NFL star Russell Wilson popped the question to his girlfriend, singer Ciara Harris, today.
The 27-year-old Seattle Seahawks quarterback posted a video on Instagram.com that shows the couple in a darkened room. “She said YES!” says Wilson, who seems more excited than Ciara.
The 30-year-old bride-to-be flashed her huge engagement ring at the camera and made a whining sound that sounded more like regret than unbridled joy.
The couple dated for less than a year. Some people may say less than a year is way too early to get engaged to a man she barely knows. Especially since she just got out of a relationship with her 1-year-old son’s father, rapper Future.
Congrats to Ciara for once again bagging a baller.
Wilson seems like a very nice man.
I’m so happy for them.
Well I wish them the best, cause I thought it was gonna be a PR stunt. Congrats to the new couple.
Talk about sucking the life out of a party…lol
You can know someone for 10 years, then realize they’re not the one for you…..When you know, you just know.
Congrats to the couple!
He must of gotten tried of jacking off to Clara’s videos.
Congratulations, too the couple. I hope everything works out for them.
I’m happy for them!
Happy for them !
Go Cici!!
Congrats!
Um he’s only 27?
Yessss congrats!! Beautiful couple!
Who was the first baller she was with?
Beautiful! I hope this last for the both of them!!!
It’s been less than a year? Dang, it feels longer than that. Either way, congrats to them. They look genuinely happy!
CONGRATULATIONS CICI & RUSSELL
Sometimes you just know when you have someone special. Good for them
Bow wow?
Maybe I need the blog definition of baller. Lmao.
Future rant in 3…2…1…
O yea it was
Lmao
Awww!
Rant for what? He didnt want her
Future probably isn’t
So happy for this beautiful couple ,May their marriage be like a three fold cord. ( If you know the Bible , you’ll know what I’m saying.
I bet he said the very same thing to his first wife !!!!
Men are infantile sometimes. They don’t want you but then don’t want no one else to have you.. He has been acting off since she started dating him… so Im waiting on a petty congrats/shade tweet from him
So happy for them!!! CiCi keep those Kardashian yamps (young tramps) away from your boo! No need to broadcast…happiness speaks for itself
The best revenge is living well 
They don’t want to see you happy *in my Khaled voice*
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He has been butt hurt though.
LOL yeeep…
Geez that’s a big rock…Congrats!
You shade her by saying her noise made sounds like regret, and it’s too soon for an engagement, then you congratulate her. You are so contradictory when it comes to these two.
Umm it’s been a year. We rewriting history??
So happy for them,??hopefully this is their happy ending or beginning ??
Yay Russell and Cici!!! You deserve it.
He’s already been done wrong by the ex I think he’s staying away from the other side.
Yay. Congrats to them.
If Russell is gone off of her without sex just wait until she gives him some. Its a wrap.
Me too. I stay rooting for Ciara i think she got a good one this time.
ZMT is so disrespectful. Talking about he’s one step closer to banging the singer ?
Congrats Ciara!! I know you can’t wait to jump on that peen!!????
Yessssssssssssssssssssssss, go head Russell, set the example.. I love it… Wishing Nothing but happiness for yall
one of the blogs said they had dinner with Kim and slobbering/helmet wearing Ye a couple of months ago
They (her and Kim) used to be tight when she was dating Stoudamire (sp?). I just hope she doesn’t try to fit in again. Russell doesn’t seem to be about that bs 
LOL
Now this is clearly my favorite celebrity couple after the POTUS & FLOTUS. I am elated for them both and wish them a lifetime of happiness.
Congrats!
Now that ring ain’t 3/4 of a carat. #petty. Hey Future, what else Russell got that’s bigger than yours????? #turnonthelights
*hollering*
especially if she does that Matrix move while on the peen
Right! LOL
I’m so happy for them!!! Feels like its me!!?
Even if he wasn’t the Kartrashians would not be his type.
I’m so happy for these two!!!
????Congratulations to them. Happy for her.
Congrats to them!!!!!
He betta not with looming lawsuit.
Lol
LMAOOOOOOOOOO
Yes I have too. He’s an awesome guy with a big heart. Yes she did good.
Lol
Bwhahaha ??
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YAY! I can’t wait for the wedding pics. I love these two!
Lol
That is not too short of a time with two full grown people who know what they want. That’s what’s wrong with some people….they want to date forever with no committment. Russell is a Godly man (seems to be) who has been married before. He’s not immature and understands that he’s not some little boy. He’s not playing any games. Ciara is a mother. Congrats to them. Even if he likes her more, good, he’s supposed to. Even if she’s making the logical/practical choice, good, cause he’s not a bad one. Also, if she’s smart, she won’t regret it down the road.
“I wanna ROCK right now” Rob Base
Got Damn at that Rang!!!
Some people may say less than a year is way too early to get engaged to a man she barely knows.
^^^^^
Who?Who said that?
Congrats. He seem to really live her and she trully seem happy.
I believe he wants her to move on from Future… That’s a confident man right there
Congrats to them!!
I’m next!!
Sandra Rose. I don’t understand how people deem themselves qualified to make determinations for other people’s relationships. I don’t comment on same-sex relationships because I’ve never been in a same-sex relationship. Let the heteros cook and do as they please. An engagement is for them to plan their wedding and continue to get to know one another. That’s all.
Hopefully she doesn’t kick him ,,like she did dude at her concert .
Future gonna be like
Somebody please check on @Sandra. ?
Chile, they’ve been dating longer than a year. By the time everyone else caught or passed wind…
Maybe this will settle some of these folk down. People have life experiences. We aren’t perfect. It’s when you don’t or won’t admit your life experience is when there’s a greater problem.
