

  • Empress

    DEAD!!!

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Whang ?

  • missmiami305

    ????

  • mzwhang90210

    LOLOLOL...kinda gay is when dude is like "Well, I DO kinda suck dick, but I don't swallow...so ummm..."

  • puppylove

    Some men teach their sons that their manhood will be taken if they allow someone in the back door.

  • missmiami305

    I swear i dont understand that

  • nucynu25

    I dont care if they get hurt as a pt of non-disclosure bc thats not fair at all. Let ppl make their own decisions .

  • nucynu25

    My baby 2 & I tell him constantly doing bath time not to let anyone touch his private area ..

  • missmiami305
  • mzwhang90210

    Hey bew!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Kiss my Ju!!!! How are y'all?

  • Oliver Brady

    You had me @ bumpy?

  • nucynu25

    RIGHT

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    That anal entry + no condom + ejaculation is how a lot of these chicks are popping up poz. But they won't tell you that.

  • nucynu25

    Exactly..so bish all the ppl out there ...everybody just had to stop & admire your ass .. yeah okay

  • nucynu25

    DEAD

  • nucynu25

    GIRLLL.. Charla was like leave your number we need to talk to you more often.

  • Empress

    I am quick to graze my hand across the eggplant so I already knew he was enormous. I actually asked him why he would even want to bring that hammer out on a newbie! LOL It was actually a funny conversation. I asked if he did it in Senegal and he going to say, "Oh no, our women would never do that." SOB

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    We fine how are you and the family bew??? We miss you.

  • nucynu25

    Scary world..i dont put nothing past these fools . Either they gay or willing to kill ya dead .

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Dxck had a speed bump. I #sweatergawd.

    My requirements are a man uses a condom AND pulls out. Inseminate someone else. I don't want no b*stard children nor do I want your seed sliding in or out of me, especially when I'm not married to you. Even at the point of marriage, contingent on his history, he better grab a condom and give thanks for the privilege...

    "To have me, yes you lucky." - Me and Missy Elliot

  • Blak

    So the gay agenda is suppose to stop me from inquiring if a man I'm having sex with has gay or has HIV/AIDS?? fucc outta here. I actually had gays telling me that anyone who rage sex as a means to spread their HIV/AIDS shouldn't be deemed a criminal because "so many advances have been made in treatment". Excuse me, how many healthy black men are checking for women who have HIV/AIDS? Because they want to normalize their hedonistic, diseased lifestyle, doesn't mean I should die by it. Thanks Obama

  • mzwhang90210

    Lawd....smh. Well I like it!

  • nucynu25

    dead

  • mzwhang90210

    Miss you guys too. Doing great.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    He is an entire lie.

    For starters, let me commend you on going where you know the pinga is going to be good. I love me a good ol' Exxon Valdez oil spill, kill all the birds and fish colored man, particularly one straight out of Africa. They have that anaconda (which I can't take) and that education (which gets my juices flowing in all the right ways). I'm here for Senegal.

    African chicks are with the shxts all day, everyday. I know some who came here just to wear their pum out and get it sewn back up like nothing ever happened so they could go home and be, as SR says, a submissive wife. He just didn't find one who was down.

  • Empress

    OK My mother is a nurse and cautioned me about the thin walls of the rectum from my teen years. She used to talk to us about the sphincter, bacteria, anal fissures and all of that. we would be so embarrassed cause she would sit us down with our cousins and roll out the chalk board. My mom is something else.

  • Bobby Brown of The Blog

    NC peeps. Charles Shackleford passed. I remember he testified in Rae Carruth trial and pissed me off how he helped paint Cherrica Adams. Now in HIS death...media says not shyt about it. Only former NC State/NBA player. Wtf. AM pissed

    http://abc11.com/sports/former-nc-state-player-charles-shackleford-found-dead/1723947/

  • Oliver Brady

    ??

  • SummerBaby

    :waves:

  • Sucker Free

    They are greedy and disgusting

  • ReadingIsFundamental4Real

    Nothing wrong with asking that question. .... All past sexual encounters are up for discussion if you want access to my vagina and health.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Your mother is a queen! She explained things to you that so many girls and women, and even boys and men should know! I have heard numerous accounts of young women sparing their hymen and having anal sex. I can only hope they're healthy and well today. They were having anal sex with their bfs and not using condoms, to boot, all to "maintain" their virginity.

