By Sandra Rose  | 

Usher's wife Tameka Foster-Raymond reached out to Sandrarose.com yesterday in response to a post that I wrote about her (the post was deleted).

First, a little background: Tameka spoke to us through a mutual friend who was the first person I called when I heard the news about Tameka's botched surgery in Brazil. Her industry connections run deep and are far-reaching. She is not a gossip and she is not messy. And that is why everyone loves and respects her.

So Tameka expressed her dismay at my post yesterday in which I stated Tameka may have body image disturbance issues, which a lot of women suffer from. Body image disturbance is more common than the extreme body dysmorphic disorder that Michael Jackson has.

Sometimes I forget that readers take my words literally as if I'm an authority on the subjects I write about. Tameka was particularly offended because she thought I was comparing her to Michael Jackson and Lil Kim.

Speaking through our mutual friend, Tameka explained that she has had 5 babies and she made the decision to get a tummy tuck to remove "the extra rolls" around her abdomen area. Tameka didn't explain why she chose to leave the country to have the surgery done. She said she remembered going under anesthesia in a Brazilian clinic. After she awoke, she felt around her abdomen area only to find the extra rolls were still there. That was when she was told she had suffered a heart attack before the procedure could begin.

Tameka confirmed that she is still going forward with the liposuction/tummy tuck procedure here in Atlanta since she is not planning on having any more children. She stressed that she does not have body image issues of any kind. She indicated that there is no truth to the rumors that Usher is unhappy in their marriage (he was out running errands yesterday when she called).

Thanks to Tameka for reaching out to Sandrarose.com and clearing the air!

Photo: Wireimage/Getty

  • kcicero

    Whatever Tameka...you have body image issues and the first step is to admit it...ain't no way in hell you're going to tell me that you don't loathe your body but you risk your life and living your children the youngest born 3 months ago to fix a little extra tummy rolls...Here's a clue work the hell out and eat right...SMH

  • kcicero

    *leaving

  • iscream

    Silence is golden. The first step is admitting to your problems

    Good luck with getting the help you obviously need.

  • http://myspace.com/bettathaniwasb4 2bme

    wateva, i still stand by my own opinion that she has issues with herself. There is nothing wrong with her and she had rolls prior to the other kids (we all saw those essence pics) cut it out already, i'm done..Sandra here is my request..no more posts on this delusional chick please

  • ReadTheBlog

    Sandra, I believe your original post.

  • http://www.wecantbestopped.proboards.com BlkButterfly

    "We don't believe you, you need more people"

  • http://myspace.com/katgirl33 katgirl33

    I gotta give her props for setting the record straight....hell I only got one, and I wish I could get a tuck for my gut....I AM WORKING ON IT....lmao

    I been dieting, and it is going down, but I'm going to have the excess skin.....let's get off me, though...LOL

    I can understand what's she's saying about the effects of five kids...I bet she got a lot of sagging skin in her abdominal area...

    I just think she should have stayed in the states, and waited a month or two longer to have the procedure done.

  • Shauny

    Everyone else has said pretty much what I would've said. Like I said in the original post, if a near death experience doesn't scare the hell out of you ever going on the knife again voluntarily then I don't know what will.

  • Kymystry

    Tamkea .. if I believe you .. will you pay for my suck and tuck ? ?

  • intown51

    Y'all are cold hearted I swear. Next thing, someone will say "I think she should have wiped her azz with 2-ply tissue this morning".

  • Daisy

    Tameka I am not mad at you! Get the body you want and get a better anest. next go round...lol Good Luck and God Bless. I don't think you have body issues you just don't want a GUT and I don't know anybody who does. I would advise waiting awhile and getting a complete physical before trying this again.

  • intown51

    Off topic, but I just can't seem to find the AKOO link. What gives?

  • ReadTheBlog

    Brown says 'The devil is a lie'...

    Sandra, I believe your original post.

  • kcicero

    Well if she was able to breasfeed then that would have knocked off 20 lbs right there. I had no problems getting back down to the right size after my first child because breastfeeding did all the work for me. After my second one not so much you really have to work at it and if I went to the gym every day or every other day I would have no problem getting rid of the excess fat. Excuses...excuses...excuses

  • Lala11_7

    I'm sorry...

    I'm standing by my stance of she ain't got body issues...she just got a body that's off the chain from having five kids and she need to get that right...

    So...I want all the mama's out here to say they would turn down a tummy tuck if they had the means to do it...

    Regarding the "life threating" issue with the anesthesia...that can happen in the dentist chair or having a fibroid taken out...as long as she's healthy and not suffering from underlying health issues...she has the same chances as anybody else who goes under...

    "50/50"...

    So Tami...GO ON AND GET THAT BODY RIGHT...DON'T BE AFRAID!!!

  • carmelita79

    having a tummy tuck is a far cry from having body issues. sometime you try and try and you just cant lose that extra skin. its nto the weight its the skin that is loose and sometimes it doesnt snap back especially after 5 children. the last two were back to back. lil kim and MJ are on a whole different level than tameka. they have had numerous surgeries and look nothing like themselves. we see her from the outside we dont see her with her clothes off. you can feel happy with who you are and how you look but if you have extra skin hanging around your abdomen and she was wearing a bikini, the same people that are talking about how they dont believe her would be tearing her up talking about how she needs to do something about it.

