Put ‘Em On Blast: Unknown NBA Player

Sandra Rose December 17, 2009

A loyal reader, who asked to remain anonymous, has a friend who is married to a NBA player. The friend just recently found pics of her husband’s jump off on his cell phone where, no doubt, he thought the pics were safe.

Here’s a tip fellas: your wives know how to unlock your cell phones. The tips to unlock your phones are all over the Internets.

These pics are typical of the types of jump off/gold diggers who lay up with a rich man and don’t want him to forget her. I decided to obscure the jump off’s face to protect her innocence.

You can tell this is legit because the hotel room is definitely a large luxury suite with a huge master bath. And peep the TV remote on the tub. How many hotel rooms have TVs in the bathroom?

You can also tell that the baller is taking the pics with his phone. Notice what part of the female anatomy he focuses exclusively on. Is it any wonder that clueless chicks with low self esteem rush to the hood clinics for butt injections?

Expect this NBA player’s name to hit the blogs real soon.

I have a friend that has been with this NBA guy for some years. They just got married. She happened to find these pictures in her “mans” creep phone? Is this sexy for real? Dropping your pants and holding cellulite ass cheeks together? Then what makes this shit worse is the bitch knows that dude is married! And then is going behind him ironing the shit the wife packed him. I’m sorry but its 2010 niggas have got to be a little better. You couldn’t buy your jumpoff lingerie? My girl just filed for divorce from her no good athlete.
Bet it won’t be this bitch he wifes up next. Who does this shit? The outfit is out who wears this shit. Minnesota groupies get down! I would give names but it might not be good for her divorce that is in the process. But I did want YOU to see what GROUPIES DO!

Uncensored pics after the break. *Not Safe For Work*

http://twitter.com/_missVanessa BeautifulBliss

LMAOOOO. You think people would learn. And her a$$ looks better covered up….
missportia

A hoe will be a hoe.
Krysi J

not the first

not the last
sharnell

As long as there is a man with a peen there will continue to be women who jump on it!
pyt305

so who is the nba player?
LovelyLady

You know what i just canttt, i just cant
http://facebook.com/Im2thick4u 2thick4u

LMAO…WOW…who the hell is the ball player?!!!
SouthernPrincess

What he is doing with a “creep phone”?
I just love how she put quotes around man and not creep phone…LOL
And what was the point of her sending you this email? To inform you/us that a baller is cheating. Whats new or interesting about this.
tell your loyal anonymous reader to go sit down somewhere.

And one more thing, why would the wife send these pix to your reader? Hmmmmmm
aqtpie

Then what makes this shyt worse is the bitch knows that dude is married!
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No what makes this shyt worse is he is the one who exchanged vows and he knows he is married!!
VAALLDAY

LOL at Sharnell… These guys will never learn. Wont be satisfied until something drastic happens. He’s probably at home now looking dumb..wondering how much he’s going to have to pay his wife per month.
LovelyLady

Well we do know he play for Minnesota since she said “Minnesota groupies get down!”. So ill just wait to hear a divorce from someone in that camp.
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

Lol. I can’t I just can’t…

This chick isn’t even all that. Dont insult me by cheating with someone not up to par… that wld make me madder
Anna

You can tell this is legit because the hotel room is definitely a large luxury suite with a huge master bath. And peep the TV remote on the tub. How many hotel rooms have TVs in the bathroom?
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How is that a luxury hotel. I have seen college dorms look nicer. She is ironing his shirt. Bless her heart, we know that always is a good indication of “wife material”.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

So confused about this pose and what this chick is doing wth is sexy about that—At least the friend filed for divorce!
BROWNSUGAPOET

I guess it’s gonna take another one to get Mcnaired but then again maybe not because if the thought of your jump off killing you isn’t enough to scare you then nothing is
https://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

Ummm, Sandra, we can still see her face in the 4th and 5th pics.

What a hoe!!
srv

This is the intercontinental hotel in buckhead.. I stayed there last Friday..
laterthannever

Look at Alicia Keys circa 2001! Now you know Swizz is not going to be happy when he sees this! :p

If the wedding wasn’t in the news the divorce sure won’t be!
missmiami

her arse in that first pic looks like two basketballs. OMG HER IMPLANT JOB IS HORRIBLE
browni007

gosh this is just shameful….
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

Whatever. She’s calling the woman every name in the book and didn’t have word one to say about the dude. I bet if they are getting a divorce it was HIS idea not the wife. I’m sure she knew her husband was a cheater.
LovelyLady

aqtpie Says:

Then what makes this shyt worse is the **** knows that dude is married!
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No what makes this shyt worse is he is the one who exchanged vows and he knows he is married!!
Mz.Williams

This why man shouldn’t get married until their ready. And yes her ass looks better cover up. I hope she was worth it.Your marriage is over now
Cinderella

If the unknown ball player is on the Minnesota Timberwolves then he’s a nobody. That team is filled with scrubs.
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

I decided to obscure the jump off’s face to protect her innocence……

with a huge master bath. And peep the TV remote on the tub. ______________________________________________

Jump-Offs are innocent?….BOI WHO!!!!!!! GTFOH! and did this WHORE just get off he toilet? In the bathroom with your pants arond your ankles, does NOT a SEXY Picture MAKE!!!

SR!!

I’m sure that you can assume by the comment section that most of your posters are INTELLIGENT and CRITICAL THINKERS…..can you please not DUMB us DOWN with statements like: You can tell this is legit because the hotel room is definitely a large luxury suite

WE can tell this is legit because the hotel is luxury!?
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

missmiami Says:

her arse in that first pic looks like two basketballs. OMG HER IMPLANT JOB IS HORRIBLE
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THATS an implant? She need to go get her money back NOW.

