Coach Sued for Whipping Basketball Players With Belt
A high school coach is in hot water for whipping his basketball players with a belt for misbehavior.
A video aired by WLBT News in Jackson, MS, shows Murrah high school coach Marlon Dorsey whipping a boy as the player passively bends over to accept his punishment.
Attorney Lisa Ross calls the whippings appalling. “Teachers do not have a right to hit you,” she said in an interview with WLBT.
Dorsey and the parents of the boys met recently to discuss the beatings. Coach Dorsey later gave them a written apology. “He can’t even give me a good reason for putting his hands on my kid ’cause I don’t do it” said one outraged dad.
The boys say they didn’t report the whippings — which have been going on since September — because they feared being kicked off the basketball team.
Coach Dorsey was suspended for 28 days without pay.
Paddling students was a routine and necessary means to establish order in high schools in the 80s. Back in those days, we didn’t have guns in school, high pregnancy rates or the gang violence that plague schools today.
Still, it does seem odd that a coach is whipping boys on a basketball court Joe Jackson style.
Click link to watch the disturbing video
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None of them told because they wanted to stay on the basketball team? SMH.
Hail Nah! I wish a muthafluka wud lay hands on MINE
DIDN’T watch the Video (NOT GOING to watch that Video…)
I BLAME THEIR PARENTS because I don’t KNOW (NOT ONE…) High Schooler that would bend over AND ASSume the position for ANYBODY other than Their ELDER Blood Relatives to BE SPANKED-WHIPPED with A BELT !!!
And EVEN THEN it would have to be UNDERSTOOD that THE ELDER RELATIVE (In Question…) had the AUTHORITY & THAT Parent’s Blessings to DO SO
I am not clear as to what the CHILD did. Can anyone answer that..what did he do.
Genia says:
I am not clear as to what the CHILD did. Can anyone answer that..what did he do.
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It doesn’t say. I think the coach was “grooming” them. The coach got some kind of pleasure out of it, jmo.
Lawdddddddddddddd wtf is wrong with em’? I can’t even begin 2 tell ya what I would do if one my sons teachers even had a thought about touching my lil biscuit head child… KING KONG WONT HAVE CHIT ON ME!
When I was in elementary school some of the teacher’s use to beat us when we acted up or got answers wrong. It happened to me one time for misspelling a word, this was back in the 80′s though. I told my family and they went to the school and raised holy hail and it never happened again…
This is NUTS! Only in the South I tell you… I wish a teacher/coach would put their hands on my child (If I had one). Im upset that he wasn’t fired. 28 day suspension is nothing.
Creeeep-ay…
But some kids are out of control now a days, Sandra, maybe they should bring the paddle back.
*bats lashes* @ My Gouch
His_Mommy623 says:
Lawdddddddddddddd wtf is wrong with em’? I can’t even begin 2 tell ya what I would do if one my sons teachers even had a thought about touching my lil biscuit head child… KING KONG WONT HAVE CHIT ON ME!
In my best DenCha Washington voice MY BISH!!!
I second that!
Why is it that you never heard of school shootings back in the 50s 60s 70s or even early 80s….
I’ll wait…
I wonder if the kids called him Daddy a la Bishop Eddie Strong Soul Glo and Spandex Long
im kinda with sandra on this. parents are so protective of they bad ass kids these days that the world is spiraling out of control. the teacher cant tell the parents because they not gonna do nothing and then the kid gonna come back and disrespect his teachers and whatever they been doing. i remember back when we could get spankings in school it was no big deal. i know my parents for one said if he get out of line beat his ass. and i had a fear of getting a spanking in school so therefore i never got in trouble. and my daughter is in private school where they can spank and i extended that same permission to her teachers. long as its not excessive then im all for it. especially with the lack of 2 parent households these days it takes a village……
What exactly did these children do to warrant a spanking? Miss a layup? Fouled someone? I mean really…….
I wish a coach, teacher, SUBSTITUTE teacher would have asked me to bend over to get my ass whooped. ****, we were whoopin the teacher’s asses in high school!
@ Elove … I am shocked and so appalled. Shouldn’t have watched that video. I know sports are important to males, but yeah be encouraged to speak out on all injustice and abuse. This man was DEAD wrong.
I am a little old school on this subject>
Maybe the men can help me with this on whether they can relate to this….When my son played sports, as a team member it you did something that was counter productive to the image of the team, which was to be upstanding students academically and socially then the coach would dole out a form of punishment that was inclussive to that team…an understanding if you will. …now I don’t recall my son being hit with a belt or otherwise…but I do recall instances where he had to spend his Saturday doing yard work or something to that effect.
I guess what I am asking SPORTS teams are their own FRATERNITY, and they at times introduce their own form of punishment..could this be the case here?
I am feeling a little old school about it.
I come from a generation where your play aunt..A.K.A your neighbor could punish you as swiftly and as justly as your parent could.
FINALLY! Cocoaaa, Yvoneeee (who is a smashing dj) and my Chaaa chaaa
im soooo bored *curls up n dies*
A little off topic:
As a soon to be teacher, something needs to be placed in schools to get kids to act right, not sure what, but something. The problem is, there are no real consequences to bad behavior these days. They will tell you…”what you gonna do?? suspend me, i wanna go home anyway”. Then it doesnt help when you have parents at home that support the behavior, no matter how wrong the child is. It kills me that the parents with the worst behaved kids, are the ones so quick to point fingers and the school system, and not even try to look at what the child is doing. I think they should hold parents accountable for child behavior in the classroom(in the form of citations), because it starts at home. You shouldnt want your child being bad a school, cause it reflects your home.
Sorry Auntie for cursing! Hey boo @ His!
I am feeling a little old school about it.
I come from a generation where your play aunt..A.K.A your neighbor could punish you as swiftly and as justly as your parent could.
#this
My HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS (Running through a field of lillies with out reached arms) CAUSE I love you
@His_Mommy623: Hey sugafoot!
*gives HIS CPR…. Why is everyone starring at me like that
I want you to live is all 
Ok if you knew your child was being spanked at school is one thing, he obviously didn’t tell the parents so he was being sneaky and its wrong. I don’t care how bad some kids are it doesn’t give me or anybody else the right to put their hands on someone elses child.
*Also I know of kids who were spanked/punished whatever and they still bad as he11. You can’t convince me that spanking kids would make the world a better place.
Good point bboy, they would give us in school suspension which was HORRIBLE. If it got really ridiculous, they had a center for the bad ass children.
Cocoabana says:
Sorry Auntie for cursing! Hey boo @ His!
23-26 days and countin until our BIG HOORAH’s… We should wear matching fur jumpsuits zipped down to expose cleavage for our birthday parties
b-boy817 says:
A little off topic:
As a soon to be teacher, something needs to be placed in schools to get kids to act right, not sure what, but something. The problem is, there are no real consequences to bad behavior these days. They will tell you…”what you gonna do?? suspend me, i wanna go home anyway”. Then it doesnt help when you have parents at home that support the behavior, no matter how wrong the child is. It kills me that the parents with the worst behaved kids, are the ones so quick to point fingers and the school system, and not even try to look at what the child is doing. I think they should hold parents accountable for child behavior in the classroom(in the form of citations), because it starts at home. You shouldnt want your child being bad a school, cause it reflects your home.
November 11, 2010 at 3:12 pm
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I wholeheartedly agree with you. Corporate punishment and prayer should be put back into schools. It seems to me when these practices were taken out of schools, everything went to hell in a hand basket. Anyway, there isn’t anything in the video that suggests these boys had any types of behavioral issues that warranted discipinary action. So I will ask again, what did these boys do to warrant a spanking??
*Corporal punishment, my bad!
umm I’m all for the “it takes a village to raise child” stuff but there’s too many sick ass GROWN UPS in the world who get off on chit like this. so if ur not in my inner circle, keep ur hands off my damn child… and the fact that kinky koach was “really gonna get his ass this time” is creepy to me…but any adult in my inner circle can yank lil biscuit head up if he gets outta line…not random ass teachers. half of em only there for a damn check anyway..
ChaCha says:
Cocoabana says:
Sorry Auntie for cursing! Hey boo @ His!
23-26 days and countin until our BIG HOORAH’s… We should wear matching fur jumpsuits zipped down to expose cleavage for our birthday parties
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@BBoy…
not my 10 yr old son… ask him how deathly my stare is… ask him how many times I throated him in front of the teacher…all they gotta do is mention the first syllable of my name and my son gets act right… I cant have it, I got two brothers that were raised wrong and are convicted felons… I HAVE GOT to make sure my son knows to respect his teacher who is in a sense a 2ndparent the same way he would respect any other elder!
Danielle says:
….*Also I know of kids who were spanked/punished whatever and they still bad as he11. You can’t convince me that spanking kids would make the world a better place.
November 11, 2010 at 3:15 pm
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It’s all about knowing your child and what tactic to take to reach them. Where some children respond to spankings, others may respond when you take away certain privileges.
I bet his peen was hard everytime that belt touched they ass @ His.
@cha thank u hunney..that cpr was wonderful *fans self*
All these people who voted for these Republicans are know going to see who they are really for.
I am with @eastpointvet on this one. If more people would allow the teacher to do more than say I will call your mother, maybe we would have less of those dang hoodlums. I am not saying you should spank my kids for misspelling a word, but call me and say “your child did this” I will then say spank him and I will finish off when he gets home. I see why some people just sit back and watch other people’s children do dumb stuff in stores and on the streets and never say nothing. That is because they do not want you to say or do anything to their children, smh. We wee not raised liked this (most of us), we were raised that if anybody sees you doing something they could say something to you then personally bring you to your parent and then you would get it. Now if we try that the dumb azz parent would get mad at you for “being nosy”. We got to do better.
@ COCOA… I think Im going to have a dinner with the fam, I have no friends
but your all invited. I asked my hubby for tickets to see “Take Her Shoes Off on Stage” and a toy puppy so we will see just what I get.
@GG
When I WAS playing HS football a YT football coach would kick BOYZ in the Butt when he deemed it appropriate in practice… He said I Mis-Ran a ROUTE in practice (WHICH I Didn’t… The QB didn’t know the PLAY) and TOLD ME to ASSUME THE POSITION !!!
I was in 9th grade … I walked up to HIM and TOLD HIM that if he EVEN THOUGHT about KICKING ME that My Uncles would come up here and BEAT YO WHITE AZZ IN A COMA (Real…) He JUST LQQKED AT ME Real Funny and TOLD ME to get off of his Football Field !!!
I QUIT playing H.S. School Football THAT DAY
I am not sure what they did, but does it matter here? They are kids trying to participate in a school sport. 28 days without pay is hardly a punishment, for someone who BENT someone child over and spanked them with a BELT in this day and AGE. That is so CRAZY to me. I don’t ok that. Disciplinary guidelines exist for all school misconduct in a public/private school system. So I am sure there was an alternate route that could have been taken for whatever they “allegedly” did. This was just WRONG. Something isn’t right about this grown mad asking these boys to bend over for a spanking
You can’t make that OK …
thats what im saying @Cocoa!
Dap! Elove
umm I’m all for the “it takes a village to raise child” stuff but there’s too many sick ass GROWN UPS in the world who get off on chit like this.
and that’s how it seems, we will see what happens though.
Taking a late lunch, i’ll be back.
I hope at least one of the parents stands up and defends this man. He was a Lil extreme with the whippings but some forms of other discipline (excessive exercise and the like) have led to death. Sports is ALL about discipline, particularly team sports.
A dayum shame one the parents said they don’t discipline their own son. SMH.
Yes we all despise bad disrespectful kids but we can’t tell someone how to raise their children. I on many occasions wish I could lay hands on someone’s bad kid. I do feel sorry for teachers who have to put up with disrespectful kids with parents that enable that behavior but at the end of the day there is nothing we can do to them. You just need to make sure you raise yours correctly.
i guess my views come from seeing the difference in coming up that way and also being in the position of a teacher. most teachers are there for a check because they feel hopeless. lil booboo cant read u tell the parents they need to spend more time with them outside the classroom to develop them and the parents either get offended at you or do nothing. then since lil booboo cant read he disrupts the class but nothing can really be done to him because thats the way the system is setup now. or possible they get labeled as some sort of disorder and basically given a pass to act a fool. its nothing an ass whooping or active parents couldnt cure but sadly there are few of those these days.
The problem today is that you can’t trust anybody. We’ve had to many cases of teachers, preachers, youth leaders etc. taking advantage of children. With that in mind, I don’t trust anyone when it comes to physically disciplining my child. With that said, I make it my business to discipline mine at home. You get in trouble in school, you get clowned on at home. Keep it up and it’s gonna get ugly. I don’t agree with teachers physically doing anything to children these days. Keep your hands to yourself!
I grew up in the south off and on my whole life. Whoopings in class were new to me being from Chicago. But I did notice as a kid, the south didn’t have gang problems like up we did. They spank you for anything down there….
I don’t trust anyone when it comes to physically disciplining my child. With that said, I make it my business to discipline mine at home.
I have to do so much work today, would love to read the comments yall have on this one. Going to have to log in later, to read, cause I am sure we all have a different opinion.
So
Have a good afternoon!
