Beyonce Didn’t Have the Decency To Call Jennifer Hudson

Today I lost about 6 readers due to what they claim is the “constant negativity” I post.

See, people hate it when you present them with the naked truth. They would rather just live their lives in blissful ignorance.

Thanks to the many loyal readers who are not registered members, but who reached out to me to say they agreed with everything I wrote about Obama.

I’m about to clean house in a minute.

Oh, this was posted on the Myspace page of Jennifer Hudson’s best friend “Superstar James”. He goes in on Beyonce for being the selfish itch that she is.

I’m glad someone else is finally putting it out there besides me. By the way, just so you know, Donald Trump donated an entire block of rooms at the elegant Chicago Trump Towers for two weeks for Jennifer Hudson and her family members.

Other members of Chicago pitched in and made sure Jennifer Hudson and her sister Julia didn’t need or want for anything while they were in mourning:

So I wasn’t going to write about this but it is really really bugging me. Especially when people are calling my phone saying how nice it was of Beyonce to come to the funeral and show her support. And I have to sit back and hold everything I wanna say inside. But I can’t do it no more.

Beyonce did not come to the funeral nor did she call, text, send a card or hell send a damn email. If there are millions of people who are leaving Jennifer and Julia and myself messages and sending there prayers and condolences and these people don’t even know them why couldn’t she? Every singer that Jennifer admires and had been a role model for her growing up even until now has called, from Aretha to Shirley Murdock to even present day singers like Chrisette Michelle.

And y’all know how much Jennifer loves Beyonce and she couldn’t even have her assistant call or nothing. But yet her camp is allowing her to receive credit for coming to the funeral and being there for Jennifer and her family. Bullshit! This just pisses me off. Once again thanks to everyone who has be there for us. And sorry if i offended any of Beyonce fans by writing this but if i just couldn’t keep sitting back and reading articles and emails and having my phone ring about how nice it was of Beyonce to come out ! (Source)

Thanks to loyal reader John for the tip!

goat76

***OBAMA FIRST NEWS CONFERENCE*** LIVE ON CNN in about 15 min 2:30est

I haven’t called her yet either……….
http://myspace.com/sfh50millionpounds mj

thanks Goat76, i’m turning the channel now!
whyohwhy

Co-sign Goat76…

Sandra I’m going to try my best to see if I can get Beyonce to call you so you can leave her alone….
goat76

LOL @ WHY O WHY
kwallace577

what is up with the “imma bout to clean house” disclaimer at the top of the juhud post? just curious….cosign with goat. glad i am back at the crib to catch it. done made my wine store run.

who are the 6 readers…

bye yall.
http://myspace.com/iyonah iyonah

thanks goat, but I am @ work, going to the website to see if they will broadcast it also …

DEAD @ “I’m about to clean house in a minute.”
kwallace577

They would rather just live their lives in blissful ignorance.
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or in a drunken or drug induced stupor.

hell i am OFF today. don’t play.
goat76

She’s gonna clear house ya’ll, so just in case……

***Albert Alert*** (Can I use Albert instead of Amber)

goat1976@gmail.com
http://myspace.com/iyonah iyonah

And one more thing Sandra … do you think your post on the Julia were supportive of JHud or the family???

They were disrespectful if you ask me … speculating on why she accessed her page and her choice in men and so on.

Did the people who emailed you mention that at all?
luvly1957

Sandra, where are the people who agreed with cuz all the msgs I saw was doggin you. You are so sad I guess I’ll be one of the ones where “you clean house” when you don’t want to hear the truth you get rid of the people. SAD< SAD SAD go back across the water and kiss the Queen!!!
Amulet

Can Jennifer buy a house herself?

I heard she is living with Oprah now.
http://myspace.com/iyonah iyonah

Hey if anyone is @ work … CNN is braodcasting it live ….
Sharonda

Misery loves company.It doesn’t pay anything to be so negative.It’s just to ugly.There’s no need to “clean house” if you can handle the truth lol.

Just admit it, haters are the ones who love with the person they talk mess about.Haters are so obsessed with every move someone make.What someone says.What someone do.And how one lives their live.Your just hiding it.Just admit, you love it!Nobody fooling me!
shhhh

Ha! I’m glad James put it out there. I knew that fake a** b*tch didn’t go to that funeral. That would’ve been too real for her.
Terry .W

Ok Sandra, on this one, just fall back !…I think thats unfair…and Im usually the first to bag on Beyonce…there are many reasons this (if true) could have happened – so much was going on with J huds family—its ok to let people grieve and then reach out…

Anyone who has lost a close family memeber would understand even though someone reached out to them 2 years from now…c’mon now!
Amulet

I’m happy that everyone is so nice to Jennifer. Maybe Beyonce just doesn’t know what to say. I don’t think it’s personal.
http://myspace.com/diva_mama2 DivaMama

goat, we got your address already, lol!!
shay1

LOL – Goat you crazy as hell…
shunda

I hope I am not banned. I like talking to you guys.
kwallace577

ahh…president-elect is on that cp time. it is 2:38. he is late! what does that make me feel better? that the prez elect is late to his 1st news conf.?? LMAO.
http://myspace.com/sfh50millionpounds mj

Oh that’s so rude of that person to post that on her MySpace page. This is a time of privacy and respect. So what if people think Beyonce came when she didn’t…That’s for Jennifer to deal with or not deal with when and if she deems it necessary. Which something tells me she will not deem it necessary considering what her and her sister are going through right now.Beyonce didn’t tell anyone she was there so it isn’t her feeding the story it is gossipers like this spreading hate. To tell the “world” who called from Hollywood and who didn’t. Come on! That’s about as lame as one can be during a family crises like this. What are the real motives here of this relative posting such a thing?
kwallace577

is she banning folks or are folks gonna leave on their own? where is prynn? where is suave? where is kym?

aw DAYUM (in my martin voice).
http://myspace.com/iyonah iyonah

LOl kwall … I was thinking the same thing. The lady in the green finally stopped moving around.
iscream

Lmao @ the ppl still throwing insults.