I hate to see what it looked like before
LovelyLady

Bird Says:

Whatever. She’s calling the woman every name in the book and didn’t have word one to say about the dude. I bet if they are getting a divorce it was HIS idea not the wife. I’m sure she knew her husband was a cheater.
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And again.
MsGaMama_706

So what if she new he was married….he exchanged vows NOT her!!! Stop blaming the jump off/groupie and blame the MARRIED MAN

And shame on her for thinking she was an exception and wouldn’t get cheated on….they all do it what made u so different?!?!?!
https://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

missmiami Says:

…her arse in that first pic looks like two basketballs. OMG HER IMPLANT JOB IS HORRIBLE

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I was wondering if this is the same girl in all the pics. She looks like Kim K from the back in the first couple of pics but then her azz looks flat in the last pics.
BROWNSUGAPOET

Then he got her playin the wifey role ironin his shyt!
KaraZ

So before they got married her NEVER cheated on her? THis is new behavior for him? *cough bullshlit cough*

I’ll be damned
missy

laterthannever Says:

Look at Alicia Keys circa 2001! Now you know Swizz is not going to be happy when he sees this! :p

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:lolol:

Any way I can still see her face in the 4th and 5th pics just like @Ms.kaylamomma can…..and I am sure we all can…..
keekee83

It seems like she is trying to put the chick on blast more than the dude. It is only going to get worse w/ the a– shots and nasty text messages being exposed for the world to see. Why would this dude take pictures of a jumpoff himself. It usually is the chick sending pics. It doesn’t surprise me that a NBA player is cheating. :surprised: It surprises me that this fool is stupid enough to leave his phone around his wife. Who isn’t cheating these days? Geesh!! They shouldn’t of never gave you ni–gas money!!!!!!
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

BTW love her socks in the first picture

SR are we going to get a post about the Bengels player in critical condition? Now THATS a story.

I know his fiance looked in her rearview and saw that man fall off the bed of that truck
thaspinaltruth

Maybe that’s really a dude in the picture and that’s probally why the *ass* shot is so important to the photographer.
http://myspace.com/katgirl33 katgirl33

Just seen on ESPN that Elin is filing for divorce……
Anna

missmiami Says:

…her arse in that first pic looks like two basketballs. OMG HER IMPLANT JOB IS HORRIBLE

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I was wondering if this is the same girl in all the pics. She looks like Kim K from the back in the first couple of pics but then her azz looks flat in the last pics.
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I am so laughing at myself for scrolling back up. She must have been wearing butt pads.
https://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

Windycitychick says:

SR are we going to get a post about the Bengels player in critical condition? Now THATS a story.

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I read about that and that is a sad story. Hopefully Sandra will post it.
Anna

katgirl33 Says:

Just seen on ESPN that Elin is filing for divorce……
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Good for her. Another Chris Henry died.
kwall

shew.
mirsmommy

Are we even surprised at this mess???? I’m sorry, but stupid men that cheat will never learn, until they’ve lost everything in the process.

Della Reese in “Thin Line Between Love and Hate” said it best, “A night full of pleasure, can cause you a lifetime of pain.”

I wish these cheating men would get it together. Why even get married??? Stay single, don’t commit, let it be known that you will not commit, and do you!!!!!!! Dummies!!!!
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

Bengels player Chris Henry has passed away :off topic:
MizzLeelee

She must be crazy if she thinks that’s sexyy. :lolol:
SoulWithSass

LovelyLady Says:

You know what i just canttt, i just cant

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I just can’t either. This is a mess, from top to bottom….(the situation & the groupie.) If this is what men find sexy, I’ll pass. And did she just get off the toilet, or did he TELL her to drop her drawers? No lingerie? I mean, DAMN! Just “pull your pants down & turn around, babe”, huh?
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Grossness! Oh well! He’s getting divorced, probably losing half, (if not most of his money), and we can expect to see the “dick-look” on this groupie’s face when he realizes he’s STILL not going to be with her in about 5………….4……….3……….2………..and…….

GO!!!!!!
Quitta

@ windy

I know that’s so terrible what happened to him. I hope he’s going to be okay.

@ topic – WTF?!! As someone else said “not the first and not the last”. It’s so hard to trust someone these days with your heart because some bastards (men & women) want variety. If you know you’re not going to be the faithful type, don’t get married, hell, don’t get into a committed relationship period. Nuccas make me >:(
Quitta

>:(
http://twitter.com/sherita78 mizzdallas

Sandra, are you gonna do a post about Angie Martinez ex-hubby baby-daddy Nokio memeber of Dru-Hill group?
Quitta

dammit my smiley. Well you know I’m angry
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

@quitta

it was just announced he has died
Quitta

Holy sh*t, Windy!! Are you serious?
LovelyLady

mizzdallas Says:

Sandra, are you gonna do a post about Angie Martinez ex-hubby baby-daddy Nokio memeber of Dru-Hill group?
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Nooooooooooo, when i was in elementary i the biggest crush on him.

@ anna. good for her.
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

@QUITTA
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

@QUITTA
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

@QUITTA

OOPS…. Yes its on CNN
http://talkingwithtami.com/blog talkingwithtami

Helll nawl!!!
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

UGH!!! I give that ass two thumbs down
va_shawty

You couldn’t buy your jumpoff lingerie?

Home girl needs to ask Victoria her secret because those photos were not cute.
JDWhitedst

Ok…if u gonna cheat, atleast upgrade. That chick has no curves and NO STYLE at all. She looks broke. That is why these guys get in trouble! They mess with tricks that have nothing to lose, basically nothing going for them. DUMB ASSES.
http://mrswindycity.blogspot.com Windycitychick

@QUITTA

Its a post on Chris now
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

mizzdallas Says:

Sandra, are you gonna do a post about Angie Martinez ex-hubby baby-daddy Nokio memeber of Dru-Hill group?

