According to my loyal reader Rebecca, Solange Knowles just posted a ‘twit’ revealing that her son Julez, who turns 5 in October, still “pees in the bed.”
Bed wetting is usually a sign of emotional turmoil and problems later on in life. Solange often twits about seeing her son whenever her schedule permits. The stress of seeing his mom more often at the airport than he does at home can lead to bed wetting.
Isn’t it sad that celebs such as Angelina Jolie and Madonna spend more quality time with their adopted children than Solange spends with Julez?
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Shame… and why did she tell the world that?
And when you ask him “Why you go pee pee Daniel?”, he gives you the coldest side eye known to man.
Goodnight y’all!
yes that is a shame and imagine how upset he would be to know that everyone knows he pees the bed. solange strikes me as the type that became pregnant because she wanted some attention and is now over motherhood and wants to live her life. recapturing those teen years.
She is proving more and more of a dysfunctional individual. Get him some Dereon Pull Ups.
Poor kid
PLEASE. Bed wetting does NOT mean emotional turmoil. I wet the bed until I was 9 on occassion because of the PEE DREAM and being lazy. My son did too. Neither of us had any emotional turmoil; we just slept hard and didn’t realize until it was TOO LATE that we were NOT on the toilet. Bed wetting is sooooo misunderstood and overrated.
I had male cousins that peed in the bed until they were about 10/11. Most of the cousins always went to my aunts house, and no one ever wanted to sleep with them. LOL!! My grandma used to call them Pepe (as in le pew)
hes 4 yrs old,
i would be upset if he was 9…. but hell what four yr old doesnt wet the bed every now n then? i bet hes also spoiled too, spoil kids dont really have to be in a rush to do big kid things. if he was surrounded by big kids he wouldnt allow him self to get in that situation.
when my nieces n nephew come over to sleep, in the bed at 9 no water after 8 30.
Whenever she can huh?
Bed wetting can be signs of so many things that i won’t agree or disagree with anything about says.
But honestly, Solange is star by way of being beyonce sister. no one is checking for her like that, she should see her kid all the time, or as much as possible. “whenever i can” sounds like, i’m too busy to see him sometimes.
And if he’s wetting the bed at night, why not have him wear some pullups or whatever there call at night.
Smokie Says:
I wet the bed until I was 9…
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That explains everything.
I think your tipster is reading too much into the “twitter message” just to start controversy. I suggest she stop following her if she just wants to criticize.
Any way, Sandra so at what age should a child stop wetting the bed before parents should get concerned? My baby girl just turned 3 in Jan every since her birthday she stopped telling us when she had to go pee (#2 is fine). No matter how many privileges we take away from her, she still WILL NOT TELL US. We went back to sitting her on the pot every few hours. I’m taking her to the doctor on Friday just to make sure everything is working properly.
my oldest brother wet the bed till he was like 12-13 ..(his mother phycially abused him) .. he was trying to get his young swearve on with the neighbor tramp … I am 7 yrs younger … soooo my lil sister azz wants ALL his ‘tention .. I said LOUD .. If you don’t come help me ride my bike .. imma tell the girl you pee in the bed .. and TOOK off runnin … lol .. lol
BayArea Says:
Any way, Sandra so at what age should a child stop wetting the bed before parents should get concerned? My baby girl just turned 3 in Jan every since her birthday she stopped telling us when she had to go pee (#2 is fine). No matter how many privileges we take away from her, she still WILL NOT TELL US. We went back to sitting her on the pot every few hours. I’m taking her to the doctor on Friday just to make sure everything is working properly.
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If your baby just turned 3 then maybe it was too early for you to successfully complete her potty training and now she’s stressed. I’m glad you’re taking her to a doctor. You’re a good mom.
I am not a nurse and I know that Sandra is, but damn he is still a child. I am sure that peeing in the bed can be a possibility of something deep but damn, he ain’t but 5. If he drinking late at night then he will pee in the bed. If he is scared to get out of the bed to go to the bathroom, he will pee in the bed. If he sleeps hard and has the pee dream (dreaming that he is on the toilet) then he will pee in the bed. Damn. If anybody has a child, sibling, family member, whatever that stopped peeing in the bed as soon as they were trained (2 or 3 years old), please let me know so that when I decide to become a mama, I can use that technique!
Sandra.. did you really have to take it there hun- Emotional turmoil?!?! Daniel is a little child- nuff said. Get back to me when the child is 10 or older and then maybe i’ll believe the emotional trumoil part.. lol Now Solange should know better… Don’t be puttin your little childs info out like that, not cute.. po-thang.. on twitter too.. uh huh
daninicole Says:
If anybody has a child, sibling, family member, whatever that stopped peeing in the bed as soon as they were trained (2 or 3 years old), please let me know so that when I decide to become a mama, I can use that technique!