Sandra I don’t think you should ban ppl for not agreeing with you.

@ topic who is this person? I haven’t read one thing saying Bey was at that funeral. She has an album to promote and likely don’t even know her name is being used in connection with Jhud. You ned to be more worried about the way Julia is being portrayed in the media. Are you featured in those myspace pics floating across the net of Julia looking like smiling and living it up like she just hit the lotto. Beyonce is the least of the Hudson fam problems
Terry .W

lol@ the cp time…where he at?..its 2.42 and I still dont see him…and Im on CNN live
goat76

Hermosa……….Got banned……she told me to tell everybody( her e-mail addy)……….but Sandra dun got a nigga shook….
http://myspace.com/iyonah iyonah

@ mj don’t entertain SR when it comes to BEY or Obama … it will usually be LIES!!!
kwallace577

@iyonah yeah i see she finally sat down. the fact that he is late comforts me.

kinda like he saying by being late “yeahhh boy! and yall thought i won’t a true brotha. i’m on that cp time. too late now biotches!..”
kwallace577

HERMOSA????????????????????????????????????????

aw lawd.
http://myspace.com/diva_mama2 DivaMama

iyonah, am I going to have to send you my e-mail address before you become a casualty of the house-cleaning effort?
http://myspace.com/iyonah iyonah

Hermosa … … will miss you …

Is CNN live just dealyed, anybody @ home watching?
chat bout

MY DOG IS LOOKING AT ME LIKE I’M CRAZY,BECAUSE I’M SITTING HERE LAUGHING MY RASS OF.WHY DO PPL IN HERE ALLOW SANDRA TO GET UNDER THEIR SKIN.YOU DO NOT KNOW HER,SHE DOES NOT KNOW YOU.IT IS NOT THAT SERIOUS. BY THE WAY IS THE LADY IN GREEN HAUNTED?
Sharonda

Awww…damn

Come on Sandra, you want just a bunch of yes people?It wouldn’t be interesting without a debate.I don’t see why not voicing our opinion.But I know it’s your site.You doing the same thing that Angel did, ban folks who don’t agree with her lol.
dcwife1622

I heard here on the local news that he had a Teacher conference at his daughters school today so maybe he’s running a little late. Go Obama!
kwallace577

oh shyt. here is mine again. kwallace577@yahoo.com.yall my sandrarose fam (and not the ones looking in…) hit me up. all the ones with myspace links diva, iyonah, dbrown (where is dbrown….) i am gonna stop being lazy and add yall.

hermosa, bless her heart. is already added.
http://myspace.com/diva_mama2 DivaMama

hermosa…if you are reading… we will e-mail you!!!
http://myspace.com/iyonah iyonah

Rofl @ casualty ….

Where is Mr. Pres???
Sharonda

What’s hermosa’s email addy???
kwallace577

h-e-r-m-o-s-a. that is just jacked. i got feelings behind that mess right there dag on it. she got that mexicana flavor going on. she was the only mexican up here (i think). this downs our diversity factor.

oh hell. i’m scared to log out!!! last time that happened my azz was CUT.

dayum hermosa.
Alana

Thanks for keeping me Sandra. I try to be a good girl on here because I love being part of this exclusive community
Oh and I agree with #21. I’m sure james doesn’t even know Beyonce and I seriously doubt the people who have been expressing their sympathy have been asking for a rundown of who called and showed up at the funeral. I never heard anything about Beyonce going.
Terry .W

looks like its about to start ya’ll
http://myspace.com/iyonah iyonah

Awwww issshh they lining up … is this the team??
LADYTEA

your very transparent with your disdain for Beyonce, and NO I’m not one of her biggest fans.. but since I’ve been coming to this site, you have some strong hatred for this child, is sickening and however you can come across negatively about her you will, it’s really juvenile the way you go out your way to defame her.. It’s no secret your a big time hater.. everyone who reads your post no it.. will you ever get over it?? or will it continue to consume you, and you will continue to post about it, hoping someone out here is as hateful as you and will eventually agree with your negativity.. When you were presented with the naked truth about President elect
Barack Obama you still choose to ignore it, and your still living in ignorance, so why can’t others.. As my G-Mama would say Misery loves company.. Your prime example of that phrase… your don’t were jealousy and envy very well, it oozes from you finger tips, everytime you hate on the Future president and entertainer Beyonce.
starr

What y’all done did now….lol
http://myspace.com/sfh50millionpounds mj

Ok Goat76, maybe you can help me out… I’m looking at Pres Elect Obama on CNN… Now, I will admit I’m looking at a 27in color TV, non HD non flat screen… TIMEs R HARD! But is it me or does his financial team behind him not have one black person standing there? I think I see a little short black guy or something… But I don’t see much diversity backing him???
kwallace577

yesss sirr…..mr. prez is gonna stimulate us some more!!! can’t wait for my check. hope it come ’round tax time so i can get hit twice.

like pow…pow…..
http://myspace.com/sfh50millionpounds mj

And is that VP Cheney behind him? Ok, I need a new TV.. LOL
Mzsuave

Kweezy…I’m hear…but biting my tongue.

