More Proof that Hip Hop is a bad influence on our children

Sandra Rose August 20, 2010

I stopped this video after only 10 seconds in. It is disgraceful what some parents think is funny and cute when it comes to their children. The incidences of violence among teens and teenage pregnancy is spiraling out of control in the black community.

You only have to look as far as MTV and BET’s 106 & Park to see why: music videos by the likes of Ciara and Nicki Minaj that portray women as sex objects.

Though in BET’s defense, they did ban Ciara’s “Ride” video from the airwaves for its graphic, sexualized imagery. Kudos to them.

Still, we must do better as a people!

Blame it on: MJ

Man, I just don’t care™

Much ado about nothing….
jazi65

Sad
Mamacita

yup, she’s gonna be a stripper…

i haven’t watched all of it but this really is sad…but her mom is probably 16 so she thinks it’s cute.
SuthernBelle4

Whenever I become a mother if something like this ever happens I would not be recording my child instead I would be beating the Black, Brown, Blue, and purple out of her. I hate to see little girls doing the booty dances and Beyonce dances and grown-ups around them cheering them on, its not cute AT ALL!
cheeks8683

cant view the video at work but the image takes me back to that baby beyonce video where that barely 2 year old made it clap like she was a regular at magic city…dang it i cant even make it clap!
Say It Aint So Joe

Yeah…This isn’t cute, she’s a baby…
Man, I just don’t care™

She’s a child havin fun. I think when adults react all strong about it is the real problem.
Mamacita

Woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow really???? Then the little girl told somebody to stop laughing…what the hel.l is funny. Parents have GOT to do better with these kids! This is ridiculous!
LaTechGrad02

Wow, instead of letting this baby watch and imitate a music video, her mother should’ve handed her a book, a box of crayons, or a jump rope. Kids just can’t be kids anymore. SMH.

I’m sure Sandra will be getting a letter defending this foolishness in 5,4,3,2…..
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Im with Sandra could watch past 10 seconds felt like a damn pedophile myself and this mother is beyond ignorance all she has done is made her daughter that much more accessible to PERVERTS and CHILD MOLESTERS
SoBlessed

Goodmorning all I am
Her mother needs her azz beat! That little girl shouldn’t even be listening to that song!
KrayZKat

Jesus, be the fence. Help these poor children who don’t know any better, but depend on the ratchet adults in their lives to TEACH them something.
Cinderella

I think bad parenting has a bigger influence on kids than hip hop.
Thetruth32

WOW….
Divinebrown

DAG IT….I CANT SEE THE VIDEO.

#FAIL
Daisy

@soblessed u are not new anymore u have recvd a and an e welcome packet
KrayZKat

Cinderella says:

I think bad parenting has a bigger influence on kids than hip hop.
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Let the church say, AMEN!
cheeks8683

when i was little my momma would not even let us watch mtv…me and my sister tried to sneek and watch it (that was back in the cable box days where u had to get up and walk to the tv set and change the channel) and we could not change the channel in time before my momma walked in…She saw Madonna’s “Like a Prayer” video and the cable was shut off the next day!
Mamacita

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

She’s a child havin fun. I think when adults react all strong about it is the real problem.

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So if your daughter was going around dancing like a stripper you wouldn’t see a prblem with that? I guess you and I have two definitions of the word “fun”. A child having fun consists of playing with dolls, toys, riding a bike, watching cartoons, etc., NOT dancing like a grown woman out of MAGIC CITY!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

soblessed u are not new anymore u have recvd a and an e welcome packet
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I was thinking the same thing

WSUP So Blessed
kwall

The incidences of violence among teens and teenage pregnancy is spiraling out of control in the black community.
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She shouldn’t be doing that true indeed…Was hip hop bad for me? I grew up on it too. Never kilt nobody. And I tell ya Ice Cube and ‘nem was militant like a muthafukka. Public Enema. If nothing will make you want to go off somebody (yt)…pop in some old skool Chuck D. and NWA and come back and tell me whatchu heard.

I was a teen mother 15 years ago.

“You are only a statistic if you allow yourself to become one” ~ My mama.
FreeToSpeakUp

It has nothing to do with the influence of hip hop and r&b entertainers, it has EVERYTHING to do with her parent(s), they’re the real culprits. You can not allow your child to sit and watch everything you(adult) watch especially when it is inappropriate.

@ Choco, I’m with you on that. Uncomfortable watching it past a few seconds. No little girl should be groping herself. UGH! and Keke will be the MAIN one in the camera screaming and crying when someone “touches” her child.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

She’s a child havin fun. I think when adults react all strong about it is the real problem.
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Since when does gyrating hips and simulating what a stripper does equate to little girl fun-IT DOES NOT-that’s y girls grow up to become women-this is a little girl
Man, I just don’t care™

@MAMACITA
“She’s a child havin fun. I think when adults react all strong about it is the real problem.

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So if your daughter was going around dancing like a stripper you wouldn’t see a prblem with that? I guess you and I have two definitions of the word “fun”. A child having fun consists of playing with dolls, toys, riding a bike, watching cartoons, etc., NOT dancing like a grown woman out of MAGIC CITY!”
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See, if I wouldn’t have a strong reaction either way. I wouldn’t be clappin and cheering and chit like Susan Smith was in this video. But if you start “preachin” about don’t do it, it will only make her want to do it more.

#shestilldancinattheendoftheday
SoBlessed

@ Daisy never received a e welcome packet
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@ Choco, I’m with you on that. Uncomfortable watching it past a few seconds. No little girl should be groping herself. UGH! and Keke will be the MAIN one in the camera screaming and crying when someone “touches” her child.
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What pisses me off in this day of age of internet child predators she posting this video not knowing who is watching her little girl play outside-STUPID BISH
cedramyers

OMG!!!!! This should not be thought of as cute. WOW!!! This is crazy!!!! LOL. DAMN!!!!!
aries

If a child this young has to dance like an adult to have fun there is something wrong.
BeautifulBliss

I saw this earlier. The parents think that mess is cute. They’re going to end up with as fast a$$ little girl and wonder why. They probably won’t care, though, if they think this is acceptable to video and put on the internet.
Thetruth32

Welcome SoBlessed
FreeToSpeakUp

Children dancing is not a problem, children dancing PROVOCATIVELY is an issue! The little girl had her leg up liek come and get it
SoBlessed

@ Daisy thanks for the welcome though
lexdiamonz

@ so blessed

this makes me sad we have a lost generation of little girls thanks to a lost generation of dumb azz parents why is a damn near toddler listening to ciara???

judging from the looks of that place clearly her mother is a hoodrat
Man, I just don’t care™

@CHOCO
“She’s a child havin fun. I think when adults react all strong about it is the real problem.
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Since when does gyrating hips and simulating what a stripper does equate to little girl fun-IT DOES NOT-that’s y girls grow up to become women-this is a little girl”
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In the mind of the little girl, she is dancing and simulating a video/artist. She would only make the connection of that with of a stripper if YOU (the parent) introduces her to that.
T.Y’z Cha Cha

Mamacita says:

yup, she’s gonna be a stripper…

i haven’t watched all of it but this really is sad…but her mom is probably 16 so she thinks it’s cute.
pinksghetti

That is creepy, I could only watch a few seconds because I was scared Chris Hanson would come into my job. I hate seeing kids trying to act grown and even worse when the parents encourage it. Too many people don’t want to “baby” their children so they are cool with them acting “mature” for their age. I understand not babying them when they are teenagers but it’s ok to act like a baby when you are one (under 10).
Zephyr1979

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

She’s a child havin fun. I think when adults react all strong about it is the real problem.
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Love the sarcasm.

But this is only a child doing what she enjoys. She is just being herself right? Isn’t she expressing her creativity through dance? What makes this different than all the other children that express themselves through dressing like adults, telling their parents what they will or won’t do, rocking hairstyles and/or clothes which are not age appropriate? Children nowadays are given to much free reign imo, parents need to get a hold on these children and make them realize that as the adult you are there to guide them in the right way so that when they get older they will make decisions that will not have a negative impact on their lives and become decent members of society. But then again we all have strayed….
SoBlessed

@ lexdiamonz thanks for the welcome. @ Daisy so should I feel out your e welcome packet?
Anna

Choco says:

soblessed u are not new anymore u have recvd a and an e welcome packet
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I was thinking the same thing

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We are in a recession, she is trying to get a free e welcome packet to sell on ebay.

This is not cute and I did not beat my kids, let me see my grandbaby doing this and I will spank her and beat my kid for this foolishness.
SuthernBelle4

co-sign @Mamacita and Choco. @Man for some reason I feel that when you have a daughter you will be singing a different tune.
Howdy @SoBlessed
Mamacita

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

@MAMACITA
“She’s a child havin fun. I think when adults react all strong about it is the real problem.

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So if your daughter was going around dancing like a stripper you wouldn’t see a prblem with that? I guess you and I have two definitions of the word “fun”. A child having fun consists of playing with dolls, toys, riding a bike, watching cartoons, etc., NOT dancing like a grown woman out of MAGIC CITY!”
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See, if I wouldn’t have a strong reaction either way. I wouldn’t be clappin and cheering and chit like Susan Smith was in this video. But if you start “preachin” about don’t do it, it will only make her want to do it more.

#shestilldancinattheendoftheday

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She’s a child! This isn’t a grown woman who can make conscious decisions for herself so you HAVE to give them some type of guidence and tell them that what they’re doing is wrong. It’s not preaching it’s called being a responsible parent.
OutsidetheBox

*chuckles*
Lawwwdddd look what the cat drug in. And even the baby boy over there bopping. SMH.

Box fans, exposed plugs…SMH
SuthernBelle4

@lexdiamonz hey soror
Man, I just don’t care™

@ZEPHYR
“She’s a child havin fun. I think when adults react all strong about it is the real problem.
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Love the sarcasm.

But this is only a child doing what she enjoys. She is just being herself right? Isn’t she expressing her creativity through dance? What makes this different than all the other children that express themselves through dressing like adults, telling their parents what they will or won’t do, rocking hairstyles and/or clothes which are not age appropriate? Children nowadays are given to much free reign imo, parents need to get a hold on these children and make them realize that as the adult you are there to guide them in the right way so that when they get older they will make decisions that will not have a negative impact on their lives and become decent members of society. But then again we all have strayed….
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¿¿¿ ???

Sarcasm?

Anyway…I agree with the first part of your statement, it’s just a child expressing herself. There aren’t grown men in there throwing money at her.

Can’t KIDS have fun anymore?
CivilEngineer

Ummmm she’s probably repeating what she’s seen her mom do or some other “role model” in her life.

#stopblamingmusic

#parentsneedtobeparents

#morehoeshyt
kwall

#stopblamingmusic

#parentsneedtobeparents

#morehoeshyt
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that sums it up. it ain’t the music. its just the times. not the music.

and yes more #hoeazzshyt.
OutsidetheBox

I blame Beyonce and teen mothers.

