EDITED: to correct the quote.

So it's all over the Internets that producer Swizz Beats' wife Mashonda is all but accusing Alicia Keys of taking her man. I ignored this story the first time around because it was rumors and conjecture and you know we here at Sandrarose.com hold ourselves to a higher standard than that.

But now that Mashonda has come out and said in so many words, "that b*tch stole my man!", it's given the story front page status - at least in the hood.

But let's turn our attention to Alicia Keys. She never fooled me. It's a gift that I have to cut through the bulls*t to be able to spot a skank a mile away. And they know it too. We already know from experience that AK likes light skin funny looking men. So it should come as no surprise that she and Swizz Beats hooked up.

One of her reps at her record label once pleaded with me to leave Alicia alone. The rep's reasoning was, "she's so nice. She's the sweetest person I know." But aren't they all nice and sweet? Isn't that how they get your man?

Isn't it the extra nice sweet ones that you have to worry about? They work their way into your lives with all that sweet talk, making you think they're your best friend and would do anything for you and your kids - when their real target is your man.

And once she gets your man, she's not so nice any more, right? She hangs up on you when you call your man to ask about that late child support check. And you're left holding the phone feeling stupid and used. Talking 'bout, "I didn't know... she seemed so nice and sweet!"

So why are we shocked and awed that a man couldn't turn down a beautiful woman like Alicia Keys? We are talking about a man, right? Mashonda's first big mistake was trusting a beautiful woman around her man. I keep telling y'all: ain't no man on earth turning down a beautiful woman unless he's gay, comatose or on life support. Keep fooling yourselves.

But in that respect, I guess God made women dumb as rocks for a reason. Because if women were smart enough to catch on at the first sign that their men were cheating - man as a species would be extinct. Dinosaurs would still be roaming the earth in 2008.

In a recent magazine interview, Mashonda said this about Alicia Keys,

She's her own woman and she has made her own choices. I don't have a problem with her. I wall say this though, I am not a scorned woman.

I beg to differ, Mashonda, queen of the jungle. If you were not scorned you wouldn't have left him. If you were not scorned you wouldn't be giving interviews.

We know that you are scorned just like we know you didn't take your kids and leave quietly into that gentle night. We know you did some damage to a few of Swizz Beats' prized vehicles. But considering the damage he did to your heart - it all balanced itself out.

Thanks to loyal reader Tye Jackson for the tip!

  • licia

    i find it hard to believe that of all people alicia could do something like this, but in this day and age anything is possible. i hope it's not true though .

  • tdl74767

    I don't know about this........

  • brwnsugga4you

    this is a d*mn mess. not sure yet if i believe alicia keys did swizzy...i need more information. anyway...i'm sure this was the first time swizzy has cheated. that's the d*mn problem...stop letting your man get away with being a dog and you continue to take it. ladies...stop being desperate for a man. be comfortable with you. stop telling your co-workers when they ask about him that he's working...when he dropped your azz off at work..in your d*mn car...took your d*mn bank card...and kicked it for the day. i could type on and on about this sh*t but i'm not..cause i know i'm going to be in time-out!!!

  • browni007

    Dayum, I hope this aint true b/c then Alicia needs to get the bizness and quick - cant stand a B&tch that allows a weak man to cheat! I feeling it for Mashonda

  • http://www.myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

    but he has a the face of a chihuaha..or however you spell it..yeeech

  • browni007

    oops I'm feeling it

  • Sharonda

    Alicia?A home wrecker?So out her character, but then again this is her public persona to portray a nice, sweet woman.I don't know what to think of it.

  • Kymystry

    Sandra Says: Isn’t it the extra nice sweet ones that you have to worry about? They work their way into your lives with all that sweet talk, making you think they’re your best friend and would do anything for you and your kids - when their real target is your man.:
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    Is that the truth ... That happened to me .. my former bestfriend/sister-gurl is now Married to my ex ..but I let it Go I had to .. Needed to move on with MY life so I wouldn't be bitter and scorned ....

  • http://notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com 2thick4u

    I think she need more people!!!

  • brwnsugga4you

    Kymystry Says: Is that the truth … That happened to me .. my former bestfriend/sister-gurl is now Married to my ex ..but I let it Go I had to .. Needed to move on with MY life so I wouldn’t be bitter and scorned ….

    ~~~i know you just wanted to beat her d*mn azz....glad you were mature enough to walk away..that's crazy...~~~~

  • ggouch

    I thought Keys liked women...I am out of the loop...who (men) has she ever dated? and if she likes them "light skin funny looking men." then why are most of her love interest in her videos dark skinned....or was that to throw us off track.
    To say the least, I don't believe it...as a matter of fact I'd prefer to believe the rumor of her being gay before I believe the rumor she broke up a marriage.

  • ggouch

    Why does the baby in "Beats" arm have a grown man's face?...LMAO...I'm just saying...I love the kids though

  • Kymystry

    @ brownsugga ... Gurl you KNOW I did ... I was HOT as FISH Grease when I found out ... Then .. THEN .. that heffa told me she WASN'T goin to loose me as a friend ... and I didn't have the RIGHT to NOT be her friend .... Chile ... I was THANKFUL we lived in different states .... whooo ... lol

  • MOCHAMOMMY

    I think every woman has taken a man from someone at one point in their life. Kindergarten, high school or adult life, whether it was intentional or not, it still happened. I dont put anything past AK because she is human. Talented or not, she wants a man who is able to make her laugh & provide. However, she had no right dealing with a married man.