sweestestdrug@tmo.blackberry.net
keely107

I heard that about Beyonce on the radio this morning, Im sorry I usually try and give the girl credit, but she cant be on every set!
Naima

Beyonce didn’t even send her a card, that was foul, I hope her album flops
ELove

For THOSE giving out their email-contacts…
If U See elove_3000 (THAT’S ME !!!)
Mzsuave

*here*

lol…like pa-dowwww. Hit me with it!
http://myspace.com/sfh50millionpounds mj

I will use that stimulus check he says will be here sooner rather than later, to buy me a new TV… Unless it is cold when it comes… Then I will have to use it to pay the gas bill. DARNIT!
kwallace577

@45 i think that is just his starting line up. until after he get up in there. only thing i have heard is the new fella as the chief of staff. and vp joe biden of course.
goat76

mutts like me
kwallace577

“i’mma skip that.”

that one was funny as hell.
dcwife1622

America made the right choice!

Obama!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mississippi16

@ SR fam…
I’ve been pretty mild so it’s looks like @ this moment, auntie haven’t put me out the house. But i would like to say this…

Sandra, nobody is saying that you have to love Obama or even support him in his presidency. They just question why you want to convice everyone else to think he’s the devil. The entire world (including your beloved U.K.) is celebrating so you having this… I’m not American thought still doesn’t explain why you dislike the man so much.

You can spew all the hate and untruths you want on your Sandrarosedotcom website. However, when you leave from behind the security of your computer screen and go out into the world with your expensive infusion weave, LV backback, Puma/ Adidas Tennis shoes, etc, you still just a Nygga just like us to millions of people in this world. That’s why we celebrate Barack like we do because IT IS personal. That’s why we defend him. And sometimes we do take your attacks toward him personal because it feel like you are attacking us and our struggle as a race.

I’ll email one of ya’ll my contact information because i probably am banned now.
missnee

he just face masked the 2nd part of the lady’s question LMAO
http://myspace.com/iyonah iyonah

@NAIMA – DO YOU KNOW bEYONCE PERONALLY . .. TO KNOW IF SHE SENT A CAR OR CALLED? TELL ME YOU DON’T BELIEVE SANDRA ON EVERYHTING
dcwife1622

I remember Sandra posted something about Obama trying to silence folks and now she’s doing the same thing. That’s a bit hypocritical. Is is really that serious?
ReadTheBlog

Well, I’d like to defend her, but errr, she did go to Kanye’s mommas funeral. Maybe it was because Kanye is making money for her and Jay, and Jennifer is taking it away, by competing.

Beyonce is an Uuber bitch and thinks she’s untouchable. I can’t believe she didn’t take the time out to record a song to be released as a single and charitable effort for the Hudson-King foundation.

F*ck her and her stingy ways…
SlimA

Sandra,
You and I go way back. You better not cut me out the family for voting for Obama. OBAMA! OBAMA!
keely107

I think our difference in opinions is the very thing that keeps me glued to the threads. As long as we respect one another, as with any other aspect in life, we will go on as adults agree to disagree and move on. No one can change my mind and I dont expect to change anyone else’s.
butternutSquash

::tap, tap:: Mike check! Mike check!
Mzsuave

I concur, Keely. We make it poppin’ in here.
BLACKBARBIE404

HELLER……….
BLACKBARBIE404

IM GOOD! LMAO
http://necolebitchie.com Necole Bitchie

Instead of worrying about who did or did not attend the funeral, they need to be worried about who killed their family members

smh
Liberty

If Beyonce can reach out and ask to sing at the Inauguration, I’m pretty sure she could’ve reached out to Jen. I hope Jennifer gets to sing and not Bey.

I thought it was weird that she was reported to be at the funeral, but there were no pictures. And everyone knows Bey never misses a photo op.
up_ur_standards

WGAFF about you cleaning house? I mean…you are free to voice your warped opinion…but no one else is? U must be on crack in on your own schizophrenic island…in that case nothing will help you except JESUS!!! Now how narcissistic are YOU to want to surround yourself with “Yes” people who are going to agree and ride with you on every single thing you say or do!!!
Liberty

@Necole….what makes you think the family doesn’t know?
keely107

@MzSuave:

Yes we do, and we miss u!!!!!

LMAO @ NicoleBitchie: Gotta point there too!
up_ur_standards

Necole Bitchie Says:

Instead of worrying about who did or did not attend the funeral, they need to be worried about who killed their family members

smh
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I couldn’t agree more…SMDH
keely107

OMG @ #71!
shunda

Whoo people trying to get banned up in here
brwnsugga4you

maybe they are really not friends at all. so, to worry about this is ridiculous. i agree with necole…their are more important things to be worried about like “catching the real killer” than if bey showed up, called or sent a card. ignorance!
LB

I NEVER heard that Bey went to the funeral. i don’t know where that “report” is coming from. i think for once she may be practicing good judgment by minding her own damn business on this one. this is the definition of PERSONAL. while condolences would be nice, i highly doubt thats at the forefront of Jennifer’s worries.
coaretained

I hope I didn’t do anything.. but just in case… my myspace is myspace.com/stpaulpoet. TOok me forever to become a member of this damn family. Gonna miss you hermosa… send me a friend request!!
Jadavies

Sandy, Why ban people for voicing there opinion that differs from yours?
PAHairston

Sandra, whatever happened to free speech? And where would this board be without the people who comment here? A true journalist always keeps an open mind and open board. Peace.
SlimA

If family and friends came to the funeral, then that is all that matters. Beyonce has never attended in of my family’s funerals, but I still got love for her. Was Beyonce on program to give the Eulogy or sing??? I think not.
SlimA

I meant to say “any of my family”
iscream

Can’t believe she really banned ppl.

