Does Your Daughter Have A Sex Hit List?

Sandra Rose December 18, 2009

While I am aware that today’s teenagers are 30 x’s more promiscuous than in my day, I never knew such things as sex hit lists existed. I’m so out of the loop that I didn’t even know pregnant teens attended regular high schools until a few years ago.

According to HipHopUpdate blog, this kid was grounded for 3 months because his sister tattled on him for hiding a six-pack of beer in his room. So he exacted his revenge on her by posting her sex “hit list” online.

This is why I never wanted girl children. I bet her parents thought she was a virgin.

You can see for yourself all the sordid acts she’s planning for your sons in her school. She even put dates next to their names to indicate exactly when the act will go down. There’s a government study that shows 88% of pregnant teenagers got knocked up while on school grounds, which gives a whole new meaning to sex education.

LovelyLady

This gets the
LovelyLady

OMG after reading that damn list. If i was her mama i would be in jail. And i dont blame these fast arse girls I blame they parents.
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And her brother well dayum that was some type of revenge.
missmiami

I am disgusted at today’s youth. This is why I pray for and over my kids earnestly.
VIBABY

laaawd have mercy….
kwall

to answer your question sandra my 14 yo 9th grader certainly DOES NOT have no hit list. AND she has a flag in her school file…if her little azz is NOT in class or is LATE for any reason…she needs a call home. we can go in and look at attendance records/grades/assignments online here in my school system. so my student is accounted for all 8 periods of her school day, before school, after school, weekends, holidays…erry single day.

thanks for your concern tho.
pyt305

Hookup list??? How lame…Kids these days have no clue what their doing. They just wanna fit in. Smh @ foolishness
tori-v

i been lurking all day BUT when i saw this, i HAD to speak on it. :crying1: however, nothing will come out
*exiting this post singing..I believED that children were the future..”
im literally sick after reading this..
LovelyLady

Sandra do a post of the man that was just freed after 35 years in prison. He was wrongfully accused of molestation. How do you give a man back 5 years of his life.
Cinnamon Kisses

WTF?? I that my daughter uses good judgement and uses everything I instill in her too NOT show out sexually. I am scared of the society we live in. The only thing I can do is show her the right things and to god.
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

FAINTS….

Oh my goodness. These kids are out of control. Im scared to have children.
mrsgarcia703

I’m almost too embarrassed to ask because this confirms that I’m out the “loop” but what in the hell is a “v-card”???
BROWNSUGAPOET

DAYUM!
http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

i made a list… kinda like a diary… of the guys and the dates. dont judge me
pinky2083

I think V card is virgin card or something.

Oh HELL NO this list is too much!!!!!!
BROWNSUGAPOET

MRSGARCIA I AM TOO THROUGH WITH YOU FOR THAT PIC OF JAHEIM AND ALL HIS SPLIT ENDS!
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

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kwall

thats a good school system! Do u mind: what city are you in? thats needed in ALL of them
crzasallgetout

@LovelyLady Says

I have to disagree. I think parents can only do so much. You can be on them 24/7 but they can still turn into slutbuckets. I’ve always heard that the stricter the parent the wilder the kid because they aren’t used to the freedom. Hell preacher kids are the worse kind from my experience
j.c.

LOL@ LJ
kwall

we can go in and look at attendance records/grades/assignments online here in my school system.
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and it is her dad who does most of the checking for attendance. she had some issues last school year with hanging out with her girlfriends so now he has made that ish his life mission. he is on it like a hawk too. i am more concerned with grades and what her academic focus is for xx week. cause like my momma said…”she gonna sooner or later.” all i can do is prepare her for the world best of my ability. i am realistic.

you can’t stop a moving truck. her daddy thinks he can tho so hail let his hair go gray/fall out/receed. i honestly think dude sits up at nights at worries about that ish too. his wife has pretty much confirmed it..

we have a pretty good girl tho so there is really nothing for him to worry about…yet.
http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

Yeah, it’s confirmed, I don’t want any girls. I’ll take my clueless “late” blooming boy. I’d keep a daughter locked up in the house.
kwall

thats a good school system! Do u mind: what city are you in? thats needed in ALL of them
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raleigh, nc. wake county schools. it is called the SPAN system.

student parent academic network is what it stands for. she can go in just like we (parents) can and see what WE see.
mswarrior1

Lawd, Jesus. How old is this girl? I’m young, but I didn’t have no sex hit list. Nor, did I want to have sexual relations with that many guys. See this is why abstinence is NOT the end all be all. Kids are doing it, and OBVIOUSLY not being safe about it if she’s going to give the guys BJs.
SMH.
http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

but shes making a list of things she WANTS guys to do to her? oh hell naw
Daisy

LJ you made me choke on my strawberry Fanta
starr

I”m not actually surprised. I”ve said here before that girls like me who are holding on to their V cards are just a rediculous minority.

Wasn’t there a study that said 1 in 6 teenagers or teenage girls have a STD…..I could be completely wrong…but wen u see somthing like this, it makes sense. Did i say i’m not surprised…
j.c.

sad thing about it, is these kids are too young to understand the impact of HIV/AIDS. smh
Cinnamon Kisses

Kwall……I agree it’s gonna happen @ some point BUT I hope my daughter tells me so I can help her make good decisions.
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

crzasallgetout Says:

@LovelyLady Says

I have to disagree. I think parents can only do so much. You can be on them 24/7 but they can still turn into slutbuckets. I’ve always heard that the stricter the parent the wilder the kid because they aren’t used to the freedom. Hell preacher kids are the worse kind from my experience

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My mother was strict and I still found time to ‘do things’.

My father and his wife is strict also and my little sister has found ways to do sneaking around

one of her facebook status said: d*c** d*c** d*c** galore.

She also drinks and she is 16… a mess
Anna

In reading I thought her sister posted her sex list. For a brother to do this he must have been extremely pissed, no brother wants his sister identified as a whore.
kwall

Kwall……I agree it’s gonna happen @ some point BUT I hope my daughter tells me so I can help her make good decisions.
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riiight. you gotta have that open line of communication open. i did not have that with my mother.
mswarrior1

V-Card= Virginity.

& I’m glad I didn’t have a daughter, bc lawd, she would be locked up in house all day under strict supervision after reading stuff like this.
…Although, my son isn’t dating until he’s married. LOL.
miss gia

this is AWFUL! I am young, professional adult and Ill tell you, I did some things in my even younger days. Parents don’t monitor their kid as they should, parents dont show interest. What saved me from doing REALLY bad ish, was the fact that I never wanted to see my mother cry. Knowing she cared (and wouldn’t bail me out) definitely did the trick for me.

p.s sandra, thats impossible for you to not know, you’re a nurse!
http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

LoL! sorry daisy at least u didnt drop it like last time. haha

that list is long gone now though
TruGemini

She’s supposedly on punishment but she’s still able to use the computer That’s part of the damn problem, right there…
crzasallgetout

@windycity
Exactly!! A parent can only do so much. You just have to pray and hope you did the best by them. I like to think of the parents of murderers.I’m sure SOME of them did the best they could and they still turned out nutso.
GoldenGirl25

This is so discouraging; I have two daughters and I shutter to think of what is going to be out in the open by the time they get in highschool. We as parents really need to be on our A-game and keep a close watch on our children cause now its getting SICK out here
crzasallgetout

@TRU
The brother is the one on punishment. HE posted his sister’s list. I think
Anna

Smokie Says:

Yeah, it’s confirmed, I don’t want any girls. I’ll take my clueless “late” blooming boy. I’d keep a daughter locked up in the house
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I have two daughters and one son, my son is making me a first time grandmother. We have to talk to all of our kids not just our daughters. My son knew right from wrong and I made sure I bought condoms in bulk(I did tell him I wanted a refund since I am going to be a grandmother).
j.c.

I did tell him I wanted a refund since I am going to be a grandmother
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Quitta

Holy guacamole!! Lil sis is a B*TCH!
miss gia

@17

You’re right, there’s so much a parent can do. But nothing like instilling a sense of worth in your daughters, telling them they are queens and should respect themselves like so.
A parent that shows real interest also helps.

I get it yall, I am not a parent, but growing up my mother was diagnosed as clinically insane, and on her good days, I knew she cared, but for the rest of the time, it was difficult for her. I went through a lot I didn’t have to, but I forgive her because I know we are humans. Its not always easy to be the adult we want to. But trying is always worth it…

This is a classic case of a family that doesn’t talk about things, is very strict. The beer situation is really not that bad. What kid hasn’t sipped on that drank!? It happens. Clearly the parents don’t know how to handle their kids, cos this could have simply been resolved with a talk about how alcohol affects your body and a good ole ‘scare the shit outcha ya ass.’

iunno, opinions ?
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

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quitta

my sister??
Quitta

@ Windy

Huh?
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

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quitta

nevermind….lol. I misunderstood
http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

and looks like he posted this on facebook. In the bottom corner it says “from the” and under is says “Karma” thats exactly how the pics are tagged in the facebook albums. daaaaaaaaaaaaang
crzasallgetout

@41
I didn’t sneak beer as a youngster. If you’ve ever watched that show Intervention alot of the alcholics started at a young age. So to me him sneaking it IS that bad. Now the little “Superhead in training” is on another level.
Quitta

I’m so glad. Thank ya Jesus! Oh Jeremiah! That I have a lil boy. Not saying they angels, but a girl, just too much to bear.

I would be in jail finding this out. “I’m locked up they won’t let me out, they won’t let me out”
Quitta

@ Windy

Oh. LOL

Oh my bad, after reading below, it’s the brother that put her on blast. Dammit man.
msdanielle

v-card = losing her virginity
looks like she’s undecided as to who she’ll give it to.

this is ridiculous, but with today’s society i am NOT surprised. i remember watching a special on HBO where the little girls said “we hooked up” as in a casual thing. “i’m like samantha from sex & the city”

both the kids seem out of control though. try again parents that “grounding” mess isn’t the answer.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

I would beat the livng SHYT out of my daughter until she went into early menopause and her ovaries fell out.
Daisy

LJ I made sure not to drop my soda today

I want both girls n boys. I want to do dance classes, prom, wedding with my daughter one day!

