I realize I’m late with this story, but bear with me and you’ll see why I’m writing this so late.
Carl Tyson, the father of kidnap victim Carlina White Tyson, leaves the US Federal Courthouse in New York yesterday after an arraignment hearing for Ann Pettway.
Carlina White Tyson, now 23, was 19 days old when she was allegedly snatched by Pettway from Harlem Hospital twenty-three years ago.
Carlina was raised as “Nejdra Nance” in Bridgeport, Connecticut, just 45 minutes away from where her parents lived. Tyson and Joy White, Carlina’s parents, separated a year after she was abducted. They both married other people and raised their own families. In 1992, Tyson and White were awarded $750,000 in damages by Harlem Hospital.
Carlina was reunited with her biological parents last week after she logged onto a missing children’s website and found baby pictures that resembled herself and her 5-year-old daughter, Samani.
“I found out while I was pregnant. That lady told me she wasn’t my mother,” said Carlina of the woman who posed as a phony nurse when she stole Carlina from the hospital at 3:00 a.m.
The troubling aspect of this case is that Carlina reached out to Oprah Winfrey last year in hopes of finding her birth parents, but she received no reply. We all know that if Carlina was a white child with blond hair and blue eyes, Oprah would have responded personally, and this case would have been resolved before Christmas.
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Caption: Joy White, center, birth mother of Carlina White, leave a NY hotel with her sister-in-law, Regina Tyson, right, and an unidentified woman, prior to attending a hearing for Ann Pettway, the woman who abducted her daughter, Carlina white Tyson, from Harlem Hospital twenty three years ago.
Welcome back Sandra!
I am so happy this story turned out with a happy ending.
Welcome back Auntie. :hugs:
But is THIS what we’ve waited FOUR DAYS for?!
(sigh)
Happy to have you back Auntie!!
..YOU’VE BEEN MISSED!!!
I’m still wondering why I haven’t seen a 1on1 interview with the FULL story on T.V…it saddens me how this isn’t geting more exposure
~ http://www.ToyCouture.net ~
Oh that’s crazy!!!
Um Sandy….was it good? Had to be!!! Got you missing work n chit!!
Hey Sandra!
We missed you yesterday. You must of had a REALLY good weekend!
So basically, black women have to be their own detectives and police officers if they are abducted.
Hopefully the police office and other government agencies that should have caught this are all sued in this corroborated kidnapping.
Awesome Ending! She is finally with her family. God Bless her
YOU’RE ALIVE :woot:
This is crazy. That girl’s world has been totally rocked.
@SANDRA
WE MISSED U SOOOOO DANG MUCH HAPPY U AIGHT
BUT IT TOOK TO LONG TO FIND HER REAL PARENTS LILKE DANG 23 YEARS
THN SHE CALLS THE WOMAN THAT RAISED HER A LADY LIKE SHE DON’T KNOW HER BUT THEN AGAIN THE “LADYS” MAMA RAISED HER SO WHY TAKE A CHILD AND THEN PASS IT OVA TO UR MAMA #CWAZYBISH
@POST HAPPY ENDING
You didn’t have to dis Oprah like that Sandra!!
WOW This story is what I feared when my niece was born so I stayed by my sister’s side the entire time they were in the hospital. Not much I could do when they took her to the nursery but in my mind I was SUPERMAN.
I’ll pay someone to take her lil azz now!!!
Oh gosh I sent Oprah something a few years back to and never got a reply….I REALLY WANTED TO MEET BEYONCE…anywho chit happens.
Unfortunately there are few people the story get to prior to Oprah EVER hearing about it…producer, executive producer, etc. So Oprah is not at fault and can you imagine how many other people reach out to her!
@THERAPIST AWW BEING A PROTECTIVE UNCLE NOW U WANT TO HAND HER LIL BAD AZZ OVA HUH???
THEY CUTE UNTIL THEY START THAT
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WB Sandra – was ready to put out an APB on you!
I have no sympathy for this baby stealer. She was desperate to be a mother but never thought about the hearts she was breaking by taking that baby.
As for the Oprah request, I’m sure she gets A LOT of them but being burned by phonies in the past (that dam book writer) maybe she’s being more careful
I wonder if her abduction put a strain on their relationship and caused her parents to seperate! There are really some crazy people in the world! Do you think she would keep a relationship with the other family, beens their all she know!
I blame Obama.
LOL @ YSoSerious!
WOW This story is what I feared when my niece was born so I stayed by my sister’s side the entire time they were in the hospital. Not much I could do when they took her to the nursery but in my mind I was SUPERMAN.