You get back what you put out. Imagine how Beyonce would feel if she knew half the things printed here about her.

I agree with the person who said that when (& truely the way) you attack Mr. President Obama its as if you are attacking us (black ppl born in this country who have struggled for over 400 years to get to this point).

Please reverse the bans Sandra.
BLACKBARBIE404

NECOLE – GUESS YOU NEVER LEFT…….
coaretained

i seen it on someones website.. don’t remember who.. but who cares? Did Jamie Foxx go? What about Eddie Murphy?
BLACKBARBIE404

CHECK YOUR MYSPACE… COARETAINED
Lemondrop

Dead@ ” albert” alert.
I saw the article saying Bey attended online at one of the Chicago news sites- Chicago Tribune or Sun Times.
dcwife1622

Just because you worked on a movie with someone doesn’t mean they are friends. Maybe the didn’t get along.

Sandra you are a trip. You dogged Steve Harvey after Bernie died because they were not speaking and Steve was all over the news stations talking aobut Bernie. Should Bey be fake and phoney (like Steve in your words) if they were not friends? Keep it consistent!
kalvonel

I’m sure Sandra enjoys the debates she encourages. I know I do. I luv my SR fam. ya’ll keep my day going and I love the intelligence displayed at this site. I’ll personally email her if I feel so strongly about a particular post. I just make sure I’m respectful.
prynsexxx

Just checkin’
Imalover

Mississippi@ I appreciate your comment… Sandra there’s nothing worse than being an ultra-sensitive, malicious, egomaniacal bully. That’s an un-healthy combination of negative character flaws. Instead of dissecting and tearing down the reputations of other’s, why not redirect that energy inward by improving your own defects. I think you should start with practicing being more positive and less venomous… just baby steps for now. Because, Sandra, at this point your toxic words, thoughts and opinions are becoming obnoxious. Anyway, I hope you will accept my loving gift of intervention. LOL (Does anyone else LOVE that show?)
goat76

@prynsexxx………….just making sure I didn’t get foreclosed(banned)
SMALONE

WHY WOULD SHE COME TO THE FUNERAL? ALL EYE’S WOULD HAVE BEEN ON HER.AND THEY WOULD HAVE SAID SOMETHING ABOUT THAT.SO THAT WAS BEST SHE STAYED AWAY.I’M SURE SHE CALLED OR SEND A CARD..HER MAMA TAUGHT HER BETTER THAN THAT!
MUNCHOSGIRL

SO DO YOU REALLY MEAN TO TELL ME, THEY HAVE LOST THREE VERY IMPORTANT FAMILY MEMBERS, AND SOMEONE IS WORRIED IF WHETHER OR NOT BEYONCE SENT A CARD OR CALLED JENNIFER? I AM SORRY, IF I HAD INCURRED SUCH A LOSS, I WOULDN’T EVEN BE THINKING OF A PHONE OR ANYTHING AS TRIVIAL. WHY WAS IT SO IMPORTANT FOR BEYONCE TO REACH OUT TO JENNIFER? BEYONCE IS JUST A HUMAN BEING, SHE’S NOT THE MESSIAH. JENNIFER’S LIFE WILL GO ON. SHE HAS THE SUPPORT OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS, MAYBE BEYONCE IS JUST AN ASSOCIATE, NOTHING MORE.
http://www.myspace.com/lorettadivine DivineBrown

OH SNAP…

WHERE ARE THE CASUALTIES?

WHO GOT CUT?
BayArea

Necole Bitchie Says:

Instead of worrying about who did or did not attend the funeral, they need to be worried about who killed their family members

smh
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You got me over here talking to my computer. I TOTALLY AGREE!
prynsexxx

@Divine hit up DivaMama or Goat, they will give you the full details!

*still checkin*
coaretained

hi to all my new myspace friends!! I just got off the phone with Jhud and she said for ya’ll to STFU she’s mourning right now!! Julia said whats crackin though?
goat76

@Divine…hermosa got kicked out the family today…..
coaretained

I didn’t get to see the news conference but I read the transcript… Obama is my niggah!!! He’s shutting folks down… cappin on himself… ah… reality in the white house. I can’t wait until 1/20/09!
bloggergirlz

i’m sure a LOT of people (besides beyonce) didn’t attend the funeral…

i think it’s more important for your close friends and family members to be there…i’m not dismissing others for attending though…

was jennifer invited to beyonce and jay’s wedding…HELL NO
goat76

@coaretained………that’s what It seems like @ what’s crackin…….you wild’n
coaretained

@102 exxxxxactly!
http://myspace.com/reddymond_45 The Black Katie Couric

@ Necole Bitchie

I co-sign on that one!!!!
http://www.myspace.com/lorettadivine DivineBrown

hermosa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHAT FOR THAT’S MY HOMIE!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHAT POST?????????
coaretained

@goat
I’m just relaying the message.
http://www.myspace.com/rayne215 spongebobfan

i just want to know why beyonce wouldve been required to attend funeral, was the rest of cast of dreamgirls there?anniki rose? was fantasia there or other american idol people or cast of life bees (whatever) i am not a fan of beyonce but why must she ALWAYS be singled out unfairly. they worked together on a movie, How many co workers would come to your family funeral Hell would they come to Your funeral? im sure the ‘rumor’ of her attending was not started by her or her camp, beyonce seems High on obama win and jayz d*ck to care much about anything else
goat76

@Divine………I don’t know which post it is……but hermosa hit my email letting me know that she got banned….and then sandra let it be known that she “was doing some house cleaning”
http://www.myspace.com/lorettadivine DivineBrown

OMG…OMG….I JUST READ THAT!!!