  • mizzdallas

    Who cares about thise biash if she wants to kill herself let her.. I dont believe meka she need more people.

  • sexyma078

    Speaking as someone with multiple kids (6) I can feel where she's coming from not everyone can lose that kangaroo pouch (as my youngest baby used to call it) I have one and though when I am fully dressed you can't tell if I could do it without financing I just might have the procedure done..I work out 2-3 hours a week crunches and the whole shabang but the pouch won't leave it's like a rubber band if you wrap it around enough paper it begans to lose it's elastisity (sp)

  • sexyma078

    kcicero Says:

    Well if she was able to breasfeed then that would have knocked off 20 lbs right there. I had no problems getting back down to the right size after my first child because breastfeeding did all the work for me. After my second one not so much you really have to work at it and if I went to the gym every day or every other day I would have no problem getting rid of the excess fat. Excuses…excuses…excuses
    ----------------------------------------------------------
    Girl first child and 5/6 child two whole different stories and I have a girlfirend she has four not a one strech mark roll anything genetics also play apart...I had twins off the bat and I was able to go home in my pre-preg clothes fast forward eight years when I had my last not so much

  • kcicero

    Who cares the fact of the matter is people are willing to do to be beautiful again! To me that is not only incredibly stupid but also selfish what the hell did people do back in the day when there was no such thing as a tummy tuck...commit suicide! OH MY GOD EVERYONE WANTS TO LOOK LIKE THEY DID WHEN THEY ARE TEENS GROW THE HELL UP AND KEEP IT MOVING IF YOUR OVER A CERTAIN AGE NOBODY WANTS TO SEE YOUR STRETCH MARKED STOMACH WITH A BELLY RING ANYWAY COVER THAT SHIT UP AND KEEP IT MOVING!

  • kcicero

    *DIE

  • kcicero

    Anyway on to another topic here is proof that this crisis started under Clinton and the Repugs tried to fix it:

    Proof 1: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_MGT_cSi7Rs

    Proof 2: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ivmL-lXNy64&feature=related

    You can look up more…educate yourselves people…

  • MRSJONESK

    Typical case of young man older woman! She wants to keep in happy if it cost her her life! I have 3 kids and I am fightng the battle of the bulge hell, I"m cool with where I am now, could stand to lose a few more pounds, but I'm cool. Don't want to do the tummy tuck thing hell, the paper work they (the surgeons) have you sign before going under the knife scares me alone!

  • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Thanks Lala11_7, carmelita, Daisy and all who commented with a little compassion and empathy for Tameka. She almost died. I understand this is the Internet, but I can't believe women can be so cold hearted toward another human being. Are we that miserable?

  • babysoft15

    Sandra you are so BEAT! Did forget how you talked about Tameka when those pictures from Derek Blanks surfaced..you weren't all about her loving her body then! There is absolutely nothing wrong with her wanting a tummy tuck! She just had two children and doesn't plan to have anymore, I think she should do it! The strangest thing about this is you say she isn't happy with her body, but the body she has now isn't the body she as born with, her pregnancies have changed her and she wants to try to get back to what she was before...that makes PERFECT sense to me! But then again, I'm not a gossip queen desperate for hits to my blog like you are!

    Anyway Tameka get your surgery, I hope it makes you look FAB; you are a beautiful woman and next time before you respond to this non-sense remember this quote from Dolly...."IF IT'S SAGGING, DRAGGING OR BAGGING...I'LL BE THE FIRST TO GET IT NIPPED, TUCKED AND SUCKED!

    YOU HAVE ONE LIFE....LIVE IT UP!!

    OBAMA 08

  • MRSJONESK

    LMAO!! @ kcicero!! I agree totally with you! Keep it moving and love who you are!

  • babysoft15

    LOL @ Sandra....you act like you've been in support of Tameka! I think you might be BIPOLAR Sandra!!

  • http://happynappyhead.blogspot.com Seattle Slim

    For the ladies that are concerned about the pooch, crunches are not enough. I have a friend who worked hard for a six pack and her tips are abs are made in the kitchen (diet) and you must do leg or knee raises because those target the lower section of your abs. Get on the captain's chair or even lying down and raise your legs to a 90 degree angle. Also, you gotta put weights on your abs. Crunches will make your core strong but they won't give definition kinda like the difference between push ups and dumbell curls. Also cardio like hell. If you add weight training to your abs, they will grow like any muscle and the skin could become more taut.

  • brwnsugga4you

    and...she is still a complete AZZ in my book!! instead of reading the damn blogs..you should be getting evalutated by a damn psychiatrist!!

    She is not a gossip and she is not messy. And that is why everyone loves and respects her
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    and if she wasn't messy....she wouldn't be talking through a so called mutal friend...whatever!!! take care of those 5 damn babies...i'm sure they would rather have a not so perfect mom than no mom at all!!!

  • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    babysoft15 Says:

    Sandra you are so BEAT! Did forget how you talked about Tameka when those pictures from Derek Blanks surfaced..you weren’t all about her loving her body then!

    ***********************************************

    She was a public figure so she was an open target. But she didn't suffer a heart attack back then either. There is a time and a place for everything and this is not the time to display our self-loathing tendencies and misdirected anger.

  • MRSJONESK

    I think all women are beautiful in their own special ways. Just love who you are. I've seen so may women, including myself, go thru so many changes after child birth and after that 2nd baby it gets tougher to shed those extra pounds. That's why I say love yourself. Take care of yourself and if I'd suffered a heart attach before a major surgery like Tameka's, I'd just find another way of getting rid of that itty bitty pouch that she has. She is a beautiful woman. Make she just hadn't realized that. For goodness sake, she'd just had her baby a few weeks prior to this episode. Like someone said earlier, hell, breast feeding does wonders! Maybe she should have tried it.

  • iscream

    Lmao @ KC # 20.

    To be honest I'm on the fence with this one. I have one kid and if I could afford to get a lift and tuck I just might. (Afraid of the pain after)

    But.....

    If I tried and the first time I almost died I don't think I would try again. Its the old touch the stove. Once you get burnt the first time aren't you suppose to know better the next time. She should look @ this as a blessing from God that she was able to live another day.

    She has something I don't. A rich azz husbad where she can afford the best personal trainers money can afford. She doesn't have a job so while the kids are @ school, nanny has the two young ones. In the words of Martin... Work it out. THEN if that dosen't work get the sucky suck. It shouldn't be her first option.

  • Daisy

    @Sandra you should know by now I am Ms. Compassion. Its a curse and a blessing I always try to find the positive in any and everybody it drives my friends BATTY..lol They don't come to me when they are mad cause I will always try and see where the other person could have been coming from and they just want me to throw that person under the bus with them no questions asked..lol

    I had compassion for Chris and was called many a name on this site but in the end I know I am a child of God so it's all good..lol

  • Daisy

    @Isc genetics baby genetics. Even with the best persoanl trainer money can buy she still may not be able to lose the amt of weight she wants vs having it sucked out via surgery. I have a pouch and I dont have kids so I shall be running to the plastic surgeon. My gfriend had lypo after two kids said it was the WORST pain ever but she would do it all over again for the results..lol

  • kcicero

    Sandra I don't understand, I didn't not see anywhere on this post where people bashed Tameka for being ugly.

    THE GENERAL CONSENSUS IS THAT SHE IS A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN THAT HAS THE BODY OF SOMEONE WHO HAS GONE THROUGH THE MIRACLE OF GIVING BIRTH. SO WHAT'S THE PROBLEM? WE ARE THINKING ABOUT HER HEALTH AND HER KIDS AND SOME OF US THINK THAT AFTER ALMOST DYING FROM TRYING TO GET A TUMMY TUCK MAYBE TRYING AGAIN IS NOT SUCH A GOOD IDEA?...SO THAT'S BEING IN-COMPASSIONATE AND HAVING SELF LOATHING ISSUES LMAO...OKAAAAAAAAY!

    THERE ARE EXERCISE METHODS ESPECIALLY FOR MOTHERS THAT TARGET THE FAT AREAS LIKE THE ONE TARGET SLIM JUST OUTLINES. HOW ABOUT WE TRY THAT BEFORE WE START MEDICALLY TAMPERING WITH WHAT GOD GAVE US....

    okay I'm over it does anyone know what's going on with Liam Neeson's wife?

  • ReadTheBlog

    She almost died?!?! LMAO?!?! She put herself in that position, and she intends to do it again!?!?
    What happened to the ,fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me' rule?

    I'm willing to be if she got off her back (having babies and having surgery) and walk around some, she might be able to lose a little flab. Remember the chick that was photed in the park with Usher and Cinco? Yeah Tameka should do what they were all doing that day - MOVING...

    And LOL at all the Big B*tches who have her back. I bet yall are about a biscuit away from death, too!

  • mizzdallas

    @SANDRA
    self-loathing tendencies and misdirected anger.

    so this is directed towards you when you post about our president obama...

  • mizzdallas

    @rtb
    I almost died lmao!!!! >>>>Somebody please revive me<<<<<

  • Krysi J

    Well just like Nivea said, they are TOLD to say stuff like this, but its not REALITY...!! However I don't see a problem with her doing whatever she wants to do with her body weather usher is happy or not...its OVER...im so done with Usher. Im embarassed for HIM....i just don't get how THIS woman was worth his career and the relationship he had with his mother??

  • mizzdallas

    where is charles when we need him......?

  • kcicero

    OOOOOOOOH read you wronggggggggggg, I hope nobody else checks this cause it's about to be on like popcorn....

  • kcicero

    I hope he didn't get banned yesterday...

  • Daisy

    @Read I am a size 6/8 I workout 4-5x a week. Will be hitting the gym today for spin class.

