It seems that Michelle Obama is extremely insecure when it comes to her husband Barack Obama. It’s been obvious for a while now that their relationship is strained. Anyone with eyes can see how cold she is to the brotha when she forgets the cameras are on. But Michelle and Barack put on a unified front for their two daughters.
In this video clip, talk show Diva Wendy Williams comments on Michelle Obama’s reaction to Barack fanning himself after dancing with Latin artist Thalia, who’s married to Tommy Mattola, ex-husband of Mariah Carey. Only a sista who’s been burned once too often will be able to identify closely with what Michelle is doing in this clip. lol.
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I don’t get it
Sandra I do not think Michelle is cold when the cameras arent watching. I would think that you would appreciate her not being “star struck” over her own hubby.
I don’t blame you Michelle. I hope you whip that azz when you got back to the White House. Has the President lost his damn mind? Michelle is not insecure. She just knows how these whores are.
LOL, I gotta admit that was funny and it did look like she was gonna beat his a$$ when they got home!!!
I do
Wendy though 
record her show daily 
You got that right AttyMom.
It’s hard enough keeping the average male in line…let alone the prez.
That chi town hood came out of michelle get’em girl
there are 2 types of women in a man`s life
1- there is a woman you deal with, when you a-s-s stay broke and struggling
2- there is the woman you deal with when you have either have money and, or status
if obama knew one day he was going to be president there is no way on earth a woman like michelle could have had a chance..real talk!
@SunnyPA, exactly. The Pres. reminds me a corny guy that now is considered hot because of status. No one wanted his azz before he blew up, but now he is one of the most sexy men alive. SMDH Get it together, President Barack.
I forgot the word “of”. Sorry.
@african_dude writes, “if obama knew one day he was going to be president there is no way on earth a woman like michelle could have had a chance..real talk!”
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I totally agree. I think he married Michelle to position himself politically. Wasn’t she the first Black woman he ever dated?
AM No she wasnt
SHOUTOUT to 1st Lady Michelle
You represent us very well 
@african_dude
ROFL … that is real talk.
attorneymom Says:
I totally agree. I think he married Michelle to position himself politically. Wasn’t she the first Black woman he ever dated?
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yup…because he wasnt bold enough to take the white woman route so he played it safe, the truth of the matter is, even if he doesnt like her anymore he will stay with her because thats politically correct..lol, most black women were feeling hillary during the primaries and if someone helped bring sistas to obama`s camp its michelle
African dude keeping it real tell us how you really feel….
Yes, I loved the way she did that. Let him know through smiles and snapping fingers that he will get them WORDS when he get home. It’s nice and all fun, but Mr. Obama, is gonna learn how to decline sometimes. Groove in the seat and enjoy the show sitting down. He is already president, and don’t need to gain no more brownie points on the entertainment part. But if I was Michelle, I would make sure we are at a function with a super hot man, and I will get up and booty dance with him, and then high-five my husband at the end and see if he likes that…that will teach him, Michelle. Start getting you a fan club like he has with some sexy black men. It’s a lot of men that love Michelle. She is in a powerful position right now and can get just as much as Obama. I still love them as a couple, can’t get no blacker than that (black love).
Sidebar: WTH is wrong with Taco Bell?? Who would eat a black taco shell?? That looks nasty. Blank stare.
why cant people be happy for black love
Most of the sisters in my circle of friends and family were TEAM OBAMA from DAY ONE
and we still ARE Michelle was just icing on the CAKE!
@Lovely they just read that story on the radio he is so WRONG
U can clearly see the lady ask micheele if she can dance with her husband and michelle says yes. WATCH THE WHOLEEEE VIDEO…… Plus Obama was talking to someone behind Michelle Geesh
Misery loves company
LOL!! She is throwing shade at him, and I BET she said something under her breath to him too!
@ Daisy i know right, im sure his father is kicking the ish out of hisslef. Poor child probably scared and having fun at the smae time not realizing whats goin on.
Childddddddddd, I’d be insecure too. A fine man like Obama and President of the U.S.? Who wouldn’t be insecure! And besides, in my opinion, he’s far more handsome than she is attractive.
Y’all kill me with the negativity. Spewing opinions as if they’re facts. NO she was not the first black woman he dated..AND none of us know what’s really going on in their relationship. SMDH @ attymom: I’ll reserve my comments.. and africandude: Don’t mistake your own ignorance for someone else’s.
heavn_sent Says
SMDH @ attymom: I’ll reserve my comments.. and africandude: Don’t mistake your own ignorance for someone else’s
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thanks
Blogs and talk shows just how judgmental and negative people can be… No relationship is perfect, maybe she was jealous - in my book that means she REALLY loves her man (can’t be jealous of something you don’t care about)…and who among us isn’t a little insecure about something….
