FanMAIL: I’m Married To A Narcissist

Sandra Rose December 30, 2009

A loyal reader who shall remain anonymous writes:

Dear Sandra,

Thank you very much for the link to the blog on narcissistic people. I was reading the blog this morning and my stomach is in knots because that is exactly whom I’ve married. It’s been a tough 5 years. Very tough. I was made to feel that it’s been “Me” all this time. And now, I can see he just has this sick personality that preys on “bleeding me dry” as the blog states. Honestly, I don’t what I will do to move forward, but at least now I know it isn’t me, and that’s a start.

Enjoy the New Year, and thank you again.

lovezoe

This is just like going to WebMd and thinking all the symptoms apply to you. You don’t need a blog or website to tell you your husband is a jerk. You know your husband is a jerk, it is up to you to do something about it.
Daisy

Chile please
FloridaChick813

Is in agreeance with Lovezoe!!!!!!

LOL @ Daisy!!! I was waitin on the “chile boo” — LOL!!!
LaTechGrad02

So are you saying that Michelle Obama is the loyal reader? If not, why is the president’s picture up there?
http://twitter.com/LaydeeJustice LadyJustice *\o/*

Daisy Says:

Chile please

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get her outta here —-> next
Dorcely

GTFOH….. with a side of negro please
mirsmommy

Daisy Says:

Chile please
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And I’m gon throw in my, GIRL, BYE!!!!
Daisy

Chile BOO *shoutout to Florida*
mirsmommy

Was this ish really worth a post??????
http://smokiesays.blogspot.com/ Smokie

How narcissistic is it to have a blog about narcissism?
cheeks8683

slow day????
Redeemed777

All she needs to do is threaten him with a machete.
Daisy

Do these loyal readers ever read the loyal posters comments so they can know what’s coming? I would hate to have somebody blindsided well not really but it sounded nice
FloridaChick813

Daisy Says:

Do these loyal readers ever read the loyal posters comments so they can know what’s coming? I would hate to have somebody blindsided well not really but it sounded nice
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:lolol:
ReadTheBlog

LOL@ Michelle O. reading Sandrarose #4 ! #noshade Sandra, BTW, but fo’ real…LOL!
CivilEngineer

So she didn’t notice any selfishness/self-centeredness 5 years Was she a 20% (see Tiger post)? She sounds like a 20% to me!!
Cinderella

To the loyal reader, you may be suffering from a disease called being a dumbass. Symptoms are but not limited to: Nausea, headaches, fatigue and using Sandrarose.com as a online med clinic.
Krissy J.

LMAO @ Some of these comments…boy, folks always act like they can’t relate…Which is a CLASSIC sign of narcissism…LOL…

But KUDOS to the “Loyal Reader”…I can totally relate to you and your situation!…2010 is upon us…it’s time to do you and when you’re ready, find someone who knows your worth!
mirsmommy

CivilEngineer Says:

So she didn’t notice any selfishness/self-centeredness 5 years Was she a 20% (see Tiger post)? She sounds like a 20% to me!!
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Damn a 20%, is this chick just straight up retarded???? And then, she goes and emails Sandra about this mess…. It took 5 years of marriage, and how ever many years or months of dating and engagement to realize that???????

Can we say, short yellow bus????
FloridaChick813

@ the comments!!!!!
Daisy

@Krissy Just because you can relate doesnt mean everybody else can and has to and say AMEN *sighs*
CivilEngineer

LOL @mirs…I agree, I hope she sat at the front

And I thought a blog was a place to state opinions not cosign idiocracy
Krissy J.

@Daisy

You’re exactly right…nor do I need anyone to with me…

Typical narcissist to assume that I need you to
mirsmommy

CivilEngineer Says:

LOL @mirs…I agree, I hope she sat at the front

And I thought a blog was a place to state opinions not cosign idiocracy
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Daisy, can we get a POW for that one?????
mirsmommy

And it’s only 10:43 am……
nika405

I’m going to need her to not use SR’s blog to diagnosis any problems she may be having, next thing you know ol boy is gay and has ran off with a LSLH chick! And if she was just now realizing he’s an a@#… Wow!
Daisy

@Krissy chile please YOU were the one who commented.. Some of these comments…boy, folks always act like they can’t relate

YOU could relate and co signed/agreed same thing and tried to call others out who DID NOT.