    Team Tameka! (on this one anway)..lol

  • heavn_sent

    Self-loathing..miserable?? Please save it! Sandra, you are the most negative, biased, and down-right miserable person that posts on sandrarose.com. "We learned it from watching you..OK?" You take jabs at people left and right one week, and then the next, you're bosom buddies and you're defending their actions..girl bye! You're not an authority? Well, you darn well pretend to be telling us about being a nurse, with your commentary and medical minute..criticism of the POTUS and praise for merry old England! You're right this IS purely entertainment. I read for the drama, cuz personally, you are a HAM.

  • http://myspace.com/katgirl33 katgirl33

    ReadTheBlog....

    LOL @ the disses towards big girls.....SMH

    This is such a silly issue to be dissing folks about...if they take it that way.....LOL LOL

  • kcicero

    So will you guys be this compassionate about this if it was octopussy who almost died from removing her 14 lbs of stomach skin from her 14 babies?

    If anyone should be getting plastic it's that woman...

  • mizzdallas

    @kc
    I dont think he got banned if he did sandra reinstate him again...

  • ReadTheBlog

    Daisy, you don't count, with your nice self. You just can't help it. You should be mean sometimes - it's fun *wink*.

  • Kymystry

    I had ONE chile .. 10lb 6 oz ... NO crunches in the world gonna help the pooch under the c-section scar ... I consulted a plastic surgeon .. I can't afford the 5k for the tuck and suck .. wish I could .. cause I WOULD DO IT IN A HEART BEAT !!

    Do it Tameka ... just be careful ... Usher Loves you .. the Kids love and NEED you

  • Shauny

    rtb says
    She almost died?!?! LMAO?!?! She put herself in that position, and she intends to do it again!?!?
    What happened to the ,fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me’ rule?

    Isc says
    If I tried and the first time I almost died I don’t think I would try again. Its the old touch the stove. Once you get burnt the first time aren’t you suppose to know better the next time. She should look @ this as a blessing from God that she was able to live another day.
    *******************************************************

    These two comments pretty much is my point. I could care less if she wants a lil nip/tuck BUT after almost dying (even if if was a anesthesia issue she still almost died) I would be petrified at the thought doing it again.

    Also, I had to go back and read and a see not even a handful or "lukewarm" comments about Tameka but nothing that I see to warrant and outcry of disbelief. I've seen post were someone has died that had comments that were cruel. SMH

  • brwnsugga4you

    I understand this is the Internet, but I can’t believe women can be so cold hearted toward another human being. Are we that miserable?
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    i'm sure nobody on here is miserable....but, she made that decision for herself. i'm glad she didn't die...but, at the same time....i think it's time to seek psychiatric help at this point...clearly the elevator is stopping on the 2nd flr..and there are 10 more stops to go!!

  • Krysi J

    Yall killing me with these comments LMAO..!! Let her be an azz an have the surgery shyt its her LOSS right!! That tummy tuck ain PLASTIC SURGERY!! I don't see what difference it will make. If she chooses to lose her life trying to keep up with women who LOOK WAY BETTER THAN her even if the tables were turned than, its her body, let her give it a try LMAO. She should be happy that he married her, the hard part is over...why is she still trying to compete? Shyt after he married her, I don't even find HIM attractive anymore.

  • brwnsugga4you

    lmao@ krysi...I don’t even find HIM attractive anymore.

    me neither!!!

  • http://happynappyhead.blogspot.com Seattle Slim

    *sigh* Whoever told women that they can't get their bodies back after children did not take the time to look at strength training. There are several women at my gym that have children, are older than me and look better than most women my age (I'm 27). I'm in better physical shape now after two kids, than I was before them. Your pooch WILL go down. It may not disappear, but you can get it to barely noticeable with strength, supplementation, and cardio. That's it. No magic pill, no knifes to cut your flesh apart. I can honestly say I understood where Tameka was coming from having two kids myself, but I was disappointed that she chose the quick (and inefficient route because it takes diet and exercise to maintain a tummy tuck or lipo) way as opposed to getting Harley Pasternak or Gunnar Petersen or Jillian Michaels or someone to train the hell out of her. She had the money for that. So she lives to possibly die under the knife another day... SMDH. I am glad she made it. But vanity is a mother...

  • Kat

    *smh* at some of these comments.....damn some of ya'll are cruel!

  • iscream

    Lol @ the comments. Well at least it will help my day go faster.

    & Sandra are you only defending Tameeka bc she via this trust worthy friend reached out to you... I think so.

    I didn't post back when Bey fell down the stairs & almost broke her neck but I can bet the farm you were not compassionate. (Sp)

  • babysoft15

    LOL @ your response Sandra....but I think it's a little too late to try and save face now! I guess you telling us about her so called condition is an attempt to show empathy for her cardiac arrest! PAHLEEEEEAAAASSSEEEE SANDRA! Why don't you just create another fictitious email to send to yourself so you can validate your negativity....because you know we all believe those emails you post....LMFAO

  • kcicero

    whatever go to TMZ or Perez's blogs now those comments are cruel...

  • Nina

    This entire post strikes me as very strange...

  • ReadTheBlog
  • iscream

    Oh I forgot to add. Shout out to Meeka for keeping it 100. I like the fact that even after she saw the post she did not hide behind the age old hollywood.. "I worked out to get my body back" lie. Knowing they really had help from the knife.