No, no…Not her own mama. Other ppls mama’s.
Man, I just don’t care™

@SOUTHERN BELLE
“for some reason I feel that when you have a daughter you will be singing a different tune.”
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Naw, I won’t. Actually, I will become a God parent to a little girl i a few weeks. The first female born into my family (I mean extended family too) in over two decades.

Anyway, if she was doing this, I wouldn’t react strongly either way.
KrayZKat

Children nowadays are given to much free reign imo, parents need to get a hold on these children and make them realize that as the adult you are there to guide them in the right way so that when they get older they will make decisions that will not have a negative impact on their lives and become decent members of society. But then again we all have strayed…Zephyr1979
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cedramyers

Another Monatana Fishburne if these parents don’t cut this mess out?????!!!!!
T.Y’z Cha Cha

NOT BABY…MY BABY WILL ONLY DANCE FOR JESUS!!!!!
OutsidetheBox

“NOT BABY…MY BABY WILL ONLY DANCE FOR JESUS!!!!!”

You jest…right?
Divinebrown

parents need to get a hold on these children and make them realize that as the adult you are there to guide them in the right way so that when they get older they will make decisions that will not have a negative impact on their lives and become decent members of society. But then again we all have strayed….

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:PREACH: :PREACH:

YOU BETTER TELL IT! Kids will only do what they’re allowed to do. WHY THE EFFF IS SHE WATCHING THAT VIDEO? TV’S, VIDEO GAMES, AND COMPUTERS ARE RAISING YA’LL’S CHILDREN.

PEOPLE DONT EVEN make their kids go outside anymore. We were FORCED to go outside as children. TV’s were heavily monitored and so was the music we we listened to. My parents had a hand in everything I did, even if I didnt know it.
aqtpie

Cinderella says:
I think bad parenting has a bigger influence on kids than hip hop.
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Man, I just don’t care™

@MAMACITA
“She’s a child! This isn’t a grown woman who can make conscious decisions for herself so you HAVE to give them some type of guidence and tell them that what they’re doing is wrong. It’s not preaching it’s called being a responsible parent. ”
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I agree, WHEN they are doing something “wrong,” you should let them know. But I ask you, what specifically is she doing “wrong” in this video?

If you say that “lil girls don’t dance this way, only grown women,” you have given her INSTRUCTION ON HOW TO ACT ‘GROWN!!!’

1. Kids do things for attention
2. Kids want to act grown
If you react strongly, you are satisfying two things for that lil girl. SMH.
CivilEngineer

@Divine….that caps lock key is taking over
SoBlessed

Hello @ Choco. I have comment before I just never officially introduce myself.
militaryspouse1

Did the parents send this to you Sandra? This is not cute. I grew up on hiphop also but my mother didnt allow me to dance in that matter. She damn near had a fit when I was doing the butterfly! I couldnt even watch the whole thing, I turned that mess off
my2cents

I only watched a little bit but I think CPS should come and take that child from the home this is very disturbing…
Divinebrown

CivilEngineer says:

@Divine….that caps lock key is taking over

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SSSSSSSSHHHHHHUUUUUUUUT IT! I”m working and doing this at the same time mann!!!

:beatCivilsAzzsmiley:
SuthernBelle4

Times like this make me miss being a teacher because I know for a fact that little girl probably would have been on the play ground teaching the other little girls. I would have snatched her little hind parts up and had a teachable moment. #iftheparentsarenotgoingtoraisethekidsitsuptous
@MAN you say that now, but wait until lil’mama gets a little older. Congratulations on becoming a Godfather
SangriaSugar

I don’t have any children but I do think some people are having too strong of a reaction.

If she was older you would have a problem…it would be time to drop kick her azz. But she is probably imitating women that are in her life (Momma, Auntie, Gma). She is a little girl dancing and she is not gonna know the meaning of stripper dancing at that age unless the parent tells her.

I guess it would be better if she was doing ballet :/
Mamacita

Well since you see this as being “fun” how about we give her a some and a …lets see how much “fun she can have with that stuff too!

How will a child know anything unless you TELL THEM?!
Zephyr1979

@Man, the thing is that with typing you really can’t determine the tone of what is being written. When you said that I took it for sarcasm because that was what it seemed to be. I know now that you were serious, apologies. However, the first part of my little rant was actually sarcasm. I don’t agree with this at all but I’m not this little girl’s mother, because if I were, she would NOT be doing this. I don’t find this cute at all. But I agree that sometimes we as adults get overly excited when children do things that isn’t right and instead of just explaining to them why they shouldn’t do it, we overreact and that sometimes causes the opposite effect to happen. Finding that perfect balance is often times illusive but as adults we’re humans too and we make mistakes, especially if it’s your first child or you’re really young.
Man, I just don’t care™

@SOUTHERN BELLE
“you say that now, but wait until lil’mama gets a little older. Congratulations on becoming a Godfather”
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Naw, the funny thing is, in the past I would have thought like the rest of you. “OMG, THIS IS A TRAVESTY! CALL CHILD PROTECTION…BLAH BLAH BLAH” But with age comes wisdom.

This is one of those things that a child will do.
#moreconcernedabouttheexposedplugs
OutsidetheBox

I turned out alright. I listened to the worst of the worst: Poison Clan, Too Short, TDD…all the ignant chit.

But I was never a dancer (gangstas dont dance )…
VIBABY

Her parents deserve an F-…….
peanutbuttercup

This really bothered me. I’m sick and someone needs to straight up jaw the momma.
Man, I just don’t care™

@SS
“I don’t have any children but I do think some people are having too strong of a reaction.

If she was older you would have a problem…it would be time to drop kick her azz. But she is probably imitating women that are in her life (Momma, Auntie, Gma). She is a little girl dancing and she is not gonna know the meaning of stripper dancing at that age unless the parent tells her.

I guess it would be better if she was doing ballet
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Read my comment 34!
#pickyourbattles
chase

I agree w/ u sangria…

I don’t think what she is doing is cute or right, but its not the end of the world.
If I caught my daughter doing that I would not kick her butt, I’d ask her where did she learn it from and go from there… My little cousins use to dance like this some are lost souls now and others are productive citizens…..
Man, I just don’t care™

@ZEPHYR
“But I agree that sometimes we as adults get overly excited when children do things that isn’t right and instead of just explaining to them why they shouldn’t do it, we overreact and that sometimes causes the opposite effect to happen. Finding that perfect balance is often times illusive but as adults we’re humans too and we make mistakes, especially if it’s your first child or you’re really young.”
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I concur.
SuthernBelle4

@Man working with students we will have to agree to disagree because I am assuming you are an upstanding brother aside from the niggadom that you carryon here, but every child doesn’t have people in their lives to stir them in the right direction. I know kids will be kids, but this is simply not the case!
@OTB,hey girl, lol, gangstas dont’t dance!!
PAHairston

Hello All. AS PARENTS, WE HAVE GOTS TO DO BETTER, we have gots to go back to being a village. Two days ago in DC, a 16 yr old was shot in the chest while walking home with his brother. The assailant missed with the first shot, then shot him right thru the chest, point-blank range, so sad. It happens almost everyday, in every city, a young, black man gets killed by another young, black man. (Why are our younguns so angry?) As a single parent, I raised my only child, my son, in DC, in the hood. Each day before he left home, we would hug and pray, together, that God would keep him safe, protect him, guide him, and forgive him for his sins. Last yr, he graduated from Stanford. (He loves CA and hates DC) And yes, Sandra is right, hip-hop has been, and still is, a great influence on our children, especially if the only parent in the home is a 18 yr old single female with 4 other children.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Hello @ Choco. I have comment before I just never officially introduce myself.
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whatdoesitmatter

now that’s a got darn shame,
miamore1973

Children only do what their parents allow!! I don’t think you can blame the music industry because children are dancing like strippers. You blame that childs parents. My son and daughter were never allowed to watch music videos as children. My daughter is 16 and I think she’s only gotten into music videos within the last year but at this point I think she’s been taught what’s appropriate and what’s not so she can make her own decisions based on what she’s been taught on what’s best.

A child’s lessons start at home. If their starting with MTV/BET that’s the parents fault.
SuthernBelle4

oops didnt mean to say stir, I meant steer
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tKKxPtP6XjQ renegadesince1985

Wow….I’m not surprised…people don’t raise their kids anymore. TV, computers etc. do. Not to mention half the mothers out there are merely kids themselves. It’s a cycle.
Man, I just don’t care™

@MAMACITA
“Well since you see this as being “fun” how about we give her a some and a :weed: …lets see how much “fun she can have with that stuff too!

How will a child know anything unless you TELL THEM?!
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Um, I don’t think she could die instantaneously or damage her brain cells from doing a dance so I think those things should be withheld from her. But dancing?

Of course you have to teach children things. But are you going to INSTRUCT HER ‘HOW TO BE GROWN?’
Daisy

@soblessed *e welcome packet* where ya from/repin/married/single/kids and who if anybody do u stan in FUN only for?

All newbies feel free to make a copy and to the jungle!
missy

I couldn’t watch more than 1 minute of the video I felt it was how to catch a predator worthy..goodness I was waiting for Chris Hansen to pop up on the screen how uncomfortable I felt watching the video….

The mother/guardian shouldn’t have put this video online they could have kept this too themselves..I don’t know why people are so obsess with putting their kids on the Internet doing dances…When your child is busting out some stripper moves it will never be CUTE….

And you can’t blame hip-hop for this blame the PARENTS/GUARDIAN
SangriaSugar

@Man…we are here on this one!!!!
spongebobfan

hiphop is not to blame, parents are
OutsidetheBox

Whether her mom is 15 or 25, she knows that the dancing is too provocative. BUT she has allowed HER child to do it.

WTH that got to do with the rest of us that gave birth at a “socially unacceptable” age, I DON’T KNOW.

#petpeeve

NEWSFLASH: women have been having babies since the beginning of time…..
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

It’s a damn shame that some ppl thinks this girl dancing like this is okay I was a young mother had my daughter at 16 and she is not fast or none of that simple azz shit –
my2cents

I agree w/ Missy, what would possess someone to put this on the internet?? It’s not cute at all, did ya’ll see the video of the little boy singing the waka flaka song? He could hardly talk but he knew the whole song including the cursing and his parent or guardian recorded it and put it online WTF
cocoa49

anyone agreeing with this type of dancing for a young child, must enjoy watching this mess or they allow their children to dance like this. even though BET banned the video from Ciara, there are other ways of watching sexual suggestive videos as the one Ciara made. you have youtube, vevo, etc. It all boils down to contol of ones house hold.
Mamacita

I don’t think it’s so much about the music but the actual videos themselves. Why do you think so many women aspire to be “video vixens”? Some music videos glorify women with huge azzes, drugs, sex, etc. so to a gullible child it seems like all fun and games
Man, I just don’t care™

@SOUTHERN BELLE
“working with students we will have to agree to disagree because I am assuming you are an upstanding brother aside from the niggadom that you carryon here, but every child doesn’t have people in their lives to stir them in the right direction. I know kids will be kids, but this is simply not the case!”
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Niggadom must be a new way of saying “wisdom.”