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As I child growing up, I don’t recall any kid in my family wetting the bed after they were potty trained at 2 or 3. My male brothers and cousins shared a bed when there were sleep overs. If any boy wet the bed we would have teased him unmercifully, lol. So in my opinion, bed wetting at any age after potty training is not normal. It means that the child cannot control his or her bladder at night, for whatever reason.
I agree Solonge is putting too much of her business out into the skreets. she needs to take a lesson from her big sis and learn to stfu. She doesn’t think his school mates parents read her twitter. Poor boy is going to be teased. (that’s if he goes to school)
& I’m sure he is spoiled to the point that it’s annoying to be around him.
MixedPearl Says:
Sandra.. did you really have to take it there hun- Emotional turmoil?!?! Daniel is a little child- nuff said. Get back to me when the child is 10 or older and then maybe i’ll believe the emotional trumoil part..
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The jails are full of men who experienced severe emotional turmoil at Julez’s age. When a young child exhibits signs of emotional stress, those signs should not be dismissed or taken lightly.
SANDRA! stop starting rumors, lol. On the Wendy post she did not call Angie a Whore. she had an interview with a madam that day and that’s why she said it’s more interesting talking to a whore.
& today while on Panache report what did I see in the comment section. Boris is cheating on Nicole I read it on Sandra Rose. (by the way they are hosting the radio show tonight giving couples advice.)
I wonder if you know how powerful your words are.
lmao never mind I see you updated it. They have had serious beef in the past (fights) so we don’t need to start no drama.
iscream Says:
lmao never mind I see you updated it. They have had serious beef in the past (fights) so we don’t need to start no drama.
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I immediately corrected it when I received the email because I like both Wendy and Angie. I don’t want any drama between them either.
iscream Says:
& today while on Panache report what did I see in the comment section. Boris is cheating on Nicole I read it on Sandra Rose. (by the way they are hosting the radio show tonight giving couples advice.)
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Couples advice huh? The problem with most married men is: out of sight out of mind. Still, I never said he cheated on his wife (only the guilty parties would know that for sure).
I don’t think bed wetting is a sign of emotional stress. He’s just slow or better yet the adults around him are slow. A child only does what he’s allowed to do. If his family isn’t explaining to me or chastising him about peeing in the bed then they have a problem. Also, did she say it’s a nightly event or something that happens from time to time. At 4 years old a child (especially a boy for some reason) is bound to have an accident or two hell or five.
I like Solange’s music, not so sure about much else. Her son is a bit spoiled. I saw him on Tyra and he was showing out. He even snatched away from Mrs. Tina and kept saying he wanted his mama. I was thinking to myself, they have ruint (yes ruint) that child!!
Yeah Sandra teasing might stop it somewhat, but I don’t think that’ll work when it is with younger children. Now if you are like 7 or 8 peeing in the bed, getting embarassed about it might stop it.
Couples advice huh? The problem with most married men is: out of sight out of mind.
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Yes I found that ironic myself considering the rumor I had just heard (side eye). I think with most cheating men it’s out of sight out of mind. I even heard some say, once they shower they wash away what ever they just had with the woman away with it. As I said yesterday they are just different from us. No need to try and understand it because we as women won’t. Men are from Mars.
daninicole Says:
Yeah Sandra teasing might stop it somewhat, but I don’t think that’ll work when it is with younger children.
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I think you misunderstood me. There were no bed wetters in my family growing up. What I said was IF there were any bed wetters in my family, we would have teased them because we were kids.
iscream Says:
I think with most cheating men it’s out of sight out of mind. I even heard some say, once they shower they wash away what ever they just had with the woman away with it. As I said yesterday they are just different from us.
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Women connect emotionally even during quickie sex. But for men its just another task to be completed and forgotten. Afterwards they shower and go home to their wives. But women get wrapped up in their emotions wondering if he’s going to call.
LOL@Deron pull up
Boris and Nicole always fill in from time to time on love and relationships on V103. Just on last Sun.
NURSE…PSYCHIATRIST…THERAPIST..YOU GOT THE MEDICAL FIELD SOWED UP.
MUNCHOSGIRL Says:
NURSE…PSYCHIATRIST…THERAPIST..YOU GOT THE MEDICAL FIELD SOWED UP.
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I’m just a RN. And I think you mean “sewed” up. “Sowed” is what Boris is doing… just kidding
The key is actual potty training. A lot of times parents don’t want to put in the time and effort. Then, want to label a child as “slow”.
