Details are still sketchy, but according to online reports, singer Chris Brown hauled off and punched singer Rihanna in the face during a heated argument in their limo after they left the Clive Davis Pre-Grammy party in LA. reports that Brown turned himself in to police Sunday evening and was released on $50,000 bond about 90 minutes later. He was accompanied by his attorney Mark Geragos.

Last week rumors swirled that Chris was cheating on Rihanna with another woman -- Trey Songz's ex-fiancee, who Chris recently hired as one of his dancers.

The former lovebirds strived to give the appearance of still being a loving couple at Clive's party, but as you can see by Brown's body language above -- he was already over the relationship.

An inside source informed us that the trouble started when Chris considered Rihanna to be "damaged goods" after he discovered she had contracted Herpes. [LINK]

There are also rumors circulating that Rihanna contracted Herpes from another popular rapper who performed during the Grammys telecast Sunday night. They say Brown was acutely aware that Rihanna was getting her back blown out often and repeatedly by this married rapper.

The LAPD say a warrant was issued for Brown's arrest after an "unidentified" female filed domestic assault and battery charges against him following that early morning brawl. But sources say the woman, who sustained "visible injuries" on her face during the attack, was Rihanna.

This story exploded all over the Internets on Sunday just hours before Chris and Rihanna were scheduled to perform during the Grammy Awards telecast.

Grammy reps announced both artists canceled their appearances by late Sunday afternoon, and that's when rumors began swirling wildly.

Rihanna and Brown began dating in 2007 soon after the story broke of the scandalous relationship between the teenager and his 30-something manager. It all seemed so convenient at the time.

Once Rihanna found out that Chris was cheating on her, she should have packed her things and bounced right then. But instead, she made the same innocent mistake that many young women make by sticking around and hoping their man will get over his cheating ways.

Photo: Getty Image

  • Anti-believer

    WOW sandra got more info than the LA news stations, LIFE files or anyone else.

    I wonder if Rhino'hanna hit Chris first??? A slap forward deserve a slap back.

  • Smokie

    The BIG question is: Did Rihanna get herpes from Jay-Z???

  • licia

    it didn't have to go this far. they should have just let each other go .

  • Bubbles

    This is a very messy post Auntie. Ever by your normally messy standards.

    Jay gave Rihanna herpes ? smh

    Rihanna is not even 21 and she's supposedly dealing with domestic violence, married men, sexually transmitted diseases...

    Damn girl!

  • Bubbles

    ^^ i meant EVEN not ever.

  • kcicero

    I highly doubt that Rhi has herpes, it could have just been a cold sore...or Chris could have gave it to her. Anyway the caption should read Chris pulls an Ike on Rhianna, lol. Not funny but hey...

  • lexdiamonz

    rhi got herpes i saw the lip !! LOL anyhoo JAYZ going to whup his azz messing with his boo but here are your demi-gods people SMH

  • masonmom

    now they want us to believe its young hov...bey aint having that shyt!! ri ri and chris are both young; let them be. they staging all this publicity for their upcoming duet album! JENNIFER HUDSON'S PERFORMANCE WAS OFF THE HOOK!! shine the light on her azz and the swagger like us one vs. "chrihanna"

  • iscream

    This is the ONLY place I've heard this Jay Z mess. (R U printing rumors now) it was already CONFIRMED by Rhi's people that they put that rumor out there (about Jay & Rhi) to help her sell records. & you yourself (a nurse) said that wasn't herpes but a cold sore. (Y don't u bump that story up)

    @ topic. Chris Brown is young and if his career isn't over I hope he learns from this mess. (Be it Rhi that he hit or not). If scandle is what her people like to vibe off. We are about to see a whole lot of Rhianna. Hopefully, she can help some young girl out there who is in an abusive relationship move on.

  • starr

    NO matter how this turns out, this is a mess.

    Idk what happened, but i'm willing to bet the two of em was arguing, and things got out of hand. SMH @ all this.

  • starr

    LOL @ sandra's spin on the story

  • KaraZ

    OT: cold sores are mostly caused by Herpes (usually type 1 not the type 2 that you'd need Valtrex for) Some stats say that up to 90% of the population actually have herpes type 1... I don't necessarily believe that stat.

    anti-believer's response is scary and probably part of the reason domestic violence remains an issue in our communities.