  • kwallace577

    you know what? it has been a daggone hoot these past few months just sitting back and watching yall comment. i was off the scene but just lurking from afar. sometimes when the question arose as to my whereabouts i found myself shouting "i'm HERE!!! it's ME! cain't you see me???"

    it is so nice to see ain't nothin changed. at all. same mess diff. day. diff. subject. it has been quiet without all the regulars running amok huh?

    as you were.

  • Kymystry

    KWeeeeeeeeeeezy is back.... :-)

  • Lucy

    I'll bet she was in a rush to perk it all up so she could be an Atlanta Housewife.

    Listed Sandra Compassion from me goes to people that don't do stupid stuff. Correct me if I'm wrong but she'd just had the last kid a couple of months before this mess. And to top that off rumor has it Usher didn't know her azz was doing it. I don't wish death on the woman but her rush to be hot is going to kill her.

  • rochele08

    @ kwallace
    I'm a lurker too..but i've been missing your comments.
    Welcome Back!.. :o)

  • Shauny

    Dayum.....Welcome Back kwall. Charles will be pleased..lol

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    I don't know why anyone would buy into your various medical diagnosis' of people you have not even examined not to mention the fact that you are not a doctor anyway. I say again, Tameka is lazy. I don't give a damn how many kids she had. I've seen her stomach and there is nothing wrong with it that some exercise can't cure.

    Can you please clear up what you mean when you say Tameka reached out to you through a friend? Did you speak to Tameka or did you only speak to the friend? If you only spoke to the friend how do you know what Usher was doing when Tameka supposedly called this friend?

  • Krysi J

    bsugga said
    "me neither!!!"

    -------------------------------------------

    LMAO!! I'm just saying I'm not saying it to be cruel, Im just being honest....shyt half of yall on here feel the same, really after we saw that pic of her stomach with those stretch marks....?? hasn't the world all ready seen the worst part....there is nothing to hide or suck and tuck?? We know what dat shyt look like already! Women who have had kids know why it looks like that so whose approval do you need Tameaka?? Certainly not Ushers, he married your face, your stomach, and your stretch marks..BE HAPPY GIRL!

  • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Bird Says:

    Can you please clear up what you mean when you say Tameka reached out to you through a friend? Did you speak to Tameka or did you only speak to the friend? If you only spoke to the friend how do you know what Usher was doing when Tameka supposedly called this friend?

    ***********************************************

    If you read my post, I clearly wrote that Tameka spoke through my friend. I asked my friend if they talked about Usher. She said she asked Tameka where he was and Tameka answered he was at the barber shop or something. The "or something" part was added by my friend who may not have recalled exactly where Tameka said Usher was. Therefore I decided not to go into detail about it. So I just wrote that he was out running errands. Mmmkay?

  • bk2atl

    KWEEEEEEZYYYYYYY!!!! Cyber Hugs(((((())))))))!

  • Kymystry

    @ Krysi ... didn't Kat Williams say something about a nicca who makes a comment on your stretch marks ... lol

  • Shauny

    This is clearly the SHOTS FIRED post of the day.

  • iscream

    Sandra does have compassion....

    Welcome back Kwallce...

    Welcome back, welcome back, welcome back...

    How's the kids doing?

  • Krysi J

    Yea Kymystry he did....and we here at sandrarose are just as REAL....LMAO, when we say a nicCa ain worried bout no fukking stretch marks and extra fat. Look at Snoop, you hear shante talk about losing weight all the time what did he say to her....basically fukk hollywood, you had 3 kids! What Rev Run say to Justine....just come on, it can't be that serious Tameaka, but if it iz....I say GO FOR IT hun. I just want her to see that even when she has sugery she'll still have the SAME face AS WELL AS, the same wedding band.

  • intown51

    I'll say it again, y'all are cold HEARTED. Many, not all of y'all that is.

    Kind of how a husband or wife can inflict the biggest hurt possible on their sposes, I think women are the most effective when they are determined to hurt another woman.

    There is a lot of self hatred involved in the ongoing critiques of Tiny, Tameka, and I'm sure many others.

    The common thread w/ the above two is that most women that go out their way to criticize them BECAUSE THEY ARE JEALOUS OF THEIR MAN/HUSBAND (Tip/Ush). Tell me I'm lying. If Tameka was married to Don Cheadle or Forest Whitaker, this post would have 2 comments tops.

    Some of you need to check yourselves.

  • kwallace577

    the kids are durin' swell iscream. hey everybody (noddin').

    @71 i miss the emoticons already....shots fired...sigh. the good ole days...

    let me go find me an avatar...brb.

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  • starr

    i think i saw a ghost......

  • kwallace577

    i don't want to incite a riot on my first day back. but chances are that tameka had stretch marks and prolly some bra saggage when she first met and bedded this man. hail she had 3 youngins already in her rearview mirror by the time she started fluckin him. and he not crazy...deranged...he knew two more chiren was either a.) gone make them marks worse and b.) make her tits sag even more. i have neva heard of a case where more kids HELPS matters like these.

    and he accepted it. so her stretch marks, tummy rolls, back fat, and sagging bra are between ursher, meka, and nem. i feel sorry she feels as if she has to fix it b/c like somebody said most of us cannot fix the damage childbirth inflicts on us and we have men who accept it. but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. good luck 'meka.