I work with teens they aren’t all bad and most of the ones (not all) are just lost n need some love and attention which I always give!
Quitta

Registration been open all week. Sandra in good holiday spirits!…. That’s all.
mirsmommy

I have 2 boys, and I do wanna lil girl as well. But I do believe that we as parents can do what is best to our ability in raising our children to do the right thing, and hope and that they make the right decisions as young adults well into adulthood.

My Mom wasn’t strict, my Dad TRIED to be, and my parents didn’t talk to us about sex or drugs, or things of that nature. But I was also taught right from wrong, and I knew that if I did any of those things, Moms would be all over my a**. I could see the look on her face when I would think about doing something I wasn’t supposed to, and I made sure I didn’t do it.
Cinderella

You have to worry about boys just as much as girls. When I was in High School, there was a kid who had 2 babies by 2 different girls. I don’t think there is a definite answer to stopping this but making sure kids have a lot of activities when they get older helps.
miss gia

46

true. But in todays society, those parents are lucky the child was curious about alcohol. I just had my 9 year old sister ask me about pot. Excuse my language but I just about shit my pants.
coaretained

TWo sons and a daughter… in that order. She has three big brothers and a wee tah did fajha so.. I’m hoping for the best.
mirsmommy

with msdanielle & ggouch

If this was my daughter, I don’t know who would give her the worst beatdown, me or her Dad.
Naes

this is a whoooooooooooole mess! idk if i’m more mad at the brother for outing his sister publicly like that or straight appalled that ‘sex hit list’ are around… or shocked at the stupidity of the girl keeping this ish around! this whole post has me spaced out… wooooow!

oh and hey everyone!
j.c.

@daisy, i think you’ll make an excellent parent. all these kids need is love and attention. parents are so busy with their own lives, we tend to forget those small things.
http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

my husband is gonna be so strict on our daughter. hes already talkin about “no boyfriends” and “no dating” and shes ONLY 1. lol

i was on lock down at my grandparents house. i couldnt do ANYTHING AT ALL!!! as soon as i got to college and was living on campus i thought i was doing big thangs and went wild. they found out and brought me back home and i had to commute to and from school. i hated them for it, but now i understand why the did that
mirsmommy

I would like to know why the little brother is able to use the computer if he is supposed to be on punishment….
Daisy

@JC thanks I lack patience so I pray about that daily cause I know you must have that to deal with children as well. I actually want twins.

@LJ I had a gfriend like that both her parents were ministers/pastors and she was prg before freshman yr was up. I tried to talk to her and warn her but of course she didnt listen she was so in “love”.
Peachizz

30 x’s more promiscuous than in my day,
Damn what a list!!
Try 50 x’s … and my day wasn’t that long ago seems like 97 graduation was yesturday.. But these children are something else.. SMH… Lesson learnt don’t dig a whole for someone unless you diggin’ one for yourself…
Naes

miss gia Says:

true. But in todays society, those parents are lucky the child was curious about alcohol. I just had my 9 year old sister ask me about pot. Excuse my language but I just about **** my pants
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kids today are a trip! going past the school yards these kids today talk like grown ups! cussing each other out, boys talking about girls bodies girls talking about d*cks its wild! oh, and this is ELEMENTARY school playgrouonds!
tori-v

ok.. i got sumn to say now
the brother is stupid because if he was smart, he would kept the list to himself and let his sister know he had it, hold it against her and make her do any and everything he wanted :chores, allowance.. and this would have made his punishment more bearable but he chose the dumb route because now both are on punishment with no ties to the outside, and he has to hear about this all day and night probably! DUMMY! plus, all his friends are gonna try and
j.c.

back at you daisy and patience will come immediately. i never thought i’d have a child and trying to work on another one.
Daisy

@JC I thought you were working on your 1st baby lol
Quitta

@ Naes

Not only are they talking like grown ups they dress like them too. I rode by my old high school, chile pleez, the stuff I saw these girls in, whoa, nothing like how when I was coming up. I thought it transformed into a college campus. That’s how grown they looked. Shew, when I was in high school and that was about 10 years ago, we all looked our age.
http://chitchatta.com Yadda Yadda

@ Naes

That makes me sad.
kwall

my husband is gonna be so strict on our daughter. hes already talkin about “no boyfriends” and “no dating” and shes ONLY 1.
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i hope he is not like my ex (my daughter’s dad) that dude is skrait “tick tick boom” about that lil funny looking 14 yo of ours. i mean it came out of nowhere. he was always protective but now he is just going too far imo. she be tryna avoid HIS azz like the plauge these days…she went to nyc this weekend with HIS sister and his 14 yo niece and he called wed. night with 45 minutes worth of do’s and do nots for her…i mean she was going with HIS SISTER for God’s sake. if you can’t trust her (the sister/aunt) WHO CAN YOU TRUST?

she got off the phone…i said what did you and your daddy talk about?! she was like idk i stopped listening after the first 7 minutes
j.c.

naw daisy, this is number two.
anti-PC

Whatever happened to:

‘Do you like me? Circle YES or NO.’

We need to pray for our future generations…..
mirsmommy

anti-PC Says:

Whatever happened to:

‘Do you like me? Circle YES or NO.’

We need to pray for our future generations…..
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You are so right on that one….
Leesa

I don’t have any kids as yet….

Stuff like this makes me cringe…
http://nwmasssmedia.com NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com

Was I the only kid still playing with her baby alive doll and easy bake over in 8th grade, I didn’t get boy phn calls until my freshman year of high school, I didn’t suck dyck until I got 23 y/o well over the age limited. Jeez I was not fast however my ex was years older than I when I was 16 but I didn’t have sex with him until I turned the legal age limit, I can still count on one hand how many guys I laid with maybe I am slow. I hope my daughter is just as slow as me, but I don’t let my daughter do grown folks stuff. She doesn’t wear nail polish, lip gloss are her hair out of pony tails, she doesn’t wear all them hooker cloths or watch reg tv. I will keep her young like my momma did me, I actually looked forward to things like at 13 was when I took out the ponytails and got a blow out, 16 nail polish and grown clothes IDK I think these young girls are given to much, they dress like us, talk like us, act like us, fluck like us but they don’t have to pay bills shrugs
trynabeme

I’m mad this lil heffa has a DEADLINE! Don’t ever make a deadline to have ur ish WORN THE “F” out! SMH
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

Speaking of daughter’s with sex lists, TMZ is reporting that Shane Sparks has been busted for child molestation and is now in the pokey with half a million bail.
mirsmommy

I’m mad that sh*t say “December Winner” over # 5. SMH. I hope the little brother showed this ish to the parents, as well.
http://chitchatta.com Yadda Yadda

trynabeme Says:

I’m mad this lil heffa has a DEADLINE! Don’t ever make a deadline to have ur ish WORN THE “F” out! SMH

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that was funny as h*ll with the picture next to it. I can’t I’m still laughing.
mirsmommy

Bird Says:

Speaking of daughter’s with sex lists, TMZ is reporting that Shane Sparks has been busted for child molestation and is now in the pokey with half a million bail.
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What?!?!?!?!?
Leesa

@Bird

I just read that….I dunno he was a lil’ off…. idk
LaKeshia@KreativeTalk

As a teacher, I can beleive that this little girl has a “sex hit list.” There are many reasons youth of today do the things that they do…peer pressure is the main and only reason. No matter how “strict” a parent is on their child, the children find ways around it…

Because I am a public school educator, I have seen a lot that goes on in the school and I have come to the conclusion that parents have to be parents not their child’s friend. It isn’t about how strict you can be or any of that, but be a parental guidance and instill good wholesome values in that child. Also, children usually do or mimick what they have seen.

I have a daughter and I am raising my child as my child…I am not her friend and she can never cross that line…she only sees what she needs to see and my husband and I live our lives as a model…that is just it — role models are what children like this girls needs…role models!
pyt305

TMZ is reporting that Shane Sparks has been busted for child molestation

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SMH
http://chitchatta.com Yadda Yadda

If Shane Sparks molested any kids he deserves to spend the remainder of his years in the pen. He can teach the homies up state how to do the Diddy Bop. Take that take that
http://dahoneyhive.blogspot.com ryand91

Ummm wow at this whole hit list. Children grow up so, so, so fast and I definitely do not want any little girls. If I have a little boy I only have to worry about 1 peen, if I have a little girl I have to worry about all the peens.

But as for this hit list. She needs some counseling and some self-esteem building, oh yeah and some old time religion.
thaspinaltruth

I guess Shane Sparks will be judging Dance Competitions for prison. It will be C block vs. D Block.
http://dahoneyhive.blogspot.com ryand91

As for Shane Sparks, I’m not going to rush to judgment. The acts supposedly happened in 1994. Hmmm.
qtipthecat

That is just sad.
RachelRachel

Excuse me, but where have All the children of the world learn their ways from? There’s the problem. (Dumb Adults).
mrsgarcia703

@BROWNSUGAPOET

Yes, everyone has their bad hair days but there is NO excuse for going on stage like that lmao.