    I'll need to see Chris' face to believe it was Rihanna he hit; she strikes me as a hellcat who'll leave marks if someone tried to touch her, and considering how bright Chris is, you're going to see them.

  • Doc Jam

    all bad...Rihanna is definitely NOT least not by The Doc Jam...but i hope she's ok.

  • yvonne79

    Aw,man! Say it isn't so......
    I heard this story on EVERY radio station this morning. No matter what the dispute, it doesn't justify anyone putting their hands on the other. I feel so bad for the two of them. This is NOT the kind publicity you want.

  • pinkscorpion

    This is indeed a mess. It'll be interesting to see what actually comes out in the next few days. I thought they were cute as a couple, but I knew it would turn sour, because they are just too young. They must have missed Bow Wow and Ciara's issues.

  • flyqtnva

    A cold sore is herpes you silly people. Thats why you should be careful where you put your mouth. Jay Z or TI, he has the same problem with his lips. Look it up and be informed!!!!!!!!

  • buttercup24

    Damn, I hope this turns out to be some type of misunderstanding. If it is true then it proves you can't judge a book by its cover.

  • yvonne79

    Ok, I am tired of hearing about this DAMN cold sore/herpes.
    Here is information pulled from WebMD on the topic.
    Cold sores, sometimes called fever blisters, are groups of small blisters on the lip and around the mouth. The skin around the blisters is often red, swollen, and sore. The blisters may break open, leak a clear fluid, and then scab over after a few days. They usually heal after several days to 2 weeks

    What causes cold sores?
    Cold sores are caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV). There are two types of herpes simplex virus: HSV-1 and HSV-2. Both virus types can cause lip and mouth sores and genital herpes.

    The herpes simplex virus usually enters the body through a break in the skin around or inside the mouth. It is usually spread when a person touches a cold sore or touches infected fluid-such as from sharing eating utensils or razors, kissing an infected person, or touching that person's saliva. A parent who has a cold sore often spreads the infection to his or her child in this way. Cold sores can also be spread to other areas of the body.

    What are the symptoms?
    The first symptoms of cold sores may include pain around your mouth and on your lips, a fever, a sore throat, or swollen glands in your neck or other parts of the body. Small children sometimes drool before cold sores appear. After the blisters appear, the cold sores usually break open, leak a clear fluid, and then crust over and disappear after several days to 2 weeks. For some people, cold sores can be very painful.
    Some people have the virus but don't get cold sores. They have no symptoms.

    How are cold sores diagnosed?
    Your doctor can tell if you have cold sores by asking you questions to find out whether you have come into contact with the virus and by examining you. You probably won't need any tests.

    How are cold sores treated?
    Cold sores will usually start to heal on their own within a few days. But if they cause pain or make you feel embarrassed, they can be treated. Treatment may include skin creams, ointments, or sometimes pills. Treatment may get rid of the cold sores only 1 to 2 days faster, but it can also help ease painful blisters or other uncomfortable symptoms.

    The herpes simplex virus that causes cold sores cannot be cured. After you get infected, the virus stays in your body for the rest of your life. If you get cold sores often, treatment can reduce the number of cold sores you get and how severe they are.

    How can you prevent cold sores?
    There are some things you can do to keep from getting the herpes simplex virus.

    Avoid coming into contact with infected body fluids, such as kissing an infected person.
    Avoid sharing eating utensils, drinking cups, or other items that a person with a cold sore may have used.
    After you have been infected with the virus, there is no sure way to prevent more cold sores. But there are some things you can do to reduce your number of outbreaks and prevent spreading the virus.

    Avoid the things that trigger your cold sores, such as stress and colds or the flu.
    Always use lip balm and sunscreen on your face. Too much sunlight can cause cold sores to flare.
    Avoid sharing towels, razors, silverware, toothbrushes, or other objects that a person with a cold sore may have used.
    When you have a cold sore, make sure to wash your hands often, and try not to touch your sore. This can help keep you from spreading the virus to your eyes or genital area or to other people.
    Talk to your doctor if you get cold sores often. You may be able to take prescription pills to prevent cold sore outbreaks.