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I’m working on that now.
Quitta

@ windy

Okay thanks
mirsmommy

, kinda. Okay, does anyone watch the Ivestigate Discovery Channel??? Anyway, on this channel, there are different shows like The Shift, The Bureau, On the Case with Paula Zahn, etc. And these shows cover mostly headline homicide cases.

I was watching some of these shows the other night, and it just bugs me out, how people can get married, cheat on their spouses, and then kill the spouse or jump-offs. But not only that, I just don’t understand how some women can be okay with sleeping around with married f*ckin men!!!!!!!!!!!

Where is the hell is the self respect? Where the hell is the respect for marriage??? The sh*t is crazy……

Okay, I’m done.
intensemocha

GET RID OF THE CHEATER AND THE HOEZ WILL FOLLOW

WOMEN WOULD LIKE TO FOOL THEMSELVES THAT THESE WOMEN ARE JUST FACELESS PUZZY FOR THEIR HUSBANDS TO DISPOSE OF

SEX ONLY TAKES 15 MINUTES AND AT LEAST A PROSTITUTE GETS PAID TO LEAVE AND KEEP HER MOUTH SHUT

IT’S OBVIOUS THESE WOMEN ARE CHOSEN SPECIFICALLY BY THESE HUSBANDS TO STICK AROUND AND STROKE THEIR EGO AND TO AID IN DECEIVING THEIR WIVES-SO THAT MAKES THEM CO-CONSPIRATORS AND TWO PEAS IN A POD

IF SHE’S A TRIFLING TRICK HOE-SO IS THE MARRIED MAN THAT’S LAYING DOWN WITH HER-THEY ARE CO-CONSPIRATORS & EQUALLY DISGUSTING
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

@ Mirsmommy

I think we should write a letter to Alicia Keys and Gabrielle Union about their sluttish mishaps
Red Feather

This :chickenhead:’s behind is an absolute :nono:!! She makes me feel DAMNED GOOD about my lil’ “Tooty-Booty!” :lolol:
Red Feather

This ’s behind is an absolute !! She makes me feel DAMNED GOOD about my lil’ “Tooty-Booty!” :lolol:
Kema

Maybe she didn’t know he was cheating on her until they got married. Maybe they didn’t live together or he wasn’t sloppy about it until he married her. I feel sorry for her to have someone you love cheat on you for months maybe years without knowing and to marry that person and find out that he has been cheating for years. Basically that your whole relationship is a lie from beginning to end. I would be pissed off. He shouldn’t have gotten married like Tiger if he wanted to date the world.

Black men need to do better especially the celebrities.
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

Yall know I heard on the radio that one state which i can not remember is going to start charging the the spouse and the jump off if in a marriage the other spouse chooses to press charges for adultery?

Like if you can understand what I am saying…If A and B are married and B cheats on A with C, A can press charges against B and C for their acts.

I love that idea. Its time to make both parties responsible.
Red Feather

I with intensemocha’s comment (#63).
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

sharnell Says:
As long as there is a man with a peen there will continue to be women who jump on it!

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This comment made me laugh so hard I was drooling!
mirsmommy

Crislex Says:

@ Mirsmommy

I think we should write a letter to Alicia Keys and Gabrielle Union about their sluttish mishaps
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*getting my pen and paper ready*

I heard about that new law, too, but I can’t remember what state that’s in either.
missy

@crislex-I heard about that and I think it is New Hampshire….
missy

& it looks like South Carolina also
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

@ missy,

I think it is a good law to make people respect marriages and think twice about cheating unles your ass wants to be charged with something, but the only hard part is proving they cheating. Usually now a days, cell phone logs, land line logs, camera phones, receipts for dates or events that you know you weren’t with your man for, what else???? oh panty purchases but you didnt get no new drawers…thats enough to prove infidelity..
Quitta

@ Crislex

I heard about this.

How I feel about it, GOOD!
SoulWithSass

@Missy & @Crislex

Adultery is still illegal in MANY states but almost no states enforce the law. For example, it is illegal in New Hampshire ($1200 FINE), Maryland ($10 FINE), Connecticut, Rhode Island (life in prisonment), etc. Almost no states enforce the laws, and many states are trying to have those laws repealed.

However- I would like to know which state is trying to enforce it or “modify” it. Perhaps other states should follow suit and attempt to preserve the declining sanctity of marriage, or at least force people to think harder about their vows before taking them just to break them.
missy

@Crislex ..I think it’s easier to tell now a days because technology makes people lazy and not as cunning…But you do make good points .

And i do think its a good law but will it stop cheating ..Ummmmm who knows but i doubt it……

Attheendoftheday people need to respect their spouses and not cheat and open the line of communication in the relationship..Also people need to learn not to get married if they know they aren’t going to be faithful…
Anna

Crislex Says:

Yall know I heard on the radio that one state which i can not remember is going to start charging the the spouse and the jump off if in a marriage the other spouse chooses to press charges for adultery?

Like if you can understand what I am saying…If A and B are married and B cheats on A with C, A can press charges against B and C for their acts.

I love that idea. Its time to make both parties responsible.
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There was a man in Somolia who cheated on his wife and was stoned to death. There were pics and all. I don’t remember what site it was on. I saw it yesterday.
M_promp2

“…..to protect her innocence?” That’s an oxymoron in this case.
intensemocha

WOMEN NEED TO EVALUATE WHY A MAN IS MARRYING THEM BEFORE THEY GET MARRIED

IS IT BECAUSE HE IS READY TO BE A FAMILY MAN?

OR

HE NEEDS/WANTS SOMEONE TO TAKE CARE OF HIS FAMILY WHILE HE LEAVES HIS FAMILY AT HOME AND PRETENDS TO BE SINGLE?
SoulWithSass

Its North Carolina that just amended their law about “alienation of affection.” However, an aggrieved spouse can still sue an interfering person for breaking up a marriage.