Yeah, I agree every child doesn’t have someone to steer them in the right direction. That being said, adults need to understand how their reaction to things is perceived through the eyes of a child.

Negative Attention > No Attention
Acting Grown > Acting like a baby
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

But are you going to INSTRUCT HER ‘HOW TO BE GROWN?’
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That’s what real parents do teach their children how to become productive adults with morals and respect for themselves…
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Negative Attention > No Attention
Acting Grown > Acting like a baby
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U TRIPPN!
His_Mommy623

I didn’t even continue to watch….true bird chit! her mother should be slapped…twice
Man, I just don’t care™

@CHOCO
“Negative Attention > No Attention
Acting Grown > Acting like a baby
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U TRIPPN!
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Um, this is FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A CHILD.
missy

And I don’t know how BET could ban Ciara’s video and they had trey songz “invented sex”/”neighbours know my name” playing like it was the best video since ..EVER….

Hypocrisy at best..even though Ciara’s video was sexual so was Tremaine…BET isn’t helping the problem they are just as bad…
Lady_L

Wow, I couldn’t even finish watching it…..
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Um, this is FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A CHILD.
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Oh well u still trippn cuz you thinks this is okay but still got love for you :hugs:
Man, I just don’t care™

@MAMACITA
“I don’t think it’s so much about the music but the actual videos themselves. Why do you think so many women aspire to be “video vixens”? Some music videos glorify women with huge azzes, drugs, sex, etc. so to a gullible child it seems like all fun and games ”
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Videos ain’t no different from BayWatch, Playboy, Pinups, Oil Paintings, the Geisha girls, the Kurma Sutra, etc. before it.

Women always have been, and always will be, celebrated for thier physical attributes. NOTHING wrong with that.
missy

@my2cents- I saw that video with that little boy and I was like they are so proud of…That little child will turn 7 and think it is cool to be cussing like a sailor…Heavens and i know the child will think it is okay because his stupid “Guardian” was smiling and cheering him on as he said those words..

SMH some people just can’t help their stupidity…
Mamacita

@OTB Some people aren’t fit to be parents not matter what age they are. I think what people are saying about younger parents is that it’s harder to teach a child when you are still a child yourself.
miamore1973

Yup I had my first at 19. She actually blamed me for her lack of rhythm. Said she couldn’t dance because she wasn’t allowed to watch BET.

No you can dance you just can’t pop your booty!!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

I think what people are saying about younger parents is that it’s harder to teach a child when you are still a child yourself.
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For some females in my case I had to grow the eff up cuz I was a mother and that meant a lot to me…
mirsmommy

I’ll bet $5 neither her lil azz or her dumb azz parents can’t read nor write for ish.
Nika405

:co-sign: on Kwall’s comment. Teen parents are not the blame for this. Ignorant parents come in all ages/races and clearly her parent/s thought this was cute and felt others would think the same. SMDH
SuthernBelle4

@Man you are right about children wanting attention from their parents regardless if it is positive or negative. I just hate that this little girl’s mother is promoting this ignorance as if its okay because like I said before she will be teaching all the other little girls on the playground the “oochie coochie” dance.
Man, I just don’t care™

@CHOCO
“Um, this is FROM THE PERSPECTIVE OF A CHILD.
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Oh well u still trippn cuz you thinks this is okay but still got love for you :hugs:
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:hugs:
They got more important things to worry about than a 5-10 yr old (however old she is) imitating a dance.
SangriaSugar

Wow!!! Just a question…for whoever wants to answer but…

Do you also feel that a girl will grow up to be a hoe if she kisses a boy on the lips for the 1st time when she is 5 or 6?? Or what about if she lifts her dress up??

#Betterwatchyourkindergartnersthen
His_Mommy623

hmmmm @ some of these comments

heyyyy SR folks
SuthernBelle4

@Mamacita I agree with you, but like my mommy says “young fools grow into old fools” so just because you wait until you are 35 to have your first child if you were an idiot then chances are you will be an idiot now.
FloridaChick813

I dont think its soo much about age. Because whether you are 16 or 26 you know whats right and whats wrong.

Like my friend doesnt keep a clean house and blames her grandma because her grandma used to pay a maid to clean up after her. I mean, yea grandma shouldnt have spoiled her, but at the same time you are a GROWN A$$ WOMAN, and you KNOW there is nothing cute or sanitary about living in a filthy house. And besides, no grown a$$ man wants to lay around in filth, with a lazy a$$ woman

Sorry got off topic, but……..
T.Y’z Cha Cha

OutsidetheBox says:

I turned out alright. I listened to the worst of the worst: Poison Clan, Too Short, TDD…all the ignant chit.

But I was never a dancer (gangstas dont dance )…

WE BOOGIE!!!!!

“NOT MY BABY…MY BABY WILL ONLY DANCE FOR JESUS!!!!!”

You jest…right? of course!

Seriously tho…the little girl was copying the television and when she was tired or was not getting her steps right her mother was coaching her. I think her mama some fat azz stank living vicariously through her child.
Instead of teaching your 1st grader how to gyrate and lift her leg and immulate some sexy artist, teach her how to be studious and respectful. SMDH

#combtheydamnhair
#cleanyodamnroom
#takeyokidstothepark
SuthernBelle4

@SangriaSugar by no means do I think the little girl will grow up to be a hoe. All I am saying is that we need to make sure we instruct our children in the right direction. Children are going to be bad no matter what, but when a parent promotes the behavior that’s when I have the problem. #noneedtohidethekiddies
Mamacita

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

@MAMACITA
“I don’t think it’s so much about the music but the actual videos themselves. Why do you think so many women aspire to be “video vixens”? Some music videos glorify women with huge azzes, drugs, sex, etc. so to a gullible child it seems like all fun and games ”
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Videos ain’t no different from BayWatch, Playboy, Pinups, Oil Paintings, the Geisha girls, the Kurma Sutra, etc. before it.

Women always have been, and always will be, celebrated for thier physical attributes. NOTHING wrong with that.

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Just because they’re no different doesn’t make it right does it? Anyway, my point is, what happened to women wanting to be doctors,lawyers, hell civil engineers because I swear I was the ONLY woman in my graduating class! Instead they want to be porn stars (Montana Fishburn), Video vixens (karen Stephens), and have kids by a “baller” so they can pull in child support checks.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Hey His-

You saying hmmmm to these comments I’m at the questions WTH
mirsmommy

Heyyyy Flo
Nika405

@Flo I have a childhood friend who lived in a nasty azz house (roahes, dirty dishes, pee smell etc). She now keeps a filty house but is ok with it. Granted she doesn’t have roahes but I just can’t go inside. I just don’t understand how folks live like that.
Friendsfirst

so glad I had a boy…oh and lmao at the “only dance for jesus” bit…mad busy today…traveling next week.
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

How does a child even know how to move their pelvis like that? She is imitating sexual movement to a tee. I worry that she may have been molested. Repeatedly. Its ridiculous and it is the parents fault, not Ciara. The part Ciara played was in making a desperate video that moms like this would think is hot. I was almost as turned off by Ciara’s video as this one.
PERFECTO

“CHILD PLEASE”!!!!!!!
Val

Awee man! I couldn’t view the video..but, I gotta go with Sandra and Choco on this one though.. open season for predators on kids! disgusting!

there are so many things as parents that we could be teaching our kids instead of “backin it up”.. producing future chippy d’s.. we need to be teaching our kids about hygiene, education and self respect.

Or if lil mama just likes to dance, put her in African dance class- that way she can learn where the moves came from and feel proud of herself as a Black person! …just sayin
Man, I just don’t care™

@MAMACITA
“Just because they’re no different doesn’t make it right does it? Anyway, my point is, what happened to women wanting to be doctors,lawyers, hell civil engineers because I swear I was the ONLY woman in my graduating class! Instead they want to be porn stars (Montana Fishburn), Video vixens (karen Stephens), and have kids by a “baller” so they can pull in child support checks.”
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Does females wanting to be video vixens become “right” because it is similar/identical to things in the past? No.

Is it “right” for a female to want to become a video vixen? Yes.

It’s a reason that every generation has their variation of the “video vixen.” BECAUSE AIN’T NOTHIN WRONG WITH IT. Women being rewarded for their physical attributes is as natural as the sun rising. Of course they have options, but this way is tried and true.
FloridaChick813

Choco, Mirs Hey Ladies!

@Nika, Girl I CANT STAND to go over there either. Even my son will say “Im staying outside, her house is nasty!” And its like I told her, If a 6 year old notices it, BEST BELIEVE a grown man notices it. Then she has the nerve to “make fun of me” and call me Mrs. Clean. But sooo what #TheNerveOfSomeBi.tches
Divinebrown

@Sangria…….IM WITH YOU! I’ve heard parent argue with someone until they were blue in the face in defense of something one of their kids did. EVEN WHEN THEIR CHILD WAS WRONG!! People are quite defensive about their parenting.

I’m sure the mother of this child would argue someone down about this very video!!!

I dont think there’s a right or wrong answer.
Could we even say the mother was a failure if she did GROW UP AND BE A HOE? WHAT IS the definition of a HOE?

*I’ll wait cause I know there’s some hoes in this house, there’s some hoes in this house, there’s some hoes in this house*

What is the definition of FAILED Parents? *minus serial killers, drug dealers child molesters and white people on Maury whose kids slap them in the face*
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

we need to be teaching our kids about hygiene, education and self respect.

Or if lil mama just likes to dance, put her in African dance class- that way she can learn where the moves came from and feel proud of herself as a Black person! …just sayin
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OutsidetheBox

And what I am saying is that I am that woman you all who dont know anything about it go in on…

Anything under 14 is not a child and should be prepped “for life” from that age on.

Life could be sex and its consequences, the death of a parent, dealing with violence from peers, etc. Life is so shortshighted for a lot of folks and I see why.
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

SuthernBelle4 says:

@SangriaSugar by no means do I think the little girl will grow up to be a hoe.
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Yeah, but damn sure is at risk.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@ FLO How’s the new place boo? I’m sure you and enjoying it : )
SangriaSugar

@SuthernBelle…I totally understand what you are saying but how many 16 year olds are going to remember how they danced when they were 5/6?

Parents/Teachers need to over-react when their kids say “Nobody reads books anymore” or “I don’t need to read the book…I’ll just rent to movie” or “I don’t need a job I got my looks”
crzasallgetout

Could we even say the mother was a failure if she did GROW UP AND BE A HOE? WHAT IS the definition of a HOE?

*I’ll wait cause I know there’s some hoes in this house, there’s some hoes in this house, there’s some hoes in this house

Shut up Divine PLEASE!!!! My sister hated that song. She said dumb women would be clapping like fools
http://mylifeinthesun782.blogspot.com Ms. Everything

I can’t see the video right now or read all the comments but this is why my children don’t watch videos or listen to the garbage that gets played on the radio. My job is hard enough without inviting this crap into my home. The kids think I’m too strict sometimes but they will understand and appreciate it later
lexdiamonz

skeeweee @suthernbelle

i will be waiting for the rebuttal from a “loyal reader aka kid mamm
lexdiamonz

i meant kid mammy soon
Man, I just don’t care™

@DIVINE
“WHAT IS the definition of a HOE? ”
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see:

Halle Berry
Monica
Brandy
Trina
Divinebrown

crzasallgetout HAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!! That was the Perculator!!!

