A black man who beat a Hispanic woman into a coma during an argument over a parking space in Manhattan, now wishes he’d just let her hit him.
Oscar Fuller, a 35-year-old, 150-pound father of two, is claiming self-defense.
He says Lana Rosas hit him first before he landed a punch on her jaw, sending the 4ft 11in, 100 pound woman crumpling to the ground. The punch knocked 25-year-old Rosas out cold as she hit her head on the concrete. She has been in a coma at Bellevue Hospital ever since the February 25 incident.
The argument ensued when Fuller steered his Plymouth Voyager into a parking space in East Village only to find Rosas standing there holding the space for her boyfriend, Joseph Oliver, who was making a U-turn across the street. When Rosas refused to move and let Fuller have the space, he got out of his car to confront her.
Fuller’s attorney told the court that Fuller acted out of instinct, not intent, when he sucker punched Rosas as her boyfriend came running.
Fuller was charged with felony assault and released on $100,000 bond during a court hearing yesterday. He’s now saying all the right things to pacify a community that is outraged at his cowardly behavior.
The electrician from Queens, apologized to Rosas and her family today, saying “I wish I just let her hit me. It was out of reflex, just a reaction that went the wrong way.”
Despite expressing regret and remorse, it was a different Fuller who attempted to get away after laying Rosas out on the concrete. Luckily, a citizen witnessed the incident and wrote down Fuller’s license plate number.
Fuller said he attended a child’s birthday party after the assault.
He has prior arrests for assault and drug possession. Fuller’s next court date is on April 7.
My mother was telling me about this earlier…Crazy!!! SMH
Sooooo EFFFN Irritated at the entire STORY he looks like a DAMN COWARD I
she comes out of her coma alright-That man needs his azz WHOOP!
ARE U FUKN KIDDINIG ME THIS CHIT IS CWAZY ONE PUNCH AND SHE OUT AND IN A FUKN COMMA!! SO WERE DID SHE HIT HIM??
wow
Somebody who can go to a kiddie birthday party after putting a person in a coma is a sociopath.
He went about his day as if nothing had occured. If a bystander hadn’t gotten his license plate, he’d be at large and ready to strike.
He better hope she makes a full recovery before he goes to trial because that is the only thing that will allow the fact that she hit him first to be any kind of factor. Either way dude is going do some time over this.
#smh
man, i hope she makes it.
it reminds me of a similar story many years ago in the atl where a boy sucker-punched another boy at a bus stop. the boy hit the curb and died. the sucker-puncher pretty much got convicted of murder.
with a prior assault charge, i would have made the bond as high as possible.
People get they azz beat everyday. Why is this one special?
Sandra, since you cover crime and chit, why not have a thread about the woman that cooked her son alive or the woman that left the kids in a nursery by themselves and a fire broke out?
Heard about this earlier. If only people would stop to think for just a second before they do or say shyt, there would alot less foolishness in the world. But I guess a fool would only stop to think about more foolish things.
He better come up with that reflex story. He said she hit him multiple times and then he saw her man running toward them so he hit her one time and jumped in his car before her man could get there “to avoid anymore drama”. That doesn’t sound like reflex to me.
@Man
Sandra did do a post on the lady that put her son in the oven.
I meant to say be better come up with something better than that reflex story.
I really HATE when ppl stand in parking spaces!! It didn’t give him the right to hit her though.
manuel
why did i do this in the other post *sigh*
@MAN SANDRA DID THE STORY ON THE LIL BOY BURNED
IT WAS SAD
This is a DAMN SHAME!!!! Driving in New York is sooooooo stressful. I remember a few years back a man got killed because a store owner tried to claim a parking space outside his business even though it was city parking. Long story short a fight happened and the owners son who was a cop shot the Black driver.
This guy was wrong for putting his hands on this woman but she was ALSO WRONG for throwing the first blow and holding a parking space that rightfully did not belong to her. Use a parking garage. And how did the date ride pass the space. This is too much. I’m sure he didn’t mean for it to go as far as it did but it did.
@Candi
I just went to that post and was like what?
@danielle i hate that too!
Oh and I heard this was all caught on tape..
what about the boxer that beat his girlfriend into coma or what about Kandi Burrus ex fiance AJ’s twin daughter being shot in a drive by?
This is what happens when people don’t keep their hands to themselves.
SMH…all over a parking space.
Yeah its definitely a NY thing with that holding parking spaces especially in the boroughs. Its sad that this had to happen.
Sorry, but b!tches are going to learn about getting all defensive behind a parking space. I almost had to run over a woman the other day who insisted that a space was for her. I mean damn — first come first serve when it comes to parking lots. How are you going to STAND somewhere and reserve a spot? Whatever… I’ll bet she won’t get gully behind a space again.
@Man “People get they azz beat everyday. Why is this one special?”
Exactly! How many people on this site have gotten into a fight and just left without calling the cops?
She hit him first so whatever happened after that IS HER DAMN FAULT!
I bet if this had been the other way around and the man hit her fist and she knocked HIM into a coma people would be cheering her on
<<<smh
I hate double standards.
He had every right to defend himself whether that person is a woman or not.
I
she comes out of her coma though.
Hey IScream! Welp, that will settle it (BTW did anyone watch Lindsay Lohan’s store footage fromthe necklace heist)
IMO…if, in fact, she struck first then he was wrong for punching her when he could’ve slapped or just shook the schidt out of her and then waited to fight he man with closed fists…. there is a law against retaliation when you go too far above and beyond the original threat… i.e. I can’t shoot you for stabbing me and callit self defense…
and I’m in Houston. The parking space patrol is everywhere.
@ Princess…
“I can’t shoot you for stabbing me and callit self defense…”
I can’t think of a better reason to shoot someone!
In my Tasha Mack voice @ashland now what now? AJ’s daughter was in a drive by?
@Smokie,
but I’m serious….
@ Smokie
I totally agree!
Once in DC my ex and this other car was racing to a spot. They let their “zesty” male friend out to stand in it. Ex started backing that Tahoe in and ol boy jumped out that spot quick fast cursing the whole time
OK BUT WHY DID THIS MAN EVEN GET OUT THE CAR TO ARGUE MOVE THE FUK ON NOW IF IT WOULDA BEEN A MAN HE WOULDA KEPT IT MOVING BUT HE SAW A 4’11 100 POUND LIL LADY THAT HE MIGHT BE ABLE TO PUCH OVER
PSP says:
I can’t shoot you for stabbing me and callit self defense…
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Chiiiiiit…If that’s all I have on me…It ain’t my fault you brought a knife to a gunfight.
@ Danielle, I’d love to see something like that. LMAO!
Look, this a$$hole needs to do time simply because of the severity of what he did.
On the same token, this is EXACTLY why I say we need to tell women to keep their hands to themselves!
I don’t know if she hit him or not, but the fact that he even CLAIMS that he hit her back out of reflex should serve as notice to women to stop running up on men thinking every man has self control because even men who DO exercise control can be caught off guard.
I know I tend to be controlled on MOST days, but what I know for sure is that if you hit me and I wasn’t ready, there is a good chance that you’ll find yourself floating across the room.
Defending him? Absolutely not
Life lesson? Absolutely
Clearly, this man has anger problems and should have never hit the woman — any real man would have just moved on — but I still can’t stand a person who tries to reserve a parking space.
interesting…don’t see as many folk climing she “provoked him” in THIS story…
Either way, it’s a tragedy. We GOTS to learn how to manage our anger people…
*claiming*
@LAKER
Good point. I would have just run her azz over.
