Loyal reader Melia M. writes:
The title says it all..
This is only news to their Stans. But it makes sense that Rihanna, 23, and Chris Brown, 21, would seek each other out to ease their emotional pain. Only narcissists can truly understand one another. As I told you in an earlier post, Rihanna is having problems finding a man willing to put up with her notorious attitude. She’s gorgeous on the outside but her attitude makes her ugly.
And Chris Brown’s problems with women are well-documented. No one in their right minds wants to be involved with either of these two troubled individuals. They are both creepy.
Update I, 11:29am ET:
Loyal reader Torreon writes:
Hi Sandra,
First, I want to apologize for any hate thrown your way from me. I was just a stan blinded by my love for an artist. But not anymore, and I should have listened to you sooner. It may seem small, but for Rihanna to follow Chris Brown on Twitter sends such a horrible message to everyone. Her OWN fans (of which she follows less than 400) and to girls/women who have suffered domestic abuse. I don’t use Rihanna as a role model, but, she is a public figure. How am I now supposed to explain to my 16-year-old sister, who also was with an abusive little punk, that it is OK to socialize and put herself back in danger b/c time has passed? I go very hard for Rihanna and support all of her endeavors. But if she doesn’t have her best interest at heart then why should I? I’m proudly turning in my Rihanna Navy badge now and whatever happens to her will be deserved.
Torreon
*This email was edited for clarity
Sandra Rose responds: Thank you Torreon.
She’s a fool. Heed the warning Rhianna, you are much closer to getting your head whooped again. She must not visit SR.com cause if she did, she would know that Chris Brown is puttin’ it on dudes these days. GROSS! Seems like the only person who’s forgotten about him whoopin’ her ass is her. CB couldn’t say shit to me, using Twitter, morse code, sky writing and nothing else, forever Amen!
Good for them for living their life, only they really know what happened that night
RiRi went IN on one of her stans but later apologized which I thought was only right. These fans/stans need to STOP trying to dictate who somebody can’t follow on twitter/talk to or date.
Good Sat Morning to all :wave:
SN- I wld pay good money that I don’t have to see their DMs
GOOD MORNING, SR FAM.
AM I THE ONLY THAT DOESN’T UNDERSTAND TWITTER
build a bridge and get over it… i mean really…. im actually a victim of dom violence and i personally dont need no celeb (ESP rhianna) to dictate how one should act towards their abuser. so miss me with the “im so disappointed” talk.. they grown and can do what they want
further who cares its Twitter! Twitter people. wake me up when they step out in public somewhere (even then who cares) i hate people that put celebs to this higher standard
Why this is an issue is beyond me… Anyone who would take what these two do on twitter and try to apply it to their own domestic issues has much bigger problems to deal with. And Rihanna should not be anyones role model for anything especially not a 16 year old girl
This doesn’t surprise me. The only reason she split up with CB is because this incident started messing with her money and her endorsements. As soon as she puts out a new album she will choose to play the victim, yet again. I’m not promoting violence at all, and know that they are true victims of domestic violence. Everyone should know the true role models are at home. It shouldn’t be your president, your favorite, or even your Pastor!!!
Rolls eyes. The same people who say they don’t like Rihanna because she cool with CB, are the same ones who jam to every R. Kelly song.
What I think people fail to see is that they were best friends before the incident and before anyone knew they were dating. All I have to say is if you are not a fan after this YOU WERE NEVER A FAN…STAN…whatever. Why are people so up in arms about another person life I will never understand. This happened two years ago and now i’m starting to wonder if the twitter teams were there to support them or just to have drama with each other on twitter everyday. I don’t want to hear role model and all that……..Shut the TV and Internet off, read to your child and teach them about abuse and all that. Stop waiting for Rihanna public service announcement. It’s your job!
Rolls eyes. The same people who say they don’t like Rihanna because she cool with CB, are the same ones who jam to every R. Kelly song
And one more thing……..I pray to God that their passwords are strong as all get out cause the hackers are probably going in right now.
This post is gonna need
I can feel it…
Why this is an issue is beyond me… Anyone who would take what these two do on twitter and try to apply it to their own domestic issues has much bigger problems to deal with. And Rihanna should not be anyones role model for anything especially not a 16 year old girl.
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If she likes it we should love it. These celbs. could care less about the comments they receive. I was on twitter and the yaking and hating and people getting high blood pressure over something that isn’t even there business. If you have a young child or family member that follows Rhi Rhi, just explain to them that this is not acceptable. Some of these twitter people are just as nutty. Grow up and mind your business.
I don’t beieve they were ever really done with each other
*believe* sorry
“I’m proudly turning in my Rihanna Navy badge now and whatever happens to her will be deserved.” Torreon
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#sityoassdown first of all. Why ya grown ass gota Rihanna Navy badge is the question? How bout gettin a life and gettin off the girl nutz?