I wish them the best. That little boy is fortunate to have a dad in his grandfather and Rus. Not many men would take on the responsibility of a child not of their loins. It takes a village
This what she wanted I hope she actually get to walk down the aisle this time around everyone deserve happiness. And less than a year for these celebs is a long time aunty
Khloe got married after 30 days…
Kim… Well we already know.
Hopefully NONE of the Kardashian will be at her wedding.
Make it a private affair Cici PLEEASSEEER
It does! Kinda like her pregnancy. Lol. It seemed like Ci was carrying Baby Future for 1 1/2 years.
In Hollywood it is like 10 years
+1
3/4th carat? From one who…nevermind.
WELL TAKE THAT FUTURE & KHLO-HOE, LOL…
Congrats boo ?
DEAD
I see they have the mindset of a grade schooler…and Khloe Simpson.
Aww, Congratulations to the happy couple! !
Wait! That’s right. She did Miguel someone.
His head gone snap right off ~Grandma Klump~
I think a lot of people forget that he dumped her. Wilson plays the PR games and likes the attention, but Future didn’t. Not every guy wants to be attend every event just to be photographed or have the paps in your face and have your business all on social media. He stated this in his interviews and I believe him because a lot of celebrities are like that. That’s what Ciara and Russell are about, so this worked for them. My 2 cents: I think he is gay, but has to portray that family man image and needed someone to help him accomplish that. This is strictly a business agreement: She gets fame and fortune and he gets to stay in the closet. She’ll probably pop out a baby too.
Exactly just ask Mariah lol when you know you know chile. Now future’s comment section on ig is a mess
Godfather met and married my godmother within a month. Celebrated 50 years last year. If it’s meant to be, it will be.
I know in my soul Next year is big mad …chicken wings & fries we dont go on dates ..Lil boy u should pay attention ..yo retarded looking ass might learn some thing .
If Blac Chyna and Rob ended up together… maybe Future and Khloe might end up going together.
It’ll probably never happen but…stranger things have happened.
We seen what they did to Future page. Does his ex have an IG? Goes to look. *cackles*
Doubt the wedding will be private. Nothing her and Russell have done has been private.
Bruce lee-ed that boy … & u know her toes long
RIIIGHT…YOU SAW WHAT THAT THEY DID TO TRINA (JAMES HARDEN & MR. HAAAAN–FRENCHIE), BLACK CHYNA (TYGA) & AMBER (KANYE)…CHICKS ARE RUTH-TO DA-LESS, LOL…JUST SAD & COLD-BLOODIED…FRIENDSHIP MEANS NOTHING TO THEM; CAUTIONARY TALE–BE CAREFUL WHO YOU CALL A FRIEND & WHO YOU TRUST!
I think 1-2 years of dating is enough time, I dated my husband for about almost 2 years before we got engaged. At least he know what he wants some women be with the same guy for 5, 10 years plus w no ring.
Congrats CiCI!
You know what? I’m not even going to lie. After reading @Khakiincolorbutnotlightskin, ZMT, and @SG comments, I saw a whole different statement other than the one you wrote. I was about to throw a yellow flag on the play.
& those women are foolish
Exactly
Congratulations to the lovely couple
Future will never settle even if he get married he will be a terrible husband the man just can’t stay faithful
Then there’s chicks like Tara from LHHNY…
He’s a dog … I wouldn’t say never but definitely not any time soon
You’re probably right. The real bad part is when men like this raise sons who end up just like them.
yassss
What is Klohzilla KarTrash’s response? Keep sucking all those dicks and giving up that worn silicone arse on the 1st date, bish ?
Yeah, you’d hope nobody would stay that trifling all their life.
Tuah , that manufactered cunt need to take notes …
I like them together…BOTH were with the WRONG person prior & one can only HOPE it LASTS…FOREEEEVVVVA
Congrats shatt!!!
Maybe dog years, LOL…
LOL…he ain’t gonna know what hit him.
He wasn’t to begin with. Never has and unfortunately, may never be.
Now maybe this will hursh folks up talking about Russ ain’t the pappy and shouldn’t be around the young master.
But her baby (by another man) is only a year old.
I can imagine
He lost her then he’s about to loose 20 Milli.
Cici is my new hero
May the back-crackin’ commence…weeeelllllll soon to commence…GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT & IF TRUE–TEACH HIM SOME THAAANGS, CI…OHHH THAT HUNK OF A REGGIE BUSH, LOL…CUTIE PIE!
She’s been down this road before. She has a small collection of engagement rings to show for it. Why not wait 2 years to make sure the dopamine has faded and she’s making the right choice? What’s her hurry?
So what Auntie , its called being an adult and moving on ..
Sadly they do…til they get that prostate cancer…
Yes, 1ashtonwilson…she hasn’t posted in 17 weeks…maybe she got a new IG….
This pic reminds me of her jubilation with Future. Seems like these two are rushing.
u would think he hit & quit some ppl on this blog with the venom some ppl have 4 Future??? sheesh. pick better men.
I would agree with you, but there’s that little problem with the 80% divorce rate in the black community. I blame the high divorce rate on women who rush down the aisle because they don’t have patience to wait.
Ring ? so big she’ll be wearing a wrist brace after while… You deserve IT ? in my future voice ?
Brain, house, bank account, amount of common sense, balls…the list is endless.
I really don’t think the amount of time matters. I have a friend who met her now husband two to three months before leaving for the army. Married him maybe two months after basic training and have been married since 2000. Have another friend who dated her now husband for two to three years before getting engaged for a good minute and then married. They’ve been married since 2001. So yea it’s all about the love nothing more nothing less. When you know you know. Congrats to CiCi and Russ. I’m so proud to see my sisters that everyone keeps counting out winning. Cici and Tasia bounced back on that azz bigger and better.