I have two girls–I feel the need to go right now…
Cinnamon Kisses

Phuckin dead @ spinal!!!! I hope that shyt is a lie……..SMH
RachelRachel

How dare ‘fools’ parade around the world being half nude, drugging it up, smoking, cursing and think not that the children don’t see all this??? And the media who parades people like ‘Rihanna’ and the likes, are these the idols that represent your frame of mind? Please! Yall adults are the freaking problem!!!!!!!!!!!
BROWNSUGAPOET

my mother put the fear of god in me and anytime we went out for the first time we had to leave the room and she would talk/threaten olur dates! Then she would tell us before we left “Don’t Disappoint Me” then would tell him “You Better Bring Her Back The Way You Took Her Out” meanin she’s leavin a virgin and she betta come back a virgin!
RachelRachel

And how can you hope that this post is a lie when this sex shit is all around us????? What the hell are you smokin??
RachelRachel

And its not the fear of god that one should be concerned about; more like the fear of dumb humans who run the world! You all comments are sooooo freakin insane!…
5starchic

this is damn crazy how can you be planning to give out blow jobs where the hell do you learn that at such a young age.
at that age i still thought that was disgusting!
RachelRachel

There’s no such thing as God. If so, humans would have long been wiped off the earth. Humans are the dumbest-intelligent ones here! Go Figure.
beautifulhustler

this is why you instill the fear and principles of God into your daughter while they’re still young. go to church! read the bible! i agree that the parents are to blame for raising a child like this. i have a 4 year old…i don’t even wanna imagine the type of kids she’ll go to school with when she’s a teenager.

thanks for opening the registration, sandra.
RachelRachel

SandraRose, your commenters can’t seriously be this dumb…
thaspinaltruth

@cinnamon

I hope it isn’t true either……
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

I guess Shane Sparks will be judging Dance Competitions for prison. It will be C block vs. D Block.
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I D-Block. D-Block as in The LOX.
5starchic

rachelrachel i totally agree that it is us as adults are the problem…the media puts all this mess on television daytime tv is no longer acceptable even the cartoons are sexually suggestive i have to watch what my sons sees because i do not want the media to teach you about sex or how you approach sex that is my job.
mirsmommy

5starchic Says:

rachelrachel i totally agree that it is us as adults are the problem…the media puts all this mess on television daytime tv is no longer acceptable even the cartoons are sexually suggestive i have to watch what my sons sees because i do not want the media to teach you about sex or how you approach sex that is my job.
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about the daytime tv, cartoons, and my job as a parent. Some of these so-called “children” shows, can have some types of underlying sexual material, too.
MsG

I worked for the state for several years. This sex list thing is not that new. Very disturbing nonetheless, but not new.
BROWNSUGAPOET

@ MRSGARCIA

JAHEIM TO STYLIST: I THINK I WANNA GO NATURAL TONIGHT

STYLIST: BUT YOUR ENDS ARE SPLIT REALL BAD

JAHEIM: OK WELL HOW BOUT YOU JUST GIVE ME A BLOW (WINK) OUT

STYLIST: I TOLD YOU A YEAR AGO AFTER WEARIN THEM BRAIDS I NEEDED TO CUT YOUR SPLIT ENDS BUT YOU SAID NO

JAHEIM: I’VE ALWAYS WANTED A LONG FLOWIN SHOULDER LENTH ULTRAPERM LIKE RON ONEAL IN SUPAFLY

STYLIST: WELL NOW BECAUSE YOU DIDNT LET ME CUT IT YOUR ENDS ARE SPLIT ALL THE WAY TO THE ROOTS AND YOU’LL HAVE TO GET A FADE AND START ALL OVER!

JAHEIM: WELL FCK IT, MY FANS LOVE ME ANYWAY SO JUST DO THE BLOW OUT LIKE I SAID WHILE I WORK THIS BABY BLUE CROOKED SOUTHERN BAPTIST PREACHER SUIT!
mirsmommy

5starchic Says:

rachelrachel i totally agree that it is us as adults are the problem…the media puts all this mess on television daytime tv is no longer acceptable even the cartoons are sexually suggestive i have to watch what my sons sees because i do not want the media to teach you about sex or how you approach sex that is my job.
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about the daytime tv, cartoons, and my job as a parent. Some of these so-called “children” shows, can have some types of underlying sexual material, too
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By “children” shows, I meant shows like Sesame Street.
thaspinaltruth

@mirs

I remember D-Block. I liked him too.
http://twitter.com/Q_ATLANTIS Q_ATLANTIS

to me its not that teens are more horny but that parents arent that into talking to them about sex. i have a 17yr old niece and i was blunt with her about sex. i just used my experiences as an example. i dont expect her to stay a virgin but i told her to treat her body with respect. and next yr she’ll be a hs senior AND a college freshman.
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

@mirs

I remember D-Block. I liked him too.
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Him? Spinal, it was 4 dudes in D-Block, now it’s 3.
Krissy J.

SHANE from ABDC…Arrested.
thaspinaltruth

These kids today are smelling theirselves far more then I was when I was their age. My mom could just look at me and I knew she meant business. We got a lot of weak parents these days
thaspinaltruth

@mirs

Girl stop. I am a little slow. You trying to set me up aren’t you? :lolol:
5starchic

i was just talking to some people over the weekend about how children will lie to their parents and my biggest problem was that sometimes parents think that if my child fears me they will not go out here and get in mess. however i am a try believer (and my son is a product) that a child will sneak and do all those things that you told them not to do if you do not have an open relationship where they feel they can come talk to you. When you sneak you LIE that is the main problem when children start sneaking they start lying.
i say that to say that it is imperative that as a parrent we are watchful and active in our childrens lives and that they can come and talk to you. I am waiting for the day my son comes home and tells me some fast tail girl is trying to slob him (because he fine just like that daddy of his) down i will be prepared and so will he.
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

These kids today are smelling theirselves far more then I was when I was their age. My mom could just look at me and I knew she meant business. We got a lot of weak parents these days
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And parents that are too “busy” or caught up in doing their own thing.
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

@mirs

Girl stop. I am a little slow. You trying to set me up aren’t you?
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Not at all. I just figured you, like many others have given up on Hip Hop, so you were just a little confused. That’s all.

D-Block aka The LOX, consists of Jadakiss, Sheek Louch, and Styles P.

Were you only thinking of Jadakiss?
cjgrantjr

OH MY!!!

ROFL… WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.
MizzLeelee

I scrolled down and read some comments and I noticed that some women don’t want to have girls, ain’t nothing wrong with that! I’ve been told numerous times that girls can be a little more harder to raise than boys. I don’t have any children of my own but its kinda like a double standard to me. I don’t quite understand why some individuals can put up with boys and not wanna be bothered with girls when they will eventually do the same thing. We get fed up with teen pregnancy and act like it’s the girl that’s being promiscuous. What about the boy? A girl can’t get pregnant by herself. What it be the same way if the boy had a sex hit list?
MizzLeelee

*would*
5starchic

brownsugarpoet that wwas LOL i mean i litarally laughed out loud right here at my desk these people around me are like are you falling apart over there but that is so how the conversation went he know he looked a damn mess with them ends SMDH
5starchic

brownsugarpoet that wwas LOL i mean i litarally laughed out loud right here at my desk these people around me are like are you falling apart over there but that is so how the conversation went he know he looked a damn mess with them ends SMDH
thaspinaltruth

@Mirsmommy :lolol:

Yeah I was thinking of one person. :lolol: I have given up on hip hop. So maybe that’s why I am off a little bit.
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

@Mirsmommy

Yeah I was thinking of one person. I have given up on hip hop. So maybe that’s why I am off a little bit.
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I figured that was the case. I haven’t totally given up on Hip Hop, yet. I still buy mixtapes from certain artists, and put my favorite songs on my MP3, but I don’t listen to the radio any more, at all. If I wanna keep hearing the same song every few minutes, I can just hit Repeat on my MP3.
BROWNSUGAPOET

JAHEIM: I WANNA GO BACK TO MY ROOTS

STYLIST-(KEKE CAUSE THE CHICK THAT CAN BRAID HAIR REAL GOOD IS NAMED KEKE)

KEKE: OH YOU GOIN BACK TO YOUR ROOTS ALRIGHT! ALL THE WAY BACK!
mrsgarcia703

@BROWNSUGAPOET

ROFLMAO! That was too funny!
j.c.

JAHEIM: WELL FCK IT, MY FANS LOVE ME ANYWAY SO JUST DO THE BLOW OUT LIKE I SAID WHILE I WORK THIS BABY BLUE CROOKED SOUTHERN BAPTIST PREACHER SUIT!

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the old white lady in the office with me, looking scared. i’m laughing so hard, she think something bout to happen!
thaspinaltruth

@mirs

I am still :lolol: at you. You got me real good on that one. :lolol:

I still listen to Talib Kweli, Common, and Mos.
j.c.

again!!!!!! i didn’t know that was jahiem in that gravie! baaaaaaahhhhhhhhaaaaaaaa
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

@mirs

I am still at you. You got me real good on that one.

I still listen to Talib Kweli, Common, and Mos.
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It wasn’t on purpose.

I love those guys, too, but for some reason, I never bought any of their albums I don’t even know why I haven’t, and they are slept on, hard. Damn, I think I may need to stock up on them. Oh, no wait, I do have Mos Def’s first album. I’m slippin.
thaspinaltruth

Does anybody have any darts I can borrow???? I want to use them for that Tina Knowles post. I have my target.
Daisy

I like Jaheims new song

I Shane is innocent I love his choreo!
BROWNSUGAPOET

thaspinaltruth Says:

Does anybody have any darts I can borrow???? I want to use them for that Tina Knowles post. I have my target.
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maybe those are moles or beauty marks
BROWNSUGAPOET

after all she does look good for havin a 37 yr old kid!
thaspinaltruth

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

after all she does look good for havin a 37 yr old kid! :lolo:

Yeah she does look good for 67.
thaspinaltruth

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

after all she does look good for havin a 37 yr old kid! :lolo:

Yeah she does look good for 67.
artistman999

WOW, as a parent with all I can do is hope and pray that my daughter’s take the information that I have been teaching them to make the right choices in life. Oh and keep them off the pole and the corner’s.
BROWNSUGAPOET

SPT

I THINK MS TINA LOOKS GOOD MINUS THE WET N’ WILD STREETWALKER RED LIPSTICK! I THINK SHE’S A VERY PRETTY WOMAN
thaspinaltruth

@Brown

I have to agree with you. Come to think of it I think Tina is a classy woman too. I’ve never seen her act anything less than that.
j.c.

tina look like she’ll kick azz
Tyzgurl

I just clicked on the link for the website of this story. Wow….is all that I can say. All their friends are commenting on fb…even the sister is. Although its sad…it is kind of funny.
j.c.

i just read where a 100 year old pedophile was released from prision, WTF?
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

@Brown

I have to agree with you. Come to think of it I think Tina is a classy woman too. I’ve never seen her act anything less than that.
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I have. During an interview about that clothing line of theirs. Tina got pissed because the reporter asked her about a complaint with a bad shipment of clothes.