I’ll pay someone to take her lil azz now!!!
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YSoSerious says:
I blame Obama.
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I think he’ll be addressing this very issue in the State of the Union Address tonight at 9…
LOL @ YSO blaming Obama
@Laker…yes anybody can have her spoiled azz. She 17 now ready to graduate from High school and is a constant pain in my wallet. Time surely flies
I Pray To God!
This Story plays out the same way for Asha Degree Missing since 2/14/2000
WE WILL FIND YOU!
New names for Therapist:
DoctorLove
NoMikeTyson
Brrr
I’ll think of some more shortly…
Stop hatin on Oprah..lmbo! How many black celebrities you know go and open schools up in Africa. Blacks in America are spoiled compared to Africa..so all power to her. I love Sandra mane! lol.
FINALLY! I can get my daily Sandra fix
I’m glad this story has a happy ending… News with missing kids is always so sad now a day…
(Drops bookbag at door and jumps on Aunties Lap)….WHERE YOU BEEN AUNTIE!!!? Why you smell like noodles and Patron Auntie? Why you leave us like dat AUNTIE..we had to go eat at the neighbors and all she gave us was Franks and Beans..
WELL?
@ Sandra
You can get off Big O right about now. She just said on her show yesterday that her own sister tried to reach out to here by sending a letter to her studios in 2007 and she never recieved that either. She said that a lot of things go through her producer’s etc. before it even reaches her so you can just fall back on the whole Big O and how much she loves blonde hair, blue eyed people.
Somehow I knew this was gonna be blamed on Obama~
Hey crazy lady. :hugs:
SexxxyDimeDiva says:
I wonder if her abduction put a strain on their relationship and caused her parents to seperate! There are really some crazy people in the world! Do you think she would keep a relationship with the other family, beens their all she know!
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The mom was only 16, odds of them staying together were never in their favor. Carlina found out that the sister she thought was hers is also not the stealers husbands child, Carlina did say that they will always be sisters.
LOL YSO keep them coming
@GEnia…really….NOODLES AND PATRON lol
Yeah that’s right. Its Oprah’s fault! (side eye)
Morning fam!!!
Hey Lakes, Al, Genia, Yso, Destinee—Where have you been Destinee??? I haven’t seen you on here in a while.
@Jazzy….samething I said
WTF IS NANCY GRACE NOW!@!!
Ignant ass heffa..
So, sad that it took 23 years for this to happen but Im glad for them. That napper deserves eveything she got coming
Morning Folks!
WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT it don’t smell like noodles in the air after sex for you? …..OH? That’s just me?……ohhh
…I’m leaving now….
Looking back sadly at YSO!
Almost forgot ya.
To everyone else…GOOD MORNING!!!
Sandra was killing me softly with the lack of posts yesterday.
And errbody else…
How about the fact that Oprah’s own long lost sister tried to contact the the show when mom’s was blocking all her attempts to be united with her birth family? Oprah can’t tend to the thousands of requests I’m sure she gets.
@Genia
Why the sad face?
And you need to stop using Top Ramen during foreplay girly.
I’m so glad that she was reunited with her family.
I hope it all works out for them. As for the kidnapper, I hope they put that bish under the jail.
Morning Folks
@ aCE KEEP YO HEAD UP :YES:
I’m sure Oprah gets a thousand request per month from people trying to find birth parents, the fact that she hasn’t received a response is akin to people asking for money every day of the week.
Besides, I don’t really see Oprah sifting through emails trying to find a story for her show.
Children searching for missing parents is an everyday occurrence, and something about her story would have made it stand out in order for the media to pick it up.
This story wouldn’t really be that interesting if she was simply a girl who was looking for her birth parents, which is what SHE thought – the angle that caught people’s attention is that it turns out she was KIDNAPPED… I’m sure, had she said THAT in her request to Oprah, they would have been all over it. Just as every show, website, newspaper and magazine in the country would have been.
I know the only thing that made me read this story weeks ago was finding out that she was a kidnapped child.
Genia says:
WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT it don’t smell like noodles in the air after sex for you? …..OH? That’s just me?……ohhh …I’m leaving now….
Looking back sadly at YSO!
I bout died when i read this chit here. F’N hilarious
@ Al
That gravie pic….:hurl:
@ jAZZY WHATS UP SEXY? mIR MOMMY WHAT UP GUHL CFREE BIRD HOW YALL
@genia
come here u fool 
Alboy, can we please get rid of that BMW in your gravi
I’M IN SOO MUCH PAIN MY DANG WISDOM TOOTH IS COMING IN I SWEAR I FEEL LIKE IM IN LABOR
***pop opens a bottle of tequila and gulp’s the shat in** I GOT TO DO SUM FOR THE FUKN PAIN 
@CFREE
So YOU’RE the reason Sandra was a no show yesterday; out hooking together.