    Sandra, u sound like an old scorned aunt who's husband came to Thanksgiving dinner with the next door neighbor. All men are not dogs!!! I hate to be the millionth person to break it to u. Why dont u ever post good men? TI is a good rapper but he's sad it himself that he cant be faithful to one woman. Talk about LaDainian, Blair & Santana Moss... Men who provide for their families & never get caught up with foolishness.

    Contrary to what u think, Sandra, some men cherish their mates & wont do anything to jeopardize what God has given them. Unfortunately, Swizz Beats wasnt one of those men.

  • Kymystry

    Preach MOCHAMOMMY ... PREACH !

  • VAALLDAY

    MOCHAMOMMY you are on it girl. But I just can't believe that Alicia Keys would mess with Tucan Sam.

  • brwnsugga4you

    MOCHAMOMMY Says:

    ~~~and now let the church say...AMEN....AMEN!!!~~~

  • http://www.smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

    When Alicia Keys first came out she was as cocky as Kanye West, but she changed overnight. When she won her first Grammy she was all in the camera talking real greasy... When she performed for the Essense Festival before Katrina, she came on the stage like a Prima Donna. In short, Alicia Keys was a B*TCH before someone told her to tone it down. Now she's full of fake smiles and "positivity". Alicia Keys and her basic songs don't fool me.

  • http://myspace.com/birminghamblaze Dani

    How is it possible to steal a man from somebody? If you can come into a man's life and develop some form of a relationship with him (if that's what you want to call it) then obviously he was never completely invested in his marriage from the start. How are people going to talk bad about A. Keys if she was dealing with this man but not have anything to say about him. Excuse me but he is married not Keys. Yes it's wrong to deal with married men but everybody is human and ish happens. He needs to be getting put on blast for stepping out if this rumor is true.

  • Sharonda

    ^ Both of them need to be put on blast if this is indeed true.

  • http://www.smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

    And we aren't talking about Swizz Beats because in our eyes, he's irrelevant. He's JUST Swizz Beats. It is understood that he was a wrong, stupid, naive dirty dog. We are discussing AK because everyone is surprised at her character. We know the n*gga aint right.

  • missmiami

    I don't trust women period......... End of story. Shit, I don't trust my damn self, lol. So I dont put it past Alicia. Women are fucking scandolous

  • MOCHAMOMMY

    So, Dani, have u messed with a married man? Or have u developed a relationship with someone knowing that they were with another woman? That, to me, is triffling and karma has ur number....

    I took plenty of BOYFRIENDS (never a husband, I do not play with God) & next thing I know, I go on my "boyfriend's" myspace page & there's tagged pics of him kissin Becky in March!!! My birthday month!!! After that, I learned to find my own man & be honest with myself in with what I wanted (& needed) in a real man. Alicia talks about women & being real, she needs to start with herself (not Mashonda's husband)

  • http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

    Damn Alicia thats a bit trifflin...
    @ Kymystry I feel your pain boo...the same thing had happened to me about 3 years ago.

    @ Sandra I agree it's always those "shes so sweet",shes like a sister or worst your so called "best friend" that do it you, with friends like that who needs enemies

  • http://myspace.com/birminghamblaze Dani

    all men are not bad

  • JustSaying

    Well, I will say this; you can't get what don't want to be got. Swizz I am sure cheated before else his wife would not be going off like she is. My thing is this don't blame it ALL on AK because it takes 2 to tango. And for the record, I need more people to verify this before I believe it. And even if it is verified I still will have love for Keys. She is not the first one to date a married man and won't be the last. Movin on....

  • tintin

    wow. alicia is a bad girl. plus dont' she got a man. but it goes to show, she's not gay like everyone thinks.

  • toosexy

    hoes, hoes, theirs no excuse for dating or seeing a married man, for one he will never be yours, and secondly he will never respect you TRULY as a woman, if his wife leaves him and he comes to you he still will never respect you in the back of his mind he know what you are capable of doing , also i have never stole anybody's man, and i have had men who have tried to sneak on me, i am a firm believer in not screwing my friends, family or anothers womans man. i respect my self more than that to be anybody's second or peice of ass ,that's just me , but like i said if more woman would stop being so easy and desperate and have a little more respect for themselves men would not have so much leverage, and get to do all this shit. plus i bet when alicia ass gets married and that karma shit kick in, she gonna see how that shit feels, and you also can steal somebodys man, cuz if a woman finds out and she leaves you are the reason( and of course him) but if you knew he was involved then you did steal him,you do have a choice, men are not like woman just cuz he cheated in most cases does not mean he doesn't love or want to be with his wife, but a man can totally sleep with woman and have no feelings.

  • toosexy

    oh, I am not sure about alicia I hope not, but i have seen woman that are really triffling and nasty so i wouldn't be surprised but i hope not!

  • JustSaying

    ^^^@tintin ; LOL, so true

  • http://myspace.com/birminghamblaze Dani

    @Mochamommy
    I unfortunatly got involved in a situation with someone who is married. I didn't know in the beggining. I actually didn't know for a while. Once I found out my feelings were very much invested. I don't think people should date married men or men in commited relationships. It's very wrong, however I know in my situation that my heart wouldn't let me do what my head told me I should. That is only human.

