Man Kills Wife and 5 Children After Losing His Job

Residents of a Los Angeles suburb are grieving the deaths of 6 people who died yesterday at the hands of a deranged man who shot them before turning the gun on himself.

Ervin Antonio Lupoe of Wilmington, killed his family and committed suicide after he and his wife lost their jobs at Kaiser Permanente.

Before he died — and probably after killing his entire family — Lupoe faxed a rambling letter to a local TV station claiming his wife suggested he murder her and their children before turning the gun on himself so the children wouldn’t have to live in poverty as a result of his unemployment.

According to the station, KABC-TV, Mr Lupoe wrote: “Why leave the children to a stranger?” (LINK)

Dead are his wife Ana and their children – 8-year-old Brittney, 5-year-old twin girls Jaszmin and Jassely and two-year-old twin boys Benjamin and Christian.

Unfortunately, that stimulus package that Congress is voting on today doesn’t include much in the way of immediate relief for families like the Lupoes who are faced with homelessness. Barack Obama’s stimulus package contains millions of dollars for ACORN, the arts and so-called “green” projects that supposedly will create jobs, but no one has explained just how those jobs will be created.

In the meantime, the Lupoe family is dead. The residents in their neighborhood are grieving, city officials are wringing their hands and blaming the economy — but at least those abortion groups overseas got their money from Obama.


 


54 Responses to “Man Kills Wife and 5 Children After Losing His Job”

  1. 1
    KAT says:

    i read this yesterday…..how selfish!! they were blessed with 2 sets of twins…why not just take your own life if that’s how you feel? this story gets me sad and pissed off every time i read it.

  2. 2
    Terry .W says:

    People continue to amaze me on a daily basis – I dont know their situation at all quite frankly but deciding that they are ALL out of options(as in NO OPTIONS AT ALL) as parents so they would rather kill their babies and themselves? – a m***af**king damn shame.

  3. 3
    Amulet says:

    I wish they would have just sought their other family members to help them.

    It’s really strange that this family man killed his family over the economy/lack of money.

  4. 4
    PAGESINADIARY says:

    hes a coward and you know black woman. she was talking smart to his azz. spare them and shoot yo self!! dont bring us down with you. she could have gotten help, they could have gotten help.

    a family can get help!!

  5. 5
    yvonne79 says:

    SMH…a sad story indeed!

  6. 6
    babysoft15 says:

    Sandra…this is a horrible tragedy of a crime committed by someone who was obviously mentally ill! Obama has absolutely nothing to do with this situation; you’re just as much to blame as he is for this senseless act of violence! I’m not sure if you realize this, but it was Bush who put this country in this situation and although I dislike Bush, this tragedy can’t be blamed on him either! There are families all across this country that have lost their jobs, homes, etc.; resorting to murdering your entire family isn’t a consequence of a bad economy…it’s a consequence of mental illness!! There is always another option…the state of our economy isn’t permanent, but DEATH is! I pray for those children, hopefully they didn’t suffer!!

    Lastly, I hope all of your news posts won’t be associated with Obama…it’s getting CORNY and just plain BORING!!

  7. 7
    The Divine Ms. K says:

    Sad story – you hate to think that someone thought murder-suicide was the only option.

    I am even more amazed how this post turned into an Obama bash, but since this is your site Sandra…maybe I’m not.

    The economy is bad, and millions across the country find themselves in the same situation, but do not do these type of things. The only person to blame in this is the person who pulled the trigger.

  8. 8
    Amulet says:

    These are the times seriously.
    Parents are killing kids. Kids are killing parents.

    They didn’t even give the kids a chance.
    Things are not as they seem right now.

  9. 9
    Charles says:

    YES PRASIE KING OBAMA

    and dont dare blame that **** on theeconomy you mean to tell me neither one of these indivuiduals had a savings pension something or family or friends, and what poiverty this is some bull**** dont blame **** on this economy it is not nearly as bad as people make it out to be

    and sandra those abortions need to happen

    ALL HAIL KING OBAMA!

  10. 10
    ReadTheBlog says:

    Sandra, I think it’s damn dirty for you to try to blame our PRESIDENT BARACK HUSSEIN OBAMA for this tragedy. The couple didn’t even lose their jobs because of cutbacks. Clearly, when people do things like this, it’s a deeper rooted issue.