Beyonce’s a** didn’t know what to do.
BROWNSUGAPOET

@JC

I saw that earlier this week. The judge gave him 10 yrs or somethin like that the last time he got arrested. he was 90 and she thought he’d die in prison! If you read the whole story that man is very scary!
thaspinaltruth

j.c. Says:

i just read where a 100 year old pedophile was released from prision, WTF?

He might as well have stayed in prison.
BROWNSUGAPOET

@ mirsmommy

I saw Tina on HSN with her own clothing line and if you go to the site you can read the comments alot complain about her clothes being too small
tippmos

NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com Says: Was I the only kid still playing with her baby alive doll and easy bake over in 8th grade, I didn’t get boy phn calls until my freshman year of high school, I didn’t suck dyck until I got 23 y/o well over the age limited. Jeez I was not fast however my ex was years older than I when I was 16 but I didn’t have sex with him until I turned the legal age limit, I can still count on one hand how many guys I laid with maybe I am slow. I hope my daughter is just as slow as me, but I don’t let my daughter do grown folks stuff. She doesn’t wear nail polish, lip gloss are her hair out of pony tails, she doesn’t wear all them hooker cloths or watch reg tv. I will keep her young like my momma did me, I actually looked forward to things like at 13 was when I took out the ponytails and got a blow out, 16 nail polish and grown clothes IDK I think these young girls are given to much, they dress like us, talk like us, act like us, fluck like us but they don’t have to pay bills shrugs…

NichelleWalker/nwmasssmedia.com I don’t agree with you because I have a daughter who wears lip gloss, fingernail polish, and has her hair blown out and even wear it out of her ponytail sometimes. She still acts and looks like a little girl. She still play with doll and do everything an 8 year old is supposed to do. My daughter is scared to even say a curse word, she won’t even repeat it. I can’t say what she do while she is not around me but she is not a grown little girl just because she might wanna wear lip gloss and keep her nails painted. She is just a GIRL and that is what girls do. I also have a son who is very mannish at only a year old He love women no matter what the age. Now that’s the one I am going to have to watch. You have to watch the girls as well as the boys. You have to teach your boys if these little girls say no please STOP…NO means NO. And you have to teach the girls that their bodies are sacred and it belongs to them so please don’t let a boy or a man misuse it. Hell their are grown ass women out here who still don’t get that.
Invictus

I have a two girls, 4 & 3 that are always on standby for a one way ticket to Jamaica where DFACS has no jurisdiction. Enough said. Me nuh play dem tings deh.:blink:
thaspinaltruth

@mirs

Okay. I have never seen her cut up. She is a red woman. My Granddad use to say them red women are something else.
thaspinaltruth

What comes after this line……

Hang all the mistle toe…..
BROWNSUGAPOET

I’m gonna get to know you better
mirsmommy

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

@ mirsmommy

I saw Tina on HSN with her own clothing line and if you go to the site you can read the comments alot complain about her clothes being too small
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Really? During that interview, she acted like she was about to walk out. Beyonce had a straight up “Oh Sh*t” face on.
Anna

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

I’m gonna get to know you better, this Christmas. Sorry I have that song in my head and my office radio is not on.
http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

Anna Says:

Smokie Says:

Yeah, it’s confirmed, I don’t want any girls. I’ll take my clueless “late” blooming boy. I’d keep a daughter locked up in the house
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I have two daughters and one son, my son is making me a first time grandmother. We have to talk to all of our kids not just our daughters. My son knew right from wrong and I made sure I bought condoms in bulk(I did tell him I wanted a refund since I am going to be a grandmother).
****

My son is 13 and I can remember when I was 13 and HOT — not like the girl with the sex hit list though!! But still, more interested in boys than I needed to be. I notice there is a difference in my son and my niece who are both 13. My son interests are still pretty childish unlike my niece’s.

What I should have said, however, was that I don’t want to have ANYmore children; my best friend is the parent of a 13 year old boy as well…and she thought she was about to be a grandmother this summer, so yeah, it’s not gender specific.
mirsmommy

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

I’m gonna get to know you better
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This Christmas.

Where the hell is everybody??? Did everybody go home, or are you guys just lurking?????

I got tons of work to do, but I just don’t feel like doing it.
thaspinaltruth

@brown&anna

I can’t think of the next line for nothing.
thaspinaltruth

Fridays are my chill days, which is why I have more time to comment on stuff.
BROWNSUGAPOET

“This Christmas,And as we trim the tree,How much fun it’s gonna be together, yeah ha
This Christmas
thaspinaltruth

@mirs maybe if we talk about Beyonce’s lacefronts, Rihanna’s forehead, Chris Brown record sales, Jay-z and the illuminati, people will join in.

So here goes………

Where should we start???
BROWNSUGAPOET

Fireside is blazing bright
We’re caroling through the night
And this Christmas, will be yeah
A very special Christmas, for me yeah

Presents and cards are here
My world is filled with cheer and you, ohh yeah
This Christmas
And as I look around
Your eyes outshine the town, they do
This Christmas
Fireside is blazing bright
We’re caroling through the night

And this Christmas, will be
A very special Christmas, for me yeah
thaspinaltruth

@brown

See I was going to say…

Presents and cards are here, my world is filled with cheer and you.

Then Mirs would have talked about me :lolol:
Anna

Smokie Says:

Anna Says:

Smokie Says:

I have two daughters and one son, my son is making me a first time grandmother. We have to talk to all of our kids not just our daughters. My son knew right from wrong and I mMy son is 13 and I can remember when I was 13 and HOT — not like the girl with the sex hit list though!! But still, more interested in boys than I needed to be. I notice there is a difference in my son and my niece who are both 13. My son interests are still pretty childish unlike my niece’s.
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At the same age a boy is not thinking about a girl the way the girl thinks about the girl. My son was into music, video games and ball games on tv. The little fast tailed girls were more into him than he was towards them. I can’t get too upset that my son is going to be a father. He is 22 not 12.
BROWNSUGAPOET

*points to self* DOES NOT TALK ABOUT THE ILLUMINATI! I WORK FOR THE FEDS SO MY LINES ARE ALREADY TAPPED! BUT I DID HERE THAT THERE WAS A DVD GOING AROUND TALKIN ABOUT IT AND ALL THE STARS INVOLVED IN IT
trynabeme

THIS CHRISTMAS IS MY SHIAT! I’ve never heard a verison I didn’t like!
thaspinaltruth

Anna Says:

Smokie Says:

Anna Says:

Smokie Says:

But…….

What does Simon says???
Anna

thaspinaltruth Says:

Anna Says:

Smokie Says:

Anna Says:

Smokie Says:

But…….

What does Simon says???
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Whatever he wants, he’s Simon.
mswarrior1

thaspinaltruth Says:
@mirs maybe if we talk about Beyonce’s lacefronts, Rihanna’s forehead, Chris Brown record sales, Jay-z and the illuminati, people will join in.

So here goes………

Where should we start???

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It worked! LOL.
I’ve been lurking actually. Looks like everyone is actually working today for the most part.
I’m off for break from school so I have nothing but time.
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

@mirs maybe if we talk about Beyonce’s lacefronts, Rihanna’s forehead, Chris Brown record sales, Jay-z and the illuminati, people will join in.

So here goes………

Where should we start???
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Hmmm, let’s go in on all of em.

Bey-Nappy’s lace-fronts look like they straight from the Sahara Desert. Just thirsty as hell.

Rihanna don’t have dreams, she has movies (gotta love Mike Epps)

I don’t wanna say nuthin too bad about Chris Brown, cuz he might find me, and whoop my a**

No comment on Jay-Z’s 45 year old camel lookin, devil-worshippin a**

—I think I covered em all….

*patiently waiting*
thaspinaltruth

@tryna

I heard a crackhead singing This Christmas one time. I really didn’t care for his version. It was something like

crack and pipes and are here, my world is filled with meth and weed. This Christmas
BROWNSUGAPOET

SO SINCE EVERYONE IS BORED A/S/L/ ANYONE???????

LOL GOOD OLE YAHOO CHAT
thaspinaltruth

@MIRS
:lolol:

Girl you are crazy.
mirsmommy

mswarrior1 Says:

thaspinaltruth Says:
@mirs maybe if we talk about Beyonce’s lacefronts, Rihanna’s forehead, Chris Brown record sales, Jay-z and the illuminati, people will join in.

So here goes………

Where should we start???

————-
It worked! LOL.
I’ve been lurking actually. Looks like everyone is actually working today for the most part.
I’m off for break from school so I have nothing but time.
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thaspinaltruth

@ms warrior

What’s your major???
Anna

@mswarrior1. I think most did not work today, those that did did not work all day. And then there are those who are trying to finish up their work because 5:00 gets here real fast when there are great posts and funny comments. When I lock the doors next Wed. I don’t come back to work until Jan 4th.
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

@MIRS

Girl you are crazy.
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I just couldn’t help myself….
Anna

thaspinaltruth Says:

@tryna

I heard a crackhead singing This Christmas one time. I really didn’t care for his version. It was something like

crack and pipes and are here, my world is filled with meth and weed. This Christmas
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Hell Naw, that was funny. Now I will have that stuck in my head for the rest of the day.
mirsmommy

Anna Says:

When I lock the doors next Wed. I don’t come back to work until Jan 4th.
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I’m jealous….
mswarrior1

thaspinaltruth Says:
@ms warrior

What’s your major???

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Biology right now, but I’m trying to get pre-requisites for nursing school.
BROWNSUGAPOET

you too mirs
trynabeme

Ok Spinal lemme get specific* for you :lolol:

I never heard a RECORDED version I didn’t like. I imagine anythang Pookie ‘n nem do ain’t gon be the bidness!

*I get so embarrassed when ppl say PACIFIC instead of specific.
mirsmommy

Okay, don’t you hate it when people don’t do their damn job all year long, and when the end of the year approaches, you gotta “help” clean their ish up?????????
mirsmommy

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

you too mirs
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Ummm, I’m lost. I was too busy venting….
thaspinaltruth

*trynabeme Says:
I get so embarrassed when ppl say PACIFIC instead of specific.

:lolol:

Me Too.