Okay that is inappropriate for any adult to put their hand on any child not belonging to it
but OFFTOPIC Y did the video of the 18 yo that got killed last week load and it breaks my heart all over again to hear of it and to hear this boys mother speak on her loss….
His_Mommy623 says:
half of em only there for a damn check anyway..
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OMG…I cant stand when folks say that…I want you to just think about what you are saying. Do think teachers go to school for 4+yrs, put themselves in about 45k debt, to come out of school to make 50k(on average). I doubt most teachers are their for a paycheck…kill that mess
And ABSOLUTELY NOTHING Positive can come from ALLOWING STRANGERS to WHOMP ON YOUR CHILDREN (NOTHING…)
BAD KIDS and OUT-of-CONTROL KIDS comes from LACK of Responsible PARENTING (POINT BLANK… End of DISCUSSION…) and the EXCEPTIONS are THESE Crack-Head & HEROINE Addicted BABIES BEING BORN and THEY shouldn’t be AMONGST regular school kids ANYWAY (They NEED Special Attention & Training…)
DapisDaShizz says:
I am with @eastpointvet on this one. If more people would allow the teacher to do more than say I will call your mother, maybe we would have less of those dang hoodlums. I am not saying you should spank my kids for misspelling a word, but call me and say “your child did this” I will then say spank him and I will finish off when he gets home. I see why some people just sit back and watch other people’s children do dumb stuff in stores and on the streets and never say nothing. That is because they do not want you to say or do anything to their children, smh. We wee not raised liked this (most of us), we were raised that if anybody sees you doing something they could say something to you then personally bring you to your parent and then you would get it. Now if we try that the dumb azz parent would get mad at you for “being nosy”. We got to do better.
November 11, 2010 at 3:22 pm
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It is NOT under any circumstances the teacher’s responsibility to parent your child. Teachers do not have time to deal with student’s behavioral issues, they have to teach. Who’s gonna teach the children if everytime you turn around the teacher is beating ass? What about the children who came to school to learn and are showing interest in their sudies? Why should they be deprived for a few bad apples? PARENTS NEED TO GET ON THEIR JOB AND PARENT THEIR KIDS…
My keyboard keeps stickin!!!
kwall says:
Why is it that you never heard of school shootings back in the 50s 60s 70s or even early 80s….
I am wit you on that
Hell I got paddled and turnt out aiight
@b-boy,
ur entitled to ur opinion and im entitled to mines…so u can kill that mess…thank you =)
ChaCha says:
I HAVE GOT to make sure my son knows to respect his teacher who is in a sense a 2ndparent the same way he would respect any other elder!
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Thank you , thank you, thank you. I understands kids are gonna act up sometimes, thats being a kid. But these kids today are down right disrepectful.
<——Not really
But for real, I've learned that verbal and emotional abuse have much longer lasting affects than the occasional azz whooping.
I don't believe in kids being corporally punished outside of the family or so severely/frequently that it becomes abusive. I try to teach my kids to use their words and not their hands whenever possible.
eastpointvet says:
im kinda with sandra on this. parents are so protective of they bad ass kids these days that the world is spiraling out of control. the teacher cant tell the parents because they not gonna do nothing and then the kid gonna come back and disrespect his teachers and whatever they been doing. i remember back when we could get spankings in school it was no big deal. i know my parents for one said if he get out of line beat his ass. and i had a fear of getting a spanking in school so therefore i never got in trouble. and my daughter is in private school where they can spank and i extended that same permission to her teachers. long as its not excessive then im all for it. especially with the lack of 2 parent households these days it takes a village……
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Sandra and E..
this millennium generation are simply raised differently…no matter their status in life, whether born to parents in the hood or born to parents in the suburbs, two parents one parent..it doesn’t matter …they have this since of entitlement that my generation did not grow up with.
I am from the days of SPEAK when spoken too…if you interjected yourself into an adults conversation you were kicked in the back of the neck…If your azz wiggled a little to much you were smacked in it and labeled a fast ass little girl (in my day that was the worse thing to hear an adult refer to you as FAST)
…Kids today don’t use Sir or Ma’am the way my generation did….because parents are too busy trying to dress and or act like their children..they have omitted that basic respect from the household.
Parents are getting out here and fighting other people’s children along side their children. Then when their child beats another child to death for no reason other than child’s play…they want to ring their hands and tell the world ..”the VILLAGE” if you will, how good their child is…… in my mind I don’t want to hear it cause when your neighbor tried to tell you that lil tommy was skipping school you told that “OLE BISH” to mind her business and to not tell you about your child!!!!
If we weren’t so disconnected as a society than you would know your neighbors..you would know you child’s coach, teacher, their friend’s parents and therefore when you child stepped out of line you would have one more extention of rope to pull that child back…because you had belief and faith that that adult was a part of the team leading your child in the right directions
ChaCha says:
I wonder if the kids called him Daddy a la Bishop Eddie Strong Soul Glo and Spandex Long
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you crazy girl
Yso, seriously where do u find these damn gravis?
ur always on point 4 the occasion
Gouch that post amplified yo shexay like a muddafukkah bew!
I come from a generation where your play aunt..A.K.A your neighbor could punish you as swiftly and as justly as your parent could.
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President Carter is from the Jim Crow South…and said the black mommas from the families who sharecropped just like they did was liable to spank you if you were seen out doing wrong…just like his yt momma spanked bad lil black kids.
Now if that wasn’t punishable by law (the black momas spanking the yt kids) and wasn’t enforced that goes to show it takes a village. And an occasional paddle/swat/lash never kilt nobody.
I wish he would have hit my child!
@Genia: Do we have the same momma?
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
I hope at least one of the parents stands up and defends this man. He was a Lil extreme with the whippings but some forms of other discipline (excessive exercise and the like) have led to death. Sports is ALL about discipline, particularly team sports.
A dayum shame one the parents said they don’t discipline their own son. SMH.
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He didn’t say he didn’t discipline,
He can’t even give me a good reason for putting his hands on my kid ’cause I don’t do it” said one outraged dad.
I’m with East on this but I wanna know what the boy was being punished for. I went to Catholic school in the 80′s/90′s and those nuns could and would if necessary. Anyone watching my kids has my permission to discipline as needed just like I would and my kids don’t go with anyone I don’t trust to do so properly including teachers because we as parents do have some control over who is teaching our children and what’s being done in the classroom but too many parents don’t give a damn as long as their kid is passing. Anyway something needs to be done to make these kids respect authority, each other and themselves and the truth is that when actual discipline was being given out in the right way, kids did not have the problems they have today
@Man
Is that song in your link for Candi
ySoSerious says:
I try to teach my kids to use their words and not their hands whenever possible
Who knew ur crazy azz has kids
I bet you are the funnest madre eva 
kwall says:
Why is it that you never heard of school shootings back in the 50s 60s 70s or even early 80s….
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Because we didn’t say uh, what or yep when we spoke to an adult
Because we said Yes Sir and Yes Ma’am not just because your hair was gray but simply because you were an adult
Because if you weren’t bringing in a paycheck you didn’t have an opinion about what kinds of grocers to buy
Because when your TEACHER called home…your momma didn’t curse her out
Because you didn’t keep cursing and running your mouth in the presence of an adult.
Because your momma was not out there trying to dress like you and hang with your friends tougher than you hung with your friends.
@ His
A Gravi for all occasions.
@ Genia
I don’t know if I’ve ever said this to anyone before but you betta
I’m ol skool but when my kindergarten teacher grab my face my MOM was at that school and I was never touched again so FUK that you let me know what my child did I will discipline MY CHILD!
I’m really surprised at alot the comments. This might explain the state of young black men. If a stranger feels compelled to whoop your child you ain’t doin something right…
I dont deny that this new generation of KIDS is out of control but I also don’t deny that half of the ADULTS are out of control as well. so by no means will I agree with anyone who I dont know to place their hands on my child…thats what I’m here for. me and his father handle the discipline just like we clothe and feed him but thankfully I have raised a respectful child who knows his place and just incase he forgets, mommy is right here to knock his ass back in it..
His_Mommy623 says:
Gouch that post amplified yo shexay like a muddafukkah bew!
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AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW
….no wait I want another one 
Im with HIS there is no way I would give my child the message that it’s okay for a someone other than your parents to put their hands on them I don’t even like sibling rivalry or fights IDK play that chit I don’t like violence in my home or in my children’s lives
His_Mommy623 says:
I dont deny that this new generation of KIDS is out of control but I also don’t deny that half of the ADULTS are out of control as well. so by no means will I agree with anyone who I dont know to place their hands on my child…thats what I’m here for. me and his father handle the discipline just like we clothe and feed him but thankfully I have raised a respectful child who knows his place and just incase he forgets, mommy is right here to knock his ass back in it..
I think the coach got his rocks off beating these boys. WTH??
@Choco… Im real big on sibling rivalry. I make damn sure my kids love and support each other in all that they do…they fight and argue like a lil married couple but physically all they give is love
V103 revealed earlier this week that 70% of children born today are born to single mothers……….70%!!!!!!!!!! I believe it has a lot to do with the disconnect.
awwwwwwwwwwwww cha cha
attorneymom says:
I think the coach got his rocks off beating these boys. WTH??
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Attorney mom….I am bothered by this statement because it implies that this coach punished this child for sexual gratification….is that what you are saying?
@ Cha Cha
No kids of my own. I’m fostering two of my first cousins (their mom is my trifling azz aunt on my mother’s side.)
I’ve had them for about 3 1/2 years now and hope to adopt them by the summer of 2011.
Before that I took care of my sisters and various other cousins. So I’m not an expert but I try to pay attention to what works with what type of child.
And my kids don’t think I’m that funny cause I don’t play with they azz unless it’s Chutes and Ladders or UNO.
@ Genia … I promise we were raised in similar households, all that you said I learned and the same way I understood it I have taught to my children. Let my lil princess sit the wrong way in a chair (8 yrs) and Im on her
I like your opinions round here
back atcha!
*fondles gouch* ur sooooo my bew
Correct me if I’m wrong, the reason these kids were spanked was not presented in this clip. As a result, we want to assume the coach is a sexual predator? Is that what I’m reading?
Because when your TEACHER called home…your momma didn’t curse her out
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I used to have teaches come to MY HOUSE…word life. Not “Imma call your parents…” It was…”Imma be atcho house tonight…” And your azz be SHOOK cause you knew she won’t lying. And you sat there KNOWIN you could not intercept her…cause she would prolly be driving up the same time as your daddy…
@Yso
That is soooo beautiful of you
@Cha
Yeah girl my kids no to love and support none of the chit I was raised around
I was never paddled, nor my kids. I too am from the era when you were doing something wrong an adult would set you straight and phone your folks so you can get some more. LOL. Some kids do need a good ole fashion butt whippin’, parents are afraid of their kids, and/or want to be their friend. Keep being their friend and it will soon backfire.
FUK wrong with my spelling
yvonne79 says:
Correct me if I’m wrong, the reason these kids were spanked was not presented in this clip. As a result, we want to assume the coach is a sexual predator? Is that what I’m reading?
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Where in my post did you see the words sexual predator? The reason they were spanked is because (he said) they misbehaved.
ySoSerious says:
ummm did you say Chutes N Ladders YSOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DAMMIT TA HAIL!
ON SECOND THOUGHT *yelling to the kids ….RUN FOR FUN
Just kidding, Blessings to you for opening up your heart and life to adopt those children. I wish you the best 
these kids these days have no fear. i had a proper fear of my parents and teacher to the point i knew not to act up. the fact that i could get a paddling stopped me from getting one. and we did not get spanking in the traditional sense that you might whoop your child. like it may be a simple pop on the hand or on the rear but it was to give you a sense of your actions have a consequence. and like somebody said a teacher is like a second parent in most cases they spend more hands on time with your children than you do so a simple smack to get my child in line i have no problem with. so in some cases its more effective to have that person administer that discipline at that time. also i know of plenty terrible parents that had good students because of that discipline they recieved from there teacher. and because of the discipline teachers used to could administer we had more involved teachers who actually cared about the students.
ySoSerious says:
@ Cha Cha
No kids of my own. I’m fostering two of my first cousins (their mom is my trifling azz aunt on my mother’s side.)
I’ve had them for about 3 1/2 years now and hope to adopt them by the summer of 2011.
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WOW!!!! I love it!!! I applaud you for stepping up and stepping in!!!! I respect that with all my heart!!!! I got a little full to read that. You deserve all the best rewards life has for you…cause it takes a special person to take on children that are not their own.
Im sorry yall but I too felt like Attorney MOM cuz there is no reason to be beating your basketball team of all boyz with belts he better hope that’s all he did and nothing else comes to light!
yvonne79 says:
Correct me if I’m wrong, the reason these kids were spanked was not presented in this clip. As a result, we want to assume the coach is a sexual predator? Is that what I’m reading?