  • kcicero

    HEY K WALLACE!!!!

    WELL I DON'T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT USHER OR JAIL BAIT TI...I LIKE MY MEN EDUCATED, WORKING HARD, AND OUTSIDE OF THE MUSIC and 6'2 so those two don't do it for me but really like Krysi said if she wants to risk her life then so be it. I have a little tummy and my husband loves it plus I like to belly dance so it helps to see the movements better anyway...but okay I have self esteem issues and I'm a Usher/TI groupie, SMH...

  • Kat

    welcome back kwallace....i thought u were banned.

  • teecee

    this is coming from an official spokes person for Mr teecee... until she has a song movie or book deal that coming out let this woman do her, she is not famous enough for me to sit and read through all that.

  • Krysi J

    The common thread w/ the above two is that most women that go out their way to criticize them BECAUSE THEY ARE JEALOUS OF THEIR MAN/HUSBAND (Tip/Ush). Tell me I’m lying. If Tameka was married to Don Cheadle or Forest Whitaker, this post would have 2 comments tops.

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    just like if Tip were with Laura London, or Usher was with Keri Hilson....there would be nothing but a few comments posted about how GOOD they look together. Check that.

  • Daisy

    How did my baby TI get dragged into this mess??

    Tameka is grown last I checked and if she wants to have a little nip/tuck thats her bizness. She knows the risk and how many kids she will be leaving behind IF something should go wrong again.

  • Daisy

    @Krysi I agree and I have always thought TI and Lauren would make a cute couple

  • Kymystry

    How Sandra gonna put some Random post about Nicole B. and NOT give us the details .. ain't THAT a BLIP !?!?

    Sandra you blirted that post about Nicole out .. like you have Tourretts or something

  • kwallace577

    pssst....yall what da whurl sandra talking bout on the newest "i'm not nobody momma so stop bugging the dog shyt outta me bout nicole itchie" post? the comments are off. did i miss something while i was gone? i was lurking...but not everyday....who is e-mailing her about necole? and why?

  • intown51

    Good point Krysi. Let me head over to necole b and see what the brouhaha is about. My guess is her "wishing" Kanye and Keri together, but I've been wrong before. Shyt, I've been wrong today!

  • kwallace577

    me and kymmy >>>>>>>>right hurrr<<<<<<<<<<

    awe shucks i missed'ed srose.com

  • Shauny

    Am I the only person who think both TI and Usher are average at best?

    Usher hasn't been cute to me since...well since ever and TI has always been a lil peanut head questionable lip scarring 5 9 peon (sorry Daisy). His swagger is attractive and he dresses up nicely but I'll pass.

  • Kymystry

    ^5 Shauny ... i'll pass on BOFF of them lil pocet sized negroes ... lol

    Me like a REAL sized man ... since I'm almost 6 ft myself .. lol

  • kcicero

    @ Shauny nope...

  • Krysi J

    Naw, Shauny hold up now....lol.....you going in on TI wit the "peanut head peon" just a lil too deep....everyone thinks my son looks like Tip JR, and thats a lot of the reason why I am a fan, because my son loves him. Now Usher, I really just don't care....i can't lie....he just been real corny looking every since this shyt wit him and THIS girl popped off. I could careless what he looks like....NOW IF YOU THINK IM A HATER fine, but baby I ain hating on NOBODY but Kim K and that FINE azz REGGIE BUSH! I have to give it to her.....that niCCah really hurted my feelings with that going over to the other side mess....but I like Kim now, so Im over it...they look GOOD together.

  • kwallace577

    alright here we go. this what i’m talm bout. right churr…thi s new comments off obama post.

    Cue the outrage. For months, the Obama administration and members of Congress have known that insurance giant AIG was getting ready to pay huge bonuses while living off government bailouts. It wasn’t until the money was flowing and news was trickling out to the public that official Washington rose up in anger and vowed to yank the money back.
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    sorry but i think it was safe to say the man was BUSY months ago. with something bigger than who gets paid and WHEN. ammmm…he was tryna make history???? and two comments off posts in a row. is this commonplace round these parts now?

  • kwallace577

    and on topic...did ursh and meek meek take the above pic last saint patrick's day? why the green bracelet on her and gawd awful green blouse on ursher? sorry i just noticed it.

  • Daisy

    @Shauny its all good I have always LOVED me some TI that swagger is sumthing serious and I think he is a cutie.

    @Krsyi I don't consider Kim K to be white..lol I like her and Reggie but he does nothing for me in the looks dept. He is not ugly just doesnt move me.

  • Daisy

    @Krysi I never knew you had a son. Am I the only person w/o kids in here?

  • iscream

    Raising hand @ the TI Usher comment. Neither, does anything for me. Don't want no short short man.