Like when people say Skrimp instead of shrimp
mirsmommy

trynabeme Says:

*I get so embarrassed when ppl say PACIFIC instead of specific.
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That makes me just wanna yell, “THE WORD IS SPECIFIC, NOT PACIFIC. S-P-E-C-I-F-I-C.”
BROWNSUGAPOET

@ MIRS
I was agreein with you about bein jealous
mirsmommy

And don’t forget about when people say “skreet” instead of “street”
trynabeme

Or scrimp instead of shrimp
mirsmommy

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

@ MIRS
I was agreein with you about bein jealous
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Oh, duhhhh, I’m sorry, I had an extra slow moment.
BROWNSUGAPOET

or when they say FENIMINE AND IT’S F-E-M-I-N-I-N-E
thaspinaltruth

@mswarrior

You better go girl! In my martin lawerence/Shanae Nae voice. There is a lot of money in nursing.
mirsmommy

trynabeme Says:

Or scrimp instead of shrimp
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And “foots or feets” instead of feet.
trynabeme

Or phome instead of phone!
thaspinaltruth

mirsmommy Says:

Oh, duhhhh, I’m sorry, I had an extra slow moment

One of my moments huh???
trynabeme

My daughter’s grandmother (NOT MY MAMA) says JAN-JU-ARY instead of January????????
thaspinaltruth

trynabeme Says:

Or phome instead of phone!

WOOOH I can’t stand that. or Mafh insted of Math or Moufh insted of Mouth
Anna

mirsmommy Says:

Okay, don’t you hate it when people don’t do their damn job all year long, and when the end of the year approaches, you gotta “help” clean their ish up?????????
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Or if one person gets a bonus everybody gets a bonus whether they earned it or not. I am the only employee in my office and when I am not happy no one is happy. The man who pays my salary has only one employee to please and that’s me. I think he might be afraid of me because whenever I need my kids to come in for a day or two to file or answer phones for me he over pays them.
BROWNSUGAPOET

FITIN TO OR FIXIN TO
mirsmommy

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

or when they say FENIMINE AND IT’S F-E-M-I-N-I-N-E
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My husband helped one of our old neighbors, an elderly woman, move her tv, she says to me, “you got chu a nice healthly SKRONG man!” I tried my best no to laugh….
mirsmommy

*healthy*
thaspinaltruth

OR Skreet instead of Street
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

mirsmommy Says:

Oh, duhhhh, I’m sorry, I had an extra slow moment

One of my moments huh???
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BROWNSUGAPOET

HAVE YALL HEARD CHRISTINA AGUILERA AND HERBIE HANCOCK’S VERSION OF A SONG FOR YOU BY DONNIE HATHAWAY
mirsmommy

Anna Says:

mirsmommy Says:

Okay, don’t you hate it when people don’t do their damn job all year long, and when the end of the year approaches, you gotta “help” clean their ish up?????????
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Or if one person gets a bonus everybody gets a bonus whether they earned it or not. I am the only employee in my office and when I am not happy no one is happy. The man who pays my salary has only one employee to please and that’s me. I think he might be afraid of me because whenever I need my kids to come in for a day or two to file or answer phones for me he over pays them.
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Okay, where do you work, and are they hiring??????
mswarrior1

LOL @ all the mispronunciations. My mom is the QUEEN, I say the QUEEN of all things said wrong. Instead of “cabbage” she says “crabbage”. Uh, what else does she say…Man, I can’t even think of more right now since I’m so used to it, but I bet when I talk to her in a little bit it will all come back to me. Haha.
LovelyLady

What yall tombout
mirsmommy

mswarrior1 Says:

LOL @ all the mispronunciations. My mom is the QUEEN, I say the QUEEN of all things said wrong. Instead of “cabbage” she says “crabbage”. Uh, what else does she say…Man, I can’t even think of more right now since I’m so used to it, but I bet when I talk to her in a little bit it will all come back to me. Haha.
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Or gobbage instead of garbage….
mirsmommy

LovelyLady Says:

What yall tombout
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Where you been???? M.I.A. I see.
thaspinaltruth

@mswarrior

I bet my mom got your mom beat.
LovelyLady

trynabeme Says:

Or scrimp instead of shrimp
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I say dat but i really cant help it. But i’s try to say it right lol. When i was little i couldnt say electricity so i would say eletwisity
LovelyLady

@ mirsmommy

shhhhhh i snuck out of work for a while and went to the mall.

Is your childs name Amir
mswarrior1

thaspinaltruth Says:
@mswarrior

You better go girl! In my martin lawerence/Shanae Nae voice. There is a lot of money in nursing.

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Surely is. I “was” a music major…then I weighed it out, and nursing is so much more rewarding…AND the money is right. My friends told me I can just be a singing nurse and call it a day.
LovelyLady

Then again @ trynabeme I actually say Strimp vs Shrimp
BROWNSUGAPOET

IZUSHODATSRITE?
mirsmommy

LovelyLady Says:

@ mirsmommy

shhhhhh i snuck out of work for a while and went to the mall.

Is your childs name Amir
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Soooo, what’d you get us from the mall?

, my baby’s name is Amir (Royal Ruler)
mswarrior1

thaspinaltruth Says:
@mswarrior

I bet my mom got your mom beat.

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Naw, I doubt it. My mom is from the “kuhn-tree” so ALL her words are messed up. LOL.
It’s either she doesn’t say the word right…or says the completely wrong word.
mirsmommy

LovelyLady Says:

Then again @ trynabeme I actually say Strimp vs Shrimp
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Shhhhhhhhhhhh. Now you know you should not say that out loud. Somebody may come for you.
Anna

mirsmommy Says:

mswarrior1 Says:

LOL @ all the mispronunciations. My mom is the QUEEN, I say the QUEEN of all things said wrong. Instead of “cabbage” she says “crabbage”. Uh, what else does she say…Man, I can’t even think of more right now since I’m so used to it, but I bet when I talk to her in a little bit it will all come back to me. Haha.
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Or gobbage instead of garbage….
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I think I got both of you beat. My dad is from Mississippi and he loves the letter “S” He calls me on my birthday and says “Happy BIRTHSDAY. He loves to add an “S” to everything. As much as he loves the letter S he can’t say “Shrimp” either.
BROWNSUGAPOET

OK YALL IT’S BEEN FUN BUT I GOTS TA GO!!!!!
LovelyLady

@ Mirsmommy
I got my heat on me so im ready i will bust a bish azz today *dead* justplaying
mswarrior1

Anna Says:
mirsmommy Says:

mswarrior1 Says:

LOL @ all the mispronunciations. My mom is the QUEEN, I say the QUEEN of all things said wrong. Instead of “cabbage” she says “crabbage”. Uh, what else does she say…Man, I can’t even think of more right now since I’m so used to it, but I bet when I talk to her in a little bit it will all come back to me. Haha.
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Or gobbage instead of garbage….
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I think I got both of you beat. My dad is from Mississippi and he loves the letter “S” He calls me on my birthday and says “Happy BIRTHSDAY. He loves to add an “S” to everything. As much as he loves the letter S he can’t say “Shrimp” either.

^^^^
@ he can’t say “shrimp”. Aw man.
I think with my mom, for some reason she can’t say the letter “a” right…So she’ll either add an “r” before or after it, or just skip right over it. Man, where is she I need to hear her talk some more to figure it out. LOL.
j.c.

ok my grandma can’t say twenty so she says quenny.
LovelyLady

mirsmommy Says:

LovelyLady Says:

@ mirsmommy

shhhhhh i snuck out of work for a while and went to the mall.

Is your childs name Amir
____________________________________

Soooo, what’d you get us from the mall?

, my baby’s name is Amir (Royal Ruler)
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I LOVE THAT NAME…… Imma name my son that if God ever blesses me with one. I think i like that name because i had the biggest crush on a boy name Amir in 5th grade
qtipthecat

MY EX SAYS K-MARK AND WAL-MARK. HE ALSO SAYS BABIN SUIT, DOVERMAN INSTEAD OF DOBERMAN, ROCKWEILER INSTEAD OF ROTWIELLER AND THE FOOL STILL SAYS BISKETTI INSTEAD OF SPAGHETTI. I CALL HIM AN IDIOT, BUT REALLY I WAS FOR HAVING A CHILD WITH THIS MAN. :SHRUG:
qtipthecat

I Like the name Amari for a boy.
thaspinaltruth

OKay everybody, Have a good weekend! I have to go and try to finish up some Christmas shopping.

Bye!
mirsmommy

@ Anna & Mswarrior1
mirsmommy

thaspinaltruth Says:

OKay everybody, Have a good weekend! I have to go and try to finish up some Christmas shopping.

Bye!
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:waving: Have a good weekend
mirsmommy

LovelyLady Says:

mirsmommy Says:

LovelyLady Says:

@ mirsmommy

shhhhhh i snuck out of work for a while and went to the mall.

Is your childs name Amir
____________________________________

Soooo, what’d you get us from the mall?