I guess mama was right - opinions are like azz holes - everybody’s got one….
WELL The First LADY is VERY FINE to me …
When I saw her in that yellow dress during the Olympic Bid thing And they SHOWED ALL THE RIGHT ANGLES that I wanted to see… MAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNNNNNNNNN
THAT is some SEXXY-AZZ CHOCOLATE RIGHT THERE
But HEY, I LUV BLACK WOMEN - ALL DAY, EVERY DAY !!!
Excuse me, I thought blogs were to voices opinions. If you wants facts this isn’t the place to get them.
And, if you don’t like opinions…don’t read them.
Don’t think I mentioned you directly SunnyPA, but if you want it…
oops…excuse the typos…I’m at work.
Heaven … did I mention your name?!?!?
***wondering if negative people are as unhappy as their opinions*** blogs are also useful for finding out tidbits of information that regular news sources don’t talk about and for networking with people you would otherwise never meet…and passing the time at work… and i guess reading other people’s NEGATIVE AZZ OPINIONS…
Annnnnnnd, it’s not opinions that I have a problem with, it’s negativity. It’s people putting bad energy out into the universe, ignoring the reality that it’s gonna come back and bite…It’s sitting behind a keyboard hating for the sake of hating..
@heavn_sent:
Negativity is a trip you’ll have to take by yourself. I am not letting comments on a blog … yes, a BLOG … ruin my day. It’s not that serious
heavn_sent Says:
Annnnnnnd, it’s not opinions that I have a problem with, it’s negativity. It’s people putting bad energy out into the universe, ignoring the reality that it’s gonna come back and bite…It’s sitting behind a keyboard hating for the sake of hating..
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I agree with you on that
She clearly showed respect to Michelle before she even danced with her hubby. Michelle isn’t worried about Obama at all. No one want to see happy couple anymore huh?
Nope, Sunny..Guess you didn’t. I prefer to come direct, so there are no questions.
Ditto melinla.
Who is hating? Blank stare.
attorneymom Says:
Who is hating? Blank stare
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you and me..lol
you for agreeing with me and me for stating the obvious, people want to voice their opinions(so they say) but when they read something that is contrary to their views you get labeled a “hater“( thinking of going to going to barnes and nobles to get some folks dictionaries..a word other than “hater“ ought to be used)
AD: A thesaurus is probably a better bet..BUT I don’t really have time to explain the difference.
Apparently, I’m a hater too. lol
That’s why I only comment in spurts on here. You can write the nicest, happiest comment in the world and there will always be someone to challenge it.
43SunnyPA Says:
Apparently, I’m a hater too. lol
That’s why I only comment in spurts on here. You can write the nicest, happiest comment in the world and there will always be someone to challenge it
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which is great as far as i`m concerned! but people just want to use the word hater without really having substantial ammo to back their claims..lol,
@African Dude
Such is life. While I don’t believe you are one of them, there are commenters who log on with the sole intent to make someone miserable. That’s why I usually don’t engage in an exchange of comments. I usually comment and move on.
@ attorneymom Wow…
10attorneymom Says:
@african_dude writes, “if obama knew one day he was going to be president there is no way on earth a woman like michelle could have had a chance..real talk!”
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I totally agree. I think he married Michelle to position himself politically. Wasn’t she the first Black woman he ever dated?
If you can’t take the heat of various opinions, then get out of the kitchen. Every black person isn’t going to applaud the President each time does something stupid. Contrary to what folks think, black folks are not monolithic - we have different opinions.
Leave it to Wendy to give us her opinion of someones insecurity issues.
Michelle has been looking like she was going to whip someones ass since her hubby was a community activist. It’s the way her face is. Also Michelle wasn’t the first Black woman he dated.
WOW at some of your comments. This is one of those topics where I question someones character when they step away from their computer…SMDH
@Sunny - I can totally understand where you’re coming from.. but I stand by what I said. I don’t unsually comment either, most times I ignore the ignorance..but every now and then certain things get under my skin. So, I will comment.
The sun does not rise and set on the Obama’s..I don’t agree with all of his politics or like all of Michelle’s outfits or expressions(lol) but the bottom line is, WE have to stop ourselves..Sandra does and says a lot of the things she does for controversy. Like she eluded to the other day, she gets paid to do it. Why do we?
I would hope that an anonymous person with a PC, who knows absolutely nothing about you (unless you’ve ridiculously listed your bio..the guilty shall remain nameless) would not have the power to make you miserable…or ruin your day. Like you said..”It’s just not that serious.”