    I commeneted on SR outburst on the octo page. That made me lol. NO WIRE HANGERS!!!!!!

    @ Kwallace glad the kids are doing well.

    & maybe I missed it but I don't see where anybody said anything nasty about Tameeka?

    & who would be jealous of Tiny? I would like the money TI spends on her but I would never want to walk around looking the way she does. Have you ever heard her speak?... that is nothing to envy.

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    Sandra Rose Says:

    Thanks Lala11_7, carmelita, Daisy and all who commented with a little compassion and empathy for Tameka. She almost died. I understand this is the Internet, but I can’t believe women can be so cold hearted toward another human being. Are we that miserable?
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    You got jokes Sandra. I have never been a Tameka hater and I certainly wouldn't wish death on her. But my opinion is that she should just work out and I am sticking by it. Just as some people may think I am an idiot and stick by that assessment. Once someone gives you an exclusive all objectivity flies out the window for you. I don't have anything against Usher's wife, but I ain't gonna cowtow to her just because her friend told you she is getting a tummy tuck because she has 5 kids.

  • Songbird27

    Yeah ok, She's in denial that she has a problem... and you can just forget about her admitting that there is a problem with her and Usher cause she isn't going to admit that even if you had a gun to her head cause she doesn't want people laughing at her and saying I told you so. I bet you Usher could be smashin' the hell out of another woman right in front of her and she'd still be like, oh we're fine. I feel sorry for those children more so than her. She's playing Russian Roulette with her life and she doesn't even care. She won't listen to reason so it's in God's hands now.

  • mizzdallas

    Hey! Kwall what up! what up! whaaaat uuuup! (in martin voice)

  • Kat

    @ daisy, i don't have kids either. my avatar is my child! :-)

  • Shauny

    Krysi
    I'm sure you baby is adorable just like mine is who looks just like his dad that I call an ugly mofo every chance I get...lol

    @ Daisy
    Isn't Kim K armenian? I think that's just from her daddy. Her mom isn't armenian so she's a mutt. She's beautiful though, you can't deny that.

  • Krysi J

    @Krsyi I don’t consider Kim K to be white..lol I like her and Reggie but he does nothing for me in the looks dept. He is not ugly just doesnt move me.
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    chile Reggie moves me from the state of Florida all the way to Tokoyo, Japan.

    and Yes I have a son gurly....as a matter of the fact I just posted not too long ago about the recent birth of my little girl (my son is 8, my baby is 4 going on 5 months). When I had my son, I had NO stretch marks what so ever, and I lost my weight in record time matter of fact I lost an extra 10 pds breastfeeding(3mts). I was as small as I was in 10 and 11th grade in highschool LMAO! This time, I can tell its going to take some effort. I breastfed and all....and I haven't lost anything. So I know how it feels, but I also know that I haven't exercised one day since I had my lil girl...so what should I expect LMAO! I feel like if I eat right and exercise the weight should fall off fine. I bet Tameaka didn't ask her first husband for cash to have surgery, but now all of a sudden she is in such desperate need to have it done cuz her new husband can afford it. Trust me Tameaka reads these comments, and unfortunately she takes them pretty damn seriously. Which is why I say LET OL GIRL HAVE THE SURGERY, so that she can see that NOTHING is going to change.

  • Daisy

    CODE 10 MAN DOWN!!!!!!!!

    Frankie is on V103..lol Telling all of Neffies business..lol

  • Krysi J

    @ Shauny is that your little on in your avatar?

    cutie regardless...

    Oh yea and Kim K is mixed with some other form of YT blood, but just like you said she is beautiful. I like her style...conceited but cute LOL! She's just living her life and loving her boyfriend, I can't be mad at that....ANYMORE...HAHAHAHahahaha!

  • Daisy

    @Isc I don't like short men either but I am not that tall and if you are cute then you are cute..lol Speaking of height did anybody READ in Ebony that Beyonce is 5'3?? That is my height I am not buying it. I could have sworn before I heard her or Tina say she was 5'5 or 5'7.

  • Shauny

    Dang, I wonder if I can get that station on my blackberry. Be right back

  • Shauny

    Bey is 5ft 6 or 7 Daisy, you're right. Don't ask my how I know that but I've read it somewhere in an interview that she did. I like my men 6ft at least. I like to look up at you.

    Krysi
    Thanks! My avatar is what Bernie Mack calls the ring leader of my kids. That's my 6 yr old.

    Reggie Bush is on and off with me. His body is ALWAYS on but his face looks monkeyish sometimes.

  • http://findentertainmentnow.com miesha@FindEntertainmentNow.com

    let her do as she wishes with her body. she aint got a problem...hello she is married to a pop star, let her look good. i aint had no babies but i can only imagine what it must be like after 5!!

    very mature post/conversation and nice pic of usher and tameka.

  • http://myspace.com/thegameoncw Bird

    Shauny

    I must say I am getting damn tired of looking at that little munchkin without being able to pinch those adorable cheeks. I command you to remove that pic right this minute!

  • iscream

    Lord Daisy I don't have that station what she saying.