  • Daisy

    Morning Fam!

    Remeber all that Chris grew up watching his mother get beat. Bless his heart. I hope she doesn't have Herpes and I hope this isn't his 1st step to becoming a woman beater. I pray they all work that out. I did say that Chris didn't look happy anymore in those pics.

    If Jay has Herpes than so does B and I don't think that's the case.

  • Daisy

    @Yvonne thanks for the medical min. I have a gfriend that gets cold sores every blue men and she won't leave the house at all until it goes away.

  • Daisy

    typo men should be moon

  • yvonne79

    Hey Daisy!

  • jazi65

    She had a cold sore, not herpes or this would have blew up weeks ago.

    Rih Rih stepped to his cheating azz and he flew off the handle..Putting his hands on her is UNACCEPTABLE!

  • Daisy

    I don't really believe Herpes is behind the fight. Those rumors started a few weeks back and he was still entertaining her. Doesn't add up. I want to know where their security was?

  • teecee

    you know all of this was building up and he had just enough wine in him to get it off his chest.... especially if she gave him a lil visitor by the name of herpes.......

  • eastpointvet

    its like 30 versions of this story its crazy

  • Fenix6376

    I have to say.... I agree with Anti-believer. Self defense does not equal domestic violence, IMO!!! If a woman/man lays a hand on a woman/man they deserved to be hit back. I am not going to allow someone to just hit me and not defend myself. I am also not going to hit a man if I can't take him. That is a simple fact of life. A woman can not/should not hit a man and then claim doemstic violence when he defends himself. They would both be wrong!! Again, all my opinion.

    I don't think Anti-believers comment is the reason we have domestic violence issues in our community. Getting slapped and slapping someone back is not the same as being verbally and physically abused by your partner with no provocation. I'm just saying!!

    This is a truly unfortunate incident that could ruin the career of either of these entertainers. The question I have for Ms Sandra is... If Ri was messing around with Jay can she really sit on a high horse and judge cheating!! Maybe she stayed with chris because "birds of feather....."

  • intensemocha




  • Shauny

    Who said that Rhianna hit him at all? That's an assumption not a fact at this point? Why are we we so quick to make the victim the offender? Chris hit her, that is confirmed, nothing else is.

    He was still with this girl ALL the time she had the bump on her lips so why are we to believe he just snapped now?

    Sandra is the ONLY person adding this whole Jay Z spin to this story, that's where her story moves in a different direction from EVERY other site that is covering this story and we all know how she feels about Jay so I don't even entertain that portion of the story.

    He hit her which is a b!itch move on ANY man part IMO. He needed to step away if things got too heated no black his girl/ex girls eye.

  • Avanti

    When the cold sore pics came out...Sandra if I'm not mistaken posted something saying that a cold sore isn't the same as the STD herpes. This is the same information I've always gotten from my Drs.

    So how are yall trying to say that just b/c chick had a cold sore that now she's passing STD's thru the industry? Thats so reckless and so irresponsible for people to put that out there and start speculating. Thats something very serious; its not trivial like Chris "having a Rihanna looking jump-off". I just feel that this herpes talk needs to cease until some confessions or EVIDENCE (not pics of cold sores) come to light.

    Hope she's doing better and IF he did this to her, hope he's gettin b*tch slapped on the hour.

  • Avanti

    And CB's career probably isn't over but his endorsements just hit a wall...believe that. You see what happened w/ Michael Phelps' endorsements last week.

  • Charles


    BRANDY WOULD NEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • leat

    why are we throwing Rhianna under the bus all of a sudden! CB was always childish and maybe hes the one who finally caught feelings after they kept saying they were just friends. Sandra, I thought Rhi Rhi was your facvorite what happened!

  • kcicero

    This is ridiculous some of you Black people I shall not call out names are just plan old niggers<---- ignorant human beings. It does not matter what the circumstances are a man should NEVER hit a woman. Probably some dumb @ss fans trying to justify your favorite singer. The fact is that a woman was hit by a man end of story it doesn't matter the details. He could have walked away. SMDH dumb arse broads.......

    And every cold sore is not Herpes darn it!!!!