I remember my female Communications Professor told our class you should get to know someone for at least 3 years before marrying them. That always remained in my head. I think this is sensible advice especially for people ages 20 – 40. After 40, less time is needed because you have lived somewhat and have a better sense of who you are and what you want. Russell is going to get his heart broken. He seems like a nice guy too. Pics of Ciara say she’s not that in to him, but I was chalking up her sad look to the drama/stress with Future, but she doesn’t have that starry, lovestruck look in her eyes or a glow when she’s with Russell. I don’t know. All we can do is wish them well.
I BUSTED OUT LAUGHING ?????
ppl get engaged everyday B…. post the wedding pix!
You would have to ask her. Some people have a lot of love to give. It takes finding the right person to make it work. I literally drive the same roads all the time. They get me to and from my destination so I can do what I need to do. Figuratively, she went down similar paths and they didn’t lead her to where she wanted to be in a relationship, but she found something different with someone different. Why not celebrate their happiness rather than dog these two young, beautiful people?!.
I’m convinced that some folks can’t be happy for others because they’re not happy themselves. I’m all for shade every now and then, but when everything is shade and sarcasm, there’s a problem.
If I was her, if get pregnant on my wedding night . Just in case it don’t work out.
So uncalled for.
Congrats to them!!!!
Agreed!
I think he will go public just for her, she will do it public as a revenge for Future and to show the others before Future, 50, Jay (heard that’s why Beyonce don’t like her and clap back with tracks and similar concepts that Ciara is coming up with..lately Rihanna does the dirty work), Bow Wow, Omarion, Marques Houston, Jazze Pha, Missy(?) I think there were more…
You’re kidding, I hope.
“I’m not internationally known, but I’m known to rock the microphone” Yesss! When listening to rap was fun!
Future this you?
To be fair…they’re just engaged. People stay engaged quite a long time some times.
+1
Congrats on the engagement im so happy for them. Love when its real is a beautiful thing.
Why do you think he is gay? Just wondering.
…Wait what Batman from IMX have to do with anything and what happened with Jigga?
Love the stunningly beautiful Ciara. Let this serve as a lesson to other young black women. Just because you have a baby by a hoodrat, that one mistake need not seal your destiny. There are intelligent, successful, RESPECTFUL men out there (yeah, not too many of them are black, but a few are). FIND ONE. Don’t settle. Congratulations CiCi for bringing a POSITIVE MALE ROLE MODEL into your son’s life.
Love this
Lol gay? Why cause he is a nice well mannered man? Future dont like paps but he is a full fledged celeb as well? I agree that future probably dont care that they are engaged but come on with the extra stuff. Maybe , just maybe, they are in love
Lmfao googling
*rolls eyes at post* yes, women do need to pick better men. However, why not require men to stop being assholes and jerks and deadbeats? I love how it’s always on a woman. Smh. Whatever.
Yayyyy Ciara !!???
I don’t think quantitative years has to do with anything. It’s more qualitative data. Ie how well you know the person. You can know someone for a long time and never really know who they are. You can meet some people and you just click and know each other very intimately. There’s no science or rules to love.
Amen.
Not easily broken!
Right…it has to be personal and not just the fact that any woman with sense usually isn’t a fan of disrespectful misogynists.
i really REALLY want this to work for them! russ seems like a solid dude. im so happy for these beautiful people ?
Russell was with his ex 6 years, they were engaged for 2, and look how that worked out. They are doing what works for them.
2 years
They went public in less than a year I am sure they have been dating longer
Exactly its funny these young girls chase after these hard thug acting men when they the main ones who like lady boys. Russ is respectful and has a real job yet doesn’t sag or use slang so he gotta be gay. Sad very sad. That mans not gay. Future was the first one to run to the blogs and talk about the breakup. Then he dropped a mixtape to try to out shine Ciara and it still didnt work. Not today satan.
Doesn’t like attention but talked smack about Ciara publicly, tweeted about her from his public account…but doesn’t like attention.
True… but disrespectful misogynists usually have a woman in their life when they want one,so… some women seem to find these men attractive.
Me too. Now that’s what I call resilience.
??? he’s busy. Having rich sex and effin up commas.
women who rush down the aisle because they don’t have patience to wait.
^^^^
How long were Monica and Shannon together before they got married? ?
Mmhm. I’ve got my petty Fetty eye on you. (Beystank face) LOL
Other CiCi News– soooo now the host of Sipping KOCKtails (or whatever that junk is called) wants to “blame” others for misconstrued words & EDITING, when talking about Ciara & Russell…PEOPLE SAW YOUR INFLATED LIPS MOVE & CLEARLY SPOKE OF THEM BOTH…you made the COMMENT then OWN IT…MAYBE take their lead & GIVE YOUR PUSS A BREAK–YOU MIGHT BE ABLE TO SEE CLEARLY NOW–CELIBACY AIN’T EASY, LOL..
Congrats to them. If he had waited any longer Auntie would insist that he was reluctant to put a ring on it because of ciara’s supposed heaux past. AND YOU KNOW THIS.
To be dumped denied over and over only to finally quit dating rappers and find the real one. I’m so happy for her.
It never gets old.
Stay mad sandra.. 1 year with no sex = 10 years … You can’t do nothing but get to know each other with no Pu$$y haa lol
The ring is so big it looks fake lol. Wonder what the wedding ring will look like. I see you Russell.
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Yes me too!
Lmbo
Congrats to Them. I love them together!!!
This right here is a blessing
Then they’ll be able to knock some boots soon! LOL jk. That’s a lovely ring Cierror!
Come through with the facts, come through! ??
Stupid. She should’ve hit that first…what if he’s wack in bed…or into some weird stuff.
I’m going to have anxiety attacks until they get married. LOL I know there’s a lot of negative energy towards them.
My Uber driver (from Pakistan) had an arranged marriage. Saw his future wife (who happened to be his cousin) but never spoke to her until their wedding night. They have been married 25 years, have two daughters in college and are still madly in love. No rules to this “successful marriage” thing.