And I grew up with the whole neighborhood having permission to beat my ass on sight if they caught me doing anything they deemed inappropriate/disrespectful/whatever and I didn’t truly ctfu til we moved to a place where the neighbors didn’t care. There’s a huge difference in today’s society and simply 20 years ago and you can see it in these bad no respect having children running around today. Its disgusting and I will tell your child off and dare someone to say anything about it if your child is cussing, fighting and acting ignorant in public and anyone who leaves their child in my possesion is forewarned that I will treat their child like I do my own including whipping their ass if they need it… and I’ve only had one kid act up and when me and her mama got finished with her it never happened again with me or while she was with anyone else
WORD @Kwall
my son is in one of the best school districts in jersey and i cant even get these heffas to email me back half the time. I have 2 go to school and show my ass just to get the teachers 2 stay in contact with me…let alone come to the house if he did get crazy and show out one day.. I find it disturbing that i email to check up on his conduct and work on monday and a week later i have no reply but when i come to school its always excuses as to why the teachers are not checking email…EMAIL…smh
I would PAY a coach to whip my son at school!
Sandra Rose says:
yvonne79 says:
Correct me if I’m wrong, the reason these kids were spanked was not presented in this clip. As a result, we want to assume the coach is a sexual predator? Is that what I’m reading?
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Where in my post did you see the words sexual predator? The reason they were spanked is because (he said) they misbehaved.
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Auntie, I wasn’t referring to anything you posted…..
Elove, that is the best term I have heard thus far “PROPER FEAR”
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Where in my post did you see the words sexual predator? The reason they were spanked is because (he said) they misbehaved.
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Not you Sandra……..but a poster did say something along those lines and Attorney mom used the phrase: GOT HIS ROCKS OFF
Genia says:
V103 revealed earlier this week that 70% of children born today are born to single mothers……….70%!!!!!!!!!!
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Obama should pass a law that single mothers must be prescribed birth control pills or some other form of contraceptive. I would support him on that, because it’s getting ridiculous. If the woman got pregnant, she would either have to hurry up and marry the father or the child would be taken from her and given to a couple who can’t conceive on their own.
I agree that teachers should be allowed to dole out punishment accordingly, however, I think this punishment more than likely did not fit the crime. When my son played football, if the players got out of line, they were made to run laps, do push-ups, etc. I think this coach used the punishment as a form of humiliation. It has to be humiliating for boys this age to have to bend over and take an ass whipping from a man in front of your team mates. I’m kind of on the fence on this because although I think kids do need harsher punishments in the class room, we don’t know what this young man did to warrant the punishment.
so in some cases its more effective to have that person administer that discipline at that time. also i know of plenty terrible parents that had good students because of that discipline they recieved from there teacher. and because of the discipline teachers used to could administer we had more involved teachers who actually cared about the students.
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I’m reading what your saying but I still don’t think a teacher should be putting their hands on anyone like the student shouldnt put their hands on anyone – What is really being taught here where the teachers has the right to hit/smack a child but the child is not supposed to repeat that action tho the teacher is there to teach the child! NO keep your hands off my kid and call me we can have a conference!
kwall says:
Because when your TEACHER called home…your momma didn’t curse her out
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I used to have teaches come to MY HOUSE…word life. Not “Imma call your parents…” It was…”Imma be atcho house tonight…” And your azz be SHOOK cause you knew she won’t lying. And you sat there KNOWIN you could not intercept her…cause she would prolly be driving up the same time as your daddy…
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Kwall i am cringing in remembrance of…OMG!!! Girl every time that phone rang my underarms with start doing that itchy sweaty cheeseburger smellin thing….. girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH and dont let that teacher have called my mom at work!!!!!!!! I could tell before she put her purse down what kind of ass whippin night it was gonna be!!!!!!!!!
bk2atl says:
I’m kind of on the fence on this because although I think kids do need harsher punishments in the class room, we don’t know what this young man did to warrant the punishment.
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Please read the first line of my post again.
@ Choco
Thanks. The aunt in question has eight kids and only the last one (a bay girl) hasn’t been/isn’t in the system.
At the time the kids came to me, i just happened to be at a place in my life that I could at least keep them in the family.
I had no plans to ever have kids but I don’t regret taking them in and trying to give them the best life I can.
@yvonne
Not saying that the teacher is on a butt whooping spree in the classroom, but all I am saying is when i was in elem my teacher had the right to walk to your desk and hit your had with a ruler if you were talking, misbehaving, or anything else. What is wrong with that? I would rather her handle that lil booboo (ha ha epv) is talking while he is supposed to be working than to keep calling me all day and other parents telling us that they are talking. That would be just as disruptive in a class as the teacher whooping kids all day. BTW, the principals “spanked” the kids, the teacher only hit your hand. And if your kids are bad and you do not want any other adult that will not tolerate that foolishness to say anything to them, keep them at home.
GTFOH with that chit that coach had no damn business – that’s y his azz was suspended without pay- Extra Laps Extra Homework Extra work period but keep you grubby paws on my child and especially his backside DUMB!
off my child – My son’s father would’ve whooped that coaches azz in front of my son to show him not to ever bend over for no effn MAN!
Thanks. The aunt in question has eight kids and only the last one (a bay girl) hasn’t been/isn’t in the system.
At the time the kids came to me, i just happened to be at a place in my life that I could at least keep them in the family.
I had no plans to ever have kids but I don’t regret taking them in and trying to give them the best life I can.
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And this is what is soooo Beautiful ABOUT U I love a person with a beautiful heart and soul – makes my world a better place GOD is SHINING ON YOU GIRL!
Sandra Rose says:
Obama should pass a law that single mothers must be prescribed birth control pills or some other form of contraceptive. I would support him on that, because it’s getting ridiculous. If the woman got pregnant, she would either have to hurry up and marry the father or the child would be taken from her and given to a couple who can’t conceive on their own.
@his, you are crazy, memory recall huh,
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Choco says:
so in some cases its more effective to have that person administer that discipline at that time. also i know of plenty terrible parents that had good students because of that discipline they recieved from there teacher. and because of the discipline teachers used to could administer we had more involved teachers who actually cared about the students.
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I’m reading what your saying but I still don’t think a teacher should be putting their hands on anyone like the student shouldnt put their hands on anyone – What is really being taught here where the teachers has the right to hit/smack a child but the child is not supposed to repeat that action tho the teacher is there to teach the child! NO keep your hands off my kid and call me we can have a conference!
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Let me clarify that a TEACHER or any other adult didn’t just hall off and smack a kid…..there was an implied understanding…there was an unspoken bound if you were from the same community, family, church group or what ever that the connection was another extension of your parents and could and would dole out your punishment…
And thanks to you too Cha Cha and Genia.
@ Sandra, I went back and re-read it, and misbehavior is a very broad, general term. Different forms of misbehavior warrant different actions, so that still doesn’t answer my question.
@Yso u go grl!
@Yso
You got it sista
and i cant even get these heffas to email me back half the time. I have 2 go to school and show my ass just to get the teachers 2 stay in contact with me…
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my daughters go to school in the SAME school district that me and my sibs did and i have the SAME problem now you just said!!!!! it ain’t just email either…i send notes no response…call and leave messages no response…i have even been to the high school for my oldest daughter and been told…during a teacher’s free period…that she couldn’t talk with me right now…oh NO…you GONNA see me…i done took off from work (i work a good 40 minutes from the school so i had to take a long lunch) and its your free period…AND you haven’t responded to previous correspondence…??? i got me a vistors pass and started walking…heffa JUMPED when she saw me coming through her class door. i guess she did not know or realize when she told the receptionist that she couldn’t meet…that i was standing right there and heard her….
Kweezy!!! ‘Sup mama?
@dap, how u been gal? ur tail has been hiding from meeee!
@Sandra: What about the men? Shouldn’t they be held accountable for their involvement as well? Last time I checked, women didn’t get themselves pregnant. And to be quite honest, I don’t think raising a child on their own was their first option.
DapisDaShizz says:
And if your kids are bad and you do not want any other adult that will not tolerate that foolishness to say anything to them, keep them at home.
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I Agree. See people forget, that public school is just that….PUBLIC. Everyting is not going to go the way you like. In that case, you home school, or find a private school that fits you and your child. What??? You say you cant afford home or private school???? EXCATLY..so teach lil nay nay to respect authority and value an education, and you or the child wont have a problem in public schools
Let me clarify that a TEACHER or any other adult didn’t just hall off and smack a kid…..there was an implied understanding…there was an unspoken bound if you were from the same community, family, church group or what ever that the connection was another extension of your parents and could and would dole out your punishment…
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GG I get what you are saying but I find it ironic and hypocritical to teach children not hit on others but you go around hitting the child I mean I see no reason to put your hands on a child when the school obviously has other forms of discipline
I grew up ol skool like you and if I cut up my mother heard about it and she handled never was anyone allowed to put their hands on me I don’t like the message that sends and I know kids can be tough but I find it wrong on deeper levels -
Sandra Rose says:
Genia says:
V103 revealed earlier this week that 70% of children born today are born to single mothers……….70%!!!!!!!!!!
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70 % are born to black single mothers.
b-boy817 says:
What??? You say you cant afford home or private school???? EXCATLY..so teach lil nay nay to respect authority and value an education, and you or the child wont have a problem in public schools
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Remember that episode of the “Cosby Show” when Sonia Braga was Theo teacher and went to they house for dinna? GIRRRRL I had a teacher…4th grade. Mrs. Miller. She taught my older sister too. An old skool black lady who happened to be from Alabama like my parents. So she felt a kindship I guess. If I misbehaved…Ms. Miller would show up at our crib! And my dad used to be the parent to go on field trips with the class and stuff cause he worked a swing shift…I pure stop bringing home field trip permission forms…WHY? Cause I knew Ms. Miller was gonna tell my daddy alllll my dirt I had did since the LAST time she was at our house!
@Kwall…and what happened to notifying parents when kids are missing assignments? my son had a lil spell where he would talk in class all the time and forget 2 turn in homework. come to find out teachers arent even asking for homework now. they put a basket on the desk and expect these absent minded ass kids 2 just turn it in…now granted my child SHOULD have remembered but why wait til hes missing enough assignments 2 damage his grades to notify me when i email everydamn day…smh
when i was in school, as soon as we sat down the teacher would say “get out your h/w from yesterday so i can collect it” they dont even ask no damn more…
Sandra Rose says:
Genia says:
V103 revealed earlier this week that 70% of children born today are born to single mothers……….70%!!!!!!!!!!
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70 % are born to black single mothers.
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I don’t know about Genia, but I knew that. That’s why I say that Obama needs to address this problem.
HEEEEEEEY @bk2atl!!!!!!!!!!
at seeing my homie on here!
@his, I have been in the higher plane,
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At one time I wanted to be a teacher, I felt that that would be my way of contributing to this world but I’ve seen how alot of parents nowadays act and it deterred me right swift. Alot of these folks don’t give a fluck about their kids education, they use school as daycare. My momma would come up to the school and whoop our azz in front of the class when we got in trouble. For the folks that comment about disciplining 1 child taking away time to learn from the other children, what do you think happens when you have a child that comes to class for the sole reason of disrupting it? I’ve seen dumb azz kids disrupt and fail classes, only to have they dumb azz parents come up to the school talking about “You just don’t like my kid!!” and it disgusts me. The reality is most kids fall in the middle and just pass through and most times if a teacher acknowledges your child more than the others, it’s because they are exceptional students or exceptional azzholes. I’m sure most parents know which one of those categories their children fall into.
RE: Proper Fear
I definitely had that as a child with my grandmother especially.
Kids need that because if they don’t fear you and your consequences then they won’t fear the even harsher consequences that the world has in store for them.
The eight year old has basically been told by the system that he is untouchable and he thinks he can do and say whatever he wants.
He was wild when he came to me at the age of five and I did what was done to me; I spanked his butt with a belt. For him, I felt it was working but then he told his case manager and I had to take parenting classes and was told I basically can’t even raise my voice to his azz.
Now he stays challenging me and has a worse mouth than mine. And he always talking about what he don’t want/don’t like. But if I choke his lil azz up for disrespecting me, his teacher or other adults, I’m the one in the wrong.
Sorry about the long post but this topic has become a serious source of frustration for me lately…
Sandra Rose says:
Obama should pass a law that single mothers must be prescribed birth control pills or some other form of contraceptive. I would support him on that, because it’s getting ridiculous. If the woman got pregnant, she would either have to hurry up and marry the father or the child would be taken from her and given to a couple who can’t conceive on their own.
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I support this with modification. I believe if you are in the system and being supported by the government..whether it is housing, food stamps, or monetary support…I BELIEVE the government should mandate and disperse birth control. I also believe that if a woman is a part of this system that the governess should be HEAVILY involved with getting to the absent parent.
all i know is a teacher got one mutha phukin time to lay one hand on mines.. and ……
“bish – Ima show you crazy”
@DapisDaShizz: Hmmmmmm…the principal paddling or the teacher giving pops on the hand, either way it goes; I never experienced it and my children haven’t either because I crack the whip at home. My children know when they walk out of my door, they are a living representation on me. While you’re in the streets, you better think and act like you have some damn sense. That’s the way I was raised and I passed it on to my children. As a summary, all the comments I’ve made support leaving the disciplinary action to the parents (as it should be) and let the teachers focus on teaching.
A coach whooped kids with a belt????
happened to runnin 10 to 20 extra laps, or extra push-ups, etc. when they got outta line????