  • kcicero

    Charles go sitchoarzdownsomewhere...lame...I like Brandy too but making fun of a man hitting a woman is not must be a Queen...

  • MissGauzzz

    Are some of you serious??? This IS NOT going to ruin anybody's career! Not in Hollyweird...The only reason they sat Michael Phelps down for a few minutes is because they didn't want to hear no shyt from folks complaining or pullng the race card...but whatever went down between Chris and Rihanna is NOT gonna kill nobody's career!

  • Avanti

    @ leat:

    Thats what I'm saying. Rihanna was the "do no wrong" kid around these parts now Sandra's feeding into the unproven RUMOR that the chick has herpes! Wow...did something happen behind the scenes with you and Rih Rih's people, Sandra? LOL

  • missmiami

    I bet Rihanna is so insecure and was talking shit to Chris. She probably hit him as well. I believe in the saying, "I don't hit women but I'll beat a bitches ass". LOL!

  • Avanti

    Never said the career would end...I said it wouldn't end but the endorsements would temporarily dry up. The contracts have "moral clauses" and an arrest almost always violates that. That is what the comparison to Michael Phelps was about!!!! Its clearly stated above!

  • kcicero

    missmiami your another example of a stupid NIGG**

  • kcicero

    @ Avanti I agree he'll probably lose some major endorsements like Double Mint Gum.

  • kcicero

    Oh I heard on the radio that she had bite marks all over her did anyone else here that too?

  • yvonne79

    Bite marks? Wow, they were straight brawlin' huh?

  • Nina

    Very interesting weekend...but this is my first time hearing about her getting herpes from Jay-Z tho.

  • kcicero

    @Yvonne that's what I heard on big boy's show...that's what I said bite marks how the hell do you get bite marks unless you're trying to hold someone down...? She should have took her shoe off and whipped him like Tina did Ike....

  • Bird

    I love my blogs man! Just as I know they would, they have spiced up this very sad situation with unsubstantiated gossip. I feel so terrible for Chris and Rihanna this morning. As bad as I feel for them having to go through this public humiliation, I can't turn my head away.

  • missmiami

    @ #40
    Screw you and your opinion. Las time, I checked this was a blog. If you don't agree w/me keep it moving. I try to keep to myself on this shit but some of you trick ass wanna be sistah soldiers won't let that be. So as for being ignorant you and your ALLAH are ignorant and can suck it. That's on the strength of Obama.

  • Amulet

    Good Morning,

    It just appears that Rihanna loves him unconditionally and he doesn't feel the same. She is a young woman, so it seems that she is trying to hold on to him although he is trying to let go. He probably hit because she wouldn't let him go. Just because the bull wanted to come out of the taurus doesn't give Chris (being a man who is bigger than the little lady Rihanna) a right to brutally hit her. Pisces are slow to let love go...
    They are learning, growing pains hurt.

    Let him go Rihanna.

  • kcicero

    On the strength of Obama really I don't think he'd approve of an ignorant ass comment like that especially because he has Muslims in his family but that is the exact kind of response I'd expect from an ignorant uneducated GED having woman also known as a NIGGER!

  • Bird


    Truer words were never spoken.

  • missmiami

    LA LA LA LA LA, so immature. You throw tantrums like a child when someone doesn't agree. OBAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kick rocks and change that ugly ass picture cuz you are not India Arie.

    Anyway, you are not on my level and I don't have to prove my intelligence or stauts to the likes of someone as blind as you. So w/that said kick rocks and have some PORK :)

  • Amulet

    Cold sores are caused by the herpes simplex virus.
    I know people who have gotten cold sores from their significant others. At least he didn't get anything else, that we know of.

  • pinkscorpion

    wow @ the comments. Yall on fire this am.. lol

  • kcicero

    LOL LAUGHING MY ASS OFF GIRL PLEAS! I was in the same room with Obama numerous times I worked for his campaign I have pictures with him you've only seen him on television girl boo ain't nobody checking for you and your ignorant lame ass!

    And I'm done probably look like you fell down the ugly tree and hit all the branches before you landed. My religion don't have anything to do with this come at me. And you keep eating pork atleast I won't be the one with Diabetes and Heart Failure.