NO NO NO…we was clappin ( ) in acknowledgement of the hoes bein’ in the house….NOT CAUSE we’re the HOES!!
His_Mommy623

heyyyyyy Flo heffa and Otb!!
my2cents

@127 you can’t be serious?? How many of us learned how to ride bikes at that age and younger?? We’re still doing it, and so will she if someone doesn’t step in and tell her it’s inappropriate
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

Women being rewarded for their physical attributes is as natural as the sun rising.
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What’s the reward? You know they don’t make any money right? You know the artists and their boys screw em and toss em aside right? What is the reward a video vixen is getting? At least strippers and porn stars get paid. Video vixens ain’t getting nothing but a tore up kitty cat and even lower self esteem in most cases. Would you wife a video vixen who has been ran through buy legions of rappers. Is Karrine Stephens wife material.

Is it possible that you ment to say women have always gotten attention for their physical attributes? Or is it that you think attention is a tangible reward?
mirsmommy

ebrown says:

@Sangria…….IM WITH YOU! I’ve heard parent argue with someone until they were blue in the face in defense of something one of their kids did. EVEN WHEN THEIR CHILD WAS WRONG!! People are quite defensive about their parenting.

I’m sure the mother of this child would argue someone down about this very video!!!

I dont think there’s a right or wrong answer.
Could we even say the mother was a failure if she did GROW UP AND BE A HOE? WHAT IS the definition of a HOE?

*I’ll wait cause I know there’s some hoes in this house, there’s some hoes in this house, there’s some hoes in this house*
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SuthernBelle4

@SangriaSugar I get what you are saying, but my concern is if her mother is allowing this kind of behavior now, what will happen later? I guess this hits home for me because I had a cousin whose mother pretty much let her do what she wanted, the little girl was bad as hell when she was younger and lets just say things didn’t turn out okay for her. I guess what I am saying is its not so much the dancing its the action of the parent that concerns me the most.
I also agree with you about the books read an article that said that Blacks only spend 287million on books while we spend over 30billion on clothes.
@lexdiamonz SKEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEWEE right back to you soror
OutsidetheBox

I think a “hoe” is a woman other women judge because they arent as free with their sexuality, or take issue with her and her sexuality.

IMO, a whore is a woman who gets paid for sex.
crzasallgetout

@ DIvine

@ Man
How are Brandy and Monica hoes?
OutsidetheBox

Hey Hisssssss!
missy

@divinebrown- why did i laugh when i read “besides those white kids who slap those parents”

A hoe is someone who sleeps with multiple partners (as in superhead type of numbers)

A failed parent is someone whose children have no respect for them at all …or someone who misguides their children down a wrong path in life..

@craz- I lubs your gravi ..the ghetto toothfairy
Jerrie

Me and my grandmother watched this last night. My grandma must of died, she was pissed! Then she started getting on me and my sister about it, like we did it!
OutsidetheBox

Jerrie why would you let G’ma see this mess?
crzasallgetout

I think a HOE is someone who sleeps with random and multiple people just for the thrill of it. Could be male or female. I know plenty of male hoes.

I concur with OTB’s definition of whore.
Man, I just don’t care™

@BIRD
“Women being rewarded for their physical attributes is as natural as the sun rising.
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What’s the reward? You know they don’t make any money right? You know the artists and their boys screw em and toss em aside right? What is the reward a video vixen is getting? At least strippers and porn stars get paid. Video vixens ain’t getting nothing but a tore up kitty cat and even lower self esteem in most cases. Would you wife a video vixen who has been ran through buy legions of rappers. Is Karrine Stephens wife material.

Is it possible that you ment to say women have always gotten attention for their physical attributes? Or is it that you think attention is a tangible reward?”
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Well, if you are asking what’s the “reward” specifically about video vixens, they get paid for putting on some booty shorts and wearing it on film. Are they world famous respected millionaires? No. Are they paid for their physical attributes? Yes.

And yes, women have always, and will always, get attention for their physical attributes. They CAN turn that into something tangible, but in and of itself it is not tangible.
missy

oh and a man can be a hoe also ..i’ve met some
crzasallgetout

Hey Missy
He’s fab! We agree on the definition of hoe I see
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Then she started getting on me and my sister about it, like we did it!
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And that’s becuz this is disturbing on many levels but at her taking it out on yall…
mirsmommy

I’m gon beat Missy and Crz for those damn gravies!!!!
Man, I just don’t care™

Men are hoes too. HA HA HA HA! Yall kill me.
OutsidetheBox

“I think a HOE is someone who sleeps with random and multiple people just for the thrill of it. Could be male or female. I know plenty of male hoes.”

Well said. I like the def. Men can def. be hoes…I left them out because its not generally thought about in terms of males.
His_Mommy623

@OTB

how ju been bew?

lmao@Jerrie

My mom just saw this and was damn near cussing me out lol I was like “woman I’m grown! and I DO NOT HAVE A DAUGHTER” my son gets his skateboard and his (stupid) Dougie on…smh
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

FUK a HOE
SuthernBelle4

OFF TOPIC: YA’ll why in the Jesus wept is Rodney King on Judge Pirro?
@OTB hey Ms. Lady, I guess you ignoring me like Beyonce did Destiny Chilren (lol) i kid, i kid
His_Mommy623

I think a HOE is….2 females in my family *giggles*
SangriaSugar

@my2cents

YES…as a matter of fact I am very serious!!! BUT just for you here is my reasoning:

How many times have the procedures for riding a bike changed????

Over the past 20 years how has dancing changed??

Just because she is 5/6 years old and dancing like this now does not mean that 5 years from now she will be dancing the exact same way!!!! For all you know she could get into ballet/tap/jazz/modern dancing just because she enjoys dancing…not because her Mama told her!!!
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Dear mother of above displayed child,
PLEASE! Ask Baby Jesus to take the wheel….from you. This is all cute and addorable now uh?…until you come home and your creepy uncle lester has her doing that same dance with him…only this time his pants are off. Or some neighbor that has failed to register as a sex offender finds her outside alone….and wants her to show him how she did that sexy dance…and offers her candy and now your child has an adult playmate/potential sex mate!!! When this happens…please refer back to this video that you find adorable enough to post on youtube and know……ITS YOUR FAULT

Sincerly,
Hater-of- dumb bit-ches!!!
OutsidetheBox

Good @His. Working, working, working. I’m trying to take the kids on an “only us” vacation…a sort of last hoorah fore summer leaves us for good…
mirsmommy

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

Men are hoes too. HA HA HA HA! Yall kill me.
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Don’t you agree???
missy

@mirs-heeeeeyyy ..ummmm I think me and Crzas have the sexiest gravis on SR .. those two fellas (or shims) are purrty and will cut a bish in a quick second

@crzas-yep great minds think a like …
OutsidetheBox

No! @Belle…I mustve missed it!

Dont be taking pot shots at Bey; that aint her baby up there.

LOL
KrayZKat

ggouch says:

Dear mother of above displayed child,
PLEASE! Ask Baby Jesus to take the wheel….from you. This is all cute and addorable now uh?…until you come home and your creepy uncle lester has her doing that same dance with him…only this time his pants are off. Or some neighbor that has failed to register as a sex offender finds her outside alone….and wants her to show him how she did that sexy dance…and offers her candy and now your child has an adult playmate/potential sex mate!!! When this happens…please refer back to this video that you find adorable enough to post on youtube and know……ITS YOUR FAULT

Sincerly,
Hater-of- dumb bit-ches!!!
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Best post of the day!!!
Man, I just don’t care™

@MIRS MOMMY
“Men are hoes too. HA HA HA HA! Yall kill me.
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Don’t you agree???
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I think whoever said that was just playin but of course not.
It don’t even make sense. HA HA HA HA. Yall stoopid. I tell ya’.
crystal

This is a perfect case of laugh now and pay later. Children are a relection of the parent. I can’t see the video and can only imagine and don’t think it’s cute. Eventhough we are in a different times now where things on television are bradcasted and tolerated now was not 10&20yrs ago. I agree yes we as parents have to do better and it still starts @ or in the home.
His_Mommy623

*swoons* @ Gouch *z snaps* U did that bew…lemme real quick!
mirsmommy

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

@MIRS MOMMY
“Men are hoes too. HA HA HA HA! Yall kill me.
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Don’t you agree???
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I think whoever said that was just playin but of course not.
It don’t even make sense. HA HA HA HA. Yall stoopid. I tell ya’.
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Ya whorish azz ain’t chit.
FloridaChick813

@Choco, the new house is okay. I think I have spirits in there though :/

Heeeyyyyy HIS
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Yeah GGOUCH mad props for that!
mirsmommy

FloridaChick813 says:

@Choco, the new house is okay. I think I have spirits in there though
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Why you say that????
Mamacita

I missed the memo where walking across a set in a thong and 5 in heels became a profession. My bad. If that’s all a person wants to be in life that’s just sad! When that azz, that stomach is nolonger flat, and those breast start to sag what are they gonna do then? I guess once they get played out that’s when they get pregnant by a NBA of NFL player so they can maintain.
His_Mommy623

@Otb

ooooh whea ya’ll going? and Im coming! lol
crzasallgetout

I think a HOE is….2 females in my family *giggles*

OMG!! I had an ex friend who was a straight UP hoe. I thankfully don’t have any hoes in my family(I hope I’m not THE hoe and don’t know it) but I do have con artist, nutcases, and thiefs. Jury is still out on drug addicts
Jerrie

I don’t think it’s the videos. It has to do with the parents who raise there kids. My brother, sister, and I were raised by my grandparents. Nice home, God was instilled in us all had the same upbringing. My sister had her son at 19 and is lazy as heel. My brother is 18 didn’t graduate from college but still went and git his G.E.D. and is lazy as hell also. I graduated on time, is still a virgin. I was always the one who was made to clean, if you asked either one of them, they got little attitudes. How is that?
FloridaChick813

Men can def. be h0es. Matter of fact, I know more man wh0res, then woman wh0res
Al-Ameera

Wow, was another 6 year old holding the camera and taping this?