  • Krysi J

    O Lord, 6yrs old...I remember those days...when they are not quite 25, but 17 in a half thinking they know more than you could ever imagine. Saying stuff that make you *PAUSE*...because its true, but you are still THEY'RE MAMA!!! lol! Now at age 8, he is acting more like a 16 yr old...he understands that I am his MAMA, but at the same time..I'm gon' HEAR what HE got to say too..lol! Just a BIG MESS chile, big mess.

  • Shauny

    @Bird
    Girl if I post her baby picture yall would swear I gave her a pumpkin. Her jaws were HUGE but she's grown into them now. I'm going to switch my avatars up (since I finally learned what the issue was as to why mine never showed here)

    Krysi
    GIRL don't I know it. Sometimes she says things and you are pissed off but have to turn yuor head so you wont laugh because it's the truth. Where do children get that from...lol

  • Daisy

    @Isc Frankie said Soullow was bringing NATHAN to the table and was doing nothing. Next thing you know Neffie and Soullow calling in saying Frankie lying and he is taking care of business at the house. He said he has been putting in work and carrying his weight in the relationship for 3yrs. I believe Frankie.

  • Shauny

    Daisy put this info on the other post. Is peeps at work are THIRSTY for some info. Auntie didn't catch the whole interview.

  • Krysi J

    @Shauny my Mama calls 'em 21st century babies. They come out knowing more than you did when you concieved them. It makes you take the possibility of an alien invasion on planet earth a little more seriously. What better way to take over the world?? Thru the Churins...LMAO!

    @ Daisy, I believe Frankie to, Crackheads don't lie, the Ex crackheads either.

  • Daisy

    @Shauny I am off to the gym don't have time to re post it. I am sure Sandra can find the interview and post it. Frankie is a FOOL..lol

  • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Daisy Says:

    I had compassion for Chris and was called many a name on this site but in the end I know I am a child of God so it’s all good..lol

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    That's because you had compassion for a boy who beat a woman so bad he left marks on her face. Where was his compassion for her after he punched her the first time and then continued to hit and bite her?

  • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    heavn_sent Says:

    You’re right this IS purely entertainment. I read for the drama, cuz personally, you are a HAM.

    *************************************************************

    It seems like you're not happy here? Is that so?

  • https://sandrarose.com Sandra Rose

    Kymystry Says:
    How Sandra gonna put some Random post about Nicole B. and NOT give us the details .. ain’t THAT a BLIP !?!?

    Sandra you blirted that post about Nicole out .. like you have Tourretts or something

    ************************************************************

    Because the very people who frequent her blog and Facebook page were emailing me asking me to put her on blast today. I got tired of it. Why should I put her on blast? She's not a celebrity.

  • Kymystry

    Sandra ... today was the first time i went ova there to see what the hub bub was about ... shurgs ... couldn't figga it out .. so i came back home ... lol

  • aqtpie

    Well since she is adamant about getting the surgery, I pray that everything goes great. I just think it's so sad, I saw the photos of her stomach in Essence and I agree with Bird it wasn't even big enough were she couldn't work out to get it down.

    JMO, I just think when you are a parent of minors, *that you made the choice to bring into this world* your wants should come second to their needs. They need their mother more than she needs a tummy tuck/lipo. She was blessed to have survived going under the first time, why chance it again, especially on something like lipo? It's her body and if it will make her happy, then so be it.

  • iscream

    Kymystry Says:
    How Sandra gonna put some Random post about Nicole B. and NOT give us the details .. ain’t THAT a BLIP !?!?

    Sandra you blirted that post about Nicole out .. like you have Tourretts or something

    ************************************************************

    Because the very people who frequent her blog and Facebook page were emailing me asking me to put her on blast today. I got tired of it. Why should I put her on blast? She’s not a celebrity.
    ________________________________________________
    Why you doing that to us? Put her on blast about what? I'm nosey, lol.

    & she wasn't a celebrity when you put that post up about her ligtening her skin but you did it. <--- Me egging you on to tell us, tell us, tell us.

  • iscream

    Disregard Sandra.
    Reading thru the topics and I see Charles already said what was what. That's what I get for being nosey. That wasn't even worth asking to know about.

  • Shauny

    Where did Charles post it at? I don't see it because I was heading STRAIGHT to her site when I got home. Can't access it from here, I guess it's her name.

  • iscream

    Shauny check the Keri Hilson Kanye West post.

  • candycane

    intown51 Says:

    The common thread w/ the above two is that most women that go out their way to criticize them BECAUSE THEY ARE JEALOUS OF THEIR MAN/HUSBAND (Tip/Ush). Tell me I’m lying.
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    You lying.
    I can care less about Tip or Ursh. and Tiny is FUGLYYYYYYYYYYYYYY and lawwwd, lawd, lawd that voice, almost worse than her looks. I said it before I thought Tiny was uncommonly ugly ever since I saw Xscape perform on some BET show before they were popular. She was ugly then, and still is.

    I've always been a fan of Ursh's MUSIC, never interested in his personal life.

  • Daisy

    @Sandra I don't speak for Chris Brown you would have to ask him. I can say I have done things that I regret due to lack of compassion and or good judgement we ALL have!