  • kcicero

    Women beaters and their supporters like the ghetto arse missmiami are plagues to our community.

  • missmiami

    :) If a woman hits a man she deserves to get hit back. End of story. No one should put there hands on anyone. Being a woman doesn't make you immune to an getting your ass whipped. Domestic violence is domestic violence regardless of the sex. As for you working for Obama who the hell cares. Add that shit to your profile if you want a reward. BTW, why am I responding to your lame ass. Get a life and stop blogging on this shit like you get paid to do it.

    Fucking rag junkie.

  • missmiami

    You are no longer worthy of my time so you can continue to go tit for tat cuz I have real business to attend to. Go back to making you 35k - 40k a year trick.

  • kcicero

    Um I think the insult is towel head or sand nigger...not to sure what a rag junkie is...and I can blog cause I can afford it...can you?

    And you reping Obama made hard so I had to point that out don't need an award just stating the facts. You don't even know him, never been in the same room with him, have no idea what he stands for but you got your lighters up for him. Fall back on the Obama is your God thing it's not a good look for you.

    And FYI he likes people with intelligence not lame's with a brain the size of a peanut...and now I'm done....

  • Daisy

    @Bird I agree I feel sad for both of them

    @KC Until Chris or RiRi speaks on it I am not going to throw him under the bus but I wont defend him either. I dont know what happened as I was not there. I do NOT and I repeat DO NOT condone a man hitting a woman at ALL even if she hit him 1st. I think to many stories are running wild right now I need more facts. If the facts come out and he did indeed lay hands on her then I hope he gets counseling ASAP cause he witnessed such acts growing up. I know his mother has to be disappointed in him right about now. Domestic violence is a real and serious issue.

  • KaraZ

    Umm I wish kcicero and missmiami wouldn't turn this into a damn battleground!!! Why does Obama have to come into this exchange? Y'all don't have anything to do at work this morning?

    Everyone should keep their hands to themselves period. Women shouldn't be hit by the men who claim to love them regardless of the circumstances, beating her is not necessary for self defense.

  • ReadTheBlog

    I blame you, Sandra. Cause posting that story about Chris cheating with Trey's ex made Rihanna wile out and you know it went from there...

    Must've been bad if their security couldn't handle it, and the police had to get involved. i hope they;ve oficially called it quits - if not, shame on her. She's a pretty girl and can do better.

    Watch her downward spiral from here, drinking, drugs, and poor performances - shame shame.

  • browni007

    I agree with Bird too - 2 young superstars do some dumb ignorant shyt - cancel your grammy appearance b/c neither one of you could control your emotions.

    Foolishness. I'm glad he truned himself in and Im glad she made a report - I guess we will hear the outcome later on.

  • flyqtnva

    kcicero Says:

    Um I think the insult is towel head or sand nigger…not to sure what a rag junkie is…and I can blog cause I can afford it…can you?

    And you reping Obama made hard so I had to point that out don’t need an award just stating the facts. You don’t even know him, never been in the same room with him, have no idea what he stands for but you got your lighters up for him. Fall back on the Obama is your God thing it’s not a good look for you.

    And FYI he likes people with intelligence not lame’s with a brain the size of a peanut…and now I’m done….

    i GOT TO GET YA SINCE YOUR ON HERE DEFENDING oBAMA LIKE YOUR HIS LEFT BRAIN. If your statement is true that he only likes educated people.

    Why they HELL did he invite Beyonce & JAYZ to perform at the ball? #2. Why is he passing off a BS bill saying it will stimulate the economy but when you read the bill itself it has nothing to do with growing our economy?

  • msluxlorraine


    Kcicero and Missmiami both of you have valid points, just leave it at that. Everyone has the right to disagree or agree no need for the name calling, because that type of behavior takes away from the validity of your original points. But I will say one thing no one should hit anyone and if you do whatever happens, happens. women have been saying for far too long a man should not hit a woman, which is true but why are we exempt from that rule, no woman should hit a man either unless your defending your life, then all bets are off! Trust me Im not going around hitting my 6'2 husband, im only 5'3, I would be making a fool of myself.

  • Shauny

    Wow, and this is just Monday. MFs are going at it today.