I wish a mofo would put their hands on my damn kids, especially when I know, I keep them fools in line and don’t go for the bullchit. I’ll be damned if you put ya hands on my kids
If the kids are actin up in school, and the teachers can’t get anywhere with the parents, then hell, whoop the parents with a belt.
yvonne79 says:
@Sandra: What about the men? Shouldn’t they be held accountable for their involvement as well? Last time I checked, women didn’t get themselves pregnant.
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The truth is, most of these fast girls and grown women trick these men into impregnating them by lying about the methods of contraception they use. I don’t blame the guys for being salty and not coming around. It’s the female’s responsibility to make sure she uses contraceptives to avoid unwanted pregnancies and diseases..
and i think another difference is back in the day teachers were more than there just to teach. they were involved with there students and the students basically treated them like they were another parental figure. just the fact that you can whoop your child at home doesnt really mean anything. its kinda like if you got both parents. imma tell your mommy can have a totally different reaction than imma tell your daddy because hey while i know mommy will whoop me she aint got that stroke like daddy so in that aspect i may test mommy more. daddy can say be quiet sit down and it happens and mommy may have to say it twice. so ms jackson might invoke that same fear as daddy and have that stinging hand paddle at school so they dont want to test it. its an eco system of parenting thats missing in most aspects these days.
WTF I WISH A MOTHA FLOKA WOULD
Although, I always tell friends (real friends), and relatives, if they get outta line, whoop dat azz. If you see them somewhere actin like azzholes, whoop dat azz.
One day, my Dad’s neighbor told me my youngest was givin my Dad a hard time (my Dad’s fault cuz he got his azz spoiled rotten), and I told her, she shoulda whooped his and my Dad’s azz.
Sandra Rose says:
yvonne79 says:
@Sandra: What about the men? Shouldn’t they be held accountable for their involvement as well? Last time I checked, women didn’t get themselves pregnant.
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The truth is, most of these fast girls and grown women trick these men into impregnating them by lying about the methods of contraception they use. I don’t blame the guys for being salty and not coming around. It’s the female’s responsibility to make sure she uses contraceptives to avoid unwanted pregnancies and diseases..
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@yso…all I can say to that is EXACTLY what I tell mines.. if u ever feel abused plz call the number for CPS and I will pack yo chit and sit ur ass on the porch cause I will be damned if the law only wants 2 be involved when THEY feel like it. I cant discipline my child but I have to go broke tryna keep up with Jordans and Ralph Lauren? GTFOH…but again, thank gawd I have a child who knows better thus far..oooooh I wish he would try that untouchable chit in my house… I will have him lumped and bruised so they can take him accordingly..
Obama should pass a law that single mothers must be prescribed birth control pills or some other form of contraceptive. I would support him on that, because it’s getting ridiculous. If the woman got pregnant, she would either have to hurry up and marry the father or the child would be taken from her and given to a couple who can’t conceive on their own.
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WHAT IN THE HELL? I wish Obama would have control over my damn ovaries. If I decided to give birth and be a single mother I could financially take care of me and my child. This type of law should be applied to women milking the system.
No WOMEN don’t get pregnant by themselves but it only takes one person to go to Walgreen and buy a box of condoms…imjussayin…….that excuse is no longer valid…..We are of an age where we (women) have to be responsible for our sexuality……I give two shyts what any dude thinks of me pulling out my own condom!!!!!!!
The truth is, most of these fast girls and grown women trick these men into impregnating them by lying about the methods of contraception they use. I don’t blame the guys for being salty and not coming around. It’s the female’s responsibility to make sure she uses contraceptives to avoid unwanted pregnancies and diseases..
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this is only true when A WOMAN IS MESSING AROUND WITH A LIL BOY NOT WITH A GROWN AZZ MAN IF HE GROWN AND U GROWN YALL BOTH RESPONSIBLE…
ok- Im bored.. but I was just wondering, since the teacher felt the need to whip the kids when theyre bad.. does he also feel the need to buy them shoes when needed, help thier mothers with bills and put food on the table, and phuck her when she get loney? ..I mean, since he’s playing “daddy” and all
It’s the female’s responsibility to make sure she uses contraceptives to avoid unwanted pregnancies and diseases..
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#THIS. I agree with.
AWESOME ARSENAL says:
…The reality is most kids fall in the middle and just pass through and most times if a teacher acknowledges your child more than the others, it’s because they are exceptional students or exceptional azzholes. I’m sure most parents know which one of those categories their children fall into…
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Sandra Rose says:
The truth is, most of these fast girls and grown women trick these men into impregnating them by lying about the methods of contraception they use. I don’t blame the guys for being salty and not coming around. It’s the female’s responsibility to make sure she uses contraceptives to avoid unwanted pregnancies and diseases..
November 11, 2010 at 4:23 pm
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Those situations certainly exist. But what do you recommend we do with the men who proactively jump from bed to bed, promising women the world but when she gets pregnant he dips? Just wanna know your thoughts on the different scenarios that cause a woman to be a “single mother”. Does this title also include women who are divorced and widowed?
Sorry about the long post but this topic has become a serious source of frustration for me lately…
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Girl my cousin is going thru the same damn thing – I swear it’s heartbreaking cuz CPS is in her business cuz when her power went out her 8 y o daughter who recently had surgery for a brain tumor had to go stay with my aunt and my lil cuz #’s kept going up to the point she was in the hospital – CPS is in my cuzo face and she wasn’t even the one caring for her daughter at the time – IRRITATES ME Beyond BELIEF!
Sandra Rose says:
yvonne79 says:
@Sandra: What about the men? Shouldn’t they be held accountable for their involvement as well? Last time I checked, women didn’t get themselves pregnant.
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The truth is, most of these fast girls and grown women trick these men into impregnating them by lying about the methods of contraception they use. I don’t blame the guys for being salty and not coming around. It’s the female’s responsibility to make sure she uses contraceptives to avoid unwanted pregnancies and diseases..
SMH…. what fckery to type Miss Rose
Those situations certainly exist. But what do you recommend we do with the men who proactively jump from bed to bed, promising women the world but when she gets pregnant he dips? Just wanna know your thoughts on the different scenarios that cause a woman to be a “single mother”. Does this title also include women who are divorced and widowed?
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Thank you!
@ bk2atl: You stated you didn’t know what the boys did to warrant corporal punishment. The answer was provided in my first sentence: they misbehaved. In the video, the misbehavior was described as stealing a cell phone, being disruptive in class and being disrespectful to other teachers or students.
Cocoabana says:
Obama should pass a law that single mothers must be prescribed birth control pills or some other form of contraceptive. I would support him on that, because it’s getting ridiculous. If the woman got pregnant, she would either have to hurry up and marry the father or the child would be taken from her and given to a couple who can’t conceive on their own.
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WHAT IN THE HELL? I wish Obama would have control over my damn ovaries. If I decided to give birth and be a single mother I could financially take care of me and my child. This type of law should be applied to women milking the system.
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I think we are refering to these teens who have muilt kids before they get to high school. Parents need to man up a get their head out of their butts, kids are having sex, let’s protect them from a unwanted pregnancy along w/a STD.
We have to many birth-control options out here for anybody with a normal functioning mind to get caught slippin. There are two many condom options out here to wanna get caught slippin!!!! WTF ever!!! you need to do to protect you!!!! do it!!!!!
b-boy817 says:
Dont be saying lil Nay Nay ….that is my name for real sans the Lil
Sandra, suerly you are saying these things about women tricking men into impergnating them purely for shock value right????? I refuse to believe that you actually believe that. Even if a woman says she is on BC, sterile or whatever….does that make the man think that she is also STD free???? Men have too many reasons to USE condoms to be able to get off with that mess about “she tricked me”. I. Simply. Can’t.
Cocoabana says:
It’s the female’s responsibility to make sure she uses contraceptives to avoid unwanted pregnancies and diseases..
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His_Mommy623 says:
@yso…all I can say to that is EXACTLY what I tell mines.. if u ever feel abused plz call the number for CPS and I will pack yo chit and sit ur ass on the porch cause I will be damned if the law only wants 2 be involved when THEY feel like it. I cant discipline my child but I have to go broke tryna keep up with Jordans and Ralph Lauren? GTFOH…but again, thank gawd I have a child who knows better thus far..oooooh I wish he would try that untouchable chit in my house… I will have him lumped and bruised so they can take him accordingly..
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Guaranteed if they come pick mine up, they’ll be bringin they azzes right back within 2 hours, with an apology
CPS worker says, “Mr. and Mrs., I do apologize for the inconvenience of coming to your house and removing your children. And after the time that was spent with them, which was ummmm, interesting, I completely understand why you whoop their azzes. Please continue to do so.”
HEyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy FAM!!! I am with Sandra on the birth-control point!!! WOMEN MUST BE RESPONSIBLE for THEMSELVES IN THIS AREA!!!! you can say all you wan I don’t wan the government to control my sexuality…but aren’t some of us giving that same control over to random niggas?
Thanks Sandra, I missed that in the video. (insert smiley face cuz I’m too lazy to click the link or however you do that).
yvonne79 says:
But what do you recommend we do with the men who proactively jump from bed to bed, promising women the world but when she gets pregnant he dips?
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You’re asking too much of men. They were put here to populate the earth. By bed-hopping, they are doing exactly what they were designed to do. Again, it’s the female’s responsibility (since she’s determined to be a slut anyway) to make sure she uses the proper contraceptive.
Dont be saying lil Nay Nay ….that is my name for real sans the Lil
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@Mirs….grllll they kill me with that CPS bullchit…where wass CPS when a btch was struggling, where do they be when these kids needs chit but as soon as a lil fugger wanna pop off at mommy or daddy and has 2 crawl around looking for a tooth u wna be removing lil mufuggas? ok be my guest *hands over his chit*
I try my best to keep my hands off of him because by the time I reach that point I probably would put him in the hospital.
Still, when he starts talking about he hates me and my house and wants to call someone to come and get him I just say I’m sorry he feels that way and if he really wants to go I’ll dial the number for him myself.
He’s really into trying to blackmail me emotionally now that I don’t respond to his nonsense with a hand or a belt.
…I think I’m just gonna send his azz to your house.
Sandra Rose says:
Sandra Rose says:
Genia says:
V103 revealed earlier this week that 70% of children born today are born to single mothers……….70%!!!!!!!!!!
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I don’t know about Genia, but I knew that. That’s why I say that Obama needs to address this problem.
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I wasn’t sure if I had heard that in the report… But I suspected as much
Back from the wasting my d@mn time meeting,.
Sandra Rose says:
yvonne79 says:
But what do you recommend we do with the men who proactively jump from bed to bed, promising women the world but when she gets pregnant he dips?
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You’re asking too much of men. They were put here to populate the earth. By bed-hopping, they are doing exactly what they were designed to do. Again, it’s the female’s responsibility (since she’s determined to be a slut anyway) to make sure she uses the proper contraceptive.
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LOL. Love it. Someone had on their FB status: If you so classy why you got 4 baby daddy.
@Genia…I agree too, to an extent. What I don’t agree with, is the one-sided-ness of what is being proposed. I think men who irresponsibly have children they can’t/won’t take care of, should be subject to some sort of “temporary sterilization” as well. As women, we do have to do our part, because 9 times out of 10, we are the ones that are left with the responsibility of taking care of these children.
oooooh I wish he would try that untouchable chit in my house… I will have him lumped and bruised so they can take him accordingly..
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His_Mommy623 says: what happened to notifying parents when kids are missing assignments? my son had a lil spell where he would talk in class all the time and forget 2 turn in homework. come to find out teachers arent even asking for homework now. they put a basket on the desk and expect these absent minded ass kids 2 just turn it in…now granted my child SHOULD have remembered but why wait til hes missing enough assignments 2 damage his grades to notify me when i email everydamn day…smh
when i was in school, as soon as we sat down the teacher would say “get out your h/w from yesterday so i can collect it” they dont even ask no damn more…
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So the teacher is supposed to ask for the homework, when the student knew they had homework?? Nobody will hold their hand, and walk them through life but you. Its called teaching them to be responsible. I know I wont ask for homework?? At the end of the day, this is your education, and if you dont value it, what makes you think anyone else is supposed to? Parents find any excuse to put the blame somewhere else other than the child who prolly knows the teacher wont ask for homework and its his responsiblity to make sure it gets in the box/basket
s_Mommy623 says:
@Mirs….grllll they kill me with that CPS bullchit…where wass CPS when a btch was struggling, where do they be when these kids needs chit but as soon as a lil fugger wanna pop off at mommy or daddy and has 2 crawl around looking for a tooth u wna be removing lil mufuggas? ok be my guest *hands over his chit*
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Exactly!!!! How bout yall fill the fridge, pay the light bills, buy them clothes, draws, socks (cuz they could damn sure fcuk up some socks), etc., then they could step in. Til then, step the fcuk off!!!!