Like really, did an adult think this was ok to tape and then distribute online?
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@FLO
Girl you prolly do and you need to either bless your house you can walk around saying a prayer in every room or tell them damn spirits to leave OMG I hate that feeling like you know something is there but can’t see it-
What’s been happening
Divinebrown

Sincerly,
Hater-of- dumb bit-ches!!!
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PERFECT ENDING!!!!! I HATE EM ALLLLLLLL!!!!!
SangriaSugar

@GG

Heeeeyyyy GG and His
His_Mommy623

@Flo

why yo crib haunted bew? do u need me to exorcise the demons chile?
FloridaChick813

@Mirs, nothing major. A few noises when im sleeping at night. One night sounded like some bamming on the door. I was too scared to get up and see what it was Then last night the cable box in our room just happen to turn off at 3am. and u know when you turn off a tv, how it makes like a click noise? Thats what it did. Then when I woke up at 6, it was back on. And the remote was on the dresser, so IDK about that one

I scared
Nika405

@Flo I was done with her when she said if a man couldn’t accept how her house looks she didn’t need to be with him WTF? If you have to move a big azz pile of clothes to bump uglies you need to be alone.
Man, I just don’t care™

@MIRS MOMMY
Let me ask you something. Tell me what you think if you heard the following.

Two females talking:
“Girl, that bytch over there a hoe. I saw her with Rodney last week and now she with Michael.”

Two males talking:
“Dawg, that nigga over there a hoe. I saw him with Becky last week and now he with Susan.”
His_Mommy623

Hey shexay Sangria!!!

@Crz..shame on it! I have some loose booty heffas running round the family reunion. makes me so sad for their va-jayjays!
missy

How can a Man not be a hoe???????? … really?????? …

So if you have 10 baby mothers he’s the man

but If she has 10 baby daddy’s she’s a hoe

0_o …okay we all have a right to our own opinions… but i still believe a hoe is a hoe is a hoe no matter what gender you are….

@ggouch- ..I was thinking that but i didn’t want to take the convo in that direction but well stated
FloridaChick813

I thankfully don’t have any hoes in my family (I hope I’m not THE hoe and don’t know it) but I do have con artist, nutcases, and thiefs. Jury is still out on drug addicts

LMAOO!!!!!!!
mirsmommy

FloridaChick813 says:

@Mirs, nothing major. A few noises when im sleeping at night. One night sounded like some bamming on the door. I was too scared to get up and see what it was Then last night the cable box in our room just happen to turn off at 3am. and u know when you turn off a tv, how it makes like a click noise? Thats what it did. Then when I woke up at 6, it was back on. And the remote was on the dresser, so IDK about that one

I scared
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Oh sh!t. Has lil man experienced anything????
Man, I just don’t care™

@MAMACITA
“I missed the memo where walking across a set in a thong and 5 in heels became a profession. My bad. If that’s all a person wants to be in life that’s just sad! When that azz, that stomach is nolonger flat, and those breast start to sag what are they gonna do then? I guess once they get played out that’s when they get pregnant by a NBA of NFL player so they can maintain.”
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Yeah, you need to request that memo again cause it’s the oldest profession.

Ain’t goin nowhere, will be here longer than morticians and tax collectors.
lakercrazy

ok i cant see the video but just by the commennts i know this mama needs an azz beating of her life i would beat the child beat the ignorant mama that thinks its cute she aint gonna think its cute wen lil girl come out preg or stds later in life some chit she on fo real!!!
FloridaChick813

Thanks Choco. @Free said the same thing. I’m also going to ask my pastor to come and pray over the house.
lakercrazy

**wouldnt**
crzasallgetout

Wow, was another 6 year old holding the camera and taping this

I truly hope it wasn’t an adult. The nasty looking room was throwing me off from the little girl. Is that a sheet being used curtains?? j/k
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@FLO
Girl if you can do some research on the home to see what the history is and you def have another some other forces in there- 3 and 6 those numbers are affiliated with evil so that right there to me is saying alot – you need to make it leave if you can smh
FloridaChick813

Exactly @Nika!!! And my friend is the bish with a big ol’ pile of clothes in a corner somewhere with a blanket laid over it. WTF??? Like that makes it magically disappear or something
His_Mommy623

laker bew!!
lakercrazy

FloridaChick813 says:

@Mirs, nothing major. A few noises when im sleeping at night. One night sounded like some bamming on the door. I was too scared to get up and see what it was Then last night the cable box in our room just happen to turn off at 3am. and u know when you turn off a tv, how it makes like a click noise? Thats what it did. Then when I woke up at 6, it was back on. And the remote was on the dresser, so IDK about that one

I scared
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i be scared too but yes get ur pastor to bless your home
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@FLO
The pastor may help but I think you need to control it also some spirits get attached to one person feel me-
Man, I just don’t care™

@MISSY
“How can a Man not be a hoe???????? … really?????? …

So if you have 10 baby mothers he’s the man

but If she has 10 baby daddy’s she’s a hoe

0_o …okay we all have a right to our own opinions… but i still believe a hoe is a hoe is a hoe no matter what gender you are….
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YALL WILDIN OUT IN DIS BYTCH OF FRIDAY!

I guess niggas should be wearin “chasity belts” and gettin “promise rings” and chit too!

Yall musta been before loggin on today!
lakercrazy

@his hey sexy mamas how u doing to #teamfatmonkey yes i said it HEEEEEEEEEEYYYYYY YALLLL
crzasallgetout

thiefs=thieves
mirsmommy

@ Man,

If a man is just as loose with his peen, as a woman is with her puss, then IMO, they are indeed HOES….

Nicca’s peen can’t even stand at attention at the age of 30, cuz it’s been introduced to too many cooches.

Heffas puzzys so stretched and worn, could prolly slide a couch up in there.
FloridaChick813

@Mirs, lil man hasnt experienced anything I dont believe. But he is terrified at night time to go to sleep. He says he’s scared somebody’s is gonna come up the stairs. I mean, in our last apartment he always said he was scared, but he never sounded as terrified as he does now. So I’ve been laying down with him til he falls asleep :/
His_Mommy623

lmaooo@Flo

my wack ass sister be doing that chit…like how u 34 yrs old stashing clothes under the bed n chit all while pulling out fresh vickies 2 get your fugg on? I hate nasty ass women….
lakercrazy

@man its sad but true a man can do his dirt and be a pim or a playa but a woman does the same and she a hoe oh well we can only blame ourselfs for this chit cuz i know the main ones calling eachother hoes is females
OutsidetheBox

@His to the Nick Hotel (its their fav. ) We only been 10 times already! LOL Their an easy to please crowd tho.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

his hey sexy mamas how u doing to #teamfatmonkey yes i said it HEEEEEEEEEEYYYYYY YALLLL
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HEEEEEYYYYYY :wave: and
missy

@crzas-you have no hoes in your family ..I have a group of cousins (who are all sisters) ..are all hoes..their mother pimped them out so they could get one night in a hotel for free and she parties with her kids….and they were so proud of doing this they told everyone what they were doing (SMH)

Their mother married into the family but she was a hoe before they were born but my uncle (Rest his soul) stayed with her until he died….
OutsidetheBox

They are* Apologies#
crzasallgetout

@ missy
Please don’t entertain Man. lol.
His_Mommy623

@Laker

TeamFatMonkey!!

where Free ass at?!
SoBlessed

I am from California, rep the Bay area, single, 2kids, & I stan hard for Plies, Monica, & Lil Boosie
Man, I just don’t care™

@LAKERCRAZY
“its sad but true a man can do his dirt and be a pim or a playa but a woman does the same and she a hoe oh well we can only blame ourselfs for this chit cuz i know the main ones calling eachother hoes is females”
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His_Mommy623

@otbizzle

ok! *packing* lmao
T.Y’z Cha Cha

SOOOOOOOOO many contradictions SOOOOOOOOO Little Time

the same ones that was defending hitting children and shyt in the other post are saying how they would beat the shyt out of their daughter in this one!

NEW DRINK… I mean
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

crzasallgetout says:

Could we even say the mother was a failure if she did GROW UP AND BE A HOE? WHAT IS the definition of a HOE?

*I’ll wait cause I know there’s some hoes in this house, there’s some hoes in this house, there’s some hoes in this house

Shut up Divine PLEASE!!!! My sister hated that song. She said dumb women would be clapping like fools
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(head bowed in shame) That’s my jam. I started dancing in my chair and even sung it as I was reading it.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

I mean, in our last apartment he always said he was scared, but he never sounded as terrified as he does now. So I’ve been laying down with him til he falls asleep
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Girl that is sad I hope you get your home cleansed but damn FLO sometimes them things don’t go away
FloridaChick813

Heeyyy Laker!!!!!

#TeamFatMonkey
T.Y’z Cha Cha

@ SoBlessed says:

TEAM CALI GIRLS
Divinebrown

so the discussion is men CAN’T BE HOES????

OH YES THE HAIL THEY CAN…

They just dont have the same repercussions that we do. When a man is hoe, women will still fight to the death over them. That’s usually when cheating becomes the other woman’s fault.

When a woman is a hoe….she’s unwife-able according most people. Being a hoe is a STIGMA that stics to a woman for the rest of her life. Even when she gets married has kids and is baptized in the name of Jesus. How man times do we say “GIRRRLLLL, IS THAT MONIQUE? SOMEONE MARRIED HER TRICK ASS? We never say that in regards to men.
OutsidetheBox

@man its sad but true a man can do his dirt and be a pim or a playa but a woman does the same and she a hoe oh well we can only blame ourselfs for this chit cuz i know the main ones calling eachother hoes is females
crzasallgetout

@ Mirs
@ Missy
Really? A hoe family? How old are your cousins?
Man, I just don’t care™

@MIRS MOMMY
“If a man is just as loose with his peen, as a woman is with her puss, then IMO, they are indeed HOES….

Nicca’s peen can’t even stand at attention at the age of 30, cuz it’s been introduced to too many cooches.

Heffas puzzys so stretched and worn, could prolly slide a couch up in there.”
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Yeah, I’m sure men all over the planet are they don’t introduce their peen to “too many cooches.”

LOL.
*nigga prolly stick a name tag on their to help the “introduction”*
His_Mommy623

@Missy

crz is awfully lucky…my niece just turned 21 and she has no shame with her hoshyt…and Im one of those relatives who tries to talk sense into the family birds but they start stressing me out and I have 2 cut em off…thats chits NOT cute
pointhimout

well, i didn’t make it past 9 seconds, ya know, when she turned to face the camera, still girating. nope, can’t do it. the person behind the camera need their ass whooped and definitely for posting this video anywhere.

what happened to the days when mom’s would snatch their daughters up for dancing like this? that song is completely inappropriate for anyone this young to listen to. sad.
MsMia

Hello, Everyone. I’m new to posting on S.R. I hope all of you are well. =)

I’m kind of glad I cant see the video SMH from the comments I dont think I want to see it. :\
FloridaChick813

@Choco, thanks for the info. Im googling now but cant come up with anything. But now you got me interested in this 3 & 6 thing :/
lakercrazy

@divine my point exacly WE as WOMEN do it to ourselfs 99% of the time We are the ones calling each other hoes and chit but we treat men like they aint did chit wrong
free

18 cheeks8683 says: when i was little my momma would not even let us watch mtv…me and my sister tried to sneek and watch it (that was back in the cable box days where u had to get up and walk to the tv set and change the channel) and we could not change the channel in time before my momma walked in…She saw Madonna’s “Like a Prayer” video and the cable was shut off the next day!