  • brwnsugga4you

    Kymystry Says:

    @ brownsugga … Gurl you KNOW I did … I was HOT as FISH Grease when I found out … Then .. THEN .. that heffa told me she WASN’T goin to loose me as a friend … and I didn’t have the RIGHT to NOT be her friend …. Chile … I was THANKFUL we lived in different states …. whooo … lol

    ~~~see that's what i mean about b*tches...can't stand their azz'z. good thing you werent around the corner from her..cause i know you would have been in jail for tapping that azz..as she deserved.~~~

    ~~~question to the ladies - if you have a girlfriend and a male platonic friend...and all of you guys go out...your girlfriend takes it upon herself to kick it with your male platonic friend (right)...not knowing any details about your friendship (we all know friends get busy sometime) anywhoo...as a friend isn't it her place to ask you about him before she tries to hook up with him????~~~

  • toosexy

    @brownsugga4u I think the friend should,unless you have made it perfectly clear that yall weren't like that, but a real friend would be able to tell if you were digging the guy and just haven't admitted it yet, but i would ask for sure and make sure that it was perfectly ok with my friend and knowing me i would still be reluctant to even start something because feelings really began to show when the person becomes involved especially with your friend even if you told the friend it was cool.

  • MOCHAMOMMY

    Damn, Dani... I'm sorry to hear that. But thats what I meant that it can sometimes be unintentional. Sometimes we just dont know these men are involved (not speaking about AK now cuz she knew he was married). Men can be very convincing & conniving to the point where there are NO signs. Sandra needs to be more realistic & understand that we cant ignore signs that arent there (IE phone calls, trips, text messages, gifts, family reunions, quality time all the time, etc)

  • MOCHAMOMMY

    Brwnsugga, I dont think she needs to ASK u, but telling u about it would be respectful

  • http://www.myspace.com/millyly milly

    brwnsugga4you Says:
    ~~~question to the ladies - if you have a girlfriend and a male platonic friend…and all of you guys go out…your girlfriend takes it upon herself to kick it with your male platonic friend (right)…not knowing any details about your friendship (we all know friends get busy sometime) anywhoo…as a friend isn’t it her place to ask you about him before she tries to hook up with him????~~~

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    She should have asked you first you're right ...but if people these days will stoop as low as stealing someone's husband they aint gon ask for permission to get with your friend

  • brwnsugga4you

    toosexy Says: MOCHAMOMMY Says:

    thanks ladies!!!

  • licia

    Contrary to what u think, Sandra, some men cherish their mates & wont do anything to jeopardize what God has given them. Unfortunately, Swizz Beats wasnt one of those men.
    ^^ BOWS DOWN TO MOCHAMOMMY.

  • Kymystry

    @browsugga .. you friend should Definately check with you ...

  • MOCHAMOMMY

    Ok i misunderstood the question... Yes, she should ask u to get the linguistics (sp) of ur friendship. Did u go out, kiss, hook up before she makes a move on him. If she didnt do that, then she's wrong

  • http://www.myspace.com/msmeka2cute Mz_Magnificent1

    Damn Sandra you broke down the scenario perfectly...but thats true.

    I hate to be honest but I know some chicks I'm cool with that are the sweetest chicas in your face...and the next thing you know after she down smiling in ya grill, she slippin ya boo her number.

    Shyt, its happened to me b4 too...except I caught the trick in action lol. I didn't say shyyt at the moment...I just took my boo's Blackberry and deleted that shyyt ASAP, then told him later on I knew about her trife-azz and kept that trick away from mines.

    Maybe thats why Tiny be following T.I. all over the country...I'm not surprised if Alicia did screw Swizz too.

  • brwnsugga4you

    thanks ladies..that's what i thought. the sh*t just happened to me. i was like d*mn how you going to exchange #'s with my friend without seeing if anything is going on with us...then she called him to meet her out. what's real shady is that she didn't call me to meet them out. shady b*tches...lol.

  • shhhh

    Listen, Alicia doesn't owe this woman anything. Nobody knows the facts. For all we know this guy could've been telling her he was no longer with his bm.

    At the end of the day, the only person that owes Mashanda an explaination is her man. NOT Alicia Keys. They were not friends.

    It's amazing that anyone could spin this story to blame Alicia. It would be different if he was married to this woman, but he wasn't. This should be a lesson to woman that sit up and have babies and give men the best years of their life, yet have nothing to show for it. At the drop of a dime that man could leave you and there isn't a damn thing you can do. He could've been laid up with you the night before and the next day telling the next woman you guys aren't together.

    People need to start taking responsiblity for their own actions and stop blaming everyone for their mishaps and poor choices.

  • gemini83

    See this is why I could care less about about having female friends. Females are SCANDOLOUS. Sh*t, I'd rather kick it by myself and stay to myself most of the time. The only women that I trust are my mother and grandmothers. Men are just as wrong. I guess you really can't count on anyone but the Lord. But in my opinion you really can't take anyone else's man, he really wasn't yours to begin with. At least that's what is on his mind. He is your man and a couple of others as well.

    Not all men are dogs though and not all women are scandolous,just the majority. My motto is: Why are men and dog best friends? Answer: Because they are the same species.

  • http://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Smokie Says:

    When Alicia Keys first came out she was as ****y as Kanye West, but she changed overnight. When she won her first Grammy she was all in the camera talking real greasy… When she performed for the Essense Festival before Katrina, she came on the stage like a Prima Donna. In short, Alicia Keys was a B*TCH before someone told her to tone it down. Now she’s full of fake smiles and “positivity”. Alicia Keys and her basic songs don’t fool me.

