From AJC.com:
- The free spirit of Jaheem Herrera is evident in the family portraits in his DeKalb County apartment.
The 11-year-old enjoyed dancing and drawing, and the easy smile he flashed for the photographers was genuine, his stepfather said Monday night.
On Thursday afternoon, after returning home from Dunaire Elementary School, Jaheem quietly went into his room and hanged himself. His 10-year-old sister, Yerralis, also a fifth-grader, discovered Jaheem’s dead body.
“His sister was screaming, ‘Get him down, get him down,’” said Norman Keene, who helped raise Jaheem since the boy was two years old.
When Keene got to the room, he saw Yerralis holding her brother, trying to remove the pressure of the noose her brother had fashioned with a fabric belt.
Jaheem was bullied relentlessly, his family said. Keene said the family knew the boy was a target, but until his death they didn’t understand the scope.
“We’d ask him, ‘Jaheem, what’s wrong with you?’” Keene recalled. “He’d never tell us.”
He didn’t want his sister to tell, either. She witnessed much of the bullying, and many times rose to her brother’s defense, Keene said.
“They called him gay and a snitch,” his stepfather said. “All the time they’d call him this.”
In an interview with WSB-TV, the boy’s mother, Masika Bermudez, also said her son was being bullied at school. She said she had complained to the school.
She said she asked him about the bullying Thursday when he came home from school and he denied it. She sent him to his room to calm down. It was the last time she would see him alive. READ MORE…
Photos: Curtis Comption /AJC.com
The mother looks good to have all those kids. Bless her heart!
GOD BLESS THEM.
PRAYING FOR THE FAMILY…..
This is sad … who raised the other porch monkey’s who found sport in bullying a kid …
God Bless the family.
this is so heartbreaking.
LOL @ u Sandra about his spirit being evident in the photo. Nonetheless, how sad to hear.
VERY SAD INDEED. MISSMIAMI I CAUGHT THAT ONE TOO. MY HEART AND PRAYERS GOES OUT TO THE FAMILY.
actually the AJC reporter wrote that.
I am so sorry for this…
But Blacks in this country…ya’ll keep saying how homosexuality is EVIL…and BAD…and writing songs and making jokes about GAYS…and saying how GAYS shouldn’t have the same RIGHTS as everybody else, yada, yada, yada…
And then when something TRAGIC happens like this…which is a by-product of the way FAR TOO MANY BLACK FOLKS IN THIS COUNTRY THINK AND ILLUSTRATE…
Now, we’re sad…
GIVE ME A BREAK!!!
STOP THE HATE!!!
@Lala you must have to buy a new soapbox weekly! When you point your finger at somebody you have THREE coming back at you!
Not all blacks Gay bash. You have whites and other races who also don’t approve of the gay lifestyle. I could care less what gay people do. I say be gay and be proud no matter race or gender.
In this case this was a kid who was being bullied and that is the bigger issue IMO! No child should feel the need to take their own life due to some mis guided kids picking on them.
UH LALA….
I GUESS YOU ARE HAVING A BAD DAY. GOD BLESS YOU.
BUT HATE IN NOT ONLY IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY. IT IS ALSO VERY EVIDENT IN OTHER RACES AS WELL. WHAT YOU HAVE JUST DONE IS STEREOTYPED BLACKS. IS THAT FAIR????
I DON’T BELIEVE BLACKS ARE THE MAIN RACE AT ANTI-GAY RALLIES…
I’M JUST SAYING…
IT IS ALSO VERY EVIDENT IN OTHER RACES AS WELL.
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cosign on that. yes ma’am. cause the worst gay bashing i have ever witnessed actually was done in a puerto rican community. my stepfather’s baby bro is gay and once while visiting the island i was there when they smeared his car with feces and killed his dog. why?
cause him and his partner finally came out and had just moved into the neighborhood and had been there less than a week when it happened.
beautiful fam btw. RIP lil man.
Very sad
Yeah the Islanders don’t play when it comes to being gay
…R.I.P. Jaheem Herrera…
Absolutely heartbreaking! There are exceptions but most kids learn by example. If they grow up around negative, critical, always talking about somebody parents, then more than likely they will be the same way.
This story is simply the works of pure evil. kids can be really cruel indeed… however its the examples that we as adults set in place for them. Hate is not good at all whether it be against sexual orientation, race, or just being you as a person. This is tragic really and my heart goes out to him and his family… 10 years old? Life is that bad at 10? This story really just messed me up.
dag, another little black boy just killed himself last week i think it was over this same situation. sad…..
@ Sandra you remember this story next time you post little kids remaking a Beyonce video.
@ Topic this is so sad. Kids can be crul to no end sometimes. Its the fact that they don’t know any better. I am always telling my son that teasing & name calling is not cool.
I’ve said it b4 but these stories always make me think of a friend whose daughter hung herself about a year ago. She was teased for being smart & she limped bc she was recovering from a broken hip. Her younger sibling also found her hanging & thought she was playing.
God Bless this family.
& LaLa are you black?
Hello All. Gayness, this subject is the only subject that my husband and me don’t agree on. He thinks its a choice to be gay and I asked him when did he make his choice? Argument goes that most gay men are raised by single mothers. My argument is that most professional athletes are raised by single mothers so why ain’t most of ’em gay? I think most gays, not all but most gays are born gay. The other 10% are just free spirits, willing to try any and er thang. I’m just saying, for what its worth. Peace.
This is the type of shit that boils my blood! These kids have to go to school and deal with this crap! I know kids have to learn to defend themselves and not worry what others say but I”M NOT HAVING IT!!!
I have a sixth and fifth grader and (the second, damn a minute, this shit starts with MINE, I’m all over it! I don’t play when it comes to me and mines…PERIOD!!
I will shut you down. The school better hope they do something about it because, I’m bring the tsunami through that bitch!! REAL TALK!!!
This story is so sad!! I am pissed!!!
This is sad. Talk to your children. Find out what’s going on – then do something about it. Parenting is hard, but it seems as though the sister and the friend knew something was going on. If the school does nothing, then approach the parents directly. If they are irrational, call the police.
When a little boy called my daughter a bitch, I took it to the office, even though she begged me not to…didn’t want to be a snitch – WHATEVER! As a parent I had to show her how to COMMAND respect for herself. The school contacted his father who promptly came to the school and slapped the $hit out of his son and made him apologize to my child the next day. But believe that I was prepared to handle the situation myself if his parents didn’t.
R.I.P. little man
@melinla
You did the right thing! You showed your daughter that she is to be respected and not take those kind of things lightly. I would have did the same thing!
I’m not above having ANYONE’S child arrested if they pose any type of threat to my child. They ass will be in a group home when I get done with them! I’m an animal when it comes to mine!
GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY!!!!
TO THE ONES WHO PUSHED THIS CHILD OVER THE EDGE BEING HATEFUL
KARMA IS A BEAST AND NO ONE IS ABOVE IT!!!
THIS IS SO SAD….I’M SICK TO MY STOMACH BEHIND THIS!!!
to precious1 and melinla
i love your spirit and passion. I wish there were more parents out there like that because i know here in Philly… alot of these parents could care less and they would be defending this nonsense vs attacking it. melinia i damn near jumped out my seat when you said you showed your daughter how to COMMAND respect! das right!
I blame hip hop & christian crusaders.
what does being a Christian have to do with a boy killing himself?He was teased at school , kids are cruel.the blame game won’t change the situation.May he rest in peace.
Kids are cruel just like adults. Gay bashing & gay witch hunting is a learned behavior.
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