I hope Sandra will allow this link about the law, (hell, do a post on it-might be good to get this law going in other states, too):

http://christianactionleague.org/news/lawmakers-limit-right-to-sue-for-adultery/
missy

@Anna

The people in the middle eastern countries don’t play with their laws .. I thought they only stoned women for adultery so i guess its for both sexes..

Did anyone hear about the father who killed his daughter because he found out she was having sex with her brother(consensual)…And the reason he didn’t kill the son was to continue the family name and the daughter brought shame upon the family (this is an old story and happened in a middle eastern country)
intensemocha

IF IT TAKES THE THREAT OF IMPROSINMENT OR A FINE TO MAKE YOUR SPOUSE BE FAITHFUL/COMMITTED

IS THAT SOMEONE WHO YOU REALLY WANT TO BE MARRIED TOO?

PEOPLE HAVE “FREE WILL” THAT MEANS YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE-AND IF EITHER PARTY IS UNFAITHFUL YOU CAN EXERCISE YOUR FREE WILL AND “LEAVE” -LESSEN LEARNED

BUT AGAIN TO ME-PEOPLE ARE TYPICALLY COMFORTABLE AND ARE AFRAID TO LEAVE CAUSE THEY DON’T WANT TO BE ALONE OR START ALL OVER-SO THEY MAKE UP ALL SORTS OF EXCUSES AND RATIONALIZE THEIR DECISION NOT TO LEAVE

I WILL SUE YOU IF YOU CHEAT ON ME/OR YOU CAN GO TO JAIL-LOL

IF YOU HAVE TO SAY THAT TO BEGIN WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS ALREADY IN TROUBLE
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

@ anna I know what site it was on. It shall not be named

But yea it might not make people respect their marriage but it will definitely make people respect it and think well hey im not happy and I need to let my spouse know and go through divorce, cause if I cheat and get caught, there is a chance i can be prosecuted for it.

AND….hopefully it would make these lonely and trifling ass women who sleep KNOWINGLY with married men to think twice and ask questions first before doing then funky chicken in bed…even if he lie there is too much technology for background investigation USE IT!!!
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

@ intense

I guess it is not such a way of automatically thinking that your spouse will cheat, cause truth be told if you feel that way then you shouldnt marry that person. BUT lets say your married and been happily married for 5 years and from yoru perspective the marriage is right, kids happy, husband seems happy, sex doesnt seem different everything is the norm, BUT then you find out he got some side piece…if you feel angry and compelled enough to get a divorce, then you also have the option to charge them with adultery as well. So not only will your hubby be charged so will the jump off he cheated with, cause most women say they do not know the man was married but PLEASE if he aint with you 90 percent of the time what you think he doing???
intensemocha

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YOU SPECIFICALLY AND THE OTHER WOMEN ON THIS BLOG EXERTING ALL THIS EFFORT AND ENERGY AND RESEARCHING LAWS TO FORCE SOMEONE TO BE FAITHFUL TO YOU

AGAIN-YOU CAN’T MAKE A BIATCH OR A WHORISH MAN RESPECT YOU IF THEY DON’T WANT TOO

THE ONLY PERSON YOU CAN CONTROL IS YOU

YALL DELUSIONAL HEFFAS REALLY NEED TO SIT ON THE COUCH OF A GOOD THERAPIST/PSYCHOLOGIS OR MAYBE EVEN A PSYCHIATRIST AND

I GUARANTEE THEY WILL TELL YOU THE SAME-YOU CAN ONLY CONTROL YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!YALL HAVE SOME SERIOUS ISSUES

JUST LEAVE THE NICCA ALONE-THE BEST WAY TO HURT/GET BACK AT SOMEONE IS TO REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THEIR LIVES A MAN WILL MISS GOODNESS AND IF YOU PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN AFTER YOU LEAVE HIS AZZ HE WILL IF HE REALLY LOVES YOU AND YOUR FAMILY HE WILL GET HIS SHIAT TOGETHER AND COME BACK AND BE THE MAN YOU DEMAND HIM TO BE

LAMEZ I SWEAR
MOUTH

@ intensemocha
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

@ intense

okay….if you read what I wrote then you wouldve read that i aint going against you on nothing. Just giving you a clear perspective on what some laws are for.

I have read your post with people on SR in the past and current present and have came to the conclusion that you type in caps because your either to enraged to ever read what people are responding about to you or your that press to respond with your irrational comments..

I will leave you be while i know your sitting there thinking i am going to come back at you with cursing and name callin… sorry but that is beyond me…so imma let you blow up in 5…4…3..2…….
intensemocha

NO MY DEAR IF HE’S TROLLOPING OFF WITH A JUMP OFF

THEN HE’S STEALING TIME AWAY FROM YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

SO YOU SHOULD KNOW HE’S CHEATING AND EITHER DEAL WITH IT AND ACCEPT IT OR MOVE ON!

TO “ME” THE DETAILS DON’T MATTER AND JUST ADD TO THE ASSAULT-I DON’T WANT TO FUGGIN KNOW HOW MANY TIMES THEY FUGGED OR WHAT HE SAID TO HER,ETC.

WHY PUT MYSELF THROUGH THAT PAIN TO KNOW THE SPECIFICS-WHAT’S THE POINT OF COMPARING NOTES WITH THE JUMP OFF

THIS IS “MY” OPINION I JUST FEEL LIKE I CAN DO YOU ONE BETTER, YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE HURTING ME, WATCH HOW MUCH IT HURTS WHEN I LEAVE AND NEVER LOOK BAD ESPECIALLY KNOWING THAT I WAS 100% AND DID MY JOB AS A WIFE
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

Arguing with someone on the internet is like running in the special Olympics….you looks SLOW and no one makes it to the finish line…..
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

I guess these have not learned any thing from Steve McNasty’s death. Cheating spouses and jumpoffs/hoes, you will reap what you sow. The wages of sin is death and destruction.
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

attorneymom
intensemocha

@crislex

I dare you to consult a therapist and voice your opinion regarding cheating men/spouses and share the same sentiments on here and I challenge you to come back and honestly share the advice they give you my dear

No caps hon, still doesn’t change the message

it’s still the same you can only control YOU!
SoulWithSass

@IntenseMocha

No offense, but you seem like somebody who would be an adulteress. (Not even being smart, just being observant.)