Hermosa always had my back on the Beyonce posts!!

Lighter in the air for Hemosa…

I have read some comments that went a little too far and unkind toward Auntie Sandra but it wasn’t hers. They were hurling mad insults. When I read all that, I was just thinking….”why do they come over here?” No one twists your arm to post here or READ THE SHIT!

DAMN…LIL HOMIE IS GONE.
Terry .W

@spongebobfan – yes…fantasia was there and she sang a tribute to j huds fam – not that its that important…just clarifying your point
ldorisca

Mic Check; mic check
licia

just checking to see if i am allowed back in.

i liked hermosa. she was funny as heck.
carmelita79

i guess she just wants to have a little ignorant party over here on this blog. the hate is ridiculous
licia

i could actually care less if beyonce showed up or not. i only hope that she reached out to jennifer because that would be the right thing to do.
phineinphilly

People are surprised that beyawwwnce has no class? If appearing somewhere doesn’t benefit her she dam sure isn’t going…so sad but true..
Darryl

Sandra how in the hell do you know if Beyonce sent her condolences or not?!!
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

Necole Bitchie Says:

Instead of worrying about who did or did not attend the funeral, they need to be worried about who killed their family members

smh

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I totally agree! Chicago police are the worst! I could have solved that crime by now. No wonder Chicago’s murder rate is the highest in the country.
intensemocha

WHO IN THE HELL WANTS CONDOLENCES FROM SOMEONE WHO DIDN’T VOLUNTARILY GIVE IT TO THEM?

JUST LIKE DUMB AZZ PEOPLE WHO SAY SUCH AND SUCH DIDN’T COME TO MY WEDDING, BABY SHOWER, ETC.

THINK ABOUT IT -YOU WANT PEOPLE THERE WHO TRULY ARE HAPPY FOR YOU OR REALLY ARE THERE TO OFFER THEIR CONDOLENCES? RIGHT?

WHO IN THE HELL IS ANYONE TO HAVE THE AUDACITY OR EVEN GET UPSET BECAUSE SOMEONE DIDN’T RESPOND OR BEHAVE IN THE WAY THEY FEEL THEY SHOULD?

NOTE TO ALL: NOBODY OWES YOU SH$T AND GUESS WHAT-MOSTLY EVERYONE IS SADDENED BY WHAT HAPPENED TO JENNIFER HUDSON BUT HOW MANY OF US STOPPED LIVING OUR LIVES BECAUSE OF IT?

OH OK-NOT MANY I BET

AND THE OPERATIVE WORD IS BEYONCE DIDN’T CALL JENNIFER OR COME TO THE FUNERAL-AM I MISSING SOMETHING I DIDN’T REALIZE THE TWO OF THEM WERE SO DAMN CHUM!

AND TRUST AND BELIEVE IF MY SO CALLED FRIEND ISN’T THERE IN MY TIME OF NEED OR TO CELEBRATE MY WEDDING OR THE BIRTH OF MY CHILD WITHOUT SO MUCH AS A CALL-THEN IT’S A DAMN REALITY CHECK AND NOTE TO SELF-WE ARE OBVIOUSLY NOT AS CLOSE AS I THOUGHT AND I SHOULD CONDUCT MYSELF ACCORDINGLY IN THE FUTURE

AND WOW-I DON’T KNOW WHAT IT IS BUT IT SEEMS TO ME THAT IF YOU ARE NOT LIKED FOR WHATEVER DYSFUNCTIONAL REASON A PERSON HAS EVERYTHING YOU DO OR DON’T DO IS PERCEIVED AS AN INJUSTICE OR AN ASSAULT TO ALL MANKIND-WHY IS IT THAT SOME GO SO HARD TO MAKE OTHERS DISLIKE SOMEONE OR SHARE THEIR OPINION OR BELIEFS? DAY AFTER DAY THERE IS A RUNNING TALLY OF THE SO CALLED OFFENDER-IT’S ALMOST LIKE AN OBSESSI0N-

THAT’S WHAT MAKES IT SO DYSFUNCTIONAL BECAUSE SOMEONE I REALLY DON’T LIKE OR CARE FOR DOESN’T EXIST TO ME AND I DAMN SURE WOULDN’T EXERT THIS MUCH ENERGY TO DECIPHER THERE EVERY THOUGHT OR ACTION -AND NO ONE PERSON IS ALL ONE THING GOOD OR BAD AND IT’S OBVIOUS THAT WHEN YOU ONLY SEE ALL BAD (BEYONCE) OR ALL GOOD (RIHANNA) IN SOMEONE THEN IT’S OBVIOUS YOUR BIAS!
here4beer

OK, Sandra, you know I’m the site fact-checker, so I have to point out that Chicago is not even in the Top 10 for murder rates in the country. The city with the highest per capita murder rate in the US was New Orleans until Katrina, and now it’s Detroit.

P.S. I’m not at all surprised at the Beyonce news. It never seemed that J Hud liked Beyonce too much to me, and I guessed that Bey was a huge jealous b*tch to her behind closed doors. *shrugs*
ELove

And Chicago Cops ARE among the Worst (Not the Worst)
NYC and L.A. are far more in-efficient and corrupt (as a whole) than Chicago Police Officers
candi21

Sandra, someone dedicated an entire thread for you on LSA.

