The Dream and Christina Milian Announce Separation
Christina Milian and The-Dream have decided to separate, his rep confirms to UsMagazine.com. Miss Jia posted this pic of Christina Milian and The Dream’s side piece, Melissa, during happier times.
“Terius ‘The-Dream’ Nash is saddened to announce that his marriage to Christina Milian was unsuccessful. The couple reached this decision in late 2009, but decided to keep the news private in efforts to protect their baby daughter Violet. They ask for consideration and respect for their family moving forward,” his rep tells Us.
The split confirmation comes as racy photos surface of The-Dream and his assistant of about a year, Melissa Santiago, frolicking in the Caribbean.
The producer and singer (who released his third album, Love King, on June 29), 32, proposed to Milian, 28, in July 2009 with a six-carat diamond ring from Ivanka Trump’s jewelry line. The couple eloped last September in Las Vegas, and said “I Do” a second time in Rome in December shortly before deciding to separate. They welcomed daughter Violet five months ago.
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Im always saddened by the end of a marriage.
But this is what happens when you live for others and their “right way”.
She married him because she was pregnant.
#thisaintthe60s
#sayNOtoshotgunweddings
lmao it took those photos for them to announce there separation that marriage was a sham and so is christina singer career
@1 she married him because he had money
OMG I was so sureeeeeeeeeeeee they were gna make it.
If smokey the bear and oh so talented CMilli cant make, there’s no hope for any of us *tears*
See this is what makes me angry. What was the point? You got engaged, married and in about 6 months time you realise it was a mistake?!
If you wanted to phuck then phuck, why the freak you had to waste time like this? You don’t need papers nowadays for phucking? Didn’t they get the memo? Celebs play around with marriage too much, they take it as a simple matter and it’s not. People out there want to be married and can’t but the people who have nothing holding them back from it take it for granted. 
Isn’t Sept. late 2009, so when in late 2009 did they separate. A couple of weeks ago she tweeted about buying his album. I am not buying his story. No chick is going to be separated, know he banging the equivalent of a secretary and ask for people to support his album. He got enough Single Ladies money for her to be worried about getting more money. At least she won’t have to share her bras anymore. I knew he won’t right when he talking about going to call the nanny. Before anyone says there is nothing wrong with a nanny, you’re right, but that is not what he said. He said he tells her to call the nanny because he basically not down with that being a daddy stuff.
man oh man the dream is a player!!
#kills self
as always once the baby comes and the attention is off of them they act out becky breaking up ish left andright
This Hollywood chit is fa da birds!
#damnShame
i KNEW this wedding was fake when this nicca was standing up by the chick looking like little lord fauntleroy (sp) in the wedding pic
in the industry “stylist” and “assistant” are synonyms for side piece azz
CMilli should have asked Nivea what was up.
Damn this was a microwave marriage, baby, and divorce. They ain’t playin’ in the industry are they? One night of unhappiness and you get traded in for the next model. In this case, he went from a Benz to a Suzuki Sidekick. Damn shame.
This time line is making absolutely no sense..But really..Who cares?
JustSayin
Christina call kelis lawyer ASAP
lol…do celebs really think we’re stupid…we knew this was a sham a long time ago
This marriage was doomed from the beginning.
The-Dream is too self-absorbed. He is in love with himself. Christina was looking pa nub in all the wrong places. I sure hope for Teddy Graham’s sake that he had a pre-nup or this is going to be Nas/Kelis 2.0
#LIES @His
Im with OTB on this one, they married because she was prego
lol @Flo
I’m not lying!
*throws lighter @ u *
Christina got a few screws loose. I mean, she went from Nick Cannon to “The Dream.” I guess who ever is “hot” at the time she wants to play “family” with.
SMH. It’s always the pretty ones that are crazy.
ummmm does being technically married for 2 months even count? Can’t they get that annulled? Shoot they went steady longer than that? So what your saying is they had the wedding so that Christina count to scan crazy with the registry gun? Greedy bish!