I do not believe Crislex is saying “enforce these laws so I can threaten to lock my spouse up so he’ll stay faithful.” I think she is more saying, it would be nice to know the option is there SHOULD your man step out. I don’t know about you, but to me, marrying me and saying you’ll be faithful, and then NOT doing so constitutes fraudulence & a contract under false pretenses to me. And since my time is more valuable than most of these trifling dude’s lives to me- YES, I’d probably lock his behind up too.

However- I am in favor of the law so that people will THINK longer & harder about who & when they marry. I think the marriage rate may be lower but more marriages will last longer once bonded if people have to think: “can I REALLY be with this ONE person forever because I may go to jail if I cheat” before taking those vows.

That’s just my two cents. Take it or refund it, I don’t give a damn.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

Memo to the honorable women: Don’t respond to women on SR who are still sleeping with married men or who have not forgiven themselves doing so. It is pointless. Ignore their comments.
SoulWithSass

*a breach of contract drawn up under false pretenses

-Sorry.
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

I left out the word “for” after “themselves”.
SoulWithSass

attorneymom Says:

Memo to the honorable women: Don’t respond to women on SR who are still sleeping with married men or who have not forgiven themselves doing so. It is pointless. Ignore their comments.

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That does seem like what the case is sometimes.

Moving on….
free

all this time they’ve been dating and she’s just now checking the phone?
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

@ intense

No ma’am I do not need to see a therapist and I will not sit and tell you my views on what I would do if I were married and the situation would occur..

But I will tell you that YOU need to see a therapist because several topics that have occurred on SR have been about infidelity and you have made angry comments thus far. Which concludes, and this is just a assumption, that you have slept with a married man and have not forgiven yourself for the matter.. OR that you have been cheated on before with one or several men in your past and that you still have not got over it.

Please direct all this bottled up anger and mismanagement of comments to a therapist that can help. The health care reform bill should be passed soo so I would call you healthcare provider and ask them how man sessions they would pay for and what would be the deductible. If you are having trouble with the deductible I can pass a collection plate around SR to get something together to see if we can help. I hate to see a black woman scorned or mentally unstable. It aint good.

Let me know..
BROWNSUGAPOET
Chgoprime

Damn It’s going down inchea!
intensemocha

NICE TRY HEFFAS BUT I’M ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED AUGUST 15, 2010

I’M CONVINCED THAT YOU ALL ARE TRYING TO DISCREDIT ME AN MY POINT OF VIEW BY ATTACKING ME PERSONALLY AND NOT SPECIFICALLY ADDRESSING THE CONTENT OF MY POST

IT’S BECAUSE I SHARE A DIFFERENT POINT OF VIEW FROM ALL OF YOU-I DON’T TAKE ISSUE WITH A JUMP OFF BECAUSE IN MY OPINION THEY ARE A NON-ISSUE

THE CHEATING HUSBAN IS THE ISSUE! AND NARNE ONE YOU HEFFAS HAS DISPUTED THE ONE AND ONLY POINT I’VE MADE AND THAT IS

YOU CAN’T CONTROL OTHERS-YOU CAN’T MAKE A JUMP OFF RESPECT YOU OR YOUR MARRIAGE NOR CAN YOU FORCE A MAN TO BE FAITHFUL

REFUTE THAT! I DONT TAKE OFFENSE TO THE ACCUSATIONS THOUGH-CAUSE IT’S OBVIOUS YOU DON’T HAVE A LOGICAL EXPLANATION FOR WHY YALL EXERT SO MUCH ENERGY LIKE YALL CAN MAKE SOMEONE FEAR OR RESPECT YOU

FOR EXAMPLE ME-I DON’T CARE WHAT YALL SAY I’M GOING TO CONTINUE TO POST WHAT I WANT AND NAME CALLING WON’T DETER ME EITHER

YALL BIATCHES THINK THIS IS “HIGH SCHOOL HIGH” AND THE NAME CALLING WILL MAKE ME RETREAT-LOL

SIT AND SPIN BIATCHES, SIT AND SPIN AND CONSULT A GOOD THERAPIST LAMEZ
missy

103 comments about what
intensemocha

Memo to the honorable women: Don’t respond to women on SR who are still sleeping with married men or who have not forgiven themselves doing so. It is pointless. Ignore their comments
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PRIME EXAMPLE OF THE HIGH SCHOOL HIGH CLIQUE SHIAT

BIATCH I DIDN’T ASK YOU OR NONE OF YOUR FLUNKIES TO RESPOND TO SHIAT I POST-YA DIG

YOU DON’T RUN SHIAT UP IN HERE MY DEAR THE SITE IS CALLED SANRA ROSE BIATCH NOT ATTORNEYMOM-SO GO ON SOMEWHERE WITH THAT BULLSHIAT
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

:ignoring the big CAPS typing elephant in the post:

what were we talking about again???
Quitta

Oh dear. :surprised:
free

intensemocha Says: NICE TRY HEFFAS BUT I’M ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED AUGUST 15, 2010

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congrats. for the record, i do share your view on this. if you were a guy saying the same thing, they might be more receptive. imho, if it is really about saving the marriage, you have to deal with the person laying next to you.
intensemocha

WHAT YALL SCORNED HEFFAS NEED TO DO IS LOCATE THE “JUMP OFF”

YOUR HUSBAND DID CHEAT ON YOU TWO WITH AND DIRECT YOUR ANGER AT THEM CAUSE IT AINT NOR WAS IT ME

LOL-CAUSE I’VE REPEATEDLY SAID I DONT’ CONDONE JUMP OFFS ETC. BUT YALL KEEP RESPONDING TO ME AS IF I’M THE BIATCH THAT SLEPT WITH YOU FUGGIN MAN

YEAH YALL THE ONES WITH THE ISSUES AND SHOULD SEEK COUNSELING

AND IF A CHEATING SPOUSE IS NOT THE ISSUE WHY ARE YOU EXERTING SO MUCH EFFORT AN ENERGY ON JUMP OFFS-IF IT DOESN’T APPLY TO YOU

LOL-EXACLTY
coaretained

Minnesota jump offs??

