Actress Gabrielle Union is not afraid to speak her mind on controversial issues.. In her cover interview with Redbook magazine, the Being Mary Jane star said she believes her career choice is the reason for her fertility issues. Infertility is a major plotline in BET's 'Being Mary Jane'.

Tyra Banks and Chrissy Teigen discussed their struggles with fertility on their new daytime talk show FABlife.

Teigen, 29, who is married to 36-year-old singer John Legend, said, "John and I were having trouble. We would have had kids five, six years ago if it had happened. But my gosh, it's been a process."

But Union, 42, believes there are consequences to making her career a top priority over starting a family.

"There's a certain amount of shame that is placed on women who have perhaps chosen a career over starting a family younger," said Union. "The penance for being a career woman is barrenness. You feel like you're wearing a scarlet letter."

She added: "The reality is that women are discriminated against in the workplace for being mothers. As much as there are strides being made — you get pregnant, your career takes a hit. You can't have a bad day. Don't you dare cry at work. Don't raise your voice. Especially if you're a black woman in corporate America — now you're 'the angry black woman.'"

Union married NBA star Dwyane Wade, 33, even after she learned of his "break baby" with another woman.

Union told the magazine she is stepmom to Wade's 2 sons Zion, 8, and Zaire, 13, from his previous marriage, AND Wade's youngest son Xavier, 20 months, from his intimate therapy sessions with a sports groupie.

About the age differences between them, Union joked:

"I realized his friends, his teammates, were conceived when I was, like, a senior in high school. I was in high school at the same time as their parents! Sometimes he'll be like, 'Oh, my God, he's so old!' about someone who's 35. But, Dwyane's an old 33, and I'm a young 42, so it balances out."

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    She can't have babies but her husband Dewayne doing just DAMN fine!!!ijs

  • Jessica

    Hoping it happens for them all (especially Gabby) soon. Good luck ladies.

  • mzwhang90210

    "AND Wade’s youngest son Xavier, 20 months, from his intimate therapy sessions with a sports groupie."

  • yallcrazy

    Why Tyra keep wearing that old lady looking quick weave? Look like she got it out that church lady clothes wig magazine.

  • product of 79

    Can't wait to long to start, the body slows down the older you get. But in other cases it's iffy to say specific issues with other women. Hope it works out tho ladies ?

  • wonderwoman

    That's the price you pay for putting your career first. Gabby's been married 3 times, and chose to wait until she is over 40 of course by then you will have fertility issues. The same applies to Tara, waiting until you are over 40 to want to have a baby. It gets harder.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Wait...Teigen is only 29?

  • product of 79

    ?? LOL you funny ?

  • Milani

    if....IF it's meant for these ladies to have kids of their own, it will happen when it's supposed to happen. I feel bad for any woman that genuinely wants to have children and can't have them.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    married 2x

  • SummerBaby

    I felt some sympathy for Tyra & other women that experience fertility issues. It has to be hard to constantly be asked when you're gonna have a baby all the time when you want one & can't get pregnant.

  • sunni_daze

    Better step into her stepmom outfit and love it.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I wonder if any of them have tried fertility treatments.

  • Bootcampgirl

    nion told the magazine she is stepmom to Wade’s 2 sons Zion, 8, and Zaire, 13, from his previous marriage, AND Wade’s youngest son Xavier, 20 months, from his intimate therapy sessions with a sports groupie.

    _________________
    So now she's claiming him but she didn't in that commercial..She cute and all but I don't fck with her..period

  • Blaque Mahogany

    What commercial? What happened?

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Right my sister is having the same issues...she didn't meet my bro until she was in her 40s....when I had my nugget I know it hurt her bc she waited..

  • Bootcampgirl

    The one with Gabby and her family..it was for toothpaste or something like that

  • SummerBaby

    My heart goes out to them ??

  • Blaque Mahogany

    Tyra, that hairstyle ages you dearly. Bury it.

  • Intellectual by Nature!

    This is interesting to me. I have 5 friends right now that have had babies after 40 with no issues. I think other factors have to be considered...

  • Bootcampgirl

    It's not an impossibility just higher risk

  • mzwhang90210

    My heart goes out to Tyra. Bless her.

    But Tyra..that wig....

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Yea both of sis have issues and when I found out my mom had some issues...that was a big deciding factor to have her...not that I didn't want to but I thought, this could be my only chance to be a mother...I took it..

  • LabellaMior

    I was just wondering how she is handling the break baby knowing she cant have any children.

  • EasyBreezy

    Sidebar: did y'all see the wedding video G&D released as part of their 1st anniversay celebration?

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    SUGAR LO GOT A HEFTY CHUCKLE OFF THAT ONE LINE...I DID TOO. LMAO! THEN I HAD TO SCROLL BACK UP FOR THE "INTIMATE THERAPY" PART - DEAD!

  • LordeAmbler

    Gabby is so smart. Truly a gem.

  • TheRealLee

    Is it possible she needed time? If you just found your dad fathered a child, are you going to run to your step sibling and embrace them? Ultimately you might do just that, but you would need time to get to that point to digest everything dad did, etc.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    that probably killed her and he'll spend the rest of their lives making it up to her...

  • SummerBaby

    That has to hurt like hell!

  • LabellaMior

    Ikr.. Smh..

  • OpinionHated

    I am a career woman and I have a child... y'all barren cause you took too dang long and your eggs old..... I know that's not PC but it is accurate.... you need fertility assistance... or could just be they had too many "procedures" and now all that scar tissue complicating things, or they could have had a undiagnosed std... man there are a million reasons why they can't procreate and having a career is not one of them... everytime Gabby opens her mouth I want to stick a dick in it - just shut up already...

  • Milani

    Teigen, 29, who is married to 36-year-old singer John Legend, said, “John and I were having trouble. We would have had kids five, six years ago if it had happened. But my gosh, it’s been a process.”
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    I wonder if John got checked out too. Sometimes, it isn't always the woman that has issues.

  • Bootcampgirl

    So she can forgive him and marry him but holding a grudge against a baby...nah..still don't fck with her..

  • EasyBreezy

    Oh, wait! I just caught that! G is CLAIMING the break baby? That D-dack must be the bomb!

  • mzwhang90210

    lmao...I concur.

  • Buttercup

    I thought Geneva had infertility issues due to a brutal rape.

  • mzwhang90210

    Can she not have any really?

  • LabellaMior

    Absolutely.. Men sperm count be all kinds of low... Soldiers aint marching!

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    but we also don't know how the other mom is...there might be some other stuff in the background.

  • GuestSTAR

    Chrissy, 'girl' bye. I bet it has been a process, LMAO. 'She' knows she can't BIOLOGICALLY carry no fetus, GTFOH.

    Tyra and Gabby, there's hope. I wish them luck.

  • nucynu25

    Exactly, I don't understand the dislike for gabby.

  • SummerBaby

    That's what I was thinking also with her only being "29"

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Waka sperm count was hella low on LHH

  • Bootcampgirl

    Could be..

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Maybe the mother is the reason the baby wasn't in the commercial.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    she believes her career choice is the reason for her fertility issues
    ___________
    I could've sworn she did an interview a few years ago stating that she was raped in her younger years and couldn't have kids as a result :thinking:

  • Nik

    Well alrighty then. I had no idea Dwayne and Gabby had such an age gap. Good thing black don't crack.

  • LabellaMior

    I read some where she cant but I could be wrong.

  • mzwhang90210

    ...

  • SummerBaby

    That's what I've always thought. She may not want Gabby mentioning her kid.

  • Bootcampgirl

    If you're referring to me, it's not dislike, I just don't fool with her..I think her acting is subpar at best..IMO..she still cute though...Either way her money don't line my pockets so really my opinion is just that...

  • SummerBaby

    ??

  • LabellaMior

    I thought the same thing!

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    I mean she is the side piece and got pregnant knowing he was with someone else...