I have faith it will. He’s a good guy and catch.
Eeew lmao I was with you until I read cousin.
Congrats. ..wishing you the best
Monica doesn’t have a small collection of engagement rings like Ciara does. Monica was only engaged once before.
Something tells me Ciara won’t stay engaged long. She will insist on a quickie wedding. What’s her rush?
His problem!
With a ring like that, who needs sex?
I’m not mad hun. I like Ciara (even though she runs the other way when she sees me at the mall). I’m concerned that she keeps making the same mistakes with men. I’m baffled as to why she’s so anxious to symbolically replace her father. They seem close. Maybe her dad wasn’t around much in her formative years?
Its been a little over a year. He said his pastor said she was a nice girl for him back in Jan 2015. Nosey people always think they know every step these people take lol
Her excitement seems so…..mmm I’m trying to find the word for it. Russell does seem more excited.. Maybe that is how she shows her excitement I don’t know………
So Future wasn’t all in the media for photo ops…when he was with Ciara?
Thank you.Everything they do is on social media. I wondering if they will show him getting it for the first time. Like i mentioned before they need a reality show because their business stays on social media.
Good for her
chile cici just want the D1ck.. after about 2 nuts she’ll be back looking for hood d1ck. russ looks weak in between the sheets.. but congrats
Thinking the same thing……
She wasn’t engaged to Corey? You got it. Ok.
But Monica had a small collection of kids… Sooooo a cpl rings with no kids and a cpl kids with no ring?? Think the scales balance out.
Exactly!
Chyna removed your name of her hand and C got that rock on her finger
^^^^^^
They over on Fuschia page acting up
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As much as future kept her name in his mouth , talked about her on a regular & dripppled all her business to the public . Yup! I could tell he doesn’t like attention too.
She seems so fake and over the top – in s yt valley girl type of way. Didn’t she grow up in Atlanta
Hold up, she was in interviews saying she was getting married to C murder and then the man who killed himself. And she got married 6 months after meeting her husband. Ijs
Flat lined…,,,raise up to read again and flat line again..
Every saint have a past and every sinner has a Future. ( hee hee hee)
OT – That rock is outstanding.
Missy J email me anastasiaevans19@gmail.com
That’s what he get piece of shyt
Look at GOD. One mans trash is another man’s treasure!!! #TRUSTGODWHENTHEYWALKAWAY
She wanted a bad boy.
#BOOM
Giggles
Me too, this should women. You dont have to sleep with a man to get him to marry you.
Close your legs ladies. God wasnt stupid when he told us this.
He knows how he programmed men to chase and concur.
Russell is God fearing, not a man trying to have a baby mama in every town.
Girl change your life, i am happy for her!
Blackfolks are the biggest hater on the planet.
They want everyone to be miserable like them.
Thats sad.
I am praying for this couple. BLACK LOVE IS REAL. FIGHT FOR IT,
That was funny album thanks for the image, I can see him slouched in the sofa jacking off and then slicking his hair back with his essence?
there is something about a social media charged relationship….
what happens when no one is watching anymore? stop making your relationship a show.
Woooooohooooo !?????????????????????????????????????
I would LOVE to be a fly on the wall. Their my favorite couple! Ciara is so sweet & deserves all the happiness in the world… Russell is very good with kids. He was excellent host of The Kids Choice awards last year.
Why Jack off when you got the real thing next you, just inches away?
Wow, so much detail.
She’s not from your single mama stereotypical home that you been preaching about, and its still a problem?
Love you Sandra. Gn. I’m exhausted. Figurative and literal
How do you explain her behavior? I’m thinking maybe her dad wasn’t around much during her formative years (age 2-7). You can grow up in a 2-parent home and still not get the nurturing and love you need.
So she falls out of love with Future and in less than a year she falls in love with Russel ?? Love is sacred not telivised
U right lol his dog ass dont care ?
God bless them.
When you’re not screwing constantly, you actually get to talk & know each other.. A year of doing just that is great. Congrats
I like you!
Yesssssssss!!! HA! Am I the only one that feel like Injist got back at Future like its me that engaged? I know pie face someone BIG MAD in the corner rocking back and forth saying this too shall pass NO ITS NOT! Nawl but for real I hope this lasts because it is showing woman that Ciara tried it both ways she got with a popular “bad boy” only for him to get her pregnant not show up for the birth go mess back with his last baby mama call her a bitch in front of millions lied on her talked bad about her every chance he got. Then she got with a ” he too nice guy” or a “lame” with money (what some dumb ppl call a man with morals and manners) didn’t sleep with him got the ring he treats the child with respect from what we can see and she winning now he even got a big bank roll yes I luv it!
That was a bytch move. I wouldn’t speak to your ass in the mall either. Strange how people have this faux sense of intimidation. AS Ci stated “I’m Complete”. She has a career, a child, money and a man that adores her. Her dad can’t do what Russell can and will do. That would be incest.
WELL IF THAT’S THE CASE THEN READING THE POST SHOULD HAVE MADE YOU BURST B/C IT WAS TOTALLY NEGATIVE & HATER FILLED. SMH!!! CONGRATS AND WOW CICI SOUNDED SO EXCITED LIKE SHE WAS READY TO EXPL0DE. LOL!!! …………JENNY JONES!!!
I always felt like Kim and the girls (you know the crew) looked a little down on Ciara. They hung with her like she was a charity case because she wasn’t on their level. She had albums, but she really had nothing going on. She always looked out of place like she was trying to keep up with them. At the end of the day, Kelly had the hosting gig oversees on a big show, Serena had tennis matches, Kim had the reality show and LaLa had whatever going on too. NOW, I think she will say “look at me”. Thing is, she will still be looked down upon because at the end of the day, she’s where she is today because of Russell. When she’s interviewed, she asked about Russell. She is known for being Russell’s girlfriend and now fiance. Just like Kim is looked down upon by some rich and famous because of her sex tape; Ciara will be looked down as a woman who rode the curtails of rich athlete.