I need to start doing research.. but her shade do look familiar….hmmmm.
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

lol… This is funny cause she arguing with her self…

*starts passing the collection plate around for the deductible for intense’s counseling sessions*

“PLEASE IF YOU CAN’T GIVE ALL…GIVE SOME”
Quitta

@ Intense –

I understand completely what you are saying. But in some way I believe you misunderstood what Crislex was tryna say.

And congrats to you anyway (Marriage in 2010)
coaretained

and they just came from the club.. I see her wristband.. wonder which club….hmmmmm..
intensemocha

BIATCH I HAVE A GREAT JOB WITH EXCELLENT BENEFITS COUNSELING IS FREE-EVER HEARD OF EAP YOU SHOULD TRY IT
SoulWithSass

@IntenseMocha

Calm down, please. I already debated several of your points.

I’M CONVINCED THAT YOU ALL ARE TRYING TO DISCREDIT ME AN MY POINT OF VIEW BY ATTACKING ME PERSONALLY AND NOT SPECIFICALLY ADDRESSING THE CONTENT OF MY POST

**Not true. Please see my previous post where I specifically tried to “clarify” the differing opinions others had on this issue.**

THE CHEATING HUSBAND IS THE ISSUE! AND NARNE ONE YOU HEFFAS HAS DISPUTED…….CAUSE IT’S OBVIOUS YOU DON’T HAVE A LOGICAL EXPLANATION FOR WHY YALL EXERT SO MUCH ENERGY LIKE YALL CAN MAKE SOMEONE FEAR OR RESPECT YOU

**Also not true. I specifically said that I do not think anyone wants to “control” or “force” their spouse to be faithful, but it is good to know the law is there as an OPTION if he is not.**

YALL BIATCHES THINK THIS IS “HIGH SCHOOL HIGH” AND THE NAME CALLING WILL MAKE ME RETREAT-LOL

**Really? I have yet to see anybody on this post call you out your name, but yet in your previous posts today so far I count multiple occurrences of “heffaz”, “biatches” & “lamez.” (Please see excerpt above.)**

Reading is fundamental ma’am, but comprehension is vital.

That is all.
LovelyLady

Yall in here acting a damn fool.
KaraZ

LMAO… Please leave intensemocha alone y’all she’s intense! Sometimes she makes sense, other times she doesn’t, all the time she will come across as angry and SHE WILL ALWAYS TYPE IN CAPS. Unless you believe God’s purpose for your life is to change people like her, please leave her be.
intensemocha

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BIATCH YOU SOUND DUMB DISCUSS WITH YOUR HUSBAND MY OPINION AND GET BACK AT ME

IT’S OBVIOUS HE’S THE BRAIN OF THE OPERATION
intensemocha

FUG THESE HEFFAS-I CAN HOLD MY OWN

NARNE ONE CAN LOGICALLY DISPUTE MY ONE AND ONLY POINT

YOU CAN ONLY CONTROL YOU

AND THAT’S WHAT GOT THESE BIATCHES WHINING LIKE PUZZIES
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

*pulls up couch for intense*

Come sit down and tell Dr. Cris whats the problem? Where did it begin? And do you think you can end it?
LovelyLady

@Intense

You always bullying somebody with them damn CAPS . You remind me of NeNe Leaks. But its all love
intensemocha

@ SOUL WITH SASS
Cinnamon Kisses
intensemocha

CRISLEX

YOU DUMB AZZ DON’T NEED TO GIVE ANYONE ANY ADVICE NOT EVEN FOR FREE
Mahogany03

Stop Crislex!!! Ur comments are killing me right now! I can’t breathe!
LovelyLady

But umm mor eimportntly IS HERE DAMN IMPLANTS REALLY LUMP SIDED. Say it aint so. And why the hell her butt like ji phat in the first pic and in the others flat as Becky. It most be those but pads. Yup i think thats what it is. Ladies Ladies, we have to stop fooling these men with the *wish i had ah azz pads*. Cause they thinking they hit the jack pot until you take of your clothes and ur azz goes with them.
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

@ intense

It’s okay… Lash out, get that anger out.. YOUR MAD!!! YOUR ANGRY!!! YOUR…. YOUR…. INTENSE!!! Thats therapeutic!!! Get it out!!
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

@ intense

Im that woman that slept with your man.. TELL ME HOW YOU FEEL!!! TELL ME WHAT YOU WANTED TO TELL HER!!!! GO!!
Mahogany03

*singing* Why can’t we be friends? Why can’t we be friends?
Quitta

@ LL

These girls better learn from the woman that died from the azz implants. That sh*t ain’t cool. Just to try and stimulate some damn dude that just want you for play. Oh hail nawl.
LovelyLady

intensemocha Says:

IF IT TAKES THE THREAT OF IMPROSINMENT OR A FINE TO MAKE YOUR SPOUSE BE FAITHFUL/COMMITTED

IS THAT SOMEONE WHO YOU REALLY WANT TO BE MARRIED TOO?
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I really have to this though.
missy

*looks in post*

Grabs and sings “Why can’t we be friends”
with Mahogany

But @Crislex comments

*leaves…… but SMH *
SoulWithSass

@ Crislex! Okay, I’m done.