    I'm so glad I knew better. I maintained my v-card for a lot of years because if I wasn't aware of the ramifications of my actions, I wasn't going to do something that could cost me more than I was willing to pay.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    They like what they like, but they better go somewhere else so they can get their salad tossed or finger popped. The only salads I ever tossed have romaine lettuce or mixed greens, are in a bowl and contain other vegetables. I don't do anything with butts. Lol

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    He was surprising chill at the press conference.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Sure you can ask. No, never. What else you want to know?

  • Empress

    I love Senegalese men, I never been there but I went to a Senegalese area in France and just watched them walking by, so fine. On the Peen, People think I'm crazy but I cannot do those mega peens. If its too big, nope that's a threat not a sex organ! I do my kegels but I can't be getting stitches in my lady parts. I guess I'm not a champion.
    DWL@ the African chicks.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Yeah that entire trial was crazy. Those were some sexy ass women that came in/out that courtroom though.

  • VanillaCaramel2shotsExpresso

    I would want full disclosure . Plus did you sleep with prostitutes , transexuals, bisexuals, were you A HO ?? I would want a contract!!!! ?

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    I've been looking for you. Bish where you been?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Thanks for tolerating my TMI posts. I used to be extremely aloof when it came to men. Then, I met someone and ended up researching certain topics and my eyes opened WIDE. (Not my legs, tho. Just my eyes.) I'm sure there's a lot IDK, but it appears as though there are more deviants roaming these streets than there are normal people who want lasting relationships with ONE person. Maybe that's the media spin being put on it.

    This has been an awesome day in the garden. Any day is a good day where I managed not to get pricked! ?????

    Olive juice.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    CA is trying to implement a law where trans folk can be classified as "other" on their CA DL and IDs. Good! Let their potential partners see what they are beforehand. If they won't tender their ID, they're hiding something.

  • B.Sweet Glow-up 2017

    You forgot about that hole in your pants? That must've been embarrassing.

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    and elephant juice to you too. There are a lot of deviants out here. What wifey don't know won't hurt her I guess.

  • Empress

    I can't do this today. Ya'll got me laughing out loud!

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I want to be a size queen SO bad. My eyes tell me YES! My actual vag says, "Girl, you know better." Expand and contract my azz! I need to go find myself a nice man with a hurricane tongue and clean, short nails and call it a day. Lol

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Ewwww @ elephant juice. You ain't right!

  • Let’s Play

    Does it really matter to ask since dudes not gonna tell the truth about it anyway. It's like asking a woman how many partners she had, she gonna divide the real number by about 5. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6b5f5fb0e39af0a4f201249080df58472049f4f6d74882f0149754b3523dc7c4.jpg

  • Empress

    Yes he was. He needs supervision. I think if there is another leader in the room he behaves better.

  • SummerBaby

    Dead

  • Empress

    We need a "Tell us about your first time" post, so I could tell ya'll how my experience with a guy whose peen was curved and I locked myself in the bathroom and called my sister because I thought it was a disease. LOL My sister responded, "Oh, it's curved, no it's ok, that's actually a good thing"

  • Carolina Blue

    HA!!!!??

  • puppylove

    Yes, but to tell him he will no longer be a man if it happens, is detrimental. Part of the reason why so many men/boys do not report abuse.

  • mzwhang90210

    Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy stank-stank!!!! I missededed you!!! Been busy...chum hurrrr https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/73e0498c5d92f745fb12cdfc2d49d147a511b9775074d506fa30607181082b2d.jpg

  • Elevated Soul

    It is RIDICULOUS the way so called Black entertainers always feel the need to clarify a statement that they think may offend gay people.I recall once when Chris Brown called someone a "n word and a f*g" but he only apologize for the latter.

    The way Blacks have allowed Liberals to co-opt you into more or less being submissive is a shame....

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    Good ?

  • mzwhang90210

    I read awhile back that yt girls were doing that in college...just to be able to say they were virgins.
    Booty love!!!