Thanks Lovely Lady, your comments on this post are refreshing! EVEN IF….I dont think he is perfect because he is the president, none of them have had till this date anyway! To those that have encountered a perfect man, good for you, I hope you still have him. That was very shallow to say he wouldnt be with Michelle…..and also to make reference to who he dated prior to her, he bi-racial anyway, so is it so far fetched for him to date on either side?
attorneymom Says:
If you can’t take the heat of various opinions, then get out of the kitchen. Every black person isn’t going to applaud the President each time does something stupid. Contrary to what folks think, black folks are not monolithic - we have different opinions.
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exactly..i will happily welcome someone else`s challenging views but too often these folks have nothing else to say except “hater“, really? it makes you question their whole intellect
@Shauny … AGREE Completely (It’s actually INSANE !!!)
I FIND IT amazing that supposedly intelligent people can say-n-act so UN-intelligent and I’m not talking about people who jokingly say things (I TOTALLY GET THAT …)
My Grand-Mother (R.I.P.) would always tell me that FORMAL EDUCATION is useless WITHOUT Class-n-Dignity-n-Tactfulness
@ELove - ABSOLUTELY!!!!
keely didn’t you use to have a picture?
Anyway I always don’t agree with everything he does and he isn’t my great hope that can do no wrong but some things that are said about both him and Michelle are just….I don’t have a word.
E - Grandma was a wise soul. Your comments in 52 said it all.
@heavn_sent Says:
Comment #49
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Wow, that was a serious, powerful comment. I’m not saying I agree with all your comments but that good and thought provoking (excluding the guilty, nameless part–don’t want to get involved).
On that note, I’m leaving work now.
Everyone have a good evening.
one last comment …
I thought this post was more about male/female relationships more than the Obamas.
@Shauny:
YES I DID! I dont know what the hail is going on with that baby as my gravatar! I have enuff hollin churen at home, that picture irks me!
keely107 Says:
Thanks Lovely Lady, your comments on this post are refreshing! EVEN IF….I dont think he is perfect because he is the president, none of them have had till this date anyway! To those that have encountered a perfect man, good for you, I hope you still have him. That was very shallow to say he wouldnt be with Michelle…..and also to make reference to who he dated prior to her, he bi-racial anyway, so is it so far fetched for him to date on either side?
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When I saw the comment my mouth dropped, I was thinking “oh no he didn’t”. When I continued to read many comments posted agreed. I still could not believe it. Did Obama know he was going to be President when he met Michelle and he only picked her as a safe bet? Michelle has some hood in her, you can tell by her facial expressions and she loves the side eye. If Obama was picking for his future he would have chosen someone much different. You don’t stay married for 16 yrs and look as in love with each other as they do if it were just for political gain. Hills & Bill did not start looking like a married couple until they reached 60. To me they would have been divorced long ago if it were not for their appetite for politics and knowing that toghter they made a great team(politically). Just my opinion. Obama may have power but corny is still corny. He is only attracted to most women because of his job title. If most would have met him 10 yrs ago they would not have given him the time of day.
@Anna:
I did too! Makes me sick to my stomach……I wonder what the sotne throwers would say if they knew what people say about why their men chose them…..
Meant stone!
Anna Says:
If Obama was picking for his future he would have chosen someone much different.
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and it wouldnt have been michelle…glad you know that!
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Obama may have power but corny is still corny.
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exactly why michelle was good for him, he is corny and she aint no gabrielle union or kerry washington either…shall we say a match made in…….nah let me stop!
I’ve watched this video about 15 times and I’m
LOL. Michelle wouldn’t even look at his azz! 
Ok Sandra I have to admit it was funny. She gave him the look and the brush off without having to turn into angry black women in public. Sandra you have to admit that was classy? LOL.
Gabrielle Union - SLUT to the Nth Degree
Kerry Washington - LUVS her some YT-Dudes
Michelle Obama is NOTHING LIKE THEM (You R So Correct !!!)
And Bruh… Don’t stop — SAY WHAT YOU FEEL
She may not be a Gabrielle or Kerry (which all men don’t think they’re beautiful either, you just typed the women you thought was) but she is a Michelle. She was HIS boss and HE asked HER out when he could’ve asked any Gabrielle or Kerry or whatever else you deem more beautiful than Michelle.
Why is he corny? He’s mid 40s not mid 20s. Because he’s a well spoken, clean cut, educated family man who just happens to be POTUS? I guess he’ll need to have a love child out of wed lock, be caught with a joint in his house or go partying with Jigga and Bey in St Tropez to shed his “corny” image.
Im just confused what it is that appeases the people, we dog out women with LSLH, then we say a darker skinned sistah isnt cute/hot enuff. He getting dogged for staying with the hood chick, he would have gotten dogged for having one with LSLH……I just dont understand.
Shauny! I couldnt get it out right! Thanks!
ELove Says:
Gabrielle Union - SLUT to the Nth Degree
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slut or not she is a dime…michelle aint!