@IntenseMocha Yes- I’ll just go on my merry way continuing to be an adult that knows that debating in correct caps, spelling & grammar without insults makes for a better conversation.

I’m not going back & forth with you any more on this because all them damn CAPS you’re typing in are giving me a migraine.

Good day, “BIATCH!!” (Isn’t that how you would say it?)
LovelyLady

@ Quitta,

I know right. My dummy sis tombout (<<<— As Krysi would say) that she wanna get some. So i said okay, let me just start making ur funeral arraingments now. I had to explain to her that this under ground procedure can cause you your life. If them fluids leak to your blood stream you can die instantly. SMH. I aint getting no procedures to look good for no man.
http://createspace.com/3393054 iscream
LovelyLady

Dont mind Intense yall. *whispering* She like NeNe from Atl Housewives just a big ass bully using them dman CAPS to talk over people. Its all love though.
LovelyLady

Snatches some popcorn from Iscream
intensemocha

FUNNY CRISLEX HOW YOU FLIPPED IT ONCE I STATED I WAS ENGAGED

A MINUTE AGO I WAS THE JUMP OFF, BUT NOW YOU ASSUME THAT I’M MAD AT A JUMP OFF AND YOU JUST MIGHT BE HER

WAIT A MINUTE, HOW WOULD YOUR SIDEKICK ATTORNEYMOM FEEL ABOUT THAT?

ALL THIS TIME YOU KEEP TRYING TO CALL ME A JUMP OFF WHEN IN FACT-YOU ARE ONE

LOL-

HOW ABOUT THIS ADDRESS THE POST TOPIC-OH YEAH I FORGOT YOU ARE ONE OF THOSE WOMEN WHO LIKE TO FOCUS ON “OTHER WOMEN” INSTEAD OF THE REAL ISSUE

YOU JUST PROVED MY POINT-TOO BUSY FOCUSING ON NON-ISSUES LIKE WHO I’M FUGGIN INSTEAD OF YOUR CHEATING AZZ MAN

IT AINT ME BOO- I GOT MY OWN
Quitta

I can’t. LOL!
intensemocha

@ SoulWithSass Says:

EXACTLY -GOOD DAY BIATCH! GLAD YOU LEARN SO QUICKLY

YOU MAKE A GREAT UNDER STUDY
SoulWithSass

PAUSE!

*Interjection*

@IntenseMocha: I think Crislex’s last opinion was her pretending to be your therapist and role-playing as the woman your man cheated with, thereby allowing you to unleash all of your anger upon her instead of the “real other woman.”

Okay?

PLAY BALL!

*continue*
BamaBeauty

Boy, yall aint playn today!

Real Talk: Women are raised to be completed by man i.e.-Ken and Barbie- we gave these dolls to our future women and told them about marriage when they were three. Today, if we see a well-established single lady, we say something is “wrong” or “not right”–Then there go your aunts and mamas talking bout ‘When you gone get married?” and “I’m ready for some grandbabies!” We don’t raise up our daughters to be independent before co dependent. Therefore, we have jump offs, whores, lonely wives, dependent wives, submissive wives, dumb wives, broke wives, diseased wives, and unhappy wives. I’ve been married..plan on being again, but I’m making sure I’m where I need to be this time…and let the church say Amen
intensemocha

SoulWithSass Says:

GLAD TO SEE YOUR THE CAPTAIN OF THE “DUMB AZZ WOMEN” TEAM

GREAT ACCOMPLISHMENT AND TRUE TEAM PLAYER

OH NO NEED TO PASS-I’M THE MOTHERFUGGIN ALL STAR DON’T NEED A TEAM OF CLUCKING HENS TO MAKE A POINT!
coaretained

cosign bama beauty!

(still tryna figga out who thes folks is in my neck of the woods!!) and :confused: and totally NIGNORING the
LovelyLady

@Intenses

YOU STARTING TO REMIND ME OF MONIQUE LOUD MOUTH AZZ WITH ALL THEM DAMN CAPS TRYNA TALK OVA PEOPLE STOP IT GIRL. EVERYONE IS NPT GOIN TO AGREE WITH YOU WHCIH GIVES YOU NO RIGHT TO CALL PEOPLE BIATCHES.
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Its all love, lets just agree to disagree. Well then again, yall funny as hell *do continue without the name callin*

Grabs more popcorn form Iscream
intensemocha

CLASS DISMISSED HEFFAS

DURING RECESS PLEASE GO AND CHECK ON YOUR PHILANDERING HUSBANDS

AND MAKE SURE THEY ARE STILL CHAINED IN THE BACK YARD NEXT TO THE DOG HOUSE WHERE YOU LEFT EM

YOU KNOW HOW THE DOGS ALWAYS SOMEHOW FIND A WAY TO BREAK FREE-LOL
BamaBeauty

coaretained— where’s your neck of the woods?
coaretained

MinneSNOWta
BROWNSUGAPOET

HOLY GUACAMOLE BATMAN!!!! Seriously though can we stop with all the at each other. We deal with enough crap each day than to be going at it on a blog. Do we really have to resort to name callin to get our points across because I know we are all mature enough and intelligent enough to do so. That’s just my two cents!
intensemocha

NO NEED TO AGREE

TRUTH IS YOU CAN’T CONTROL ANYONE BUT YOURSELF-DUH

ONLY POINT I STATED THROUGH OUT THE WHOLE POST! :woot:

Sandra can you please get an emotion for the retard bus-maybe a smiley face driving a small bus-thx

GOOD DAY!
LovelyLady

intensemocha Says:

CLASS DISMISSED HEFFAS

DURING RECESS PLEASE GO AND CHECK ON YOUR PHILANDERING HUSBANDS

AND MAKE SURE THEY ARE STILL CHAINED IN THE BACK YARD NEXT TO THE DOG HOUSE WHERE YOU LEFT EM

YOU KNOW HOW THE DOGS ALWAYS SOMEHOW FIND A WAY TO BREAK FREE-LOL
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So exaclty what do you think ur man is doin while your away.????
coaretained

@sandra.. the suspense is killing me…can we at least know his TEAM?? Did the jumping off happen in MN or he plays for us? SO many questions.. not ONE answer…..
BamaBeauty

@ coaretained— at least you get snow; we get flurries!
Mahogany03

Yea!!! Another Bama representative! Hey BamaBeauty

at LL’s last comment. Good question……

Where is Crislex?!
free

BamaBeauty Says: Boy, yall aint playn today!