I dont know why people dont like you or your site.
candi21

^^ in all fairness that shoulda read (some people). Im surprised Necole B*tchie commented.
mimi08

ONCE AGAIN YOU PATHETIC PEOPLE ARE HYPOTHESIZING AND/OR TRYING TO EXPLAIN AWAY ANOTHER ONE OF BEYONCE’S ACTIONS, AS IF YOU KNOW. SENDING A FUCCIN CARD IS NOT THE SAME AS CALLING…SOME OF THE PEOPLE WHO CALLED HASN’T EVEN WORKED WITH JENNIFER, YET THEY COULD CALL. THEY DIDN’T HAVE TO BE THE BEST OF FRIENDS, WHAT WOULD IT HAVE COST HER, HOW MUCH TIME WOULD IT HAVE TAKEN, HOW PUT OUT OF THE WAY WOULD BEYONCE HAVE BEEN TO MAKE A QUICK 2 MINUTE CALL GIVING HER CONDOLENCES?! SHE DELIBERATELY DID NOT CALL, YET, SHE’S TAKING ALL THE CREDIT FOR DOING SO; THAT’S THE SIN HERE.

I ABSOLUTELY CANNOT STAND BEYONCE. SHE IS SO FAKE, AND I DON’T KNOW WHY YOU PEOPLE GIVE THAT SELFISH BYTCH YOUR MONEY! SHE DON’T LIKE NOBODY BUT HER FAMILY; SHE AINT GOT NO FRIENDS. EVERYBODY PROBABLY KISSES HER AZZ CAUSE THEY SCARED OF HER AND THINK SHE’LL SOMEHOW BLACK BALL HER. SHE IS A SELFISH GREEDY LYING BTYCH. SHE ALWAYS TRIES TO COME OFF LIKE A ANGEL, BUT ANYONE WITH SENSE CAN SEE THE BYTCH IS 100% FAKE.

OF COURSE THAT TRICK DIDN’T CALL JENNIFER, SHE STILL BREWING AND STEWING OVER THE OSCAR SHE “STOLE” FROM HER NO CAN’T ACTING AZZ. SHE IS THE MOST SELFISH GREEDY UNHUMBLE BYTCH IN THE BIZNESS. I HOPE HER ALBUM FAILS, AND SHE GOES BROKE AND HAS TO START OVER. MAYBE WHEN SHE GETS A MUCH NEEDED REALITY CHECK, MAYBE THE BYTCH WILL FIND HER HEART. THE CD IS PURE SHYT ANYWAYS. EVERY SONG IS HORRIBLE. YOU PEOPLE ARE STUPID TO GIVE BEYONCE 2 CENTS FOR ANYTHING SHE DOES. SHE COULD CARELESS ABOUT ANY OF YOU. SOMEBODY SHOULD REMIND BEYONCE THAT KARMA IS A BYTCH. I ALREADY DIDN’T LIKE HER CAUSE OF HER FAKENESS AND LYING THIEVING WAYS, BUT NOW THIS.
http://myspace.com/jazmyneh Jazmyne

I kinda take back what i said about the Obama thing because today on the train i experienced something real big.
there’s a lot of people who is really angry that Obama won .
hell almost broke loose on the train today because of Obama.
&

I love Beyonce just not the “If i were a boy” song.
Sandra please talk about someone else other then Beyonce.
Beyonce is a very nice person she use to come to brooklyn and give gifts out during Christmas she is such a sweetheart.
Everytime you have something to say about her its nothing but negative things.
If you actually had a chance to talk to her you would love her.
she’s definatly an inspiration for some of the females out here.
Deep Thoughts

I like you Sandra you have a similar style to mine, you’re not just interested in shoes and clothes and what someone has on, but you can see pass facades. You have every right not to care for Beyonce, I don’t either. I too see pass facades and see that Beyonce is just like her father. Aggressive in a “corporate” world sense and will stop at nothing to succeed even if it means hurting people in the process. I’m sure this will catch up to her, I would live a scared life if I was her. And you have the right to “clean house” and ban people it’s your site. It seems that many come on her despite knowing your style to come against you. They need to be weeded out. If you can’t come against what the person is saying, you’re just taking up space.

And I think based on comprehending the article this was written by someone Jennifer knows and it was an outburst after having held in this deception for so long. I got that, you got that, those that don’t want to get that won’t. I can guarantee my website will be even harsher. I’m a natural born revealer and I refuse to keep my mouth closed, particular when it comes to those that have great influence in society. Keep up the good work.
Kymystry

Shewwww .. I didn’t get cleaned out … again

love yall … especially YOU Auntie
pointhimout

way too many posts to read, so i’m sure i’ll say something similarto what’s been said already.

if beyonce’s allowing people to think she did reach out when she really didn’t, that’s sad. but hey, she got an album to sell. if you were her PR would you stop it??? they did a movie together. that’s it. before dreamgirls, they had no reason to interact. no hard feelings. tupac thought he and janet were friends…til she changed her number after they finished shooting poetic justice. sweetie, we just worked together..once that’s over, so is this. again, no hard feelings.

i still feel bad for jennifer hudson. if oprah’s taking her in, that’s great. i doubt she LIVES with her, but perhaps oprah is just really trying to look out for her and keep her on track. THATS what FRIENDS are for.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

@ Deep Thoughts:

thanks.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

here4beer Says:
OK, Sandra, you know I’m the site fact-checker, so I have to point out that Chicago is not even in the Top 10 for murder rates in the country.

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You’re not a very good fact checker. Click here
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

candi21 Says:
Sandra, someone dedicated an entire thread for you on LSA.