I dont e beef or fool with thumb thugs so have a blessed day!
CivilEngineer

Daisy Says:

@Krissy chile please YOU were the one who commented.. Some of these comments…boy, folks always act like they can’t relate

YOU could relate and co signed/agreed same thing and tried to call others out who DID NOT.

I dont e beef or fool with thumb thugs so have a blessed day!
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POW!
Daisy

@Civil I guess not some folks come on here and turn their nose up and act high n mighty regarding other folks comments sit yo azz down (c) AM
mirsmommy

*lurking and snackin on my since it looks like that IHOP trip is out*
Krissy J.

@Daisy

Cosigning someone behavior and relating/sympathizing are too different things…don’t assume that because I can relate to her that I am cosigning or stating that it was a smart decision to stay in a bad relationship with someone for over 5 years…

I can sympathize with her situation…People make mistakes and stay in bad situations…Period.

So yea…move around home girl.
FloridaChick813

nika405 Says:

I’m going to need her to not use SR’s blog to diagnosis any problems she may be having, next thing you know ol boy is gay and has ran off with a LSLH chick!
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LMFAOOO!!!!!!!!!!!
Krissy J.

*two
http://facebook.com/mikaedanstewart mistarie

Wow…Ummm, no I can’t relate to staying with someone for 5+ years and being dogged all the while. No, I can’t relate to staying with someone who makes me feel like any and everythang was my fault. No, I can’t relate to that. Now had she said that she saw that he was an azzhole and decided to walk away within the first couple of months before allowing him to completely destroy her self esteem and self worth…then that I could relate to.
FloridaChick813

@ mirsmommy..

Well I dont care for pop-corn too much, but can you pass some this way PLEASE???
CivilEngineer

@Daisy…I don’t see how what I say has any bearing on how somebody else feels and since this person put herself out like this, we have every right to state our opinions, that’s why we’re MEMBERS!

Too many hyper sensitive azz people on here now…stop being so soft
https://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

mirsmommy Says:

*lurking and snackin on my since it looks like that IHOP trip is out*

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Sandra, needs a eating pancakes emoticon. I’m tired of popcorn
Daisy

@Civil and Mis yall betta

On to the next one though….
https://sandrarose.com Ms.kaylamomma

Daisy Says:

Do these loyal readers ever read the loyal posters comments so they can know what’s coming? I would hate to have somebody blindsided well not really but it sounded nice

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I can only hope that Sandra ask these people permission to post their email in here. Like you said, they should know how we post comments if they have been lurking for a while But knowing Sandra…
BROWNSUGAPOET

DAISY
CIVIL
MIRS>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

HI SWEET CHEEKS, NIKA AND RTB!!!!
mirsmommy

FloridaChick813 Says:

@ mirsmommy..

Well I dont care for pop-corn too much, but can you pass some this way PLEASE???
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No problem. Here you go, and here, take this bacon sammich too…..
mirsmommy

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

DAISY
CIVIL
MIRS>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

HI SWEET CHEEKS, NIKA AND RTB!!!!
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What did I do?????? Can I get slice of pizza while I’m ova there???
CivilEngineer

I get put in the KONA on serious posts too? I can’t win for losing!!
BROWNSUGAPOET

YALL I CAN’T FOCUS TODAY! MY BIPOLAR COWORLER WHO I THOUGHT GOT FIRED JUST YELLED OUT “THE HOLY GHOST IS ABOUT TO GO SMOKE A CIGARETTE” AND SHE WAS TALKIN BOUT HERSELF
LaTechGrad02

Wow @Brown, I’d put my purse in my car and have my keys close to my hand so when she snaps, you’re ready to go
BROWNSUGAPOET