I WONDER IF THE ENGAGEMENT MEANS RUSSELL WAS FINALLY ABLE TO GET RID OF HIS WIFE WHO WAS HOLDING UP THEIR DIVORCE TRYING TO GET PART OF HIS NEW CONTRACT HE SIGNED AFTER HE FILLED FOR DIVORCE?…….JENNY JONES!!!
Idk why but I hollered at this
Of course I can be wrong, but there is something fake and off about him. I must stress, it is just my opinion. Everyone looks at pictures of him and Ciara and say they look cute together. I look at the picture and I see someone who looks uncomfortable in his skin. Too, it seems like his past is buried or never existed. I searched online for any info about ex-girlfriends and whatnot in high school and can find nothing other than his ex-wife. Not a prom pic. Nothing. For someone who puts all his business with Ciara on social media, his divorce was silent and swift. His ex-wife is also been very quiet. Not a peep. I don’t believe the rumors that she cheated. I just believe that he probably struggled with his sexuality and religion and probably told her.
We’re not on the same level, so I will not answer your questions nor respond to your post. Good day.
Well Future said she wanted the reality show and televised wedding. Future was right when he said Ciara NEEDS Russell. Hopefully, one of her super fans who didn’t buy her album (but boost her low self esteem by telling Ciara and anyone who listens how beautiful she is), will not respond because this isn’t up for debate. She needs Russell to remain relevant.
Ditto ?. I’m a sucker for the Word.
We’re not on the same level. Peace
If I was Future, I’d be on tour somewhere excited that I didn’t fall for the bs and marry the chick.
I’m excited for them heck I’m excited when anybody finds love and get married marriage is cool sometimes you have to go thru the fire to find the one he is a good guy and she is a good girl so they deserve each other…kudos to them
I don’t expect you to understand the information at this link. Ask an adult to help you with the big words. http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/daughter-and-father-complex-issues
Congrats to Ciara for once again bagging a baller
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Less than one year with no sex translates to about 3 years with it, Auntie. They seem happy, so I’m happy for them. Congrats to them.
Yay, bout time, get it cc!!!!!!
COMPLETELY HAPPY FOR THIS GIRL!!! Let see if she gets the same support/following as the Kardashian for keeping her goodies to herself before getting married?!?!
Bullshit mumbo jumbo. All people (with or without 2 parent homes) make choices that will be a lesson in life. Ciara dated just like all young women do and shouldn’t be judged or condemned for it. Yes she picked a frog and procreated, so. But what she didn’t do was stay down. This young man pursued her and the rest is history. Why we can’t be happy for a young African American couple winning in life is confusing to me. I know Monica is your girl, but If you think about it both Monica and Ciara’s lives parallel. We got to do better as a society.
Exactly. She said what she said . Nobody misconstrued anything. We ain’t stupid.
Possibly. But sometimes in life you get it right the second time.
Its not so much that he dumped her… he cheated on her.
Big difference.
Any black man that’s educated, well spoken, and not ‘hood, will eventually have someone call him either “soft” or “gay”.
He didn’t marry any of his other baby mamas either, so…
He seems like the type that doesn’t hide *hit. I wouldn’t be surprised if she knew there was someone else, but thought by being pregnant and talking marriage, that he would somehow drop the other chick and change his ways. Females think like that at times and she seems like one of those chicks. Otherwise, someone would have to explain to me why after dating some dude for 8 months, she gets pregnant. Yeah, she gave an interview and said that the pregnancy was planned.Smh…
Exactly. He’s focused on his career right now. Say what you want about him as a rapper and father, but he works and works hard. He’s out there touring and his records are selling. Maybe when he gets in his 40’s, he’ll settle down.
They say men know very quickly if a woman is the one he wants to marry . I think they definitely spent plenty of time together …. And I’m happy for her and her son too!
Mumbo Jumbo. Ciara gives no fuks at this very moment. She is on the other side of the world with her Fiancee, a big azz engagement ring, sipping champagne, munching on fruit, and planning her wedding. Yes, unfortunately she bagged a frog and procreated with him, but It didn’t have anything to do with her father or mother. She chose wrong like we all do sometimes, but she moved on and up. Her son will now grow up with two parents in the home(s )(Cali the summer dwelling, and Seattle the winter dwelling). Hopefully the Ninja will get himself together for the sake of his Children(s). I will not be holding my breath for that. We must do better.
Yassssss I’m here for them both. Really like them as a couple.. they seem to balance each other.
Someone forever alone
You KNOW he’s TIGHT ASF!!
Yaaaay
Yes they are both women lol
I really dont think so .. I always question all these overly religious people and there abnormal religious mentality .. I have a feel they will break up soon and never make it to the wedding or wont stay married long ..
Who wrote this shitty azz article… better off just posting their instagram video and not writing anything. Writer sounded jealous and green-eyed. She seemed overwhelmed to me, and yes happy!!. Why wouldn’t she be happy? What is there to regret? Congrats Ciara and Russell… been praying for this day since you guys started dating. I love this couple!!
First congrats to the couple, so happy for them! Now on yo the b.s. . Ciara and Future have been over for almost two years, thus their son is almost two year old. It’s only because Future and his overzealous fans have been harassing Ciara that it seems like they just broke up. Russell and Ciara have been together for a year, long enough for two adults to decide to take the next step. Ciara is a 30 year old woman with one child and one ex fiancee, I don’t know why people act like she is damaged goods. Monica had two children by two different men, two ex fiancee`s before the age of 30. Then she met Shannon on the set of her music video and was married less than six months later. Shannon has a child previous to Monica. Russell has no children. Clearly Monica is no better than Ciara, though people want to imply that. As far as Ciara sounding fake on video, I mean this was recorded after the actual proposal, I’m sure they went thru their emotions immediately after. Who knows how much time lapsed in between, actually they both look tired, happy but tired. They have been traveling slot this past week. From the states to France to the Seychelles island.