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    PREEEACH! :)

  • knockkey

    @ Sandra Rose that classic ,we hold ourselve to a higher standard. You the one posting Ciara & 50 like my girl would ever date a clown always puting black female on blast. Let wait for Alicia to do rumor control.

  • http://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Dani Says:

    @Mochamommy
    I unfortunatly got involved in a situation with someone who is married. I didn’t know in the beggining. I actually didn’t know for a while. Once I found out my feelings were very much invested. I don’t think people should date married men or men in commited relationships. It’s very wrong, however I know in my situation that my heart wouldn’t let me do what my head told me I should. That is only human.

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    You should put it all in a letter and mail it to his wife anonymously. That will serve 2 purposes: 1) your conscience will be clear, and 2) his wife will know what a dirty dog she's married to. :)

  • blu_mango

    Is akeys trying to fool us with that men crap? She loves WOMEN. End of story.

  • http://www.sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    MOCHAMOMMY Says:

    Sandra needs to be more realistic & understand that we cant ignore signs that arent there (IE phone calls, trips, text messages, gifts, family reunions, quality time all the time, etc)

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    That's why God gave females sharper instincts. The signs are ALWAYS there. Men are not that smart about concealing the signs especially in the heat of the pursuit. It's your fault if you ignore the signs to protect your ego.

  • ggouch

    ~~~question to the ladies - if you have a girlfriend and a male platonic friend…and all of you guys go out…your girlfriend takes it upon herself to kick it with your male platonic friend (right)…not knowing any details about your friendship (we all know friends get busy sometime) anywhoo…as a friend isn’t it her place to ask you about him before she tries to hook up with him????~~~
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    YES!! with out a doubt..Especially if she is not CLEAR on the dynamics of your relationship.
    True Story: Two friends. friend One meets this guy...they have great phone conversation...they decide to meet... friend one ask the friend two to go with her...they go...friend one is shyer than friend two...conversation in person has lost it's steam and friend two carries most of the conversation. Friend two ends up in the dudes bedroom, while friend one waits in his living room with his homeboys who are playing Playstation. You can hear friend two loud and clear.....How is that for BITCH

  • prynsexxx

    Kymmestry said:

    my former bestfriend/sister-gurl is now Married to my ex
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    They had been humpin' the whole time you and him were together, believe that!
    ____________________________________________

    #31 Dani said:

    I unfortunatly got involved in a situation with someone who is married. I didn’t know in the beggining. I actually didn’t know for a while.
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    I don't know why you didn't. Girl boo. There are always signs. For one, did you EVER go to HIS house. I've dated men for several months before they even KNEW where I lived.

    I will investigate a nigga from day one! I mean that. You have to ask questions. I don't mean the lil simple "where yo' girl at" questions. I mean whats your name, age, b-date, mama's, daddies, brother's, sisters, names. Where do you work? Do you have any kids? Did you grow up here? If not, where? What school (high school (if your into that sorta thing) and/or college) did you graduate from. Check out the ride as well. If he leaves you in the car, check the glove box. A real quick glance, can give you everything you need to know. Don't trip. Life is too damn short to be "investing" time into something that you ain't ready to handle.

    I like the saying:

    Cover ya' ass first, rather than ya' coochie!

  • prynsexxx

    @SANDRA

    LOL I DIDN'T READ YOUR COMMENT.

    BUT "FIST BUMP" SISTA, FIST BUMP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • NYCUTIE

    Kymystry Says:

    Sandra Says: Isn’t it the extra nice sweet ones that you have to worry about? They work their way into your lives with all that sweet talk, making you think they’re your best friend and would do anything for you and your kids - when their real target is your man.:
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    Is that the truth … That happened to me .. my former bestfriend/sister-gurl is now Married to my ex ..but I let it Go I had to .. Needed to move on with MY life so I wouldn’t be bitter and scorned ….
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    That hussy!! She wanted to be you all along.. Jealous Biyatch!

  • MOCHAMOMMY

    Sandra says: You should put it all in a letter and mail it to his wife anonymously. That will serve 2 purposes: 1) your conscience will be clear, and 2) his wife will know what a dirty dog she’s married to

    **How many lives have u ruined? U sound like the epitome of a woman scorned giving advice to her best friend**

  • London Marie

    I'm in shock right now. I need to read this interview Mashonda did first.. before i make assumptions about my Alicia.

  • NYCUTIE

    A lot of woman are so happy to be with a cute man that they believe all of the BS and look past the obvious. The signs are ALWAYS there, some women choose to ignore them..

    As for Swizzy, that is my dude! He was in LOVE with my friend not only because she was good looking but because she wasn't interested.. That boy loves to advertise his eating p**sy skills. Mashonda knew how he was before they got together... Swizzy is ALWAYS in the studio and he definitely has women in there with him.. Dudes in the industry ARE NOT worth marrying AT ALL!! Women wake up!

  • http://necolebitchie.com Necole Bitchie

    Ok wait Sandra. One minute Alicia Keys is gay, the next minute she's stealing men. I need to know what's really good in the hood

    Let's just put an end to all this and just say Mashonda, Swizz and Alicia was getting that three way action in

    lawd!

  • brwnsugga4you

    ggouch Says:

    omg!!! are you serious??? see that's why these women shop up to work with black eyes and sh*t...lol.