@Yso…be my guest
I’d love 2 lend a hand… I cant have more kids soooo i got the time bew =)
@yvonne, I do understand what you are saying, I feel the same way about mine. I RARELY get calls from school and it is usually about my son talking too much. That is because in this house the motto is “You must not know who my momma is”, that means I lay down the law with belts, shoes, switches, slaps, and chest punches if needed. I hold nothing back and let them know that I am the law in these parts and that I love them to death and will back them if they are right. I will also back a punishment that is being placed on you for doing something stupid outside of my home. I am raising FUNCTIONING members of society, not derelicts so you gotta follow all laws. I accept all help form those my child should respect and they will do as they are told.
You’re asking too much of men. They were put here to populate the earth. By bed-hopping, they are doing exactly what they were designed to do. Again, it’s the female’s responsibility (since she’s determined to be a slut anyway) to make sure she uses the proper contraceptive.
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What??! Let me read the rest of the comments before giving Sandra the side eye…
ySoSerious says:
@ His
I try my best to keep my hands off of him because by the time I reach that point I probably would put him in the hospital.
Still, when he starts talking about he hates me and my house and wants to call someone to come and get him I just say I’m sorry he feels that way and if he really wants to go I’ll dial the number for him myself.
He’s really into trying to blackmail me emotionally now that I don’t respond to his nonsense with a hand or a belt.
…I think I’m just gonna send his azz to your house.
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@ His
I’ll have his bags packed and waiting outside with him. I also reserve the right to send the four year old at a future, yet-to-be determined date.
lakercrazy says:
this is only true when A WOMAN IS MESSING AROUND WITH A LIL BOY NOT WITH A GROWN AZZ MAN IF HE GROWN AND U GROWN YALL BOTH RESPONSIBLE…
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This is how most fast girls get pregnant: by “messing around” with little boys. Grown women don’t mess around with little boys. They handle their business and they make sure they’re prophylactic game is tight.
Im 27 and I got one paddle and one only. I was in the third grade in Ms. Vine’s class and a boy called my mom a b**** so I punched him in the mouth. Ms Vine promptly took me outside and paddled me. When I got home I was whipped again. I have no problem with paddling as long as it is warranted and not excessive in nature.
Genia says:
HEyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy FAM!!! I am with Sandra on the birth-control point!!! WOMEN MUST BE RESPONSIBLE for THEMSELVES IN THIS AREA!!!! you can say all you wan I don’t wan the government to control my sexuality…but aren’t some of us giving that same control over to random niggas?
PUT THAT CHIT ON BLAST
@B-Boy its not about walking them thru life or holding their hands or whetver other bullchit ur spewing…at the end of the day they are KIDS they are not as responsible as adults, they get a lil looney when they are in class with a bunch of friends. Unless u raise a fuggin robot, ur kid just may once or twice get off track…smh and they need a little push… My teachers did it amongst other things to help kids stay on track… u seem like one of the ppl who make excuses for the lack of care that some teachers have nowadays…but again, u have ur opinion and I have mines…have a nice day
I always just browse but this is subject is cause for me to come out of lurking…
I am all for parents being parents, and teachers being teachers. I do not want mines taking away from somebody elses child education because they dont know how to behave. I dont care what time of day it is, if my child gets out of line, you call me I will be there to help him get back in line.
Just recently my son forgot his momma raised him better and wanted to act out, let my son was reminded in the principals office just how serious I am about him not being a part of societies problems. It landed a phone call to CPS, but just as I told them, I will whip my kid when I see fit because he will not be a part of a news story for gang banging or just plain silly. You lose a hold of your child at a young age, you are not getting them back. Take charge from the gate and they might just be okay. Parents have to have a stronger influence over their childrens lives then their friends and media.
Teachers do not need to hit on my child because I am their partner in his education. Its simple as that. It does take a village but the garbage man does not play the part of a police officer! We all have our role.
I dont even know how to address Sandra comments about women and their roles in single parenting…I still havent wrapped my mind around her statements.
His_Mommy623 says:
oooooh I wish he would try that untouchable chit in my house… I will have him lumped and bruised so they can take him accordingly..
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be careful hun. CPS reads my blog.
@yso, of course hunney
@ b-boy817
school work is important.. but isnt respect just as important? I know some really smart kids that will kill yo azz for no reason.. but are capable of good grades.. these kids are already smart.. most of them.. they have no sense of self respect, thus making it hard to show or have respect for others.. teachers should also show kids how to be repectful towards one another.. and you lead by example.. Im more concerned about these youngsters dying violently, for no reason, than some homework assignment.. just sayin cyber boo
@YSO,
Stop this nonsense, pull out a shoe or belt, take those pants down and whoop that arse. That child is crazy talking and I have heard that before but I will gladly go to the next room and let my daughter tell you what happened to her last night for sucking her teeth and slamming a door. So there is NO WAY back talking, shiz talking, or under breath talking is gong to be allowed round here. Get him right or they try you later.
@SR tell them to look up my IP and bring it on, my child is well behaved for the most part so he doesnt get ass whoopings unless it is warranted…i could give 2 fcks about a CPS…
My children know when they walk out of my door, they are a living representation on me. While you’re in the streets, you better think and act like you have some damn sense. That’s the way I was raised and I passed it on to my children. As a summary, all the comments I’ve made support leaving the disciplinary action to the parents (as it should be) and let the teachers focus on teaching.
CPS worker says, “Mr. and Mrs., I do apologize for the inconvenience of coming to your house and removing your children. And after the time that was spent with them, which was ummmm, interesting, I completely understand why you whoop their azzes. Please continue to do so.”
I’ve made support leaving the disciplinary action to the parents (as it should be) and let the teachers focus on teaching.
blur those lines and we are in for a rude time!
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@His, Stop stealing my words girl. I wish they might, who they gonna give them too? Hail, I wish my doorbell would ring and I have honor roll, track stars, respectful, diciplined children in my home. Try it people, imagine the result and the following lawsuit.
im out yall be good @his well hot dam dont hurt our lil beckam
@ mirs
It’s that sense of entitlement that was mentioned earlier. He’s under the mistaken impression that he has a right to the things he has AND to the things he wants.
Try and challenge that and he starts with the “y’all don’t care about me” BS. I tell him if I didn’t care, he wouldn’t have the shyt he has now and he wouldn’t get shyt else that he wants or even needs. He just doesn’t understand how good he has it.
My parents, mainly my Mom, whooped me, and I turned out just fine
Chit, I’m still scared of her azz, and she lives across the damn country. 
I feel you @ His..
we need to also consider peer presssure.. I try and lie to myself and say, ” my child doesnt worry about peer pressure”, but hell, I was an adolesant ( a few years ago
) and I know what its like.. and also some of these kids have some really complex home life situations.. the teacher riding down on them when they already have so many problems at home.. just find another way to help them, or get another job.. IMO
Choco says:
I’m reading what your saying but I still don’t think a teacher should be putting their hands on anyone like the student shouldnt put their hands on anyone
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In a way I side with the coach. A lot of those boys don’t have father figures at home to discipline them. In the video, only one father showed up to the meeting — and he said he doesn’t discipline his son. Sometimes boys need that male father figure to step on their necks. Would you rather have the coach do it or the racist cop in the street?
@mirs, hey bike buddy. She did a great job on ya boo
ySoSerious says:
@ mirs
It’s that sense of entitlement that was mentioned earlier. He’s under the mistaken impression that he has a right to the things he has AND to the things he wants.
Try and challenge that and he starts with the “y’all don’t care about me” BS. I tell him if I didn’t care, he wouldn’t have the shyt he has now and he wouldn’t get shyt else that he wants or even needs. He just doesn’t understand how good he has it.
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Please see Comment # 183. Send his azz somewhere, where they really don’t care about the kids. He’ll come back and apologize to you.
DapisDaShizz says:
@mirs, hey bike buddy. She did a great job on ya boo
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Heyyyy Dap
where you been????
Sandra says:
Obama should pass a law that single mothers must be prescribed birth control pills or some other form of contraceptive. I would support him on that, because it’s getting ridiculous. If the woman got pregnant, she would either have to hurry up and marry the father or the child would be taken from her and given to a couple who can’t conceive on their own.
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Truly you aren’t serious are you? My second child was conceived on BC. Please get off of your high horse. Children come from dysfunctional single parent homes and two parent homes Ms Rose.
Sandra Rose says:
His_Mommy623 says:
oooooh I wish he would try that untouchable chit in my house… I will have him lumped and bruised so they can take him accordingly..
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be careful hun. CPS reads my blog.
This is exactly why children behave the way they do, because parents should be afraid to whip their child, because someone might call CPS! My dad use to tell me, I brought you into this world I will take you out! I feared that statement and didnt want to find out if he actually would.
Another go ahead and call the police, its going to take them at least 5 minutes to get to here,so that means I got four to beat you…I am going to do my time in jail and we gone do it again! There isnt nothing wrong with a little fear in the hearts of a child..Happy Veterans Day as well!
Would you rather have the coach do it or the racist cop in the street?
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Sandra I don’t condone violence in any manner – I would’ve preferred to coach to either give whoever misbehaved more workout or benchtime but beating with a belt and having the boy bend over is emasculating at least!
My mom whooped all our azzez, and still whoops the little ones when need be. I think most of these kids these days need to be tore up.
Just coming in late and adding my two cents. :wink”
@mirs, I am getting some hard wood put in the house so I have been living in various parts of the house. I just was uncomfortable and have not had extra time to spend with my girls. I miss yall.
@West oh I try and talk 2 my son about being a leader… I tell him all the time “u can stay ahead of everyone else, dnt worry they will catch up” but all I can do is hope it works cause at a certain age, the social life becomes sooooo important and the parents are battling to be heard… but me and my crazy child have such a good relationship that I tend to think my voice stays in his ear…
Bk2atl: We can argue the point of trifling baby making men to the cows come home….that is a moral discussion that has many layers to it
HOWEVER….once conception has been completed that baby will be carried and brought forth by only one of the parties involved and that is the WOMAN….there is no shared responsibility in actively choosing when and with home to procreate with…..It is not the responsibility of that man to ask you if you are on birth-control.
DapisDaShizz says:
@mirs, I am getting some hard wood put in the house so I have been living in various parts of the house. I just was uncomfortable and have not had extra time to spend with my girls. I miss yall.
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We have to get our floors done, too
What state do you live in????
Toy says:
Just recently my son forgot his momma raised him better and wanted to act out, let my son was reminded in the principals office just how serious I am about him not being a part of societies problems. It landed a phone call to CPS, but just as I told them, I will whip my kid when I see fit because he will not be a part of a news story for gang banging or just plain silly.
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What happened after that? Did CPS pay you a visit? By the way,
It is not the responsibility of that man to ask you if you are on birth-control.
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If said man does not want children or an STD he may wanna be asking and also making sure he got his own protection – AIDS/HIV
@Htown, girl ur hair looks great, and I agree with what you said 100%.
@Toy, I love how you put happy vet day on the end of that, priceless. Loves it.
H-Townmama says:
Sandra says:
Obama should pass a law that single mothers must be prescribed birth control pills or some other form of contraceptive. I would support him on that, because it’s getting ridiculous. If the woman got pregnant, she would either have to hurry up and marry the father or the child would be taken from her and given to a couple who can’t conceive on their own.
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Truly you aren’t serious are you? My second child was conceived on BC. Please get off of your high horse. Children come from dysfunctional single parent homes and two parent homes Ms Rose.
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I know that a lot of the southern states still practice corporal punishment so spankings at school don’t shock me. Using a belt, no. They used paddles when I was in school. My principal had a glass one with holes in it. My mom and grandmother let the principal know that once they spanked me at school, I’d be in for the same treat when I got home.
I’m the daughter of an educator and I cannot tell you how many times parents have come running to the school to complain about what teachers aren’t doing. They’ve even come to my mom’s house. Yet when I get home, I can tell you what these same parents are doing by looking at their facebook statuses. My mom works longer hours than I do and she loves being an educator but she can’t do it alone. She loves the parents that come to the parent teacher conferences and pta meetings. Most of the time she only sees or hears from parents when she’s sending home progress reports and the mom’s come running to the school to complain or when “Keke” is being suspended for spitting on the bus driver. They just had an expulsion hearing for two little “angels” falsely accusing a coach of fondling them.
@mirs, I am in Atlanta
@ Dap
I feel what you are saying and I’ve heard the same from my family. My situation is delicate for many reasons and I just don’t want to risk their placement with me because any little thing right now could get them taken out of my home.
It takes everything in me to go against what I was taught to expect from a child and the methods to use to get them to behave accordingly.
im out ya’ll
oh and beat ya kids if they need it! 
til 2morrow ya’ll 
s all around!!!
His_Mommy623 says:
His_Mommy623 says:
@West oh I try and talk 2 my son about being a leader… I tell him all the time “u can stay ahead of everyone else, dnt worry they will catch up” but all I can do is hope it works cause at a certain age, the social life becomes sooooo important and the parents are battling to be heard… but me and my crazy child have such a good relationship that I tend to think my voice stays in his ear…
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I dig that!! I like what you said…
“u can stay ahead of everyone else, dnt worry they will catch up”.. very well said!
His_Mommy623 says:
SMH…. what fckery to type Miss Rose
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Anna says:
I think we are refering to these teens who have muilt kids before they get to high school. Parents need to man up a get their head out of their butts, kids are having sex, let’s protect them from a unwanted pregnancy along w/a STD.