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    These are all women who have been rich and in the spotlight for years with access to all the info in the world regarding fertlity options...they could have done something a long time ago to increase their chances..freezing eggs etc... Christy teigen is only 29 there are options

  • SummerBaby

    She's been looking thinner than normal to me.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    OMG NO JOKE THE BAPTIST CONVENTION WAS HERE LAST WEEK AND I SAW THE VENDOR HALL AND HONEY! THE CHURCH LADY HATS, THE PASTORAL ROBES, AND ANYTHING ELSE THE MOTHER BOARD DESIRED WAS IN THERE...AND THEN SOME.

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Now i aint mad at her about that...

  • Bootcampgirl

    That's that bud...

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    IT BOTHERS ME WHEN THE UNDER 30 CLAIM FERTILITY ISSUES...TIMING IS EVERYTHING AND HONESTLY - EVERYTHING WON'T BE ON YOUR TIME. IT'S SO MANY FACTORS THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT AGES AGO...UNLESS IT'S PCOS (OR SIMILAR) I DON'T WANNA HEAR IT.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Working mothers don't have the issues in the workplace that Gabby seems to think they do. There are millions of working mothers doing just fine. My manager is a BOSS and she is a mother. Of course she has a househusband at home, but still. It ain't that difficult.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Maybe she waited too long to even see if she could do anything about it.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    bawahahahah chile

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    I read that too

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    i know but damn it was LOWWWWWWWWWWWW...poor thing

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Too much BC I believe... had a cousin that was on em for years ... nevertheless she has been trying and trying in her mid 40's no luck .... smh

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    DON'T YOU TRY TO BLAME JANE FOR THAT...I WOULDN'T HAVE 3 IF THAT WAS THE CASE. EVERYBODY ALWAYS BLAMING THE ONE PLANT THAT NEVER KILLED ANYONE.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    ok I thought I was tripping lol

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Yea but fertility has nothing to do with age...its your body..the older you are the harder it is but you can have problem in the first place.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Chrissy is hard on the eyes ... lawd

  • Bootcampgirl

    You a dude yelling like that?? I thought you were a female this whole time....*slides a little leg out*

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Yeah but these white folks hate a black woman with an opinon who dont act like shes scared of them in corporate America

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    AGREED, HOWEVER, THE OLDER YOU GET THE TIME STARTS WINDING DOWN...THESE EGGS DON'T LAST ALWAYS.

  • mzwhang90210

    Hey bew *kiss*
    Girl that wig needs to be snatched off Tyra's head.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    Gabby didn't actually say anything about fertitlity issues in the quotes above. I'm not sure why she was included in the story. Gabby was only talking about career women not being allowed to be mothers.

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    :face palm: you said yelling!! ?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    the Being Mary Janestar said she believes her career choice is the reason for her fertility issues.

    _____________
    chile the reason for your dusty eggs ... chile

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Yea you are born with what you got...

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Wait Low you're a man?!?!?

  • Bootcampgirl

    QTNA

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Teigen, 29

    __________

    SHID ............

  • Bootcampgirl

    Or you saying your BD blew them herbacidals??

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    *hollering*

  • LabellaMior

    Ole mush pie face self

  • shell

    If you go read the entire article on Good Morning America she talks about IVF and it failing for her so far.

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Nope she was raped while working at a well known shoe store chain who knew their stores in that area were being robbed but failed to warn the employees to take extra precautions..she got about a milly because of that and the injuries she suffered

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    Mz Whang in this thang :buttshake:

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I mean my gawd ..... lawd

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Maybe she did until she found out she was pregnant. ?

  • mzwhang90210

    I recall a 60 something yr old woman popped out a kid.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    They are lucky. I was unable to do it myself. After multiple miscarriages I finally had to accept that. Another friend of mine had multiple miscarriages before she finally got lucky and had a pregnancy go to term in her 40s. Miscarriages are emotionally draining and the further along you get, the more they feel like real labor. I say do it before 40 if you can. No need to risk it.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    They are lucky. I was unable to do it myself. After multiple miscarriages I finally had to accept that. Another friend of mine had multiple miscarriages before she finally got lucky and had a pregnancy go to term in her 40s. Miscarriages are emotionally draining and the further along you get, the more they feel like real labor. I say do it before 40 if you can. No need to risk it.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    hey hun <3

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    hey hun <3

  • Bootcampgirl

    It lowers sperm count..

  • Bootcampgirl

    It lowers sperm count..

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    ok I knew I read it somewhere a few years ago

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    ok I knew I read it somewhere a few years ago

  • mzwhang90210

    Hey bew...

  • mzwhang90210

    Hey bew...

  • TheRealLee

    I said the same thing on another site on top of that, there may be other factors why she can't get pregnant. Many women forego pregnancy to establish their career first. Nothing wrong with that. The alternative is to have a child later 30's and 40's and your health status may not allow it. Maybe friends are pestering her with why no kids and she feels that's like wearing a scarlet letter.

    I think it's a combination of personal choice, health, career, being with the right person, the female physiology is unforgiving for older women wanting kids. She is writing a narrative to fit her choice as if she was victimize by 'career choice' and that's one of the things I hate reading this. She should keep this private matter to herself and leave the social narrative out of it. No kids in multiple previous relations and now suddenly she blames career. Bottom line, none of our business but keep your business to yourself.

  • TheRealLee

    I said the same thing on another site on top of that, there may be other factors why she can't get pregnant. Many women forego pregnancy to establish their career first. Nothing wrong with that. The alternative is to have a child later 30's and 40's and your health status may not allow it. Maybe friends are pestering her with why no kids and she feels that's like wearing a scarlet letter.

    I think it's a combination of personal choice, health, career, being with the right person, the female physiology is unforgiving for older women wanting kids. She is writing a narrative to fit her choice as if she was victimize by 'career choice' and that's one of the things I hate reading this. She should keep this private matter to herself and leave the social narrative out of it. No kids in multiple previous relations and now suddenly she blames career. Bottom line, none of our business but keep your business to yourself.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    chile looking like a bad lab experiment

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    chile looking like a bad lab experiment

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Shid!!!! My homeboy got bout 8 kids and he wake up and smoke before he get the sleep out his eyes.

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Shid!!!! My homeboy got bout 8 kids and he wake up and smoke before he get the sleep out his eyes.

  • mzwhang90210

    Mush pie?
    *DEAD*

  • mzwhang90210

    Mush pie?
    *DEAD*

  • Bootcampgirl

    Laawwdd, and he dancing with it..

  • Bootcampgirl

    Laawwdd, and he dancing with it..

  • Winner

    Payless was the store

  • Winner

    Payless was the store

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I know damn well that's a lie ..... she at least 35 or 36 ... 29 chile .....

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    I know damn well that's a lie ..... she at least 35 or 36 ... 29 chile .....

  • Nik

    I'm telling you! Everybody can't do it.

  • Nik

    I'm telling you! Everybody can't do it.

  • LabellaMior

    She do look weird.. Funny looking.

  • LabellaMior

    She do look weird.. Funny looking.

  • Bootcampgirl

    Listen, don't shoot the messenger, that's what the education say dammit..I SAID WHAT I SAID!!

  • Bootcampgirl

    Listen, don't shoot the messenger, that's what the education say dammit..I SAID WHAT I SAID!!

  • 1/8

    Just because you want a child, doesn't mean you are fit to be a parent. Sometimes, nature has a way of balancing the scales.

    Look at Whitney Houston. She had major fertility issues, but instead of leaving well-enough alone, she kept trying until she had Bobbi Kristina... and we all know how that turned out.

    Chrissy can't get pregnant, because she and John aren't having sex. Anyone with two eyes can see John plays catcher for the other team.

    Tyra is an evil witch, who has somehow avoided having a house fall on her obnoxious @$$. She can't get pregnant, because the universe knows she's a demon in drag.