“The greatest gift my husband gave me was no past” some lady. This has stuck with me. I’m happy for them. But dont kid yourself. You are not a beautiful, rich, singer,model, and dancer. It takes money to find money. You have a kid with a guy like future and see how hard it is too keep a man and for that man to value you. Once a person has a kid that means that they thought highly of someone. So now your kid with them is second. Just keep in mind ciara circumstance and ours is different. Everybody see what future did. All they would see with us is a recklous(sp) woman touting a child.
This is what happens when you abstain. I’ve learned so I don’t have to be Soon2BeWife forever! Lol
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I agree! Peace to you also
( I’m being sarcastic)
Right! Plus, Future is a perpetual Baby Daddy who will never get married and will still be having babies with random’s well into his late 50’s. He is the type of man whose oldest will be 31 and his youngest will be 9months. FOH talking about he didn’t want to be at every event. Yet, this was the same lame that wasn’t there for the birth of Future Jr. but I guess that was too “PR” for him. She was willing to be a sister wife and errrthang and was taking family pics and ish with all 19 of his B.M.s.; which I thought was an awful look. Some men are not capable of being with a woman on their level or above and I believe this was the case with him. Then they get in their feelings when the woman moves on and up. He doesn’t want her but wants her to remain single, lonely, and in love with him for the rest of her life.
Because his a successful black man that isn’t a baby daddy, isn’t a thug, adores C-error, and stepped-up and proposed. Anybody too good in our community is “gay”. All black women have an amazing gaydar yet get fooled most often by downlow brothers, lol!
So anybody that disagrees with you is not on your level? I wonder how that will go over if I use that at work. “You disagree with how I’ve written up the proposal…..you’re not on my level peace”.
Dude is a baller a quaterback. He can tackle all her ends. Bad guys are good for one thing, leaving you with a child & brokenhearted.
I thought there was a story about her on here? But okay I see I assumed there were some rumors or something. Lol but geez over there like a detective. Thank god I’m not famous. I didn’t date much in hs nor did I go to any proms because I hated my school and was one of those kids who was pretentious and “anti-establishment.” Lmfao I guess I’d be thought to be a lesbian too.
I’m so happy for them!!! And a man knows when he wants to marry a woman, no one forced him. For all those who say it’s too soon look at those woman who have multiple children by the same man and he still won’t marry her, so what exactly is the problem here? He’s doing RIGHT and people still complain -_-
And once they are married he has a lifetime for her to teach him how to hit it like a “hood” ninja lol
Same ROFL ?
I’m the same way when I’m opening a gift or being watched for a reaction. It’s not that I’m not excited or don’t like it, it just comes off that way, and I hate it. Maybe she’s the same way.
LOL at this picture.
Good for her. So what Ithey were engaged less than a year. What about the folks who have 2,3 and 4 year relationships get married and still get divorced.
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Just because he doesn’t have 15 baby mamas, isn’t promiscuous and didn’t cheat on his ex wife means he’s gay? Lol. That’s a damn shame that people thinks that’s what makes a man a man…
??? so happy for them!
Rich musician . I believe Russell is the first athlete she’s been with.
Kim has nothing going on but being naked, from what we read here Lala is bi so she probably like looking at Kim nkd pics.
Ciara always come up with creative ideas but is always seen as off the radar. Hopefully this marriage is real. She probably fall in love too easily. By the end of this year, she might be pregnant again… We’ll see
glad to see media interest on a positive black couple…..
I gave a list of people she has been linked and/or rumored to be with.
No relation with Batman and Jigga, I believe Batman, O and Bow Wow where first
Awwwwwww Black Love????????
I know I mean I never heard of anything to do with Batman or Jay. Lol I wanted to hear the rumor because I’m nosy.
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So true. She has issues that are really being over looked. People are just concerned about her looks. The men that left her had their reasons but again they are blamed. Ciara is controlling. I don’t have to know her to see this. I wish Russell the best, he’s gonna need it.
this relationship has garnered so much publicity. Ciara doesn’t even have to make music anymore.. I won’t believe it until it happens!
Future is History. Lol
Congratulations Russell & Ciara?? Beautiful sexy couple?
He wasn’t accused of being gay when he was with his white ex?? I think its difficult for this generation to believe that their relationship is real because its been rarely seen.
We have had over 10 years of media coverage of just Black men and mixed or white women and Black women being portrayed as baby mama’s with thugs, this relationship stands out because they are both beautiful young and in shape.
I for one find them more interesting than Jay/ Bey or Kanye / Chris Brownn/Rihanna/Puffy/Cassie/ Kim Porter…..
He was.
I think she has some issues too.Some I think are deep rooted.
Probably. You asked a question and I gave you an answer. Why did you feel the need to discuss it further?
It is like you’re knocking at my door for whatever reason and I don’t answer because I know whatever you got, I don’t want.
Please, stop knocking
Please stop knocking
Calm your tits. There was no malice nor am I faulting you for your opinion. Like I said, I don’t care enough to do detective work so I figured there were actual rumors since you weren’t the only one who stated he might be gay and you had the longest response regarding why the relationship was doomed. As for discussing it further, this is a COMMENT FORUM. the whole intended purpose is to “discuss things further” otherwise we’d just get an article sans a reply link right? Your reasoning just made me reflect on my own personal details or lack thereof about my relationships and how I’d be doomed to lesbianism if I ever got famous at this point is all. Sorry if you took offense sheesh.
No offense taken and I apologize if you were offended by my response, but I just didn’t feel like going through a whole back and forth about 2 celebrities.
It seems like they live their relationship for social media. It seems like one big photo op.
