Sandrarose.com was the first to spill the tea that local club promoter Omar “Slimm” White and his fiancee, actress Vivica A. Fox, were no longer an item.

On Oct. 19, a little birdie whispered in our ear that Slimm and Aunt Viv were no longer following each other on social networking website Twitter.com. So we called Slimm for confirmation that same day.

At first Slimm acted surprised. Then he dismissed the rumor, saying, “Everything is fine.” Still, the rumors persisted. So we mentioned the break up in this post on Oct. 24.

Slimm finally confirmed the rumor yesterday — but not to the urban blogs that supported him all this time and even helped promote his parties here in Atlanta. He runs to a random gossip blog that nobody’s ever heard of.

We put the blame on Vivica for not knowing that, at her age and with her money and status, no young man wants to date her for her looks or her personality.

Why muddy the waters with talk of commitment and having babies when you know the relationship is purely physical?