  • intensemocha

    Wow, so much dialogue about a rumor.......

    alicia keyes last I heard was in a relationship and was seen recently at a public appearance with her man, and it was said awhile ago that he and his wife were having problems-only they know what their issues were maybe things were over long-time ago and the man has just moved on-which he is entitled to do

    ladies we don't like it but if a man doesn't want you anymore no matter how hurt you are or how many kids you have together he has the right to move on & you have no other choice than to accept it, the problem lies with you if you feel that he owes you just because you dealt with his trife ways for so long-& you think he owes it to you to stay w u-unfortunately a man rarely respects a doormat

    marriage to some is not sacred, I know several men around the neighborhood who marry their long-time girlfriend/baby mama because she is the one who remains faithful/loyal to him despite his cheating ways-and for that she believes that the world moreso "hoes" should respect her and her marriage-why should anyone respect your marriage or you for that matter more than your very own husband?

    and yes i know plenty of faithful husbands as well most of them are older and attend my church and you can see the love and respect they have for their wives based on their BEHAVIOR there not good in their wives faces and soon as she's out of sight tricking with the next chick-

    when it's all said and done it's nobody's responsibility to make sure YOUR husband remains faithful to YOU-because there will always be someone who is willing to sleep with him-but he's the only one can make the ultimate decision to cheat

  • katgirl33

    MochaMommy said:

    TI is a good rapper but he’s sad it himself that he cant be faithful to one woman.
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    I think u are right, I heard on the radio this past Monday that he and Mariah had a creep move while filming her new video...she left the set first,then he, they both came back with funny looks/grins on their faces.....

    I wonder if it's true.....

  • katgirl33

    Oh yeah....they was in Hawaii......

  • miamore73

    How do we know she likes light skinned men??? First folks are saying she's gay and then wasn't she with that old fat brown skinned brotha when she first came out. I'm completely confused.

    Swizz Beats wife should be happy she took his mud duck looking self. I guess money doesn't help everyone. Damn imagine what he would look like broke.

  • Sharonda

    True, some women know the signs but ignore because they so in love.It must be hard?

  • http://www.myspace.com/msmeka2cute Mz_Magnificent1

    LMAO this has turned into one big all women unite post!!!

    Only on Sandrarose.com....damn I love this site!!! Ya'll are the best posters ever...kisses to all the strong, positive misses who post here!!! :-)

  • prynsexxx

    #63 said:

    some women know the signs but ignore because they so in love
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    You mean so willing. Some women don't realize how much power they have! If it takes a lil time, then so be it! A man will pick over or choose you in minute. Some women make theirselves too readily available. Let'em sweat! Now that I'm older and MUCH MORE wiser, I school and educate these young girls all the time. I let them know: "It is you who makes the decision of who your child's father is going to be." Not his decision but yours. "The only thing he can do is get you pregnant, if YOU let him." "You can't get pregnant by yourself."

    As far as signs go. A person will tell you who they are within your first conversation. All you have to do is sit back and listen, intently! If one too many things flash across your radar, then thats when its up to you and you along to make a decision.

    Hell I start out with "car, job, home". Two out of the three don't cut it. I don't care how you try to mix it up.

    Car, job - no home
    Job, home - no car
    Car, home - no job

    That's coming out of the gate. Meet me or exceed me! If they have those pre-req's then we're on to the next!

  • http://FreshFromTheStreetz.blogspot.com Zuley

    I agree with whoever thought Alicia Keys was a lesbian. I'm out the loop also is this publicity for her to be straight? or is she really feeling Swizz? If this is true noooooo good is coming to her for messing with a married man. She should look at Ashanti's career after she messed with Irv Gotti and Karrine Steffans life. Ladies I don't care how good the man looks if he's married you should be running from him. I know I would.

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  • http://www.crys-thecrystalmethod.blogspot.com/ Crys

    Dani Says:

    @Mochamommy
    I unfortunatly got involved in a situation with someone who is married. I didn’t know in the beggining. I actually didn’t know for a while. Once I found out my feelings were very much invested. I don’t think people should date married men or men in commited relationships. It’s very wrong, however I know in my situation that my heart wouldn’t let me do what my head told me I should. That is only human.

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    You should put it all in a letter and mail it to his wife anonymously. That will serve 2 purposes: 1) your conscience will be clear, and 2) his wife will know what a dirty dog she’s married to.

    NO - ABSOULUTELY NOT - MAN F A LETTER. Dani, this is what you do - send Sandra pictures of the man and his wife, send HER an email (copy Sandra)....then Sandra - post it all for us to see and comment on. that sounds like a much better plan to me! think of how many other women will be liberated by this and ignore the fact about how MUCH ENTERTAINMENT it would provide for me at work.

  • toosexy

    @intensemocha,

    but it is a woman's choice to respect herself and her body, now if a man is married no matter what he is doing to his wife, that doesn't give a woman the right to cheat with him who is the real slut? I mean, is that right to sleep with him and lower your standards just because he does what he do, that brings me back to what i said earlier SOME WOMEN MAKE IT TO EASY FOR THESE MEN. to me really ,he still wifed her(wife) and choose to sleep with woman who allow theirselves to be seconds and ran thru, I blame both, but that woman no matter if she is staying with him, he will get back what he deserves, i hate when people make it seem like the wife is sooooooo stupid but you sleeping with him and believing that bull he telling you, he don't sleep with her, they getting a divorce, or we ain't getting along.oh it for the children, wake up! not every case is the same it is some men who mislead woman and the woman might not know but foreal like somebody said , if you haven't been to his house, or if he never can spend the full night with you. or calls only on specific times of the days, their are signs.