  • MissHarlem

    You see why that field needs you

  • nucynu25

    Nah , I don't do that far ...he only 2 .

  • Missy

    Yw!

  • MissHarlem

    Gave my love down yonder. ??

  • mzwhang90210

    Why am I in tears at sex with a boar???
    *DEAD*
    *DEADER*
    *DEADEST*

  • mzwhang90210
  • Let’s Play

    Since someone loves to bring up black women being second in HIV infections, let's look at the formula that makes this happen. Shall we? 1.Gay "fun time" is more prone to acquire it due to booty... 2. Some black men enjoy gay "fun time" but can't admit it due to stigma/shame... 3. Those same black men get a gf/wife to "fit in" but then still do it on the low to avoid the stigma/shame... Simple Solution - Stop shaming or trying to make those black men be something they are not. Wouldn't women rather date a true straight man vs. someone pretending to be because of reasons above? I don't get it... #endRant

  • MissHarlem

    Had to show you some love. I misseded you ?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Yep. But I heard of some Black ones who did it, too. I know some today who admit they love anal. Black Twitter...

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    LMAO! I've read so many good things on the blog about a "boomerang." I've never had the privilege of trying one. Next best thing has to be that index finger that's curved. O to the M to the LAWD. Tears were streaming...

    I really have to start being nice to these men. Lol

  • shun king

    The men having sex and catching aids from transsexuals and other men and giving aids to women

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    She had too much time on her hands. Nasty heifer. She was yt - European. No surprise.

  • hottlanta

    THIS JUST IN. WHERE IS TRUMP WALL TO KEEP HER OUT. GOT THE NERVE TO WRITE A BOOK ON HER LIES
    +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
    Emmett Till’s Accuser Admits She Lied About Claims That Led To His Murder

    “Nothing that boy did could ever justify what happened to him,” Till’s accuser admits in a new book.

    The woman who accused 14-year-old Emmet Till of flirting with her in 1955 revealed for the first time that those claims were fabricated.

    Vanity Fair reports that Timothy Tyson, the author of a new book titled The Blood of Emmett Till, spoke with Carolyn Bryant Donham, who was 21-years-old when she accused Till of making verbal and physical advances towards her. Donham’s claims against Till enraged two white men, J.W. Milam and his half-brother Roy Bryant, who abducted and murdered Till three nights later, leaving his body bludgeoned, bruised and left at the bottom of the Tallahatchie River in Mississippi.

    Donham’s claims against Till enraged two white men, J.W. Milam and his half-brother Roy Bryant, who were both acquitted by an all-white, all-male jury. They later admitted to their crime in a story for Look magazine, for which they were compensated $3,000. Donham, who is now 82, testified at the trial. Her testimony further criminalized Till, whose humanity meant little to the jury of white men charged with seeking justice for a young black man accused of whistling at a white woman.

    However, as Donham revealed to Tyson in his new book: “That part’s not true.”

    “Nothing that boy did could ever justify what happened to him,” she said.

    Donham, who told Tyson that she couldn’t recall what happened during the remainder of the evening, took the stand during the trial and claimed she was “scared to death” in the moments that Till approached her. According to Vanity Fair:

    She had asserted that Till had grabbed her and verbally threatened her. She said that while she was unable to utter the “unprintable” word he had used (as one of the defense lawyers put it), “he said [he had]’”—done something – “with white women before.’” Then she added, “I was just scared to death.” A version of her damning allegation was also made by the defendant’s lawyers to reporters. (The jury did not hear Carolyn’s words because the judge had dismissed them from the courtroom while she spoke, ruling that her testimony was not relevant to the actual murder. But the court spectators heard her, and her testimony was put on the record because the defense wanted her words as evidence in a possible appeal in the event that the defendants were convicted.)

    Tyson is the first author to interview Donham, who actually approached Tyson initially because she was writing her memoirs ? which reportedly will not be released until 2036. According to Vanity Fair, Donham’s daughter enjoyed Tyson’s earlier book titled Blood Does Sign My Name, which focuses on another tragic murder provoked by race.