People always asked me “how did your daughter get so smart” or “she’s a fast learner”. My daughter was average (me too)…the only difference was the time I put into teaching her.
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MUNCHOSGIRL Says:
NURSE…PSYCHIATRIST…THERAPIST..YOU GOT THE MEDICAL FIELD SOWED UP.
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I’m just a RN. And I think you mean “sewed” up. “Sowed” is what Boris is doing… just kidding
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Now what is that suppose to mean. I can’t front when Wendy was talking about them doing the show she said her little “look down” comment. Which ususally means trouble so whatever you know people are talking.
Just tell me it’s not any ‘how you doin’ mess.
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Hey Muncho!
My longtime pet dog died a while back…she was the best dog. A couple of months ago, I got a puppy. I am having the worst time housebreaking my puppy. I know it’s not the puppy’s fault. Unfortunately, I don’t have the time and/or patience any more….still I’m trying. BTW, with some of these celebs children and pets are interchangeable.
All that to say (I have a tendency to get offtrack – sorry), kids do not learn on their own. And putting their business out there like that is emotionally damaging alone.
MUNCHOSGIRL Says:
NURSE…PSYCHIATRIST…THERAPIST..YOU GOT THE MEDICAL FIELD SOWED UP.
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I’m just a RN. And I think you mean “sewed” up. “Sowed” is what Boris is doing… just kidding
SEWED OR SOWED YOU KNEW WHAT I MEANT. IT JUST STILL AMAZES ME THAT A WOMAN OF YOUR AGE AND SUPPOSED INTELLIGENCE STILL STOOP TO SUCH LEVELS. I HAVE A DAUGHTER WHO WET THE BED FOR QUITE SOME TIME, OFF AND ON. I MYSELF WAS A BEDWETTER. I WAS CONCERNED AND VOICED MY CONCERN TO HER PEDIATRICIAN(NOTED HERE IN MIAMI) DR. G. WURM TOLD ME IT WAS HEREDITARY. MY DAUGHTER WAS COMPLETELY TRAINED BY 3 YRS OLD. THE BEDWETTING DIDN’T START IMMEDIATELY NEITHER. BECAUSE A CHILD WET THE BED OCCASIONALLY YOU WANT TO LABEL THEM AS HAVING AN EMOTIONAL PROBLEM.
HOW CAN YOU SAY ANGELINA AND MADONNA SPEND MORE TIME WITH THEIR CHILDREN THAN SOLANGE DOES? YOU NOR I ARE IN THESE PEOPLES HOMES. WHAT IS FUNNY IS THAT “THE TWITTER SPIES” DON’T SEND YOU THE TWITS OF HER SPENDING QUALITY TIME WITH HER CHILD. HOW MANY PHOTOS HAVE YOU SEEN WITH MADOONA OR ANGELINA AT A MUSEUM OR ART SHOW OR ANYTHING OF THAT NAYTURE WITH THEIR KIDS? I REMEMBER YOU BEING HAPPY TO POST PHOTOS OF SOLANGE AND HER SON WHILE SHE WAS ON HER TOUR. THAT MEANS SHE TOOK HER SON TO WORK WITH HER, ON SEVERAL OCCASIONS, NOT TO MENTION HE HAS A FATHER THAT HE SPENDS TIME WITH AS WELL, IS THAT WRONG TOO. SOMETIME SANDRA YOU CAN BE VERY JUVENILE. I DO ENJOY COMING HERE BUT IF YOU DECIDE TO BAN ME AGAIN FOR BEING AN INDEPENDENT THINKER, HEY, IT WAS NICE!
HEY ISCREAM, I AM ASSUMING SHE MEANS BORIS HAS “SOWED HIS WILD OATS” SO TO SPEAK, ACCORDING TO HER AND HER “INSIDER”
STRIGHT FROM SOLANGE TWITTER PAGE
Hey tweets! I love you guys & all the positive energy:) I know you guys like 2 keep me “informed” but some of the blog links y’all send…
about 2 hours ago from TwitterFon
Are just comical, & not in a good way. I don’t even know what a Sandra Rose is? But I DONT like negative, miserable energy in my radar.
about 2 hours ago from TwitterFon
I don’t even know what a Sandra Rose is? But I DONT like negative, miserable energy in my radar.
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WOW in so many ways.
my cousin 8 and cant tie his shoes, he can play chess though .. .wtf
lol @ DR. G. WURM . . .it that big wurm that was in the ice cream truck in friday, , ,you playin with my emotions smokey
I must be slow … my daughter just explained to me what twitter is. LOL…
If her (solange) life is that full, where does she find the time to twitter.