  • 1/8

    Just because you want a child, doesn't mean you are fit to be a parent. Sometimes, nature has a way of balancing the scales.

    Look at Whitney Houston. She had major fertility issues, but instead of leaving well-enough alone, she kept trying until she had Bobbi Kristina... and we all know how that turned out.

    Chrissy can't get pregnant, because she and John aren't having sex. Anyone with two eyes can see John plays catcher for the other team.

    Tyra is an evil witch, who has somehow avoided having a house fall on her obnoxious @$$. She can't get pregnant, because the universe knows she's a demon in drag.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    it does but I think it depends on the person.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    it does but I think it depends on the person.

  • Bootcampgirl

    I don't mean to make light of the situation but who in the hell robbing Payless??

  • Bootcampgirl

    I don't mean to make light of the situation but who in the hell robbing Payless??

  • Buttercup

    Lawd, my male coworker is biting off his banana to eat it

  • Buttercup

    Lawd, my male coworker is biting off his banana to eat it

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Something is really wrong with you. Lets leave it at that.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Something is really wrong with you. Lets leave it at that.

  • mzwhang90210

    Waiting on Dub to come in here & call Gabby "Geneva"

  • mzwhang90210

    Waiting on Dub to come in here & call Gabby "Geneva"

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    She added: “The reality is that women are discriminated against in the workplace for being mothers. As much as there are strides being made — you get pregnant, your career takes a hit. You can’t have a bad day. Don’t you dare cry at work. Don’t raise your voice. Especially if you’re a black woman in corporate America — now you’re ‘the angry black woman.'”

    ___________
    Partially true ..... but at the end the day life is what you make it .... and it ain't fair sometimes

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    She added: “The reality is that women are discriminated against in the workplace for being mothers. As much as there are strides being made — you get pregnant, your career takes a hit. You can’t have a bad day. Don’t you dare cry at work. Don’t raise your voice. Especially if you’re a black woman in corporate America — now you’re ‘the angry black woman.'”

    ___________
    Partially true ..... but at the end the day life is what you make it .... and it ain't fair sometimes

  • Bootcampgirl

    My sentiments exactly...

  • Bootcampgirl

    My sentiments exactly...

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    rofl just refreshed lmao

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    rofl just refreshed lmao

  • mzwhang90210

    IKR!..THAT's what killed me.

  • mzwhang90210

    IKR!..THAT's what killed me.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    But how does being mother tie into that? Plus I know black female execs that don't act like they are afraid of their peers. That's why they are successful.

  • http://theempirefiend.tumblr.com/ Bird

    But how does being mother tie into that? Plus I know black female execs that don't act like they are afraid of their peers. That's why they are successful.

  • Bam Bam Li

    I was thinking the same thing! How you look in your mid thirties plus and you're only 2 years older than me?! ?

  • Bam Bam Li

    I was thinking the same thing! How you look in your mid thirties plus and you're only 2 years older than me?! ?

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Hit dat Nae Nae Aye

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Hit dat Nae Nae Aye

  • LabellaMior

    Well dam.

  • LabellaMior

    Well dam.

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Man outside of celebrities and athletes the average 40 something man is a mess these days to much eating drugs alcohol and fukking with no medical care...these ones in tx where i live got HPB gout, diabetes, having strokes, heart attacks, cancer..Chile lots of 40 something women round here dating younger much younger

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Man outside of celebrities and athletes the average 40 something man is a mess these days to much eating drugs alcohol and fukking with no medical care...these ones in tx where i live got HPB gout, diabetes, having strokes, heart attacks, cancer..Chile lots of 40 something women round here dating younger much younger

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    LMAO!!!!!!! That's my line.. Hell the heifa I bought stamps from last night had at least 6 and walked out with a blunt in her mouth...

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    LMAO!!!!!!! That's my line.. Hell the heifa I bought stamps from last night had at least 6 and walked out with a blunt in her mouth...

  • Bootcampgirl

    There was supposed to be laughter in that previous comment...

  • Bootcampgirl

    There was supposed to be laughter in that previous comment...

  • TheRealLee

    She never really says about her personal situation, just generalities. Her career took precedence and now she personifies that as her career's choice fault that she gave it precedence. Why no kids with those men and so many others she's been with. Yes, career and for an actress, the way you look is important. She sees all his kids and the side mama's kid and she is looking back at her choices and falling to punishment of barrenness for making that choice. She needs to talk to the big Guy about that.

  • TheRealLee

    She never really says about her personal situation, just generalities. Her career took precedence and now she personifies that as her career's choice fault that she gave it precedence. Why no kids with those men and so many others she's been with. Yes, career and for an actress, the way you look is important. She sees all his kids and the side mama's kid and she is looking back at her choices and falling to punishment of barrenness for making that choice. She needs to talk to the big Guy about that.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    bawhahahahahahahh chile log off

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    bawhahahahahahahh chile log off

  • Bootcampgirl

    Really mostly everything depends on the person..

  • Bootcampgirl

    Really mostly everything depends on the person..

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    I know but I feel sad..Waka shooting out blanks and glue.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    I know but I feel sad..Waka shooting out blanks and glue.

  • Bootcampgirl

    LMAO..

  • Bootcampgirl

    LMAO..

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    she WFH pretending to work.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    she WFH pretending to work.

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    bawhahahahha chile ... No chill

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    bawhahahahha chile ... No chill

  • http://www.tiffanyinthecity.wordpress.com/ Tiffanyinthecity

    Naw, the penance for sleeping with another woman's husband THEN publicly antagonizing and bullying her is not being able to get pregnant. She thought she was gonna do her dirt and then ride off into the sunset like it was all good? Karma don't play that...

  • http://www.tiffanyinthecity.wordpress.com/ Tiffanyinthecity

    Naw, the penance for sleeping with another woman's husband THEN publicly antagonizing and bullying her is not being able to get pregnant. She thought she was gonna do her dirt and then ride off into the sunset like it was all good? Karma don't play that...

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    So where the fuq was nature when kids were born to parents that kill, abandon or abuse them? Where the fuq was nature when that sprite bytch drove that care in the lake or when the dude threw his kids off a bridge???

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    So where the fuq was nature when kids were born to parents that kill, abandon or abuse them? Where the fuq was nature when that sprite bytch drove that care in the lake or when the dude threw his kids off a bridge???

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    The whites hate them none the less....thats all im saying...i was refering to gabbys angry black woman comment

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    The whites hate them none the less....thats all im saying...i was refering to gabbys angry black woman comment

  • Buttercup

    Well

  • Buttercup

    Well

  • mzwhang90210

    LOL

  • mzwhang90210

    LOL

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    She's actually out of the office at the moment....

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    She's actually out of the office at the moment....

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    You are right but it depends on the field...In her field I would say that it was accurate.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    You are right but it depends on the field...In her field I would say that it was accurate.

  • Mrs Mary

    no Gabby is barren because she chose to be, she never wanted to be a mother and she said it in plenty of interviews. she didn't give her first husband a baby and he was a football player and that's why the marriage didn't last. these women who get older and in their 40s need to think about conceiving when they are suppose to in their 20's and 30s!!!! hey she made that bed, now lay in it!

  • Mrs Mary

    no Gabby is barren because she chose to be, she never wanted to be a mother and she said it in plenty of interviews. she didn't give her first husband a baby and he was a football player and that's why the marriage didn't last. these women who get older and in their 40s need to think about conceiving when they are suppose to in their 20's and 30s!!!! hey she made that bed, now lay in it!

  • TheRealLee

    We don't know that. You are making a huge assumption. The grudge was about the situation not the child himself. I know that's an assumption too, but you have to give her the benefit of the doubt. I am not a fan either, but until we hear otherwise, it's only the fair thing to do.

  • TheRealLee

    We don't know that. You are making a huge assumption. The grudge was about the situation not the child himself. I know that's an assumption too, but you have to give her the benefit of the doubt. I am not a fan either, but until we hear otherwise, it's only the fair thing to do.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Please don't...You know he is a single mother and he knows everything about women...please just keep scrolling.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Please don't...You know he is a single mother and he knows everything about women...please just keep scrolling.