    Vanity Fair reports that Donham didn’t “officially repent” for her actions by attempting to join racial justice groups for example but she did admit to feeling “tender sorrow” for Till’s mother, Mamie Till-Mobley, who died in 2003 and had committed her life to relentlessly fighting for civil rights.

    “When Carolyn herself [later] lost one of her sons, she thought about the grief that Mamie must have felt and grieved all the more,” Tyson reportedly wrote in his book.

    Tyson’s book, which is to be published next week, is sure to reveal more about Donham’s actions but she, along with those who came to her defense, have already written a dark part of history that cost an innocent young black boy his life. We must never forget.

  • klwbaby

    I remember that case but don't remember that particular person. But I do remember they were trying to say she was a gold digger and only got pregnant to trap a football player...

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I had to Google her, but the name that comes up is Bodil Joensen. She was Danish. She had the audacity to run an animal farm. *deep sigh*

  • hottlanta

    I went to a party and it eventually turned to women talking about sex and when they young girls started talking about anal sex as if they were ordering off a menu I had to stop it and tell them what the hell are yall doing. if you doing that from 20-30 you gonna be walking around wearing a depends diaper. one said they do it for special occasions. I said dear a special occasion is getting dressed up, going out dancing, a good meal or a gift. When a special occasion gets to be bottoms up we have a problem.

  • hottlanta

    I took my babies to family planning clinics when they were teenagers so they could talk to women just like your mom instead of learning about sex and their bodies from their friends and learn that just saying no isn't enough.

  • Oliver Brady

    And speaking of getting pricked. Word on the curb is brenden is still looking to procreate? Remember that keeping your legs closed is honorable, but closed legs don't get fed. And a hole that's dormant for too long is likely to close shut? It happened with my nose ring? Anyhoo, if you want a baby, consider brenden maybe? His new campaign slogan?

  • Oliver Brady

    You eat ass?

  • mzwhang90210

    Log off Fendi. You just caused me to cackle with that last sentence. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b029c76378ea5eb0d17be0ae40b316f329298b08b0b47105020d3c5aaea4a82e.gif

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I'm not mad at her. A guy gave me his number once. He had a strange first name. I ran a Google search on him to find that years ago, he was on the FBI's 10 Most Wanted List - #1 in his former state of residence. That was all I needed to see to know we would never talk again.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I swear she did! She ran an animal farm! One of her films was titled "Animal Farm." Her story is both sick and sad.

  • Victoria Williams

    Somebody run this heaux over!

  • Lisa daniels

    Charlie Sheen

  • Victoria Williams

    I tell the truth!! Doesn't make sense to lie about numbers...hell.who cares

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    I always say I think my hymen regenerated. Lol. It wouldn't have taken much.

    I love his slogan, btw. My buddy. He is going to be a dad sure enough.

  • Oliver Brady

    @Carolinabew Wesley Snipes told me to tell yo daughter he said hi?
    https://instagram.com/p/BPyenmXDNaQ/

  • Scromes1212

    Kelly don't want them problems lol That community don't play. At all.

  • mzwhang90210

    New post! Auntie is working late tonight!

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    So, if I'm reading this correctly, women are to blame for men not being open about their sexuality? ?

    We're adults. Why would anyone care about someone "shaming" them when they're secure within themselves and not ashamed of their actions/lifestyle choices? ?

  • https://twitter.com/Chicagowise Chicagowise

    Too funny! ?

    That would have been hilarious, if that were the case. I'm pushing 50. Sometimes, it takes me a minute to realize when someone is checking me out.

  • Let’s Play

    Nah.. I'm not blaming women.. Just church and culture as a whole... It's clearly taught to us that gay is wrong constantly, feel me?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    For all the years I've gone to church, I don't ever recall homosexuals being singled out. But the Word states that man is not supposed to lay down with man and woman is not supposed to lay down with a woman. People know this. If they don't think they're doing anything wrong, why would they feel guilty? Feel me?