But then I’m non-confrontational like that.
@Mama
Just because he said self defense doesn’t mean it was… he was arrested before for assault… Also y are you even confronting a female over a parking space…. This is not the fault of the woman who is now in a coma due to a faggotly azz coward
Without a doubt, I wouldn’t wish this on my worse enemy but yt women and “check other races” of women love to either put their hands on you or get “bout it” until you have to show out on their asses. I had a yt girl get mad I didnt let her over in traffic (which I would have had I actually seen her) but since I didn’t, oh the ‘eff well! Anyhow, she was young (early 20s) and thought she had some flava so she threw some pennies at my car then tried to tell me what’s up and to follow her! So what did I do??? I happily obliged! But once she saw I was serious, and turned up into her apartment complex with her and got out, she wanted to do their favor chit…call the police! I got gutta, sat there & waited for the police to come. She thought that she was home-free because I’m black and she’s white and I followed her home. But when I told them she riddled my car with pennies and they saw the damage, her punk ass got arrested AND PAID FOR MY PAINT JOB! Again, would never wish this on anyone and he should not of reacted the way that he did, but “victims” who instigate altercations need to know there are consequences for their actions just as much as it is for the person who just so happen to come out on top of the altercation! I also do not believe that men should hit women, but that definitely don’t give a woman to put her hands on a man because she feel she may get off scott free!
@ Laker
Im sorry (I would never stand in a space)but if Im alone and I saw an angry man getting out his car to fuss/fight over a space I would move. It’s not worth it!
Y’all know this nigga goin cop a plea for like 5-10 years of jail time.
<<<<smh
If my life, or the life of my children/loved one was in danger, I’d use whatever method I could to protect myself/them. If someone comes at me or mine with a knife, I’m gonna shoot their azzes. If someone slaps me, I wouldn’t have the right to use excessive force.
She had no right to put her hands on him, but he, being a man, was much stronger and used excessive force.
apparently, there are witnesses who confirmed she hit him. however, the spin is gonna be that this black man jumped in her face irate over this parking and, she, in fear of her life, struck out.
the fact that he got out of his car, along with his prior, is gonna send him straight to jail on a far more serious charge if this lady doesn’t make it. that’s just for being black.
Danielle says:
@ Laker
Im sorry (I would never stand in a space)but if Im alone and I saw an angry man getting out his car to fuss/fight over a space I would move. It’s not worth it!
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OK BUT THE MAN GOT OUT HIS CAR TO CONFRONT HER WHY??? SOUNDS LIKE HE HAS ANGER PROBLEMS…. WHY GET OUT OF UR CAR TO ARGUE WITH A WOMAN AND THE ONLY REASON HE WAS PROLLY ALL TUFF ITS BECAUSE IT WAS A WOMAN NOT A 6’2 MAN STANDING THERE SO HE DECIDED TO GROW BALLS!!
I don’t know what kinda strength this man had that one punch will put a person in a coma
That’s crazy!
If she hit him first then she got what she deserved.
@Carrington says:
I know I tend to be controlled on MOST days, but what I know for sure is that if you hit me and I wasn’t ready, there is a good chance that you’ll find yourself floating across the room.
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I remember one time in college my roommate was playing around and she punched me in the arm. When I tell you I hit her so damn hard in the chest and it was soooooo funny because I swear to God it was a relflex!!! I was sitting there like “damn i just hit the SI*T out of her” and it honestly wasn’t intentional. All I could do was say “my bad but yo a*s need to keep your hands to yourself”
So I can kinda believe the reflex story because I’ve done it before.
damn
@CHOCO WE ARE >>>>>HERE<<<< WHY GET OUT OF THE CAR??? MAYBE BECUASE U THOUGHT U COULD INTIMIDATE HER??
HOPE HE GETS WHAT HE DESERVES THIS IS NOT RIGHT AT ALL HE HIT HER HARD ENUFF TO PUT HER INTO A COMA SO WATEVER WITH THE FUK REFLEX BISH PLEASE!!
Danielle says:
I really HATE when ppl stand in parking spaces!! It didn’t give him the right to hit her though.
Daprinceofradio: In NY parking spots are pretty hard to come by and sometimes i would see one; stand in it and have my wife go get my car. I DARE a bish or a nikka to tell me to move! He or she gonna have to hit me cuz im not moving cuz MY car is on the way! My wife most likely would be off duty and im lucky she dont have her gun on her cuz in my “right” mind i would burrow it for a sec. Thats just how it is in NY. Its horrible trust…
would it have been better if he had gotten out the car to argue with a man?
WOW!! All over a parking Space.. Self Defense? Like seriously?? and she 4’11 100lbs.. Sad story..
nig must be a welter weight mike tyson to be knockin folks thru the air
Additionally, this brother clearly ain’t no stranger to confrontation, since that 12 inch scar down the side of his face indicates that at LEAST one other person has busted his head to the white meat.
Danielle says:
I really HATE when ppl stand in parking spaces!! It didn’t give him the right to hit her though.
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So this mess is common?! My goodness.
I hope I offend no one here, but every man I’ve ever met named Oscar was certified.
@MAN AND HE WILL ALSO GET WHAT HE DESERVES GOD DON’T LIKE UGLY AND UR IGANANT AZZ SHOULD OF CALLED IT A DAY AND LET IT GO BUT NOOOOOO!!! LET ME GET OUT THIS CAR AND ACT LIKE A BISH GOTS TO MOVE!!
@CANDI
IT WOULDA BEEN EVEN MAYBE HIS AZZ WOULD BEEN IN A COMMA THERE WAS NO FUKN COMPETITION HERE AND HE KNEW IT
51 Man, I just don’t care™ says:
If she hit him first then she got what she deserved.
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You don’t beleive that, do you?
@FREE
comment #48
What is the WOMAN’S prior records???? Something tells me she got some chit in her past too.
he shoulda just kept backing into the space, she woulda moved then
I bet he wouldn’t have hit another DUDE like that!
it might have been even, it might not have been
Yeah my mom cursed out this lily white girl standing in a space. At Lenox. During Christmas time. She was about to get ran the eff over. Any other time, I might’ve let her have it b/c I don’t need anyone keying my car, but the HOLIDAYS?? Umm, no.
Not all men are stronger then women. And unless you are a professional boxer or something equally athletic, a simple punch isn’t excessive in my opinion.
No, a man should not hit a woman. And most real men don’t. But women need to stop thinking they have a free pas to put their hands on a man just because they are a woman.
Don’t give if you don’t want to get. Period.
Carrington says:
Additionally, this brother clearly ain’t no stranger to confrontation, since that 12 inch scar down the side of his face indicates that at LEAST one other person has busted his head to the white meat.
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RIIIIIIGHT! I’M FEELING THAT! PAAAAAAAAAAAAA!:rofl:
Carrington says:
that 12 inch scar down the side of his face indicates that at LEAST one other person has busted his head to the white meat.
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I wonder if it was done by a woman and his simple a$$ was still harboring feelings for the next unsuspecting victim. You know folks hold grudges like that!
@Danielle when she fell to the ground she hit her head on the concrete which induced her coma…
@Lakes I totally agree had it been a man he wouldn’t have got out of the car
@ OhPretty1
Yes it’s very common in the city! Don’t let it be around Christmas time.