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Yeah i just didnt want to say the name

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Yeah i just didnt want to say the name

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Lawd ...

  • jeniefrumdabloc™

    Lawd ...

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    LOL...YOU WOULD.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    LOL...YOU WOULD.

  • TheRealLee

    Aside from all the factors for why no kids, it makes you wonder if there is a cosmic effect taking place.

  • TheRealLee

    Aside from all the factors for why no kids, it makes you wonder if there is a cosmic effect taking place.

  • Bootcampgirl

    And we're off...

  • Bootcampgirl

    And we're off...

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Out the wood work...

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Out the wood work...

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    just QTNA.... I mean since they have all the answers and shid.

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    just QTNA.... I mean since they have all the answers and shid.

  • Mrs Mary

    exactly, thank you I said the same thing! you are suppose to conceive in your 20s and 30s before your eggs dry up, bottom line, this is nature and biology, what part don't she understand and she made that choice even while married to her first husband! now she with dwade and she want to have a natural birth of her own...humpt! don't blame society for a choice you made gabby!

  • Mrs Mary

    exactly, thank you I said the same thing! you are suppose to conceive in your 20s and 30s before your eggs dry up, bottom line, this is nature and biology, what part don't she understand and she made that choice even while married to her first husband! now she with dwade and she want to have a natural birth of her own...humpt! don't blame society for a choice you made gabby!

  • SpillyNillie

    Chrissy is sooooooo not cute
    *goes back up to read*

  • SpillyNillie

    Chrissy is sooooooo not cute
    *goes back up to read*

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Who said criminals were smart...payless didnt want to pay for security even after it became obvious it was serial like targeting nor did they tell employees that this string of robberies had been going on smh

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Who said criminals were smart...payless didnt want to pay for security even after it became obvious it was serial like targeting nor did they tell employees that this string of robberies had been going on smh

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    don't play...Payless was poppington back in the day.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    don't play...Payless was poppington back in the day.

  • mzwhang90210

    chile....

  • mzwhang90210

    chile....

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    lol...issues...

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    lol...issues...

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Maybe some of ya'll judgmental azz people should consider that some of these women said they were focused on working (while having issues) to avoid the ever present question of "When are you having kids?". Anybody ever think that just maybe that could be the reason.. I know I used the line a million times instead of telling people I cried every f'in month for a year when I saw aunt flo.

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Maybe some of ya'll judgmental azz people should consider that some of these women said they were focused on working (while having issues) to avoid the ever present question of "When are you having kids?". Anybody ever think that just maybe that could be the reason.. I know I used the line a million times instead of telling people I cried every f'in month for a year when I saw aunt flo.

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Specially At Easter time

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Specially At Easter time

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Baby, don't give them your energy...please don't...they aren't worth it and sure as hell don't deserve it.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Baby, don't give them your energy...please don't...they aren't worth it and sure as hell don't deserve it.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    BOGOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    BOGOOOOOOOOOOOOO

  • Bootcampgirl

    LOL!!!

  • Bootcampgirl

    LOL!!!

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    My fave big cousin had issues for 3-4 yrs before she conceived so i learned at a young age to NEVER ask a woman why she didn't have kids. Bc she either couldn't have them or didn't want them. Either way, it wasn't my business!

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    My fave big cousin had issues for 3-4 yrs before she conceived so i learned at a young age to NEVER ask a woman why she didn't have kids. Bc she either couldn't have them or didn't want them. Either way, it wasn't my business!

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    I mean ppl talking about dusty eggs and shid like it's funny. I have a friend that's f'ing 25 and had to freeze her remaining eggs because she suffers from a low egg reserve... She don't know if she will ever be a mother...

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    I mean ppl talking about dusty eggs and shid like it's funny. I have a friend that's f'ing 25 and had to freeze her remaining eggs because she suffers from a low egg reserve... She don't know if she will ever be a mother...

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Dayum, that's sad. Hope she's able to conceive when she's ready.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Dayum, that's sad. Hope she's able to conceive when she's ready.

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    I aint never asked nobody that. even women i know who have been married a long time but no kids...never cared wasnt none of my business cant believe people are that nosy

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    I aint never asked nobody that. even women i know who have been married a long time but no kids...never cared wasnt none of my business cant believe people are that nosy

  • TheRealLee

    I love to find that interview. My problem with her talking about being punished for foregoing childbearing in lieu of career ends in barrenness as the outcome in later years. So disingenuous. She blames the establishment for not treating women right who choose to take some time off to have children. That is true in many cases, but in her case, an actress having a child has the opportunity for so many others to help her take care of the kid. I have a friend who refused kids, was afraid it would destroy her body. So many reasons not to have kids early on. Her rationale is a big excuse, but I'm not buying the narrative she is selling. Wade might.

  • TheRealLee

    I love to find that interview. My problem with her talking about being punished for foregoing childbearing in lieu of career ends in barrenness as the outcome in later years. So disingenuous. She blames the establishment for not treating women right who choose to take some time off to have children. That is true in many cases, but in her case, an actress having a child has the opportunity for so many others to help her take care of the kid. I have a friend who refused kids, was afraid it would destroy her body. So many reasons not to have kids early on. Her rationale is a big excuse, but I'm not buying the narrative she is selling. Wade might.

  • JoyMalone

    Chrissy still has 10years to get preggos. The thing is you cant have expectations... It ruins God's surprise. Now for Gabi and Tyra...eh....keep trying but its so risky after the age of 35 and up. But me personally i think your 30s is perfect to become a mom. Because in your 20s you get to explore being a young adult. Your career and life itself. Most women who get pregnant in theyre 20s esp early end up regretting not getting that experience of freedom as an adult and end up trying to do it as a mom...later on. ...

  • JoyMalone

    Chrissy still has 10years to get preggos. The thing is you cant have expectations... It ruins God's surprise. Now for Gabi and Tyra...eh....keep trying but its so risky after the age of 35 and up. But me personally i think your 30s is perfect to become a mom. Because in your 20s you get to explore being a young adult. Your career and life itself. Most women who get pregnant in theyre 20s esp early end up regretting not getting that experience of freedom as an adult and end up trying to do it as a mom...later on. ...

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    ...

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    ...

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    I suffer from infertility and it took almost two years to have my son after being told I was facing a hysterectomy. I can't tell you how many times I was asked, "What are you waiting for?" or accused of being too career driven..

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    I suffer from infertility and it took almost two years to have my son after being told I was facing a hysterectomy. I can't tell you how many times I was asked, "What are you waiting for?" or accused of being too career driven..

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    I know honey...I know.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    I know honey...I know.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    ...NOT TYPING IN CAPS. AT LEAST I HOPE NOT!

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    ...NOT TYPING IN CAPS. AT LEAST I HOPE NOT!

  • nucynu25

    Out of all of the ppl on this blog who don't like Gabby why would I just single out you? I was just speaking in general, honestly. Who am I to tell u who to like ?

  • nucynu25

    Out of all of the ppl on this blog who don't like Gabby why would I just single out you? I was just speaking in general, honestly. Who am I to tell u who to like ?

  • Jusstlookn2

    Wellllllllllllllll

  • Jusstlookn2

    Wellllllllllllllll

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    I learned that a long time ago.

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    I learned that a long time ago.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    lol ok

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    lol ok

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    I mean i can believe it but the nerve

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    I mean i can believe it but the nerve

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Don't worry about these drive by dummies

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Don't worry about these drive by dummies

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    I'M SAYING MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BOTH PARTAKEN IN THE HERBACIDALS AND THAT'S LITERALLY WHY WE HAVE THREE AGES 4, 2, AND 11 MONTHS.