Awe Laker
i feel so sorry for you, that tooth pain is no joke
its worst than labor pains!
Im good Cfree tuesday is always my Monday i started to stay home today
but they paying here so Ill be here 
(orders LAKER a case of Tequila and express ships it to her)
Poor baby. :hugs:
YSoSerious says:
@CFREE
So YOU’RE the reason Sandra was a no show yesterday; out hooking together.
sshhh, don’t tell nobody
Awwwww, ACE, I’ll
for her return as well.
@CFREE
:I <——Zipped lips

heyyyyy Jazzi
***falls to the ground and spins around in a fetal position crying** MY WHOLE DANG SIDE OF MY FACE IS SWOLLEN
BISH DON’T GET NO BREAK THEN I CALLED THE DENTIST AND HE TOLD ME MY PATIENT PORTION I’M
HE WRONG HE KNOW THIS SHAT HURTS HE WANTS TO CHARGE ME A LEG AND A FUKN OVARIE 
By the way, why do we feel like Oprah owes the black community something? It’s my opinion that had she catered to our fickle a$$es, she would have been cancelled a long time ago.
Oprah went with what made her the most successful black woman in history and that bothers people – and I don’t get it because I don’t blame her. The people who kick her the most are the very people who don’t watch her show and had no interest in supporting her once the buffoonery stopped.
She had “change your life” television and we called it “white folks $hit”, why? Because WE weren’t interested in changing our lives because we’re fine exactly where we are. Nobody wants to hear about losing weight and being healthy because black women have let black men convince them that 50lbs extra is “fine”… so, again… that’s “white folks $hit”.
Rappers are JUST getting to the point where Oprah was 20 years ago, catering to the M-O-N-E-Y… not “street cred” – It’s interesting that if Jay Z did a song with the Spice Girls, he would be considered a sellout because he caters to his AUDIENCE and he ain’t trying to lose the people who put that money in his pocket – but Oprah has a responsibility to do the opposite and lose her money makers while catering to people she will be “over” with 2 years later?
Stop blaming Oprah for looking out for Oprah – black folk are the ones who will hate on you the most, but the main ones who feel like you owe them something. Go Oprah.
Oprah don’t owe me $HIT! (And when my book comes out, if white folk support me and y’all don’t – well, damnit, I’ll be sittin right with their a$$es smilin and shuckin’ and jivin’.
You know, I kinda feel bad for the “abductor.” I bet they give her umpteen life sentences too..

@man u been MIA for a min were the fuk u been bruh???
Bridgeport is my birth place!
FABULOSALAKER says:
***falls to the ground and spins around in a fetal position crying** MY WHOLE DANG SIDE OF MY FACE IS SWOLLEN
BISH DON’T GET NO BREAK THEN I CALLED THE DENTIST AND HE TOLD ME MY PATIENT PORTION I’M
HE WRONG HE KNOW THIS SHAT HURTS HE WANTS TO CHARGE ME A LEG AND A FUKN OVARIE 
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Home rememdies: First if you have some antibiotics in your cabnet anywhere…take them. Then to ease the pain try the following in no particular order
1). Tea bag in mouth (you should drink the tea with no sugar and then take the bag and suppress it against the tooth)
2). Not being funny…BRUSH your TEETH…or in your case the area where the tooth is growing in..specifically with a white paste..Mint is best
3). Tylenol with sleep aid is your friend…if you are at home today. Then hold a hot water bottle against your jaw…this will sooth the pain and assist you with getting to sleep.
CARRINGTON
my thoughts exactly
Heyyyy AL, Yso, dammit, the whole Roll Call.
Well..I’m glad Carlina/Nejdra found her biological parents..but it really isn’t quite a happy ending. The biological family is stressed that she feels torn between them and the folks she grew up with. She lives in Atlanta and its going to take a LOT of time and therapy to get through this. Her mother and Father want her to embrace them and move to NY so they can begin being a family…but after 23 years how can you just drop your past and start new like nothing ever happen.
Its a tragedy for both families. And now Carlina/Nejdra is left to mend the torn pieces. The alledged kidnapper is definitely a confused woman who needs therapy and JAIL TIME….what a mess!
@LAKER
“u been MIA for a min were the fuk u been bruh???”
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I’m an auditor and it’s tax season. People getting w-2’s and chit so I been busier than a white hoe at the “Million Man March.”