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lol! the 80s were a FOOL! my parents were like this with HBO. i tried to turn the volume down but i could never catch the first part where it blared “NOT SUITABLE FOR CHILDREN”. they would come out of their room, turn the tv off, and send me to bed.
His_Mommy623

@Cha Cha

I dnt know who typed what, but I’m #TeamFuggYaKidsUp all day…but thats the old school in me lmao
Man, I just don’t care™

@DIVINE
“so the discussion is men CAN’T BE HOES????

OH YES THE HAIL THEY CAN…

They just dont have the same repercussions that we do. When a man is hoe, women will still fight to the death over them. That’s usually when cheating becomes the other woman’s fault.

When a woman is a hoe….she’s unwife-able according most people. Being a hoe is a STIGMA that stics to a woman for the rest of her life. Even when she gets married has kids and is baptized in the name of Jesus. How man times do we say “GIRRRLLLL, IS THAT MONIQUE? SOMEONE MARRIED HER TRICK ASS? We never say that in regards to men.”
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Chit, if anything, the MORE puzzy a man gets, the more women want him!

“Hoe is a term women seek to avoid and a term men seek to achieve.”
FloridaChick813

@OTB, my lil man and nephew LOVE the Nick hotel And there is soooo much to do there, thats all they need
crzasallgetout

Damn Divine didn’t I tell you to be quiet!!! “GIRRRLLLL, IS THAT MONIQUE? SOMEONE MARRIED HER TRICK ASS?
chase

I have hoes in my family and a few of my friends were big time hoes..

My mom told me that back in her hay day b4 HIV/AIDS she would sleep w/ 3 or 4 men in a night.
OutsidetheBox

#TeamFuggYaKidsUp

*snaps belt in the air*

*cracks knuckles; warms hands*
lakercrazy

at all the newbies HEEEEEEEEEEEYYYYY YAAALLL and please provide id to @man for age verification we be havin rater r convos sometimes lol
missy

@crzas and his – everyone tried to help them get their lives together but they wanted to be hoe’s ..they cause a lot of drama so we just let go and let God..

but they range from 23-30 ….
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

Hey FAM!! Hey Mommy!!! Hey SS!!! OTB!!! what’s up ma!! I see you in her raising the controversy!! (that shit is sexy)…

Hey civil and Man!! HEY to my hometown homegirl LAKER!!!
lakercrazy

*rated* dam i cant never spell chit right
His_Mommy623

@Laker

its because btchs are all the wayyyyyyy screwed up. a female will defend a nigga (esp HER nigga) before she defends another female. I see this chit firsthand with the cluckers in my fam!
https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

His_Mommy623 says:

@Missy

crz is awfully lucky…my niece just turned 21 and she has no shame with her hoshyt…and Im one of those relatives who tries to talk sense into the family birds but they start stressing me out and I have 2 cut em off…thats chits NOT cute
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I’m having that same problem. It’s like these young women today are so into doing hoesht that they can’t even understand being respectable. :/
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

Whether her mom is 15 or 25, she knows that the dancing is too provocative. BUT she has allowed HER child to do it.

WTH that got to do with the rest of us that gave birth at a “socially unacceptable” age, I DON’T KNOW.

#petpeeve

NEWSFLASH: women have been having babies since the beginning of time…..

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DATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

@FLO
3 and 6 can also be affiliated with the witching hour – if there was a murder in your home and that spirit hasn’t gone to the light tell it too-TRUE STORY My sis friend bought a condo in DC and we went to see it as soon as I walked in there I couldn’t breathe like I felt like my air was getting cut off so I told her friend someone died in here and he looked at me crazy like how do you know and I was like cuz his spirit is still here and he does not want us here- and he was like a man died of a heartattack in here- the nigga sold his condo-I kept telln him that spirit does not want you here I left cuz I couldn’t breathe well we all did…
Jerrie

@ OTB: She was in my room watching the monique show and I was sitting at my computer desk, so she could see what I was doing. She must’ve died! LOL
crzasallgetout

@ his & Missy
My family is small so I’m only speaking on the peeps I know. My mom is an only child so no aunts or uncles for me. So no hoes as far as my sisters go.Hell out of four girls only one has had a kid and I’m the only one married. No brothers.
Divinebrown

@laker…….EXACTLY!!!!!! It will never change either. I”m guilty of it myself. MEN LOVE HOES!!!!! LOVE EM! They just dont marry them.

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Man says,

Chit, if anything, the MORE puzzy a man gets, the more women want him!

“Hoe is a term women seek to avoid and a term men seek to achieve.”

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BOYYYYYYYYY YOU ARE PREACHIN UP IN HERE TODAY!!!!!!!!!!! TELL IT!!

Bishes think FAT MEAT AINT GREASY until they’re the ones stuck on stoooopid!
lakercrazy

@gg hey honey INGLEWOOOOOOOOOD lol ***** giving gg the original mex wus up tilting head all the way back giving u that look like a homie****
FreeToSpeakUp

@ Laker

Oh, BTW a “hoe” in my opinion is a woman who sleeps around (intercourse/oral) with multiple men/women. I know chicks who had had sex with 20 different people by age 18. Getting paid for sex is being a trick <—- Cafe con Leche
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

Hey renegade, HIS, FLO & OTB

This a disgrace anyone defending this hmmm no comment……..
I wish my daughter would and she is 16… I will beat the breaks off her and then call the police and tell them i did it…..
His_Mommy623

Hey My Gouch bew!!

@Otb

so u feel me I had to loosen my sons neck on his shoulders last night! lil nigglet gna mumble under his breath after I told him to do something and then…THEN lied in my face about mumbling. So I politely gave him something he could feel upside the head…I dnt do disrespect from a mufugga who I had 2 get all of 27 stitches to push out…psh
OutsidetheBox

@Flo. Exactly. Thats why I dont complain.

I will be pool side while they are getting crazy.
missy

If you turn your life around i will refrain from calling you a hoe ..because we all can change .
SuthernBelle4

women being hoes and men not being hoes- bish that’s patriarchy at work
#anybodycanpartakeinthehoshytitisnotlimitedtowomen
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

To add onto that he sold his condo after experiencing strange things…
His_Mommy623

@Snootayyyy Hola mama! how u been?
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

@BIRD
“Women being rewarded for their physical attributes is as natural as the sun rising.
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What’s the reward? You know they don’t make any money right? You know the artists and their boys screw em and toss em aside right? What is the reward a video vixen is getting? At least strippers and porn stars get paid. Video vixens ain’t getting nothing but a tore up kitty cat and even lower self esteem in most cases. Would you wife a video vixen who has been ran through buy legions of rappers. Is Karrine Stephens wife material.

Is it possible that you ment to say women have always gotten attention for their physical attributes? Or is it that you think attention is a tangible reward?”
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Well, if you are asking what’s the “reward” specifically about video vixens, they get paid for putting on some booty shorts and wearing it on film. Are they world famous respected millionaires? No. Are they paid for their physical attributes? Yes.

And yes, women have always, and will always, get attention for their physical attributes. They CAN turn that into something tangible, but in and of itself it is not tangible.
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Aight I get where you are coming from, but in case you didn’t know video vixens make from $0 to about $1000 for a video. Buffy might have gotten the G in her day, but that is HIGHLY uncommon. Most of the time they round up chicks at the club or wherever and say “you want to be in my video?” and the reward is being in the video and not a drop of payment. Actual actresses/real models are differant of course. If you see one of them in a video you can consider it a very high budget video.
crzasallgetout

@ chase
Oh I had to let my hoe friends GO!! THey were too out there. Having other dudes pay for abortions then end up pregnant a month or two later. smh. If you’re going to be a hoe wear a condom at least. Dead hoe ain’t cute
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

HEY cutie snooty!!!! Okay I don’t feel like scrolling up to see the origin of the “HOE” topic…does anybody care to sum it up for me
FloridaChick813

Welcome MsMia
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

missy says:

If you turn your life around i will refrain from calling you a hoe ..because we all can change
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LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
mirsmommy

His_Mommy623 says:

@Cha Cha

I dnt know who typed what, but I’m #TeamFuggYaKidsUp all day…but thats the old school in me lmao
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I soooooo . Sh!t, I had to hand out a few azz whoopins yesterday. Good ones too. The ki nd when you whoop the kids so good, they azzes go right to sleep.
#knockout
FloridaChick813

Snnnoooootttaaayyyyyy Heyyy booo!!!!!!!

@OTB, girl you shouldve told me sooner. The kids could be off raising h3ll and we could be chillin poolside with our drinks LOL
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Yeah I had to let a hoe friend go to she was ghetto and a undercover hoe actin like she not but getting pregnant by some random fuk hell no GROSS! Not to mention other things telln niggas how juicy her box is and then get offended when all he wanna do is FUK GTFOH – I cut her waayyyy back
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Snooty
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

right to sleep.
#knockout
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missy

@crzas-oh you have a small family ..my mom has 11 siblings (all have the same mother and father) …they didn’t have any T.V. back in the day so I guess baby making was how they kept busy lol
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

mirsmommy says:

I soooooo . Sh!t, I had to hand out a few azz whoopins yesterday. Good ones too. The ki nd when you whoop the kids so good, they azzes go right to sleep.
#knockout
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I just choked on a damn edamame pod!!!!
chase

crzasallgetout says:

@ chase
Oh I had to let my hoe friends GO!! THey were too out there. Having other dudes pay for abortions then end up pregnant a month or two later. smh. If you’re going to be a hoe wear a condom at least. Dead hoe ain’t cute
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Sounds like my friends, and that is the same reason why I let mine go to. One waited till 6 or 7 months to get an abortion and that was her 6th or 7th one. When she was ready to finally have a family she had a still birth and her life has not been right since…
His_Mommy623

@mirs

yessssss grl…WHOOP DEM KIDS!!!

I got old school on my son, he’s in here right now writing a cool 500 times how he will not lie to his mommy! I cant stand that lying that shyt!
FloridaChick813

@Mirs #260

Now you KNOW its a good a$$ whippin when they go right to sleep.. And sleep all through the night

Its funny to me cause apparently im “evil mommy” – but then he’ll say “but I love you though”
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

chase says:

I have hoes in my family and a few of my friends were big time hoes..

My mom told me that back in her hay day b4 HIV/AIDS she would sleep w/ 3 or 4 men in a night.
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Damn, I was about to convess to being a hoe in my day, but sheeeeeeet, if that’s the definition I was a prude. I don’t judge young hoes because it can be a phase for most. Until we figure out that it’s dumb to be giving the booty away to people solely because they’re fine or make a lot of money.
crzasallgetout

@ missy
dang 11 yeah out of all those people a hoe was bound to be in the bunch. LOL. I wish I had aunts and uncles though. THen to make matters worse, I married a guy that has a small family too. Crap does his alcholic, drug addict aunt count for me??
His_Mommy623

-that…my bad
Man, I just don’t care™

@BIRD
“Aight I get where you are coming from, but in case you didn’t know video vixens make from $0 to about $1000 for a video. Buffy might have gotten the G in her day, but that is HIGHLY uncommon. Most of the time they round up chicks at the club or wherever and say “you want to be in my video?” and the reward is being in the video and not a drop of payment. Actual actresses/real models are differant of course. If you see one of them in a video you can consider it a very high budget video.”
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Yes, I’m aware of that. But even if she don’t get a DIME, she gettin exposure, which could result into something else.
Amber Rose, Malia, etc.