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“How am I now supposed to explain to my 16-year-old sister, who also was with an abusive little punk, that it is OK to socialize and put herself back in danger b/c time has passed?” Torreon
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Where is ur mammy and pappy at? Aint this their job to make sure ur sister aint gettin tossed up by some punk? Maybe if you were FOLLOWING ur sister in real life INSTEAD of following Rihanna and CB on twitter, you could make sure she wasnt involved in stupid sh*t. SMH
Sugar Pie you pretty much said everything else I was feeling.
Hello All. Who knows, maybe they ain’t over each other, maybe they still hot as hell for each other, who knows. And if they had any sense at all, they wouldn’t have fought like that in the first place, especially Chris attacking her like he did, unexcusable but not necesarry unforgivable. If they were so in love with each other, they should have worked together to keep both their acts on top and relevant. It takes a genius to stay on top in the entertainment world today, especially with mega talents like Lady Gaga(I watched her HBO concert, she fierce in so many ways but so very decadant.) One day u in, the next u out. Together they could have been a power couple like J and Bey. Who knows, they say true love never dies. Peace.
So?
u know they wasn’t done with each other. We just never had any proof.
Where is ur mammy and pappy at? Aint this their job to make sure ur sister aint gettin tossed up by some punk? Maybe if you were FOLLOWING ur sister in real life INSTEAD of following Rihanna and CB on twitter, you could make sure she wasnt involved in stupid sh*t. SMH
Pretty much and
Looks like “she ain’t you” got to her
I still jam to R Kellys music his last cd was FIYAH #judgem #sueme
@Daisy, but are you crucifying Rihanna for lifting the restraining order, following him on Twitter, etc?
i don’t judge ANYONE.” Judge not, and ye be judged not”
@lovezoe I agree I don’t have a heaven or hell to put anybody in we all have our own crosses and sins to bear
I am waiting until the tweet each other
Some of you are hypocrites. Judging other celebs for living their lives and doing them but get all excited to see woman beater chris and rhianna make light of a serious issue affecting a lot of women today. Be consistent with other celebs doing what they want with their lives. Some of you say stay out of peoples business until someone actually dies then we get concerned.
Oh please! These people who always have something to say need to go live their own lives and stop worrying about what these two kids do with eachother..
You are not their mothers and they are not your mothers. Her choices do not affect you in the slightest And if you think they do, then you are highly dillusional.
Get over it!!
And P.S those who giving their two cents worth need to mind their own business. Worry more about what’s going on in your own homes, then what’s going on in these two kids lives..
That is all.
So when someone speaks out against wrongdoing, is that judging? Are we not to make careful judgements in order to protect ourselves or those close to us? People make judgements everyday whether we recognize it or not. We would be crazy not to see what’s before our eyes. If more people judged the people they choose to associate with, it might protect them from getting into some messy situations.
I think that scripture on judging is oftentimes taken out of context, but that’s just my opinion.
I will not
LOL. I guess someone thought that Shannon and Monica was going to be the IT thing now so they a little ticked off LOL. Although I love Monica with all my heart I can see straight through that comment 
Do I think they will get back together? No! Why can’t they be friends though?
She’s a grown woman so all I can do is
she’ll be careful with that ticking timebomb.
Live your own life, and not vicariously through others, and you’ll find that all of this of little concern beyond those directly involved.
speaking as someone who has suffered DV as a teen, i damn sure dont look to rhianna for guidance or some kind of moral standard for that kind of situation nor would i suggest any young person. live you own life.
This is only to be expected. They were crazy about each other and had to suddenly break up against both their will. Don’t know if they’ll end up together, but right now they still have unfinished business. Woulda got back together long ago if it wasn’t for the bad PR and money issues. Got to uphold their many contracts and keep the paper coming in. SMH, they will get back together at some point. Karrauche Tran is probably just a rebound or maybe even a beard for Chris still being involved with Rihanna. My .02
I do think Breezy cares for Karate. I think the love him and Rih share is not something that will go away in the blink of an eye. For what we know, there was no closure, just him being ordered to stay away from her. I wish them the best. People must have a lot of time on their hands if they checking who following who.
I honestly believe these two still communicate with each other. Both ex’s just don’t add each other out of the blue.
Let’s just sit back and watch what happens next.
I think one can give their opinion and one can judge there is a very thin line. I don’t think anybody is saying DV is right but as a Christian I am all abt forgivness and 2nd/3rd etc chances whenever possible cause Lord knows I have sinned and fallen short. I am far from perfect. In a perfect world BOTH men and women would keep their hands to themselves. I work w/teens and if CB was in my youth group I wldnt turn my back on him over one HUGE mistake/bad decision but that is just me. I support RiRi as well.