Oh…and welcome back Sandra…
AS far as Oprah, she doesn’t read the letters that come in herself. They get sorted out my her staff, and they are the ones who forward stories onto her that they think they should persue. I can only imagine how many letters and emails they get a day.
This is a happy ending to a very sad story for the family. I heard that the kidnapper moved to North Carolina with her son who is a teenager now. I wonder how long did she actually raise/stay in the same area with her? That’s scary that some women (and men) kidnap babies because they can’t have any. Oprah may not have a lot of black people on her show but if she did people would probably say “why is she airing our dirty laundry” on tv.
cute girl, she was a cute baby. HOpefully this family can build and get to know one another.
@GENIA I DID ALL OF THE ABOVE THIS MORNTING **EXCEPT THE PILLS BISH GOTS TO WORK** AND IM STILL IN PAIN IS THE WISDOM TOOTH AND MY GUM IS BUSTED WIDE OPEN SO I NEED THE DENTIST BAD DON’T WANT NODANG INFECTION TO MAKE IT WORSE
BUT U ALWAYS LOOKING OUT FOR A BISH THANKS MAMAS 
Bravo @CARRINGTON!! Well said….point made!
my heart breaks when i look at the young parent’s pictures and i think of how days went by, and then weeks, and months…. you can see in the background a pic of them very happy and then see the grief on their faces. i hope the beyotch gets life. kidnapping carries heavy years.
I bet Oprah’s show producers will contact her now. Carlina is probably on the phone with them as I type.
GLAD SHE HAS BEEN REUNITED WITH HER PARENTS, NO SINCE IN PLACING BLAME WITH ANYONE ELSE (IE OPRAH) EXCEPT THE KIDNAPPER SHE IS THE ONLY ONE AT FAULT IN THIS SITUATION!
BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY AND SHE LOOKS JUST LIKE HER PARENTS!
So glad that young lady was reunited with her parents! That lady Ann needs to be locked away forever. That kind of crazy is scary.
My heart goes out to the parents of this lovely young lady. Whether Oprah contacted her or not, this is just a testament that God is real. Finally , something worth reporting.
By the way, why do we feel like Oprah owes the black community something? It’s my opinion that had she catered to our fickle a$$es, she would have been cancelled a long time ago.
Oprah went with what made her the most successful black woman in history and that bothers people – and I don’t get it because I don’t blame her. The people who kick her the most are the very people who don’t watch her show and had no interest in supporting her once the buffoonery stopped.
She had “change your life” television and we called it “white folks $hit”, why? Because WE weren’t interested in changing our lives because we’re fine exactly where we are. Nobody wants to hear about losing weight and being healthy because black women have let black men convince them that 50lbs extra is “fine”… so, again… that’s “white folks $hit”.
Rappers are JUST getting to the point where Oprah was 20 years ago, catering to the M-O-N-E-Y… not “street cred” – It’s interesting that if Jay Z did a song with the Spice Girls, he would be considered a sellout because he caters to his AUDIENCE and he ain’t trying to lose the people who put that money in his pocket – but Oprah has a responsibility to do the opposite and lose her money makers while catering to people she will be “over” with 2 years later?
Stop blaming Oprah for looking out for Oprah – black folk are the ones who will hate on you the most, but the main ones who feel like you owe them something. Go Oprah.
Oprah don’t owe me $HIT! (And when my book comes out, if white folk support me and y’all don’t – well, damnit, I’ll be sittin right with their a$$es smilin and shuckin’ and jivin’.
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THEY SHOULD PUT THIS ON THE BACK OF EVERY DOLLAR AND BENEFIT CARD-MAYBE THEN BLACK FOLKS WILL GET IT! SUCCESS IS NOT TO BE ENVIED BUT OBTAINED! AND ONCE OBTAINED IT GARNERS THE RESPECT OF THOSE WHO “REALLY” MATTER-NOT THOSE WHO DON’T!
OPRAH COULD CARE LESS ABOUT WHAT WE THINK-WHY CAUSE WHAT WE EAT DON’T MAKE HER SHIAT!
intensemocha says:
SUCCESS IS NOT TO BE ENVIED BUT OBTAINED! AND ONCE OBTAINED IT GARNERS THE RESPECT OF THOSE WHO “REALLY” MATTER-NOT THOSE WHO DON’T!
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:cosign:…..Very well put…i’m gonna have to use that one!!
Morning Folks….please excuse my Tone Loc just woke up Voice
intensemocha says:
By the way, why do we feel like Oprah owes the black community something? It’s my opinion that had she catered to our fickle a$$es, she would have been cancelled a long time ago.