**recalling**
In College telling them hoes me and my friend was shootin a “video” *evil laugh*
lakercrazy

@his dammm girl old skool and chit lol do it mama do it
Man, I just don’t care™

@SOUTHERN BELLE
“women being hoes and men not being hoes- bish that’s patriarchy at work”
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Naw, that’s common sense at work.
FloridaChick813

Im in agreeance with Bird. I believe its a fase for most females. For instance, between the ages in 21-23, I was a lil “off the chain”
OutsidetheBox

Ohhhh chit its thick in this thang!

Snotttttttttttayyyyyyy! Ggggggggg Brickhouse bound!!!!!
crzasallgetout

When she was ready to finally have a family she had a still birth and her life has not been right since…

I don’t judge young hoes because it can be a phase for most. Until we figure out that it’s dumb to be giving the booty away
Divinebrown

Being a hoe is about Standards, convictions, and consciousness. In my opinion, I’m just wired to think that way.

If you are sleeping with a married man right now and you know it…YOU’RE A PHUCKIN WHORE IN MY BOOK. And aint no exchange of money involved in that! Anytime you can sleep with someone without even considering whose life you may be affecting…YOU’S A HOOOOOOEEE *HOOOOOOOOOOEEEEEEE*

If you are sleeping with someone’s boyfriend….YOU’RE A WHORE TOO!! Being a hoe/whore is about a MINDSET.

*SORRY FOR THE USE OF STRONG LANGUAGE…*
OutsidetheBox

@Flo we are not going until Sept 24.
His_Mommy623

@laker

I know he hates my very existence right now when my mom used 2 make me write like that, i turned into the kids Martin was talking bout on his stand up!

I’d be right in my room tom’bout btch btch btch ho, bu bu bu bu btch btch ho! all my btchs say hoooo! she caught me one time and tore my face up with that wet dish rag my mother was good for a sneak attack with a wet soapy dish rag…smh
Man, I just don’t care™

¿¿¿ ???

I know cot-dayum well ain’t no body say they “stan” for PLIES, M NICA AND BOOTSIE!
missy

@crzas-Yeah I guess that counts lol ..but a small family is good … less drama …..
http://oneperfectassistant.com ggouch

My momma said you are not a HOE!!! UNTIL EVERYBODY KNOWS YOUR F*UCK BUSINESS. When I asked why: She said. A hoe is a label someone else gives you, you don’t typically give it to yourself.
Divinebrown

i typed this wonderful definition of MAN WHORES AND ACCIDENTLY HIT THE BACK BUTTON…..

DAMN IT ALL TO HAIL…

Man whore is an ex of mine. #that is all…
OutsidetheBox

Yes they did @Man. I bout died. Stop hating. Kobe ole crayon eating ass.
crzasallgetout

Divine
Man, I just don’t care™

“Im in agreeance with Bird. I believe its a fase for most females.”-Florida Chick
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God bless the hoe phase! May it prosper and be long lasting!
OutsidetheBox

I like that @Gg. It goes along with Divine’s theory of hoe as a mindset.
mirsmommy

His_Mommy623 says:

@mirs

yessssss grl…WHOOP DEM KIDS!!!

I got old school on my son, he’s in here right now writing a cool 500 times how he will not lie to his mommy! I cant stand that lying that shyt!
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I know that’s right, I can’t stand that lyin sh!t neither. My son had the nerve to reach for my face. It was game time for me.

#iwillfluckakidup

I held his azz up by one hand, and tore that azz up!!!!!! His lil azz was spinnin and chit, but I had the Kung-Fu grip on dat azz.
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

Snotttttttttttayyyyyyy
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Why are you calling that lady snotty and NOT snooty?!?!?!?!?!
http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

Yes, I’m aware of that. But even if she don’t get a DIME, she gettin exposure, which could result into something else.
Amber Rose, Malia, etc.

**recalling**
In College telling them hoes me and my friend was shootin a “video” *evil laugh*
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Amber has “it”. Not everyone does. It’s about more than looks with her. Still she doesn’t even have the brains to pimp it to the fullest and her 15 minutes is coming to a rapid end and she’ll be back on the pole. And I’m kinda mad at you for the fake director/producer act you perpetrated on the chickens. Why you gotta take advantage of the afflicted?
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

all my btchs say hoooo! she caught me one time and tore my face up with that wet dish rag my mother was good for a sneak attack with a wet soapy dish rag…smh
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Man, I just don’t care™

Beating kids is wrong.
lakercrazy

@his hey u got the wet rag i usually got the dam “chancla” sandle or watever shoe was in her reach well watever was in her dam reach she hit me with i swear my mama would have been a good pitcher every time she did not miss she could be around the corner and im in the room she still caught my azz
His_Mommy623

@ the kung fu grip
mirsmommy

FreeToSpeakUp says:

OutsidetheBox says:

Snotttttttttttayyyyyyy
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Why are you calling that lady snotty and NOT snooty?!?!?!?!?!
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FloridaChick813

@OTB (in my kiddie voice) OOooOoooOoo can we go??? Can we go????
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

My son had the nerve to reach for my face. It was game time for me.

#iwillfluckakidup

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tell more yall
crzasallgetout

but a small family is good … less drama …..

@ Missy I soooo wish that were true.
OutsidetheBox

Hush @Free.

These damn Tiny nail bar nails. LOL
MsMia

@FloridaChick813 Thanks =)
mirsmommy

lakercrazy says:

@his hey u got the wet rag i usually got the dam “chancla” sandle or watever shoe was in her reach well watever was in her dam reach she hit me with i swear my mama would have been a good pitcher every time she did not miss she could be around the corner and im in the room she still caught my azz
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I just knew my Mama was the only one that could do that ish!!! I be upstairs in the bed, and a damn shoe will come flyin in that bish. Moms could launch the ish outta damn object within arms reach.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

good pitcher every time she did not miss she could be around the corner and im in the room she still caught my azz
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lakercrazy

*****in my best bearnie mac voice*** i fuk a kid up i swear to god and no dam milk and cooookies!!!!
FloridaChick813

I’d be right in my room tom’bout btch btch btch ho, bu bu bu bu btch btch ho! all my btchs say hoooo! she caught me one time and tore my face up with that wet dish rag

@His

Got that boy writing rules and sh.it. I do the same thing though. You dont wanna listen?? Write your ABC’s 100 times and I bet you’ll listen then!
His_Mommy623

@Laker

grl my mother would wait til I was deep in a good nickelodean show and slap the chittttt outta me for some slick chit I did hours ago. heffa was queen of backhands…hell, my face didnt even start stinging til 5 mins after she slapped my ass
OutsidetheBox

Yeah @Flo. Join us!

My kids made me promise on someone else not going tho

Them: “Ma, yo manfriend and his kids, they cant go…”
Man, I just don’t care™

@OTB
““Ma, yo manfriend and his kids, they cant go…”
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How many kids he got?
What did he say?
mirsmommy

I swear my Moms could turn anything into an azz whoopin weapon. Extension cord, flat shoe, hand, belt, hanger, switch, tree branch, twig, etc.
His_Mommy623

lmaooo@Flo

a hundred times was 5yrs ago…we start at 400 or better round hea…i’m tryna give niggas carpal tunnel up in hea!
OutsidetheBox

Beating kids is wrong.

Nigga please.
mirsmommy

OutsidetheBox says:

Yeah @Flo. Join us!

My kids made me promise on someone else not going tho

Them: “Ma, yo manfriend and his kids, they cant go…”
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Oh sh!t. He must have some bad azz kids, huh???
His_Mommy623

thats fugged up Flo and OTB dnt wanna take me with them!! *whispers* hoes..
OutsidetheBox

@Man. He has 5 kids.

And I didnt tell him they said it, I was just like this is something I want to do with the kids alone.. :/
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

Hush @Free.

These damn Tiny nail bar nails. LOL
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Chile boo, when YOU went to the “A”? Keisha do the same thing down here
FloridaChick813

LMAO @OTB – your kids sound like my son. Talkin about “can it just be us??? Why does HE have to go?”
Man, I just don’t care™

@OTB
“Beating kids is wrong.”
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Nigga please.
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Einstein, Bill Gates, Obama… they weren’t beat as children. But serial killers usually are.
OutsidetheBox

@mirs they are well-behaved but they are older and boys, so my kids dont like being the “babies”

His…you know you can go. You know imma need something to do.

#backsliding
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

His…you know you can go. You know imma need something to do.

#backsliding
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#HOESHYT
OutsidetheBox

So what @Man?

Plenty of successful people are. And I would also like to point out that plenty of serial killers arent beat either.

No formula nigga.
FloridaChick813

@His

Girl my baby is 6, so 100 times for him is TORTURE!
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Let me make sure I say I KID…
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Wait that’s #FAKELESBIANSHYT
crzasallgetout

And I would also like to point out that plenty of serial killers arent beat either
OutsidetheBox

#again HUSH FREE!

I was referencing the ghetto-look of the nails. A white girl named Heidi here actually did ’em for me. But she keep a lot of Black in her so
Man, I just don’t care™

@OTB
“So what @Man?

Plenty of successful people are. And I would also like to point out that plenty of serial killers arent beat either.

No formula nigga.”
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The most successful of the successful usually arne’t. And it has been proven time and again that violent offenders are usually beaten as children.

#learnfrompatternsandchit
FreeToSpeakUp

Beat the kid with a phonebook, no marks left
His_Mommy623

@Otb

pls backslide on me

@Free
heffa! I dun spoke to ur ass in the other post! I’m all kinds of offended!
missy

@crzas- 0_O WHAT!!!! you still have plenty drama ..well their goes my hope for wanting a smaller family lol ….
His_Mommy623

*kicks Choco* lmaooo
FreeToSpeakUp

Man, I just don’t care™ says:

@OTB
“So what @Man?

Plenty of successful people are. And I would also like to point out that plenty of serial killers arent beat either.

No formula nigga.”
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The most successful of the successful usually arne’t. And it has been proven time and again that violent offenders are usually beaten as children.

#learnfrompatternsandchit

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No Man, they are usually ABUSED. There IS a difference

#knowledgeispower
OutsidetheBox

@Chco.
FreeToSpeakUp

His_Mommy623 says:

@Otb

pls backslide on me

@Free
heffa! I dun spoke to ur ass in the other post! I’m all kinds of offended!
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I’m shawrrryyy…Didn’t see it
His_Mommy623

lmao@Ya’ll paying mans crazy ass any attention…he just be typing to see his own font!
FloridaChick813

A white girl named Heidi here actually did ‘em for me. But she keep a lot of Black in her so

LMFAOOO!!!!!!!
FreeToSpeakUp

OutsidetheBox says:

#again HUSH FREE!