It wasn’t detective work, but I wondered too why people were saying he was gay. Regardless if he’s gay or not, I have a bigger issue with CTE, which isn’t talked about much on these boards. Have a good weekend.
Chile
Welcome
Beautifully said, THANK YOU!!!
I wish them the best!!!!!
Right.. Because those material things are more important than having self esteem or self worth. Women like Ciara base their self worth on external validation. Sadly, that ring won’t make her happy in the long run. The wedding won’t either, and neither will the reality show or the wedding magazine covers. Russell will find out the hard way that he is not responsible for Ciara’s happiness.
Lol i understand. It wasn’t a setup to try and bait you into an argument – I don’t like to do the passive aggressive stuff. I was just laughing at myself really. have a good weekend love!
I laughed at myself too.
me too I stay routing for Ciara, she been thru hell with her dudes.
sandra yo big buff neck ass always hating just say congrats damn
Somebody’s mad. Lol
As soon as I heard this, I knew Sandra would have a shady post for us. You didn’t disappoint, lmao ?
I’m so happy for them! I’m sorry, Sandra, but Ciara sound mighty happy to me!
Yep. Although I’m sure (or I hope) Cici asked him what happened in the first marriage. Just in case.
I’m glad you liked it hun.
JENNY JONES ??? I scream your name every time I see it.
I’m not a hater, so stop generalizing black folks ?
Congratulations!!!!!! Stop hating
Batman was during her first album. The last year of A.J & Free on Spring Fling in Daytona. It was actually Batman and Bow Wow first flirting with her on stage in between takes…
Jay I found out online. Some did really good research on why Beyonce don’t like Ciara and how she didn’t care doing same hairstyle and moves as Ciara (Like a Boy concept, etc) to have Ciara erased off of people s mouth. Even sending Rihanna to do the same .
Check out The Truth Show on YouTube and you will see. I never noticed or picked anything until I saw the video..
lol Stoudemire was the first professionally paid baller but Bow can ball tho so technically he was first
we have no clue how long he been around. could’ve popped up as soon as Russell heard Christmas past didn’t show up for the birth of their son. Russell did give an interview in the church (where he announced their celibacy) that he always knew he would be with Ciara
he posted a pic on IG with money covering his face “see no Evol” but I doubt he can’t do much but give subliminals since that lawsuit
some people are probably old school communicators though. that’s what’s wrong today. too many people concerned with Googling other people’s lives. his childhood photos and memories are for him and his family and his future family with his soon to be wife, stepson, and little baby wilsons. but I get your opinion. I think he comes from a super strict religious family and is trying to be like his father (or someone he respects as a father figure) but I mean we see so many garbage ass men in the media that we can’t just accept him as a stand up guy. even if he is gay, the man is deserving of nothing but respect
controlling people have men/women who are right for them. everyone has someone meant just for them
yall bout to get me kicked out of work for laughing lolololol
Miguel is the only someone that Miguel’d someone LOL
Ciara was already being talked about because of fashion [clearly not her music]. Plus, Russell is also being called Ciara’s boyfriend or “the musician’s boyfriend” or “the model’s boyfriend.” They are both being recognized for their relationship and being referred to as linked to the other. And if she likes being that then so what? There are many women who only say “my husband” when referring to their men because they are proud to be connected to him and bear the name
I think there are a lot that are black. the black women just call them gay (like they’re doing with Russell) so they end up marrying white
her behavior may be to simply duplicate the marriage her parents have. I have a friend who did that with dang near every girlfriend. was so hard pressed to find that woman he was supposed to be with for the rest of his life (his parents were together for 38yrs then divorced). I think Ciara just wants what her parents have. When you see good role models you want that. I feel like she was operating on the social clock with all those other men, planning her life down to every age when it shouldn’t be that way
I think many of us can realize when we’ve been in love with an idea versus in love with someone. Ciara was putting her social clock to work with Future. After 2 weeks she had his initials tatted on her ring finger or some dumb shit. She was truly pressing him for marriage like her life depended on it. Unfortunately, she also thought she would be different and be the one to change him since she upgraded him and that didn’t work. She was with him for all of the wrong reasons. Hopefully, since God seems to be very much involved in this union, this is the real thing. Not everyone can face the truth about love when they’re with someone. Some ppl just don’t know when they’re just together versus in it for the long haul
after the marriage there will be new conversation “omg that was the best I ever had” LOL #childish
bigger bank roll at that. see, that’s the funny part. she was willing to settle with a nothing ass nigra smh glad she did better
My dad ?
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The roses are the reason they got engaged, TI married tiny, Monica left Rocco, and Kim k put her son’s pic up. We change lives with our shade.
Lol
STFU! Speak for yourself , stop generalizing black people.
I don’t understand why they have to post so much on social media.
She was being talked about on black social media. Trust me, a lot of people had no clue who she was before she got with Russell.
I know what you mean…I usually just say “my husband” instead of actually saying his name.
Sandra some don’t believe even if your daddy is around you can still have daddy issues. She picked opposite of what she said her dad was and is? Just cause Russ ex wife cheated, he said no sex until marriage and throws God around doesn’t mean he’s great. But let Russ make one false move they’ll be blaming him too!
Yeah, I know. But it’s pretty common over there, especially in arranged marriages. They don’t need to look too far when they can just grab the nearest cousin and say, “Hey, this is going to be your new wife.” lol
Was that stuff you mentioned never seen in Future you think? The fact that she shouldn’t have found this baby maker Future a winner, she did. Ciara DIDN’T make it a requirement and she chose him to have a child with. That’s why they place blame in our laps a lot. IJS
Exactly.
Wow -> “not too many of them are black”
Maybe women need to stop checking for Future’s of the world and having babies. Try and think better of themselves stop wanting to be some dude’s baby mama especially when he has others.