Exactly. The situation is getting out of control in our community. Something must be done.
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DapisDaShizz says:
@mirs, I am in Atlanta
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We’re looking for someone to do our floors, but don’t wanna pay a crap load of money.
@SR and Anna, THAT I agree with… I dnt condone a 17 yr old with 3 kids but thats a wholeeeee notha discussion…smh
If said man does not want children or an STD he may wanna be asking and also making sure he got his own protection – AIDS/HIV
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I suggest all single parents file child support.. this situation will handle itself once folk get tired of havin 50% of thier check snatch up.. all over “a good time”
bk2atl says:
Sandra, suerly you are saying these things about women tricking men into impergnating them purely for shock value right?????
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No I’m not. I have 2 brothers. I saw first hand how these fast girls operate to get in their pants. 90% of pregnancies occur because a girl or woman is being fast. If a girl says no, that’s the best form of contraceptive she has available to her.
Thanks @ Dap!
@Mirs
My second daughter has a different dad. He is a great guy and wonderful dad, but his parents’ relationship messed him up big time. He had a very comfortable childhood and didnt want for anything…but his mom is batshyt crazy. Speaking of batshyt crazy
@YSO, girl I forgot, you can’t do that. You need some other thing that would work. My friend used to put her child in their room and take EVERYTHING OUT. She would take out the clothes they could not wear, leave them with only what they were wearing for the week. Take out the bed but leave the mattress, no tv, no toys, no games, just the mattress and some books. Try that for a week and tell him that you have fulfilled your obligations for taking care of him and see how he is in a week. New kid I bet.
It takes everything in me to go against what I was taught to expect from a child and the methods to use to get them to behave accordingly.
and this is y GOD put those children with you – you would afford them the tolerance and patience combined with LOVE – I think you are on the right track with him…
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@mirs if you are in ATL, I will give you the guys name who is doing mine. He is really cheap and good. Nice guy too. browndap gmail.
No I’m not. I have 2 brothers. I saw first hand how these fast girls operate to get in their pants. 90% of pregnancies occur because a girl or woman is being fast. If a girl says no, that’s the best form of contraceptive she has available to her.
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So your brothers aren’t fast???
H-Townmama says:
Truly you aren’t serious are you? My second child was conceived on BC. Please get off of your high horse. Children come from dysfunctional single parent homes and two parent homes Ms Rose.
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That is extremely rare and usually occurs because the BC wasn’t used correctly. It’s your responsibility to make sure you are using the birth control properly.
Sandra, huh? Abstinence is the best form of contraception for BOTH parties involved but we all know that in this day and age, it’s not the best form of prevention, ask Sarah Palin.
Men and women share the responsibility to protect themselves. Once you make it to the mattress if you choose not to suit up with some form of contraception, you both live with the consequences.
Genia says:
HOWEVER….once conception has been completed that baby will be carried and brought forth by only one of the parties involved and that is the WOMAN….there is no shared responsibility in actively choosing when and with home to procreate with…..It is not the responsibility of that man to ask you if you are on birth-control.
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Not every form of punishment will give you the same results. My four year old is one who loves to please and it kills her when she can’t be my helper. It is rare that I spank her, but from time to time it’s needed. I always say spanking is a LAST RESORT. she cries harder when I tell her no thank you, I don’t need you to do ___________, I only like little girls who listen at school to help me. If I restrict her helping me for 2-3 days it really gets to her. I explain why Im doing it all the while letting her know Im disappointed….works like a charm
Hey Peeps,
I live here in Jackson, MS… My little sister goes to this school. And sad as it may be… he did it when they would “misbehave”… I think it is sad but what the story does not say is that over half of the parents have changed and are now standing behind him. It is only a few families that are not and that is the ones who have male figures or fathers in the home. Most of the single mothers are commending him for keeping their kids in line and keeping their grades good. Only the fathers are getting upset or women with men in the household….
DapisDaShizz says:
@mirs if you are in ATL, I will give you the guys name who is doing mine. He is really cheap and good. Nice guy too. browndap gmail.
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Nah, I’m in Jersey, but I’ll make note of the email.
@Sandra
I was on Depo…and I always went on time. I can’t do pills and didnt want the ring. But now my tubes are tied…but hell I have a cousin my age whp was conceived when her mom was 42 because her tubes were tied and came undone…so…
@ Sandra, Just yesterday my brother told me he started texting a chick who’s 19 and has three kids. Her dumb self is just barely a senior in his high school, because she failed the 12th grade last year. I asked him why would he even talk to fertile myrtle and he’s like “its cause she looks nice and has a big booty”.
Never have I cursed my brother out like I did last night.
ySoSerious says:
It takes everything in me to go against what I was taught to expect from a child and the methods to use to get them to behave accordingly.
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Well, your online family supports you if things get too rough at home.
H-Townmama says:
Not every form of punishment will give you the same results. My four year old is one who loves to please and it kills her when she can’t be my helper. It is rare that I spank her, but from time to time it’s needed. I always say spanking is a LAST RESORT. she cries harder when I tell her no thank you, I don’t need you to do ___________, I only like little girls who listen at school to help me. If I restrict her helping me for 2-3 days it really gets to her. I explain why Im doing it all the while letting her know Im disappointed….works like a charm
I like that
I know if that was me or any of my brothers.. my momma, not my daddy, but my momma wouldve kicked thier azz.. shyt, I remember my moms left me and my brother @ her friends house to be babysat.. i waas about 10-ish.. the friend got upset with her own son and said she was gonna beat all the kids.. mannnnnnnnnnn! I was so damn happy that at the instant, my moms walked thru the door! I told my moms what she said and watched my moms curse her “friend” out. needless to say the friend never tried that ish again… she did however, beat the living day lights out of her own son, while my brother and I watched.. crazy
oh- and if CPS is reading this.. (partial) kudos to you people because the friend had her sons taken away for child abuse. the sad part is she also had a smaller kid about 2-ish, who was also taken away.. this was years ago – but I talked to the older son recently and he said he hasnt seen or talked to his brother since around that time
Toy says:
Just recently my son forgot his momma raised him better and wanted to act out, let my son was reminded in the principals office just how serious I am about him not being a part of societies problems. It landed a phone call to CPS, but just as I told them, I will whip my kid when I see fit because he will not be a part of a news story for gang banging or just plain silly.
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What happened after that? Did CPS pay you a visit?
No ma’am, I was contacted by the princal, who was missing at the time of me whipping my son in his office. His all white female staff, made the situation out to be more than what it was, I went back to the school corrected them for being stupid and making the situation out to be more than what it was, I sat and talked with the principal and told him if he need to call CPS, he had to do his job and I had to do mine, and mine was done. I contacted CPS, myself after we left his office, and welcomed them into my home with open arms, told them to put it on the record, I will whip my son, because he is mine and I gave birth to him, told them if they wanted to browse into my life then feel welcomed cause I aint got nothing to hide. The woman, laughed and said this is the first for her and we havent talked since.
The point is you will not strike fear into my heart because my son is out of control. I am not afraid of CPS but my son should be afraid of his MOM
Choco says:
So your brothers aren’t fast???
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No faster than those little girls were. My brothers were taught to respect women. But it’s hard to show respect when these chicks are flinging their drawls at them.
Hey Peeps,
I live here in Jackson, MS… My little sister goes to this school. And sad as it may be… he did it when they would “misbehave”… I think it is sad but what the story does not say is that over half of the parents have changed and are now standing behind him. It is only a few families that are not and that is the ones who have male figures or fathers in the home. Most of the single mothers are commending him for keeping their kids in line and keeping their grades good. Only the fathers are getting upset or women with men in the household….
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Good for them for standing behind him.
kingstonn says:
@ Sandra, Just yesterday my brother told me he started texting a chick who’s 19 and has three kids. Her dumb self is just barely a senior in his high school, because she failed the 12th grade last year. I asked him why would he even talk to fertile myrtle and he’s like “its cause she looks nice and has a big booty”.
Never have I cursed my brother out like I did last night.
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You shoulda also told his azz that he “can’t trust a big butt and smile, that girl is Poison….”
@ Dap
Girl,I am quick to revoke what we refer to as privileges, ie; TV, toys, video games. At times just the threat of that will change his tune. Not always though.
My situation has forced me to be creative. One time, I got so tired of him and his brother playing on/jumping off his bed that at a certain point I decided not to waste another word on him. I just walked in the room told him to get up and out the way and proceeded to drag his mattress right into the hallway.
He looked at me like I was crazy talking about “Why you doing that? What I do? Blah, blah. blah.” I just said “You know why” and told him until he learned how to treat his bed, he could sleep on that boxspring or the floor.
It didn’t take long after trying to get comfortable on just a boxspring for him to come and apologize after that. And he has been more careful of how he treats his bed too.
@ H-Townmama: I’m not referring to women like you and your cousin who did it the right way. I’m referring to the fast women who don’t use any form of contraceptive and keep on dropping babies.
kingstonn says:
@ Sandra, Just yesterday my brother told me he started texting a chick who’s 19 and has three kids. Her dumb self is just barely a senior in his high school, because she failed the 12th grade last year. I asked him why would he even talk to fertile myrtle and he’s like “its cause she looks nice and has a big booty”.
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This is exactly why I say that Obama needs to step in and write a new law to handle fertile Myrtle’s like her.
@Cha Cha if that doesnt work I just take away a pair if shoes or outfit. You know Ma’am is a fashionista and wants to be fly at daycare. LOL
But seriously, I am teaching her not to expect rewards for poor behavior.
Kwall
I used to have teaches come to MY HOUSE…word life. Not “Imma call your parents…” It was…”Imma be atcho house tonight…” And your azz be SHOOK cause you knew she won’t lying. And you sat there KNOWIN you could not intercept her…cause she would prolly be driving up the same time as your daddy…
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this was years ago – but I talked to the older son recently and he said he hasnt seen or talked to his brother since around that time
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Sad but I hope they are better off
@ mirs, he was looking so scared. I mean OBVIOUSLY that big butt is the reason she has all those kids with three different guys; all younger than her i should add. There is noooooooooooo way in hail my brother is going to be her fourth baby daddy. Nope.
Toy says:
The point is you will not strike fear into my heart because my son is out of control. I am not afraid of CPS but my son should be afraid of his MOM
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You handled that very well.
No faster than those little girls were. My brothers were taught to respect women. But it’s hard to show respect when these chicks are flinging their drawls at them.
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So again the black woman is the curse of society – If your brothers were taught respect perhaps they shouldn’t have been keeping the company of fast girls – I mean y is it always on us our fault- NOT BUYING IT!
kingstonn says:
@ mirs, he was looking so scared. I mean OBVIOUSLY that big butt is the reason she has all those kids with three different guys; all younger than her i should add. There is noooooooooooo way in hail my brother is going to be her fourth baby daddy. Nope.
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He shoulda been turned off for the 3 kids at 19, and still in high school, and from her azz staying back in high school.
Sandra Rose says:
No faster than those little girls were. My brothers were taught to respect women. But it’s hard to show respect when these chicks are flinging their drawls at them.
@259, Choco,
I mean OBVIOUSLY that big butt is the reason she has all those kids with three different guys; all younger than her i should add. There is noooooooooooo way in hail my brother is going to be her fourth baby daddy.
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She is a gutta bucket
ChaCha says:
Sandra Rose says:
No faster than those little girls were. My brothers were taught to respect women. But it’s hard to show respect when these chicks are flinging their drawls at them.
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@LaTech
Girl I can’t take this chit any longer I mean my GAWD black woman are humans too Y don’t we get a pass like everyone else – NOT HAVING IT!
To all the women her in the Sandra Rose COMMUNITY who stood up and stood out to take on the responsibility of another child…when you didn’t have too…I salute you…there are not enough words for me to express how much I admire anyone that steps in unselfishly to give of themselves in that manner!!! it is not to be looked upon as a small feat!!! as per this post…we know it is easy to make a baby….but it takes a different kind of person to raise that baby and unfortunately everyone that has the ability to get pregnant do not posses the ability to nurture and grow a sound human being!! TO ALL OF YOU!!!! I LOVE YOU FOR IT AND I MEAN THAT!!!!
And to my mothers!!!! who are doing the damn thing by themselves and rearing solid young men and women who will one day step up and be our leaders and decission makers I SALUTE you too……
Okay now that I have had my mushy moment
I;m out!! love my SR FAM!!! like a fat kid love his fridge!!!
At the end of the day WE as parents have got to do better. I thank God that I am a stay at home mom. I work from home overnight so I am able to be there and not worry about my job interfering. My four yr old is only in daycare, but they know to call me if she tries to get out of line. I make surprise visits there and I participate in her school parties etc. I also sit her down and we go over what she did at school and do her homework together. I am building a foundation of concern and involvement at an early age. It can be hard to find the time, but when we decide to have the children we should also make the decision to do our very best for them. I pray over my children each and every day because this is a world totally different than when I was growing up…
ChaCha says:
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Exactly like that. Men can only take so much temptation.
@ mirs, i know, but he just turned 18 so he thinks he’s god’s gift to women. as soon as these loose females hear his accent, they’re all over his tip like like kim kardashian on black atheletes.