I’ve never met a man named Oscar
@Yso, a simple punch in the wrong place can cause death.
@ANNA / LAKER
If you a bad enough to start a fight, you should be ready for the consequences. This man did NOTHING wrong (assuming she hit him first). EVERYONE has the right to defend themselves.
@CHOCO AND NOW HE WANTS TO PLAY VICTIM IF U WAS THE FUKN VICTIM WHY RUN??? SHE HIT U RIGHT AND SHE WENT OUT OF HER WAY TO GET IN UR FACE RIGHT??? #SORRYAZZ
i have a feeling he would have done the same thing (gotten out) had it been a man standing in the space
i’ll admit that i’ve whitnessed many a parking spot wars… n i even cuss pple out in my car, but getting out is never that serious… besides, ur wasting valuable “find a new parking spot” time
isn’t that why pple get so upset anyway… u wanted the spot for convenience n to save time… so get out and waste 2 more hours then…
in this case maybe years
@MAN SO U TELLING ME THAT U WOULD DONE THE SAME FUK THE PUNCH U WOULD GOT OUR UR CAR TO ARGUE WITH A FUK 4’11 100 POUND LADY FOR A FUKN PARKING SPOT?? OR WOULD U HAVE BEEN LIKE “FUK IT LET ME LOOK AROUND” THIS MAN DECIDED TO GET OUT OF HIS CAR FOR WHAT??? WHY DID U GET OUT TO ARGUE AND SHE WAS GOING TO MOVE BECAUSE WHY??? OOOOH YEAH BECAUSE U WAS GON GET IN HER FACE U A MAN AND U WAS GON HANDLE HER AZZ RIGHT??
witnessed*
i’m sure at that point (when they get out to argue) they aren’t thinking logically
i cuss folks the hell out but i ain’t bout to fist fight over a parking space
Daprinceofradio says:
In NY parking spots are pretty hard to come by and sometimes i would see one; stand in it and have my wife go get my car. I DARE a bish or a nikka to tell me to move! He or she gonna have to hit me cuz im not moving cuz MY car is on the way! My wife most likely would be off duty and im lucky she dont have her gun on her cuz in my “right” mind i would burrow it for a sec. Thats just how it is in NY. Its horrible trust…
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So you would really FIGHT or risk getting hit for a parking space?
I know how it is in NY but it’s not worth it to me. I definitely won’t be going to jail for killing over one.
@KISHA U NEW??? PURRTY PIC AND
It probably was her head hitting the concrete that put her in the coma, not the punch itself.
And if he would have continued into the space and she didn’t move, then what? Hit her and put her in a coma anyway?
They both were making bad decisions that day and they are both gonna suffer for them.
My prayers are with both parties and their family; their going to need all the “help” they can get.
It’s sad, but road and parkinglot rage are for real.
I don’t believe the woman hit him-Honestly why hit a man when your man is coming to you soon – have him handle it!
@MAN
No one deserves to be hit and put in a coma – and y did he not report her hitting him to the police #COWARDLYBASTARD
Choco aka Hippie says:
@Mama
Just because he said self defense doesn’t mean it was… he was arrested before for assault… Also y are you even confronting a female over a parking space…. This is not the fault of the woman who is now in a coma due to a faggotly azz coward
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Witnesses say she hit him. It’s not ok for anyone to put their hands on another person whether they’re a man or a woman.
And if the situation wasn’t that serious why didn’t she just move? Why start hitting a complete stranger over a parking spot and expect them not to react?
The whole “it’s not that serious” argument can go both ways. It wasn’t that serious for him to confront her but when he did why didn’t she move and find another?
would it have made a difference if she were 5’11 instead of 4’11? just asking. dude don’t look that big to me either.
Sidenote: dude is only 5’7″. Methinks he might have a little man’s complex.
Maybe he got that long scar on the side of his face in the last parkinglot incident.
Yso, I answered you in the last thread. I wasn’t ignoring you, just pretending to work while bossman was standing near.
Enjoy the rest of the day. I’ve filled my 30-post quota for the day.
CAN’T WAIT FOR THE VIDEO TO COME OUT SO WE CAN ALL SEE HOW MUCH OF A COWARD HE ACTED!! AND HIS RECORD SHOULD HELP HIM!!
@Mama
Okay
@Kraz
Exactly. So she just as easily could have done him some serious damage without meaning to. Don’t let her size and/or height fool you. Just like dogs, the small ones tend to be the most vicious.
Hence, she should have kept her hands to herself in the first place.
The dude was DEAD wrong… not defending him at all but she made a bad choice herself. They both were wrong! A parking space isn’t worth my life.
@ Danielle – That’s so new to me
All I know is I’m proceeding to my parking spot.
Yso, I’m sure it was her head hitting the concrete that caused the coma, but you mentioned a simple punch, and that what I was responding too.
IT’S KINDA SCARY TO ME HOW MANY WOMAN ARE TAKING HIS SIDE AND FINDING ANY EXCUSE FOR THIS MAN WHEN HE CLEARLY HAS AN ANGER PROBLEM HE WAS CONVICTED OF ASSAULT SO NOT THE FIRST TIME BUT THEN AGAING DIFERENT TIMES
@CHOCO / LAKER
SHE accepted that azz whiling when she hit him. Pure and simple. She was big enough to hit him so evidentally SHE wasn’t worried about being 4’11” and 100lbs.
And yes, if a man, woman, child, crippled or retard hit me, ITS OWN!
@Lakes
what happens when it comes out it wasnt self defense…
Not every man has restraint, sorry to say. I don’t think it affects his manhood in anyway, nor do I think it affects his humanity, he is a human he responded to being attacked, if the woman was a man, this would NOT be an issue. I am so sorry for that lady and hope she makes it. I sincerely hope he gets in trouble for leaving the scene. I have never hit a woman, but I had a lady, who followed me, cause she said I cut her off, she got out her car and walked over to mine, calling me a 2 dollar ni**er, a broke Fa**ot, she threaten to pull me OUT of my car, and stomp my head in with her Loubatans (i can’t spell them shits) But you get it, those were her exact words…I a black man, was being told off by this sista, I sat there, and let her yell and spit at me…I wasn’t scared, but more hurt and mad, I am 6’3 220 muscle, if I get out or make a threaten move I was going to jail. I didn’t even respond, I just stared and let her vent until she walked off, but not before she poured her drink on my car…i had restraint that day. Not everyone has it…
@Man
How do you know she hit him becuz he said it was self defense and someone said there is a video of her hitting him – I don’t believe she hit him!
And yes, if a man, woman, child, crippled or retard hit me, ITS OWN!
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IM OUTIE YALL HAVE A GOOD ONE
AND THIS IS WHY IM SOOO HAPPY WE AINT RELATED CUZ THAT COMMENT RIGHT THERE IS AS IGNANT AS U CAN GET
@CHOCO IT’S JUST SCARY HOW THE WOMAN ARE THE ONES MANY DEFENDING THIS MAN BUT DIFERNT TIMES I GUESS
@EJLOVE
for your restraint 
pouring the drink on my car would’ve made me SNAP
Carrington says:
Look, this a$$hole needs to do time simply because of the severity of what he did.
On the same token, this is EXACTLY why I say we need to tell women to keep their hands to themselves!
I don’t know if she hit him or not, but the fact that he even CLAIMS that he hit her back out of reflex should serve as notice to women to stop running up on men thinking every man has self control because even men who DO exercise control can be caught off guard.