, my baby’s name is Amir (Royal Ruler)
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I LOVE THAT NAME…… Imma name my son that if God ever blesses me with one. I think i like that name because i had the biggest crush on a boy name Amir in 5th grade
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We chose that name because he came from royalty, me , and he been running thangs since he was in the womb.
Anna

qtipthecat Says:

MY EX SAYS K-MARK AND WAL-MARK. HE ALSO SAYS BABIN SUIT, DOVERMAN INSTEAD OF DOBERMAN, ROCKWEILER INSTEAD OF ROTWIELLER AND THE FOOL STILL SAYS BISKETTI INSTEAD OF SPAGHETTI. I CALL HIM AN IDIOT, BUT REALLY I WAS FOR HAVING A CHILD WITH THIS MAN. :SHRUG:
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Opposites really do attract. I always wanted to be an English Teacher. My hubby can “murder” the easiest pronunciation of most of his vocabulary. I am one to quickly correct someone as they are speaking, (I don’t do it much anymore, my family had a intervention and told me that they get annoyed when I do that) but if I had to correct every word hubby said it would take too long, after being together 13 yrs he has picked up on the choice of word(s) me and my kids use. Most of his problem is not adding a “ED”, at the end of a word.
mirsmommy

qtipthecat Says:

MY EX SAYS K-MARK AND WAL-MARK. HE ALSO SAYS BABIN SUIT, DOVERMAN INSTEAD OF DOBERMAN, ROCKWEILER INSTEAD OF ROTWIELLER AND THE FOOL STILL SAYS BISKETTI INSTEAD OF SPAGHETTI. I CALL HIM AN IDIOT, BUT REALLY I WAS FOR HAVING A CHILD WITH THIS MAN. :SHRUG:
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My son pronounces words with a T, with a K
LovelyLady

@ qtipthecat

I say RockWILDER
LovelyLady

Anna says:

(I don’t do it much anymore, my family had a intervention and told me that they get annoyed when I do that)
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*dead* It was that bad Anna
mswarrior1

I almost named my son Amir!
But I decided to name him Jaden instead. (Modified version of “Jadon” which means “God has heard”; since he’s my little blessing. )
LovelyLady

@ Mirsmommy

We chose that name because he came from royalty, me , and he been running thangs since he was in the womb
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I know thats right
mirsmommy

mswarrior1 Says:

I almost named my son Amir!
But I decided to name him Jaden instead. (Modified version of “Jadon” which means “God has heard”; since he’s my little blessing.
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Awwwww, really??? I like Jayden, too. How old is your baby? Mine is 3 going on 40.
trynabeme

Aww Lovely…if you can’t help it, you get a pass. You’ve proven you ain’t slow. I say RockWILDER too

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

FITIN TO OR FIXIN TO
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*raises hand* guilty
mirsmommy

Hey, did anyone hear about the 4 year old that was drinking beer, and went to the house next door to steal the Christmas presents????
mirsmommy

And he was wearing a dress when he was found.
trynabeme

I usta correct ppl too…I just sensed ppl were aggi about it & stopped…coupled with coming to the realization that everyone is their own person. Some would like to change & believe it or not, they will ask for input. If they haven’t asked, they find it real uppity.

“So you the smarty art n*gga? Tell me this, can you kick MY a**?” © C.Rock
j.c.

yes i did. ummm mommy, this may be a good time to have that boy “see someone”
LovelyLady

mirsmommy Says:

Hey, did anyone hear about the 4 year old that was drinking beer, and went to the house next door to steal the Christmas presents????
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This is not funny but i was when i read ur comment are you serious???
mirsmommy

It was also said the the 4 year old, wants to get into trouble and go to jail, because that’s where his father is.
LovelyLady

trynabeme Says:

Aww Lovely…if you can’t help it, you get a pass. You’ve proven you ain’t slow. I say RockWILDER too

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

FITIN TO OR FIXIN TO
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*raises hand* guilty
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I think i need to work on my vocab cause I dont even say FITIN i say FITNA… example…. Im FITNA go home in 10 mins
LBCali

Real Truth here: Some asian girls will have a train ran upon them, then HOLLA RAPE!!, only because of their parents.
Black guys need to be aware of this!!!

This has happened to a few guys I know of, and YES they were convicted, they were in their late teens.
mirsmommy

LovelyLady Says:

mirsmommy Says:

Hey, did anyone hear about the 4 year old that was drinking beer, and went to the house next door to steal the Christmas presents????
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This is not funny but i was when i read ur comment are you serious???
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You know you ain’t right. But yes, it is true. That baby went wandering the neighborhood at 1 in the morning, ringing the nighbors’ doorbells, and went into a house through an unlocked door, and was opening Christmas presents. They also said that the brown dress that he was wearing when he was found, was one of the presents that he opened.
mswarrior1

@ mirs
Yeah I heard about that mess.
And my thoughts:
1. How in the HAIL did he get out of the house without being caught.
2. How did he acquire that beer…and not only get it…but drink it until if was GONE.
3. How did he break into the neighbors house to steal those presents?
4. WHY did he put on the DRESS?
Lawd, ‘Ham mercy. Something ain’t right. Ain’t right at all.
trynabeme

LovelyLady Says:

trynabeme Says:

Aww Lovely…if you can’t help it, you get a pass. You’ve proven you ain’t slow. I say RockWILDER too

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

FITIN TO OR FIXIN TO
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*raises hand* guilty
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I think i need to work on my vocab cause I dont even say FITIN i say FITNA… example…. Im FITNA go home in 10 mins
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*raises hand* guilty, again.
LovelyLady

@ mirsmommy

Lawd so many questions??? But I think mswarrior1 asking all the ones i want answered. Its still kinda funny but i wanna smack the dodo ish outta his mama.
mirsmommy

mswarrior1 Says:

@ mirs
Yeah I heard about that mess.
And my thoughts:
1. How in the HAIL did he get out of the house without being caught.
2. How did he acquire that beer…and not only get it…but drink it until if was GONE.
3. How did he break into the neighbors house to steal those presents?
4. WHY did he put on the DRESS?
Lawd, ‘Ham mercy. Something ain’t right. Ain’t right at all.
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1. I have no clue how he got outta the house, because his mother said that they have the child safety devices on all the doors. *I’m questioning this*

2. The monther’s father has a cooler in the back, and somehow he got into the cooler and opened the beer. *I’m also questioning this*

3. The neighbor’s house was unlocked. *that’s a big in this day and age*

4. I have no clue. *I would also like to know the reason for this*

But my main question is, WHY DOES HIS MOTHER STILL HAVE CUSTODY????????????????????????
LovelyLady

But my main question is, WHY DOES HIS MOTHER STILL HAVE CUSTODY????????????????????????
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Same here
mirsmommy

LovelyLady Says:

But my main question is, WHY DOES HIS MOTHER STILL HAVE CUSTODY????????????????????????
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Same here
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That’s Child “Protective” Services for ya. The kid had to have his stomach pumped due to alcohol consumption….
LovelyLady

That’s Child “Protective” Services for ya. The kid had to have his stomach pumped due to alcohol consumption
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Wow All because of irresponsible parents smh
mirsmommy

Good night folks,

Have a great and safe weekend…
Daisy

My nephews middle name is Amir but spelled Ahmir (blame my sista) I picked that name for him
LovelyLady

Good night Mirsmommy.

Daisy u know us black folks always gotta change the spelling of the names
mirsmommy

@ Daisy & Lovely

I put an H in Ahmir as well What, I had to “keep it real.”
mirsmommy

Well, I thought I was leaving. Not til 6 now or 6:30 now.
Daisy

@Mirs sorry I know you are salty right now
mirsmommy

Daisy Says:

@Mirs sorry I know you are salty right now
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Very. as hell.
Daisy

@Mirs @ your H as well!
Daisy

@Mirs dont what kind of work do you do? I get off at 4 on fridays
Anna

mirsmommy Says:

LovelyLady Says:

But my main question is, WHY DOES HIS MOTHER STILL HAVE CUSTODY????????????????????????
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Same here
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That’s Child “Protective” Services for ya. The kid had to have his stomach pumped due to alcohol consumption
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Sad. Yes, how does she still have custody, not only did he get out of the home at 1 in the morning he was drunk, stealing a Christmas tree, is he already in training to be a cross dresser/transgender, they say most kids know by the age of 3-4. But for him to reason that he knew doing bad things will get you in jail so he can be with his dad. SMH, is this kid white and that’s why the mom still has custody?
trynabeme

John Sally was on Speedy’s Comedy Corner (spinoff of Foxxhole) keepin it 100 about the NBA/jumpoffs!!!!!!!

captaincornball.com/2009/12/17/speedys-comedy-corner-12-16-09/
mirsmommy

Daisy Says:

@Mirs dont what kind of work do you do? I get off at 4 on fridays
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No I’m a Customer Care Team Lead. But my department also handles the A/R, and Soft Desktop Support. And due to the year end, there are A LOT of things that need to get done.
mirsmommy

Anna Says:

mirsmommy Says:

LovelyLady Says:

But my main question is, WHY DOES HIS MOTHER STILL HAVE CUSTODY????????????????????????
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Same here
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That’s Child “Protective” Services for ya. The kid had to have his stomach pumped due to alcohol consumption
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Sad. Yes, how does she still have custody, not only did he get out of the home at 1 in the morning he was drunk, stealing a Christmas tree, is he already in training to be a cross dresser/transgender, they say most kids know by the age of 3-4. But for him to reason that he knew doing bad things will get you in jail so he can be with his dad. SMH, is this kid white and that’s why the mom still has custody?
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Yes, the kid is white….
Daisy

@Mirs what state are u n cause its already 6 in the A! The time will fly by at least I hope so.
mirsmommy

Daisy Says:

@Mirs what state are u n cause its already 6 in the A! The time will fly by at least I hope so.
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I’m in Jersey, and I’m about to say eff that, and go home.

Have a great weekend. Again, but for real this time.
gypsyeyes

I’m new here:newbie:I’ve been lurking and Sandra has been so nice to open registration. Just moved to CT from the A. Holla.(Frankie Voice)
missy

*walks in*

Dang I missed a lot and I don’t know if I am going to read through all the comments…….. But I don’t have a daughter(or a child for that matter)but I would probably freak the heck out……..

Any who @Daisy,Texa,J.C,Mahogany,&LovelyLady-I didn’t have the Sean dream………..

&@Texa-Girl I wasn’t complaining about the weather…..but it was too hot for Christmas….but :hugs: girl…..just remember the 21st is right there…..and you’ll be in some warm weather……….& you are my SR hermana

Now let me sing……This Christmas for y’all(CB version)

Hang all the mistletoe
I’m gonna get to know you better
This Christmas
And as we trim the tree
How much fun it’s gonna be together
This Christmas

[Chorus:]
The fireside is blazing bright ooohh oohh
We’re caroling through the night ooohh oohh
And this Christmas will be yeah
A very special Christmas for me ooohh oohh

(Pre) Merry Christmas y’all ……I am in the Christmas spirit……

*walks out*
missy

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Dang that was a long post…….sorry y’all

*walks out*
LovelyLady

Missy you lateeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
https://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

Hey y’all. I’m late today. Holidays are always a busy time for us. Did I miss anything? I see Sandra opened up the gates of hell (registration) again? Didn’t read through the comments.