He shoulda been turned off for the 3 kids at 19, and still in high school, and from her azz staying back in high school.
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And to my mothers!!!! who are doing the damn thing by themselves and rearing solid young men and women who will one day step up and be our leaders and decission makers I SALUTE you too……
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To kool for school : ) thanks boo
@ Genia
Thank you so much.
gravi check
I see you H-Town.
She’s a cutie. I hate pink though.
H-Townmama says:
@Cha Cha if that doesnt work I just take away a pair if shoes or outfit. You know Ma’am is a fashionista and wants to be fly at daycare. LOL
But seriously, I am teaching her not to expect rewards for poor behavior.
Awww FLY at FOUR… The other day I caught my lil ma pulling a Willow… (whipping her hair and trying to copy the dance moves n the video) As soon as she got done I was like, now go find a book and go sitcha lil azz down somewhere. I have no qualms with her behavior she gives me no problems. Her teacher conferences last about 5 minutes, now that boy on the other hand the teacher would have to clear the calendar.
Im proud of my children , this year in the 5th grade my son was the first in his class to get student of the month and honor roll, I couldnt be more impressed by his turn in behavior as well as thankful!
@ yso, how can you hate pink?
I pray over my children each and every day because this is a world totally different than when I was growing up…
@Genia
Thanks!
I thank God for a good husband, but I raised my sibs and it has not always been easy…
@HTOWN… HOW FREAKIN ADORABLE OMG
@Yso
I like to mix it up. Lol
Her sweater dress was orange and raspberry
with the matching raspberry mary janes. I love dress girls.
Whip they bad asses!!!!
When I was growing up my teacher would beat kids with an old azz belt we nicknamed “the snake”. I wish I would tell my mom I got beat in school…she would have given me another beating on top of it.
People give children to many damn rights…When I was young a kid was a kid…you were expected to do as you were told at home AND at school. My teachers were like parents. I treated them with the same respect. I had to raise my hand to speak…stand up when addressing a teacher. Oh these kids don’t have any discipline at home or at school…most of them will grow up to be society’s degenerates. We’re raising a bunch of over emotional, disrespectful losers!
I
when I do have a child, that I can afford to send them to private school.
@ htown, she looks JUST like you.
are you going to see Nicki tonight? someone gave me tix to go see her but i quickly gave those away.
@Cha
you have a lot to be proud of! I honestly feel that media and society are doing all they can to keep apart black families and especially target black males…Do you guys know the power we have if we were to become united???
@ kingstonn
I can only tolerate the palest of pinks. I’ve been that way for as long as I can remember. I hated being expected to wear pink just because I’m a girl. My favorite color is blue and I prefer dark or earthy colors.
@ H-Townmama
Not really sure what the situation was, but some of these parents need a good beating because their kids are out of control. People need to understand that you can not be your child’s friend, a child needs discipline, structure, and order. As I said before don’t know what the deal is with the coach, but there children as well as parents that need some good beatings.
@Htown your daughter is such a cutie pie
H-Townmama says:
@Cha
you have a lot to be proud of! I honestly feel that media and society are doing all they can to keep apart black families and especially target black males…Do you guys know the power we have if we were to become united???
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Either we get segregated by circumstance or we as blacks choose to segregrate ourselves from other blacks. I think blacks only united when they were in their Mother Land. Blacks were shipped here and then you had white men raping the woman thus the light skin vs black skin. Blacks enslave themselves.
I really feel that if youre that concerned about a child to beat them, then you should also take on the roll of nurturing and proving for them as well.. just to teach the child that is not about reacting with violence, but to show you that Im really concerned! dont just beat them up when they are doing wrong, but give them praise when theyre doing good.. and provide for them when you see they are in need… i bet that logic would stop these public school teachers dead in thier tracks.. being that the majority of Black kids live in some sort of proverty situation! They’d be giving thier whole check away to needy kids!
@Anna
Sad but true. Sad but true.
@Kingstonn
No ma’am! I have to work tonight and then court in the morning. I’m gonna be tired and cranky. But I do like Hush. They always have big names there
Thanks @ Southern
That’s mommy’s big girl. she is 4 and almost taller than me. lol
Kwall
I used to have teaches come to MY HOUSE…word life. Not “Imma call your parents…” It was…”Imma be atcho house tonight…” And your azz be SHOOK cause you knew she won’t lying. And you sat there KNOWIN you could not intercept her…cause she would prolly be driving up the same time as your daddy…
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ha! that happend to me too.. the teacher didnt have to worry about beating me after she saw the look on my Dada face.. he was soo mad, he couldve spit fire.. needless to say, the next time I saw outseide and a lil bit of freedom.. i was damn near grown
I developed a (small) amount of respect for that teacher though, because she was on her time, not school time, when she came over
Thanks Genia!
Why so many comments about him getting off on this. What is he getting off on the fact that he may be preventing another child from shooting up a school like they did in Pearl, MS . Yall say “only in the south” but it should not be… check the number of dropouts..pregnancies .. and drug related arrested in Jackson, MS and you will agree something needs to be done here. he makes those boys maintain a certain GPA to stay on the team. They are required to dress nicely with shirt and ties on game days he is training them to be young men…. A few years back a child died of a heart attack at another high school here while running laps .. would that have been better in this Mississippi heat?? They have know about coachs doing this for a long time… i personally know people who have gone on to play in the pros and go to the olympics from Jackson MS public schools who went through the same things.. All rules aint right some need to be broken.
Dang I been meaning to say I like your gravi Jerrica, beautiful
ySoSerious says:
@ kingstonn
My favorite color is blue and I prefer dark or earthy colors
so is mine
I never got whooped at school, but my church was right across the street from my school, and my grandpa was always there, so if need be I acted up he was right there waiting. Now my brother on the other hand got whooped daily and his a$$ still bad. Just because you get whooped don’t means it helps.
Cha Cha Thank you that’s me and my baby with his smart mouth. Lol. I’m just glad when he goes to school and out in public he knows how to behave.
@ MsSoloDiva
I’d be very afraid for any teacher to try that out here in California – these kids seem to have no problem with committing a 187.. I would hate for a teacher to loose thier life over trying to disipline sombody else’s seed
aww @Htown she is such a cutie
@WestCoast chick I gotta stop you there, as a former school teacher there are many of us in the trenches that support, nurture, and cultivate our students as well as be the parents that some of them don’t have at home. Now I know that there are some bad seeds among teachers, but its not all of us. I have seen parents come up to the school and literally curse out teachers because the teacher had a concern about the child. If the parent has a lack of respect for the teacher, what do you think the child is going to do? I agree with whoever said its about the community, we as a people have to have an invested interest in all of our children, even if they don’t belong to us. I remember when I was growing up, not only did I mind my parents, but also people in the community. I knew better not to act up in school or in public because I knew if I did someone was going to get me. ppl can’t do that now because you have parents (not all) who say I wish you would touch my child knowing little Timmy bad as hell.
Genia says:
To all the women her in the Sandra Rose COMMUNITY who stood up and stood out to take on the responsibility of another child…when you didn’t have too…I salute you…there are not enough words for me to express how much I admire anyone that steps in unselfishly to give of themselves in that manner!!! it is not to be looked upon as a small feat!!! as per this post…we know it is easy to make a baby….but it takes a different kind of person to raise that baby and unfortunately everyone that has the ability to get pregnant do not posses the ability to nurture and grow a sound human being!! TO ALL OF YOU!!!! I LOVE YOU FOR IT AND I MEAN THAT!!!!
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Thanks, GG
(I adopted my step-son, legally)
@WestCoast
I am young, but from a smaller city in Tx(beaumont)
We also had teachers who were familiy friends and would call my grandparents if I got out of line. Plus we owned a daycare and half of their kids/grandkids went there. LOL So I was out of luck if I tried to clown. Luckily I live in a smaller suburb outside of Houston where Sydney’s school seems to take the same stance. Her teacher actually picks her up and drops her off because they know I work overnight and dont want me to drag London, her baby sis out. She also lives in the same neighborhood. They call when she is doing extremely well and call if she gets out of line. I love it. We have to take an active role at an early age.
SuthernBelle4
yes maam- I totally agree.. kind of reminds me of a person i knew who moved to this really ghetto street.. she said she was going to confront the drug dealers because they were selling drugs in front of her house…. AH NO! bad idea.. although it seems like the right thing to do, and well within your rights, but you have to protect yourself from people and thier hatred.. they wouldve killed her or caused her harm in the least.. fast
anywho to make the stories relate.. Im all for teachers WORKING with parents to better thier kids, but the kids and the parents have to be willing to put forth effort as well.. you dont want to loose your life ( and you have kids of your own) over trying to set Timmy’s bad azz str8
however- I see your passion- which I commend
H-Townmama says:
@WestCoast
I am young, but from a smaller city in Tx(beaumont)
We also had teachers who were familiy friends and would call my grandparents if I got out of line. Plus we owned a daycare and half of their kids/grandkids went there. LOL So I was out of luck if I tried to clown. Luckily I live in a smaller suburb outside of Houston where Sydney’s school seems to take the same stance. Her teacher actually picks her up and drops her off because they know I work overnight and dont want me to drag London, her baby sis out. She also lives in the same neighborhood. They call when she is doing extremely well and call if she gets out of line. I love it. We have to take an active role at an early age.
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That is a blessing! and your lil momma is a cutie!
aren’t we finding ourselves saying the same thing re: the guys in the eddie long situation? listen, the kids are so afraid of the repercussions for telling that they just dont.
story at hand: WHAT THE PHUCK? I wish I might take an ass whoopin from a teacher just to play on a team. The world is going to hell in a handbasket via amtrak.
thanks @WestCoast, if you are referring to the girl in the pic that’s me, lol
pointhimout –
right- there are other ways.. trust me.. my daughter is a handful.. she play basketball as a matter of fact. I love love love love love her coach! he’s not mean to the kids, but he makes them work hard on the court and in class.. they cant play unless they maintain a certian GPA.. he has NEVER mistreated my child and I almost fully trust him. Teachers should learn how to connect with kids these days.. maybe SOME teachers could benefit from CBT therapy… #justsayin.. I know its a hard job.. but get out the kitchen if it get too hot ( or how ever you say it)
pointhimout says:
aren’t we finding ourselves saying the same thing re: the guys in the eddie long situation? listen, the kids are so afraid of the repercussions for telling that they just dont.
story at hand: WHAT THE PHUCK? I wish I might take an ass whoopin from a teacher just to play on a team. The world is going to hell in a handbasket via amtrak.
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The Eddie Long situation damn sure came to mind, when I read it.
SuthernBelle4 –
me likey
West Coast Chick says:
pointhimout –
right- there are other ways.. trust me.. my daughter is a handful.. she play basketball as a matter of fact. I love love love love love her coach! he’s not mean to the kids, but he makes them work hard on the court and in class.. they cant play unless they maintain a certian GPA.. he has NEVER mistreated my child and I almost fully trust him. Teachers should learn how to connect with kids these days.. maybe SOME teachers could benefit from CBT therapy… #justsayin.. I know its a hard job.. but get out the kitchen if it get too hot ( or how ever you say it)
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When I was in school, if you acted up, or didn’t maintain good grades, ya azz was a bench-warmer, or you got kicked off the team. Never have I heard of a coach whoopin on the kids.
Im just talkin shyt! We all need to save EVERY CHILD- Im not gonna lie, I live in Oakland. ya’ll should google the number of deaths out here.. just this year alone.. these boys are no older than 18.. dying.. something needs to be done!
mirsmommy
I agree
I really dont think violence would really solve the problem- thats the easiest form of disipline- take something from them that they love.. basketball- ..like what you said! I know my daughter would be steamin like a demon to have to sit on the bench for the game.. Im SURE she’d cry and feel bad
I’ve READ THE COMMENTS and SADLY (From MY Personal perspective…) 90% of these comments are from FEMALES which I guess is appropriate for THIS STORY since MOST of the H.S. MALES are from households W/O The Father or A Father Figure (Real…)
FATHERS not being DIRECTLY INVOLVED in Black Males lives is a HUGE PROBLEM within OUR Community (There’s NO DOUBTING THAT FACT…) And the VAST MAJORITY of VERY YOUNG to YOUNG FEMALES aren’t equipped to Rear/Raise Black MALE Children/KIDS to Proper Acting Young Black MEN… THIS has been proven AS A FACT since the Late 1980′s and EARLY 80′s since the DRUG EPIDEMIC (Crack In Particular…) for THOSE PARTICULAR AREAS !!!
RESPONSIBLE PARENTING IS WHAT’S MOSTLY NEEDED ABOVE ANYTHING ELSE and W/O that everything else is just a BAND-AID for something where MAJOR SURGERY is required (Just My Opinion…)
Coaches BEING Father Figures to their players isn’t a PROBLEM…
Coaches BEING THE FATHER FIGURE (And THE ONLY Father Figure…) to their players IS A PROBLEM… THAT is a Serious Disconnect & IMBALANCE within the dynamics of that Household !!!