I meant to say they got married so that christina could go scan crazy with the registry gun…typing too fast…
**catches lighter*** thanks girl!! I pocket lighters
Really though, I give up on love #LoveDontLiveHereAnymore
I think the only way “The Dream” can continue to get the puzz is to get married…
Maybe they tried to stay married but it didn’t work out, it happens. I heard of a famous couple who were married for only a day, so 6 mos in Hollywood is like 2 years in regular people land. The real tie that binds them is the daughter if they would have just married and never had a baby they could have went there seperate ways forever now they are going to have child support drama (see Nas/Kelis).
He is showing the mistess more affection then I ever seen him show Christina
I know this is gonna sound messy but, I just googled pic of them together and he doesn’t appear to be paying her attention in any of them. Even te supposedly sessy pics they took together.
Sessy= sexy and sassy
I keep telling yall they were never married-FOR REAL!
Didn’t they get married sept 09 and have a 2nd wedding ceremony in dec 09 in Rome? How late in 2009 did they break up?
something in the dreams breast milk isn’t right 
WHO THE FVCK CARES we all saw this coming like seriously. Ever since dip it low she was hopping from dude to dude to who was relevant at the time. We all saw this fvckery coming.
PEOPLE GET MARRIED FOR REAL REASONS MONEY AND FAME SHOULDNT BE ONE.
MORAL OF THE DAY: If your husband has bigger tiddays than you, your marriage wont work!
They were never married they did this for Hollyweird-Dream likes the little boyz you can tell in the pic with his assistant sorry but his body language does not say I’m into girls-he has children and leaves them with the mothers he is covering up from DL wayz
He just said they were fine last week. LOL. He did the same thing to Nivea and he went around saying it was mutual. Then Nivea just finally said. He’s lying it wasn’t mutual……CMilli should have stayed with Dre.
@MISS HARLEM
“WHO THE FVCK CARES we all saw this coming like seriously. Ever since dip it low she was hopping from dude to dude to who was relevant at the time. We all saw this fvckery coming. ”
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I think she realized her “talent” was lacking and knew she would always have “something” she could sell.
something in the dreams breast milk isn’t right
Nina says:
CMilli should have asked Nivea what was up.
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but how credible is nivea??/ she’s part of lil wayne baby makin posse 
@ FLO dont give up on love just keep doing you and love you even more. I am not in a relationship but def by choice and will never give up.
Pleze Dream and CMILLI were like lil outcasts so they formed as a couple and made news!
@ MAN
@FLO
I maybe butting in but I agree with MISS I wouldn’t ever give up on love once you’ve done that you pretty much took all the fun out of relationships!
anybody had a faster marriage than this?
@FLO
“Really though, I give up on love #LoveDontLiveHereAnymore”
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“Love” don’t exist. It’s just something broke and ugly men invented to get women. If you broke and ugly, what’s the next best thing to do? Write “poetry” and “songs” about love and chit.
Just enjoy your time with whoever and realize that it won’t last long.
I feel bad for her that the Dream was the best person she could find to peddle her wares to.
Just enjoy your time with whoever and realize that it won’t last long.
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This is not good advice at all! You should know better than that don’t be so cynical
@ CHOCO I decided to butt in she didnt even ask
@ MAN here you go with your bullchit
@ East….Britney Spear’s first marriage..Mario Lopez and the Dorito Girl.
@Mean
Don’t start you have did enough today lol
meanNsurly says:
MORAL OF THE DAY: If your husband has bigger tiddays than you, your marriage wont work!
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Well I guess Ms Aretha should have no problem finding her soul mate
ninja, u get worse with every comment..
““Love” don’t exist. It’s just something broke and ugly men invented to get women. If you broke and ugly, what’s the next best thing to do? Write “poetry” and “songs” about love and chit.
Just enjoy your time with whoever and realize that it won’t last long.
”
I’m in the wrong business. I shoulda been a divorce attorney.
soooo sad that its over care bear needs loooove too but fo real she is waaay to pretty for him and his side hoe is uuuugllly and does not have nothing on christina so with that just walk away from care bear
@CHOCO
“Just enjoy your time with whoever and realize that it won’t last long.
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This is not good advice at all! You should know better than that don’t be so cynical
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No no no. It’s only “cynical” if you believe in “love.” Think about it, it’s something ill-defined, intangible and impossible to prove, yet promises great feelings. The PERFECT thing to sell to someone!