It’s twitter people…seriously…get a flucking life of your own :rollseyes:
It’s their prerogative…
Wish them both the best, there are aspects of their relationship that those of us on the outside looking in will never and should never know.
first of all, no one knows the whole story of what happened that night or the dynamics of their relationship except what is fed to the press.
Secondly, just cause a couple gets into ONE fight (that we know of) doesn’t mean it was a domestic abuse relationship…
I could say soooo much more, but I don’t want to be attacked on here.
so, that is all…
So if these two decided to bury their issues, put the past behind them, move on, and be social-able, thats a problem????
The worst thing that can be said about this is that she forgave him….and anything else taken from this is just a bunch of bs.
I will never understand grown azz ppl being concerned with grown azz ppl.
Last thing… celebs and twitter should not be raising children
If Chris and Rhianna are friends than more power to them. There are a lot more issues that we need to be dealing with than who’s following who on Twitter.
Also, the fact that folks are actually looking up to celebrities when it comes to severe issues like domestic violence is disturbing on SOOOO many levels…
I can give 2 shyts about her following him, forgiving him,
f*cking him or whatever is to her heart’s content. Just don’t be going on TV playing the victim role and talking about him like he’s the scum of the f*cking earth when it’s to your benefit. 
i told y’all people: give ’em a while to forget and they’ll be back together. if she wants to follow him and he her, so what? it’s not that big a deal.
@ sugarpie
Where is ur mammy and pappy at? Aint this their job to make sure ur sister aint gettin tossed up by some punk? Maybe if you were FOLLOWING ur sister in real life INSTEAD of following Rihanna and CB on twitter, you could make sure she wasnt involved in stupid sh*t. SMH
Yeah…i called this and was crucified for it long ago…
Hi Monica (molyfe)
(Skims comments and looks around, ducks quietly out the door)
Hold up I just noticed something…..who blocked him? Did you click on from your page Sandra or was that included with the Email? You actually blocked Chris Breezy
I mean, it does give you the option to unblock Chris Brown
Get over it coz they sure have….and the readers email..really? It’s not that serious!
Torreon must plan on taking the peen for Rihanna too…I cant believe we are in 2011 and people are still making a big deal out of this entire situation that needed to be left in 2009. How about you be a role model to your sister and not leave it celebs to that. Im so extra tired of everyone pointing fingers at celebs for living their own lives. She followed him on twitter…big deal..its twitter.
This chit is crazy Rihanna is a grown azz women, if she wants to follow Chris on twitter who the da phuck cares, and you should worry about being your own kids rolemodel wtf these celebrities are humans just like us they are not saints and I’m worshipping none of these mutherphuckers
I honestly don’t think it’s a big deal. They young and we all have to live and learn.
WHo cares, i mean really it aint my life
Leave it be – it’s no one’s business but their own just pray that they both have grown enough from their mistake to not repeat it again!
It’s just twitter! I thought Rih & Chris were so cute together. Whatever they decide to be is their business (friends/lovers). This doesn’t affect me personally so I really don’t care.
Jersey Girl says:
What I think people fail to see is that they were best friends before the incident and before anyone knew they were dating. All I have to say is if you are not a fan after this YOU WERE NEVER A FAN…STAN…whatever. Why are people so up in arms about another person life I will never understand. This happened two years ago and now i’m starting to wonder if the twitter teams were there to support them or just to have drama with each other on twitter everyday. I don’t want to hear role model and all that……..Shut the TV and Internet off, read to your child and teach them about abuse and all that. Stop waiting for Rihanna public service announcement. It’s your job!
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GAGIRL87 says:
This chit is crazy Rihanna is a grown azz women, if she wants to follow Chris on twitter who the da phuck cares, and you should worry about being your own kids rolemodel wtf these celebrities are humans just like us they are not saints and I’m worshipping none of these mutherphuckers
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Daisy says:
I think one can give their opinion and one can judge there is a very thin line. I don’t think anybody is saying DV is right but as a Christian I am all abt forgivness and 2nd/3rd etc chances whenever possible cause Lord knows I have sinned and fallen short. I am far from perfect. In a perfect world BOTH men and women would keep their hands to themselves. I work w/teens and if CB was in my youth group I wldnt turn my back on him over one HUGE mistake/bad decision but that is just me. I support RiRi as well.
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Mr.BluPhi says:
Last thing… celebs and twitter should not be raising children
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Sorry for so many re-post, but ya’ll are on it with the comments…Everytime I thought of saying something I read one of ya’ll comments that said exactly what i was thinking….
Also people quit worshiping stars and looking for them to be your “role models” try looking up to and worshiping Jesus…
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with forgiveness. We just hope his current girlfriend knows that the ‘writings are on the wall.’ Her time is very limited………smh.