  • Let’s Play

    I disagree on the "not singled out" part... I think the gay sin is till looked down upon like murder... but then it also says "no sin is greater than another". I think the biggest thing that is still misunderstood is that people don't choose to be that way.. It's like saying incest is immoral, but we wouldn't be here without it if you follow the Bible's timeline. If there was just Adam and Eve at the beginning, some incest had to happen at some point to procreate.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Incest is immoral when you have billions of people on earth to procreate with who are not of your bloodlines.

    Some people were born having an attraction to the opposite sex. Some people are "curious" and act based on curiosity. Some were abused and it impacted their views of sex and sexuality. It varies. People act like procreation isn't significant. We are supposed to keep adding branches to the tree of life. We can't do that in same-sex relationships. I understand your points, tho.

  • Peter Piper ATL

    I actually don't fault anybody for asking their partner about their sexual past.

    But how honest of an answer are you expecting to get is the real question?

  • Let’s Play

    True. I get your points too. Thanks for good responses. I found it interesting that procreation was limited in China to 2 children I don't think that gays pose a problem to procreation since it's a smaller percentage than you may think. perhaps gays help prevent an overpopulation? hmmm And yes, some people are just curious, if they are, they just need to strap it up

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    The Chinese procreation rule used to be one child per family until a fairly recent increase to two children. I'm not sure how overpopulation became such an issue there. It may be related to contraception or a lack thereof.

    I remember reading about Russia years ago. There was no contraception for many years. I cannot remember if it was outlawed. Some Russian women literally had 60-70 abortions as a result. I cannot imagine...

    We are so blessed. Thank you for presenting a respectful opposing viewpoint. It is most refreshing.

  • digital_femme

    Kelly Rowland is pretty, but she'd be even prettier without the middle part in her hair. It elongates her face which isn't necessary because she already has a nice bone structure. Show off those cheekbones!

  • Jay

    As long as it ok for a man to ask the same to a woman . And hopefully she won't lie.

  • Let’s Play

    Yes. Same to you. Your responses actually make sense. Nice to see that on here. Speaking of procreation, i wonder how things will be if Trump gets to make abortions illegal.. hmmm

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    He is working on it. Little does he know, it will adversely impact girls and women who look like his wives and daughters more than it will the poor Black girls and women in the "inner cities." Lol

  • Let’s Play

    lol u spilled tea, but I think it will affect both. I'm not sure of the numbers, so I can't give specifics.. But back to the HIV thing, if abortion is illegal, do you think more women would practice safe sex as a result? that could reduce disease rates as well... hmmmm...

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Women should practice safe sex regardless of what is legal or illegal re: abortions. Even safe sex doesn't always prevent pregnancy or certain STDs (herpes). Some protection is better than none at all. I won't play Russian roulette with my body.

  • Hmmm~?

    Does it really matter if a woman you're pursuing has slept with another woman?

  • Hmmm~?

    I'm sure karma has been a very good friend of hers. Her son passing was nothing but karma.

  • Hmmm~?

    Oversimplifying. There are numerous dynamics and factors as to why people choose to hide their sexuality, and it has nothing to do with being confident in ones self. What OP is trying to say, is that the rampant homophobia within the black community directly contributes to the prevalence of DL culture, which contributes to the high amount of HIV/AIDS.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    We already established what they meant and we've moved on. Thank you.

  • Hmmm~?

    Oops, my bad.

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    It's all good. I appreciate the response because I don't consider you being anything but being well meaning. The OP and I had a difference of perspective sans conflict. That is rare here! Lol

    Respect.

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    Smells like that same old political correctness again. Nobody wants the the "the gays" to be mad at them. I'm so sick of people being scared to offend the LGBT/QRST/LMNOP community.

  • tintin

    She clearly caught that episode of insecure

  • Let’s Play

    Yup... everyone should practice it, not just women... U don't know where his dingaling been right?

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    Probably everywhere there's a hole. Lifesavers, donuts, Cheerios... You name it!

  • Jay

    Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If a woman calls a man who had a sexual experience with a man a faggot then a woman who has did the same is a lesbian.If you shoot some one with a 9 mm or a shot gun is there a difference ? You still shot them. If a woman Robs a bank or a man is there a difference ? If a man is a chef or a woman is there a difference ?They are both Chefs. Woman do not get passes for being lesbian.