…sorta like “religion.”
@ EAST Britney Spears first marriage was hours (forgot how many)
*officially been brain bleached knowing that info*
The Dream was on the radio in Atlanta a month ago, talking bout they’re happy and want to keep their marriage private. He should’ve avoided the question instead of lying about being happily married.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@FLO
“Really though, I give up on love #LoveDontLiveHereAnymore”
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“Love” don’t exist. It’s just something broke and ugly men invented to get women. If you broke and ugly, what’s the next best thing to do? Write “poetry” and “songs” about love and chit.
Just enjoy your time with whoever and realize that it won’t last long
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You sound bitter Man. Like a watered down version of Charles.
@Man
It’s crazy becuz I know that I love people and you are now trying to belittle the meaning of love which is wrong- I will always believe in love becuz I love and I am loved- so stop with the bs you know better than that!
@DC
And this is why I keep telling him he knows better than that he’s normally not this cynical!
@DC WIFE
“You sound bitter Man. Like a watered down version of Charles.”
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Don’t know who “Charles” is. Are you referring to Charles Barkley? That is my favorite celebrity of all time in the world but not understanding the reference.
Anyway, just looking at things “logically.” “Love” is not any more “real” than being “angry” or “sad.”
It’s a temporary emotion demonstrated by activity in the brain that fades with time like any emotion.
@Man, Love is real. It’s a beautiful feeling that is hard to explain to someone who hasn’t experienced it or doesn’t believe in it.
STLVixen says:
I’m in the wrong business. I shoulda been a divorce attorney.
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And the sad part about it is he will do it to some other chick within the next two years!! Even though he is 32, twice divorced, has 4 kids, and now TWO baby momma’s!! It a damn shame that a phat bank account gets all of his baggage through common sense and straight to the heart… That’s all I have to say
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@FLO
“Really though, I give up on love #LoveDontLiveHereAnymore”
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“Love” don’t exist. It’s just something broke and ugly men invented to get women. If you broke and ugly, what’s the next best thing to do? Write “poetry” and “songs” about love and chit.
Just enjoy your time with whoever and realize that it won’t last long.
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I don’t co-sign this chit but its some truth to it. Gotta remain realistic. Sometimes some people are together longer than others. People stayed together for 30-55 years decades ago. They didn’t have texting, internet or as many groupies. Back then there weren’t alot of cars and telephones. This day and age people really have to love eachother and work really hard
@CHOCO
“It’s crazy becuz I know that I love people and you are now trying to belittle the meaning of love which is wrong- I will always believe in love becuz I love and I am loved- so stop with the bs you know better than that!”
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Nope. The only person you may “love” or that may “love” you is your children/parents (and you’re lucky if you have that). And that’s because it is instinctual and not something you “chose” to do.
“Romantic love” is not a “real” in the sense that it is often described.
Why are women giving up the puzzy for the Charmin Bear? I mean would any of your women on here would give it up for the Dream?
People view marriage like going to the club. “Hey do you wanna get married? Why not, don’t have sh!t else to do and only if we make it back before Real Housewives comes on”
He proposed in July 2009 and they decided to separate in late 2009 what that sh!t happened in 2 or 3 months? You didn’t know you can’t get a long especially for the rest of your lives. I had plenty of girl friends where I knew within a few weeks this wasn’t gonna last.
Oh well
Love each other and work really hard
*correction*
Respect, admire and appreciate one another.
@CINDERELLA
“Love is real. It’s a beautiful feeling that is hard to explain to someone who hasn’t experienced it or doesn’t believe in it.”
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Let me guess, the person you are with is “between jobs” or some chit like that?
It’s purposefully hard to explain because it isn’t real. It takes the shape and definition of however it can be used best.
I love you …like a friend
I love you …like a sister
I love you….with all my heart
I love you….when we fuggin
@Man
Htown girl made you salty on luv?
meanNsurly says:
Why are women giving up the puzzy for the Charmin Bear? I mean would any of your women on here would give it up for the Dream?
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No, but if he paid some of my bills and took me shopping, I might reconsider.
It’s a beautiful feeling that is hard to explain to someone who hasn’t experienced it or doesn’t believe in it.