Shauny Says
She was HIS boss and HE asked HER out when he could’ve asked any Gabrielle or Kerry or whatever else you deem more beautiful than Michelle.
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yeah but he didnt have the status, so he settled with someone like him…it aint hard to figure..lol
@african_dude … SHE’S a dime to you Bruh (NOT ME)
(AND a Rusty-n-Crusty one AT THAT !!!)
ELove Says:
@african_dude … SHE’S a dime to you Bruh (NOT ME)
(AND a Rusty-n-Crusty one AT THAT !!!)
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thats ok..multi millionaire brothas like dwayne wade like their women rusty n crusty perhaps
insecurity issues. the one with insecurity issues is Wendy williams. Jealous much?
nevermind, watched the clip. funny…lol
Bruh BEING a millionaire has nothing to do with having CLASS-n-TATSE because if it did then P-Diddy would be the EPITOME of a Real Man… AND what NBA-Ballers choose to BONE doesn’t dictate MY TASTE in WOMEN on any level(Real)
@african_dude
I’m ABOUT to get really REAL with you now…
When Gabby did that movie awhile back where she was dating Morris Chestnut character AND he found out that she use to date his Mother’s husband (His Father)
NOW that Gabrielle Union was TOP-NOTCH and she had some thickness back then also… BUT Now and around 47+ DYCKS later along with the weight-loss… SHE just doesn’t do it for me now AND there are SO MANY other more attractive women than her IMO
And I’m not knocking your attraction to her AT ALL …
It just isn’t MINE and I’m just being real with you
ELove Says
AND what NBA-Ballers choose to BONE doesn’t dictate MY TASTE in WOMEN on any level(Real)
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who cares about your taste in women? you`re a nobody!!!!!!!
@african_dude
AND what’s LESS THAN a nobody …
I’ll give you a HINT — It ISN’T ME !!!!!
E - baby it just ain’t worth it. You don’t see dude unless there is an Obama post for him to go in on here. He loves to down Michelle especially for some reason.
@Shauny
THIS DUDE could never get the best of me …
He’s LACKING in every significant department to EVEN have a chance and I WAS just baiting him to say something STR8 Stoopid anyway so I could flip it on him
nobody in the world can ever say they have never gave there man the side eye, I from the Chi that’s how we do it here, keep it classy but he got the message. It is not that deep, and who cares what other thinks Michelle is bad and nobody knows who Obama would have married I believe he made his choice long ago
Anna Says:
Ok Sandra I have to admit it was funny. She gave him the look
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I have always thought the Pres was a nice looking man so I would have looked his way
I bet they went home and
like all get it! Make up sex is..well nevermind 
NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says:
nobody in the world can ever say they have never gave there man the side eye, I from the Chi that’s how we do it here, keep it classy but he got the message.
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Daisy Says:
I have always thought the Pres was a nice looking man so I would have looked his way
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Once again you miss the point. Michelle was ticked off because her husband was fanning himself like Thalia was HAWT! Thalia made him forget all about his wife sitting at the table.
Sandra it’s like a no he didn’t the same way he would have looked if Michelle would have danced with a dude and came back like woo big daddy he would have felt some kind of way.
^^^ You’re right. He knows he was dead wrong for fanning himself. Then he tried to play it off by fanning himself again when Michelle gave him the cold shoulder.
Sandra Rose Says:
Anna Says:
Ok Sandra I have to admit it was funny. She gave him the look
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You said she “gave him the look.” Lol, they didn’t even make eye contact after he sat back down. I don’t know how Gomer made it this far in life.
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Sandra, it’s the married look. You don’t have to fully be face to face to see the look. He saw her look. Notice how Obama kind of leaves her alone and does not persue things further. He knows that’s the “negro wait till we get home face”.(she was trying hard to play it off) LOL.
WOW …. *golf clap* … all these outsiders looking in know what’s goin on … can read minds and body language… hey .. the Mega Millons is 170 mil plus … can one of yall piss-sike-kicks give me the numbers
:eyeroll:
I wish she had a :middle fanga: ..!..
Kymystry Says:
WOW …. *golf clap* … all these outsiders looking in know what’s goin on … can read minds and body language… hey .. the Mega Millons is 170 mil plus … can one of yall piss-sike-kicks give me the numbers
:eyeroll:
I wish she had a :middle fanga: ..!..
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Her look of leave me the hell alone and don’t touch me is the middle finger. Also I think I heard that the Mega will be around 200 mill.
@ Sandra wrote, ” I don’t know how Gomer made it this far in life.”
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LMAO. You called the President “Gomer”.
I beat you will lose some visitiors for that one.
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Michelle’s look is more like “Don’t you touch me. Don’t you touch me. What the f*** is wrong with you? I am tired of your s***. I got something for your hot azz.”
I meant bet, not beat. Sorry.