    I’m glad the money for overseas abortion is on it’s way – MAAYBE IT WILL STOP IN THE UK FIRST!

  11. 11
    lialin says:

    as sad as this story is i cant help but be pissed off… depsite the fact that the COUNTRY is suffering… you decide that since you and your pickle head wwife lose yal jobs yal are gonna kill your kids!? CHILDREN because they messed up!? oh hell no! there is welfare for one… hell people may not want it but its there.
    they could’ve asked family, something! the kids would’ve been better off with a stranger and have a CHANCE than be dead with nothing to make for themselves! thats is terrible… and what the hell was the mother doing while he was trippin!? this pisses me off, but i am sad for those kids.

  12. 12
    ReadTheBlog says:

    Supposedly the couple didn’t lose their jobs because of cutbacks, either. The family was under investigation for some inappropriate work ethics. DO YOUR REASERCH PEOPLE, CAUSE SANDRA ISN’T DOING IT FOR YOU (unless it is something about TI)!

    the story is on CNN

  13. 13
    intown51 says:

    Obviously the obama abortion issue has nothing to do w/ this domestic tragedy. those funds could and would not have been diverted in a manner that could have helped them, but nice SNARK Sandra. (Or would that be “flaming”? Either way, you’re TRYING to incite rabid responses)

    Moving on, you GOTTA let the kids go live w/ someone, anyone else before you get this drastic. This is on some old 3rd world country manly pride shyt, just terrible. We have mad social systems in America. Pride is a MF though.

  14. 14
    DivaMama says:

    @ read, yeah, hubby and I were reading about that last night.

    This is indeed a sad case. There had to be another option for those poor children – the entire family, actually. I only hope that the kids were asleep when they were shot. :( Makes me want to cry. I don’t know if anything could make me put a gun to my kids’ heads, let alone myself or my husbands.

  15. 15
    Shauny says:

    How in the hail does what this man did have anything to do with the President? They were lying about employment to get daycare money and were caught and fired. They weren’t laid off THEY BOTH WERE FIRED! How is the POTUS coming into play with this story. I’m not even going there with Sandra about this post. CRAZY

  16. 16
    bk2atl says:

    Let’s be careful too about blaming the wife. For all we know she had nothing to do with his decision to kill his famly. All we have is a letter from him claiming the wife agreed.

  17. 17
    intown51 says:

    And dang, I’m a Kaiser baby. They are usually rather good to their employees. They probably had more than adequate cause to fire them.

  18. 18
    Terry .W says:

    @intown – this has nothing to do with “3rd world country manly pride shyt” – Men and Fathers in far worse condition living in the third world pride themeselves on doing whatever it takes to provide for their families and keep the ALIVE – Thank you !

  19. 19
    Terry .W says:

    ^^them

  20. 20
    Amulet says:

    Whatever happened was sickening.

  21. 21
    teecee says:

    so its presidents obama fought this crazy man killed his wife and family ? he didnt get crazy over night he was crazy for a very long time.

    also, all bills must start in congress, president obama cannot create a stimulus package he has to give his intentions to a member of congress on the budget committee and they have to present it to the committee and get it past before it comes to the house or senate floor then vote on and then sent to a committee where both sides hammer out one bill that will past the whole congress.

  22. 22
    keely107 says:

    Well MY stimulus package has relief, and its spelled GOD!!

  23. 23
    Dhoward1913 says:

    Okay, Sandra you are tripping. After learning about this yesterday, I did some research and found that the husband getting fired had nothing to do with what is going on with the economy. The wife was fired last week due, to some undisclosed reason and the husband was too. This was a selfish act that one man is responsible for. Congress can not be blamed for everything.

  24. 24
    DivaMama says:

    Amen to that, keely!

  25. 25
    Daisy says:

    @Keely YOU BETTA SAY THAT AND KNOW THAT! This is what happens when ppl serve and worship money. I am glad God is Jevoah Jirah my provider!

  26. 26
    Amulet says:

    teecee says:
    president obama cannot create a stimulus package he has to give his intentions to a member of congress on the budget committee
    ———————–

    I don’t know what budget we have in this country right now when we are in a deficit, and Obama sent millions away last week…

  27. 27
    flyqtnva says:

    Why yall getting mad at Sandra she speaks the truth. Obama talked the talk but he cant walk the walk. He just like G.Bush. Do as I say not as I do.