  • toosexy

    oh one more thing she can like coochie and a little wang i mean so that's really irrevelant so people like both!

  • starr

    SHOW ME PROOF MASHONDA!!!!!

    She needs more people. I"m not buying it. For all i know the two of em, could of been hanging out, just friends. Not a crime. Why i say that. You say it ya self about men cheating all the name, sandra. So should i believe this is the FIRST time he cheated on her. Hell no....GTFO. Thats why im not buying.

    Another reason i'm not buying. Throwing a. keys name in there, gives her pub. Shoot, your posting it on ya site, cuz other than that, is she really revelant. I smell a book coming. Its the way to go now a days.

  • terika83

    Oh wow, thanks for reporting this the right way Sandra. I read this over at MTO yesterday and they made it really confusing to understand if she said Alicia's name or not. But you made it clear that she was specifically asked about Alicia and had this to say.

    Wow, I didn't believe it either, but now it's coming from the horses mouth so...

    Isn't Alicia supposed to be marrying her long time boyfriend this summer? That may be ruined now.

  • LB

    how is it that the same people who were so adamant that she was gay for all these years are now saying that she's breaking up homes? :|

  • ELove

    Well sandra, @smokie and various other commenters familiar with A-Keys background... I must Thank-You for Totally-Ruining my image of one of My Precious TOP 5 ;-)

    Now I have to drop her because getting with someone as Homely-n-Unattractive as Swizz is a VIOLATION-in-my-Book
    But I will Miss what could've been (sighs) ;-(

  • intensemocha

    TooSexy

    First and foremost pump your brakes...... I aint fu$$ing nobody's husband or man for that matter

    All I'm saying is I don't expect for nobody to give two $hits about me and mine so guard you grill and knuckle up

    If your man repeatedly cheats on you and has outside babies on you-YOU are the damn fool! It seems to me that he likes the benefit of marriage without the commitment, the cooking, the cleaning, the caring for the kids, sharing expenses, and the faithful wife sitting at home while he's knowingly prowling the streets & the clubs hitting up the next chick.

    It would be nice to believe that the only time a woman is going to have sex is when she is in a commtted relationship and if she is single she will investigate if her partner is involved-THAT WOULD BE NICE, CONSIDERATE, OR EVEN GOOD MORALS-BUT HONESTLY WHY DO YOU EXPECT A "HOE" OR THE NEXT CHICK TO GIVE A F&CK ABOUT U OR TO HAVE HIGHER STANDARDS OR MORALS THAN YOUR>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>HUSBAND

    HELL WHEN YOU LIE DOWN WITH DOGS YOU GET UP WITH FLEAS-YOUR HUSBAND IS KNOWINGLY SEEKING THESE TRICKS-HELLO!

    DID THE WOMAN COME INTO YOUR HOME AND F$CK YOUR HUSBAND? OR DID HE MEET HER AT HER HOUSE OR PAY FOR A HOTEL, IS THE WOMAN A NEIGHBOR, RELATIVE, OR FRIEND THAT KNOWS FOR A FACT THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS IN FACT MARRIED? I DOUBT IT

    DOES YOUR HUSBAND WEAR HIS WEDDING RING AT ALL TIMES AND ADMITS TO BEING MARRIED?

    IF THE NICCA LIES TO YOU ABOUT CHEATING I'M CERTAIN HE LIES TO THESE WOMEN AS WELL-WHAT'S THE COMMON DENOMINATOR HERE?

    "YOUR" LYING & CHEATING HUSBAND-IF YOU ARE AWARE OF IT & DON'T CARE COOL-BUT DONT BLAME THE WOMAN THAT YOUR HUSBAND INVITED IN TO YOUR LIVES FOR HIM CHEATING-BECAUSE THE ONLY REASON THE "HOE" "TRICK' ETC. IS EVEN AN ISSUE IS BECAUSE OF HIM-DUH!

    IT'S NOBODY ELSE'S RESPONSIBILITY TO MAKE SURE YOUR HUSBAND REMAIN FAITHFUL-YOU TWO ALONE TOOK THOSE WEDDING VOWS-IT'S SILLY & NIAVE TO EXPECT THAT YOU CAN CONTROL SOMEONE WHO YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW

    I'M ALL ABOUT WHAT CAN "I" DO TO SOLVE MY PROBLEMS INSTEAD OF BLAMING OTHERS IF MY HUSBAND CHEATS-I'M GOING TO GET AT HIS AZZ DAYUM THE OTHER WOMAN

  • LB

    im still waiting for the proof. these pics of them together or years old. except for the last one. that was after last years VMA's. show me a recent pic of them together. Show me more candid pics of them together than there are of her and Kerry together. Give me more than, my boy's mommas best friend, Pookey saw them hugged up.

    I will be going to the NYC show next week. and i'll be backstage. if i see him looming around with my own eyes, THEN i'll believe it.

  • intensemocha

    REAL TALK YOU SHOULD PROTECT YOUR INVESTMENT "THE FAMILY" IF ONE OF THESE TRICKS GETS KNOCKED UP AND STARTS COLLECTING CHILD SUPPORT FROM YOUR HUSBAND & YOUR FAMILY INCOME DECREASES BECAUSE OF HIS INFIDELITY I BET YOU WOULD FEEL DIFFERENTLY THEN.........