    I agree with Daisy and KC, under NO circumstances should I man strike a woman. Now IF RhiRhi did hit Chris, he should've taken a que from another Chris....Rock and shook that shyt out of her not black her eye. I hope that if he was hitting and biting her the she tore his azz up as best she could. She had to had a 4" at least on. Take it to the nicca.

    I really hopes she lets him go now. It's over girl, let this buzzard be.

  • Krysi J

    What?....tell me this is a hoax??!!

  • terika83

    One...Helen wasn't recently hired by Chris brown...

    Two...if what you say is true and Rihanna cheated first then actually Chris should have woke up and smelled the coffee back then.

    I just read that they did break up recently and he wanted to end the relationship but she didn't....maybe they fought cause of that?

  • terika83

    @kcicero.....I read online that a cold sore IS herpes...its herpes simplex...totally different from the type that you receive on your genitals...but still herpes and can be passed to others, which may cause them to get cold sores.

  • speakinmymind

    **DING DING** All fighters to your respective corners!! ROFLMBAO at the comedy going on in the box this morning! Whew...y'all a mess up in here, up in here!

    anyhoo, on topic: i don't think you should hit anyone unless you EXPECT to get hit back, male or female. Also, i think Sandra is reckless and mean-spirited to link Jay-Z or anyone else to this drama between Chris and Rihanna. I feel sorry for both of them cuz they're young and just starting out. we're all guilty of letting our emotions get the best of us but we're lucky to not be in the spotlight when it happens.

  • terika83

    Personally, I think this all may have been triggered from the cold sore. They appeared to be fine before it...after it...he began to give her weird looks then a week or two later they break up....I'm sure he caught slack from people around him because the blogs blew it up and some implied that she gave him herpes. I could see him not wanting to be associated with that, and I think he finally snapped. It's not right at all, just what I think happened.

  • shunda

    @KC and missmiami
    You two are grown and can say what you want but can we try to refrain from using the n-word and downing people for their religion choices. Thanks! I am sure you two will be fine tomorrow.

  • Daisy

    @Shunda thanks I didnt have the energy to try and play my peacemaker

  • Amulet

    terika83 Says:
    Personally, I think this all may have been triggered from the cold sore.
    Terika, I agree totally.

    Then he seemed to have lost love for her.

  • shunda

    I try not to get in between people argiung there points but those two things bother me. Plus I am not feeling well today so I would rather read funny things. But hey that is just me.

  • kcicero

    @ flyqtnva I never said I agreed with his bailout plan and I honestly think it will be quite different then what the first one was. That being said, congress has put in a lot of pork and unnecessary things that will do nothing but put us further in debt. Fair is Fair, the man is intelligent and he surrounds himself with the like but just because I acknowledge that does not make me his biggest fan.

    @ Shunda I have zero tolerance for that mess. My birth mother got her ass beat by my brother's father until she left him and to this day my brother will NOT put his hands on a female. Ignorant People would condone a man hitting a I call it like I see it. And I'm fine now...I don't know her from a can of paint so it didn't ruin my day.

  • kcicero

    Oh and just for the record I don't need a peacemaker I know how to reign it in guys :)

  • Amulet

    I think the US is really changing into something since Bush and Obama. We have not seen anything yet. (bizarre)

  • iscream

    I will never understand when ppl have a difference of opinion they have to be called out of their name. If anything ask them why they feel the way they do. Or express why you feel different on the subject. Attacking a person will only lead to more confusion and a possible ban.

    @ Shunda I agree using the N word and attacking people's religion is low.

    & honestly we still don't know for sure Rhianna was the woman he had it out with. For all we know she ran to his resuce.

  • Amulet

    kcicero, I knew you had it philly. lol
    I didn't like the name calling though.

    Now I wish everybody will stop talking about it. :please:

  • flyqtnva

    kcicero Says:

    @ flyqtnva I never said I agreed with his bailout plan and I honestly think it will be quite different then what the first one was. That being said, congress has put in a lot of pork and unnecessary things that will do nothing but put us further in debt. Fair is Fair, the man is intelligent and he surrounds himself with the like but just because I acknowledge that does not make me his biggest fan.