I know I tend to be controlled on MOST days, but what I know for sure is that if you hit me and I wasn’t ready, there is a good chance that you’ll find yourself floating across the room.
Defending him? Absolutely not
Life lesson? Absolutely
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I just want to
this #thatisall
Cya Lakes….
I’m not defending what he did. I’m also not defending what she did either.
You can’t go through this life thinking that you can put your hands on people with absolutely no consequences. Having a puzzy doesn’t make you punch proof.
In a perfect world, no would raise a violent hand to anyone else. But this ain’t a perfect world. Either one gets that or one gets that azz handed to them on the regular.
And that goes for men AND women.
WHOA
dayyyuuummmm! you just got knocked the fuk out!
Choco aka Hippie says:
@EJLOVE
for your restraint pouring the drink on my car would’ve made me SNAP
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Thanks, it was hard as hell…I can’t front. I have a question tho…what happens if a manly lesbian punches a man? does he NOT respond? especially if she think she is as manly as you?…
Yso, I agree. She shouldn’t have put her hands on him (if, in fact, she did), but my point is that his response was excessive, and it might cost him his freedom. I hope that parking space was worth it.
cosign w/ YSO- big enough to hit someone.. you should be big enough to get knocked the fuk out
Again, not defending what he did – but why is the woman who hit him the victim and the man who simply hit her BACK the coward?
Should he have gotten out of the car? No, but when you hit a conscious thinking ADULT who hits you, it doesn’t make you a coward in my book.
She’s a grown a$$ woman capable of making adult decisions and using sound judgement and by a) arguing with this clown and b) (IF) she hit him first, she didn’t use either.
I don’t condone brothers hitting women, but I’m also not a fan of people championing women who put their hands on MEN and then victimizing her when he hits her a$$ back.
I was raised to defend myself – the end. I don’t hit women simply because I choose not, but for some reason, women have it indellibly imprinted into their brains that hitting a man as many times as you want will illicit no response because he has this “magic” off button that numbs him to attack when the attacker wears perfume.
Newsflash: it feels the EXACT same way when a woman slaps the $hit out of another woman as it does when she slaps the $hit out of another man and I’m not sure who told women that your hand feels differently as it glides across a goatee, so, why do women get to IMMEDIATELY start swinging and get a pass, but men have to have the wherewithal to THINK first?
If someone HITS a you, you may very well act first and think later – why do women get a pass for “losing it” and then ACTING bad enough to swing on a grown a$$ man knowing she can’t win, but he’s not afforded the same right when he LOSES it, ACTS and swings BACK – knowing she can’t win?
@EJLOVE
If someone hits a person I would expect that person would get hit back I just don’t see where it says she hit him first! I read this story a few days back and the version I read didn’t say anything about her hitting him…
YSoSerious says:
You can’t go through this life thinking that you can put your hands on people with absolutely no consequences. Having a puzzy doesn’t make you punch proof.
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I could have just read this and saved myself some time.
Not all men are stronger then women. And unless you are a professional boxer or something equally athletic, a simple punch isn’t excessive in my opinion.
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Thank you! I was just about to say that! There are women out there who are stronger than men.
Yso, right there are consequences to our actions, and his may be prison. Again, was a damn parking space worth it? If she hit him, she had no right to do so. I do not believe women should hit men either; however, society sees that as not as serious as a man hitting a woman. In fact, women hitting men is gloried. Is it right? HELL NO, and I would never justify it. All I’m saying is that sometimes you have to count the cost of the fight, and people have died over stupid shyt like this.
There are women who are stronger than men but this on 4 11 at 100lbs clearly is not!
Carrington says:
Again, not defending what he did – but why is the woman who hit him the victim and the man who simply hit her BACK the coward?
Should he have gotten out of the car? No, but when you hit a conscious thinking ADULT who hits you, it doesn’t make you a coward in my book.
She’s a grown a$$ woman capable of making adult decisions and using sound judgement and by a) arguing with this clown and b) (IF) she hit him first, she didn’t use either.
I don’t condone brothers hitting women, but I’m also not a fan of people championing women who put their hands on MEN and then victimizing her when he hits her a$$ back.
I was raised to defend myself – the end. I don’t hit women simply because I choose not, but for some reason, women have it indellibly imprinted into their brains that hitting a man as many times as you want will illicit no response because he has this “magic” off button that numbs him to attack when the attacker wears perfume.
Newsflash: it feels the EXACT same way when a woman slaps the $hit out of another woman as it does when she slaps the $hit out of another man and I’m not sure who told women that your hand feels differently as it glides across a goatee, so, why do women get to IMMEDIATELY start swinging and get a pass, but men have to have the wherewithal to THINK first?
If someone HITS a you, you may very well act first and think later – why do women get a pass for “losing it” and then ACTING bad enough to swing on a grown a$$ man knowing she can’t win, but he’s not afforded the same right when he LOSES it, ACTS and swings BACK – knowing she can’t win?
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you put it into words PERFECTLY!!!!
@ Choco, yea I dunno if he hit her either, I pray the lady is aight tho…
Alex says:
@Man
Sandra did do a post on the lady that put her son in the oven.
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Thanks Alex.
TheRealAshland says:
what about the boxer that beat his girlfriend into coma or what about Kandi Burrus ex fiance AJ’s twin daughter being shot in a drive by?
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It looks like violence runs in AJ’s family.
@LAKES
It’s ignorant to stand there and let someone beat ur azz. If someone mad enough to hit you, they mad enough to do anything so you gotta strike TO WIN right away.
Mamacita says:
She hit him first so whatever happened after that IS HER DAMN FAULT!
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He’s almost 6 feet tall and she’s 4-11. She did not hit him first.
Hey KrayzKat!!!!!!
@KrayZ
I totally get what you’re saying. And to lose your life and your freedom, respectively, over a flucking parking space is extremely sad.
But I still can feel sorry for either of them, really.
Man, I just don’t care™ says:
@ANNA / LAKER
If you a bad enough to start a fight, you should be ready for the consequences. This man did NOTHING wrong (assuming she hit him first). EVERYONE has the right to defend themselves.
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What was she going to do to him, keep hitting him in the gut. She had to reach up, he had to reach down to hit in the face/jaw. This man wasn’t wrong trying to claim a space already claimed???? No chick didn’t have a vehicle at the time, but it was on the way. Neither of them were right. I understand a parking spot has no names, but let someone park in front of my house. I’am knocking on doors for them to move. I didn’t buy the house down the street so I shouldn’t have to park down the street because you have 50/11 ppl visiting you daily.
Hey Jerrica!!!! What’s up, girl???
She did not hit him first.
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Thank you for clearing that up becuz I did not see anywhere where it said she hit him first….
All I know is women shouldn’t hit men and men shouldn’t hit women. Keep ya damn hands to yourself. I learned the hard way I use to fight my brother all the time because he was little, one day this ish backfired and he slapped the mess out of me and poured milk on me. That taught me to keep my damn hands to myself.
This is typical of black women to rationalize a black man’s violent behavior. This is the type of fool you ladies frequently have babies with. The kind of thug who will bust you upside the head. I believe you call that love?
Yso, I gotcha!
Girl, nothing much just working and school. How about you?
Damn shame HONESTLY – SO NOW WHAT at Everyone who says she deserved what she got! If that’s the case then you do too!