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@2CENTS
“Htown girl made you salty on luv?”
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LOL. Naw, we still cool. I spoke to her today as a matter of fact.
I just been readin some chit…
“Romantic love” is not a “real” in the sense that it is often described.
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It’s real you felt it for your girl but you let temptation and lust lead you away from “Romantic Love” which could be also defined as true love….
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@DC WIFE
“You sound bitter Man. Like a watered down version of Charles.”
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Don’t know who “Charles” is. Are you referring to Charles Barkley? That is my favorite celebrity of all time in the world but not understanding the reference.
Anyway, just looking at things “logically.” “Love” is not any more “real” than being “angry” or “sad.”
It’s a temporary emotion demonstrated by activity in the brain that fades with time like any emotion.
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Charles is a screen name that was a regular on this board until Sandra banned him… I feel sorry for anybody that has never experienced “love”. Whatever
STLVixen says:
I’m in the wrong business. I shoulda been a divorce attorney.
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u ain’t neva lied. bout to put down my gmat book and pick up a lsat book
@ Mean, I don’t think there are enough drugs or alcohol on Earth to make me do him.
@man u might have a point
I never thought this was gonna work. Something didn’t seem right with the whole thing from jump.
At first i thought it was just publicity. I mean dream was tha hot producer at the time, whatever career she had/has was lacking…so i thought it made sense for….but whatevs.
And there’s only so much Cmilli is gonna get since dream’s been married before and has like three kids i think too….u know he’s paying nivea too….
@Mean
*outweighing pro’s and con’s*
I’ve been with hubby a long time and I love him..I’m going to love him until the day I die (even if we are not together). We are friends and I love him like I gave birth to him. He’s not broke, He’s not ugly and He’s not in between jobs….SMDH…
hey yall……(you’re right it’s too many of you)
@dblaq…I clicked your link because I’m nosey like that and am gonna ask you too….ATL this weekend. Where da party at?
@CHB I’mn going to check back with you later in the week if that’s cool
@Sandra Im going to Onyx (on your recommendation) while we’re there. Any night better than others and is there someone in particular I’m looking for?
@man, I’m good with you looking like Fish (he’s just barely dark enough), and want you to wear them Boxer briefs for old girl. I also want to make sur eyou got something done with your appendages and finally ‘Shut up fool’. The reason you feel like that about love (IMO) is that you’ve never experienced an unconditional one that made first consider someone other than yourself. I wondered if Htown did it but you answered that.
meanNsurly says:
Why are women giving up the puzzy for the Charmin Bear? I mean would any of your women on here would give it up for the Dream?
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I would!.. but Ima need about 10 stacks and 15 make up bags first
@LAKER CRAZY
“u might have a point”
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The concept of “love” has LOOOOONG been sold to women in an attempt to stop “harems” from being formed. All of the “plays,” “stories/fables” and “movies” and “tv shows” plays to the concept of beautiful women getting with inferior men. (ie: The Princess kisses the frog…)
See, it would make more sense LOGICALLY, in the sense of reproduction, for a woman to get with a rich man, or a physically superior man than to “settle” with a “regular dude.”
Women still live in a bubble thinking of white picket fences. I play with barbie and you play with tonka trucks. But, there is a distiction between baby and tonka. The toy’s are built extremely different in design and structure. Women maybe lucky to locate the one person out of billions of people who will allow barbie to put sparkles on his tonka truck. Instant emotions (females) and gratification (males) are the tonka trucks who dump dirt on barbie.
@man true true i think that u can only love one person (not including fam and kids) once u love that one person its a wrap
@DC WIFE
“I’ve been with hubby a long time and I love him..I’m going to love him until the day I die (even if we are not together). We are friends and I love him like I gave birth to him. He’s not broke, He’s not ugly and He’s not in between jobs….SMDH…”
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Chances are you DON’T love him “unconditionally.” If he told you he was in love with another man and they were going off to get married, would you still be “in love” with him?
What if he woke up and said, “I feel that I shouldn’t work anymore and I should stay home and your income should support both of us..” Would you still be in love with him?