I was referencing the ghetto-look of the nails. A white girl named Heidi here actually did ‘em for me. But she keep a lot of Black in her so
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You sure the chick named Heidi and not something that makes reference to sunshine? *sideeye @ Flo*
His_Mommy623

ok@Free
I forgive u bew lol
OutsidetheBox

Man I get it. You know I have to fluck withyou but yeah I get it and I still use whoopings as punishment.

Honestly, whoopings/beatings are rare…cause dont nobody want it with Ma like that.

I think my children have come to understand what will get them flucked up and what will get them timeout or softer reprimands.

I learnt they ass real quick.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Ya’ll paying mans crazy ass any attention…he just be typing to see his own font!
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Not today I think Big girl must’ve put a root on him his mind is going in every wrong direction
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

Hey @HIS preparing for school on MOnday bbbooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!

HI CHOCO

Hey bew GG.. How are you on this lovely friday?

I will not be on as much since school starts back on MOnday.. I have to keep my 3.87 GPA
OutsidetheBox

@Free @Flo
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

@Devine Brown:
Being a hoe is about Standards, convictions, and consciousness. In my opinion, I’m just wired to think that way.
If you are sleeping with a married man right now and you know it…YOU’RE A PHUCKIN WHORE IN MY BOOK. And aint no exchange of money involved in that! Anytime you can sleep with someone without even considering whose life you may be affecting…YOU’S A HOOOOOOEEE *HOOOOOOOOOOEEEEEEE*
If you are sleeping with someone’s boyfriend….YOU’RE A WHORE TOO!! Being a hoe/whore is about a MINDSET.
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I agree with this in its entirety
FloridaChick813

@Free

Shut up bish!!!! (even though I do go IN on some nails) My sh.it is FRESH
Man, I just don’t care™

@FREE
“The most successful of the successful usually arne’t. And it has been proven time and again that violent offenders are usually beaten as children.

#learnfrompatternsandchit

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No Man, they are usually ABUSED. There IS a difference

#knowledgeispower”
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Yes, there is a difference, but it is a fine line.
Why risk it?

#youcantrainadogwithoutbeatingit
#yourchildisoutsmartingyou
#becreativewithpunishment
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

OTB.. I am SNOOOOOOOTTTTTTTTTTYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
FreeToSpeakUp

I couldn’t help it!
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

I still love you though I e-heart you OTB
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

I will not be on as much since school starts back on MOnday.. I have to keep my 3.87 GPA
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Do the damn thing boo
FloridaChick813

with OTB

Lil man doesnt want it with mama either He knows the line and knows not to cross it, but sommmmeeetttiiimmmeeessssss I get on that as.s. For instance last night he said he took a bath, I said “no, you played in the water, now wash that nasty a$$”… I could cleary see the dry soap on the soap holder. He kept lying, so I tapped that a$$ 2-3 times, and he politely washed that a$$
Man, I just don’t care™

@SNOOTY
“I will not be on as much since school starts back on MOnday.. I have to keep my 3.87 GPA”
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Nerd.
FloridaChick813

:wails: @Snooty

(in my tank voice) PPLLLEEAASSEEE DONT GO!!!!!! PLEEEAAASSEEE DONT GO!!!
FreeToSpeakUp

Man says:

Yes, there is a difference, but it is a fine line.
Why risk it?

#youcantrainadogwithoutbeatingit
#yourchildisoutsmartingyou
#becreativewithpunishment

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Children aren’t dogs No.1 and some people DO beat animals as punishment BTW. Parents usually use phyiscal and psychological punishments. I never said beat a child for everything. A child can only outsmart an unaware parent, so sorry.

#twostepsaheadofya
Anna

mirsmommy says:

I swear my Moms could turn anything into an azz whoopin weapon. Extension cord, flat shoe, hand, belt, hanger, switch, tree branch, twig, etc.
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Damn, was yall some bad kids that you got abused like that? My mom use to spank us w/her slipper and we were great actors and cried on cue, it never hurt.
His_Mommy623

GO HEAD Snootayyyy!!! we shall miss u bew *sigh*

awww man@Flo

my son is in his nasty lil boy stage…I have to drag that nigga in the bathroom like a caveman n chit…oh I cant wait til he loves soap again like he used 2 lmao
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

w/her slipper and we were great actors and cried on cue, it never hurt.
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memories
FloridaChick813

Uggghhhh, what is up with that??? @His

He be like “I dont need a bath today mommy, I went swimming!” Im like “IF YOU DONT GET THAT A$$ IN THE TUB……” And then their skin is all clamy and sticky. And he has the nerve to say “can I lay with you in your bed???” My response “Not til you go wash that nasty a$$, these sheets are clean boy!”

One thing I WILL NOT TOLERATE though, a grown a$$ man who has to be told to take a bath. Thats a no no
FloridaChick813

@Anna

Thats hilarious
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

One thing I WILL NOT TOLERATE though, a grown a$$ man who has to be told to take a bath. Thats a no no
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Indeed it’s a no no and I actually had to do it with the ex
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

LOL… Man hursh I have to keep it up for the masters program!!!!!!!!!!!!

@FLo.. hahahah I love the TANK reference.. I will pop in from time to time to show my love for my e-bews
http://myspace.com/mullatos SnootyPooty1

@CHOCO… Thank you..
mirsmommy

Anna says:

mirsmommy says:

I swear my Moms could turn anything into an azz whoopin weapon. Extension cord, flat shoe, hand, belt, hanger, switch, tree branch, twig, etc.
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Damn, was yall some bad kids that you got abused like that? My mom use to spank us w/her slipper and we were great actors and cried on cue, it never hurt.
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Yeah, we were bad. I kid. We weren’t bad, it was the slick talk, and mumbling that made Moms go upside our heads. Every once in a while, we were bad.
crzasallgetout

One thing I WILL NOT TOLERATE though, a grown a$$ man who has to be told to take a bath. Thats a no

I knew a dude like that. I would have to mention to him about taking a bath. Girl why one day I decide to play private eye on his butt. He was in the bathroom with the water just running. I was all on the floor trying to see what the deal was. I finally said screw it and opened up the door. Do you know this NASTY negro was sitting on the toilet(lid down mind you) with his head in his hands!!! Dude was FAKING A SHOWER. WTF. I cussed him out and told him to get the hell out.
T.Y’z Cha Cha

OutsidetheBox says:

#TeamFuggYaKidsUp

*snaps belt in the air*

*cracks knuckles; warms hands*

TA DOW ……..shuffles feet!!!!
His_Mommy623

@ crz so wrongggggg
AWESOME ARSENAL

I don’t generally whoop my kids’ azzes but that option is always on the table. I usually get em with calisthenics until I see a tear + snot mixture of a particular consistency.
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

Dude was FAKING A SHOWER. WTF. I cussed him out and told him to get the hell out.
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Damn shame he actin like he 10 and ish
http://chokolatemilk.blogspot.com Choco

cracks knuckles; warms hands*

TA DOW ……..shuffles feet!!!!

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this is taking me way back…
FreeToSpeakUp

crzasallgetout says:

One thing I WILL NOT TOLERATE though, a grown a$$ man who has to be told to take a bath. Thats a no

I knew a dude like that. I would have to mention to him about taking a bath. Girl why one day I decide to play private eye on his butt. He was in the bathroom with the water just running. I was all on the floor trying to see what the deal was. I finally said screw it and opened up the door. Do you know this NASTY negro was sitting on the toilet(lid down mind you) with his head in his hands!!! Dude was FAKING A SHOWER. WTF. I cussed him out and told him to get the hell out.
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Anna

mirsmommy says:

Anna says:

mirsmommy says:

I swear my Moms could turn anything into an azz whoopin weapon. Extension cord, flat shoe, hand, belt, hanger, switch, tree branch, twig, etc.
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Damn, was yall some bad kids that you got abused like that? My mom use to spank us w/her slipper and we were great actors and cried on cue, it never hurt.
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Yeah, we were bad. I kid. We weren’t bad, it was the slick talk, and mumbling that made Moms go upside our heads. Every once in a while, we were bad.
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As long as you knew why shoes were flying like a boomerang at you, your butt was bad and knew it. You guys weren’t smart enough to have a diff code language for talking back. “Bob Saget”.
lakercrazy

and the worst part of the azz wopin was if u knew it was coming anticipation fear hell every time i saw my mama pass by i would hear that jaws theam song and when i saw her coming i would cry on que or start runnign wich would make it worse by the time she catch me she was out of breath so she would hit me for about 2 min take a breather and member i ran and hit my azz again shoes flying wet leather belt in the air and chit
Maya_Marie

Good Afternoon SR Family!!!!

I felt sooooo dirty watching the first 9 seconds of that clip. This is so effing sad.
va_shawty

This has nothing to do with Hip Hop. This is called BAD PARENTING! A child her age shouldn’t be listening to music like that or watching music videos.
Destinee

When her parent or parents seen her do this, they should of sat her down and explained to her what she was doing was not appropriate. Not whip her, then they should of given her something appropriate for her to do with her dance. Like sending her a dance school. Kids have too much time on their hands and if you allow MTV and BET teach your child how they should carry themselves that this type of thing will happen. It is only really bad if the parent makes a REAL BIG issue out of this instead of handling it in a proper manner where the baby doesn’t feel bad, but knows it’s not right.
mirsmommy

Anna says:

mirsmommy says:

Anna says:

mirsmommy says:

I swear my Moms could turn anything into an azz whoopin weapon. Extension cord, flat shoe, hand, belt, hanger, switch, tree branch, twig, etc.
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Damn, was yall some bad kids that you got abused like that? My mom use to spank us w/her slipper and we were great actors and cried on cue, it never hurt.
________________________________________

Yeah, we were bad. I kid. We weren’t bad, it was the slick talk, and mumbling that made Moms go upside our heads. Every once in a while, we were bad.
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As long as you knew why shoes were flying like a boomerang at you, your butt was bad and knew it. You guys weren’t smart enough to have a diff code language for talking back. “Bob Saget”.
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Well, Anna, the problem was, there was a big age difference, between myself, and my older brother and sister. My brother has me by 13 yrs, and my sister has me by 12 yrs. The old losers didn’t put me onto the ins and outs of slick talkin so Mama couldn’t hear.

#frigginoldlosersleftmeouttodryandgetmyazzwhoopedalone
Anna

LOL @ Mirs. My kids are stair steps and never tattled and if one did something they all took the rap. Your siblings probably got a kick out of seeing you get in trouble. Some siblings really don’t like each other growing up. It had been them two for a dozen yrs and here you come along. They weren’t going to teach you anything. You really did have to find out the hard way. I bet you was a sassy, bossy little girl.
starr2910

stupid parent..some pedo is jackin off to this vid, as we speak..
http://sparklesayz.com sparklesayz

She looks likes she’s possessed with a sex demon. She also looks like a little midget. Maybe it’s not a kid. The baby next to her is adorable.