And being that this imperfect world is full of crazy people, you never know what will happen when you start some chit with someone you don’t know.
So I say again, everyone needs to keep their damn hands to themselves.
This is typical of black women to rationalize a black man’s violent behavior. This is the type of fool you ladies frequently have babies with. The kind of thug who will bust you upside the head. I believe you call that love
NOT I! I find his behavior appalling!
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SR: Do I love black men? Yes I do, but I don’t care if your black, white, green, purple or yellow. If any dude ever puts his hands on me I’m going to jail. Black men are not the only men out there putting their hand on women.
Sandra, I see and read that A LOT! I’ve also noticed that in rape cases. Women seem to be the least sympathic.
@YSO
SHe kept her hands to herself – PERHAPS HE SHOULD I can’t believe some folks are making the victim out to be a criminal!
@Jerrica, I’m going great. How’s school going? Do you like it?
Sandra Rose says:
Mamacita says:
She hit him first so whatever happened after that IS HER DAMN FAULT!
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He’s almost 6 feet tall and she’s 4-11. She did not hit him first.
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I’ve seen this sort of thing happen with my own two eyes in sort of the same situation.
This chick that used to be my friend who is about 5’0 maybe 5’2 gets into a heated argument and with this guy who is about 6’0 over a parking space. They were in eachother’s faces and he called her a b*tch so she punched him in the face and he called the police on her.
Just because she’s small doesn’t mean she isn’t bad enough to hit him
I usually park at the open spot normally at the end of the parking lot
Not sure about all the details but Grown folks should not be fighting 
Yalll are CRAZYYYYYYY –
Jerrica, that is I’m DOING great. Excuse the typo.
The electrician from Queens, apologized to Rosas and her family today, saying “I wish I just let her hit me. It was out of reflex, just a reaction that went the wrong way.”
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I took this as she hit him first? No?
KrayZkat
School is going great. I just got done with my 2nd term and I start back on the 21st.
Sandra Rose says:
She did not hit him first.
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Choco aka Hippie says:
Thank you for clearing that up becuz I did not see anywhere where it said she hit him first….
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EDIT: He said it was self defense because she hit him first. But we know that’s a lie. still, you have females – and one male – in here who believe him.
@ Mamacita
usually the small ones are the first to fight 
IF this woman hit him and he hit her back, this is not as simple as, “a man hits a woman”… this is about a woman attacking a MAN and being reminded that she attacked a man!
How this turned into a “black male” issue is beyond me. THIS black man’s actions are no more indicative of black men as a unit as Da Brat’s actions are idicative of black lesbians.
I’m not rationalizing anything. If a nigga hits me, he better kill me cause I damn sure will try to kill him if I have the chance.
I just can see certain things for what they are and not what I wish they were.
And I’ll wait for an outside source regarding who hit who first, thank you.
WTF is he going to say when he is on trial I mean really it’s not hard to figure out that his defense would be self defense
So what is her boyfriend saying? Why didnt he get at ole dude if he was only doing a U turn
Choco, no one can convince me that he did was justfied. I really don’t believe she hit him either. My mom always used to say, “Two wrongs don’t make a right.”
Alboy:
I usually park at the open spot normally at the end of the parking lot
Me too or I’ll just take my grandma’s handicap sticker.
The electrician from Queens, apologized to Rosas and her family today, saying “I wish I just let her hit me. It was out of reflex, just a reaction that went the wrong way.”
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Danielle says:
I took this as she hit him first? No?
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I call that sticking to his story.
you have females in here who believe him
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Sadly you are correct!
@Krazy
I don’t believe she hit him first and Im sooo irritated that some females are defending and excusing his actions!
@Al
Her boyfriend went to her aid… Dude drove off like the coward he is!
Could it be self defense? Yes it could but it doesn’t matter because he put her in a coma. Just like Ronnie on Jersey Shore when he hit the white boy and knocked him out. He still went to jail even though he claimed self defense. He still knocked him out.
Just last week, we had a certain blogger claiming that Rihanna had everyone “fooled” into thinking she was a victim.
Interesting.
@ Carrington: Scroll up and read comment #144.
Wow Sandra won’t ever be on a black person’s side. What happened to you as a child woman?
Choco aka Hippie says:
@Krazy
I don’t believe she hit him first and Im sooo irritated that some females are defending and excusing his actions!
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Thank you!
Smh @ Carrington. 
Damn this is about race now – WTF is wrong with this world!
@ Ladies if you hit your man would you expect to get hit back?
If a chick hit your son in the face how should he respond?
@Carrington
are we reading the same story????
So now the man was attacked by her
Choco aka Hippie says:
@Krazy
I don’t believe she hit him first and Im sooo irritated that some females are defending and excusing his actions!
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Choco, I’m gonna ditto Sandra’s response to you on that! I don’t either.
And just because you don’t believe it doesn’t mean it didn’t happen. Just saying.
And the fact that she knew she had a boyfriend to back her up might be why she felt bold enough to take a swing at dude. I’ve seen the chit A LOT. Again, just saying.
YSoSerious says:
Just last week, we had a certain blogger claiming that Rihanna had everyone “fooled” into thinking she was a victim.
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Yes. In that specific case, because her abuser (CB) had evidence that she punched him. By the way, that scar on Oscar Fuller’s face is known as a buck fifty in prison jargon.
@ANNA
You know, I understand what you are saying. But him being larger doesn’t make him impervious to her hits. You are suggesting for him to be a punching bag simply because he was bigger than her.
Again, if you big enough to start a fight, you big enough to get your azz whipped.
@ Sandra,
Why is his position that she hit him first “a lie”? Because you would rather BELIEVE that she didn’t, or because you’ve read police reports and eyewitness accounts?
Your belief that women are in the right simply because they’re women is dangerous because you foster the belief system that KEEPS gettin’ women’s a$$es whooped because you have them convinced they can do as they please and it’s going to be OK because people will attack the MAN <–right there.
The women who hit men are often the ones who have a belief that men who hit women are cowards and "men aren't supposed to hit women." So, they run up on a dude swingin, spittin and talkin $hit because they've been taught that he's not supposed to hit back, and then when he sticks her a$$ all that $hit you taught her ain't doin a damm thing for her eye.
@Al
Yes I would expect to get hit back and I would hope my son would have enough restraint to come home and tell me or his sister about it so that his sis can whoop her azz- More than one way to skin a cat!
Jerrica says:
KrayZkat
School is going great. I just got done with my 2nd term and I start back on the 21st.
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Good.
@YSO
You continue to defend him and believe him! SIMPLE AS THAT!
If SHE was a HE I don’t think it would have gotten this far. I don’t think a man would’ve hit him (as the news reported the video showed) first.
I have a question, was it the actual punch that caused the coma or was it her head hitting the pavement that caused the coma?
Sandra Rose says:
Sandra Rose says:
She did not hit him first.
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Choco aka Hippie says:
Thank you for clearing that up becuz I did not see anywhere where it said she hit him first….
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EDIT: He said it was self defense because she hit him first. But we know that’s a lie. still, you have females – and one male – in here who believe him.
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Wait why in the hell is it so hard to believe? she was bad enough to confront him? why the hell is the black man ALWAYS the damn criminal? WHY? It like that for YT, the cops and black women…why EVERY black man has to have done something, that is the irritating shiz….yes I see his prior record, so what!!!! I don’t know if he did or not, but he is already guilty in the court of public opinion!