I don’t think you would. Your love is CONDITIONED on him doing certain things and vice versa.
well duh. this wasn’t even a real marriage. it kinda was like what brandy did with her baby daddy.
Ebony Says
something in the dreams breast milk isn’t right.
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@LAKER CRAZY
“true true i think that u can only love one person (not including fam and kids) once u love that one person its a wrap”
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Dayum. There’s a really good quote that says something similar to this. I think it was by Robert Frost.
I hate it when I can’t remember chit like this!
Funny I was just saying how his latest song “Make-Up Bag” is so controversial, and that he should just pack his and go on with that… Christina could do without all the confusion, and I’m sure she could buy several bags on her own – whatever kind they might be.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
“Romantic love” is not a “real” in the sense that it is often described.
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True: it’s all hormones and pheromones rushing to your brain giving you that aura of euphoria whenever you see each other. But when the hormones decrease, so does the euphoria. So he’d better like you for a reason other than your looks or he’s bouncing.
Nah @Man.
Nah. Love is trill. A nigga could be broke, busted and disgusted but if you
that ninja??!?!?!?!?! The rest of the world could get it!
You cant tell no woman bout her man.
“well duh. this wasn’t even a real marriage. it kinda was like what brandy did with her baby daddy.”
Eggg-zactly! Cause of morals (public opinion!) and chit. Dummies.
Hmmm I love Robert Frost.
@man i think most women confuse love with lust or with jsut being confortable with that person but u will have that one love that its true but u cant sit here and tell me that evry person u been with u love
@OUTSIDE THE BOX
“Nah @Man.
Nah. Love is trill. A nigga could be broke, busted and disgusted but if you that ninja??!?!?!?!?! The rest of the world could get it!
You cant tell no woman bout her man.”
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That’s EXACTLY my point! Women love “the idea of love” more than they love the man! If I’m broke, bust and disgusted than I BETTA LUB’ YOU IF I WANT THE PUZZ!
Men have been selling “love” as long as women been selling “puzzy.”
@LAKER CRAZY
“i think most women confuse love with lust or with jsut being confortable with that person but u will have that one love that its true but u cant sit here and tell me that evry person u been with u love”
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Nope. The people that a person has slept with fulfilled a particular need at a particular time. Not becuase either was in love with each other.
Man have you ever been in love? If not then I will let you have your opinion and no longer debate with you-But honey TRUST LOVE IS REAL I sorta feel bad for you that you don’t know it-
@Man….
Wrong again! I do love him unconditionally….That’s why we’ve been together 17 years. You have your views and I have mine. We’ve been through the loss of a child and he was here for me in ways that I can’t explain. I would be pissed if he ran off with another man but I would still love him as a person….
yall have a blessd day im out @man i get were ur coming from and yes us as women have to admit we are in love with the idea of love thats how baby daddys and divorces happen u think u inlove see key word THINK and then loce is gone
@CHOCO
“Man have you ever been in love? If not then I will let you have your opinion and no longer debate with you-But honey TRUST LOVE IS REAL I sorta feel bad for you that you don’t know it-”
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No, I have not “been in love.” Mainly because it isn’t real.
Come on, instead of having “sympathy” for me, just try to CONSIDER what I’m saying.
No. You miss my point…by miles!
I used that because thats all the things “black women” dont want right???????
I dont think Man has been in love and I don’t know if he has experienced recieving love which is why he thinks it does not exist but I warn you MAN be careful of what you say GOD has a way of making a believer out of you!
@Man
I am considering what you are saying which is why I asked the question if you have not been in love you can’t say if it exist or not- you are applying science to this and love isn’t scientific
@DC WIFE
“Wrong again! I do love him unconditionally….That’s why we’ve been together 17 years. You have your views and I have mine. We’ve been through the loss of a child and he was here for me in ways that I can’t explain. I would be pissed if he ran off with another man but I would still love him as a person….”
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You would still “love” him, but you would no longer be “in love” with him.
Which goes back to my earlier post that “love” takes the shape and definition of whatever the user needs it to take on. It is ill-defined because it isn’t real.
Sort of like convicing someone about their religion, logic is the first thing that person won’t consider!