Real Talk: Women are raised to be completed by man

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this is why a woman will direct her anger toward a jumpoff before she goes to her husband. she will call the jumpoff all manner of names and then proceed to suck the same member that enters said jumpoff just so the husband can give her some attention and stick around.

we are taught to stay faithful, stick with it, be the bigger person, ENDURE!
BamaBeauty

Mahogany03 — Glad to see Bama in the community
BamaBeauty

free— there you have it…sad part is some women get a divorce, but go into another relationship the same way they left the first….loking for something….become an ASSet to a man not just an Ass.
Cinnamon Kisses

yall are fuggin killin me 2day
Yadda Yadda

I usually stop by to lurke, but I had to comment.

This is disgraceful, this chick standing around ironing clothes, playing wife to married man. pitiful.
SoulWithSass

Wow @LovelyLady

Your last question to Intense is actually a very good one!

I bet that won’t get an answer though. Dogs always bark until you kick them hard enough….

Moving on….
LovelyLady

^^ I think she went to check up on her dawg
missy

@LovelyLady

:lolol: comment 161
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

The husband can get it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, the jumpoff can get it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, ALL them can get it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Placing blame on the whorish jumpoff is absolutely necessary. What? The whore gets a get out of “My BEAT-DWON” free card!! EQUAL FLUCKING, means EQUAL Responsibility, MEANS I’m about to bring it to you.

When the whore knows that this man is married and has children and they still continue to indulge themselves in something in which they don’t rightfully belong…they deserve a beatdown. They deserve the scarlet letter!!

You folks up here trying to make it seem like to have anger againest the chick makes the woman less than a woman!! are you serious?? A wife is not being STRONG? And to be strong means to totally allow this SLUTTY azz CUM RECYCLER to go around and do what she pleases?

HEll No!!! Even when man uses a gun to kill another…the gun is taken and locked in a room too!!
mswarrior1

Why blame the hoe for doing her job? It’s the “husband’s” fault for cheating in the first place, blame him. Even if the jump off came onto him, the point still remains that the “man” should have nipped that in the bud real quick.
Good for her for filing for divorce.

@ those pictures. Chick, that ain’t cute and DEFINITELY not sexy in the least. Pants around your ankles holding your arse like you got a hemorrhoid that’s acting up…Lawd.
LBCali

Atheles are DUMB, Why? take pictures of your jumpoff and expect them not to be found!

Wanna be caught, huh!!!
BROWNSUGAPOET

I bet that won’t get an answer though. Dogs always bark until you kick them hard enough….
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Now see I was tryin to keep us unified but dammit that did it for me! I am too through.

I just kicked a dog the other day!
LovelyLady

ggouch Says:

The husband can get it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, the jumpoff can get it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, ALL them can get it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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*dead* I fukking with you, you ready to beat arse.
LovelyLady

I meant I AINT fukking with you you str8 gangsta,
http://facebook.com/cristinalex Crislex

okay yall im back…wasn’t going to let intense make me miss my offices christmas party.. a sista was hun-gah-ree

So did she have a breakthrough? OR do we need another session?
H-Townmama

I wont even coomebt on the tennis game going on here with insults. I just wanted to say I purchased a copy of your book iscream.
May I have some popcorn please?
Nthabi

I don’t know about the “huge” master bathroom, I see a regular sized (even kind of small) bathroom – looks like a tight fit to me.

Auntie, you obscured the girl’s face to “protect her innocence”? I hope you were being sarcastic. “Jump-off” and “innocence” can’t be used in the same sentence.
texarican mamacita

OMG…..
LovelyLady

*dead* Everytime I see that lump sided implant
http://charactercorner.blogspot.com attorneymom

:lolol: @ comment #161
H.B.I.C

Ooh sweet baby Jesus in the manger with his fist balled up! it’s on fiyah up in chia!!!

-No matter how many times these men see other men being crucified and taken to the cleaners for committing the same acts they are doing….they each lie to themselves and think THEIR pimping is better than the next man until they are caught!

-If the men as well as the women sleeping with them [ladies be real if more women had standards and refused to sleep with a married man the divorce rate would decline drastically, men cheat because there is always some heiffa willing to creep with his ass!] were still shamed like they used to be and the sideline ho also had to face legal consequences these skanks wouldn’t be holding on to 2 year old text/email messages, semen encrusted panties, and peen pix to sell to the tabloids, get magazine layouts and talk show interviews because that would all be evidence for the plantiff. *****HOWEVER*******

-Just like that white chick who filed for alienation of affection and ‘won’ who had the Lifetime movie made on the fiasco, the law can’t MAKE A MAN LOVE, RESPECT OR WANT YOU! and honestly the process makes the wife look as if she believes her husband was a “victim” when in actuality he bears the majority of the fault & she didn’t slip and fall on his penis either! Wife comes across as if she has no dignity and she would rather be with a man who would mistreat and eventually despise her because she’s desperate to hold on to what she thought she had and not what it actually is or became. She would have the delusion of thinking she ‘WON’ the battle. I say kick, cry scream, pray tell them both how you feel but even if every state enforced this law the truth is: IT AIN’T WHERE HE’S AT……IT’S WHERE HE WANTS TO BE that really matters.

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