You know what Ladies it’s a sad damn day for some of you – NO matter he didn’t have to punch her that hard- and if he was attacked he should’ve reported it to the police instead of leaving the scene….
we’re on 170+ comments & it’s still about the topic?
@ALBoy
I’m raising my boys not to hit/fight girls. I tell them not to start chit like that with a female and to walk away if they try to start.
But not everyone does that or even believes in that. Like I said this world ain’t perfect.
Choco aka Hippie says:
@YSO
You continue to defend him and believe him! SIMPLE AS THAT!
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And? You have stated that YOU believe he’s lyin with just as much evidence as YSO…
Why are you and Sandra’s belief that he’s lying any more valid than anyone else’s that he MIGHT be telling the truth?
I never said I believe him, I said IF she hit him, then that changes the dynamics of this situation for ME.
I ALSO said I think he should STILL go to jail because of the severity of her injuries, but that doesn’t negate the fact that IF <– and I've said this several times, she hit him, she's not an "innocent" and she's DEFINITELY a different KIND of victim at that point.
Sandra:
Thank you! I can’t wait for school to be over!
@Jerrica, wonderful! You are on your second term all ready? Boy, that went fast. Congrats on that, hon!!!
@danielle yes i would KILL for a parking spot im standing in. NO ONE is going to REMOVE ME from it lol! Im not saying the lady got what she deserved! Hell im on her side and i think that guy tried to move her! Dont move her call the police if its that serious! I cursed a lady out the other day over this i mean cursed HER out! ( I was standing in my spot again) she gonna tell me to get out the way! BISHHHHHHHHH if you dont get out of my face! lol ill be commenting on SR from jail fool with me!
what is everybody so riled up for? i didn’t read the comments…
@Carrington
I have intuition on my side and I listen to that like I said when this story first broke there was no mention of her hitting him – and if she did he should’ve been smart enough to cover his azz!
KrayZkat:
This is my third term I’m about to start and I’m trying to get my things together so I can open my daycare.
Choco aka Hippie says:
You know what Ladies it’s a sad damn day for some of you – NO matter he didn’t have to punch her that hard- and if he was attacked he should’ve reported it to the police instead of leaving the scene….
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No I can’t rock with you on the “he didn’t have to hit her that hard” I’m sorry but IF…IF she hit him i seriously doubt that she judged how hard she was hitting him, I am quite sure that if you or anyone else gets into a fight, you are not thinking about how are to hit someone…emotions were out of control. not an excuse, but the truth. HE SHOULD HAVE NOT LEFT however…
Choco, I definately see where you’re coming from. You have to know that many people are hugely one-sided and heartless. I’m going to look up more on this story here, because I could be wrong, but I don’t think she hit him. Whatever the case is, HE’S the one going to trial. This is about HIS actions. He got out the car, punched her, and drove off like nothing happened.
Absolutely pathetic…
First OFF… MEN don’t Physically fight with Women/Females (PERIOD…)
NOW, THIS FOOL got out of his car for WHAT EXACTLY ?!!?
AND if their interaction for WHATEVER REASON escalated to her throwing BLOWS… Then get Your AZZ back in your CAR !!!
Only BYTCH-MADE MFers (Males…) can’t take a Slap or Punch from a Female and HANDLE THE SITUATION W/O Brutally Beating Her in Retaliation (Real…) NO FEMALE deserves to be put in A COMA BY A MALE because she HIT HIM in a manner that didn’t cause SEVERE Bodily Injuries that REQUIRED IMMEDIATE Medical Attention IMO
Far TOO MANY Bytch-Made MALES roaming the streets NOWADAYS
@Sill
It was her head hitting the ground from the punch he gave her.
Whatever the case is, HE’S the one going to trial. This is about HIS actions. He got out the car, punched her, and drove off like nothing happened.
Absolutely pathetic…
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@Choco
I’m not defending him but if that’s how you choose to see it…
My personal experiences lend credibility to his side. If that means I believe him then I guess I will believe him until I see or hear proof to the contrary; not because I just don’t want to believe him for whatever reason.
Only BYTCH-MADE MFers (Males…) can’t take a Slap or Punch from a Female and HANDLE THE SITUATION W/O Brutally Beating Her in Retaliation (Real…) NO FEMALE deserves to be put in A COMA BY A MALE because she HIT HIM in a manner that didn’t cause SEVERE Bodily Injuries that REQUIRED IMMEDIATE Medical Attention IMO
Far TOO MANY Bytch-Made MALES roaming the streets NOWADAYS
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So glad a man with some sensibility….
kingstonn says:
we’re on 170+ comments & it’s still about the topic?
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This is a first.
@YSO
That’s how I choose to see it cuz I’ve read your comments stating if she hit him she should expect to get hit back!
Okay guys I’m out! Going to work!
Team keepshandstoyadamnself
Choco aka Hippie says:
@Carrington
I have intuition on my side and I listen to that like I said when this story first broke there was no mention of her hitting him – and if she did he should’ve been smart enough to cover his azz!
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Oh. Then case closed. So, your “intuition” certifies YOUR stance in a case you know no more about than the people whose “intuition” has said that he COULD be telling the truth, but for some reason, YOUR intuition is correct and there is something wrong with anyone who may be open to another suggestion? LMAO!
Glad you’re not on the jury, and even happier that it’s not one of YOUR sons.
i’m wondering if her race has anything to do with people taking his “side”..
but in any rate, i
elove’s whole comment ’bout bish made dudes.
Jerrica says:
KrayZkat:
This is my third term I’m about to start and I’m trying to get my things together so I can open my daycare.
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Jerrica, I’m so happy for you. How long will it be before you can open it? I am wishing you the very best and much success because good daycares are priceless.
@Carrington
Do me a favor and shut up you won’t change my opinion becuz you want to debate facts you yourself don’t know MISS ME WITH THAT!
@Choco
And she shouldn’t expect to get hit back, why?
Cause she’s a woman? Cause she was smaller? IF she hit him and it wasn’t in self-defense, then she was trying to fight him, in which case, she bit off more than she could chew that time.
I think the passion for your point of view is blinding you to other points, not just mine.
KrayZkat and Jerrica can yall take that convo to twitter or something? Thanks
YOUR intuition is correct and there is something wrong with anyone who may be open to another suggestion? LMAO!
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You do realize you are contradicting yourself you are doing the very same thing you are accusing me of – GO SOMEWHERE ELSE WITH THAT!
ELove says:
First OFF… MEN don’t Physically fight with Women/Females (PERIOD…)
NOW, THIS FOOL got out of his car for WHAT EXACTLY ?!!?
AND if their interaction for WHATEVER REASON escalated to her throwing BLOWS… Then get Your AZZ back in your CAR !!!
Only BYTCH-MADE MFers (Males…) can’t take a Slap or Punch from a Female and HANDLE THE SITUATION W/O Brutally Beating Her in Retaliation (Real…) NO FEMALE deserves to be put in A COMA BY A MALE because she HIT HIM in a manner that didn’t cause SEVERE Bodily Injuries that REQUIRED IMMEDIATE Medical Attention IMO
Far TOO MANY Bytch-Made MALES roaming the streets NOWADAYS
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So if a butch azz lesbian, that grabs at her d!ck more than you, steps to you cuz you looked at her girl, then swings on you in an attempt to knock you out, you gon walk away? just so you don’t be bitchmade? If a woman attacks you with a razor blade cause she mad, you supposed to just keep blocking her, or run away in hopes that one of those razors swipes don’t catch you, all so you won’t be considered bitch made? ok… well I DON”T hit women, never have, and hope to GOD I am never put in that situation, however some women will hurt you! its evident on worldstar hip hop, its evident on snapped shown on lifetime, its EVIDENT on the streets, from normal chicks, hood chicks and gang girls…so I don’t agree with that. I don’t agree that makes any man a bitch if he DEFENDS himself. A bitchmade dude is one beating on a woman for NO reason, jealous reasons or just being a bully thas a bitch.