Oprah went with what made her the most successful black woman in history and that bothers people – and I don’t get it because I don’t blame her. The people who kick her the most are the very people who don’t watch her show and had no interest in supporting her once the buffoonery stopped.
She had “change your life” television and we called it “white folks $hit”, why? Because WE weren’t interested in changing our lives because we’re fine exactly where we are. Nobody wants to hear about losing weight and being healthy because black women have let black men convince them that 50lbs extra is “fine”… so, again… that’s “white folks $hit”.
Rappers are JUST getting to the point where Oprah was 20 years ago, catering to the M-O-N-E-Y… not “street cred” – It’s interesting that if Jay Z did a song with the Spice Girls, he would be considered a sellout because he caters to his AUDIENCE and he ain’t trying to lose the people who put that money in his pocket – but Oprah has a responsibility to do the opposite and lose her money makers while catering to people she will be “over” with 2 years later?
Stop blaming Oprah for looking out for Oprah – black folk are the ones who will hate on you the most, but the main ones who feel like you owe them something. Go Oprah.
Oprah don’t owe me $HIT! (And when my book comes out, if white folk support me and y’all don’t – well, damnit, I’ll be sittin right with their a$$es smilin and shuckin’ and jivin’.
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THEY SHOULD PUT THIS ON THE BACK OF EVERY DOLLAR AND BENEFIT CARD-MAYBE THEN BLACK FOLKS WILL GET IT! SUCCESS IS NOT TO BE ENVIED BUT OBTAINED! AND ONCE OBTAINED IT GARNERS THE RESPECT OF THOSE WHO “REALLY” MATTER-NOT THOSE WHO DON’T!
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Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Oh my God! I am sooo tired of hearing people call her a sell-out, SHeila Johnson blastin her about her groundbreaking precedence she set with her network…GET A EFFING GRIP BISH!!!!!!! Oprah doesn’t need to utilize all black staffing or air all black programming to prove her blackness. Bish is black, born black strugled black and will die black. I think she has done more to uplift the African Maerican woman by having multiracial programming, employees, interest stories and audiences than the damn caricatures of a black women we are forcefed on a daily basis, i.e, Nicki Minaj, Lil Kim, Rihanna, the list goes on.
My Godmother was not aware of this situation or she would have saved the day..don’t try and come for her when she is feeling vulnerable…So glad she has Auntie Gayle and Stedman for those long nights….
What I want to know is how in the world did you enroll this girl in school, take her to the doctors etc. w/o a birth certificate and social security card? These things are required for registration in school etc. I think there are many other people that should be held responsible b/c they let this lady get by w/o proper legal documents. She could’ve been located much sooner.
@ Sandra
We missed yesterday but every hard working woman deserves a day off! Glad to see u back… And I have no sympathy for the baby snatcher!
This story is sad. That lady really tore this family apart…from the abduction to the parents separating.
@ Carrington – I agree w/ you minus one thing: Blacks folks aren’t the ones tearing her every achievement apart, it’s the ninjas. Straight ninja ish.
velvetw23 says: What I want to know is how in the world did you enroll this girl in school, take her to the doctors etc. w/o a birth certificate and social security card?
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i didn’t understand this either. everything basically had to go this kidnapper’s way in order for her to remain undetected. a few months after katrina, school systems started carding the kids and requesting their paperwork asap even though those records were destroyed. how could you get that far with no birth certificate and ssn?
@ YSoSerious… U r FUNNY!
I think Sandra just blames anyone who’s name Begins in “O”….
if it ain’t Obama, its Oprah…
@We all know that if Carlina was a white child with blond hair and blue eyes, Oprah would have responded personally, and this case would have been resolved before Christmas
No, we don’t all know that! As we found out yesterday on Oprah’s show, she doesn’t even read her own emails, so you can’t really make that statement SandraRose.
I’m pretty sure she’s not opening her own mail either.
But fortunately the young lady has finally found her way home. God Bless her and her real family.
The problem I have is with the family and friends of the woman who stole Baby Carlina. They knew they never saw her pregnant. How did she explain a newborn? They should be brought up on charges too!
@winenroses
Hey! I heard the lady was pregnant and lost it. I guess thats why people didn’t second guess her. Im sure some family members should have known something was up tho.
Oprah’s family dint care about Patricia till decades later. What makes u think she takes a different approach to others?? Hmm.
I remember when I had my daughter…I told my husband to “follow that baby”! When the nurses tried to tell him he couldn’t go back there…he was like “WHO CAN’T” in his Deebow voice…
I was cracking up under all my anesthesia. Lord knows I love that man 