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More traffic for me.
ldorisca

Mic check, mic check
LUSCIOUS

i agree with #126 & 128#.l:) Doing a movie with some doesn’t qualify THEM as being friends.and i just think Oprah wants to be the first with the {after mourning} interview if anything.and J-hud should lean on her actual family instead of fake Hollywood and their “let’s do lunch ” sympathy.and as for #21 it’s Myspace .meaning {there space} people can post whatever they want on it.just like you.and as for SR.com i ain’t pointing no fingers,but my thing is if somebody has such a problem with this website why the hell do you continue to visit.think about it.and who’s the real “obsessed “haters?”:P
http://notenoughrealmen.blogspot.com 2thick4u

Damn…I’m late.

Sandra and me aren’t always agreeing on topics…sometimes I am downright rude when it comes to topics she post but I am never banned.

I guess some people hit a nerve.

Now back to the topic…I haven’t heard about Beyonce attending or portraying to attend the funeral. Since when did Beyonce and Jennifer become best of friends…I find it hard to believe that she hasn’t reached to her!!!
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

What Beyonce does is so none of my business, but her apparent cut throat nature does bother me a little. She’s always smiling and looks so pleasant and nice, but there is a bitch behind the smile. She steals songs and song writer credit for songs that she didn’t write and her charitable works are tragically limited. The fact that she didn’t send condolences to Jennifer leads me to believe that she is jealous of the fact that Jennifer stole the Dreamgirls limelight from her. Worst of all, I have been reading all over the place that she is trying to volunteer to sing at the inauguration when she knows that Jennifer is Obama’s homegirl and has a guaranteed spot for the taking at the inauguration. I hope Barack turns down B’s offer. I still like her as a performer and have nothing but love for Jayonce, but I loved to see her be a little less competitive and catty.
licia

you don’t have to be anyone’s best friend to put in a phone call to someone that you once worked with. i can’t stand beyonce , but if something like this happened to her i would at least call and offer my condolences because that would be the right thing to do and just because i don’t like her i would never want anything like to to happen to anybody.my worst enemy doesn’t deserve this to happen to them. i can totally understand her not going to the funeral, but not calling or not having her PR person call is low.no matter how many excuses you give for her there is no excuse for her or someone in her camp to not to at least call.

btw i would say the same thing had it been anyone else because it’s wrong.
ldorisca

mic check, mic check. Testing 1–2
ldorisca

Just making sure I wasn’t banned
ELove

@bird
That was a great analogy of Bey-Bey’s behavior-n-antics within her industry (business endeavors) AND I tend to believe those exact things about her…

Oh and theses things I speak of are easily-verifiable

And PEACE to all the Bey-Stans
lovezoe

Well all that matters is the family was there for each other. Beyonce and JHud are not friends, just co-workers. Not saying it is right, but she was under no obligation to call.
MUNCHOSGIRL

THIS JAMES CHARACTER POSTED THIS ON HIS BLOG ON MYSPACE, AND NOW HAS MADE HIS PAGE PRIVATE. WELL FROM THE LOOKS OF THE RESPONSES ON HERE I WOULD HAVE TO SAY MISSION ACCOMPLISHED. WAS JAMES PRIVILEDGED TO JENNIFER’S PRIVATE CALLS, AND OR SYMPATHY CARDS? JAMES IS THE HEAD OF HER FAN CLUB, NOTHING MORE. DO ALL OF YOU POSTING REALLY BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU READ ON WEBSITES? *GOES BACK TO LISTENING TO DIAPPEAR…..THE MORE I THINK ABOUT IT, THE MORE I WAS ABLE TO SHARE WITH YOU…..*
Nadine

Sandra,

Please don’t allow your hata’s AKA Beyonce’s publiCYSTS and paid staffers to stop you from telling the truth. Even if some of the stuff is a little embellished, I LOVES it!!! it’s funny as heck to read about the real Beyonce. Besides, people can go and harrass Perez Hilton. He can’t stand Beyonce’s ass either.
kdillon

THE PROBLEM IS IT WAS REPORTED THAT BEYONCE ATTENDED THE FUNERAL, EVERYTHING THAT IS REPORTED ON THE WEB/NEWS ARTICLE ABOUT AN ARTIST GETS BACK TO THE LABEL OR MANAGEMENT. BEYONCE AND HER PUBLICIST SHOULD HAVE SENT A STATEMENT SAYING THAT BEYONCE DID NOT ATTEND THE FUNERAL, SHE WAS OUT OF TOWN”, BUT NO BEYONCE ONCE AGAIN IS TAKING CREDIT FOR UNDESERVED WORK. NO ON IS SAYING BEYONCE IS OBLIGATED TO ATTEND, BUT IF YOU KNOW PEOPLE ARE REPORTING THAT YOU WERE THERE AND YOU WERENT YOU ARE STRAIGHT LYING. IF OBAMA, OPRAH, SARAH JESSICA PARKER, ARETHA F. AND OTHERS COULD BE THERE OR SEND NOTICES BEYONCE COULD HAVE TO. IT DOES NOT TAKE LONG TO SEND A TEXT OR A CALL WHILE TRAVELING.
I NOW GET THE POINT THAT BEYONCE IS A HATER OF JHUD SINCE THAT WHOLE DREAMGIRLS THING. ALSO, MATTHEW KNOWLES WAS TRYING TO GET JHUD TO SIGN TO HIS MANAGEMENT AND SHE WOULDNT, HE WAS ON SET TELLING PEOPLE HE WAS AND TRYING TO GET HER LESS AIRTIME…..THE KNOWLES ARE A TRIP!
here4beer

Sandra, I am SHOCKED that you read the Huffington Post. But personally I will believe the FBI before Adriana Huffington.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_cities_by_crime_rate
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

licia Says:
you don’t have to be anyone’s best friend to put in a phone call to someone that you once worked with.