Yes Future dumped her and obviously wasn’t over the chick he left with a baby in diapers. Ciara was cool with that set up but word on the street he never stop messing with Brit which should have been common sense, babies mamas/daddies swear they hate each other and still lay up with each other forever.
But Kim and her cameras was part of her and R. Bush downfall, the guy Kim really loves.
The shyt Future would say about Ciara wasn’t all that great and it sure as hell wasn’t all the time. People always mentioned how Ciara was all about Future, that’s all she talks about and how great he was. But he didn’t reciprocate.
He been screwing Brit she didn’t see that as cheating? He said he didn’t cheat, he called it off. But regardless if he’s lying or not was she wiling to stay? Why let him call it off, get the jump on her.
I know. I bet if Kim had to do it all over again with Reggie, she would. I think the same will eventually happen with Ciara and Russell. There will come a point in time when Russell is not going to want to be in front of a camera (fake relationship or not).
The 30-year-old bride-to-be flashed her huge engagement ring at the
camera and made a whining sound that sounded more like regret than
unbridled joy.
#BBD
I married after 2 months, been with dude 27 years
He has a very positive spirit and he’s genuinely a good man you can see and feel it in is aura..Now its time for them to get off social media and live there lives happily ever after.
Russell seems like a genuinely good guy. Happy for her!
Lmao I bet they get super excited for family gatherings. Picking grounds. Lmao uncles saying my look how much you’ve grown take on new meaning.
Congratulations Cee Cee?!
It seems so fake idk…i want her to b happy but this doesn’t seem to b it
Just because someone dates for less than a year doesn’t mean they will get married in less than a year. Their engagement may go over a year. I’ve very happy for these two. I’ve read about Russell’s family and he comes from distinguished lineage with his grandfather. They appear to have strong family values too. I’m happy for him and Ciara.
With the baby’s father being uncivilized hopefully he’ll co-parent with some sense some time in the future. Glad Ciara didn’t add any more kids to the overflow Future already has.
These two started on a strong foundation too, which included celibacy instead of lust.
Me 3! Hope other ladies see this so they can stop the foolishness with the rappers. Voluntarily having babies by them knowing they’re setting their kids up for bad parent/child relationships but being on his arm is more important. Don’t put any kid thru that.
Yes all kinds of flags were present
Some people have been together years and the man still won’t marry them. There’s no time limit on love. If she shacked up with him for three plus years people would still have something to say. Let her be happy and I pray that they have a long and great marriage.
I thought the man was supposed to love you more….Isn’t that the rule, that was stated on this very blog?! SMH, I think after the fiasco with the first wife, Russ is happy that he found a good woman.
Wasn’t Beyonce just at her bday party? I believe Bey went as Storm. She didn’t go to Kanye and Kim’s wedding though, So how are they beefing?
She was engaged twice. How is that a small collection? Well then TI had a small collection of kids, prior to Tiny and Monica did too.
Always!! “Sandra Rose rewriting history one blog post at a time!!”
Future doesn’t like the attention? Since When?
Exactly! She said “Yaaay” WTF is a Yaaay? That’s something you say when your child takes his first steps, or cuts his/her first tooth. But not an engagement! Then she’s more fixated on showing off the ring than the actual proposal.. Hopefully she’ll be more happy the night of their wedding…
waiting…
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Ashton cheated on him, so A. Of course she wouldn’t say anything and would want it to be a quiet divorce and B. He isn’t the type to blast someone, so he stayed mute on it. But Ashton hasn’t been quiet, as she came at Ciara about Russell. First you want him to NOT be all over social media and then you ask why there is no information on the Internet about him.
YOU TRIED it.. ALMOST had it…But MISSED it!
I’m happy for them! I want them to win b/c I believe so many ppl are rooting against them.
Good for him for stepping up in a young boy’s life, and doing the things his bum of a father should be doing!
Hummm that’s interesting.. Unless that is old news…
As for Kim, I believe she don’t care much for the Kardashian…
Her mother hangs with Kris Jenner though..
Explain.
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Explain.
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They have dated for a year not less than a year stop being bitter Sandra
some black folks are haters. and a whole lot of them.
Except for you, apparently!
maybe not you either. But I have seen a lot of folks, trying to drag Ciara.
For no reason.
We need to be happy for one black couple. at least.
They did it right, according to what God says.
Join me, in Wishing them well!
Look at the media, whats the popular show
Real Housewives of Atlanta…What do tgey do for ratings: Hate on Each other
Theme of the show is : who got read, who is throwing shade.
love an hip hop: Theme of the show: Who can dis whom
Rap battles and Beef: theme – who can dis whom on a record, or a track.
Rap music: My fabulous life, what I got, look at me, look at my cars, my women
You dont got it!
Instagram: rappers, look at me, look at my stacks. You broke I’m not.
Really not hateful…#yeahRIGHT
Okay Lets say 99% are, only 1% arent.
What ever happend to Black Love?
Where people are happy that a couple are engaged to be married.
Where peopke want to be committed in a 1:1 relationship.
Folks was mad cause they decided not to be fornicators like them.
Mad Cause their faith and relatinship with God said, lets do something different this time.
Lets do what God asked. Save sex for the marriage union.
If more of us, cut some of these fools off, we could avoid a lot of men who never really loved you in the 1st place. (Since they will say anything to get it)
I don’t watch any of those shows period! AGAIN STFU AND STOP GENERALIZING BLACK PEOPLE! EAT SHIT AND DIE!
Girl this comment is 25 days old. Get a life
I did Boo, that’s why it’s 25 days old. You mad?
You have a lovely attitude, that will get you very far.
Your ‘tude backs up exact ly what I said.
Nasty, Hateful. keyboard warriors.
Vile, and low down vocabulary.
Always wishingthe worst for others.
Just cause you are miserable.
Bunch of haters.
Never happy for anyone else.
I wish you the best.
You are dismissed!