    STOP BEING BLINDED OBAMA NEEDS TO STEP HIS GAME UP. HE FOLLOWING THE SAME WHITE IS RIGHT BS AS USUAL. GET ONLINE AND LOOK AT THE STIMULUS PACKAGE YOURSELF. THIS IS YOUR COUNTRY TO!

  28. 28

    Im praying for this family! So sad the wife didnt do anything when he was planning all of this.Im just saying. I wish my hubby would come home and say something whack like killing my babies!

  29. 29
    Terry .W says:

    The man has not been in office even for a month…he’s not a miracle worker and he did not inherit a squeaky clean country. So comparisons to Bush are pre-mature. People should just run for office if they feel they can do a better job…its just that simple!

  30. 30
    Amulet says:

    I definitely don’t think I’m getting married for real now.
    People is crazy.

  31. 31
    teecee says:

    Amulet Says:
    I don’t know what budget we have in this country right now when we are in a deficit, and Obama sent millions away last week…
    ——————————————————-

    that money was sent to do some of the rebuilding of friendship and ties that president bush destroyed. you know america is alone in the world because we have destroyed most relationships with other countries….that money is held up and not in use…..

  32. 32
    shay1 says:

    Sandra – did you make all their lips that color?

  33. 33
    carmelita79 says:

    how does this have to do with barak? so this unstable man is baraks fault? not to mention that the man DID NOT lose his job to layoff but they had grounds to fire him.

    lets just blame obaman for everything. its not like he messed this country up it was like this when he got it. it will take him but i have faith if we WORK TOGETHER it can get done. stop being so miserable SR

  34. 34
    teecee says:

    @ flyqtnva ……. what can this man do in 10 days of being on the job, when he cant introduce a bill in congress ?

    the stimulus package come out of congress and has very little to do with president obama congress vote on the stimulus package that will help the country. if you dont like the stimulus package ask you congress person to add what he thinks is right because they are the ones who write the package.

  35. 35
    Anna says:

    Amulet Says:

    I definitely don’t think I’m getting married for real now.
    People is crazy
    ~~~~~~~~~
    They are all crazy. You just marry how much crazy you are willing to put up with. LOL.

  36. 36
    speakinmymind says:

    you betta speak on it keely107!! I know WHO I am and WHOSE I am so i’m not depending on any stimulus package to see me through this recession, the next recession or the one after that!

    PREACH!! CHUCH!! **in my Bishop Don Magic Juan voice**

  37. 37
    speakinmymind says:

    @ Anna,

    you said exactly what i was thinking! LOLOLOL

    **married for ten years and going strong**

  38. 38
    iscream says:

    Its snowing today… Damn Barock
    I left my wallet in the car this morning… Damn Barock
    I’m hungry… damn Barock
    I gotta pee… Damn Barock.

    Smh @ you taking a travasty and inserting your bs about Obama. Do you have friends in real life?… <— that was a serious question.

  39. 39
    ReadTheBlog says:

    speakinmymind, did I ever tell you I met the Bishop at the Big T Bazar in Dallas TX? Dude had male groupies. He was fly for an old pimp. kinda on the skinny side. I wouldn’t work for him, though :-)

  40. 40
    speakinmymind says:

    @ ReadTheBlog,

    that is too hilarious – male groupies…WTF?!? i just think he’s funny because that pimp stuff is serious as heck to him. did you see that pimp documentary? i think it came on HBO a few years back. those pimps were seriously ’bout it! roflmao

  41. 41
    Bird says:

    Sandra,

    Thank for turning a horribly tragic story into straight up comedy. Did you say that Barack who has been in office for a week is the reason for these deaths? That woman married a nut. That’s the only reason. If they just got laid off then they should not have been homeless. Both could have gotten unemployment and childcare for all those babies had to be at least $500 a week. That’s money they could have saved while job hunting. Based on what you posted there was no reason for this man to do this other than that he was crazy. I know his coworkers are saying, “I’m glad it wasn’t us.”

  42. 42
    KAT says:

    LMAO @

    iscream Says:

    Its snowing today… Damn Barock
    I left my wallet in the car this morning… Damn Barock
    I’m hungry… damn Barock
    I gotta pee… Damn Barock.