:ontopic: I would beat my daughter’s azz. That is all.
Anna

Merry Christmas, from the Temptations.
missy

How come I just noticed registration was open again………

Any who @Lovely …….I know I was late and probably miss everything……. *pouts* I may read through the comments in the other posts……. *goes to skim* …….Shucks I stayed in the KORNA to long….. Next time I’ll get out early…
HOTTOPIC

This is a really unfortunate situation that these young girls are doing things like this and not cherish there bodies being a teenager you feel you know everything but obviously that is not the case.
Daisy

@Missy did you see CB steezin on 106 n park today?

I guess we forgot to tell you that you could leave the KONA our bad
missy

@Daisy-I didn’t see CB on 106 *pouts* ………I stayed in the KORNA all day………..I was getting ready for Christmas and I was super busy ….

But did you hear about Shane sparks getting arrested for child molestation from 1994…..I knew he was a freak but wooow.. :confused:
Daisy

@Missy I dont want to believe that about Shane I LOVE his choreO! I was so mad when he left so u think u can dance. Tabnap is WACK
Silhouette

@Daisy I don’t want to believe that about Shane either. If his age is correct on Wiki he would have been only 19 or 20 then so an underage girl could have been someone he went to school with, maybe I am just in denial and making excuses.
Daisy

@Sill they said the girl would have been 10 and he would have been 20 I cant I just cant

Is that a pagent pic for your gravi?
missy

@daisy&Silhouette…….I looked up his age also…..and thought he was 25 in 1994……..but they did say the girls were at least 10 years younger than him when the incidents happened……….

I don’t know but Shane was a little freaky to me I would hope he didn’t do it but I don’t know……But he was around kids on ABDC…….which should break some rules right…….

But did anyone notice that this was the year where everyone’s skeletons were coming out of the closet…….(whether they were false accusations or not)
creole sugah

i got in? for reo?merry christmas to me!

back to the topic:my parents weren’t strict , but they did teach me to respect myself, them and God at a VERY young age.there’s alot to be said for ” Train a child in the way he should go , even when he is old he will not depart from it” (Proverbs 22:6). We should be lifting our young women up not by just shaking heads and fingers, but by sending them positive images and messages.
Daisy

@Missy Yes more skeletons than I care to know about came falling out of closets left and right whew chile! I hope next year gets betta for everybody. Another man from SYTYCD was accused of rape earlier this year
BrealistiK

Hello everyone

The children of today have no shame.They’re extremely sexual and at very young ages.
Silhouette

Ok you guys are right if she was ten I don’t care how old he was, his but butt needs to be under the jail.
Daisy, my gravi is a pageant pic of Desiree Rogers The White House Social Secty. I liked it b/c they were saying she wanted to be the belle of the ball at the state dinner.
Silhouette

There were a lot of skeletons to come out this year. You know what they say “whats done in the dark…” We should have a jumpoff scandal countdown 2009.
Daisy

@Sill A classmate of mine from NO did a presentation on Desiree last qtr for a project we had.
Silhouette

That’s funny! I know they were so proud giving their presentation. I really like her at first,but if she is trying upstage my First Lady now that is a :nono:.
missy

@Silhouette-If we have a jump-off scandal countdown that would last until december 2010

@Daisy-I heard about Alex…….But I just got finish reading the documents on Shane and this nicca should be in jail……..they look legit……unlike those documents on Marcus Cooper
Daisy

@sill I dont think she is trying to upstage our 1st lady at all. I think she dropped the ball unless she didnt have anybody from her team at the door/gate but I have yet to really see that confirmed just whispered and discussed. I think she will be just fine. Yes my classmate was cheesing cause she was bragging on her fellow NO native I need to ask her about Desiree when I see her Mon in class.

@Missy what did the docs say *clutches pearls*
Necelove

That’s a shame. She need her buns whooped.
Anna

Is 2009 going the be the year of the “Lynching” on our black men? It’s a “Witch Hunt”. Tiger, all the rappers that got sent to prison this year. Ppl don’t want Tiger to make more money and if you think about it, we see golfers in their 60’s still playing, how much more money can/could have been in Tiger’s pocket? Who wants a black man(even though he may not identify with being black, he is black) on Forbes List of the Richest Black Man in America. R Kelly and Kobe still have careers, but would never come close to making “Tiger” money. As much as we don’t like what Tiger and his “transgressions” has caused him, is he to lose is career over it? I am a wife, but should his future earnings and breaking more earning records and golf records be jeopardized because he can’t keep his zipper up? Let the man make his money. I do not in any way condone what Tiger did.
Silhouette

@Missy who should get #1 I think McNair’s she was a cautionary tell for all.
Silhouette

@Anna I agree with you that he should still be able to make a living for himself and and his kids. Your right YT hate to see a black man with wealth, not rich but wealthy! (in my Chris Rock voice) Tiger was at a point where he could have started his on golf league and shut down the PGA. I think what he did off the golf course should not take away from what he accomplished on the golf course. John Daley who is from my home state Arkansas said in the beginning that Tiger should just come out make a statement take a couple months off and everyone will forget about it. He said the difference between the two of them is that he married all his transgressions. Hes been married 4 or 5 times
Daisy

@Anna Who said Tiger cant make any more money as a golfer? He will be just fine its only just like Kobe, R and everybody else. Tiger decided to go to time out nobody put him there. I dont think anybody went on a lynch/witch hunt on any of the black men you named. They already know what time it is so when they mess up yes the media is going to run all the way to Mexico with the story right, wrong or indifferent sad but true IMO

@Sill I am waiting on McNairs wife to do her 1st tv interview w/ Oprah (in my head thats where it will be)
missy

@sill i concur with your comment 285 because .ummm. his was shocking (because she killed him and herself)

@Daisy..These are his charges that were on the document…”who did willfully, unlawfully,and lewdly commit a lewd and lascivious act upon and with the body and certain parts, a child under the age of fourteen years, with the intent of arousing, appealing to, and gratifying the lust, passions, and sexual desires of the…involved substantial sexual conduct, namely, SexualIntercourse and Oral Copulation; and there is clear and convincing corroboration”…..
Silhouette

I want to see her do an interview too! My first question would be “why did you try to shut his older children out of his estate, when her was paying child support for them all those years.”
I know that’s not right but I already know the answer to the question. “Didyou have any idea you husband was being unfaithful?”
missy

@topic
Oh and I just read what that little girl wrote…….and she is a fast tail one……her bro. was wrong for trying to get revenge but dang……….she probably already had a rep. but he didn’t have to make it known to the masses …….*SMH*

But the sad part is that she seems like she is proud to be a homey hopper…..and it seems as if she feels like she is in control of all these dudes…. *SMH*
Daisy

@Missy I am slow you were ref. to what the docs said as it related to charges, that just read like legal mumbo jumbo as it should. i will still wait to hear from Shane or see if the victim comes forward and release a statement

@Sill I def. believe the wife knew he had been stepping out that was known around Nashville not sure if she knew about the one who ended up killing him. Steve was all around town and on vac. with her so I dont know how the wife couldnt have known. Oprah has a Nashville connection she needs to get on it she only has another 1.5yrs on air

Nite all I will read any responses tomorrow *yawn*
Silhouette

I don’t know why but “lascivious” has always sent chills down my back like it an extra creepy act.

@topic
the little bro was wrong, all he had too do was show the parents and I guarantee she would have been grounded longer than him. I loved being an only child, no one to rat you out!
She needed an intervention though.She was talking about giving head to more peen than I have had in my 30 yrs, in just a matter of months.
missy

@Daisy-Those charges were on the documents and yes it does sound like legal mumbo jumbo………….but it might sound worse….because I copied and pasted it an took the little girl’s name out and put all the charges together and not how they had it………but you can read it on TMZ……and they have a pic. of him with cuffs on…..

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Silhouette Says:

@topic
the little bro was wrong, all he had too do was show the parents and I guarantee she would have been grounded longer than him. I loved being an only child, no one to rat you out!
She needed an intervention though.She was talking about giving head to more peen than I have had in my 30 yrs, in just a matter of months.

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:lolol: …………..she needed an intervention for real though
Anna

Nite Daisy. I am so mad at me. It’s like Thanksgiving all over again. I forgot my son is having a “Pamper Party” at my house tomorrow. I am allowed to cook the food, clean the house and disappear for a few hours. Where do I go? I know, work on my off day. They(meaning hubby) is kicking me out of the house tomorrow. It is going to be boring for all the men in the room without me. They will actually have to make thier own plates. LOL. What the hell do you make for a “Pamper Party” with men who just want to eat, drop off a bag of diapers and watch sports? Is this like “Always the bridesmaid, never the bride? Marsha, Marsha, Marsha. My hubby has gone to many “Pamper Parties” and he “Is Not The Father”(In my best M. Povich voice). I wlll let “google” be my friend on “how to thow a party you are not invited to.
texarican mamacita

Hey, Missy, missed the late convo tonight and PRAISE THE LORD!!!! NO SEAN GARRETT DREAM

To everyone on Sandra Rose have a good weekend and Merry Christmas for those who will not log on until after next week.
Anna

missy Says:

@
Silhouette Says:

@topic
the little bro was wrong, all he had too do was show the parents and I guarantee she would have been grounded longer than him. I loved being an only child, no one to rat you out!
She needed an intervention though.She was talking about giving head to more peen than I have had in my 30 yrs, in just a matter of months.

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…………..she needed an intervention for real though
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I think that being a only child is “child abuse” I am really serious though. I love my dad but do not want the undivided attention of taking care of my parent in my “golden years”, plus if you need a extra body part a sibling is usually your best match. The guy who pays my salary came from a household of 10 sibllings, he married a woman who is a single child by adoption. when you come from a big family you learn to become “quick witted, know how to take a punch and have a great come back line. His wife easily gets offended by “stupid” non issues. When you are from a big family, you really do know how to “survive”. JMO ppl, no need to hit me over the head. My Motto is still “the more the Merry O”
missy

@texa-I am happy about that…….I didn’t have to tell anyone I had the Sean G..which would have had me to stay away from general population….