    I WOULD LEAVE HIS TRIFLING AZZ FIRST AS HIS WIFE, AND COLLECT ALIMONY AND CHILD SUPPORT BEFORE A TRICK GETS A DIME

    I BET THE THREAT OF THAT ALONE WOULD STOP HIS CHEATING WAYS...

  • ggouch

    Ladies, I got one better.

    One of my good friends have been messing with a married man since the beginning of 2000. She and the wife ran into each other...wait for it.......WHEN HE NEEDED TO BE BAILED OUT OF JAIL....he called both of them unsure who was going to show up....Well they both did. Now understand the wife knew about my friends via the typical "You're busted"...cell calls and text messeges. So when they ran into each other the wife knew who she was...The wife, asked her to lunch and over the breaking of bread asked her to leave her husband alone, also newborn involved at that time from the wife. Well my friend is still messing with him and now the share a 1 bdrm apartment, now that he is separated, not divorced, from his wife. When the wife comes over to drop the kid off, my friend has to hide out in the bedroom. UNDERSTAND HER (my friend) NAME is on the lease

  • toosexy

    @intensemocha yes, but to, i'm saying that woman make it so easy these days, of course the man is wrong and all that yes, but my point was woman are just as much to blame. and all men are not dogs but like sandra said men fall weak to their men, and that doesn't make it right of course, but all i am saying if us woman would unite and stop being so easy and nieve we could stop alot of this shit, i know its reaching, but some women don't have no morals about themselves and low self esteem, just because he don't respect his wife or whateever does it make it right for a woman to step in and sleep with him and really think its a relationship and all we can say is why his wife staying with him, that's stupid to me, because sometimes it takes a person time and being a woman and a realist i am not going to judge any woman for their reasons for staying cuz eventually that woman will get tired and in her time she will do what needs to be done, alot of woman talk that good i will leave his ass shit but being a realist it hardly never happens until that woman has taken all she can take and that's real talk until i'm in the situation i can't say shit about what i would do. but i feel what your trying to say but its not about blaming the woman of course your mad at your spouse also but i feel some point we should as woman say hell naw you married that's it you don't have to know the woman to know what devastion your causing and to know that one day your ass is going to be married and you wouldn't want it to happen to you, regardless if we know the lady or not make a stand for the next woman and for us all. LETS UNITE!

  • toosexy

    @GGOUCH YOU KNOW WHAT, HE WILL FOREVER DO YOUR FRIEND LIKE THAT EVEN WHEN THEIR REALLY TOGETHER, BECAUSE LIKE I SAID EARLIER ,HE KNOWS SHE'S WILLING TO BE ON THE SIDE AND HIDE IN BEDROOMS AND GET HIM OUT OF JAIL, AND SHIT AND YES THAT WIFE IS GONE NOW AND WHO'S THE REAL FOOL CUZ THE WIFE DID WHAT SHE WAS SUPPOSED TO DO IT MIGHT HAVE TAKEN HER AWHILE BUT SHE WILL BE BLESSED, FOR YOUR FRIEND IT WILL NEVER WORK MARK MY WORDS, HE PROBABLY STILL TRYING TO GET HIS WIFE BACK IF HE WANTS HER TO HIDE, AND HE KNOWS WHAT HE LOST LIKE I SAID MEN DON'T RESPECT THOSE TYPE OF WOMAN FOREAL THEY KNOW WHAT THEY HAVE AT HOME, BUT REALLY MISS IT WHEN ITS GONE. i HOPE YOUR FRIEND WILL GET HER A MAN OF HER OWN BECAUSE EVEN IF HIS WIFE DIVORCES HIM WHAT DO YOUR FRIEND THINK WILL HAPPEN TO HER?

  • prynsexxx

    @ggouch:

    If she is hiding out in the bedroom then that right there is a clear indication that SHE DOESN'T MEAN SH!T TO HIM!

    I can't believe that mess.

    Why is she hiding out, IN HER OWN HOUSE!!!!!!!!!! WTF! I guess they can't be seen in public together either. I bet you she believes that they "go together". WTF!

    I'm done. Stick a fork in me and take me off the grill!

    I'm sorry but your friend is a DUMBASS B!TCH!

    Done got my stomach hurtin'. WTF!

  • intensemocha

    @toosexy

    I WHOLEHEARTEDLY AGREE WITH YOU

    I KNOW THAT I AM NOT OR WILL NOT EVER DEAL WITH A MARRIED MAN AND OBVIOUSLY NEITHER WILL YOU FOR THE SAME EXACT REASONS YOU STATED-IT'S WRONG AND WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

    I JUST HATE TO SEE A MAN DOG A WOMAN OUT AND SHE TAKES IT AND THEN BLAMES EVERYONE ELSE EXCEPT THE CULPRIT-I'VE SEEN TO MANY WOMAN CRYING, LOSING WEIGHT, STRESSED OUT, AND WORKING HARD & TOLERATING CHEATING JUST BECAUSE IT'S THEIR "HUSBAND" TO JUSTIFY WHY THEY STAY

    IF YOU LOSE THE MAN-YOU WON'T HAVE THE PROBLEMS

    SISTERHOOD IS NOT AS PREVELANT AS IT WAS BACK IN THE DAY-IT'S LIKE EVERY MAN AND WOMAN FOR THEMSELVES NOWADAYS.....