    I'VE HEARD THE JANE CAUSING LOW SPERM COUNT THEORY BEFORE AND IT JUST DOESN'T MAKE SENSE TO ME...AND PUT THAT LEG UP! I GOT MY OWN BABY LEG AT HOME! (PUN(S) INTENDED)

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    I'M SAYING MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BOTH PARTAKEN IN THE HERBACIDALS AND THAT'S LITERALLY WHY WE HAVE THREE AGES 4, 2, AND 11 MONTHS.

    I'VE HEARD THE JANE CAUSING LOW SPERM COUNT THEORY BEFORE AND IT JUST DOESN'T MAKE SENSE TO ME...AND PUT THAT LEG UP! I GOT MY OWN BABY LEG AT HOME! (PUN(S) INTENDED)

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Nothing compares to being told to hurry up or it's going to be to late when you don't even have a steady relationship.

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Nothing compares to being told to hurry up or it's going to be to late when you don't even have a steady relationship.

  • SpillyNillie

    Exactly! I'm a mother and I hate to see other women who WANT kids struggle to have them. I do know that if you are having trouble and are considering fertility treatment, you have to chill and take it easy for a while (seen a few couples go through this). For some women that may be difficult; their career is all they know...

  • SpillyNillie

    Exactly! I'm a mother and I hate to see other women who WANT kids struggle to have them. I do know that if you are having trouble and are considering fertility treatment, you have to chill and take it easy for a while (seen a few couples go through this). For some women that may be difficult; their career is all they know...

  • MS PEACHES

    If they want a chile sooooo bad, maybe they will adopt. There is plenty children out there to choose from.

  • MS PEACHES

    If they want a chile sooooo bad, maybe they will adopt. There is plenty children out there to choose from.

  • Intellectual by Nature!

    I agree that this, abortion complication, endometriosis, etc... Are definitely issues to consider. Very sorry about your cousin. I made a point to get off them after several consecutive years of use. They are tricking your body into thinking you're pregnant, there has to be side effects to that.

  • Intellectual by Nature!

    I agree that this, abortion complication, endometriosis, etc... Are definitely issues to consider. Very sorry about your cousin. I made a point to get off them after several consecutive years of use. They are tricking your body into thinking you're pregnant, there has to be side effects to that.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    "IT RUINS GOD'S SURPRISE"

    -

    VERY WELL SAID! *APPLAUSE*

  • Bootcampgirl

    That's why I put the word "if" in front because I wasn't sure..it's all good..

  • Just Keya

    :hugs:

  • SpillyNillie

    THIS! I had my son at 24 (not planned). I'm the only child and I've always wanted 3 kids. I'm pushing 33 with no man. I'm so afraid the other two wont come...

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    I told Summer I got pregnant and I wasn't ready but bc of the fertility issues in my family, I was so worried that it would be my only chance...I took it...on that principle alone I have NO regrets.

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Hey baby!!!!

  • SpillyNillie

    I hate that annoying ass "When u getting married" question too. What if I never get married?? Will there be any hair off your back? Hell the way marriages are going today, tuh, I'm in no rush. Thanks!

  • Just Keya

    First off, just because you are married does not mean you have to have babies. Maybe you tow want to be with just you. Shoot, it might be better to wait and bond with just the husband and wife before adding kids into the mix. Really people should just stop assuming everyone wants to have kids. Some people don't want to. And nothing is wrong with that. And thank God for little Khaki1

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    People always got something to say! At my wedding reception, people were asking me when we were going to have a baby. After I had my daughter, I was fresh out the hospital when someone asked when I was going to have another one. I just had another one and before she got her shots someone asked me about having another one. And I know if I do have another one, then people will be asking, well, how many you gon have?! People are never satisfied when it comes to someone else's business!

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    That used to be the other one that got on my nerves. I used to get asked, when are you having kids. I would say after I get married.. So then I got married and immediately I was asked when are you having kids.. SHID leave me alone lol

  • Just Keya

    Hey boo

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    Well, I truly feel for anyone who wants to have kids and can't. I'm even willing to offer up my brood for practice. Ages 9-20. Hit me at longtimelurking@yahoo.com
    Disclaimer:
    9 got a bit of a mouth and a sick sense of humor.
    14 is an overachiever and will bug the fukk outta you with shyt she NEEDS to do.
    18 thinks she's a primadaonna and is fine as long as she has lip gloss, a cell phone and wifi.
    20 will eat your ass all the way to skid row.
    Guarantee you'll have there a$$es back to me within 72 hours. (jokes...kinda)

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Exactly. I'm like when are you going to pay for what they need, baby sit or get up in the middle of the night to feed and change ain one I have....

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Wow. I'm glad you were able and that you look back with no regrets. That's a blessing!

  • SpillyNillie

    As if they gone put in on raising them...people kill me

  • Just Keya

    Right. Let's be honest, we love being mommies, but it is NOT always fun. People need to just chill.

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    RIGHT!! Like how much you got on this daycare???

  • Just Keya

    GIRL! Because daycare is NOT cheap. EVER

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Chile 19 29? they on their own

  • Bootcampgirl

    16 and pregnant showed me that...frfr

  • SpillyNillie

    Chiillllleeeee cuz daycare will straight bankrupt a bih...those prices should be illegal yo

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Hey Sunni,THAT PORT!!!!and talking as if the BREAK BABY ain't even FOR REAL ain't gone get it!!!!

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    19and20 are on their own lol ???

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    This made me laugh.

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    THIS!!!!! YES!!!! Love them but Lawd, they can work a nerve! LOL!

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    If only I could get THEM to understand that shyt.

  • Bootcampgirl

    Hilarious...

  • Just Keya

    Listen....yall can borrow my two.

  • Milani

    *hugs* Me and my hubby lost our daughter when I went into premature labor at 22 wks in 2005 and it took us six years to get pregnant again...six. He was tested, I was tested, nothing was wrong. Flushed my tubes, fertility drugs, all of that. Nothing worked. None of the drs took me seriously cuz I was only 27 at the time. My arms would literally ache because I couldn't hold my child. I was diagnosed with PCOS and given metformin. That didn't work. after six years of trying, we finally conceived our 1st son, and had two more babies after that. I just had my 2nd son and I'll be 37 in a few weeks.

    I feel a deep sympathy for woman that can't have children.

  • Jusstlookn2

    Hey Hunti Bunti Suga Pie....Chile...Age and Auntie Flow, But if God ain't ready for you, then you gonna have to wait...Me and hubby tried for for 2 years, I wasn't quite 30, but I was SICKER than DOG. ON best rest, pressure, every thing that could go wrong it did, but I delivered a 1 pound 1 ounce boy. They told he would die and if he did he would never walk or talk. THE DEVIL IS A LAIR! He finishing his last year of school, running track and playing football. Yes, hunti, that young man is polite, handsome, well mannered and schamrt...Jesus worked it out, he always does.

  • I want to be free

    Agreed 1000%

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    ???????????????

  • Jusstlookn2

    BBL...It's a sale

  • Sriracha In My Bag

    Sandra's Shade: Wade’s youngest son Xavier, 20 months, from his intimate therapy sessions with a sports groupie.
    https://media.giphy.com/media/Seld7U7KDve9y/giphy.gif

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Yup..she works on my damn nerves but man being without her is crazy and that's my cheerleader and buddy for life.

  • Bootcampgirl

    I am one of the one's who don't, maybe it will change but I doubt it...I tried to get my tubes tied in my early 20's the doctor was not having it...

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    @whittywithwords:disqus had me rolling last night. I posted a video of Khaki1 belting out "Let it Go" in the grocery store. This heifa don't say nothing about my baby... Just said, "damn that's a lot of meat, ya'll got a pet lion"? :crying:

  • Just Keya

    Exactly

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Yes!!! Look at God! ?? Won't He do it! ???

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Whale Damn,...you had a cart full of meat...I couldn't even concentrate on golden nugget.