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So true.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

here4beer Says:
Sandra, I am SHOCKED that you read the Huffington Post. But personally I will believe the FBI before Adriana Huffington.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_cities_by_crime_rate

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Umm, 2007 crime data is sooo last year.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

@ Bird: you hit the nail on the head with that analogy!

@ Nadine: Thanks!

@ kdillon: great points!

@ MUNCHOSGIRL: Come on, you disappoint me. U know full well that James is Jennifer’s BEST friend, and as such, he is privy to her phone calls, text messages, etc. Why tell that lie that he is “nothing more” than the head of her Fan Club?
~Kissan~

I can’t believe it is this serious. Why is Beyonce the main person that needed to call ? Seriously, it’s not as if this happened to Kelly Rowland whom we know is her BFF. I am sure there were plenty other celebs and non-celebs that didn’t call. And if B didn’t call no one knows the reason.
If it’s not someone I’m very close to I tend to wait until all the drama/confusion/whatever calms down and then get in touch to offer condolences. I am sure Jennifer’s phone was ringing off the hook 24/7 once the murders happened so it seems that it would have been hard to get through. Not calling someone right away or at all doesn’t mean you’re jealous of them or evil.
http://myspace.com/sfh50millionpounds mj

Have you guys priced the rates to be at the inauguration on 1/20/09? It’s like $900.00 per night and up for a room and most of them are sold out. $600-$3000 to be at the actual event. The event is outside! The cheapest thing that month is the air fare. I really want to go but until the economy is a heck of a lot better – I will not be in attendance.
MUNCHOSGIRL

@ MUNCHOSGIRL: Come on, you disappoint me. U know full well that James is Jennifer’s BEST friend, and as such, he is privy to her phone calls, text messages, etc. Why tell that lie that he is “nothing more” than the head of her Fan Club?

I KNOW NO SUCH THING. I HAVE NEVER SEEN THIS JAMES CHARACTER. DO YOU KNOW THIS BECAUSE HE SAID SO? HOW MANY PICS DOES HE HAVE OF HE AND JENNIFER TOGETHER ON HIS MYSPACE? WHY DOES HE HAVE IT PRIVATE ALL OF A SUDDEN? BECAUSE HE HAS ACCOMPLISHED WHAT HE SET OUT TO DO. IF THERE WERE VALIDITY OOF WHAT HE HAS TYPED UP, WHY CHANGE IT TO PRIVATE? DID HE AND JENNIFER HAVE A CONVERSATION AS SUCH, CHILD DID BEYONCE COME TO THE FUNERAL? DID SHE SEND A CARD? COME ON, COMMON SENSE IS NEEDED IN SITUATIONS LIKE THIS. I DON’T BELIEVE EVERYTHING I READ ON THE INTERNET. THIS WAS NOT PUT OUT BY A PUBLICATION, BUT ON SOME NO NAME MYSPACE BLOG. I WONDER IF JENNIFER IS EVEN AWARE OF THIS? PONDER ON THIS SANDRA, DID JAMES HAVE HER PHONE FROM THE TIME SHE HEARD OF THE TRAGEDY UP UNTIL DAYS AFTER THE FUNERAL SERVICE? HOW DOES HE KNOW WHO CALLED JENNIFER AND WHEN?

Reps for Beyoncé, who starred with Hudson in “Dreamgirls,” and fellow “Idol” vet Fantasia told MTV News that they have chosen not to comment publicly on the tragedy in order to respect Hudson’s privacy.

SO DO YOU REALLY THINK IF THE REPS SAID THIS THEY OR BEYONCE DIDN’T REACH OUT TO JENNIFER AND/OR FAMILY?

WHAT DO YOU MAKE OUT OF THIS STATEMENT SANDRA?

Lol okay ya’ll need to listen close and hang on to ya’ll seats because ya’ll will be entertained . Superstar james is a man he’s on myspace under super star james . I was a fan of jennifer and he told me if we went on a date he would let me talk to her . So we chilled and all he talked about how much he hated beyonce and all, how he was going to write stuff about her and everything . Dude is a crazy he was in jail for like 6 years , my friend told me he had sex witt some young boi and that’s why he’s was in jail . He stalked jennifer friends and convinced her that he was her true friend . He told me she’s not really that bright and she is not so smart . ” superstar james is not her true friend and only wants to use this girl . Jennifer pls check into this dude he is crazy ….. I hate this dude so much that I want ya’ll to know the truth . His real name is James Rasul Bey he lives with his grandmother , he’s 26 from philadelphia ,pa ….he lives on [EDIT: to remove personal info] with all these white bars around the house . His number is [EDIT: to remove personal info]. Now you judge for yourself and see if you don’t see what I see …… trust he is a lair and a cornball ****** ……
babysoft15

This is sorry BORING Sandra….can you please stop obsessing over Beyonce!!!

OBAMA 08
KaraZ

@Bird, couldn’t have articulated it better than you did.
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

@ Munchosgirl: If you ever post anyone’s personal info on this blog again, you will be banned without warning.
theatrkakal

alright. i have no problem with anyone voicing their own opinion. thats cool, thats your right, and your perogative. but sandra, im questioning why you would continue to give beyonce and obama so much free publicity on your city. i know you need the traffic and all but if you have so much disdain for them why give them the satisfaction, all the free publicity and continue to pump them up even more? whynot ban all beyonce and and obama talk? since you dislike them so much why not stop posting about them since you disagree with everything that they do and say? it seems like you’re straddling the fence…or you just like to cause drama to continue to gets hits on your site….although im sure you could get just as many hits without making a conscious effort to being so consistently controversial with the two.

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