@daprinceofradio, no, and you’re welcome. If you visit SR.com, you would know there are many side convos going on all the time. That’s the name of the game.
@YSO
I didn’t say she shouldn’t get hit back IF SHE HIT HIM!
Im not blind perhaps you are!
@DaPrince
I didn’t know that Sandra had elected hall monitors for her blog.
I do believe that everybody should keep their hands to themselves, but I’m not seeing with this story.
I’ve looked and can’t find an article where “witnesses say” she hit him first. The only person who makes this claim is him. So now what?
@Yso, THANK YOU! Ain’t that some nerve!
@Iscream Ok, so technically he didn’t beat this woman into a coma? He hit a total stranger that was hitting him.
If a complete stranger (male or female) starts hitting me in public you better beleive I am going to do my best to drop that azz. #onehitterquitter
bahahaha, hall monitors.
I’ve looked and can’t find an article where “witnesses say” she hit him first. The only person who makes this claim is him. So now what?
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My point from the beginning! But hey she deserves to be in her coma the way some see it!
Choco aka Hippie says:
Only BYTCH-MADE MFers (Males…) can’t take a Slap or Punch from a Female and HANDLE THE SITUATION W/O Brutally Beating Her in Retaliation (Real…) NO FEMALE deserves to be put in A COMA BY A MALE because she HIT HIM in a manner that didn’t cause SEVERE Bodily Injuries that REQUIRED IMMEDIATE Medical Attention IMO
Far TOO MANY Bytch-Made MALES roaming the streets NOWADAYS
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So glad a man with some sensibility….
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@Choco
But isn’t that what ELove was saying? That a real man doesn’t hit a woman no matter what? And didn’t you agree with him?
So basically, doesn’t that mean that you don’t believe he should have hit her back EVEN IF she hit him first? Or am I misunderstanding you here?
@YSO
You are misunderstanding me…
@Choco
Well then, I guess we have to agree to disagree on this issue/story.
@Yso
Yes we do….
Of course he’s going to say she hit him first, he’s facing a prison time…Doesn’t mean it’s true….IF she did hit him first then they were both wrong IMO….
Of course he’s going to say she hit him first, he’s facing a prison time…Doesn’t mean it’s true
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Right Im like no one can see this what’s he gonna do admit he hit the woman for no good reason!
@ysoserious yes ive been elected and im trying to keep this important topic important by continuing to comment about it. Reading about opening daycares particularly does not have anything to do with the TOPIC @hand. THANKS!
*peeking my head in*
Praying for the young ladies fast recovery from her coma…
But um…..if you run up, you get done up! Plain and simple.
*leaving back out*
Comment #203
I’m not nowhere NEAR NAIVE regarding confrontations between Females/Males on any level… NOWHERE in my comment did I say a MAN wasn’t able to DEFEND HIMSELF against Angry to Violent ACTIONS towards them (Real…)
My Defensive Actions towards what YOU described will be met ACCORDINGLY regardless if it’s a MALE or FEMALE trying to INJURE ME… But a MALE should be able to Physically RESTRAIN A FEMALE w/o putting her in A F-ing COMA !!!
You can UNDERSTAND THAT FACT… Can YOU…
But a MALE should be able to Physically RESTRAIN A FEMALE w/o putting her in A F-ing COMA !!!
Im wondering why this is so hard for ppl to grasp 
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daprinceofradio says:
@ysoserious yes ive been elected and im trying to keep this important topic important by continuing to comment about it. Reading about opening daycares particularly does not have anything to do with the TOPIC @hand. THANKS!
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I don’t know if you are new here because I don’t keep up with everybody or their conversations, but I’ve been on SR for several years, and people are always and have always gone off-topic regardless of the subject. I think since this blog belongs to SR, she would be the one to put people on blast if she saw fit.
Just like it is a well known fact that a person facing jail time will say it is self defense, the prosecuting attorney and the victim’s family is NOT going to say that she hit him first.
Like other court cases, the defendant will have to prove that she hit him first. If there are tapes that will exonerate him, then his legal team need to hurry up and find them. Likewise, if there are witnesses out there, his team needs to find out who they are.
Not saying he will get off, but his case will be reduced to a misdemeanor if he can provide evidence that she truly hit him first.
@Choco, what I’ve noticed with some people is that they get something into their heads and refuse to let it go in spite of the FACTS they are presented with. There is no proof that she hit him, so the “self-defense” argument doesn’t even apply. Secondly, the fact that he used EXCESSIVE FORCE against a woman, even if she DID hit him, doesn’t justify his actions. She’s in a coma; he isn’t.
LOL @ Tyzgurl
We don’t even know all the facts! A man should reserve more self control and know better than to raise his hand to a woman… where was the boyfriend in all of this? Why didn’t he get his jazz beat or beat the dude’s azz? #too many questions
@KrayzKAT I agree RE: @ysoserious
Stop trying to play moderator. SR did not have a problem with me stating my opinion. I simply asked if they could move their convo else where. I was told NO and im ok with that. I am new to here and will keep my mouth shut from now on. THANKS!
Backs slowly out this post….*too much tension*
@Krazy
That’s the thing IF she did hit him why did he have to punch her in the face…. CHIT IS SICK!
Im Audi FOLKS….
I wasn’t playing monitor anymore than you were. I was just making an observation.
If you choose not to comment anymore because of that I’m not gonna get any points or satisfaction from that.
And you’re not THAT new. You don’t post much, but I’ve noticed you well before today.
KrayZKat says:
daprinceofradio says:
@ysoserious yes ive been elected and im trying to keep this important topic important by continuing to comment about it. Reading about opening daycares particularly does not have anything to do with the TOPIC @hand. THANKS!
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I don’t know if you are new here because I don’t keep up with everybody or their conversations, but I’ve been on SR for several years, and people are always and have always gone off-topic regardless of the subject. I think since this blog belongs to SR, she would be the one to put people on blast if she saw fit.
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Oh, his lawyers claim to have proof on video that it was self-defense so it’s not like I’m just choosing sides or something. I’m trying to look at it from BOTH sides. Anyway, the truth should come out at trial.
And even if I’m wrong about her hitting him first in this particular case, it doesn’t change my stance that if you hit someone be prepared to get hit back. Man or woman. Period.
That is all. I’m done now.
@Ysoserious Evidently your monitoring if you remember my comments in other posts. N i am THAT NEW! cuz i never commented this much before! Apparently you took residence up here in the comments section to remember my name. Next time someone comments about someone else’s comment you go that way ——————————————————————->
You got me so heated i am not even taking the time out to type this correctly eff it. SR sorry if your reading this but this @ysoserious has me wondering why they are so serious about what i type to other commenters<—hell im spelling wrong 2 oh well. so @ysoserious the PERIOD stops here. THANKS and have a great day!
I didn’t say I remember your other comments, I said I remember YOU, meaning I remember seeing your name before. And there was no shade meant in that.