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    True see below

  • Just Keya

    And not wanting kids is not wrong. And girl bye. No doctor was doing that in your early 20's. lol

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Awwww, so glad you were able to burf out 3 healthy babies. That's awesome! ?

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    I'm so happy for you. I've had endometriosis since I was 15. I've had 5 surgeries. It was looking so bad.. Tried for years. Felt like I was baking a cake with the calendars, trackers, checking my temperature doing a hand stand etc. Lord the medicines I was taking.. I finally cried my last cry and said Jesus maybe it's your will that I be the best bonus mother in the world. I conceived the next month.

  • Just Keya

    I saw that and cracked up. Man listen. I have four kids in my house...food don't last long ever! It's crazy. Bet money the stuff she brought will not last all month.

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Im not knocking the average woman having issues...but these chicks rich and could have looked into it a long time ago

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    lol...You got room for a 3 yro? She comes with tiny legos, broken crayons and 50 pairs of panties and she will notice it one is missing.

  • Neicey

    I am 38 and pregnant. I have 3 already. First at 28. My husband father of the 4th is 26. It took us almost 3 years to get pregnant. He has no kids. I was convinced it was him. He was with a chick 4 years before me. But she had a thyroid problem that can cause no pregnancy. But I downloaded a fertility tracker and got pregnant within 3 months. So its hard to say why certain women don't conceive. Only in God's time. Bit I'm thankful. Downside husband and I headed for divorce and im only 4 months along. Such is life

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    This!!!!!!

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    LOL!!! Okay, well I'll say it. Khaki1 is too cute and juicy! ?

  • Just Keya

    DEAD

  • 1/8

    I started my post by saying, just because you want a baby (or have the ability to conceive one) doesn't mean you should have children. That pretty much covers all of the psychopaths mentioned in your response.

    I also said, SOMETIMES nature has a way of balancing the scales. The keyword was sometimes.

    I support the idea of court ordered sterilizations. Certain people should not breed.

  • Blaque Mahogany

    I agree with Gabby's comment regarding careers. The reality is that it is choice. You have to decide what is important to YOU. If being successful in corporate America is more important than starting a family, then YOU have to deal with the consequences of that choice. I'm not bashing her at all. But, the reality is that women like her (professional women) have several options to help assist them with getting pregnant at a later age. I have about 2 years before I freeze my eggs.

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Awwwwee you called him a NUGGET!!!my sis had her first two years ago at 30...and him IZ my hardt!!!

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Thank you boo!!! Quite Juicy.... I tried to get a vid of him at the dr yesterday.. He learned how to open the door.. Took off running down the hall way with just a diaper on...

  • Just Keya

    @whittywithwords:disqus I swear I was typing and I could hear you saying "don't do it. Don't feed the trolls" And I heard you! :hug:

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    LOL... You didn't see the buggy his nanny was pushing with the other stuff.

  • Just Keya

    I luh him

  • Bootcampgirl

    Well damn, I was like awww, she got her a youngin and then I read the last sentence...sorry to hear that..

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    HUGGIESSSS....Yes we won't do it.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    TEW MERCH....lol

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    I was so glad we were at the hood Walmart cause he was belting out the song. I was so embarrassed. All the people walking by thought it was cute.

  • Just Keya

    See, I CAN do better lol

  • Let Your Soul Glow

    Are you serious?! Wow! Now THAT'S a testimony! ?? Man all y'all's stories are gonna have me falling out. Where's @Butter with the sheet?

  • Just Keya

    Because it was! Sang baby!

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    SOrry to hear that as well..stay stress free and healthy...take it easy.

  • Neicey

    Girl me to. Its not easy dating young. Especially when they momma failed at being momma.

  • 1/8

    There is nothing "wrong" with me. Maybe you're the one with the problem.

  • L.T.L. Since 2007

    I think I'll pass. I already got a sock Nazi (9 don't play about missing socks.) I don't think I can handle a panty counter too. *dead*

  • Neicey

    Stress free has been the hard part. But I'm in the bath as I type with bath salt and a candle trying to find my chill . lol

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Yep stupid dr told me in Jan. I would need to have a hysterectomy. I got my stuff and left the office. Called a specialist and went to see him. He told me it would be difficult but to trust him. Started seeing him in March. conceived June 26ish... We both are going to need an usher...

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    You sure? ok....let me know if you change your mind

  • DivineMsM

    If that aint a long version of a PSA for BC I don't know what is. I watch for that reason.

  • SummerBaby

    Good luck to you & your babies! ??

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    The bath salts are in the water right??? Just doing a welfare check on our new blawg baby!!! J/K

  • Bootcampgirl

    Giiirrrrlll, I just busted out laughin...

  • SummerBaby

    New post

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    I'm just making sure.... Just interjecting some humor..

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Girl..do what you need to in order to make it happen...if you gotta come in the garden to vent...we will listen lord knows we did it enough.

  • Sleepy One

    Wait Dwayne Wade only 33? Whew could've fooled me.

  • Neicey

    Lol. Yes. Lol...

  • Neicey

    Thank u.

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    No I sincerely KNOW I don't

  • WHITTYwithWORDS

    Yes we can! #Obama

  • DivineMsM

    Hi Boot--You don't have to answer if too personal or don't want to. I too share your views. Also, I may be a bit older than you as well. Late 30s (not in a relationship). What drove your decision?

  • Neicey

    I think I might just start doing that. I spent so much time trying to be a good wife to the fucked up. That I only have one friend I really talk to. U know how u don't want to tell your business. Especially on a husband. I been too distracted with the wrong thing too long.

  • Letmecommentbeforeicant

    John's little man was smothered and strangled by those tight pants so now his soldiers can't March

  • Datsmdubya2u2

    Richazz lol

  • 1/8

    Just because you disagree with my point of view, doesn't mean you are right and there is something wrong with me.

    Too many people take parenthood lightly and they have no business having children.

    One of my sisters had her tubes tied, because she knows she is not mother material. I applaud anyone who can look in the mirror and acknowledge their truth.

  • Sleepy One

    That will do it!

  • DivineMsM

    Niecy, sooo sorry. Take care of you and those babies!

  • Sriracha In My Bag

    I'm 31 and get asked that question a lot...and it's mostly by mid-20's women that are having problems with Daquan seeing the kids or paying child support. I'm like dang, I'm not even dating can I wait until that happens..lol.

  • Buttercup

    I don't have a sheet, but we can always praise Him.

  • 1/8

    I know this is going to sound harsh, but your story is a perfect example of what happens when we ignore the writing on the wall.

    I sincerely wish you and your children the best.

  • Sleepy One

    Yes!!!! You get comment of the day!

  • the guest

    She posted on her FB that she chopped all her hair off and has neck for days now. So this new haircut is a wig?

  • Sleepy One

    My thing is if Beyoncé hard working butt can make time to have a baby (however she did it *for those who think she didn't carry it*), then so can Gabby. She has had years where her career was stalled and doing nothing, she should've been making a bby then.

  • Neicey

    Its all good. Sometimes you don't ignore it. I knew it was there. Just really believed in my vows. God blessed me with a little one. And I wanted more. I am a person who sees the positive. Its working out the way its supposed to.

  • 1/8

    John's "soldiers" are too busy marching up Kanye's... never mind.

  • AmericanMade

    Wow, you tried it and nailed it, BOOM! I love gabby, however that love for her faded when she stayed with him after that, no self worth or self respect, what you allow is what will continue!

  • AmericanMade

    Yeah, see no evil hear no evil, no boo boo, that baby is His and you step mommy.

  • 1/8

    Thank you for your honesty. I respect your sincerity. You sound like a wonderful woman.

  • Neicey

    You know I'm pregnant and emotional. U gonna make me cry. Life is hard. But we must always be honest with yourself and take responsibility for our own situations.

  • Renay Peters

    Men cant get pregnant ...just cause you got a sex change and look like one um Crissy you knew this!