Sandra, some kids DRINK a looot before bed, and well…stuff happens.
Now, what’s your explanation?
SUNNY MANY TWITTER, YOU’D BE SURPRISED, INCLUDING BLOGS, MAG EDITORS, SINGERS, AND COMMON FOLK. I LIKE TO FOLLOW JUNE AMBROSE, AS WELL AS OTHERS.
She aint call Sandra out did she..lol Yall know she is very vocal so she can prove to the world she is not her sister as if we dont already know that *eyes rolling*
@Munch I do not twitter but I do like June
I’ll check out June Ambrose tomorrow Munch. Thanks.
Well, I’m going to twit on out of here…gotta watch Sandhurst on Make me a Supermodel.
DAISY, HER DAUGHTER HAS A FRIEND(CHILD MIND YOU) WITH A SMALL HERMES! IDIED AT THE PIC. WTH DOES A 7YR OLD KNOW ABOUT A HERMES BAG, I ASK?
http://twitpic.com/24lb7
Solange is trippin! She know DAMN well who Auntie is…tell her to ask Beyonce!
Dang! LOL
@ Smokie…
THANK YOU!!!! I just knew I was the only one that would have the “pee dreams!” Now that I’m older, I can wake myself up, but it do be close sometimes. lol
Bed wetting is NOT caused by emotional turmoil. I’ll be the first to say that I wet the bed until I was like 7 or 8 due an extremely weak bladder, which I still have today but clearly have control over it now. As a child, I couldn’t tell when I needed to pee until I REALLY needed to pee and by then I couldn’t hold it so I peed myself. Thats why they make Good Nights and diapers like that for big kids who have the problems. It doesn’t mean you have parents that neglect you because my mom never once neglected me.
I have to children 5 and 1..my 5 year old has been potty trained and in school since age 2. NEVER has my baby wet the bed. He obviously anit been taught that well. You mothers kill me giving her a past. My 5 year old can read better than most ADULTS i know. I bet Solange SON cant read, nor write, nor add. My child can do all this and I’m by far rich..what I am doing is rasing my child the right way. They probably dont care when lil man eat or drink and no one is waking him up…sometimes you have to do that. If your rich and dont have to report to a 9-5 there is no reason why your child shouldnt be fully trained and lil man going on 6.
This is so ridiculos. Really. Me personally I think Solange is a good mother. I alwyas see her with her son. And you cant forget that he has a father that he probably spends time with to.
And bed weting WTF he is 4 years old. I follow her on twit (yes im lame lol), and she’s always updatign her profile saying how her son is the greatest and how much she loves him. She has lots of pics with them 2. She takes him on tour with her and when she does shows and interviews.
I was listening to this story on the radio. And when they said a blogger said “Angelina Jolie and Madonna spends more time with their kids then Solange”….i was like what damn blogger would say some sh*t like dat.
But Lawd And Behold Auntie IT WAS YES, AND I MOST SAY I AM VERY DISSAPOINTED
typo* IT WAS YOU
It’s not biology, I agree with SANDRA 5 is too old point blank. You wouldnt be saying he was to young if he was pooping on himself. Give me a break. Its obvious she like a lot of young black hood moms…so busy trying to be seen and party the child is the last thing on her mind.
Sandra u never cease to amaze me with your ignorance…(i luv you though (lol))
Solange appears to me a good mother and peeing in the bed as a kid is not ALWAYS a sign of emotional distress, give me a freaking break. You talk as if he’s 10 years old…some kids are just lazy and won’t get up and some kids just don’t “feel it” and some just may have deeper issues but to insinuate that all kids who pee in the bed have issues is BOGUS. You and your twitter source are being ridiculous.
flyqtnva says: “I bet Solange SON cant read, nor write, nor add”. “Its obvious she like a lot of young black hood moms…so busy trying to be seen and party the child is the last thing on her mind”.
Damn you going hard you would swear you know her personally. Jealous much? I too follow Solange on twitter and se has stated her son can do all of the above.
Get a life and stay out of hers with your sorry a$$ OPINIONS!
Sandra Rose Says:
Smokie Says:
I wet the bed until I was 9…
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That explains everything.
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On the d*mn floor….HOLLERING..!!!LOL.
@Renegro # 37 Is you cousin lefthanded? When my son(lefty) was starting Pre-K I started trying to teach him to tie his shoes. He couldn’t get, my younger daughter watched us and picked it right up. I was worried, told my friend( left handed) and when she showed him he got it right away.He was trying to copy me exactly and didn’t have the strength or dexterity in his right hand to do it.
Is there such a thing as a good mother? We all make mistakes and learn from them.