  • toosexy

    @INTENSEMOCHA, YOUR RIGHT WE DON'T STICK TOGETHER AT ALL ANYMORE OR DID WE EVER I DONT' KNOW, BUT ONE DAY THOSE WOMAN WILL WAKE UP AND GET IT, SOME IT TAKES LONGER THAN OTHERS ,ITS HARD WHEN YOUR SO ENTANGLED FROM THE KIDS TO THE FINANCES TO THE CAR TO THE HOUSE, ITS JUST SOMETIMES SEEM SO EASY TO JUST LEAVE BUT ALOT OF THESE WOMAN THINK OF ALL THE REASONS THEY CAN'T AT THE TIME, JUST SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO STEP OUT ON FAITH, AND NO THAT THE LORD WILL TAKE CARE OF YOU, OR PRAY FOR THAT MAN TO MAKE HIM WHAT GOD AND YOU NEED HIM TO BE AND IF ITS WHAT MEANT FOR YOU IT WILL HAPPEN, BUT THANKS FOR THE GREAT DIALOG. HOLLA AT YA!

  • kaliente

    @ggouch: OH HELL NAH, that chick is dumb as FUKK!!!!

  • precious1

    I believe both parties are to blame! I don't think the woman should get a pass because she isn't the one married. It's sad that most women feel this way, and continue to date married men! Both are losers and one isn't better than the other!

    My friend had been with this guy for 7 years, wife gave him the boot due to the affair. Dude and her argue every damn day! They stay on the phone all day with each other, getting upset if one doesn't answer the phone. I told her, that isn't love, that's pure INSECURITY because both of you know neither are Sh*T! The first day she meet him, he told her he was married and it's 7 years later!

    If someone gets my husband to go, I'mmma pray for both of them and thank God she has the loser!!

  • kdillon

    Damn, even Alicia Fuck for tracks.

  • kdillon

    I totally believe it, I live in L.A. and a few of my friends dropped knowledge that Alicia and Swiss use to always go to an L.A. museum where they would snuggle and kiss. I was shocked at first but it made sense.

  • brwnsugga4you

    ggouch Says:

    Ladies, I got one better.

    One of my good friends have been messing with a married man since the beginning of 2000. She and the wife ran into each other…wait for it…….WHEN HE NEEDED TO BE BAILED OUT OF JAIL….he called both of them unsure who was going to show up….Well they both did. Now understand the wife knew about my friends via the typical “You’re busted”…cell calls and text messeges. So when they ran into each other the wife knew who she was…The wife, asked her to lunch and over the breaking of bread asked her to leave her husband alone, also newborn involved at that time from the wife. Well my friend is still messing with him and now the share a 1 bdrm apartment, now that he is separated, not divorced, from his wife. When the wife comes over to drop the kid off, my friend has to hide out in the bedroom. UNDERSTAND HER (my friend) NAME is on the lease

    ~~~huh..WTF??...are all of your friends crazy or what??? it must be difficult to go out w/their azz'z and you are the only one in the car with common sense...i aint never...and i wish a n*gga would try me...really!!!~~~

  • MAJAHINEVERYWAY

    "Isn’t it the extra nice sweet ones that you have to worry about? They work their way into your lives with all that sweet talk, making you think they’re your best friend and would do anything for you and your kids - when their real target is your man."

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    Damn Sandra, preach to these young'ns girl.

  • ChokLitFactory

    @ MZ_Magnificent1 --> I'm with you girl, love these posts!

    @LB, please keep up updated. Although I would assume they'd try to keep things on the low now that the Black Blogs are picking up the story! I went to her show in ATL and it was amazing!

  • lexdiamonz

    umm i have to laugh at the people who say this doesn't sound like Alicia keys ummm newsflash you don't know the bish.... also word on the streets is that Swizz is blessed downstairs and women we all know what we will do for some good wood... but i thought she was with her manager who correct me if i am wrong she was dating him while A) she was underage and B) he was married, engaged or something of that nature just because you can sing (questionable) and play the piano don't mean you aint a ho!!!!

  • ChokLitFactory

    @ 91) Are you REALLY gonna suggest Alicia can't sing??? Call her what you want, but homegirl can SANG! I think she's one of the best female vocalists of our generation (notice I said OUR generation, so Patti Labelle et al need not apply)

  • Kymystry

    test

  • precious1

    If I was dating a man and found out he was married, it's a wrap!! Whatever feelings are involved at the time would never be enough to make me ignore, he has a wife at home! Not judging any women who consiously chooses to pretend, wifey doesn't exist, but that's too much playing!

    My guy argued me up and down that men don't have to lie about being married, because when women find out, they still stay. I know so many women rationalize continuing this type of relationship based on their feelings. Feelings will NEVER be enough to make me enter into some contest, with the woman that HE chose to marry.

    I don't have the time and energy to waste, trying to convince some man that I'm the better woman for him over his wife and he should end up with me! I just don't have those kinds of years to give away!

  • http://myspace.com/birminghamblaze Dani

    sandra says:
    You should put it all in a letter and mail it to his wife anonymously. That will serve 2 purposes: 1) your conscience will be clear, and 2) his wife will know what a dirty dog she’s married to

    His wife and I have crossed paths. There were no harsh exchanges. We both understand that we were in a really messed up situation. Too bad for her that she has a lot more invested than I did.

  • E-dub

    WHOOOOAAH! Get down then Sandra, girl. A wide open blind item. Let's get more of these in the near future. Mmmmk.

    Oh and

    "We already know from experience that AK likes light skin funny looking men... "

    ROTF LMAO