  • TheRealLee

    Gabby should just say "I never wanted a child and kept busy with my career. Now that I do, my physiology is not cooperating and it's regretful or I feel bad about it." But she won't. This kind of honesty that would garner her respect. There is no shame in not wanting a child at any point in your adult life. But don't give me this BS "it's punishment to choose career then be barren when you are ready, or that career women get mistreated by the establishment https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4e26004085254cf6ccc9da0ecea0450bb948d5880f3c4cdd55f34c19d4de708b.gif if they have a child, scarlet letters, friends asking her about why no kids, etc."

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    What I don't get is how she can give him all of these kudos as a MAN and so on....but its a whole other baby out here.that SHE can't seem to accept but in her eyes a MISTAKE that will go away if only she doesn't discuss it.

  • SugarFoot a.k.a Ty

    ((((hugs))))

  • TheRealLee

    No shame in waiting.
    Mind your own business.
    Why bring innocents to this fawked up planet.
    You have the brats, how's it going for you.
    I like to sacrifice babies on an alter, so no babies to be safe.

    All these work on busybodies.

  • TheRealLee

    Gabby should just say "I never wanted a child and kept busy with my career. Now that I do, my physiology is not cooperating and it's regretful or I feel bad about it." But she won't. This kind of honesty that would garner her respect. There is no shame in not wanting a child at any point in your adult life. But don't give me this BS "it's punishment to choose career then be barren when you are ready, or that career women get mistreated by the establishment if they have a child, scarlet letters, friends asking, her about whey no kids, etc."
    https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4e26004085254cf6ccc9da0ecea0450bb948d5880f3c4cdd55f34c19d4de708b.gif

  • 1/8

    I'm in my 40s. I don't have children, because I'm gay. Since I don't walk around with a rainbow flag on my back, people often assume I am a father.

    When they realize I don't have children, I am immediately assaulted with very personal and oftentimes, insensitive questions. One woman asked, "Why not? What's wrong with you?"

    Over the years, I have had several lesbian friends offer to carry my baby. I love children. I practically raised my siblings and I loved babysitting my nieces and nephews.

    Sometimes, in the wee hours of the night, I wonder what my life would be like if I had children. I wonder if I have missed out on the greatest gift another person could receive.

    But... professionally, I am extremely driven. My work is my life. I don't think I could have accomplished most of my achievements if I had children. So... I leave well-enough alone.

  • Jessica

    Women do it everyday. I know a woman whose husband cheated on her and created a son with another woman. She has forgiven her husband, stayed with him but will ABSOLUTELY not allow that now grown son to come around. AT. ALL.

  • Jessica

    This is her 2nd marriage.

  • 1/8

    One of the reasons I love and admire my mom is because she's honest. My mother would never lie to me, and one the reasons she is so honest with other people, is because she is honest with herself.

    I don't know you, but your ability to face the truth, even when it's uncomfortable, is an indication of your integrity and inner-strength.

    Your babies are going to be fine, because they have you for a mother.

  • Nik

    That's definitely true. People been through the wringer straight out the gate.

  • eljjai

    "intimate therapy sessions with a sports groupie"

    *iwept*

  • Ms. B

    Its a shame that a joke at another womans expense is considered funny. I'm positive the joke wouldn't be funny to you if your wife/husband was caught on their knees in the VIP of a strip club.

  • Jusstlookn2

    People so noisy... Good for you and your Career. Children and Marriage are NOT end all be all to the key of life.

    Do you you and keep it 100

  • Readytochokemothernatureonout

    I feel bad for those who want to experience it and can't then there are those who can who kill or hurt theirs.

  • 1/8

    I'm like my mother; a giver. I feel empty when I'm not giving back. Animal shelters and the homeless are my causes/substitute for children.

  • MookieFly

    I feel like it's tough because some women enjoy their freedom and independence. Getting in a relationship and becoming pregnant means becoming codependent and after the baby is born, having someone to depend on you. Then again, so women just don't want no effing kids

  • pizzle

    Im pretty sure she had fertility issues all along and is blaming it on her career because of the stigma because her acting career is hardly worth missing out on a baby. To be honest people weren't really checking for her until she started dating Dwayne at least I wasn't

  • Bootcampgirl

    Actually I'm 41, When I was younger it just wasn't in my plans now that I'm older it's still really not. I kind of like the freedom to pick up and leave when I want, basically my freedom period. Kids take a lot of your time and I don't think at this time in my life, that's not what I want. I am also not in a relationship but who knows I might meet that "one" that changes my perspective on everything....stranger things have happened..

  • Jusstlookn2

    And that okay too!

  • drippetydrop

    spot on

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  • Sassy24

    I just don't find the crumb snatches appealing at the moment.

  • DivineMsM

    Thanks so much for responding and sharing. I'll be on your heels in a bit age wise, lol. We share the same stance.
    I can't recall, did you handle your co-worker that was spilling the beans about your life outside of work? I was following, then fell off (at least I think it was you).

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    WOW...cuz if I'm gone keep the TROUBLE MAKER(the man)...just me ,as a person,cud NOT dislike the child.but this is just Me.

  • Pretzels

    A lot of women stay when they know their man has cheated. They love each other and it's a good thing he already has children. She can adopt and I am sure Wade wouldn't have a problem with it.

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  • howard_student

    What foes Gabby know about corporate america? Girl just admit, you can't have kids. Its OK, no one is judging you

  • howard_student

    What foes Gabby know about corporate america? Girl just admit, you can't have kids. Its OK, no one is judging you

  • howard_student

    What foes Gabby know about corporate america? Girl just admit, you can't have kids. Its OK, no one is judging you

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  • Teachmeeatme

    They can't have kids b/c they inside prob rotten from past relationships... IJS.... that can be a reason too.....

  • Teachmeeatme

    They can't have kids b/c they inside prob rotten from past relationships... IJS.... that can be a reason too.....

  • Teachmeeatme

    They can't have kids b/c they inside prob rotten from past relationships... IJS.... that can be a reason too.....

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I was about to say look at LTL rooting for sisterhood. Oh well...

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I was about to say look at LTL rooting for sisterhood. Oh well...

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I was about to say look at LTL rooting for sisterhood. Oh well...

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  • AmericanMade

    I think she feels absolutely embarrassed with that fake smile and on the inside she's dying, but don't wanna let the world know it, but I'm not fooled, she's transparent to me at least. Before the news broke of the baby, if you remember, some side chick posted a picture of his gym bags while she was in his home on the internet, and gabby laughed it off (I forgot what she said)then this baby news broke! Phony.

  • AmericanMade

    I think she feels absolutely embarrassed with that fake smile and on the inside she's dying, but don't wanna let the world know it, but I'm not fooled, she's transparent to me at least. Before the news broke of the baby, if you remember, some side chick posted a picture of his gym bags while she was in his home on the internet, and gabby laughed it off (I forgot what she said)then this baby news broke! Phony.

  • AmericanMade

    I think she feels absolutely embarrassed with that fake smile and on the inside she's dying, but don't wanna let the world know it, but I'm not fooled, she's transparent to me at least. Before the news broke of the baby, if you remember, some side chick posted a picture of his gym bags while she was in his home on the internet, and gabby laughed it off (I forgot what she said)then this baby news broke! Phony.

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Shole did cuz the chic was doing a whole lotta extra bout talking bout how Wade chef made the BEST chocolate chip cookies!I'm with you tho.she didn't wanna be the loser.but you wanna know sumthin else.ppl don't believe that when you yerself causes JUDGEMENT to fall on yourself.it never comes back as QUIET or the SAME WAY 'you/me/anybody else' may have sent it out!she slept with Wade by a married man by cover of night and/or cover of a lie.but now she's GOTTA live with what that same TRICK of a cover of night or lie she herself used to watch HIS baby grow everyday... Or as long as God so wills it.PITY,she don't need it.a REALITY CHECK,sure...but not pity!