@Man
No one person or GOD has all the answers just be careful in what you say the universe is in full effect my friend
@CHOCO
“I dont think Man has been in love and I don’t know if he has experienced recieving love which is why he thinks it does not exist but I warn you MAN be careful of what you say GOD has a way of making a believer out of you!”
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That is true, things happen that change a person’s perspective on things. I agree to that.
BUT, that means the same could be said to you. One day you will say:
“Do I TRULY love this person? Did I EVER truly love this person? IS LOVE EVEN REAL?”
When that happens, think about this conversation and the answer is “no.”
@Man
I’ve asked questions similar to that and if when I don’t love that person anymore it’s time to move on but I mos def love the next one and the next one if that’s how GOD see’s it- LOVE is very real I just wish you knew that and most times love is learned from the parents…
Well I hope they get along at least for their child’s sake. The Dream is in love with only the Dream!!!
@Man…..
You have your views and I have mine. I am a love machine and I love “Love”.
@DC WIFE
“You have your views and I have mine. I am a love machine and I love “Love”.
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Of course you do! You’ve been conditioned to!
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@DC WIFE
“You have your views and I have mine. I am a love machine and I love “Love”.
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Of course you do! You’ve been conditioned to!
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And what have you been conditioned to do?
@DC WIFE
“And what have you been conditioned to do?”
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That is a loaded question. Be more specific.
@Man
Actions speak louder than words bro. When you find yourself doing something for someone that is probably beyond your wildest dreams (not sexually) I think you will have an awakening. Love is the combination of feelings and actions. I’m being extreme to get my point across but if there comes a time when you are willing to jump in front of a bullet to save a significant other (which has been done) then my friend there is no other way to describe that action but “love”. There are many other things not so extreme that have and will continue to take place in relationships that will display love.
S/N: I agree there are people that are “in love” with the idea of being in love. And lets not put this solely on women. There are plenty men out here that have a jaded view of this thing called love.
I want to get married one day but I’m in no rush. I want to be DEEPLY in love and know he’s the right one for me. I don’t want a divorce in my life, so I can wait patiently.
@Princess Smarty-Pants… Go on Friday or Saturday.. I have been on both nights and they both are cool.. The wings are the bomb
@RedRobyn…. I agree with you 1000%
@RED ROBYN
“Actions speak louder than words bro. When you find yourself doing something for someone that is probably beyond your wildest dreams (not sexually) I think you will have an awakening. Love is the combination of feelings and actions. I’m being extreme to get my point across but if there comes a time when you are willing to jump in front of a bullet to save a significant other (which has been done) then my friend there is no other way to describe that action but “love”. There are many other things not so extreme that have and will continue to take place in relationships that will display love.
S/N: I agree there are people that are “in love” with the idea of being in love. And lets not put this solely on women. There are plenty men out here that have a jaded view of this thing called love.”
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HOGWASH!!
See, my point isn’t that people don’t BELIEVE in love. Hence the actions you mentioned. People diving in front of bullets and chit like that.
My point is that just because people BELIEVE in something doesn’t mean that it is “real” or that it “exists.” Just like people BELIEVE in everything from Aliens, to ghost to monsters. To that particular person, it is VERY REAL. Even if you “prove” it not to be real…
To me, love is a verb not a noun. Feelings come and go, but deep love gives when it doesn’t want to give and looks out for the best interest of the other person. If you loose your looks or that nice body, get cancer or such, that person won’t miss a beat. You can look like Savannah, Bron’s girl, sitting down chillin in her pink sweat suit and not have to worry that he’ll stop loving you because you aren’t “on point” 24/7. They will be there regardless.
Love is Beautiful….. When two people want the same thing the results are priceless… We can do anything we put our mind too. The problem know wants to do the works thats required……. People want something for nothing…
@SNOOTY POOTY
“The problem know wants to do the works thats required……. ”
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It’s called “efficiency.”
pardon my typos again… The problems is know one wants to put in the necessary work to obtain the common goal.
@Val
Well I guess Ms Aretha should have no problem finding her soul mate
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Girl now get out of my head because I was shonuff about to say that!
i think teddy ruxpin (the big arse nightmare…) is emotionally retarded. i already thought that when he was running ’round tambout him and nivea’s split was mutual and SHE had just had those twins…NOW he up and does it to christina too…i mean who would WANT their husband to leave them after they JUST had a baby???