  43. 43
    starr says:

    Absolutely Sad…..those babies……smh

  44. 44
    Amulet says:

    The look in his eyes…

  45. 45
    kalvonel says:

    I respect everyone’s opinion as their own, but Sandra I must say that this post put a sour taste in my mouth. this tragedy; while i can & do see your point, shouldn’t be use for propaganda of ANY kind. A family is gone all because of some pure BS that the father and mother got caught up in. It was REAL Republican of you to try to use this tragedy to throw poo on our POTUS

  46. 46
    TM@ri3 says:

    Just admit it yall~Sandra is a stupid, unattractive, ashy, no decorum having b*tch! I’ma keep it all the way real! I’m soo tired of hearing Obama’s name. Damn, if I come up pregnant tomorrow and I aint had sex in 3 months, I’m just going to blame Obama! Hell Sandra does this everytime! If I get a flat tire today, I’ma blame Obama! Geez Louise!
    I guess I’m banned from now on, but who gives a f*ck!

  47. 47
    PAHairston says:

    Hello All. Damn, damn, damn, what a senseless tragedy. God help us all during these trying times. And while you all are praying for what’s left of this family, pray for the policemen who found these beautiful babies. They will have nightmares forever. Peace.

  48. 48
    MzDetermined says:

    Very sad. Who in there right mind would do a devilish thing like this? what is this world comming too? I don’t even like watching the news anymore because it is always something dramatic happening.

  49. 49
    miamore73 says:

    The local news here made a comment that both were fired from Kaiser due to some type of fraudulant circumstances surrounding the couple. Not because of the economy.

    This is so sad what a beautiful family. This act was so selfish. The children weren’t given any option. We don’t want to live so we don’t want anyone else raising our children. I can’t imagine what those children went through while they’re parents committed these crimes against them. I’m also with PAHairston you also have to feel for the policemen that found there bodies I know that’s not something I’d get over.

  50. 50
    babysoft15 says:

    I’d just like to be the first to say Goodbye to TM@ri3….cause you know darn well your getting banned for that comment!! At least you went out like a trooper :)

  51. 51
    babysoft15 says:

    Darn it *correction* you’re not your

  52. 52
    bobblekins says:

    I couldn’t sleep, and I came on your site a little hungry for one of your Medical Minutes. Then I saw this nonsense…

    At first I was going to bounce, but I realized YOU need a Medical Minute, Sandra! Or maybe 60 of them a couple times a week. Therapy could really help ease the immense emotional pain you are suffering. You, darling, are obviously clinically depressed.

    Are you homesick? Perhaps America isn’t working out for you. And I know you aren’t fitting in, and you never write about having a significant other or a child. Depressed, lonely, in a foreign country that you don’t understand. That’s a lot for anyone. I sincerely hope you get some help. You’re obviously intelligent, but just as clearly disturbed.

    By the way– the money Obama released was not just for abortions. It allowed NGOs (Non Government Organizations) that dispense condoms to be eligible for aid. Your beloved Bush DENIED aid to orgs that dispensed condoms. You feel me Sandra? In African countries where AIDS is pandemic, Bush wouldn’t allow help for organizations that dispensed CONDOMS. You know condoms save lives better than most.

    Your take was so wrong on this, and that’s all too typical of you. Leave the political analysis to those who are informed. You know all about Ciara and Weezy and all the rest of those knuckleheads– but you don’t know jack about American politics. And you’re too color-struck. We allow people to racially self-identify here. As hard as it seems for you to believe, there really are some decent light-skinned BLACK Americans, hon. Really. Lighten up, girl! (LOL)

    For real, though. Good luck, Sandra. And please– get some help, and stop reading or listening to whoever you get your news from. They’re LYING to you, girl. It’s not helping you, and they’re not telling you the truth.

    God bless you. I will pray for you. You seem so alone.

  53. 53
    brooklynisis says:

    Why is there NOTHING about this on the national news?!?!? No Today Show nothing. If they were WHITE I would hear it every minute and they would pre-empt shows… Horrible how they do us on the news…

  54. 54
    Amulet says:

    @brooklynisis, I don’t think anyone wants to hear this story. It’s sickening. Black people don’t usually do things like this. Most of us usually get by through faith in God no matter what kind of mess we get in. Something was clinically, satanically, and mentally wrong in this whole bundle of mess. It’s horribly sad, and needs to be left to rest.

Comments are closed for this post