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Shole did cuz the chic was doing a whole lotta extra bout talking bout how Wade chef made the BEST chocolate chip cookies!I'm with you tho.she didn't wanna be the loser.but you wanna know sumthin else.ppl don't believe that when you yerself causes JUDGEMENT to fall on yourself.it never comes back as QUIET or the SAME WAY 'you/me/anybody else' may have sent it out!she slept with Wade by a married man by cover of night and/or cover of a lie.but now she's GOTTA live with what that same TRICK of a cover of night or lie she herself used to watch HIS baby grow everyday... Or as long as God so wills it.PITY,she don't need it.a REALITY CHECK,sure...but not pity!

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Shole did cuz the chic was doing a whole lotta extra bout talking bout how Wade chef made the BEST chocolate chip cookies!I'm with you tho.she didn't wanna be the loser.but you wanna know sumthin else.ppl don't believe that when you yerself causes JUDGEMENT to fall on yourself.it never comes back as QUIET or the SAME WAY 'you/me/anybody else' may have sent it out!she slept with Wade by a married man by cover of night and/or cover of a lie.but now she's GOTTA live with what that same TRICK of a cover of night or lie she herself used to watch HIS baby grow everyday... Or as long as God so wills it.PITY,she don't need it.a REALITY CHECK,sure...but not pity!

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Is that Reverend Bishop Mother Patterson, New York's mama?

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Is that Reverend Bishop Mother Patterson, New York's mama?

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    Is that Reverend Bishop Mother Patterson, New York's mama?

  • Queen Negus

    Well said. I have a friend from high school that is Gabe's Cousin. Bae Bee she acts that she is high and mighty in real live before Dwade. She also don't claim some family members so her not claiming baby is not news to her family.

  • Queen Negus

    Well said. I have a friend from high school that is Gabe's Cousin. Bae Bee she acts that she is high and mighty in real live before Dwade. She also don't claim some family members so her not claiming baby is not news to her family.

  • Queen Negus

    Well said. I have a friend from high school that is Gabe's Cousin. Bae Bee she acts that she is high and mighty in real live before Dwade. She also don't claim some family members so her not claiming baby is not news to her family.

  • BRING THE PAYNE

    Yea nanna boo,that TYPE of delusion has to be honed.I don't doubt that in gabs mind.shyt like that goes hand in hand with PROTECTING MY FAMILY reasoning.the baby that's walking around with that bad grade of hair(no doubt his dad cursed him with),tho Bless the lil shuga heart.clearly is a sign along the way Wade wasn't thinking bout anything but his needs and PROTECTION of her never once crossed his mind. let alone PROTECTION of a family!!!

  • shell

    they are failing to mention spending 10 plus years swallowing birth control pills, morning after pills and having abortions...ijs

  • Intellectual by Nature!

    Very sorry to hear that. Sound advice, indeed .

  • AmericanMade

    You're so right. ..

  • wonderwoman

    So true...

  • niki123

    How do you know Chrissy still has 10 years? Or any for that matter?

  • Enoughsaid2020

    Not everyone women is meant to have kids, just be happy with your life. Adopt if you really want some kids, because a lot need good homes, and parents.

  • Queen Negus

    IMO it could have been planned yes planned . Before break baby it was rumored the guys on that team is gayish and their bomenfriends. Well after baby, not another talk about his manhood since he produce the baby. Celebs hid kids from the public for yeons but not if it is to clear up g@y rumors.

  • Queen Negus

    Night.

  • Rhyme and Reason

    Low self-esteem, colorism complex, insecure previous mean girl, his money and the lifestyle and not having to spend so much of her own, PR and social status of being a celebrity couple, better than being alone logic (take it, and fake it)!

  • Unita Lucinda “Lucy” Freebush

    I bet you a dollar to a doughnut Dwade's ex-wife, Siovaughn, would agree with this statement. It ain't all fun when the rabbit's got the gun. I understand this topic may be sensitive for some, but everyone has an opinion, this is a blog, sometimes shade is made, and many things are said here that everyone will not agree upon. Hope this help someone.

  • AnniA

    Christy is 29?? Bish where??

  • ???

    So awesome!!!!

  • ???

    ??????congratulations khaki! That is WONDERFUL news !!

  • ???

    Bol @ your 18 cause that's my 15!

  • ???

    Awwww ? sads!

  • ???

    Very cool!

  • Blue

    Lordy BTP. You cuttin up tahday.

  • Livelifeatl

    What's wrong with Intimate therapy session??

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Thanks boo. ???

  • Mrs. (Asexual) Elmo

    She is special though....Just like the rest.

  • Noize4u

    The reason some of them can't have babies is because in their younger days when they were trying to get it in Hollywood they probably had so many abortions because they didn't want to ruin their careers and now they're paying for it .

  • Dr.Rue

    I was thinking the same thing lol Dwayne stays busy.

  • Sincerity7

    I'm confused. In a nutshell, is she trying to say that only basic chicks are fertile???

  • nomercynograce

    he is a gay man that will never be interested in you no reason to attack the man
    NOMERCYNOGRACE!

  • nomercynograce

    can you communicate without cursing? no wonder god made you barren for so long.

  • nomercynograce

    lol looking in the mirror.? attacking doesn't burn calories.

  • nomercynograce

    bitter women have trouble conceiving sometimes. you are taking out your anger on the wrong person

  • nomercynograce

    you two must share brain cells. two overweight loud know it all that cosign each other.

  • nomercynograce

    baby and no husband typical

  • nomercynograce

    2 babies different daddy still no husband no wonder you cosign

  • nomercynograce

    god nows who deserves children

  • nomercynograce

    how would you know about being married an having babies don't you have two bastards.?

  • AllmylifeIhadtofight

    Nows or knows??? Use correct grammar when attempting to correct someone. Yes I can speak without using profanity, yet I chose to at my leisure. Also I wasn't barren due to being bitter idiot. I was never bitter during the process. Romans 8:28. Now God bless you real good and never reply to me again!!

  • mzwhang90210

    Wait...I just noticed that you called that man "Sugar Lo!"
    *FAINT*

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    I HAD "THEY DON'T DANCE NO MO" ON THE BRAIN LOL

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    SINCE I'M LURKING AROUND WAITING ON A POST TO DROP...GOOD MORNING WHANG!

    AND PATRICK STEWART DID HIS FIRST EVER POST COITAL SCENE ON BLUNT TALK THIS WEEKEND...CONSIDERING HIS TENURE I THINK THAT'S BEEN A LONG TIME COMING? PUN INTENDED.

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    DON'T FORGET THAT PHOTOSHOOT...

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    I'M DANCING WITH HIM LMAO

  • Low E. {CIRCA 1908}

    THIS IS HOW I MEANT IT BOOTCAMP-G BOL!

  • Bernadette Jackson

    No. She's saying that single women get stigmatized for choosing their careers first.

  • Bernadette Jackson

    She was an intern before she became an actress. And what she said about women, especially Black women, in the corporate world isn't new.

  • Bernadette Jackson

    Actually, she's not blaming any infertility issues on her career. She's saying that there are people who place that stigma on career women. I've also heard people basically say that if a woman wanted children she should have had them early instead of going for that cheddar. No one does it to men, but it's a fact of life that the longer a woman waits to have children the harder it is.

  • Bernadette Jackson

    I'm one of them. A life partner, yes. A child? No. And what's crazy is that I enjoy children and think I'd make a great mother. But I like my freedom more.

  • Bernadette Jackson

    Sorry but your story is my nightmare. All those children and no regular father in the house? No ma'am! You are definitely stronger than me.

  • Neicey

    Yes, I know its women who kids father aren't shat! But my 3 dad do his job. I Might not like him, but he does what his suppose to. They don't need a regular father, They have one. .the 3 dad is regular. And my husband is supportivr Despite the any marital problems, they have the benefit of a regular Father. And supportive step father...but I am strong! ???