Their SHOULD BE some BLOOD RELATIVE or CLOSE FAMILY Friend or CLOSE Friend THAT ARE RESPONSIBLE MALES that can help instill SOME Discipline and Structure and Responsibility and Accountability within these MALE Children/KIDS… IF NOT, Then that says A WHOLE LOT about that FEMALE PARENT (And it ain’t POSITIVE Either…)
West Coast Chick says:
Im just talkin shyt! We all need to save EVERY CHILD- Im not gonna lie, I live in Oakland. ya’ll should google the number of deaths out here.. just this year alone.. these boys are no older than 18.. dying.. something needs to be done!
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I swear I just got finished reading about a 17 year old boy shot and killed in my hometown. It happened this afternoon. Sad all around
@ E Love I get a kick out of women that think a man is unnecessary to raise a man child… I dont understand that at all
I know it has been done and plenty of men have grown up to be semi well rounded as adult men but the majority 
West Coast Chick says:
mirsmommy
I agree
I really dont think violence would really solve the problem- thats the easiest form of disipline- take something from them that they love.. basketball- ..like what you said! I know my daughter would be steamin like a demon to have to sit on the bench for the game.. Im SURE she’d cry and feel bad
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I whoop my kids with no question, but that ain’t always the only form of punishment.
I take the most valuables like I’m Swiper the Fox. 
I say, “oh, you wanna act up, okay” (insert smackdown here) “gimme those matchbox cars, remote control cars, anything I know you like, it’s mine.”
What’s funny is, us Mommy’s be on the azz whoopin scene quick, but Hubby, whew, that fool right there will lay down an azz whoopin quicker than they can blink.
@ ELove
In my case, the only close male relatives are drug using drop-outs (their older brothers) in jail (my brother) or otherwise unfit (their real father).
And, since I’m not in a relationship right now with a man that can be a positive father figure/male role model in their lives, am I to be judged negatively?
ChaCha says:
@ E Love I get a kick out of women that think a man is unnecessary to raise a man child… I dont understand that at all I know it has been done and plenty of men have grown up to be semi well rounded as adult men but the majority
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True. Both boys and girls need their fathers.
ySoSerious says:
@ ELove
In my case, the only close male relatives are drug using drop-outs (their older brothers) in jail (my brother) or otherwise unfit (their real father).
And, since I’m not in a relationship right now with a man that can be a positive father figure/male role model in their lives, am I to be judged negatively?
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Damn.
As a single mother, I’m always concerned whether or not I’m doing the right things in order to raise a “real man”.
Is my only answer to that to go out and find some dude to play at being their daddy?
ySoSerious says:
As a single mother, I’m always concerned whether or not I’m doing the right things in order to raise a “real man”.
Is my only answer to that to go out and find some dude to play at being their daddy?
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Has their dad always been unfit, or did he stop being involved once you guys split????
@yso, I hit submit before I could finish. I know a few people that that’s happened to. Once the couple break up, the father goes on about his business. Sad, but that happens too. My sister, and three of my friends.
No, Yso… you do the best you can with what you know
If a male figure should happen to come around and lend a hand so be it.
@ mirs
They’re not my birth kids, they’re my first cousins that I have been fostering and plan to adopt in the near future.
Their father is a drunk and a domestic abuser and is the main reason why the kids were taken from him and my equally unfit aunt(drugs, booze, long history with the system).
I am surrounded by nothing azz niggas in my family and I’m not dating because I have some work to do on my own shyt before I can deal with some man’s shyt.
Does that make me a bad mother? Should I give the kids back because I can’t provide them with a positive father figure right now?
MIRS BOO…. READ #86
*Don’t expect you to answer those questions, just putting them out there.
GOOD NIGHT YALL
@ Cha Cha
Told ya I could.
I got whooped on the 1st day of school
@Rene – Private school kids have issues and problems as well #justsaying
@ySoSerious
I DIDN’T get a chance to finish (My Comment…) And YOUR SITUATION was the last thing I was going to TOUCH ON (Real…)
Their are EXCEPTIONS TO Everything and Extremely UNIQUE Situations that are hard to Counter… AND Yours in ONE of them (Real…)
If MY Grand-Mother & Grand-Father didn’t come into MY LIFE at an early age… I DON’T have a clue how I would’ve turned out… ALL of MY Elder Brothers are DRUG-ADDICTS and JAIL-BIRDS (ALL FIVE OF THEM…)
I’m one of those people that wouldn’t know their own father if they bumped into them on the streets. That’s probably the root of the issues keeping me out of a healthy, long-term relationship.
So I agree and understand that kids need a positive man in their life to look up to and learn from. Until I can do that, I just have to do the best that I can.
@ySoSerious
I HAVE several Friends (Male & Females…) in your particular situation and I don’t ENVY their position ONE BIT… It consumes your very BEING and automatically limits YOUR Lifestyle !!! I KNOW It’s ROUGH and I FEEL your Pain because it seems like 24 hours in a day isn’t enough time (At Times…) TIME becomes just that much More VALUABLE when YOURS is So Limited because of your environment (Real…)
@Elove I agree with you that having a father or a father figure makes a world of difference.I really do cringe when ppl promote this idea that fathers are not needed, because both parents are needed. Each of them provide tools that are pertinent to a child’s development and growth. Although fathers are definitely needed in the home everyone is not provided that luxury (damn I can’t believe I said that is a luxury, it really is a sad day) that’s why I think its the responsibility of the community. My brother tutors elementary school students and I know that little time those kids spend with my brother makes a world of difference because a lot of times in their neighborhoods they don’t see men like my brother. I just think its so much more that flesh-n- blood we as Black folks need to return to our original values which is collectivism!
ySoSerious says:
As a single mother, I’m always concerned whether or not I’m doing the right things in order to raise a “real man”.
Is my only answer to that to go out and find some dude to play at being their daddy?
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I did read your whole comment. Those kids are suppose to be w/you for a reason. Don’t question it. A male mentor comes in all forms. Do you go to Church, is there a mentor program? There is “The Boys $ Girls Club along w/Big Brother, Big Sisters. It’s a free program and my daughter has volunteered at both as a intern. They do screen the applicants and once paired w/a child keep in contact w/the parent/mentor and child. Never get a man to say there is one in the kids lives. The kids are getting use to you and their new situation. Let GOD continue to be your guide.
@ ELove
I can’t say that it’s all good (cause it’s not) but I can’t complain either. I’ve been and am being blessed in several ways so I try and keep that fact with me on my darker days.
@ySoSerious
I have God-Kids whose Father is worth much… I ACTUALLY know him, He lives in MN and HE has always told me that MY KIDS are lucky & fortunate to have YOU as THEIR GOD-Father (Real…)
I’ve had to CHALLENGE Them to want to do BETTER and TAKE Responsibility & Accountability for THEIR ACTIONS because their UPBRINGING weren’t the best BY ANY MEANS… But because I’ve spent the time with them AND showed them I CARED and LOVED THEM and THERE IS NOTHING I wouldn’t do for them if they needed it… They’ve LISTENED and RESPECT ME wholeheartedly !!!
They’re NOT PERFECT but they always STRIVE to DO BETTER and that is ALL I ASK OF THEM because that is ALL I CAN ASK of MYSELF (Real…)
Thank you Anna.
awwww Yso<3 I love u tewww much…Ur doing what ur supposed 2 be doing ma (just popping back in)
@SuthernBelle
Totally AGREE and IT DOES make a world of Difference to THOSE KIDS… I MENTOR Myself and Kids LQQK up to me LIKE A GOD… It’s QUITE SCARY (At Times…) because NO MAN should be that important to ANYONE that is just Flesh & Bones LIKE EVERYONE ELSE (Real…)
But some of the BASIC NEEDS that everyone should have AREN’T readily available to SO MANY within OUR Community… It’s really SAD how much this Country of OURS has grown WEALTH & TECHNOLOGY WISE yet the BLACK COMMUNITY still LACKS SO MUCH !!!
ELove says:
…They’re NOT PERFECT but they always STRIVE to DO BETTER and that is ALL I ASK OF THEM because that is ALL I CAN ASK of MYSELF (Real…)
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That’s what I want for, mine to strive to do better and want the best for themselves.
I don’t want them to be perfect, I just want them to be the perfect THEM, if that makes any sense.
Hey E, u still here? we just love SR huh?
@ His
Thanks. I e-dore you too.
(tempted to motorboat you but I will refrain)
@Yso DONT U DARE REFRAIN! *leans over wiggles the gals*
@ His
You are a foul temptress
…Aw, what the hell…(motorboats u)*
*I really can’t stay too serious for too long, hence my carefully chosen screen name.
@His
Once I came back and read the comments… I JUST had to respond (Real…) THESE Type of topics need to be discussed MORE OFTEN (At Times…) Plus I wouldn’t feel right if I didn’t SHARE MY Knowledge with My SR FAM !!! We LEARN SO MUCH from each other just by meeting here and Kicking IT
@Elove, oh I feel u..this was touchy subject…I agreed with some and disagreed with others but hey, to each his own….all I can do is raise my lil biscuit head to the best of my ability =)
@ ELove
That’s why I fukks with this blog even with the occasional drama and all around messiness.
Well I’m OUT and I AGREE with Comment #340
GOTTA get into My Sports this Evening… Heat/Celtics & MY Lakers
Boo & Hiss for your Lakers.
Sandra you are way too harsh on those single mother’s who had children in a marriage or otherwise committed relationship or hell slipped up and got knocked up but are working their ass off to raise healthy stable and productive children without the support of the sperm donor. Every single mother is not a fast ass manipulative welfare case nor should we be treated as such and repeatedly insulted. Hell I wish the govt would try to control my uterus, its enough people with their nose all in my eggs w/o knowing anything about my situation
A lot of y’all made good points but its late and I’m too tired to go back and get names lol
@ Ms. Everything: I watch The First 48 every night and I see all these murderers who were born in the last 25 years to unwed mothers. None of them would be here to commit murder if there if had been some form of mandatory birth control in place for single mothers. I’m not putting society’s burdens on all single mothers, just the fast azz ones who spread their legs for every slick talker who comes along.
fluck what u heard how bout dem dirty birds!!!!GO FLUCKN FALCONS!!!! AUNTIE WHEN U GONE REP FOR EM!!! COME ON NOW! lol
50 secs left!!! in da game! Somebody please weigh in on this victory!!! *pom poms in da air with spirit fingers!!! shout outs to Rodey White and Matt Ryan #2 (even tho im sportin my #7VICK Jersey) *raps* I put on for my city ~jeezy
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347 Sandra Rose says:
@ Ms. Everything: I watch The First 48 every night and I see all these murderers who were born in the last 25 years to unwed mothers. None of them would be here to commit murder if there if had been some form of mandatory birth control in place for single mothers. I’m not putting society’s burdens on all single mothers, just the fast azz ones who spread their legs for every slick talker who comes along.
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This is why parent(s) should not let their kids date. It’s not cute. Keep them in after school/church activities. Not cute when a parent is supportive or allows a 13, 14 or 15 yr. old to have a boyfriend. We as parents have to be more selective of who we date/marry. We are not guaranteed the man will stick around, but when/if the two of you break-up he should not also be breaking-up w/his child. A child w/a father who gives his time and attention only fuels the childs “self esteem”. Kids will always look for love in all the wrong places if left to “fend” for themselves. The majority in the room have kids 10 and younger. It’s not easy being a parent, but the more attention you give your kids, the less they will seek it and become sexually active at a young age. It’s time to break this cycle. I did it. I had my first baby at 18. she is now 25 married for almost 2 months, and no kids. and graduated from Grad School w/Honors last Dec. My son is 23, made me a grandma almost a yr ago. My baby is 21, in college and no kids. I know I raised my daugthers to be strong and wanted them to be educated. My son fell through the cracks in Elememtary School. He doesn’t have a rap sheet, but he also does not have a diploma. We must start raising our kids the same way. Girls are no diff than boys. My son got away w/way more than my daughters ever did. It’s time for parents to put their foot down and parent. Parents are so afarid that their daughters will become pregnant(and the baby will live w/them). I spent more time teaching my daughters to be independent, and didn’t spend more time keeping my foot up my sons butt. My son is a good kid, I just think he thinks he is going to “charm” his way through life. LOL. Don’t think I raised my kids alone. My Village is still on “speed dial” and have always been in my kids lives. Sorry for my long comment. I am just tired of “throw away kids” and lazy parents. This week I read a stroy about “Human Trafficing”. 5 ppl were prosecuted. 3 males and 2 females, 19-22 yrs. old. They had girls as young as 13 that they pimped out. If we don’t take time for our kids, somebody else sure will be waiting to prey on them.
Hello all,
I want to say I read this blog daily…
This comes as no surprise to me. I am a high school mathematics teacher in the south and at the school that I teach, there is corporal punishment. The students are given the choice to receive “paddling” three licks by an administrator with a witness or go to ISS. Most of the time, the students choose the paddling, so that they may return to class. I have been a teacher for nine years and this is the first high school that I have been at that offers this punishment. The studens in this school are more respectful and the parents do not seem to have a problem with their child getting licks for misbehaving or beind disrespectful in school. I feel if the parents would whip their children azz at home, then there would not be many interuptions at school.