HATE terius. and his stomach too! and his voice! and them fuggin glasses he always wearing. AND those repetitive azz songs he produce/sing.
hate everything about his tragically shaped azz….
I bet it was over money. Since he blowing up….She thought he was gone keep spoiling her with them constant shopping spree we use to see them on. He about budgeting and thinking about future finances. I don’t know how she thinks, but he was suppose to be training her on that.
KrayZKat says:
To me, love is a verb not a noun. Feelings come and go, but deep love gives when it doesn’t want to give and looks out for the best interest of the other person. If you loose your looks or that nice body, get cancer or such, that person won’t miss a beat. You can look like Savannah, Bron’s girl, sitting down chillin in her pink sweat suit and not have to worry that he’ll stop loving you because you aren’t “on point” 24/7. They will be there regardless.
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I really don’t care. The Dream is hideous and there is something about Christina Milian that I just don’t like. Everybody thought that she was downgrading, but she is just a golddigger who can’t sing with average looks. Really don’t feel bad for either of them.
Still think that ninja is gay. Between the voice, and the fact that he jumps from woman to woman, something just ain’t right:nono:
I know people who have kept braids in longer than they were married…I honestly think the marriage was fake.
SouthernPrincess says:
I know people who have kept braids in longer than they were married…I honestly think the marriage was fake.
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I know right. They had their so called real ceremony in Dec 2009, so within the month, they separated? That’s even before the baby was born….Geez
@ man
i do get what u are saying. i do. but as a personal rule i feel like if you (not u directly, but anyone) are not experienced with something u shouldnt give others advice. because your opinion is one sided.
so i dont take marriage advice from people who havent been married.
i dont take financial advice from people who are broke.
i dont take drug addiction advice from someone who has never been an addict.
i dont take parenting advice from people who dont have kids.
i dont take advice on how to loose weight from a person who has never been heavy.
i dont take advice on how to clear up my skin from a person who has never has acne.
i just dont. for what? how can u be so certain about something u have no experience with? reading books and quotes from other people doesnt make u more knowledgeable than a person with real life experience.
so like i said. u make good points. but coming from someone who has never been in love? u really have no idea what u talking about.
my 2 cents of course.
“**catches lighter*** thanks girl!! I pocket lighters”
–lol, she collecting lighters like people who pick up and collect cigarette butts off the ground to smoke and why do you always have to ask people for your lighter back when they ask to use it?
meanNsurly writes: “MORAL OF THE DAY: If your husband has bigger tiddays than you, your marriage wont work!”
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@ ajonesy
*Sigh* Honestly, this is what happens when you rush into situations vs taking your time to get to know someone. I swear some people are so caught up in the “newness” of a relationship or are so smitten with the new piece of peen/cooch that they go through extremes such as getting pregnant and married to people they RARELY know. You know, living for the moment. Within months, when the pedal hits the medal or reality hits you; you realize you can’t stand this person and you simply can’t recall why you hooked up with this fool in the first place. Who really thought this would last? The self-proclaimed Dream wasn’t even divorced from his wife a good year (I think)before he hooked up with Christina. Plus, wasn’t she still engaged to Dre? This two are absolutely messy!!!
Do you think they pulled a Brandy???
Thetruth32 says:
Do you think they pulled a Brandy???
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Bingo. When I saw him frockling on the beach with a woman that is not Christina it’s easy think that they may not be legally married because the paps would have pics of me making a emergency trip to my lawyers office.
easy to think*
First peopel were dogging her for getting with The Dream cause he’d put that ‘Shawty is a 10′ hit out and was blowing up. Everyone was calling her a gold-digger and saying she was fc*king for tracks, and being an opportunist and that it wasn’t genuine.
Watch this:
She still has no album, but gained a (soon-to-be ex) husband, a baby, blog popularity, (staying in y’alls mouth), and a nice check for the next 18 years.
Sounds to me like she just changed careers from singer/actress to professional baby momm and ex-wifey of multi-million, multi-award winning Producer ‘The Dream’.
$$ca-ching$$