  • Anunnaki

    WXY AND Z...

  • Anunnaki

    AND SHE STILL FCKING BREATHING.

  • Let’s Play

    if you can fit into a lifesaver or cherio, i feel bad for you son ... lol

  • Fendi aka Erin Blockabitch

    "I got 99 problems but a small dxck ain't one, hit me!" Lol

    I'm a woman, btw.

  • misty blue

    @hottlanta thank you.

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao???

  • Carolina Blue

    Lmao???

  • New Born Edomite

    Dating black hoes is a choice in 2017..you bitter bytches better take what you can get, or lick some puzzy

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    If a woman I'm thinking of marrying has had lesbian tendencies or a lesbian/bisexual past, that's something I'd want to know.

  • ?Patty Kakes?

    Me too!!! They act like staright people owe them something. People have the right to their opinion just as they have the right to be gay. I wish they would stop thinking everybody's trying to hurt or discredit them. I love gay people and they are fun to be around but thats the one thing that I hate. No one should have to walk on egg shells because of you and I say that with all the respect I have

  • Mr. LeBrick James

    And it's pretty clear She wasn't just speaking of that "fictional character in the film". it's obvious she's talking about how people in general, in the real world, should handle that type of situation.The quote speaks for itself:

    “There are some women who are not finding the real truth about their partner’s sexuality until they go through their man’s phones,” says Rowland. “But it happens with guys too, not just women.I can’t tell someone how to feel about dating someone who is bisexual or had a past gay experience, but it’s proper to ask in today’s times.”"

    You ain't got to lie, Kelly. You said it, you meant it, so just own it.

  • T3

    ????

  • LibraGirlonly

    You must be really proud of yourself you self hating ninja. Kelly is right in the money.

  • https://sandrarose.com SandraRose

    I wasn't planning on doing a post, no. I spoke to my family back home in Clapham. They say they can't wait until the Trumps visit London.

  • OSHH

    These are necessay questions these days and please gauge the whole response body language and all.

  • BlueHousen

    No one should dictate how you do your life and take care of it. For whatever your are, you better verify the sex history of your partner before you have sex with them. You ask the questions straight out. You then make a decision for "your life and your health." Screw what anybody thinks. It's not them catching some deadly disease. Her mistake was saying "straight people." Should have said all adults and potential partners, so her comment would have been less inclusive. Sick of the faux outrage.

  • nick c

    I lie to your face and say 3 come on lol.

  • nick c

    Yes it means she's crazy and conflicted.

  • nick c

    OK go ahead and tell us?

  • Lorenzo Chaps

    Crazy. I don't put my mouth on just anybody's body parts.

  • New Born Edomite

    Phuck you and everything you stand for

  • WiserWords2

    Because that's not the only way one can get the virus that causes AIDS. The better question would be "Would you mind swabbing the inside of your mouth with this cotton swab?"
    /"

  • BlueHousen

    Yes people lie unfortunately. The question is reserved in meaningful real relationships prior to getting physical. One night standers know the risks.

  • TawnyDelux

    whats wrong with that?

  • Simone

    Political Correctness is killing this country. Destiny's Child group name was pulled from the Bible by Tina Knowles. Kelly Rowland is a Christian but supports the LBGT...oh now Q too community and it's offensive to question a man about his sexual past?!

  • YES I SAID IT…

    I don't see nothing she said was wrong! If I was back in the dating scene, U damn right umma ask my could be new partner if he has ever been with the same s*x, its only smart to ask anyone who U might end up being involved with abou their past relationships just as well as they should ask you.

  • S. Williams

    I loved that storyline in the movie bc it's a dialogue that people need to have. I'm tired of the double standard that women can be bi and choose to settle with one or the other sex but men have to be straight or gay! the fact that his character chose to be with her in spite of his past attraction PLUS he was honest with her "yea I saw myself with a man but I love you" idk people do need to ask regardless tho bc men have insecurities too about their bi women leaving them for a woman

  • WackaBlocka

    I think what she suggested is very intelligent ... people don't think to ask these questions

  • Liah

    Good question....I'm going to start asking too....U never know these days...REAL TALK!