Any who y’all should look up a short film called New boy on youtube…..it is really good

@Anna-I am glad I have my annoying siblings……I couldn’t be an only child & I concur with your comment296
Silhouette

Well dang ya’ll it ain’t my fault I am an only child.
It’s funny my mom came from a big family 6 kids, 3 boys and 3 girls. The girls all have one child all daughters, so my two other girl cousins are like my sisters we talk everyday, we go shopping and vacation together alot. My uncles on the other hand have large families and two of them married women with multiple kids from previous marriages and had their own. We are a really tight knit family, so I don’t really feel like I missed anything.
Now my Dad has been married twice since my Mom so I have a half sister and brother, a step sister, and three step brothers, but they always lived in a different city so we didn’t grow up together like that.
I understand what you guys are saying but I guess you can’t miss what you never had.

Sorry that was such a long post.
Silhouette

@Anna I hope you come up with some tasty treats for your guest tomorrow.

I am going to bed now,Goodnight Missy, Goodnight Mamacita, Goodnight Anna, Goodnight noises everywhere.
missy

@silhouette

@daisy this season i only liked nappytab choreo for the transform ya performance with russel and that girl ….
LovelyLady

Its 12:45 EST and Im bored snowed in. I know no ones here now, but i just wanted to post sumthing
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

As a mother of a 12 year old daughter, 10 year old son and an 8 year old son, I am deeply saddened. It is hard raising children in this sin-worshipping/sex-obsessed world. We, parents are called to work long hours just to provide a decent living for our children; meanwhile, the devil is babysitting our children through the internet, television and radio. The enemy has desensitized our children through entertainment and video games.

The devil is definitely going after our seed. We better sober up and vigilant because he is out to still, kill and destroy. But JESUS has come that we may have life (quality living without being slaves to sin) and have it more abundantly through the power of the Holy Spirit.

I am about to turn into a Quaker for real.
gypsyeyes

help. I need to change my gravi.
Anna

Silhouette Says:

Well dang ya’ll it ain’t my fault I am an only child.
It’s funny my mom came from a big family 6 kids, 3 boys and 3 girls. The girls all have one child all daughters, so my two other girl cousins are like my sisters we talk everyday, we go shopping and vacation together alot. My uncles on the other hand have large families and two of them married women with multiple kids from previous marriages and had their own. We are a really tight knit family, so I don’t really feel like I missed anything.
Now my Dad has been married twice since my Mom so I have a half sister and brother, a step sister, and three step brothers, but they always lived in a different city so we didn’t grow up together like that.
I understand what you guys are saying but I guess you can’t miss what you never had.

Sorry that was such a long post
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You really are a only child in your head. My dad is a only child and my mom had two brothers. My closest blood line family on either of my parents side is very small. My kids dad came from a family of 10 and my kids grew up with lots of cousins and they are more like siblings. I am not going to beat you up but I don’t say “half”. A sibling from any parent that you share is just that “a sibling”. You are not a only child, you just did not grow up with your siblings. My dad was married(and divorced) before he met my mom. His oldest daughter(my sister) is a Preacher. How do you top that? I am just a Insurance Agent and get to legally extort money from ppl. My dad married my mom with two kids and you can’t tell me my brother(not my dads bio child) is not his, they are both color blind(with women and matching socks).
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

@Anna, get your own blog with the long azz comments. LOL. You are missing your calling. LOL
Anna

attorneymom Says:

@Anna, get your own blog with the long azz comments. LOL. You are missing your calling. LOL
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How do I do it? Sandra told Charles he needed his own and he is doing it. And for the record my comment was shorter than the comment I replied to. Do I need my own blog or just really write a book like Iesha Womack, which one makes the most money, a blog or a book?
Silhouette

@Anna I knew you were going to get onto me about the “half” statement. I just used it to explain my situation.
Anna

Silhouette Says:

@Anna I knew you were going to get onto me about the “half” statement. I just used it to explain my situation.
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You better claim your family. You never know when you will need a little “DNA”. My kids many years ago drew straws to see who was going to take care of mommy in my “Golden Years”, my son drew the short straw and said that he was going to put me in a nursing home. When I found out, I was not happy with their choice. My daugters will take care of me and my son (for Christmas that year) got a tat with the praying hands with my name under it on his arm. It was his way of saying” mom I am sorry I drew the short straw and chose to put you in a home, but I got a tat(and I have been wanting a tat for awihle) but look mom, it has your name on it. Kids do the darnest things.
aries

Too many parents are trying to be their children friends and not their parents. I know children out here having sex young girls as young as 11. They skip school to hang out with boys.
Daisy

to the newbies

@Anna I have a co worker who is offended easy. She is an only child and says she doesnt pick on anybody so we dont need to pick on her. By picking she means I call her out when she is CRUNCHIN n SMACKIN like a billy goat and the fact that she is GREEDY and loves FOOD so I am always cracking jokes about that. She is not a big girl so that aint it. Once I found out she was an only child I told her it all made sense She pitched a fit this wk at work cause she felt ppl were bossing her around cause she is the youngest well come to find out another girl in our area is the baby at 25 she was so salty she couldnt say she was the youngest anymore that made my day of course! Sorry for the long post/rant

I am the oldest of 3! I def. want more than one kid but only time will tell since I havent even started yet
cheeks8683

I don’t understand how these girls can go whoring around without any thought….
Anna

Daisy Says:

to the newbies

@Anna I have a co worker who is offended easy. She is an only child and says she doesnt pick on anybody so we dont need to pick on her. By picking she means I call her out when she is CRUNCHIN n SMACKIN like a billy goat and the fact that she is GREEDY and loves FOOD so I am always cracking jokes about that. She is not a big girl so that aint it. Once I found out she was an only child I told her it all made sense She pitched a fit this wk at work cause she felt ppl were bossing her around cause she is the youngest well come to find out another girl in our area is the baby at 25 she was so salty she couldnt say she was the youngest anymore that made my day of course! Sorry for the long post/rant

I am the oldest of 3! I def. want more than one kid but only time will tell since I havent even started yet
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I am the middle child. Even if you count my moms kids, my dads kids and my mom and dads kids together. I am still the middle child.
H.B.I.C

Sandra Rose you sound just like those misogynist from the Middle east and China stating that’s why you didn’t want girl children! who do you think was going to participate with her in the sex list?! And if you think raising a black male is easier I’ve got some Bernie Madoff stock I’d like to sell you.
H.B.I.C

Reading a lot of these comments I can see how our Black fall through the loops. So many of you are on the board stating how happy you are that you don’t have or want girls yet satistics shows Blacks girls are faring better than Black men while YOUR sons are more likely to be doing jail time those with daughters are more likely to have their girls in college. If raising a Black man was so easy maybe so many of them wouldn’t be in jail, maybe more would be in college. While you give your son a pass and hawk your daughters and treat them with contempt a lot of these black boys are grabbing their ankles for other dudes, selling dope, impregnating SOMEBODY ELSE’S DAUGHTER, and AIDS infected but how many times have we turned on the TV and seen a black mother defending her trifling black son for crimes he’s committed? too many. Yep she’s either the last to know or didn’t want to know because she figured he had a penis and didn’t need parenting or guidance and if he f’d up he shouldn’t be held accountable.

Black women the next time you are complaining about a trifling Black man just remember that they are being raised by a vast majority of Black women with the mentality that being male gives them a pass and whatever her son does to you as WOMAN deserve it. Afterall if being raised by a woman who devalues other women what exactly should we expect? No wonder we’re in the state we’re in!
texarican mamacita

To all the Sandra Rose peeps on the East Coast please take care and keep warm in all that darn snow.
http://chitchatta.com Yadda Yadda

@ H.B.I.C Says:

Sandra Rose you sound just like those misogynist from the Middle east and China stating that’s why you didn’t want girl children! who do you think was going to participate with her in the sex list?! And if you think raising a black male is easier I’ve got some Bernie Madoff stock I’d like to sell you.
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As person living in the Middle East I find your comment to be ummm…… well ridiculous.
Life in the middle east is not what you see on TV. Misogynist people are found all around the globe and if you don’t believe me take a trip to the mid-west portion of the United States and you’ll see.
Anna

H.B.I.C Says:

Reading a lot of these comments I can see how our Black fall through the loops. So many of you are on the board stating how happy you are that you don’t have or want girls yet satistics shows Blacks girls are faring better than Black men while YOUR sons are more likely to be doing jail time those with daughters are more likely to have their girls in college. If raising a Black man was so easy maybe so many of them wouldn’t be in jail, maybe more would be in college. While you give your son a pass and hawk your daughters and treat them with contempt a lot of these black boys are grabbing their ankles for other dudes, selling dope, impregnating SOMEBODY ELSE’S DAUGHTER, and AIDS infected but how many times have we turned on the TV and seen a black mother defending her trifling black son for crimes he’s committed? too many. Yep she’s either the last to know or didn’t want to know because she figured he had a penis and didn’t need parenting or guidance and if he f’d up he shouldn’t be held accountable.

Black women the next time you are complaining about a trifling Black man just remember that they are being raised by a vast majority of Black women with the mentality that being male gives them a pass and whatever her son does to you as WOMAN deserve it. Afterall if being raised by a woman who devalues other women what exactly should we expect? No wonder we’re in the state we’re in!
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Thank You! Boys are raised to be men(dogs) because of what we as women do or don’t do. We raise our daughters not to be sluts, but some women just let the boys get a pass. I taught my kids about sex, drugs and rock n roll. (they taught me about “Rap music, (I am still not interested)raising kids is the hardest job with the least rewards on the planet.( unless you are like me and like hugs and kisses that follow with dissapointment) I do say that you get out of it what you invest in it. My return investment is loving, caring kids that I would not trade for the world.
H.B.I.C

@Yadda Yadda, misogynist are found everywhere but let’s be real no one or other culture CURRENTLY pride themselves on their hatred (Rape as punishment, stoning, whipping death etc) for women like those from the middle east. Now you can be offended all you want but it is what it is! If its a misrepresentation I suggest those who oppose it from where you come from stand up because The haters are loud and everywhere and that is what I and many others see and hear. Holla at your people first then come check me!

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