I don’t know if it’s my tone, but it seems you’re the one that is taking comment(s) so seriously.
If my saying something about something you said really offended you that much, my apologies. You don’t need to worry about me saying anything else to you again.
But it’s funny that you seem upset with me when KrayZ agreed with my hall monitor comment that came from when you were commenting on her conversation with someone else but whatever.
Fin.
Yay I won. Apology accepted. Sensitive Libra here. Thats all.
Libra huh? That explains it then. As an Aries, I’m supposed to be your polar opposite.
Wait, am I allowed to be typing to you again?
Yso,
Don’t waste your time, mama. Clearly the point that it’s not even about a man “beating” a woman for me (and I suspect you), it’s about the POSSIBILITY that this woman decided that she could hit a MAN and would come out the winner.
The point that one, or both of us believes that no man should ever hit a woman is lost when the person you’re debating with is of the belief that it’s ok for a woman to hit a MAN.
The point that one, or both of us believes that he was DEAD a$$ wrong for the severity in the way he responded is lost because certain people can’t see past the fact that he’s a big old man, despite the fact that this woman who KNEW he was a man MAY have hit him.
Is she a victim? THAT depends upon the evidence. If she hit him and he hit her back, he may be a brute, he may be weak for his response, but I can’t honestly say that he’s 100% wrong and she doesn’t bear some of the responsibility for her condition if his version of events turn out to be true.
If she didn’t hit him and he lied, give his a$$ the electric chair, I couldn’t care less, but what I WON”T do is further bolster the belief system that women have a right to hit men and his only response is to refrain from responding while restraining her.
Not once did you, or I, say that we believe he’s lying, not once did either of us say that he’s telling the truth.
It’s easy to talk $hit from the sidelines, but you never really know HOW you’ll respond to something until you’re in that moment. I know women who stand 5’1 and if a man 6’6, 400lbs hauled off and slapped the $hit out of her, she’s going to fight like a man, REGARDLESS of the fact that she KNOWS, he could kill her, but adrenaline is a MF…
So, why does SHE get kudos for striking back without thinking it through first, but if a man strikes back without thinking with that SAME adrenaline pumping, he’s a punk?
You JUST don’t know what would happen in that situation until you’re there.
Sandra defended Rihanna to the END of time… until she got mad at her for forgiving her offender, then she became the enemy and all of a sudden, she shows the picture of HIS pinched lip as if that justified him beating RIHANNA to a pulp, regardless of the fact that you needed a magnifying glass to SEE his injury (that COULD have been a defensive move from her trying to get out of his headlock), if his injury WAS a purposeful injury where Rihanna hit him, did his response require him to beat her on every available spot on her face? He clearly hit RIHANNA multiple times – how is THAT justifible, but if this woman hit THIS dude and he hit her ONCE, it’s not?
Either you’re going to walk the horse or ride it.
Not ONE time did Sandra or her co-signer say, “If she hit him, she shouldn’t have” – without a doubt, he’s lying!
Why? Because in their minds, men are require to TAKE a$$ whippins from women and the minute he strikes back, no matter how many times she hit him – SHE’s a victim.
This goes back to what I’ve been saying for years. Teach your daughters to keep their hands to themselves… and teach your sons to keep their hands to THEMSELVES – NOBODY is born with a natural right to hit and get a free pass because not EVERYBODY was raised to believe that what you perceive as a birthright is in fact ordained by anybody other than the person who taught you that bull$hit.
I agree with Yso, Carrington & Mamacita. I hope that lady recovers fully, but IF she did hit him 1st (as many claim the video shows), then she just happened to play p*ssy and ended up getting fukked.
And I don’t think it’s pitiful that anybody (male or female) is defending him or saying: “hey – if she hit him, she was wrong as well.” I don’t defend domestic violence or abuse, but I’m all for self-defense. And I have known many a chick under 5’5 to try men twice their size. Hell- I’m 5’2″ and I done ran up on every negro I’ve dated and some were 200+ lbs and well into mid 6′ ft+ range. There is some unspoken rule that men should be able to be hit by women and just accept it and it’s not right.
I’ve always been taught that if I’m big, bold and bad enough to hit anybody, I should be prepared for a fight. And I had to learn that lesson the hard way. Example: I used to hit my current man a LOT! And I do mean a LOT! Knife to this throat, punching him in the face while he’s driving, running him over with my car, etc….
I probably got away with it scot-free for a good 2.5 years until one day he told me he wasn’t finna get hit too many more times and I decided to prove he wasn’t finna hit me back & therefore proceeded to kick him in the face with my stilettos on. I got hit back hard enough ONE time and learned my lesson: “If I don’t start none, it won’t be none.” And to be honest, I wasn’t even mad that he finally hit me back because truth be told- I had that sh*t coming for a WHILE and I knew it (so did many people who knew both of us). And he REALLY could have called the police and had me arrested many a time (usually somebody did call, but they NEVER took me as they didn’t take his claims very serious), but it is what it is.
If you want to hit a man, be prepared to fight one. That’s all.
This dude gets not sympathy from me.
If this is all caught on video…i’m surprised we haven’t seen it by now. Either way, there will be some witness. Folks arguing over a parking spot in NYC there is bound to be quite a few witness. He got out his car, he was ready for something for confrontation of some kind.
He hits her, sends her flying, and then flees the scene, and goes to a birthday party afterwards. Of course he’s sorry now……
prynsexxx says:
I bet he wouldn’t have hit another DUDE like that!
I second that and REGARDLESS of if she hit him or not (moot point) the chick was 4 Foot 11 inches!!!! that is like beating up a baby and if she did “hit him first” why did he not call the POLICE on HER for assault… he sound like a bytch azz punk in the interviews ANYWAY how CHILDISH it is for a grown azz man to hit a woman and VICE VERSA but the “she hit me first” excuse is so 2ND GRADE and then he “mike tyson’ed” the woman !!!!WTF!! put his TRIFLING azz under the jail he could have “pinched” the bish you got to serve her up a two piece AND a biscuit NO SIR …..why his bish azz run when her man came TYPICAL!!!! like SR pointed out CLEARLY he has issues somebody already served him up a “buck-fifty” in the face but regardless of what some of you say yall know that was a bish move on his part and ignorant to boot the worst ACTION is a RE-ACTION to some bullshyt
@Carrington
Thank you for getting what I was saying.
I did realize I couldn’t make my point any clearer so I decided to just leave it alone. You can’t feed a closed mind.
@SASO
That’s exactly how I was raised. If you put your hands on someone, it’s a wrap.
It’s as wrong for a woman to hit a man as it is for a man to hit a woman. But some insist on walking around in this fantasy world where all men were raised right and have ultimate self-control and have never seen their mamas thrown up against walls or shown in some other way that women can be punching bags. So they run up on dudes like they won’t get knocked the fluck back and when they do suddenly they’re the victim.
Call men that hit women punks, call them bytch-made niggas; but don’t deny their existence. And don’t automatically call women that hit men victims, cause they ain’t always.
It may not be right, but it is what it is. Refusing to accept it won’t make it any less real and is extremely dangerous thinking.
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I havn read the comments but ummmm this coward says, “I wish I would of just let her hit me”!
No DUmmy, u should of never got out of your vehicle!…Thats when u know cowards dont want to Man up!
He should have been saying I wish I never got out of my car! DUMMY
@Carrington