    My point being Obama may be smart, he has yet to prove it while in office. Two words Tom Daschle and let me not get on the other one that didnt pay his taxes either. I'm just tried of black people blindly following that MAN! He is the status quo...just said it in your post: HE IS THE PRESIDENT HE DOESNT HAVE TO ALLOW THIS BILL TO HAPPEN IT NEEDS TO BE REVAMPED!

  • shunda

    My father is a recovering alcoholic and he also was an abuser so I understand where you are coming from. It was just the n-word and religion attacks that bothered me. I would rather try to talk to you guys than hold it in :) Everything is cool

  • kcicero

    Shunda you're right and I actually never use that word but statements like that bristle me because in most domestic abuse situations it is not a woman hitting a man so she deserves it it's the man can't control his emotions so he relies on his hands. There is just no justification for it. My mother is a manic depressant schizophrenic now and no doubt it is due to the trauma that she faced in that relationship. But I agree and you won't see me use that word again... Of course we cool!!!

  • kcicero

    @ flyqtnva

    And I don't think he will allow the bill to happen but we will see. I don't know how long you've been posting but most folks know that I don't ride the Obama bandwagon hard. What he's accomplished in his life is noteworthy but yes I think there is a lot of things that I take issue with.

    And I think the adulation and admiration from Black people have a lot to do with out history and this country so it is to be expected.

  • ReadTheBlog

    #47 - why you got to bring Allah and Obama into this? That's not cool. Neither one of them have time for this stuff, as they have more serious things to deal with.

    Allah u'Akbar, get to know him :-)

  • donnia

    I am really proud of Rihanna for pressing charges against her attacker. Oftentimes, women remain silent in situations such as this one. I hope Cassie can take strength in what Rihanna has done to reclaim her life and the next time Sean puts his hands on her in a violent manner press charges against him.

  • bcsmiamic

    cold sores = herpes....its just type 1 but you can get it on your genital area if that person goes down on you while they have an outbreak

  • Daisy

    @Donnia she didnt press charges. He is only being charged with making terrositic threats. She did identify him though.

  • Daisy

    @ISC the LAPD finally confirmed it was RiRi.

  • Daisy

    @Shunda hope you feel better!

  • kcicero

    lol Daisy you beat me to it...

    Oh and Shunda I missed that I too hope you feel better.

  • Amulet

    Rihanna, most black men don't love you for long.
    Chris Brown is only doing what is genetic. Love and Leave.

  • shunda

    @KC and daisy

  • Krysi J

    did anybody try the smoking gun, they usually have peoples mug shots up within 15mins of the crime taking place? LOL!

  • ReadTheBlog

    I did and didn't see anything, that was early this AM...

  • istandbehindtheIam

    Sandra, I don't believe the herpes story, that Rhi got it from JZ, don't you think we could spot a cold sore on J's soup coolers from a mile away?
    Also why are you're comments off for the Michael Steele piece? I read somewhere, (i'll get the link when I have time), that David Duke is calling on all "white conservatists" to separate from Michael Steele, that Repuke party is going down in flames and all we have to do is sit back and watch. Love it!

    Got popcorn?

  • ReadTheBlog

    oh, and not always is stuff immediately available on line, esp if no charges have been filed. Most police depts aren't just typing and writing up reports withouht some charges going along with them. My husband is a prosecutor

  • KaraZ

    From reading all the comments I can conclude that 9hris Brown battered Rihanna because Obama's stimulus plan doesn't fix the economy overnight. And jayz has herpes.

  • vipatlstyle

    ************************************************************The world is coming to an End Sandra....Just look it up 12-21-12. BTW, Obama is the Anti-Christ and Chris Brown is one of his servants. TI is not going to spend anytime in jail because Obama is going to pardon him. Ri Ri was pregneat and that's where all the REAL drama is coming from...Notice I said "was" but she had an abortion without telling kiss until they were out in LA. And they only thing that EVER happen between Jay-Z and Ri-Ri was some kissing but it stop after that point. However that happen before Jay and B got married. Oh yeah and Trey has skeltons in his closet but we won't even go there...


  • iscream

    @ daisy thanks. I tried to keep the faith.

    I heard she isn't pressing charges on him which means it was likely a mutual fight.