SHE’S AN AKA AND 2 YOUNGER CHICKS CAME IN OUR OFFICE LOOKIN FOR HER YESTERDAY AND APPARENTLY THEY’RE AKA’S TOO OR TRYIN TO BECOME ONE AND THEY NEEDED HELP AND SHE WENT OFF CALLIN THEM OPPORTUNISTS AND SAID SHE WASNT DOIN THE AZZES WORK!
http://facebook.com/mikaedanstewart mistarie

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

YALL I CAN’T FOCUS TODAY! MY BIPOLAR COWORLER WHO I THOUGHT GOT FIRED JUST YELLED OUT “THE HOLY GHOST IS ABOUT TO GO SMOKE A CIGARETTE” AND SHE WAS TALKIN BOUT HERSELF
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Huh?
BROWNSUGAPOET

LA she had 3 many meltdowns yesterday and I told my boss she was bout to blow! She got on her wig that look like it came from the set of Mahogony and her fur/possom coat!
FloridaChick813

@ Mirsmommy — Thanks mam!!! Preciate it… But i’ll take a piece of that pizza too!!!! LOL
LaTechGrad02

Lol @Brown
FloridaChick813

Dead @ brownsugapoet —

sounds like she needs some xanx.. or maybe some valum.. LOL
BROWNSUGAPOET

LA the last time she went off I told my unit chief on my way out he had a situation that needed to be taken care of! he came outside lookin for me about 30 minutes later to tell me it was safe
Daisy

Well anybody in the KONA should know that I will be teaching a lesson on ppl who make mistakes and find themselves in bad situations cause apparently that is breaking news and something that must be discussed ASAP
BROWNSUGAPOET

she’s on meds but she dont take them like she’s supposed to and she drinks
BROWNSUGAPOET

Daisy Daisy Daisy you know you are wrong
mirsmommy

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

YALL I CAN’T FOCUS TODAY! MY BIPOLAR COWORLER WHO I THOUGHT GOT FIRED JUST YELLED OUT “THE HOLY GHOST IS ABOUT TO GO SMOKE A CIGARETTE” AND SHE WAS TALKIN BOUT HERSELF
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Okay, she needs prayer, ASAP!!!!!! This when I woulda went to the boss and said, “Get this crazy b*tch up outta here!!!!”
FloridaChick813

@ Brownsugapoet — Ooh My!!!!!! Sounds like an accident waiting to happen…
mirsmommy

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

LA the last time she went off I told my unit chief on my way out he had a situation that needed to be taken care of! he came outside lookin for me about 30 minutes later to tell me it was safe
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It was a MAN DOWN, CODE RED SITUATION!!!!!!!!!!
mirsmommy

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

she’s on meds but she dont take them like she’s supposed to and she drinks
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That’s like a lit match at a gas station…… Sh*t is about to blow up for real…..

Are you close to any exits if sh*t hits the fan?????
BROWNSUGAPOET

Mirs since we work for the govt there are certain guidelines they have to follow because if they go about it the wrong way she could sue. But, as many meltdowns as she’s had she should’ve been gone by now! So now my boss said she needs emails from anyone who doesn’t feel safe! She’s gotten alot!
BROWNSUGAPOET

I’m real close to an exit but when she comes down my aisle my back is to her! i told my boss before she could pull a ft hood and we’d be sittin ducks since there are no metal detectors
FloridaChick813

BROWNSUGAPOET Says:

…. So now my boss said she needs emails from anyone who doesn’t feel safe! She’s gotten alot!
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RUN BISH RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Daisy

Jesus be a fence all around Brown Amrn! Folks are crazy n will snap at work n won’t think twice about it
nika405

Oh Brown honey I feel you, girl I swear the crazy house just drops fools off at the gate and comes get them in the evening…we are on our 2nd weirdo…the unit chief moved one and they replaced him with a women who has manic depressive disorder all she does is talk about the other dude and try and diagnosis him…and she has Tourretts (sp) Lord help you. And GM to everyone!
BROWNSUGAPOET

nika where do you work
nika405

Bldg 3001 on the northside, where are you?
BROWNSUGAPOET

AWWWWW SNAP! IM RIGHT ACROSS FROM PERSONNEL!!!!! NOT TOO FAR FROM THE VAULT!!!!!